WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Forgotten Mother

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<v Speaker 1>Second day, we have some real talk on this show

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<v Speaker 1>for just a second. Everything we talk about, what are

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<v Speaker 1>we normally doing? Okay, real talk? Right? I love my mom, alright, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I said it. Okay, that's good. She's annoying sometimes, but

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<v Speaker 1>I love her. Yeah you should. Because of that, I

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<v Speaker 1>know I've been branded by a lot of people as

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<v Speaker 1>a mama's boy, softie, a mother lover. I don't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what they usually you as I've been called it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard it. People have said that I even wear

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<v Speaker 1>mom jeans, and it's true. It's true because I love

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<v Speaker 1>my mom and they're her jeans. Because I love her,

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<v Speaker 1>I want her to be with me all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, I'm not the only dude who

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<v Speaker 1>loves his mother. I think that's great. But boundaries are

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<v Speaker 1>good too. Yeah, I don't know what you're talking about. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Andrew, emailed in because he's a

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<v Speaker 1>fellow mother lover like me. Oh my god, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>the right use of the term. Well, he said that

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<v Speaker 1>his mom was even kind of a part of his date.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll find out why. Let's let's just talk to

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<v Speaker 1>him for a second. What's up Andrew, Hey, how's it going, guys?

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<v Speaker 1>How's your mom? She's great, We're great. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we're calling. We're not calling your mom, right Andrew?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, hang up? No whore? Who are we calling? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Hope calling out from the world's name? That's her name name? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling today? Yeah, I think Hope is the woman's name.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you meet Hope? It works both ways, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I meant Hope online. Oh I found Hope online too.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you guys are part of some anonymous

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<v Speaker 1>group right now. What did you like about Hope? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we did it out of texting, and I just found

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<v Speaker 1>her intelligently flirty. If that makes sense. It doesn't really,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get it. You don't think those go hand

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<v Speaker 1>in hand intelligence and flirtatiousness. Brooke like, what how was

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<v Speaker 1>she flirting with you? That made intelligence? Was right? Yeah? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it just said something like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna stay home and eat a pizza and watch Bob's Burgers,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, how are you still single? Damn hot?

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<v Speaker 1>Like tz flirty but also like funny and calling me out.

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<v Speaker 1>She's she's smart and quick witted. It sounds okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's always good. What did you guys do for your date?

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<v Speaker 1>We went to dinner? Okay? And when I saw her,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like, Andrew, don't blow this. Oh that

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<v Speaker 1>is so cute. That's a good feeling, but it makes

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<v Speaker 1>you nervous. But Andrew, I'm just loving this right now

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<v Speaker 1>because you think she's smart, you think she's funny. Now

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<v Speaker 1>she's also attractive, like all the boxes are being checked.

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<v Speaker 1>She reminded you of your mom? Is that what really happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she remind you of your mom? No comment? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>where does your mom come into this? Okay? So it

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<v Speaker 1>was I guess on the later side of a date,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like seven forty five something like that, And we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking and we're talking about families, and at some point

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<v Speaker 1>I realized it was my mother's birthday. Wait, you say

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<v Speaker 1>you love your mother and you forgot her birthday. I

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<v Speaker 1>never I never forget. Wow. Wow, dude, I'm disappointed in you. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah me too. Mom in the room was now happy here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not happy at all. So what happened? So we

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<v Speaker 1>started talking and I was like I always try to

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<v Speaker 1>get her something special, and she was totally cool about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was like, well, let's go shopping. I'll help you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh wow, that's a good girl. It's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Even a hurry. It's something I'm not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>open much longer exactly, so we'd be paid the bill.

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<v Speaker 1>We got out of there, we ran to them all.

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up getting her a Revlon hair dryer. Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>more than one of them. A gift. You are literally

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<v Speaker 1>buying a gift at the very last second before the

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<v Speaker 1>store kicks you out, and you're panicking. You're like, well this,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Didn't you hope help you pick this out

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<v Speaker 1>for your mom? Isn't that what you said? Well? She did,

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom helped me too, because I remember her

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<v Speaker 1>saying something that her hair dryer wasn't working properly or

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the right one or something. So it was a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty fancy, pretty fancy hair dryer. Okay, yeah, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like the Dyson hair dryer. So how did

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of the night go? So I got the

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<v Speaker 1>hair dryer and then just kind of gave her this

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<v Speaker 1>quick kiss and was like, all right, I'm off to

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<v Speaker 1>my mom's. Yeah, that's it's kind of a funny way

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<v Speaker 1>to and the date. Yeah, it felt it's so very

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<v Speaker 1>natural doing it in a way. So it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like thank you, thank you, you know, and I ran

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<v Speaker 1>off and got to my mom's house and thankfully she

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<v Speaker 1>was like pleasantly surprised. Okay, yeah, no, it's great. But

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<v Speaker 1>from one mother lover to another man, I have the

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<v Speaker 1>same feelings when I give a good gift to my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>just that feeling of satisfaction. But Brooke, I think you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we haven't talked about Hope part of me at all. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay, but yeah, I just I do want to

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<v Speaker 1>say that that my mom did love the gift, like

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<v Speaker 1>she really appreciate it. So I hope. But yeah, again,

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<v Speaker 1>we really need to focus on what happened with Hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah she oh yeah. So um. Right after I did

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<v Speaker 1>my special gift with my mom and did all that,

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<v Speaker 1>I immediately called Hope and was like, thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't have done it without you. You know, that

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing that you helped me with that, and she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't answer. So I was leaving that message and that's

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<v Speaker 1>been it. Yeah, it's been like five days. Probably could

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<v Speaker 1>have been accomplish through a text. I mean I texted

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<v Speaker 1>her a few times as well and said the same thing,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you and all that, and had didn't hear back

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<v Speaker 1>from those either. Oh, okay, what do you think may

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<v Speaker 1>have gone wrong on the date, Like, why do you

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<v Speaker 1>think Hope isn't getting back to you? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I wonder if it was just the way

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<v Speaker 1>that the date ended up working out, the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>I maybe have forgotten my mom's birthday, that if that's

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<v Speaker 1>a turn off in some way. I feel like the

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<v Speaker 1>way you left the date it was pretty bad, like

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<v Speaker 1>just a quick kiss and like all I see you later,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Like it just doesn't sound like you acknowledged

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<v Speaker 1>how great the night was. I guess at the time

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<v Speaker 1>it seemed fitting because she was so cool with everything

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<v Speaker 1>that it was just like, yeah, okay, mate, thanks see later.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we're gonna play a song we'll call Hope,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna try and get you your second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, appreciate it. All right, hold on, you were

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<v Speaker 1>just tuning in for the second date update our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew went out recently with a girl named Hope, and

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of their dinner, he suddenly realized it

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<v Speaker 1>was his mom's birthday and he had not gotten her

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<v Speaker 1>a gift yet, which is especially bad because, like myself,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a self proclaimed mother lover. So the two of

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<v Speaker 1>them quickly finished their meals rushed to a nearby store,

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<v Speaker 1>where Hope helped Andrew to pick out a beautiful hair

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<v Speaker 1>dryer that his mom ended up loving. Yah. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>they did good, they did. I hated the gift, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but all right, yea to your face and just said

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<v Speaker 1>she liked it because you're her son, and that's what

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<v Speaker 1>we do, like a good mom. But ever since that night,

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<v Speaker 1>Hope has not been answering his calls. There's been no

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<v Speaker 1>hope in regards to contacting Hope. But now we're hopeful

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<v Speaker 1>that Hope will answer our call and hopefully will restore

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<v Speaker 1>the hope to this hopeless situation. Yeah, yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think he will, Princess cut, but we're about to give

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<v Speaker 1>her a call right now. Andrew, how you feeling hopeful?

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you continue? I'm blaming Hope best friends. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we're not best friends, we're just mother lovers. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right? Okay? Can we all agree to drop that

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<v Speaker 1>term when you get Hope on the phone. Okay, Mom,

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<v Speaker 1>I say fine. I mean you had a really a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of really nice things to say about her, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really hoping this turns out for you. And she said,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you do it? It just comes out? But

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm about to dial Hope's number and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see if we can get your second ad up

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Ready to do this, man, Yeah, let's do it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Hope. This

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<v Speaker 1>is Hope. Hey, how you doing. My name is Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, who what? Yeah, my name's Jeffrey. Work on

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show it's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're doing something right now called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever heard of that before? U? I think I have? Okay, okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>just to refresh your memory. It's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with someone and afterwards, if that person's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back, you can email our show and we'll reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to them for you to try and figure out

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why. Okay, okay, And so, not too long ago,

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<v Speaker 1>you went out to dinner and to a store with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Andrew. It was just last week? Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>god's your memory. It sounds like you're pretty into him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm reading this correc It sounds like she barely remembered him.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel the heat coming through. I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>know what's going on. It's a good quote, shouldn't hope? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew's trying to get in touch with you. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>sure why you've been ignoring his phone calls in his texts.

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<v Speaker 1>He's hoping to get some answers here. Okay, do you

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<v Speaker 1>have answers like that? It sounds like, oh, I says,

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<v Speaker 1>is going to jump out the window. I mean, the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, Hope. He had some really kind things to

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<v Speaker 1>say about you. He thought you were smart and funny

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<v Speaker 1>and good looking, and I don't know, check the boxes

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<v Speaker 1>right right? Um, obviously I know that about myself. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I love a confident woman. There you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Don know, I'm just agreeing with the conversation. Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to know? We're hoping that you can

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<v Speaker 1>tell us did Andrew do something wrong that turns you off?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there a reason why you're not getting back in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with him? So we could pass that along to him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how much he told you about everything

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<v Speaker 1>that happened, but yes, we'd go out to dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>it was a nice dinner. And then I guess like

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<v Speaker 1>towards the end of dinner he forgot that it was

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<v Speaker 1>his mom's birthday and was kind of in a panic.

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<v Speaker 1>And right, he told us all about this, and that

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<v Speaker 1>you went to a store and you helped him picked

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<v Speaker 1>out a hair dryer that his mom ended up really liking. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad she liked it because we have like fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>minutes to buy a gift. Yeah that too. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you guys had a pretty quick exit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, Like he had to go apologize to

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<v Speaker 1>his mom. I get that. My problem. So it's hard

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<v Speaker 1>to like even just say it because it was just

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<v Speaker 1>so weird. Well, whatever it is, he told us, he's

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<v Speaker 1>willing to hear whatever you have to say, even if

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<v Speaker 1>it makes him look bad. It's part of the agreement

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<v Speaker 1>for doing these calls. All right, Well, basically he picked

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<v Speaker 1>up the check and everything was great. But listen, I

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<v Speaker 1>know if he hasn't told you, then I know he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know that I saw him that he put the

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<v Speaker 1>pepper shakers in his coat pocket. At the restaurant, he

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<v Speaker 1>stole them. Wait, you're like at a nice restaurant and

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<v Speaker 1>he stole the salt and pepper shaker as you were leaving. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's weird because at one point we did just say, like,

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<v Speaker 1>these are really cool salt and pepper shakers. Fancy ones. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So honestly, when I saw him do that, I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm did he like them that much? Or Izzy thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that's a backup gift for his mom. Honestly, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was joking. So I was waiting for the haha,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the haha never happened. And next you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're like walking into the store and I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know what to say. Yeah, I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>that happens a lot with the people who listen to

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<v Speaker 1>our show. The haha never happens. Yeah, the haha never happened.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird. I mean, maybe there's a reasonable explanation. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it would be, but maybe there's some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of explanation. When I was in a freshman college,

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<v Speaker 1>I stole from the food dining hall sometimes because I

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<v Speaker 1>needed Indians. Maybe he doesn't she doesn't want a date

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<v Speaker 1>a freshman in college. He's got a job. I really

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<v Speaker 1>like to find out what the explanation behind this is, because, Hope,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to tell you that Andrew's been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and he wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a minute, Wait a minute, don't look out. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like he's a hard and criminal or definitely a

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<v Speaker 1>sneaky though, for sure, Andrew, you there, Yeah, I'm here

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<v Speaker 1>guilty looking to that boy. What happened? Dude? I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed right now. It wasn't a big deal. I just

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<v Speaker 1>thought they were nice, and I thought maybe if I

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<v Speaker 1>can't find anything, I can give my mom these salton

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<v Speaker 1>pepper shakers. And I actually did give salt pepper shakers

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<v Speaker 1>and he likes them a lot. Wow, listen, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to have his battle. I bought my mom salt and

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<v Speaker 1>pepper shakers for Christmas two years ago. She uses them daily.

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<v Speaker 1>She loves because she likes salton, pepper and food. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, like what, you can't give stolen gifts? That's

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<v Speaker 1>not a gift. I mean you like, Andrew, that was crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>That was weird. Can you just chalk me down as

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<v Speaker 1>a desperate man in that moment. I mean that was Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>every man gets three desperate man cards. He's using one

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Yes, I did it for my mom. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was dating and I better not get you

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<v Speaker 1>pepper shaker. Thank you, Alexa this. Yeah, your mom doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want that. If your mom knew where those came from,

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<v Speaker 1>she would be disappointed in you. Yes, moms don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to know everything. Andrew, you did it so effortlessly that

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<v Speaker 1>I just is this something you do all the time?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this the thing? Is this a problem? Like? Not often? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? Not awesome? I'm just being honest.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't do this often. Okay, what does that?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean not often? Like sometimes only on Tuesdays?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? It means you've done it before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like the occasional like stack of napkins or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a nice table cloth out with Look, curb down, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody's gonna miss this stuff. Okay. You know I don't

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<v Speaker 1>steal stuff that's for sale. Yes, the restaurrestals. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>free for these things. It's not like a garage sale

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<v Speaker 1>like come and take Andrew. If I go to your

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<v Speaker 1>house for dinner. Does a silverware match? Oh good question

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<v Speaker 1>at this point? Or the plates or the cups or

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<v Speaker 1>toilet paper soft? I mean, come on, guys from restaurants.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, wait, hold on, Andrew, I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>need to ask you this. When you were at the mall,

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<v Speaker 1>did you pay for the hair dryer? Of course I

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<v Speaker 1>paid for the hair dryer. I don't. We'll look at that. Hope,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not that bad of me. You can't say I

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<v Speaker 1>don't steal because you do. You just almost said I

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<v Speaker 1>five dollars under. Yeah, still like little petty things, like

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<v Speaker 1>little tiny things. Right, it's steeling. You can't use the

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<v Speaker 1>word stealing. I mean it's swiping. Okay, completely different. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you were like totally right about all of this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but also Hope, I feel like you need to give

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<v Speaker 1>him a second chance. What why? Because he needs to

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<v Speaker 1>learn his lesson. I think he has, he has it

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<v Speaker 1>at all. He says that it's not stealing, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>taking little things. So listen, Andrew, if we glad on

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<v Speaker 1>another date, I want to meet your mom so you

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<v Speaker 1>could tell her what you did. Oh no, come on, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't do that. This is great, Andrew. She wants

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<v Speaker 1>to meet your mom. And with that being said, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean this is going so well. Yeah, I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to offer to send the two of you out on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. We'll pay for it. What do you say, Hope,

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<v Speaker 1>If he comes clean and fesses up to his mom,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go on a second date. Oh, Andrew, Remember she's smart,

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<v Speaker 1>she's funny. Andrew, what do you say after the date.

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<v Speaker 1>When I met Hope, one of my thoughts was I

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<v Speaker 1>would love for my mom to meet her. So that's it, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but now I don't want that to happen. Stay away

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<v Speaker 1>from his mother, Drew. All Right, Andrew, so you're going

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<v Speaker 1>with a salt and pepper shakers, not with the woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going with my mom. Oh, spoke you Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.