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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lix Pete and it's

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Speaker 1: your girl Dre in the cold, and you are tuned

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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Pull Mine, where a drunk

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Speaker 1: mind speaks sober thought. We gotta guess today, we gotta

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Speaker 1: guess Suday. We got miss Bret Renee in the building.

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Speaker 2: I don't even got to do an introduction because I

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Speaker 2: feel like, honestly, you are living under a rock. Cause

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Speaker 2: let me say this, I'm gonna give you my little

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Speaker 2: Stocker moment.

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Speaker 1: I've been knowing who you was since I moved to Atlanta. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, you just have like a presence,

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Speaker 1: like if you be in Atlanta, like you know who

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Speaker 1: Renee is, Like you're on a radio, like just one

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Speaker 1: of them people like you have to know, like you

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Speaker 1: know how like you go to Houston, you gotta know

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Speaker 1: who slimp like you like the slim thug at the

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Speaker 1: people who are living under a rock. Let them know

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Speaker 1: who you are. Grow Okay, Yeah, if you don't know me,

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Speaker 1: my name is brenetde straight from the A. I'm a

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Speaker 1: true atliot, but more than that, I'm a radio personality,

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Speaker 1: actress and talk show hosts. Yeah, podcaster now y, I

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Speaker 1: started a podcasting podcast. Okay, so talk about that a

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Speaker 1: little bit, like your relationship with your mom and how

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Speaker 1: Because I didn't do that thinking it was gonna be

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Speaker 1: But then we started doing it and it started doing crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yes time, we got over like three million views our

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Speaker 1: everybody got to ghetto black Mama. Everybody just love mom

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Speaker 2: You know what it is though, It's because y'all are

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Speaker 2: So I think it's important to see that I.

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Speaker 1: Was challenging her and she would check me or or

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Speaker 1: you have another podcast too, you have Black Girl Stuff.

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Speaker 3: I was telling them before we started that this past weekend,

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Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, Town, the town is the song

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Speaker 2: But honestly, since we're this is the first time in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for us, we are having a locked up somewmer

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Speaker 1: Miller because the head on the knee, Okay, hello.

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Speaker 2: But you know what I am so and I'll say this,

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Speaker 2: I've known Carlos for years and Carlos has been such

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Speaker 1: Of this stuff. But it's so good to see him

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I do want to.

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Speaker 2: Ask about like how y'all met and how it came about,

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Speaker 1: Dang, y'all. I known Carlos for thirteen years. Now, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: That is a long that's long. And people so retarded

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Speaker 1: because when we posted it, I said that on Instagram

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Speaker 1: It's like, no, I knew him, knew him exactly. But

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Speaker 1: that ship on just because it's designed, just because just

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00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 1: went in there and bought the Manneican and got no style.

429
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, it'd be a lot of So it's like

430
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 1: I'm glad that I'm finally in this space where I

431
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 1: can really date man because I like you that. Yeah,

432
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:45,960
Speaker 1: Like I was like that first because you liked them first. Yeah,

433
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:49,119
Speaker 1: before he like we did, neither one of us had money.

434
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 1: I always had like a oh, I'm a bill with

435
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,520
Speaker 1: my men. I always was like a ride of do.

436
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 1: But I also was a little fat girl too, so

437
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: that yeah, I was fit two hundred pounds. He wasn't.

438
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 1: Yes see, I just moved when it was fine ass

439
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,720
Speaker 1: brea was now but this is before insta like this

440
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,360
Speaker 1: when me and carlosgather the first time, so he's been

441
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 1: Oh he was okay. Look because I'm tall, people never

442
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: was like dangn you two hun but I was like

443
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 1: two twenty fives. You carried it well because like it

444
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,200
Speaker 1: was hips and thighs and shit. But I was heavy,

445
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 1: So I always felt like it was easier today when

446
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 1: I was heavier because people really did like me for me.

447
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like.

448
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 1: A great personality too. Playing I'm like you had a

449
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 1: big back. I I was, but it was like you know,

450
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,120
Speaker 1: you knew he really it was like. It wasn't until

451
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 1: I got into the strip club culture that really made

452
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 1: me start feeling like, oh no, I need a poloass

453
00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 1: nigga here that's getting way more than me, Like I'm

454
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 1: smarter than them. Oh my god, that I can get fine.

455
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 1: Let me give you know. But I'm glad you said

456
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 1: that because you know what I've seen so many women

457
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: work in the strip club and get lost in the sauce.

458
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: It's like two categories. It's us that made it out

459
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:19,400
Speaker 1: the girls that are like still stuck. Stuck man, that drug,

460
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: it's sure. And I used to be like my family

461
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 1: on the Blue Flames. So growing up, I was in

462
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,879
Speaker 1: the strip club culture since I was like fourteen fifteen.

463
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: I was allowed to like go in like I've seen

464
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 1: big niche them throw money and all that. But my

465
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 1: mom them never wanted me to work there. When when

466
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: she was like, when you're going to college you at

467
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 1: first I had to go to Gramley. I mean that's

468
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: a big deal. Though your family owns Blue Flame, like

469
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: Blue Atlanta, Atlanta State. But she didn't want me in there.

470
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: She was like, no, you need to. But I thought like, oh,

471
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 1: you think I'm stupid. You think I'm gonna get pimped

472
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 1: on drugs, like I ain't no dummy, Like, ain't no

473
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 1: nigg gonna take me. But it was like it's so

474
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 1: many more demons or obstacles in there that you got

475
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,239
Speaker 1: to fight. That's not just about a nigga taking your

476
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 1: money or being drugs. Like you said, emotionally, it's drainedly

477
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: I will tell you the first time I've always grown

478
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: up a confident woman.

479
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 2: When I started doubting my body and myself and feeling

480
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 2: like I didn't look good enough, was.

481
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 1: When I was at the strip club.

482
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 2: Yes, I was like, my booty not big enough, my

483
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 2: waist small enough.

484
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: My t is not perking up. I remember when ashots

485
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 1: came out. Everybody tell you that's the I tell people

486
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,160
Speaker 1: all the time, that's the best decision I never made.

487
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 6: Me.

488
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 1: I was talking to the girl. She would set me

489
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 1: up an appointment with the dude. Ain't gonna say his name,

490
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: but I was like after her like a body. She

491
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: had just got it done. She was like, yeah, you

492
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 1: go into this hotel and then he gonna take it

493
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 1: out the gatorade bottle. And I was like, oh, hell no,

494
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 1: I'm not letting nobody put a ship in me from

495
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 1: a damn ga. She ain't getting out. We we in Dallas.

496
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 1: A few people doing it. But I'm not gonna lie.

497
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 1: Everybody that went to we Wei. They still look good,

498
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: they do, you know what I'm saying.

499
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 2: But I will say it was like, I'm so glad

500
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,120
Speaker 2: I didn't do that, you know what I'm saying.

501
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 1: But it was so much pressure to do it. It's

502
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 1: like the strip Working in the strip club was you

503
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: had to be mentally strong. And I'm so thankful of

504
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 1: the people I had around me, Like I feel like

505
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 1: me and Dre leaned on each other a lot, Like

506
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 1: we got through that ship, like that's where we met

507
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 1: at in the strip club, and it was just like

508
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 1: we realized, Okay, we're really above this because we're really

509
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: low key, we hustling. These a lot of bitches in

510
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: there be dumb, let's keep it. Do you know what

511
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying. They don't know me dumb and they just

512
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 1: don't know what they don't.

513
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 4: Know what to do.

514
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: But the men in there be dumb maybe spending hell

515
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: of money. So yeah, you want to spend money, We're

516
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 1: gonna take advantage of it. So we was like, bro,

517
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: were too smart for this. What's the next step? Yeah,

518
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: But I've always been like that because I used to

519
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 1: work in the strip club and the regular club, and

520
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 1: I'll just be like, I'm about to get my money

521
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 1: and go home because I'm also feel like outside all

522
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: of that shit, like the pressure that he put on

523
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: you to make you want to look a certain way,

524
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 1: but also he just be too heady, heady. When I

525
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 1: tell y'all, the strippers were so mad at us because,

526
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 1: like you know, when like what was the club in

527
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: New York where Bernice and all them were working at

528
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,879
Speaker 1: that starlett So when Starlein started wearing them outfits, it

529
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 1: was like a domino effects. So everybody got to start

530
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: wearing the outfit.

531
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 2: So when it got down to Dreams now mind y'all

532
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 2: was working at Dreams in Houston. That's where everybody used

533
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 2: to be, so we started wearing the outfit. All the

534
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 2: dancers was mad.

535
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 1: They was like, oh, they need to pay tip, honey,

536
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 1: they need to pay tip on why bach, I'll find

537
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,439
Speaker 1: the ball. But the niggas started coming to the bar

538
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: and throwing that money, and they was like, okay, you

539
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: know how many girls I done see go on trips

540
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 1: to go dance in Miami and fall out and they

541
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: never be friends again. When I get arristed, like it

542
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 1: was so many, I used to be like, I don't

543
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 1: know if I want to go to Miami with no girls.

544
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: They don't come back, they don't come back together on

545
00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: Greyhound on it like to get up the comeback like

546
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: this craziness. Okay, So we made it out the strip club. Okay,

547
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 1: so we're gonna get into this first time. It look

548
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: because we don't look, it wasn't even the first time.

549
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: That wasn't even we didn't even got into the topic.

550
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: I was in the strip club. Yeah, yeah, we need

551
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 1: to hang out Jerseys up the hood, niggas in the streets.

552
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 1: That's what kept me out, Like and I would be

553
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: like on the radio and I finally made it out

554
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: the hoodiggs would be like, do you graduated? Broke on

555
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: my mother When I go home, they'd be like, man, look,

556
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you. You used to be giving

557
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: me that wing.

558
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 4: Bro.

559
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 1: Just let me roll up my Wii. You wulonn't even

560
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 1: say nothing, bro.

561
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, okay, So I picked some topics is obviously,

562
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 2: like I said, we all live.

563
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 1: Everybody live on the couch. But it was so crazy

564
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: because I tweeted something the other day and I could

565
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: not believe the reactions.

566
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 2: But I'm on both sides of the fence. So I

567
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 2: had to add y'all because I feel like, what's your fine?

568
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: I'm a aries, you're a aries?

569
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: Okay, So I feel like y'all are well? Maybe you not? Well,

570
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: she's a little more level headed than me a tourist,

571
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: but you do you believe in like the cuts and stuff.

572
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: My birthday is like two days after season ends because

573
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 1: Arias is fired.

574
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 3: We are, we are.

575
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm a leo, okay, sat my best friend is a

576
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: sad fire. So I'm like, okay, we're a level headed here.

577
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: But you already told you was beating on the door

578
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 1: with the full page letter. Yeah, Alida, you're not level headed,

579
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: a liah, this is what Okay. So I wanted to

580
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 1: ask you because the other day I said, man, y'all

581
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: really be calling y'all man a bitch? Y'all really brave?

582
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, you can't do that. So I want to know,

583
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: like when does disrespect go too far in a relationship?

584
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: And when you know you've like checked out and I

585
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: need to go Yeah, that's when he goes too far,

586
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: because if you're calling somebody, if you calling a man

587
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: a beach, you no longer respect him. Yeah, And I

588
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 1: will say, I don't think I was always level headed,

589
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: because you forgot I used to do pop ups up,

590
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: but I've elevated. Okay, but do you feel like that's

591
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: too far? Like if you feel like you got to

592
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: pop up on a man like now because the nigga

593
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: I used to pop up all he used to pop

594
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: up on me, So that's what we're doing now. It

595
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: was childish but and I'm older now and I wouldn't

596
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: do that now, But back then it was like, shit,

597
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 1: I'm on with you on right, and you don't pop

598
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: up on everybody? Right? You pop up on your nigga. Yeah,

599
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: you know what are you popping up for? I haven't

600
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: popped up in a while, but in a healthy space.

601
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: But when I did pop up before, it's because you're

602
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: not answering that in my mighty singers since it's our Yeah,

603
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: you're telling me some names, but this is what I'm saying.

604
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: If I feel like I gotta pop up on you,

605
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:48,959
Speaker 1: that means I don't trust you, and there's no relationship

606
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: without trust, like I have PTSD so bad from our

607
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: old relationship. Me and Okay, so we did an l

608
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: A show.

609
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 2: LA was lit shout out to the LA crowd because

610
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 2: as we haven't talked about the LA show. But anyways,

611
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 2: I had an issue with my man when I was

612
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: out there and this is a new relationship, like it's

613
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 2: very fresh, and I was so scared to talk to

614
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 2: him about it because my last relationship, when I had

615
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 2: an issue, I would bring it to him and it'll

616
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 2: be like, oh my god, you tripping gaslighting me, making

617
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 2: me feel like I was crazy. And it was like

618
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 2: when I brought the issue up to him, he was

619
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 2: like okay. He was like, hey, I was beating around

620
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 2: the bush because I was so scared to say it.

621
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 2: I was literally like shaken. I was talking to Dre

622
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 2: for like two days about it.

623
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: She was like, lex, tell him and if he reacts

624
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: how you don't, that lets you know what you need

625
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: to do moving forward. I was like, bet so, I'm

626
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: like talking to him. He was like hey, hey stop.

627
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: He was like, tell me exactly what I did, tell

628
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: me how it makes you feel, and tell me what

629
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: we can do moving forward. And I said, come action please.

630
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 5: I said okay, well.

631
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: And I told him and I was like he was like, well, first,

632
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: let me apologize. I never meant to make you feel

633
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: that way, and you know, we got into a converse.

634
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: And so with that being said, I was like, okay,

635
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: Like the respect level got different, you know, it's respected

636
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: him so much more for that. I was like, oh,

637
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 1: you can you can talk, you know, what I'm saying.

638
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: So I feel like that healthy space is needed. But

639
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: sometimes I feel like, when when I get to the

640
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: points where I don't trust you, cause like my my

641
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: relationship is new, I trust him, I wouldn't pop up

642
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: on him. So now, but now I feel like, but

643
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: do y'all feel like pop ups? If you feel like

644
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: you got to pop up on the nigga, I feel

645
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: like you kind of already know or or who you're

646
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 1: dealing with. Yeah, so if you're popping up, that should

647
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: be like I should get out of this right Yeah. Yeah.

648
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: The one time I did pop up, I found what

649
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: I was looking for.

650
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 5: Yep.

651
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: It wasn't with Carlos. It was like with a little

652
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: relationship I had in between when talking and I popped

653
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: up and it was the nigga was on the couch

654
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: with a whole fail gro what did you do? Come on?

655
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: As what you did? I didn't even because I like,

656
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't believe. I walked in and

657
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: found with the trying to throw the couple over. The

658
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: girl had and I was like, oh no, is this

659
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: somebody here? And then she slowly came up. She was

660
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: like I'll leave, and I was like, no, you say

661
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: that would have been her, claimed the fan. Yeah, I

662
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 1: found breaking from that. I was like, no, you can

663
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: have this. Nigga and I love and you love good.

664
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: But I'm glad that we do that. I don't don't

665
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 1: ever fight the girl. Yeah, I will never fight. But

666
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: I never found nothing. That's the crazy thing. I used

667
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: to be popping up and would never find nothing. But

668
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: I used to know that nigga was doing she because

669
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 1: I would hear stories and I would be knowing. I

670
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: knew the nigga was doing and I knew he was

671
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 1: doing shit. But it's like every time I would pop up,

672
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: nothing would happen, like nobody was there, and I'd be like,

673
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: so why you wasn't answering the phone? I would sleep

674
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: you boy? I know who it was tonight, Yeah, tonight

675
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 1: the other night. I've done to pop up twice. I

676
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: didn't find nothing on my pop up twice. But you

677
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: know what I am. Oh, I'm on Instagram, investigates all

678
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: all shines and on Instagram. So when I found out

679
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: my ex had another girl, y'all, he left me at

680
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 1: his house and he was like, oh, I gotta go

681
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: hand on some business. I gotta go hand some business.

682
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,239
Speaker 1: And I was like okay because I was coming back

683
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: to Atlanta the next day. But it just felt weird

684
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: that he was leaving me there, Like I always go

685
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 1: to his house when he's not there, but it was like,

686
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 1: why are you leaving me? Like we don't spend that

687
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: much time. And so something just told And I know

688
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: his type. He has the same me and his baby

689
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: Mama kind of favor. He's like, oh he likes he

690
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: like brown skin, big booted, That's what he liked. So

691
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: I was like, let me go through. You know. I

692
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: just started going through the girls that he follow and

693
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: I see one. I said, she brown, and she come

694
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: up maybe when I went and I looked at that

695
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 1: story and I see that was the story bitch while

696
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: I'm in the house. That's crazy. Do y'all know?

697
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 2: It took everything for me not to tear the everything

698
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: up in that house. It took everything out of me.

699
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 2: Good for you, but you know what I mean, not

700
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 2: good for me because I stay with Nigga like a dummy.

701
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: I stayed. I stayed, but I left, y'all stay, I'm

702
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: going now shout out to the healthy relationship. But I

703
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: did from the shackles. We are free from the shackles,

704
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: all three of us. But I will say that after that,

705
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: that was the moment I checked out and I shouldn't

706
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 1: have left. So I did call him a bitch, yeah,

707
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 1: because she was already out of it. But my my

708
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 1: mind was checked out. My mind, I felt like my

709
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 1: body was still trying to be like make it work. No,

710
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't know what it was. My

711
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: manisexual Like it was a sexual tension because we did

712
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: have good sex, and it was because he knew me

713
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: and he saw me go from a little girl on

714
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: the strip club to a grown woman running a business.

715
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,280
Speaker 1: So I had this connection. And then when my mom passed,

716
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: he was there. It was a lot of like connection.

717
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: But it was like I trauma bonded with him a lot.

718
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 1: Every time I was down at my lowest, I would

719
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: call him and that that's what it was. It wasn't

720
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: that it was like real, real, real love. It was

721
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: like I bonded with him over like traumatic experiences. He

722
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: was there for you, or he nurtured you the way

723
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: you needed to be any vice versa, because every time

724
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 1: he going through something, he's like, man, I know we're

725
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: not talking. When we were on the way to the

726
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,320
Speaker 1: roots picnic. He was like, oh my god, I know

727
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 1: we're not talking, but I got I'm like, what happened?

728
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 6: You know?

729
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know what, I can't do this

730
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 1: no more. You gotta stop. I got to stop in

731
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: not even entertaining. I was like, I have somebody that

732
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 1: we have healthy conversations, We are progressive.

733
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 2: He's he's everything that I thought that you would be.

734
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: And it's like crazy because when you've been dealing with

735
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,479
Speaker 2: somebody for so long. I when I think about calling

736
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,879
Speaker 2: my new man like a bitch, I would never call

737
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 2: him that. Yeah, I wouldn't.

738
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 1: I've never dated nobody even called him a bitch. Yes,

739
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: when I called him, and it's slipped bitch. That's how

740
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: you know it was that I was like bitch to

741
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 1: a pitch as he was like what you said? I said, yeah,

742
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: I had checked out. Yeah, and I feel like there

743
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: are signs that you know you checked out. But I

744
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 1: feel like women we just be trying well, we all,

745
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 1: I think women we all leave mentally probably like six months.

746
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: And that's what I was trying to say, because we

747
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: be trying to get you wrong time, you know, signs

748
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: to catch on. But if you don't do it. We'd

749
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 1: be like, I out of gave you fifty lim chants. Man,

750
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: now I'm done time after time.

751
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I feel like.

752
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: There are signs before. But I was so shocked when

753
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: I tweeted that so many girls were like, well, if

754
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: he acting like a bitch, I'm gonna let him know.

755
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: They was responding, they look like I be calling my

756
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:42,919
Speaker 1: nigga bitch. What's the problem? It's a bit? And when

757
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 1: is that? Even when do you feel like your nigga

758
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: is being a bitch? I don't ever want to feel

759
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 1: like my man is a big ye like me feeling

760
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: like that, Like, let me say this though my ex

761
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: is not a bitch. He's a good man. He's just

762
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: not the man for me. But when I felt in

763
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: that moment, yes, I did feel like I don't apologize

764
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 1: for saying bitch because he act like a bitch to me.

765
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: But I feel like if I ever feel like you're

766
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: being a bitch to me, then we don't need to

767
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: be around each other. Friend, I don't even call Drea

768
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: when if I ever called you a bitch. Seriously, I

769
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: don't even call my friends bitches like you don't use

770
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: the bitch. I like and get into it. I never

771
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: been like, you're a bitch and you got me. I

772
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: don't even call my friends bitches. Yeah, so I don't

773
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 1: call my sister. I never called my mom that. So

774
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: I feel like if I'm talking to my man like that,

775
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 1: somebody I'm supposed to be exploring life with, it's done.

776
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 4: Yeah.

777
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:33,919
Speaker 1: I've never been with somebody that I really just felt

778
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 1: like you was a bitch as Yeah, yeah, like that,

779
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 1: I have been violin And that's when I knew.

780
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, this is.

781
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: Okay talking about y'all. Come on, you know I'm working

782
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:51,320
Speaker 1: on me. Girl. I throw a wine glass at this

783
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: niggahead when yes, And I was just south fucking mad

784
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 1: because he was lying to me, like I had found

785
00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: out I was out of town because I used to

786
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 1: actually I'm around well now, I used to actually go

787
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 1: in Barten. It's funny because were talking about Starless and stuff.

788
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: I used to actually go gett Bartend and she sometimes

789
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: in New York are like Starlet's and city what is

790
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: it called city scapes? And she and so, Yes, like

791
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,879
Speaker 1: I had found out my nigga was like down here

792
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 1: fucking with some bitch who was at the time was

793
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: on a reality show and he was trying to lie

794
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 1: to me and tell me he wasn't sucking with the bitch.

795
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: But my homegirl had seent me a video. Oh I

796
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:31,800
Speaker 1: have seen you seen. Believe me in your own eyes, nigga.

797
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 1: So when I got home, I went to his house

798
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 1: and I was like asking him about it, and I

799
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: was like drinking some wine and he was like, there

800
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: wouldn't me. I'm like this, this is the video, the

801
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: video right here? Are you fucking serious? I wouldn't do

802
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 1: enough to throw my phone, but I damn sure through

803
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: that fucking wine glass. And he said, I'll see I

804
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: don't punch the niggah. Yeah, I hear that story. You

805
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: know what's crazy because I would I never knew you

806
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,439
Speaker 1: were a fire sign. But now like actually like we're

807
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: sitting down like it's giving I don't want to like

808
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,879
Speaker 1: similar the fire. You know what I'm saying. It could

809
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 1: go really from the Yeah there what happened. So we

810
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: was arguing, this is my egg. We was arguing and

811
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: he might have called me a bitch like two three times,

812
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: and I was like, you got one more time. You

813
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 1: had to warn him to call me a bitch and

814
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: he was like, bitch, and I went boom, I did yeah,

815
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: and oh my god, I told and I was like,

816
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: h Like, so that was like the only time when

817
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: you was like saying calling somebody in that moment, But

818
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 1: not just like I just came out and called him

819
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: a bitch. It was because you keep antagonized. A lot

820
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: of times it'd be like, you remember what we was

821
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:58,399
Speaker 1: arguing about, Like, so, how do y'all feel like y'all

822
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 1: handled disputes now being in a healthy relationship, Like how

823
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 1: do y'all are because we all argue with our with

824
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: our men. Yeah, I just feel like it don't even

825
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: escalate today, you know what I mean. I feel like

826
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:12,919
Speaker 1: my relationships so healthy. My nigga don't even do nothing

827
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: to make me feel like, keep be fucking with other girls.

828
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 4: Right, But.

829
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 1: I guess, but with me and the person that I

830
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: was just talking about, that's the main thing that we

831
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: would like argue about because I used to know he

832
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: was like always cheating and always doing some grimmy sheet.

833
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 1: So I think number one is that I feel so

834
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 1: secure in the relationship. But then it also kind of

835
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 1: allows me to like chill in my femininity because I

836
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: don't Yeah, because I don't have to be so aggressive

837
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: and so like mad all the time because I feel

838
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 1: like he makes me feel safe. So then whenever we

839
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: do have a disagreement, whenever we do have a problem,

840
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 1: we just sit down and talk about it like it

841
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: is and it's just really healthy. I just love that

842
00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: for you because I hated that nigga.

843
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 5: Be so hard when you got to.

844
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 1: Free your friend room a nigga you feel like she

845
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: don't a girl. Yes, it's like it's just healthy communication

846
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 1: and I feel like I never really had that before.

847
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 1: I feel like me and Loss are still like working

848
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: through that like we have. Of course it's not about infidelity,

849
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: but we are relearning each other. Of course, spend so

850
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: much time apart, and it's like I'm a completely different woman.

851
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: You've grown now, like you were real grown. You aren't stadium. Yeah,

852
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: is the reason we learning each other in our boundaries

853
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,479
Speaker 1: and what we require and everything. So with that, because

854
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 1: we've only been in a relationship now like six seven months,

855
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: so it's like we're still fresh. So we do have disagreements,

856
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: even though it's not about like cheating. So what I

857
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,399
Speaker 1: try to do is like when he says something because

858
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: sometimes you know, he got a slick as his mouth,

859
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: so it's like, Okay, I'm gonna just steal breathing. Let

860
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 1: that ain't come out. Don't let that I ain't come

861
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: out all my Timeue what do I And in my head,

862
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 1: I'll be like, what do you really want to say?

863
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 5: You got to me.

864
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 1: Say it differently because my goal is to be heard.

865
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 1: So it's I'm not gonna he's a aries too, so

866
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,919
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna match fire with fire. That ain't gonna

867
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 1: get us nowhere. Oh my god, crazy, but it's gonna

868
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: be so much fun. It's always a ball. Yeah. But

869
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, now, I'm like, calm down, let me try

870
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: to be the reason behind it. Let us you know.

871
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: And we had an argument not too long ago, but

872
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: I don't even know what the disagreement was about, but

873
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 1: I was like, what do you hear me saying? And

874
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 1: he told me what he heard and I'm like, that's

875
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is and then

876
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, so now we do that. When I

877
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: feel like we're not hearing each other, I'm like, what

878
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: do you hear? And what are you and vice versa,

879
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 1: what are you saying? So this is what I hear

880
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: when you say that. Okay, that's a good that's a

881
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 1: good point to make because I feel like that's my man.

882
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:02,839
Speaker 1: He's like, hey, hey, hey, I don't know what you take.

883
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 1: Tell me exactly say it with you. You know what

884
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I don't beat around the don't beat around

885
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: the bush. You're not hurting it wrong. Yes, And that's

886
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: so good because I feel like social media has glamorized

887
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 1: this unhealthy, toxic Oh if he don't pop up on you,

888
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,439
Speaker 1: if he don't go through your phone, if you don't

889
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 1: blow up like my man. Okay, he's a pisces and

890
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: he is very like he's in tune with himself. He

891
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: needs a space, but he just needs a water sign.

892
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: He go with the flow. So it's like some days

893
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: he's like it'll be like four or five days all

894
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: day we talking, and sometimes he just needs time to hisself.

895
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 1: So me, I have I've learned that I have an

896
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 1: anxious attachment dating style from my ex. So it's like

897
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm if a man doesn't answer the phone, or somebody

898
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: anybody dreda aints the phonem like some's wrong, some's wrong,

899
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 1: somebody died, somebody is going he cheated, I think getting worse.

900
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,319
Speaker 1: So I'm learning patience. So it's like he's like, oh, hey,

901
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 1: I was just kind of you know. I was upstairs,

902
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: I was taking a nap, I had to smoke, I

903
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: had to like decompressed. So I'm learning patience, like Dre,

904
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: and I've been doing good.

905
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 2: I don't be blowing up your phone as much as

906
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: I used to.

907
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: I've been doing a good job. Yeah, you been doing

908
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: a good job, but I don't. I also don't mind

909
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 1: you blowing my phone. Yeah, like I don't look at

910
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: it like she blowing my phone. But it's something that

911
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: I just need to learn. But it's like I'm happy

912
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 1: that I'm in a healthy space to learn that, but

913
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you brought that up because that brings

914
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: us to the next topic. Wait, just like your mind

915
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,839
Speaker 1: can think the worst, I want you to start thinking

916
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: the best. Oh now I do, because I've learned, like

917
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: with my energy and what you manifest and your thoughts,

918
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: that should be real. And it's like I don't care

919
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: what nobody say for now. My man is perfect. Y'all

920
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 1: can't tell me nothing about me. I may not perfect,

921
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: but I love his un person you gotta have perfect

922
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 1: for my man. Get on your nerves. Yeah yeah, and

923
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: nobody not gonna get on your nerves. Sometimes. It was

924
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 1: today I was like, no matter how much you love now,

925
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: because look me and my I ain't going to Coasta

926
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 1: Rica tomorrow. And when I tell you he has stressed

927
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 1: me out today, I told Dre he was stressing me

928
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: out today. I'm so excited for y'all. It's gonna be fun. Yeah,

929
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 1: were gonna see you, We gonna see what's up, y'all.

930
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: It's your girl lex P and it's your girls right

931
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: in the call. And y'all know Orlando, we owe y'all.

932
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: So we coming back in a big way. August tenth,

933
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: Poor Minds is coming to Orlando for our live show. Yes,

934
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,879
Speaker 1: we coming to Orlando, improv. I cannot wait to see

935
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: all of y'all faces. You know. Unfortunately we had to

936
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 1: reschedule these days, so I'm super excited to come out

937
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: and see y'all. Doors open in semi yes, and the

938
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 1: show starts at eight and we back a bigger than

939
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: But let me tell y'all, y'all should be happy because

940
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 1: this show this round is super lit. So Orlando, August tenth,

941
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: doors open at seven, show starts at eight Orlando Improv.

942
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,399
Speaker 1: We'll see y'all and we all side Bookie's period. Put

943
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 1: it on because we're coming.

944
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:22,760
Speaker 6: Man, Hey man, what's sucks?

945
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 5: Smell colors, mellow ship?

946
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: You know what time this boy DC on?

947
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 7: Flip Chico Bank.

948
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 5: You making Man's July thirty.

949
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: Collar said, right, you're making collars, Sam, you don't be No,

950
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 1: We're gonna be making y'all laugh like a mother fuck

951
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 1: fuck you tell out. Don't wanna talk about don't.

952
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 8: Back get there early because you know the traffic and

953
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 8: making me crazy as hell when you come down there.

954
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,360
Speaker 8: So get them tickets, hit the website, put up and

955
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 8: we'll see you and make you lit them dirty.

956
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 1: Three headed month floor the town. You know what's happening?

957
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 4: What's up, ma'am?

958
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 6: What's up?

959
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:54,720
Speaker 1: Somebody?

960
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 8: What's up?

961
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: A great show?

962
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 6: Thank you?

963
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 5: What love?

964
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: Hey man? I appreciate your fool love. Okay, well made.

965
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 1: But for the second topic we definitely wanted to talk

966
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 1: about because I feel like this kind of goes in today,

967
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 1: stepping into your femininity in a relationship, especially if you've

968
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: been in like toxic relationships before that and you felt

969
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 1: like you had to be masculine or you had to

970
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: be aggressive. Have you ever felt like that from any

971
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 1: of your Sure, yeah, I feel like every black woman has.

972
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,760
Speaker 1: I don't even feel like we get as many chances

973
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 1: or opportunities as they try to make it seem to

974
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 1: be feminine. Like the world has made us tough, The

975
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,919
Speaker 1: world has made us everything. Then like when you add

976
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: on like different cultural experiences like the strip club, yes,

977
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: it's like, can there be as soft if you want to,

978
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: like you eat up and shout, And.

979
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 2: Then even when you look at like the aunties and

980
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 2: the grandma's just be like, well, get your ass the kitchen,

981
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 2: you coming in.

982
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: And out the house. Because they got to regulate the household.

983
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: And they got to regulate the household. They got to

984
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 1: cook the gumboat, ride a fish, change to make the

985
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: guy for make sure you know I'm modilawn.

986
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 2: It is so much pressure and I'm not gonna lie

987
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 2: to y'all like how I am on this show. It's

988
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 2: like I was talking to my man about this, but look,

989
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 2: we are my man, my man as bitches, and I

990
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 2: love this this that's what we call my.

991
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 1: Man, my man. But I will say this, like even

992
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: before I was explaining to him like there's a difference

993
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: between like lex pe because LEXB, I feel like it

994
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: is my job and it's a character. It's a it's

995
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 1: a crazy, it's a it's a it's a branch of

996
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: who I am, for sure. But this, I can honestly say,

997
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: this is the first situation relationship that I've been in

998
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 1: in my entire life where I feel like I can

999
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: be soft and I don't have to be on guard,

1000
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: like I can just be like I don't have to worry.

1001
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 1: Like when I'm out with him, I feel safe. When

1002
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,760
Speaker 1: I go to sleep, I feel safe when we outside,

1003
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 1: I feel one hundred percent safe. Like it ain't no

1004
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 1: like I wonder, I wonder, or ooh you're doing this

1005
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 1: and I'm mad.

1006
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 2: And let me okay, let me put my guard up

1007
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 2: and let me act like I don't give a fuck.

1008
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: It ain't none of that. I think that that once

1009
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: you have that fidelity or that security and that part

1010
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 1: is easier to relate. Sure, then once you got a

1011
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: man who has great leadership qualities as this ship together,

1012
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 1: who you can trust his decision making, then I can

1013
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: sit back because this is the most relaxed I've ever

1014
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: been because he knows how to lead. I don't know

1015
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 1: where we're going where, I don't know what I'm saying.

1016
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 1: But in previous relationships, it's like I'm irritated because I

1017
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: gotta think about everything because I know you're not going

1018
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: I gotta plan X y Z, I do this, and

1019
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 1: that's got to be your girl and your mom Loki exactly.

1020
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 1: I got to figure everything out. That's a lot. That's

1021
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 1: a lot. And I think a lot of times we

1022
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: talk about like, oh, black women aren't feeling enough. They

1023
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 1: don't because it's like we have to do a lot,

1024
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: and y'all put a lot of pressure on us. I

1025
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: will say this, like the first date we went on,

1026
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 1: like I was we were supposed to go on one

1027
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: day and then I was gonna be in Houston with

1028
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: my family and stuff. And I was like, hey, I

1029
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: don't know what we're doing for our first date, Like

1030
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: what do I need to pack? He was like, oh,

1031
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 1: bring lounge clothes, bring dress clothes. He was like telling

1032
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 1: me all this something like he was planning for the

1033
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: whole week. When I tell you, I went to that

1034
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:19,919
Speaker 1: man house and I stayed there for the whole week.

1035
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: I said, oh, we look, but it was like it

1036
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 1: just felt good to like sit back and let somebody

1037
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 1: just like take the reins and like you know what

1038
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying and have everything organized and playing. It's like, okay, thanks,

1039
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: I got to be a woman, I got to be

1040
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: feminine and just show I just got to put on

1041
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: my makeup and show up. Yeah, like see y'all. I

1042
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: feel like this is the safest I ever feel. It's

1043
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: like my heart feels safe, but my brain still processed. Yeah,

1044
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: if that makes it like we be getting into it sometimes,

1045
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 1: cause he'd be like, why you always so fucking combative

1046
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: all the time, Like just because I'm telling you how

1047
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: I feel about something, that doesn't mean that you need

1048
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: to always have a response. And one thing about me,

1049
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 1: I always got a mother fucking response. But it's hard.

1050
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 1: I'll be on his side sometimes like bitch, damn, but

1051
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 1: I always got a response for things. And I feel

1052
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: like too, I be getting offended by like his opinions

1053
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: about stuff sometimes and it's like, Okay, it's your opinion,

1054
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 1: that's how you feel, but that doesn't necessarily mean that

1055
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: I should be getting offended because it's just how you feel.

1056
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 1: And then sometimes be like before I say this response

1057
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: it's just gonna further the conversation or are connect or

1058
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:30,760
Speaker 1: is it my ego too? Or it's in my ego

1059
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,759
Speaker 1: because I think because we're strong and we ambitious, Yeah,

1060
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:37,959
Speaker 1: and we especially entertainment, we got ego how we feel

1061
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: about ourselves. And I'm really struggling with that too, because

1062
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: Carlos is like in a space where he's like, you

1063
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,239
Speaker 1: can relax, like you don't gotta work. It's hard, you

1064
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 1: don't got a grind, but all I know is grind, right,

1065
00:51:47,200 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: So it's like, what you mean you ain't gotta be

1066
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 1: bringing from that my ego? Don't know what that looks like?

1067
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,439
Speaker 1: That fell off? Relect you two two weeks off? Yeah,

1068
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 1: but it's the struggle, I think because he works so hard.

1069
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:05,359
Speaker 1: It is hard. Sometimes it can be like, all right,

1070
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 1: let me relax, let me not hold my tongue, let

1071
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 1: me see say what really need to be seeing only that,

1072
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,719
Speaker 1: let me put a little sugar on it. Right, Well,

1073
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and always say things in

1074
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 1: a nicer way. You know, it's okay because I feel

1075
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 1: like being soft. But it's okay to be soft. But

1076
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: you have to make sure that the man is locked

1077
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 1: in with you as well sure, because not every man.

1078
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 2: I will say this, we still got to be a

1079
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,760
Speaker 2: little guarded because some of these niggas will be playing.

1080
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,280
Speaker 1: You can't let your guard down. You can't until somebody

1081
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:38,280
Speaker 1: proved it. Yes. It's like once I was like okay,

1082
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 1: and it was like conversations that we had. I love

1083
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: for a man to be like asking questions and really

1084
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 1: and it was like once I figured out okay, I

1085
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 1: was like, damn, he really trying to get to know me.

1086
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: It was like certain things he was saying. I was

1087
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: like okay.

1088
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 2: And it was like after we got in that argument

1089
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 2: in La, the quote unquote argument was like oh you

1090
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 2: my girl, I was like yeah or whatever, like you know,

1091
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,320
Speaker 2: it was just like that's all a conversation with and

1092
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 2: I just like somebody that's sure yeah.

1093
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: And it's like when you really get in our softness,

1094
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: it's somebody who's sure about exactly what they want. If

1095
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: you feel like a woman is being very masculine with

1096
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: you and hard with you, it's because you're giving her

1097
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 1: signs of unsureness. She's in a gray area. If it's

1098
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 1: in black and white, it's gonna be very fucking Women

1099
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 1: are simple. Yeah, women are simple I mean, I feel

1100
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 1: like we not well, I'll say this, I feel like

1101
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: women are simple because it's really like, let us know

1102
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: what you want, and we can decide if we want

1103
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: to fuck with it or not. For sure, you know

1104
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:41,359
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. All you have to say is, hey,

1105
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 1: I'm willing to give you x y Z and I'm

1106
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 1: not willing to give you x y Z. We respect

1107
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: the honesty, and we respect honesty honesty more than they

1108
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 1: really know. Because I had a friend that recently went

1109
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: through a situation where a man just like was doing

1110
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: all this stuff and basically we found out it was

1111
00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 1: just to get some pussy.

1112
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 5: It was like, you didn't have to do that, you

1113
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 5: don't have to do that, you have to do all that.

1114
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 2: You could have just really said x y Z and

1115
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 2: I could have made the decision. And she was like,

1116
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 2: I probably would have just fucked you anyway. But now

1117
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 2: I think you a bitch ass nigga. Now I'm calling

1118
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 2: you a bitch. Yeah, Now the streets know.

1119
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: You a bit because I would tell everybody to ask me,

1120
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:15,360
Speaker 1: and I'm messy, bitch. Everybody gonna know, everybody gonna know.

1121
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: I'm finna tell bring the night from that as soon

1122
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: as the camera start reporting, line, Okay, we have confirmed,

1123
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying. So I do feel like

1124
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: I feel like women and men are simple in different ways.

1125
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 1: But if we were all just more honest about what

1126
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 1: we're looking for and what we want, it would be

1127
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 1: a lot more easy. That's crazy. I had seen a TikTok,

1128
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: but it was a therapist saying that that's the biggest

1129
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: cause of divorce is not it's not money. It's not

1130
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,879
Speaker 1: you know, financial situations like people think. It's the lack

1131
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: of communication of expectations. So it's not just communication, it's

1132
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: communicating what you expect or what you require or what

1133
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,799
Speaker 1: you want. Because we be exhuming, like, oh, you're gonna

1134
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: fuck with me? How I want to be fucked with?

1135
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 1: What that nigga don't know? How you know? He don't know?

1136
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's why I'm saying, I I hate that

1137
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 2: that saying we're like, oh, if he wants to, he will,

1138
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, but you have to tell him, no,

1139
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 2: he didn't know you.

1140
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: It's like, because I feel like men are providers a

1141
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 1: lot of the time, they feel like just because they're

1142
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 1: providing and they're doing a lot for you, that they're

1143
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: showing you that they love you like me and my yeah,

1144
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 1: yes me if my man. We having not arguments about that,

1145
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: but we just don't see out of eye about it

1146
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 1: because he'd be like, well, I do X, Y and

1147
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: Z for you. I'll be paying your bills. I don't

1148
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: show you all one hundred percent invested in you. And

1149
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: I be like, no, not if you're not loving me

1150
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 1: in the way that I feel like I need to

1151
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: be loved. I think women we require more than that.

1152
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: But because men have all been taught a protector and

1153
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,799
Speaker 1: a provider and that's it, they don't know that it's

1154
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: every woman required. Yeah, we want that, but we require

1155
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: different things. All three of us want to protect her.

1156
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: But I don't feel loved a different kind of Like

1157
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 1: we all could be getting our bills paid, but I

1158
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 1: might need. Man. I'm telling you I had a man

1159
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: still to this day, he just be randomly sending me

1160
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: money and I'm like, okay, bro, like I got a

1161
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,400
Speaker 1: man like I Literally, that don't mean you love me.

1162
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean nothing, especially I think too when you

1163
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 1: used today, you know what I mean? Like if it's

1164
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: not the first time that something like that has happened

1165
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: and you're like, okay, well I'm god of used to that.

1166
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 1: So to me, that's not really showing me that you

1167
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 1: love me, even though in your mind you like, okay,

1168
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 1: I don't typically do this. So I feel like I

1169
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:28,799
Speaker 1: don't know what so like for me when I when

1170
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 1: I feel like a man really is like when he

1171
00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,319
Speaker 1: gives me his time. Yeah, like when he's taking time

1172
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: out to plan days, take me on vacations, call me

1173
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 1: on the phone because me and we be on the

1174
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,839
Speaker 1: phone all day, Yeah, all day long. I need that time. Yeah,

1175
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 1: I need that time. And I need affection like that

1176
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 1: was in my past, Like even my ex. With my ex,

1177
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,800
Speaker 1: we would be together every day, but I feel like

1178
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 1: he never was affection. It's like I'm your homeboy, like

1179
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 1: you just in that's a my wan Like I need

1180
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,720
Speaker 1: to be loved. I need to be told like you sexy.

1181
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: I need affection y'all. When I tell y'all my ex,

1182
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: like I like, we would get dressed up and I

1183
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 1: would like walking like, oh, bab you look good. He

1184
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,440
Speaker 1: was just like thank you, and I was just go

1185
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: like responding one I was like, maybe I'm not feeding

1186
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,400
Speaker 1: into him, pouring into him enough, and I thought it

1187
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 1: was me. I was like, well, maybe I don't look good,

1188
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: and I just started second guessing. He would never, rarely

1189
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 1: compliment me, rarely touch me. Y'all. Let me tell y'all

1190
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 1: what I did. And look, I'm being honest. I remember

1191
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: one night I really got I put some whole lingerie

1192
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 1: on and I was standing in the kitchen like acting

1193
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 1: like I'm on my phone, and he just walked in

1194
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: the house, walked to the refrigerator, got him a drink,

1195
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: and went right upstairs. But he's seen you. Oh, he's

1196
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: definitely seen men. You've seen this, ass Have I seen this?

1197
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 1: I would have stopped when I tell y'all something.

1198
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 2: When I tell y'all today, Look, I put on a

1199
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 2: little bit of a co siler and I had on

1200
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 2: and I called my man when I was in the car.

1201
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: He was like, you look so beautiful.

1202
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:54,439
Speaker 9: I said.

1203
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I can't do nothing without him telling me

1204
00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 1: I'm beautiful, Like, I can't do it, don't matter what

1205
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: I got on one. He's just always, He's always. He

1206
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think you know how fine you are.

1207
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 1: But I haven't even told him about that part of

1208
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 1: my last relationship be like do you know how fine

1209
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: do you wake up in the morning and look at

1210
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 1: the mirror and be like, damn, I'm fine, Like that's

1211
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 1: like's saying to me. But I'm like, that's so important

1212
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: to like gas your partner up, because I'm that time.

1213
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: I gas my friends up. Every day. I'm like, damn,

1214
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:23,960
Speaker 1: you look good like you.

1215
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 5: I'd be like, yeah, I'd be like, I'll be like, like,

1216
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 5: I feel.

1217
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: Like you're supposed to pour into everybody around you. So

1218
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 1: even with him pouring into me, it makes me feel like, okay, yeah,

1219
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: let me dress up for him. Then let me put

1220
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 1: this song, let me make sure my hair straight, because

1221
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 1: I know that he likes that. And you know, it's

1222
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 1: like if you feel like.

1223
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 2: Your woman is not caring and giving into her looks

1224
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 2: and things like that, because probably you're not making her

1225
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,040
Speaker 2: feel good, Like you gotta.

1226
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 1: Pour into your woman so she can pour back into you.

1227
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: And if you don't know what, she won't pay attention

1228
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: to how she loving you. Yes, we will love how

1229
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: we want to be. You walk in the room down, baby,

1230
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: you look good. Yeah, he'd be like, because I want

1231
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 1: you to say I look good. Yeah, you wouldn't do

1232
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: it when I say we said that on one of

1233
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: the recent episodes that we did, Like, I feel like

1234
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like it's easier. I'm not saying

1235
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 1: you should, but I feel like it's easier today somebody

1236
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 1: who have your same love language. Sure, yeah, for sure,

1237
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 1: because y'all understand it and you're not going your way

1238
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 1: to do it and you don't think it's dumb, right,

1239
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: And it's crazy because I always say this, like I'm

1240
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 1: a person, I need all of them. The love language

1241
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 1: is I want all of it. Yeah.

1242
00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 2: And he's the same way, like there's one that he

1243
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 2: like puts prioritizes above them all, but he want all

1244
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 2: that shit.

1245
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. And I've noticed little things because I pay attention

1246
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: to details. So sometimes people won't.

1247
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 2: Even tell you stuff, but if you pay attention, I'll

1248
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 2: be like, I know this is what you need and

1249
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:57,840
Speaker 2: this is what you want, right, and let me make

1250
00:59:57,880 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 2: sure I give it to you.

1251
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 1: I think we all need all of them in different

1252
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: in different ways. Yeah, for sure.

1253
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 2: I feel like, love your partner how they want to

1254
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 2: be loved, and do the right things make your partner

1255
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 2: feel safe.

1256
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 1: He'll be masculine, y'all all be feminine. I mean that

1257
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 1: women and men both have masculinity. Yeah, Like, there's gonna

1258
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 1: be sometimes where you have to step up and he

1259
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 1: wants to be. I definitely there's moments where I definitely

1260
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 1: let him be vulnerable and be like, I let him

1261
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 1: be soft, and I let him have his moments and

1262
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 1: I let him like express to me what you know

1263
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: you got. It's a balance that's good because I think black,

1264
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: he black doctor okay, doctor me, I'm a woe queen.

1265
01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 10: Now I want my hot dogs burst is very black,

1266
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 10: very black, to be be vulnerable.

1267
01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 1: Or cry or feelings or talk about how that because

1268
01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: they got to go outside every day and be strong

1269
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 1: and you know, Trumper, then we even got to be

1270
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: as blacklie you know what I mean in the real world.

1271
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: So it's like come home, be soft, let's be soft again. Yes,

1272
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: I definitely give him that, And you know what, I'm

1273
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: happy to give him that space because he doesn't stress

1274
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 1: me or make me feel like my ex.

1275
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 5: I'll be like, boy, fuck them till.

1276
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: Starting nuts upping, square up whole ad nigga Like that's

1277
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: really yeah, y'all was crazy. No, me and my crazy

1278
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:28,480
Speaker 1: literally fight like we would square up and fight like

1279
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 1: we was okay. So we're gonna move on. So now

1280
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into the bid bout the bow bow

1281
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 1: Bow bow bow. Okay, are you good on your drink?

1282
01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 1: You need no drink? Are you okay? So you got

1283
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:48,439
Speaker 1: a feeling it though, Look this is literally girl talking.

1284
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: I said it was gonna keep it to an hour,

1285
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:53,040
Speaker 1: but we talked. I said that though I said, we

1286
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: always say ours, we don't have Okay, So for the

1287
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:59,040
Speaker 1: bed topic today, I want to talk about how do

1288
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: you know that you got that good? Or how do

1289
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 1: you know that a man got that good? Like when

1290
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 1: you see a man and I'll, you know, just say

1291
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: from everybody's point of be, like anybody that you want

1292
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:10,680
Speaker 1: to have sex with or whatever, how do you like

1293
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 1: look at me? Like damn, I know it's hitting, Like

1294
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 1: what are the signs that somebody like got it? I

1295
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: can kind of about all good pussy even though I

1296
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 1: don't fuck with girl. Yeah, I like she got some

1297
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: something about her buying her car. Yeah, like niggas fuck

1298
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 1: with her, let's be So what are the signs all that?

1299
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 4: Like?

1300
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: I think it's confidence. I always say that, like confidence

1301
01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 1: is everything to me because I think it's a difference

1302
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 1: between being like confident and being aryan. You have people

1303
01:02:40,080 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 1: that are aryan as fucked, Like if I meet a

1304
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: nigga and he or if I meet a girl and

1305
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 1: we just chilling it's the first time hanging out and

1306
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: she keeps talking about how good her pussy is and stuff,

1307
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 1: He's probably not arrogant man be having little things to Yes,

1308
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,720
Speaker 1: if you're talking about how good jodiq is on the

1309
01:02:56,800 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: first date, it's just how much you got, yeah, things

1310
01:03:00,440 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 1: that you ges or how much you how much you're

1311
01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: gonna do to me or what you how are you

1312
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 1: gonna It's like you're too pressed for you over confidence

1313
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: nighting for something that's crazy, because that makes a good

1314
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 1: point because I'm just thinking like yeah, or a nigga

1315
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 1: want to eat you out too bad? Like I like

1316
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: people because I always say I say this on a

1317
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: recent episode to I said, I feel like, will niggas

1318
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: be trying to give you decks so bad when they

1319
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: first meet you? You probably got an e CD. Why

1320
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 1: is he trying to fuck me? And then I feel

1321
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: like you're trying to pass something now? And then if

1322
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 1: you're trying to eat, if you're trying to eat eat

1323
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:36,760
Speaker 1: eat that you know me you ain't got no mean

1324
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 1: trying to eat because you ain't me. It makes it.

1325
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, lardy is paying attention.

1326
01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 6: Now.

1327
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 1: I feel like this for me. For me with the women,

1328
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:52,600
Speaker 1: it feels like I can tell a girl that got

1329
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 1: good pussy because she just shut up, like she don't

1330
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 1: do too much. She just pop up with ship or

1331
01:03:57,600 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: she just like you said. It's a confidence thing, like

1332
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 1: she knows she mad. She not on the internet being

1333
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 1: like wow, I am so fine, I am so she

1334
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:07,440
Speaker 1: let people talk for her. She supposed to pick and

1335
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 1: all the comments say it. She ain't got to be

1336
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 1: like reposting all her compliments and this and that, because

1337
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 1: sometimes a bit you'll be fine. But she don't even

1338
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: care about getting materialistic things.

1339
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 4: She just knows.

1340
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:19,320
Speaker 1: She that you know what I'm saying. I think it's

1341
01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 1: a common thing. Is not with men. It's more of

1342
01:04:21,320 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 1: like they just know, like, hey, I'm being patient for

1343
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 1: you because when I put this dick on you, yeah,

1344
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 1: you mean it's gonna change your life. So I'm patient.

1345
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 1: I should have known better with my situation because he

1346
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 1: was too motherfucking quiet. He ain't say nothing about that dick.

1347
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: This sain't nothing about it, and that's usually mean, Like

1348
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 1: I said, yeah, oh yeah, that means surprised you. It's

1349
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 1: always a surprise me, Papa. Yeah, if you don't say,

1350
01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised. Yad already knew how you was coming here.

1351
01:04:56,120 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 1: Young y'all said, there go again. It's me surprised. He

1352
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 1: knew what he was talking about.

1353
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 2: Because when I tell you a man that never brings

1354
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:08,280
Speaker 2: up sex, yeah, that left how he come in. I'm

1355
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 2: telling you, if you're going one, two, three, four, five dates,

1356
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 2: he never bring up sex.

1357
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:14,240
Speaker 1: He about to put that meat on you. It's gonna

1358
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:14,919
Speaker 1: suck up your life.

1359
01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 2: It's gonna that's life changing me. He trying to protect you.

1360
01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 2: Little did I know he was trying to protect me.

1361
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 2: That third night, I was like, take these draws off.

1362
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 1: He was like, you ready, right, or they don't be

1363
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: so eager to fuck because you're gonna be popping off, yeah,

1364
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 1: busting ties and ship. So it's like, I gotta get

1365
01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 1: to stick out when you ready in the right mental space, yeah,

1366
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 1: control yourself.

1367
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 2: Yes, it was really like I mean cause the first

1368
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 2: time me and him were intimate, he was like, you know,

1369
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 2: he was like, can I do this?

1370
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 1: I just want to get you know, permission. I was like, Hey,

1371
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 1: trying to get freaking with you. I'm trying to in

1372
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 1: this episode. I'm but yeah, I feel like you can

1373
01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 1: just tell from more so of a man's actions. And

1374
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 1: I feel like me will talk about sex too soon.

1375
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 1: Because I had a guy that I was dating, like

1376
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:13,520
Speaker 1: earlier this year. It was like he kept being like, oh,

1377
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: I can't wait, I can't wait. Are the vibes is right?

1378
01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 1: And I was like, yo, the vibes is cool. We vibing.

1379
01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: But when it came down to it, he couldn't get

1380
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 1: his dick up. You know, God bless that man. But

1381
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: it's just kind of like you was talking all this.

1382
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 1: She talking know that shit soon as I, but he did.

1383
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 1: He didn't, but he ain't get them. He didn't. He

1384
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 1: never got there. Disappointing and very much. You know what's crazy.

1385
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 1: That's how I know like I'm a confident woman and

1386
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm different because that happened to me when I was younger,

1387
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: and the guy explained it. He was like, man, you

1388
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 1: just you a lot of women. You know, I'm tall.

1389
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 1: I've always been thinking a lot of body and so

1390
01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 1: like then I was like cool because we were young,

1391
01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:53,000
Speaker 1: and I was like Okay, it's not me. It's not me.

1392
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 2: And then like when it happened as the dollars, Okay,

1393
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 2: now you trip me because I'm fine, it's funny.

1394
01:06:57,440 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: What's going on now? In the moment, I'm not gonna lie.

1395
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: It did hurt my feelings. Is it something because the

1396
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 1: women we already yeah, assume yeah, is it me? Is

1397
01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 1: it me?

1398
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:06,919
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1399
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 1: Like in the moment, I was like, damn, you know

1400
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:13,040
Speaker 1: what's going on? But then I was like, no, nigga,

1401
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: you you just wasn't ready because the way he came in,

1402
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:18,240
Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, I got you. He didn't realize

1403
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: the look that nigga need. The old nigga need a

1404
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 1: honey peg for shure for show. Look, I'm going through

1405
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 1: my nigga luggage as soon as we because I've seen

1406
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:30,560
Speaker 1: a honey pack in sighte Bitch, I'm coming home because

1407
01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 1: it's cars flight home. Nigga. They're gonna be like, you

1408
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 1: want some honey on your waffles, Bitch. I don't want

1409
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 1: no honey. I don't give a virgin honey.

1410
01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 6: Bitch.

1411
01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:43,600
Speaker 1: I don't need to see this nigga with no look

1412
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 1: a guy. They ain't nothing nothing in sight. So yeah,

1413
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: that's how the honey pecks really worked out. I knew

1414
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: they knew. Do they work for women too? They guy

1415
01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 1: in right, they do have two different hunts, like one

1416
01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 1: for men and one for women. Yeah, okay, the one

1417
01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 1: for men to work. Child, that's a little too much.

1418
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 1: The honey thing they say it like really boost yo lobido.

1419
01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 1: It just makes you like real, yeah, real, and then

1420
01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:16,439
Speaker 1: probably go longer as man. Okay, that's what I do. Like,

1421
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 1: I'll smoke a little weed for that, y'all. Let me

1422
01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:24,120
Speaker 1: tell y'all one time I put them gas horny goat

1423
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 1: wheat pills, that's what I'll be taking a gas station

1424
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:28,280
Speaker 1: because your heart gonna beat out your Yeah. I was like,

1425
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:30,680
Speaker 1: but no, I was young as fuck. I was like

1426
01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 1: twenty four. And when I say that ship just had

1427
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:36,599
Speaker 1: me so horny for like forty eight hours. I never

1428
01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:40,040
Speaker 1: did this shuit again. The things didn't wear on because

1429
01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 1: you're still horny like that. She the whole time we

1430
01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 1: was she was like, when is this flight? Oh my god,

1431
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: I can't wait to get home. Some dig the cross

1432
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:57,679
Speaker 1: that's what I'll be getting. Nail me. But you don't

1433
01:08:57,680 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 1: feel like y'all are horny in your thirties now, I'm sure, yes, yes, yea, honey,

1434
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 1: I mean both worn than April. I was like, what's okay.

1435
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 1: I got this schedule now where we gotta have stix

1436
01:09:18,600 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 1: every day, but then we need one day where we

1437
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 1: just fucked. Yes, the whole FU America Love Marathon. Come

1438
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 1: out there all the time. I'm not gonna lie like tomorrow,

1439
01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 1: bad Hoggy dee bow. None of y'all takes me. I'm

1440
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:36,760
Speaker 1: sucking all that. Don't call me. He's like, what's your

1441
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 1: fucking You don't know on my phone, don't know. Balls

1442
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: in the throat, Yes, in the booty hall, every kind

1443
01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:45,599
Speaker 1: of bad.

1444
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:46,200
Speaker 5: Put my leg.

1445
01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 4: Yes, it was way.

1446
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:51,640
Speaker 1: I was like, we meant because we was in that

1447
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: life for a week. I was like this too long.

1448
01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 1: And then that's when you beat a horny. It's after

1449
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:56,960
Speaker 1: coming off a trip with your homegirls. It's like, oh,

1450
01:09:57,000 --> 01:10:00,120
Speaker 1: I wish it was some say y'all are lucky. I

1451
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:02,439
Speaker 1: was man living my man like it's we're doing long

1452
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 1: distance in Houston. I'm in Atlanta, so I always have

1453
01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 1: to wait. So every time like ye'all be doing found six, Oh,

1454
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 1: we we are very terrible, and she's calling me horny, girl.

1455
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 1: She's horny. She'd be saying, you have pictures. She'd be like,

1456
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 1: is this cute? Yeah? But she be like young girl,

1457
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 1: cut she know my pussy ping, my booty.

1458
01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 5: Hoole bron.

1459
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:30,479
Speaker 1: Okay. So we're gonna move on.

1460
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:35,880
Speaker 2: Now, we're gonna get into the bob a a about

1461
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:37,599
Speaker 2: bow Bow Bow.

1462
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:40,280
Speaker 1: Okay. So the bop of the week is what we've

1463
01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:43,639
Speaker 1: been listening to this week music wise. So I always

1464
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 1: hope I say her name right. This is the second

1465
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:48,640
Speaker 1: time I've done her. MAIDA m A E t A.

1466
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 1: She has a song called through the Night. And when

1467
01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 1: I tell y'all, this girl can really sing, it's an

1468
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 1: R and B vibe. I'm gonna put I keep putting

1469
01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 1: the R and B playlist in the description, y'all, I

1470
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:02,040
Speaker 1: have the best army place. Oh, I'm gonna send it

1471
01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: to you girls. It is such a vio an R

1472
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:08,519
Speaker 1: and B girl because oh period, I mean, okay, so

1473
01:11:08,680 --> 01:11:11,000
Speaker 1: it's not it's it's one of them, like more of

1474
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 1: like we drinking wine and chilling. Okay, but you can't,

1475
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 1: I mean, we we be fucking to it anyway, because

1476
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:21,320
Speaker 1: by the time we get to the fourth song, it's like, alright, nigga.

1477
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, so it's such a good R and B song.

1478
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:26,680
Speaker 2: And I always say I hate when people say R

1479
01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:28,519
Speaker 2: and B is dead because it's so much good music

1480
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,280
Speaker 2: out there. Yeah, oh my god, my playlist, y'all, it

1481
01:11:31,360 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 2: has all the good R and B bobs.

1482
01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:36,880
Speaker 1: So yes, I hope I'm saying her name right. Madea

1483
01:11:37,439 --> 01:11:41,120
Speaker 1: through the night bop of the week. Super Fire is

1484
01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 1: such a vibe. So if you liked Coco Jones song

1485
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 1: I See You and kind of get those same vibes,

1486
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:49,920
Speaker 1: like that opinion. Okay, I didn't like this song you

1487
01:11:50,280 --> 01:11:59,479
Speaker 1: like I See You? Didn't? I love it was so shaky? Yeah, yeah,

1488
01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:02,519
Speaker 1: you fool. She's a sweetheart. I love her acted and

1489
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:04,640
Speaker 1: I'm eager to hear what else she put out. But

1490
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 1: every time I hear that song, I feel like cut it.

1491
01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what, I think. One thing about me

1492
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:11,840
Speaker 2: with songs, I always relate them to a moment. So

1493
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:13,719
Speaker 2: the first time me and my man took a shower together,

1494
01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:14,599
Speaker 2: that song was playing.

1495
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:19,280
Speaker 1: But I love it. It was like in the moment,

1496
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 1: I was like, yes, on your body. I know we

1497
01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 1: all could sing that. See y'all, that drink to what

1498
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: you putting that drink it for any though. Yeah, girl,

1499
01:12:41,240 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 1: So just like that booth right now recording. Okay, So

1500
01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 1: I need to put out my little playlist. I'll be

1501
01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:58,320
Speaker 1: lying to y'all. I've been lying to y'all for like

1502
01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:01,519
Speaker 1: three years. I know I need to drop a play least.

1503
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:03,639
Speaker 1: I got so many, but I never dropped the house.

1504
01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:06,639
Speaker 1: So I got a new afro beats play least, Harry,

1505
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:11,479
Speaker 1: I love afrotirl me too, and so you were the

1506
01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 1: afrobeats playlist and then send it to me. I'm sorry,

1507
01:13:13,880 --> 01:13:15,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sing, and that's the perfect case send it

1508
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:18,280
Speaker 1: to me especially Yeah, No, I.

1509
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 2: Mean I got an afrobeats playlist. I didn't know you

1510
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:21,479
Speaker 2: listen to it like yes.

1511
01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:26,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna s so yes. So I don't think we

1512
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 1: ever had this as our bob sitting on top of

1513
01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:37,040
Speaker 1: the world by By, I don't think. But it's crazy

1514
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:38,800
Speaker 1: because I've been listening to that song for weeks and

1515
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 1: I feel like we haven't never talked about it. It's

1516
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 1: not about one thing about burna boy. He's good at samples,

1517
01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:46,679
Speaker 1: He's still going to give a vibe.

1518
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:48,559
Speaker 2: I feel like he does a good job of still

1519
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:51,320
Speaker 2: making it true to afrobeats, But making it where like

1520
01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:54,680
Speaker 2: us here can relate so we can still vibe to it.

1521
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:56,720
Speaker 1: So I don't know, did y'all go to his counster here?

1522
01:13:56,760 --> 01:14:00,400
Speaker 1: And no, I wanted to because I begin the tickets.

1523
01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:06,160
Speaker 1: It was. That was the best concert besides Sizza all year?

1524
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:06,680
Speaker 5: Lest year?

1525
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 1: Did you go to the what was it the new concert?

1526
01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:12,000
Speaker 4: Like it was all?

1527
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:14,680
Speaker 1: But I kind of feel like it was it was

1528
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:19,200
Speaker 1: lit for like real. Yeah, I was ready to go home, Okay,

1529
01:14:19,360 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: but burn the boy I'm talking about sold out pat

1530
01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 1: An Africans, Nigerians. That's where I did. Yeah, we're not single,

1531
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:31,680
Speaker 1: but it was a good vibe. You know, we'll go

1532
01:14:31,880 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 1: next time. That was his only American tour day two. Yep,

1533
01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: that's what I mean. They only hit certain like real

1534
01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 1: like cities. A lot of the times, they'll do their

1535
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:44,599
Speaker 1: first tour and they'll do all of them, then they'll

1536
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 1: see where they can really hit, so them tours after that,

1537
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: they just hit the major cities that really sold out. Yeah,

1538
01:14:50,120 --> 01:14:52,240
Speaker 1: I had just I guess I just assumed people's gonna

1539
01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:54,240
Speaker 1: have a shower in Houston too, because you know Houston,

1540
01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 1: they always was there too. Yeah, that was his first time,

1541
01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 1: he said in Atlanta to but you know, we gotta

1542
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:06,240
Speaker 1: believe Nigerian African. We do. So that's where I'm in

1543
01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:10,640
Speaker 1: my big Papa topic. Okay, So what's your what you've

1544
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:14,520
Speaker 1: been listening? That was okay, that was your mom. Okay, Barnaboy,

1545
01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:17,760
Speaker 1: top of the world made up through the night. So

1546
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on. So now it's time to get

1547
01:15:21,360 --> 01:15:23,960
Speaker 1: into our well are you gonna do your I mean

1548
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 1: that we're gonna go to the That's what I was

1549
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:31,759
Speaker 1: about to go to. Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

1550
01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:36,120
Speaker 1: Why y'all wanted to item because we cause we got

1551
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:40,360
Speaker 1: it's hot now okay, let's want it up. Now it's

1552
01:15:40,400 --> 01:15:42,479
Speaker 1: time to get into our favorite segment of the show,

1553
01:15:42,520 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 1: which is pouring your heart out. So y'all know if

1554
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:47,680
Speaker 1: y'all have any questions or any testimonials, because sometimes we

1555
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 1: be fucking y'all life up too, you know, go ahead

1556
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 1: send them to ask poor minds at gmail dot com.

1557
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:55,680
Speaker 1: A s k p O. You are in my n

1558
01:15:55,760 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 1: B s at gmail dot com. Here you go leave. Okay,

1559
01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read question number one. Let me see what

1560
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 1: y'all got. I think, Oh my bad? Okay, go ahead,

1561
01:16:07,400 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 1: go ahead, okay, get Maybe should read number two? Why

1562
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:14,599
Speaker 1: too long? We always know we always lets against read

1563
01:16:14,680 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 1: number two? Leet Okay, well, okay, let her go first.

1564
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:20,719
Speaker 1: Let her go first. You can do number one. Okay,

1565
01:16:21,880 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 1: switching it up, all right? So question number one. Hey, ladies,

1566
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,120
Speaker 1: my birthday is coming up in a couple of months

1567
01:16:27,240 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 1: and I want to start planning it. I want to

1568
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:31,280
Speaker 1: go out of the country and sit on the beach

1569
01:16:31,400 --> 01:16:34,080
Speaker 1: and enjoy myself. I have been in a relationship for

1570
01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 1: two years, and he would not be able to go

1571
01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:39,680
Speaker 1: because he had school. He does not want me to

1572
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:41,519
Speaker 1: go on a girls trip because he said, I have

1573
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:43,840
Speaker 1: been on too many since we've been together, but it's

1574
01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:46,679
Speaker 1: only been three Should I listen to him and stay

1575
01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:49,479
Speaker 1: home and be miserable or go on the trip? He asked.

1576
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 1: He does not celebrate birthdays like that, so I doubt

1577
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:55,160
Speaker 1: I will enjoy it, girl trip if you're not gonna

1578
01:16:55,200 --> 01:16:55,960
Speaker 1: take me nowhere.

1579
01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, let me tell y'all something. Birthdays are a blessing.

1580
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 2: Everybody makes it to their neck. You are always supposed

1581
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,760
Speaker 2: to celebrate life. Okay, that is your one moment, so

1582
01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:09,559
Speaker 2: you can have a day for you every day. Three

1583
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:11,760
Speaker 2: hundred and sixty five days of the year, we're working

1584
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:13,840
Speaker 2: for somebody, we're doing things for other people.

1585
01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:17,360
Speaker 1: You're doing everything for others. You can have one day

1586
01:17:17,880 --> 01:17:20,759
Speaker 1: to celebrate yourself. So if he doesn't understand that, and honestly,

1587
01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:23,679
Speaker 1: that's a red flag for me, me me, don't celebrate

1588
01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:26,360
Speaker 1: birth birthday so you don't feel like I'm blessed to

1589
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 1: be here another year. You don't feel like you was

1590
01:17:28,320 --> 01:17:31,639
Speaker 1: blessed for me to be born today, but you're trying

1591
01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 1: to surprise her, So do some research. Ask him, Hey,

1592
01:17:37,040 --> 01:17:38,679
Speaker 1: since you don't want me to go on this trip,

1593
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:41,240
Speaker 1: do you have something planned for my birthday? And then

1594
01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:43,960
Speaker 1: test the water che I agree with that. And if

1595
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,519
Speaker 1: he say, nah, you know, fuck with birthdays like that,

1596
01:17:46,800 --> 01:17:51,360
Speaker 1: baby boy adoo, you like that and book your trip.

1597
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:53,759
Speaker 1: But if he kind of acts like he got some planned,

1598
01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 1: and I would say, see what he got planned? And

1599
01:17:56,360 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 1: if he don't do shit for you and you don't

1600
01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:00,880
Speaker 1: go on the trip, break up what they do, because

1601
01:18:00,920 --> 01:18:02,680
Speaker 1: obviously you care about your birthday and he does it,

1602
01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:05,599
Speaker 1: it's gonna get worse for sure, they get older. Okay, yeah,

1603
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:08,599
Speaker 1: don't do that. I agree. I feel like it's important

1604
01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:10,879
Speaker 1: today to man who feels like your birthday is important,

1605
01:18:11,479 --> 01:18:15,360
Speaker 1: Like that's definitely a deal breaker. Celebrate everything like it

1606
01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:18,520
Speaker 1: no matter what it is. Celebration. It could be a Tuesday,

1607
01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:21,360
Speaker 1: what's up? We woke up? It could be poor reach

1608
01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:25,439
Speaker 1: number whatever on the Apple podcast. Celebrate me, nigga. I'm

1609
01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 1: telling you I'll be. I'm a celebrating as I don't

1610
01:18:29,160 --> 01:18:34,679
Speaker 1: care if it's whatever. It rolls up this morning.

1611
01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:37,160
Speaker 5: You are that big Let's.

1612
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:42,760
Speaker 1: Celebrate cebo okay, celebratetion. You don't start. You calm down

1613
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:50,160
Speaker 1: over there. She ready to go. Keep y'all are funny

1614
01:18:52,120 --> 01:19:01,559
Speaker 1: number two men tonight in the morning. Ray love y'all

1615
01:19:01,640 --> 01:19:03,559
Speaker 1: the most. But I'm pregnant and I don't know if

1616
01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:05,040
Speaker 1: I want to keep it. I don't know if I

1617
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 1: want to keep this baby. I have a good man

1618
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:08,880
Speaker 1: and I know he's going to take care of my

1619
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:10,920
Speaker 1: child if I do keep it. But I feel like

1620
01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 1: i'm the one. I'm the one who's not ready it.

1621
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:15,840
Speaker 1: I already bought my flight to Houston in September, and

1622
01:19:15,920 --> 01:19:17,760
Speaker 1: this baby ain't about to miss my trip up. What

1623
01:19:17,880 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 1: should I do? I'm twenty six years young.

1624
01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 2: I feel like babies now. None of us have kids,

1625
01:19:25,680 --> 01:19:29,080
Speaker 2: not ye you're right. So we can't really.

1626
01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 1: Tell you what to do, but I feel like this,

1627
01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:34,519
Speaker 1: I hate to say this might be controversial when it

1628
01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 1: comes down to having a baby. If anything happens, it's

1629
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:40,360
Speaker 1: always on you. No, that's not controversy. My grandma taught

1630
01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:42,960
Speaker 1: me that it's always on the mom. So unless you

1631
01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:45,160
Speaker 1: have to think, and I don't like to put negative

1632
01:19:45,280 --> 01:19:47,320
Speaker 1: energy in the air, but you have to think sometimes

1633
01:19:47,360 --> 01:19:50,400
Speaker 1: are the worst case scenario possible? And think like it's

1634
01:19:50,439 --> 01:19:52,000
Speaker 1: all going to end up on you, Like if y'all

1635
01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 1: break up, it's going to end up on you. So

1636
01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:55,840
Speaker 1: you have to think, can I do this alone? Yeah?

1637
01:19:56,160 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 1: Can you do it alone? Will I be happy? Will

1638
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:00,679
Speaker 1: you be high? Ten years? There is down the line

1639
01:20:00,680 --> 01:20:02,400
Speaker 1: when I'm raising his child. If I have to raise

1640
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:04,719
Speaker 1: a child and by yourself, God, be happy that I chose.

1641
01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:06,680
Speaker 2: Him as my child, right right, Because you got to

1642
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:09,639
Speaker 2: think of him as a father and not a romantic partner.

1643
01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:12,040
Speaker 2: Because if y'all break up and he moves on and

1644
01:20:12,120 --> 01:20:14,240
Speaker 2: he's married to somebody else, do.

1645
01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:16,640
Speaker 1: You still respect him as a father figure. So you

1646
01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:18,400
Speaker 1: got to look at him as a father and not

1647
01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:21,960
Speaker 1: as a you know, somebody that you love and fuck.

1648
01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:23,760
Speaker 1: Would the government, talking about go where you gotta go,

1649
01:20:23,920 --> 01:20:25,439
Speaker 1: to do what you gotta do, if you gotta do it,

1650
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:31,200
Speaker 1: because sometimes the abortion is a blessing. Hellong, Okay, hello, hey, hey, hey,

1651
01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:34,760
Speaker 1: sometimes you don't. So don't fuck up your life in

1652
01:20:34,960 --> 01:20:37,400
Speaker 1: his because you you know what I'm saying. But just know,

1653
01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 1: like you said, do a lot of soul searching, you know,

1654
01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:43,479
Speaker 1: dig deep as yourself, pray on it. But if you

1655
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:46,600
Speaker 1: feel like you're not ready, then yeah, I mean you

1656
01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:49,400
Speaker 1: know yourself, you know your feelings. I feel like that's

1657
01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:52,160
Speaker 1: women's a lot of women. Number one problem. You be

1658
01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:55,600
Speaker 1: fighting your intuition. You know you not ready to have

1659
01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:58,439
Speaker 1: a baby, So why are you trying to convince yourselves

1660
01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 1: to have them? Let me tell you right now if

1661
01:21:02,360 --> 01:21:05,160
Speaker 1: it's something, if you're sure you would now talking about

1662
01:21:05,240 --> 01:21:12,559
Speaker 1: keeping him around, Babies don't keep niggas. Babies don't keep niggas.

1663
01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:14,080
Speaker 1: If that was the cats, who wouldn't have so many

1664
01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:16,599
Speaker 1: baby mamas and baby dad. I'm telling you stop having

1665
01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:19,120
Speaker 1: these children thinking that that's gonna make that man change,

1666
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:21,960
Speaker 1: because that's gonna make him worse. I've seen it time

1667
01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:24,560
Speaker 1: and you can kind of get a preview of it.

1668
01:21:24,680 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 1: If he already know you pregnant and you see how

1669
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:30,640
Speaker 1: he treating you. That's only gonna go away. There was

1670
01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:33,720
Speaker 1: a thread that was like, oh, show a thread of

1671
01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:37,160
Speaker 1: you pregnant and the daddy didn't want the baby, and

1672
01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:40,680
Speaker 1: it was so many Why are y'all having babies when

1673
01:21:40,720 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 1: the man don't want I mean maybe because you want

1674
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:43,960
Speaker 1: the baby whatever. You know, I'm not this and that,

1675
01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:48,040
Speaker 1: but to bring to bring a child in this world,

1676
01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 1: and now that's on the internet forever. So one day

1677
01:21:51,120 --> 01:21:53,400
Speaker 1: your child can see that his daddy didn't want him,

1678
01:21:53,880 --> 01:21:56,080
Speaker 1: then won't her He tell you this? If I say, Bay,

1679
01:21:56,120 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant and you say, what you gonna do? Yeah,

1680
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:02,519
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm going If I tell a

1681
01:22:02,600 --> 01:22:04,920
Speaker 1: man that I'm pregnant and he doesn't be like, oh

1682
01:22:05,040 --> 01:22:09,160
Speaker 1: my god, Yeah, I'm cool. I'm straight on it. I'm

1683
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:11,679
Speaker 1: cool on you. I need I need all the good reactions,

1684
01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:14,000
Speaker 1: because why I sign up for a group project knowing

1685
01:22:14,000 --> 01:22:16,639
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do all the work. Yeah, hello,

1686
01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 1: that's where I check out it. It's a checkout project.

1687
01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:22,639
Speaker 2: It's a group project, bitch, because we both gonna fail. Nigga,

1688
01:22:23,400 --> 01:22:27,000
Speaker 2: I see little Junior Finna be under eighty five the highway.

1689
01:22:27,160 --> 01:22:30,160
Speaker 1: Bitch, he ain't even gonna be sleeping ahead. Boy. Fuck,

1690
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk in here, nigga, what are you doing here?

1691
01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:36,160
Speaker 1: Where your daddy at? No, But my grandma always told

1692
01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 1: me the same thing. Yeah, you know, like at the

1693
01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 1: end of the day, it don't matter if you're married

1694
01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:41,599
Speaker 1: to that man. If y'all live in the same house,

1695
01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:43,840
Speaker 1: that falls on you that you are the mother of

1696
01:22:43,960 --> 01:22:49,240
Speaker 1: that job. And if you worry about a flight, it's

1697
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 1: sound like you're not ready for.

1698
01:22:50,720 --> 01:22:52,760
Speaker 2: The you're talking about going to Houston. Bach, she's trying

1699
01:22:52,760 --> 01:22:54,040
Speaker 2: to go to chap in the Curby girl.

1700
01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:57,840
Speaker 1: You trying to turn Send that baby up stairs with

1701
01:22:57,960 --> 01:23:02,040
Speaker 1: my then he'll be fine. He got some friends up there. Hey,

1702
01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:09,439
Speaker 1: look I know lex p Mama. Look I got to Houston, girl.

1703
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:16,679
Speaker 1: Houston be fun. We be tarting Sunday. Sunday be so different.

1704
01:23:16,840 --> 01:23:19,479
Speaker 1: You know, that's the that's the next level for Atlanta people.

1705
01:23:20,000 --> 01:23:22,400
Speaker 1: I have a funny story about cross. I got a team.

1706
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:28,960
Speaker 1: We'll care about what we haul. That Houston trip, Oh,

1707
01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:32,080
Speaker 1: it was everything was wild though that week? Was it

1708
01:23:32,160 --> 01:23:39,840
Speaker 1: a holiday? It was? We had had a fight. How

1709
01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:41,920
Speaker 1: about say just want to run up, but it was,

1710
01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:44,680
Speaker 1: it was. It was a wild week. Okay. Do we

1711
01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 1: have a voicemailt this week? Okay, so if y'all want

1712
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 1: to a voicemail on the show, make sure y'all call

1713
01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:53,760
Speaker 1: the number below. It's right here on the screen. Call

1714
01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:56,040
Speaker 1: the voicemail, and y'all, this is not for advice. It's

1715
01:23:56,120 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 1: just to get things off of your chest. Make sure

1716
01:23:58,320 --> 01:24:01,160
Speaker 1: y'all keep it short. Thirty second it's forty five seconds,

1717
01:24:01,200 --> 01:24:03,719
Speaker 1: y'all know, keep it real short. This is not for advice.

1718
01:24:04,280 --> 01:24:06,479
Speaker 1: Just get things off your chest, telling tell us what

1719
01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:09,120
Speaker 1: y'all love about the show, what y'all don't like, if

1720
01:24:09,160 --> 01:24:12,120
Speaker 1: we you know, steer y'all the wrong way, whatever, But yeah,

1721
01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:15,920
Speaker 1: call us, leave a voicemail what we got today.

1722
01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:19,200
Speaker 9: I just want to say that you guys just train

1723
01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:22,360
Speaker 9: so far, and I love y'all so much. This show

1724
01:24:23,000 --> 01:24:25,800
Speaker 9: is definitely a pick me up for me throughout the week.

1725
01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 4: And it also motivates me, like I'm an this job

1726
01:24:30,280 --> 01:24:34,040
Speaker 4: and I'm so fucking tired of it, and I look

1727
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:35,639
Speaker 4: it down and I was just like, oh my god,

1728
01:24:35,760 --> 01:24:39,280
Speaker 4: I gotta come on, weedie because y'all motivate me so much.

1729
01:24:40,200 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 4: And then advice did you give us? That both of

1730
01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:45,360
Speaker 4: y'all give us is like so encouraging, Like.

1731
01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:49,439
Speaker 9: I don't know, I too love the show and I

1732
01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:53,200
Speaker 9: can't wait to come see y'all in December. I can't

1733
01:24:53,200 --> 01:24:56,000
Speaker 9: wait to get my tea kids, because I'm definitely gonna

1734
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:58,200
Speaker 9: be front rowing center by.

1735
01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:07,479
Speaker 1: Period. That's as from Houston too. Yeah, I'm gonna like

1736
01:25:07,600 --> 01:25:10,200
Speaker 1: the Houston show. So yes, y'all know we're on tour

1737
01:25:10,280 --> 01:25:12,160
Speaker 1: right now. So make sure y'all go to poor Mindes

1738
01:25:12,200 --> 01:25:14,760
Speaker 1: dot com and get your tickets. We have so many

1739
01:25:14,840 --> 01:25:18,920
Speaker 1: shows coming up. We got merch Music Beauty Collection dot com.

1740
01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:21,439
Speaker 1: Make sure y'all get y'all, you know, get your lips together,

1741
01:25:21,560 --> 01:25:24,880
Speaker 1: get your lips hoppy. Okay, some new T shirts to

1742
01:25:25,479 --> 01:25:28,360
Speaker 1: drans T shirts, shirts with y'all on that looking sex.

1743
01:25:30,320 --> 01:25:32,759
Speaker 1: You know what you start doing, like you know, stuff

1744
01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:39,240
Speaker 1: away in time with the d that's all we got

1745
01:25:39,360 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 1: back steps.

1746
01:25:42,760 --> 01:25:42,960
Speaker 9: Home.

1747
01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:47,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna set you a care package, okay, So Bri,

1748
01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:49,599
Speaker 1: let everybody know where they can find you at. Everything

1749
01:25:49,680 --> 01:25:52,439
Speaker 1: that you got going on coming up, all that good stuff, yes,

1750
01:25:52,880 --> 01:25:56,080
Speaker 1: besides being missus Miller look okay, No, I thank y'all

1751
01:25:56,120 --> 01:25:57,720
Speaker 1: so much for having me on. I had so much

1752
01:25:57,880 --> 01:26:01,560
Speaker 1: this was to run this back again, back episodes. But

1753
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:04,280
Speaker 1: if you don't know you on the rock, like she said,

1754
01:26:04,400 --> 01:26:07,000
Speaker 1: follow me on Instagram at Breeze the name and it's

1755
01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:09,160
Speaker 1: b R I S t H E and A and me.

1756
01:26:10,160 --> 01:26:12,800
Speaker 1: My YouTube is bre renamed Breed with two Eyes. You

1757
01:26:12,880 --> 01:26:15,840
Speaker 1: can follow Mammy and me. That's my podcast on there

1758
01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:18,960
Speaker 1: as well, and I'm gonna revoked black Girl stuff, so

1759
01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:21,040
Speaker 1: down off the app. You can watch all the first

1760
01:26:21,120 --> 01:26:25,759
Speaker 1: and second season episodes on there as well. So period,

1761
01:26:26,280 --> 01:26:28,240
Speaker 1: Why am I to start making colors through TikTok, so

1762
01:26:28,360 --> 01:26:31,599
Speaker 1: follow me on tik Tok. Yeah, I'm starting my TikTok

1763
01:26:31,680 --> 01:26:36,679
Speaker 1: journey this weekend. So I'm really doing it this weekend

1764
01:26:36,720 --> 01:26:39,360
Speaker 1: because we're doing Colasta Rica this weekend. Then me and

1765
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:42,680
Speaker 1: Dre are going to Abiza with Auntie and Madrid. We

1766
01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:45,920
Speaker 1: we're going to Abviza and Madrid and Audusty. So yeah,

1767
01:26:46,040 --> 01:26:48,360
Speaker 1: we're We're I'm starting my TikTok journey and I'm very

1768
01:26:48,400 --> 01:26:52,160
Speaker 1: serious because you know, throw a little tack up once

1769
01:26:52,160 --> 01:26:54,080
Speaker 1: a week because you never know what's gonna go viral.

1770
01:26:55,360 --> 01:27:00,160
Speaker 1: Craziests going viral. Yeah, so I'm Bree like, I'm so

1771
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:04,920
Speaker 1: this was a real girl talk. I know we gotta

1772
01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:07,759
Speaker 1: do like an extended Abison at one into or something.

1773
01:27:08,080 --> 01:27:10,680
Speaker 1: So thank you so much for coming through. We know,

1774
01:27:11,280 --> 01:27:12,720
Speaker 1: we know we're gonna see you at the Poor Mine

1775
01:27:12,760 --> 01:27:14,240
Speaker 1: show for sure. I was just about to say, I

1776
01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:15,880
Speaker 1: want to pop out at one of the city period

1777
01:27:15,960 --> 01:27:20,120
Speaker 1: pop out. We have a special game. It's only right special.

1778
01:27:20,960 --> 01:27:25,679
Speaker 1: I'm a special game. Somebody pop up, all right, y'all.

1779
01:27:25,800 --> 01:27:28,160
Speaker 1: So we love y'all and we'll see y'all next week,

1780
01:27:28,479 --> 01:27:29,439
Speaker 1: by y'all, bab.

1781
01:28:00,080 --> 01:28:00,679
Speaker 6: You never.

1782
01:28:45,880 --> 01:28:48,479
Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Is your girl lex Pee and it's

1783
01:28:48,560 --> 01:28:52,680
Speaker 1: your girl's raining a call and Miami were coming to

1784
01:28:53,080 --> 01:28:53,800
Speaker 1: turn up.

1785
01:28:53,920 --> 01:28:54,639
Speaker 8: I'm excited.

1786
01:28:55,040 --> 01:28:57,679
Speaker 1: I'm excited at tool. We've been long over due before

1787
01:28:57,680 --> 01:29:00,639
Speaker 1: a Miami show, and I can't wait to see y'all.

1788
01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:03,559
Speaker 1: It's the perfect way to kind of I guess end

1789
01:29:03,600 --> 01:29:05,920
Speaker 1: the summer because it summer will almost be over and

1790
01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:09,719
Speaker 1: it's like August thirteenth. Yeah, we're gonna be in Miami,

1791
01:29:09,840 --> 01:29:14,599
Speaker 1: Miami and prov shows. Doors open at Sibbing show starts today. Yes,

1792
01:29:14,640 --> 01:29:16,240
Speaker 1: and I'm telling y'all, look, this is right before my

1793
01:29:16,280 --> 01:29:18,960
Speaker 1: birthday too, so y'all know, I'm finna be living turning Net.

1794
01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:22,720
Speaker 1: I'm fin I'm finna put it on for Miami. I'm

1795
01:29:22,760 --> 01:29:27,840
Speaker 1: telling y'all listen. August thirteenth. Doors open at seven, show

1796
01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:31,040
Speaker 1: starts at eight, Miami and prov y'all please do not

1797
01:29:31,160 --> 01:29:33,640
Speaker 1: miss this show. Y'all know we're gonna have people popping up,

1798
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:36,360
Speaker 1: rolling up on us, Miami. It's gonna be fun. Welcome

1799
01:29:36,479 --> 01:29:41,080
Speaker 1: to Miami, Marie So I'm Miami. Yes, you know, let's

1800
01:29:41,080 --> 01:29:42,880
Speaker 1: see y'all. What the all people need to stay? Be

1801
01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:45,559
Speaker 1: there or be what it.

1802
01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:49,559
Speaker 9: All right?

1803
01:29:50,680 --> 01:29:54,720
Speaker 1: Hey, what's up? Virginia July twenty second. I will be

1804
01:29:54,880 --> 01:29:56,240
Speaker 1: in Tyson's corner.

1805
01:29:57,080 --> 01:29:57,680
Speaker 5: Talk to me.

1806
01:29:58,479 --> 01:29:59,920
Speaker 1: What you got going on on the two?

1807
01:30:00,080 --> 01:30:00,519
Speaker 4: In the second?

1808
01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:01,280
Speaker 5: Pull up on me.

1809
01:30:01,800 --> 01:30:06,120
Speaker 1: What's the stand of the print Capitol one Hall. That's

1810
01:30:06,160 --> 01:30:09,360
Speaker 1: what we're gonna be making sure you grab those tickets

1811
01:30:09,680 --> 01:30:10,600
Speaker 1: and pull up on me.

1812
01:30:10,640 --> 01:30:12,760
Speaker 8: I've been trying to see I know what you said

1813
01:30:12,840 --> 01:30:15,719
Speaker 8: about come over there, though, I'm working on something bigger

1814
01:30:15,800 --> 01:30:16,120
Speaker 8: than us.

1815
01:30:16,400 --> 01:30:18,360
Speaker 1: If you didn't go to church today, don't worry. We

1816
01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:18,760
Speaker 1: got you.

1817
01:30:18,840 --> 01:30:22,840
Speaker 8: It's the blessings that's gonna come through here too. Church

1818
01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:25,360
Speaker 8: ain't number three or more people, anybody ever being know

1819
01:30:25,479 --> 01:30:28,519
Speaker 8: that don't block your blessing in here.

1820
01:30:28,600 --> 01:30:30,080
Speaker 1: It might not be there. It might not be your

1821
01:30:30,160 --> 01:30:30,719
Speaker 1: church blessing.

1822
01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:32,240
Speaker 5: It might be like your hood blessing.

1823
01:30:33,720 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 8: Any he done called the hood blessing before, Like when

1824
01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:39,840
Speaker 8: you're driving home and you see the police behind you

1825
01:30:39,960 --> 01:30:42,120
Speaker 8: for a little bit, then they hit the light and

1826
01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:46,240
Speaker 8: just scooter home. Besides, yeah, yeah, that's a good blessing

1827
01:30:46,360 --> 01:30:49,200
Speaker 8: right there, because at the end of the day, I'm

1828
01:30:49,240 --> 01:30:52,040
Speaker 8: on tour that needs you to be there so I

1829
01:30:52,080 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 8: can tell some jokes to you.

1830
01:30:53,479 --> 01:31:06,280
Speaker 1: I seen you wh ain't come see me? What's up? Y'all?

1831
01:31:06,360 --> 01:31:09,160
Speaker 1: Is your girl XP and it's your girl Drea and

1832
01:31:09,240 --> 01:31:11,040
Speaker 1: the call and we just wanted to come and talk

1833
01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:12,800
Speaker 1: to y'all and let y'all know that we do have

1834
01:31:13,320 --> 01:31:17,560
Speaker 1: sponsor packages available for this tour coming up. Yes, for

1835
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:22,640
Speaker 1: Richard for four two. We do have sponsorship packages available.

1836
01:31:22,800 --> 01:31:24,840
Speaker 1: If you would like to be a sponsor for the

1837
01:31:24,960 --> 01:31:27,360
Speaker 1: live tour, all you need to do is hit us

1838
01:31:27,439 --> 01:31:30,800
Speaker 1: up at Drea and Lyck Show at gmail dot com.

1839
01:31:30,920 --> 01:31:33,720
Speaker 1: That's c R E A A N D L e

1840
01:31:34,120 --> 01:31:38,560
Speaker 1: X S h O W at gmail dot com and

1841
01:31:38,680 --> 01:31:40,960
Speaker 1: all of the details will be provided to you. Yes,

1842
01:31:41,040 --> 01:31:42,240
Speaker 1: if you want to be a sponsor, if you have

1843
01:31:42,320 --> 01:31:44,599
Speaker 1: a small business, if you have a big business, whatever

1844
01:31:44,680 --> 01:31:47,360
Speaker 1: type of business you got, we all about business. Go

1845
01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:49,920
Speaker 1: on ahead and hit us up and we're gonna send

1846
01:31:49,960 --> 01:31:51,840
Speaker 1: you all of the details so that you can get

1847
01:31:51,840 --> 01:31:55,679
Speaker 1: your business sponsored with us. For Richard, for Port too. Yes,

1848
01:31:55,760 --> 01:31:59,000
Speaker 1: and like she said, we have different packages available for purchase,

1849
01:31:59,320 --> 01:32:02,400
Speaker 1: so make sure you email us Drea Alex Show at

1850
01:32:02,479 --> 01:32:05,280
Speaker 1: gmail dot com and we'll see y'all on the roads period.

1851
01:32:06,400 --> 01:32:11,960
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's breathe Renee and A andes y'all

1852
01:32:12,000 --> 01:32:16,960
Speaker 1: want to welcome y'all to eighty five ways. She gets it,

1853
01:32:17,080 --> 01:32:17,960
Speaker 1: eighty five ways.

1854
01:32:21,760 --> 01:32:23,400
Speaker 5: I'm wake all right, we're.

1855
01:32:23,320 --> 01:32:28,600
Speaker 1: Ready to be ready. Let's go already. Since we in

1856
01:32:28,680 --> 01:32:32,160
Speaker 1: a we gotta do it like this yo, once again.

1857
01:32:32,200 --> 01:32:38,960
Speaker 1: It's on y'all, yo know we had to do it again.

1858
01:32:39,040 --> 01:32:49,839
Speaker 1: We had to do it again. Boy boy, yo, baby,

1859
01:32:50,640 --> 01:32:53,360
Speaker 1: how you're doing? And I know that your final want

1860
01:32:53,400 --> 01:32:56,200
Speaker 1: to know what you got in mind? And I got

1861
01:32:57,080 --> 01:32:59,920
Speaker 1: to see girl. I can't leave you alone. Take us home,

1862
01:33:00,040 --> 01:33:03,880
Speaker 1: let's said patron. It's gonna beyond b ip. I got

1863
01:33:04,080 --> 01:33:08,040
Speaker 1: way too crowded. I'm about to end up calling it

1864
01:33:08,200 --> 01:33:11,560
Speaker 1: to night. She should how let the girl tell you

1865
01:33:11,720 --> 01:33:15,479
Speaker 1: shake in the sink, pulled off BP shotgun the GT

1866
01:33:15,720 --> 01:33:23,519
Speaker 1: with me. She said, Ready a ride? Yeah, because you

1867
01:33:23,680 --> 01:33:26,760
Speaker 1: getting inside you can't change on my don't mean it's

1868
01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 1: sounding patient, but you got a promise. Baby. Oh Yugain,

1869
01:33:33,240 --> 01:33:35,400
Speaker 1: tell me again, my baby.

1870
01:33:36,120 --> 01:33:44,760
Speaker 7: My baby love us and friends. Oh oh yeah, tell

1871
01:33:44,920 --> 01:33:45,960
Speaker 7: me ugain.

1872
01:33:47,320 --> 01:33:48,840
Speaker 5: Man shot your ride?

1873
01:33:49,240 --> 01:33:55,320
Speaker 1: Oh man, well meus and friends. It was a good

1874
01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:56,080
Speaker 1: little baby.

1875
01:33:57,120 --> 01:33:57,320
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1876
01:33:58,160 --> 01:34:00,320
Speaker 1: You know I want to be your lover, don't time.

1877
01:34:00,320 --> 01:34:02,240
Speaker 1: I want to be your friends sometime. I want to

1878
01:34:02,280 --> 01:34:05,439
Speaker 1: hug you. Yods about the records fens, open up your

1879
01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:08,200
Speaker 1: heart because you said I made you feel so comfortable.

1880
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:10,280
Speaker 1: Used to play back then now you are growing up

1881
01:34:10,360 --> 01:34:13,280
Speaker 1: like Rudie hugs. So I conna be your bud. You

1882
01:34:13,360 --> 01:34:15,439
Speaker 1: gonna be me up. We're gonna play fighting or not?

1883
01:34:15,560 --> 01:34:18,639
Speaker 1: We from make up, I do anything, just upill your buck.

1884
01:34:19,200 --> 01:34:21,000
Speaker 1: You got its all messed up. I don't know, but

1885
01:34:21,080 --> 01:34:23,720
Speaker 1: you gotta talk trick what be a good girl?

1886
01:34:23,840 --> 01:34:23,920
Speaker 4: Now?

1887
01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:25,840
Speaker 1: Turn around there, get this wifie.

1888
01:34:26,680 --> 01:34:28,160
Speaker 5: You know you like it like that.

1889
01:34:28,479 --> 01:34:31,439
Speaker 1: You don't have to fight that. Here's a pillow pipe.

1890
01:34:32,040 --> 01:34:37,080
Speaker 1: They even it's separate way on all these separate days.

1891
01:34:37,560 --> 01:34:43,840
Speaker 1: Go there, separate wave me, Huggin, Come on, tell me

1892
01:34:44,240 --> 01:34:50,200
Speaker 1: get my baby. He love us san free, Oh gonna

1893
01:34:50,240 --> 01:34:57,000
Speaker 1: little baby. Yeah, tell me Huggin. Tell me over and

1894
01:34:57,240 --> 01:35:01,479
Speaker 1: over and over again. We'll be love us and free.

1895
01:35:03,280 --> 01:35:04,000
Speaker 5: Show you right.

1896
01:35:04,560 --> 01:35:09,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I've been known you for a long time. Shout

1897
01:35:09,320 --> 01:35:11,679
Speaker 1: a boy. Fuck, she never crossed my mind.

1898
01:35:12,160 --> 01:35:15,920
Speaker 11: Shout at, but tonight I think take me you. Shout

1899
01:35:16,040 --> 01:35:19,120
Speaker 11: at that make me want to give with you. I shout,

1900
01:35:19,160 --> 01:35:22,559
Speaker 11: you ain't been nothing but a friend of me. Shout

1901
01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:26,280
Speaker 11: that nigga never ever dream we be. I shout up

1902
01:35:26,320 --> 01:35:29,720
Speaker 11: in here kissing, hugg and squeeze and such. Shout up

1903
01:35:29,840 --> 01:35:33,840
Speaker 11: in the bell to Robert Dubin. Shot you say you

1904
01:35:34,040 --> 01:35:37,599
Speaker 11: want to go to thrive. Shout that nigga know before

1905
01:35:37,680 --> 01:35:40,960
Speaker 11: I pull it out, I shout, I would never ever

1906
01:35:41,160 --> 01:35:42,000
Speaker 11: cross the line.

1907
01:35:42,200 --> 01:35:44,599
Speaker 1: I shout at. Let me hit you with it one

1908
01:35:44,680 --> 01:35:46,599
Speaker 1: more time, one more time.

1909
01:35:47,640 --> 01:35:58,080
Speaker 6: Oh whoy, y'all weren't ready for that?

1910
01:35:59,200 --> 01:36:03,280
Speaker 1: Look bazy guys. You see how I don't like kill it.

1911
01:36:03,680 --> 01:36:07,120
Speaker 1: And if I forgot to Podio, we've begarna boat, we've

1912
01:36:07,120 --> 01:36:09,600
Speaker 1: been goat, we got We're not

1913
01:36:13,280 --> 01:36:13,479
Speaker 6: Love,