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Speaker 1: Hi, this is Joeln Victoria. Thanks so much for listening

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Speaker 1: to the podcast and thanks.

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Speaker 2: For supporting the ministry.

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Speaker 1: We believe you're going to have an awesome twenty twenty four, healthy, productive,

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Speaker 2: God bless you today and enjoy the message.

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Speaker 1: Will God bless you always a joy to come into

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Speaker 1: your homes. We love you and we're believing for God's very,

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Speaker 1: very best in your life. You're ever in our area,

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Speaker 1: come out and be a part of one of our

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Speaker 2: I promise you will make you feel right at home.

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Speaker 2: But thanks again for tuning in.

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Speaker 1: I like to start with something funny each week, and

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Speaker 1: I heard about this man. He was the only Protestant

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Speaker 1: in a large Catholic neighborhood, and every Friday during Lyn,

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Speaker 1: while all of his neighbors were eating cold fish, he

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Speaker 1: would be in his backyard grilling a steak. They just

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Speaker 1: couldn't stand the temptation, and they decided to try to

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Speaker 1: convert him to Catholicism. He finally agreed. The pre sprinkled

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Speaker 1: water over him and said, you were born a Baptist,

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Speaker 1: you were raised a Baptist, but now you're a Catholic.

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Speaker 1: The next year, on the first Friday of Lent, the

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Speaker 1: neighbors smell the same smell in the air.

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Speaker 2: They rushed to his house.

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Speaker 1: He was in the backyard sprinkling water over his steak, saying,

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Speaker 1: you were born a cow, you were raised a cow,

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Speaker 1: but now you're a fish.

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Speaker 2: All right. Hold up your Bible. Say it like you

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Speaker 2: mean it.

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Speaker 1: This is my Bible. I am what it says I am.

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Speaker 1: I have what it says I have. I can do

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Speaker 1: what it says I can do. Today I will be

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Speaker 1: taught the word of God. I boldly confess. My mind

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Speaker 1: is alert, my heart is receptive. I will never be

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Speaker 1: the same. In Jesus' name, God bless you. I want

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Speaker 1: to talk to you today about how valuable you are.

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Speaker 1: One of the greatest needs we all have is to

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Speaker 2: Deep down, we need to know that we're.

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Speaker 1: Important, that our life matters, and that we have something

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Speaker 1: great to offer. But so often we base our self

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Speaker 1: worth on our books, on what we've achieved and what

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Speaker 1: we own, and how perfect of a life we've lived.

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Speaker 1: The problem with this is those things can change. If

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Speaker 1: you're basing your self worth on your looks, your accomplishments,

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Speaker 1: your popularity, then if that goes down, your self worth

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Speaker 2: If you base your sense.

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Speaker 1: they make you feel, then if they hurt you, if

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Speaker 1: they disappoint you, very likely you'll turn it on yourself

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Speaker 1: and think there must be something wrong with me. He

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have left me if I was pretty enough, They

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Speaker 1: just more talented. Now, the problem is you're getting your

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Speaker 2: From the wrong places.

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Speaker 1: We should not receive our value from how somebody else

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Speaker 1: Our value should come solely from the fact that we

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Speaker 1: are children of the Most High God, and the value

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Speaker 1: God put in you is permanent. Nothing you can do

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Speaker 1: And I've seen how the enemy works over time in

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Speaker 1: this area. He would love for us to go through

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Speaker 1: If we're not careful, we'll go around blaming ourself, internalizing

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Speaker 1: were mistreated when they were growing up, and somehow they

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Speaker 1: saying it's because you're not good enough, that's why they

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Speaker 1: That recording is constantly playing in the back of their minds. Failure, loser,

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Speaker 2: You're not at fault. They had the problem, not you.

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Speaker 1: Psychologists tell us that our self worth comes from what

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Speaker 1: about us. For children, most likely that would be their parents.

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Speaker 1: over time, we're going to feel less and less valuable

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Speaker 2: But the key to really understanding and maintaining.

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Speaker 2: When you make mistakes, people.

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Speaker 1: Will try to make you feel guilty or like you're

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Speaker 2: Get up and go again. Your future is brighter than

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Speaker 1: People will tell you or sometimes make you feel like

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Speaker 2: But God says.

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Speaker 1: You're amazing, you're beautiful, you're one of a kind. People

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Speaker 1: you'll go through life feeling inferior, feeling insecure, with.

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Speaker 1: But if you will learn to receive your value from

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Speaker 1: then you'll go around feeling accepted, approved, redeemed, forgiven, confident

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Speaker 1: And that's exactly the way God wants you to be,

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Speaker 1: says in Ephesians two ten. You are God's masterpiece. Do

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Speaker 1: And of all the things God created, what he is

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Speaker 1: not the magnificence sosets, not even the amazing animals. The

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Speaker 1: his most prized possession. He created you in his very

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Speaker 1: and he looks right at you and says, there's my masterpiece.

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Speaker 1: One thing that creates value is who the owner is.

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Speaker 1: I have a baseball bat at home that I purchased

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Speaker 1: for thirty dollars at the sporting goods store. But I

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Speaker 1: read where one of Babe Ruth's old baseball bats sold

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Speaker 1: They were both wood bats, both thirty four inches long.

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Speaker 2: The difference is who the owner is.

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Speaker 1: I have a handkerchief that I paid less than five

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Speaker 2: What was the difference.

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Speaker 1: Was his covered with jewels and rubies and diamonds. No,

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Speaker 1: his was covered with his sweat. The difference was who sweat.

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Speaker 1: It is throughout life we need to constantly remind ourselves.

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Speaker 1: not because of who.

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Speaker 2: I know or don't know. I am valuable because of

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Speaker 1: And it is not my parents, it is not my spouse,

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Speaker 1: it's not my boss, not even the government. No. The

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Speaker 1: creator of the universe breathes his life into each one

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Speaker 1: of us. He fashioned us, he formed us, He gave

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Speaker 1: us our personality. He intricately made everything about us. We

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Speaker 1: It talked about how these researchers calculated how much money

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Speaker 1: the human body was worth.

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Speaker 1: and cells, tissues, everything contained in the body, and their

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Speaker 1: conclusion was the average sized person is worth approximately six

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Speaker 1: million dollars. You've heard of the six million dollar man. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at six million dollar people today. Some of

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Speaker 1: You need to put your shoulders back, hold your head

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Speaker 1: you didn't just win the lottery, but your heavenly father

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Speaker 1: And the good news is you didn't even have to

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Speaker 2: Friends, you are extreme valuable. Think of it.

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Speaker 1: That's just an average sized person. Some of you are

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Speaker 1: at it. You're not overweight, You're just more valuable. Years ago,

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Speaker 1: a good friend of ours, Jesse Barfield, signed a contract

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Speaker 1: very nice, and Daddy said, Jesse, you look like a

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Speaker 1: million dollars today. He said, excuse me, pastor how about two.

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Speaker 1: Somebody says to you, you look like a million dollars,

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Speaker 1: Just say, like, Jesse, excuse me, how about six.

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Speaker 2: I want you to understand your sense of value.

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Speaker 1: I've discovered one of the greatest enemies of value is rejection.

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Speaker 1: It's hard on our self esteem to not be wanted.

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Speaker 1: It's very painful to be told you're not good enough,

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Speaker 1: you're not tall enough, talented enough, you're not attractive enough.

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Speaker 2: We just don't need you here. I remember growing up.

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Speaker 1: and I was very good. I was a second baseman,

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Speaker 1: and I always made the All Star team. Like any

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Speaker 1: little league player, I dreamed of playing second base in

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Speaker 1: It was a whole new level of talent. I came

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Speaker 1: from a very large high school. There were eight hundred

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Speaker 2: He began to call out the names one by one.

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Speaker 2: I didn't hear my name, but I was sure I

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Speaker 2: Each of these.

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Speaker 1: Trees had a dream to be used for something great

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Speaker 1: in life. The olive tree dreamed of becoming a finely

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Speaker 1: and precious jewels. One day, a woodsman came out of

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Speaker 1: all the other trees in the forest, it cut down

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Speaker 1: this olive tree. He was so excited, but over time

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Speaker 1: he realized they weren't making him into a beautiful treasure chest.

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Speaker 1: They were making him into a manger to hold dirty,

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Speaker 1: smelly animals. He was so disappointed he felt worthless. The

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Speaker 1: oak tree had a dream of being used for a

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Speaker 1: woodsman came cut him down, but over time he realized

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Speaker 1: they weren't making him into a huge ship. They were

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Speaker 1: making him into a small, seemingly insignificant fishing boat.

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Speaker 2: He too, it felt worthless.

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Speaker 1: The third tree was a pine tree. It lived on

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Speaker 1: the top of a huge mountain. Its dream was to

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Speaker 1: always stand tall and remind people of God's glory. But

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Speaker 1: in a split second, a bolt of lightning shattered its

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Speaker 1: dream and it came tumbling down. The woodsman came and

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Speaker 1: carried it off.

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Speaker 2: To an old pile of wood.

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Speaker 1: All three of these trees felt worthless, rejected. None of

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Speaker 1: their dreams had come to pass, But God had other plans.

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Speaker 1: Many years later, Mary and Joseph couldn't find any place

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Speaker 1: to give birth to their little baby, so they went

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Speaker 1: to a stable, and Jesus was born.

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Speaker 2: They placed him in a manger. It was the olive tree.

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Speaker 1: It wanted to hold precious jewels, but it ended up

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Speaker 1: holding the greatest treasure of all time.

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Speaker 2: Jesus grew up.

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Speaker 1: One day he needed a boat to cross to the

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Speaker 1: other side of the lake. He didn't choose a huge,

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Speaker 1: faith fancy ship. He chose a small fishing boat. It

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Speaker 1: was the oak tree. It wanted to carry kings across

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Speaker 1: the ocean, but God had other plans. It ended up

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Speaker 1: carrying the King of Kings. Few years later, the Roman

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Speaker 1: soldiers went over to that pile of scrap wood where

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Speaker 1: the pine tree lay.

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Speaker 2: They picked up the pine tree.

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Speaker 1: He thought for sure they were going to cut him

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Speaker 1: up into firewood, but instead they cut it into two

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Speaker 1: distinct pieces and formed a cross. Jesus was crucified on

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Speaker 1: that pine tree, and still even today, that once discarded

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Speaker 1: pine tree is pointing people to God's love and mercy.

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Speaker 2: And friends, your dreams may.

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Speaker 1: Not have turned out exactly like you'd hope, but keep

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Speaker 1: your head held high. You never lose your value. You

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Speaker 1: don't know what God's up to. He still has a

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Speaker 1: great plan for your life. He can take what was

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Speaker 1: meant for your harm and use it to your advantage.

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Speaker 1: I'm asking you today to not go around feeling washed up,

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Speaker 1: feeling like you don't have any value. No, your best

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Speaker 1: days are still out in front of you.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: Other people may overlook you, they may leave you out

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Speaker 1: but remember, the one who matters.

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Speaker 2: Most chooses you. Let him, your heavenly.

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Speaker 1: Father, be the most important person in your life. This day,

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Speaker 1: he has rolled away the reproach. If you will start

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Speaker 1: seeing yourself as the masterpiece he created you to be,

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Speaker 1: shaking off the blame, the shame, the disgrace. God said,

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Speaker 1: he'll take you into your promised land. You'll see his

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Speaker 1: blessings in favor. And I believe and declare you will

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Speaker 1: live that life of victory that he has in story.

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Speaker 2: Amen, do you receive it today? We never like the.

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Speaker 1: Clothe our broadcast without giving you an opportunity to make

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Speaker 1: Jesus the lord of your life.

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Speaker 2: Would you pray with me? Just say, Lord, Jesus, I

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Speaker 2: repent of my sins.

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Speaker 1: Come into my heart. I make you my Lord and savior. Friends,

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Speaker 1: if you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got

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Speaker 1: born again. Get in a good Bible based church, Keep

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Speaker 1: God first place.

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Speaker 2: He's going to take your places that you've never dreamed of.

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Speaker 3: Three minutes Can such a small amount of time make

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Speaker 3: a big difference to your day? To turn worry into confidence,

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Speaker 3: frustration to hope, defeat to victory. Maybe you just need

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Speaker 3: a boost of faith.

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Speaker 1: When we put God first place and get our thinking

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Speaker 1: in line with his, even a small seed of time.

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Speaker 2: Can make a huge difference.

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Speaker 1: We have a new resource called three Minute Mornings. Start

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Speaker 1: your day the blessed way. My challenge is, when you

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Speaker 1: wake up, before you leave the house, take three minutes

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Speaker 1: to speak blessings over your life and to declare God's favor.

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Speaker 1: Get your mind going in the right direction. When you

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Speaker 1: do that, you're setting yourself up for a blessed, victorious day.

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Speaker 3: As our way of saying thank you for your gift

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Speaker 3: of any size to the ministry, this month, Joel and

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Speaker 3: Victoria would like to say you this just released life

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Speaker 3: giving new daily devotional. Before your feet hit the ground

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Speaker 3: or go out the door, have your heard experience a

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Speaker 1: Victoria, I pray for you and your family every day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for your prayer and support. You're

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Speaker 1: making a difference all over the world. Remember you can

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Speaker 1: watch the services online every Sunday morning, download our daily podcast.

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Speaker 2: Listen on Sirius XM. But until we meet again, mid

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Speaker 2: the Lord bless you and keep you.

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