WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dine and Ghost 

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. If we're being completely honest, I think everyone

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<v Speaker 1>here has ghosted someone at least once. Oh yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to have that conversation that you're not super

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<v Speaker 1>into somebody. Yeah, and sometimes you're not invested enough to

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<v Speaker 1>even bother with it. But I don't know. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>ask you this. Have you ever unintentionally ghosted someone mid date? What? Oh? No? Oh? No? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's intentional? Do you have? You have Alzheimer's, You

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<v Speaker 1>forget where you are and you well, let me explain.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners wrote in. He said he unintentionally

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<v Speaker 1>left his date hanging for about fifteen minutes, and when

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<v Speaker 1>he got back he had to deal with the consequences.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's talk to him about it. Joseph, Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show. Hi, guys, thanks for having it. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes doesn't sound that bad. I guess it was

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<v Speaker 1>more like maybe twice men. Okay, Well, why don't we

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<v Speaker 1>start at the beginning. Why don't you tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the girl? What's her name? Okay? Her name is Tyra? Tyra? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And how did you meet met her on a dating app? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I don't really know what it is

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't match with a lot of people on

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<v Speaker 1>these dating apps. Okay, but I matched with Tyra, So

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<v Speaker 1>I was really excited about that. That's awesome, cool, that's

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<v Speaker 1>great news. Man. So was there anything special that stood

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<v Speaker 1>out about Tyra or just that she responded and that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't even have a profile pick man, just one

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<v Speaker 1>of those like gray silhouettes she responding. I was really

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<v Speaker 1>surprised and I got a message. Okay, okay, okay, that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>You can get you say you were obviously really excited

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<v Speaker 1>about this date. Yeah, very much as calling you back totally.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you guys end up doing? Well? We

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<v Speaker 1>we went out for dinner and drinks, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>a little nervous. What was it like when you first

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<v Speaker 1>showed up at the restaurant? Well, I was a half

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<v Speaker 1>hour late. Oh why, that's really late. Yeah, we're not judging.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a judgmental way. It's like, oh no, what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of judging. That's pretty bad. I'm feel really bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go home to change, but I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't manage my time and you were late I

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<v Speaker 1>got there. I mean, were you able to give her

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<v Speaker 1>a heads up or was she upset about it? She

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<v Speaker 1>was nice. Actually, I think I wasn't able to give

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<v Speaker 1>her heads up, but she was very nice when I

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<v Speaker 1>got there. Oh so I thought that was a good save. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no offense. She has every right to be a little like,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse me, Yeah right, I'm not mad, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's disrespectful. It's like saying that someone's time is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not as it's not worth as much as your every

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<v Speaker 1>day Yeah. I think obviously the clothes that you chose

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<v Speaker 1>were very important, and that's probably why she was so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, wow, I'd be mad if you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>look so damn fly. Right, wear that shirt? That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I actually did look damn fly that night. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Jesus, that's the confidence. So how did that

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<v Speaker 1>dinner go? I went good? When good? We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>normal stuff, and we were talking about life and family

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<v Speaker 1>and where we see ourselves in five years. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>got deep. Yeah, and that's good that you had like

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<v Speaker 1>a chemistry because you were able to keep conversation going,

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<v Speaker 1>and that you're comfortable with each other like sharing like

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<v Speaker 1>that type of vulnerable information. Absolutely all this is sounding

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<v Speaker 1>really good. But take us to the moment where you

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<v Speaker 1>left for fifteen or twenty minutes. Okay. After we talked,

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<v Speaker 1>the later brought the check and I went to pay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I realized I forgot my wallet in my car. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well he's obviously not very organized. Not as an insult,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not either, but like, you're late. You don't manage

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<v Speaker 1>your time, right, you just changed your pants and the

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<v Speaker 1>other pants I understand. Man, So well, why did it

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<v Speaker 1>take you fifteen minutes to run out and get your wallet? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize my car was further away than I saw.

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<v Speaker 1>It was about a half a mile away. Unfortunately, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, my god. Yeah. I told her I'm not leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be right back. But when I got back, she

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<v Speaker 1>was gone. Oh, She's like, this is the second time

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<v Speaker 1>you left me? Hang and did she pay the bill too?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did you no? The waiter was there, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was he looked at me like, what are you doing? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty much? Okay? Man, So how long ago was this?

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<v Speaker 1>That was about a week ago, okay? And what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of contact have you had with her since? Not? Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>She hasn't texted me or she hadn't called I even

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<v Speaker 1>went back onto the dating site and I try to

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<v Speaker 1>send her a message that way, and she didn't answer

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<v Speaker 1>that either. Yeah, hoping you actually help me. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're definitely gonna help. But before we do, what outfit

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<v Speaker 1>are you wearing right now? I'm wearing black doctors and

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<v Speaker 1>a T shirt. All right, Look at that's interesting because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not wearing any pants. I was going to say something,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just think it's these are important details that

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<v Speaker 1>we need to know before we call. You don't have

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<v Speaker 1>your wallet though, Oh no I do, jose You just

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<v Speaker 1>can't see it anything. So you know what, Let's play

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<v Speaker 1>a song. We'll come back, get my wallet out for

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<v Speaker 1>you said, I'm vibrating. Anyway, we're gonna we'll come back

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll call TI or try and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date out date. Okay, that's really gross, but thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't hold on. Bad news, guys, I've been looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't reach my wallet. Oh my god, I need

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<v Speaker 1>someone with smaller hands. Election Yeah, when we're down to

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<v Speaker 1>this employee. But more bad news, one of our listeners, Joseph,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't getting a call back after his dinner day. He

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<v Speaker 1>showed up thirty minutes late. And after the meal, he

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<v Speaker 1>realized he forgot his wallet in the car had to

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<v Speaker 1>run and go grab it, but he parked half a

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<v Speaker 1>mile away from the restaurant, so by the time he

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<v Speaker 1>got back his date, Tyra had already bounced, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>tried apologizing to her via text in the app, but

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<v Speaker 1>has not been able to reach her since. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just hoping that he hasn't ghosted us since we started

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<v Speaker 1>the second date up that Joseph, are you still there? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here, Okay, good, I'm just like I said, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the only person I matched with. I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>had a couple of mishaps with being lighted and the wallet,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would like to see her again. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>think everything has been great? No, I think what he's

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<v Speaker 1>saying is that there's a lot of pressure on this

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<v Speaker 1>one because this is his one match. This has to work. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if this doesn't work out, do you have her home address? No,

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<v Speaker 1>there's other ways, That's all I'm saying. I'm not a creep, Broka,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying options, That's all I'm saying. Anyway, We're

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<v Speaker 1>going to give Tyra call and see if she answers.

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<v Speaker 1>You ready, to do this man. Yeah, yeah, we're rooting

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<v Speaker 1>for you. And what what size are your hands? Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll worry about that later. Let's just let's call Tyra first. Hello. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking to speak with Tyra. It's a she. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? How are you? Tyra? You are so polite. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Jeff from the radio show broken Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Wait you men to say it again.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Jeff and I work on a morning

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<v Speaker 1>radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're out here too. Oh okay, hell to do you?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually you do? Did I run something? Well? No, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you won. Why did everyone ask that? Yea, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all right. But we were hoping to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you because we're trying to do a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Oh boy? Okay, yeah, so you know how

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<v Speaker 1>those work. We've had somebody to reach out about you

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<v Speaker 1>after they went on a date with you. Can I

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<v Speaker 1>know who it is? Well, his name is Joseph. You

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<v Speaker 1>remember Joseph? Oh? Anybody? But sorry? Oh no, obviously Joseph

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<v Speaker 1>has reached out and he told us about the time

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys spend together and we know that there

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<v Speaker 1>were a few issues about the date. What did you think?

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<v Speaker 1>How did it go for you? Well, I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>want this on the radio if I have a choice,

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<v Speaker 1>But can I just say dude has issues more issues

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<v Speaker 1>than Sports Illustrated Oh forever. I mean that he's bad

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<v Speaker 1>with time management, Like he told us that he was

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<v Speaker 1>like thirty minutes late showing up and more like forty

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, oh, I can't believe you hung around. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, it's not a big deal because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not good with time either. I just happened to be,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, one time that day because I was excited. Yeah, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on time for dates too, but I'm not on

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<v Speaker 1>anything else. He was really complimentary. He said that you

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<v Speaker 1>were super kind about it when you when he finally

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<v Speaker 1>did show up, Oh yeah, I mean it happens. Stuff happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was telling us that he had a really

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<v Speaker 1>great time having dinner with you and that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>had a really nice conversation together and had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>in common. No, because I'm like, oh, it's just so cringey, guys. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so the time thing was a big deal, but not

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal. But I was a little angry, but

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<v Speaker 1>I could get over there. Yeah right, So which part

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<v Speaker 1>was cringey to you? So crazy? What the hell is

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Part was we started eating and this mofo

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<v Speaker 1>is a carpet? What do you mean? A copycat? Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever heard of mirroring? I felt like I was

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<v Speaker 1>being mirror Like mirroring like when when you try to

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<v Speaker 1>behave like the other person. Okay, that's part of like attraction,

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<v Speaker 1>Like people do that to try and build attraction with

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Yeah, oh really, I ordered whine. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>order the exact same white wine? So I'm like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, like me, I'm greedy, so if you

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<v Speaker 1>get something different, I want to take your stuff the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing as me. What is fun about that? But sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe he's like nervous. Right, let's let's give it

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<v Speaker 1>the benefit of the doubt. Here, he's nervous. You hear

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<v Speaker 1>somebody say something, You're like, oh, actually that sounds good

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<v Speaker 1>to me too. I'll take that too. But every single thing,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, guys, Yeah okay. So first of all was

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<v Speaker 1>the wine, and I'm like okay. Then I ordered lasagna

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<v Speaker 1>and he ordered lazaka. Oh he did mention that he

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<v Speaker 1>got lasagna and it was really good. But he said

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<v Speaker 1>that he was really into it, and he didn't mention

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<v Speaker 1>that he was just copying you. Yeah, okay, but I

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<v Speaker 1>really really really wanted the lasagna, so I pretended, and

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<v Speaker 1>then after he ordered it, I said, well, maybe I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get the shrimp and he said, oh, let's take a

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<v Speaker 1>look at that. Let's take a look at that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>So I ended up going back to the lasign here

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, Okay, he's just gonna go where I go,

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<v Speaker 1>so and I will get what I really want. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I got the Willie's. It was so creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's that really a reason not to call

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<v Speaker 1>somebody back, though, But I don't want to live like that,

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<v Speaker 1>like hol on, how does this stance go? I know?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you listen to our morning show. He listens

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<v Speaker 1>to our morning show. You're on the phone. He's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now and wants to talk to you,

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<v Speaker 1>right No, no, no, no, no, yeah, that's Joseph. You're there, man, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Tyram. I'm blown away by all this. I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea that's how you saw me. No, no, see,

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<v Speaker 1>Tyra was blown away first. Now you're just mirroring your emotions. Correct,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm mirroring your emotions. Are you saying you had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea you were doing that? Bro? No, I had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea I was doing that. I admit I was a

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<v Speaker 1>bit nervous. I wasn't deliberately trying to copy whatever she

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<v Speaker 1>was doing. Yeah, it was my own appreciate that at all. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you just gotta do what you you know, whatever you want,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you didn't have to get to lasagna, and you

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<v Speaker 1>even looked at something else and you went back to

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<v Speaker 1>the lasagna because that's what I was getting, Joseph, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't do that. Well, I figured you'd like the lasagna

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<v Speaker 1>so much, you know that you could just eat all

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<v Speaker 1>yours and then you could then have some of mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Oweet thought, No, you would have to be there. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not Actually it was too much. I ask you. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that why you left at the end of the day

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<v Speaker 1>without Like, I mean you kind of ghosted him at

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<v Speaker 1>the end, right like I thought you left because he

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<v Speaker 1>left you sitting at the table for twenty minutes by yourself. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was everything. It was a whole combo platter. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he was late initially. Then it was the mirroring the

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<v Speaker 1>copycat crying, and then you left me again. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting there thinking he wasn't going to come back.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know why he wouldn't come back, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I am not getting stuck with this bill.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was out. I was coming back. I had

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<v Speaker 1>every intention of pain. I just needed to get my wallet.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a copycat. I mean, do you like do

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<v Speaker 1>you like going bowling? I do like going bowling. That

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to go with you. Oh wait, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to say he hated bowling, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a totally different opinion. Now I'm scared to say what

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<v Speaker 1>I like because I know he's gonna like it too.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to say what I like. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask him first and see if he likes it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I can tell you what I do. Go ahead, Joseph,

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<v Speaker 1>say something. Say something that you like. I like going skiing,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like. Okay, this is perfect. Who knew we

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<v Speaker 1>were looking for uncommon ground. I should clarify. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to like skiing, but I'm not too crazy about it

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<v Speaker 1>now that I'm the last like twenty seconds. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of it's a coincidence. I do kind of see it now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you don't want to fully commit. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't like something. I g I think it was.

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<v Speaker 1>She's saying, it's really attractive for a man to have

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<v Speaker 1>his own likes, his interest, you know, to have his

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<v Speaker 1>own personality, and you should feel really secure in those

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself. Yeah, well, Tyra, I like you. Was cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It was, and that's why Tyra, we really her. He's

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<v Speaker 1>marrying me again because I like me too. You're hard,

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<v Speaker 1>You're a hard one to win over. Well, yeah, everything.

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<v Speaker 1>We would like to send you guys out on another

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<v Speaker 1>date and we'll pay for it. Tirah. I'm a good guy,

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<v Speaker 1>a bit nervous, you know, a little different from you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know I like to show you that. If

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<v Speaker 1>you let me take you out on another day, I

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<v Speaker 1>would like the phone a friend. Can we be your friend?

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<v Speaker 1>I say, go for it. He's not crazy, he's not

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<v Speaker 1>doing it to be weird. Oh, he's not crazy. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm going to pass. Joseph. I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>a nice guy. I just don't think you know we're

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<v Speaker 1>a compatible low But I wish you luck. That's fair, Joseph.

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<v Speaker 1>I also think that you're a nice guy. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to wish her luck, but she's just gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>I'm copying her hard circle. You're in Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.