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Speaker 1: ask you this. Have you ever unintentionally ghosted someone mid date? What? Oh? No? Oh? No? Oh,

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Speaker 1: so it's intentional? Do you have? You have Alzheimer's, You

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Speaker 1: One of our listeners wrote in. He said he unintentionally

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Speaker 1: the girl? What's her name? Okay? Her name is Tyra? Tyra? Okay?

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Speaker 1: And how did you meet met her on a dating app? Okay?

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Speaker 1: And you know, I don't really know what it is

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Speaker 1: these dating apps. Okay, but I matched with Tyra, So

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Speaker 1: I was really excited about that. That's awesome, cool, that's

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Speaker 1: of those like gray silhouettes she responding. I was really

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Speaker 1: You can get you say you were obviously really excited

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Speaker 1: So what did you guys end up doing? Well? We

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Speaker 1: no offense. She has every right to be a little like,

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Speaker 1: She was like, wow, I'd be mad if you didn't

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Speaker 1: So I actually did look damn fly that night. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, Jesus, that's the confidence. So how did that

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Speaker 1: dinner go? I went good? When good? We talked about

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Speaker 1: take you fifteen minutes to run out and get your wallet? Well,

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Speaker 1: there's other ways, That's all I'm saying. I'm not a creep, Broka,

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Speaker 1: My name is Jeff and I work on a morning

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Speaker 1: Actually you do? Did I run something? Well? No, I

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Speaker 1: don't think you won. Why did everyone ask that? Yea, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: remember Joseph? Oh? Anybody? But sorry? Oh no, obviously Joseph

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Speaker 1: How did it go for you? Well, I really don't

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Speaker 1: But can I just say dude has issues more issues

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Speaker 1: I mean, I got the Willie's. It was so creepy.

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Speaker 1: right No, no, no, no, no, yeah, that's Joseph. You're there, man, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm here. Tyram. I'm blown away by all this. I

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