1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here we go TJ on Steve BARBIFM says, 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: one of my girlfriend's friends told me that my girlfriend 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: is expecting me to propose soon. I don't know where 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: that came from, because it's not something I've ever said 5 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: or that we've discussed. It really got me thinking about 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: the relationship and where it's going. Honestly, I love her 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: and we've had a great time, but I've never wanted 8 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: to get married. Now that I know that she really 9 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:28,639 Speaker 1: wants to get married, I'm wondering if it's fair to 10 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: appear to be stringing her along, but I don't want 11 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: to break up. What's the right way to handle this. 12 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: I guess I should find out if it's even true first, right. 13 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 2: Oh, it's true. I can tell you that right now. 14 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 2: It's true. A lot of women want to be married 15 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 2: when they think they have the right guy. And you 16 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 2: do love this girl, and you really having a wonderful time, 17 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 2: and she's thinking, man, this could be it. I hope 18 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 2: he asked me to marry him now. The fact that 19 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 2: you don't want to get married is a conversation you 20 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 2: need to have. But see now, if you want to 21 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 2: snow her, then keep acting like it's a consideration of yours, 22 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: knowing full well you don't want to get married. I 23 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 2: think you should have a conversation with this young lady 24 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 2: in all fairness, And let me tell you something, young man. 25 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: I don't know how old you are, but don't you 26 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: mess up and let a good one get away and 27 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 2: then two years later you decide you want to get married, 28 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 2: and now you got to go find another her and 29 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:36,559 Speaker 2: it might not happen, Homie, what she get through because 30 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 2: a lot of them think that. 31 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: What about it? 32 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 2: Why she wont to get married? Why why wouldn't she 33 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: want to get married and have it. 34 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 3: I understand she wants to get married. Why is it 35 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: in your head that you think he's about to propose? 36 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 3: And y'all ain't even because it at all, Because, Tommy, 37 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 3: when a woman is sitting in the room herself, her 38 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 3: mind free to go wherever she want, this is what 39 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 3: she won't. 40 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: And she told our girlfriend that. 41 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: She told her girlfriend, Yeah. 42 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 2: This is what she said. This is what I think 43 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 2: he want to do. I think I think he's gonna 44 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: propose to me. So she'd have worked that up in 45 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 2: her head and she giddy about it. Tommy, the girlfriend 46 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: went to hear the girlfriend. 47 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 4: What hell she get that from? 48 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? Exactly, That's exactly what he says, Steve. 49 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 2: Where'd she get there from? Say that. 50 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: And tell me you're married? So I don't even know 51 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: why you're mad about this? All right, let's move on. 52 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: We have time for another one, Steve. This is CEC 53 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: on Steve Harvey FM. CEC says, I recently found out 54 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,960 Speaker 1: that my boyfriend has a second phone. While he was 55 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: in the shower, his phone was on the dresser, but 56 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: then I heard ringing coming from his pants on the floor. 57 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,959 Speaker 1: I pulled another Yeah, I pulled out another phone from 58 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: his pants with a miss skull from an unknown number. 59 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: At first I convinced myself it was either someone else's 60 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: phone or maybe a work phone, so I didn't say anything. 61 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: But now my mind won't stop going to the worst 62 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: place that he's hiding a whole secret life. That was 63 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: about three weeks ago. Should I say something or is 64 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: it too late? 65 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 2: She said, this is her boyfriend? 66 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, her boyfriend has a second phone. 67 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you got two? 68 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah? So she wants to know what's going. 69 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,239 Speaker 2: In l A and you work with me every morning? 70 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: How many phones did. 71 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: I have maybe three. It was a lot. 72 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: I had three phones. 73 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: Back, yeah, three three phones, yeah. 74 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 2: Three phones. One was for business, one was for personal, 75 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 2: and one was for the wife. 76 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, and the wife should be one that 77 00:03:53,640 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: should be one that should be wait personal phone, you 78 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: personally and your wife should be the same, falling bone, right, 79 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: I'm not. 80 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 2: She wasn't personal. She was my wife. 81 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Okay. And the difference is because you're not making any 82 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: sense right. 83 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 4: Now, makes sense to make sense your nerves with this 84 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 4: lot of sense. 85 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: Sorry, we gotta leave this. 86 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 2: No about to ask me nothing about what happens. 87 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. This on the table. We'll get more of 88 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty. We'll 89 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: bring it back then right after this. You're listening to 90 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.