1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Good morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 2 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: Today's tip is about how to make some decisions automatic, 3 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 1: In other words, the genius of Taco Tuesday. We like 4 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: tacos in my house. People complain about all sorts of dishes, 5 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: but nobody complains about this dinner option. We each fill 6 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: our tortillas with the exact combination of taco meat and toppings. 7 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: We wish the kid who loves tomatoes can pile those on, 8 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: and the kids who don't love tomatoes, which sadly is 9 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: all my children except one, well they can skip that part. 10 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:39,959 Speaker 1: We are far from the only family to discover taco Night. Indeed, 11 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 1: if you believe the internet, Taco Tuesday is a real thing. 12 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: I think it's a brilliant thing. You can save a 13 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 1: lot of time by making some decisions automatic. If you're 14 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: smart about it, though, it can be about more than 15 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: just saving time. You can make these automatic decisions into 16 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: traditions and old a real sense of community around them. First, 17 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: for the saving time part, some people really love to cook. 18 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: But even if you do, getting dinner on the table 19 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: for your family on weeknights can be stressful. Someone has 20 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: to get home from work early, enough to prepare dinner, 21 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: and the decision about what to make tends to get 22 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 1: made at the time when people are hungry and have 23 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: zero energy. You can try to meal plan ahead of time, 24 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: but not everyone wants to spend their weekends researching recipes 25 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: that they'll then try for the first time when exhausted 26 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: after commuting. If you know you always have taco Tuesdays, though, 27 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 1: you can free up this mental space you simply buy 28 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,199 Speaker 1: taco ingredients every time you go to the grocery store. 29 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: When you get home tired on Tuesday night, all you 30 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 1: have to do is brown the taco meat and add 31 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: the seasoning and pull the toppings out of the fridge. 32 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: With the energy you save, you can have better dinner 33 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: table conversations, or even do something fun like go for 34 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: a walk as a family after dinner. You can have 35 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: your culinary adventures on weekends when you have time to experiment, 36 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: but you can preserve your energy for different kinds of 37 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: adventures during the week. Indeed, the weekday meal rubric of 38 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: taco Tuesday is so genius that you could expand it 39 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: to other days. Maybe it's make your own sandwiches Monday, 40 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: or breakfast for dinner. Wednesdays throwback Thursdays might feature leftovers, 41 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: or Friday could be pizza night. You might think that 42 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 1: putting meals on autopilot in order to save time and 43 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: mental energy could cause resentment, but I'm not so sure. 44 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: When you think back to your own childhood, I'm guessing 45 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: that many of your fondest memories center around traditions, which 46 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: is really just another word for things you do over 47 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: and over again. That beach you always visited for the 48 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:46,399 Speaker 1: Fourth of July, helping Grandma cook a roast every Sunday afternoon, 49 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 1: or how you always went out for ice cream on 50 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: the first day of school. When we're adults, a lot 51 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: of sameness stacked up can cause years to disappear into 52 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: memory sinkles. But things that are done repeatedly with meaning 53 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: attached to them can submit themselves into our brains. They 54 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: become sources of identity. Likewise, breakfast for dinner Wednesdays can 55 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: become something special about your family, a tradition you know 56 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: belongs to you. We are those wacky people who keep 57 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: having waffles on Wednesdays. This is the way we do 58 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: things in this house. This is who we are, and 59 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: that can build a real sense of community for your family, 60 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:31,399 Speaker 1: and hey, since it saves time and mental energy, that's 61 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: definitely a win for everyone involved. Do you do Taco 62 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: Tuesday or any other meal traditions in your house, Please 63 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: let me know. You can email me at Before Breakfast 64 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: podcast at i heeart media dot com. In the meantime, 65 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making 66 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to 67 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: hear from you. You can send me your tips, your questions, 68 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: or anything else. 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