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Speaker 1: This is Suckers, Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast, the.

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Speaker 2: Most traumatic podcast ever with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 3: Everybody.

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Speaker 4: Welcome to Suckers and a very special episode because it's

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Speaker 4: also an almost famous episode, but an even more special

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Speaker 4: episode because we have the one and only Chris Harrison

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Speaker 4: joining us. What suckers, it's well, let's think about Obviously

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Speaker 4: you got lollipops or suckers.

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Speaker 3: Some people call them suckers, but.

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Speaker 4: Suckers is our podcast with Kaylin and Jared Haban, who

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Speaker 4: I'm sure obviously you know. Well we named it that

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Speaker 4: because we're suckers for life, and we we well we

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Speaker 4: just cann't really think of a better name, so suckers.

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Speaker 5: I do have a question about suckers. Yeah, because today

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Speaker 5: I saw the promo picture.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Are you happy that I'm blond?

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Speaker 5: Mad that you're blond in the promo picture that will

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Speaker 5: now live probably for the next ten years.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's mixed emotions. I don't like the way I look,

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Speaker 4: but it's funny and I just smile every time. You're

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Speaker 4: still blond here because you have a hat on her,

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Speaker 4: I do. Yeah, you'll see me with a hat on

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Speaker 4: the entire time here.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of growing out though. You almost have

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Speaker 2: like a little leopard print thing going.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's not good. And what's it like.

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Speaker 2: When you're so handsome that you can just do anything

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Speaker 2: and not care like a normal person can't do that.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what, because you'll look like a buffoon

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Speaker 2: if it was. If you do it, you're like, I

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Speaker 2: don't care. I'm so effing handsome, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 3: You're too sweet. Chris.

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Speaker 4: If you asked me that question ten years ago, i'd

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Speaker 4: have an honest answer for you. But I've since gone

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Speaker 4: well past that. I've getten a lot of weight. You

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Speaker 4: know you're married, you don't, Yeah, exactly, Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: I actually got to say though, it's my first time

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Speaker 4: seeing Chris probably in three or four years. You literally

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Speaker 4: you look twenty years younger than the last time I

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Speaker 4: saw you.

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Speaker 2: It's because I'm married. You're married to a younger woman.

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Speaker 2: I had to really get a lot of work done.

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Speaker 3: Stress you look less.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I lost. I lost about a thousand people in

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Speaker 2: my life.

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Speaker 3: It kind of Chris Chirs looks so young.

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Speaker 4: They were trying to flag me down in the airport,

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Speaker 4: and I just walked by them because I didn't even recognize.

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Speaker 2: So we we we flew in from Austin, they flew

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Speaker 2: in from their home, and so we had this layover

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Speaker 2: in Phoenix and so I'm walking through the airport and

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Speaker 2: I go, oh, there's Dean and I go, he's walking

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Speaker 2: at me with shades on, and Dean Dean Dean by me, like,

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Speaker 2: Laura Lauren goes, does does he hate you? Like maybe

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Speaker 2: he's mad at me?

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Speaker 3: And I.

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Speaker 2: Go, honestly, I don't know. Maybe maybe I.

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Speaker 4: Didn't recognize you. I was like, who's that a handsome

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Speaker 4: thirty year old over there trying to flag me down?

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Speaker 2: And then we went through the you know, the what

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Speaker 2: you do in an airport where people are yelling your

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Speaker 2: name and you just kind of like you ignored it first,

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Speaker 2: and you hope it's gonna, you know, go away and.

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Speaker 4: Well, and also seems blonde. I don't think I've ever

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Speaker 4: seen her blonde. So I don't think i've seen her

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Speaker 4: blonde wearing a hat.

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Speaker 2: Luckily, Kaylin was sweet to us, and so we talked

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Speaker 2: to him.

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Speaker 3: She's texting me, was in the bathroom. She's like, hey,

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Speaker 3: Chris and Laura are here. Be nice to them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, yeah, I know it's the first time I've

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Speaker 2: seen them since they got married, which is we both

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Speaker 2: kind of got married close to the same time.

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Speaker 3: I would think. So you guys got probably a few

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Speaker 3: months before us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, October and November because we had two weddings. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then when what month?

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Speaker 3: Oh we were September, so I guess we were right

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Speaker 3: before us. Oh.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, And so when when was the wedding day?

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Speaker 3: September twenty third?

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Speaker 2: It looked amazing? Yes, yes, exactly, check got it? And no,

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Speaker 2: it looked incredible. It looked like it and save to yours.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's you know, and same to years. Look

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Speaker 3: I mean I'm deep into this thing now, Yeah, you're too.

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Speaker 2: Sunk it that, first of all, all three of us

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Speaker 2: would be married. Second of all, that you would be

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Speaker 2: married the longest, although we had just been married.

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Speaker 5: Over two years and three months. Now, I mean, we're

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Speaker 2: How's that going?

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Speaker 3: It is incredible? Is it? It is like the best

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Speaker 5: I was actually talking to Jason Tartik, who's also hearing

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Speaker 5: this trip, and we're going to be sitting down with

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Speaker 5: him a letter date to kind of dig in. But

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Speaker 5: he and I flew one on the same flight, and

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Speaker 5: I was telling him just about life, and I said, hey,

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Speaker 5: here's what I know, because whatever you're going through right now,

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Speaker 5: I've been in that.

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Speaker 2: He's on the beaches of Normandy right now. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 2: taking incoming fire. It's like the world is coming at

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Speaker 2: him like he's drinking out of a fire hydrant. It's

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Speaker 5: It's a lot, and it's going to be an interesting

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Speaker 5: conversation with him. But I told him because I remember

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Speaker 5: when I was in that season, I was like, you

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Speaker 5: know what, I don't know if marriage is actually going

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Speaker 5: to be that great. Like I really started to get

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Speaker 5: in my mind, like every relationship I've had is like

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Speaker 5: hurt me deeply, terribly.

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Speaker 3: We need to dig into it. Yeah, but like being

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Speaker 3: married to Jessica is like it takes stress out of

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Speaker 2: You called her jess or Jessica both.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just depending on where we're at and what we're doing.

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Speaker 2: I did that, I guess with Laura.

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Speaker 5: But uh yeah, it's the best. Like she is a

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Speaker 5: great partner. I my life is a lot better. I'm

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Speaker 5: very happy. But she's really incredible, Like she's very sweet.

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Speaker 5: You know, her and Kaylin are good friends. Her and

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Speaker 5: Laura are good friends, Like they're just they want to

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Speaker 5: make our lives better, which is really wild to have

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Speaker 5: that in somebody.

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Speaker 2: Y'all spend a lot time apart, a.

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Speaker 3: Ton of time apart do Yeah, a lot of time?

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Speaker 2: Is that just work and just your lives are going

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean she's she has I think probably the

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Speaker 5: most successful esthetician clinic in Denver. Like she is very busy,

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Speaker 5: and so she's down there Monday or Tuesday through Friday,

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Speaker 5: And it's actually great because she grew up in a

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Speaker 5: was super excited to see him. And so when we

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Speaker 5: get together, like both very excited, but we never get

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Speaker 5: sick of each other. It's it's like when we're in

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Speaker 2: Because you're you're like that too, right, because you're you're

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Speaker 2: off going, yeah, kill him in Jarrow or I don't know,

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Speaker 2: living in a tree.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But Ben's got his successful nonprofit Jess as her

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Speaker 4: successful esthetician clinic. Kaylen and I are both unemployed, so

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Speaker 4: we spend a lot of time together.

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Speaker 2: But you do know, Yeah, one of the things, honestly,

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Speaker 2: one of the things I really appreciated about Kaylen and

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Speaker 2: I can't remember where I ran into her and we

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Speaker 2: had this conversation. God, what was it? But anyway, what

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Speaker 2: I loved is she was talking about you in such

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Speaker 2: a glowing way and how she really seems to correct

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Speaker 2: me if I'm wrong. This might be a total lie,

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Speaker 2: but she really seems to appreciate who you are. And

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Speaker 2: I could seem someone marrying you for the excitement of it,

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Speaker 2: but then wanting to change you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well I'll tell you what you want to know.

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Speaker 3: What our last big fight was about changing you. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She has been getting very mad at me because I

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Speaker 4: tend to pick my nose in public.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm talking mad, like mad, I'm going to take

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Speaker 3: I don't see the problem here, Like I think she's

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Speaker 2: I know I should back up my bro.

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Speaker 4: Here when you say she's not trying to change me, Oh,

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Speaker 4: she's trying to change me.

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Speaker 2: So that's a big deal. The nose picking.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'll tell you, why is this a hill?

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Speaker 4: You're gonna die if you have a book in your

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Speaker 3: You need to pick it. What if I'm out in public,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to wait until I'm in private to

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Speaker 5: Disagree, I don't want to look underneath your car seat.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I had a buddy who's a nose picker

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Speaker 5: in the car and underneath. Yeah, so when she brings

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Speaker 5: a very good thing for her to bring up for

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Speaker 3: Were you embarrassed initially like defensive?

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Speaker 5: Like no, no, like or were you just like I

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Speaker 5: thousand percent the ladder of that.

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Speaker 4: I say, Hey, I'm picking my nose, Like I'm sorry,

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Speaker 4: it's just a fact of being with me.

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Speaker 3: Like you have to accept it. And it's funny.

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Speaker 4: Like I said, we actually had a legitimate argument about

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Speaker 4: me picking my nose in public.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing though, that you actually stood up for yourself, Like.

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Speaker 3: Damn it, damn it, woman, this is me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not exactly you know, you're chewing loudly, are like,

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Speaker 2: I don't love that you eat corn nuts in bed

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Speaker 2: or something. I don't know, but it's like I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: pick my nose.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well it's funny. Actually, I think I can share

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Speaker 4: this without getting in too much trouble. She goes to

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Speaker 4: therapy often, which I think is great for everyone. And

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Speaker 4: she said she told me the story that she brought

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Speaker 4: it up with her therapist, the whole nose picking fight,

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Speaker 4: and her therapist goes, I think that you're you you

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Speaker 4: just are a little envious of his care free lifestyle.

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Speaker 4: Is me paraphrasing what the therapist.

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Speaker 2: Picking represents a lifestyle? Okay, I get this. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: it's she's not mad about the nose picking.

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Speaker 4: She wants she well, and she is, and she'll be

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Speaker 4: at the first admit that she's a little like not

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Speaker 4: high strung, but she's a pageant girl, you know. So

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Speaker 4: they've got to have their all their crap together and

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Speaker 4: the opposite of that, I live in I've lived in

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Speaker 4: a van for a bunch of years. So, uh, that's

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Speaker 4: what the therapist said.

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Speaker 3: There. She was like, well, not that you're like envious of.

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Speaker 4: The care free lifestyle that he has. But like that's

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Speaker 4: just like the disconnect there. Can I follow up with

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Speaker 4: the question.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is this about nose picking? Can we move on?

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Speaker 5: No a little bit, A little bit here, And I

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Speaker 5: It's a cool city and so uh yeah, we'll put

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Speaker 3: We'll be catching up with a lot of people.

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Speaker 5: But really this is just people we want to hang

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Speaker 2: Well, this is how great this place is. Lauren comes

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Speaker 3: Uh so, let's.

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Speaker 5: Sure, Yeah, so I ask anybody you don't know, and

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Speaker 5: So uh, outside of us, So, Kaylin's here, Wells is here,

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Speaker 3: I was just with him last week. Sarah got this

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Bob Guiney and his wife Canyon obviously Horne Zema

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Speaker 5: I mean probably a model. She was the one that

440
00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:52,520
Speaker 5: officiated the wedding. She's a brain surgeon, is she really?

441
00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,400
Speaker 5: I think she's an efficient Okay, that's the same thing.

442
00:17:56,160 --> 00:18:00,280
Speaker 5: Justin Glaize and Susie Evans. So Justin Glaze on a

443
00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:04,720
Speaker 5: recent season he had to be a stunt man, and Susie.

444
00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,959
Speaker 3: Evans was the one that Clayton picked.

445
00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:10,840
Speaker 5: Now, they recently just announced their dating and they came

446
00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,160
Speaker 5: all the way here to give us some exclusive content

447
00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:14,880
Speaker 5: and interviews about their dating life.

448
00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:15,560
Speaker 2: This is exciting.

449
00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:19,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, Andrew Firestone and Havana Firestone, Brett Adams, as he said,

450
00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,680
Speaker 5: and then Jason Tartick is here as well.

451
00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:24,880
Speaker 3: So that's the list of the people that have came

452
00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:26,320
Speaker 3: to Carmel.

453
00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:28,720
Speaker 2: That's a good mix. It's a good honestly though. Here's

454
00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:30,240
Speaker 2: the thing. One of the things I love about iHeart

455
00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,679
Speaker 2: and being a part of this is, you know, I

456
00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,479
Speaker 2: will meet these people at some point and it's like

457
00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,199
Speaker 2: it's it's great because obviously I haven't been a part

458
00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:38,840
Speaker 2: of the franchise for I don't know, got three or

459
00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:41,399
Speaker 2: four years now, so I don't know so many people

460
00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:43,159
Speaker 2: that have been a part of the show, and and

461
00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,080
Speaker 2: when I you know, and obviously I don't watch, and

462
00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:46,840
Speaker 2: so I don't know the storylines and all that. But

463
00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,360
Speaker 2: when I meet these people, nine times out of ten,

464
00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,520
Speaker 2: they are unbelievably lovely and it's fun to kind of

465
00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,600
Speaker 2: add them to the family. There was one one guy,

466
00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:55,040
Speaker 2: forget who was one of he was I think he

467
00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:56,919
Speaker 2: might have been the Bachelor or something. He lives in Austin,

468
00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:58,600
Speaker 2: Zach maybe Zach.

469
00:18:58,720 --> 00:18:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he's a good guy.

470
00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,280
Speaker 4: I want to hear about the one out of ten

471
00:19:01,359 --> 00:19:04,520
Speaker 4: times stories oh for another time, for no time.

472
00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:07,320
Speaker 2: No, there's I mean, look, even you know, people always

473
00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,840
Speaker 2: ask me, and I'm sure they asked you guys, do

474
00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,119
Speaker 2: you like everybody? Or who's you know? And most of

475
00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,879
Speaker 2: the time I liked the Bacheler I liked the Bachelorette,

476
00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:16,880
Speaker 2: but there's always those outliers that you just don't get

477
00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,560
Speaker 2: along with. It's impossible. We've met thousands of people at

478
00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,560
Speaker 2: this point after twenty years. You know they're not all great.

479
00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,199
Speaker 5: There's more people that I like than I don't like.

480
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 5: But there's definitely people that I have would prefer never

481
00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:31,359
Speaker 5: to see again.

482
00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,880
Speaker 2: Like who give us one name, Give us one name.

483
00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,320
Speaker 3: I can't do that. I'm not that guy.

484
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,040
Speaker 2: But I felt like we just made eye contact. We're

485
00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:40,840
Speaker 2: thinking of the same person.

486
00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:41,399
Speaker 3: I think I'm.

487
00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:53,960
Speaker 5: Three one two three webs answer that. But now I.

488
00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:55,240
Speaker 2: Think Wells has worn out as welcome.

489
00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,840
Speaker 3: I's be honest, he's been around. But Dick, it's going

490
00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:58,600
Speaker 3: to be a good group.

491
00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,120
Speaker 5: You can look forward to good cond I'm actually excited

492
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,840
Speaker 5: because I've been with them and they love the show

493
00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:05,600
Speaker 5: when you were on the show, when you were there,

494
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 5: and they're very funny, and they're they have so much

495
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,120
Speaker 5: energy and they love getting together so much. They're very

496
00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:13,600
Speaker 5: sweet women who are just gonna have a blast year

497
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,239
Speaker 5: and double down the amount of wine that you and

498
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,640
Speaker 5: I could drink together. They will consume on their own.

499
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:23,879
Speaker 2: You want to talk about Disney Okay, when does it

500
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 2: become weird that six adults with no kids are at

501
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 2: Disney with the shirts and the ears and all that.

502
00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:38,400
Speaker 2: I'm just I'm not judging.

503
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 3: I'm just saying you're asking questions. Yeah, can I ask

504
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 3: a question to return?

505
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:48,639
Speaker 2: No, just gut instinct. Six adults at Disney with no kids.

506
00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 4: I think it really depends on the amount of times

507
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:52,880
Speaker 4: that you go. If you're going once a week, yeah,

508
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 4: that's weird and bad, not bad. I don't want to

509
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:58,680
Speaker 4: say bad. Disney adults are cool. I will say one

510
00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,879
Speaker 4: set of every ten years, maybe it's okay.

511
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're telling me, l Z. If you were like,

512
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:04,480
Speaker 3: we're gonna.

513
00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,119
Speaker 2: Go to Disney, those zero chances she's going to Disney.

514
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,800
Speaker 2: We don't like We don't like crowds, we don't like amusement.

515
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 5: No, but if you had a plaid, which literally I

516
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,679
Speaker 5: know refers you to the back, yes.

517
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 3: To all the rides you're in and out of those things. No.

518
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,359
Speaker 2: I look, I've talked to LZ about this.

519
00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:20,400
Speaker 3: She's a Disney girl.

520
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,159
Speaker 2: Oh god. No. We like Disney movies and stuff like that.

521
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 2: I mean, were not anti Disney, but we would never

522
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 2: go to Disney World or disneyl like that would be

523
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:30,120
Speaker 2: our nightmare.

524
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 3: I will tell you this, it was.

525
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 5: That would be a last So what we did was

526
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 5: we did have the whole tour thing. Yeah, we got

527
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 5: to ride all the rides and then we'd drink around

528
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 5: the world at Epcot one day. It was a really

529
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:45,240
Speaker 5: fun trick I went.

530
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Speaker 2: So, I mean, my kids grew up around Disney because

531
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,760
Speaker 2: obviously when I started the show, the kids were born

532
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: Abc Disney, same family, so I got the benefit of

533
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 2: seeing it through my kid's eyes. And in all seriousness,

534
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 2: I loved it, and we got to do some crazy

535
00:21:57,920 --> 00:22:02,120
Speaker 2: things Disney cruises and all that. I just know it's

536
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 2: one of those things I'll never go back. Interesting because

537
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 2: I just make my kids are in their twenties now,

538
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 2: and unless maybe my grandkids go or something. But yeah,

539
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 2: I wouldn't go as an adult.

540
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 3: I don't think.

541
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,920
Speaker 5: I think after going, I would only say the reason

542
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 5: we want to go back, it's kids would be unless

543
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 5: we had a guide. Again, yes, because all we we

544
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 5: actually played a game where we had a drinking game

545
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 5: about how many kids we saw one on leashes and

546
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 5: then two crying, and it looked it looked like a

547
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 5: terrible day for a parent, like, unless your kids are

548
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 5: a certain age, it looks like a Really.

549
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,800
Speaker 2: It's a nightmare. It's an expensive nightmare. And you're doing

550
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 2: this and you get back to the hotel, you're like,

551
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,159
Speaker 2: why did I just spend twenty grand?

552
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 4: I gotta say, after hearing both of the guys talk

553
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 4: about it, I'm more on your side now. I don't

554
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 4: think I'll ever go to Disney unless it's like a

555
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,399
Speaker 4: work function for whatever that means. If a friend's out

556
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 4: of town visiting and they're like dying to go, then

557
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 4: maybe I would go. But I would never you know,

558
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,159
Speaker 4: ask Kayln if she wants to go to spend the

559
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 4: week at Disneyland.

560
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,159
Speaker 3: Is it is still a magical place? Will like?

561
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 5: There was moments like on Guardians of the Galaxy where

562
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 5: I felt like a kid again. There were rides that

563
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 5: I got very scared for or very nervous for. Uh,

564
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 5: it's a different perspective, but I would still I would

565
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 5: encourage anybody to go as an adult. I think Jessic

566
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 5: and I, even if it was just the two of us,

567
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 5: would have had a great time because without the plaid,

568
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 5: well it's hard to say the plaid is really nice.

569
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 2: There's no lines, you get ride right as wild. I mean,

570
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:28,879
Speaker 2: you feel a little guilty. Laura and I've had this

571
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 2: discussion too, where you know, it was my my ex

572
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: wife and the kids and we'd be there and it

573
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 2: was kind of you had to tell the kids because

574
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 2: you kind of go in through the exits and you know,

575
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 2: you're standing across and everyone's been standing in line for hours.

576
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 2: They're giving you the death stare, and I'm like, don't

577
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 2: don't look at them, just don't look at them in

578
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 2: the eye. You're just we're just let's get on. Let's

579
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 2: just act like things out of normal here, because you

580
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 2: really feel very small and horrible, not so much that

581
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: you won't do it.

582
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,719
Speaker 3: No, I did it. I did it. You guys want

583
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 3: to hear the story that I haven't shared yet.

584
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 5: But I'm I'm pretty fearful of roller coasters and it

585
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 5: took me a bit to kind of get into them.

586
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:02,879
Speaker 5: But we went on the Tower of Terror, which is

587
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 5: maybe my most not.

588
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 2: A roller coaster, you're just bouncing up and down in

589
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 2: your chair, yeah.

590
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,919
Speaker 3: But definitely the ride I was most nervous for that.

591
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 5: I was hoping nobody wanted to go on, but they did,

592
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 5: so I'm in the back and I'm like this, this

593
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,400
Speaker 5: isn't my thing, Like I don't enjoy this, the heights

594
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 5: and everything. And so I'm sitting in the back of

595
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 5: the ride and the door is closing, and what Chris's

596
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 5: point is, you do come through the exit. So everybody's

597
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 5: kind of maddie you or there staring at you, and

598
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 5: they're like, this is stupid.

599
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 3: And there's this little girl. She can't be any more

600
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 3: than ten years old. She looks at me as the

601
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 3: doors closed. This is not a joke. You can ask anybody,

602
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 3: and she goes.

603
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 5: Hey you, hey you, and I look up. She goes,

604
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 5: you're gonna die tonight. You can ask.

605
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 3: Wells Brad say.

606
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 5: They all heard it, and I'm in the back and

607
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 5: they already knew I was nervous, and they all look

608
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 5: at me and I'm like.

609
00:24:56,200 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: That's like some like shining stuff. That's crazy.

610
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 5: Internextor I think she was just very angry that we

611
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 5: cut the line, and I think she was trying to

612
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 5: get back in me.

613
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 2: But I thought, it's not even the ride, like I'm

614
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 2: going I'm going to haunt you, I'm gonna kill you.

615
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 3: Look, you guys had the whole ride to yourselves that

616
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 3: we did. Okay, yeah, by the way.

617
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 2: That's just what a bunch of elitists. No, look, it

618
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,120
Speaker 2: looked like y'all had fun. I just I don't know, man.

619
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 2: I just like if you called me and said, hey, like, well,

620
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 2: Sarah Jessn are going, I'm like, yeah, No, Like, we'll

621
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 2: meet you guys for dinner.

622
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 4: What would it take to get you a minus the grandkids?

623
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 4: What would it take do you think to get to

624
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 4: you to Disneyland?

625
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 2: A massive amount of money. It would be a huge

626
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 2: endorsement deal, which I don't think is gonna happen now

627
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 2: after this endorsement. I just I did it. But you know,

628
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 2: it was a phase of my life with my kids,

629
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 2: and it was I will say, I get it like

630
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 2: I saw it through their eyes. And when you do

631
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: see it through your children's eyes, you know, you go

632
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 2: through the phases too. Of the first time you go,

633
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 2: you're not even really going on rides as much as oh,

634
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 2: let's go see the princesses, let's go see Mickey Mouse.

635
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 2: You do all that, and then you go, you know,

636
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 2: the small rides, teacup, and then you graduate to the

637
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 2: roller coasters, and I will say, Disneyland and Disney World

638
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 2: are very different. When you're with a plaid, as you

639
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 2: call it, you kind of are just in a van

640
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 2: all day. You drive a lot. When you're Disneyland, you're

641
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:16,479
Speaker 2: just you go out of the park and you're there

642
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,119
Speaker 2: all day. But so you're like, oh, we want to

643
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 2: go on this ride. You drive to the back of

644
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 2: that ride and you go and it's it is, it's heaven,

645
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 2: it's I see.

646
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 4: The marketing material now after they hire you, the a

647
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 4: bunch of quick shots. You haven't fun at the very end.

648
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 4: Disney even Chris Harrison likes it now.

649
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 2: So maybe I can be convinced.

650
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 5: Sarah, Sarah and my wife are like huge Disney kids,

651
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,360
Speaker 5: Like they're just grown adults that love Disney the song.

652
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah they are.

653
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 5: They find magic and seeing everything there and I really

654
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 5: had a good time.

655
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 2: I want to bring up a subject because I've never

656
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 2: talked about this ever, and I want to know if

657
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 2: you remember this me. Yes, okay, Dean, So we're in Paradise.

658
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 2: Did you do you do Paradise? Just once?

659
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 3: I did it second time?

660
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so I don't know if it was first

661
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 2: or second, but so so what happens is when we

662
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: get to rose ceremony. It's four or five in the

663
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 2: morning whatever, and we separate the men and the women,

664
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 2: right because we're about to go into the rose ceremony.

665
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 2: And if you remember in Paradise, I don't know if

666
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 2: it's still like this, but they would choose each other,

667
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 2: so you had to separate, finish up interviews and all that.

668
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 2: So the women would be taken like up to the

669
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 2: dinner area they little gathering where the bar is, and

670
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 2: the guys we'd usually kind of take down to the

671
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 2: beach where Wells is at the bar, and and so

672
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 2: we're down at the beach. I'd come hang with you guys.

673
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: So we had like an hour. You got to turn

674
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 2: the room around and get the you know, cameras set

675
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 2: and the director's taking a look at the lights and

676
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 2: all that. So there's like an hour and a half

677
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 2: where we're just killing time. And so we're all really tired.

678
00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 2: And so you and I are down there, we're staying

679
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: together at the beach, and you say to me, it's

680
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 2: like and again it's so late and we're tired, and

681
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: you go, so you have enough money to retire, right

682
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 2: do you?

683
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 3: Yeah? Why do you do this?

684
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 2: And I said, yeah, Dean, I said, you know, I

685
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 2: honestly probably could you know, step away and live a

686
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 2: pretty good life. And you go, so why do you

687
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 2: do this? Why why are you still working? And that

688
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 2: is stuck with me.

689
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 3: Man, it's hot.

690
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, kind of like that little girl says she's going

691
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 2: to murder you. I was like, huh. And you know

692
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 2: my initial reaction was and my answer was, I honestly

693
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 2: like what I do? I enjoy TV. I like making TV.

694
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 2: But at the time, I thought, you know, maybe I

695
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 2: don't like I'm I'm on this beach at four in

696
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 2: the morning with a bunch of people, some of my.

697
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 3: Life drunk years old, I drunk twenty three year olds.

698
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm away from my kids, I'm away

699
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 2: from my family, and I don't think I was married

700
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: at the time, but I'm like, if I was dating anybody,

701
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: I'm away from whoever I'm dating, and you know, I'm

702
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: not going to date anybody. And at the Vedanta so

703
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: it's like, you know, it's like a weird, lonely month.

704
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 2: And that's how I spent my life, was separate, lonely

705
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 2: months of just traveling around the world. And I'm like,

706
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: it really stuck with me, and so I asked Dean.

707
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 2: I said, well, if you could walk away, would you?

708
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 2: And I don't if you remember what you said. You said, yeah, man,

709
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 2: if I could like make enough money to live for

710
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 2: a month or so, I'm going to drop out and

711
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 2: go live for a month. Yeah, and then I'll come

712
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 2: back and make enough to live for another month. And

713
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 2: I thought, what kind of like how Calin resents you

714
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: for how free? I thought, this guy really hasn't figured

715
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 2: out maybe like and maybe I'm like on this, I'm

716
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: like a Gerbil on this like treadmill.

717
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 3: You want to so about that?

718
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 4: So the first time I did the show, the first

719
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 4: few times I did the show, I would just resort

720
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 4: to drinking the whole time, because you know, you have

721
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 4: a lot of downtime and you're around a of people

722
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 4: that you kind of know but don't know super well,

723
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 4: so you just drink just to like ease the tension

724
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 4: or whatever. That season, I wasn't I didn't drink announce alcohol,

725
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 4: and so I was around all these drunk people the

726
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 4: whole time, and so I didn't want to listen to

727
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 4: anyone talk. So I was just like literally sitting there

728
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 4: thinking all the time.

729
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 3: And then it just hit me. I was like, what

730
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 3: is he? What is he doing this? What is he

731
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 3: doing here?

732
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 2: Why is he staying in a suit and tie on.

733
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 4: A beach in the middle of a monsoon, Like we're

734
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 4: on a mont soon? Hold right now? Oh my gosh,

735
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 4: that's funny.

736
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 3: But you did it. I mean, you gave the best

737
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 3: answer possible.

738
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 4: And I do see your point, Like, if you really

739
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 4: love doing it, that's great, but you I mean, I

740
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 4: think where I was coming from with it was you've

741
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 4: done it for so long, You've already kind of like

742
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 4: established and proven your worth and all that stuff, and

743
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 4: like if I was I think what I was actually

744
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 4: thinking was if I was in your position, I would

745
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 4: just golf every single day. And I know you love

746
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 4: golf too, So that's kind of what I was coming from.

747
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: But you know what's funny is so when I left

748
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 2: the show and I decided to part ways with them,

749
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 2: I thought about that question, and I cause I had

750
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: such relief. And Ben and I have talked a little

751
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 2: bit about this, about that weight off my shoulders, and

752
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 2: I really you know, and I've I've mentioned before how

753
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 2: things were very toxic and you guys know what was

754
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 2: going on and all the things behind the scenes, and

755
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 2: so yeah, I was. When I left, I'm like, you know,

756
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 2: those words kind of stuck with me. I'm like, why

757
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 2: was I there? Like I wasn't happy. I was kind

758
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 2: of I kind of lied to myself and lied to

759
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 2: other people of how happy I was. And I realized

760
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 2: later he's right, like I love doing what I do

761
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 2: for a living. I enjoy this passion of TV, but

762
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 2: that wasn't it anymore. And and it's it was really

763
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 2: weird how that, like that really hit me. And I

764
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 2: was even thinking about it in the shower this morning

765
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 2: because I knew you and I were going to be

766
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 2: talking and I remembered that, and I'm like, he was right,

767
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 2: like I wasn't happy, And I was thinking, did he

768
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: know I wasn't happy at the time?

769
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 3: You know?

770
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: Was he looking into my soul? And so I was.

771
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 2: It was really interesting how I never told you how

772
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 2: much that stuck with me. And I don't know if

773
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: you said it flippantly or if you actually meant to

774
00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 2: have that deep of a conversation.

775
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 4: Well, it's kind of hard to pull away from everything

776
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 4: I was going on to try to, but I was

777
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 4: genuinely just curious about it. I remember the first time

778
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 4: we met too. I walked up to you. We were

779
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 4: at the Bachelor mansion and I was like, hey, Chris.

780
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 4: Remember I don't know if you remember this, but Tomorrio

781
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 4: and Rachel or even their whole big thing. He came

782
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 4: back to the mansion. Everyone's outside, and I walked up

783
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 4: to you and I was like, hey, Chris, how's it going.

784
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 4: You look at me dead in the eyes, and you go, Dane,

785
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 4: I'm doing really really well, man, how are you?

786
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 3: And I was like, the does he know my name?

787
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 3: How does he have any idea who I am right now?

788
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 4: And that's really suck with me a lot too, actually

789
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 4: funny enough, but I remember I got back into the

790
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 4: mansion later that night and one of my buddies, who

791
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 4: I was like kind of buddies, but at that point,

792
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 4: was like he thought I was a producer plant because

793
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 4: he's like, I'm pretty sure Chris doesn't know anyone's name

794
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 4: here except for yours.

795
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 3: And I was like, that's news to me. That's it.

796
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 2: I remember, you know, especially back in the day, I

797
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 2: would I used to get a book on everybody. They'd

798
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 2: give me a book and I would memorize everybody's name,

799
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 2: where they're from. I mean I used to have a picture,

800
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 2: but then I kind of went by the wayside, and

801
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 2: then I would just get to know people through through

802
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 2: the show, and inevitably, the producers would obviously tell me, Hey,

803
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 2: there's this guy Dean we really like. They would tell

804
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 2: me who the front runners, you know, of who we

805
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 2: thought it was. It didn't always turn out that way,

806
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 2: but they're like, oh, this Ben guy is gonna be

807
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: really good. But yeah, I was. And some people just

808
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 2: get to kind of hit it off with more than most,

809
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 2: and that night one I would, you know, usually kind

810
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 2: of walk through the house, get the vibe and kind

811
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: of see some people, and then the producers would tell

812
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 2: me to get the hell out. They're like, I'm bugging

813
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 2: you know, I'm bugging everybody and ruining the mood or whatever.

814
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: But I was curious with Ben, if you could walk

815
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 2: away right now, I don't know what your number.

816
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 4: Is, if you could last for a month and then

817
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 4: like go back in a month and start working.

818
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 2: Well, let's say let's say let's say I don't know,

819
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 2: let's say general numbers like twelve twelve million. Let's say

820
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: you hit that twelve million Mark, that's my number. Would

821
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: you walk.

822
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 3: Away from what, like everything everything just kind of chill.

823
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 2: And maybe just keep your passion project, whatever you truly

824
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 2: love or do you love what you do?

825
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 5: Generous woulde hundred percent stay? The coffee would one hundred

826
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 5: percent stay. I dream like one day of doing that

827
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 5: when I'm like and like people ripping it from my hands. Yeah,

828
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 5: everything else, Like if if I heart said hey, here's

829
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 5: twelve million.

830
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 3: Bucks ADVI say I'm good, see you guys a podcast anymore,

831
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 3: I'm out, Like that would just be nice. So if

832
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 3: anybody wants to do, that'd be great.

833
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 5: But there's a few things in my life that would stay,

834
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 5: but not I. You know, I think for me, what's

835
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 5: happened oddly, and as I'm listening to him thinking about this,

836
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:37,240
Speaker 5: you had like a very successful career, You had built

837
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 5: something you were, you were known you were, you know,

838
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 5: you're crushing it, you're in it, and you easily could

839
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 5: have said, hey, I'm done, and everybody been like, well done,

840
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 5: Like you put your heart and soul into this thing

841
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 5: right there? Really isn't that for me right now? Like

842
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 5: there isn't that. Generous is the closest thing to it.

843
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 5: The podcast has been going on for eight years. It's

844
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 5: getting close to what I feel like, Hey, if anything

845
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 5: were to happen to it, or if like it ends,

846
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 5: then maybe somebody would say that was a good run,

847
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 5: Like you did well, that you worked hard on, that

848
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 5: you busted it for it. It's getting closer and closer.

849
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 5: It feels like something that could stick with me. But

850
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 5: I don't have that thing right now. Necessarily they're all

851
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 5: pretty new and and so I don't know what to

852
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 5: be walking away from.

853
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll admit I got competitive. I'm a hugely competitive person,

854
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 2: whether we're golfing, playing checkers, whatever. I'm just I've always

855
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 2: been competitive. I hate losing, and so I definitely got

856
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,720
Speaker 2: caught up in that. Of Partly I enjoyed the show,

857
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 2: but also I enjoyed like hosting Miss America and getting

858
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 2: you know, the next thing and the next thing. I've

859
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 2: always like been a chaser of things. That's always been

860
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: my mo to this day, I'm always chasing things. That's

861
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 2: where I don't know if it's where I get my happiness,

862
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 2: but I'm definitely happiest when I'm doing that. I have

863
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 2: a hard time just shutting it down.

864
00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 5: I had to rip it away two years ago when

865
00:35:59,960 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 5: I went through I mean I moved back home. Even

866
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,359
Speaker 5: when Jessica and I were dating, I moved back home

867
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 5: because it was like that time that we've well Dean

868
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 5: and I have experienced probably where you like the Bachelor

869
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,720
Speaker 5: and then stuff isn't getting You're not getting calls anymore,

870
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 5: You're not getting the opportunities used to and like it

871
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 5: was an identity crisis where stuff was It felt like

872
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 5: I was trying to be competitive but nothing was working,

873
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 5: like nobody was responding to anything.

874
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,240
Speaker 3: And that was hard.

875
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 5: And so that took about six months for me to

876
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 5: kind of reposition and find something new. So what are

877
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 5: you now? Like, what is what is that competitive?

878
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 2: Like?

879
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:34,240
Speaker 3: Where's your outlet?

880
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 2: Well, there was a part of me, a really sick

881
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 2: part of me that when everything happened, I kind of

882
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 2: got excited again. It took a minute, but to start over,

883
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 2: like to start from ground zero, I can start. I

884
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 2: can do anything now. And look, yes, there was the

885
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 2: cushion of I had twenty years worth of very great

886
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: success and money and all that. But I was able

887
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 2: to kind of reinvent myself and figure out what I

888
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 2: really want to do, and that that to me is exciting.

889
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 2: I love a blank slate. I love that exciting. Like

890
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 2: there was I remember there's a long time ago that

891
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,320
Speaker 2: there was a show deal or no deal that Howie

892
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: Mandel was doing. They were moving it into syndication, and

893
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 2: there's other this this other game show and they had

894
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 2: asked me to come in an audition and I and

895
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 2: I hadn't auditioned in a while. I just typically what

896
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 2: happens was I mean, I hate to say this, but

897
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 2: when you get to that level of the bats or

898
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 2: and when you're doing all that stuff, usually you just

899
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 2: get a call like, hey, we want you to host

900
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: Miss America. Hey will you host who wants to be

901
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 2: a Millionaire? That stuff is appro They approach you, you're not

902
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 2: approaching them. And so there was this show and they

903
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 2: had me auditioned for it and I had to, you know,

904
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 2: read the sides and go through the process. And I

905
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 2: was I was nervous, and I was excited, and I

906
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 2: hadn't had that much fun in a long time. And

907
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 2: just that fear of failure and the ability to fail,

908
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 2: I think, is a very exciting thing to me. It's enticing.

909
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 2: It's why I like, It's why I like playing in

910
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 2: these celebrity things. Is walking on that tightrope and not

911
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 2: having a net below you and really being able to

912
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 2: fall on your face is exciting to me. I don't know.

913
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 2: The being so nervous you can barely stand it and

914
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 2: having to go out and perform is fun. To prove

915
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 2: to yourself you can do it, and to harness that

916
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 2: and to walk out in front of an audience or

917
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 2: do whatever, and you know you're good at what you

918
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 2: do and to actually do it, to me is phenomenal.

919
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 2: I love that. I still get off on.

920
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 3: That by this therapist a long time ago.

921
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 4: This is kind of tangential here, but this therapist a

922
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 4: long time ago who said to me obviously that I

923
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 4: like to dig myself into a hole just to see

924
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 4: if I can get myself out of it. Yeah, not

925
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 4: saying that's what you're doing, but there is something to

926
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 4: be said about, Like for you, you're saying the grind

927
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,439
Speaker 4: never stops, like you're always excited to achieve new things

928
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 4: and that type of stuff. For me personally, I know

929
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 4: no one asked, but I'll answer the question anyways. I

930
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 4: feel like I'm looking for a generous or I'm looking

931
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 4: for something that I can like wake up for wake

932
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 4: up and be excited to accomplish that day.

933
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 3: And it hasn't hit me yet.

934
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 4: But I have gotten to this point now where you know,

935
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 4: you come off the show and I'm sure you experienced

936
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 4: this too, where brands are just gonna give you money

937
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 4: for posting a picture. You don't have to work especially

938
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 4: hard for it. You just have to do what they

939
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 4: ask and then they'll pay you. And it's like it's

940
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 4: in me, at least over the past couple of years.

941
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 4: It's embedded this like laziness in me where I'm just like, oh,

942
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 4: I don't need to do anything. This brand is just

943
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 4: gonna give me money for posting a picture, So what

944
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 4: does it matter? And it's gotten frustrating. It's not feeding you,

945
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,959
Speaker 4: oh not at all. I'm really disappointed in myself because

946
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 4: I don't have like the fire that I once had

947
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,320
Speaker 4: a long time ago, when I was living paycheck to

948
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 4: paycheck and you know, if I didn't get paid.

949
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 3: One week, I wouldn't be able to pay rent.

950
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 2: So like if you had a dream, like you're like, okay, Dean,

951
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 2: here's ten million dollars, go start this. What yeah, what

952
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 2: do you know? That's what would that be.

953
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 3: I asked myself that every single day.

954
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 4: When I went on the Bachelorette, i quit my job

955
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 4: and I was like, in one year, I'll have my

956
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 4: dream figured out.

957
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 3: And it's been six years now, seven years now. It's crazy.

958
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 4: And that's why I'm so envious of you guys who

959
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 4: have been able to find your niche or your whatever

960
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,319
Speaker 4: it is and really just lean into it and be

961
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 4: successful at it, you know.

962
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 5: Well, and part of that is just I had a

963
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 5: friend say, hey, like, this is You're never gonna do

964
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 5: this thing. Well, like, this is never if you try

965
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 5: to stay relevant and if you run this race, you've

966
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 5: never been made for this. You've got to You've got

967
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 5: to find something that could be bigger than yourself.

968
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 2: Well, he's right, I mean eventually it it is a

969
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 2: roller coaster ride it you know, what goes up must

970
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 2: come down. It's like it's so yeah, I agree, it's

971
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 2: like trying to chase that relevancy is impossible, you know.

972
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 2: But I will take umbrage of you're going to stay

973
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: relevant like you are the rest of your life. You're

974
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 2: going to be relevant to a certain degree. It won't

975
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 2: be the super hot you know that that you were,

976
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 2: but you're always gonna be relevant. Both of you are, like,

977
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 2: so you're always gonna have a modicum of fame and

978
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 2: a modicum of acknowledgment in that way. It's just how

979
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 2: you use it and that will change. And that's that's

980
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 2: something I learned a long time ago. I came to

981
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 2: it from a very different place than you guys did,

982
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 2: because you guys were shot out of a cannon. You know,

983
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,320
Speaker 2: y'all went from zero to one thousand miles.

984
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 5: Being done like that was maybe the hardest part. We

985
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 5: didn't we don't have any tangible skill sets.

986
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 2: Well, well it was, I would well, I mean, that's that's

987
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 2: cutting yourself short, both of you. The problem is what

988
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 2: I found interesting in watching you guys, and I say

989
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:28,280
Speaker 2: you guys in the plural of everybody on the show.

990
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 2: I had a steady assent, so I had a wonderful foundation.

991
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 2: And that was honestly easier for me because I have

992
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 2: a foundation of television. I've been doing it for over

993
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 2: thirty years, from broadcasting and majoring in it. When you

994
00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 2: guys were shot out of a cannon, it was almost

995
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 2: unfair because like, well, y'all don't have the foundation, so

996
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 2: you had to quickly start building something that you weren't

997
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 2: even aware of. You didn't even know what you were building.

998
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 2: And so I admired that in both of you that

999
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 2: you found a niche and you've both held onto it

1000
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 2: very well and built businesses around something that.

1001
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 1: You know.

1002
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 2: I know, people listening to this go, oh, well, it's

1003
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,439
Speaker 2: so easy. I was like, he was on a show

1004
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 2: and he did this, and he did this. It's like, no, man,

1005
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 2: think about how many people have flamed out, how many

1006
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 2: people have gone by the wayside, and you guys have not.

1007
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 2: I admire that. I really respect both of you for that.

1008
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 2: And and you know, Kaylin the same way. And some

1009
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 2: of these others who have come through the show and

1010
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 2: Becca and who have really made a life out of

1011
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 2: something that didn't start that way. And that's not easy.

1012
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 3: I gotta say, Becky might be doing the best out

1013
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 3: of any of us girls killing it. Yeah, you know.

1014
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 2: And it's honestly, it's easier for women. It is much

1015
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 2: easier for women to do brand endorsements. They get thrown

1016
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 2: a lot more.

1017
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 5: I don't sell anything, like I don't know what people

1018
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 5: want me to sell, but like my wife sell a

1019
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 5: bajillion products, and I do the same thing, and it's

1020
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 5: like two people.

1021
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 2: Lauren does a lot more than me. Yeah, you know,

1022
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 2: and I have ten times the followers. Yeah, but it's

1023
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 2: the women have you know, because those are the purchasers,

1024
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 2: those are the people that.

1025
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 3: Are buying things.

1026
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: And but yeah, I mean, I I'm excited for my

1027
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: next chapter either is. I'll tell you guys, there's some

1028
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 2: exciting stuff coming up very soon.

1029
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 5: Goodness, gracious, very since the best teas we've ever got.

1030
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 5: Can we just end on that?

1031
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's I'm really I haven't been this

1032
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,719
Speaker 2: excited in a long time, and can anymore. Well, I'll

1033
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 2: say this to your point, I thought about your question.

1034
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 2: I do love what I do. I'm very excited to

1035
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 2: get back to it. And but I learned from my

1036
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:32,760
Speaker 2: mistakes of don't just do it to do it, don't

1037
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 2: don't just jump into something. I want to be happy

1038
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:36,759
Speaker 2: and I want to love what I'm doing, and so

1039
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,800
Speaker 2: I was able to find a passion project and something

1040
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 2: I truly love and do this with the woman I love,

1041
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 2: and I cannot wait. There is something very imminent, very

1042
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 2: exciting on the horizon. I haven't talked to anybody about it,

1043
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 2: Like literally, you two are the only one outside the

1044
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 2: outside of my bedroom that I've talked to this about.

1045
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 3: But do you have a lot of energy right now?

1046
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,399
Speaker 2: Like are you Yeah, I'm on a high right now. Yeah,

1047
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 2: it's I'm really excited. I've been this excited in twenty years.

1048
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 3: That's awesome.

1049
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be cool.

1050
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 3: Let's go.

1051
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 4: Well, and you Morena are kind of a power couple too,

1052
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 4: I would say, like, she's always been a great broadcast.

1053
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 3: Now this Laura, Okay, I knew I was going to

1054
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:18,399
Speaker 3: say yes, no, no, no, no, no, no.

1055
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 4: You guys are like, she's so she's so good at

1056
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 4: what she does and obviously you had twenty years is

1057
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 4: an incredible run for anything.

1058
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: So she's a badass. And in my dream and you

1059
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 2: talk about what you want to love and I was like,

1060
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 2: if I do something, I'm doing it with you, like

1061
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 2: I never again will I? And I hate to say

1062
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 2: never because my mom always taught me not to, so

1063
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 2: it always rings in my ears when I say that word.

1064
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 2: But you know, I'm not going to be alone on

1065
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 2: the road ever again. Living that life, it was a

1066
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 2: it was a very empty life. I was very blessed

1067
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 2: and people have heard me say this many times. I

1068
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: loved what I did. I am not at all begrudging

1069
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 2: that life. It was wonderful and it changed my life.

1070
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 2: But I'm not going to go back to that. I

1071
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: have the choice now to not go back to it.

1072
00:44:58,760 --> 00:44:59,919
Speaker 2: I guess that's what I should say.

1073
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 3: And you at all to me, I do.

1074
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 2: And when I say you, I mean Ben.

1075
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:06,720
Speaker 3: Chris.

1076
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 5: Just before we go, I do have a funny story

1077
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 5: because I'm so excited for you.

1078
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 3: I mean, you know that.

1079
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 5: I think you're the best to ever do it. So

1080
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:15,919
Speaker 5: whatever this next thing is, I think.

1081
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 3: It's gonna go. But thank you.

1082
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 5: I want to know if this is true, because if

1083
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 5: if it's not, I've lied to Hannah, who works on

1084
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 5: our show. We just recently rented out the Bachelor Mansion

1085
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Speaker 5: and did a whole kind of similar thing there. We

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Speaker 5: brought in a lot of cool people, did a lot

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Speaker 5: of interviews in one night, and we specifically our room

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Speaker 5: for almost famous was a closet, and I said, I

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Speaker 5: think this is where Chris used to sleep on the

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Speaker 5: first night on.

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Speaker 3: Front Door two rights no upstairs master bedrooms? Was I wrong?

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Speaker 2: Or that was like life was so janky back in

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Speaker 2: the day, Like towards the end, I got a trailer

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Speaker 2: and stuff like that. But in the beginning, well, I

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Speaker 2: first started shooting there. We did stuff so on the cheap,

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Speaker 2: and and so we would use that master closet and

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Speaker 2: as not only a dressing room, but it was the

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Speaker 2: only place I could hang where I knew no cameras

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Speaker 2: would come nobody would come in, and so I would

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Speaker 2: just lay pillows down and I would climb under in

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Speaker 2: the closet under the racks, and that's where i'd sleep

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Speaker 2: until they got me.

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Speaker 5: They were shocked. The team was shocked. I was like,

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Speaker 5: I think, this is this is what Chris was telling me.

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Speaker 5: Is the room that he was Gina and Carrie.

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Speaker 2: Gina obviously wardrobe and Carrie, uh my wonderful makeup sorry

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Speaker 2: by Carrie Wardrobe, Gina my makeup artists for many, many years.

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Speaker 2: And so yeah, we'd hang out in there and just

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Speaker 2: sit and talk, and I would go to sleep. And

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Speaker 2: that was one hundred percent. Slept in that closet so

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Speaker 2: many nights, and that's when I thought.

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Speaker 5: What am I doing? That's this is it?

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Speaker 2: Man? And uh, you guys, obviously you've rented it from

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Speaker 2: a friend of mine. Yeah, you know, I know the

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Speaker 2: owners of that house because.

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Speaker 3: There's two of them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so they they they owned that house. So

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Speaker 2: their son went to high school with my son and

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Speaker 2: they played lacrosse together. So it was really funny. The

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Speaker 2: year in lacrosse party was at the mansion. Wow, but

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Speaker 2: it was at Marshall, So Marshall as my friend Harridan

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Speaker 2: is who owns that house and so Marshall and you know,

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Speaker 2: I was there and I was.

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Speaker 3: Like, this is really weird a house.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so like their TV is there there there, I've

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Speaker 2: never seen it unbachelorized. I've only seen it, so I was.

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Speaker 2: It was. I'm like, oh, don't don't sit there, don't

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Speaker 2: do not want to go on that hot top, guys,

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't keep your hands up. But it was really

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Speaker 2: weird to go in and like have dinner at their

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Speaker 2: house and just hang out. It was so weird, like

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Speaker 2: just very meta world's colliding.

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Speaker 3: It was weird to be there.

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Speaker 5: I'd never seen it unbachelorized either. It's very weird too,

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Speaker 5: but it wasn't. It was kind of bachelorized.

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Speaker 4: When we were there was no furniture, the place was empty. Sure, sure,

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Speaker 4: but it wasn't it wasn't a home.

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Speaker 2: It'd be weird to go back. Do they still shoot there?

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Speaker 2: They do, so they still shoot the show like the

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Speaker 2: first couple. Okay, So I don't know it'd be weird

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Speaker 2: to go back. I mean, I know Marshall really well,

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Speaker 2: and I you know, it'd be weird to be back that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it would feel like.

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Speaker 3: It felt weird for me. There's a lot of memories.

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Speaker 5: I Jess was there, so I was kind of showing

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Speaker 5: her around and then yeah, I mean it's the start of,

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Speaker 5: you know, the next chapter of her life for you know,

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Speaker 5: at least of people sitting in this room, every one

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Speaker 5: of us showed up to that.

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Speaker 2: That would be weird. If you and Jess had sex

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Speaker 2: with the mansion.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how do you know? He didn't?

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Speaker 2: And you know did I hope you did? But what

1154
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Speaker 2: if you knocked her up and you, like, you like,

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Speaker 2: conceived your baby at the mansion.

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Speaker 4: In the closet that Chris Harris underneath the racket clothes.

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Speaker 5: All right, Hey, we got to get to dinner. We

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Speaker 5: have a big week, a big week of content coming

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Speaker 5: out with some incredible people.

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Speaker 3: Again.

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Speaker 5: We're in Carmel, California. I gave you the list of

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Speaker 5: people that are here. It's gonna be really fun. We

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Speaker 5: got to get to dinner with everybody though, and say, hello,

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Speaker 5: it's gonna be fun dinner. It's gonna be weird, and

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Speaker 5: it's gonna be it's always weird, awkward fun, and then

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Speaker 5: everyone is. It's that first kind of like four or

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Speaker 5: five minutes, everyone's like, what do I do with my hands?

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Speaker 2: And then we kind of have a cocktail, and then

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Speaker 2: it's it's gonna be great, and then then all of

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Speaker 2: a sudden, it's four in the morning.

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Speaker 3: That's a lot of our friends it is.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be a great time, like we you know,

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Speaker 2: when we did this h in Santa Barbara is the

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Speaker 2: greatest ever. Hey that one. Raise a glass. Boys. Always

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Speaker 2: good to see you.

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Speaker 3: I love you guys. Hey, thank you guys so much

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Speaker 3: for tuning into Suckers Almost Famous.

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