WEBVTT - Ep 84 "STFU" 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:06.360 Talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:12.080 who talks back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:14.600 in for a new episode that we talk Back. I 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:18.040 show dedicated to you niggas and these holes, and I yes, 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:20.919 I did say niggas. Okay this year co host a 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:24.599 J What's up with Girl? Hey, y'all, Hey, everybody is official, 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:27.120 tam bam. I love y'all once again this week. I do. 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:33.600 I still love y'all. Motherfucker niggas in hose because not 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:35.960 somebody online trying to come from me for calling people 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:41.040 on niggas. Pardon me. Everybody don't like the term niggas, 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:43.239 but we do. You know, I do be trying not 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:47.040 to use the term, but you know it's a slip. 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:49.960 It's not a slip for me. I love my niggas, 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:55.800 y'all all, My niggas, okay, right, I don't just I 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:57.880 don't put the hard R on the end. It's a 0:00:57.880 --> 0:01:03.360 difference to me. Sometimes I put the hardy ard. I 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:10.320 hate that. Don't do that. Sometimes I do. Don't do that. 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:14.720 How was your weekend? Your? My weekend was good. I 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:19.400 went to um my friend's dad's fifty six birthday party, 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:23.160 and the ship was lit. It was it wasn't none 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:25.440 of his friends that it was just all her friends 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:28.959 and then him. Uh that's how he wanted it too. Yeah, 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:31.040 he was on my head too. I was like, go 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:35.679 on head, Mr Edward, he trying to see what that 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:38.360 thing do for his first birthday. He was gonna bless 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:43.520 him right quick. But we had a good time. Love her, 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:45.960 love her family. It's a good it was lit. That's 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:49.360 all I really did right much this weekend. Either I 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:51.760 was supposed to go to Atlanta, but I just chilled out. 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.480 I'm not in a traveling mood. It's like I don't know. 0:01:56.000 --> 0:01:57.840 I don't know if it's just me or do other 0:01:57.880 --> 0:02:00.560 women feel this way? But mice I goes on. I 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:03.840 don't want to do ship, don't talk, don't lead the house. 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:06.560 The only thing I did go out to eat. That's 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:12.480 about it. Saturday, that's it. If it's day after day two, 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:15.639 I can come outside. But they wanted to please don't 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:21.760 bother me. She fly, don't bother me. So I was 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:24.520 liking a little. I don't want to call it a funk. 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:27.400 My friend says I shouldn't call it a funk, So 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:31.160 I was in a mood basically your pussy with think 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:34.519 it was a funk bitch by Okay, one thing you 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:39.960 don't have to never have to worry about, jerk. Why 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:43.760 are you stink coochie shaming on the on the Damn Podcast. 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:45.840 I don't know. There's a lot of women that are 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:48.280 looking really pretty today. They have a nice dress on 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:53.040 there at work and there, yes, and they may be 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:59.720 having a bad day and here you are shaming them 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:04.760 pussy staying today. That's terrible. Let's move on from now. 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:11.000 I'm just I'm just joking y'all, all my niggas, whether 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:15.960 your pussy stay or not? Girl, all right, yeah, you're right. 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:19.960 When we got going on a stupid internet, dudes shot 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:26.359 say mar Is engaged two Yeah, Sonny, she got her 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:32.400 u uh a white zaddie Okay. His name is Jeremy 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:38.080 Robinson and he's a lawyer from Atlanta. And I saw 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:41.200 it on Gossip in the City, Gossip of the City 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:43.960 blog initially writing and all the other blogs got to 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:47.160 help hold of it. But now all these different women 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:49.760 are coming out the world works on his ass, all 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:53.480 these different black women, including uh, the mother of one 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:58.960 of his kids. Did you see that headline. I missed that. Yeah, Sonny, 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:03.720 so the baby mama. The baby mama is like he 0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:06.760 only he don't pay this much in child support. This 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:10.080 in the third he's just infatuated with black women. So 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:13.080 basically she's trying to say it's like a like a 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:17.679 fetish thing for him. Yeah, and he oftentimes um says 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:20.279 disparaging things about black women. I don't know how true 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:23.920 this stuff is, Um, You know, if he's so so 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:25.920 bad for the community, while it hadn't we heard about 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:28.919 him sooner, right, because he looks like he has some 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:31.480 ship going on in Atlanta, so he was really out 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:34.200 here dog and black women out I feel like I 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:36.239 hope he would have already been on the radar prior 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:40.000 to say margetting with him. But I don't know. And 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:42.360 I guess he was recently engaged to another woman. She 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:44.120 didn't look black, though she looked like she may have 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:47.200 been like Hispanic or maybe even Asian. I don't know, 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:53.360 but he's an habitual proposer for what I can see, 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:56.920 and uh, yeah, I don't know. I'm happy for her 0:04:56.960 --> 0:05:01.120 if it's real. He's fine, nice looking older white gentlemen. 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:05.320 Um Low Duval waiting on it too. Lot Duval said, 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.280 but let us get a white woman, y'all gonna snap. 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.320 And my old lady ain't white. He put that in 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:14.599 like and uh parenthes his own. His old lady ain't white. 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:17.560 It's not that we'd be snapping. The thing is is 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.880 that do you boom what what black women don't like 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:23.520 when black men, you know, or get others. And it's 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:25.359 not always a white woman. We just don't like the 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:28.760 ship y'all talk about us to justify that relationship. If 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.320 you like white women, you like his fans, like others, 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.840 just like them. You don't have to say, well I 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:36.560 like them because black women such as such as such, 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:40.480 and that's oftentimes you know what happens. So yeah, well, 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:42.159 I just hope it worked out for her because I 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:46.640 want her to be happy me too, like m hmm yeah. 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:53.359 Notorious Big daughter Tianna Wallace posted her boyfriend's one million 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:55.480 dollar ball and after he was arrested in a hit 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:59.240 and run. Uh Tayshawn Baldwin was stopped by police after 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:03.080 parking his twye d Raino SRT hell Cat It's s 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:07.520 RT in a busy intersection. Cops also cite his loud 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:10.240 exhaust and dark tenant windows as a reason for the stop. 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:14.960 Mm hmm, sound like profiling to me. After cops ring 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:17.840 his information, they found out his license was suspended. They 0:06:17.880 --> 0:06:20.039 then ordered to him to stop out of the step 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.440 out of the vehicle. That is when he allegedly sped 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:26.080 off and slammed into a group of pedestrians. Three people 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.880 sustained serious injuries as a result of the hit and run. 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:31.919 Among the amongst the injured is a mom who was 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:33.960 pushing her two year old daughter in a stroller, and 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:37.520 a food delivery man. Baldwin was arrested six days after 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:41.159 the incident when he surrendered to cops. Court documents shows 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:44.679 that Wallace Notorious Biggs daughter put up her one point 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:48.159 five million dollar home in Brooklyn to secure her boyfriend's bond. 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:53.479 No thank you, well okay, not a boyfriend. Not for 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:58.880 a boyfriend. Husband, Yes, a boyfriend, not so much. That's 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:00.640 just thing. My husband would want me to put up 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:03.120 our one point million, one point five million dollar house 0:07:03.160 --> 0:07:06.000 to give him out for a hitting, Yes he would, 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.640 And hopefully you'd be married to a man that you 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:15.480 know would be able to um pay it. I don't know, Mary, 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:20.080 he's gonna be able to pay it. That's what I'm saying. Like, Okay, 0:07:20.160 --> 0:07:23.200 you remember that girl in Charlotte, she had one like 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:26.960 all his money and um, she won a lottery, like 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:29.480 millions and millions of dollars in a lottery. Her boyfriend, 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:31.760 her boyfriend, her baby daddy kept going to prison. She 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:34.400 kept bonding him out on these million dollar bonds. They 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.480 only give people those type of bonds who didn't know 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.160 got the mean, got do it, you know what I'm saying. 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:43.440 So his bond it could be excessive. It could very 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:45.960 well be excessive. They could like that cash bond system 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:49.920 is fucked up. Well, he didn't hit six people, and 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:51.720 I saw the video of him, like looks like he 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:55.760 was about to hit a mom with stroller. Yeah yeah, yeah, 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:58.400 I don't know. That sounds like some stupid ship like that. 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:00.440 You might need to sit down, sir. You might need 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:02.200 to sit down. So you go back to bondcourt and 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:05.679 maybe the lorred because she's gonna lose her house playing 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:08.960 with him, right, because he sounds pretty dumb. So I 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:12.800 would not have right because if you make me lose 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:15.360 my house, I'm gonna come in the door waving the 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:25.440 full four tammy. Don't hit me no mode, right, shame ship. Look, 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.160 so we need y'all to stop talking to you about 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:29.480 b b ls because apparently y'all going to the doctor 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:34.679 to get more dick. Okay um. The headline reads that, uh, 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:40.160 male genitalia enhancements are more popular than ever and b 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:45.280 b l s are dying out, says a cosmetic surgery Um, 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:49.520 excuse me, Cosmetic surgery CEO Angela Cogan speaks on the 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:56.560 latest trends. So get your dick, do your dick, house baby, 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:59.320 I'm here for now. I do have a homeboy who 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:02.000 just recently, well last year he had got the abs 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:05.120 and like some cuts in his arms, and just recently 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:08.680 he went and got like some I think this nd 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:12.760 a lap band surgery or something like that. Like men 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:14.679 are out here doing this stuff, and I feel like 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:18.360 y'all been doing it. Okay here for if they got 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.480 something to make your bigger and this little do get 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:23.719 your dick bigger, right, why not stop talking to you 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:25.720 about them b b I am sick of to bbls 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.240 to now. I ain't gonna lie now like women were 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:32.240 real ass, like, come on, you gotta compete with this ship. Now. 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:35.520 Everybody just walking people are assuming that everybody's just walking 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:38.080 around with a fake ass, and everybody isn't there's something 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:40.920 body shaped like that. Yeah, I know, people be like, 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:45.160 what doctor did your ass? Doctor Jesus. That's so you 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:50.559 don't even ask somebody that is so ignorant R. Jesus, 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:53.680 Dr Grisome cornbread, because you can tell who got the 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:56.800 fake asses? Okay, I'm just yes, y'all look like a 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:58.920 Hennessy bottle. A lot of them. Now, some people have 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:01.680 some really nice ones, and favorite go too for really 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:06.959 nice bbls. Eggy Azelia, her body is nice, okay, um 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:09.960 burne even when but even when she shakes it, you 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:13.360 can see that little flap on the bottom. Yeah, it 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:15.480 would be like a little bridge down there. Yeah, it's 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:17.440 like a little bridge on the bottom where the meat 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:25.360 don't connect where you're supposed to in real life. It 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:31.920 looks good. Don't move though, don't But Bernie, Bernie's got 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:35.400 that ball mass body too. It's yeah, she has a 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:39.640 nice body. Um, who else got a nice PPL that 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:42.480 I can like? Yeah? I would go to whoever doctor 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:47.040 did that ship that's about it. Mm hmmm mmmm. See 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:48.760 what they didn't do is they didn't figure out how 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:54.280 to give you, uh, like some people need some people 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:56.679 need hips and thighs, so you just add in the butt, 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:00.720 but you know what about everything else and it's something yeah, 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:06.840 exactly exactly. Um. So yeah, guys, get your dicks. They're 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:10.280 going they're going for a good right these days out here. 0:11:10.559 --> 0:11:14.520 Get your man a dick for Christmas and then getting 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.480 one of those little gal cock three thousands. It looked 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:19.520 like a dick washed to me. It don't even look 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:22.440 like no, it's like giving head, like with all that 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:25.920 solution in there. I saw it on Amber Roses Instagram page. 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:28.240 Oh it's a machine. It's like a yeah, and it's 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:30.280 like it looked like a dick washed to me because 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:33.360 it's all suggy and like, I guess that was supposed 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:37.679 to sit but it looks like soap. Okay, so it's 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:39.320 a dick wash. You just took your dick in there 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:41.760 and and it washes it for you. Get one of 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:51.480 those for the new dick, all right. So I saw 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:54.960 this on the internet. Husband paid for him and his 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.640 friend to sit in first class, but pay for his 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:01.480 wife to sit in economy. So apparently this man goes 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:06.280 on vacations every year out of the country with his bestie, 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:09.000 and his wife is never allowed to go. And this 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:12.000 particularly year, he invites his wife to join him and 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:15.880 his bestie on the trip, and she realizes that he 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.600 has booked two first class tickets for him and his 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:22.880 best friend and her seat is for economy and when 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:27.960 she uh confronts him about it, he says, uh, that 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:31.679 he paid for your ticket. Isn't that enough? Like, and 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:35.400 he feels like, Oh, you're ungrateful because I finally invite 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.360 you and this is the things I get. And then 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:40.760 the best friend goes on to confront her about it 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:43.880 and says that she acts so entitled and that's why 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:47.000 he never wanted her to come along. Imagine me being 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:51.000 entitled to my husband, right, Why are you so entitled 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:56.160 to my husband? That part they're clearly your wife is 0:12:56.200 --> 0:13:01.079 your savage, and that's that's his man exactly. The wife 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:04.400 is the beard. So I saw that article, I saw 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:07.240 that headline, and I wish they would have used like 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:11.760 two white dudes for the illustration. But anyway, because mama, 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:14.040 they said, she said she dropped her kids off to 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:18.920 her mama. We know they're in Europe somewhere, Okay, it 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:22.960 ain't no fucking way you. That's stupid. That is the 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.839 ultra dumb bit story. First of all, why is your 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:27.959 man going on You ain't going on on vacation, but 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:30.760 he's going on vacation with his friend every year, right 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:35.160 that you're not allowed so that people do take boys strips, okay, 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:39.160 but not just you and one man and then y'all 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:42.920 go every year and I don't go nowhere. No. Yeah, 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:44.800 she said she never goes on vacation. This is the 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:48.040 first vacation she's been invited on. I thought she was 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:50.520 saying that's the first vacation she's been invited on, like 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:54.040 their little vacation that they go on. So she hasn't 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:57.080 been on vacation at all in the marriage. That's not 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:59.040 how I read that. It says my husband and I 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:01.600 haven't been on a trip out of the country for years, 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:05.280 while he goes every year with his best friend. That's 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:08.080 a that's the divorce. I really would like to know 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:10.720 where they're located, because I know it's not the United States. 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:12.800 I want to know where they at, what's the culture 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:16.160 and how the hell is that? Okay, Like, could you 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:19.680 imagine that plane isn't the plane ain't taken off. It 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:23.640 ain't never taken off for years. That plane ain't never plane. 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:31.160 That plane is grounded to destroy the whole plane. They man, 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:33.160 I had them beds and shop in first class. I'm 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:35.600 sucking all of that up, like, are y'all crazy? Are 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:39.160 you crazy? Clean up plane with him at his nigger 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:43.840 stupid internet news. Black woman is on the runway destroying 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:49.760 a United Airways plane. Facts, y'all. Ain't none of y'all going. 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:53.920 Nobody going if I can't go? Yes, Because so she 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:56.400 ends up saying she doesn't want to go, and now 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:58.960 this guy is telling her how selfish she is. Like, 0:14:59.000 --> 0:15:02.880 imagine your home boy hitting the wife up. I wish 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:04.760 I was married to a man and his homeboy hit 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:06.760 me up, trying to check me on some ship in 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:11.120 my marriage? Are you dumb? Especially something like that, like 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:14.920 is this your man? That's his man? Yeah, that's his 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:17.760 man all day long. It's given my man and my man, 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:19.800 my man. She just needs to make a decision at 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:25.080 this point, because yeah, that is dad, honey bun. Anyway, 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:27.640 y'all listen, We're gonna go to commercial right quick, and 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:29.040 when we come back, we want to get into our 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:32.640 main topic, y'all. We talk about you know, talking back 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:34.680 all the time. You know, the show is we talked back, 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:43.520 But when should you shut the funk up? We'll be back, okay, 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:46.680 So listen, Like I said, the show is, we talked back. 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:48.800 We have an opinion we have to say. But we 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:53.040 are grown adult women, right, so we we we know 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:57.480 that you have to use discernment sometimes and and judgment. 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.600 You know, it's not always a pro for it to 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:03.560 say to have an opinion or some ship. And it's 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:06.600 okay not to have an opinion. It's okay to not 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:11.840 say anything sometimes. Yeah, especially in relationships with your friends, family, 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:14.760 co workers, all that good ship. So we want to 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:18.040 get into it, y'all, when should you shut the funk up? Now? 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:20.120 You know? But you're always gonna have an opinion, but 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:21.800 she don't have to speak it out loud. That's what 0:16:21.840 --> 0:16:24.040 I'm saying, right, You're always going to have an opinion. Now, 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.960 now I can't have my eyes can't have an opinion either, No, 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:33.200 keep your keep your eyes straight, because usually the damn 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:35.360 eyes gonna tell the whole ship. I don't even gotta 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:40.640 say nothing like right, so listen, so we uh, we 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:42.960 actually find an article on this because I'm like, okay, 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:46.240 so we know in situations when you should not. I 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:49.920 guess it's kind of like you gotta be in the moment, right, 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:53.640 But we found an article that kind of gives, uh, 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:55.920 some examples of when you should shut the funk up, 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:57.480 all right, So we just want to go through them 0:16:57.480 --> 0:17:00.440 with you, guys. So the first one is when you 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:03.880 want to correct someone, particularly when that's someone is a 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:07.040 new acquaintance or superior. There are times when you need 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:10.439 to correct people, like if someone says, Bob costs the 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:13.680 company a million dollars and you're Bob and that's not true. 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:19.960 So that's true, right. But say someone says, as everyone knows, 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.879 we only use ten percent of our brains, which is 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:25.720 one of the those non factual facts that people spew 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:28.880 all the time, we actually use our entire brain. If 0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:31.080 you correct them, you might embarrass them and you're not 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:33.760 actually going to gain anything. They might not believe you, 0:17:33.800 --> 0:17:35.919 and you can wind up in a dumb argument about it, 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:38.399 taking out your phone and finding sources to prove your 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:41.200 writing until you shut them down. Sure, you have demonstrated 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:44.119 your superior knowledge, but a lot of people will actually 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:49.160 hate that. Okay, let's talk about it, because I feel 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:51.800 like I've gotten in to so many debates with people 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:55.399 and people will say things like it's absolute, and this 0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:56.880 could be a time I could just shut the funk 0:17:57.000 --> 0:17:59.960 but just not have the discussion. But I wouldn't say that. 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:02.520 This would be in a like in a corporate setting, 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:04.320 because when I worked, I mean, you know how to 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:07.600 I know how and when half the time I'm not 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:09.960 gonna say anything, you know, because I have had a 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:12.560 boss tell me I know you think uh, I know 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:14.800 you think I'm stupid Ashley. She said that to me, 0:18:15.520 --> 0:18:18.439 and I had minimal exchanges with her, and most of 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:20.520 them work like via email, and she was a new 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:23.440 a new manager, something like damn is this bit? And 0:18:23.560 --> 0:18:27.080 she watching my Instagram messages not Instagram but my UM 0:18:27.160 --> 0:18:30.080 like the internal messaging system, like because I did call 0:18:30.119 --> 0:18:32.159 her a stupid at some point, but not like I 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:36.040 never act acted that way towards her right, So whatever 0:18:36.080 --> 0:18:38.560 she could have been projected, I don't give a fun anyway. 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:41.879 But I feel like when you're in debates with people 0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:45.240 about information and stuff like that, I feel like I'm 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:46.800 always the one to have to prove it to them 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:49.520 because people will say things like absolute and be period 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:52.280 like that's what it is, but they are not gonna 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:54.560 come with any real facts about it. It's just like 0:18:55.160 --> 0:18:57.160 better believe me because I said it, but I can 0:18:57.200 --> 0:18:59.560 give you proof. We see. That's the thing. That's what 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:01.840 we're talking out Like, just don't do that. It's pointless. 0:19:01.880 --> 0:19:03.640 It's a pointless waste of time, and it just makes 0:19:03.640 --> 0:19:05.440 you look bad when you go when you do all 0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:08.119 of that. How though, like, how so people just want 0:19:08.160 --> 0:19:11.639 to just go out here aimlessly. Some people do, and 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:13.520 sometimes you just let me tell you. I'll let you 0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:15.560 have it, and I'll let you just run your mouth 0:19:15.640 --> 0:19:20.200 and just talk talk talk, and then I'd be like okay, smiling, 0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:23.320 nod and then going about my day. It's just a 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:26.840 waste of time to correct people I hate, like I 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:30.119 hate a well actually motherfucker, like well actually I know 0:19:30.200 --> 0:19:33.880 somebody like that. Well actually everything and and bitch don't 0:19:33.880 --> 0:19:35.360 even know what she's talking about. I was like, oh, 0:19:35.359 --> 0:19:37.800 look that's a daddy lawng like, well, actually that is 0:19:37.840 --> 0:19:41.280 a recluse spighter and this indigenoss stuff. You're a shut 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:44.600 up up. You don't even know if you're right right, 0:19:44.640 --> 0:19:46.520 You're just saying something just to say it. I don't 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:48.879 do that to people. I don't just be saying to 0:19:48.920 --> 0:19:53.040 say it. And I'm also not about to engage in 0:19:53.359 --> 0:19:55.840 just with anybody and trying to correct them. I'm not 0:19:56.560 --> 0:19:58.600 I'm not going to do that to like, you know, 0:19:58.640 --> 0:20:01.320 in a business setting or something like that, I wouldn't 0:20:01.320 --> 0:20:03.400 do it. But like somebody that I'm normally like going 0:20:03.400 --> 0:20:06.000 back and forth with about some ship, maybe maybe not 0:20:06.640 --> 0:20:10.000 if I feel like it the next one. When you 0:20:10.080 --> 0:20:12.320 have set a big goal, this is a good one, 0:20:13.840 --> 0:20:16.879 might right. You might think that announcing your attentions to 0:20:16.920 --> 0:20:19.520 others will increase your chances of achieving your goals. The 0:20:19.720 --> 0:20:23.440 research suggests the opposite is true. N y U psychology 0:20:23.480 --> 0:20:27.240 professor Peter gold With surfound in four different studies that 0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:30.439 people who kept their attentions to themselves were more likely 0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:33.080 to achieve them than those who made them public. Another 0:20:33.119 --> 0:20:35.760 reason for not trumpeting your big plans is that if 0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:39.960 you don't follow through, you'll be seeing as flaky. Yes, 0:20:41.119 --> 0:20:45.320 I think, um, when I've kept certain things in myself, 0:20:45.359 --> 0:20:48.680 they manifest it quicker. When you start telling people about ship. 0:20:48.880 --> 0:20:52.760 It's like you you don't know who's really for you. Yeah, 0:20:52.800 --> 0:20:55.199 you don't really know who's for you so and they 0:20:55.720 --> 0:21:00.679 may not like intentionally do it, but I feel like 0:21:00.720 --> 0:21:04.800 people can definitely stop some ship for you, maybe manifested, 0:21:05.040 --> 0:21:10.640 subconsciously manifested not to happen because they're jealous. I feel 0:21:10.680 --> 0:21:13.080 like that in a certain situation right now, even if 0:21:13.080 --> 0:21:18.800 you accidentally tell the wrong motherfucker ship left. Yeah, So 0:21:18.960 --> 0:21:21.399 keep keep your goal. Sometimes, you know, telling people that 0:21:21.400 --> 0:21:25.000 I really need to know. Tell the people that, um, 0:21:25.080 --> 0:21:28.920 you know are for you, those people you tell everybody 0:21:28.920 --> 0:21:33.119 else don't matter, Like, don't put social media or to 0:21:33.240 --> 0:21:36.000 tell the people that can make the goal happen. Exactly. 0:21:36.640 --> 0:21:42.240 M there's that part, Okay, Yeah, I wouldn't put everything 0:21:42.280 --> 0:21:45.520 that you're planning are doing online because now you actually 0:21:45.520 --> 0:21:47.960 summon in the fucking energy of all these different people, 0:21:48.320 --> 0:21:50.880 some people that with you, some people that don't. Sorry, 0:21:50.960 --> 0:21:53.040 need to be a bit that don't like you. Screenshot 0:21:53.040 --> 0:21:54.639 and put in her group chat. Now she got a 0:21:54.720 --> 0:22:02.840 whole slew a bitches manifested some bad ship for your goal. Exactly. Look. 0:22:02.880 --> 0:22:05.800 The next one is when you want to gossip. I 0:22:05.840 --> 0:22:09.239 like it. I'd be liking to gossip me too. I 0:22:09.359 --> 0:22:14.600 enjoyed this this list, So shut the funk up when 0:22:14.640 --> 0:22:17.440 you want to gossip. But god, come on, who doesn't gossip? 0:22:17.560 --> 0:22:20.200 And I'm I'm not one of those keep my name 0:22:20.240 --> 0:22:22.879 out your mouth type bitches. Okay, I talked about you, 0:22:22.960 --> 0:22:25.240 you talk about me, We talk about we like it's fine. 0:22:26.520 --> 0:22:29.000 It's true. I mean, that's the terrible waste of good energy, 0:22:29.080 --> 0:22:31.760 right to be slandering people and gossiping, but it is 0:22:31.800 --> 0:22:34.439 so much fun. Like I love the screenshot a bit 0:22:34.520 --> 0:22:36.080 and put it in my great chair, I really do. 0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:39.959 I look, I'm the bitch from the last post. I'm like, 0:22:40.200 --> 0:22:43.160 don't don't post your ship to me. I'm my manifest 0:22:43.240 --> 0:22:45.320 bad energy toward it with my friends. If I don't, 0:22:45.400 --> 0:22:48.760 I'm not ain't gonna manifest bad energy to somebody ship 0:22:49.359 --> 0:22:51.520 by accident because I'm a screenshot and put it in 0:22:51.520 --> 0:22:53.600