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Speaker 1: who talks back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning

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Speaker 1: in for a new episode that we talk Back. I

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Speaker 1: show dedicated to you niggas and these holes, and I yes,

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Speaker 1: I did say niggas. Okay this year co host a

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Speaker 1: J What's up with Girl? Hey, y'all, Hey, everybody is official,

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Speaker 1: tam bam. I love y'all once again this week. I do.

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Speaker 1: I still love y'all. Motherfucker niggas in hose because not

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Speaker 1: somebody online trying to come from me for calling people

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Speaker 1: on niggas. Pardon me. Everybody don't like the term niggas,

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Speaker 1: but we do. You know, I do be trying not

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Speaker 1: to use the term, but you know it's a slip.

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Speaker 1: It's not a slip for me. I love my niggas,

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Speaker 1: y'all all, My niggas, okay, right, I don't just I

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Speaker 1: don't put the hard R on the end. It's a

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Speaker 1: difference to me. Sometimes I put the hardy ard. I

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Speaker 1: hate that. Don't do that. Sometimes I do. Don't do that.

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Speaker 1: How was your weekend? Your? My weekend was good. I

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Speaker 1: went to um my friend's dad's fifty six birthday party,

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Speaker 1: and the ship was lit. It was it wasn't none

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Speaker 1: of his friends that it was just all her friends

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Speaker 1: and then him. Uh that's how he wanted it too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he was on my head too. I was like, go

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Speaker 1: on head, Mr Edward, he trying to see what that

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Speaker 1: thing do for his first birthday. He was gonna bless

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Speaker 1: him right quick. But we had a good time. Love her,

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Speaker 1: love her family. It's a good it was lit. That's

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Speaker 1: all I really did right much this weekend. Either I

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Speaker 1: was supposed to go to Atlanta, but I just chilled out.

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Speaker 1: I'm not in a traveling mood. It's like I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's just me or do other

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Speaker 1: women feel this way? But mice I goes on. I

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Speaker 1: don't want to do ship, don't talk, don't lead the house.

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Speaker 1: The only thing I did go out to eat. That's

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Speaker 1: about it. Saturday, that's it. If it's day after day two,

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Speaker 1: I can come outside. But they wanted to please don't

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Speaker 1: bother me. She fly, don't bother me. So I was

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Speaker 1: liking a little. I don't want to call it a funk.

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Speaker 1: My friend says I shouldn't call it a funk, So

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Speaker 1: I was in a mood basically your pussy with think

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Speaker 1: it was a funk bitch by Okay, one thing you

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Speaker 1: don't have to never have to worry about, jerk. Why

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Speaker 1: are you stink coochie shaming on the on the Damn Podcast.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. There's a lot of women that are

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Speaker 1: looking really pretty today. They have a nice dress on

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Speaker 1: there at work and there, yes, and they may be

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Speaker 1: having a bad day and here you are shaming them

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Speaker 1: pussy staying today. That's terrible. Let's move on from now.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just joking y'all, all my niggas, whether

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Speaker 1: When we got going on a stupid internet, dudes shot

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Speaker 1: say mar Is engaged two Yeah, Sonny, she got her

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Speaker 1: u uh a white zaddie Okay. His name is Jeremy

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Speaker 1: Robinson and he's a lawyer from Atlanta. And I saw

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Speaker 1: it on Gossip in the City, Gossip of the City

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Speaker 1: blog initially writing and all the other blogs got to

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Speaker 1: help hold of it. But now all these different women

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Speaker 1: are coming out the world works on his ass, all

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Speaker 1: these different black women, including uh, the mother of one

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Speaker 1: of his kids. Did you see that headline. I missed that. Yeah, Sonny,

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Speaker 1: so the baby mama. The baby mama is like he

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Speaker 1: only he don't pay this much in child support. This

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Speaker 1: in the third he's just infatuated with black women. So

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Speaker 1: basically she's trying to say it's like a like a

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Speaker 1: fetish thing for him. Yeah, and he oftentimes um says

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Speaker 1: disparaging things about black women. I don't know how true

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Speaker 1: to say margetting with him. But I don't know. And

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Speaker 1: I guess he was recently engaged to another woman. She

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Speaker 1: Um Low Duval waiting on it too. Lot Duval said,

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Speaker 1: It's not that we'd be snapping. The thing is is

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Speaker 1: ship y'all talk about us to justify that relationship. If

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Speaker 1: I just hope it worked out for her because I

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Speaker 1: Notorious Big daughter Tianna Wallace posted her boyfriend's one million

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Speaker 1: and run. Uh Tayshawn Baldwin was stopped by police after

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm, sound like profiling to me. After cops ring

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Speaker 1: off and slammed into a group of pedestrians. Three people

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Speaker 1: the incident when he surrendered to cops. Court documents shows

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Speaker 1: that Wallace Notorious Biggs daughter put up her one point

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Speaker 1: five million dollar home in Brooklyn to secure her boyfriend's bond.

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Speaker 1: No thank you, well okay, not a boyfriend. Not for

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Speaker 1: a boyfriend. Husband, Yes, a boyfriend, not so much. That's

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Speaker 1: just thing. My husband would want me to put up

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Speaker 1: our one point million, one point five million dollar house

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Speaker 1: to give him out for a hitting, Yes he would,

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Speaker 1: And hopefully you'd be married to a man that you

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Speaker 1: know would be able to um pay it. I don't know, Mary,

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Speaker 1: kept bonding him out on these million dollar bonds. They

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Speaker 1: So his bond it could be excessive. It could very

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Speaker 1: well be excessive. They could like that cash bond system

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Speaker 1: I saw the video of him, like looks like he

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Speaker 1: I don't know. That sounds like some stupid ship like that.

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Speaker 1: You might need to sit down, sir. You might need

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Speaker 1: maybe the lorred because she's gonna lose her house playing

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Speaker 1: full four tammy. Don't hit me no mode, right, shame ship. Look,

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Speaker 1: so we need y'all to stop talking to you about

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Speaker 1: b b ls because apparently y'all going to the doctor

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Speaker 1: latest trends. So get your dick, do your dick, house baby,

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Speaker 1: I'm here for now. I do have a homeboy who

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Speaker 1: what they didn't do is they didn't figure out how

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Speaker 1: one of those little gal cock three thousands. It looked

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Speaker 1: like no, it's like giving head, like with all that

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Speaker 1: like it looked like a dick washed to me because

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Speaker 1: to sit but it looks like soap. Okay, so it's

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Speaker 1: a dick wash. You just took your dick in there

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Speaker 1: on vacations every year out of the country with his bestie,

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Speaker 1: he paid for your ticket. Isn't that enough? Like, and

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, I'd be like, that's fun though, telling

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Speaker 1: because I know I'm you gossip. Yeah, gossip and is fun.

422
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: I mean, you obviously don't have any friends. If you

423
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: don't gossip, you don't have any friends. You ain't got

424
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 1: nobody talked to big, But you know what I have,

425
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 1: Like I have had people come to talk to me,

426
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 1: like coming to me to like talk about somebody that

427
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 1: I actually like, and I will shut it down. Yeah,

428
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 1: me too. Don't don't ever come to me to talk

429
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: to it about even talk to it about my friend

430
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:31,719
Speaker 1: or something like that real quick. Yeah, I've you know who,

431
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 1: I've had to cuss a few people out over. Charlomagne asked, like,

432
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 1: imagine you calling me thinking I'm gonna talk to you

433
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,880
Speaker 1: about my friend, Like this is my friend in real

434
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,399
Speaker 1: life for a long time, and I wouldn't do it

435
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: to you. But how do you feel that comfortable to

436
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: come to me? I know I've never talked to you

437
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: about this person, So why do you feel like you could?

438
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 1: Because because he I think it's because he's such a

439
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: public figure. People feel like they can just say what

440
00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 1: they want. She is crazy, No that I would shut

441
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: that down quick to Yeah, so like you you coming

442
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 1: to me because now you're want to go to the

443
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:09,400
Speaker 1: next person is acting like you got like some inside

444
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,239
Speaker 1: yeah person, You don't have an inside person over here.

445
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: And when it comes to people, I love fuck you

446
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: and I'll fight you. How about that? Like, look, you

447
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: thought we was freezed, now about to come beat your

448
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 1: and now we're friends some more, al right, next one,

449
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: when the deal isn't quite done, look to that old

450
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,440
Speaker 1: adage about counting your chickens before they hatch. If you're

451
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 1: making a deal of some kind never announced until everyone

452
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: has signed on every dotted line and everything is airtight,

453
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: you feel stupid if things fall apart. That's kind of

454
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: similar to the last one. It's kind of similar to

455
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: the one with big goals. So all of that goes together.

456
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: Just keep anything you actually working on trying to do it.

457
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: If if, if it doesn't involve the people you're telling,

458
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 1: like why why do they need to know? Right? And

459
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: that that reminds me of me making plans to go

460
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: to Europe next month because I thought I was about

461
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: to get me a festival check. Stupid, you make me sick.

462
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: It made me so sick. Good eyes, speaking our outfits places,

463
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: I was gonna take pictures in my outfits. I ain't

464
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: going nowhere. It's so stupid. I'll be right home. Yeah.

465
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: But even when the deal is done, it might not

466
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: be done until it actually happens. So yeah. Um. The

467
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: only thing about that, I mean you you have to, um,

468
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: you have to like prep for those things. So we're

469
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: planning and prep and planning, advertising, all that good stuff.

470
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 1: Sometimes stuff all through. Um, when you're mad, you should

471
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 1: shut the funk up. That's the hardest one for me.

472
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 1: Little work on me, Jesus, you ain't through with me yet.

473
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 1: So it says when someone when it says when someone

474
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 1: annoys you, don't respond right away as you like, excuse me,

475
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 1: as you are likely to blow up and or say

476
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: something you will regret and you can't take it back.

477
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: Even if you apologize, people will not forget. Hey, So

478
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: best better is don't talk to me if I'm mad,

479
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: then don't talk to me if you're mad. That's only

480
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 1: that's only that, that's not I see it. You're supposed

481
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: to make this about you, not like, don't talk to

482
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,199
Speaker 1: me if you man. Don't talk to me if I'm mad?

483
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: How about you don't say nothing when you're mad? That's

484
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: what they're saying. Okay, so how did how does that

485
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: one work? Okay? Because right now I'm mad? Right Like, say,

486
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 1: for instance, I'm mad, I'm in a relationship with a guy.

487
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 1: I'm mad at him. Right now, I don't say nothing? Right?

488
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 1: Are we saying that when I finally get to a

489
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: place where I'm not mad and I want to have

490
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: a conversation with him about it? You don't think the

491
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:52,199
Speaker 1: conversation gonna cause me to get fucking mad again? Like

492
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 1: it is, Well, it depends. It depends on what your

493
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 1: goal in the conversation are you are you so what

494
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 1: I saw? Like instead of trying to attack each other

495
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: to win, you decide that the issue is not each other,

496
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 1: it's the problem. Y'all are attacking that together to resolve it.

497
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: So if you look at it that way when you're mad,

498
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: you won't be You'll try to take the anger out

499
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 1: and take that put your anger at the problem and

500
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: not the person. I guess did you learn that in therapy?

501
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 1: Job therapist still taught you that. That's a hard one, though, man,

502
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: because when you're mad, like one thing I don't do

503
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: when I'm mad, I don't say the worst ship to

504
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: win the argument. So I'm I'm gonna be talking ship,

505
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: but I ain't gonna say like the worst ship. I

506
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: used to do that, I haven't. I haven't been with

507
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: nobody in a long time to ever like have that

508
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: type of time going on, Like I haven't been that

509
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: close with anybody where I could just go for the

510
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: guzzler like that, but I used to I have. Because

511
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm your anger. I still want you to love and

512
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: like me later, like it's certain ships. Somebody can say

513
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: to me and I'm not working with you no more period. Yeah,

514
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: but I used to not care at that point, Like

515
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: it was like you said something to hurt me, now

516
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: here's something to hurt you. How you like the mapples?

517
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: That's how I used to feel. That's what I'm saying,

518
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: Like like the mean things, that's just a mean person

519
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 1: thing to say. Crazy ship to each other when you

520
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: fucking mad, it's just a mean person thing. It's not

521
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: a man or a woman thing. It's just a mean

522
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: person thing. In that moment, we can really mean to

523
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: each other. But my last boyfriend used to bring that

524
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: out of me. He used to tell me, like, shut

525
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: your dick sucking lips. That's what he used to tell me.

526
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: I would have been like, thanks for the compliment. Look.

527
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: The next one is when you're drunk on That's a

528
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: good one. Now, I'm usually pretty like crunk when I'm drunk,

529
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 1: but I'm not a mean drunk though, So I'm always

530
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: having like fun. I got my microphone, I travel with

531
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: a mike, Like i'd be fun when I'm drunk. You

532
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: might be annoying too. No, I've never to tell me

533
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm annoying when I'm drunk. It doesn't have to be

534
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: like you say meanship when you're drunk. It also could

535
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: be like you just worried about me just telling ship,

536
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: and did I tell you that? Did I say that?

537
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: Or calling the nigga that you used to like that

538
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: you don't even really like nowhere, like what you're doing

539
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: right now, John, you home, I don't put up like

540
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: shut up, don't call it nigga. You don't even like him.

541
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: All right, So it says it's really hard to keep

542
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 1: your mouth shut when you're drunk, but alcohol u Lord's inhibitions,

543
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: and you're far more likely to say something inappropriate when inebriated.

544
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: It's true. Yeah, yeah, because let me tell you. The

545
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: elevators went out in my building. It was all kind

546
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: of fired me downstairs. And it was Saturday, late Saturday,

547
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: and I walked into the lobby and I just was

548
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 1: so inappropriate with the firement. I was like, I love

549
00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: a man in uniform. You're gonna save my day. I'm

550
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: gonna say my day like this. And they was looking

551
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: like bitch is late, like bitch, you know, they probably

552
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: was like a bit shut the funk up. Yeah there was,

553
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: and everybody the lobby was laughing. I was just inappropriate,

554
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: and then I was I was embarrassed the next day, like, damn,

555
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: concierge saw that they got you on camera downstairs, and

556
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: I got like a little slut, acting like a drunk slut.

557
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: I was about to do nothing with him. Man, I

558
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: just was drunk, trying to be funny. Yeah, I'm not

559
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: a crazy drunk though. I know. I have some friends

560
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: that are crazy drunks, and if you're not drunk while

561
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: they drunk, it's just not fun. Like bitch, you just

562
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: be disgusted with them, like I gotta be drunk to

563
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: deal with you while you drunk. I know those people.

564
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: I'm not one of them people. I don't think I'm

565
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, i'd be having fun, yeah, a good time,

566
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: but I did. It was embarrassing that night. I will

567
00:31:55,680 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: not lie, all Right's The next one says, when you're

568
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: about to ask a question that isn't really a question,

569
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: Let's give that some context. So it says, if you're

570
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: sitting in a meeting that's about to wrap up, and

571
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: you find yourself raising your hand and say something like,

572
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: so we're going to use our core competencies. Competency, reach out,

573
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: ride the swim lane, and move the needle until we swift,

574
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 1: excuse me, until we shift the paradigm. Don't you're not

575
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: asking an actual question. You're spewing corporate jargon so that

576
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 1: people will know you're in the bath I was about

577
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 1: to say, and you're in the bathroom, so people will

578
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: know you're in the room, and they will hate you

579
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: for it because they want to end the meeting and

580
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: get back to their jobs. I remember people like that, Like,

581
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: you're just trying to be fucking noticed. Just shut the

582
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: funk ups so you can go back, or actually, if

583
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 1: it's the end of the day, so I can log

584
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: off and go to target. Right, because why are we

585
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: in the meeting. I'm gonna start sitting everybody but you

586
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: the viral of Davis meeting her, getting her person walking out.

587
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: I'm sitting right there, everybody like doing jefts and ships

588
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 1: about you, right, because now you're just doing some ship

589
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: for attention. Right here, it goes this brown noser again

590
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: doing too much. Yeah, so that's a good time to

591
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: shut the funk up. All right, here's a good one

592
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: when you're about to complain it's hot, you have too

593
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: much work, something smells, the project is stupid. All true, probably,

594
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: but keep it to yourself. Nobody likes a whiner. Um,

595
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: this ship is for fucking work, isn't it. But anyway

596
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: we can apply it to real life. So I feel like, uh,

597
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: complaining should be like the eleventh commandment, thou shalt not complain.

598
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: It's hard, but you have so many other things that

599
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: you should be, can be, and should be grateful for,

600
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: um that this thing is. It's it's minuscule. Why are

601
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,719
Speaker 1: you complaining? It'd be like low ship people be complaining

602
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: about all right. I hate when people own't doing free

603
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: ship and complaining about free ship, like you're on a

604
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: this nigga took you on a free vacation. You complaining.

605
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: I need salts. I know you ain't talking. I know

606
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 1: you're not complaining on a free vacation before. I don't complain.

607
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm so easy to get along with on free when

608
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: we're doing free ship, if it's free from me, I'm pleasant.

609
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:29,919
Speaker 1: I'm pleasant. I rarely send food back when I'm all right,

610
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: even yeah, especially now, since like businesses are like short

611
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: staff and cross this up, I rarely rarely if it

612
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 1: got to be really bad for me to send it back. Yeah,

613
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: I um, I try not to complain, but if I

614
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: complain on you, it was really bad because I'm like

615
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: one of those people who just silently go away. I'm

616
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: just like, now I funk with that no more, and

617
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell other people. I'm a gossip about your business.

618
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,359
Speaker 1: But but I'm not going to like funk your day

619
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: up about it. So if I funk your day up

620
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: about some ship, it is really bad and it's like,

621
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: why are you playing with me? At this point? If

622
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: I really complain about some ship, and I guess that

623
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: also goes into relationships. Um My ex, one of my exes,

624
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: he would always complain about like my hair being on

625
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: the floor and ship like that. Nigga, your beard hair

626
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: is all on the floor like pubic hair. You know

627
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 1: what I do. I come in the bathroom, I just

628
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: sweep the whole bathroom. I don't like pinpoint what's yours

629
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: and what's mine, Like you just clean up behind each

630
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 1: other because that's what you're doing relationships. But for whatever reason,

631
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 1: oftentimes people only see what the other person is doing.

632
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 1: They don't see their little quirks and ship that get

633
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 1: on everybody else nerves. I have a high tolerance hero bocehous.

634
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: I'll be complaining, like in relationships, specifically about ship. The

635
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 1: other person does not like regular little things like that

636
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: personality ship I'm complaining about um. I used to get

637
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 1: like my ex boyfriend I used to get married when

638
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: he and leave the toilet seat up because I would falling.

639
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: And then I had picked up some weight and then

640
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 1: I ain't falling. I was even more to you, I

641
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: asked her, got fatter? I ain't even fall in this time.

642
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: I'm real mad at you. That's something like gentimen ship.

643
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: To complain about it, right, leaving that toilet seat up,

644
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: Don't nobody want to sit on that dried up pe right?

645
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: You pissed on the tilest seat and you ain't cleaning

646
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: it right now? That's that. That's a legit complaint. My

647
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: dad used to be like, did you lift the toilet

648
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: seat up when you was done? That's how he used

649
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: to get us. Yeah, but it don't go up and

650
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 1: go down exactly. But he would like, like, Daddy, why

651
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: do you put the toilet seat down? He'd be like,

652
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: why you ain't put it up? Nigga, nigga right. And

653
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: then my ex used to complain about, alright, I have

654
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: this thing where I don't tighten the lids on seasonings

655
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 1: when I put them back in the cabinet, Like if

656
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm seasoning food as I'm cooking, I put the lid

657
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 1: on it and then I put it up, and I

658
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: never tightened screw it tight. He used to get mad

659
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: that the screws were never tight on the season and yeah,

660
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: because you're being picked it up and now you dropped

661
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 1: it in his waist, is spill spill? Right? But and

662
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: I get it, and I will I was like, okay,

663
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: I'll make a conscious effort to start tighten him. But

664
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 1: how about you start cooking some ship in here sometimes

665
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 1: instead of me having to cook all the time, and

666
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: then you can make sure they're tight when you cook

667
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: it because you don't ever cook. Is that was that?

668
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: Your response when he gave you some critique on something

669
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: is to respond of something you don't like of him.

670
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 1: That's some bullshit. Just take it and be like, okay, baby,

671
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:39,800
Speaker 1: I'll remember right, because because instead of that started to

672
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 1: arsent attack the problem. M I learned it. I learned,

673
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: I told you, I just learned that A therapy girl. Yeah,

674
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,720
Speaker 1: see see how that works, y'all. Y'all, see how that works.

675
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: Stop trying to netpick with your damn partner all the time.

676
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: And that's just in't anything, huh, because he can you

677
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: just tighten the lids on the damn season? Can you

678
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: just shut the funk up? Eat the food I prepare

679
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: for you? Why are you in my cabinet anyway? You

680
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,799
Speaker 1: don't cook any I don't cook shot in here. Ever,

681
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 1: Let's see when someone else is being a jerk, shut up. Yeah,

682
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 1: when someone else is being stupid, rude, belligerent, or an

683
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: idiot in some way or the other, lit them, don't

684
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: call them out, get mad or insult or embarrass them. First.

685
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: They could just be having a bad day or not

686
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: know how to handle themselves in whatever situation they're in.

687
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 1: Be kind, I guess. I guess everybody is allowed to

688
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: have a bad day, and maybe it's an opportunity to

689
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 1: ask them, hey, you okay, as opposed to you know,

690
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,399
Speaker 1: being a jerk back, Yeah, being nasty back to them.

691
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: Because when we say shut the funk up, it's like negative. Right.

692
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: If you come in with something positive, yeah, absolutely say

693
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: whatever is. But if you're coming with some negative ship,

694
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 1: then shut the funk up in that situation. So this

695
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:12,360
Speaker 1: person is clearly having a bad day, or we're assuming

696
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 1: maybe they could possibly be having a bad day if

697
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: they're being a jerk, asked him, if they're having a

698
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: bad day, as opposed to matching their jerk. Yeah, but

699
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 1: y'all know, y'all be like I reciprocate all energy I

700
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: know I do, or I just won't say anything to you.

701
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: If I could clearly see that you're having a bad

702
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: day or you acting like a jerk, I'll just shut down.

703
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm not even saying nothing to you. And I feel

704
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:36,439
Speaker 1: like that was one of the issues in my last

705
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: relationship too, because I didn't feel like he if you

706
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: were having a bad day and something's going on with

707
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: you and you need my love right now and you

708
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 1: need me to be that that feminine energy to make

709
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: you feel better, you have to be inviting of that,

710
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 1: you know what. Your energy has to be inviting of

711
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: that otherwise because when I have a bad day, I

712
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: really want to be left alone. So that's how I

713
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 1: want to be done, right, So I have to match

714
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 1: people whatever their love languages is. So, but you have

715
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 1: to be inviting of the love if you want to.

716
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: If you need a hug right now because you had

717
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: a hard day, you can't just be blatantly nasty to

718
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: me and expect me to give you a hug. Like,

719
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm actually not gonna say nothing, so that will be

720
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: a time that I'll shut the funk up. If you

721
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: just blatantly being nasty to me, I'm not gonna argue

722
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: with you initially. Now if you keep poking on my

723
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: fucking bear, now, I might kick sweep you. I've been

724
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 1: I've been in the gym trying to learn how to

725
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: kick sweep niggas mid argument. You see, that's Cara, bitch.

726
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: Could you imagine that you'll be at my house or

727
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 1: something like that and I'm arguing on my nigga and

728
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: you just see me kick sweeping in his head like

729
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 1: bunks off the floor a little bit like, oh my god,

730
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:50,720
Speaker 1: that would be I'm like, oh my god, I'm leaving.

731
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: I'm leaving right now. I don't want no parts of

732
00:40:53,239 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: this girl. Listen, Ninja. Uh. I'm like when people are

733
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: jerked sometimes, especially as people that you know, I'm I

734
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 1: know and like it's something going on, I'll just be

735
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: like overly nice just to make them more mad, so

736
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: you ain't shutting the funk up. You're just gonna be

737
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: super nice, super nice, super nice and make them more

738
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, they hate this bitch today, like

739
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: almost so nice that it comes off fake, you know, right,

740
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: and they're gonna get that's why they're getting mad because

741
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 1: they know that she ain't sucking genuine So you should

742
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 1: probably shut the funk up, right right, my point exactly,

743
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: having a bad day, Ashley, Oh my god, somebody get

744
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 1: her some caffeine. Guys, she's having a bad day. No,

745
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: clearly you're having a bad day. I want to talk

746
00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 1: about it. No, okay, going back to my desk. Shame goodness?

747
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: Do you need a moment all right when you're about

748
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: to talk to feel in the silence. Silence can be awkward,

749
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 1: but there are a couple of reasons you shouldn't necessarily

750
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: rush to feel it. The first is that some people

751
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 1: just like to think before they speak and aren't as

752
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 1: freaked out by pauses as others, So when you jump

753
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 1: to fill in the void, you're actually cutting off their

754
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: thought process, way to beat and make sure they're not

755
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 1: preparing to speak. Another reason is that if you're both

756
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with silence, Sometimes you can learn a lot by

757
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 1: letting the other person feel it, as we often tend

758
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: to overshare what we want to impress and overcome any

759
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: sort of awkwardness that could be perceived as our fault

760
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: or for not holding up our end of the conversation.

761
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: This tactic is particularly useful when conducting interviews or during meetings. Okay,

762
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: so that's listen job ship, So listen. Okay. If we're

763
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: if it's some awkward silence, like on the phone and

764
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm getting off the phone, I'm not filling in ship,

765
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 1: let me call you back, Let me call you back,

766
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: let me call you right back like I'm getting off

767
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 1: the phone. In person, I don't really have that problem

768
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,280
Speaker 1: because maybe I maybe I am one of those people

769
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 1: that will fill in silence. I'm saying with a joke

770
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: real quick, quick, exactly like I'm good with that. So

771
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 1: if you're somebody that's not engaging in a conversation, I

772
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 1: just and I if I can't talk to you, you

773
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: really whack. That's what. It depends on what we're talking about,

774
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: because if we're talking about something heavy, I'll let that

775
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:39,760
Speaker 1: Paul's ride just so you could like because I remember

776
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: that time I told you, I told it dude like

777
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: his dick was trash. It was a long pause. I

778
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: wanted him to absorb what I was saying. I didn't

779
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: say it me and I said it nice. You know.

780
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: I wasn't like, yo, dick is trash. I was just

781
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: like you let him think too long though, because didn't

782
00:43:53,040 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 1: he get a raid after that? Calm down. Clearly are

783
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: having a bad day. Do you need a moment? Somebody

784
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 1: get them some coffee and stick don't work. So if

785
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: we're gonna have a urologist on next week, y'all to

786
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: talk about rerectile dysfunction. So that's a nice little information. Yeah,

787
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: if anybody has e D call up. We want to hear. Yeah,

788
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: we want to have questions. Mm hmm, because we want

789
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 1: all dicks to work in two. They gotta change their diets. Man,

790
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 1: they talk about black women like leading and diabetes. All

791
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: black people, black women, black men, we all have the

792
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: same type of health issues these things. It's not genetics,

793
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 1: it's the food that we eat, obviously. So everybody just

794
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: needs to change the diets and we'll get into that

795
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: next week. Yeah, so tune in for that. Let's take

796
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: a break, we'll be right back. We're gonna come back

797
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,720
Speaker 1: with our dumb bitch story for this week. Is good.

798
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: You know dumb bitch stories because we've all been a

799
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: dumb bitch at least once or twice. So listen, We're

800
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: back and listen. Today's dumb bitch story UH is brought

801
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: to you by one of our Instagram listeners. I won't

802
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 1: say her name. Um she says. I don't think my

803
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: dumb bit story is that exciting, but I love the

804
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:23,840
Speaker 1: show and I just wanted to write in. So. I

805
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: started dating this man when I was twenty five. I'm

806
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: twenty nine now. He's eleven years older than me. He

807
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: was really nice, a gentleman, sex was good, et cetera.

808
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: Plus he used to spend those bags. I ended up

809
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: falling in love with him, he said, and show the

810
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: feeling was mutual. But I could never get this man

811
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:44,160
Speaker 1: to actually say we were together. I used to borderline

812
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 1: beg the nigga to be with me. I've dated other

813
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: men throughout the years, but I always end up running

814
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: back to him for the comfort and I know he's

815
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: gonna take me to nice places. Fast forward to now.

816
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,919
Speaker 1: I hit him up a few months ago, and he's

817
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,399
Speaker 1: back in my life. He's finally ready to settle down

818
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 1: with me. But I don't feel like that anymore. Um,

819
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,479
Speaker 1: I'm really over the nigga. When we're together, I don't

820
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 1: want to be touched. We've had sex once recently and

821
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 1: I wasn't into it at all. I had to fantasize

822
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: about someone else to even attempt to enjoy it. I

823
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: no longer enjoy our conversations. I get irritated quickly. At

824
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: this point. I really just keep him around just out

825
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: of fear of being alone. I guess, Um, I guess

826
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 1: I'm a lonely dumb bitch. What you said? Ah, So

827
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,919
Speaker 1: that's a lot. The thing is is that, don't do y'all?

828
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 1: Do we really want men to like us? Because I

829
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes when they start liking us at the

830
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: at the same capacity, like say, for instance, like you

831
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 1: chased him in the beginning, right, and then once he

832
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:53,439
Speaker 1: starts liking you in the same capacity, sometimes women start

833
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 1: pulling away. Is it because it was the chase you

834
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: were in love with? Or is it because um, it's like, nigga,

835
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 1: you made me, you made me wait all this time.

836
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 1: Now I'm not really feeling you like that, because once

837
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: sex is bad, the relationship really is over. If it's

838
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,959
Speaker 1: like disgusting for you to funk on him, it's like done. Yeah,

839
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 1: just seeing him on his way because I mean he's

840
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: just being mean to the nigga at this point, like

841
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: why are you breathing? Nigga likes you know, like right, yeah,

842
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: just seeing him on his way, I mean, just be alone,

843
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: you find something to feel your time about it besides

844
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: the nigga you don't like, right, yeah, Because she was

845
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: liking him when he was being indifferent. She liked him

846
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:44,879
Speaker 1: when he wouldn't say yes, we're together, she liked him.

847
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: But now sometimes and like a little chase. That's why

848
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying these things. But it is it a chase though,

849
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: if it's the chase that you want, right for some

850
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 1: women who like the chase, right when you when you

851
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: get the thing, because that's that chase ship is really

852
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: a masculine ship for you to be chasing men. Men

853
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: are the hunters. Men like to conquer, right, So as

854
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: a woman, that's not like a natural thing for us.

855
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:18,239
Speaker 1: So I like it. I don't know, I guess because

856
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: I just feel like so many men be after me

857
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: all the time that sometimes I want to be like

858
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: the one doing a little the chase a little bit,

859
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: not like crazy. I don't want to be like let

860
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 1: me take you to dinner, let me ask you to

861
00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 1: marry me, right, No, But I do like when a

862
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 1: man isn't like just always available at my every whom

863
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: and just give me something to like wonder about a

864
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 1: little bit, like where you at, you know, like just

865
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: a little bit, not like you're my husband and where

866
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: you at four in the morning, but just give me

867
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 1: a little like give me a little chase, just a

868
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: little chase. I don't like men that's always available because

869
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 1: I don't like people are always clocking me. Okay, like

870
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: I don't work a job, but if I did, I

871
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,919
Speaker 1: would never tell a nigga my schedule that type of thing,

872
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: like I don't want you to ever know exactly when

873
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm available. Yeah, Or I don't like when the nigga

874
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: messaged me on Instagram and then turn around and messaged

875
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: me on Facebook the same ship. Don't do that. That's weird,

876
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: that's annoying, Like stop, I feel trapped by you, not

877
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,840
Speaker 1: you feel trapped, but not like you don't think for

878
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: a second that he just want to make sure Listen, hey,

879
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: I'm in the running. You see me like he want

880
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 1: to make sure you see him? I see you guys,

881
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 1: see your message in Instagram. You don't have to come

882
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 1: up here in Facebook. Shame God, damn. I don't know. Girl,

883
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 1: Leave that man alone if you don't like him anymore,

884
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: or or maybe you need to figure out what it

885
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 1: was that made you like him in the first place

886
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: and go back to that place so maybe y'all can

887
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: fall in love at each other. Now, why are you

888
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: gonna be like stop coming over there and you're working

889
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,760
Speaker 1: with somebody else? Think, I'm like, damn where Joshua? Exactly? See?

890
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: And that's the weird thing, Like why we like that hurt?

891
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: It's like everybody got a fucking pain body Like everybody

892
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: just want to feel. I don't like I don't like

893
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: that feeling in my chest. I don't like it. I

894
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: can't sleep at night. I don't like it. I don't

895
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 1: like my chest to hurt. I don't know what's wrong

896
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,719
Speaker 1: with y'll, bitches. I don't like to hurt either. Yeah,

897
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: but just like y'all chest to hurt, y'all do y'all

898
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 1: like that drama feeling and y'all like to makeup afterwards.

899
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 1: I don't like to. I don't like that. I just

900
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: like mutual everything, just cool, copastatic, That's what I like. No,

901
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: because sometimes that after fight sex be so good. It's

902
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 1: not even an after fight. It's like, oh, he answered

903
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 1: the phone, and now, like even if you're in a

904
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: situation where you can't check a nigga about some ship

905
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 1: because they ain't really your man m hmm, man like

906
00:50:56,920 --> 00:51:00,040
Speaker 1: y'all not established in an actual relationship yet, but a

907
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 1: hen answering the phone for you, now you're just going

908
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: crazy in your mind. You may not display it to him,

909
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 1: but that that gives like some fire, some passion that

910
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 1: is weird, old fucking behave y'all like it. I don't

911
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 1: like that, man. I don't like to have to wonder

912
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: about ship. I don't just a little wonder. I don't

913
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: need to like. I don't want you to be too

914
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: predict predictable and too accessible to me. But then it's

915
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 1: just like another piece of bland chicken for dinner tonight,

916
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: night after night. So if you call a guy and

917
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 1: he don't answer the phone, that don't bother you, No,

918
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 1: because I can't answer the phone every time you call,

919
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: I'm out with somebody else. All right, y'all listen. If

920
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 1: you enjoy this episode, please tune in every Thursday on

921
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 1: an I Heart Radio Apple whoever you get your podcast,

922
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 1: that that's how you're gonna do my thoughts. Do you

923
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: want a husband or not? I'm talking about I already

924
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 1: know who my husband is. God damn, I already know

925
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:10,919
Speaker 1: who he is. Okay, I met him. We're building right now.

926
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 1: All right. I hear that, y'all. Look y'all hear that. So,

927
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 1: y'all tam getting married next y'all know I'm getting married

928
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 1: next year. I don't know about you, but I am.

929
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: I'm I'm getting a husband this year. Child, and I'm

930
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:24,320
Speaker 1: have a whole baby next year. How about that. I

931
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:26,720
Speaker 1: don't know about the baby for me, but I'm definitely

932
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: getting married. I hear that. We're gonna see, We're gonna see.

933
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:40,840
Speaker 1: But anyway, like she said, if y'all light this show ahead,

934
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: do your ship listen. If you enjoyed this episode, please

935
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:45,919
Speaker 1: tune in every Thursday on an I Heart radio appic

936
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: where the fun you get your podcast? That this is

937
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 1: your co host aj Holiday to point. Oh, y'all follow me,

938
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 1: on Instagram, keep them dumb bit stories coming, and the

939
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: white people scared day sunk with us so we don't

940
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: have to ask for black friends in a while, all right,

941
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: y'all allow me on Instagram official Tam Bam I love y'all.

942
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 1: Remember to speak now and never hold your piece girl?

943
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: What the fun was that I can think in real life?

944
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: By y'all, Bye bye