1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: don't know y'all looking back to back down, giving them 3 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: like the milling bu bu things and it's not true. 4 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: Good Steve to the mother star, don't join Jo. You 5 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: gotta use that turn. You got a turn to turn 6 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: them out. Turn got to turn out to turn turn 7 00:01:46,880 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: the water the water. Come come on your thing. H huh, 8 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,639 Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice. 9 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: But come on dig me now, one and only Steve 10 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: Harvey got a radio show. Well, I gotta tell you something, everybody, 11 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: And this is great news for everybody that I'm or 12 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: share something with your principle of becoming successful at whatever 13 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: level you choose. It can be successful in the relationship, 14 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 1: successful in the family. Successes may be considered to you 15 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: becoming a homeowner. It could be being dead free. Your 16 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: ideal success could be sixty thousand a year, fifty thousand 17 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 1: a year, one hundred thousand dollars a year, doesn't matter 18 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: if you're considering it, if you're wanting it, if you 19 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: have a desire to become successful. I want to share 20 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: with you the very beginning of that. If no one's 21 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: ever done it. I'm going to say the beginning of 22 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: it today. See scripture makes it very clear for us 23 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: you don't The only thing you need to become successful 24 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: is already inside of you. It's not an external need. 25 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: God wouldn't do that to you. He puts the core 26 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: basis of everything you need inside of you. So if 27 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:34,679 Speaker 1: you discover it, if you tend to it, nurture it, 28 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: fertilize it, and water it, it grows, it branches out. 29 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: Then it reaches out externally and it starts grabbing things 30 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: outside of there to make it even bigger, stronger, better, 31 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: last longer. But in the very beginning, you don't need anything. 32 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: It's all within you. And if you cultivate your relationship 33 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: with God, it comes out, it flourishes. Now, let me 34 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: tell you that thing that I'm talking about is a 35 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: God given gift that He has given to all of us. 36 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: We all possess it. It is all within us, and 37 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: everybody has a gift. Had somebody told me what I 38 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: know now back then, I would have saved myself tons 39 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: of mistakes. I just didn't know the principles. I had 40 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: to learn them all well. One of the principles of 41 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: becoming successful is your mind set. You got to get 42 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: your mind right now. This mindset is simply a decision 43 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 1: that you can make. I can't get it for you. 44 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: I can tell you what to do, but you got 45 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 1: to make the decision. You that's listening, have to decide. 46 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna go on and get at it. 47 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop writing. I'm gonna become a homeowner. You 48 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna stop living check 49 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: to check. I'm I'm gonna put a budget together. I'm 50 00:04:56,040 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: gonna stop stepping out on my family. I'm gonna go home. 51 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it together. I'm gonna stop using you 52 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: when you make these decisions. That's correcting your mindset. Now. 53 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: The closer connection you have with God, the more help 54 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: you get sustaining the mindset. How many times have you 55 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: started to do something and you stopped? How many resolutions 56 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: have you made at the New Year and stop by February? 57 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: Over with by me at January? Done in March. Because 58 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: if you don't have a clear connection with your creator 59 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: to help you carry out the other force out there, 60 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: that evil force is designed to get you not to 61 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: reach your goals, get you not to come to resolution 62 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: with whatever the resolutions are you made, so he can 63 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: cons You can consider yourself not worthy or failure or 64 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: unable to do something. But the more things you are 65 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: able to accomplish, the greater your confidence goals grows. So 66 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: we got to get your mind set together. Your mindset 67 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: is a decision that you have to make. When you 68 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 1: make the decision, you can begin the process. Your mindset 69 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: is also a will of yours, a will along with 70 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: the decision, a will, a willingness to do right, a 71 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: willingness to change, a willingness to be better. It's going 72 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: to then cause you to have to make a decision 73 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: to make a change of direction. Don't go where everybody 74 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: else going. You got to go your way now. You 75 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: can't follow the crowd. You got to take a less 76 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: travel path. You cannot do this without changing your direction. 77 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: You can't keep hanging with the people you've been hanging 78 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 1: with if you want to be different because they're not. 79 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: Then you have to develop an obligation to yourself. You've 80 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: got to say, you know what for me and my family, 81 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: or if you don't have a family for me, I 82 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: owe it to myself. I have an obligation to myself 83 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: to be the best meeting I can possibly be, to 84 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,160 Speaker 1: be the best self that I can possibly be, to 85 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: be the best father, the best man, the best husband, 86 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 1: the best wife, the best mother, the best daughter, the 87 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: best son, the best student, the best employ ye, the 88 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: best owner. You have an obligation to yourself to give 89 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: yourself a shot at the best life you can. That's 90 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: an obligation. You owe that to yourself. Why would you 91 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: not live the best life that you possibly could. You 92 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: have an obligation to yourself. Why would you teat yourself 93 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: like that? Why would you take yourself and never allow 94 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: yourself to see the goodness that's already in you, to 95 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: have the abundance that's been promised to you, to go 96 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 1: and explore all the riches out there that's available to you. 97 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: And but one of the worst ways that you can 98 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: rob yourself off of the joy of your obligation is 99 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 1: to keep comparing yourself to somebody else. Because guess what, Man, 100 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: that ain't your life. You ain't jay Z and Beyonce, 101 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: you're not You're not open Instead, man, that's not who 102 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: you are. Quit looking around at everybody else. That comparison 103 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: of everybody else to keep you broken, it to keep 104 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: you unhappy. You won't even be able to be grateful 105 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 1: for what you have because you steady talking about what 106 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: you don't have. That's not the way, man. You have 107 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 1: an obligation to yourself to be the best you you 108 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: can be, not the best them. You're not them. Stop 109 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: trying to be them. Be the best you. It's cool. 110 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 1: You got a nice little house. That's cool. You know 111 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,199 Speaker 1: how many big houses is empty and feel with hate 112 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: and resentment. I'd rather have a smaller house feel with 113 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 1: joy in it than to go to a big house. 114 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: Man Prince got a line in a song that says, 115 00:08:56,120 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: I realized in its best disguise, or pretty house don't 116 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: make a home. Man. Don't you know I know how 117 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:09,839 Speaker 1: true that is? So I'm just trying to tell you now. 118 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: Another part of the mindset is taking dead aim at 119 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: your life's goals and ambitions. What are they? What are 120 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: your goals and your visions? What do you see for yourself? 121 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: What do you dream about? If you knew you couldn't 122 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: fail at whatever it is you were attempting, what would 123 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: you go attempting? See? That's what we need to be 124 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: after It's a mindset, y'all. It's a decision. It's a will, 125 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: it's a change of direction. It's an obligation to yourself. 126 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: It's taking dead aim at your life's visions and goals. 127 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 1: Come on, man, you got to get your mind wrapped 128 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: around this thing. You owe it to yourself to live 129 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 1: the best life you can be. Come on, man, talk 130 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: to God. God got something for you. You just gotta 131 00:09:55,760 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: check in with him. You're listening tow ladies and gentlemen, 132 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: boys and girls, monkey trainers, pet walkers, fish keepers, hunters, 133 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: trapeze artists, strippers, taxi drivers. That's mad at uber drivers, 134 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 1: uber drivers that wanted to be taxi drivers, sears, delivery 135 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: truck people, Walmart employees, and anybody that's trying to get 136 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: a vaccine. This show is dedicated to you, Steve Harvey, 137 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: Morny show Yo for the lonely, the disenfranchise, people who 138 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 1: are looking for hope, people that know that tomorrow will 139 00:10:56,840 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: come and the sucker will shot. Yeah on, that's all. 140 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 1: Let the church say Amen, Amen again, Sherley Strawberry. Amen, 141 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:15,839 Speaker 1: Doctor good morning, Steve. Wow, Colin Farrell, you got a 142 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: minister up in here, got moaned Junior. Good speel stake, 143 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: morning up when we make the donation in Nephew Tom 144 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: ain't king of prince your side, preach doctor doctor about 145 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: to give a donation? Know that was that was some 146 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 1: kind of speech there you gave, sir. I don't know 147 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: where it came from. I just started different it more. 148 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 1: You don't like do same thing here? Boy? I get 149 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: bored ye for yeah, ain't regularly you know, good morning. 150 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: You know, just when you think of love, gotta get 151 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: it on your mind. You when you think of a love. 152 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: That bar when he was in that bath tubs, Billy 153 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,839 Speaker 1: Ray Valentine, he got in mortem and Neil House, the 154 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: letting me take a bath board start where you food 155 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: back there? Yeah, the baby Coming to America, America, Coming 156 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: to America. Yes, I can't wait, I can't and semihop, 157 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: Look it's coooter. They said it took weeks to do 158 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: that barbershop. No man, man, they had all those characters. 159 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: Many Coming to America is hands down my all time 160 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: favorite comedy movie of all time. Yes, sir, Coming to 161 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: America for me and I'm not a movie buff, but 162 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: for me, Coming to America greatest comedy movie for me 163 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: of all times. It's so real. It's so good because 164 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 1: we know that Roscoe is Randy Watson from What's Going 165 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:25,839 Speaker 1: Down episode of Sexual Sexual Sex that Blue Tucks, but 166 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: when he went off stage, brushed against that symbol on 167 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: that donation. Can't wait till that movie comes out? Coming 168 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:42,719 Speaker 1: up in thirty minutes after the hour, asked the CEO this, 169 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steven Show. Time now for ask 170 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: the CLO. Let's go, Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. This 171 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 1: one is from Mario in Camden, New Jersey. Mario says, 172 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: I'm a six two brother and I'm a bit overweight, 173 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 1: but I've been trying to eat better and work out. 174 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: To Mario, I met a female on a dating site 175 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: and she's five seven and curvy, so I was comfortable 176 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: enough to tell her how much I weigh. She got 177 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: turned off immediately and said I was too big. She 178 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 1: says she doesn't date fat man and told me to 179 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: lose her number. Surely she knows that she's overweight too. 180 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: I tried to be polite, but she's really pretty. But 181 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: should I call her back and hurt her feelings like 182 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: she hurt mine? No? No, don't. What's what's that gonna do? 183 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: You know you liked her, she didn't like you. That's 184 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: that's that's how it worked, the only way of some 185 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: matches if y'all like each other. Yeah, you like to 186 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 1: weight on her. She ain't liked to weight on you. 187 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: Now you said you're six two and overweight? How much 188 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: do you wake up? How much you thank you? Way 189 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: to me? All right, that didn't make the letter. I couldn't. 190 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: That didn't there. Okay, you're fat ass. She don't like 191 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: fat ass, But he says she five seven, a curvy, 192 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: but she It's different on women. Women look, women carry, 193 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: they wait different. A lot of women look good with 194 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: them courage. You know, she got that swag and then 195 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: he said she is you know, he never said she 196 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 1: never said you was handsome, you know. So you see, see, 197 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 1: women have a lot of stuff working for them. You know. 198 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: If a woman keep ourselves up and dress right and 199 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: wear her stuff good, a woman can have some weight 200 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: on hu me and be all okay with that. Boy. 201 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: You can't take your fat ass out here. Shoes ain't right. Head, 202 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: ain't gonna watch on clothes hanging off to watch. No, dude, man, 203 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: women look at all that mass right there, and I 204 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: can't fix off. You too far from fixing? Go here? 205 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 1: You all right? Ricky? Ricky, and I heard radio listener says, 206 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm twenty five. My boyfriend and I have dated since 207 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: high school. My parents used to like him, but now 208 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: they think I can do better. I'm a licensed lashing 209 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: eyebrow tech and I make great money. My boyfriend is 210 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 1: a bartender, but business has been slaughter, so I let 211 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 1: him move in with me temporarily. My mom, my mom, 212 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 1: and dad said that living together is unacceptable, and I'm 213 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: I'm dating a boy, not a man. I want to 214 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: support this man until he gets back on his feet. 215 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 1: He would be he would do the same for me, 216 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: And why can't my parents see this? Well, here's why 217 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: your parents are looking at you. Said, you're a lash 218 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: and nail lady, and you're doing real well and stuff 219 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: in your business. He had just here bartender, and obviously 220 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: since y'all been dating, says high school, maybe he ain't 221 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: tried to improve himself. That If your parents is looking 222 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: at no upward mobility, no promising future for their child, 223 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: of course they're gonna buck the system. Now bartend is slow. 224 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 1: Now he'd have moved in with you. I mean, damn 225 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: that's so so your response to it's going hard is 226 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go in and move in on this woman, 227 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 1: and your parents see that they're not gonna be okay 228 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 1: with that, and you can't expect them too. He would 229 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: do the same for you, really really, Oh but even 230 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: if he did it, would you want too? Though? Right? 231 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 1: So's where he staying on the money? He may see? 232 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: Would you want to stay there? Would you just going 233 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: back to your mama? You see what I'm saying? Spoken 234 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: like a true parent. Tu Clo td and Cincinnati says, 235 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: I'm forty six and I've been dating a forty four 236 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: year old lady for about five months, and we have 237 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: had more sex in that short time than I've had 238 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 1: in my life. Yes, he says, I'm worn out and 239 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: tired all of the time from the constant intimacy. I've 240 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 1: started making up excuses to keep her from coming over 241 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: because it's hard for me to get excited. Now. Is 242 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: there such a thing as getting bored with great sex? 243 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 1: I'm thinking of seeing a doctor, but I wanted to 244 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 1: check in with you guys first. See you saying you're 245 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,399 Speaker 1: not getting excited anymore? But you say, but then you 246 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: want to say it's great sex. It could be great sex, 247 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 1: but you don't have as high threshold for it as 248 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: she does. Maybe you're libete, Okay, handle this. Every day 249 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 1: she coming over, you hide and stuff y'all under the bed, 250 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: trying to cheat and treat her like she got his 251 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 1: nigget's pagers for sale at the dog five months. He's 252 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: had more sex in five months, and in his entire life, 253 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 1: I've never had that happened to going on. I ain't 254 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: never had a five month run at the top what 255 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 1: I did in my damn like okay, and I thank 256 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: the Lord for that. No, bro, you just saying no, 257 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: you ain't up, ain't don't need to go into the doctors. 258 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: And you're a moment dude. Yeah, dog, it's libido. Ain't 259 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: got nothing for you. Libido in there. Okay, I'm moving on. 260 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 1: Remy and Oxford, Mississippi says I'm thirty one and I 261 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 1: married a woman I dated only eight months. A few 262 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: days before Valentine's Day, we decided to get married on 263 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 1: Valentine's to Day at the courthouse. After our wedding, we 264 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: went to Hawaii for three days. We did not tell 265 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 1: anyone or big news until we got home. The news 266 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: spread quickly, and my ex girlfriend called me crying. We 267 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: had an on again, off again relationship, and the last 268 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 1: time we broke up, I moved on for good. She's 269 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: so hurt and I feel terrible. Do I owe her 270 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: an explanation? What should I do? Hey? Brother, man? What 271 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 1: in this explanation? What you're gonna say? Yeah, dog, don't 272 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 1: don't go ahead of this conversation, because nothing you're gonna 273 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 1: say gonna fix it for this girl. Secondly, you already 274 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 1: I feel so bad. Now you're gonna want to console her. 275 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: One thing gonna lead to the next. Yes, and now 276 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: next thing you know, she back over at your new 277 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 1: wife's house. I'm like he was over here last week 278 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: cousouling me. Boy, you don't owe nobody nothing. It was 279 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: done is done. Y'all own again, off again And that 280 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: just stands with me. I tell women all the time, 281 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: stop worrying about me and talking about we own again, 282 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:07,640 Speaker 1: off again me, and don't do off Um. You will 283 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 1: say how long you take to get to Hawaii? They 284 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 1: came from Mississippi to Hawaii. That's about well, Mississippi. You 285 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: probably got cash about faux planes the Mississippi, you know, 286 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 1: I'm probam with you. Ain't a damn direct flight. I'm 287 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: trying to come back by the time they I don't 288 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: know that, but I bet it ain't a direct flight 289 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 1: out of Missippa. Thank you. Coming up next, the nephews 290 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: run that prank back right after this. You're listening to 291 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour trending 292 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 1: national and entertainment news new victims accused Ti and his 293 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 1: wife Tiny of sexual abuse. Plus now Oprah is going 294 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: to interview Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. We'll talk about 295 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: all of these stories at the top of the hour, 296 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 1: but right now the nephew is here to run that 297 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: prank back. And what do you have for his nephew? 298 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: I just see something timing before you say this. Here, 299 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:07,120 Speaker 1: I'd like to interview uh Prince or Harry and uh 300 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 1: Nigan Martin. Well, yeah, and we can baptize them too, redempt. 301 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:17,719 Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Pastor 302 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: Henry h This Pastor Henry. Oh how are you doing, sir? 303 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 1: You know, as to a greater New Hope Baptist right, 304 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:28,679 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I am answers cooler. My name 305 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: is Patrick. My name Patrick Davis. Uh ain't doing there? 306 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 1: How you doing, sir? I went there to your church 307 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 1: a bottom about two and a half years ago. I 308 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: went there and me, yeah, we got our kids baptized. Thereto. 309 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 1: Are you coming back to us or are you? Uh 310 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:51,640 Speaker 1: uh what's your current church? Well we we haven't been 311 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 1: in a minute, you know. But you you you baptized 312 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 1: my my son and my daughter Kareem, and you baptized them. 313 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't thank you. I mean, I'm sure 314 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 1: you do a lot of people, but yeah, I was 315 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 1: about to say I do a lot. I can't really 316 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 1: pinpoint a name like that. You said it was about 317 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: a couple of years ago, two three year by showing 318 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 1: up between two and between two and three years ago, 319 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: you you bout to have my little girl and my son. 320 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: O God, I bless on that. I'm glad I was 321 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: able to do that service for I was wondering how 322 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: did you get my number? Usually anything like this usually 323 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 1: get handled with the church, you know, one of my 324 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: deacons or my secretary. But uh uh, you um call 325 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: the church and they gave you my number. Um, just 326 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,880 Speaker 1: this guy at the church, let me see, his name 327 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: is oh Dobs brother, brother Dobs. Brother, brother Dob gave 328 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: you my phone number, my information, Brother Dobs. I got 329 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 1: this from brother Dogs that I you I could reach you. 330 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 1: Now you know him right, he's one of your deacons, 331 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: brother than I. That's a good man right there. I 332 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 1: know him many of years. Okay for him, my rooson 333 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 1: for wanting to talk to you directly. Okay, like I 334 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 1: that you baptized my little girl Tayling and my son Kareem. 335 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: What baptizing is supposed to be, you cleansing them, and 336 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: you're watching them because he probably hear my problems. You 337 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 1: baptize my kids, but there ain't nothing shamed. They grade 338 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: still bad. He still didn't obed. I don't see where 339 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: your back is not look, but if you don't tund him, 340 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: if you just let me. I don't see where your 341 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: baptizing has done anything. I don't know that I spent 342 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 1: when I was there. I want that money back now now, 343 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: oh now you coxcuse me. I'm not sure. I think 344 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,959 Speaker 1: you know we need to stop this madness right now, 345 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: because you're talking about you money back baptime. I would 346 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 1: like with baptize your kids. I've been at this church 347 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: up for many years, so I won't doubt that I'm 348 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: probably the pastor you're looking for. But I just don't 349 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 1: understand what you're trying to get at here the baptism 350 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: did I'm I'm saying you're supposed to when when when 351 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 1: people get baptized, they're supposed to change them cleansing. Okay, 352 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 1: I see, yeah, it's cleans them. But well if my kids, 353 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 1: let me let me ask you. I'm just trying to brother, 354 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:15,399 Speaker 1: I'm just just trying to get to the bottom of this, 355 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,159 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because she's like when we 356 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: gets I don't understand how you got my numbers. The 357 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: bottom of it is, yo, yo, baptizing ain't doing nothing. 358 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,040 Speaker 1: My kids were still grades bad. They still this over you. 359 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: That why they haven't been come to church. You said 360 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 1: you're not going to any congregation. May but you guys 361 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 1: need to come on back to church sitting or some sermons. 362 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 1: You know. I even work with your one on one, 363 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 1: but um, I can't. I can't do nothing about the 364 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 1: grades in school. I mean and and and and overall 365 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 1: that when you when you have them, I should see 366 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: a change in them, and I don't see a change. 367 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,640 Speaker 1: But all the time I was going to your church. 368 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm paying for these tithes. Well I'm not getting any 369 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 1: hey man, at the end of the day, Past Henry, 370 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 1: I want my money back. That's what That's what we have. 371 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: That's brother David. That's not how it worked. Brother. You 372 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,640 Speaker 1: hit you understand, I'm not. I'm not trying to raise 373 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: my voice at you. But you you all over you 374 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 1: want money back. I don't understand. What can I do 375 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 1: for you? I can tell you now, know you what 376 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: you can do. My kids and I have got a 377 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: baptized over there with you. All that time I was 378 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: going the church, I'm playing knee tis, playing knee tis, 379 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: playing knee time, and I getting my kids baptized. And 380 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 1: but the high just gonna have nothing to do with 381 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 1: the baptism. The time I had something to do with 382 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: all the path I spit over there, and I'm not 383 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: taking anything. And that's what you call in the world. 384 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 1: Am I gonna figure out how much cord you came? 385 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: I know you think about that. I know exactly. No, no, no, no, 386 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 1: you're hauling my home with this nonsense. You're not even 387 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 1: a number of congregation, and I just don't like it. 388 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: So who do you think your voice just because you're 389 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 1: gonna don't go you're a man of a tan. That's 390 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 1: because I'm a mamorized god. Don't mean I can't cut 391 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 1: your stout. You understand that. Brothers. If it's something you 392 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,400 Speaker 1: need to deal with, you need to talk to people 393 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 1: at the church. Why do I need to talk to 394 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 1: brother dogs when I'm talking about do not need to 395 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 1: the problem right now? You're the problem back, I'm a problem. 396 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 1: I just put a bunch of Tide money and I 397 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: won't I know exactly how much I spent over there, 398 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 1: and I want my money back. Brother about that? That's 399 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 1: what I care about. Your time? So that I said 400 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 1: your time? Want me to spell it out? Oh? Well, 401 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 1: here kids or spell out. I bet they know how 402 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 1: to spell it. Okay, don't be calling me about no 403 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 1: damn behave your issues with your kids. You're back Tide. 404 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: That's the question you need to be asking. Is you 405 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: living your life? Think to five? Huh? You know what? 406 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 1: You know what? Brothers? I didn't got out beside myself, 407 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, Brothers, I should not be using fire language, Skins. 408 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: I think what's going on. We need to we need 409 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 1: to get you and your children your wife, come on 410 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 1: down the service on Sunday. I will sick with you 411 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 1: as long as I can't. I truly, I truly think 412 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 1: counseling and talking is the only way out of it. 413 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 1: Should not be fighting on this phone now once again, 414 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:14,120 Speaker 1: I hope you accept my apology from my language. Now, 415 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 1: can I ask something? Go ahead, son, I can hear you, Okay. 416 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: Brother Dobbs tells me that you and him are together, 417 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: y'all together some mornings having coffee. You and brother Dogs 418 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: are every morning that I'm not either function or doing 419 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 1: something for the building maintenance to the church. Yeah, definitely 420 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: he's a good brother. Like I told you, I know 421 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: him for many years, right right, And he's saying that 422 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 1: when y'all having coffee that y'all y'all listening to the radio. 423 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 1: Is that right? Yeah? Well I suppose y'all be listening 424 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Yeah, it's always on the radio. Hey, fat, 425 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 1: was so fun? This is this is nephew timing man 426 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Martin's. Your brother Dogs just got 427 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 1: me to break phone called You didn't know now the 428 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: brother dob knew about this. He won game in your 429 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:16,400 Speaker 1: novel I'm too scared to cuss another word. Let's take 430 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 1: the thing out of my character. I didn't think I 431 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: didn't did enough for a lifetop to day. I'm gonna 432 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 1: tell you right now, I'm probably these realist didn't come. 433 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 1: And I tell my congression all the time. I even 434 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: slip up, so I think it would only be ready 435 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 1: to be leave me out to something. Man, what is 436 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 1: the baddest And I'm talking about the band at this 437 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 1: twenty oh man, you already know. Man, the Steve Harvey 438 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 1: Morning Show. There you go, all right, thank you, nephew. 439 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, entertainment and 440 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 1: national news right after this you're listening Morning Show. A 441 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: New York based attorney has sent letters to officials in 442 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 1: Georgia and in California seeking to open investigations under the 443 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 1: Trafficking Victims Protection Act and Georgia's Rape, Kidnapping and Terroristic 444 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 1: Threat Statues. Reports are out that nearly over thirty women, 445 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 1: survivors and witnesses have accused Ti and Tiny of sexual abuse. 446 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: In a statement to The New York Times, a lawyer 447 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 1: for Ti and Tiney said they deny in the strongest 448 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 1: possible terms, these baseless and unjustified allegations. WHOA okay, yeah, 449 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 1: this story, yeah, it keeps having legs. You know that's terrible. Yeah, 450 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 1: just see what the investigation don't know what. Yeah, we 451 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 1: just will stay on the story and let you know 452 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 1: what's going on. Yeah. In other entertainment news, this Sunday, 453 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: This coming Sunday, Oprah Winfrey will interview Megan Markle and 454 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: Prince Harry. Harry will talk about his mother, Princess Diana. 455 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 1: He told Oprah that he quit the royal family rather 456 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: than face the crushing exploitation that killed his mother. He says, 457 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 1: my biggest concern was history repeating itself. Growing interest in 458 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: the special convinced CBS to expand the show from ninety 459 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 1: minutes to two hours. According to royal watchers, Queen Elizabeth 460 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: stripped Harry of his honorary military titles because he never 461 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:27,120 Speaker 1: asked her permission to be interviewed by Oprah. Now does 462 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: he have to ask her now that he's no longer Yeah, 463 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 1: no longer a royal. You ain't sending no check over him, 464 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 1: got no raw security everything. Grandmama, I'm gonna pulled up 465 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 1: the catch and we don't get a ride on the 466 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 1: wagon no more, he got no damns lost him to 467 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 1: do that with the fur hats. You took all that 468 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 1: back that you think I ain't gonna say nothing. Send him. 469 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: He ran my mom off the road. Now, y'all asking 470 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 1: him want me to be signed if I ain't beenna 471 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 1: being it? Because that's the only question. I won't ask him? 472 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 1: What the hell would make you lead a damn palace? 473 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 1: Because I'd be in there heaven, women dropping grapes in 474 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:11,960 Speaker 1: my mouth till I was ninety. I'm Keith, I ain't 475 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 1: got to work. I'm looking for none, got a crib. 476 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: I'm on the whole. Queen think well, his brother, the 477 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 1: future Queen of the future King Prince William, has no 478 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 1: idea what Harry told Oprah. The brothers have not spoken 479 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 1: for months, and the special will air this coming Sunday 480 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: at March. His brother said, I'm not going no damn well, 481 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,479 Speaker 1: I'm about to be king King. Yeah, he's gonna be king, 482 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 1: Harry King, so yeah, and he knew that anyway. Yeah, 483 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 1: they never have been king. No, I mean he would have, 484 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: yet it would have to be some younger brother. The 485 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: first Harry William is the oldest William is the first 486 00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 1: son of Prince Princess Diana and Prince Now he already 487 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 1: no will You've been kicking his ass since they were 488 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 1: a little boy. He's nothing the lifted food be king 489 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 1: and he still live in the palace. He got every 490 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: out now the name was dog and this girl, so 491 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 1: I understand, you know, yeah, mainly that's what it was. 492 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 1: I think, you know, the treatment of Megan Marko. Yeah, 493 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,479 Speaker 1: and that's his wife, and he wanted to protect her 494 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: and they got a baby now and she's pregnant again, 495 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: you know. So yeah, Duke a boding him up, nothing 496 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 1: like as he just threw it out there. I am 497 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 1: hell hubbing and my wagon on you to ask me 498 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 1: to come in and get my and I was like, man, 499 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: I ain't tom. Hello, Hello, Duke, how are you deal? Hello? Hello, 500 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 1: your highness? Wonder what I how you're talking about the 501 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 1: royal family that well, yeah, Queen Elizabeth's and then of 502 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 1: course her grandson Prince Harry and his wife Megan Marco. 503 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:15,959 Speaker 1: Yeah alredy oh rally have you ever met Oprah? Dope? 504 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: Rock I love Opra. She's one of the most fabrialist 505 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 1: women I've ever said about. Oprah would be the only raison, 506 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 1: I'd leave the palace and do what what do you 507 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 1: mean by that? To marry Opra? Okay, that's just much 508 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: money as a palace got. That looks like I'm traded 509 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 1: off to me. But you'd lose your title. You think, 510 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: my damn about you? See the rancher son of Barber, 511 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: she's got enough money about Neverland? What are you looking? Woman? 512 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: Most forward to in the special this Sunday. I don't 513 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: know for on the hell what they have to say. 514 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have never left if I was him, but 515 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 1: I'm awfully glad he then I'm now I'm the only black. 516 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:14,839 Speaker 1: Now what you been doing? You? Your competition? He bought 517 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 1: hell along, and all of a sudden I was sharing 518 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: with another black when I was thinking down of the 519 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 1: black that knocks me farther away from the crown that 520 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: I'll never get. But I'm wonderful just being a duke. Yeah, 521 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,800 Speaker 1: you still have a title, You still have your title, 522 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:39,800 Speaker 1: loved the duke, Duke, Duke, Duke, Duke of wonderful songs, 523 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 1: Duke of he all of arting hounds. But what you've 524 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 1: been doing though, Duke, oh, just preparing myself of vaccination 525 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 1: time you know, I don't have to get one because 526 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 1: I don't never ever, I've never left the Ballace blue Blood. 527 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: I've never I've never been outside the wall. I don't 528 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 1: go to high rinser anywhow that bring it all to me. 529 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,239 Speaker 1: I'm still they rich and I don't love it. I'm 530 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:14,879 Speaker 1: eating cave lunch today, drinking what are you drinking? Over there? 531 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: Teen and Aaron on Ends They don't know it, but 532 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:28,720 Speaker 1: I haven't shipped in what Jack Daniels like a shout 533 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:33,879 Speaker 1: of jackets some ell gray tap, Oh my god, thank you, Duke. 534 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:38,279 Speaker 1: We certainly appreciate it. Coming up more on show at 535 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,759 Speaker 1: twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to the 536 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. In trending news, a courthouse where 537 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 1: Derek Chavin will be tried for murdering George Floyd looks 538 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 1: like the same fortress that's around the US capital right now. 539 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:57,360 Speaker 1: Heavy reinforced to black out the general public. Construction crews 540 00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: have been hard at work over the past week four 541 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: to five downtown Minneapolis with the facto force fields, including 542 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:08,239 Speaker 1: areas where protests and unrest are expected as Chauvin's murder 543 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 1: trial gets underway in the coming weeks. Jury selection is 544 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 1: set to begin March eighth, and opening arguments are expected 545 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:24,399 Speaker 1: toward the end of the month. Wow, yeah, well here after. 546 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 1: It's not televised, right, you won't be to watch it, William, 547 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if it is. I'm 548 00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 1: a watch. Yeah. I can't imagine them televising it, but 549 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 1: I would watch. I'm really interested in the defense. Yeah, 550 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:43,399 Speaker 1: because you know what it It just goes to say 551 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,800 Speaker 1: what we've all said all along. It's amazing how we 552 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 1: all see the same video and see something totally different. Now. 553 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,839 Speaker 1: I don't know what happens to them twelve people when 554 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 1: they go in that room, but I don't know what 555 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 1: video they see. Yeah, dating back to Rodney King, we 556 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 1: all she's sitting here going, what are you kidding me? 557 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:11,800 Speaker 1: This was murder. He murdered this man for eight minutes 558 00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: and forty six seconds. He spent the entire time murdering 559 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 1: a man with his hand in his pocket like he 560 00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: didn't give a damn on camera, on camera, Ram, please 561 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 1: come on, you know, and and and and America keeps 562 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,440 Speaker 1: saying this is not who we are as a country. 563 00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: Well okay, okay, then okay, what's the other side, because 564 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,440 Speaker 1: we keep seeing this side, and we see this side 565 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,759 Speaker 1: too often for you to convince us that this is 566 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,160 Speaker 1: not the America we live in. It's not the america 567 00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 1: you've ever seen or you want to deal with. But 568 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,040 Speaker 1: it's the America that we've seen and lived with for 569 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: a long time. And now the gig is up. Yeah, 570 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,719 Speaker 1: we're no longer patient. We don't want to wait on 571 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:03,320 Speaker 1: you to treat us equally. We're past that. We're exhausted 572 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 1: from getting the constitution applied to us. We're fed up 573 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 1: with the people being able to kill us and get 574 00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 1: away with it. Yeah, that's why I think it's good 575 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,920 Speaker 1: that I hope that they do televise it, because I'm 576 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: sure a lot more will come out that we didn't 577 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:26,400 Speaker 1: even know about that dreadful day. That the day I 578 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:31,279 Speaker 1: do see a couple of media publications that are saying 579 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:36,839 Speaker 1: that the judge will allow cameras in the trial needs 580 00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:40,400 Speaker 1: to be Yeah, so we'll see if that still holds up. 581 00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:45,680 Speaker 1: Gonna be a major major problem across this country. If 582 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:52,839 Speaker 1: that's not a conviction. I'm not promoting it, I'm predicting it. Yeah, 583 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 1: all right, we'll be back with more of a Steve 584 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,879 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show at thirty four minutes after the hour. 585 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening this Dave Harvey Morning Show. 586 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 1: A principal in Indianapolis, Guys, listen to this story. Principle 587 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:11,400 Speaker 1: in Indianapolis, Indiana has gone viral for giving a student 588 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,799 Speaker 1: confidence a confidence boost, I should say, with a simple haircut. 589 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: All right. It all started with Anthony Moore was sent 590 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 1: to Jason Smith's office at Stony Brunk Intermediate and Middle 591 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,800 Speaker 1: School for wearing a hat, which goes against the school's 592 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:30,239 Speaker 1: dress code. I sat across from him and asked, what's wrong? 593 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,480 Speaker 1: Why are you being defiant? Why are you refusing to 594 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: take your hat off? And he explained Anthony did that 595 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,400 Speaker 1: his parents took him to get a haircut and he 596 00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 1: didn't like the results. Instead of disciplining the young man, 597 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:46,359 Speaker 1: the principal has experience in cutting hair and he gave 598 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,000 Speaker 1: a student a haircut. So take a listen to the 599 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:52,920 Speaker 1: principle is Jason Smith's told CNN how important haircuts are 600 00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: to black males. I've been cutting hair, you know, most 601 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 1: of my life. Play college basketball, and I cut teammates 602 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,479 Speaker 1: here four games and I've been cut my son's hairs 603 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,360 Speaker 1: and you know for seventeen years. So I had professional 604 00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,279 Speaker 1: clippers and edgers at home. So I said, if I 605 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:12,200 Speaker 1: go home and and get my clippers and line you 606 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 1: up when you go back to class, and he said, 607 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,200 Speaker 1: he said, yeah, you know, I will. That age is 608 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 1: a time for you know, pere acceptance is huge, you know, 609 00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,880 Speaker 1: and so young men, you know, especially you know, African 610 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,719 Speaker 1: young men. The barbershops a big deal, you know, in 611 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:31,800 Speaker 1: the community and looking good and representing and presenting yourself, 612 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:41,600 Speaker 1: you know, is huge for kids. That's great, man, But 613 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,880 Speaker 1: that's an African American man that knows the culture. That's 614 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 1: a Caucasian principle. That young man is suspended for show. 615 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 1: That's what would happen. Yeah, man, what do you think, Steve, 616 00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what would have happened at 617 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 1: the wrong possibility that the rule would have just been 618 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 1: into play. You gotta take your head off, you know, 619 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:09,120 Speaker 1: and if you don't, you're breaking the rules. It probably 620 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 1: has to be some consequences. But like Tommy said, him 621 00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 1: being an African American man and understanding the culture and 622 00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:17,920 Speaker 1: what it is, I mean, you got you got a 623 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 1: different result. And you know, like rules are like donuts, 624 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. M Yeah, and the holes 625 00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: are circumstance and conditions. You can't can't blanketly apply a 626 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 1: rule to a situation. A rule is different. It's not 627 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,280 Speaker 1: a law, it's a rule. A rule. It's like a donut. 628 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 1: It has conditions applied to it, you know, like that. Look, 629 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:53,839 Speaker 1: there's no fighting at this school. Okay, no fighting. Yeah, 630 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 1: that's the rule. But now hold on, if you dig 631 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: into the situation to find out that this boy got 632 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,120 Speaker 1: some problems at have him. You know, he'd lost the 633 00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 1: loved one at home, you know, and you know he 634 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,879 Speaker 1: got put out of the you know, they lost their job, 635 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,799 Speaker 1: everything going bad at the house. And you find that out, 636 00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 1: then you can explain that, explain to boys behavior in school, 637 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:14,920 Speaker 1: So you can't just throw him out of school, you 638 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:20,359 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, when principles like this take 639 00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:24,920 Speaker 1: their time to understand why is this boy being so 640 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 1: adamant about this hat when clearly a simple rule you 641 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 1: can't wear hats in here. I got I had an 642 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 1: accident one time. Accident was fight when I was in 643 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:40,359 Speaker 1: the seventh grade and I busted my eye and man, 644 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 1: my eye was swollen, black, blue, shut. So I wore glasses. 645 00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,719 Speaker 1: The next day, I'm sitting in the music class and 646 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,359 Speaker 1: the guy says, hey, cool daddy, you want to take 647 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,800 Speaker 1: them glasses off? They were dark glasses. Yeah, And I 648 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,840 Speaker 1: said no, sir, and he sent me straight to the 649 00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,360 Speaker 1: principal's office. Now I got down there him, missus Clayton, 650 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,439 Speaker 1: I gotta take it glasses off. I showed Miss clay 651 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,399 Speaker 1: He said, I gonna put the glass on going back 652 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 1: to class. I understand because I gotta explain this eye 653 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 1: to everybody right all day right, all day right, and 654 00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 1: in the public school. This ain't this ain't nobody as 655 00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 1: exactly exactly Empathy that that's what we need more of. 656 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,359 Speaker 1: Not just like you said, Steve, just that's it, that's 657 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,399 Speaker 1: the rule. But this is this is why you want 658 00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 1: police officers in the black neighborhood who understand the black community. 659 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:36,200 Speaker 1: This is the reason why absolutely who said this? I 660 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:40,400 Speaker 1: turned into Thomas mild hold on, hold on who to him? 661 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:45,759 Speaker 1: You don't know your personality? He said, said that, wait, 662 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 1: we have to go to commercial break. Yeah, I got right. 663 00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 1: Hear what tims just say? Break phone called coming up 664 00:43:54,560 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 1: right after BOYD, you're listening to show coming up at 665 00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:02,919 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. 666 00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today and the subject is 667 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 1: my ex wife made my son hate me. Wait till 668 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:11,799 Speaker 1: you hear this. We'll get into it in a little bit. 669 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 1: But right now the nephew is here with today's praying 670 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:19,359 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for his nav? Law and Order? 671 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 1: Great show love its bu law and or to take 672 00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,600 Speaker 1: a listen, Come on care doll, Good morning, Law and 673 00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:38,040 Speaker 1: Associates Office. Hey, how you doing. I'm trying to speak 674 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,880 Speaker 1: to the lawyer mister here. He's not in Star, but 675 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,680 Speaker 1: I can help you. Um. I can get all the 676 00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 1: information um, and also get your actual complain at hand, 677 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 1: and then I can get your scheduled. Okay, what's your name? 678 00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:53,000 Speaker 1: My name is Joel. What's your name, Joel? My name 679 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 1: is Dwight. Dwight Turner. I'm trying to file a file 680 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,879 Speaker 1: a lawsuit on somebody. I ain't never done this before, 681 00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,920 Speaker 1: but I'm trying to file lawsuit on somebody, and I 682 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:05,800 Speaker 1: don't know what you know. Everybody tell me Vins a 683 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,839 Speaker 1: good attorney or whatever. So I wanted to talk can 684 00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 1: talk to him and see how I was supposed to 685 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 1: go about this. Right here. Okay, Well, can I get 686 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 1: all your information and then I can get your schedule. 687 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 1: He's not in the office right now, okay, but is 688 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:20,759 Speaker 1: he coming back to day though? Am I gonna be 689 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,400 Speaker 1: in the talk to him today? I'm not sure. He's 690 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:27,600 Speaker 1: in court all day and I'm pretty much his verry thing. 691 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,799 Speaker 1: So when am I gonna get to talk to him? 692 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 1: Then He's pretty good on getting back to you. He 693 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:35,520 Speaker 1: would get back to you probably tomorrow. But it's actually 694 00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 1: better to schedule as the only way you can meet 695 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:39,799 Speaker 1: with him, and you will actually meet with him face 696 00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: to face. The conversation is free. You can sit down 697 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:43,880 Speaker 1: with him and have that one on one and explain 698 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,200 Speaker 1: everything that's going on. So what you what you need? 699 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 1: What you need from me? Because I want to come 700 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:49,239 Speaker 1: to see you in tomorrow if I can get on 701 00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,719 Speaker 1: his schedule tomorrow. I need your full name, the day 702 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 1: to birth and your name okay, my birth day to birth? Okay, 703 00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 1: hold on, let me say, let's get can you do takedown? 704 00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:04,399 Speaker 1: What's going on with the whole situation? As can we get? Well, 705 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,239 Speaker 1: I'll give you out that all that other stuff later. 706 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,319 Speaker 1: I want you to write down what's going on first 707 00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,279 Speaker 1: because That's what's bothered me. I didn't get this all 708 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:12,560 Speaker 1: my chicks, And what is the actual point, what is 709 00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:16,719 Speaker 1: what's going on? I want to file a lawsuit on 710 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: my girlfriend's HUDs. Excuse me, I want to file a 711 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,919 Speaker 1: lawsuit on my girlfriend's husband. Are they still together? They're 712 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 1: still married? Yeah, I'm trying to understand. They know they're 713 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,319 Speaker 1: still married, they together and everything. You know, that's gonna 714 00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,239 Speaker 1: bother me right there, But I want to file a 715 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 1: lawsuit on him though. So you're her boyfriend, she's still married, 716 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: they lived together, they're still they're not legally separated, not 717 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,759 Speaker 1: like the little together, they got kids all that. You know. 718 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: I ain't tripping on that part right there. But I'm 719 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,120 Speaker 1: sure you're her boyfriend. Yeah, okay, And you want to 720 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:51,400 Speaker 1: sue her husband for what we're messing up our relationship, 721 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:52,920 Speaker 1: for getting in the middle of what me and hug 722 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:57,320 Speaker 1: got going on. That's not a crime, that's not ground 723 00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 1: for a lawsuit. Hello, he messed up everything we got 724 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:04,279 Speaker 1: going on. You know. Now he's taking the phone from 725 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:07,040 Speaker 1: he gets taking my name out of it, you know, 726 00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,640 Speaker 1: he ahskay. And when I'm sending a text messire, he 727 00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,359 Speaker 1: asking the text menshon I'm sorry to hear that. I'm 728 00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,320 Speaker 1: sorry that you I'm sorry that it's all going on. 729 00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 1: But that's not suple for our type of law. We 730 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:21,439 Speaker 1: don't handle any cases like that, infidelity, which it sounds 731 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,240 Speaker 1: like what's going on, that's not crowned for a lawsuit. 732 00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:27,920 Speaker 1: We don't address that type of thing. Okay, So what 733 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:32,120 Speaker 1: you're talking about it infidelity. Look, I know you're speaking 734 00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,600 Speaker 1: with the married you're sleeping with the married woman, and 735 00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,880 Speaker 1: you have a relationship with her, and you want to 736 00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:44,520 Speaker 1: sue her current legal yes, messing up your relationship. Actually, 737 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 1: you're the actual outsider. You're the actual person that's in 738 00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:52,080 Speaker 1: the wrong. If you want to make a what's your name, 739 00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,920 Speaker 1: I told you it's Joel, Sir, Joel, I ain't nobody 740 00:47:55,960 --> 00:48:00,120 Speaker 1: to ask you for your phone opinion. I called this 741 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 1: this me for cursing. Hello, I love, there's no need 742 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:06,680 Speaker 1: for cursing. I cannot help you, That's what I'm trying 743 00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 1: to tell you. I don't even know how to recurd you, sir. 744 00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 1: I don't even know how to give you to the lawyer. 745 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,719 Speaker 1: There's no lawyer. It's not gonna do this. Please don't 746 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,480 Speaker 1: call me with this. I want I want. You're trying 747 00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 1: to tear me out of my pocket. Man, you cursed 748 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:31,360 Speaker 1: by somebody. You call me by somebody. Husband. You know 749 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 1: my job is to have some common sense. My job. 750 00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:38,280 Speaker 1: You are the old last man the marry a married woman. 751 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:42,920 Speaker 1: You need to have common sense. I know, Joel, that's 752 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:46,719 Speaker 1: who you're talking to. No cursing me, do not hursing me. 753 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 1: How can I take this call? Sir? Sir? I don't 754 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:51,239 Speaker 1: want to hang up on you, and I don't want 755 00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 1: to misrepresent the small office. Let okay tell you what? No, 756 00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Have some morals and no 757 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:01,879 Speaker 1: one lost to or don't call me with this dumb sir. 758 00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:10,560 Speaker 1: Let me like you. You know what office. You're lucky. 759 00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:14,320 Speaker 1: Anybody in the office got me cursed off the languages 760 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,799 Speaker 1: that I don't even know you. Okay, let me I'm 761 00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:20,879 Speaker 1: about to hang I'm about to hang up. You're gonna 762 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,080 Speaker 1: make me come to that law office and whoop something 763 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:29,240 Speaker 1: to a point seven brothers. They will cut up off 764 00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:34,360 Speaker 1: just seven one through seven? Whoop that? Okay? Let me 765 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,239 Speaker 1: let me let me go. Okay, what yo, sir? Go 766 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:41,360 Speaker 1: taking your kids? Go find somebody. I wonder who who'd 767 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:49,319 Speaker 1: yo unique counseling. Sir, I'm my relationship. That's what I'm 768 00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 1: trying to do. You got me cursing mentioned the pastor 769 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:55,839 Speaker 1: on the one. Please do not car here, every ain't 770 00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:59,480 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna stop to laptop to Benjamin. Mister Benjamin 771 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,440 Speaker 1: was a here because he will let you know, he 772 00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:06,840 Speaker 1: do not take cases like that. Oh sir, you cannot 773 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:10,439 Speaker 1: sue for infidelity. You cannot sue. You can't. You can't 774 00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:18,040 Speaker 1: dream how long you've been working out at me? How 775 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,719 Speaker 1: long you've been cheating with the woman? Know your man 776 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:24,120 Speaker 1: for your old age? That ain't fret now, I've been 777 00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:26,360 Speaker 1: working here for ten years. Keep a job marking it. 778 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: You're black, okay, okay, I know, just off okay you 779 00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 1: you're wasting your time. You are completely You're wasting your 780 00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:37,439 Speaker 1: time and you're wasting my time. You know what this would? 781 00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,600 Speaker 1: I already know about you, Joya already know about you. 782 00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,360 Speaker 1: How you know me? You don't know about me? I 783 00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,680 Speaker 1: know you don't know a dam about me. I know 784 00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:49,240 Speaker 1: about rag me and people and women who got your husband? 785 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:52,720 Speaker 1: I know you go to boo man, he should whoop 786 00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:56,080 Speaker 1: your I'm gonna where excuse me? You go to boot 787 00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 1: camp every morning. Don't you excuse me? Don't you go 788 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,359 Speaker 1: to workout? You're working out with a boot camp group 789 00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:06,840 Speaker 1: every morning. What is this? Understand? Who is this me 790 00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 1: going up the boot camp? You know? Veta excuse me. 791 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,919 Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morny Show. 792 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:22,759 Speaker 1: Your girlfriend's got me to break called you fire fire this? 793 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:31,160 Speaker 1: Oh man? Man, you yo, hell no, I'm not good 794 00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,600 Speaker 1: you like. I love you, y'all. Hi that you Tommy 795 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:42,440 Speaker 1: y'all is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 796 00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:47,160 Speaker 1: show in the land. Tommy nephew, nephew Tommy, Steve Harvey 797 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,440 Speaker 1: in the Morning Show. I love y'all for the last 798 00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:54,520 Speaker 1: forty years of my life. I love y'all. I can't 799 00:51:54,600 --> 00:52:03,880 Speaker 1: be leading. Come on, come on to me. Tell me. 800 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 1: My favorite part is you're gonna do what I got 801 00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:14,920 Speaker 1: seven brothers. They gonna blank you up, all of them 802 00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:23,440 Speaker 1: one through seven. You don't know who you playing with? Brothers. 803 00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:31,879 Speaker 1: I love it. You can't sue for infidelity. I want 804 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:37,600 Speaker 1: to sue my girlfriends us for breaking us up. Man 805 00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:47,920 Speaker 1: about twenty five thousand times. I love that. Oh man, Hey, 806 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:51,120 Speaker 1: stupid coming to Burmingham. Stupid is coming to Bourmingham April 807 00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:54,320 Speaker 1: sixteenth through the eighteenth at the start though man pickets 808 00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,440 Speaker 1: are on sale right now. I got two shows Friday 809 00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:59,760 Speaker 1: to Saturday, one Sunday, the same weekend as the Magic City. Classy. 810 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,760 Speaker 1: Why are you in town watching the game and watching 811 00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,520 Speaker 1: the band and all that makes sure you get Take 812 00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,400 Speaker 1: us to see that ignorant nephew at the Star Dome 813 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,920 Speaker 1: that week that weekend, that's April sixteenth through to eighteen. 814 00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 1: Take us do see it right now? All right, thanks enough, 815 00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: My ex wife made sure my son hates me. Strawberry Letter. 816 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:20,040 Speaker 1: Up next, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 817 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,759 Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And 818 00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:27,640 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting 819 00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:31,120 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 820 00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 821 00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,239 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 822 00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:41,400 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Buckle up 823 00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. 824 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:47,719 Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter. Subject my wife made sure my 825 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:52,520 Speaker 1: son hates me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm going to jump 826 00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,919 Speaker 1: right on in. I cheated on my wife two years 827 00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:59,680 Speaker 1: ago with a woman that constantly threatened to call my 828 00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:03,239 Speaker 1: when she didn't get what she wanted. This went on 829 00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:06,840 Speaker 1: two years until I ran out of money and decided 830 00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:10,040 Speaker 1: to end the affair. This woman called my wife a 831 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:13,480 Speaker 1: few days later. I was out cutting the yard when 832 00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:17,080 Speaker 1: my wife when she called my house and my wife answered. 833 00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,000 Speaker 1: I walked in and my wife was on the speaker 834 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:24,240 Speaker 1: phone listening to my side chick with my son sitting 835 00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 1: there listening to everything. He was twelve years old at 836 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,800 Speaker 1: the time, and I made him leave the room, but 837 00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:35,120 Speaker 1: he had already heard enough. My relationship with him was ruined. 838 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,560 Speaker 1: After that day. My home life was terrible too, so 839 00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:42,960 Speaker 1: I moved out after my wife served me with divorce papers. 840 00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,719 Speaker 1: We are in the process of discussing who will get 841 00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:50,240 Speaker 1: custody of our son, and I haven't seen him in months. 842 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:53,200 Speaker 1: His mother's brainwatched him to think I'm a no good 843 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:56,440 Speaker 1: cheeter and liar. She has him in the middle of 844 00:54:56,520 --> 00:55:00,080 Speaker 1: grown folks business, and when we talked, she's always on 845 00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:03,359 Speaker 1: speakerphone so my son can hear all of the conversation. 846 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,320 Speaker 1: She sends me text messages with our son on the 847 00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:10,160 Speaker 1: text thread, and she's usually calling me names and cursing 848 00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,040 Speaker 1: me out. She's brought up all kinds of things that 849 00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,480 Speaker 1: have happened in our marriage, and my son doesn't need 850 00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,399 Speaker 1: to know all of that. I'm dying to see him, 851 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 1: so I sent him a text asking him to have 852 00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:25,200 Speaker 1: dinner with me one day soon. He sent me the 853 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:29,880 Speaker 1: most disrespectful reply a child could send a father. I 854 00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:33,160 Speaker 1: wanted to go snatch him up real quick, but I can't. 855 00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,440 Speaker 1: This is not the boy I raised. He needs his 856 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,000 Speaker 1: father back in his life. How can I reverse all 857 00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:44,160 Speaker 1: of this brainwashing? Please advise? Well, I don't know if 858 00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:45,560 Speaker 1: you're going to be able to do that. And I 859 00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:48,480 Speaker 1: have to say this. Everything in this letter is just terrible. 860 00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:51,279 Speaker 1: Everything in this letter, I mean, you cheat it for 861 00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:56,360 Speaker 1: the lamest excuse ever, I mean, in the history of cheating. 862 00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:59,280 Speaker 1: Just say you cheated or wanted to cheat, cheating because 863 00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 1: this woman was gonna call your wife if you didn't 864 00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:05,359 Speaker 1: cheat with her. It's about the stupidest thing ever, I mean. 865 00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,200 Speaker 1: And then you you cheated with her for two years. 866 00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:13,479 Speaker 1: She scared you for two years. Okay, that's just dumb. 867 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,520 Speaker 1: You know you should have told your wife about the 868 00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:20,920 Speaker 1: threats when they started, and then call the woman's bluff 869 00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,400 Speaker 1: and not cheat it since she ended up calling your 870 00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 1: wife anyway, you know. I also, this is what I 871 00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:30,320 Speaker 1: don't hear in this letter. I don't hear any remorse 872 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:32,800 Speaker 1: from you. I hear no remorse from you about what 873 00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:35,200 Speaker 1: you did. I mean, did you try to fix it, 874 00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:38,960 Speaker 1: did you try to apologize? Did you try anything anything? 875 00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,440 Speaker 1: I mean? And of course your wife wanted to hurt you, 876 00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,120 Speaker 1: and she knows your son is the way to get 877 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,279 Speaker 1: at you. I mean, what she did is beyond wrong. 878 00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:52,200 Speaker 1: What she did is beyond wrong. There's no way your 879 00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:54,239 Speaker 1: son should have been in the middle. As you say, 880 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 1: grown folks business. If she needed an ally, she could 881 00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:00,440 Speaker 1: have talked to another adult, you know. She she she 882 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,640 Speaker 1: tainted the boy. Now made herself look like a victim, 883 00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:08,279 Speaker 1: and yeah, made you hate him, made your son hate 884 00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:11,440 Speaker 1: you and disrespect you. I'm not blaming your wife. I'm 885 00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,680 Speaker 1: not blaming her for anything. This is your fault. This 886 00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,800 Speaker 1: is you, and of course you. Your son doesn't want 887 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,120 Speaker 1: to see his mom hurt and going through because of you. 888 00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 1: People get divorced every day and parents do get joint 889 00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,560 Speaker 1: custody of a kid. So hopefully during the divorce, that'll 890 00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:31,720 Speaker 1: work itself out. But yeah, you sir, created all of 891 00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 1: this because of your cheating. Now the family's broken. But 892 00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:38,040 Speaker 1: you gotta get to your son some kind of way. 893 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:42,520 Speaker 1: You gotta apologize to him. You gotta do something. You 894 00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:46,560 Speaker 1: got to talk to your son and not say anything 895 00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:49,120 Speaker 1: bad about his mom like you tried to, you know, 896 00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,240 Speaker 1: allude to in the letter. None of that. I don't 897 00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,160 Speaker 1: agree with anything she's done either. And your son has 898 00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:58,040 Speaker 1: already damaged by what she did, you know, letting him 899 00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:00,680 Speaker 1: hear everything. So you gotta get to a counselor. You 900 00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:03,240 Speaker 1: got to talk to him, a therapist of pastor Jesus 901 00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:07,600 Speaker 1: someone to heal this relationship. Hopefully, like I said, the divorce, 902 00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:10,280 Speaker 1: when you get that, when you get custody, you know, 903 00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:16,520 Speaker 1: he can begin to understand that you do love him. Steve. See, 904 00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:21,920 Speaker 1: I don't think this is a letter at all about reconciliation. 905 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,720 Speaker 1: I don't think it is at all. And I think 906 00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:28,919 Speaker 1: the man came right on when he said, I'm gonna 907 00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,000 Speaker 1: just jump right on it. I cheated on my wife 908 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:38,600 Speaker 1: two years ago. He already noticed his fault. I'm just 909 00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:41,680 Speaker 1: saying he knows it is his fault. But with a 910 00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 1: woman who constantly threatened to call my wife when she 911 00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:48,280 Speaker 1: didn't get what she wanted. See, now that's not a threat. 912 00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:50,360 Speaker 1: If you don't stay with me, I'm gonna call your wife. 913 00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:54,480 Speaker 1: It could be anything she wanted, because he said it 914 00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 1: like he was buying her stulf, getting her stulf, probably 915 00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:00,720 Speaker 1: helping her, you know, with the bills and all this hidden. 916 00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:03,920 Speaker 1: She don't give something, she won't her way or him 917 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:06,040 Speaker 1: to come over at a certain time, then I'm gonna 918 00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:08,920 Speaker 1: threatened to call your wife. This went on for two years, 919 00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:12,160 Speaker 1: and this is the killer part, he says, until I 920 00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 1: ran out of money and decided to end the affair. See, 921 00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 1: this affair was based around the money he was given 922 00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:24,920 Speaker 1: the mistress. So when the mistress couldn't get what, she 923 00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:28,440 Speaker 1: won't and I'll need this, you need to buy me that. 924 00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:30,960 Speaker 1: This shit threatened to call the wife. He kept it 925 00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:35,160 Speaker 1: going for two years. He liked a little sideline stuff, 926 00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:37,240 Speaker 1: but it was costing him too much, so then he 927 00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:42,120 Speaker 1: decided to end the affair. What what should he didn't 928 00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:46,160 Speaker 1: have to do any of this. He was cheating with 929 00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:49,480 Speaker 1: the woman. He was buying the stuff she wanted more 930 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:51,280 Speaker 1: when he didn't have the money to give or won't 931 00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:53,280 Speaker 1: She threatened to call him. He tried to keep it 932 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:57,120 Speaker 1: until he ran out of money. That we'll come back 933 00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 1: with per two of your response. Girl at twenty three 934 01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:04,000 Speaker 1: minutes after backing, straightened her letter and her out come 935 01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:08,720 Speaker 1: on back, you're straighten him out. My ex wife made 936 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,560 Speaker 1: sure my son hates me is the subject. We'll be 937 01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:17,200 Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening show, All right, Come on, Steve, 938 01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:20,720 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject my ex wife 939 01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:24,400 Speaker 1: made my son hate me? All right? Man writes a 940 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:26,800 Speaker 1: letter to said he gonna jump right on it. Cheated 941 01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:29,160 Speaker 1: on his wife two years ago. He admitted that he 942 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:33,160 Speaker 1: know he wronged with the woman that constantly threatened to 943 01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 1: call my wife when she didn't get what she wanted. 944 01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,200 Speaker 1: That could be I want you to come over now. 945 01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:40,840 Speaker 1: That could be I want a new dress. That could 946 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 1: be I want you to fix my car. That could 947 01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:44,800 Speaker 1: be I need help with these bills. It could be 948 01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:48,080 Speaker 1: anything she wanted, but she would threaten to call her wife. Now. 949 01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:50,440 Speaker 1: He tried to keep it up, and he said, this 950 01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:54,040 Speaker 1: went on for two years until I ran out of money, 951 01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:57,720 Speaker 1: and I said, man, now I got to end this 952 01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:01,120 Speaker 1: affair because that affair he was in. It might have 953 01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:04,920 Speaker 1: been sexual, but it was tied to money. Sugar. Daddy 954 01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:10,520 Speaker 1: ran out of sugar. He just daddy, now, So that's 955 01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:12,920 Speaker 1: what happened. I was out cutting the yard when she 956 01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:16,640 Speaker 1: called my house and my wife answered. Walked in. Wife 957 01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:19,280 Speaker 1: on the speaker phone listening to my side. Chick, he 958 01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:21,760 Speaker 1: know he wrong. My son was sitting there listening to everything. 959 01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:24,360 Speaker 1: He was twelve years old at the time, and I 960 01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,760 Speaker 1: made him leave the room, but he had already heard enough. 961 01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,960 Speaker 1: My relationship when him was ruined. After that day, my 962 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:35,000 Speaker 1: home life was terrible too, so I moved out after 963 01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:38,200 Speaker 1: my wife served me with divorce papers. So this isn't 964 01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:42,360 Speaker 1: about a reconciliation. It's over. He caused it. His fault, 965 01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:46,840 Speaker 1: bad hit the problem. We're in the process of discussion. 966 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:50,240 Speaker 1: Who would get custody of our son dog. You're not 967 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:55,560 Speaker 1: getting custody. You could get joint custody. You know you 968 01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:59,040 Speaker 1: might get knocked down the visitation, but you're not getting custody. 969 01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:03,040 Speaker 1: You can stop this right now. I haven't seen him 970 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,760 Speaker 1: in months. His mother has brainwashed him to think I'm 971 01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:08,520 Speaker 1: a no good cheetah and liar. She has him in 972 01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:10,600 Speaker 1: the middle of grown folks business, and when we talk, 973 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,320 Speaker 1: she's always on speaking phones, so my son can hear 974 01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:17,120 Speaker 1: all of the conversation. Sirley and I both agree she's 975 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:19,800 Speaker 1: wrong for this. I'm gonna tell you at the end. 976 01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:23,120 Speaker 1: Sends me text messages with our son on the text thread. 977 01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:27,360 Speaker 1: Oh she wrong, man, But I'm gonna tell you why 978 01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:30,480 Speaker 1: she's doing this too, calling your names and cussing me out. 979 01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:32,360 Speaker 1: She's brought off all kinds of things that happened in 980 01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:34,160 Speaker 1: I managing my son. Don't need to know all that. 981 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:36,360 Speaker 1: I'm dying to see him. So when I sent him 982 01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:39,439 Speaker 1: a text asking to have dinner with me one day soon, 983 01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:42,760 Speaker 1: he sent me the most disrespectful reply a child could 984 01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:46,320 Speaker 1: send a father. I want to go snatch him up 985 01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,880 Speaker 1: real quick, but I can't. This is not the boy 986 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,880 Speaker 1: I raise. He needs his father back in his life. 987 01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:55,800 Speaker 1: How can I reverse all the brainwashing? Please advise? Well, 988 01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 1: she here's a deal. She has accomplished what she wanted 989 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:04,000 Speaker 1: to do. But here's a problem. She won, but he lost, 990 01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:10,880 Speaker 1: not you have lost. Her son has lost because he 991 01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,840 Speaker 1: not only does he not have a husband, but now 992 01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:16,400 Speaker 1: she got her son thinking he ain't got a father, 993 01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:19,880 Speaker 1: and it don't have to be because his my opinion 994 01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:26,720 Speaker 1: in this whole thing, when your husband doesn't prove to 995 01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:31,240 Speaker 1: be a great husband, it doesn't mean that he's not 996 01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:38,520 Speaker 1: a good father. Those are two different roles completely, And 997 01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:41,720 Speaker 1: when I say that, I'm meaning that the two roles 998 01:03:41,840 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 1: can be separated and each can be performed extremely well. 999 01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:50,280 Speaker 1: You can be a great husband and never have any children. 1000 01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:55,320 Speaker 1: You can be a great father, but you don't necessarily 1001 01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:58,560 Speaker 1: make you a great husband. So the man is not 1002 01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:01,960 Speaker 1: a great husband, got that, But that don't mean he 1003 01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:06,840 Speaker 1: ain't a great father. But as a scorn woman or man, 1004 01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:12,479 Speaker 1: tying the two together only hurts the child. The child 1005 01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:16,480 Speaker 1: is crust. Oh, you're whipping the father's behind. But do 1006 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,120 Speaker 1: you know that? You know in the long run that 1007 01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:21,440 Speaker 1: man is still a man no matter what you say 1008 01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:26,520 Speaker 1: about him. But you are hindering your son's development into 1009 01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: manhood because the one person that can teach him how 1010 01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:34,760 Speaker 1: to be a man, you've discredited him because he wasn't 1011 01:04:34,800 --> 01:04:39,160 Speaker 1: a good husband. See, y'all just wasn't it for each other? 1012 01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:43,680 Speaker 1: For whatever the reason was. He wrong for cheating one 1013 01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:47,160 Speaker 1: hundred percent. But because he's not a good husband, don't 1014 01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:50,600 Speaker 1: make him not a good father. So now you brainwashed 1015 01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:53,560 Speaker 1: the child into hating his own father, and you win. 1016 01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:57,680 Speaker 1: But guess what your child loses. And y'all got to 1017 01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:00,680 Speaker 1: stop that. This is knowledge of man. If you are 1018 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:04,240 Speaker 1: out there, you have to stop that. If you're in 1019 01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:06,800 Speaker 1: the process of using your child as upon and your 1020 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:11,040 Speaker 1: divorce or your relationship, you have to stop that. I 1021 01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:17,400 Speaker 1: am speaking from experience. You have to stop that. It's 1022 01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:20,880 Speaker 1: not for you to do this to this boy, because 1023 01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:24,120 Speaker 1: I have news for you. One day, this boy's gonna 1024 01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:27,840 Speaker 1: grow up and he gonna know the truth. And as 1025 01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,880 Speaker 1: this boy grows up, this boy's gonna make mistakes of 1026 01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:34,920 Speaker 1: his own and he's gonna start to understand that mistakes 1027 01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:38,800 Speaker 1: happen in life. But because he wasn't a great husband 1028 01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,200 Speaker 1: to you don't mean that he wasn't a great father 1029 01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:44,439 Speaker 1: to this boy. And you're doing nothing but damaging the board. 1030 01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:48,320 Speaker 1: And they tell you all the time. Listen, I don't 1031 01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:51,680 Speaker 1: let my children hear me say nothing about their mother's 1032 01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:57,640 Speaker 1: disparaging nothing. Oh I could, but I don't now them. 1033 01:05:57,720 --> 01:06:00,280 Speaker 1: On the other hand, Oh, they ain't done. Men done 1034 01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:04,280 Speaker 1: me like like like a damn book. But guess what 1035 01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:07,680 Speaker 1: at the end, the truth comes out hanging it. Though 1036 01:06:08,400 --> 01:06:12,320 Speaker 1: I support the man in this letter, I supports the child. 1037 01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:20,440 Speaker 1: All right, well wow, okay, Well we'll continue this conversation 1038 01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:23,200 Speaker 1: when we come back. My ex wife made sure my 1039 01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,240 Speaker 1: son hates me. Steve and I agree on that that 1040 01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:29,520 Speaker 1: that is definitely wrong and we have some personal experiences 1041 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,840 Speaker 1: to talk about when we come back. All right, after this, 1042 01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:37,400 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, 1043 01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:41,880 Speaker 1: this this Strawberry letter was was interesting. My ex wife 1044 01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:46,040 Speaker 1: made sure my son hates me. Um, you know, I mean, 1045 01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:48,320 Speaker 1: we can relate to it. We can relate to it. 1046 01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:51,320 Speaker 1: We've both been divorced on the show. Um, you know, 1047 01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:56,640 Speaker 1: full disclosure. Um, my first marriage didn't go well, didn't 1048 01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:58,920 Speaker 1: end well, but we had a beautiful child out of 1049 01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:02,880 Speaker 1: that relationship. And you know, I'm not ashamed to admit 1050 01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:05,760 Speaker 1: um that I was very bitter. I was very very 1051 01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:09,480 Speaker 1: bitter when we broke up. Um. Uh, you know, you 1052 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:12,320 Speaker 1: get to a dark place sometimes you're angry, you're bitter, 1053 01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:16,160 Speaker 1: and um, you know I was on the radio. I 1054 01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:17,880 Speaker 1: was on the radio in LA. A lot of people 1055 01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:21,520 Speaker 1: who listened during that time, probably well hopefully they don't remember. 1056 01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:23,160 Speaker 1: It was so long ago. But yeah, I used to 1057 01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:27,600 Speaker 1: bad man. I used to really bad mother my ex 1058 01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:32,080 Speaker 1: husband on the air constantly, because you know, something would 1059 01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:35,480 Speaker 1: happen that it would remind me or you know, trigger 1060 01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:37,920 Speaker 1: me or something like that, and I just go in, 1061 01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:40,320 Speaker 1: you know, I say one thing, Yeah, call him a 1062 01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:44,320 Speaker 1: dead beat dad or whatever whatever, and uh, just just 1063 01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:46,920 Speaker 1: not a good look. You know when you look back 1064 01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:49,840 Speaker 1: and you look back from now, what you think, Oh, 1065 01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:52,160 Speaker 1: it was horrible. I mean I had to stop myself. 1066 01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:55,280 Speaker 1: You know, you grow, you change, people change, they do. 1067 01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,560 Speaker 1: I had to forgive him that. It started with that forgiveness, 1068 01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:03,040 Speaker 1: because forgiveness is not for the other person. We talk 1069 01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:05,080 Speaker 1: about that a lot on the show. Forgiveness is for you. 1070 01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:09,200 Speaker 1: Once I forgave him, then I could start to heal. 1071 01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:11,800 Speaker 1: And I stopped and I apologized on the air. I 1072 01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:14,400 Speaker 1: apologized to him for saying that because we had a child, 1073 01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:16,680 Speaker 1: I never wanted her to grow up. And you know 1074 01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:18,880 Speaker 1: have people saying, well, your mom used to do this, 1075 01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:21,680 Speaker 1: talk about your I never wanted that, so you know 1076 01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:30,360 Speaker 1: mine ain't feel that way. But you wouldn't do that. 1077 01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:32,880 Speaker 1: You're too much of a gentleman to do that. Well, 1078 01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:38,040 Speaker 1: I would never talk about my sons and daughters mothers 1079 01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:41,800 Speaker 1: in a disparaging way publicly. I would never do that, 1080 01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:45,559 Speaker 1: you know. I have my comments away in my own 1081 01:08:45,680 --> 01:08:49,120 Speaker 1: personal life because I'm human, but never on the air, 1082 01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:53,040 Speaker 1: because I taught my sons. I raised my sons to 1083 01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,639 Speaker 1: honor their mothers like I was raised to honor mine 1084 01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:59,680 Speaker 1: and to defend her at all costs. I can't they 1085 01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:02,040 Speaker 1: can't see me talking about it. And then I asked 1086 01:09:02,120 --> 01:09:07,800 Speaker 1: them not to honor them. But you know, my yeah, yeah, 1087 01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,839 Speaker 1: but my ex went on a complete and total smear 1088 01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:15,439 Speaker 1: campaign out of out of her anger and score for years, 1089 01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:21,240 Speaker 1: I understand, for years. I mean just attack, attack, attack, attack, 1090 01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:25,880 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, and you know, I thank god I 1091 01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:30,439 Speaker 1: had Marjorie, you know, a strong woman who knew me. Yeah, 1092 01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:33,120 Speaker 1: I could say no. All right, coming up at the 1093 01:09:33,200 --> 01:09:35,240 Speaker 1: top of the hour, we're going to talk about the 1094 01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:39,599 Speaker 1: moment we realized that we've turned into our parents. Oh boy, 1095 01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:45,160 Speaker 1: we'll talk about that right after this. You're listening to show, 1096 01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:50,320 Speaker 1: all right, So, guys, no matter how much as kids 1097 01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:52,519 Speaker 1: we swear that we will never grow up to be 1098 01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,720 Speaker 1: like our parents, there does come a time when most 1099 01:09:55,800 --> 01:10:00,040 Speaker 1: of us wind up doing just that. We all I 1100 01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:03,720 Speaker 1: love that commercial. And you know where the guy is 1101 01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:08,040 Speaker 1: helping people not to turn into their parents. We love 1102 01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:16,800 Speaker 1: that commercial. We see all blue hair. Growing up, did 1103 01:10:16,920 --> 01:10:20,120 Speaker 1: you swear you weren't going to be like your parents? And? 1104 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:22,680 Speaker 1: Uh so that's the question. Growing up, did you ever 1105 01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:24,719 Speaker 1: swear that you weren't going to be like your parents? 1106 01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:28,120 Speaker 1: And what things did you insist you never do and 1107 01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:36,439 Speaker 1: now you do them? What what are you doing? I'm 1108 01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:38,799 Speaker 1: doing it like you know. My little girl is sixteen, 1109 01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:41,080 Speaker 1: so I got me a little girl. We bought my 1110 01:10:41,160 --> 01:10:44,280 Speaker 1: little girl a car. I swear every time she pull 1111 01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:47,120 Speaker 1: out that driveway, I want to know where you're going. 1112 01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:49,639 Speaker 1: I want to know when you get there. I want 1113 01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:51,120 Speaker 1: you to call me when you get there. I want 1114 01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:52,559 Speaker 1: you call them when you're on your way back. I'm 1115 01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:55,360 Speaker 1: just paranoid. My daddy was just like that boy. Where 1116 01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:57,720 Speaker 1: you going, I'm going around here, call him when you 1117 01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:01,160 Speaker 1: get over there. I don't want to go in the 1118 01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:06,479 Speaker 1: house and call you. Then you ain't going, Then you 1119 01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:11,559 Speaker 1: ain't going. You have a traice. But my little girl 1120 01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:14,080 Speaker 1: is to see one point. She texts as soon as 1121 01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:17,160 Speaker 1: she get what she going the way back. She does 1122 01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:20,120 Speaker 1: everything she's supposed to do so now that the oldest boy. Man, 1123 01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:25,400 Speaker 1: who where are you going? You all want to know 1124 01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:32,840 Speaker 1: where I'm going? Daddy? Okay, okay, you're right, you go 1125 01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:37,840 Speaker 1: ahead on. I am my daddy all over. Yeah, what 1126 01:11:37,960 --> 01:11:43,920 Speaker 1: about you, junior? I know you don't have kids, but man, lecturing, 1127 01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:46,760 Speaker 1: I said. I never lectured like my parents did because 1128 01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:48,920 Speaker 1: my dad didn't give good lecture because he could never 1129 01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:51,639 Speaker 1: finish the sentence. I do the same thing with my nephew. 1130 01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:54,439 Speaker 1: Time to school called, he messed up. I heat on 1131 01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:57,599 Speaker 1: the phone. Hello, I said, hey, what who? Okay? Now, 1132 01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:02,400 Speaker 1: see see here right, you're pushing it. You're pushing it. Okay, 1133 01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:04,679 Speaker 1: listen to me. I ain't saying nothing, but I said, 1134 01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:08,680 Speaker 1: listen to me. You all right now, okay, let me 1135 01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:13,120 Speaker 1: come down there. Let me come down that. I turned 1136 01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 1: it into the exact ain't Peter Man, No, you know 1137 01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:26,720 Speaker 1: I'm the direct opposite there. No, no, no, I couldn't wait. 1138 01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:31,839 Speaker 1: Could be my damn dad. You wait, I find somebody 1139 01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:33,320 Speaker 1: I can tell you get the hell out of my faith. 1140 01:12:33,439 --> 01:12:38,439 Speaker 1: Ain't go hey, come in here, get that remote, go 1141 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:43,400 Speaker 1: over there and turn that TV channel to all that. Yeah, 1142 01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:46,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take the car. You ain't taking nobody's damn car, 1143 01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:50,479 Speaker 1: you better get your ass on that bike. I'm saying, 1144 01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:57,200 Speaker 1: do you say no, I'll be going Yeah, I feel good. Yeah, 1145 01:12:57,320 --> 01:13:02,040 Speaker 1: he lives. I could never. Mom couldn't get our names right. 1146 01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:04,840 Speaker 1: You know, she'd be calling me this name or that 1147 01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:10,400 Speaker 1: name or that you know is Marjorie w Yeah, and 1148 01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:17,000 Speaker 1: I do that now, dude, you really? Yes? What with 1149 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:21,400 Speaker 1: my mom? She made a big thing about, you know, cleaning, 1150 01:13:21,520 --> 01:13:25,880 Speaker 1: getting up and on the weekends, listening to music and 1151 01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:29,640 Speaker 1: maze and all. I'm telling you. The other day, I 1152 01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:32,320 Speaker 1: got Tasha up like my mom used to give me up, 1153 01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:35,320 Speaker 1: get down here, let's get busy. And I was turning 1154 01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:38,240 Speaker 1: on Frankie Beverly and Maze. I'm snapping my fingers behind 1155 01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:41,559 Speaker 1: my mom, just liting myself. I was like, oh my god, 1156 01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:52,880 Speaker 1: and to this right? Are you let go? So has 1157 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:55,960 Speaker 1: anybody said the thing that we all? I know we 1158 01:13:56,080 --> 01:14:01,960 Speaker 1: all hated this growing up because I said SO said that, yeah, 1159 01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:04,719 Speaker 1: and I hate when it comes out of my mouth, 1160 01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:17,240 Speaker 1: but there it is. I hated that. Working all right, 1161 01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:25,320 Speaker 1: favorite work. That means all right. We'll have more of 1162 01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:28,000 Speaker 1: Today's trending stories and more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1163 01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:31,360 Speaker 1: Show twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to 1164 01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:37,280 Speaker 1: the String show. Well, while millions of people around the 1165 01:14:37,360 --> 01:14:40,480 Speaker 1: country try to set up appointments to go get vaccinated, 1166 01:14:40,840 --> 01:14:45,280 Speaker 1: r Kelly is apparently way ahead of the curve. TMZ 1167 01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:50,080 Speaker 1: is reporting that r Kelly has now received both doses 1168 01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:55,559 Speaker 1: of a COVID nineteen vaccine, both doses. Okay. He's one 1169 01:14:55,640 --> 01:14:59,680 Speaker 1: of sixty three inmates at Chicago's Metropolitan Correction Center to 1170 01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:03,519 Speaker 1: be fully vaccinated so far, as well as one hundred 1171 01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:06,720 Speaker 1: and twenty eight staff members. So there you go. I 1172 01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:11,160 Speaker 1: am good. What I ain't even got I'm just saying. 1173 01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:13,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying out here was six or sell can't get one? 1174 01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:19,240 Speaker 1: How he get both? As hell? I can go out 1175 01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:22,560 Speaker 1: men a date, y'all call me. I'll be down and 1176 01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:26,360 Speaker 1: I promise Junior, you got calls and everything. Yeah, hen 1177 01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:30,160 Speaker 1: they brought it to him. Ain't he got all of 1178 01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:37,120 Speaker 1: his shots? God? Yeah, well, Junior, so you are going 1179 01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:42,080 Speaker 1: to get back. Absolutely, I'm gonna get vaccinated. Can't wait? Yeah, Wow, 1180 01:15:42,280 --> 01:15:45,920 Speaker 1: I can't wait. But but that's the point. You gotta wait. Yeah, yeah, 1181 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:49,479 Speaker 1: that's the problem. Sure, I got a vaccination outfit, gonna 1182 01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:53,800 Speaker 1: be don't throw one of these nice suits song, go 1183 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:58,120 Speaker 1: on that road, that sleeve up. Be ready. You know 1184 01:15:58,160 --> 01:15:59,840 Speaker 1: you might as well wear the tank top you got, 1185 01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:03,840 Speaker 1: you got lifted all the way up. I'll be ready. 1186 01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:07,720 Speaker 1: They're gonna get it. It's gonna be nice. Yeah, all right. 1187 01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:10,200 Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1188 01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:12,680 Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this, 1189 01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:17,880 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Trending news. 1190 01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:21,160 Speaker 1: A courthouse where Derek Chauvin will be tried for murdering 1191 01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:24,519 Speaker 1: George Floyd looks like the same fortress that's around the 1192 01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:28,080 Speaker 1: US capital right now. Heavy reinforced to black out the 1193 01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:31,640 Speaker 1: general public. Construction crews have been hard at work over 1194 01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:35,320 Speaker 1: the past week four defying downtown Minneapolis with de facto 1195 01:16:35,479 --> 01:16:40,000 Speaker 1: force fields, including areas where protests and unrest are expected 1196 01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:44,360 Speaker 1: as Chauvin's murder trial gets underway in the coming weeks. 1197 01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:48,479 Speaker 1: Jury selection is set to begin March eighth, and opening 1198 01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:53,160 Speaker 1: arguments are expected toward the end of the month. Wow, 1199 01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:58,920 Speaker 1: M yeah, well here after not televised, right, you won't 1200 01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:01,080 Speaker 1: be able to watch it with you. I don't know, 1201 01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:06,439 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm gonna watch yeah, I can't imagine 1202 01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:10,240 Speaker 1: them televising it, but I would watch. I'm really interested 1203 01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:13,560 Speaker 1: in the defense, Yeah, because you know what, it just 1204 01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:18,240 Speaker 1: it just goes to say what we've all said all along. 1205 01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:22,519 Speaker 1: It's amazing how we all see the same video and 1206 01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:24,880 Speaker 1: see something totally different. Now. I don't know what happens 1207 01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:26,760 Speaker 1: to them twelve people when they go in that room, 1208 01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:31,160 Speaker 1: but I don't know what video they see. Dating back 1209 01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:36,080 Speaker 1: to Rodney King, Oh my god, she's sitting here going, 1210 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:41,560 Speaker 1: what are you kidding me? This is murder? Yeah, he 1211 01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:46,439 Speaker 1: murdered this man. Yeah, for eight minutes and forty six seconds. 1212 01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:50,720 Speaker 1: He spent the entire time murdering a man with his 1213 01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:52,720 Speaker 1: hand in his pocket like he didn't give a damn 1214 01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:57,720 Speaker 1: on camera, on camera, Ram, please come on, you know, 1215 01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:01,040 Speaker 1: and and and and America keeps saying this is not 1216 01:18:01,240 --> 01:18:07,040 Speaker 1: who we are as a country. Well okay, okay, then okay, 1217 01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:09,880 Speaker 1: what's the other side? Because we keep seeing this side, 1218 01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:13,519 Speaker 1: and we see this side too often for you to 1219 01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:16,040 Speaker 1: convince us that this is not the America we live in. 1220 01:18:16,040 --> 01:18:18,679 Speaker 1: It's not the America you've ever seen or you want 1221 01:18:18,720 --> 01:18:21,240 Speaker 1: to deal with, But it's the America that we've seen 1222 01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:24,560 Speaker 1: and lived with for a long time, and now the 1223 01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:29,960 Speaker 1: gig is up. Yeah, we're no longer patient. We don't 1224 01:18:30,000 --> 01:18:34,479 Speaker 1: want to wait on you to treat us equally. We're 1225 01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:40,559 Speaker 1: past that. We're exhausted from getting the constitution applied to us. 1226 01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:45,559 Speaker 1: We're fed up with the people being able to kill 1227 01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:48,160 Speaker 1: us and get away with it. Yeah. Yeah, that's why 1228 01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:50,720 Speaker 1: I think it's good that I hope that they do 1229 01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:54,160 Speaker 1: televise it, because I'm sure a lot more will come 1230 01:18:54,200 --> 01:18:57,760 Speaker 1: out that we didn't even know about that dreadful day 1231 01:18:57,880 --> 01:19:01,240 Speaker 1: that the day. You know, I see a couple of 1232 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:06,479 Speaker 1: media publications that are saying that the judge will allow 1233 01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:11,000 Speaker 1: cameras in the trial. I think it needs to be. Yeah, 1234 01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:14,600 Speaker 1: so we'll see if that still holds up. Gonna be 1235 01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:19,160 Speaker 1: a major major problem across this country. If that's not 1236 01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:24,120 Speaker 1: a conviction. I'm not promoting it, right, I'm predicting it. 1237 01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:28,880 Speaker 1: Coming up, it is our last break of the day, 1238 01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:32,080 Speaker 1: and of course we'll have some closing remarks from the 1239 01:19:32,120 --> 01:19:34,800 Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey at forty nine minutes after 1240 01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:40,080 Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to show all right, here 1241 01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,080 Speaker 1: we are, guys, last break of the day. It's been 1242 01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:46,320 Speaker 1: a good day. And I have to say before we 1243 01:19:46,439 --> 01:19:50,120 Speaker 1: get to Steve's closing remarks, Happy birthday to my brother Fish. 1244 01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:56,920 Speaker 1: It is his Birthdayishday, Fish Birthday, Fish. I love you, 1245 01:19:57,040 --> 01:20:01,160 Speaker 1: love you, love you. Happy birthday. Enjoy your make us 1246 01:20:01,240 --> 01:20:09,240 Speaker 1: a cake for your Birthdake. I don't have artificial pound cake. 1247 01:20:10,280 --> 01:20:14,720 Speaker 1: They're good. Yeah, hey, y'all. You know what I was thinking. Um, 1248 01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:22,160 Speaker 1: I think about all that we've accomplished over the years 1249 01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:26,000 Speaker 1: as people, and I'm talking to us as a people. 1250 01:20:26,360 --> 01:20:29,160 Speaker 1: We have a lot that we could be really really 1251 01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:31,559 Speaker 1: proud of. You know, I look back on this past 1252 01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:35,599 Speaker 1: election this year, and it's probably the most proud I've 1253 01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:40,360 Speaker 1: ever been as an African American voting. I never felt 1254 01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:45,040 Speaker 1: more proud for voting and us as a voting block 1255 01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:48,840 Speaker 1: that I did this past year. I also was very, 1256 01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:53,880 Speaker 1: very impressed with young people in twenty twenty during COVID 1257 01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:58,519 Speaker 1: the way the Black Lives Matter movement showed up. And 1258 01:20:58,600 --> 01:21:01,800 Speaker 1: it's a resurgence because you, black Lives Matter started a 1259 01:21:01,840 --> 01:21:08,400 Speaker 1: little while ago, but it didn't have the correct momentum 1260 01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:13,679 Speaker 1: behind it. Because COVID made sure that the right momentum 1261 01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:16,120 Speaker 1: got behind it this time. Because everybody was at home 1262 01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:20,920 Speaker 1: watching and so what Black Lives Matter did was it 1263 01:21:21,160 --> 01:21:24,120 Speaker 1: took young people and put them in the forefront of this. 1264 01:21:24,720 --> 01:21:28,200 Speaker 1: And the Black Lives Matter movement is because of young people, 1265 01:21:28,920 --> 01:21:34,439 Speaker 1: make no mistake about it. Young people did this just 1266 01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:38,960 Speaker 1: like Civil Rights was our shot at it in the 1267 01:21:39,080 --> 01:21:43,639 Speaker 1: sixties and seventies, and what we accomplished then made headway. 1268 01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:49,479 Speaker 1: This movement here where for the first time I saw 1269 01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:54,519 Speaker 1: a movement about black lives come together in a way 1270 01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:59,640 Speaker 1: where so many people who were non black participated in 1271 01:21:59,760 --> 01:22:03,400 Speaker 1: it to the point where it became disruptive to the 1272 01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:07,479 Speaker 1: Republican Party. And why I was I do not understand. 1273 01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:10,000 Speaker 1: Of course, I do understand, because the leader of that 1274 01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:14,759 Speaker 1: party changed the narrative of the movement, changed the narrative 1275 01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:19,200 Speaker 1: of Colin Kaepernick, changed the narrative of Black Lives matter, 1276 01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:24,120 Speaker 1: and they just went along with it. But young people 1277 01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:32,240 Speaker 1: made me beyond proud of them. They were monumental in 1278 01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:35,560 Speaker 1: the change that's occurring in this country right now. And 1279 01:22:35,720 --> 01:22:38,720 Speaker 1: don't you think that things are not changing. Oh they're 1280 01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:42,639 Speaker 1: not changing fast, but there is a change occurring right 1281 01:22:42,720 --> 01:22:46,200 Speaker 1: now because now there is a voting block that they 1282 01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:49,000 Speaker 1: have to they have to contend with now they're gonna 1283 01:22:49,040 --> 01:22:52,080 Speaker 1: continue with voter suppression, and they're going to continue with 1284 01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:56,400 Speaker 1: the little slick tricks, and if any and all else fails, 1285 01:22:56,439 --> 01:22:59,880 Speaker 1: they'll bring Donald Trump back. They're going to do every 1286 01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:03,160 Speaker 1: thing in their power to put a stop to this. 1287 01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:07,960 Speaker 1: But Stacy Abrahams, they were already talking about stop Stacy. 1288 01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:12,519 Speaker 1: They're already talking about it. This woman right here has 1289 01:23:12,640 --> 01:23:15,920 Speaker 1: galvanized the state of Georgia. There are so many people 1290 01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:21,040 Speaker 1: in Philly who galvanized in Georgia, in Detroit, in Milwaukee, 1291 01:23:21,680 --> 01:23:26,000 Speaker 1: all across this nation that have galvanized. Texas could turn 1292 01:23:26,200 --> 01:23:31,720 Speaker 1: blue because of young people. These athletes today are more 1293 01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:38,120 Speaker 1: heavily involved in larger numbers than ever before. Now, you know, 1294 01:23:38,200 --> 01:23:40,759 Speaker 1: I remember the first athlete I saw they got active 1295 01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:45,040 Speaker 1: out there with Jim Brown, with James Browning and all 1296 01:23:45,120 --> 01:23:48,120 Speaker 1: them cats when they started. And I remember Al Green 1297 01:23:48,280 --> 01:23:51,280 Speaker 1: came to the forefront and and all them old old 1298 01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:54,040 Speaker 1: cats was out there on the front lines doing battle. 1299 01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:59,360 Speaker 1: But then I watched, you know, Kareem abdue Jabar take 1300 01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:03,960 Speaker 1: his stay and help out none bigger and braver than 1301 01:24:04,120 --> 01:24:07,880 Speaker 1: Mohammad our Lee. And then I remember all these brothers 1302 01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:12,760 Speaker 1: who came to the forefront but today though on no sun. 1303 01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:16,040 Speaker 1: Make no mistake about it, because I was around for 1304 01:24:16,160 --> 01:24:20,360 Speaker 1: both periods of time. I've never seen it at this magnitude. 1305 01:24:21,400 --> 01:24:27,240 Speaker 1: I've never seen blacks in sports in baseball, basketball, and 1306 01:24:27,600 --> 01:24:31,400 Speaker 1: football get together and band together the way they have. 1307 01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:35,560 Speaker 1: We have something to be proud of. This is a 1308 01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:41,280 Speaker 1: slow turnaround because it's long overdue and they're still fighting 1309 01:24:41,479 --> 01:24:44,320 Speaker 1: to make it right. Part, and there's a part of 1310 01:24:44,360 --> 01:24:47,760 Speaker 1: this country that will always fight to make it right. Part. 1311 01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:52,600 Speaker 1: They're not going to give it up easily because for 1312 01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:56,160 Speaker 1: some reason they think that if they give you a 1313 01:24:56,280 --> 01:24:59,880 Speaker 1: slice of pie, that cuts into they slice of pie. 1314 01:25:00,520 --> 01:25:04,360 Speaker 1: What they don't understand about justice is justice is just justice. 1315 01:25:05,120 --> 01:25:06,920 Speaker 1: It ain't if you get too big a piece, we 1316 01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:11,160 Speaker 1: don't get none. It's gnaw, man. Everybody wants the same 1317 01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:14,519 Speaker 1: slice of pie. But you got some people, man, who've 1318 01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:17,040 Speaker 1: got to make you feel less so they can feel more. 1319 01:25:18,200 --> 01:25:20,800 Speaker 1: That's the problem that we have in this country. This 1320 01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:23,880 Speaker 1: is the country that we live in. We live in 1321 01:25:23,920 --> 01:25:28,519 Speaker 1: a country that if we keep classes alive, then we 1322 01:25:28,600 --> 01:25:31,040 Speaker 1: can hold you down. If we can keep you in 1323 01:25:31,120 --> 01:25:35,439 Speaker 1: a certain zone, we can keep you down. Why are 1324 01:25:35,520 --> 01:25:40,320 Speaker 1: we fighting minimum wage? Somebody please tell me Democrat or 1325 01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:45,160 Speaker 1: Republican the problem with fifteen dollars minimum wage. Well, I'll 1326 01:25:45,200 --> 01:25:48,519 Speaker 1: tell you what it is. They can't give you the 1327 01:25:48,640 --> 01:25:51,479 Speaker 1: taste of success because if you taste success, you're gonna 1328 01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:53,600 Speaker 1: want more of it. And if you want more of it, 1329 01:25:53,720 --> 01:25:56,920 Speaker 1: they think you're gonna take it from them. It's simple 1330 01:25:57,000 --> 01:25:59,599 Speaker 1: as that. The rich gonna have to take the cut 1331 01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:02,759 Speaker 1: in pat you. That's why they fight me. Black people 1332 01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:04,599 Speaker 1: who got a lot to be proud of. I'm proud 1333 01:26:04,640 --> 01:26:06,640 Speaker 1: of y'all, man. Uncle Steve just wanted to say that 1334 01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:08,920 Speaker 1: to y'all. Thank y'all for digging in the way you 1335 01:26:09,040 --> 01:26:11,040 Speaker 1: did this year. Man. You've done us all a real 1336 01:26:11,160 --> 01:26:14,200 Speaker 1: service unadjusted. Appreciate it, y'all. Have a great day. Talk 1337 01:26:14,200 --> 01:26:28,759 Speaker 1: to you tomorrow. All right now. For all Steve Harvey contests, 1338 01:26:28,800 --> 01:26:32,120 Speaker 1: no purchase necessary void where prohibited. 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