WEBVTT - Beating Down the Biggest Money Obstacles You Face #557

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel, I'm Matt, and

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<v Speaker 1>today we're talking about beating down the biggest money obstacles

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<v Speaker 1>you face, dude, a beat down. You're talking all all

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<v Speaker 1>violet over here. It's like folks are gonna think you're

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<v Speaker 1>into mixed martial arts or or something like. No. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I hear good things. It sounds like fun, but too

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<v Speaker 1>intense for my lessons. It sounds like fun until you

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<v Speaker 1>get clocked in the face, like my neighbor did. He's

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<v Speaker 1>really into it, and he was, you know, grappling with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy. I think that's the term grappling. There's no

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<v Speaker 1>there's no punching right, there's no strikes. But he said

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<v Speaker 1>he was trying to get out of a hold and

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<v Speaker 1>the guy he was grappling with swung his arm back

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time that he quickly moved his head

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<v Speaker 1>to try to evade, to try to escape or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and he caught an elbow right above his eye. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>its swelled up to the size of a tennis ball.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I saw him, the swelling went down, but

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<v Speaker 1>the blood had flown from his head to his eyeball.

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<v Speaker 1>So he looked very, very evil. He looked you look terrible. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so that that's probably that's gonna be at least my

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<v Speaker 1>excuse why I'm avoiding jiu jitsu because I gotta keep

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<v Speaker 1>his face looking pretty kind of keep that money money

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<v Speaker 1>maker looking freshman. We're podcasters, so it's not necessarily my

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<v Speaker 1>money maker. But but you know, I still don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to get clocked in the face. That it doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>like fun nor do I mean literally, that's the reason

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<v Speaker 1>I work out is to avoid getting hurt, and so

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<v Speaker 1>to put myself in harm's way. It sounds like the

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<v Speaker 1>opposite of what I personally want to do. Although there

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<v Speaker 1>are others out there who I'm sure really enjoy makes

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<v Speaker 1>martial arts. But that's what we're gonna be doing today.

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<v Speaker 1>When it when it comes to your money, that there

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<v Speaker 1>are different obstacles that just like pop out of nowhere oftentimes,

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<v Speaker 1>and we want you to completely destroy these obstacles so

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<v Speaker 1>that you can achieve your financial goals. And and it

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<v Speaker 1>makes me think of ways mad how waves will be. Like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>up in the future, there's this thing if you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>encounter in road, there's a police up there and half

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<v Speaker 1>a mile, like moment is a little down it would

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<v Speaker 1>be funny. Ways actually changed his voice like that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like obstacle in road. Well, there's a there's a cop

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<v Speaker 1>up there on the ride, you might want to slow down, Joel,

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<v Speaker 1>stop in an idiot and but yeah, those obstacles up

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<v Speaker 1>if you can have someone point them out to you,

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<v Speaker 1>these are the kind of things that are probably gonna

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<v Speaker 1>impact your personal finances. Negatively, look out for them, start

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about how you would react if you were to

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<v Speaker 1>encounter that. That's kind of what we're gonna do on

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<v Speaker 1>on today's episode. But Matt, quickly, before we get to that,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to mention I. I talked about the upgrading

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<v Speaker 1>to a new phone, and I had hoped on holding

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<v Speaker 1>out longer, which, by the way, did did you ever

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<v Speaker 1>get a case for your phone? Still? Okay, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>still caseless? What you think about this? Right here? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that looks good. Finally, so I've had my phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a year. Finally got a case nice and still nice

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<v Speaker 1>and thin. Yeah, I got the screen protector on there.

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<v Speaker 1>Making better cases, thinner cases. These they used to be

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<v Speaker 1>like these giant hunking You have to get the autter

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<v Speaker 1>box and made your phone three times the size, right,

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<v Speaker 1>which terrible. I mentioned that Google was going to hit

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<v Speaker 1>me two and sixty two dollars before my old phone

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<v Speaker 1>that i've for and I was like, that's pretty good,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks Google. But they ended up paying me three for

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<v Speaker 1>that phone. I sent it in and they said, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you underestimated the value. Will give you three hundred bucks.

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<v Speaker 1>The same with my wife phone, which also had just

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<v Speaker 1>this even more even worse cracks than than mine. So

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<v Speaker 1>you can thank the semiconductor shorteras for that one. Friends,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like supply chain problems. I think it was pain

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<v Speaker 1>it is my game. I think it was less that

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<v Speaker 1>they're paying for the actual value of the phone, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're more just kind of trying to build customer loyalty

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<v Speaker 1>because there's no way they're gonna be able to make

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<v Speaker 1>their money back on that phone, Like no way at all, right, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and so so really because everyone else was saying, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>give you eighty bucks for it or ninety bucks, and

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<v Speaker 1>so that's definitely above the market value. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Google got me to trade on my own one that

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<v Speaker 1>was busted for one that's just you know, not busted,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a sweet deal, dude. Yeah, just to get

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<v Speaker 1>more money than you're expecting. Just feels like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know prayer emoji hands. I'm just like thankful, blest hashtag

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<v Speaker 1>blest due. That's enough to almost make me consider switching

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<v Speaker 1>switching over to a pixel, but not quite because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be the green text guy. I know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's your role. Literally get a crap for that last

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<v Speaker 1>night from a friend and he's like, I would text

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<v Speaker 1>you back, but I'm like, dude, come on, I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about liking it, but then I realized that I couldn't,

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<v Speaker 1>and instead it was gonna not give it the thumbs

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<v Speaker 1>up and instead would have typed that out. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do it. Well, you know me, I'm a dent extrovert.

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<v Speaker 1>So if I realized that this phone is inhibiting my

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<v Speaker 1>ability to make friends, I might have to make a

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<v Speaker 1>sorry we told you that. I like that. I would

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<v Speaker 1>text you more. Yeah, but I get enough time with

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<v Speaker 1>you already. But if it's inhibiting other friendships, maybe I'll

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<v Speaker 1>make Yeah, we get enough of that face to face time. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's mention the beer we're having on today's episode. This

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<v Speaker 1>one is called Bibo. It's by Creature Comforts, one of

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<v Speaker 1>our favorite Georgia Brewery's it's straight up pills nurse. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>give our thoughts on this beer at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the episode, but let's move on, mat Let's get to

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<v Speaker 1>the topic at hand. We are talking about money, obstacles,

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<v Speaker 1>how to beat them down, And I'm not sure if

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<v Speaker 1>our gen Z listeners are going to get this reference.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I was thinking about beat down, so thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about American Gladiators, which was the o G American Ninja

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<v Speaker 1>Warrior right, thinking about them with the giant what is it? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's that's the most beat down people would get

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<v Speaker 1>is when they're just standing there on that pedalestal, just

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<v Speaker 1>getting just hitting hammered, getting whacked in the head over

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<v Speaker 1>and over again until they just fall off. Still, just

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<v Speaker 1>a fantastic show if you go, if you go um

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<v Speaker 1>back back and watch it. What was it? It It was

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<v Speaker 1>late eighties, early nineties something. Yeah, And so just the style,

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<v Speaker 1>the look, kind of the field of the show is

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of fun, fun nostalgia to partake in. But

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<v Speaker 1>I could see some hipster breweries being like, all we

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<v Speaker 1>do just play American Gladiators on TV. Like one of

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<v Speaker 1>our favorite breweries always shows like these idyllic sheep, hurting scenes,

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<v Speaker 1>throw whatever over In Europe, it's just their thing. For

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<v Speaker 1>whatever reason. They like their show show like the European Countryside,

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<v Speaker 1>but there should be another brewery and all they do

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<v Speaker 1>is just show American glad Well, if we ever start one,

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be our amout. I would be all about

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<v Speaker 1>that well. And so when I was in college there,

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<v Speaker 1>for some reason, one of the dining halls that's all

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<v Speaker 1>they played was American Gladiator rerun at least when I went, like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what was on TV, and so I just remember

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<v Speaker 1>that's that was where my affinity for American Gladiators started.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, if you don't know the show, basically a

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<v Speaker 1>couple fairly fit young folks. They would compete to win money.

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<v Speaker 1>They would uh. The only thing standing in their way though,

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<v Speaker 1>was some incredibly ripped dudes and females who wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>punish them physically. And so the Gladiators basically is what

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<v Speaker 1>they were known as. They were always throwing obstacles in

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<v Speaker 1>your way, slamming you down or to knock you up

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<v Speaker 1>a pedestal, shooting stuff at you, literally tackling you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it took to prevent you from scoring points. And

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, real life, it's not really like American Gladiators, sadly,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess in a lot of ways because it would

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<v Speaker 1>be pretty cool. But but obstacles are reality in basically

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<v Speaker 1>every arena of life. And that's just that's incredibly true

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<v Speaker 1>when we're talking about the area of personal finance. And

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<v Speaker 1>today we're gonna talk about, you know, those gladiators, like

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<v Speaker 1>obstacles standing in your way that are trying to prevent

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<v Speaker 1>you from reaching your goals. We're gonna like put those

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<v Speaker 1>on the horizon, tell you which ones might be coming,

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<v Speaker 1>and and also talk about how to beat down those

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<v Speaker 1>obstacles you can succeed with your money. Yeah, because chances

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<v Speaker 1>are it hasn't been only smooth sailing, you know, on

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<v Speaker 1>your route to paying off debts or investing for your

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<v Speaker 1>for your future. Getting stuck and not being able to

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<v Speaker 1>make progress as a problem that I think all of

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<v Speaker 1>us has have faced at times. Uh. And so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna spend this episode running through some of the

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<v Speaker 1>different obstacles that are attempting to derail you on your

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<v Speaker 1>path to financial freedom, uh, and then specifically what to

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<v Speaker 1>do about them. But Joel, you know, like going back

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<v Speaker 1>to the American Gladiators, I think one of the best

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<v Speaker 1>parts of the show were the gladiator's names, like like

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<v Speaker 1>Elektra or like Laser. Those are a couple that that

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<v Speaker 1>stand out in my mind. But similarly, it is important

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<v Speaker 1>to name and identify these financial obstacles as well, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if they're lurking in the shadows without you

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<v Speaker 1>even realizing that they're there, you're gonna get completely blindsided.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is what we're trying to avoid today. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna guess Malibu was your favorite of the

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<v Speaker 1>Gladiator which I don't. I don't, which had like the

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<v Speaker 1>really long hair California guy, but still like super Bike,

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<v Speaker 1>you I do remember that they're all super they're all

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<v Speaker 1>totally ripped. YEA. Well, it turns out that we all

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<v Speaker 1>have varying degrees of control over the financial obstacles that

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<v Speaker 1>we face. So maybe let's let's start Matt with some

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<v Speaker 1>of the obstacles that are going to feel the most unexpected,

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<v Speaker 1>the most out of our hands. And so one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things that we're feeling acutely right now is rising prices. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>and no matter how much we complain, none of us

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna be able to have an impact on something

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<v Speaker 1>like the cost of eggs. So part of that is

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<v Speaker 1>just general grocery inflationship and then part of its the

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<v Speaker 1>Avian flu going around, and so now eggs are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more expensive than they were just twelve months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and so but it's still a very affordable way to

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<v Speaker 1>get high mus a protein. To get that protein. Agree, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking a lot about physical films. It was tough

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<v Speaker 1>to get. Like the other day, getting a dozen eggs

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<v Speaker 1>for three bucks, I was like, man, this used to

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<v Speaker 1>be a dollar fifty nine. And so it's it's tough

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<v Speaker 1>to stomach that, but you're right when you think about

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<v Speaker 1>it logically, it's like it's yeah, yeah, exactly. Well, but

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<v Speaker 1>the reality of rapidly increasing costs basically everywhere return is

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<v Speaker 1>something that none of us could have expected just a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of years ago. It's it's been forty years where

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<v Speaker 1>we've had pretty stable inflation along the lines of two

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<v Speaker 1>percent a year. It's kind of been like clockwork, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we've we've we know that inflation is occurring, but

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<v Speaker 1>most of us don't feel it in any meaningful way,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we don't think about it. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that this experience can actually be helpful, I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>in making us realize that there are more possible unknowns

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<v Speaker 1>than we had previously considered. I mean, the pandemic is

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<v Speaker 1>is just a perfect example of that, Matt. When we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about obstacles that we have to overcome, some obstacles

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<v Speaker 1>we can predict. Other obstacles we can't. They're unknown, and

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<v Speaker 1>we still have to be prepared for unknown potential obstacles too.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. And the lesson from these obstacles, these things

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<v Speaker 1>that are completely out of our control, is that being prepared,

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<v Speaker 1>even for things that we can't fully imagine like that,

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<v Speaker 1>that is still an important thing to do. And specifically

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<v Speaker 1>this means saving and spending our money so that we

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<v Speaker 1>have some financial margin. This is going to be incredibly important.

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<v Speaker 1>And so if you're spending every single dollar that you

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<v Speaker 1>make and you're living paycheck to paycheck, then the financial

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<v Speaker 1>impacts of something like inflation right of rising prices, it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to have a much more severe impact on your

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<v Speaker 1>life than someone who's only you know, spending like half

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<v Speaker 1>of their paycheck. If you're you're spending less than you make,

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<v Speaker 1>then it shouldn't take long for you to have a

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<v Speaker 1>degree of margin within your life, because man, if you

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<v Speaker 1>are living on the edge, if you do not have

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<v Speaker 1>any of that margin. Uh, as expenses continue to get

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<v Speaker 1>more expensive, well, where does that put you? Right? Like

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<v Speaker 1>that put you on the on this precipice of falling

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<v Speaker 1>into this abyss where you might even be reliant on

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<v Speaker 1>credit cards, right on debt in order for you to

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<v Speaker 1>just maintain the standard of living. It was maybe feasible

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<v Speaker 1>for you to do that yesterday, but today, with prices

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<v Speaker 1>being where they are, it's a lot more difficult. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. I think margin is one of those important

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<v Speaker 1>words in personal finance. You want to have more of it,

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<v Speaker 1>even though you don't necessarily know the scenario that you're

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<v Speaker 1>preparing for. Having more margin allows you to pivot in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, even when something unexpected, because it's the best practice. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, yes, it is. And shifting from like

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<v Speaker 1>the macro to the micro because inflation is this macro

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<v Speaker 1>thing that affects all of us. Well, let's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>talk a little more personal finances because you know, unexpected

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<v Speaker 1>expenses that we experience in day to day life are

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<v Speaker 1>obstacles that can mess us up in a big way.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is not something that's affecting every single one

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<v Speaker 1>of us in a very similar way. This is what

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<v Speaker 1>if the you you suddenly find that some of the

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<v Speaker 1>pipes are leaking in your house, or that your crawl

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<v Speaker 1>space is taking on water. You know, those are tough

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<v Speaker 1>obstacles that cost real money to remedy. Man I was

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<v Speaker 1>actually doing some research for an upcoming interview, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about some some housing issues she had had

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<v Speaker 1>on whatever YouTube videos and how she it cost her

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<v Speaker 1>some real money to to prevent some of those water

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<v Speaker 1>issues from from messing up her her investment property. And

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<v Speaker 1>so basically like, if you turn a blind eye to

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<v Speaker 1>these issues, you're gonna find yourself in a worse situation. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't put in the French train, uh and

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<v Speaker 1>you flood the basements, you find yourself in a worse

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<v Speaker 1>situation tsking you even more money, or even something like

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<v Speaker 1>car issues, right, even though you're you're probably not assuming

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<v Speaker 1>that your transportation is gonna bite the dust tomorrow, being

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<v Speaker 1>prepared is still important. I had a Subaru back in

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<v Speaker 1>the day. Suber is a great cars, but for some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>my engine just crapped out on the freeway and it

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<v Speaker 1>was one of those things where it was a really

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<v Speaker 1>really expensive fix. I wasn't planning on that, Like, it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't something where I was like, cool, I think this

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<v Speaker 1>could happen sometime in the next six months, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was still something I was financially prepared for, even though

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<v Speaker 1>it hurts, like the dickens to pay for that fix. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Medical debt is another example of one of these you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some of these stumbling blocks that people don't plan for.

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<v Speaker 1>But it can be debilitating on multiple fronts, right Like,

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<v Speaker 1>not only can medical expenses cost you a ton of money,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's a chance that something has happened that might

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<v Speaker 1>keep you from being able to work, which would keep

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<v Speaker 1>you potentially from earning an income, right Like, it hits

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<v Speaker 1>you on the way in and on the way out.

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<v Speaker 1>This is one of those problems that exists across our

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<v Speaker 1>society that we need to find and a better way

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<v Speaker 1>of addressing. But there are some ways of preventing possible

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<v Speaker 1>medical issues. Specifically, there are personal physical steps that we

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<v Speaker 1>can take, like not smoking, eating well, actually exercising from

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<v Speaker 1>time to time. Maybe not the jiu jitsure though, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which causes uh increased medical medical bils, but there are

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<v Speaker 1>other ways to push back against medical debts that is

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<v Speaker 1>egregious as well. We talked about that in episode for

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<v Speaker 1>nine with Marshall Allen. But aside from some of the

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<v Speaker 1>I guess financial steps that you can take to keep

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<v Speaker 1>medical debt from becoming this obstacle that's going to take

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<v Speaker 1>you out, there are some of these smaller additional ones

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<v Speaker 1>as well. And the reason we highlight medical debt because

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<v Speaker 1>with it being the number one reason for personal bankruptcy,

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<v Speaker 1>it is something that you should be thinking about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and we often don't think about those little steps that

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<v Speaker 1>we can take ahead of time, but those are crucial, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So if you want to avoid health problems, like just

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<v Speaker 1>going for a walk around your neighborhood four or five

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<v Speaker 1>days a week for twenty minutes is gonna be like

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<v Speaker 1>this preventative health step that's going to have a positive

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<v Speaker 1>tacon on your body and on your ability to withstand

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<v Speaker 1>future hurdles that life throws at you from a physical stance.

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<v Speaker 1>But but so often we discount those things and we

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<v Speaker 1>don't think of them as important even though they are.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, it makes me think about this, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>this Mike Tyson quote Matt that I think I think

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<v Speaker 1>this was something he said. He basically said, everybody has

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<v Speaker 1>a plan until they get punched in the mouth. So

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<v Speaker 1>he's talking about his opponents typically who got rocked pretty

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<v Speaker 1>hard because they're like, oh, this is all I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>beat Mike, and then they get punched in the face

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<v Speaker 1>one time and they're planning shifts dramatically, um typically into

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<v Speaker 1>survival mode. But so even though you don't know which

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<v Speaker 1>setback you're gonna face, whether you're gonna face we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>face something on a macro level, or you're gonna face

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of micro economic catastrophe in your life, planning

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<v Speaker 1>head is so important, and building up that emergency fund

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<v Speaker 1>is really what we're talking about here. It's gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>you the ability to endure those setbacks without completely derailing

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<v Speaker 1>your progress and crumbling your goals in the process, because

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<v Speaker 1>you've got cash to back you up. When those problems

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<v Speaker 1>do arise, like and they're gonna happen for all of us, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't prevent them from happening, but you can minimize

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<v Speaker 1>their impact on your psyche and on your finances, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is so important. So partly what we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>here is is having that base emergency fund set up. Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>we you and I we've always given the number two thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>four hundred and sixties seven dollars as being the base

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<v Speaker 1>amount to shoot for. If you don't have an emergency

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<v Speaker 1>fund in place yet, or you have less than that,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the number you want to hit because that's going

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<v Speaker 1>to allow you to to overcome a lot of those

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<v Speaker 1>financial obstacles that your mind the counter without going broke

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<v Speaker 1>or without taking on debt, and then you know the

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<v Speaker 1>next goal is to have somewhere between three and six

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<v Speaker 1>months of expenses saved up. Once you get to a

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<v Speaker 1>place like that, those obstacles they feel a lot smaller,

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<v Speaker 1>They don't feel like as big of a deal because

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<v Speaker 1>in your bank account, you've got enough money to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to handle that, and then you can work to

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<v Speaker 1>replenish that you're not just immediately screwed when something unexpected occurs.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, And I think it's good too that we

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<v Speaker 1>started with margin, right, How how we talked about how

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<v Speaker 1>that's the solution oftentimes, uh, and then we moved on

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<v Speaker 1>to an emergency fund, because in order to create an

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<v Speaker 1>emergency fund, you need to have margin within your life

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<v Speaker 1>when you have some small amounts of margin like that

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<v Speaker 1>will allow you to overcome something like inflation, that that

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<v Speaker 1>allows you to overcome small price increases. But what we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about with an emergency fund is the ability to

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<v Speaker 1>overcome some of these larger hurdles, some of these bigger

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<v Speaker 1>expenses that are going to crop up in our lives

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<v Speaker 1>that do have the potential to to derail us. And

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<v Speaker 1>so it's important, uh, not only to have margin, but

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<v Speaker 1>then to beyond that, be working towards having, like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately three to six months worth of living expenses in

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<v Speaker 1>the bank. But you we actually are going to get

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<v Speaker 1>to several other obstacles that get in our way when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to handling our money. Well ways for us

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<v Speaker 1>to beat down those obstacles, and in particular, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get to a couple that are within the realm of

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<v Speaker 1>our social lives. And so we will get to those

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<v Speaker 1>plus others right after this. Alright, let's keep let's keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's keep talking about money obstacles and and how our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners can beat them down in order to continue making

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<v Speaker 1>financial progress. And some of these goes again with this

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<v Speaker 1>violent rhetoric, punch it in the face. You know, like, uh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have thinking of those of the pants, those of

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<v Speaker 1>the clown things that I had when I was a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>and you you could punch it and it would pop back up,

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<v Speaker 1>and oh yeah, I love those things. I think about

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<v Speaker 1>your money obstacles kind of like that. Well, And and

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<v Speaker 1>some of our listeners, you know, they're gonna face We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna face mac or we're gonna face micro challenges. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna face like the our own particular set of obstacles.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not gonna be one size fits all necessarily,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna talk about internal and external obstacles which

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<v Speaker 1>all have just kind of different impacts and they need

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<v Speaker 1>different reactions from us. But but some of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>might be saying, you know what my obstacle is, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't make enough money. And that's a real obstacle to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people face a lack of income, which is reality

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<v Speaker 1>for a decent chunk of folks. And the reality is

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<v Speaker 1>we're just talking about rising prices that you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>gotten harder to put it on the table and to

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<v Speaker 1>pay rent, especially as both of those items in particular

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<v Speaker 1>have become more expensive. Inflation is eating into the real

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<v Speaker 1>wages of lots of people too, making it feel like

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<v Speaker 1>they're they're earning less than they used to. Even if

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<v Speaker 1>their paycheck's got up a little, it's like, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't go as far on the things that I'm buying.

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<v Speaker 1>And and even if that person are that listener recently

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<v Speaker 1>got a raise. And it is true that making more

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<v Speaker 1>money isn't going to solve all of your financial problems.

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<v Speaker 1>But and there there are way too many folks living

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<v Speaker 1>paycheck to paycheck who makes six figures, but finding ways

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<v Speaker 1>to make more would help a lot of people. And

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<v Speaker 1>and that's that's an important solution to this personal finance

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<v Speaker 1>opticle on this right. But that being said, it is

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<v Speaker 1>easier said than done. Some folks who are employed and

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<v Speaker 1>in a high demand field, like it could just entail

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<v Speaker 1>negotiating effectively, you know, with your current employer, or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>applying for jobs with other businesses in the industry that

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<v Speaker 1>that are going to pay you a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 1>But for others, it's gonna mean maybe doing something that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna rec are a little more work, like starting a business,

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<v Speaker 1>like a business on the side, or acquiring some some

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<v Speaker 1>new skills in order to increase their earnings. And by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, going to college paying lots and lots of

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<v Speaker 1>money in order to acquire those skills is not necessary. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it might be the best route for some folks,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's it's not some sort of slam dunk. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>if I go do this, it's gonna quickly mean I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna earn a lot more money. It's just not that

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<v Speaker 1>simple exactly. Yeah, And so you know, we we say

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<v Speaker 1>all this because like, not earning enough, it can be

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<v Speaker 1>a significant hurdle, but there is definitely a way to

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<v Speaker 1>lower maybe the height of that hurdle through some savvy

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<v Speaker 1>personal action where you are focusing on maybe one of

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<v Speaker 1>the largest obstacles within your personal financeance, which might be

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<v Speaker 1>uh an income that could be a bit bigger. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and mat another another obstacle that people face is spending

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<v Speaker 1>too much money, and that just a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>just can't control their spending. They find it massively difficult,

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<v Speaker 1>and the biggest culprits are often your largest recurring expenses.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you bought a house and the monthly payment is

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<v Speaker 1>just outside to your comfort zone. Well, that means you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be constantly stressed about where your other dollars are

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<v Speaker 1>going because you've got this fixed payment and it's too much.

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<v Speaker 1>And so now you're fretting about every single other purchase

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't have enough discretion your income to pay

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<v Speaker 1>for all the things that you that you want or need.

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<v Speaker 1>And lord, let's say you bought a nicer car than

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<v Speaker 1>you really should have bought, but you spread those payments

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<v Speaker 1>out over extra years, taking out that seven or eight

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<v Speaker 1>year car loan that we hate. That is also going

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<v Speaker 1>to impact your ability to reach other financial goals in

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<v Speaker 1>your life. And so, yeah, one of our suggestions would

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<v Speaker 1>be if you spend far less on the items that

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<v Speaker 1>are most impactful to your budget, on the biggest line items, well,

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<v Speaker 1>the great thing is you won't need to sweat the

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<v Speaker 1>small stuff and nearly as much. You're gonna be less stressed.

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<v Speaker 1>You might not live in as awesome of an apartment

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<v Speaker 1>or a house, or your car might be, you have

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<v Speaker 1>a few more things and dents, but the reality is

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to make you far less stressed out about

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<v Speaker 1>all those other purchases you make in a month. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot to be said for that. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>even if your housing costs are lesson say five percent

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<v Speaker 1>of your monthly income. Like, folks can find themselves spending

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<v Speaker 1>in more frivolous ways, right, which might mean maybe you've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten too cozy with credit cards or you know with that,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you're using the buy now, pay later services because

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<v Speaker 1>they make it easier to get more of the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>you want quickly, where you don't even realize how that's

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<v Speaker 1>impacting your long term personal finances. The Internet, online retailers,

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<v Speaker 1>social media even have made it so easy for us

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<v Speaker 1>to become consumption machines. I swear every other post now

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram, like when you're flipping through your stories, that's

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<v Speaker 1>where I feel like I've noticed it the most. Is

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<v Speaker 1>an ad and they are showing me something that I

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<v Speaker 1>could buy, something that is perfectly curated for something that

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<v Speaker 1>I would like. The mat they know me well, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't want They just want you to buy stuff. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make you happy. And I'm like, well, let me

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<v Speaker 1>just go and click through and see what they see

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<v Speaker 1>what they've got going on, like what kind of sale

0:21:50.160 --> 0:21:53.119
<v Speaker 1>do they have going on? And obviously that just feeds

0:21:53.840 --> 0:21:55.560
<v Speaker 1>feeds the beast, feeds the beast. Yeah, it gives them

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<v Speaker 1>even more information. They're like, oh, he liked that, may

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<v Speaker 1>not have made a purchase. But now we've got our

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<v Speaker 1>we've got our hooks even deeper. They will, they will

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<v Speaker 1>jud it to you into sumission. I'm gonna yeah, hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>not have to tap out. But so okay. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you deal with this obstacle though? And one way is

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<v Speaker 1>by budgeting or if you don't like to be word,

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<v Speaker 1>at the very least, it means tracking where your money

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<v Speaker 1>is going. We would suggest using software like wine app.

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<v Speaker 1>You need a budget is what that stands for. And

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<v Speaker 1>you might hear us say that and think, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't wine app cost money? Yes, it does. It does

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<v Speaker 1>cost money. But if if it takes you spending like

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<v Speaker 1>a small amount of money every single month in order

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<v Speaker 1>to save a ton of money, well guess what the

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<v Speaker 1>net result is going to be. It's gonna be you

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<v Speaker 1>coming out ahead. Or maybe that's you might need to

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<v Speaker 1>join a gym in order to get fit. Yes you

0:22:39.800 --> 0:22:41.800
<v Speaker 1>might not. You don't need to, that's for sure, But

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<v Speaker 1>if that's what it takes, that's what it takes. If

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<v Speaker 1>that's what is going to cause you to actually work out.

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<v Speaker 1>By going with a friend to a gym, the cost

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<v Speaker 1>bucks a month it's like cool, Yeah, it's it's worth

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<v Speaker 1>the money if you're gonna be a whole lot healthier

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<v Speaker 1>because of it, exactly. Or maybe you just need some

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<v Speaker 1>guidance and something as simple as just searching for a

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<v Speaker 1>budget within Google sheets or something that you can download

0:23:01.800 --> 0:23:04.679
<v Speaker 1>a personal budget within Excel. Uh, that might be the

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<v Speaker 1>path for you to take. But bottom line, if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know where your money is going, then you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to be able to make progress with

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<v Speaker 1>your money. Uh. And we're talking about kind of some

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<v Speaker 1>of these steps that you can take to alleviate some

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<v Speaker 1>of those frivolous spending, some of those small purchases every

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<v Speaker 1>single month, but like you're talking about some of these

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<v Speaker 1>big ticket items, right, like these recurring large expenses every

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<v Speaker 1>single month. And it's worth pointing out that we're not

0:23:26.720 --> 0:23:30.400
<v Speaker 1>afraid to consider making some drastic cuts in our lives. Right.

0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:32.560
<v Speaker 1>And so if you are in a house that's no

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<v Speaker 1>longer bringing you value, maybe like maybe you've got this

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<v Speaker 1>fancy place and it's not bringing you joy, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>fulfilling you in the way that you thought. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of things to consider here, but I

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<v Speaker 1>am not beyond you sailing that home. It's it would

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<v Speaker 1>be a lot easier if you're renting and saying, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the next place we rent will just be a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more affordable. Obviously much easier to to sell a

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<v Speaker 1>vehicle than a home because there's so many costs associated

0:23:56.600 --> 0:23:59.359
<v Speaker 1>with with selling a home. But I mentioned that because

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<v Speaker 1>I think pretty much all expenses should be on the

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<v Speaker 1>table when it comes to us achieving our financial goals.

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<v Speaker 1>And if that home is no longer kind of helping

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<v Speaker 1>you get in the direction you want to go, it

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<v Speaker 1>might be time to scrap it and go and pivot

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<v Speaker 1>right into a different direction. Well, and that you mentioned budgeting,

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<v Speaker 1>and you mentioned wine app and Google sheets, and you

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<v Speaker 1>actually have maybe your budget public for how the money listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>not not all of your details, but you you've you've

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<v Speaker 1>basically your template. They can download it and we'll link

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<v Speaker 1>to that in the show notes for this episode, and

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<v Speaker 1>we will do that because I know a lot of

0:24:30.280 --> 0:24:33.040
<v Speaker 1>people like it's helpful to have a place to get started,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like your budget template is is you

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<v Speaker 1>can help a lot of people. Fair warning, I overthink

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<v Speaker 1>everything and so it might be more detailed than a

0:24:40.560 --> 0:24:42.439
<v Speaker 1>lot of folks out there might be needing you might

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<v Speaker 1>want to take. For all the nerds out there, modify

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<v Speaker 1>and simplify. Yeah, for all the nerds out there, you

0:24:47.080 --> 0:24:49.600
<v Speaker 1>might be thinking, oh, this is exactly what I need. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's talk about another obstacle to making good financial decisions,

0:24:53.320 --> 0:24:56.200
<v Speaker 1>and that can be your friends. That's right. Cut them

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<v Speaker 1>all out of your life because they're ruining your ability

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<v Speaker 1>to make financial progress. Friends are just too expensive, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>So Matt, this is uh where we break up the

0:25:03.640 --> 0:25:06.680
<v Speaker 1>zory part ways my friends, Um, just kidding and and

0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:09.080
<v Speaker 1>and that's certainly not true, right that that you need

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<v Speaker 1>to lose most of your friends. But the reality is

0:25:12.280 --> 0:25:14.720
<v Speaker 1>that people you spend the most time with, they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to have an inordinate influence on who you're becoming, both

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<v Speaker 1>for good and for bad. And uh, what are the

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<v Speaker 1>author Jim Rone? He says that you become the average

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<v Speaker 1>of the five folks you spend the most time with.

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<v Speaker 1>This right, or if you want to go even more

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<v Speaker 1>old school, Matt, the Bible. The Bible puts in another way,

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<v Speaker 1>bad company corrupts good character. And so you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>best friends, you and I, we can attest to the

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<v Speaker 1>reality that we we've both had significant impacts on each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I think mostly for good, I hope. Okay, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>there's some negative parts of it, but again, what's the

0:25:45.480 --> 0:25:49.520
<v Speaker 1>net results? Net results, mostly possible, way way way positive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but the the other people that we choose to spend

0:25:51.560 --> 0:25:55.800
<v Speaker 1>time with and do life with are majorly impactful to

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<v Speaker 1>who we're becoming as well. The more thoughtful, intentional, and

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<v Speaker 1>google our friends are, the more likely we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>take on those characteristics ourselves. So yeah, but the people

0:26:06.119 --> 0:26:08.600
<v Speaker 1>that you spend the most time with, are they do

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<v Speaker 1>they have the most characters? Are they? Are they the

0:26:11.080 --> 0:26:13.200
<v Speaker 1>kind of people you want to become? I think those

0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:15.680
<v Speaker 1>are good questions to ask, because I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>make it it sounds like it's all your friends fault

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<v Speaker 1>and and they're ruining your finances. I don't think that's

0:26:20.040 --> 0:26:22.679
<v Speaker 1>the case. But again, who you're surrounding yourself with is

0:26:22.840 --> 0:26:24.960
<v Speaker 1>indicative of who you're going to become, and so that

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<v Speaker 1>is an important thing to be thinking about. That's right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it actually makes me think of the fact that we mean,

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<v Speaker 1>with us having moved recently, what that means is that

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<v Speaker 1>we're getting to meet a lot of new folks were

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<v Speaker 1>meeting new neighbors, making new friends, which is like positive, right, Um, However,

0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:41.719
<v Speaker 1>it also means that we are meeting folks who may

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily share the same goals as us, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>so in our old neighborhood, in our old life, and

0:26:46.720 --> 0:26:49.280
<v Speaker 1>certainly we interacted with folks who we don't necessarily see

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:51.840
<v Speaker 1>eye to eye with on everything. But it is really

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<v Speaker 1>interesting meeting new folks and realizing based on what they're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about, based on how does they spend their time,

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<v Speaker 1>based on what they're spending their money on that Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we necessarily share the share the same

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<v Speaker 1>share the same goals. And again that doesn't mean that

0:27:04.440 --> 0:27:06.280
<v Speaker 1>we can't be friends and we can't say hey, be

0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:08.760
<v Speaker 1>friendly and all those types of things, but it does

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:11.280
<v Speaker 1>mean I think that there is a level of intentionality

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:15.439
<v Speaker 1>that comes with making these relationships. It's important to be

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<v Speaker 1>aware of the influence that other people can can have

0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 1>on you. Uh, and you know, I think this is

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<v Speaker 1>why my community, specifically, why that's such an important part

0:27:23.240 --> 0:27:26.120
<v Speaker 1>of the how the money philosophy. They always say that

0:27:26.320 --> 0:27:28.520
<v Speaker 1>it takes a friend to make a friend, right, and

0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:31.119
<v Speaker 1>so the impetus is going to be on us to

0:27:31.200 --> 0:27:33.720
<v Speaker 1>find these folks and to get the ball rolling. And

0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 1>we've found specifically that that churches and schools there are

0:27:36.800 --> 0:27:40.960
<v Speaker 1>places that are ripe for cross cultural friendships. Um. Actually

0:27:40.960 --> 0:27:42.800
<v Speaker 1>backing us up, there's a new study recently that was

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<v Speaker 1>published in uh Nature that found that the key for

0:27:46.560 --> 0:27:48.959
<v Speaker 1>folks who grew up with very little money that they

0:27:48.960 --> 0:27:50.720
<v Speaker 1>were able to move up the income scale because of

0:27:50.720 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 1>the friendships that they developed future incomes I think shut

0:27:53.600 --> 0:27:57.600
<v Speaker 1>up by something for lower income kids who spent significant

0:27:57.600 --> 0:28:01.199
<v Speaker 1>amounts of time with wealthier kids. And so, you know,

0:28:01.640 --> 0:28:03.320
<v Speaker 1>like we're not saying that you should only hang out

0:28:03.320 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 1>with like elite wealthy folks. I'm not slinding into elon

0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:09.400
<v Speaker 1>musty m right now. I'm not keen on like schmoozing

0:28:09.400 --> 0:28:11.320
<v Speaker 1>and hanging out with like the private jet crowd. But

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:13.640
<v Speaker 1>your friends can be an obstacle to who you want

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:15.520
<v Speaker 1>to become. So this is a reminder that you can

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<v Speaker 1>be intentional about who you are letting influence you without

0:28:19.320 --> 0:28:21.800
<v Speaker 1>cutting friends you know who don't share the same goals

0:28:21.800 --> 0:28:24.679
<v Speaker 1>completely out of your life. Yeah, we definitely don't want

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:27.720
<v Speaker 1>to sound like a heartless jerk who's like eradicate those

0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:30.080
<v Speaker 1>fools who you've been friends with since high school because

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 1>they're they're holding you back from reaching your financial goals.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like you share different goals now, yeah, and it's

0:28:34.640 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 1>easy you could potentially use what we just said and

0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:40.520
<v Speaker 1>make your friends into a scapegoat and say like sorry

0:28:40.680 --> 0:28:43.400
<v Speaker 1>Billy or sorry Jenny, um, it's your fault while I'm

0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:47.280
<v Speaker 1>not making more progress of my money. And the reality

0:28:47.360 --> 0:28:49.520
<v Speaker 1>is there's more onus on you than on your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's also a truth to the fact that that

0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:55.200
<v Speaker 1>the people you you spend the most time around are

0:28:55.240 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 1>going to influence you, oftentimes even in subtle ways. And

0:28:57.840 --> 0:29:01.480
<v Speaker 1>so it's important to think about that not too completely

0:29:01.520 --> 0:29:03.760
<v Speaker 1>get rid of important friendships that you've had for a

0:29:03.800 --> 0:29:05.760
<v Speaker 1>long time just because they don't think about money the

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:08.360
<v Speaker 1>same way, but to be more intentional about the positive

0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:10.640
<v Speaker 1>side of that. The friendships you can develop, they're gonna

0:29:10.680 --> 0:29:12.680
<v Speaker 1>push you in the right direction. And it also doesn't

0:29:12.680 --> 0:29:14.600
<v Speaker 1>mean that you have to be completely pragmatic about all

0:29:14.600 --> 0:29:17.160
<v Speaker 1>of your relationship right like like in particular, like the

0:29:17.160 --> 0:29:18.720
<v Speaker 1>stage of life that we're in when we're meeting a

0:29:18.760 --> 0:29:20.280
<v Speaker 1>lot of folks sometimes like we're gonna hang out with

0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 1>them just because we like them. And I think that's

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:25.959
<v Speaker 1>core to a friendship, right, Like there's something that you

0:29:26.000 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 1>see and that other person, there's like a spark there,

0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:31.520
<v Speaker 1>there's other shared common interests. But if you were to

0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:34.400
<v Speaker 1>go into every single relationship thinking is this person wealthier

0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:37.640
<v Speaker 1>than me? Like, that's just a cold hearted, like hard

0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:41.240
<v Speaker 1>nosed way to approach relationships that we are not recommending.

0:29:41.600 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 1>And it's not just bigger house, more more income, more

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:47.120
<v Speaker 1>successful career like those are those are That's not what

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about. You know, we're talking about some more

0:29:48.680 --> 0:29:51.240
<v Speaker 1>of those intangible things and and are your friends supporting

0:29:51.280 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 1>you in those ways? Are they influencing you in those

0:29:53.760 --> 0:29:55.880
<v Speaker 1>ways to help you become the kind of person you

0:29:55.960 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 1>want to be? Uh and Matt on that on that vein.

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<v Speaker 1>I know social media takes a b but it's another obstacle, right,

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<v Speaker 1>this stands always. You talked about how big tech and

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:07.000
<v Speaker 1>UH and big business is trying to get you to

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:10.520
<v Speaker 1>spend money on Instagram through all the ads that you're seeing. Well,

0:30:10.920 --> 0:30:12.959
<v Speaker 1>it's true, right that there's there's a reality of that.

0:30:13.360 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>Uh TikTok is ratching up the comparison game just with

0:30:16.760 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 1>as influencers are kind of taking over, and we're getting

0:30:20.080 --> 0:30:21.840
<v Speaker 1>more and more of our content that way as opposed

0:30:21.880 --> 0:30:26.640
<v Speaker 1>to traditional media. And uh. A new survey found by

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<v Speaker 1>bank rate found that social media makes half of gen

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<v Speaker 1>z ears feel bad about their finances. So people in

0:30:33.560 --> 0:30:36.000
<v Speaker 1>their twenties, almost half of them walk around feeling like

0:30:36.040 --> 0:30:38.720
<v Speaker 1>crap because of social media. And it turns out it

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:41.320
<v Speaker 1>makes people feel bad more more than just about their finances,

0:30:41.320 --> 0:30:43.640
<v Speaker 1>makes them feel bad about their appearance or the hobbies

0:30:43.720 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 1>that they that they participate in, like disc golf not

0:30:46.240 --> 0:30:48.680
<v Speaker 1>so cool on TikTok, I don't think you know. And

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:52.360
<v Speaker 1>so now there's there's there's definitely discolf influences golfers on

0:30:52.480 --> 0:30:55.240
<v Speaker 1>Instagram because I get fed them like crushing these like

0:30:55.320 --> 0:30:57.760
<v Speaker 1>massive drives, and I'm like, I don't even play discolf

0:30:57.800 --> 0:31:01.120
<v Speaker 1>that much, but maybe Instagram saying that I should. Well,

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I think in that way, Instagram would be right. But uh,

0:31:04.320 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 1>but a lot of us are spending meaningful amounts of

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:08.520
<v Speaker 1>time on these sites, and what they're doing is they're

0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 1>dragging us down. They're making us feel bad. And it's

0:31:11.200 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 1>not like this drill sergeant kind of feel bad where

0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:15.040
<v Speaker 1>we end up taking immediate action right where we're like,

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:16.920
<v Speaker 1>dang it, you're right, I will drop down and give

0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you fifty push ups. It usually induces more in action.

0:31:20.240 --> 0:31:23.520
<v Speaker 1>I would say, it's not this motivational kind of feel

0:31:23.520 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 1>bad exactly. And there's a difference between those two, right,

0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:29.800
<v Speaker 1>And we all know this right in our brains. We

0:31:29.800 --> 0:31:32.120
<v Speaker 1>we've seen some of these studies. A lot of us

0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:34.520
<v Speaker 1>watched the Social Dilemma back in the day on Netflix.

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:38.959
<v Speaker 1>But social media media, it's it's truly creating unrealistic expectations

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 1>and so using it far less is going to put

0:31:41.360 --> 0:31:45.400
<v Speaker 1>some wind in your sales from an emotional and financial perspective. Yeah,

0:31:45.440 --> 0:31:47.120
<v Speaker 1>so if you actually think about it, like it's literally

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:49.320
<v Speaker 1>in the name right, Like, so social media, you're being

0:31:49.320 --> 0:31:51.840
<v Speaker 1>fed what your friends are doing. So that's the social

0:31:51.840 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 1>side of things. Uh, And it's being force fed to

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:55.760
<v Speaker 1>you like you're watching the news. And so I think

0:31:55.760 --> 0:31:59.280
<v Speaker 1>that's that has a large impact on how passive we

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:01.040
<v Speaker 1>are as we can ume this. We're just sitting there.

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:02.840
<v Speaker 1>It's being fed to us. We don't have to lift

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:05.760
<v Speaker 1>literally without the hardly lift a finger. You just kind

0:32:05.760 --> 0:32:08.120
<v Speaker 1>of like swipe it on your screen or whatever. But

0:32:08.400 --> 0:32:10.440
<v Speaker 1>the reality is that much of what you see on

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:13.480
<v Speaker 1>social media is just fake, which you know this is

0:32:13.520 --> 0:32:16.479
<v Speaker 1>no surprise to anybody out there, but like influences, what

0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 1>are you talking about, Like they literally do crap like

0:32:18.560 --> 0:32:20.520
<v Speaker 1>running a seat like in a private jet just to

0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:22.200
<v Speaker 1>take a selfie to to make you think that their

0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 1>jet setting somewhere somewhere cool. And even if it's not fake,

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 1>most of what you're ingesting is going to be unhealthy.

0:32:28.800 --> 0:32:30.560
<v Speaker 1>We we you know, we talk about the hot of

0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Money Facebook group a decent bit. We feel that it's

0:32:33.160 --> 0:32:36.280
<v Speaker 1>this bashtion of goodness and the like this medium that's

0:32:36.320 --> 0:32:39.000
<v Speaker 1>just fraught with peril. And so if you're gonna stay

0:32:39.040 --> 0:32:41.960
<v Speaker 1>on these sites like like Facebook, we'd recommend that you

0:32:42.000 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 1>take some steps to lessen their impact. The Joel you

0:32:45.240 --> 0:32:49.040
<v Speaker 1>always talk about the news feed eradicator plug in, Um,

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 1>how that's a game changer. But the ability that we

0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:53.800
<v Speaker 1>have to be able to skip some of the crappy

0:32:53.840 --> 0:32:55.920
<v Speaker 1>aspects of social media like the news feed and go

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:58.600
<v Speaker 1>straight to specific groups where we are going to be

0:32:58.640 --> 0:33:01.440
<v Speaker 1>intentional with our time, or the ability to go straight

0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:03.440
<v Speaker 1>to the straight to marketplace because you're you're selling a

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:06.000
<v Speaker 1>bunch of stuff. That is what we want to encourage

0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:08.600
<v Speaker 1>folks to do. Cal Newport talks about doing that in

0:33:08.640 --> 0:33:11.520
<v Speaker 1>his book Digital Minimalism, where we set up these rules

0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 1>and how it is that we interact with social media. Uh.

0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 1>He wants you to use social media like a professional,

0:33:17.280 --> 0:33:19.320
<v Speaker 1>like you're going in with a purpose, You're gonna do

0:33:19.400 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 1>the thing, and then you're gonna get out of there.

0:33:20.880 --> 0:33:24.680
<v Speaker 1>It can be a powerful tool for our good for

0:33:24.760 --> 0:33:28.280
<v Speaker 1>awesome things, for the sell yourself challenge, Like we're not luddites,

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:30.200
<v Speaker 1>we're not trying to get you to step away from

0:33:30.200 --> 0:33:33.880
<v Speaker 1>all technology, but the technology is using you and that's

0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:35.240
<v Speaker 1>what we're trying. And you can also be like, but

0:33:35.240 --> 0:33:36.920
<v Speaker 1>I gotta do this sell your stuff challenge and if

0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:39.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm not on Facebook, then I can't help that, and

0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>then I'm not we need to do that, And then

0:33:41.280 --> 0:33:43.360
<v Speaker 1>and then you could you could be like, well, yeah,

0:33:43.400 --> 0:33:45.120
<v Speaker 1>so I need to stay on social media for that reason.

0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:48.920
<v Speaker 1>But the reality is you're you're consuming more than you're

0:33:48.920 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 1>even getting rid of, Like you're you're spending more, you're

0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:54.120
<v Speaker 1>wasting more money and time. Then you are saving it

0:33:54.560 --> 0:33:57.320
<v Speaker 1>and you're using that as an excuse, and so we're

0:33:57.360 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 1>okay with you being on social media. I think it's

0:33:59.360 --> 0:34:00.920
<v Speaker 1>I think it's okay to be on there a little bit,

0:34:01.000 --> 0:34:02.840
<v Speaker 1>but if you're letting it use you, that's the problem.

0:34:02.920 --> 0:34:04.960
<v Speaker 1>And it's really really hard to use it the other

0:34:04.960 --> 0:34:07.200
<v Speaker 1>way around, to use it profitably, to use it in

0:34:07.480 --> 0:34:11.319
<v Speaker 1>a way strategically. Yeah, it's really difficult to accomplish, but

0:34:11.440 --> 0:34:13.960
<v Speaker 1>it's possible, and something like that a plug in like

0:34:14.000 --> 0:34:16.759
<v Speaker 1>the Facebook news feed eradicator plug in can help you

0:34:16.800 --> 0:34:19.239
<v Speaker 1>do that. Um. But the more ways that you can

0:34:19.280 --> 0:34:23.680
<v Speaker 1>implement just time limits and what you're seeing on social media,

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:25.800
<v Speaker 1>it's going to be a positive impact and it's gonna

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:28.320
<v Speaker 1>prevent social media from being such a such a meaningful

0:34:28.320 --> 0:34:32.160
<v Speaker 1>obstacle to you gaining grounds with your money, a time suck. Yeah, Like,

0:34:32.280 --> 0:34:34.920
<v Speaker 1>use this strategically, Like specifically, we've been using it more

0:34:34.960 --> 0:34:36.680
<v Speaker 1>recently because we're meeting a lot of folks again, like

0:34:36.719 --> 0:34:39.719
<v Speaker 1>I said, And the ability to make these connections on

0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:43.160
<v Speaker 1>Facebook too then foster uh interactions in real life. Right.

0:34:43.360 --> 0:34:44.880
<v Speaker 1>And that's something else that Kyle talks about in this

0:34:45.000 --> 0:34:49.000
<v Speaker 1>book that's so huge, is embracing doing things for real

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:51.839
<v Speaker 1>and you're not doing things on social media. We've talked

0:34:51.840 --> 0:34:53.759
<v Speaker 1>about our how the money we don't we're not really

0:34:53.800 --> 0:34:55.400
<v Speaker 1>on the social as a whole lot. We we have

0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:57.320
<v Speaker 1>an Instagram feed and you're welcome to go join it,

0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:59.560
<v Speaker 1>check it out, follow it, but we don't do much

0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:01.839
<v Speaker 1>with it, and at times it's like, man, we could

0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 1>do better. We could be like massive personal finance influencers

0:35:06.000 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 1>on the socials if we wanted to post in seven

0:35:08.719 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 1>just like here's me. Okay, here's the deal I got

0:35:11.239 --> 0:35:13.080
<v Speaker 1>on the tooth baste, right, but it does not watch

0:35:13.120 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>me brush my teeth. But it doesn't jive with how

0:35:15.040 --> 0:35:16.600
<v Speaker 1>we want to live life and kind of with how

0:35:16.640 --> 0:35:18.600
<v Speaker 1>we feel about social media and tough man, it's a

0:35:19.040 --> 0:35:20.840
<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a balance that we're trying to strike there.

0:35:20.840 --> 0:35:22.480
<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, let's let's keep moving mat like we

0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:24.879
<v Speaker 1>we've talked about a lot of external influences, but after

0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:27.200
<v Speaker 1>the break, let's talk more about internal obstacles and how

0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:30.879
<v Speaker 1>we're moving Removing some of those can have major ramifications

0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:33.319
<v Speaker 1>on our ability to take positive action with our money.

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:44.960
<v Speaker 1>We'll get to that right after this. We are back

0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:47.480
<v Speaker 1>from the break, and again we are talking about beating

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:50.919
<v Speaker 1>down these biggest financial obstacles in our lives. And Joel,

0:35:50.960 --> 0:35:53.040
<v Speaker 1>you alluded to this before the break, but let's talk

0:35:53.040 --> 0:35:55.840
<v Speaker 1>about you that you Joel specifically, but all the listeners

0:35:55.840 --> 0:35:58.000
<v Speaker 1>out there, and let's talk about me um. Let's talk

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 1>about everyone out there as individual rules. Because it's easy.

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:03.799
<v Speaker 1>We think it's easy to point out, you know, all

0:36:03.840 --> 0:36:05.759
<v Speaker 1>of these other reasons why it is that we're not

0:36:05.840 --> 0:36:08.360
<v Speaker 1>as far along as we'd like to be with our finances.

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:10.759
<v Speaker 1>And it's not that those things aren't true, you know,

0:36:10.880 --> 0:36:13.440
<v Speaker 1>or that they haven't impacted us negatively, all the different

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:15.960
<v Speaker 1>things that pop up in our lives, but you might

0:36:15.960 --> 0:36:18.680
<v Speaker 1>be tempted to continue down a path of playing the

0:36:18.680 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 1>blame game when you're just pointing fingers, you know, the

0:36:21.680 --> 0:36:25.279
<v Speaker 1>things that might seem out of your control, or you

0:36:25.280 --> 0:36:27.640
<v Speaker 1>could like really take yourself out of the driver's seat

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:31.120
<v Speaker 1>and adopt more of a victim mentality when ultimately so

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:34.839
<v Speaker 1>much of your future is dependent on you taking responsibility

0:36:34.840 --> 0:36:37.800
<v Speaker 1>for our actions, seeing these obstacles and then doing something

0:36:37.840 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 1>about them. We think that that is crucial, and that's

0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:42.440
<v Speaker 1>why we're talking about this today. Yeah, you're right, Mad,

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:44.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's it's not that some people aren't

0:36:44.360 --> 0:36:46.319
<v Speaker 1>dealt a worse hand and that they don't have more

0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:49.759
<v Speaker 1>to overcome, but the more you just point to the

0:36:50.160 --> 0:36:53.160
<v Speaker 1>optacles in your path, the less likelyly you are to

0:36:53.239 --> 0:36:55.719
<v Speaker 1>overcome them. And it's not that it's easy, and it's

0:36:55.719 --> 0:36:57.759
<v Speaker 1>not that some people don't have a more difficult path,

0:36:58.120 --> 0:36:59.719
<v Speaker 1>but the onus is still on us in order to

0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:03.560
<v Speaker 1>make progress. And so what are those internal obstacles we

0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:05.799
<v Speaker 1>would say that we've all got to overcome at some point.

0:37:06.280 --> 0:37:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Is not knowing our why, and that's going to continue

0:37:09.440 --> 0:37:11.960
<v Speaker 1>to produce negative results for you. If you if you

0:37:12.000 --> 0:37:13.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know what we call the why behind your money,

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:15.920
<v Speaker 1>it's just gonna take you more time to accomplish the

0:37:15.920 --> 0:37:19.719
<v Speaker 1>money goals that you've got because you're aimless achieve them

0:37:19.719 --> 0:37:22.640
<v Speaker 1>at all. Yeah, exactly, And so yeah, not knowing what

0:37:22.719 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>you want to accomplish is going to kneecap your efforts regularly,

0:37:26.000 --> 0:37:29.719
<v Speaker 1>more likely to spend too much money, or you're going

0:37:29.760 --> 0:37:32.560
<v Speaker 1>to just be and be aimless. Like I said in

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:35.719
<v Speaker 1>those short sighted money efforts, if you can't attach a

0:37:35.760 --> 0:37:39.520
<v Speaker 1>why behind those efforts. And yeah, because if you haven't

0:37:39.520 --> 0:37:41.799
<v Speaker 1>really thought through what you want out of life and

0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:43.800
<v Speaker 1>how handling your money more effectively is going to be

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 1>able to get you there, you're gonna be apathetic about

0:37:46.200 --> 0:37:48.359
<v Speaker 1>their your finances. You're just gonna go with the flow

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna do with the people around you are doing.

0:37:51.000 --> 0:37:53.359
<v Speaker 1>But the more you get in touch and I hope

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:55.000
<v Speaker 1>this doesn't sound too woo woo, I'm not trying to

0:37:55.000 --> 0:37:57.160
<v Speaker 1>be some sort of Tony Robin style fella here, but

0:37:57.560 --> 0:37:59.759
<v Speaker 1>with your own personal why when you kind of get

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:01.360
<v Speaker 1>in touch to that, when you figure that out, the

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:03.839
<v Speaker 1>more you're gonna be able to attach a larger significance

0:38:03.880 --> 0:38:06.680
<v Speaker 1>to the trade offs that you're making now to It's

0:38:06.719 --> 0:38:09.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna feel different to say no to something, to cut

0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:12.120
<v Speaker 1>back your budget in significant ways in order to help

0:38:12.160 --> 0:38:14.400
<v Speaker 1>you achieve those bigger goals, which is gonna lead to

0:38:14.400 --> 0:38:17.759
<v Speaker 1>positive results and actually following through. And we've actually got

0:38:17.760 --> 0:38:19.799
<v Speaker 1>this money Mission Statement math that you and I that

0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:22.360
<v Speaker 1>we've created together, and it's a free resource, just like

0:38:22.400 --> 0:38:24.720
<v Speaker 1>your your budget template, like this is a free resource

0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:26.480
<v Speaker 1>that we want all how the money listeners to have.

0:38:26.560 --> 0:38:28.920
<v Speaker 1>And if you would just spend a half hour answering

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:31.760
<v Speaker 1>some of these questions, download this PDF and and print

0:38:31.760 --> 0:38:34.080
<v Speaker 1>it out. Think about it. Uh, it's going to have

0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:37.360
<v Speaker 1>a massive impact on overcoming that obstacle from being aimless

0:38:37.400 --> 0:38:39.040
<v Speaker 1>about what you want to do with your money and

0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:41.440
<v Speaker 1>where you want to be years from now to kind

0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 1>of having a plan and knowing what you want from

0:38:43.120 --> 0:38:44.920
<v Speaker 1>your life and knowing what you want from your personal

0:38:44.920 --> 0:38:47.120
<v Speaker 1>finances to that's right. Yeah, we'll make sure to link

0:38:47.200 --> 0:38:49.400
<v Speaker 1>to that in the show notes as well. But once

0:38:49.680 --> 0:38:51.480
<v Speaker 1>you know what it is that you want, having a

0:38:51.600 --> 0:38:54.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, a hy to anchor you, you still might

0:38:54.160 --> 0:38:56.520
<v Speaker 1>be missing the how. And of course that comes down

0:38:56.560 --> 0:38:58.840
<v Speaker 1>to the crucial component of knowledge, because you can have

0:38:58.880 --> 0:39:01.600
<v Speaker 1>the right desires while not having the proper information to

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.960
<v Speaker 1>accomplish them. And you know, while the basics of personal

0:39:05.000 --> 0:39:07.720
<v Speaker 1>finance are simple spend less than you make, there's obviously

0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:10.799
<v Speaker 1>a ton more to sustained success and being able to

0:39:10.840 --> 0:39:14.240
<v Speaker 1>achieve even higher level goals. We spend our lifetimes learning,

0:39:14.560 --> 0:39:17.400
<v Speaker 1>so nobody will ever reach the point where they know everything.

0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:20.359
<v Speaker 1>But we would recommend everyone out there to revisit our

0:39:20.360 --> 0:39:24.000
<v Speaker 1>money gears because it should act as a helpful guide

0:39:24.080 --> 0:39:27.279
<v Speaker 1>or or a roadmap regardless of how much money you make,

0:39:27.320 --> 0:39:30.719
<v Speaker 1>regardless of how much money you have invested. That's episode

0:39:30.760 --> 0:39:32.680
<v Speaker 1>three oh two, and we'll make sure to link to

0:39:32.719 --> 0:39:34.160
<v Speaker 1>that as well. Yeah, but if you know your why

0:39:34.200 --> 0:39:35.719
<v Speaker 1>and you know your how, like you're gonna be a

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:37.600
<v Speaker 1>person on a mission, You're gonna be heading places like

0:39:37.640 --> 0:39:40.839
<v Speaker 1>if you have figured out okay, cool, I I know

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:43.120
<v Speaker 1>I want to invest my money for the future, or

0:39:43.160 --> 0:39:44.400
<v Speaker 1>I know I want to have more money at some

0:39:44.440 --> 0:39:46.959
<v Speaker 1>point to gain financial independence. Once you're able to figure

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:49.080
<v Speaker 1>out some of the best levers to pull in order

0:39:49.120 --> 0:39:51.680
<v Speaker 1>to get you there, it's going to make the journey

0:39:51.719 --> 0:39:55.040
<v Speaker 1>that much easier. And another obstacle, though, Matt, that people

0:39:55.120 --> 0:39:58.560
<v Speaker 1>might face, right, another conundrum that comes up is not

0:39:58.680 --> 0:40:00.920
<v Speaker 1>having enough discipline to get where they need to go.

0:40:00.960 --> 0:40:02.920
<v Speaker 1>They might know there why, they might have some of

0:40:02.920 --> 0:40:05.480
<v Speaker 1>that how, but then they're like, but I'm just kind

0:40:05.480 --> 0:40:08.280
<v Speaker 1>of lazy, and I find it really difficult to actually

0:40:08.600 --> 0:40:11.799
<v Speaker 1>follow through on on the things that I know and

0:40:11.880 --> 0:40:15.160
<v Speaker 1>on those internal desires. And so maybe you're all excited

0:40:15.200 --> 0:40:17.759
<v Speaker 1>because you you do have the knowledge and you have

0:40:17.800 --> 0:40:21.120
<v Speaker 1>a y, but you fizzle out because you lack some

0:40:21.120 --> 0:40:23.960
<v Speaker 1>of the discipline to keep going. And I think you're

0:40:23.960 --> 0:40:26.880
<v Speaker 1>not alone, right, because even the most strident among us

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:29.279
<v Speaker 1>we fall off the wagon from time to time. But

0:40:29.600 --> 0:40:32.239
<v Speaker 1>the key to this, to overcoming this obstacle, is to

0:40:32.360 --> 0:40:36.319
<v Speaker 1>foster a longer term view of our finances. We've talked

0:40:36.320 --> 0:40:39.000
<v Speaker 1>about grit on the show before, Matt and we we

0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:41.240
<v Speaker 1>we actually called it the number one factor to winning

0:40:41.239 --> 0:40:43.800
<v Speaker 1>with your money. And the reality is that grit is

0:40:43.880 --> 0:40:45.840
<v Speaker 1>kind of like living life like it's a marathon and

0:40:45.880 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 1>not a sprint, although so many of us actually think

0:40:48.560 --> 0:40:50.359
<v Speaker 1>about it like the opposite, at least when it comes

0:40:50.400 --> 0:40:53.439
<v Speaker 1>to how we're spending or using our money and displaying more.

0:40:53.480 --> 0:40:57.560
<v Speaker 1>Grit is is realizing that setbacks that they're bound to happen,

0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:00.400
<v Speaker 1>um that obstacles are gonna pop up, right, But but

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:04.200
<v Speaker 1>pushing through those annoyances and inconveniences because we have our

0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:07.319
<v Speaker 1>eyes fixed on a specific prize, right, the why that

0:41:07.360 --> 0:41:10.600
<v Speaker 1>we have is important and so lacking discipline it's certainly,

0:41:10.880 --> 0:41:13.399
<v Speaker 1>certainly an obstacle, but and it's one of those things

0:41:13.400 --> 0:41:17.840
<v Speaker 1>it's not overcome quickly. It's overcome through repetition and a

0:41:17.880 --> 0:41:21.080
<v Speaker 1>little bit of mindset shift. Realizing that what you want

0:41:21.120 --> 0:41:23.400
<v Speaker 1>to accomplish, that it's it's not gonna happen, it's not

0:41:23.400 --> 0:41:26.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna occur overnight, right, And if there's a single factor

0:41:26.480 --> 0:41:28.560
<v Speaker 1>that leads to a lack of grid, it's got to

0:41:28.600 --> 0:41:32.040
<v Speaker 1>be shortsightedness, and so this this makes me think of investing. Oftentimes,

0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:34.040
<v Speaker 1>folks are going to fail to invest because they haven't

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:36.759
<v Speaker 1>thought through the long term impacts that it's going to have. Right,

0:41:36.920 --> 0:41:39.000
<v Speaker 1>like twenty bucks a month, it sounds like appendance, So

0:41:39.040 --> 0:41:42.320
<v Speaker 1>why even get started. But the reality is that because

0:41:42.320 --> 0:41:45.440
<v Speaker 1>of the effects of compounding, even small amounts that you

0:41:45.680 --> 0:41:48.959
<v Speaker 1>regularly set aside, it's gonna, you know, amount to something

0:41:49.120 --> 0:41:51.560
<v Speaker 1>meaningful over time, like you said, Joel, But we can

0:41:51.600 --> 0:41:53.640
<v Speaker 1>be to my opic. We can be too focused on

0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:56.800
<v Speaker 1>tomorrow in order to continue the hard work of spending

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:59.879
<v Speaker 1>less than you make, of making sacrifices now because you're

0:41:59.880 --> 0:42:01.960
<v Speaker 1>not you're not thinking about the future. All you're doing

0:42:02.080 --> 0:42:04.960
<v Speaker 1>is thinking about now, and so you're not thinking about

0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:07.600
<v Speaker 1>what life could potentially look like oft in the future. Instead,

0:42:07.640 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 1>you're pulling those dollars into the present from the future,

0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:12.560
<v Speaker 1>and you're spending that money left and right. That's when

0:42:12.600 --> 0:42:15.360
<v Speaker 1>we choose the different modern comforts that we convince ourselves

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:17.800
<v Speaker 1>that we need today in order to be happy. What

0:42:17.880 --> 0:42:20.480
<v Speaker 1>makes me think about something that you know, we and

0:42:20.560 --> 0:42:22.040
<v Speaker 1>you and I've talked about on the show before when

0:42:22.080 --> 0:42:25.440
<v Speaker 1>it comes to discipline, But also short sighting. This is

0:42:25.600 --> 0:42:27.920
<v Speaker 1>implementing a rule that prevents you from buying stuff on

0:42:27.920 --> 0:42:30.200
<v Speaker 1>a whim. Say, listen, I've got the seventy two hour

0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:32.680
<v Speaker 1>rule and I'm gonna wait to buy that item. And

0:42:32.719 --> 0:42:34.480
<v Speaker 1>I had to do this just the other day with

0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:36.280
<v Speaker 1>my with my nine year old Matt, we were at Costco.

0:42:36.400 --> 0:42:39.280
<v Speaker 1>She saw this like plushy, stuffy creature and she already

0:42:39.280 --> 0:42:41.800
<v Speaker 1>has like so many stuffed animals it's not even funny.

0:42:41.920 --> 0:42:43.920
<v Speaker 1>But she also has her own money and it's okay

0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:45.480
<v Speaker 1>for her to buy the stuff that she wants, as

0:42:45.520 --> 0:42:49.319
<v Speaker 1>we talk about, right, But what we what we're able

0:42:49.360 --> 0:42:52.000
<v Speaker 1>to convince of in our last visit to Costco, was

0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:55.000
<v Speaker 1>that she's going to have this seventy two hour rule too.

0:42:55.360 --> 0:42:57.400
<v Speaker 1>It's okay if you actually want this item, but do

0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:59.520
<v Speaker 1>you want it three days from now? Right? And so

0:42:59.719 --> 0:43:01.759
<v Speaker 1>she was like, oh, okay, all right, then I will

0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:06.920
<v Speaker 1>wait for right now, although unhappily, and we'll see if

0:43:06.920 --> 0:43:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I still want this thing three days from now. And

0:43:08.560 --> 0:43:10.319
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I have not heard a peepe from her.

0:43:11.680 --> 0:43:14.239
<v Speaker 1>There are other things though, back to Costco since then,

0:43:14.320 --> 0:43:16.440
<v Speaker 1>No we haven't, but there but if she brought it

0:43:16.480 --> 0:43:17.920
<v Speaker 1>up we're like, we will take you back there and

0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:19.560
<v Speaker 1>we'll take you to buy it. And there are other

0:43:19.560 --> 0:43:21.319
<v Speaker 1>things that she has continued to talk about, like she's

0:43:21.360 --> 0:43:23.719
<v Speaker 1>wanted to watch four weeks and weeks and weeks, and

0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:28.000
<v Speaker 1>so we're like, you've wanted this for a while to

0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:30.279
<v Speaker 1>each other. Well, actually, happily for me, this was not

0:43:30.320 --> 0:43:32.359
<v Speaker 1>one of those where they can message their friends. But

0:43:32.880 --> 0:43:34.640
<v Speaker 1>it does do it like a little tracking and stuff

0:43:34.680 --> 0:43:37.040
<v Speaker 1>like that, steps and all that, which I still can

0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:39.200
<v Speaker 1>message you like while they're at with like the pre

0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:41.920
<v Speaker 1>can responses. I don't think it's even got that. Okay, yeah,

0:43:41.960 --> 0:43:44.279
<v Speaker 1>but um well at least tracking is good. Yeah, but

0:43:44.400 --> 0:43:47.080
<v Speaker 1>I I personally hate those kind of watches. But she

0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:49.399
<v Speaker 1>really wanted one, and it was one of those things

0:43:49.400 --> 0:43:51.080
<v Speaker 1>where it was like, cool, we waited more than seventy

0:43:51.080 --> 0:43:53.319
<v Speaker 1>two hours. You really wanted it, and they want it,

0:43:53.400 --> 0:43:55.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's your money, so you can buy it. But

0:43:55.680 --> 0:43:58.759
<v Speaker 1>even still, like, let's have the long view. Is this

0:43:58.840 --> 0:44:00.839
<v Speaker 1>something that we're gonna want that we don't just want

0:44:00.920 --> 0:44:03.359
<v Speaker 1>right now, but we were actually gonna want it days

0:44:03.440 --> 0:44:05.160
<v Speaker 1>or weeks from now, and that will help us make

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:07.799
<v Speaker 1>better decisions that are more in our best long term

0:44:07.800 --> 0:44:09.799
<v Speaker 1>interest as opposed to just buying the thing because it's

0:44:09.840 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 1>in front of us, right, And of course that's harder

0:44:11.560 --> 0:44:13.880
<v Speaker 1>to do with kids, but as adults it's hard to

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:16.279
<v Speaker 1>do as well, and we have to remind ourselves of

0:44:16.280 --> 0:44:18.560
<v Speaker 1>those long term, long long term goals. And you know,

0:44:18.560 --> 0:44:21.400
<v Speaker 1>one of our favorite quotes comes from Frederick Nietzsche. He

0:44:21.560 --> 0:44:24.280
<v Speaker 1>who has a why to live for can bear almost

0:44:24.360 --> 0:44:27.640
<v Speaker 1>any how. And you know, a lot of these internal

0:44:27.680 --> 0:44:31.720
<v Speaker 1>and personal obstacles are really symptoms of an ultimate obstacle

0:44:31.800 --> 0:44:34.640
<v Speaker 1>that that we already mentioned, knowing your why you know,

0:44:34.840 --> 0:44:38.040
<v Speaker 1>or knowing your final end, as Thomas Aquanas calls it.

0:44:38.320 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 1>But this is just so foundational for us to make

0:44:40.560 --> 0:44:43.960
<v Speaker 1>any substantive and you know, like durable progress in our lives.

0:44:44.400 --> 0:44:46.399
<v Speaker 1>We can make some changes now, but if we don't

0:44:46.480 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 1>have that why, we're not going to stick with it.

0:44:48.280 --> 0:44:50.359
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's difficult to have a desire to learn

0:44:50.400 --> 0:44:53.000
<v Speaker 1>more about personal finances when you don't even know why

0:44:53.080 --> 0:44:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you're reading a book right, Like it's it's incredibly challenging

0:44:56.160 --> 0:44:58.640
<v Speaker 1>to continue to pull yourself up by your bootstraps when

0:44:58.640 --> 0:45:00.840
<v Speaker 1>you're wondering why it that you should even get up.

0:45:00.840 --> 0:45:05.000
<v Speaker 1>It's tempting uh to be shortsighted and choose ease and

0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:08.080
<v Speaker 1>comfort when you don't have that long term vision of

0:45:08.120 --> 0:45:09.799
<v Speaker 1>what you went your life to look like. And so

0:45:09.840 --> 0:45:13.400
<v Speaker 1>while figuring out your why, it's simultaneously the most amorphous

0:45:13.400 --> 0:45:16.000
<v Speaker 1>and unclear task at the same time, I think it's

0:45:16.040 --> 0:45:18.760
<v Speaker 1>likely the most important stuff that too many folks skip

0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:21.520
<v Speaker 1>out on because it's so difficult to wrap our heads

0:45:21.560 --> 0:45:23.760
<v Speaker 1>around it, because it requires us to sit in silence

0:45:24.040 --> 0:45:26.719
<v Speaker 1>and think about like it causes us to ask some

0:45:26.760 --> 0:45:29.200
<v Speaker 1>of these bigger questions in our lives. And it's just

0:45:29.239 --> 0:45:31.799
<v Speaker 1>not something that we've been trained to do. It's not

0:45:31.880 --> 0:45:35.400
<v Speaker 1>something that we allow ourselves the space, uh nor the

0:45:35.520 --> 0:45:37.799
<v Speaker 1>environment to allow ourselves to do that. Yeah, And and

0:45:37.880 --> 0:45:39.719
<v Speaker 1>one one little thing you can do, I think to

0:45:39.719 --> 0:45:42.080
<v Speaker 1>help you visualize maybe it's it's hard to sympathize with

0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:45.080
<v Speaker 1>your older self. And and if you can take to

0:45:45.120 --> 0:45:47.560
<v Speaker 1>get on the face app and literally take a picture

0:45:47.600 --> 0:45:50.000
<v Speaker 1>and make yourself look thirty years older, there's something visceral

0:45:50.080 --> 0:45:52.040
<v Speaker 1>that you feel about that. Like Fidelity actually did a

0:45:52.040 --> 0:45:54.680
<v Speaker 1>study and they found that people who did this and

0:45:54.719 --> 0:45:58.080
<v Speaker 1>saw themselves uh thirty or forty years older near retirement age,

0:45:58.280 --> 0:46:01.319
<v Speaker 1>sympathized with that older version of themselves and begin to

0:46:01.360 --> 0:46:03.239
<v Speaker 1>invest more of their money for the future. And so

0:46:03.280 --> 0:46:06.120
<v Speaker 1>I think maybe that's a litteral, a little step that

0:46:06.160 --> 0:46:08.759
<v Speaker 1>you can take that might have an impact on your

0:46:08.760 --> 0:46:10.279
<v Speaker 1>ability to say, you know what, if you're more of

0:46:10.320 --> 0:46:13.239
<v Speaker 1>a visual I'm not gonna forever and at some point

0:46:13.280 --> 0:46:15.440
<v Speaker 1>one of these days I'm gonna be sixty five, seventy,

0:46:15.560 --> 0:46:17.720
<v Speaker 1>and I I want to make sure that I'm thinking

0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:20.440
<v Speaker 1>about older me too. I'm being kind and generous to

0:46:20.680 --> 0:46:23.799
<v Speaker 1>future Joel uh to future whatever your name is and

0:46:24.040 --> 0:46:25.640
<v Speaker 1>uh so, Yeah, I think the face app is one

0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:27.440
<v Speaker 1>of those like it's it's just like a little tangible

0:46:27.440 --> 0:46:29.400
<v Speaker 1>thing you can do that might make a small difference.

0:46:29.400 --> 0:46:31.520
<v Speaker 1>But really, Matt, Yeah, you're right. Knowing your why and

0:46:31.600 --> 0:46:34.040
<v Speaker 1>going through the money mission statement that we have I

0:46:34.040 --> 0:46:36.399
<v Speaker 1>think can be helpful and things. It's so important. Yeah,

0:46:36.400 --> 0:46:38.040
<v Speaker 1>it's heelpful too. When you do the face app picture,

0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:40.200
<v Speaker 1>choose a picture where you're wearing like a cardigan, because

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:43.600
<v Speaker 1>it'll really like match up with the with the old look. Yeah, exactly. Yeah,

0:46:43.600 --> 0:46:47.000
<v Speaker 1>you want to make yourself look really well, maybe some spectacles, Yeah,

0:46:47.200 --> 0:46:49.160
<v Speaker 1>don't wear the punk rock t shirt that you have on.

0:46:49.200 --> 0:46:52.799
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna look weird. Uh yeah, all right, Well, we'll

0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:54.600
<v Speaker 1>make sure the links to all of those resources in

0:46:54.600 --> 0:46:56.959
<v Speaker 1>our show notes. But let's get back to the beer

0:46:57.120 --> 0:46:59.000
<v Speaker 1>that you and I enjoy During this episode, we both

0:46:59.080 --> 0:47:03.040
<v Speaker 1>had a Bibo, which is a pilsner by Creature Comforts,

0:47:03.320 --> 0:47:05.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna go ahead and read the They've got

0:47:05.120 --> 0:47:06.520
<v Speaker 1>a few words here on the side of the can,

0:47:06.560 --> 0:47:10.880
<v Speaker 1>and it says crisp and dry, classic noble. Do you

0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:13.759
<v Speaker 1>agree with those? Those were all for the adjectives I

0:47:13.760 --> 0:47:17.680
<v Speaker 1>was gonna use. You should work with the branding on

0:47:17.760 --> 0:47:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Creature Company. I should know it. Really it really was crisp,

0:47:20.719 --> 0:47:23.839
<v Speaker 1>and it just really tasted in light. Yes, for sure,

0:47:24.000 --> 0:47:27.240
<v Speaker 1>it tastes like your uncle's beer, but better like what

0:47:27.239 --> 0:47:29.759
<v Speaker 1>what he was drinking, Like the High Life, but a

0:47:29.840 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 1>much improved version of it that just has like a

0:47:33.120 --> 0:47:36.520
<v Speaker 1>taste touch more spice, yeah, less metallic. Um, you know,

0:47:36.560 --> 0:47:38.120
<v Speaker 1>like some of those beers have like a I don't

0:47:38.200 --> 0:47:41.880
<v Speaker 1>just a metallic macro produced beers. Yeah, just not uh smo.

0:47:42.960 --> 0:47:45.200
<v Speaker 1>But I like I love the taste of just kind

0:47:45.200 --> 0:47:48.840
<v Speaker 1>of like beer, right, um. But it's just not often

0:47:48.880 --> 0:47:52.360
<v Speaker 1>that you have a good beer. Uh that that's just

0:47:52.440 --> 0:47:55.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of in the classic style. Um, but a lot

0:47:55.080 --> 0:47:58.240
<v Speaker 1>more breweries now are are making good pilsners, good loggers

0:47:58.520 --> 0:48:00.720
<v Speaker 1>that taste kind of like that old school beer taste,

0:48:00.920 --> 0:48:03.520
<v Speaker 1>but just like elevated, and this is definitely one of those,

0:48:03.680 --> 0:48:06.160
<v Speaker 1>that's right. And if you just heard Joel say pilseners

0:48:06.200 --> 0:48:07.920
<v Speaker 1>and loggers, if you're wondering what a pilsener is, a

0:48:07.960 --> 0:48:11.000
<v Speaker 1>pilsner is a type of lagger. And so oftentimes pilseners

0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:15.280
<v Speaker 1>have more hops added to the beer, and so oftentimes

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:17.480
<v Speaker 1>that's what gives it that lift. Well, oftentimes it's the

0:48:17.520 --> 0:48:19.160
<v Speaker 1>Noble hop, right. I think that's actually the name of

0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:23.759
<v Speaker 1>the hop, which I was just because of like nobility,

0:48:24.000 --> 0:48:27.239
<v Speaker 1>like you think of like this old school pilsener. I mean,

0:48:27.400 --> 0:48:29.160
<v Speaker 1>there's so many hot varieties now, but that's one of

0:48:29.160 --> 0:48:31.440
<v Speaker 1>the most classic ones that they in a bunch of

0:48:31.440 --> 0:48:34.200
<v Speaker 1>those originally and stuff like that. Originally pilsener like it was,

0:48:34.320 --> 0:48:36.960
<v Speaker 1>it was a logger that was made in a city

0:48:37.040 --> 0:48:40.120
<v Speaker 1>like maybe Pilsen or something, is that right, Germany, Germany

0:48:40.160 --> 0:48:42.960
<v Speaker 1>or Belgium or something like that. Maybe it was in Chechoslakia,

0:48:42.960 --> 0:48:45.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but somewhere over there in Europe. What's

0:48:45.320 --> 0:48:47.799
<v Speaker 1>where this beer was originally? This the style of beer

0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:50.200
<v Speaker 1>was originally made, but it was a delicious, easy to

0:48:50.280 --> 0:48:51.719
<v Speaker 1>drink beer, and I'm glad you and I got to

0:48:51.880 --> 0:48:55.120
<v Speaker 1>enjoy one today on the show. And listeners can find

0:48:55.160 --> 0:48:57.040
<v Speaker 1>our show notes up on the website at how to

0:48:57.160 --> 0:49:00.120
<v Speaker 1>money dot com and awesome times, we don't have a

0:49:00.200 --> 0:49:01.840
<v Speaker 1>ton of stuff in the show notes, but today it

0:49:01.840 --> 0:49:03.360
<v Speaker 1>feels like there's a little more, so you should. Definitely

0:49:03.480 --> 0:49:06.080
<v Speaker 1>there are some resources there for you. Definitely, so yeah,

0:49:06.120 --> 0:49:08.000
<v Speaker 1>go go check it out. But buddy, that's gonna be

0:49:08.040 --> 0:49:10.400
<v Speaker 1>it for today. Until next time. Best Friends Out, Best

0:49:10.440 --> 0:49:11.279
<v Speaker 1>Friends Out.