1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: don't know y'all at all at all. So given them. 3 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:22,799 Speaker 2: Back a million bus bus things and Booze has. 4 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:39,639 Speaker 3: Ye listening to me to show I want joy. 5 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 4: Joy? 6 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 5: Great? 7 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 6: You don't you. 8 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 7: Love you? 9 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: You ogelone. 10 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 2: You gotta turn well, got to turn the mouth, turn 11 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: my probably got to turn the mouth, the turn out, turn. 12 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: The money, looking me, come me come out. You think that? 13 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 8: Uh huh, I shure, well a good morning everybody. You're 14 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 8: listening to the voice. Come on digny now, one and 15 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 8: only Steve Harley got a radio show. I want to 16 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 8: share something with you this moment. 17 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 7: In order for God to bless you, you have to 18 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 7: you have to have something you know and and and 19 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 7: that means I guess, I guess what I'm saying is 20 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 7: God can only bless you by your faith and your effort. 21 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 7: It's the only way He can bless you by your 22 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 7: faith and your effort. Now, because of his grace, he 23 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 7: gives us so many things that we don't even we 24 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 7: don't ask for, we don't thank him for, you know, 25 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 7: we don't even have on the list. 26 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: You know. 27 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 7: Oftentimes, you know, many of us have health, we never 28 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 7: thank him for We get another opportunity to wake up 29 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 7: the next day, we never thank him for it. We 30 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 7: take so many all things because of his grace, we 31 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 7: just take for granted, like it's just supposed to pop 32 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 7: off for us, just like that. Okay, including that, what 33 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 7: all this wonderful things he does us? And he blesses 34 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 7: us even far beyond our wildest dreams. I'm talking by 35 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 7: myself now us and a lot of you listening, without 36 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 7: us confiding or conferring in him. He still watches over us, 37 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 7: watches over us. I'm talking to all of us. Here 38 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 7: is what you get blessed on through your faith and 39 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 7: your efforts. I mean, he really gives you, give him 40 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 7: something to work with. This what I'm saying, He's gonna 41 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 7: do certain things for us automatically because he just loves us. 42 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 7: He automatically does things for us that we take so 43 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 7: for granted that a lot of people are not experiencing because. 44 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: Their time is up or whatever. I don't know the. 45 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 7: Reason, but whatever the case, but he does so many 46 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 7: things for us automatic. Imagine what could happen to you 47 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 7: if you just gave him a little bit to work with. 48 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 7: Ever thought about that suppose this idea that's been burning 49 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 7: on the inside of you, suppose you just started it 50 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 7: today and don't wait to start an idea so you 51 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 7: can figure it all the way through, because you'll never 52 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 7: get started. 53 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 3: You know. 54 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 7: It cripples so many people because they think of how 55 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 7: to start their business. Then they look all the way 56 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 7: down the road and the loans they gonna need, and 57 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 7: they don't know nobody, and they care they bad, and 58 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 7: so they stopped. 59 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: They never started. 60 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 7: What would happen had you ever thought if you just 61 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 7: started do the part of the business that you could do, 62 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 7: and ask God to lead you and guide you to 63 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 7: the next step, that that thing called faith, the belief 64 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 7: in things that you cannot see. Suppose you just started 65 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 7: out on faith, You just stepped out the water, stepped 66 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 7: out the boat and stood on the water, just on faith, 67 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 7: seeing that as well, but just believing that He would 68 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 7: take care of you, just believing that He would get 69 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 7: you through through, just believing that He would lead you 70 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 7: to the next step. 71 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 1: Start. 72 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 7: If you just started now, you would then give God 73 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 7: something to put his finger on and to bless. People 74 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 7: say to me, all the time, man, man Steve, it 75 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:22,159 Speaker 7: seemed like everything you do work. 76 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 1: Man, do you know what it is? 77 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 8: Really? 78 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: I just lose the fear of failing and I start 79 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 1: I don't know how to do all of this. 80 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 7: Come on, man, if I could have told you ten 81 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 7: years ago or there's no way I could have told you, 82 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 7: I'd be why i'm today. 83 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: But if anyone had come to me and. 84 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 7: Said, Steve, in ten years you will be doing this, that, this, 85 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 7: that and the other, they will recognize you here. You 86 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 7: will get this recognizable recognition, you'll get this award, and 87 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 7: you'll be living like this. 88 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: I'd have just looked at them like they was crazy. 89 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 1: I really would have. 90 00:05:58,360 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 9: Man. 91 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 7: It's not that I didn't have the faith. It's just 92 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:05,919 Speaker 7: that in my imagination I didn't see it. I've always 93 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 7: believed in God, I just didn't see things for myself. See, 94 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 7: I didn't open myself up to what God had for me. 95 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 7: I was just living my life based on what I 96 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 7: could see for me. When I stopped worried about what 97 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 7: I could see for me and started allowing God to 98 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 7: do what he could do for me, it changed my 99 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 7: whole existence because I found out that God's plan was 100 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 7: way better than mine. But you got to start something. 101 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 7: You got to give God something to put his finger 102 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 7: on that might's touched where it turned into something. You 103 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 7: got to let your imagination go. You got to let 104 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 7: your imagination fly as wild as it can fly without 105 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 7: being constricted by the confines of where you live and 106 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 7: what color you are, and what sex you are, and 107 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 7: how much money you make and what your degree say. 108 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 7: You got to let your imagination fly beyond that. You 109 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 7: got to go for it. You got to step out 110 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 7: on faith and you got to go for it. Oh 111 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 7: and did I mention you got to pray? Don't want 112 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 7: to lead that out? Then you got to seek understanding. Man, 113 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 7: read Proverbs. Proverbs is a great book to start with out. 114 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 7: You know, I guess other people got other worse I'm 115 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 7: just telling you about me. Man, this is probably some 116 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 7: better places to start. 117 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. 118 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 7: Proverbs was to start for me, the book of wisdom 119 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 7: and understanding that helped develop my thought process, which helped 120 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 7: me become fairly successful. Proverbs teaches you everything you need 121 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 7: to know. And if you can't read the King James version, 122 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 7: get you one of them translated Bibles. What difference it 123 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 7: makes long as you hear what he's saying to you. Oh, 124 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 7: and did I mention? Don't forget to pray and then 125 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 7: take the idea, the business, the journey you want to 126 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 7: embark on and break it down inch by inch anythings 127 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 7: and sich just start with the peace that you can do. 128 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: Okay, you don't know how you go get the loan? 129 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: When it's time for the loan? What part can you? 130 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: Can you design the business card? 131 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 3: Can you? 132 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 7: Can you make a YouTube video and post it? Can 133 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 7: you start telling people that you're associated with this is 134 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 7: what you do now? You could start somewhere. You can 135 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 7: get a gig somewhere doing something. Somebody will pay you 136 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 7: for the service right now, and then simplify it, take 137 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 7: it and break it down to the lowest common denominator. 138 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: Qut trying to figure it all out? Simplify it? What 139 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: can I do now? I can't figure this out. It's 140 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: too complex, it's too difficult, there's too many levels. Quit 141 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 1: tripping on that. 142 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 7: Do the part you can do, but start, man, Just 143 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 7: get started today. Stop delaying it. Every time you put 144 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 7: it off, you seen further away from it, don't you. 145 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 7: Why won't you start? Let your imagination go open it up? 146 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 7: You know, if you can't imagine, God show can Einstein 147 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 7: said it one time, he said that imagination is everything. 148 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 7: It's the preview to life's coming attractions. Is that crazy? 149 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 7: Is that crazy? Do you know that everything we do 150 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:14,319 Speaker 7: somebody imagined it? But do you know when they imagine 151 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 7: if somebody laughed at them? Man, I'm gonna make a 152 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 7: car that you can sit on it and will automatically drive, 153 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 7: and the wheels a roll. Who gonna do that? Okay, 154 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 7: here we go. We all ride in cars. Man, I'm 155 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 7: gonna fly. I'm gonna make something that will take people 156 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 7: far away in the air. People board flights every day. 157 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 6: Man. 158 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 7: Somebody sat up there and looked at that moon and said, man, 159 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,439 Speaker 7: one day, I'm going to the moon. He talking about 160 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 7: going to the moon. They take people to the moon 161 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 7: all the time. Imagination is everything. It's the preview to 162 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 7: life's coming attractions. Or are you imagining for yourself? What 163 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 7: do you see coming? What's your coming attractions? I'm so 164 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 7: grateful I change mine. Oh I see being because I 165 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 7: see God. Come on, y'all. 166 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: And gentlemen, we're back again. All thanks to God Almighty. 167 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 7: Just to be back again, that deserves a rondem applause 168 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 7: for God Almighty. 169 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: I'm talking about, man, how good is God? 170 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 9: Really? 171 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: Really? A amazing Thank you, Dave Roda applause. That's for God, everybody. 172 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 7: Steve Harby Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry is off today, Carlin 173 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 7: Farrell Mississippi Monica Junior is off today, and the legend 174 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 7: that is nephew Tommy. 175 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: Well, Shirley's off, best voice. 176 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 7: In all the radio is gone. Junior is off today also, 177 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 7: and so now we're here. Normally I would say, Junior, 178 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 7: what's on your mind today? But Lord, man, I ain't 179 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:49,599 Speaker 7: asking him that today, because Lord, that would be that 180 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 7: would be down a pathway, slipping into. 181 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 3: Dog may. 182 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: Anyway out today? Man? Old school had a song for everything. Yes, 183 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: wha slipping into darkness? That was war? 184 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 10: Yes, yes, what if your nephew have? 185 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,319 Speaker 1: Don't just say if your nephews well, okay, here we go. 186 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 9: Question. 187 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 1: I mean, Tommy, you got anything on your mind today? 188 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 9: I do. 189 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 1: It ain't it ain't gonna hurt you. 190 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 11: You know, family, family and and and families as falling out, 191 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 11: don't get in it, don't get back together. The tension 192 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 11: that that it, that it creates whenever we do come 193 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,839 Speaker 11: around each other. How do you handle family fall outs man, 194 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 11: How do you fix them? 195 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 3: Do you do? 196 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: You do? 197 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 6: You do? 198 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 11: You jump in and try to fix it, because now 199 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 11: it's gotten to the point where we got we got 200 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 11: let's just say we got we got some relatives, my 201 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 11: wife got some relatives. Ain't spoke in six months, and 202 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 11: it's it's getting stronger and stronger and strong. 203 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: Don't have them at your house. That's your advice. 204 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 7: Tell you right now, do not have them at your house, okay, 205 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 7: and and and tell me why, because you can't put 206 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 7: him out. It's hard to put people out. There's arguing, 207 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 7: you know, because it's if the women in there they 208 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 7: trying to fix it all this he is, So don't 209 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 7: have them at your house. 210 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: Now. 211 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:41,199 Speaker 7: What you could do is separate them, invite the better 212 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 7: half of the family that's involved in the dispute, so 213 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 7: you could try to uh narrate and negotiate what do 214 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 7: they call it? 215 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: Mediate? 216 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 7: But you don't want to have them both there and 217 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 7: and they know they both coming, or they don't know 218 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 7: one of them is coming. 219 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: That's not what you need. So just have one side 220 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 1: of the family come. 221 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 7: That's the cooler side and the one that you all 222 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 7: have decided that has the right way, because most. 223 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: Families know who's the right way. Yeah exactly. 224 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, So you know they wrong for that because once 225 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 7: I'm gona tell you something, Man, when people get together 226 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 7: and they will create a narrative amongst themselves that makes 227 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 7: themselves one hundred correct yep, because they ain't talking to 228 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 7: nobody but their self, yep. 229 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 10: Dropping that knowledge. 230 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 3: Family beef early this morning, Okay, coming up at thirty 231 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 3: two minutes after the hour, the nephew is back. 232 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 1: He's gonna run that prank back right after that. Ye 233 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: you're listening, Hardy Morning Show. 234 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 11: On August sixth, getting ready to laugh all the way 235 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 11: to the bank with The Pickups, the hottest action movie 236 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,439 Speaker 11: of the summer coming to Prime Video. 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Y'all, y'all get 248 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 11: on one accord. Okay, I just can't take me. 249 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: They are one accord at church. I think it's a limit. 250 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: I think it's a limit caller. We'll praise. 251 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 11: I think praise dancing man about thirty. I think we 252 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 11: are the you know, an age limit to praise. Yeah, 253 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 11: you need to find a new ministry after you just 254 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 11: you can't. You know, it's a limit on praise. Then 255 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 11: after thirty say okay, I'm gonna give you thirty five 256 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 11: after that. But when I see a fart of some 257 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 11: of your old praise dances, it's that's yeah. 258 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 10: Y'all tell people what age to be the serve on 259 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 10: the ministry you got. 260 00:14:58,160 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: At some point you have to move on to the 261 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 1: usher bowl. You know what I'm saying. 262 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 9: You have to. 263 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: And await limit and praise dancers. Let's go cat don. 264 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 6: Hello, this is the day that the Lord has made. 265 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 6: Let us rejoice and be glad. And how you doing? 266 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 6: I'm looking for uh Stania? 267 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 9: This is Tania. 268 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 6: This is brother Puller from the church. 269 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 9: How are you? 270 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm with my brother, so how are you? 271 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 6: I'm good I'm good. We wanted to give you a 272 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 6: call about the about the praise dancing that's at the church. 273 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 6: First of all, I wanted to really show you how 274 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 6: much you're doing a great job over there with the 275 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 6: praise dancers and you you definitely do a great job 276 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 6: on happy third, tell you that you guys actually perform. 277 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 6: Everybody seemed to really like it. 278 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 5: Well, thank you, thank you. 279 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 6: What can I do for you today? There is a 280 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 6: bit of a situation with you know, it's been brought 281 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 6: to our attention. We actually had a small gathering, a 282 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 6: little meeting about it and wanted to I've been elected 283 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 6: to actually give you a call. Who I'm sorry, who 284 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 6: are you kids? Brother Puller, uh huh and and who 285 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 6: had a meeting uh some of the brothers at the 286 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 6: church and uh path to actually sat in for a 287 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 6: moment on it. And I was actually elected to actually 288 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 6: just give you a call. Nothing that I don't think 289 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 6: we can't get rectified and and you know, move on 290 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 6: smoothly as. 291 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 9: We normally do. 292 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 6: But I just think it's we wanted to reach out 293 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 6: to you and kind of make you aware of it. 294 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 6: If it's if you don't mind, okay, and what things 295 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 6: are those well, sis Antonia? Has any of the praise 296 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 6: dancers before they became praise dancers? 297 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 9: Was? Was? 298 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 6: Was any of them strippers? 299 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 9: I beg your pardon? 300 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 6: Was any of the praise dancers that at the church 301 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 6: that you have on the praise team right now? Was 302 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 6: any of them strippers in the past? 303 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, sir, I don't I don't really know who 304 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 4: you are, and I don't really understand this line of questions. 305 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 6: Like I said, I'm brother full I don't think we've met. 306 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 6: But uh, like I said, I've been elected to give 307 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 6: you a call. 308 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 7: Not now. 309 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 6: It seems what happened is this past week when you 310 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 6: all actually danced, it seemed like a couple of the 311 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 6: girls was actually GI raiding during the praise routine. 312 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:10,879 Speaker 4: Say what girating, brother Phillip. I don't know who you are, 313 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 4: and I don't know what you saw. None of my 314 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,400 Speaker 4: girls with GI rating, they would. 315 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 5: Dancing for the Lord. 316 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 4: And I think if you look through your lord's eye, 317 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 4: perhaps you would see them better instead of maybe you 318 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 4: were looking through the GI rating eye. No, see a 319 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 4: couple of the girl we. 320 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 6: Can pull them out. A couple of them half stript 321 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 6: girl tendencies up and then because some of them have been. 322 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 4: Trimp girl's tendencies. You know what, sir, I think we 323 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 4: need to complete this call. Perhaps I need to call 324 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 4: Bishop and speak to him myself, because you know, I 325 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 4: don't know what you do all day, but I have 326 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 4: a real job, and I'm sitting here holding a conversation 327 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 4: in my office about Ji rating strippers in the church. 328 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 6: Are you kidding me? Well, listen, now here's a couple 329 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 6: of other things that they're talking about. Some of the 330 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 6: girls seat or real ask you when you all are 331 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 6: performing and they wanted to see it. Maybe you can, 332 00:17:58,200 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 6: you can. 333 00:17:58,920 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 9: I don't know. 334 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 6: Maybe I don't know if y'all need to grip or 335 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 6: whatever that y'all don't. Y'all don't put lotion on. We're 336 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 6: not sure what that is. As well as the totnail pology, 337 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 6: everybody has three, four, five different designs and everything is it? Anyway, 338 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 6: y'all can be in unison with your totnail pology. But 339 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 6: the most important thing hell the jib rating doing the 340 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 6: dance routine. I don't know what your feet look like. 341 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 4: I don't need you calling me talking to me about 342 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,959 Speaker 4: my girls their feet, their nail pology. Perhaps your man 343 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 4: should be on Jesus instead of on them. 344 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 5: How about that? 345 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 6: Mind, I don't have time. 346 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 5: I don't have time. 347 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:37,479 Speaker 6: I want to be on Jesus when somebody's shaking their 348 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 6: butt at the church. Now that's the problem. 349 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 9: You know what. 350 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 4: Look, I'm at work now, I'm trying to keep a 351 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 4: work tone. 352 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 6: You're gonna make me hurse up here and let me. 353 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 4: Tell you something. 354 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:47,360 Speaker 5: Don't call me anymore. 355 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 6: I will deal with pastor. 356 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 4: If he has something to say with me, he can 357 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 4: say it to me personally. But I'm done with this conversation. 358 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 6: Are you gonna deal with the JI rating? Is what 359 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 6: we want to know? 360 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 9: Maybe you know what? 361 00:18:58,200 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 2: It just hit me. 362 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 6: Maybe you want of the ones that's doing the grub rate. 363 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 4: Look, let me tell you something. My girls ain't doing 364 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 4: no jot rating. 365 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 6: And neither am I. 366 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 4: Now I am done with this conversation. 367 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 6: Do you understand you? But listen, I'm done? Are you 368 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 6: done with this? All? 369 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 5: Right? 370 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 9: Rating? 371 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 6: That's what we want to stop so we can We 372 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 6: can't praise the Lord if the booty is to shake. 373 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 9: You know what? 374 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 6: Shirt, Look, I gotta go to work. 375 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 4: I gotta go now again. I don't know what your 376 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:23,959 Speaker 4: issue is. It sounds to me like you have an 377 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 4: issue with gut rating booties. I heard so much joy 378 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 4: rating booties on one conversation in my entire life. Now 379 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 4: my mind is set on Jesus. I don't know what 380 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 4: your mind is set on. 381 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 6: What's to tell you? Before you was the praise dance 382 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 6: a ministry over the ministry? Did you ever used to strip? 383 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 6: Y'all didn't do no stripping? Now did you want to 384 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 6: do any stripping? Did your mamma do any stripping? You 385 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 6: heard what I said? How are you asking to somebody call? 386 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 6: You would ask you if your mamma did some stripping? 387 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 9: How you like that? 388 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 6: You know what I want to know? When is the 389 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,640 Speaker 6: next rehearsal? Then the way I can come and pick 390 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 6: out who it is that's doing this time? 391 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 4: You don't You don't have any visits at my rehearsal. 392 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 4: I want to see you at my rehearsal. I don't 393 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 4: want to. 394 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 6: I don't want to see any plight. 395 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 5: For you in my arse. 396 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 6: If I say, you never one of my girls. That's 397 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 6: why I'm coming after you myself. Do you understand me? 398 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 6: You need to find out who's doing that job? I 399 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,360 Speaker 6: don't know a thing you need to tell your buddy, y'all, 400 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 6: And I'm glad y'all. Ain't dancing when the lat is 401 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 6: being pains because I ain't no telling her you act 402 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:19,159 Speaker 6: with them? One is coming through that you know what. 403 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 1: That's it. 404 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 5: That's it. 405 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 6: You call me disrespecting me. I met what. I can't 406 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 6: even have this more? You know what? Don't call me 407 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 6: no more? Still look at my girls no more? Man, 408 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:28,719 Speaker 6: fast come down to church and see what I got 409 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 6: for it. I don't want to know if you gonna 410 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 6: stop the job rating it moving? Who ain't you talking 411 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 6: to like that? You're supposed to be a good Yeah, 412 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 6: let's have done. Listen and tell you now. 413 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 4: I'm getting ready to joubt. 414 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 6: Well, I got one more pain to say to you. 415 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 6: Ford you lead. You ain't got a thing to say 416 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 6: to me. I said I was dealing, and I said 417 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 6: I got one more pain to say? 418 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 9: Is you listen? 419 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,200 Speaker 6: You know what? Man, get off my phone, and I'm 420 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 6: gonna say it anyway. This is nephew Tommy from the 421 00:20:56,040 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your entire praise and in the 422 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 6: strict congregation, all your girls got me the prank phone 423 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 6: call you. Oh, I'm a shoty for real. 424 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 4: Oh oh, I'm think I'm person on the radio. Oh 425 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,640 Speaker 4: oh oh right, be coming on show. 426 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 6: Hey, I got one thing that you tell you, what 427 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 6: is the baddest radio show in the land. 428 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,160 Speaker 4: Nobody else for the Steve Harvey Morning. 429 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: Show, like so much? 430 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,360 Speaker 10: All right, coming up next? 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It wasn't nothing. 448 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:24,880 Speaker 10: We'll talk about it at the top of the hour. 449 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:26,159 Speaker 10: Steve heard about it. 450 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 1: Check this out. 451 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 3: A glitter sock worn by Michael Jackson sells for nine 452 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,919 Speaker 3: thousand dollars at a French auction. 453 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 1: We'll tell you about that. 454 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 3: In Sad News out of Hollywood, actress Lannie Anderson has 455 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 3: passed away. 456 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 10: So we'll talk about these stories at the top. 457 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 3: But right now it's time to ask the clo You ready, Steve, 458 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 3: see ready, all right, here we go Trinity in Lake Charles. 459 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 3: She says, I'm moving in with my older sister and 460 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:58,119 Speaker 3: she hates my boyfriend. I don't say anything about who 461 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 3: she dates, but as the big sister, she judges everything 462 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 3: I do. I am thirty one years old. So should 463 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 3: I have to sneak around her or should I stand 464 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:09,239 Speaker 3: up to her? 465 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: Well, you ain't got to do either one. But let 466 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 1: me tell you what. He can't come over there though 467 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: her house, right yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah 468 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: yeah yeah. 469 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,400 Speaker 7: You ain't got to sneak around, but he can't come 470 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,880 Speaker 7: over there, and you can't expect her to allow him 471 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 7: in the house. 472 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 1: If you know she don't like her. 473 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 7: You can't bring him to her house. That's rule number one. 474 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 7: Now you ain't got to sneak around. Because you're thirty one. 475 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 7: You can openly date the guy. But hopefully he got 476 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 7: a house, cause he can't come over there. When he 477 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 7: come to pick you up, he can call you and 478 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,360 Speaker 7: let you know he outside. He can come and meet 479 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 7: you at the door and walk you to the car 480 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 7: and open your car door and put you in and 481 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 7: shut the door and drive off. And when you get 482 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 7: back from the date, he can get out the car, 483 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 7: open your door, walk you back up to the house. 484 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 1: He can't come in. Big sisters not like him. No, No, 485 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: that's how I don't let nobody in my house. I 486 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 1: don't like no bad all. I don't care who you are. 487 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 3: All right, all right, moving on to there you go, Trinity, 488 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 3: Moving on to Melissa and Jacksonville dou ball. 489 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 1: All yup. 490 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 3: My son's tutor told me that she won't be able 491 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 3: to come to our house anymore because my husband makes 492 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:32,479 Speaker 3: her uncomfortable. She's almost sixty, so I doubt my husband 493 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 3: came on to her. He laughed and denied it. Should 494 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 3: I take her seriously? 495 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 1: She foined them. That's all. That's a fine sixty dough 496 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 1: let me tell you that right now. 497 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,399 Speaker 10: She shut up something. 498 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 1: It a ma'am, and she's smart. I know a rithmetic that's. 499 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 3: What he laughed at off and deny it and deny it. 500 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 3: This is what Melissa and Jacksonville said. 501 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,640 Speaker 7: Well what he got to deny it? That that's obvious. 502 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 7: But right what is it that the woman is saying? 503 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 7: She made the feel is he staring at her? 504 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 6: You know? 505 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 10: No specific in this from Melissa. 506 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:21,920 Speaker 3: My son's tutor told me that she won't be able 507 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 3: to come to our house anymore because my husband makes 508 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:25,120 Speaker 3: her uncomfortable. 509 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: She didn't say what exactly he is doing. Well, well, 510 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 1: she not coming to the house no more. 511 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:36,160 Speaker 7: Now if you're not gonna find out what's making her uncomfortable, 512 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,880 Speaker 7: then your question was should I take her seriously? Well, yeah, 513 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 7: you have to take her seriously because we're in a 514 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 7: culture now where anything can turn into a lawsuit, So 515 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 7: you have to take her seriously. But I think to 516 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:55,440 Speaker 7: keep your family together and to keep everybody safe, just 517 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 7: get another tutor. Yeah, yeah, because if the woman is lying, 518 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 7: you don't need up around your family no more. And 519 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 7: if she telling the truth, yeah, you don't need up 520 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 7: around the family no more. 521 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 1: So the boy gonna flunk for a minute. Basic, Yeah, 522 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: he'd be all right, though, I got a lot of else, 523 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,640 Speaker 1: I got a lot of made look at you now? Yeah? 524 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:24,719 Speaker 1: Everything where about? Else said? He gives them else he coupled. 525 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: How old is the boy here? A tutor? 526 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 3: Well he needs a tutor? Yeah, you know, so, hey, 527 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 3: he'd be all right. Maybe you find another place to tutor, like, 528 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 3: I don't know, library or. 529 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:42,120 Speaker 1: Something like that. Anyway, moving on Rico and Trenton, New 530 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 1: jer Zy. 531 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 3: My wife and I heard our fourteen year old daughter 532 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 3: on the phone cursing out a boy that rubbed her 533 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 3: butt at school. I think my daughter gets a pass 534 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 3: for how she handles the situation, but my wife wants 535 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:57,399 Speaker 3: to punish her. 536 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: Should she be punished or praised? Punish her? 537 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 7: Hey, tell me who the little boy is, right, so 538 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 7: I can go up to the school and talk to 539 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 7: his daddy. Yeah, see, that's all that is. You know 540 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 7: what you want to punish her for? Cause let me 541 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 7: tell you something your kids is cussing when you ain't around. 542 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,879 Speaker 7: Is was at mcgradson's basketball game. Uh huh uh BJ 543 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 7: a couple of weeks ago. Oh, by the way, they 544 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 7: won the championship, UDJ and the team job and they 545 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 7: get they get rings when they wear win ring. Everybody 546 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,359 Speaker 7: get a ring and a trophy. And the rings are heavy. 547 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,919 Speaker 7: They look like NBA rings, you know they have they 548 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 7: fake diamonds, of course, but they real heavy. They got 549 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 7: weight on them like a real wing. I was going 550 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:55,480 Speaker 7: and here in third grade we won the elementary school championship. 551 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 7: When I was in sixth grade, I got a patch. 552 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: Anyway back to iron on patch. 553 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 7: So anyway, that's in the seventies. Dog dogs that was 554 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 7: in his sixties. Seventies. 555 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 1: Come on, help Rico. Should they punish the girl or no? 556 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 7: I don't think you should punish the girl. But I 557 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 7: think you all need to realize your kids are talking 558 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 7: a little bit different. I had his basketball team down 559 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 7: at the ranch for his birthday, and boy, I drove 560 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 7: up and they didn't know I was there. Boy, they 561 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 7: was out there letting him fly ifew little And you 562 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 7: don't know nothing. 563 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 1: All be sent up. 564 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 7: You run around right here, And why you can't dribble 565 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 7: h you sent up in there? Tell me you better 566 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 7: get out of my l faith. You don't know who 567 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 7: you mess with. You're about to beat something up in here, 568 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 7: I'm going all right. I was impressed. I was, you 569 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 7: will be you know, you know you're not walked in 570 00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:58,840 Speaker 7: and tried to be his grandparent. 571 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 1: Hey watch your language. Language. 572 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 7: But then as soon as I got their attention, I said, nah, 573 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 7: good all you little molse get over there on. 574 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: That other side. 575 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 7: Stupid, you're all out here. Oh my god, my daughter, 576 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 7: Hey man, my daughter, Carly said, she. 577 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: Said, Dad, so embarrassed. Daddy? All right, So rego and Trenton. 578 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 1: You know, y'all shouldn't punish the girl, all right, moving 579 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: the girl. She probably caught it like her mama, cuss, mama, 580 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: do it? 581 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 3: Uh? All right, let's move on. Last one, Kelvin and Philly. 582 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 3: I kept my kids this past weekend, and my ex 583 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 3: wife went to Ohio with her new husband for his 584 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 3: ten year old daughter's birthday party. My kids are eight 585 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 3: and eleven, and they're wondering why they weren't invited. Is 586 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 3: it my place to talk to my ex wife about this? No, 587 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 3: the ex he kept his kids. 588 00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 7: And then you know, yeah, yeah they may not. Y'all 589 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 7: them to them kids may not get in there. Y'all 590 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 7: ain't a blended. 591 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 1: Family, So you don't think he should talk about. 592 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, you're not a blended family. If what of 593 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 7: y'all would have to be date have to be living together? 594 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 1: This doesn't matter. You ain't going to the parky Okay, never, 595 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 1: you ain't going to the war next year? 596 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 3: Okay, coming up talking to y'all. Entertainment's gold, that's gold. 597 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 3: Look you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. So according to 598 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 3: Yahoo dot com, stephen A. Smith has clapped back at 599 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 3: former First Lady Out Forever First Lady Michelle Obama after 600 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 3: she mentioned him on her podcast last week. She said, 601 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 3: in part quote, if I listened to ESPN for an hour, 602 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 3: it's like watching the Real Housewives of Atlanta. 603 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 10: You know, it's the same drama. They're yelling at each other. 604 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 6: You know. 605 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 10: She went on about that. So then stephen A. Meth responded, 606 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 10: take a listen to his response in. 607 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 12: Part, I adore and love practically everything about you and 608 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 12: who you are and what you represent, what you mean 609 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 12: to this country, what you mean that so many young 610 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 12: ladies in this world. What an incredibly motivational and inspirational 611 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 12: figure you are. And I feel even more adamant about 612 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 12: what your husband, Barack Obama said when he talked to 613 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 12: those men in Pittsburgh and implied that to not vote 614 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 12: for Kamala is because we're engaging in some sort of misogyny. 615 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 12: There are issues that matter to every American citizen, and 616 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 12: it sort of blackmail us emotionally into trying to compel 617 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 12: us to vote one way or another. 618 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,440 Speaker 1: It's part of what won Trump the election. 619 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 3: So that was part of stephen A's response. It was lengthy, 620 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,480 Speaker 3: but that was part of it. So what do you 621 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 3: guys think? 622 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 10: I just I don't know. 623 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 1: I don't think. 624 00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 11: I don't think everything needs to have a response to it. 625 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 11: I don't think you are always got to say something. 626 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 1: He could have just let that go, yeah, because it 627 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: wasn't nothing. 628 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 7: Everything don't but but his I don't know, he must 629 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 7: add some something else to say because that wasn't connected 630 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 7: to what she said at all at all. 631 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 3: Well he and he said he respectfully disagreed with I 632 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 3: guess her opinion about the show first take, or. 633 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 7: Well, you can't disagree with the person's opinion. Listen to me, man, 634 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 7: My wife don't like the show. 635 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 10: She don't like all that Holland Yeah, it's a lot 636 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 10: of Holland on. 637 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 3: She don't like all that Holland it's like Michelle Obama 638 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 3: is correct, it's a lot of yelling. 639 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 7: Brouh and it's a lot of women go why he's 640 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 7: so angry, Why his rains in his forehead? Why it's 641 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 7: just sports about sports? Yeah, you ain't in there interview 642 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:53,680 Speaker 7: in Laziskian hoton. So you know, sometimes man, you you 643 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 7: just don't have to comment on everything. Yeah, how much 644 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 7: you love her and respect her? And what Barack Obama 645 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 7: did with the men in Pennsylvania and how what that 646 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 7: got to a All she said was watching Sports Center sometimes, 647 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 7: like watching the Real Housewives of Atleanta. 648 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 3: It's just drama and yelling, right, And she did say 649 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 3: Stephen A Smith. She did mention his name. 650 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 7: Well, that's who be hollering. She ain't wrong, she is 651 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 7: not dog. Sometime I don't call my boy because I 652 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 7: don't feel like that. Sometime we be talking, i'd be gonna, hey, man, 653 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 7: bag it down a little bit. I've done first take. 654 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 7: And you know what I said that Stephen At one 655 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 7: time he was just talking. I said, hey man, hey, 656 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 7: this first take, this ain't just your take, right, Remember that. 657 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,280 Speaker 7: I remember that I said that to him. Man, you 658 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 7: just be talking like you just the voice of it. 659 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So he felt the need to respond 660 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,640 Speaker 3: to that. I just I'm with you, guys, you could 661 00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:58,479 Speaker 3: have left that alone. 662 00:33:58,840 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: That was that big of it. 663 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:07,440 Speaker 7: Just relax you acting like Trump now upset? He comment 664 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 7: on everything. 665 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 1: Yes he does. Yes'. 666 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 7: He mad at Bruce Springsteen. He's a low talent guy. 667 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 7: Bruce Springsteen. 668 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 1: Bruce Springsteen, he met dogs, one of the biggest, the Boss, 669 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:22,320 Speaker 1: the Boss. 670 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 5: He's the. 671 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 1: Bro, he said, low talent guy. I went, wow, the 672 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 1: Boss Bruce Springsteen. Wow. 673 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:34,439 Speaker 9: Yeah. 674 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 10: He's also mad at our radio brother, Charlemagne. 675 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 1: He went in on him. 676 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,839 Speaker 10: So all right, let's switch gears and other entertainment news. 677 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 3: A glittered rhinestone sock that Michael Jackson ward during his 678 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,720 Speaker 3: performance of Billy Jean back in nineteen ninety seven recently 679 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 3: sold for about eighty nine hundred dollars at a French auction. Now, 680 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 3: according to The New York Post, how we know that's 681 00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 3: the sock? 682 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,120 Speaker 10: How we listened? This is what the New York Post 683 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:01,800 Speaker 10: is reporting. 684 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:07,400 Speaker 3: The white and studded sock with crystal ringstones was discovered 685 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 3: by a technician backstage at Michael Jackson. You remember the 686 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 3: History World tour back then so the sock was preserved 687 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 3: in the frame for twenty eight years, and so it 688 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,360 Speaker 3: sold for about eighty nine hundred dollars at the auction 689 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 3: of the King of pop Items. 690 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 6: Here. 691 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, bout that out about it? You'd about the sock? Hell? 692 00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 1: Eighty nine hundred? Would you have warned? 693 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 9: No? No, no? 694 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 1: But it is a lie? A hand with it though? 695 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 6: What lie? 696 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:36,479 Speaker 1: What would you have said? 697 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 10: Why you got a live about Michael Jackson's glitters. 698 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 7: I was out of Mike House one night and I 699 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,840 Speaker 7: had bought these old hookahs out there for him, okay, 700 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,920 Speaker 7: and he had got nked in the back. Oh, and 701 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 7: I found the socks that he had on, because he 702 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 7: had the socks on while he was with the girl. 703 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,879 Speaker 7: Then the sock fell off, and that sock fell off, 704 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,400 Speaker 7: and I kept it and this it but just the 705 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,720 Speaker 7: same sock. Though he wore the Billy Jean video because 706 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,360 Speaker 7: she said that's what she came out there for. So 707 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 7: I knew this was it all right. So here's a 708 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 7: question for you, Steve. 709 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 3: This question for Steve, which article of clothing would you 710 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 3: have auction off or would you auction off from your career? 711 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 4: Uh? 712 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: I auctioned off. 713 00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,760 Speaker 7: I had the jockey strap I had on the last 714 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,359 Speaker 7: time I dunked the basketball. 715 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 11: Yeah, I thought you would say the yellow soup from 716 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:31,120 Speaker 11: your special, you know that was legendary. 717 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 10: What about the soup from the Kings I got? 718 00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 7: I got? 719 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: I got the Kings of Comedy suit. Yeah, that I wore. 720 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,879 Speaker 7: I got the yellow suit and I got the suit 721 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 7: I wore my first HBO special. 722 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 723 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: So how much? How much? How much you think you 724 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,800 Speaker 1: can get for the King suit? Michael Sock went for 725 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,359 Speaker 1: eight nine thiuves Hell, Yeah, that wasn't nothing, but the sock. 726 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,879 Speaker 1: I got the whole suit. I probably take it. Yep, 727 00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: how much? A couple of million? A milion? 728 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 11: About buying no soup and no coming up. 729 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 3: At twenty minutes after the hour our big money purchase 730 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,760 Speaker 3: items discussions with your partner? 731 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 10: Is that an issue? Is that stressful? We'll talk about 732 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 10: it right after this. 733 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,279 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 734 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 7: Get into the Hyundai Getaway sales event and get away 735 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,000 Speaker 7: with the deal so right, it almost feels wrong. 736 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 1: Right now, get. 737 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,720 Speaker 7: Huge savings on our popular models, including our venture ready 738 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 7: SUV's like the Hondai Santa Faith, or go all electric 739 00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 7: with America's most awarded EV lineup like the Ionic five 740 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:43,879 Speaker 7: or Ionic six. 741 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,439 Speaker 11: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away 742 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,399 Speaker 11: with a great deal only during the Hondai Getaway Sale event. 743 00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 11: Visit Hyundai USA dot com for details. 744 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 3: A super yacht believed to be owned by Bill Gates 745 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 3: is up for sale. This three hundred and ninety foot 746 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:04,480 Speaker 3: yacht is a private residence Infinity Pool Cinema, and it's 747 00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,759 Speaker 3: one of the very first super yachts that run on hydrogen. 748 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 1: I didn't even know that was the thing. 749 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,480 Speaker 3: The sticker price is six hundred and forty five million dollars. 750 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:18,440 Speaker 1: Ain't a whole lot of bias for that, No, not 751 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 1: at all. 752 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 3: So is there anything or a big purchase item that 753 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,319 Speaker 3: you're currently trying to convince your spouse that you want 754 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 3: to buy? 755 00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:27,799 Speaker 10: In Part two? 756 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 3: Are these big money discussions stressful? And do they lead 757 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:33,240 Speaker 3: to an argument? 758 00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 1: Or what I try to do it with? I had 759 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,040 Speaker 1: known it, that's what I try to do. That's wait, 760 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: how do you do that? How do you do it? Yeah? 761 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 11: If I'm playing that thirty forty thousand here and just 762 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:45,360 Speaker 11: buy some stuff, but I known i'd try to do it, 763 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:46,440 Speaker 11: and so. 764 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,360 Speaker 3: You could spend thirty thousand dollars and your wife not No, 765 00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 3: you don't have an amount. 766 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,239 Speaker 11: What bigna know? Yeah, I just but if it ain't 767 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,799 Speaker 11: gonna come in to amic, come in third day later, 768 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,799 Speaker 11: so she ain't gonna see it to late. Wow, rich 769 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 11: black car, I ain't rich. You spend thirty thousand dollars 770 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 11: at one time on a credit card? 771 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 1: First of all? Who got a credit card? Got thirty 772 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 1: thousand dollars? 773 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:19,320 Speaker 13: That's A and B You do that part problem segment. 774 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 13: It's a limit to what I can spend without discussing 775 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:27,240 Speaker 13: it with them. Right, we have like me and probably 776 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 13: for me and her. 777 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 1: How much can you spend with and it ain't no drum? 778 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 1: Can you spend a hundred? Yeah, okay, spend one hundred 779 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 1: in a different world, a different tax I got see. 780 00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 7: But we have those minimum for bank accounts I've been 781 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 7: telling you all about for years too. 782 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,319 Speaker 10: One more time dropping on people's in case. 783 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,239 Speaker 7: We have we have an account that nobody can touch. 784 00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:54,320 Speaker 7: It's a savings account. Wise both of our signatures to 785 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 7: move a single dollar out of it. We have our 786 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:01,360 Speaker 7: household account where we put the money in that covers 787 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 7: all of our light bills, electrical house payments, anything like that. 788 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 7: So so we make sure for and then Marjorie has 789 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,799 Speaker 7: her own account and I have my own account. Every 790 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,879 Speaker 7: month she gets an allowance, and every month I get 791 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 7: an allowance. Her allowance is more than mine. Wow, because 792 00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,759 Speaker 7: she spends a different thing. She buy for the grandkids 793 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 7: and all that. 794 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 1: I don't do. None of that. 795 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,320 Speaker 7: All mine is for me. Now I had to pass 796 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,720 Speaker 7: on an item, and she was surprised that I passed. 797 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,040 Speaker 7: She said, I thought you was just gonna go on 798 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,600 Speaker 7: and do it, but I would now because I don't 799 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 7: want to start that. Because you going and do it, 800 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:37,320 Speaker 7: we're gonna have problem. 801 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:41,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well we having a mouth to my husband 802 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 3: and I, what is that? All the money eight hundred dollars? 803 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:48,239 Speaker 3: I wish she would I wish she would spend call 804 00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:53,280 Speaker 3: eight hundred eight or one and nobody picks up the phone. 805 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:56,280 Speaker 1: That's a problem. One hundred dollars. And he said, nothing 806 00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,839 Speaker 1: to me, even a problem. What do you want that mine? 807 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 1: I went to dinner. 808 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 3: Right, that's it coming up at thirty five after the hour, 809 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 3: we're gonna have some more fun with random questions. 810 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:16,759 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening hard Morning show. 811 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 3: All right, it's time to ask the morning crew some 812 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,040 Speaker 3: fun random questions. 813 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:27,799 Speaker 10: We like to do this every now and then. Are 814 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 10: you guys ready? 815 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:29,480 Speaker 1: Come on? 816 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,879 Speaker 10: What's your most frequent lie? 817 00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 11: My most frequent lie? I tell you that if I 818 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 11: just told you, whyout? I just why I tell you 819 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:41,880 Speaker 11: a lie? I just tell her. 820 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,640 Speaker 1: If I just told it, it's still in effect right now. 821 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:50,480 Speaker 1: I have one I use all the time. Thank you? 822 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 5: You know? 823 00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 7: Okay, For example, if you call my phone, you know 824 00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:58,200 Speaker 7: how it comes up, and you had that little message 825 00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:59,960 Speaker 7: thing over there that you can customize. 826 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you can't pick up the phone. You're doing 827 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,840 Speaker 1: something or whatever. I just hit that. You know, I 828 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:08,240 Speaker 1: have messages to go out. I'm on the zoom. 829 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 7: I don't be no matter if you get one of them, 830 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,280 Speaker 7: all all four of them customizations. 831 00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:19,720 Speaker 1: I'm on the zoom. I don't I'm on the zoom. 832 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:26,880 Speaker 7: Text me, I can't talk. I don't recognize the number. 833 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:33,279 Speaker 7: Oh and I got one more. Yeah, but I'm hitting 834 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:33,839 Speaker 7: one of them. 835 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 1: Okay, now my lie like that, Uncles, I'm at my 836 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:44,040 Speaker 1: son gang is too live? Text me? Okay, you don't 837 00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:44,640 Speaker 1: want to pick up? 838 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:48,879 Speaker 3: Okay, you guys frequently live about phone calls. I don't 839 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,040 Speaker 3: want to talk to people every day every day. 840 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 7: Well, Michael, I'm sorry. Yeah, you're on the zoom talking 841 00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,280 Speaker 7: about it. That's how I got what something? 842 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you send that to us. You're coworkers. Well I'm not. 843 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 1: We're not gonna talk. So what difference do it make? 844 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:07,000 Speaker 7: What I say? 845 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,719 Speaker 1: And we need to talk to you moving on? I 846 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 1: just text h when I need to tell him something. 847 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:14,480 Speaker 1: That's it. 848 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,280 Speaker 10: That's all you can do because he's not gonna pick. 849 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 1: Up the phone. Nog. 850 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 7: I got stuff I'm doing. I'm like sometimes I'm just thinking. 851 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:25,279 Speaker 1: They care. 852 00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:26,319 Speaker 10: All right. 853 00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 1: Here's another one. 854 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:34,160 Speaker 3: What's a myth about men? That's one hun untrue and 855 00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:35,840 Speaker 3: it makes you mad whenever you hear it. 856 00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:40,680 Speaker 1: Once a cheatah, always a Cheatah. That just ticks me off. 857 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 7: Man. 858 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,120 Speaker 1: So that's not true. No, that's not true. I don't 859 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,440 Speaker 1: know why y'all don't understand this thing about cheating. 860 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:49,800 Speaker 2: Explain it. 861 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:53,320 Speaker 1: First of all, every. 862 00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,920 Speaker 7: Man has cheated somewhere somewhere down the line before he 863 00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:03,600 Speaker 7: met you. Something something, And that's how we learned. Because 864 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 7: you pay for something, you lose something along the way. 865 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:11,400 Speaker 7: You lose trust, you lose a person, you lose companionship, friendship, 866 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 7: and you learn. And but I've said this on the show. 867 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:18,920 Speaker 7: I can't tell you how many times. All men can change, 868 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 7: all men will change. But there's only one woman we 869 00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 7: will change for, and when we meet him, we will 870 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,880 Speaker 7: give up all all the foolishness. That's the one I 871 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:29,960 Speaker 7: hate that women say. 872 00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:30,799 Speaker 1: That's some man. 873 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 10: All right, Okay, Steve, what about your nephew? 874 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,560 Speaker 1: You got all men, all men with big hands and 875 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,799 Speaker 1: feet is blessed? That's a lie. 876 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 11: I'm a little guy. I'm blessed. I'm a little guy. 877 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:47,920 Speaker 11: I got little hand lift here. I'm still blessing that 878 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:49,320 Speaker 11: that didn't say that. 879 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,279 Speaker 7: But I beg to different about what you just said, 880 00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:55,759 Speaker 7: seeing it's how you ain't got big hands of. 881 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:07,680 Speaker 1: Sound like hate to me the struggle. Okay, here's a 882 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,400 Speaker 1: lot of stuff, y'all. Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. 883 00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:15,880 Speaker 10: What's something that you don't like or enjoy but wish that. 884 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:20,439 Speaker 1: You did something I don't like or enjoy, but wish 885 00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,200 Speaker 1: I did something I don't like? Yeah, but you wish 886 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:24,560 Speaker 1: you did. 887 00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 7: Yeah. 888 00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 1: That's a good crush. Yeah, that's a good one. Because 889 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,920 Speaker 1: if I don't like it, I just I don't like it. 890 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:37,879 Speaker 1: I ain't I if I don't like it. I don't 891 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 1: like what I wanted for. Well, that's fair. You can't 892 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,239 Speaker 1: think of anything I wish. 893 00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:44,880 Speaker 11: I like black Jack, but I don't know what the 894 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:46,600 Speaker 11: hell I'm doing when I'm sitting there, I don't. I 895 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 11: can't enjoy that. That's then I sit on the end 896 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 11: and I'm messing it up for everybody else. 897 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:51,279 Speaker 7: I don't. 898 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:51,920 Speaker 1: I don't like that. 899 00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 7: I wish I loved everybody, but I don't. I don't 900 00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 7: know how I'm getting to Heaven with that attitude. 901 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,640 Speaker 10: Coming up next, nephews on freak phone. 902 00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm explaining to do when I get to that gate cap. 903 00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 1: I'm with you. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 904 00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. 905 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 3: Right about four minutes after Shirley left us was one 906 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:29,319 Speaker 3: of her favorite Strawberry letters. The subject is Yeah, fight 907 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,880 Speaker 3: or flight. This is one of her favorites. But right 908 00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,160 Speaker 3: now the nephew is here with today's phone call. 909 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,120 Speaker 1: What you got, nephew. 910 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,680 Speaker 11: We headed back to the church, called it. We headed 911 00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:43,360 Speaker 11: back to the church again. Yeah, you know, you know 912 00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:45,120 Speaker 11: I love the church. We grew up in church. Me 913 00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:46,960 Speaker 11: and I grew up in church, and we're there every day, 914 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:48,719 Speaker 11: every other day. We grew up in the church house. 915 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,320 Speaker 11: But that's right, that's starting to bother me. When you 916 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,600 Speaker 11: go to church, of course, you know, maybe you ain't 917 00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 11: been in a couple of days, a couple of a 918 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 11: couple of weeks, and they I just don't like it 919 00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:02,400 Speaker 11: when I don't get no notetion that it's a guest past. 920 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:07,000 Speaker 11: I guess, I guess you know that preaching where is 921 00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:09,440 Speaker 11: Ain't nobody told me nothing? I want my money back. 922 00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,399 Speaker 11: I want my money back. He's preaching from the Book 923 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:13,960 Speaker 11: of Ruth. Don't nobody preach from Ruth? 924 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:14,080 Speaker 6: Lo? 925 00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:17,000 Speaker 1: What you doing? Man? What is all this? Where is 926 00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,520 Speaker 1: the regular past that? I ain't come in here for this? 927 00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,560 Speaker 11: I got all dressed up and got here at ten o'clock, 928 00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,320 Speaker 11: and now past ain't here. And here I hear the 929 00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:27,959 Speaker 11: guests past here preaching in front the book of Ruth? 930 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 1: Who do that? 931 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:29,759 Speaker 6: Who do that? 932 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,840 Speaker 11: I need my money back? I'm calling the church and 933 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:33,880 Speaker 11: I need my money back. Let's go catch dog. I 934 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:34,839 Speaker 11: want my money back. 935 00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:38,640 Speaker 9: Hello, I need to speak to sister Policia. 936 00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:39,960 Speaker 5: I okay, who is this? 937 00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 9: That's right? Here is Glen? All right? This is Glenn? 938 00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 9: I need this is brother Glen. Can I speak of 939 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,439 Speaker 9: suster policia? But I have some please? 940 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,800 Speaker 5: Okay, sir, how did you get my number? 941 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,759 Speaker 9: I got your number from one of the deacons at 942 00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 9: the church. 943 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:52,440 Speaker 5: Okay what deacon was that? 944 00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,160 Speaker 9: I don't even know the deacon name. I listen when 945 00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 9: I'm trying to ask you, I'm trying to ask you, 946 00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 9: can you reimburse me for some money that I put 947 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:01,240 Speaker 9: in church on Sunday? 948 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,680 Speaker 5: Okay? Well, can you just calm down just a little plea? Sir? 949 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,080 Speaker 9: I I'm look. Are you the financial person at the church? 950 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:07,359 Speaker 3: Yes? 951 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:07,880 Speaker 9: I am soo. 952 00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:08,719 Speaker 5: What can I do for you? 953 00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,239 Speaker 9: I'm trying to get my money back that I put 954 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 9: in church on Sunday. I put one hundred dollars in 955 00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,120 Speaker 9: church on Sunday, and I'm trying to get my one 956 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:17,080 Speaker 9: hundred dollars back. 957 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:18,879 Speaker 5: Okay, what did you not give from your heart? 958 00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,839 Speaker 9: I gave from my heart what I thought was gonna happen, 959 00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:22,800 Speaker 9: but it didn't happen. 960 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:27,040 Speaker 5: Okay, help me help you what you mean what didn't happen? 961 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:27,640 Speaker 5: What didn't happen? 962 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:31,360 Speaker 9: Sir? Okay, Pastor wasn't there. Pastor was not there on 963 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:36,200 Speaker 9: Sunday and y'all had this guest minister come in who 964 00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:39,239 Speaker 9: I ain't like him at all. But the dog on 965 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,960 Speaker 9: the offering was before he even got up to preach, 966 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,560 Speaker 9: so I didn't already gain my offer, which was one 967 00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:49,439 Speaker 9: hundred dollars, and then I didn't even know Pastor wasn't. 968 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,880 Speaker 9: Now you know what I'm saying. So here I am 969 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 9: giving one hundred dollars. I'm thinking, I know I'm gonna 970 00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,719 Speaker 9: get the word when Pastor there. But y'all put this 971 00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,480 Speaker 9: dude up. He's coming from Don't nobody come from the 972 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:00,000 Speaker 9: Book of Roots. 973 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:00,480 Speaker 1: No, mo. 974 00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:04,080 Speaker 9: He was at Ruth Leviticus. He was all over the place. 975 00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,600 Speaker 9: I want to get my one hundred dollars back. I 976 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:07,879 Speaker 9: ain't giving to that, sir. 977 00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,120 Speaker 5: Do you not read the bulletin? I mean, how often 978 00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:11,160 Speaker 5: do you even come to church? 979 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,799 Speaker 9: I come to church often. I mean, what dos got 980 00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 9: to do with anythiing? 981 00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 5: W if you were come a little often to read 982 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 5: the bulletin, so you would have known that Pastor took 983 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:19,120 Speaker 5: a vacation. 984 00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 9: He took a vacation, so so everybody knew he wasn't 985 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:24,400 Speaker 9: gonna be there. 986 00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 5: Yes, sir, the regulars, the people that come regular to church. 987 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:27,960 Speaker 4: They know that, sir. 988 00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,239 Speaker 9: Okay, well, I ain't know that, so I need I 989 00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:32,279 Speaker 9: need to get I need to get my money back. 990 00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:32,640 Speaker 4: Okay. 991 00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,560 Speaker 5: What I need you to do, though, is calm down. 992 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 9: I'm come. I'm just trying to say I want to 993 00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,320 Speaker 9: get my one hundred dollars. I'm not giving that sermon 994 00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,759 Speaker 9: I got on Sunday. I'm not giving one hundred dollars 995 00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 9: for that. 996 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,520 Speaker 5: Well, Sir, I cannot give you one hundred dollars back. Okay, 997 00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,359 Speaker 5: we donna do no refund checks. I can't do that. Okay. 998 00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:49,719 Speaker 5: I have to wait to pastor to get back in 999 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,640 Speaker 5: because two people have to sign the checks. I can't 1000 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 5: even do that for. 1001 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 1: You, sir. 1002 00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 5: Matter of fact, I'm not even at work right now. 1003 00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,839 Speaker 9: Okay, sir, am I gonna get my one hundred dollars back? 1004 00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:00,520 Speaker 5: Okay, sir, why don't you just call the church on 1005 00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 5: tomorrow and then we can go from there. 1006 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,280 Speaker 9: Okay, I'm not calling. I'm not calling the church tomorrow. 1007 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:06,880 Speaker 9: I tell you what, you know what, you know what 1008 00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,040 Speaker 9: I'm gonna do. I'm gonna come up there tomorrow and 1009 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,279 Speaker 9: you're gonna give me my one hundred dollars either. It's 1010 00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 9: in a check or it's in cash. But you, smister 1011 00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,560 Speaker 9: sister for Alicia Patterson, you're gonna give me my money? 1012 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 5: You say, what did you just cuss me? 1013 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,560 Speaker 9: I just told you that come tomorrow, I'm coming up 1014 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:28,120 Speaker 9: there to get my one hundred dollars. Whether it's in 1015 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,359 Speaker 9: a check or whether it's in cash, I don't care 1016 00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:30,719 Speaker 9: what it is. 1017 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,239 Speaker 5: He let me care you something, sir. You ain't getting 1018 00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,959 Speaker 5: nothing from us. I doubt you call here and cuss 1019 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:37,279 Speaker 5: me asking. 1020 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 9: For some money. 1021 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,839 Speaker 5: Bab you got Now you're giving your money from your 1022 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:41,440 Speaker 5: heart and doesn't not a whole off that preaching the 1023 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,400 Speaker 5: word of God. You give because you love God. You 1024 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,759 Speaker 5: ever thought to me like that, I'll strip you naked, Jim. 1025 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:47,560 Speaker 6: Then you know what. 1026 00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,720 Speaker 5: You better be glad this ain't twenty years ago, because 1027 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:55,839 Speaker 5: I'll cussed you from causey But he's saying me because 1028 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:56,440 Speaker 5: you know how You're. 1029 00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:56,800 Speaker 6: Gonna cush you. 1030 00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,399 Speaker 5: But I tell you what I will do, young man. 1031 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:01,799 Speaker 5: I see you want to say your name is again? 1032 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:02,520 Speaker 7: What I mean? 1033 00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 9: I'm brother Glenn, Brother Glenn. 1034 00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:07,640 Speaker 5: When I see you, I'm gonna give you don't for 1035 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:08,600 Speaker 5: the fellowship? 1036 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:09,239 Speaker 14: Do you hear me? 1037 00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,839 Speaker 5: Do you ain't come on for something, because that's how 1038 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 5: you treat God's people. You have been talking to me ignocance. 1039 00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:15,319 Speaker 4: I've picked up the phone. 1040 00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,200 Speaker 5: You ain't saying Hi, man, hat doing man? 1041 00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:17,839 Speaker 1: Can you heaven? 1042 00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:17,920 Speaker 9: That? 1043 00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:19,680 Speaker 5: Make you just start cussing and hollering at me? 1044 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:21,480 Speaker 6: You don't talk to people like that. 1045 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:22,760 Speaker 5: You don't even sound like a Christian. 1046 00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:23,800 Speaker 7: You don't do that. 1047 00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 6: Can you hear me? 1048 00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:26,160 Speaker 2: Right now? 1049 00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 9: You want something from people? 1050 00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:27,719 Speaker 6: You act? 1051 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,279 Speaker 5: That's what the word that you have not because you 1052 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,440 Speaker 5: acts not You don't call. You're hollering at me? 1053 00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 9: Can you help me? I can hear you come call? 1054 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:37,759 Speaker 5: You're cussing at me? 1055 00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 4: Oh Lord help me? 1056 00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,239 Speaker 9: Can I, sister POLICI can I say? I mean? I 1057 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,120 Speaker 9: just want to change something else till you your own man? 1058 00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:46,959 Speaker 9: Can I say something? 1059 00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:49,640 Speaker 5: You can't say nothing to me? But do you know 1060 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,320 Speaker 5: what you need to do? Go get you some malice? 1061 00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,799 Speaker 9: Yes, yes, yes, ma'am. But I but it's one more 1062 00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:56,880 Speaker 9: thing I just wanted to say to you. 1063 00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:59,840 Speaker 5: Ain't no one more thing, Ain't no one more thing. 1064 00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:03,360 Speaker 9: Okay, But I just I just wanted to tell you this, 1065 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,080 Speaker 9: sister police. 1066 00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 5: I want to told you you got them to tell me? 1067 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,680 Speaker 9: Yes, ma'am, Yes, ma'am. But I want to say this though. 1068 00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:14,839 Speaker 9: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1069 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 9: Your girlfriend sister Doris got me the prank phone call you, 1070 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:22,200 Speaker 9: sister police. 1071 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:29,640 Speaker 5: Oh my god, I am going to get Doris. 1072 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 9: Oh yes, I am Tommy, Yes all hello. No, no, ma'am, no, ma'am. 1073 00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:37,880 Speaker 9: Steve is out of here with me. 1074 00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:43,000 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna need to have a 1075 00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 5: prive and mama with sister Dolls. Yes, got to be 1076 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,040 Speaker 5: privately telling nobody here, but I got to share with her. Yes, 1077 00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:50,799 Speaker 5: it's gonna just. 1078 00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 6: Be mehr the last sister police. 1079 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:58,680 Speaker 9: She told me. She said, my girlfriend is blessed, highly favorite, saved, 1080 00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:00,759 Speaker 9: and she said, I want you to see if you 1081 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,920 Speaker 9: can push her. Buddy, I did, police, and you you 1082 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,880 Speaker 9: you rolled it out. I'm gonna tell you, but you 1083 00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,239 Speaker 9: let me ask you something though. Twenty years ago, you 1084 00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:11,080 Speaker 9: you you it'd been a little different. 1085 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 5: Ooh, twenty years ago. Got to pick you up and 1086 00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:19,359 Speaker 5: dropped you back down, looked at you and walked off 1087 00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:21,080 Speaker 5: of you after I got you, cussing you out. But 1088 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:24,000 Speaker 5: that was twenty years ago. Oh, thank the Lord for 1089 00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,960 Speaker 5: deliver whoo oh bron Lord my legs. They're shaking. 1090 00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:33,800 Speaker 9: Hula Lord something, Sister Policia. I gotta ask you, what 1091 00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:37,279 Speaker 9: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show 1092 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:37,919 Speaker 9: in the land. 1093 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,720 Speaker 5: Oh, I must say the Steve Harvey Morning. 1094 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:47,200 Speaker 6: Shut what you got me? 1095 00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:47,800 Speaker 4: You got me? 1096 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:49,640 Speaker 6: You got me? 1097 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 1: Come on, you better get me some praise up in here. 1098 00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,600 Speaker 1: You roll for this, you played so much. But I 1099 00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:56,320 Speaker 1: do agree. 1100 00:53:56,719 --> 00:54:01,120 Speaker 11: You understand though, Yes, yes, man, speak of the day. 1101 00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,400 Speaker 11: Come on, I came in here, Pasta, That's why I 1102 00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:05,080 Speaker 11: came to hear Pastor. 1103 00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:06,120 Speaker 1: Thanks. 1104 00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:06,680 Speaker 9: I'm with you. 1105 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,480 Speaker 10: I'm with you right on that, Yes, sir Nephew. 1106 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,040 Speaker 11: All right, next up, y'all get ready to Nephew was 1107 00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:13,360 Speaker 11: coming to Birmingham, Alabama. 1108 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:14,680 Speaker 1: Baby August twenty ninth. 1109 00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:18,440 Speaker 11: It's Week zero Classic, Week zero Classic, and it's the 1110 00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 11: comedy Jam. It is myself, it is Bill Bellamy. We 1111 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:22,839 Speaker 11: got a special guest out of Birmingham. The girl goes 1112 00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:24,920 Speaker 11: by the name of Miss b. She would be in 1113 00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,399 Speaker 11: the building holding it down. And we will be at 1114 00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,799 Speaker 11: the Botwell Auditorium in Birmingham, Alabama. 1115 00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:31,680 Speaker 1: You hear what I said. 1116 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:36,759 Speaker 11: The Bockwell Auditorium, August twenty ninth. Tickets on cell right now. 1117 00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:41,239 Speaker 11: That's Valdosta State versus Clark That's University of West Alabama 1118 00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:45,200 Speaker 11: versus Fort Valley. It's gone down Saturday, and yeah, the 1119 00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:48,080 Speaker 11: band's gonna be there. Me and Bill gonna be there, 1120 00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 11: and it's gonna be great. Stupid tickets on sell right now. 1121 00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:55,760 Speaker 11: All right, that's Week zero Classic in Birmingham, Alabama, August 1122 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,360 Speaker 11: twenty ninth. Tickets throw on seal right now. Thank you 1123 00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:02,000 Speaker 11: nice taking off Labor Day weekend. Me and my boy Bill, 1124 00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:03,240 Speaker 11: billam Yes. 1125 00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:08,239 Speaker 1: HBCU, I love it. Halftime. Bill is just a good dude. 1126 00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:08,640 Speaker 9: You know that. 1127 00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:09,600 Speaker 6: He is God. 1128 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:11,360 Speaker 1: He is funny. 1129 00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:13,439 Speaker 10: He's a legend in the game too. 1130 00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 1: He's a legend in the game. 1131 00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 7: He had had most legendary club I ever been to 1132 00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:20,720 Speaker 7: the Peppermint Lounge in New Jersey. 1133 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:23,600 Speaker 1: It ain't what you want. It ain't what you want. 1134 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,760 Speaker 1: You better be ready, all right, Thank you, nephew. 1135 00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:33,480 Speaker 10: Coming up today's Strawberry letter, the subject is fight or flight. 1136 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:35,680 Speaker 1: We'll get it in. Fight on that flight if you 1137 00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,160 Speaker 1: want to it. We're on frontier. You flight on the flight. 1138 00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:43,480 Speaker 15: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, planning, 1139 00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:44,960 Speaker 15: and hard work to get in the door. 1140 00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:47,560 Speaker 16: Then make that house a home. Now, all that effort 1141 00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:50,600 Speaker 16: has built something hugely valuable, equity. 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And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, 1151 00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:24,720 Speaker 14: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARBFM 1152 00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:27,000 Speaker 14: dot com by clicking. 1153 00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:28,120 Speaker 1: Submit Strawberry Letter. 1154 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:30,919 Speaker 14: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 1155 00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:32,960 Speaker 14: just like we're going to read this one right here, 1156 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:33,719 Speaker 14: right now. 1157 00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,360 Speaker 1: And you never know it could be yours. Yeah you 1158 00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:39,520 Speaker 1: heard Russian said it could be yours. Muggle up and 1159 00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,120 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It 1160 00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,880 Speaker 1: is Strawberry letter. All right, thank you, nephew. 1161 00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:48,880 Speaker 14: Subject fight or Flight, Fight or Flight, Dear Stephens, Shirley, 1162 00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,440 Speaker 14: I'm a thirty year old flight attendant, and I'm married 1163 00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,719 Speaker 14: to a forty four year old professor. I met him 1164 00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,520 Speaker 14: when I was in grad school and we started dating 1165 00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:00,279 Speaker 14: after I got my degree. He was going going through 1166 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,160 Speaker 14: a divorce and we kept our relationship private until it 1167 00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,239 Speaker 14: was finalized. He has a seventeen year old daughter that 1168 00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:09,239 Speaker 14: found out on social media and she started a lot 1169 00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:12,279 Speaker 14: of chaos in our lives. She didn't show up at 1170 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:16,040 Speaker 14: our wedding, and it devastated my husband. He was upset 1171 00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 14: that his ex wife allowed her to skip the wedding. 1172 00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 14: I was over her by that time, so I didn't care. 1173 00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,360 Speaker 14: Now she's about to turn eighteen and asks if she 1174 00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,960 Speaker 14: can come live with us in Florida and attend a 1175 00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:31,960 Speaker 14: fashion school. I never answered my husband, and he eventually 1176 00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:35,640 Speaker 14: flipped out on me and made the executive decision to 1177 00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,440 Speaker 14: allow her to come. I fixed up our home office 1178 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,520 Speaker 14: for her, and I moved my desk on to our 1179 00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:44,960 Speaker 14: sun porch. I was so irritated. She has been here 1180 00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:47,560 Speaker 14: four months and she has done exactly what I knew 1181 00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,840 Speaker 14: she was going to do. Now, when she's got an attitude, 1182 00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,720 Speaker 14: I leave and go to work. I take any flight 1183 00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,480 Speaker 14: available so I can get away from this girl. My 1184 00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:59,360 Speaker 14: husband and I argue because he says I'm not a 1185 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,520 Speaker 14: positive model for her. She's a grown woman to me, 1186 00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 14: and she's got parents that failed her and allowed her 1187 00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:08,680 Speaker 14: to disrespect grown people. I told my husband that if 1188 00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:11,080 Speaker 14: she pops off at the mouth one more time, I'm 1189 00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 14: going to pop her. He says I need to learn 1190 00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:15,280 Speaker 14: how to be a parent, and I told him I 1191 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 14: will as soon as he makes me one. I would 1192 00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,720 Speaker 14: rather work and deal with the plane full of needy 1193 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:24,160 Speaker 14: passengers instead of dealing with the grown child. My husband 1194 00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 14: told me that my fight or flight mentality is ruining us. 1195 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 14: He can't see that his child is divisive and honoring. 1196 00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:39,280 Speaker 14: Am I wrong or does he need to put her out? Absolutely? Yes, 1197 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:43,120 Speaker 14: I think you're wrong. I do think you're wrong on 1198 00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,440 Speaker 14: so many levels. Here I'll tell you why. It's simple. 1199 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:49,200 Speaker 14: You are the adult. You keep calling her a grown woman. 1200 00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:52,080 Speaker 14: You keep saying she's grown, but she's really still a child. 1201 00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:54,960 Speaker 14: You're grown when you can pay your own way and 1202 00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:56,920 Speaker 14: when you can take care of yourself, and she's not 1203 00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:01,040 Speaker 14: doing that right now. She's in your home, living off you, guys, 1204 00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:04,000 Speaker 14: she's living with you, guys. You're also grown when you 1205 00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:07,320 Speaker 14: can face your problems head on. But what do you 1206 00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:10,080 Speaker 14: do You run and jump on a flight and as 1207 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:13,440 Speaker 14: you say, deal with the plane full of needy passengers 1208 00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:16,280 Speaker 14: rather than trying to fix a problem at the house. 1209 00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:18,960 Speaker 14: And yes, it is a problem because it's causing you 1210 00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,440 Speaker 14: and your husband to argue. Now why would you let 1211 00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:26,400 Speaker 14: that happen? You too should prevent present a united front 1212 00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:28,840 Speaker 14: to his daughter, making it impossible for her to come 1213 00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:32,480 Speaker 14: between you guys, because that is what's happening, that situation. 1214 00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,040 Speaker 14: You all are allowing to let it come between you. 1215 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:38,440 Speaker 14: Stay home in the midst of all this and handle 1216 00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,320 Speaker 14: your situation. No more jumping on planes when you can't 1217 00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:43,920 Speaker 14: deal with it anymore. I say, first you and your 1218 00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:47,640 Speaker 14: husband should talk agree on some basic house rules. Then 1219 00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,000 Speaker 14: a family meeting should be called to let the daughter 1220 00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:53,040 Speaker 14: know about the new changes. And again, remember you and 1221 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,640 Speaker 14: your husband are on the same team, and you guys 1222 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,040 Speaker 14: are the adults. I mean, she needs to see that 1223 00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:01,800 Speaker 14: you guys are together her dad, but he's your husband, 1224 01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 14: which means it's your house and your rules. So as 1225 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,520 Speaker 14: you know, she's welcome as long as she abides by 1226 01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:12,440 Speaker 14: the house rules. I mean that means no attitudes, no 1227 01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:15,120 Speaker 14: popping off, at the mouth, no disrespect of any kind. 1228 01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:18,040 Speaker 14: And let me say this, if she pops off at 1229 01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 14: the mouth one more time, you're gonna pop her. 1230 01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:23,080 Speaker 1: Don't don't pop her. That's not what this is all about. 1231 01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:24,120 Speaker 1: Don't do that. 1232 01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:27,160 Speaker 14: I mean, you know, she's angry, she's she's trying you 1233 01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,280 Speaker 14: and all of that, trying to come between her. 1234 01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:31,760 Speaker 1: But you don't have to take it there. You can 1235 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:32,960 Speaker 1: be the bigger person here. 1236 01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 14: You can invite her to lunch, you can do something 1237 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,280 Speaker 14: fun with her, you know, and try to make peace 1238 01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,560 Speaker 14: with her, and like your husband said, be a role 1239 01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:44,160 Speaker 14: model for her. I think you should try that before 1240 01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:47,000 Speaker 14: you give up on this situation and start, you know, 1241 01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,320 Speaker 14: popping her and all that all together. 1242 01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:56,000 Speaker 1: Steve, Wow, this is gonna have a couple of twists 1243 01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:56,520 Speaker 1: and turns. 1244 01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:56,800 Speaker 6: And I. 1245 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,560 Speaker 7: Agree with what She'll was saying about the letter. The problem, 1246 01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:07,200 Speaker 7: the real problem here is in the letter writer. That 1247 01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:09,000 Speaker 7: seems to be the real problem. 1248 01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:10,640 Speaker 1: Now you're a. 1249 01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:13,080 Speaker 7: Thirty year old flight attendant and you're married to a 1250 01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:14,680 Speaker 7: forty four year old professor. 1251 01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,480 Speaker 1: Now see, I want you to understand something. 1252 01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:22,600 Speaker 7: The news got out some kind of ways because this 1253 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:27,240 Speaker 7: story got told because somebody knows he was your professor 1254 01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:30,560 Speaker 7: at the school. I met him when I was a 1255 01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:34,040 Speaker 7: grad school and we started dating after I got my degree. 1256 01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:36,760 Speaker 7: He was going through a divorce and we kept our 1257 01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:41,920 Speaker 7: relationship private until it was finalized. He has a seventeen 1258 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,800 Speaker 7: year old daughter that found out on social media and 1259 01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:46,640 Speaker 7: she started a lot of chaos. 1260 01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:47,000 Speaker 3: In our lives. 1261 01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:52,040 Speaker 1: Well, the daughter found out what on social media that 1262 01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:55,360 Speaker 1: you all were dating or you all had gotten married. 1263 01:01:56,600 --> 01:02:01,480 Speaker 7: I think she found out y'all was dating, so quite naturally, 1264 01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:04,560 Speaker 7: her and the mother are now blaming you. 1265 01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:09,680 Speaker 1: As the cause of the divorce. That's how it always works, 1266 01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:14,200 Speaker 1: ain't it. Yes, So now after they found. 1267 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,120 Speaker 7: Out on social media, she started a lot of chaos 1268 01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:19,520 Speaker 7: in our lives. She didn't show up at our wedding, 1269 01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,760 Speaker 7: and it devastated my husband. He was upset that his 1270 01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:26,400 Speaker 7: ex wife allowed her to skip the wed You mean 1271 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:30,160 Speaker 7: his ex wife didn't make her go to the web 1272 01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:34,680 Speaker 7: His ex wife wasn't now, so the ex wife didn't 1273 01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:37,240 Speaker 7: make the daughter go to the wedding. What you mean 1274 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,760 Speaker 7: allow her to skip it? She's seventeen. She didn't want 1275 01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:43,240 Speaker 7: to go down there because she figured you the reason 1276 01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:47,320 Speaker 7: her mama and daddy ain't together, and her Mama didn't 1277 01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:51,040 Speaker 7: co sign that, because as soon as you start dating somebody, 1278 01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:52,280 Speaker 7: they go, oh here. 1279 01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 1: She is right here. You the reason that you was dating, 1280 01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:56,920 Speaker 1: and you younger, and you younger. 1281 01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,480 Speaker 14: Hang on, Steve, Part two of your responses coming up 1282 01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 14: at twenty five minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry letter, 1283 01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,320 Speaker 14: subject fight or Flight. We'll get back into it right 1284 01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:09,280 Speaker 14: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1285 01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:18,200 Speaker 7: Get into the Hyundai Getaway Sales event and get away 1286 01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:21,800 Speaker 7: with the deal so right, it almost feels wrong right now. 1287 01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:25,560 Speaker 7: Get huge savings on our popular models, including our venture 1288 01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:29,720 Speaker 7: ready SUV's like the Hondai Santa Fe, or go all 1289 01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 7: electric with America's most awarded EV lineup like the Ionic 1290 01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,080 Speaker 7: five or Ionic six. 1291 01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:38,640 Speaker 11: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away 1292 01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:41,600 Speaker 11: with a great deal only during the Hondai Getaway Sale event. 1293 01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,160 Speaker 11: Visit HYUNDAIUSA dot com for details. 1294 01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:47,640 Speaker 14: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 1295 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,960 Speaker 14: The subject fight or flight. 1296 01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:53,360 Speaker 7: Thirty year old flight attendant is married to a forty 1297 01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:56,440 Speaker 7: four year old professor. She met the professor in grad 1298 01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,520 Speaker 7: school and they started dating after she got the degree. 1299 01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:02,680 Speaker 7: What she says he was going through a divorce, and 1300 01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:06,120 Speaker 7: we kept our relationship private until it was finalized. 1301 01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:09,120 Speaker 1: He got a seventeen year old daughter that found out 1302 01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:10,040 Speaker 1: on social. 1303 01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,520 Speaker 7: Media and she started a lot of chaos in her life. 1304 01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:16,920 Speaker 7: She was seventeen then, well, now listen to that. She 1305 01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:19,200 Speaker 7: didn't show up at our wearing and it devastated my 1306 01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:22,280 Speaker 7: husband because he was upset that his ex wife allowed 1307 01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:25,040 Speaker 7: her to skip the wear. No, his ex wife didn't 1308 01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:27,280 Speaker 7: make her go down there, because the ex wife and 1309 01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:30,000 Speaker 7: the daughter then came to the conclusion that this young 1310 01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:32,240 Speaker 7: girl you married is the reason why y'all got the 1311 01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:36,000 Speaker 7: divorce any way, and that's exactly how it looks. 1312 01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:37,880 Speaker 1: And then when they found out about. 1313 01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:42,000 Speaker 7: Y'all's relationship on social media, that validated because it was 1314 01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:47,280 Speaker 7: only telling one story. Then you said I was over 1315 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:50,040 Speaker 7: her by that time, so I didn't care. So now 1316 01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:52,200 Speaker 7: you didn't care if she comes to the wind because 1317 01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:52,920 Speaker 7: you over. 1318 01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:53,800 Speaker 1: Her by that time. 1319 01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,480 Speaker 7: It was a year chaos that you was through with 1320 01:04:56,560 --> 01:05:02,520 Speaker 7: the girl. She's about to turn eighteam Oh, So it 1321 01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 7: wasn't even a whole year because now you say it 1322 01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 7: was about to turn it to you see how fast 1323 01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:09,920 Speaker 7: this is moving. 1324 01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:14,880 Speaker 1: But you left that out the letter, baby, baby, you 1325 01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:18,680 Speaker 1: left that out after she finds out there. 1326 01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:22,960 Speaker 7: Next thing, she know y'all getting married and there's a 1327 01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:27,080 Speaker 7: fourteen year age justice and you were his students while 1328 01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:29,960 Speaker 7: he was a professor, and y'all were seeing each other 1329 01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:32,920 Speaker 7: while they still were married and not yet the boy 1330 01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:34,360 Speaker 7: because y'all kept. 1331 01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:37,760 Speaker 1: It to see see how this working? See how this working? 1332 01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:39,960 Speaker 11: Ah? 1333 01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:42,880 Speaker 7: Now she want to come live with y'all in Florida 1334 01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:46,440 Speaker 7: and attend the fashion school. I never answered my husband. 1335 01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:49,000 Speaker 7: He eventually flipped out on me and made an executive 1336 01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:50,640 Speaker 7: decision to allow her to come. 1337 01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:51,919 Speaker 1: It's his daughter. 1338 01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:54,400 Speaker 7: She want to come down there and stay with her 1339 01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:57,200 Speaker 7: daddy's go to fashion school. What you want him to 1340 01:05:57,320 --> 01:06:04,000 Speaker 7: say except yes, I fixed up her home office for her. 1341 01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:07,400 Speaker 7: I moved my desk into our son point. I was 1342 01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:11,840 Speaker 7: so irritated you did all this begrudging me. She has 1343 01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:14,000 Speaker 7: been there four months since. She's done exactly what I 1344 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:17,080 Speaker 7: knew she was gonna do. Now she's got an attitude. 1345 01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:21,440 Speaker 7: Now when she's got an attitude, I leave and go 1346 01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:26,560 Speaker 7: to work. See you're not explaining this. You're not explaining 1347 01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,960 Speaker 7: she did exactly what you want. You don't give us 1348 01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:33,520 Speaker 7: no information. I take a flight whenever available, anything to 1349 01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,720 Speaker 7: get away from this girl. My husband, I argue, because 1350 01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:38,560 Speaker 7: he says, I'm not a positive role model for her. 1351 01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:41,240 Speaker 7: She's a grown woman. To me, Shirley's right, she's not 1352 01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:44,560 Speaker 7: a grown woman. She's eighteen. She's just not turning eighteen. 1353 01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:45,760 Speaker 7: She's a child. 1354 01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:50,720 Speaker 1: She don't get it. Now you're an adult. You know 1355 01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:51,560 Speaker 1: what happened. 1356 01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:56,640 Speaker 7: You know why this girl mad. She's got parents that 1357 01:06:56,800 --> 01:07:00,720 Speaker 7: failed her and allowed her to disrespect grown people. Wait 1358 01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,560 Speaker 7: a minute, respect. 1359 01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:05,920 Speaker 1: On social media? 1360 01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:11,200 Speaker 7: You dating her daddy that's divorce and her mama? Wow 1361 01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:15,960 Speaker 7: they still married that You kept it a secret. That's 1362 01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:21,200 Speaker 7: what you said. Respect. See you want something you wasn't 1363 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:26,240 Speaker 7: willing to give, See, little sister, that's how this game work. 1364 01:07:26,360 --> 01:07:29,560 Speaker 7: Now this the grown folk game. I'm just giving it 1365 01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:33,120 Speaker 7: to you straight. I told my husband, and she pops 1366 01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:35,640 Speaker 7: off at the mouth one more time. I'm gonna pop 1367 01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:36,760 Speaker 7: up and then what? 1368 01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:39,000 Speaker 2: And then what? 1369 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,120 Speaker 7: Because she talking that You're gonna hit her in the mouth, 1370 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:47,840 Speaker 7: so you gonna resort the virus pharol stop. He says, 1371 01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 7: I need to learn how to be a parent. I 1372 01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:51,640 Speaker 7: told him as soon as I will, as soon as 1373 01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:55,960 Speaker 7: he makes me. Won Wait a minute, excuse me, Harry, 1374 01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:59,520 Speaker 7: you're twelve years older than this girl. That best you 1375 01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:04,400 Speaker 7: can be a big sister, but parent she has two parents, 1376 01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:10,040 Speaker 7: you not. She's not finna call you mama. Hey, none 1377 01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:13,320 Speaker 7: of this is sitting to work. I'm gonna have a 1378 01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:16,559 Speaker 7: suggestion for you to say. I told him as soon 1379 01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:18,400 Speaker 7: as he makes me, I would rather work and deal 1380 01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:21,040 Speaker 7: with a plane full of needy passages instead of dealing. 1381 01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,600 Speaker 1: With a grown child. He keep saying grown. But she 1382 01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:24,960 Speaker 1: a child, She's not. 1383 01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:29,840 Speaker 7: My husband told me that my fighter fighter flight mentality 1384 01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:33,600 Speaker 7: is runnings. He can't see that his child is divisive 1385 01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:34,240 Speaker 7: and honored. 1386 01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:35,160 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? 1387 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:37,160 Speaker 7: Or does he need to put out? First of all, 1388 01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:41,160 Speaker 7: he can't put his daughter out, Well, you're asking a 1389 01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:44,880 Speaker 7: man to not be a man. You're asking a father 1390 01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:48,840 Speaker 7: to not be a farther. You asking a man to 1391 01:08:49,040 --> 01:08:52,840 Speaker 7: show his daughter an example of man that he's hoping 1392 01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:55,519 Speaker 7: that one day she'll be able to find put her out? 1393 01:08:56,680 --> 01:09:00,800 Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? And you asking that? 1394 01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:04,559 Speaker 7: What's wrong with your maturity level? No, he can't ask 1395 01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:07,920 Speaker 7: his daughter to leave, and no he can't put her out. 1396 01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:10,719 Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you right here, y'all, you never failed 1397 01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:11,920 Speaker 7: to mention in this letter that. 1398 01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:15,200 Speaker 1: You all have ever had to sit down to discuss this, 1399 01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:18,559 Speaker 1: to work through it, because you know what. Your corner decided. 1400 01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:20,559 Speaker 1: You don't like her. You was through with the boat. 1401 01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:23,560 Speaker 7: She came to you house, and now you're reaping what 1402 01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:27,719 Speaker 7: you saw. You remember how I got your man des. 1403 01:09:29,400 --> 01:09:30,519 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you. 1404 01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:33,599 Speaker 14: Please leave your comments on today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram 1405 01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:36,320 Speaker 14: at Steve Harvey FM, and check out the Strawberry Letter 1406 01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:37,599 Speaker 14: podcast on demand. 1407 01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:41,000 Speaker 3: All right, coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, 1408 01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,000 Speaker 3: Nephew is in for junior today. 1409 01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:47,479 Speaker 1: So Nephew got some sports for us right after this. Thus, people, 1410 01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:49,599 Speaker 1: this is Kirk Franklin. Hey, this ISAKA Cohn. 1411 01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:50,160 Speaker 16: What's going on? 1412 01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:51,320 Speaker 1: This is your boy Kevin Hart? 1413 01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:51,760 Speaker 6: What up? 1414 01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:54,479 Speaker 1: This is your boy Chris Bright, boy, the big Snoop Dog. 1415 01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:55,240 Speaker 6: This came. 1416 01:09:58,640 --> 01:09:59,880 Speaker 1: This is your boy saying the in. 1417 01:09:59,880 --> 01:10:02,200 Speaker 10: A This is your Linda Adams less shot. 1418 01:10:02,320 --> 01:10:05,800 Speaker 12: This Djcaglin And you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1419 01:10:06,040 --> 01:10:08,519 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1420 01:10:12,760 --> 01:10:15,240 Speaker 15: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1421 01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:17,280 Speaker 15: planning and hard work to get in the door. 1422 01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:20,439 Speaker 16: Then make that house a home. Now, all that effort has. 1423 01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:23,800 Speaker 15: Built something hugely valuable, equity. It is the portion of 1424 01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:25,720 Speaker 15: your home you truly own that can be tapped to 1425 01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,120 Speaker 15: fund what's next. And Rocket Mortgage is here to help 1426 01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:31,479 Speaker 15: you turn your homes equity into cash. Fund your next 1427 01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:34,759 Speaker 15: dream with Rocket Mortgage. Visit rocket mortgage dot com today 1428 01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:38,639 Speaker 15: to find out more. Rocket Mortgage LLC Licensed in fifty states, 1429 01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:42,439 Speaker 15: nmlsconsumer Access dot Org number thirty thirty. 1430 01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:46,280 Speaker 3: Time now for sports Talk, Tommy in for Junior. What 1431 01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:48,439 Speaker 3: you got, nephew, you're doing sports today? 1432 01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:50,960 Speaker 1: Look man, the nephew doing sports. I don't know if 1433 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:51,479 Speaker 1: y'all saw it. 1434 01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:56,000 Speaker 11: Sterling shape, Jared Allen, Eric Allen and Antonio Gates would 1435 01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:58,879 Speaker 11: just welcome into the Pro Football Hall of Fame on Saturday, 1436 01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:02,479 Speaker 11: and can know how they're in the shop. They had 1437 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:05,360 Speaker 11: a moment of course with his brother shinning sharp as 1438 01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:09,080 Speaker 11: they are now the first brothers both enshrine in the 1439 01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:09,679 Speaker 11: Hall of Fame. 1440 01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:12,360 Speaker 1: Did you see it? Y'all saw some of it? Yeah? 1441 01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:14,120 Speaker 1: Let me ask you what you think? 1442 01:11:14,240 --> 01:11:16,880 Speaker 11: Do you think with all of the drama that's going 1443 01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:19,760 Speaker 11: on with Shannon, do you kind you think it may 1444 01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:22,040 Speaker 11: have dampered what was going on with brother. 1445 01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 7: I don't think it did. I don't think it did. 1446 01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:28,040 Speaker 7: You know, he still went into the hall. I mean, 1447 01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:30,680 Speaker 7: of course he would have loved He asked ESPN to 1448 01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:35,080 Speaker 7: hold the announcement until afterwards. They didn't because ESPN don't 1449 01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:39,240 Speaker 7: care about his brother or his feelings. You know, they Disney, 1450 01:11:40,240 --> 01:11:44,120 Speaker 7: we're doing the right thing. We're electric right now, so 1451 01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:47,400 Speaker 7: you know, you know, they had a great moment on 1452 01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:52,760 Speaker 7: stage together. Shinnon his brother, Sterling loves him, you know, 1453 01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,960 Speaker 7: and he gonna stand by his brother no matter what 1454 01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:59,320 Speaker 7: he did, as he's that's right to die, that's right. 1455 01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:04,320 Speaker 3: Sterlin gave an emotional speech. I didn't see all of it, 1456 01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:07,400 Speaker 3: but I saw people crying and people you know, talking 1457 01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:11,719 Speaker 3: about it on social media, so that you know, everybody 1458 01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:13,200 Speaker 3: was saying it was a touching. 1459 01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:14,800 Speaker 1: Moment for them. 1460 01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:17,880 Speaker 3: So that I mean, like you said, Tommy, first two 1461 01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:22,280 Speaker 3: brothers to be enshrined the Hall of Fame, that's. 1462 01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:26,080 Speaker 11: Being one family with two of them gold jackets. Yeah, 1463 01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:28,479 Speaker 11: and I held my jacket on ed tank. 1464 01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:33,080 Speaker 1: Y'all see me out at the gas station with that 1465 01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:36,639 Speaker 1: gold jacket on, pumping gas everything. You come by the house, 1466 01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:38,680 Speaker 1: I'm cutting the yard. I got my gold jacket on. Man, 1467 01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:41,320 Speaker 1: you can't tell me nothow. 1468 01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:45,320 Speaker 3: So who do you think, guys? Is there anybody that 1469 01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:48,479 Speaker 3: is not in the Hall of Fame yet that you 1470 01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:51,559 Speaker 3: think should be? Steve favorite players? 1471 01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:55,639 Speaker 1: You are in the hall? Yeah, in the hall that's 1472 01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:56,479 Speaker 1: not in it now? 1473 01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:59,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, I don't have anybody in the Hall 1474 01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:01,519 Speaker 7: of Fame I think ought to be in there. I 1475 01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:04,640 Speaker 7: think there's somebody in the Baseball Hall of Fame that 1476 01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:08,000 Speaker 7: I think should be in there. I think the Roles 1477 01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:11,720 Speaker 7: should be in there. I think Sammy Solser should be 1478 01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:15,000 Speaker 7: in there. I think Mark McGuire should be in there. 1479 01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:18,679 Speaker 7: And I think one thousand percent that very bonds. 1480 01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:25,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that I do know. But America is so 1481 01:13:25,840 --> 01:13:27,080 Speaker 1: dog on hypocritical. 1482 01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:31,439 Speaker 7: They got a lot of nerve man passing judgment on cats, 1483 01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:35,639 Speaker 7: They got a lot of nerve. You can put Trump 1484 01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:37,960 Speaker 7: in the White House, but you can't put Barry Bones 1485 01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:39,160 Speaker 7: in the hall, man. 1486 01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:40,840 Speaker 1: Right that part? 1487 01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:41,439 Speaker 7: All right? 1488 01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:44,519 Speaker 10: Yeah, thank you, Steve, Thank you, nephew. 1489 01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:46,800 Speaker 3: Coming up at the top of the hour, a young 1490 01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:50,720 Speaker 3: man on social media needs some advice, job offer or 1491 01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:51,960 Speaker 3: love of my life. 1492 01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:54,960 Speaker 10: We'll talk about it right after this you're listening. 1493 01:13:54,760 --> 01:13:56,479 Speaker 1: To the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1494 01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 10: G on' Steve Harvey FM Rights. 1495 01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:06,559 Speaker 3: I'm twenty three and just finish school with a tech degree, 1496 01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:08,479 Speaker 3: but landing a job. 1497 01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:10,160 Speaker 1: Has been harder than I expected. 1498 01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:13,120 Speaker 3: Right now, I've got a temporary job that pays the bills, 1499 01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:16,639 Speaker 3: but I just got a full time offer with great pay, 1500 01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:20,640 Speaker 3: double what I'm making now. The problem is is that 1501 01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:24,080 Speaker 3: it's four hours away from my girlfriend. We've been together 1502 01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:27,479 Speaker 3: since high school and I really do see a future 1503 01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:31,080 Speaker 3: with her. But she can't move right now because she's 1504 01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:34,280 Speaker 3: helping her parents out, especially since her dad's been sick. 1505 01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:38,720 Speaker 3: If I stay, I might miss my shot. If I go, 1506 01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:41,720 Speaker 3: I don't know if our relationship will make it. Do 1507 01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:44,960 Speaker 3: I hold out for something closer or take the job 1508 01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:47,920 Speaker 3: and risk losing the person that I love. 1509 01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:50,840 Speaker 1: You better go get this dog on job. Ory this 1510 01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:52,160 Speaker 1: man up time right here. 1511 01:14:52,560 --> 01:14:58,719 Speaker 7: You can't buy houses and provide for families with just love. 1512 01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:03,479 Speaker 1: You have a part of your life as a man. 1513 01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:06,240 Speaker 1: Provision is a huge part of it. 1514 01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:09,360 Speaker 7: M now, you stay in town and hold hands all 1515 01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:12,880 Speaker 7: you want, but that's gonna get going to the movies. 1516 01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:16,599 Speaker 7: But if you don't start progressing, the train up the track. Brother, 1517 01:15:17,880 --> 01:15:21,800 Speaker 7: it's gonna be hard. So at one point in time, 1518 01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:25,200 Speaker 7: you're gonna she's gonna a woman will marry you for security. 1519 01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:30,560 Speaker 1: So you're telling him, go get it, go, get it, go, 1520 01:15:30,640 --> 01:15:35,280 Speaker 1: get the job, right, yeah, man? Yeah, you know many 1521 01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,840 Speaker 1: times I have to move from work. We all have 1522 01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:40,000 Speaker 1: ye move. 1523 01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:44,280 Speaker 10: Yes, we're going, We're going, We're going. 1524 01:15:44,880 --> 01:15:46,439 Speaker 1: We live in New York, we live in Atlanta. 1525 01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:48,519 Speaker 7: Right. 1526 01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:51,920 Speaker 3: You gotta do what you gotta do. Yeah, so that's 1527 01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:54,120 Speaker 3: good advice. All right, Steve, here we go. We got 1528 01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:57,080 Speaker 3: time for one more. Steve and nephew. Marva on Steve 1529 01:15:57,160 --> 01:16:07,760 Speaker 3: Harvey FM Rights. I've been married, y'all, Marva, all right, 1530 01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:09,000 Speaker 3: marvra on Steve. 1531 01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:09,880 Speaker 1: Harvey FM Rights. 1532 01:16:10,080 --> 01:16:14,120 Speaker 3: I've been married just under two years to someone I 1533 01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:18,160 Speaker 3: once thought was my person. At first, everything was perfect. 1534 01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:21,320 Speaker 3: We had the same goals, the same sense of humor, 1535 01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:25,440 Speaker 3: the same dreams. But lately I feel like I'm vanishing 1536 01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:29,080 Speaker 3: inside the relationship. I'm not working right now, and my 1537 01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:33,360 Speaker 3: husband was okay with that, but now he's grown distant, 1538 01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:38,000 Speaker 3: even passive. Aggressive when I ask for money for the bills. 1539 01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:41,960 Speaker 3: When I think about leaving, I hesitate because he's kind 1540 01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:45,360 Speaker 3: to others says the right things in front of friends, 1541 01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:46,720 Speaker 3: and I wonder. 1542 01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:48,080 Speaker 1: If I'm just being ungrateful. 1543 01:16:48,600 --> 01:16:51,800 Speaker 3: I've started emotionally pulling back, But I don't know if 1544 01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:55,040 Speaker 3: that means it's time to go or am I giving 1545 01:16:55,200 --> 01:16:57,840 Speaker 3: up too early? How do you know when your heart 1546 01:16:57,960 --> 01:16:59,560 Speaker 3: is tired for a reason. 1547 01:16:59,800 --> 01:17:03,760 Speaker 1: Or not, and not just overwhelmed. So there's a lot 1548 01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:05,000 Speaker 1: in that. What do you think? 1549 01:17:05,280 --> 01:17:07,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's a lot in that, you know. Look, I 1550 01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:13,920 Speaker 7: don't it's there's so much information we don't have to 1551 01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:15,000 Speaker 7: help you deal with that. 1552 01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:20,120 Speaker 1: You know, men are going to stress about the finances. 1553 01:17:22,479 --> 01:17:26,200 Speaker 7: They're gonna stress about the finances because that's how he equates. 1554 01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:30,320 Speaker 7: That's how he measures his his manhood, his value. We 1555 01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:35,240 Speaker 7: measure it by our work and what we bring to 1556 01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:38,120 Speaker 7: the table and contribute to the to the UH, to 1557 01:17:38,240 --> 01:17:41,639 Speaker 7: the relationship. Yeah, I'm still guilty of that myself after 1558 01:17:41,720 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 7: all these years. So he's not going to stop m 1559 01:17:45,600 --> 01:17:50,120 Speaker 7: HM wanting to have a say so in it. I 1560 01:17:50,200 --> 01:17:51,840 Speaker 7: think what has to happen is he has to be 1561 01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:54,840 Speaker 7: convinced that you're not going to sink the ship with 1562 01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:58,719 Speaker 7: your decisions. I think you all got to have monthly 1563 01:17:58,840 --> 01:18:02,559 Speaker 7: meetings financially to discuss moving forward what you're doing, because 1564 01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:05,240 Speaker 7: if you don't, after two years of not discussing it, 1565 01:18:05,920 --> 01:18:08,719 Speaker 7: all of a sudden, you're saying stuff like he's grown 1566 01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:11,439 Speaker 7: distance and he's checking me. 1567 01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:13,960 Speaker 1: Now. Well, y'all should be having monthly meetings, and some 1568 01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:15,200 Speaker 1: of this could have been avoided. 1569 01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:16,320 Speaker 6: Job. 1570 01:18:16,720 --> 01:18:18,519 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know if she quit because you 1571 01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:20,360 Speaker 3: said it was okay with it. If you got fired, 1572 01:18:20,400 --> 01:18:21,280 Speaker 3: you have no choice. 1573 01:18:21,479 --> 01:18:23,760 Speaker 11: When he said okay, it wasn't okay though when he 1574 01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:25,519 Speaker 11: said it, it would clearly. 1575 01:18:27,080 --> 01:18:30,519 Speaker 1: But I like Chick for Something, got to get the 1576 01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:34,479 Speaker 1: job they had on there, Chick for Late Now and 1577 01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:40,240 Speaker 1: My Pleasure. More of today's trigger stories. 1578 01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:43,000 Speaker 10: At twenty minutes after the hour. 1579 01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:45,600 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning. 1580 01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:53,400 Speaker 3: Show Snack Lovers, the snack aisle may never be the 1581 01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:56,160 Speaker 3: same again. At the grocery store, we're talking about a 1582 01:18:56,280 --> 01:19:02,240 Speaker 3: marriage between Oreo and Recea's resulting in two new items, 1583 01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:05,479 Speaker 3: Reese's Yes, Recie's. 1584 01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:09,400 Speaker 10: Oreo cup and an Oreos Receis cookie. 1585 01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:14,160 Speaker 3: They're calling it a combo two way delicious mash up 1586 01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:18,080 Speaker 3: between America's number one candy and America's number one cookie. 1587 01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:22,000 Speaker 3: One is a classic Recie's Peanut butter cup with Oreo 1588 01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:25,040 Speaker 3: cookie bites mixed in, and the other one is an 1589 01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:29,760 Speaker 3: Oreo cookie stuffed with Reese's Peanut butter Delicious. Fans will 1590 01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:32,880 Speaker 3: start seeing this on the shelves. It's September. So here's 1591 01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:35,240 Speaker 3: a question, guys. If you can mash up your favorite 1592 01:19:35,280 --> 01:19:38,839 Speaker 3: snack food or maybe your favorite candy and cookie together, 1593 01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:40,080 Speaker 3: what would it be? 1594 01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:45,160 Speaker 1: What do you if I put that Hershey ba down 1595 01:19:45,280 --> 01:19:48,639 Speaker 1: in that Bluebell ice cream? I would? If I could 1596 01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:53,479 Speaker 1: cram that down in there, I'd do it. Which Bluebell flavor? Vanilla? Vanilla? 1597 01:19:53,880 --> 01:19:54,040 Speaker 9: Yes? 1598 01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:57,719 Speaker 3: Oh, I got some goodie Hershey Yes, come on, Steve, 1599 01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:00,080 Speaker 3: mash up your favorite snack. 1600 01:20:02,760 --> 01:20:08,879 Speaker 1: Coldstone. I don't really, it won't nothing butter Pekanye. 1601 01:20:09,360 --> 01:20:14,200 Speaker 7: You know, if I could get butterscotch swirls mashed down 1602 01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:18,960 Speaker 7: in the ice cream, just already, just butterscotch ice cream, 1603 01:20:19,760 --> 01:20:23,360 Speaker 7: just swirls of butterscotch in there, that'd be nice to. 1604 01:20:23,439 --> 01:20:27,080 Speaker 1: Find that night. That sounds delicious, yummy? 1605 01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:30,800 Speaker 10: All right, coming up, guys, another round of would you rather? 1606 01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:34,559 Speaker 1: Right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning. 1607 01:20:34,439 --> 01:20:42,479 Speaker 7: Show get into the Hyundai Getaway sales event and get 1608 01:20:42,560 --> 01:20:45,800 Speaker 7: away with the deal so right, it almost feels wrong. 1609 01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:46,920 Speaker 1: Right now, get. 1610 01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:50,519 Speaker 7: Huge savings on our popular models, including our venture ready 1611 01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:54,839 Speaker 7: SUV's like the Hyundai Santa Fe, or go all electric 1612 01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:59,160 Speaker 7: with America's most awarded EV lineup like the Ionic five 1613 01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:00,679 Speaker 7: or I six. 1614 01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:03,240 Speaker 11: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away 1615 01:21:03,320 --> 01:21:06,160 Speaker 11: with a great deal only during the Hondai Getaway Sell event. 1616 01:21:06,360 --> 01:21:08,759 Speaker 11: Visit Hyundai USA dot com for details. 1617 01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:13,559 Speaker 3: Time Now for would you rather? Would you rather your 1618 01:21:13,680 --> 01:21:16,080 Speaker 3: mind stays young forever or your body? 1619 01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:19,000 Speaker 1: Let my body stay young, let my mind be get 1620 01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:22,160 Speaker 1: more wisdom? Yeah? No, and you get to pick either once. 1621 01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:25,080 Speaker 7: So if your mind stay young, then whatever I mean, 1622 01:21:25,120 --> 01:21:26,960 Speaker 7: If your body stay young, then your mind? 1623 01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:30,880 Speaker 1: What what happened? He going? Keep going? For hell, That's 1624 01:21:30,880 --> 01:21:36,720 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do now, I'm trying that. Now 1625 01:21:38,320 --> 01:21:39,679 Speaker 1: what what year? Body? 1626 01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:40,240 Speaker 6: What year? 1627 01:21:40,360 --> 01:21:46,120 Speaker 1: Body? Would you go back to? Let's see, well now 1628 01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:49,080 Speaker 1: it's too skinny back then, but lord, I could run 1629 01:21:49,160 --> 01:21:51,479 Speaker 1: for a long time. It was twenty eight about right? 1630 01:21:51,920 --> 01:21:53,559 Speaker 1: Well yeah, hell yeah. 1631 01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:55,160 Speaker 10: That's a good age for your body. 1632 01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:05,600 Speaker 7: Nice, yeah, nice, mature, strong fly Oh I thought you 1633 01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:06,840 Speaker 7: got ready say something else? 1634 01:22:06,880 --> 01:22:07,320 Speaker 1: I heard that? 1635 01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:12,599 Speaker 10: L No, third, No third, say fly. 1636 01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:18,720 Speaker 1: I'm talking about who I was some deceit. Moving on? 1637 01:22:20,120 --> 01:22:26,000 Speaker 3: Would you rather play twister or do jumping jacks while naked? 1638 01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:30,600 Speaker 7: We ain't got the body to do twisted to begin with. 1639 01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:32,840 Speaker 7: Now I'm gonna do that twisted naked. But I'm telling 1640 01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:34,760 Speaker 7: you right now he jumping jacks ain't fiting wor I'm 1641 01:22:34,760 --> 01:22:39,000 Speaker 7: gonna fink if I do jumping jacks jumping jackson naked, 1642 01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:39,759 Speaker 7: I'm a frank. 1643 01:22:41,840 --> 01:22:43,840 Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's a lot moving right there. 1644 01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:44,439 Speaker 6: You know that. 1645 01:22:47,439 --> 01:22:50,120 Speaker 1: I'm doing twist though, But who am I playing window? 1646 01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:53,000 Speaker 1: Because that makes a difference. I don't care. I don't know. 1647 01:22:53,840 --> 01:22:55,680 Speaker 1: The visual is too much for me. 1648 01:22:56,360 --> 01:22:57,960 Speaker 10: But you pick twist the naked. 1649 01:22:58,320 --> 01:22:59,000 Speaker 1: We should do that. 1650 01:22:59,120 --> 01:23:01,040 Speaker 11: Though, call it we can everybody else. Let's do a 1651 01:23:01,200 --> 01:23:05,880 Speaker 11: nicked twister. Everybody's sign up for that. That'd be nice, 1652 01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:09,719 Speaker 11: man like a tournament. Yeah, like I wish we still 1653 01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:11,920 Speaker 11: had the hoodies I going on and had that on 1654 01:23:12,080 --> 01:23:14,360 Speaker 11: Friday naked twist in Vegas? 1655 01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:16,040 Speaker 2: All right? 1656 01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:19,640 Speaker 3: Would you rather have a friend with benefits or a 1657 01:23:19,760 --> 01:23:22,120 Speaker 3: one night stand with a stranger? 1658 01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:23,160 Speaker 1: I'm too old. 1659 01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:26,760 Speaker 3: I'd rather have what a friend with benefits or one 1660 01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:28,520 Speaker 3: night stand with a stranger. 1661 01:23:28,880 --> 01:23:31,719 Speaker 7: What is the benefits? Yeah, I'd rather have a friend 1662 01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:35,160 Speaker 7: with benefits. I don't need that because you won't mess 1663 01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:36,679 Speaker 7: around and be on the internet in the morning. 1664 01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:47,280 Speaker 1: My headline, yeah, strange and strange for a reason. A 1665 01:23:47,360 --> 01:23:51,560 Speaker 1: stranger danger. All right, Finally here we go. 1666 01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:55,960 Speaker 3: Would you rather lie and tell someone you like the 1667 01:23:56,120 --> 01:23:59,040 Speaker 3: meal that he or she prepared or cooked for you? 1668 01:23:59,840 --> 01:24:02,400 Speaker 10: Or would you rather be honest and tell them you 1669 01:24:02,560 --> 01:24:03,240 Speaker 10: didn't like it? 1670 01:24:03,840 --> 01:24:06,280 Speaker 11: These some nasty greens you don't cook. I got to 1671 01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:08,679 Speaker 11: say it. I can say you can't have no bad greens. 1672 01:24:08,720 --> 01:24:11,640 Speaker 11: I got to take you this is terrible. Don't you 1673 01:24:11,800 --> 01:24:12,759 Speaker 11: ever cook this again? 1674 01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:13,840 Speaker 6: What? 1675 01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:16,599 Speaker 7: But they gonna keep cooking it though if we don't 1676 01:24:16,640 --> 01:24:19,760 Speaker 7: say something. Come on, Steve, I've dated a fine chick. 1677 01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:21,280 Speaker 7: You can't cook it ain't gonna. 1678 01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:25,720 Speaker 3: Last coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour, 1679 01:24:25,960 --> 01:24:29,519 Speaker 3: it's the last break of the day. In Steve's closing remarks, 1680 01:24:29,560 --> 01:24:31,120 Speaker 3: you don't want to miss right after this. 1681 01:24:31,560 --> 01:24:34,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1682 01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:40,639 Speaker 15: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 1683 01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:42,679 Speaker 15: planning and hard work to get in the door. 1684 01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:45,599 Speaker 16: Didn't make that house a home. Now, all that effort 1685 01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:47,400 Speaker 16: has built something hugely valuable. 1686 01:24:47,800 --> 01:24:50,280 Speaker 15: Equity is the portion of your home you truly own 1687 01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:52,559 Speaker 15: that can be tapped to fun what's next? And Rocket 1688 01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:55,040 Speaker 15: Mortgage is here to help you turn your home's equity 1689 01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:58,559 Speaker 15: into cash. Fund your next dream with Rocket Mortgage. 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Matter of fact, I 1700 01:25:40,000 --> 01:25:44,320 Speaker 7: don't know nobody who's not dealing with it. You know, 1701 01:25:44,720 --> 01:25:48,120 Speaker 7: you know when you've been praying about something, and you've 1702 01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:52,080 Speaker 7: prayed about it for a long time, and it's something 1703 01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:56,080 Speaker 7: you've wanted and hoped for, and it's been a long time, 1704 01:25:59,000 --> 01:26:01,200 Speaker 7: and sometimes you get to the point where you just 1705 01:26:01,520 --> 01:26:03,559 Speaker 7: you want to go, Hey, God, are you listening. 1706 01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:05,680 Speaker 1: I said, this is what I want. This is what 1707 01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:09,080 Speaker 1: I need. You know, the part that you have to. 1708 01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:12,720 Speaker 7: Understand, especially if you've been in contact with him on 1709 01:26:12,880 --> 01:26:16,360 Speaker 7: a regular and even if you just started back with him, 1710 01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:19,080 Speaker 7: or are you are? Are you starting up with him now? 1711 01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:25,040 Speaker 7: God knows what we need before we ask. But the 1712 01:26:25,160 --> 01:26:28,000 Speaker 7: part that we got to get to is to trust 1713 01:26:28,200 --> 01:26:34,400 Speaker 7: in the timing that He has. Now, this is a 1714 01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:39,240 Speaker 7: tough thing to do, y'all, because God's timing has never 1715 01:26:39,400 --> 01:26:40,599 Speaker 7: ever been my timing. 1716 01:26:41,680 --> 01:26:43,720 Speaker 1: Ever, I don't don't. 1717 01:26:43,960 --> 01:26:46,840 Speaker 7: I look back on all of the things I've asked 1718 01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:49,280 Speaker 7: for and I found out that the answer was no. 1719 01:26:50,360 --> 01:26:53,080 Speaker 7: And I think about, man, how disappointed I was. Let 1720 01:26:53,160 --> 01:26:57,160 Speaker 7: me tell you something I was. I was about twenty seven, 1721 01:26:58,160 --> 01:27:02,880 Speaker 7: hadn't gotten into comedy yet. I interviewed with an insurance company. 1722 01:27:04,920 --> 01:27:07,920 Speaker 7: And I won't say the name of the insurance company, 1723 01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:09,639 Speaker 7: but my boy had got me the interview. 1724 01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:14,040 Speaker 1: The man I interviewed it with. His name was either 1725 01:27:14,200 --> 01:27:16,000 Speaker 1: Roy Foster or Ray Foster. 1726 01:27:17,640 --> 01:27:19,960 Speaker 7: And I'd been through about four or five interviews and 1727 01:27:20,080 --> 01:27:25,759 Speaker 7: this was my final interview, and man, I was so excited. 1728 01:27:25,880 --> 01:27:32,120 Speaker 7: This was around in eighty four, eighty five, somewhere like that, 1729 01:27:33,200 --> 01:27:35,280 Speaker 7: and I was so excited. Man, I knew I was 1730 01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:38,040 Speaker 7: gonna get this job. And I went to the interview 1731 01:27:38,280 --> 01:27:41,040 Speaker 7: and the man told me, you know, this is a 1732 01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:43,840 Speaker 7: final interview, and I just have one concern. I'm looking 1733 01:27:43,920 --> 01:27:46,840 Speaker 7: at your record and it looks like you've moved four 1734 01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:51,160 Speaker 7: times over the last six years, and for that, that 1735 01:27:51,479 --> 01:27:56,360 Speaker 7: just doesn't symbolize stability. He said, you want to explain that, 1736 01:27:56,400 --> 01:27:57,800 Speaker 7: and I just told her. I said, man, I had 1737 01:27:57,800 --> 01:27:58,800 Speaker 7: a couple of things happened. 1738 01:27:58,800 --> 01:27:59,400 Speaker 1: He had to move. 1739 01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:02,919 Speaker 7: My least went up, I moved again. I had the twins, 1740 01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:05,240 Speaker 7: and I had to move to get a bigger place. 1741 01:28:05,880 --> 01:28:07,920 Speaker 7: He said, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yo. All that says to 1742 01:28:08,000 --> 01:28:12,280 Speaker 7: me is instability. Well, sorry, we won't be hind you 1743 01:28:12,400 --> 01:28:13,000 Speaker 7: at that time. 1744 01:28:14,200 --> 01:28:15,120 Speaker 1: And so I got in my. 1745 01:28:15,479 --> 01:28:19,479 Speaker 7: Seventy two Chevy and I drove out the parking lot 1746 01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:21,840 Speaker 7: and I was heartbroken because man, I wanted that job 1747 01:28:21,960 --> 01:28:22,400 Speaker 7: so bad. 1748 01:28:22,720 --> 01:28:25,080 Speaker 1: And I swung around on the freeway. 1749 01:28:25,200 --> 01:28:29,080 Speaker 7: And I was driving past the big sign of the 1750 01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:31,880 Speaker 7: insurance company as I had made that U turn and 1751 01:28:31,960 --> 01:28:36,120 Speaker 7: loopter and tears was just rolling down my face. I 1752 01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:40,720 Speaker 7: felt so disappointed at that moment. Man, God, you know 1753 01:28:40,960 --> 01:28:43,240 Speaker 7: I need this job. I'm trying to take care of 1754 01:28:43,320 --> 01:28:45,920 Speaker 7: these kids, and he said no. 1755 01:28:47,520 --> 01:28:48,000 Speaker 1: Do you know what. 1756 01:28:49,080 --> 01:28:53,080 Speaker 7: Had I gotten that job at guess what, I probably 1757 01:28:53,080 --> 01:28:56,040 Speaker 7: wouldn't have got into comedy because that would have been 1758 01:28:56,080 --> 01:28:58,400 Speaker 7: the career path I thought that I really wanted, and 1759 01:28:58,520 --> 01:29:01,760 Speaker 7: God said, no, I'm not gonna do that. So the 1760 01:29:01,880 --> 01:29:06,040 Speaker 7: answer is no. And as I look back over my life, 1761 01:29:06,240 --> 01:29:10,320 Speaker 7: I can think of so many times that the answer 1762 01:29:10,439 --> 01:29:13,680 Speaker 7: to my prayer has been no. And if it had 1763 01:29:13,760 --> 01:29:17,160 Speaker 7: a been yes what I was praying for, my outcome 1764 01:29:17,200 --> 01:29:20,000 Speaker 7: would have been totally different. There's no way I would 1765 01:29:20,000 --> 01:29:22,120 Speaker 7: be where I am today had the answer had to 1766 01:29:22,240 --> 01:29:24,160 Speaker 7: he answer to prayer the way I wanted it to. 1767 01:29:25,240 --> 01:29:28,360 Speaker 7: So as I sit here today, are you sitting here 1768 01:29:28,400 --> 01:29:31,280 Speaker 7: today and you've been asking for something over and over? 1769 01:29:31,760 --> 01:29:33,880 Speaker 7: And I said, like I've been asking for something over 1770 01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:36,320 Speaker 7: and over. Could it be possible that the answer is no? 1771 01:29:37,640 --> 01:29:40,320 Speaker 7: And usually when God tells me no is because he 1772 01:29:40,400 --> 01:29:44,439 Speaker 7: has a better plan. It has always worked that way. Man, 1773 01:29:44,720 --> 01:29:49,080 Speaker 7: It's crazy. Hey, you know what, suppose you had stayed 1774 01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:52,000 Speaker 7: with that person that you had prayed for. Suppose you 1775 01:29:52,080 --> 01:29:56,120 Speaker 7: had stayed with that person that you really thought was 1776 01:29:56,240 --> 01:29:58,880 Speaker 7: this that or the other, and you stayed with him, 1777 01:29:58,880 --> 01:29:59,800 Speaker 7: would you be where you were in to. 1778 01:30:00,479 --> 01:30:03,120 Speaker 1: No, probably not. Had you stayed there, had they not 1779 01:30:03,400 --> 01:30:05,400 Speaker 1: left you, had you been able to find who you 1780 01:30:05,560 --> 01:30:09,200 Speaker 1: have now? Probably not. If you had stayed on that 1781 01:30:09,360 --> 01:30:11,599 Speaker 1: job that you had, would you be in a position 1782 01:30:11,720 --> 01:30:13,720 Speaker 1: that you're in now? Probably not? 1783 01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:19,479 Speaker 7: Or maybe it still ain't just works itself completely out yet, y'all. 1784 01:30:19,640 --> 01:30:22,040 Speaker 7: You gotta keep waking up and understanding that when God 1785 01:30:22,120 --> 01:30:23,880 Speaker 7: wakes you up, it's a clear sign that He ain't 1786 01:30:23,920 --> 01:30:24,599 Speaker 7: through with you yet. 1787 01:30:24,800 --> 01:30:27,960 Speaker 1: So why don't you see what the process? He is quick. 1788 01:30:27,800 --> 01:30:30,200 Speaker 7: Complaining all the time when it don't go your way. 1789 01:30:30,479 --> 01:30:33,760 Speaker 7: Sometimes your way ain't really the best way. I've had 1790 01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:37,680 Speaker 7: to discover that as smart as I think I am, 1791 01:30:38,479 --> 01:30:40,560 Speaker 7: I've really made some dumb decisions. 1792 01:30:42,360 --> 01:30:42,920 Speaker 1: I really have. 1793 01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:51,120 Speaker 7: Man, I done walked myself into some crazy situations. So 1794 01:30:51,320 --> 01:30:58,960 Speaker 7: now I'm really just learning to trust trusting his steps 1795 01:30:59,040 --> 01:31:01,240 Speaker 7: as he's ordering a mind, because I ask him to 1796 01:31:01,320 --> 01:31:05,519 Speaker 7: order my steps and trust in his timing and ask 1797 01:31:05,640 --> 01:31:09,479 Speaker 7: God to let your plans to prosper me, let them 1798 01:31:09,560 --> 01:31:10,080 Speaker 7: come true. 1799 01:31:12,200 --> 01:31:14,880 Speaker 1: That's the best way to live. If you can do that, man, 1800 01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:15,840 Speaker 1: you release a lot. 1801 01:31:15,720 --> 01:31:18,519 Speaker 7: Of pressure from yourself because you're trying to figure out 1802 01:31:18,520 --> 01:31:21,080 Speaker 7: which way to go. When God clearly has a path 1803 01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:24,200 Speaker 7: for you that's already designed. Why don't you talk to 1804 01:31:24,320 --> 01:31:26,560 Speaker 7: God about that? Ask God what would he have for 1805 01:31:26,640 --> 01:31:29,639 Speaker 7: you to do today? Ask God to order your steps today. 1806 01:31:30,040 --> 01:31:32,200 Speaker 7: Ask God to give you peace of mind, the direction, 1807 01:31:32,520 --> 01:31:35,760 Speaker 7: and ask God for the strength to just stand the 1808 01:31:35,880 --> 01:31:39,439 Speaker 7: test and trust in his timing. God's timing is different, 1809 01:31:39,640 --> 01:31:42,280 Speaker 7: but it's usually way way better. Those are my close 1810 01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:45,240 Speaker 7: remarks today. Have a go with today, y'all. Hey, listen, 1811 01:31:46,760 --> 01:31:49,759 Speaker 7: talk to God today. He'd absolutely love to hear from you. Okay, 1812 01:31:51,000 --> 01:31:52,840 Speaker 7: all right, do that, y'all. Stay in peace. 1813 01:32:00,120 --> 01:32:03,560 Speaker 1: For all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. 1814 01:32:03,640 --> 01:32:07,120 Speaker 14: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1815 01:32:07,240 --> 01:32:12,120 Speaker 14: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit STEVEHARVEYFM dot com. 1816 01:32:12,479 --> 01:32:15,160 Speaker 14: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.