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Speaker 1: So this is our very first podcast we've ever done.

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Speaker 1: This is it for starting brand new called What in

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Speaker 1: the Winkler. I'm Zoe Winkler and my mom Stacy Winkler,

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Speaker 1: and I are going to be coming together every week

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Speaker 1: to discuss very important things, hugely important, groundbreaking things together

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Speaker 1: and I'm so excited. But I think we should like

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Speaker 1: talk a little bit about who we are so that

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Speaker 1: people know who we are and they don't just refer

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Speaker 1: to us as Okay, Henry Winkler's daughter and wife, the daughter. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: should I start? Yeah, start, Okay, tell us about you, Okay.

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Speaker 2: My life is that I was born and raised in

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Speaker 2: Los Angeles. I have lived so many places in my

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Speaker 2: life it's just hard to keep track. Which is a

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Speaker 2: joke to say that I have lived here in Los

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Speaker 2: Angeles for one hundred and ninety seven years and my

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Speaker 2: whole family is here, even though it's crazy and filled

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Speaker 2: with traffic and everything. That's just the way it is.

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Speaker 2: I actually grew up less than a mile from where

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Speaker 2: I live today, and I went to elementary school less

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Speaker 2: than a mile from where I am today, Junior high

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Speaker 2: school way less than a mile, and then high school,

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Speaker 2: and then I made my great leap at going on

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Speaker 2: the freeway to the University of Southern California, Go Trojans.

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Speaker 2: When I started college.

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Speaker 1: Who was there? When you were there? And what did

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Speaker 1: he call you?

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Speaker 2: Oj? Was there?

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Speaker 1: And what did he call you?

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Speaker 2: Texas Red? I'm not quite sure, but I could have

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Speaker 2: been using Western accent. I'm not sure. But it was

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Speaker 2: a crazy, crazy time. And from there I met.

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Speaker 1: Your first husband.

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Speaker 2: Well I wasn't going to refer to him as that,

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Speaker 2: but I guess that was the end result. So my

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Speaker 2: first husband, who I cannot say enough about. He was

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Speaker 2: the most incredible person in the world, clearly not for

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Speaker 2: a first husband, but as a dear friend and as

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Speaker 2: like a brother.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think people know that my mom was

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Speaker 1: married before to this incredible man named Howard Whitesman who's

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Speaker 1: passed away. But they had my older brother Jed. Yes,

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Speaker 1: they were married for three years, is that right?

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Speaker 2: Well, all together it was that huge number of five oh.

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Speaker 1: Five years, and after they got divorced and they both

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Speaker 1: moved on and met and married the people that they

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Speaker 1: would be with for you know, over forty years. They

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Speaker 1: became best best best friends. So our families kind of

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Speaker 1: like all melded into one, the Whitesman's and the Winklers,

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Speaker 1: and we spend every holiday together to this day, with.

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Speaker 2: The Whitesman's as well. And plus I never wanted to

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Speaker 2: do like, oh, this year you're at your father's and

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Speaker 2: this year is my year.

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Speaker 1: That takes a lot of confidence.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, tell you what it took. What

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Speaker 2: it took was I think number one. I was the

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Speaker 2: one who left. Howard was the most extraordinary person ever,

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Speaker 2: and to this day, his wife, Margaret.

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Speaker 1: You guys are like sister wives, but we call.

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Speaker 2: Each other's sister wives, and it is our real family. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that is our family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a second mom to me, more like a

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Speaker 1: sister because she's a lot younger.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she's you know, she is younger.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But so so you got divorced, Howard met Margaret,

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Speaker 1: and then you, oh, wait, tell the story about when

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Speaker 1: Howard and Margaret started dating and you saw her driving

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Speaker 2: I didn't really think it was a prob.

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Speaker 1: It's an excellent story. Tell the story.

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Speaker 2: I don't know the whole story. Apparently I asked her

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Speaker 2: to pull over for and you said, tell Howard, I

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Speaker 2: need diapers. I guess I did. Apparently. Now I don't

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Speaker 2: want to sound this way because but.

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Speaker 1: Did you really need diaper's mom?

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Speaker 2: Of course, Why would I have pulled her off just

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Speaker 2: to be a bitch? No, because I think Jed was

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, well she was scared shitless though we know

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Speaker 2: You know what, I.

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Speaker 1: Should have her on the she needs to come on

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Speaker 1: to tell Mario the real unveiled Stacy Waite. That's right,

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Speaker 2: Margaret is fantastic and we traveled together. That was aside

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Speaker 2: from our oldest son, Jed, that was and Howard, that

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Speaker 2: was the best thing that happened. And Margaret, her name

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that'd amazing.

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Speaker 2: She's a scream. When I left, Howard, I was not

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Speaker 2: working at the time, and you were going right, yes, right,

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Speaker 2: And in social work you had a three year old son, Zoe.

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Speaker 2: I had a three year old son. My parents were

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Speaker 2: extremely helpful, and someone said to me, why don't you

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Speaker 2: and put people together connector as we call that, so

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Speaker 2: put people together and introduce people to each other. Stuff

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Speaker 2: She gave me a chance, she really did. But when I.

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Speaker 1: Said, no, I will not pick up your dog. I

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Speaker 2: Own pubb No, No, I did not say that.

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Speaker 2: I said, you know what, Joan, I think I need

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Speaker 2: what I'm doing for you. You've taught me everything. You're

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Speaker 2: so smart. And she was a real crusty kind of

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Speaker 2: old gal. Her name was Joan Luther, and she'd be hey,

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Speaker 2: baby Joanie. You know she was like, let's just say

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Speaker 2: there was We were polar opposites, and she'd come right

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Speaker 2: off the tennis court. She weighed six pounds. Are you

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Speaker 2: that you?

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Speaker 1: Are you confused to you?

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Speaker 2: No? No, Joan, she had a collar up. She was

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Speaker 2: baby love, baby dauface. Anyway, it was a lot of

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Speaker 2: that's what you did when you did pr in those days.

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Speaker 2: But I ended up doing more fashion work anyway, was

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Speaker 2: great you had good clients. I had very good clients,

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Speaker 2: Dan cle Van Cleef, I had I Magnin, I had No,

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Speaker 2: I had Jerry Magnet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but his store was I Magnan.

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Speaker 2: No, that was this isn't that.

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Speaker 1: Where you and dad met?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to keep up with the pace and

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Speaker 2: let me finish. Jed, my oldest son. Jed was having

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Speaker 2: a fourth birthday. I asked him because for his prior

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Speaker 2: birthdays such a long history we had been doing like whoever.

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Speaker 2: He liked on his birthday cake like a little figure,

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Speaker 2: I want the six million dollar man and the fonds.

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Speaker 2: That was in June, June twenty sixth and then I

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Speaker 2: met Henry in August. Jerry was my client, Jerry Magnut

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Speaker 2: And actually this really dates us. He is the person

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Speaker 2: my son had Fhnsie on his birthday cake. Anyway, blah blah.

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Speaker 2: Henry came up to me. He held up two jackets.

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Speaker 2: He said which one do you think? And he finds

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Speaker 2: it very necessary to poke a lot of fun at this.

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Speaker 2: He said which jacket should I get? And obviously, because

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Speaker 2: they were both cute and he was adorbs, I said

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Speaker 1: I know that's so you, I think. I don't think

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Speaker 1: he pokes fun at it. It's such a you statement,

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Speaker 1: like most people would buy one jacket, but you would

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Speaker 1: never like you would always buy both. Well, no, if

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Speaker 2: He was the far doing well. And Dad said no,

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Speaker 2: I could never get to it once. I could never

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Speaker 2: so judgment. Hello, I didn't notice, but I thought it

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Speaker 2: was adorable, but it was in fact judgment And anyway,

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Speaker 2: to make a very long story short, I then went

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Speaker 2: And its poor, poor fragile child opened the front door

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Speaker 2: my name is Henry. Would you like it if I

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Speaker 2: called you Ralph? Now it wasn't that he was mean.

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Speaker 2: It was just that Henry was very, very various, hell

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Speaker 2: bent on not being type cast, especially by three year

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Speaker 2: series aside, everyone at the West La Montessori School would

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Speaker 2: a year of intense therapy for a lifetime. Let me say,

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Speaker 2: but you didn't understand the magnitude of Dad's celebrity at

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Speaker 2: I didn't know because I had not seen the show.

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Speaker 2: I knew his name.

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Speaker 1: She was just aiming for Mick Jagger.

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Speaker 2: I had bigger fish to fry. The most important thing.

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Speaker 2: You know, as a kid growing up here, never and

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Speaker 2: I mean never, never, never go out with anyone in

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Speaker 1: It was I believe you said those same words to

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Speaker 1: me when I married Rob because at the time he

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Speaker 1: was an actor. And now look, yes, well we're thriving.

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Speaker 2: You're thriving because he's no longer an actor. Let's be honest, jiving. No,

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Speaker 2: I mean, it is just not something you do, especially

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Speaker 1: Wait and tell about when you guys went to the movies.

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Speaker 2: I didn't understand because I knew people. I went to

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Speaker 1: You're an LA girl, you knew famous people.

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Speaker 2: I did. I knew people whose parents were famous, but

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Speaker 2: it wasn't like I was going out with their parents.

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Speaker 2: But I knew like people who's like the tour bus

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Speaker 2: But let's just say a long ass time. That's true,

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Speaker 2: Daddy is is just afraid of you? And let me say,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's funny because recently my dad

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Speaker 2: We took all the kids, like Zoe. I was breastfeeding

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Speaker 1: Know what, I'm with my family right now, and he

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Speaker 2: The plan was you were going to straighten up your room.

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Speaker 1: it was scary. And Dad said, Okay, we're going home now.

437
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: I said, can we stop it somewhere to get something

438
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: to eat? I didn't get to eat, and he was like, no,

439
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna go home so you can straighten up your room.

440
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: And I literally looked at him dead in the face

441
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't know why anyone chanced

442
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: your name. I'm so angry, and you know, like so

443
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: this man. And everywhere I went people would say what's

444
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: it like having this person as your dad? And I

445
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: would say, like, what's it like having your dad? Because

446
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: he is so regular. I realized now that that was

447
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: an insane response, but growing up with him, he was

448
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: so it was. We had a very For as insane

449
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: as the upbringing was, it was also very normal, and

450
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: we had dinner together, and we had chores and every

451
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: Saturday my dad would splatter paint with us. He would

452
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: put up an easel and we would sit in the

453
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: playroom and do splatter paint and he would take us

454
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 1: to the farm and we would ride ponies, and at

455
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: that time, paparazzi was so different. If you said, like,

456
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: do not take a picture of my children, they were

457
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 1: really really respectful. It was a very, very very different

458
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: time he was famous, when there were like, you know,

459
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 1: a handful of famous people. Now it's such a different experience,

460
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: but it was were the same ones, same ones, right,

461
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:50,959
Speaker 1: I mean there were so many moments that were just

462
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: so abnormal. I didn't understand that when you went to

463
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 1: Disneyland you had to wait in a line. I didn't

464
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: understand that that was like something that people did because

465
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: we always were taken and he would still take us

466
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: to Disneyland, but we always had a guide, and so

467
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: we we.

468
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 2: Had a rarefied life beyond.

469
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: But but it's this fair Yeah, it felt normal normal.

470
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: So it's this weird thing where it's like our normal, yeah,

471
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: and you can't pretend like you had this normal life

472
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: because you didn't. I mean, my tenth birthday was a

473
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,719
Speaker 1: villa in Palm Springs with ten girls. You know, like

474
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: it definitely wasn't normal, but it was also normal. I

475
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: don't It's like this weird dichotomy. So it was definitely interesting.

476
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: And then also you get this sort of thing where

477
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 1: like teachers were like so nice to you, and so

478
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: you know, like I mean, a part of it must

479
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: have been that I was just an amazing kid, but

480
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: I don't think that was all of it.

481
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: And kids wanted to be very differently differently, very easily.

482
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 2: You can tell the ones who are like saying to

483
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 2: their kids, I think it'd be fun if you write

484
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 2: her yeah with Zoe yeah. And I remember begging you

485
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 2: to like speak to the other parents, and you refused,

486
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 2: and you begged me to be nicer to the other parents.

487
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: Right. I knew very early on that people looked at

488
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: us differently, and I wanted us to be looked at

489
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: kind of the same, and I wanted I knew why

490
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: they wanted to be, you know, friends with you, but

491
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: I wanted you to do the same. And it, you know,

492
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: wasn't I get it now. I get it, especially as

493
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: a parent, you know, because it's like, why do you

494
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: want to be friends with somebody that just wants to

495
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: be friends with you to get to your husband? It's like,

496
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 1: what's the point, you know, you know.

497
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 2: It's a compliment, I understand, but there are plenty of

498
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 2: times that it's a drag. Yeah, and but with all

499
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: due respect, you can never forget. The whole deal is that.

500
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 2: You know, if you remember any interaction with any actor,

501
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 2: any entertain or once that did not go back, well,

502
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 2: I remember a housewife that was so mean to me,

503
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 2: and I to this day I'm not a fan. So

504
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 2: that's how long it lasts, right.

505
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 1: No, I know, And that's why they say, like, never

506
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: meet your idols. Didn't you like, never want to meet

507
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: Robert Redford or something?

508
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 2: Never?

509
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:17,959
Speaker 1: Yeah?

510
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 2: I didn't. Never could meet Robert were you're supposed to be,

511
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: like sitting next to him at a dinner once and

512
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 2: you I would have I would have wet myself.

513
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: Okay, well, thank god you didn't. But it was actually

514
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: so my parents take Ace out to dinner every year

515
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: for his birthday because he's a super big foodie. He

516
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: loves food. He's like a little chef. And he turned

517
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: twelve and my parents took him to Matsuhisa this last time,

518
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, I just get start getting

519
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: pictures from my dad of Ace and my dad and

520
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: Robert de Niro and Ace had no idea, Ace had none, none,

521
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: But it was just Sady.

522
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 2: Was like fan.

523
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because here's the other thing about Dad is

524
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: he's a huge fan. So if you run into him,

525
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: if he sees one of his you know, celebrity people

526
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: out in the world that he loves their work. Although

527
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: let's talk about this. So it was my birthday on

528
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 1: September thirtieth. We went to Toscana for dinner and kid

529
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 1: LaRoy and Tate McCray were at dinner in the restaurant

530
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 1: and I made the mistake of pointing out to Gus,

531
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: my youngest, that they were there, because he's a big

532
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: fan of Tate McCray. And so I said to my

533
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 1: dad like, can you just can you get up and

534
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: take take him over to meet her? And he was

535
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 1: too embarrassed.

536
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:31,280
Speaker 2: You wouldn't.

537
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: He was like, what if they don't know who I am.

538
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: It's a different generation. And I was like, get the

539
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 1: fuck up, walk your grandkid over to Tate McCray and

540
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: kid LaRoy. But it was fine because my best friend

541
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: Alison came over from another restaurant. She knows them, and

542
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 1: she introduced them and then Gus came back to the table, goes,

543
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: I freaking met Tate McCray in the middle of Toscana dying.

544
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,360
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, life is just it's different in

545
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: the best way, and so I'm so grateful for it.

546
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,919
Speaker 1: But it also gives you a skewed view of what

547
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: life is because you never know if someone is being

548
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 1: genuine or they're wanting something else. I cannot tell you

549
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 1: how many people have been like, oh can you give

550
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: this script? And now that Max is also a big

551
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:18,919
Speaker 1: director and producer, it's like it's like I'm reliving it.

552
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,280
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, you're Max's sister. I was like, actually,

553
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm older. And someone said to me the other day

554
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: how much older is Max than you? And I was like, oh,

555
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: you're mistaken, Like I'm older and he's my brother. But

556
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:34,320
Speaker 1: it's just I don't know what. People behave very differently

557
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:39,800
Speaker 1: around famous people, and so when you're in the vicinity

558
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: but you're not the famous person, it's a little confusing

559
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: because you're you're regular. I mean, I'm not regularly, but

560
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, right, And so, like, I

561
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 1: remember my mom used to be like they would step

562
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 1: on her tights. She'd be like, you, they're stepping on

563
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: my tights, you know, like they're ripping my.

564
00:35:56,440 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 2: Tights wearing stockings at the time, and they literally a

565
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: group of women would walk over me, over me at

566
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 2: a black tie kind of thing on a red carpet,

567
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 2: and I would have holes in my tights.

568
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 1: Wait, we went to a wedding recently, you me, Rob

569
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: and Dad, and this woman was so drunk and she

570
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 1: was flirting with Dad in the craziest way, and I

571
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 1: had words with her. I was like, you have got

572
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,280
Speaker 1: to get control of yourself, Like you've got to calm

573
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 1: yourself down. Like it was the craziest it was. It

574
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: gave me like I could vomit thinking about it. But

575
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: then also, you know, like we go out of town recently,

576
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 1: we went to San Francisco, You me, Dad, and I

577
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: took Ace and we get to the hotel. First of all,

578
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: I thought we were staying at a different hotel, which

579
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: is the only reason I agreed to go. And then

580
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: Dad wanted to stay at a different hotel that was

581
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:52,280
Speaker 1: less money. So we get to the hotel and the

582
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 1: manager comes out to greet us as we're getting to

583
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 1: the hotel and they were saying, like the suite that

584
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: Dad and you were in and there was like no

585
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: mention of Ace in my room. So I was like,

586
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: excuse me, Like what sweeten am I in? And he

587
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: was like, you're not. You're in a room with a

588
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: very low ceiling and it's highly depressing. And I'm just

589
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: kidding it wasn't, but it was just like but it's

590
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: like that kind of stuff, you know what I mean,

591
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 1: Like it's like, wait, I'm standing right here, like do

592
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 1: you have another one for me? Nope, sure don't. So

593
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 1: it's like you know that kind of thing. And also,

594
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: do you remember that when we used to fly as

595
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: soon as we were old enough, you guys would sit

596
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: in first class and we would sit and coach with

597
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: the nanny, and you'd bring us back cookies.

598
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 2: I would bring.

599
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: Yes, the steardesses were way nicer to us because they

600
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: knew that, you know, you and Dad were up there,

601
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: and Dad was Dad. Didn't you didn't you say to

602
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: me recently on the flight home with you and you

603
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: and Dad took ace fishing, and didn't you say that

604
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: The stewardess got on the thing and said it's an

605
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 1: honor to have Dad on the plane. Oh no, no,

606
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 1: she was like like leaning over to make out with

607
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: him and not even asking me if I wanted like.

608
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 2: A tomato juice, So what did you do? I was obnoxious.

609
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 2: I tried to be nice. I just thought, you know what,

610
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 2: there are different kinds of women. A lot of women

611
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:22,280
Speaker 2: will say, I'm so sorry, this must be so awkward

612
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 2: for you. I'm totally taking up time with your husband,

613
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 2: or I'm totally interfering. And then if someone is like that,

614
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 2: I'll say, don't be silly. He's thrilled to meet you

615
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 2: and all yours, babe. You know what, I just have

616
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 2: a problem with people who are disrespectful. I really do.

617
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 2: And so many people are disrespectful that it makes me

618
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 2: feel bad. And I would never go up to a

619
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 2: man who I had a crush on and say, you know,

620
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 2: not say to his wife, this must happen to you

621
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,879
Speaker 2: all the time. I am so sorry. I mean, it's

622
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 2: my version of going up to my gayna collegist. You know,

623
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: he delivered you.

624
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: So this man delivered.

625
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 2: You, you know, So that is that was my similar.

626
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: Well, you know, you win some, you lose some. What

627
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 1: I'm most excited about is that today is going to

628
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: be the day that we launch our podcasts, and it's

629
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: also Dad's birthday. He's seventy nine today, Yeah, which is

630
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 1: very old and great, and I have anxiety saying that

631
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 1: number because I still, to this day, at forty four,

632
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,439
Speaker 1: speak to both of you multiple times a day, which

633
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: is mentally ill.

634
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 2: And I'm so grateful.

635
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: And apparently my husband thinks it's weird that I dad Daddy.

636
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 2: I understand. We've been over that with Robbie, and so

637
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 2: Robbie needs to ixnay on the judgment too.

638
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 1: Rob is my husband, who's the best. He is the best, Yeah, beyond,

639
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,879
Speaker 1: but that is what? Okay? But I should just call

640
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 1: him dad. No, it's not daddy, Mom, I'm forty four,

641
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: it's weird to call him daddy. It's Dad's birthday, yes,

642
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,800
Speaker 1: which is a national holiday. He loves his birthday almost

643
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 1: as much as I love my birthday.

644
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: I think it would be very hard to figure out

645
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 2: the winner on this competition, but I'm very excited to

646
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 2: celebrate him tonight at his favorite restaurant in the whole

647
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:49,280
Speaker 2: wide world, Matsuhisa. And I also am excited because tomorrow's Halloween,

648
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 2: and tomorrow you guys are going to come over. Daddy

649
00:40:54,080 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 2: schedules all travel plans, all anything on Halloween around Halloween

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Speaker 2: because he sits on my stoop and he hands out candy,

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Speaker 2: and it's the and everybody you know it's it's kind

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Speaker 2: of the same thing.

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Speaker 1: There's a line like down the street for him to

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Speaker 1: hand out the candy. But do you remember, like two

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Speaker 1: years ago, Bradley Cooper came in. I do, and you

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Speaker 1: were so and you happen to be like somewhere else

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Speaker 1: in the house, and so then you sat next to

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Speaker 1: Dad and you were like, I'm just gonna wait right

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Speaker 1: here on the stairs till he comes back. But Dad

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Speaker 1: literally just sits out there and hands out candy and

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Speaker 1: comments on every single child's costume and just is like

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Speaker 1: so excited and happy to be there and it's a

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Speaker 1: moment for him and his fans. Just kidding, but he

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Speaker 1: loves it so much, and I'm so excited. And I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna surprise him tomorrow with a cake with the kids

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Speaker 1: so that like we can have like a big cake

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Speaker 1: for his birthday because tonight's just grown up. So tomorrow

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Speaker 1: I'll have like a big cake at the house for

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Speaker 1: the Halloween party. Oh yes, of course, I would love

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Speaker 1: to continue talking about me, So I would like next

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Speaker 1: episode to be about my marriage and my children. But

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Speaker 1: we'll just have to wait we'll have to wait. We

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Speaker 1: have so much good stuff, We'll just have to wait

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Speaker 1: till the next pod.

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Speaker 2: Okay, bye, bye, love you, love you, Thank you so

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Speaker 2: much for listening to What in the Winkler. We're so

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Speaker 2: excitt we really are