WEBVTT - Bi Bye Baby 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.159 Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:16.520 and The Black Effect, And just like that, we're back 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:19.920 with another carefully reckless episode. Welcome back, y'all. I want 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:22.000 to say thank y'all so much for hanging in there 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:24.400 with me. I'll be talking my shit and helping y'all 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:26.400 with y'all mess. But I don't need no degree to 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:29.960 do this right, right, So we're gonna jump straight into this. 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:32.080 This is a very very juicy story and it's very 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:36.440 interesting because I had went on Breakfast Club like a 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:38.960 week ago, and you know, I do just fix my 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:41.000 mess also on Breakfast Club as well on BT y'all 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:45.080 need to catch that whenever I'm up there. And it 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:47.800 was a very interesting story because I reported on something 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:50.280 and actually I did rumor report and one of my 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:53.280 fans said that that is what made her comfortable enough 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:54.880 to come and tell us her story. 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:56.240 So I will share it. 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:59.320 And she did say for obvious reasons, she's not going 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:01.880 to send a voice not in obviously our voice is 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:05.920 very unique and her man may listen to my podcast. 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:09.720 So here we go, Hey, Jess, So after hearing your 0:01:09.720 --> 0:01:12.840 recent fix my Mess on the Breakfast Club, I am 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:15.160 not ashamed to come to you with my story anymore. 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:18.120 I've been married to my husband for four years, and 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:20.399 when we first got together, I did tell him that 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:24.280 I was bisexual. Okay, At first, he did not really 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:27.360 care as much because we both wanted each other so bad. 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:30.360 He felt as if he could be everything that I needed. 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:34.520 All as time went on, sex got just a little boring, 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:39.399 hence why I'm bisexual. Okay. So she is one of 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:41.160 those people, Okay, I got you. You one of those 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.680 that you know sex can get born with just a man, 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:45.000 So you want a man. 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:47.680 And a woman. Oh yeah, okay, miss greedy. 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:50.520 Not taking anything away from my husband, I think I 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:52.720 was just kind of missing that other part of what 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:53.360 I'm used to. 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:56.160 Oh, okay, all the bisexualness. Okay. 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:58.800 So I went to him and asked him if we 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:03.520 could introduce having threesomes every once in a while, just 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:05.520 to keep the spark in our sex life, because I 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:08.960 would never cheat on him. Never, and you put never 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:11.840 in all caps. So I believe you, girl, I believe you. 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:15.919 At first, he was like, hell no, but he also 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:19.120 didn't want me to start creeping around on him. While 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:21.400 not wanting to lose me at the same time. So 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:26.120 he eventually agreed to a threesome every other month. Okay, 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:29.640 that's a bit goddamn much. At first, I wasn't really 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:32.040 happy with that because that is not enough for me. 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:35.959 How the fuck goddamn girl? But I said, shit, I'll 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:38.000 take it because I didn't want to lose my husband either. 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:40.760 Good girl should now to take what you can get. 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:45.080 I beg it's gonna be shoesy and shit, and I 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:47.840 figured if he's compromising for me, I damn sure can 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:48.720 compromise for him. 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:50.760 Yes, spoken like a true wife. That is good. 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:54.000 You're supposed to compromise and a marriage, y'all. So boom, 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:56.639 we did it. The first time was great. I can 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.519 tell he was just there to make me happy because 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:01.680 he wasn't really into her. Okay, so the first time 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:04.359 was great for you, boo. Okay, yeah, but he was 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:06.320 there to just make you happy. Okay, he wasn't really 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:09.639 into her. Months down the line, out of nowhere, I 0:03:09.800 --> 0:03:12.839 swear Jess, he had started really giving it to her 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:16.560 this time, and for a minute I had to stand 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:19.400 back and sidey them both. Okay, I would have done 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:22.480 the same thing he usually would finished with me, but 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:24.360 this time he finished with her? 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:26.920 Did he shoot the damn club up? Like what you 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:28.320 mean he'd be finishing with you? So what? 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.480 Okay, I don't need to all right, I know what 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:32.880 finished me now, man let me get out of that context. 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.280 So of course I let time go past, and I 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:38.080 didn't say anything, why what the fuck? Because I had 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:39.880 just figured he was starting to like it, and this 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.720 is something that I wanted, So I didn't want to 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:46.520 ruin anything. Okay, But the last time was the final straw. 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:50.200 Oh shit. He had started showing her a little too much. 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:52.600 Intimate attention for me while we were in the act, 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:55.400 and I felt kind of left out. So of course, 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:59.680 after we finished, I started investigating myself and I started snooping, 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:02.440 and I discovered that them two had started fucking around 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:07.800 without me. Oh, Jess, you're never going to believe when 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:11.040 I found this out. The night before you went on 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:14.520 Breakfast Club and reported that Manetta in Neo's story, which 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:18.560 wasn't very similar, but still the whole threesome thing got me. 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:21.799 I still haven't even told him that I know yet. 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:25.040 Oh shit, okay, so you're telling me you giving me 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:25.880 the exclusive? 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:27.720 You giving me the exclusive? 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:28.920 Oh my god? 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:31.440 Okay, Oh my god. 0:04:31.920 --> 0:04:34.240 That's nice, y'all. I'm like, okay, I love y'all so much. 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:37.039 Okay, all right, I still haven't even told him that 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.599 I know yet. The thing is, I love my husband 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:42.760 so very much and will literally do anything for him. 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:45.800 But jess what should I do right now? Because I'd 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.600 hate to have to kill this nigga? Damn to death, 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:50.760 d's part right? Fix my mess? 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:51.800 Babe, this bad? 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:55.080 She said, to death. Do what's part right? Yeah, but 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:57.320 you can't be the one killing them. That's not way. 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:01.640 Why y'all say those voves. It is not that, Oh 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:04.279 my god, I'm supposed to just die natural causes. Bitch, 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:07.400 you can't kill you, all right, Okay, that's what that 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:12.320 vow means. All right, all jokes that decide now. First 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:14.560 and foremost, I want to say, I'm happy that you 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:18.160 decided to come to me with this story. 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:20.200 I'm happy that you are not ashamed. 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:23.360 And let's just say this, no one should feel ashamed 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:25.800 of something that they that they are going through, or 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.279 that they've went through in a marriage and a friendship, 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:31.760 with family, with coworkers at work. I mean, these are 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:36.920 all just living situations. And what I mean by living 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:39.680 is we live life. We go through things every day, 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:42.120 every week, every month, every year of our lives, like 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:44.839 we all go through things. So don't ever be ashamed 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:48.719 of any story, you know, unless you be fucking animals. 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:51.560 And that's one thing I will never fucking I will 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:55.800 never understand that. Don't be fucking no animals. If you do, 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:57.960 I ain't trying to fix your mess. Motherfucker. You better 0:05:58.000 --> 0:05:59.440 not come in here telling me that you fuck with 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:01.640 no animals. But no, back to my girl, Back to 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:04.600 my girl, all right? Who you ain't gonna like what 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:08.320 I'm gonna say, but you kind of already can figure 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:10.359 what I'm gonna say, because you saw what I said 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:14.720 about the shit, you know, when Manyetta had reported her 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.320 story and I re reported it on Breakfast Club, and 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:19.880 that wasn't just fixed my mess, that was rumor report 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:21.440 bull And it's totally fine. 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:22.120 It's all the same. 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:27.840 You can't open the door to threesomes to a man 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:33.400 who didn't want anything to do with it at first, 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.800 and then you done pulled his arm and he went 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:40.200 through the door with you, and then now he has rules. 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:42.000 Now you sighed eyeing. 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:46.000 Him because he started sleeping with the girl outside of 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:48.800 you you know what I'm saying outside the threesome deal 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:51.479 that y'all had, if y'all ain't never had no goddamn 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:54.880 contract I'm talking about written and signed, notarized and all 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:55.360 that shit. 0:06:55.560 --> 0:07:00.080 You can't say a damn thing. I'm so sorry, like. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:03.520 I just and now mind you, No, this is not 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:05.560 professional help. 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:09.160 This is experienced. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:11.920 Help, a person with experience. No, I've never been in 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:14.560 a situation where I would ever even have a threesome. 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:17.000 You know why, because then I will be looking for 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.840 somebody to fix my mess, just like you. You know 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:23.880 that's not good. That's not good when you open the 0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:27.960 door to share yourself or to share your mate, share 0:07:28.000 --> 0:07:30.760 your significant other. This is your husband. This ain't your 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:34.240 fucking boyfriend either. This is your husband. You met him, 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:35.920 you told him you was bisexual. 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:37.520 You know. 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:42.200 Now, we could say that was a red flag for 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:46.480 him all day, but it's really not. That's just him 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:49.960 accepting you for being who you are. He could have 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:51.320 said no, I ain't fucking with you and just went 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:54.360 the other way. That would have been his preference. You know, 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:56.000 I'm not gonna say that. He just would have been 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:58.760 a judging, a judging person just for leaving you right 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:01.560 there right, you know, right then in there. But obviously, 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:03.760 like you said, y'all both wanted each other so much, 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:06.960 he probably really did think that he could be everything 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:08.840 that you needed. You know what I'm saying, then, a 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:11.440 lot of people, I want you to I want y'all 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:12.600 to understand this now. 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:15.880 This is not something that I'm just saying. 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:18.280 This is something that I see and that I know 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:20.520 a lot of bisexual people are going to agree with 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:23.760 me because this is serious. A lot of men don't 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:26.760 even take y'all serious. A lot of men don't take 0:08:26.800 --> 0:08:31.200 bisexual women serious because I hear a lot of men say, 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:34.480 like all bitches is gay, or a lot of women 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:37.040 is gay. Everybody like a little women. I mean, it's 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:39.000 like whatever, But y'all really still come back to that 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:41.800 dick though, Like I got a lot of homeboys and brothers, 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:44.680 and we see it in the media, we see it 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:49.079 all the time. Nobody like that's the most lenient department 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:51.920 of the LGBT. Nobody really likes to take the women 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:55.080 serious because they feel like y'all just playing around. 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:59.960 Bisexual is a serious thing. It's a very serious sexuality. 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:03.000 And I just don't think I'm not gonna say he 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:06.880 didn't take it serious enough, but I think yeah, he 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.840 probably thought that it would change, that he could change 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:13.880 who you were, meeting all your needs. But he can't 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:16.040 be a woman, you know, he can only be your man. 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:20.520 So he's only fulfilling half of your fantasy or no shit, 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:23.160 I'm sorry, you gotta be careful with because it ain't 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:26.320 a fantasy. He's only fulfilling half of what you're used to. 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.240 Like you said, I'll say it just like you said it, 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:30.760 I do apologize. It's not a fantasy. It's your life 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:34.080 and it's very real. So he's fulfilling only half of 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:38.959 your fantasy. Okay, fuck out decided again, that's some bullshit that. 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:42.240 Now think about the fucking ludicrous song. You know, see 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:46.480 what's your fantast to say? Remember that fuck man my bed, 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:48.400 all right, so that's what it luted. 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:50.760 Don't see me? I like that song. So yeah, he 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:52.600 was only fulfilling half of what you were used to. 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:55.400 So now so you were feeling like it was something missing, 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:58.880 and you went on ahead and you asked him, now 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:02.000 listen the first time is said no, you should have 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:04.240 taken that and said, okay, husband, that's it. No, let 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.360 me find another way to compromise that. Let's see if 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:07.360 we can compromise another way. 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:08.280 Bring some toys. 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:10.760 In the fact, I don't know if toys don't really 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.120 get you popping off like this shit. I know, ain't 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:15.360 nothing wrong with the little rose. You could grab the 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:17.560 rose and put it on the highest power. Because let 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:21.160 me tell you that that that one speed is better 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:22.520 than any human beings tongue. 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:29.600 I'm telling you that one that God like that one, 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:32.160 that's the one that's the last one right before it 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:35.240 go off. And if you would have had that girl, 0:10:35.320 --> 0:10:38.800 what what you wouldn't need a husband or wife. 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:42.800 But we ain't gonna we're not gonna promote that. Hold up, 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:44.760 Hold up, I know this shit getting good. But listen 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:46.880 to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:52.280 love me, you'll listen, all right. The man said no. 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:56.760 He said no the first time. Like I said, you 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:58.640 should have let that shit go right there. 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:01.600 You ask them again. Now you didn't tell me you 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:02.200 asked them again. 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:03.920 But I know if he said hell no, he ain't 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:06.120 turn around and say hell yeah. You had to keep 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:09.720 asking him. And because you said eventually he agreed. So 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:11.720 I know that you you like that's why I said, 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:13.559 That's why I made that reference. You pulled his arm 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:16.440 through the door, and he didn't want to lose you. 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:18.840 And he also you told me that you would never 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:20.840 cheat on him. Now you told me you would never 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:22.680 cheat on him, But he probably wanted to please you 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:25.040 so bad that he'd rather you not creep around. 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:26.480 Exactly what you said. 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:28.720 He didn't want you to creep around, and he didn't 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.120 want you to be feeling like you are missing something. 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:35.800 And I already ain't. I already ain't tolerating this threesome shit. 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:36.480 You know. 0:11:36.920 --> 0:11:40.679 I let me, let me try to give her something, 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:43.960 let me let me try to compromise with her. And 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:47.920 then he turns around and tell tell you that y'all 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:51.400 can have threesomes every other month. That's still not enough 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:54.840 for you. That's still not enough. How much pussy and 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:56.680 dick can you get? 0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:57.480 Girl? 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:02.120 How much until you yeah, well youa vagina would be 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:04.240 sore and I know your mouth would be fucking sore. 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:09.080 That's two things you eating. That's crazy like how I 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:13.600 want listen. I'm more interested in how often could you 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:17.000 do it? If every other month wasn't enough for you? 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:22.080 You must be an elite bisexual, A professional bisexual up there. 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:26.160 All right, girl, you need the train shit all right, 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:30.120 high as sex drive goddamn. 0:12:30.280 --> 0:12:30.720 All right. 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.960 But again, I'm not judging you. I'm just telling you, 0:12:35.000 --> 0:12:39.440 Oh girl, I ain't judging you. I'm just telling you 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:44.760 that man didn't want to do the shit, and then 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:47.440 you suckered him into doing it. You persuaded him, you 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:50.640 convinced him. Okay, he didn't want to leave you, you 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:52.800 said the first time y'all did it. He wasn't into her. 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:55.400 Well duh, Gina, you know what I'm saying. He wasn't 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:58.360 into that. He's not into that. He was just trying 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:00.720 to make you happy. I'm glad that you did see that. 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:04.120 So then you know what sacrifice and compromise is. He 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:08.120 was probably extremely uncomfortable, probably was trying to walk on eggs. 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:11.720 Chelsey probably was like, shit, I kind of feel like 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:14.400 I'm cheating in front of my wife, Like you know 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:16.480 what I'm saying. So it could have been a lot 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:18.600 of things going through his mind, anything going through his mine. 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:20.040 And you over there looking at her like, oh, I'm 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:22.319 about to sop her up like a baby butter biscuit. 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:26.439 You know, it's different with y'all, it's two different mindsets 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:29.400 at this first threesome right boom, I didn't wonder what 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:30.360 the fuck the girl was doing. 0:13:30.679 --> 0:13:32.920 Was the girl saying like, come on touch me, daddy? 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:33.400 Like? 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:36.560 What was she saying like, let me see you dig, daddy, 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:40.280 like you know in my crashawn voice, y'all let me 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:43.280 see your ding daddy, Like what was she saying? What 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:45.480 was her standpoint? But did she notice that he wasn't 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:48.680 really into her? And then like and then obviously it's 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:53.040 the same girl. Y'all used the same girl, you know. 0:13:53.120 --> 0:13:55.320 I don't know if that matters or not, or if 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:57.239 it would have been different if y'all would have alternated 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:00.880 different bitches out, But I I it's it's the same girl, 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:02.640 you know. So you gave him a chance to get 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:05.480 familiar with someone else. He got to know her, you know, 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:10.320 because you didn't say how long this, this this threesome 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:12.720 streak lasted with you, with you and your husband, But 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.440 you said months down the line, And if he was 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:18.160 giving you one every other month, I would say maybe, 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:20.680 y'all in the head four or five, I would say that. 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:22.600 But you're gonna let me know that once you update me, 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:24.640 because baby you're gonna have to hit me back and 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:25.720 let me know what's going on. 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:28.240 You don't need to tell a man yet. Girls A 0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:30.200 little sneaky as all right. 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:34.480 You didn't say anything the first time you saw that 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:36.320 he was really giving it to her. A couple months 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:38.080 down the line, you said, you saw that. 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:39.480 That was unusual to you. 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:41.760 You like, he's usually off to the side, you know, 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:44.720 he usually finished with me. This time he finished with her. 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:49.520 I stood back, I gave them the side. I why why, Deborah, 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:52.160 Why did you do that? This is the position you 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:56.040 put him in. You know, this is the position that like, literally, 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:57.680 I don't give up what he was sucking it from 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:01.000 the back. This is the position that you put him in. 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:06.720 You know, you ain't say nothing again. The last time 0:15:07.120 --> 0:15:09.800 was the last time, you said that. That's what really 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:13.120 broke the camel's back. That was the last straw again. 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:16.160 You said you felt left out, You felt like hold up, 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:18.880 like what's going on? So that prompted you to go snooping. 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:20.800 You said, you opened up an investigation of your own. 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:23.320 You went through the phone and found out that he 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:25.800 was messing with her by himself, that they were obviously 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:28.120 having sex without you. This is when a threesome becomes 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:32.080 a twosome and not the original two. Okay, now this 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:34.520 is what I want to know. Do you know the girl? 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:35.880 How well do you know the girl? 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:36.600 Is she a friend? 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:40.160 Is this somebody that you've had threesomes with before outside 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:42.360 of your husband or before your husband, not outside of 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:44.560 your husband, because you said you never never cheated so 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:46.400 before your husband. 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:48.680 Is this somebody? Is this like a like like a 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:49.960 regular for you? 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:50.200 Like? 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:53.040 Is this like one of your honeys? Like? Is this 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:55.640 you know? I got that term from my little sister. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:58.120 Is she your honey? 0:15:58.520 --> 0:15:58.640 Like? 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:00.600 Is she want to your friends? 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:02.800 We just need to know, you know what I'm saying 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:05.960 because I want to know what you said to her 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:09.560 because you haven't told your husband yet. 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.440 Do you even plan on confronting her? You know? 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.040 I guess that would depend on the relationship you two 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:22.560 have outside of you and your husband obviously, And you 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:25.120 said you found out the night before I went on 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:28.320 Breakfast Club and reported the Manietta and Neo's story. 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.359 That's crazy. That is definitely a coincidence. 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:33.440 I'm glad that you came to me with it, But 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:35.960 baby girl, you was dead wrong out the gate. You 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:38.000 were dead wrong out of the gate, and I know 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:39.880 a lot of people are probably going to disagree with me, 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:42.920 and I guarantee you the people that are disagreeing with 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:49.120 me are other bisexual people. But that's that's wrong, not 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:54.120 the fact that you're bisexual, the fact that you introduced 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:58.960 threesomism to your husband, who told you no, not once. 0:16:59.760 --> 0:17:01.600 I don't know how many times he told you, know, 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:03.360 but he told you no more than once. You just 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:05.959 told you told me he told you no once. He 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:08.919 told Joe asked no more than once, and he eventually 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:12.040 did it. He bit the bullet and fucking did it 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:15.720 for you. And then he was trying not to be 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:19.520 into it. And then he got acclimated to this girl, 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:22.640 sexually acclimated to this girl. He started learning her body. 0:17:22.920 --> 0:17:24.879 He started yeah, yeah, and that can happen. Y'all only 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:26.520 had sex maybe four or five times? I don't know, 0:17:26.560 --> 0:17:28.560 correct me. That's why I need a update. I know 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:31.560 y'all y'all had sex more than four times. I mean, 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:33.359 I know y'all had sex more than three times, so 0:17:33.359 --> 0:17:35.000 it had to be four and at the most five. 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:36.280 I know that. 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:39.919 And then when you write me back, I know you're 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.480 gonna tell me that I was right. But you can 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:45.399 learn a person's body and that and that, and those 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:48.520 small amounts of sessions, yes you can. 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:50.240 You know what I mean. 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:52.439 They wasn't quickies. I know, three somes wasn't no mother 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:54.480 fucking quikies. Y'all set this up. This was a whole 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:58.399 goddamn this was a whole production without the cameras. So 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:01.280 I know, y'all were having sex for quite a while. 0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:03.960 I mean, it's three people having a nut. So come on, 0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:06.760 we know how this works, okay, And I watched a 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:08.480 lot of threesome points, so I know it ain't no 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:11.000 quick wainm bam, Thank you, ma'am. You know, unless are 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:13.479 everybody ready, you know, unless everybody got something to do. 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:17.200 He learned her body. That's what he did. He became 0:18:17.240 --> 0:18:20.760 attracted to her, That's what he did. He started wanting 0:18:20.840 --> 0:18:25.560 to know more about her. That's what happens when someone 0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:31.240 is introduced intimately to somebody repeatedly, even in friendships. 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:33.520 Think about it. When you go to school. 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:35.120 You can go to school and say I ain't gonna 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:37.240 fuck with nobody in there all day, Like I don't care, 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:39.840 I'm gonna go to the school. I ain't fucking with nobody. 0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:44.080 You get there, you got the same homeroom every morning. 0:18:44.200 --> 0:18:46.280 Maybe a class is switched, the class is very the 0:18:46.280 --> 0:18:51.600 period is very okay, But that same homeroom every day 0:18:51.800 --> 0:18:55.000 is the same, same time, same teacher, unless, of course, 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:57.840 there is a substitute. But it's the same every day. 0:18:58.080 --> 0:19:01.359 The same students are in the homeroom class. You know, 0:19:01.480 --> 0:19:05.240 they may switch with the other classes that you take, 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:08.520 the other majors, you know, the other but everybody's homeroom 0:19:08.560 --> 0:19:11.640 is always the same. You go to school five days 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:14.520 a week, you ain't gonna talk to somebody every day. 0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:19.240 But if you're with the same people every day for 0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:24.639