1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: and The Black Effect, And just like that, we're back 3 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,920 Speaker 1: with another carefully reckless episode. Welcome back, y'all. I want 4 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: to say thank y'all so much for hanging in there 5 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: with me. I'll be talking my shit and helping y'all 6 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: with y'all mess. But I don't need no degree to 7 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: do this right, right, So we're gonna jump straight into this. 8 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: This is a very very juicy story and it's very 9 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: interesting because I had went on Breakfast Club like a 10 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: week ago, and you know, I do just fix my 11 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: mess also on Breakfast Club as well on BT y'all 12 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: need to catch that whenever I'm up there. And it 13 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: was a very interesting story because I reported on something 14 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: and actually I did rumor report and one of my 15 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: fans said that that is what made her comfortable enough 16 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: to come and tell us her story. 17 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: So I will share it. 18 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: And she did say for obvious reasons, she's not going 19 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: to send a voice not in obviously our voice is 20 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: very unique and her man may listen to my podcast. 21 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: So here we go, Hey, Jess, So after hearing your 22 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: recent fix my Mess on the Breakfast Club, I am 23 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: not ashamed to come to you with my story anymore. 24 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: I've been married to my husband for four years, and 25 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 1: when we first got together, I did tell him that 26 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: I was bisexual. Okay, At first, he did not really 27 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: care as much because we both wanted each other so bad. 28 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 2: He felt as if he could be everything that I needed. 29 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: All as time went on, sex got just a little boring, 30 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 1: hence why I'm bisexual. Okay. So she is one of 31 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: those people, Okay, I got you. You one of those 32 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 1: that you know sex can get born with just a man, 33 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: So you want a man. 34 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 2: And a woman. Oh yeah, okay, miss greedy. 35 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: Not taking anything away from my husband, I think I 36 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: was just kind of missing that other part of what 37 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm used to. 38 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 2: Oh, okay, all the bisexualness. Okay. 39 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: So I went to him and asked him if we 40 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: could introduce having threesomes every once in a while, just 41 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: to keep the spark in our sex life, because I 42 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: would never cheat on him. Never, and you put never 43 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: in all caps. So I believe you, girl, I believe you. 44 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 1: At first, he was like, hell no, but he also 45 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: didn't want me to start creeping around on him. While 46 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: not wanting to lose me at the same time. So 47 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: he eventually agreed to a threesome every other month. Okay, 48 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: that's a bit goddamn much. At first, I wasn't really 49 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: happy with that because that is not enough for me. 50 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,959 Speaker 1: How the fuck goddamn girl? But I said, shit, I'll 51 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: take it because I didn't want to lose my husband either. 52 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: Good girl should now to take what you can get. 53 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: I beg it's gonna be shoesy and shit, and I 54 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: figured if he's compromising for me, I damn sure can 55 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: compromise for him. 56 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: Yes, spoken like a true wife. That is good. 57 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: You're supposed to compromise and a marriage, y'all. So boom, 58 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 1: we did it. The first time was great. I can 59 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: tell he was just there to make me happy because 60 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: he wasn't really into her. Okay, so the first time 61 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: was great for you, boo. Okay, yeah, but he was 62 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: there to just make you happy. Okay, he wasn't really 63 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 1: into her. Months down the line, out of nowhere, I 64 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,839 Speaker 1: swear Jess, he had started really giving it to her 65 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: this time, and for a minute I had to stand 66 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: back and sidey them both. Okay, I would have done 67 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: the same thing he usually would finished with me, but 68 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: this time he finished with her? 69 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 2: Did he shoot the damn club up? Like what you 70 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 2: mean he'd be finishing with you? So what? 71 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't need to all right, I know what 72 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: finished me now, man let me get out of that context. 73 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: So of course I let time go past, and I 74 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: didn't say anything, why what the fuck? Because I had 75 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: just figured he was starting to like it, and this 76 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: is something that I wanted, So I didn't want to 77 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: ruin anything. Okay, But the last time was the final straw. 78 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 2: Oh shit. He had started showing her a little too much. 79 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: Intimate attention for me while we were in the act, 80 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: and I felt kind of left out. So of course, 81 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: after we finished, I started investigating myself and I started snooping, 82 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: and I discovered that them two had started fucking around 83 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: without me. Oh, Jess, you're never going to believe when 84 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: I found this out. The night before you went on 85 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club and reported that Manetta in Neo's story, which 86 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 1: wasn't very similar, but still the whole threesome thing got me. 87 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:21,799 Speaker 1: I still haven't even told him that I know yet. 88 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:25,040 Speaker 2: Oh shit, okay, so you're telling me you giving me 89 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 2: the exclusive? 90 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 3: You giving me the exclusive? 91 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 2: Oh my god? 92 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 3: Okay, Oh my god. 93 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 2: That's nice, y'all. I'm like, okay, I love y'all so much. 94 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I still haven't even told him that 95 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 1: I know yet. The thing is, I love my husband 96 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: so very much and will literally do anything for him. 97 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: But jess what should I do right now? Because I'd 98 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 1: hate to have to kill this nigga? Damn to death, 99 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: d's part right? Fix my mess? 100 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 2: Babe, this bad? 101 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: She said, to death. Do what's part right? Yeah, but 102 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: you can't be the one killing them. That's not way. 103 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: Why y'all say those voves. It is not that, Oh 104 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: my god, I'm supposed to just die natural causes. Bitch, 105 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: you can't kill you, all right, Okay, that's what that 106 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: vow means. All right, all jokes that decide now. First 107 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: and foremost, I want to say, I'm happy that you 108 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 1: decided to come to me with this story. 109 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 2: I'm happy that you are not ashamed. 110 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: And let's just say this, no one should feel ashamed 111 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: of something that they that they are going through, or 112 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: that they've went through in a marriage and a friendship, 113 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: with family, with coworkers at work. I mean, these are 114 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: all just living situations. And what I mean by living 115 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: is we live life. We go through things every day, 116 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: every week, every month, every year of our lives, like 117 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: we all go through things. So don't ever be ashamed 118 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 1: of any story, you know, unless you be fucking animals. 119 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: And that's one thing I will never fucking I will 120 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: never understand that. Don't be fucking no animals. If you do, 121 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to fix your mess. Motherfucker. You better 122 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: not come in here telling me that you fuck with 123 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: no animals. But no, back to my girl, Back to 124 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: my girl, all right? Who you ain't gonna like what 125 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, but you kind of already can figure 126 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,359 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna say, because you saw what I said 127 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 1: about the shit, you know, when Manyetta had reported her 128 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: story and I re reported it on Breakfast Club, and 129 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: that wasn't just fixed my mess, that was rumor report 130 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: bull And it's totally fine. 131 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: It's all the same. 132 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 1: You can't open the door to threesomes to a man 133 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: who didn't want anything to do with it at first, 134 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: and then you done pulled his arm and he went 135 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: through the door with you, and then now he has rules. 136 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 2: Now you sighed eyeing. 137 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: Him because he started sleeping with the girl outside of 138 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: you you know what I'm saying outside the threesome deal 139 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 1: that y'all had, if y'all ain't never had no goddamn 140 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: contract I'm talking about written and signed, notarized and all 141 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: that shit. 142 00:06:55,560 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 2: You can't say a damn thing. I'm so sorry, like. 143 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: I just and now mind you, No, this is not 144 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: professional help. 145 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 2: This is experienced. 146 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: Help, a person with experience. No, I've never been in 147 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: a situation where I would ever even have a threesome. 148 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: You know why, because then I will be looking for 149 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: somebody to fix my mess, just like you. You know 150 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: that's not good. That's not good when you open the 151 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: door to share yourself or to share your mate, share 152 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: your significant other. This is your husband. This ain't your 153 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 1: fucking boyfriend either. This is your husband. You met him, 154 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: you told him you was bisexual. 155 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 2: You know. 156 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: Now, we could say that was a red flag for 157 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: him all day, but it's really not. That's just him 158 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: accepting you for being who you are. He could have 159 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: said no, I ain't fucking with you and just went 160 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: the other way. That would have been his preference. You know, 161 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say that. He just would have been 162 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: a judging, a judging person just for leaving you right 163 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: there right, you know, right then in there. But obviously, 164 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: like you said, y'all both wanted each other so much, 165 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: he probably really did think that he could be everything 166 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: that you needed. You know what I'm saying, then, a 167 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: lot of people, I want you to I want y'all 168 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: to understand this now. 169 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 2: This is not something that I'm just saying. 170 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: This is something that I see and that I know 171 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: a lot of bisexual people are going to agree with 172 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: me because this is serious. A lot of men don't 173 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: even take y'all serious. A lot of men don't take 174 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: bisexual women serious because I hear a lot of men say, 175 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: like all bitches is gay, or a lot of women 176 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: is gay. Everybody like a little women. I mean, it's 177 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: like whatever, But y'all really still come back to that 178 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: dick though, Like I got a lot of homeboys and brothers, 179 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 1: and we see it in the media, we see it 180 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 1: all the time. Nobody like that's the most lenient department 181 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: of the LGBT. Nobody really likes to take the women 182 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 1: serious because they feel like y'all just playing around. 183 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 2: Bisexual is a serious thing. It's a very serious sexuality. 184 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: And I just don't think I'm not gonna say he 185 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: didn't take it serious enough, but I think yeah, he 186 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: probably thought that it would change, that he could change 187 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: who you were, meeting all your needs. But he can't 188 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: be a woman, you know, he can only be your man. 189 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: So he's only fulfilling half of your fantasy or no shit, 190 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you gotta be careful with because it ain't 191 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: a fantasy. He's only fulfilling half of what you're used to. 192 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: Like you said, I'll say it just like you said it, 193 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: I do apologize. It's not a fantasy. It's your life 194 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: and it's very real. So he's fulfilling only half of 195 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 1: your fantasy. Okay, fuck out decided again, that's some bullshit that. 196 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: Now think about the fucking ludicrous song. You know, see 197 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: what's your fantast to say? Remember that fuck man my bed, 198 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: all right, so that's what it luted. 199 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: Don't see me? I like that song. So yeah, he 200 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: was only fulfilling half of what you were used to. 201 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: So now so you were feeling like it was something missing, 202 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: and you went on ahead and you asked him, now 203 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: listen the first time is said no, you should have 204 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: taken that and said, okay, husband, that's it. No, let 205 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: me find another way to compromise that. Let's see if 206 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: we can compromise another way. 207 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 2: Bring some toys. 208 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: In the fact, I don't know if toys don't really 209 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: get you popping off like this shit. I know, ain't 210 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with the little rose. You could grab the 211 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: rose and put it on the highest power. Because let 212 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: me tell you that that that one speed is better 213 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: than any human beings tongue. 214 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 2: I'm telling you that one that God like that one, 215 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: that's the one that's the last one right before it 216 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 2: go off. And if you would have had that girl, 217 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 2: what what you wouldn't need a husband or wife. 218 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: But we ain't gonna we're not gonna promote that. Hold up, 219 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: Hold up, I know this shit getting good. But listen 220 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you 221 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 1: love me, you'll listen, all right. The man said no. 222 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: He said no the first time. Like I said, you 223 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: should have let that shit go right there. 224 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 2: You ask them again. Now you didn't tell me you 225 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 2: asked them again. 226 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: But I know if he said hell no, he ain't 227 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: turn around and say hell yeah. You had to keep 228 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 1: asking him. And because you said eventually he agreed. So 229 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: I know that you you like that's why I said, 230 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:13,559 Speaker 1: That's why I made that reference. You pulled his arm 231 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 1: through the door, and he didn't want to lose you. 232 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: And he also you told me that you would never 233 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: cheat on him. Now you told me you would never 234 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 1: cheat on him, But he probably wanted to please you 235 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: so bad that he'd rather you not creep around. 236 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 2: Exactly what you said. 237 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: He didn't want you to creep around, and he didn't 238 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: want you to be feeling like you are missing something. 239 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: And I already ain't. I already ain't tolerating this threesome shit. 240 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 2: You know. 241 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 1: I let me, let me try to give her something, 242 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 1: let me let me try to compromise with her. And 243 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: then he turns around and tell tell you that y'all 244 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: can have threesomes every other month. That's still not enough 245 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 1: for you. That's still not enough. How much pussy and 246 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 1: dick can you get? 247 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 3: Girl? 248 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: How much until you yeah, well youa vagina would be 249 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: sore and I know your mouth would be fucking sore. 250 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 1: That's two things you eating. That's crazy like how I 251 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: want listen. I'm more interested in how often could you 252 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: do it? If every other month wasn't enough for you? 253 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: You must be an elite bisexual, A professional bisexual up there. 254 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: All right, girl, you need the train shit all right, 255 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: high as sex drive goddamn. 256 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 2: All right. 257 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 1: But again, I'm not judging you. I'm just telling you, 258 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: Oh girl, I ain't judging you. I'm just telling you 259 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: that man didn't want to do the shit, and then 260 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 1: you suckered him into doing it. You persuaded him, you 261 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: convinced him. Okay, he didn't want to leave you, you 262 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: said the first time y'all did it. He wasn't into her. 263 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: Well duh, Gina, you know what I'm saying. He wasn't 264 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 1: into that. He's not into that. He was just trying 265 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 1: to make you happy. I'm glad that you did see that. 266 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: So then you know what sacrifice and compromise is. He 267 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 1: was probably extremely uncomfortable, probably was trying to walk on eggs. 268 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: Chelsey probably was like, shit, I kind of feel like 269 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: I'm cheating in front of my wife, Like you know 270 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So it could have been a lot 271 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: of things going through his mind, anything going through his mine. 272 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: And you over there looking at her like, oh, I'm 273 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 1: about to sop her up like a baby butter biscuit. 274 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:26,439 Speaker 1: You know, it's different with y'all, it's two different mindsets 275 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: at this first threesome right boom, I didn't wonder what 276 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: the fuck the girl was doing. 277 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 2: Was the girl saying like, come on touch me, daddy? 278 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 3: Like? 279 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: What was she saying like, let me see you dig, daddy, 280 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: like you know in my crashawn voice, y'all let me 281 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: see your ding daddy, Like what was she saying? What 282 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: was her standpoint? But did she notice that he wasn't 283 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 1: really into her? And then like and then obviously it's 284 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: the same girl. Y'all used the same girl, you know. 285 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if that matters or not, or if 286 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:57,239 Speaker 1: it would have been different if y'all would have alternated 287 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: different bitches out, But I I it's it's the same girl, 288 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 1: you know. So you gave him a chance to get 289 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: familiar with someone else. He got to know her, you know, 290 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: because you didn't say how long this, this this threesome 291 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 1: streak lasted with you, with you and your husband, But 292 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 1: you said months down the line, And if he was 293 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: giving you one every other month, I would say maybe, 294 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: y'all in the head four or five, I would say that. 295 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 1: But you're gonna let me know that once you update me, 296 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 1: because baby you're gonna have to hit me back and 297 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: let me know what's going on. 298 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 2: You don't need to tell a man yet. Girls A 299 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 2: little sneaky as all right. 300 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: You didn't say anything the first time you saw that 301 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 1: he was really giving it to her. A couple months 302 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 1: down the line, you said, you saw that. 303 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 2: That was unusual to you. 304 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: You like, he's usually off to the side, you know, 305 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: he usually finished with me. This time he finished with her. 306 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: I stood back, I gave them the side. I why why, Deborah, 307 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: Why did you do that? This is the position you 308 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: put him in. You know, this is the position that like, literally, 309 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: I don't give up what he was sucking it from 310 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 1: the back. This is the position that you put him in. 311 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: You know, you ain't say nothing again. The last time 312 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: was the last time, you said that. That's what really 313 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: broke the camel's back. That was the last straw again. 314 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: You said you felt left out, You felt like hold up, 315 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: like what's going on? So that prompted you to go snooping. 316 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: You said, you opened up an investigation of your own. 317 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: You went through the phone and found out that he 318 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 1: was messing with her by himself, that they were obviously 319 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 1: having sex without you. This is when a threesome becomes 320 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: a twosome and not the original two. Okay, now this 321 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: is what I want to know. Do you know the girl? 322 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: How well do you know the girl? 323 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 2: Is she a friend? 324 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: Is this somebody that you've had threesomes with before outside 325 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 1: of your husband or before your husband, not outside of 326 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: your husband, because you said you never never cheated so 327 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: before your husband. 328 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 2: Is this somebody? Is this like a like like a 329 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 2: regular for you? 330 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: Like? 331 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 2: Is this like one of your honeys? Like? Is this 332 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 2: you know? I got that term from my little sister. 333 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: Is she your honey? 334 00:15:58,520 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: Like? 335 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 2: Is she want to your friends? 336 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: We just need to know, you know what I'm saying 337 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 1: because I want to know what you said to her 338 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: because you haven't told your husband yet. 339 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 2: Do you even plan on confronting her? You know? 340 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: I guess that would depend on the relationship you two 341 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: have outside of you and your husband obviously, And you 342 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: said you found out the night before I went on 343 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club and reported the Manietta and Neo's story. 344 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,359 Speaker 2: That's crazy. That is definitely a coincidence. 345 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you came to me with it, But 346 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: baby girl, you was dead wrong out the gate. You 347 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: were dead wrong out of the gate, and I know 348 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: a lot of people are probably going to disagree with me, 349 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: and I guarantee you the people that are disagreeing with 350 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: me are other bisexual people. But that's that's wrong, not 351 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: the fact that you're bisexual, the fact that you introduced 352 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: threesomism to your husband, who told you no, not once. 353 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: I don't know how many times he told you, know, 354 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 1: but he told you no more than once. You just 355 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:05,959 Speaker 1: told you told me he told you no once. He 356 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:08,919 Speaker 1: told Joe asked no more than once, and he eventually 357 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: did it. He bit the bullet and fucking did it 358 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: for you. And then he was trying not to be 359 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: into it. And then he got acclimated to this girl, 360 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,640 Speaker 1: sexually acclimated to this girl. He started learning her body. 361 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 1: He started yeah, yeah, and that can happen. Y'all only 362 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: had sex maybe four or five times? I don't know, 363 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: correct me. That's why I need a update. I know 364 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: y'all y'all had sex more than four times. I mean, 365 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 1: I know y'all had sex more than three times, so 366 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: it had to be four and at the most five. 367 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 2: I know that. 368 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:39,919 Speaker 1: And then when you write me back, I know you're 369 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: gonna tell me that I was right. But you can 370 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 1: learn a person's body and that and that, and those 371 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: small amounts of sessions, yes you can. 372 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 373 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,439 Speaker 1: They wasn't quickies. I know, three somes wasn't no mother 374 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: fucking quikies. Y'all set this up. This was a whole 375 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 1: goddamn this was a whole production without the cameras. So 376 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: I know, y'all were having sex for quite a while. 377 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it's three people having a nut. So come on, 378 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 1: we know how this works, okay, And I watched a 379 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: lot of threesome points, so I know it ain't no 380 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: quick wainm bam, Thank you, ma'am. You know, unless are 381 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,479 Speaker 1: everybody ready, you know, unless everybody got something to do. 382 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: He learned her body. That's what he did. He became 383 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: attracted to her, That's what he did. He started wanting 384 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: to know more about her. That's what happens when someone 385 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: is introduced intimately to somebody repeatedly, even in friendships. 386 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: Think about it. When you go to school. 387 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 1: You can go to school and say I ain't gonna 388 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 1: fuck with nobody in there all day, Like I don't care, 389 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to the school. I ain't fucking with nobody. 390 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: You get there, you got the same homeroom every morning. 391 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 1: Maybe a class is switched, the class is very the 392 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 1: period is very okay, But that same homeroom every day 393 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 1: is the same, same time, same teacher, unless, of course, 394 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: there is a substitute. But it's the same every day. 395 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 1: The same students are in the homeroom class. You know, 396 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: they may switch with the other classes that you take, 397 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: the other majors, you know, the other but everybody's homeroom 398 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 1: is always the same. You go to school five days 399 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: a week, you ain't gonna talk to somebody every day. 400 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 1: But if you're with the same people every day for 401 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 1: a long period of time, you are going to talk 402 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: to someone. You're going to get to know someone. Even 403 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 1: the unusual kids in a class, the ones that the 404 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: introverts in the class, the ones that don't ever want 405 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: to fucking talk to nobody, the ones that are the 406 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 1: main fucking kids, the bullies that everybody finds at least 407 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 1: one person that they start being cool with that they 408 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 1: start getting to know, same as your husband did with 409 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 1: this girl, And now your husband has a mistress whole 410 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 1: time because of you, because of you. No, you didn't 411 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 1: have a gun up to his head. Yeah, he could 412 00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: have kept saying no, but you could. You would have 413 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: kept aving, you would have kept asking, and he did 414 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: what any wholesome husband would have done, tried to keep 415 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,959 Speaker 1: his wife. A lot of people gonna disagree, but it's 416 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,720 Speaker 1: all right, y'all. Don't like the truth. A lot of 417 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 1: people don't like the motherfucking truth. That's why a lot 418 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 1: of people don't like Jess hilarious right now, okay, as 419 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: they really don't like the fucking truth. And the truth 420 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 1: is you should have never projected your wide range of 421 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:28,400 Speaker 1: sexuality onto your man. 422 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 2: That's what you don't do. That's what you don't do. 423 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,080 Speaker 1: You could be by all day, up and down, but 424 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 1: do that shit by yourself. That's what you should have 425 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: been asking your husband. Look, do you think I can 426 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: go have a girl of my own every other month? 427 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 1: Can I go sleep with a girl? 428 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 2: But you want to? Oh no, you can't say that 429 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 2: because you want it both of them at the same time? 430 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 2: Or did you? You gotta let me know? Could it? 431 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: Do you? Do you regret it? That's what I want 432 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 1: to know. Do you regret introducing threesomes to your husband? 433 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: Do you regret making him say yes after no so 434 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,439 Speaker 1: many times? Do you because you can't. I should do 435 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 1: something like that and then give him rules, just like 436 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 1: back when I did Couple's Retreat when Michael Blaxon's fiance Ryder. 437 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,199 Speaker 1: But they actually had a contract like it was in 438 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: writing and it was notarized and both signed by both parties. 439 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 1: You are allowed to have one side bitch a month. 440 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: Some of the most craziest shit I've ever heard in 441 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 1: my life. But it's real, it's real, and it happens 442 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 1: something that's a lot of people's preference. Now, while Ryder 443 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: was saying it wasn't her preference, she just wanted to 444 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 1: do what would make her husband happy because she didn't 445 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: want to have to deal with him sleeping around on her. 446 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 2: So as long as she know. 447 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 1: It's good, but it's still not good because it still 448 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: fucked her up mentally. It hurts her if you go 449 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 1: back and watch season one of that shit, Fuck who 450 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 1: I was with, Fuck my situation. 451 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 2: Her situation was the worst. 452 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: I felt bad for her to a certain extent because 453 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: she actually bought this to him. She actually did open 454 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 1: the door for it. Now he already already was with it. 455 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: This is something that my blackson always and he's talked 456 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: about it. So I'm not only here telling his business. 457 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,880 Speaker 1: Shit is all over the world. But Ryder just compromised 458 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,640 Speaker 1: and was like, okay, she gave him wiggle room. 459 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 2: She did convey to us. Yeah, I like women, but 460 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 2: I don't want to have to. I don't. 461 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't need that to keep the spark of my marriage. 462 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: I want my husband. I'm okay with just my husband. 463 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 1: He's not okay with just me. So that's why I 464 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: introduced just giving, you know, giving him, you know, a 465 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 1: contract stating that he can have a side bitch that that, 466 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 1: you know, one per month, you know, when he's on 467 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 1: the road and I'm doing my thing, you know. 468 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: I you know, it to each their own. 469 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and 470 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 1: then we'll be right back. Now, you're sitting at home 471 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: right now, try to figure out do you have to 472 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 1: kill your husband because he's cheating on you. But you 473 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,400 Speaker 1: gave him all the rope to do so, you gave 474 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: him all the tools to do so. You gave him 475 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: every reason to cheat. You let him explore another woman's body. 476 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:05,920 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 477 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:12,480 Speaker 1: You literally introduced him to another woman's body. Even with 478 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 1: you for four years, he know what yours is like, 479 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: but introducing him to another woman's body, it gives him 480 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: a sense of novelty. Now gives him a sense of freshness. 481 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 1: Not saying you stale, but it's something new. Something new 482 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,360 Speaker 1: is always better than something old or older. I need 483 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 1: you to understand that when you want these threesomes, bull 484 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: I'm not telling you not to be bisexual. I'm telling 485 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,239 Speaker 1: you to get a fucking divorce. If this is what 486 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna need to do, you understand what I'm saying. 487 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 1: I don't want you to think I'm coming at your sexuality. Listen, 488 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,439 Speaker 1: it's not me. I can't tell people how to live 489 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,239 Speaker 1: their life, and I don't want nobody telling me how 490 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 1: to live mine. But you come into me advice, and 491 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: I'm telling you that's not that. I want to make 492 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 1: it clear that it's not the fact that you're bisexual. 493 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 2: It's the fact that. 494 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:06,439 Speaker 1: You married a man who felt like that would change 495 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 1: when he married you. You introduced threesomes, and he got 496 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,679 Speaker 1: a little happy, went a little far and started fucking 497 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 1: with this girl without you, And then now you feel 498 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: portrayed so when you tell him, you know, he's gonna 499 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 1: say that, right, He's gonna say everything that I'm saying 500 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: to you. So I'm kind of happy that you didn't 501 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 1: that you didn't tell him yet, because maybe listening to 502 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,679 Speaker 1: it first from another woman will help you understand it 503 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,400 Speaker 1: better when. 504 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 2: He tells you, you. 505 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: Know, and hopefully he doesn't blame it all on you, 506 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 1: because nigga, you could have said, all right, we done 507 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 1: with this shit at any time, but this is to 508 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: make my wife happy, and this is what you wanted, 509 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 1: you know, like you said you saw the red flag 510 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: at first, like, oh shit, the first time you mus's 511 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: down the line you're saying when you started, hold up, 512 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 1: what the fuck I'm side on y'all? 513 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 2: Back when you had to side on him? You should 514 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 2: have asked him that night. 515 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:03,199 Speaker 1: Look look, look, look, look, I know like this is 516 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: what I wanted, but I see like you're really really interested. 517 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,679 Speaker 1: Now is it still safe to do this or are 518 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 1: you starting to like her? Or whatever? I respect whatever 519 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,199 Speaker 1: you say, because yes, I did introduce this, but we 520 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: have an agreement, like you know, what is it? Do 521 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: you like her to? Should we pick another girl? Or 522 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: should we just stop doing this shit? Totally, but you 523 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: were still thinking about yourself. You were thinking about yourself, Mama. 524 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: After a while, you probably didn't want him to do it, 525 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: but you still wanted to be out here, you know, 526 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 1: not out here, but you know, fulfilling your other half 527 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,679 Speaker 1: of what you're used to, the other half of what 528 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: you're used to. But I'm gonna need you to update me, 529 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 1: all right, because listen this and took up my whole episode. 530 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 1: I love it, and I love you for coming out 531 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: telling me. I want everybody to be comfortable enough to 532 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 1: come to me. Sometimes you're not gonna like what I say, 533 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 1: and that's okay. That's just like my son. Sometimes my 534 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,119 Speaker 1: son don't like what I say. My parents don't like 535 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 1: what I say. Sometimes my boyfriend don't like what I say. 536 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 1: My little sister they don't like Sometimes I don't like 537 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: what the fuck I say. You know, but the truth hurts. 538 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,679 Speaker 1: The truth is not always supposed to be comfortable. And 539 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 1: just like that, we come to the end of another 540 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,920 Speaker 1: CAFOL reckless episode. Y'all, that was a good one today. 541 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 1: That was a good one. 542 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,120 Speaker 2: I hope this actually helps a lot of y'all out 543 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 2: there learn. 544 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 1: Maybe if both of y'all don't like threesomes, maybe y'all 545 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:21,719 Speaker 1: shouldn't know them. 546 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yah, yeah yeah. 547 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 1: I think if both of y'all don't have a threesome 548 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: history more than five years, I don't think that y'all 549 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 1: should do it, because then, you know, insecurities build, and 550 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:36,200 Speaker 1: then it's it's so much. 551 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:36,919 Speaker 2: I know. 552 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 1: I know a woman that shot and killed her husband 553 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: because he started having sex with somebody else that they 554 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 1: were having threesomes with outside of them, outside of you know, 555 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 1: the threesome. 556 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 2: He started cheating on her with the girl. She shot 557 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 2: and killed her husband. You know what I'm saying? Like that. 558 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 1: I saw that on snapped. Yeah, I watched iDTV. The 559 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,400 Speaker 1: shit shit is real, Shit is real, Shit can get real. 560 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: So we y'all play with people's hearts and y'all bringing 561 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: all this extra shit into you know you love life 562 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: and shit. Man. 563 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, marriage is different. 564 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: Marriage is very much different than just run around across 565 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 1: somebody boyfriend and your girlfriend and shit like that. Not 566 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 1: saying don't take your relationship serious, but listen, marriage that's different. 567 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 2: That's different. That's a covenant, that's a contract. 568 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:27,679 Speaker 1: Legal bind, legal bind, you legally bind it with somebody 569 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: till death do y'all part you been not killing man shit, 570 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,359 Speaker 1: kill all this threesome shit and get back at me 571 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 1: and in my deepest band boys, peace. Talk to y'all 572 00:27:36,680 --> 00:28:50,959 Speaker 1: next week. Can't Belle Reckless is a production of iHeart 573 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 1: Radio and The Black Effect. 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