Speaker 1: Hello, Welcome to another episode of Club Shay Shay. I
Speaker 1: am your host, Shannon Sharp. I'm also the propriud of
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Speaker 1: He's about to break down her cash commandments, the one
Speaker 1: the only cash doll.
Speaker 2: G go.
Speaker 1: Please please, Katie.
Speaker 3: As women as rules, we need to stand by, stand
Speaker 3: for sumna, fall and love one. Never let a nigga
Speaker 3: fuck you want more than once to anybody? Oh you bread,
Speaker 3: do not accept the crumbsmemb. But you can never tell
Speaker 3: these everything to day. She called yoursel Tomorrow she ain't
Speaker 3: to me money to the side. Don't let no leeve
Speaker 3: you dry, send no business. If they say yourself, you
Speaker 3: better ride hit the family first with that in front
Speaker 3: and everything they hadn't on yourself. If you gonna roll
Speaker 3: the banks on anything, any points to be made, don't
Speaker 3: be scared to prove it.
Speaker 2: And you better look good when your dude on how
Speaker 2: to move out here.
Speaker 3: And you know this shit did ugly. I had the
Speaker 3: bitch to me the thirty years to claim to love me.
Speaker 2: I went through.
Speaker 3: Tell he shit if that's to be kicked up the comfy.
Speaker 3: You see how hard I grind, little bitch, don't ever
Speaker 3: call me lovey. You buck the nigga good enough, and
Speaker 3: he gonna think he on you. The broth was usually
Speaker 3: insecure or riches trying to control you. That's why it's
Speaker 3: always best.
Speaker 2: To choose the one that's really layal because.
Speaker 3: Money come and go, but it's some shit you can't teach.
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna always separate the hustles from the leeches.
Speaker 3: The loudest is the weak is given by what they screaming.
Speaker 3: And don't be metrn. She will holdt in no way
Speaker 3: be relliant in that lane she because that right there
Speaker 3: got no place.
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, Oh my goodness. Yeah, come on
Speaker 1: over here. We gotta get on the cage.
Speaker 2: With that one.
Speaker 1: Come on, come on, come on.
Speaker 4: All my life, grinding all my life, sacrifice hustle Pat Price.
Speaker 2: Want a slice? Got the brother Geys to swap all
Speaker 2: my life. I've been grinding all my life, all my life, grinding.
Speaker 4: All my life, sacrifice, hustle Pa Price one slice, got
Speaker 4: the brother ges swap all my life.
Speaker 1: I've been grinding all my life. I want to personally
Speaker 1: thank you for performing your hit song Cash Commandments, off
Speaker 1: your album The Last Doll on Club Shah. I really
Speaker 1: really appreciate that.
Speaker 2: I appreciate you having me.
Speaker 1: I want to toast you. I don't know you. This
Speaker 1: is my personal kanyac oh Man. Just just a little just.
Speaker 2: For you.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: You know I'm Champagne campaign.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's what's up.
Speaker 2: So I appreciate you, but for you for having me.
Speaker 1: To the successful rapper, singer, artist, mother, yes, entrepreneur. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much, Cash Captors.
Speaker 2: I left a little bit, but it's cool.
Speaker 1: Dang, I ain't know you. I thought you were just
Speaker 1: gonna take a little sip, but okay, I said, all right,
Speaker 1: let's get into a cash Cash Commandments. In the Cash
Speaker 1: Commandments you left off rules that women should live by?
Speaker 1: Were these rules? Because I think Biggie had the ten
Speaker 1: Crack Commandments? So is that summer? That can you kind
Speaker 1: of playing off that?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, that was that was the inspiration.
Speaker 1: Okay, So let me ask you this. If women were
Speaker 1: to live by these rules, how much better or how
Speaker 1: better would I caught you be?
Speaker 2: I mean, who will have less toxic relationships? I feel like.
Speaker 3: Up friendships, you know, having it would be less animosity,
Speaker 3: you know, I think it's always going to be something,
Speaker 3: but it'll just be a little bit more peaceful because
Speaker 3: now you have these rules in your head to know
Speaker 3: to live by that you kind of like dodging the.
Speaker 2: Bullet, right, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just throw caught you like, damn the rules.
Speaker 3: Sometime you get like that, And I ain't mad at
Speaker 3: that at all because even when you do that, you
Speaker 3: still learn.
Speaker 2: The lesson behind it.
Speaker 1: So all right, your first commandment you says, never let
Speaker 1: a dude mess over you more than once. What do
Speaker 1: you mean by that?
Speaker 2: If a nigga over you, like not just cheating, but
Speaker 2: life over you?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 3: Once you let a man over you, he's going to
Speaker 3: continue to do it. That's the worst over you is
Speaker 3: the worst. So once he's done the worst for you,
Speaker 3: it's over because now you're gonna be a doormat.
Speaker 2: That's what I feel like.
Speaker 1: What's the one thing? So what what would cash doll?
Speaker 1: Let's slide? What's kd gonna let slide less?
Speaker 2: Ship slide? Let it make a slide slid. We ain't
Speaker 2: doing none of that. We're doing none of that. We're
Speaker 2: addressing everything right then and there damn what No, I
Speaker 2: give you grace, but I ain't letting you slide.
Speaker 1: So you're gonna check it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna check it right there. Don't do that.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: But once you do it again, it's over.
Speaker 1: Oh so you so you got him? Great? You'll give
Speaker 1: him one time a one time give grace? Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I get great.
Speaker 2: You don't we learning each other?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: Yes, So I'm letting you know that ain't gonna fly.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: So if you gonna do it again and you try
Speaker 3: to get like creative with it and try to sneak,
Speaker 3: you're done.
Speaker 1: Okay. The song saying you had safe for the dude,
Speaker 1: So good that he thought he owned you. What you
Speaker 1: mean by that?
Speaker 2: He said, I did not say that, Shannon.
Speaker 1: You did. That's what you I just heard it. I
Speaker 1: heard it. I heard it. I said what I.
Speaker 2: Said, you nigga good enough, and he would think he
Speaker 2: owned you. Broke was usually insecure. The rich ones try
Speaker 2: to control you, so you.
Speaker 1: Really believe that.
Speaker 2: You don't.
Speaker 1: I've been broke. I wasn't in secure when I was broke.
Speaker 1: I was just broke because everybody else had it broke.
Speaker 3: After that, I said, that's why you always keep the
Speaker 3: one that's real and loyal, because money come and go.
Speaker 2: But it's some shit you can't teach.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: So a lame and secure, broke nigga, Yes, he's insecure.
Speaker 3: A rich that never had nothing finally got it. He
Speaker 3: think he controlled you with his money, and when you
Speaker 3: got a real one, it's some shit you can't teach.
Speaker 1: But do you feel like, see it's hard, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be hard to control you cash because you got your own.
Speaker 1: So you're looking at it through a different prism than
Speaker 1: a lot of other women.
Speaker 3: I mean, some some things get beside there, something like
Speaker 3: they kind of forget, like okay, like I could date
Speaker 3: a guy, right, and they could they could forget who
Speaker 3: I am and what I got going on, because once
Speaker 3: you become somebody one man is submissive.
Speaker 1: They don't look at you like that.
Speaker 2: They forget. Yeah, you know, I just remind them a day.
Speaker 1: Okay, you can't do that though, what you mean? Let's
Speaker 1: just say, for the sake of argument, you and I dating,
Speaker 1: I can't come to you and say he you know
Speaker 1: your boy? Now? You know you got right.
Speaker 2: I don't say that.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna show it. Oh God right, evident, it's better
Speaker 3: to show to tell. Like talking too much.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Can you could you date
Speaker 1: a wreck a nine to five guy? Or does he?
Speaker 1: Does he need to be like I'm not saying you
Speaker 1: like athletes, but I'm just saying hypothetical as an athlete
Speaker 1: and then entertainer's a left? I mean, can you get
Speaker 1: down with a nine to five? Keep of the buck? Now?
Speaker 1: If you can? You care to you can't?
Speaker 3: I like, Look, I got a feeling that I get like,
Speaker 3: I like a vibe. It ain't too much what a
Speaker 3: man has. So if you make me feel some type
Speaker 3: of way, I'm gonna give you a chance. But I'm
Speaker 3: trying to be realistic about a nine of five. And
Speaker 3: I'm traveled, right, and I and I have a lifestyle
Speaker 3: that he probably wouldn't understand a nine of five.
Speaker 2: That's like a schedule.
Speaker 3: I'm all over the place, correct, So I don't know
Speaker 3: how that'll work, but I'll try. If he got me
Speaker 3: going like that, if I'm feeling like that, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: I'm gonna.
Speaker 2: Give him a little chance. Fuck. I mean, because I'm
Speaker 2: not dating for the other things.
Speaker 1: But I do like things, right.
Speaker 2: I like to be spoiled, I like to be loved.
Speaker 3: On, and I love all that, right, But if you
Speaker 3: make me feel some type of way, I mean sometimes,
Speaker 3: you know, women motivate men.
Speaker 1: You mentioned that a nine to five, probably more times
Speaker 1: than not, is not going to be understand your schedule
Speaker 1: because you're on the road a lot. I think I
Speaker 1: don't know a whole lot of men that's gonna understand
Speaker 1: your skin, even a guy that's that's a celeble and entertainer,
Speaker 1: because it's normally the other way around. You Wait, he traveled,
Speaker 1: he does this. You wait, now you're traveling and he's like, uh, yeah,
Speaker 1: did you find has that been a problem with you?
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, yeah, they want me to sit down. Shon,
Speaker 2: they want me to sit down.
Speaker 1: You ain't trying to do that. But you you you hot,
Speaker 1: you hot, you can't sit down. I mean you're doing
Speaker 1: your thing, your music, you're acting phthropic work. You can't
Speaker 1: shit down.
Speaker 2: I mean Beyonce Jays he made it work. Yeah, so
Speaker 2: it could work. It just have to be the right man.
Speaker 1: But Beyonce ain't sitting down.
Speaker 3: I mean, if it's exactly, but guess what he was
Speaker 3: right with her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm seeing him in the beyond here. I was
Speaker 2: like right right there with a shirt on with our
Speaker 2: picture on it.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 3: And it's a billion dollar man himself. I feel like
Speaker 3: it'll work right. You just gotta find the right.
Speaker 1: One, especially the type of man to be able to
Speaker 1: stand back.
Speaker 2: It takes and Jay a hell of a So that's what's.
Speaker 1: Take a commandment. If someone owe you bread, never accept, don't.
Speaker 2: Crump you feel that. Come on, I know you do.
Speaker 2: You better not say you don't.
Speaker 1: I do right, So you are if somebody owe you,
Speaker 1: you want it all, not no pieces.
Speaker 2: Give me what I gave you exactly, I give you,
Speaker 2: give me my money. But why is it like that
Speaker 2: you give somebody money and they want to pay you
Speaker 2: back in increments.
Speaker 1: No, oh, hear your little piece of money. It wasn't
Speaker 1: a piece when I gave it.
Speaker 3: And now I'm calling you. I feel like I'm hounding
Speaker 3: you for my money and now you got to add
Speaker 3: a tool.
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 4: Why?
Speaker 1: Why get like that that?
Speaker 2: No, I don't know, I don't know. I think that
Speaker 2: they be feeling like I asked you for some money,
Speaker 2: so you got it.
Speaker 1: I don't you need something.
Speaker 2: I make my money for me.
Speaker 3: I ain't making money to give to you the hell.
Speaker 3: But I think people just be feeling entitled. The people
Speaker 3: that ask to braw stuff, you know, some people feeling titled.
Speaker 3: Some people ask you to brow something that never asked
Speaker 3: the brawl again, you know. So I just feel like
Speaker 3: it's just the people.
Speaker 1: Have you adopted? I adopted the plan that if I give,
Speaker 1: I gived because I know I'm not gonna get it back,
Speaker 1: so I can't even expect it. So if I give,
Speaker 1: if I give you money, I'm only gonna be able
Speaker 1: to give you what I can stand not to get back.
Speaker 2: Oh that's a good one.
Speaker 3: That's a good one, because you know what I do
Speaker 3: even when I know they don't have it if you
Speaker 3: call me a say I got the money, sometimes like
Speaker 3: keep it as long as you try to give me
Speaker 3: the money.
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So now I'm gonna start doing that, Like I'm gonna
Speaker 3: just give you what I feel like I could take
Speaker 3: as a la he told me.
Speaker 1: Some Oh, so that's only what you do. So if
Speaker 1: I let you hold some cash.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonnae i'ney for you.
Speaker 1: Number three cash Commandment number three not to tell people
Speaker 1: everything you said. Keep everyone out of your game, women
Speaker 1: out of your bedroom. Y'all do share a lot women?
Speaker 1: I think I feel sometimes I could be wrong. You
Speaker 1: can correct me. Do you feel women share more than me?
Speaker 3: I don't know because I'm not a man, and I
Speaker 3: don't know how men talk, so I'll have to literally
Speaker 3: sit around. Well, I I know from like being friends
Speaker 3: with guys before, Like they'll tell me a lot of stuff,
Speaker 3: but I don't know how they talk to other men.
Speaker 1: This new generation, they gossip a little bit much. Generation
Speaker 1: we didn't tell we did, we didn't we didn't tell everything.
Speaker 1: We didn't tell everything everything.
Speaker 3: Tell some stuff and then some people be excited or
Speaker 3: whatever the case may be. But I feel like women
Speaker 3: like women have jealous traits.
Speaker 2: Guys do too. I told they don't know, but I
Speaker 2: feel like.
Speaker 1: They are.
Speaker 3: But we have like like women have like jealous traits,
Speaker 3: and you just got to know who to tell what
Speaker 3: to like. I have like a good five solid female friends,
Speaker 3: you know, and I tell all of some one person.
Speaker 3: I might tell everything to some people, I don't.
Speaker 2: Some people, I tell what I want them to know.
Speaker 3: You know, but when you tell when you know somebody
Speaker 3: wants your life or want the position that you in,
Speaker 3: really can't tell everything, you know what I'm saying, because
Speaker 3: they use it against you or they try to feel
Speaker 3: like that's what you dmn. They're giving them instructions to be,
Speaker 3: you know, so you gotta.
Speaker 1: Be careful you tell everything to you might be educating
Speaker 1: the enemy.
Speaker 3: You see what I'm saying, You're giving them instructions to
Speaker 3: be you like, that's not cool. So I feel like
Speaker 3: that's just not safe. And then we've seen so many
Speaker 3: incidents where.
Speaker 1: Women they're doing you cash, They do cash like that.
Speaker 3: I don't know if they have, but I've seen this happen. Yes,
Speaker 3: because they want your life.
Speaker 1: What not just me, not women, But why they do that?
Speaker 1: They know cash talking to somebody and then they That's.
Speaker 2: Why I never get in another public relationship.
Speaker 1: I was I was about to ask, oh doing the
Speaker 1: bus us way?
Speaker 3: If they know that show like you can intimidate a
Speaker 3: lot of women, But then they also want what you
Speaker 3: have because they see you, they see you on the internet,
Speaker 3: they see you popping, they see you happy, they see
Speaker 3: you traveling, and they want what you have.
Speaker 2: So who is behind it?
Speaker 3: Because they don't know that we can do it ourselves.
Speaker 3: Women that make money, they want to know who is
Speaker 3: behind it.
Speaker 2: I want that.
Speaker 3: Women want other women life, especially on Instagram. You know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like you popping, you're looking good, Joe life,
Speaker 3: you see happy?
Speaker 2: You know you got to go on all you were.
Speaker 3: Traveling, everybody you all over the blogs and stuff like
Speaker 3: they want that. They want the attention. So if they
Speaker 3: feel like it's behind it, oh he's getting fucked.
Speaker 1: Do they do you feel that? Women look and there's like,
Speaker 1: oh she thinks he all that, but I'm hit nothing.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: They think that's a way too, Like they think that's
Speaker 3: a way to getting that you like, well her, you
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, I can't say for her. Nigga
Speaker 3: U for the streets, her for everybody, or whatever the
Speaker 3: case may be. Women, you was nothing but a fad
Speaker 3: and walk away with nothing but a wet.
Speaker 2: Ass in my line.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know you know, you know, Lord
Speaker 1: h Bertha. But let me ask you this, how do
Speaker 1: you handle money in business? Money in business? So how
Speaker 1: do you keep it separate? Because, like you know, family,
Speaker 1: you want to help the family for some family you
Speaker 1: can't help. You can't help everybody. You can't rescue everybody.
Speaker 1: I don't have Noah's ark, so I can't take two
Speaker 1: of everything, right, So how do cash all handles that
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: Well, some people I do.
Speaker 3: It just depends on it if it make me feel
Speaker 3: like okay, because I've done it so much before, and
Speaker 3: I waste so much money helping so many people. You know,
Speaker 3: damn they're going broke helping other people. And it got
Speaker 3: to a point where I'm like, okay, this gotta make sense,
Speaker 3: you know. And I don't get no phone calls no more.
Speaker 3: People don't call me and ask me for stuff no more.
Speaker 3: I mean my little sisters and my mom they don't payroll,
Speaker 3: you know, they still help me. I be feeling like
Speaker 3: it got to be reciprocated in some kind of way. Yes,
Speaker 3: So I don't feel like it's just withdrawing from me,
Speaker 3: Like give me some deposits.
Speaker 2: Too, you feel me. So they also helped me with
Speaker 2: my kids.
Speaker 3: They come over and you know, they when I'm sick,
Speaker 3: come help pack, do whatever, you know, like it's worth it.
Speaker 3: So I just make sure that whatever I'm putting out,
Speaker 3: you know, something that's coming back in. It might not
Speaker 3: be the same level, but at least you're you're giving
Speaker 3: me something. It could be energy and praying for me.
Speaker 3: You're helping me with my kids. You know you you're
Speaker 3: just making my life easier some way.
Speaker 1: Do you feel that when you told no, that's when
Speaker 1: you got man, cash ain't nothing. She doesn't change. Gob
Speaker 1: It is the moment you said because long as you
Speaker 1: saying yes, cash cool that the cast I grew up with.
Speaker 2: I know. And as soon as you say no, yeah
Speaker 2: she changed, that's lame. It's all that once you say
Speaker 2: you said yes, yes, yes, everything is good.
Speaker 1: But when you say no, oh, nope, and I guess
Speaker 1: you know three and four kind of similar because you
Speaker 1: say today she called you, says tomorrow she's an enemy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you've had fallen out with friends or you thought were
Speaker 1: so called friends once you became I'm discussed.
Speaker 3: I'm so blessed, but I haven't had real falling out,
Speaker 3: really real friends. Also, I'm blessed God loved me, I
Speaker 3: can say in that department because I haven't had real
Speaker 3: fallouts like me and a friend probably wouldn't't talk for
Speaker 3: a little minute, like all right, no, but it ain't
Speaker 3: no like we about to fight, right, You know what
Speaker 3: I'm saying. I didnt want like when I was younger,
Speaker 3: probably when I was like twenty one and I stayed
Speaker 3: with someone, me and her got into it and we
Speaker 3: got into a fight and that.
Speaker 2: But that was so young, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: But it was never like I had real issue somebody.
Speaker 1: It ain't been about no dude, is it?
Speaker 2: Oh we ain't tripping over the man. We ain't doing that.
Speaker 1: You can have it.
Speaker 2: If it's that serious, It ain't that serious.
Speaker 3: So it ain't gonna never be that serious, right word,
Speaker 3: I'm about to fall out with a friend over God right,
Speaker 3: because if he doing that and you doing that, it
Speaker 3: ain't even it ain't even nothing.
Speaker 2: Worth fighting over for real.
Speaker 1: The fifth says money to the side, don't don't let.
Speaker 2: No nigga hey get your dream come nat you know
Speaker 2: which dream to get?
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that?
Speaker 2: What it sounds like?
Speaker 3: Because you know women they get with a guy with
Speaker 3: a couple of dollars, Yeah, and they forget themselves. They
Speaker 3: forget to make the money, that money themselves, They forget
Speaker 3: to keep their life going themselves.
Speaker 2: They just get caught up in that life. And then yeah,
Speaker 2: once you get with a man.
Speaker 3: That feeds you, and he bring all the food to
Speaker 3: the table if you give him all the power to
Speaker 3: starve you.
Speaker 2: So it's like, have your own money, do what you're
Speaker 2: gonna do. Let him do him too, because we look.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but just always have your own money. So if leave,
Speaker 3: you ain't just stuck looking crazy like what's my next move?
Speaker 2: Because then you can't leave right now.
Speaker 3: You have to tolerate anything bull ji you do, you do,
Speaker 3: and girls really look for the life of having a
Speaker 3: man that take care of them when that come with something.
Speaker 3: If you ain't got a real one, that's first off,
Speaker 3: because it's some real men out here that take care
Speaker 3: of that woman and do the right thing. But when
Speaker 3: you don't and they use that money as power, they
Speaker 3: run over these women.
Speaker 2: You see these girls every day. They be up one
Speaker 2: day next day like where that cargo?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you let a man sit you down, so.
Speaker 2: The right man can sit me down. He gotta be
Speaker 2: the right one. He gotta be the right one. Sit
Speaker 2: me down, Like what you mean to do? Don't sit
Speaker 2: me down.
Speaker 1: Cash, you ain't got to worry about nothing. Don't worry
Speaker 1: about nothing. Hey, you don't want a tour, you don't
Speaker 1: want to do this no more? I got this.
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Cash, you don't strike me. I mean, look,
Speaker 1: you got too much pride for me for that.
Speaker 3: I mean, but I am still a woman. Yeah, at
Speaker 3: the end of the day, and that's like the goal
Speaker 3: to sit down.
Speaker 2: But he just have to be the right man. He
Speaker 2: gonna still treat me right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But you can't think because you set me down
Speaker 3: that you about to treat me like anything. And then
Speaker 3: I'm still gonna be hussed. I'm being home doing my thing.
Speaker 3: I'm packing and I'm packaging, I'm selling something, doing something
Speaker 3: at home, I'm doing something. I'm doing something, you know.
Speaker 3: But I mean, that's the that's a goal. But okay, okay,
Speaker 3: I sit down. Six months, I get outside six months,
Speaker 3: fair a year, a year, I'll think about that.
Speaker 2: That's theirs. That's cool, okay, because I still gotta be
Speaker 2: me because who you fell in little with?
Speaker 1: Okay, true, because a little bit. The difference of today
Speaker 1: y'all is like the fee. That's the feminine side of
Speaker 1: you talking. Hey, I want to man, But y'all, y'all
Speaker 1: be dealing with that masculinity too. It's the kind of
Speaker 1: move to the front cast.
Speaker 3: It's the kind of man you're dealing with. When you
Speaker 3: got a man, a certain man gonna make that masculine
Speaker 3: go away.
Speaker 2: It's natural.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: As women we get around a man that's real masculine,
Speaker 3: you can't help but just listen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, tell me what to do.
Speaker 3: Okay, Yes, but you get a man that's playing and
Speaker 3: like he acting like the princess too. If you dealing
Speaker 3: with another princess, you gotta you gotta out princess him.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: I gotta show you what a real princess. But you
Speaker 3: gotta get a little with it, you feel me? So,
Speaker 3: I mean, it just depends on what type of man
Speaker 3: you're dealing with. That's why I said for me to
Speaker 3: sit down, they gotta be the right type of man.
Speaker 3: You gotta sit me down, and I gotta be happy here.
Speaker 3: I want to be happy sitting now. I'm gonna be
Speaker 3: happy sitting down.
Speaker 2: Tweak on my toes.
Speaker 1: Sixth commandment, say stand on business. If they say us up,
Speaker 1: you better ride real if we good, were good, Stand
Speaker 1: on business.
Speaker 2: Whatever you mean you say, don't go back on nothing.
Speaker 2: Stand on business. And if they want to go. If
Speaker 2: it's if somebody want to do something, body do something
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, what don't do? Don't really sound that, don't really
Speaker 1: sign that. That sound masculine.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta get in that bag. That don't mean
Speaker 2: that's to your men.
Speaker 1: You got something. You gotta let that Detroit. You gotta
Speaker 1: let the Detroit go. You gotta let that go.
Speaker 2: Y'all think I'm wrong. I'm not wrong.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 2: You're You're standing on business. You got you gotta ride
Speaker 2: on that. You gotta mean it. You gotta mean what
Speaker 2: you say that Your word is.
Speaker 1: Everything it used to be. I mean people, you used
Speaker 1: to be word used to be bond. There was no
Speaker 1: conscient because the contract was a meeting of the mind. Hey, cash,
Speaker 1: check this out. I got something. You got something and
Speaker 1: then people start renegging. Well, and then now you had
Speaker 1: to have a contract. So word is you know, word
Speaker 1: is body, see word is bond.
Speaker 3: That was really that's how we I mean, that's how
Speaker 3: it's supposed to be. So and I'm just reminding them
Speaker 3: that's how it's supposed to be.
Speaker 1: The seventh command and said, keep family first. Put that
Speaker 1: front of everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, flat out.
Speaker 1: Yes, oh yeah, because they was there when I was nothing.
Speaker 1: I had nothing. I wasn't I was always something. But
Speaker 1: when I didn't have anything and I was, people looked
Speaker 1: at me a certain way, my family, and they put
Speaker 1: them first.
Speaker 3: You know, even especially if you have kids, you know
Speaker 3: your mom, your immediate family, and.
Speaker 2: Friends become family.
Speaker 1: Can ask you a question if you wanted to date
Speaker 1: somebody and your mom said, Cash, I don't think he's
Speaker 1: right for you. Cash, you're taking mom's advice. He say, Mom,
Speaker 1: he make me feel a certain type of way. I
Speaker 1: know what he made me feel like. I know what
Speaker 1: they do for me.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie. Sometime the red flags be looking
Speaker 2: like six flogs, MA be right back. Then I gotta
Speaker 2: come back and say you was right, Yeah, yeah, it
Speaker 2: was right.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you just gotta enjoy it because it's an experience
Speaker 3: and you get lessons out there. Every situation, every situation
Speaker 3: you learn something from.
Speaker 1: You said, the loudest is normally the weakest.
Speaker 2: Give what they're screaming. You know that's true.
Speaker 3: Anybody got any type of quality valuable person ain't doing
Speaker 3: all that.
Speaker 2: We chilling. The loudest really be like hot in their insecurities.
Speaker 2: That's why they loud. They're covering up.
Speaker 1: Well. I mean sometimes they like I don't want you
Speaker 1: to buy it, like a rousing body, like stay away.
Speaker 1: I don't want to strike you. I don't want you.
Speaker 1: That ain't what I want to do. I want to
Speaker 1: just live on the way over here in these bushes.
Speaker 1: Leave well enough alone. But I did warn you. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you guys be talking loud and say, Cash, you don't
Speaker 1: want these problems.
Speaker 2: I ain't scared. Nobody was talking about you the first
Speaker 2: hurd that I'm going to your ship.
Speaker 1: Lord Lord Cash, you said, better on yourself if I'm
Speaker 1: gonna roll the dice on anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, real, if that's to yourself.
Speaker 5: You've always been like this, No, I learned you learn
Speaker 5: like I don't let other people tell you what you
Speaker 5: can and can't do. Yeah, what you should shouldn't do exactly.
Speaker 2: It's like, let me do it and find out myself.
Speaker 2: Even if I do fail, it's cool. I learned from it.
Speaker 2: You know. I think you should always bet on yourself first.
Speaker 1: How hard is it for you to, like damn? Because
Speaker 1: you know there's a say in the cash that says,
Speaker 1: you know, a wise man learns from other's mistakes, a
Speaker 1: food has to learn from his own.
Speaker 2: Really. Yeah, So if I who you surround yourself with,
Speaker 2: right y?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I surround myself with a lot of quality women, Okay,
Speaker 3: So I take their advice okay, and I.
Speaker 2: Don't make some mistakes with them, something I still domat.
Speaker 1: Like you did say that I should have listened.
Speaker 3: I should, but I has an experience on my own
Speaker 3: sometimes but most of the time, I kind of dodge bullets,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 3: With the quality of people that you have in your life,
Speaker 3: I feel like that's important too at life. The people
Speaker 3: that you surround yourself with and we talk to every day,
Speaker 3: and the people that's giving you this advice, the people
Speaker 3: people that that's telling you certain things, I feel like
Speaker 3: that's important because you know, that's also directing you right
Speaker 3: in different little ways.
Speaker 1: So when you made when somebody that's given you advice
Speaker 1: and you made you didn't heed that advice, or you
Speaker 1: didn't not hear that device and you made that mistake.
Speaker 1: Did you beat yourself up about it? Or you say, hey,
Speaker 1: I made a mistake. Hey I do.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'd be like, you know, like I didn't see
Speaker 2: that or I didn't know. But I don't letting.
Speaker 3: I don't dwell on nothing too long. I always like, man,
Speaker 3: it is what it is, you know, because we gotta
Speaker 3: keep going. Life still happens. Yeah, it's on the first bills,
Speaker 3: Go get gotta get paid. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I still gotta get on this flight at seven o'clock.
Speaker 3: My kids still in their crying. I gotta go change
Speaker 3: her diaper.
Speaker 2: So that's not it ain't stopping no show. So it's like,
Speaker 2: learn from it and just keep pushing.
Speaker 1: Man, if there's ever a point to be made, don't
Speaker 1: be scared to prove it. Hey I can't. I just
Speaker 1: hopefully after this says shon this Detroit, were gonna get
Speaker 1: somebody that detroita, fir of you. We got to it.
Speaker 1: We gotta get somebody detroita fight of you. You don't
Speaker 1: have approve a portal everything.
Speaker 2: Yes you do, Yes, you do. Don't nobody play with
Speaker 2: you like that, Shannon. If you want to pull a
Speaker 2: point for.
Speaker 1: You cash, why do you feel you have to approve
Speaker 1: a point on everything?
Speaker 3: If it's points to be made, don't be scared to
Speaker 3: pull the ones that's worth being made.
Speaker 2: Okay, not every point. You ain't gotta address everything.
Speaker 1: Right, you address a lot? No cash?
Speaker 2: No, I don't I be chilling you think so?
Speaker 4: Do?
Speaker 1: Maybe somebody else running your account?
Speaker 2: I don't even do it. Not be doing nothing on
Speaker 2: my account. I be doing good. I be doing good.
Speaker 1: You better look good when you do it. Don't day Hey,
Speaker 1: don't go bowling bags on bags if you can't put
Speaker 1: it in a bag. What do you mean by that?
Speaker 2: I mean that's some dic's mad.
Speaker 1: That's nice.
Speaker 2: But I got a bag that costs more than that bag.
Speaker 1: Mmm.
Speaker 2: I got a couple of dollars. Now, yeah, don't be
Speaker 2: trying to.
Speaker 3: Keep up with the next buying these purses and these
Speaker 3: things that you see people with. Right, if you don't
Speaker 3: even have a bag to put in it, don't be
Speaker 3: walking around with a bag with nothing in it, with
Speaker 3: but lip gloss.
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Speaker 1: spend on her personal appearance? Hair, lip, nails, make up,
Speaker 1: by it, whatever the case may be. Is there a
Speaker 1: limit in which a woman should spend on her appearance?
Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna take it there, I take it there,
Speaker 3: I take it there. I'm gonna do what I gotta do.
Speaker 3: I like looking good, Yeah, I like feeling good. When
Speaker 3: you look good, you feel good and you give good energy,
Speaker 3: you know, and that helps you make money, you know,
Speaker 3: and keep the flow and keep the flow. I don't
Speaker 3: think it's no limit. Y'all think y'all think it's a
Speaker 3: limit to how much you spend on yourself. I mean,
Speaker 3: sometimes I'll be like, man, let me call bab.
Speaker 1: You do fall back sometimes I did to let me
Speaker 1: calm down.
Speaker 3: But I don't think it's a limit. I think you
Speaker 3: should keep your hair dune, keep your nails done, keep
Speaker 3: your appearance up, you know. Like, no, we don't even
Speaker 3: live one time.
Speaker 1: Man, And you know, if you do it right, that's enough.
Speaker 2: We're doing white. You ain't it?
Speaker 1: Yes, we've been talking about Detroit. What was cash upbringing
Speaker 1: like in Detroit?
Speaker 2: My upbringing, it was cool.
Speaker 3: Made the best out of everything, you know, Like I'm
Speaker 3: the oldest of six, so we ain't have much, but
Speaker 3: we made the best out of it.
Speaker 2: I've been happy my whole life. I've been happy.
Speaker 3: My personality been like this forever because I'm just happy.
Speaker 3: It wasn't bad, But it wasn't like we were rich, right,
Speaker 3: We didn't have it like that. Like we all slept
Speaker 3: on one bump, beed together, Me and my sisters and brothers.
Speaker 3: You know, we ain't have like you don't e get
Speaker 3: cold and be sometimes we ain't have heat, so we
Speaker 3: used to use the stoves, have the store the fire
Speaker 3: on the stove and put a fan in front of
Speaker 3: it and it blowed heat through it to come into
Speaker 3: the room that we're like. We used to sleep in
Speaker 3: the living room. We used to have curtains to break
Speaker 3: off each room to have all the heat in one room,
Speaker 3: and it was cool. We had a good time. We
Speaker 3: was jumping on that bum beer together, all five of us.
Speaker 3: We had a good time. So I can say I
Speaker 3: can say I remember not having it, but at the
Speaker 3: same time I had each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we had each other and I had a good time.
Speaker 3: You know, my mom had five kids at twenty one,
Speaker 3: so she used to work, and she used to work
Speaker 3: like in like the nursing field or whatever like that,
Speaker 3: and so she wasn't there most of the time, so.
Speaker 2: Was my kids.
Speaker 1: I was about to say, my sister did the oldest ausico.
Speaker 1: She's up eight years older than that, and so like
Speaker 1: when you're the oldest, my mom is the oldest girl.
Speaker 1: You basically.
Speaker 2: I want to have them because I already had kids,
Speaker 2: right and they're still my kids.
Speaker 1: My kids.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna say, come on, you know.
Speaker 3: So I used to have to do hair, cook cook,
Speaker 3: wash the clothes, and walk them home. Right, We'll get
Speaker 3: in trouble if one person come home before another person.
Speaker 3: So all of us had to come home together or
Speaker 3: else were getting a whooping, right, And it was like
Speaker 3: it was my responsibility, so we all wall get a whooping.
Speaker 3: But IM gonna get a whoop in there.
Speaker 1: But yeah, they definitely expect more of the oldest, like.
Speaker 2: No, you didn't.
Speaker 3: Hey, you know what I'm saying type shit. So it
Speaker 3: was cool, Like and my mom used to like this
Speaker 3: old box caprice and it used to be all five
Speaker 3: of us in the backseat.
Speaker 2: It used to look crazy because we'll pull.
Speaker 3: Up at McDonald's. Everybody be tapping to everybody. You'll see
Speaker 3: everybody coming looking at all them kids, and we used
Speaker 3: to be back there smiling. We have people have to
Speaker 3: get some McDonald's like shit, and they used to think
Speaker 3: it was funny, like why she got all them kids.
Speaker 2: My mom was young, twenty one or five kids.
Speaker 1: Wow, were you a bully? I read you beat up
Speaker 1: guys who cash.
Speaker 2: I ain't beat up no guy who.
Speaker 1: Them guys to bother your little brothers and sisters, and
Speaker 1: then you end up liking them.
Speaker 2: I ain't like nobody I beat up.
Speaker 3: If I beat you up, I can't like you. Okay,
Speaker 3: Look so I beat up one person. We all did
Speaker 3: because no, okay, let me tell you the story.
Speaker 2: He was wrong and you're gonna agree with me. So
Speaker 2: the guy, my sister baby daddy, he blacked her eye
Speaker 2: and you got to have him. We pulled up, jumped
Speaker 2: out the car, ran up in the house. We went
Speaker 2: to jail.
Speaker 1: You went to jail for beating up your sister baby daddy.
Speaker 2: I was to jail my sister.
Speaker 3: Want to jail my brother wants to jail, and I
Speaker 3: had to get a writ. I had a call to
Speaker 3: judge to get a writ to get out of jail.
Speaker 1: Damn head.
Speaker 2: But that's what you're talking about.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but I ain't never like what he cool
Speaker 3: now here alright, Okay, hitting her cousin, he ain't here,
Speaker 3: black her animal.
Speaker 2: So it was his sisters and brothers over there. So
Speaker 2: it just was a family affair.
Speaker 1: Oh so all y'all got to got to stably.
Speaker 2: But we're the ones went to jail cause they the
Speaker 2: ones was bleeding.
Speaker 1: We're the ones. We're the one run how you run
Speaker 1: down in somebody house and beat them down.
Speaker 3: And you go to jail cause they called talking Joe
Speaker 3: cause my sister was still there with them, right, So
Speaker 3: we at my house. I'm all the way in West Bloomfield.
Speaker 3: My sister called crying. Yeah, da da da, he said, yeah,
Speaker 3: And Keisha can't come get my kids. No, I'm more
Speaker 3: I pissed about my niece and nephews. Right, Oh, I
Speaker 3: can't come get oh Beck, we pulled up.
Speaker 1: You ain't trying to you not like, hey, look, don't
Speaker 1: put your hands on my sister. My sister ain't did
Speaker 1: anything to deserve you pace like a.
Speaker 2: Second third time.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, cause now when you talk now it's not no,
Speaker 3: it ain't no more talking right the grace period, Remember
Speaker 3: I was saying, right, you can't give.
Speaker 2: Him too much grace. Then they started thinking it's Gracie's corner.
Speaker 2: I do it up at you, dad?
Speaker 1: Did you play any sports? Who'd you play? You was good?
Speaker 2: I'm shouting out with it.
Speaker 1: What what you can't a fuck of my crazy?
Speaker 2: What I'm going crazy?
Speaker 1: You carry that up?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I saw liking boys then I was a cheerleader.
Speaker 1: How you going from playing sports to chair for sports.
Speaker 1: I've never seen that transition before. I never I saw
Speaker 1: like boys.
Speaker 2: I became a girl after that. There was no more
Speaker 2: time boy, gym shoes all that. It was like, okay,
Speaker 2: let me be a girl.
Speaker 1: Did you ever get expelled from school?
Speaker 2: Where do you get that from? I'm just asking cash
Speaker 2: you looked at so you're trying to you're trying to
Speaker 2: tell my business.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you tell your business. I'm just asking this.
Speaker 1: Did you in the way, what did you do?
Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out something.
Speaker 1: What you trying to figure out? Okay?
Speaker 2: Where you get this information from? Cash. Why would you
Speaker 2: ask me, did I get expelled from school?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Lord, that break. That's what what you do when you
Speaker 1: have a conversation where you have a conversation, Hey, what
Speaker 1: do you like?
Speaker 2: What do you like to do?
Speaker 1: What do you like to go?
Speaker 3: I only got expelled a few times in high school.
Speaker 3: That's it, it was, I got I got expelled. I
Speaker 3: got expelled.
Speaker 1: You know that's not a class in high school, right,
Speaker 1: a class.
Speaker 3: So when I got in ninth grade, my boyfriend was
Speaker 3: in the twelfth grade and he used to play basketball.
Speaker 2: So I was that girl for real, I've been that girl.
Speaker 3: So the girls didn't like me, and I had to
Speaker 3: fight for my life all my life, and it went
Speaker 3: down in there.
Speaker 2: Like he said, I used to have to just fight.
Speaker 3: And then I was in a new neighborhood. I left
Speaker 3: from dex Through where I grew up at, moved on
Speaker 3: seven Mind and I went to henry Ford High School.
Speaker 2: Okay, and that's where and my bool we used to
Speaker 2: stay next door. For me, Oh you had to do
Speaker 2: next door yep.
Speaker 3: And the girls at school they usually just be hating
Speaker 3: on me cause he was real popular and stuff. And
Speaker 3: then I became popular so fast cause that was my bool, right,
Speaker 3: So everybody was mad, and I used to have to
Speaker 3: just show them that I had to wanna be played
Speaker 3: with Lord. So I got kicked out of all Detroit
Speaker 3: public schools, all of 'em, I did, and then they
Speaker 3: put me in an alternative school.
Speaker 2: But I still came out on time.
Speaker 3: I got all my credits and got my diploma everything,
Speaker 3: and you know, I still did what I had to do.
Speaker 1: Sin Once you graduated, have you ever come across any
Speaker 1: of those women that you got into uh altercations with?
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen anything?
Speaker 2: Seen one before? And she was a fan and I
Speaker 2: couldn't even be mad at her. Huh, yup, yup, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I seen her.
Speaker 1: You said, Yeah, I think you would be in a
Speaker 1: fan but I whipped you whipped You ain't say I just.
Speaker 3: Be I'd be just playing cool, like nice. It's nice
Speaker 3: to see you. Everything been al right. You know, I
Speaker 3: ain't gonna bring it up because I know she told everybody.
Speaker 2: And I know she lied.
Speaker 1: She said she got you. You she lied because you
Speaker 1: probably saying hold on you, let cash out the rapper,
Speaker 1: she beat you. She probably said she got with you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm lying. I had to look at the camera stops.
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, your father passed away at your very young age.
Speaker 1: I think you were like one year old my first birthday. Yes,
Speaker 1: did that an impact? Do you think like getting in
Speaker 1: these fights or doing some of the things that you
Speaker 1: did happened because you didn't have a father.
Speaker 3: Hm? You know what, I don't really blame my upbringing
Speaker 3: a person I am like on not having a father, like,
Speaker 3: I don't. The void was for sure, But I don't
Speaker 3: know if that made me make the decisions that I made.
Speaker 1: Was there a dominant male figure in your I mean
Speaker 1: an uncle or I had a stepdad that.
Speaker 2: Was around for a minute, but he's not around no more.
Speaker 3: But I had that void for sure, and still do
Speaker 3: to this day because I've never had that real male
Speaker 3: figure that made me feel.
Speaker 1: Soft and like because, like you said, you had to
Speaker 1: be a second mom, so you had to protect your siblings,
Speaker 1: You had to do all the things that So do
Speaker 1: you feel that you got an opportunity to fully enjoy
Speaker 1: your childhood?
Speaker 2: Because no, And then I was on punishment.
Speaker 1: Damn.
Speaker 2: I tell her this to this day. She was wrong
Speaker 2: for that.
Speaker 3: I didn't get to do much like it was like
Speaker 3: I was always on punishment for something you know what
Speaker 3: I'm saying. And then I was always working and doing
Speaker 3: stuff like that. So by the time I got old enough,
Speaker 3: which when I when I became like an adult, I
Speaker 3: start working.
Speaker 2: I had jobs.
Speaker 3: So now I'm outside making money and on my off time,
Speaker 3: I was just outside. And I think that's why it
Speaker 3: took me so so long to have kids, because I
Speaker 3: was like, you know what, I'm about to just enjoy myself.
Speaker 3: And baby did I enjoy myself?
Speaker 2: And then I became cast up forget about it.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you your mom. You said your mom
Speaker 1: had six kids by the time she was twenty one.
Speaker 2: No, she had five to twenty one. Yeah, then she
Speaker 2: had another one when she got older, like thirty.
Speaker 1: So how difficult was that for your mom because you,
Speaker 1: like your father died at a young age, you're the oldest.
Speaker 1: So wow. And so now you being the second mom,
Speaker 1: but your mom having to work, she gotta work, she
Speaker 1: gotta put a keep a roof over these five heads,
Speaker 1: feed it on food on the table, yeah, clothes on
Speaker 1: their back, school I mean school supplies. Did you ever
Speaker 1: just sit down to talk about talk to your mom
Speaker 1: like mom? Or I said, mom, thank you, cause it
Speaker 1: had to be tough. Five kids. You got to work
Speaker 1: all the time.
Speaker 2: I bought her a Lexus truck. I pay all her bills.
Speaker 2: She's on payroll. She don't want for nothing she did.
Speaker 3: I just told them when she was complaining about my
Speaker 3: my siblings, about them just resenting and having issues because
Speaker 3: they crazy, I said, Ma, you did the best you
Speaker 3: could do. You got one daughter that's very successful, So
Speaker 3: that shows you the first one.
Speaker 2: You did what you can do. Don't let that be.
Speaker 2: Don't let that bother you.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Because at the end of
Speaker 3: the day, you did the best you can do and
Speaker 3: you still have great results from your your litter.
Speaker 2: They crazy, So go book you a trip or some.
Speaker 3: All that. You can't do that like, that's not fair.
Speaker 3: People do the best they can do in life. And
Speaker 3: it's always people that's just not grateful or take it
Speaker 3: for granted, you know so, And I don't.
Speaker 2: And I appreciate my mom.
Speaker 3: That's that's my first role model. That's my girl right there.
Speaker 3: She crazy, but I love her to death.
Speaker 1: You know, so a lot of time what happens cash
Speaker 1: and you correct men. You let me know what you think.
Speaker 1: If the child turns out good it's the parent. If
Speaker 1: the child turns out bad, it's the parent. Well, what,
Speaker 1: at what point in time down does the child make
Speaker 1: a decision that's not reflective of the parents, because they
Speaker 1: get all the blame. If you're good, they get all
Speaker 1: the credit if you're back. I mean, you know, it's
Speaker 1: just like you made. Your siblings didn't have anything different
Speaker 1: than what you had. Y'all grew up in the exact
Speaker 1: same environment, the same house, ate the same food, and
Speaker 1: I'm assuming you guys went to the same school exactly.
Speaker 1: You chose one way, they chose another way, and then
Speaker 1: somehow mom gets blame blame.
Speaker 2: I think it's a mental thing, a mental illness.
Speaker 1: Okay, how were you when you started working?
Speaker 2: Sixteen?
Speaker 1: You bring you give money to your family and to
Speaker 1: your mom.
Speaker 3: She didn't want me to have no responsibility. Then she
Speaker 3: started trying to make me pay her thirty five dollars.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, all right, girl, I read you have
Speaker 1: you a babysit of you worked your little Casars, best Buy,
Speaker 1: better Made, POTENTI chill Factory a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I like money.
Speaker 3: I like money, and at that time, that's how I
Speaker 3: can make money. I even did hear I used to
Speaker 3: do little buns and stuff on the porch. And yeah,
Speaker 3: I like money, so I always kept a job. I
Speaker 3: don't care, right, I want some money and I want
Speaker 3: to buy new things. I always like good things, so
Speaker 3: this is not a front, you know. I always liked
Speaker 3: nice things. I always like new pair of shoes. I
Speaker 3: like switching it up. I like getting my hair done.
Speaker 3: I like looking like that girl because I am you
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. So I my mom couldn't do it,
Speaker 3: so I had jobs to do that for myself, and
Speaker 3: I did just that.
Speaker 1: I like the fact that you had a lot of
Speaker 1: jobs when you're growing up, because if you have a
Speaker 1: lot of jobs as a child, it less you know
Speaker 1: what you don't want to do when you become an adult.
Speaker 2: You feel me. Listen, you got jobs exactly.
Speaker 1: I'm for rural South Georgia.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, a lot of jobs. Okay. And then you're like,
Speaker 2: all right, this ain't for me. No, I did it.
Speaker 2: I did so many I had, man, I did all
Speaker 2: that babysitting.
Speaker 3: Hair, little Caesars, best Buy, selling TVs, selling pizzash.
Speaker 1: I mean, did you get a couple of TV's for
Speaker 1: the cream?
Speaker 2: I'm like.
Speaker 1: A couple of you know what I'm saying, What was
Speaker 1: your favorite job? Of all the jobs that you had
Speaker 1: growing up as a young adult, what was your favorite one.
Speaker 3: It had to be between Little Caesars and Best Buy.
Speaker 3: It has to because when I worked at Better Made
Speaker 3: Chick Factory, I was with like a temp service, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so it was like I'll be in and out, you know.
Speaker 3: But and I used to like them.
Speaker 2: The hot station where its hot chips was at like
Speaker 2: Little Caesars.
Speaker 3: It was like, you know, it was like a little
Speaker 3: family and it worked, and I'm hot and ready to
Speaker 3: be going fast.
Speaker 2: So I don't know, it was just it was just fun.
Speaker 2: It was fun.
Speaker 1: Do you ever get tired of eating pizza? Do you
Speaker 1: eat pizza now?
Speaker 2: Barely ate a lot of that crazy bread meat trees?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I did.
Speaker 3: But Best Buy, I met a lot of people there,
Speaker 3: Like I got a lot of connections and I learned
Speaker 3: a lot of technology. Like working there, like I was
Speaker 3: like the top salesperson. I always got the bonuses every month.
Speaker 3: You know, I was just getting money.
Speaker 1: You tried college, I did it.
Speaker 3: I did harry Ford Community College. Yeah, and you know what,
Speaker 3: I went from there. I went from high school to
Speaker 3: their first in the midst of having jobs and stuff
Speaker 3: like that. I did two years fill of prerecks. But
Speaker 3: I was bullshitting and I went back and I did
Speaker 3: it right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, why do you think you're done the first time?
Speaker 1: You didn't?
Speaker 2: Was it focused? I was just having fun still in
Speaker 2: the boys the boys and the boys is around ye'all.
Speaker 3: Wasn't focused. I was just like you know, I was
Speaker 3: just getting free. Remember I told you I was on
Speaker 3: punishment as always, was doing all that stuff. So I
Speaker 3: finally got able to just be be free.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I would come in when I want to go, when
Speaker 1: I want to do what I want to do.
Speaker 2: I played around, Yeah, played around.
Speaker 1: You got your car stolen, apartment was damaged by fire,
Speaker 1: so you had to end up moving back with mom.
Speaker 2: Where do you find all this stuff? All at people? Okay,
Speaker 2: so that's why you got good interviews because you dig.
Speaker 2: You ain't like just doing the normal interviews.
Speaker 3: Like yeah, so like asking me the same questions you
Speaker 3: just asked me about my first apartment catching on fire
Speaker 3: because I was trying to make some rama noodle, my god, what.
Speaker 2: It happened. I'm not gonna die.
Speaker 1: So what was it like? Because like a lot of times,
Speaker 1: like when people have don't don't know if your mom
Speaker 1: was straight, but I'm saying, you know, you say you're
Speaker 1: always on punishment. So a lot of times when when
Speaker 1: kids are able to leave, they're like when they leave,
Speaker 1: sometimes they look don't look back, and sometime they do, like,
Speaker 1: I ain't coming back here.
Speaker 2: Yeah I didn't want to go back. I had to.
Speaker 2: It just got bad.
Speaker 3: And you know what, and that's the time where I
Speaker 3: reflect and just remember all the things I was doing right.
Speaker 3: I was working at best BI, I was letting people come,
Speaker 3: here's white. I was just doing bad shit, you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. It was a phase of my life
Speaker 3: where I was just trying to figure it out in
Speaker 3: the wrong way, and it all came down on me
Speaker 3: at one time, like it poured. And from that I
Speaker 3: learned that, you know, like you just gotta be honest. Man,
Speaker 3: It's the best way to live. Like it's being honest
Speaker 3: because that shit gonna come back regardless. Yeah, it don't matter.
Speaker 3: You could be up today, you could be doing all
Speaker 3: this this shit could be seeming like it's so good,
Speaker 3: you know, but if you're not living right and you're
Speaker 3: doing wrong, it's not going to work, and that was
Speaker 3: a promise app on my car in my house. Now
Speaker 3: I'm back to square eight at my mom house, having
Speaker 3: to start from scratch. So from that, that was a lesson.
Speaker 3: It was an experience, and I learned my lesson and
Speaker 3: I would never do that shit again. Right, you know
Speaker 3: it was a certain shit.
Speaker 2: I was just doing anything then, I was just doing
Speaker 2: shit like just hustling, just trying to figure out, trying
Speaker 2: to get ahead the wrong way.
Speaker 1: What did your mom say when you c when you
Speaker 1: call your mom and said, Mom, I got to come
Speaker 1: back home. What did your mom? Yes say not?
Speaker 2: She just let me come back. Okay, I wasn't that
Speaker 2: bad right where? She was like, girl, I was good.
Speaker 3: So she allowed me. She led me back with open arms.
Speaker 3: But I was ready to go when I got back.
Speaker 3: I couldn't do that no more. I couldn't do it
Speaker 3: no more.
Speaker 1: Was So, was this the time that you, like, you
Speaker 1: go back to your mom and this is where you
Speaker 1: became an exotic dancer?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm up here, Well my best friend. Shout
Speaker 3: out to my best friend. She's still my best friend. Okay,
Speaker 3: I'm okay, get my hair.
Speaker 2: None. So that was like my hanging off spot. I
Speaker 2: go up there and chill with her while she doing
Speaker 2: here all dam day.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, man, you know all my friends in
Speaker 3: school that I used to so I used to do
Speaker 3: like a routine dancing. I was like with a whole
Speaker 3: little like they called the fresh girls. Okay, so we
Speaker 3: was like them girls when they come to that. But
Speaker 3: that's a whole nother story. I told you I've been
Speaker 3: that girl. So all my friends from that, uh, they
Speaker 3: were older and they start dancing.
Speaker 2: So I'm going over their house.
Speaker 3: They in these condos, they got jeeps with little cute dogs, they.
Speaker 2: All all this designer. I'm like, eh, I don't want
Speaker 2: to do that. You feel me. I'm like, what I
Speaker 2: gotta do?
Speaker 3: They like, you can make some money, and I'm like, man,
Speaker 3: I'm aa try. But when I go with my best friend,
Speaker 3: her name Kendra, and one day we just sitting there
Speaker 3: and I'm like, yes, I don't know, I can't stay
Speaker 3: with my mom and I need to make some money.
Speaker 3: She like, I'm like, with all my girls, they make
Speaker 3: a hell of money, like they dancing, and she like,
Speaker 3: I don't see why you want to do it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know, though, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Like, that's that's different. She like, I'm gonna go with
Speaker 3: you your first day. I'm like, all right, fat, So
Speaker 3: we go. So she come and do my hair and
Speaker 3: makeup in the basement. Okay, this is my girl right here,
Speaker 3: me and my best friend. We met in church too,
Speaker 3: by the way, Yeah, we met at church. So we'
Speaker 3: oh that's another thing. A part of my childhood. I
Speaker 3: was in church every Sunday and weldn't say every sometime
Speaker 3: Friday for Bible study. But that's how we met in church.
Speaker 3: So this is my heart right here. So she like,
Speaker 3: come on, I'm gonna go with you. She like the
Speaker 3: first day, I'm gonna go with you. I'm gonna do
Speaker 3: your hair, your makeup in amazement.
Speaker 2: So we go down there.
Speaker 3: I walk down there because they said, yeah, off rip,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, cause I look decent.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what, I'm nice little body? Yeah youngies,
Speaker 1: Yeah great.
Speaker 2: So I go and.
Speaker 3: We go downstairs and I'm like when we walked down there,
Speaker 3: all the girls just looking like, who is who is
Speaker 3: y'all ain't even know. I'm a gonna turn this up,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, so, me and my bestie,
Speaker 3: we in the corner were talking. She doing my makeup.
Speaker 3: She's like, I've seen a couple of people that I
Speaker 3: do their hair and hand her what they do. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna go and see. I'm like, all right, bet, She's like,
Speaker 3: all right, go ahead, get your clothes on. As I'm going,
Speaker 3: She's like, your clothes on, come up here, and I'm
Speaker 3: gonna show you who are I got the money.
Speaker 2: I'm like, bet, I walk up the motherfucker.
Speaker 3: Stairs, I'm ship Brits neck. Well I got on like
Speaker 3: a one piece, but my butt off. Yeah, I ain't
Speaker 3: never did nothing like that, I know.
Speaker 1: I mean, getting a dressed for your man is one thing.
Speaker 1: Getting a dress for stranger something different, that was different.
Speaker 2: And then at that age, you won't even get dressed
Speaker 2: from men. You know what I'm saying. We're young. So
Speaker 2: I goes upstairs, I'm shipping bricks.
Speaker 3: So as I'm walking through the crowd, it's like people
Speaker 3: that i know from school and my best day up
Speaker 3: here with her people. She stayed in there with me
Speaker 3: the whole night.
Speaker 2: She up there with her people.
Speaker 3: She's telling me, like her, they got some money, they
Speaker 3: got some money, and I knew all her clients because
Speaker 3: I used to be up there all the time. Right,
Speaker 3: So as I'm walking through, I'm making me a couple
Speaker 3: of dollars, right, and ain't nobody really touched me like that?
Speaker 2: So I'm like, Okay, that's cool.
Speaker 1: You know, can get down with that.
Speaker 2: I can get down with it.
Speaker 3: But I was it was like dark in there, so
Speaker 3: I wasn't really like feeling like I was just revealed.
Speaker 3: I kept every time they call my name on the stage,
Speaker 3: you never seen me because I was scared to go
Speaker 3: up there.
Speaker 2: I was scared. I'm gonna tell the truth. I was scared.
Speaker 3: That money, I know, but no, so I'm that night
Speaker 3: I made like seven hundred dollars the person off the
Speaker 3: rip I made seven done.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so I know you.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm rich as dark shit right now.
Speaker 2: So bam, I go home.
Speaker 3: My sister, my Shanie, and will punk it. She was
Speaker 3: too little, but Shanie se year. They helped me count
Speaker 3: my ones. We count the ones. They're like, there's a
Speaker 3: lot of money, you know. My sister's help for me
Speaker 3: because I'm sharing rooms my sisters. I had to move
Speaker 3: back with my mom, right, I think I'm like twenty
Speaker 3: one at the time, so we caught the money. It
Speaker 3: was seven hundred and like eighty one dollars. Wow, I'm like, shit,
Speaker 3: that's one check for two weeks and one day.
Speaker 2: I'm trapping. I want all this money.
Speaker 1: You feel me.
Speaker 2: I'm getting here. I'm never leaving. I don't never want
Speaker 2: to go home, you feel me.
Speaker 3: But then it became days where it was like three hundred.
Speaker 3: But then it became days where it's like seven thousand.
Speaker 3: What I made twenty six thousand dollars in one night
Speaker 3: and thirteen thousand at the door lo on the biggest night.
Speaker 3: So picture twenty six thousand dollars in all singles.
Speaker 2: And then the dough still did thirteen thousand dollars. I'm rich.
Speaker 2: You can't tell me nothing. Yes rich?
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