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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Colden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us. It's another great episode in another great week.

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Speaker 1: We are so excited to be back today. How's it

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Speaker 1: gone for you, Susan.

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Speaker 2: I'm just having a great time here in Saint Martin.

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Speaker 2: It's beautiful. I haven't gone to the beach yet.

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Speaker 1: But is it hot? Weather?

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Speaker 3: Always hot? It's always hot. It's a little humid, but human.

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Speaker 3: Well to you, Kathy, you don't feel heat.

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Speaker 1: To me like I know, I don't feel heat. I

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Speaker 1: feel the gold I love.

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Speaker 2: But thank you everybody for joining us today and answer.

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Speaker 2: We're going to answer a lot more questions. We love

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Speaker 1: Okay, we do love hearing from you. We love getting

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Speaker 1: your questions, your updates, your comments, your everything you have

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Speaker 1: to say. We want. You know. I'm actually surprised that

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Speaker 1: we haven't had many updates yet or questions about your

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Speaker 1: relationship with Frederick.

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Speaker 3: D though.

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, folks, if you are curious about Susan's relationship

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Speaker 1: or my lack thereof, you can you can dm us

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Speaker 1: on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: All right, now, so it's time to get into the episode.

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Speaker 2: Let's start Kathy with the question of the day. All right,

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Speaker 2: and what's the most bizarre breakup or falling out you

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Speaker 2: or a friend have experienced the most bizarre?

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Speaker 1: Well, I can answer that easily because I haven't had

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Speaker 1: that many breakups. And it was the guy. You know

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Speaker 1: this story. I had a date? Yes, shall I tell

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Speaker 1: this story? I had two dates with a guy. I

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Speaker 1: ultimately after the second date, told him audios, asta, luego,

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Speaker 1: see you later, and no thank you because all he

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Speaker 1: did was talk about is money, which I guess had

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Speaker 1: worked for a lot of other women, but it just

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Speaker 1: turned me off completely, so I said thank you, but

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Speaker 1: no thank you, send him on his mary away and

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Speaker 1: thought everything was fine until Susan and I were flying

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Speaker 1: back from Saint Martin in February and I got a

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Speaker 1: call from one number I didn't recognize, but she left

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Speaker 1: a voicemail and she asked me to call her and

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Speaker 1: she said it was about some orders. Anyway, I called

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Speaker 1: her and she went on about this guy and she said,

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Speaker 1: you know he said that, By the way, let me repeat,

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Speaker 1: I had two dates with him. She said, he said

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Speaker 1: that you chased him for three months and all you

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Speaker 1: can I just assure you folks, not true? And uh

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Speaker 1: that he said horrible things about your husband, which of

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Speaker 1: course he never knew. My husband knew nothing about my

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Speaker 1: husband except that he had died. She went on and

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Speaker 1: on about what a lot. I mean, it went on.

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Speaker 1: I said to Susan, this woman is crazy.

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Speaker 3: Or she had a terrible experience with him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And so what did I do? Susan said,

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Speaker 1: delete her block him. I don't block him. So, I

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Speaker 1: mean that was the most bizarre thing because I had

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Speaker 3: That was that was crazy?

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Speaker 1: What about you?

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Speaker 3: Nothing really bizarre?

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Speaker 2: I mean, my my relationships, I drag it out because

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Speaker 2: I always feel guilty if I want to end something.

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Speaker 3: They're always in a nice way.

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Speaker 1: Well you've had I know for a fact, you've.

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Speaker 3: Had I've had stalkers afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Like, well, you've had guys who after you've broken up,

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Speaker 1: they say to you they keep preaching. She've told me,

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Speaker 1: they keep reaching out and they like, we could have

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Speaker 1: been so great. And I'm like, you told the guy,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, you were never into him. That

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Speaker 1: is the amazing thing. Susan will say, you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: not into the sky, and it's very clear she's not,

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Speaker 1: and men misread it with you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I don't know why because I'm too nice

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Speaker 2: I don't say exactly like, I'm just not into you.

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Speaker 1: Well I didn't say that to this guy that had

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Speaker 1: two dates with I, and I didn't say all you

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Speaker 1: do is talk about your money. I just said, you know,

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Speaker 1: you're a very nice man, but I don't think we're

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Speaker 1: a good match, and I wish you all the best,

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Speaker 1: you know, the standard, dear John. Yeah, things, So I

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Speaker 3: It was just a freak cat, that's all. I think.

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Speaker 1: He was just a freak and which makes me scared. Todate,

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Speaker 3: Mean, wait, can I talk about your Google number?

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Speaker 2: She had somebody asked her for her number one time

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Speaker 2: that she met and she was chatting with quite a

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Speaker 2: And she said he asked for her number, and because well,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to give you my Google number.

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Speaker 3: And he was by it.

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Speaker 1: No, he was, he offended. He said to me, a

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Speaker 1: Google number, what's that? And I said, And I said.

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Speaker 3: And you need a Google number.

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Speaker 1: A Google number for anyone who doesn't know who's from

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Speaker 1: the dark ages. A Google number is a number that

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Speaker 1: is untraceable because, trust me, folks, you put your cell

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Speaker 1: phone out there, you can find your name, your address,

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Speaker 1: your height, your weight, anything about you. So my kids, well,

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Speaker 1: my kid said to me, yes, but they don't know

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Speaker 1: their name. When they call, they know my first name.

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Speaker 1: I don't give him my last name. So I gave

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Speaker 1: this guy my Google number and he said, ask me

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Speaker 1: what a Google number was? I told him, and then

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Speaker 1: he said, wait, you're not giving me your real phone number.

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Speaker 1: I said, no, it's a real phone number. It's just untraceable.

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Speaker 1: I said, my children require it for my safety. And

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Speaker 1: what happened to that guy, Susan, He was gone. But

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Speaker 1: you know what that was. I was happy. If that

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Speaker 1: he was probably a loser to in a freak. So

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Speaker 1: you know what, get your Google number and use it.

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Speaker 1: That's my advice. All right, we're going to get into

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Speaker 1: our fan questions. My first question is how many of

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Speaker 1: you all have Google numbers? No, let us know if

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Speaker 1: you have a Google number. Okay, our first question is

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Speaker 1: from Tanya. Hi, Kathy, and Susan. I need to know

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Speaker 1: if you think I'm overreacting. My ten year old daughter

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Speaker 1: was asked by another classmate to be their valentine. She

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Speaker 1: turned him down. In this class they're both in. The

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Speaker 1: kids are able to do presentations at any time about

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Speaker 1: any subject. The student she turned down did a presentation

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Speaker 1: but she came home so upset. Am I valid in

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Speaker 1: What should I do about this? Other than the teacher

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Speaker 1: stopping the presentation, nothing has been done. I don't believe

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Speaker 1: from him. Thanks, ladies, Oh I was. I want to

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Speaker 1: hear what you said because I was in education. What

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Speaker 1: says you, Susan? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean she's only ten years old, you know,

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Speaker 2: and she said no, and then for him to say

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Speaker 2: she's ten.

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Speaker 3: What do you expect from well?

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Speaker 1: And I'm concerned that Tanya said the kids are creek Kanya.

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Speaker 1: He's a ten year old.

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Speaker 2: Boy, ten year old, and he had his heart broken

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Speaker 2: just that he likes her, however, needs to chill.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but no, but it's her daughter, Tanya's daughter. I

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Speaker 1: get that. I think I'm not sure. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: I don't know what they would have done. And my

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Speaker 1: gut reaction is that I probably wouldn't have called the parents.

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Speaker 1: But all presentations, in my opinion, should have been looked

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Speaker 3: I agree.

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Speaker 1: I think the teacher, I don't expect the parents. You

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Speaker 1: can't notify the parents. That's it happened in school. It

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Speaker 1: should be dealt with in school.

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Speaker 2: How well, if they did notify his parents, what are

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Speaker 3: Honey, you're not allowed to show that you're hurt. Now, well,

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Speaker 3: I think you're exactly right.

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Speaker 2: The teacher should know what they're going to say before

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean when when I taught and I taught

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Speaker 1: you want to talk about?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: Right, yeah, no, it was always a process of you know,

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Speaker 1: step one, stage two. So I would tell you if

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Speaker 1: I were if I were displeased with anyone, it would

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Speaker 1: be the teacher for not checking the presentations first.

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Speaker 2: And have a talk with your daughter saying there is

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Speaker 2: nothing wrong with not wanting to be someone's found.

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Speaker 1: That is, Oh, Susan, I'm going to agree with you.

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Speaker 2: Child realizes that he had his little heart feelings hurt

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Speaker 2: because he likes you, and you're not going to like

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Speaker 1: I love this, Susan. I'm going to put a plaster

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Speaker 1: star on your forehead today. I love that answer. I

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Speaker 3: Something for Kathy to love my answer.

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Speaker 1: No, but I love to give good answers.

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Speaker 3: But that is that reassure the boy. Not everybody is

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Speaker 1: But I were the teacher. Strike one for the teacher

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Speaker 1: that she didn't see it ahead of time. Strike two

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Speaker 1: if the teacher did not take it as we call

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Speaker 1: a learning a teaching moment to take that child aside

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Speaker 3: I definitely agree. Okay. The next question is from Molly.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I need some help because i feel like I'm

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Speaker 2: being harsh my family and I take a trip every

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Speaker 2: year with our friends Dale and Naomi and their two children.

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Speaker 2: We became friends with them back when we were neighbors.

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Speaker 2: our once a year trip to keep in touch. Well,

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Speaker 2: last year sucked. I just don't have anything in common

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Speaker 2: with them anymore. They've become the couple that you exchange

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Speaker 2: parties purely out of politeness. I know the kids get along,

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Speaker 2: feel guilty putting an end to this trip, but I

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Speaker 2: just don't want to go. If I'm being honest, the

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Speaker 2: trips just feel awkward and we have nothing to talk about.

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Speaker 2: I prefer to take a vacation. I actually want to

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Speaker 2: be on What should I do?

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Speaker 1: Thanks? This is so easy?

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Speaker 3: See you answer first?

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Speaker 1: It's so easy. First of all, you vacations are expensive, right.

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Speaker 1: Trips are expensive, so you should never be unless you're

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Speaker 1: taking me on the vacation. You should never feel pressured

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Speaker 1: into doing it. Here's what I would do, Molly. I

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Speaker 3: We'll see how you do it this, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, Molly, I do have to say one thing.

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Speaker 3: But there does come a time that you just have to.

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Speaker 1: I'll read you the first one. What would you do?

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Speaker 2: It all to the ride would be all right, you

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Speaker 1: But I'm still calming, no, no, no fake bacstort to

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Speaker 1: stay on the trip, I'd be saying. I'd be saying, Susan, Korea,

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Speaker 1: think quick, you got we got to stay on this trip, Susan,

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Speaker 3: So you know the lottery, That's what I said.

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Speaker 1: No, not as a billionaire darling. Nobody's a billionaire winning

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Speaker 1: the lottery. Trust him. Believe I have the luck. Yeah, Susan,

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Speaker 1: I just I wanted you to meet my friend. Susan.

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Speaker 1: She bought this is Ripley's believe it or not. She

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Speaker 3: Hell, I watch it, I would comment on the page.

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Speaker 1: I would watch everything.

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Speaker 3: Oh, and then how you give to my boss and

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Speaker 1: No, I would watch everything called Dad explains why she

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Speaker 2: And what's the first thing you say? Oh boy, look

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you know what I would say? What they say?

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Speaker 1: Two's company, threes, the crowd, and here we are. That's

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Speaker 3: That wouldsticle.

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Speaker 1: No, that's exactly what I would say. All right, you

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Speaker 3: That's because you don't get drunk.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you don't remember it, you have a sudden

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Speaker 3: Yeah, baby, check it out. And I mean what I say,

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Speaker 3: And I say what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And you don't remember what the hell you did?

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Speaker 1: Oh but it's well, you have a good point. If

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Speaker 2: Well, because I don't. That's the wrong question for me,

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Speaker 1: Can I just talk about you want to send Susan president? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Where I don't know what I'm doing, and I remember

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Speaker 4: But they say, yeah, okay, all right.

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Speaker 3: What's your first piece of advice? You know? We would

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Speaker 1: My first piece of advice would be, you know what,

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Speaker 3: And time heals.

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Speaker 1: No, stop saying that time doesn't always heal. That's a

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Speaker 3: No, stop crying in time.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's different.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't mean it's ever going to feel good, but time

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Speaker 1: I'm just feeling sorry for the uber driver who saw me.

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Speaker 1: you're interesting one here. You're accused of stealing a priceless

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Speaker 1: but you're completely innocent. What's your plan to clear your name?

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Speaker 1: Who accusing?

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Speaker 2: I mean, give me a line, detective, testify, have to

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Speaker 1: But people know who? How long the list do you want?

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Speaker 3: Really? They like?

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Speaker 1: And if you know that's you say, you're truth and

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Speaker 1: move on.

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Speaker 2: Probably have to have been in someone's bedroom, and you

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Speaker 2: can prove that you were never left to go in

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Speaker 2: someone's bedroom.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I just think once you start saying, well,

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Speaker 1: wait a minute, you know it was in your bedroom.

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Speaker 1: I didn't go in your bedroom, it's like too much.

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Speaker 1: Just simply state the truth and move on.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: You're asked to give a toast at a stranger's wedding

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Speaker 2: because you're mistaken for a guest.

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Speaker 3: What do you say.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I do that in a heartbeat. I wish that.

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Speaker 3: I'd get up. How about this couple?

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Speaker 1: I would I would probably talk about make a toast

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Speaker 1: to them. I talk about the way they look. I

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Speaker 1: talk about the people at the wedding ceremony, would or

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Speaker 1: I would talk about you know everything there and what

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Speaker 1: love means. And then at the end, I would say,

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Speaker 1: you know what marriage means, like the generic things that

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Speaker 1: you hear for a wedding toast, And then I would

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Speaker 1: say I would say, you know, we hold these truths

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Speaker 1: to be self evident, not only in the Constitution, but

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Speaker 1: at wedding receptions.

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Speaker 3: Can you imagine the looking at you like, who the

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Speaker 3: hell is she?

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Speaker 1: It's the stuff of a Hollywood movie. I would love it.

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Speaker 1: I would love to write it. I would love to

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Speaker 1: recite it.

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Speaker 3: I do it all right.

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Speaker 1: Someone loudly starts a rumor about you in public, but

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Speaker 1: it's somehow flattering. What's the rumor? How do you react? Okay,

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Speaker 1: let me here Susan. I heard that Susan Knowles had

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Speaker 1: a complete complete facelift and had her hair had a

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Speaker 1: hair transplant. That's how she has this beautiful thick out

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Speaker 1: of hair. If that's flattery, she looks so much younger.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy you all think this is true. I'm

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Speaker 2: so happy I didn't. But if you want to believe that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. There. I would accept it and say, well,

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Speaker 1: I thank you so much. Only you know the old

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Speaker 1: expression a hairdresser ever tells, a surgeon never tells, but

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Speaker 1: thank you so much, thank you for telling me I

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Speaker 1: look twenty nine. I've worked really hard to look like this,

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Speaker 1: so thank you.

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Speaker 3: There you go. They're going to tell you how skinny

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Speaker 3: you are. No, everybody does. Everybody does.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, let me just tell you I look like

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Speaker 1: mister potato head. Can I just tell you I have

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Speaker 1: skinny arms and skinny legs. It's what's in the middle

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Speaker 1: that you get sixty.

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Speaker 2: I mean, and I still wear a bikini. So they

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Speaker 2: want to say negative things. God bless them.

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Speaker 1: I can't. I have never want I told you this.

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Speaker 1: I've never worn a beginning Susan, I just now now

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Speaker 1: it's just got.

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Speaker 3: To look worse than a one piece than I do

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Speaker 3: in the beginning.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's because you're used to seeing yourself in.

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Speaker 2: A BIKINNI and I like my tummy tan so that

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Speaker 2: it's an illusion of less.

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Speaker 3: I like to walk around like this with my arms

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Speaker 3: straight up in the air.

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Speaker 1: And I mean, seriously, I look. You know, the reels

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Speaker 1: on Instagram it'll say like how to model, how to

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Speaker 1: stand to hide your stomach. I mean, if I'm sitting

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Speaker 1: there standing on an angle, one leg behind the other,

506
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: sucking my stomach in, tilting my head, it's like Jesus,

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Speaker 1: take the picture off that it's.

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Speaker 2: The thing you can't suck in and a two piece

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Speaker 2: because you can tell and like the.

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Speaker 1: Skin gets weird, trust me, Yeah, but your skin is not.

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Speaker 1: We've had this conversation my skin, I look like a

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Speaker 1: sharp pei. Oh I do.

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Speaker 3: We're going to wrap it up now.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to wrap it up.

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Speaker 3: That was all right enough for that.

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Speaker 2: From the viewers and our fans and the questions that

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Speaker 2: were sent in today, what do you make like what

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00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 2: one sticks out in your mind?

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Speaker 3: For me?

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Speaker 2: It was the ten year old. I mean, I can't

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Speaker 2: stop thinking about it. I know for you, my guest

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00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 2: for you is going to be the father in law

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Speaker 2: that wants to get out of there with the daughter

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Speaker 2: in law. But the tears. I feel so bad that

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Speaker 2: the little girl should not be upset, she was embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: I just think it points out you know, I know

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Speaker 1: that was sad for me. I just think it points

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Speaker 1: to the fact that we as mothers sometimes we go

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Speaker 1: overboard on defending our kids, so sure, But I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you the one that spoke to me is the travel one,

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Speaker 1: because friends, it just sounds like a miserable situation. And

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Speaker 1: I kept reading it thinking, you know, the kids are

533
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: probably friends to get because you know they're both young.

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Speaker 1: But I just thought she feels guilty about putting an

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Speaker 1: end too a trip that is probably and expensive, Susan,

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Speaker 1: I mean, do.

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Speaker 3: You want it's torture?

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00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, if you can only do one vacation and

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00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 2: that's it right then.

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00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: And the other. So that what that made me think

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Speaker 1: of in general, is we spend so much of our

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Speaker 1: life and we spend so much of our time either

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00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: trying to do the right thing, feeling guilty about doing

544
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: the wrong thing or the right thing. Like I just

545
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: wish that we all could step back, think what makes sense,

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00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 1: what is logical, and realize that, you know what, it's

547
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: just like, not every kid gets a metal. Sometimes people's

548
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: feelings are going to get hurt. Yes, I agree, Sometimes

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00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,959
Speaker 1: that's just life, right, and sometimes our kids are going

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00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: to get hurt sometimes. You know, life is not all

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00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: positive and.

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Speaker 3: Roses just it definitely is not.

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Speaker 1: Oh it is for you, Come on, you get the.

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00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: Talent no, no, I always get the guilt and feel

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00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: bad for people. And yeah, well it's called I thought

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Speaker 2: the questions were great today.

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 1: I know what, people, please keep setting them in right,

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Speaker 1: It's just I wish people would comment on the answers

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Speaker 1: we give because I know maybe there's something we're not

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Speaker 1: thinking about. You know.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's just bring it back to us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right, Well this really was a lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: We thank our listeners for joining us today. We thank

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Speaker 1: those of you who wrote in. We hope more if

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Speaker 1: you do so.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, because that's what we're here for, you know us

568
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 2: and ask some more about the dating things like we

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Speaker 2: want to know how the first date went up into

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Speaker 2: the tenth date and why you.

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Speaker 3: Chose to continue or not?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Are you having ten dates?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And sometimes they figure out by ten dates like yeah,

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Speaker 2: this isn't.

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Speaker 1: The one I heard you ten dates five one.

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Speaker 2: Some people really are attracted to one another and they

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Speaker 2: go on a bunch of dates and they're having fun,

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Speaker 2: and then you really learn about somebody and you decide.

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Speaker 3: Like maybe not all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, people, they gotta let us know, they gotta let

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Speaker 1: us know.

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Speaker 2: Want all right, make sure everybody you follow Bachelor Happy

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