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Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff to Blow your Mind somehow stuff works

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Speaker 1: dot com. Hey, we're gonna stuff to blow your mind.

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Speaker 1: My name is Robert Lamb and I'm Julie Douglas. We've

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Speaker 1: talked a bit about trust on here for about hormones,

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Speaker 1: about oxytocin, because you know, we're always big into talking

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Speaker 1: about what are the what are the scientific reasons for

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Speaker 1: all these surface levels of interaction for all though the

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Speaker 1: ways that we we feel, the ways that we behave

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Speaker 1: like what's what's making us tick? And oxytocin often comes

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Speaker 1: up in terms of trust, in terms of love, in

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Speaker 1: terms of emotional connections. So it was probably a bit

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Speaker 1: too much for us to think, or for anyone to

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Speaker 1: to get the idea that this is just a purely

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Speaker 1: positive thing, that there's something in the human body and

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Speaker 1: our in all of our the machinery that under lies

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Speaker 1: who we are, that there's one substance that's just nothing

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Speaker 1: but feel good in a jar. It's not the platonic ideal.

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Speaker 1: And if anything, this, this idea that oxytocin could have

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Speaker 1: a dark side, is just more evidence of dud the

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Speaker 1: duality of things right, And we've talked about oxytocin really

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Speaker 1: in terms of cuddling and hugging. Um, that whole idea

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Speaker 1: that if you wrap someone in an embrace for twenty

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Speaker 1: seconds or more, that you're giving them just the right

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Speaker 1: amount of pressure that your body will actually begin to

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Speaker 1: produce oxytocin. Now, I want anybody like that idea, and

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Speaker 1: I think it's great. Totally in favor of twenty second

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Speaker 1: hugs all right, But between consending adults, we yes, we

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Speaker 1: will this sort of like hug pile up hug club thing.

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Speaker 1: I'm not behind by the way, um, but we will

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Speaker 1: revisit this idea later as we talk about the dark

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Speaker 1: side of oxytocin. So where do we get this, this

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Speaker 1: idea that's that oxytocin is the super feel good a drug.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, we can kind of we can kind

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Speaker 1: of lay this at one individual's feet for the most part.

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Speaker 1: One uh one one doctor love one love doctor uh

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Speaker 1: an individual who you've seen on TED talks up there

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Speaker 1: with his microphone preaching the word of oxytocin and making

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Speaker 1: a very compelling argument. As individuals who give TED talks,

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Speaker 1: at least the more recent ones, often do you totally

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Speaker 1: buy into it? And you're like, yes, the feel good hormone,

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Speaker 1: the mother hormone, the hug hormone, the kiss hormone. Let

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Speaker 1: me have some of that. Yeah, and we'll talk about

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Speaker 1: Dr Paul Zack ak the love doctor, in a moment.

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Speaker 1: But I wanted just to mention the oxytocin is an

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Speaker 1: extract from the human posterior pituitary gland, and it was

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Speaker 1: discovered in nineteen o nine when the British pharmacologists or

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Speaker 1: Henry H. Dale, found that it could contract the uterus

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Speaker 1: of a pregnant cat. And of course that's another way

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Speaker 1: in which oxytocin shows up right, not just in cuddling

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Speaker 1: or um, you know, acts of love making, but also experiments,

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Speaker 1: cat experimentation and basically mammalian birth right um. According to

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Speaker 1: Ed Young, though, we have taken oxytocin as as the

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Speaker 1: sort of panacea for all ills, and we'll talk more

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Speaker 1: about that with regards to Paul Zack. But I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to say that the hormone is found in everything

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Speaker 1: from octopuses to sheep, and it's evolutionary roots stretched back

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Speaker 1: a half a billion years, and for decades, animal studies

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Speaker 1: have shown the oxytocin is important for social interactions. So

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Speaker 1: for example, if you block the hormone UM, monogamous vowles

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Speaker 1: will actually become more promiscuous and use neglect their newborn

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Speaker 1: lambs if they don't have access to that oxytocin. So

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Speaker 1: you could see how it would be informing our ideas

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Speaker 1: of UM connection, bonding, love, and and even in the

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Speaker 1: whole sort of birth and death cycle that we have

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Speaker 1: these notions about how we go along here in society. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all these social animal interactions that we in evitably have,

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Speaker 1: oxytocin so like that's the thread that runs through all

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Speaker 1: of them. So of course we end up focusing on that,

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Speaker 1: and then as it's reported and championed it uh, it

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Speaker 1: increasingly becomes seen as this magical feel good elixir that

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Speaker 1: it flows through us. You're right, because there are accounts

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Speaker 1: of being released when you tweet something UM and you dance. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you know, It's just it shows up everywhere. And I

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Speaker 1: think that is what some researchers will say is the

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Speaker 1: is produced. Um. So again, let's let's talk about Paul

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Speaker 1: Zack though, because he kind of is the guy that

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Speaker 1: he even refers to himself as doctor Love. So he

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Speaker 1: be used almost offensively for the social betterment of the

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Speaker 1: human race. Now, he actually even calls it the morality

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Speaker 1: Many different variations on, by the way, but the basic

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Speaker 1: premises that there's something called the trust game, and this

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Speaker 1: is when a person player one, is given some money

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Speaker 1: a one off choice to either accept or reject the proposal,

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Speaker 1: and if Player to rejects, then neither one of them

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Speaker 1: this idea that you know, there's some sort of morality

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Speaker 1: endowment UM is rejected as stingy, ensuring that both players

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Speaker 1: getting are getting nothing. And that's where that sort of

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Speaker 1: morality comes into, because even though someone is offering another

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Speaker 1: in no way, that's not enough. I'm not even gonna

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Speaker 1: So when Zach tested the blood of players who had

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Speaker 1: demonstrated trustworthy behavior, he found that their oxytocin levels had

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Speaker 1: increased in proportion to the monetary transfer. And he did

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Speaker 1: this again and again um, as I said, just with

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Speaker 1: they would begin to see these spikes again an oxytocin

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Speaker 1: operate in the world. Right, and as no surprise, as

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Speaker 1: though we're looking at some links yesterday, you can go

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Speaker 1: on Amazon and you can buy oxytocin. You can buy

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Speaker 1: there's one called liquid Trust that that doesn't sound creepy

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Speaker 1: at all. It's in a spray canister, um, so that

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Speaker 1: a social hormone, and it is it definitely isn'tvolved in

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Speaker 1: different social interactions. But are all social interactions positive? No, not,

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Speaker 1: And even the emotional responses in the human world that

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Speaker 1: You know, you can easily make the make the the

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Speaker 1: completely devoid of love and understanding. All right, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: far different role um talking about envy and schaden freud. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you see something that you want, or you see something

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Speaker 1: or off somebody else, And then there's schaden freud. But

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Speaker 1: which is it's not a great emotion, right, but all

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Speaker 1: as well as promoting trust and generosity, oxytocin can heighten

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Speaker 1: feelings of envy and shaden freud. This is in the

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Speaker 1: journal Biological Psychiatry. When volunteers played a gambling game, those

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Speaker 1: more of this again social construct here, and you think

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Speaker 1: And we've seen this again and again that even if

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