1 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back 2 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: a suit on, looking back to back down, giving them 3 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: more like American buck things. And it's not me true 4 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: good at Steve har listening to move together for Steve. Please, Mommy, 5 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: I don't join join me to be doing me. Honey. 6 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 1: You gotta use turning. You gotta turn to turn them out. 7 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: Turn you haven't got to turn them out. Then turn 8 00:01:46,560 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: the water the water. Come come on your back at it. Huh. 9 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: I shall will a good morning everybody. You're listening to 10 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 1: the voice, Come on dig me now one it only 11 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show Okay, okay, here's one 12 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: for you today. This is one that's deep inside of me. 13 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: So this one right here, I know this one very 14 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: very well. I want to talk to you today about success. 15 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: But I want to talk to you about it like 16 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: I usually do in terms of a principle of it, 17 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: but I want to share something with you about it now. 18 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: I was talking to my daughter about it. I've talked 19 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: about my son in law about it, talked about it 20 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: with all my children, and I'm really starting to express 21 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: it to them now because I mean mine range from 22 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: age thirty one down to sixteen. So I'm talking to 23 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 1: a wide range of people constantly, but I want to 24 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: share something with you, and this is very, very real, 25 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: and there is no way around this. If you have 26 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: any aspiration of being successful, if you have any inkling 27 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 1: that you want to change for the better and become 28 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 1: successful in that change, I want you to realize, starting 29 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 1: right now, the effort that is going to require. And 30 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 1: that's why I think it stops a lot of people. 31 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are never told or 32 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: don't understand the sheer efforts that it takes to become 33 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: successful at anything in any area of your life. You know. 34 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: I think people think that if they do their best 35 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: they can that that will cut it. Well, that's not enough. 36 00:03:54,440 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: Here is the lightbulb. That's not enough. If you think 37 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: that doing your best is enough, that I got news 38 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: for you. It's not. Well, Steve, what if you've done 39 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: your best, though, and your best ain't good enough? Well, 40 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 1: let me ask you that same question. Hold on. If 41 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: you want to be successful and you've done your best 42 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: and best isn't good enough? What you through? That's it? 43 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: But Stephen, was my best? No, no, no, no, no no, 44 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: it was the best you had at that time, in 45 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: that particular day, But tomorrow add something to it. You've 46 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: never done everything. There is no you can't go no more, 47 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 1: you can't add no more. I've seen marathon runners end 48 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: up crawling across the line. I've seen triathlon people man 49 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 1: just staggering in the street and didn't want nobody to 50 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: help him because they knew that would disqualify him from 51 00:04:55,240 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: the race. You got more. Have you ever dipped into 52 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 1: your reserve tank? That's what we're talking about now. See, 53 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: all of us have a reserve tank, you know. I. 54 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: You know, on my ranch, I like to ride four wheelers. 55 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: I have all terrain vehicles and all of them have 56 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 1: a gas tank on it and a gas tank and 57 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: most of mine let me see all of them. Yeah, 58 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: all of them have gas tank needles on them, and 59 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: it lets me know. When I get down towards eat 60 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:30,239 Speaker 1: there's a little lane that's read that lets me know. Okay, Steve, 61 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: you're in the danger zone. Now you're riding into the 62 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: lowest part of your tank. But if I keep riding 63 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 1: and I forget to get some gas in there, guess 64 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: what when it runs out of gas. All of my 65 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: all terrain vehicles, all of them, Honda, Polaris, all of them. 66 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: Those are the makers. There's a button on the gas 67 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: tank itself that I can click and it says reserve. 68 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 1: That means they know that for the hardcore riders, they're 69 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 1: gonna ride somewhere and they're gonna get themselves in a 70 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: situation and they're gonna run out of everything. They're gonna 71 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: run out of road, they're gonna run out of gas. 72 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: They've prepared because they know for the hardcore rider, every 73 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: hardcore rider needs a reserve tank. And so there's a 74 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: button that you can click on the gas tank that 75 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: clicks it into a reserve and it'll give you about 76 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: fifty miles or twenty miles worth of gas in that Now, 77 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: guess what in that reserve That may be all you 78 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: need to get you the where you're going, or get 79 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 1: you back to safety so you can refuel. Don't tell 80 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: me you've done your best. When your best, don't cut 81 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 1: it what you're gonna do. See, when best is possible, 82 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 1: then good enough ain't enough. See you can flip that 83 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: any kind of weight you where you want to. But 84 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: if but if the best is possible, then good enough 85 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: and it ain't enough. Man, See that's good enough. But 86 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 1: if the best is possible, why would you not shoot 87 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: for that? And you are all capable of making it. 88 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 1: You are all capable of being successful if you change 89 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 1: your mind set. But you've got to change your mindset 90 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: and realize the effort that has to be put forth 91 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: in becoming successful. You've got to do it relentlessly, over 92 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: and over and over and over and every day. I 93 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: try to do something to progress my life for the better. 94 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: I try to do something every day. I wake up 95 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: every day with the plan. Some phone calls, some meetings, 96 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: some some some interviews. Something. Man, that's going to advance 97 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: and move the brand forward. Because here's what's gonna happen. 98 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: You are Let's say you reach your goal. Let's say 99 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: your goal is to make one hundred thousand dollars. Well, 100 00:07:57,600 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: I got news for you. Listen to this. When you 101 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: make the one hundred thousand dollars, you can't go on 102 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: noway and go on vacation and put your hand behind 103 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: your head and say I made a hundred thousand dollars. 104 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: Guess what you got to do. You got to find 105 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: a way now to maintain that one hundred thousand to 106 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 1: keep it coming in, so you can't just get there 107 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: and stop and rest and whoa. It is harder to 108 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: maintain your success than it is to get successful. See 109 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: let's say, let me let me show you this. Suppose 110 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: it takes you five to eight years to find a 111 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: way to make fifty thousand dollars. Let's say it takes 112 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: you five to eight years to find a way to 113 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: make an extra fifty thousand dollars, and you finally, through 114 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 1: work and effort, you get to the fifty thousand dollars. 115 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: Are that's that's it's only just begun now, because guess what, 116 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: in order to keep the fifty coming in, you got 117 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 1: to duplicate what you did to get there. And then, oh, 118 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: here's what you're going to have the audacity being a 119 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 1: human being. You're gonna want another fifty because you're a 120 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: human being, because you gotta have something else to shoot 121 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 1: for now, you're gonna want another fifty. Well, now that 122 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: guess what you gotta do. Now, Now you gotta do 123 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: what you did before, plus you gotta come up with 124 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 1: something else. Then after that, you're gonna have the audacity 125 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 1: because you're humans, You're gonna want another fifty says how 126 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: this works, and see that that's the that's the importance 127 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: of your relationship with God, because you're gonna constantly need 128 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: it and ain't ever a point where you're gonna be 129 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: through needing it. But there ain't gonna become a point 130 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: in your life where you're gonna through. Won't through, be through, 131 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,439 Speaker 1: won't nothing unless you just gave up. And if you 132 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: don't gave up, who wants that? Come on, y'all, this 133 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: is going to take quite a bit of effort, and 134 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: if you think it will come to you any other way, 135 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: you're sadly mistaken. Because of all the sixth sucessful people 136 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: I know, I know that the effort they put out 137 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 1: on a daily basis is daunting, and I think that 138 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: the average person just doesn't understand the requirement of time 139 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: and effort that it takes to get that and willingness 140 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: to put it out. You gotta cut a lot of 141 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: monkey business out your life, all that hanging out, all 142 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 1: that late and all that club and all that drinking, 143 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: all that. You gotta cut a whole lot of monkey 144 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: business out to be successful. Man, if you're planning on 145 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 1: being successful, get up early, stay up late, work, try think, meet, greet, smile, attract. 146 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 1: It takes a lot, let's go, but you can do it. 147 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: God is pressed to plassing out blessings all day long. 148 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: Why are you not in line for yours? I'm telling 149 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 1: you right now, I want everything God got for me, 150 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: because what he's shown me so far wool If he 151 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: got some mo man on man, how good is God? 152 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: Hunt show? Ladies and gentlemen? Here we are? Two thousand 153 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: nineteen is upon us? What's happening to everybody? Yeah? Yeah, 154 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 1: how fortunate do you feel to have made it? To 155 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: do that? You really looked at that number closely? Yet? 156 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 1: Two thousand nineteen? What do you mean? Yeah? Yeah? You 157 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: remember when it was nineteen sixty eight? I was one man. 158 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 1: I was watching mar Luke King's funeral on TV in 159 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: Miss Blandon's class. She bought black and white TV and 160 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: made us watch it on TV. Wow, man, you weren't here? 161 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: What about nineteen seventy? Folder? What happened that? Yet? You here? 162 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: To Nah, you weren't here. I wasn't here, said, when 163 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: were you born in the nineteen eighty? Pretty close? I 164 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: was getting n eight? What was you doing? Sent? What y'all? Eight? 165 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 1: World work trying to figure out what had happened to 166 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: my life. A failure just out of college. Shoot, mine 167 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 1: was worse than that. I had a Pinto repossessed and 168 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: I had to catch the bus and pass my Pinto 169 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: at the loan office. Everything. Still, they don't still make 170 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 1: sense to us that we had one. They don't make them. 171 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: They don't make My cousin had orange Ja Jay, you 172 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: remember that powder blue my escort, That boy had a 173 00:12:46,440 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: powder blue as not power what I'm talking about. So anyway, 174 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: it's two thousand nineteen. Yes, I hope everybody's feeling awful grateful, man. 175 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: I know I'm grateful another year, got some good health 176 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: to gether deal in the land of living it. That's 177 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: a highly favorite yourself. Man, Just feel like, just feel 178 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 1: like just a year right here? It does, doesn't it, 179 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna tell you something in two thousand and 180 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: eighteen was a blur. It went by. It was rough year, 181 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: thing was rough for the country. Call Yeah, I'm so 182 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:45,559 Speaker 1: sick of rushing home just to see what he said. Yeah, 183 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: you know, over the over the holiday seem I didn't 184 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: watch any news. No, I didn't care, didn't I didn't 185 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 1: want to know. I made myself not watching. I didn't 186 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: watch that much. Yeah, because I unplug. Yeah I had 187 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 1: to because you watch it so much when we're at work. 188 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, I just didn't. I made myself watch. Tell 189 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: you what I did watch? Damn if we talk about that, 190 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: talk about trending, because man, I you didn't know how 191 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 1: to talk about We didn't know from We didn't not, No, 192 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: we didn't. I don't spoke to it. Yeah, yeah, we've 193 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: been talking to it. Wow, we don't do that now, 194 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 1: all right, listen, coming up at thirty two after the hour, 195 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna get caught up and uh we're gonna talk 196 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 1: about it. Uh surviving r Kelly. We'll do all that 197 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 1: when we come back at thirty two after the hour. 198 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: You're listening. Happy New Year, we are back. Happy New Year. 199 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 1: Hope you had a great Christmas holiday. We're back. You 200 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 1: know what, we got to shut out our brand new affiliates, Steve, 201 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: we're talking about wuk x I f M one oh 202 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: seven point five in Jackson, Mississippi, finally got on in 203 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: the silk there. Monica Balls is so happy because she's 204 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: been the state representatives and the catfish champions. Man, she's 205 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: been bringing us all the highlights of Missus Sipper. You 206 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 1: know the Catfish Championship. You know they had a cotton tournament. 207 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: They had really yeah, they had faux blue ribbon holes. Yeah. Yeah, Mississippi. 208 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: Monica being just bringing us all up to date. Her 209 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: girlfriend Monica singing down at the squires or tavern if two. Yeah, 210 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 1: and she can sing. So that's Kixie one or seven 211 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: point five in Jackson, Mississippi. And here's something you do 212 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: know about Steve W. R o U ninety two point one, Dayton, 213 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: Ohio one boy boy home h of Warn Patterson CoA 214 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 1: who Warn? That's a high school Patterson Coal. But the 215 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: home of my best friend, the greatest pledge of Omega 216 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: sci Fire of all times, sixteen weeks all alone, long 217 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: time marvelous Marvin Hort. That's that's marvelous Marvin Hard to 218 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: the side five baby, one of the greatest cues I've 219 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: ever known. That's a lot of planning right there. So 220 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 1: welcome them to the ride. I'm gonna see all the 221 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: boys in April. Man, we're doing the fiftieth year reunion 222 00:16:50,120 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 1: of our chapter side Gamble. Oh wow, fifty year reunion anyway, 223 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: So welcome dating and welcome, mississippis appreciate than to some 224 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: time next time you performing there, Well you know what 225 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 1: I mean. Tickets you go, cousins and he's my daddy. 226 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: People too that we move to the other side of 227 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: the Fami. That's the light skin in side of the family. 228 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: My girl murders as we lay as we lay down, 229 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: your favorite? Can we play that for the hate us too? Yeah? 230 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 1: Wood Alabama played from down now? How playoffs is from down? Now? 231 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: You don't understand both? Yeah? Did all the music come 232 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: out of Cleveland and dass the Old Jays verse? Understand 233 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: dog here we're here? Soul music flid Yeah, I love 234 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: dad Boy, I love I love Slave Yes, yes, yes, 235 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:33,400 Speaker 1: all that? Oh hi yo? Or how players boy? One 236 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: of the greatest groups of all times. Damn sugar Foot 237 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 1: and Diamond sugar Foot the airport one time. Huh sugar 238 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 1: Foot head on green jumper from the US Air Force. 239 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 1: But he had on some white platform boots. Yes, yes, 240 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: sugar Head on both It was six in the morning, 241 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 1: because you know in that you gotta catch flights earlier. 242 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: It was six in the morning. Should have had a 243 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 1: waist with just feathers hanging on. I should have had 244 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 1: about stepping five change on his neck. All of them 245 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 1: was eagle. You wanted that outfit, one feather in his hand. 246 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 1: What he says, Sugarfoot has never said. Does this go together? 247 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: Were going on? Man, I said, sugar trying to catch 248 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 1: a plane all but he talked like that, Yes, oh man, 249 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: oh girl. It was my one day, child, all child, 250 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 1: won't have to listen to your life on that day. 251 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:57,200 Speaker 1: I'll be able to make up my own mind. Yes 252 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: I will. That boy said, I'm gonna be free. What 253 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:04,919 Speaker 1: about the millennials, Steve though, do they know what they're missing? 254 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: If they they do not know, I've tried to. I 255 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,679 Speaker 1: see a lot of millennials at my talk show, and 256 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 1: I stopped and I talked to him because I play 257 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 1: old school music on all a commercial okay, and they 258 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:16,880 Speaker 1: be sitting there just be groove, And I said, Hey, 259 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: I just want to inform y'all that that you're listening to. 260 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:25,199 Speaker 1: That's called the band. The group they actually went in 261 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: their basement in practice, and then they came upstairs and 262 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 1: showed it to people, and if it wasn't good, they 263 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 1: went back down and practice. Then they got a gig 264 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 1: at the weekend at the tavern. They went to the 265 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 1: tavern and they played ye musicians, they took their instruments 266 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 1: to school. Now that to school? What's the tavern? Tavern? 267 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 1: Far Man Baby? So I was y'all's break. Oh it 268 00:20:54,400 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 1: was great, very laxing. You just saw me. Yeah, part 269 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 1: of stand up. Oh my god, day you didn't have 270 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 1: to get up. Oh my god. But I bene watched Okay, 271 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,479 Speaker 1: the last thing we bene watched you talked about earlier, 272 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 1: that was Surviving R. Kelly. That was like the end 273 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 1: of our vacation watching it. I just watched it one time. Yeah, no, 274 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:23,360 Speaker 1: I watched it a lot. But then, yeah, I've been 275 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: watched this show, Steve. I don't know if you've If 276 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 1: you've seen it, it's called Bad Blood. It's called Bad 277 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 1: Blood on Netflix. You're like, what, Okay, that's all unique. 278 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 1: All right, listen, we're gonna talk about Surviving R. Kelly. Okay, 279 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: everybody's talking about it. We're gonna get to that, of course. 280 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,479 Speaker 1: Uh coming up and uh Robin Motown Deacon death Jammer 281 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 1: here too in the New Year with Church Complex. Yeah yeah, yeah, 282 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:58,639 Speaker 1: he's talk Oh yeah, are They're coming up at forty 283 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: four after the hour, right, after this you're listening show 284 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Guys, miss 285 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 1: Anne will be here. She's gonna have the latest on 286 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:15,119 Speaker 1: the government shut down. Boy, is that ever gonna end? Uh? 287 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah, it's crazy because you know what, man, 288 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: it's like the Republicans act like they're Okay, I got 289 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 1: the campaign promise, but the first campaign promise was We're 290 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 1: gonna build the wall, and who's gonna pay for it? 291 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 1: Kid's gonna pay for Mexico. Mexico, sayn Spanish. And then 292 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:40,880 Speaker 1: he turned around and said, hey, Chuck, I'll take full 293 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,440 Speaker 1: responsibility for shutting the government down. I wanted to be 294 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: on me. I'm shutting it down, and I gladly shut it. 295 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:52,200 Speaker 1: Put the shut down on me. Now his lion ain't. 296 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 1: And the Republicans act like it's the Democrats fault. When 297 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: they put a joint bill together that then it and 298 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: the House approved, gave you one point something for some 299 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 1: border security. They said, yeah, he had signed it, took 300 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 1: it to the president. He adn't want that. Now he's 301 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,120 Speaker 1: sending that five point six billion or nothing at all. 302 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: The sad thing is all these people are not getting paid, 303 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: all the government workers, passport I wish this is what 304 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: I think they should do. We should put together some 305 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: legislation so so the congressman, senators. Congressman and senators should 306 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: be considered government employees. So when y'all shut the government yourself, 307 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: I like it, then let your money be messed up too. 308 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: I bet I better be a whole lot more negotiating 309 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 1: then I like it. Let me tell you effect of 310 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 1: the airport though, because TSA was short of people. Man, 311 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,639 Speaker 1: they didn't have all those people in there, so the 312 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: holiday it was jammed up, man bad and not getting paid. Yeah, volunteer, 313 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 1: that's what the volunteer working. Yeah, a lot of bags 314 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 1: of I ain't getting me, not at all. All right, 315 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: miss Dan'll have the latest on the government shutdown and 316 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,439 Speaker 1: an entertainment news we've been talking about it all morning, 317 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: Surviving R Kelly the documentary. We'll get into that, and 318 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 1: then later on we'll talk about some of the highlights 319 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 1: from last night's Golden Globe Awards. Right now, Jackson, Mississippi, 320 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: and Dayton, Ohio are brand new. Affhili, it's good morning 321 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: to you. It is Monday, which means it is time 322 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:40,120 Speaker 1: for Reverend Motown and Deacon Death Jam with church complaints 323 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 1: Gecius most botnical monipolis apu distris what that means? All 324 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 1: of that? All right, we are here in the new 325 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: year to deal with the complaints over an ungrateful congregation. 326 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say they're any great, I would, I would. 327 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:19,639 Speaker 1: What else would you compall a church that complaints every Monday? Yeah? 328 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: Well that, but you know something has happened over the weekend. Well, 329 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: let us begin, deacon, all right, I passed that brother 330 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: Reginald Bowsman I, also known as Reggie B. I shouted 331 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 1: at the New Year's Eve church service. Uh, eight dying 332 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: bags fell out of his pocket, and he's asking that 333 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: whoever found him the police return and he said this 334 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: is going to ruin his business and can cut into 335 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: his profit once again. He lost dying bags and looking 336 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 1: for somebody to return the past. It confiscated the bag. 337 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 1: We don't have a lost in found hill at our church. 338 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: We have a Loss and Gone department. We've already given 339 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 1: those bags to the needy, shall we say? Yeah, and 340 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 1: donated the proceeds to the building full building. What do eat? 341 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 1: Dumb bag? All right, now we gotta do it? Wi will? 342 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 1: I passed up brother Darren Dugas. He's a lawyer, cowboy fan. 343 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: He's gone too far. Uh he went on the Facebook 344 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 1: last night. He went on the Facebook and uh he 345 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: had a cowboy church rob on and he was singing, blank, 346 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,479 Speaker 1: better have my money. I guess he met somebody pastor, 347 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,239 Speaker 1: we cannot have anybody red is then our church in 348 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 1: this manner? Not no cowboy friend. Clearly I'm from Cleveland. 349 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 1: And if you don't, we've had done us do the 350 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 1: Baker Mayfield and the success we had this year. For 351 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,320 Speaker 1: the first time ever, you will see a gospel choir 352 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:29,160 Speaker 1: in brown in in brown, brown rules, alright, orange collars. Okay, 353 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: we didn't know nothing about them. I know that's that's 354 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: a new development because I don't have anything to say 355 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 1: about this man with this cowboy rule. All right, Well, 356 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 1: here's something you're gonna have to wait. Count Sister Raydeen Lockheart. Uh, 357 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 1: would you please talk to her and tell her to 358 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 1: stop wearing the blind fold to church? Every since ever 359 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 1: since she watched a beard box, she's been wearing this 360 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: blind file. He stayed here all week because she couldn't 361 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: find her way home. You don't have to talk to 362 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,359 Speaker 1: the fast. She is in the sanctuary every Now that's 363 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: obviously quite funny. But I haven't seen bird Box, so 364 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:21,200 Speaker 1: why would I don't watch bird Box? He calls it 365 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:25,920 Speaker 1: right over there next to ill Chopel. Anytime I see 366 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 1: drug Lord, I watches that. Ye Choppels were better than 367 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 1: bird Box. I can't a shoot it. Your Choppel were 368 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: running some dope. Now, if he Choppel came to church 369 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 1: with shouting and some kilo fell out of his pocket, 370 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: we could build a new church yas weekend. I don't 371 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 1: even call it the Choppel Missionary Baptist Church. All right, now, 372 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 1: look at here past the eye. We are fed out 373 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,240 Speaker 1: with these people. Let's everyone needs to hear this. If 374 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 1: if the church has fed any of your children more 375 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: than three times, we will be claiming them on our 376 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 1: twenty eighteen. We are we are tired of not being 377 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: able to recoup what we put out. Now, Sister Harriet Johnson, 378 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 1: her set of twins, uh is here every day in 379 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,960 Speaker 1: the after school program, and she's arguing about us claiming 380 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 1: the twins on our text. That's on you path. Well, 381 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 1: we're claiming the kids, as deacon said, we're claiming the kids, 382 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 1: and we're you know you we claiming sister Harriet. I started, 383 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 1: probably wouldn't have made the tea sister callerwood or immediately 384 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: and said just forget go. Then all right, I guess 385 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: I want to tell you about R. Kelly and the 386 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 1: youth Choir. Let's do that, lady, Okay, coming up at 387 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: the top of the hour. He did not say that. 388 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 1: Entertainment come up. Uh, they're surviving R. Kelly documentary. We'll 389 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 1: get to it right after this. You're listening to Steve 390 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, everybody, let's welcome our new 391 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: affiliates to the Steve Harvey Morning Show family. It's w 392 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 1: k X I f M. That's Kicks one oh seven 393 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 1: point five in Jackson, missus snippy yeah, yeah, yeah, and 394 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 1: w R O you ninety two point one, Dayton's R 395 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 1: and B leader in Dayton. Ohai baby, yeah, welcome, welcome, Welcome. 396 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 1: What took you so long? Yeah? All right, yeah, man. 397 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 1: That that's I've been really trying to get in Jackson, Misson, 398 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: just for Monica's sake. So we're being about all the 399 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 1: great stuff in that state that we never get to 400 00:30:55,080 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 1: see Monica. Everybody tell when she go to the reunions. Now, Dave, 401 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 1: who is all about Monicai girl gonna they're gonna give 402 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 1: a school wow and us name a street after her, 403 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 1: a boulevard. Yeah, alright, key to the city, all right 404 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: now in today's entertainment news, guys, Uh, we were all 405 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 1: shocked when we when we watched the Surviving R. Kelly documentary. 406 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: It's a three night, six part Lifetime Network docum series. 407 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 1: It told the story of several women who accused R. 408 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 1: Kelly of child underage, mental, physical, and sexual abuse, as 409 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: well as interviews with associates, his former staff members, his brothers, 410 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: and his ex wife, Andrea Kelly. Andrea Kelly, Uh, she 411 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:58,480 Speaker 1: was also a victim. These women, some of them were underage. Uh. 412 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:01,200 Speaker 1: They lived in our Kelly's howl in the studio for 413 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 1: years and they all talked about being forbidden to talk. 414 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: They were denied movement in the house and the horrific mental, physical, 415 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 1: and sexual abuse. I mean, it was amazing what came out. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 416 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 1: if you had to ask him, uh, you know, to 417 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, Steve. I watched it and it 418 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: was crazy because I watched it with my daughters in 419 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,480 Speaker 1: the other room, my wife, some of my wife's friends. 420 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: Everybody was sitting around a TV watching and I was 421 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 1: in my office, and I wouldn't just be honest, man, 422 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 1: I just didn't know the magnitude of it. And I 423 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 1: really feel badly. I feel bad because I wish I 424 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:50,080 Speaker 1: had understood the depth of what was going on. Not 425 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 1: that I could have done anything about it, but oh 426 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,719 Speaker 1: my reaction to him would have been very, very different. 427 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: I just didn't know it to the degreased. You know, 428 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: at first, you know, you know, you know, you know, 429 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:09,120 Speaker 1: I gotta guess, you know, you gotta, you know, give 430 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 1: a person dawn trial, you gotta see if it's true. 431 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: All this hip right, the benefit of the doubt. Um, 432 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 1: that's how that's how you're supposed to do it. But 433 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 1: but you know, when I saw the tape, yeah, I 434 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 1: went whoa wait, whoa, whoa whoa. But for a long time, dog, 435 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: it was a rumor and it was humor for a 436 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 1: long time. It was that. Yeah. Yeah, And I think 437 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: everybody was shocked, Steve, not just Shoe. I mean, we 438 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 1: found out things that we had no idea what's going on, 439 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 1: none whatsoever. The depth of it. Man. Yeah, I felt 440 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 1: bad because, yeah, it was shocking because being at the 441 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: time or earlier, being from Chicago being an R. Kelly fan. 442 00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 1: I mean, we loved his music, you know, and it 443 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 1: was hard to separate. I guess, you know, you gotta. 444 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: He's an artist and his art so you know, you 445 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 1: hear these rumors and you're you know, people are like, well, 446 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 1: that's okay. I still like his music. You know, he's 447 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 1: still Doocolate Factory. Yeah, and all of that. But then 448 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: to see the surviving R. Kelly doc you serious, is 449 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 1: I'm done? Yeah? I wouldn't win it at all. Oh, 450 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,719 Speaker 1: I'm done. It's a whole new level. Yeah. Well, we'll 451 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,680 Speaker 1: talk about it some more, but right now, let's get 452 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 1: to headline news, ladies and gentlemen. The one and only 453 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 1: Happy New Year, miss Anne Trip, thank you very much 454 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 1: in Happy New Years to you everybody out there. Good morning. 455 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 1: This is Androputs the news. In Texas, two suspects are 456 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,279 Speaker 1: under arrest for the fatal shooting of that child we 457 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,399 Speaker 1: were talking about, seven year old little black girl named 458 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 1: Jasmine Barnes. Jasmine was shot while riding in a car 459 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 1: with her mother and her siblings to the store and 460 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,720 Speaker 1: would initially seemed like a racist drive by Harris County 461 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 1: Sheriff Ed Gonsalis says the first suspect, twenty year old 462 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:53,319 Speaker 1: Eric Black, faces capital murder charges. Mister Black has acknowledged 463 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:57,279 Speaker 1: his role in Jasmine's murder. We've also received information that 464 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,320 Speaker 1: this involves a second individual as well. We are still 465 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:06,280 Speaker 1: trying to verify some information and this investigation is ongoing. 466 00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,840 Speaker 1: Jeff Gonzalis does say that since both suspects are African American, 467 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 1: that race does not appear to have been the motive, 468 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 1: and that little Jasmine's family were not the intended targets. 469 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 1: A second suspect is also on custody. A search still on, 470 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:20,800 Speaker 1: well not really a search for They're hoping that the 471 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 1: white man who was seen in a red pickup truck 472 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 1: does come forward. They say he was just probably a bystander. 473 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: Today's day seventeen of the partial's government shut down. President 474 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,320 Speaker 1: Trump says talks will continue this week between Democrats and 475 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,759 Speaker 1: the GOP to hopefully craft and agreement to end it. 476 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,719 Speaker 1: Right now, talks are at an impass over Trump's insistence 477 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: on getting five billion dollars for his border wall, as 478 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: the Democrats say they're only willing to green light at 479 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 1: one billion point three for increased border security. They say 480 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: people can tunnel under a border wall. Meanwhile, President Trump 481 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 1: insists that people will win him. Many of those people 482 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 1: that won't be receiving a paycheck, many of those people 483 00:35:56,080 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 1: agree with what I'm doing. Some of the people from 484 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,359 Speaker 1: say they don't know who he's talking to. Nevertheless, more 485 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 1: than eight hundred thousand federal employees have either been furloughed 486 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 1: or they're working without pay deferred pay. Basically, Trump says 487 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,799 Speaker 1: the shutdown should go, would go on, and can go 488 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 1: on for months. He says, by the way, the partial 489 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: government shutdown could soon affect millions of Americans who lie 490 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,439 Speaker 1: on food stamps to feed their families. The food stamp 491 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 1: program is run by the Department of Agriculture, and that's 492 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 1: one of the agencies that remains unfunded because of the shutdown. Meanwhile, 493 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 1: the Trump administration's lists of defections continues to grow, this 494 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 1: time as the chief of staff for the Department of 495 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 1: Defense reradmil Kevin Sweeney, he's leaving the trial of those 496 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 1: charged with the brutal murder of Washington Post columnists Halmalkas 497 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 1: Joji has begun. Saudi Arabia's attorney general reportedly seeking the 498 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,440 Speaker 1: death penalty for five of the eleven people charging connection 499 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,920 Speaker 1: with the crime. High profile trial opened last week in 500 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: the Saudi capital of the names of the queues have 501 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: not been officially released. Finally, the movie The Green Book 502 00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 1: won Best Comedy, Best Supporting Actress Regina King, Best Film, 503 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,359 Speaker 1: Bohemian Rhapsody. Not a Star Is Born. Best Actress went 504 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 1: to Glenn Cloe, not Lady Gaga at last night's Golden Globes. Meanwhile, 505 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:07,280 Speaker 1: Aquaman continues to swim above the competition, being another thirty 506 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 1: million dollars over the weekend. Total over the weekend worldwide 507 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:14,360 Speaker 1: for Aquaman nine hundred and forty million dollars. Not my 508 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,760 Speaker 1: next paycheck. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 509 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:22,759 Speaker 1: You're listening to show, Steve, We're still talking about Surviving 510 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: R Kelly, the docuse series. Um So, how did R 511 00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: Kelly manage to escape repercussions for his actions? Um? You know, 512 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:37,760 Speaker 1: clinical psychologists said in the documentary that society's indifferent towards suffering, 513 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 1: towards the suffering of black and brown girls and women. 514 00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: People don't care about black girls. That that was the 515 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 1: conclusion they had drawn. One thing for show. If R 516 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:54,360 Speaker 1: Kelly had done this to some white girls, yeah, yeah, 517 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:59,959 Speaker 1: don't you know ten years ago? Yeah, bro, ten years ago, 518 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 1: any any inkling of it, which is the part that's 519 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:07,680 Speaker 1: embarrassing to me as a black man, and it ticks 520 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:12,840 Speaker 1: me off because you can't do this to these many people, 521 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:20,320 Speaker 1: the people's lives that this dude has affected negatively. Here's 522 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,879 Speaker 1: the therapy parents who haven't seen their daughters in three 523 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:27,799 Speaker 1: years because it is camp he had at this cold house. Yeah, 524 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:31,520 Speaker 1: that right down. That's crazy. It is it is. Yeah, 525 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 1: that's crazy, bro. At least you could do and say, hey, man, y'all, 526 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,239 Speaker 1: we have a little thing at the house. Donna see 527 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: your mama something you you you ain't even dog, you 528 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,920 Speaker 1: ain't even trying to fix that. And you're going with 529 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:51,240 Speaker 1: the consenting adults. Now, dog, you've used Yeah. R Kelly 530 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: has taken the pimp mentality and use the exact mindset 531 00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:00,400 Speaker 1: that pimps use to prostitute out women. Is help. He 532 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 1: prostituted them out for himself. Yeah, and that's why he 533 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 1: wanted to separate them, Steve from their parents. But that's 534 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,360 Speaker 1: why he wanted to do that. These young girls wanted 535 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,719 Speaker 1: to be one of They wanted Yeah, they had dreams, 536 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 1: you know, to meet some Yeah, to meet someone an 537 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:23,319 Speaker 1: artist of of of R. Kelly's magnitude for him to 538 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,200 Speaker 1: help their career. Oh my god. I think the sickest 539 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,720 Speaker 1: part is that while he was making all those good music, 540 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,720 Speaker 1: he was doing evil on the end of his life, 541 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,760 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah. Yeah, And we didn't society, 542 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 1: we didn't know, you know, we knew his music and 543 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 1: and was like, he's a musical genius with these kids, Yeah, 544 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 1: songs that he's putting out. So we just a lot 545 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:52,400 Speaker 1: of people's attitude toward him because it was a positive song. 546 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,600 Speaker 1: They were singing in church jay, black churches, white churches, 547 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:02,399 Speaker 1: everybody singing when he did he Saved Me. Yeah. Yeah, 548 00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 1: when I first heard it, said, We was on the 549 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 1: radio in LA. When I first heard He's Save Me, 550 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,520 Speaker 1: I started curring, Yeah, that song was so good. He 551 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 1: saved me. Hey, the guy is a musical genius, ning 552 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 1: that absolutely, absolutely he has much pervert but evil genius. 553 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,000 Speaker 1: He's an evil, evil genius dude. Right here, Yeah, well, 554 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 1: let's go break coming up some mo. What is it 555 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:32,359 Speaker 1: you're listening to? Show? All right? So here we are 556 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:36,560 Speaker 1: still discussing the Surviving R Kelly docu series that was 557 00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 1: on Lifetime over three nights, six part series. Uh, yeah, 558 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 1: I missed three months. Yeah it was. It was Thursday, Friday, Saturday, 559 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 1: two parts two parts six episode. Yeah, and it originally aired. Yeah, 560 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,799 Speaker 1: it's six. I must ain't seen all six. No, no, 561 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:02,000 Speaker 1: you didn't you maybe yeah, maybe you missed the first. Yeah, 562 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 1: I've been so mad though, man, I can't. Everybody because terrible. 563 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:11,399 Speaker 1: And then he came out with this song. I admitted, yes, 564 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 1: nine minutes and I listened to it because I'm in 565 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 1: it a couple other people and you know, at the time, 566 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,759 Speaker 1: you know this wasn't out yet, right, No, so I'm 567 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 1: just seeing this. I admitted song. Then when I heard 568 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,920 Speaker 1: his wife talking about it on the thing, you know, 569 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 1: I went back and pulled it up. You know, you 570 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 1: spent nineteen minutes saying I admit it. You didn't admit 571 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,919 Speaker 1: to anything. But if you just spent nineteen minutes saying 572 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it would have went a lot further with me. 573 00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:46,360 Speaker 1: But like, right now, man, this guy I was really 574 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 1: John Legend, really man. Oh he was good. He was 575 00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,440 Speaker 1: he was really really good. He was really good. I 576 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 1: could not have musician. And yeah, I'm glad they didn't. 577 00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,239 Speaker 1: I'm glad I wasn't an interview because I don't know 578 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 1: how to be that poised about it, because it was 579 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:08,360 Speaker 1: so I was so mad watching the entire thing, because 580 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:14,400 Speaker 1: child after child after child after child, this was happening. 581 00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take I'm sixteen, what that got to do 582 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,280 Speaker 1: with it? Yeah, even after he came out of court 583 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 1: stick young young women, he was still looking at young women. 584 00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:27,280 Speaker 1: When he came out of court from being on trial 585 00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,839 Speaker 1: for being with young women, he's still looking at him 586 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 1: when he comes out of courts. He's just there's something 587 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 1: wrong there. Now, you know, let's do this here. Now, 588 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:44,600 Speaker 1: let me just say this now, the part that it 589 00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 1: was so misunderstanding from them children, the two thirty year 590 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 1: old women. I learned a lot about abuse and how 591 00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:58,120 Speaker 1: it works, the mental abuse, because I know how men 592 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:01,400 Speaker 1: can be sometimes, but I don't know nobody like that. 593 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:07,239 Speaker 1: Oh you mean like r Kelly. Oh no, sir, he's no. 594 00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,480 Speaker 1: I've never met him before, because it's no way I 595 00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 1: could know you and allow you to exist. And I 596 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:18,319 Speaker 1: know it's it's like it's like one time at the 597 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 1: mentoring camp, h this little boy said, hey, mister Harvey, 598 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,960 Speaker 1: you know my father. Wait, no, I take care of 599 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 1: I take care of little boys whose father's not in 600 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: their life. You and my father friends, Hold up, don't 601 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:41,479 Speaker 1: your father can't be my friend and he doesn't take 602 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,359 Speaker 1: care of his kids. I don't. You can't be my 603 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,480 Speaker 1: friend because I can't notice that little boy pulled the 604 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,799 Speaker 1: pitch out. And I knew his dad. Oh, and was 605 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,479 Speaker 1: friends with his daddy, So he was right. The little 606 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,520 Speaker 1: bit was right. I got on my phone. I had 607 00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:59,479 Speaker 1: a daddy number. Boom had his number in his phone. 608 00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:02,279 Speaker 1: I don't call him. I called him, said, yo, man, 609 00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 1: what's happening it? Steve, what's happening it? I said, hey man, 610 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,720 Speaker 1: where you at right now? I'm down at the shop. 611 00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:12,080 Speaker 1: I said cool. I said, I got your son right. 612 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:13,960 Speaker 1: He said, what you mean you got? I said, here 613 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 1: my mentoring camp. Oh that's cool. No, no, no, no, 614 00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:25,480 Speaker 1: this ain't cool. Yea, Why I got your son? Why 615 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,719 Speaker 1: your son ain't got no relationship with you? Well, you 616 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 1: know as mama tripping hold on party. This is for 617 00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 1: boys that's from single parent homes. Ain't got no l 618 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 1: Hey man, you and he lived in Dallas. I had 619 00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 1: him come to the camp. That good. Okay, pick your 620 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 1: son up, you're gonna do the camp with your boy. 621 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna taking so I don't know people like that. 622 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 1: So I don't know. No R Kelly and R Kelly 623 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:58,320 Speaker 1: man for this for this like you know, talking about 624 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,719 Speaker 1: like in his song, I admitted I don't know why 625 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:04,399 Speaker 1: brothers would try to bring another brother down. No, this 626 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,759 Speaker 1: is your sugar, honey ice. Yeah, I don't know. No, 627 00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,719 Speaker 1: parents ain't winning there and got the keys. I got 628 00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:15,880 Speaker 1: wellness check for your egg guys, and we're gonna switch 629 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,360 Speaker 1: gears after nobody gonna be well when I get it. 630 00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 1: Frank phone call with the nephew coming up. We'll switch 631 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:28,000 Speaker 1: gears right after this you're listening to coming up at 632 00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,640 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. 633 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,600 Speaker 1: It's today's Strawberry letter. Here's the subject for today. My 634 00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 1: wife is living like she's single, live in my bathline 635 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,120 Speaker 1: right now. The nephew is here though. Yeah, with today's 636 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 1: prank phone call. What you got for us now? Brand 637 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:52,279 Speaker 1: spranking new this one. It's called triple cask you for 638 00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,799 Speaker 1: the nineteen No, you know, if three people passed and 639 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,799 Speaker 1: they can you know the family might not have enough 640 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:03,400 Speaker 1: money for all them kids. Just one castle, three people. 641 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 1: One came the concept this can work money listens mortuary man, 642 00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:20,480 Speaker 1: help you? Hey, how you doing? How you Calvin? How 643 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:24,200 Speaker 1: you doing? My name is Brandon Man, Brandon Giles. UM, 644 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:31,399 Speaker 1: I'm calling. We've got somebody that has passed actually three 645 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 1: people passed away. I thank you for that, man. It 646 00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,879 Speaker 1: was kind of expected, so you know, it wasn't something 647 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 1: that caught us off guard. But you know, but all 648 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:46,239 Speaker 1: in all, you know, we're still grieving about losing our 649 00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: loved ones. But but I wanted to give you all 650 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 1: a call. We're trying to um pick a particular funeral 651 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:57,239 Speaker 1: home on who we want to um take care of. Yes, 652 00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 1: yes sir, yes, sir, okay, I can definitely help with that. 653 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:04,520 Speaker 1: And uh, once again, I just want to to you know, 654 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 1: just let you know that we can pretty much do 655 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,759 Speaker 1: the whole game that we can make sure that your 656 00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:13,480 Speaker 1: need to take them from you know, from from now on, 657 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,879 Speaker 1: UM we're here for you showing to get that out. 658 00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:22,799 Speaker 1: What is your main need? Uh? You said three people? Sir? Yes, yes, yes, 659 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to bring attention to you. Do you guys 660 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:33,880 Speaker 1: customize caskets? Yes, we do, goal plating, uh, engraving, We 661 00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 1: even have a new thing where we can put the 662 00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,520 Speaker 1: picture of the person on the outside like a semi 663 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:43,480 Speaker 1: gloss coating. We have a couple of ours. Yeah, I don't. 664 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 1: I don't need that all. No goal or nothing like that. Listen, listen. 665 00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 1: What I want to do. Is it any way that 666 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 1: you could maybe uh customize a casket that can accommodate 667 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 1: three people? Um uh? Yes, like we we can. We 668 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:06,360 Speaker 1: can cut demide each individual casket for each individual. No, no, no, no, Calvin, 669 00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 1: I adn't want to ask. What I'm saying is if 670 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:10,759 Speaker 1: I want to like like I like I said, deep 671 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,919 Speaker 1: my could they was all close? You know, I don't 672 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,960 Speaker 1: have a problem with all three of them being in 673 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 1: the same casket. I get you. Um uh you know, 674 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:23,920 Speaker 1: to my knowledge is as far as I've been in 675 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:28,319 Speaker 1: this business, I've never uh I'm not really sure we 676 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 1: can actually do that. I mean, I mean, but what's 677 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:35,440 Speaker 1: the problem if we can get them all in there? Sir? 678 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:38,799 Speaker 1: I mean I think that's a I don't even think 679 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,720 Speaker 1: if for one, it's legal in this state or any state, 680 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 1: three people in one casket? Um, and ethics wise, I uh, 681 00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,840 Speaker 1: that's not really something that How can I say that 682 00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:56,240 Speaker 1: we actually, you know, but if you customizing a casket, Calvin, 683 00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,120 Speaker 1: then you ought to be able to put as many 684 00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,239 Speaker 1: people in there, if you make it deep enough from 685 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,280 Speaker 1: wide enough. I ought to be to get three people 686 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:07,320 Speaker 1: in there. Right. Well, the customization is is the outer 687 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:10,880 Speaker 1: side of the casket. And maybe you know some people 688 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 1: even put TV screens on the inside or some of 689 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:20,319 Speaker 1: their their their loved ones, memorable mementos. We customize it 690 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:24,520 Speaker 1: for that, you know, colorwise. So what about when when 691 00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,239 Speaker 1: is a person real big h you know, a heaving 692 00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 1: said person, you know you gotta have a casket that 693 00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:33,640 Speaker 1: can accommodate them, right, yes, But okay, so so you 694 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:34,960 Speaker 1: ought to be able to put you ought to be 695 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:37,560 Speaker 1: able to put three people in one casket if they 696 00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:40,759 Speaker 1: can fit. If you put two one way in one 697 00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,120 Speaker 1: the other other way, then you ought to be to 698 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:46,040 Speaker 1: have all three of them in there at one time. Um, 699 00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,480 Speaker 1: is there anybody else around you and your family that 700 00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:53,080 Speaker 1: can help talk with me about this? I'm talking right now. 701 00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get I'm trying to accommodate my cousins 702 00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,040 Speaker 1: and get them straight, and I'm asking you can we 703 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:00,759 Speaker 1: get them in a casket that one casket that can 704 00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,719 Speaker 1: accommodate three people. If you put two pillars on money 705 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:09,879 Speaker 1: in one pillars. That's not something we're really just used 706 00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 1: to doing, Calvin. But I'm calling you telling you that's 707 00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:16,320 Speaker 1: the way I want this customize. Man. All right, brother, look, brother, brother, 708 00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,879 Speaker 1: just just chill out with customs, all right. So we're 709 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,479 Speaker 1: trying to get three people. I have a standard plan. 710 00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:28,879 Speaker 1: It'll be a low end standard plan for three individual caskets. 711 00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 1: We ain't got we all have enough money for three 712 00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,959 Speaker 1: individual caskets. I keep telling you that we got room 713 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:39,960 Speaker 1: for one casket. We just need to big enough, man, 714 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:41,959 Speaker 1: so you could get everybody in there. Close the dope. 715 00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,359 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not. I don't want to go back 716 00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,359 Speaker 1: and forth with you, sir. I know this is a time. 717 00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,799 Speaker 1: Then you ain't gotta go back and forth with me. 718 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,839 Speaker 1: Buildings to our knees. I can bear my family. It's 719 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,360 Speaker 1: I don't really know what to tell you, sir, But 720 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:57,239 Speaker 1: I'm just really trying to help. I'm trying. Won't you 721 00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,560 Speaker 1: tell me you're gonna get three people in the casket? 722 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 1: Looking too? We cannot do that. You out on that, man. 723 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,359 Speaker 1: I'm the one going through Bereaven I understand that, but 724 00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,719 Speaker 1: you are you're, you're, you're use the foul language. It's 725 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,880 Speaker 1: we can't do it, brother, you hear me not, that's no, 726 00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:20,040 Speaker 1: no hold on my cousin. Them said they wanted to you. No, sir, 727 00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:24,920 Speaker 1: no we can okay. Look look, may man, y'all gonna 728 00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:28,239 Speaker 1: bury these three people and you're gonna put all three 729 00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:31,439 Speaker 1: of them in the same damn casking man. Two two 730 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,719 Speaker 1: on one, one on one end and one on the other. One. Man, sir, 731 00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:38,719 Speaker 1: if you're drinking, just ain't nobody Let me tell you something. Man, 732 00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:42,160 Speaker 1: Let me say this to you. Your name Calvin, right, yes, 733 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,839 Speaker 1: yes it is okay, so Calvin, Calvin, let me say 734 00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 1: this to you. Either y'all gonna bury my cousin is 735 00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:50,799 Speaker 1: the way I want it, or Calvin, you're gonna get 736 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 1: your who you're talking to. That's what's going now. Now, no, now, 737 00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:57,600 Speaker 1: that's it, right there, sir. I've been trying to be 738 00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:01,120 Speaker 1: as professional as I can. This whole conversation as crazy 739 00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 1: as it is. But now it ain't nothing crazy about. No, 740 00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 1: no, no no, no, no, told you I want you to 741 00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,000 Speaker 1: bury my cousin. Come on down here, I got some 742 00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 1: places to put your body and your cousin's body. How 743 00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:15,000 Speaker 1: about that? Huh? Yeah, because you know you don't you 744 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 1: don't sound too damn confident. You don't sound too confident. Calvin. 745 00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:21,879 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna tell you 746 00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:25,439 Speaker 1: right now, this ain't the place and I'm not the one. 747 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 1: You will be in the ground messing with us. Matter fact, 748 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:34,200 Speaker 1: if you come here, I'm you up. How about that? Okay, Calvin? Okay, Calvin, 749 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:36,600 Speaker 1: let me tell you something, Calvin, me and Tommy gonna 750 00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,160 Speaker 1: be down there to day. Then I'm bringing Tommy with me. 751 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:43,480 Speaker 1: Who it's Tommy? Huh? This is nephew Tommy from the 752 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:49,399 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Martin Shoe. Baby, you just got prank, Calvin. Yeo, 753 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:54,680 Speaker 1: y'all have me ready to whip everybody. Tell y'all, I 754 00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:59,719 Speaker 1: just want to know. Move you up to Reginald. That works. Yes, 755 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:03,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna. I'm gonna Reggie you bet watch with you, 756 00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:07,319 Speaker 1: drink you bet watch with you. I'm on your to revenge. 757 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:11,040 Speaker 1: N Hey, cal forgive me this man. What's the baddest 758 00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:13,920 Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. Man, 759 00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:16,960 Speaker 1: You know it's nothing but the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all, 760 00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:20,920 Speaker 1: y'all got got me, got me, y'all, ain't whip me. 761 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,920 Speaker 1: But I'm just like two bodies this boy, one body 762 00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,960 Speaker 1: this way, had to foot three different pillars. We work 763 00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:34,319 Speaker 1: that thing. I hate three in the cast. Yeah, well, 764 00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,759 Speaker 1: you're probably gonna need ten. J You're probably gonna need 765 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:43,200 Speaker 1: five on each side. Roller, But you saved some money. 766 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:50,000 Speaker 1: Jay Dolly liked liked for three people. All right, I 767 00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,560 Speaker 1: got a bad idea. Go ahead and let me just 768 00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:58,239 Speaker 1: put them in there and folder. All right, stupid is 769 00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:01,000 Speaker 1: on the loose, Baby, tamp up, Flaud. I'm coming to 770 00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,600 Speaker 1: the Improb. That is January twenty four, twenty fifth, and 771 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 1: twenty six Thursday, Friday, Saturday. That is the first stop 772 00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 1: of the year from the Nephew. January twenty four, twenty five, 773 00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:17,400 Speaker 1: twenty six. I'm at the Improb, baby, Hi, thank you, 774 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:20,600 Speaker 1: nev up. Next is my Strawberry letter for today, subject 775 00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:24,600 Speaker 1: to my wife is living like she's single. I'm living 776 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:26,719 Speaker 1: my best n I'm going back and forth with you. 777 00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:31,879 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, let's 778 00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:35,560 Speaker 1: welcome our new affiliates to the Steve Harvey Morning Show family. 779 00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:40,080 Speaker 1: I'm talking wuk X I F M Kixie one oh 780 00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 1: seven point five and where Monica Barnes Jackson Mississippi Bay. Yeah, 781 00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,680 Speaker 1: and then we got w R O U ninety two 782 00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:54,120 Speaker 1: point one. Dayton's R and B leader in Dayton, Ohio 783 00:54:55,360 --> 00:55:01,839 Speaker 1: is Marvin Horton, the late great Wayne Noll. I'd Washington 784 00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:08,319 Speaker 1: No wow, Darryl Bennett Bennitch barbershop? What up? Bennett? What up? 785 00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 1: What you bought? Steve? All right, we've got a broche 786 00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,720 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this time now for the Strawberry Letter. Today. 787 00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:22,080 Speaker 1: The subject is my wife is living like she's single 788 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,920 Speaker 1: and listen. If you need some advice on relationships, if 789 00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,440 Speaker 1: you need some advice on dating, on work, on sex 790 00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,520 Speaker 1: and parenting and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to 791 00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:37,560 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Alright, simple, 792 00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:39,640 Speaker 1: we could be reading your letter live on the air, 793 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,279 Speaker 1: just like we're reading this dating and Mississippi buckle up 794 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:43,960 Speaker 1: an hole long tight. We got it for you. Here. 795 00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:47,080 Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Yeah. This is a letter 796 00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:50,520 Speaker 1: where you, our audience, write us and we give you advice. 797 00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:52,959 Speaker 1: We can't make this up. No, no, no, no, people 798 00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,120 Speaker 1: think we do, though, because they're so crazy. But no, 799 00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,760 Speaker 1: here we go subject. My wife is living like she's single. 800 00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:01,920 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I have been married to my childhood 801 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:06,680 Speaker 1: sweetheart for eight years and we have two wonderful children. 802 00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:09,719 Speaker 1: Early on, we had problems in our marriage and we 803 00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 1: separated for a short period, but we worked things out 804 00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:16,000 Speaker 1: and I thought we were back on track. My wife 805 00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:20,399 Speaker 1: admitted that during our separation she had flings with two 806 00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:24,719 Speaker 1: other guys. She compared me to the guys she had 807 00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:27,520 Speaker 1: the flings with and bragged about the money and the 808 00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:31,279 Speaker 1: nice things they had. I am an educated guy and 809 00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,600 Speaker 1: I have a great full time job and a part 810 00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:36,560 Speaker 1: time job for extra money, but it's not enough for 811 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,560 Speaker 1: my wife. She told me that I need to be 812 00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:43,160 Speaker 1: making six figures to keep her happy. She has a 813 00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:46,960 Speaker 1: demanding full time job, so she doesn't do much around 814 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,760 Speaker 1: the house. I cook, I clean, I take the kids 815 00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,480 Speaker 1: too and from school, wash the clothes, help the kids 816 00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:58,840 Speaker 1: with homework, and maintain the law. She neglects my sexual 817 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:02,520 Speaker 1: needs too, because she goes out most days after work 818 00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:07,520 Speaker 1: to unwind, and when she comes home she says she's exhausted. 819 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,160 Speaker 1: A few days after Christmas, she told me that I 820 00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:13,840 Speaker 1: need to find a nice woman that will appreciate me 821 00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,600 Speaker 1: and the little bit I have to offer because she 822 00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:21,280 Speaker 1: needs more. She told me that after I've found her 823 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,600 Speaker 1: texting one of her old flings, I asked her to 824 00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:28,200 Speaker 1: see the text and she showed it to me. The 825 00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:31,680 Speaker 1: guy was asking her for sex again, and he said 826 00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:35,480 Speaker 1: that their chemistry is unmatched. I am trying to stick 827 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,440 Speaker 1: out for my kids, but I cannot be her doormat 828 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,400 Speaker 1: in the process. She doesn't respect me as the man 829 00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,800 Speaker 1: of the house, and I am not sure how we 830 00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:47,280 Speaker 1: got to this point, but she is very disrespectful. Do 831 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,840 Speaker 1: you think I should try to stay for the sake 832 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:53,240 Speaker 1: of my kids or make her wishes come true and 833 00:57:53,680 --> 00:58:01,240 Speaker 1: leave wishness the husband? Husband, It seems like a letter 834 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,720 Speaker 1: that a wife would write, but now this time the 835 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:07,440 Speaker 1: husband wrote this one. And you know, doesn't the grass 836 00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 1: always look greener on the other side. I mean, she's 837 00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:12,400 Speaker 1: you know, thinking that these guys who were taking her 838 00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 1: out when she was on a break from you, you know, 839 00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:17,920 Speaker 1: spending money in nice things and all that. Yeah, but 840 00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:21,160 Speaker 1: she came back home. She's not with him, so the 841 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:23,960 Speaker 1: grass always looks greener on the other side. I have 842 00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:26,040 Speaker 1: to ask you though, what do you want to do? 843 00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:28,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you're asking us should you stay for the 844 00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:30,560 Speaker 1: sake of your kids. I'm sure you don't want to 845 00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:33,560 Speaker 1: stay with a wife who continues to disrespect you like 846 00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:36,400 Speaker 1: your wife does. I mean, kids are no kids. You 847 00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:38,720 Speaker 1: don't have to take this man, You don't have to 848 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,760 Speaker 1: take you, do know that, right? I mean, where's your dignity? 849 00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:45,200 Speaker 1: Where's your self respect? Getting your kids and leaving her 850 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:48,280 Speaker 1: will probably be the best thing you can do to 851 00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:52,840 Speaker 1: save yourself and your two children. Okay, from this mama 852 00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:56,000 Speaker 1: right now, she's just out of order. I mean you 853 00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:59,440 Speaker 1: says she's disrespectful, she's all of that. You sound like 854 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,120 Speaker 1: a good man and a hard working man and all 855 00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:04,560 Speaker 1: of that. You know, you're cooking, cleaning and doing all 856 00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:07,360 Speaker 1: this stuff and taking the kids to school, working two jobs. 857 00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,000 Speaker 1: You shouldn't be a dormat for her, So you're right 858 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:16,560 Speaker 1: about that. She definitely is disrespecting you, and I think 859 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:19,120 Speaker 1: you should take her advice. I really do. I think 860 00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,720 Speaker 1: you there is a nice woman who'll appreciate you. There 861 00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:23,919 Speaker 1: are plenty of them, as a matter of fact, who'll 862 00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 1: take you and the kids. So um, get on out 863 00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:31,919 Speaker 1: of there. Okay, you don't have to take this, Steve, Wow, 864 00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 1: this is crazy. Yes, it is my wife living like 865 00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:41,760 Speaker 1: she's saying. She is just right there. Who wrote this letter? 866 00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:46,720 Speaker 1: He did? My wife admitted doing our separation. She had 867 00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:49,920 Speaker 1: a fleeing with two other guys. Just been out there 868 00:59:50,000 --> 01:00:00,480 Speaker 1: just not no off fair. She's been doing what low lounge. 869 01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:06,320 Speaker 1: It's out here, just showing her natural two flames. That 870 01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:09,560 Speaker 1: was enough. She gonna compare the guys that she had 871 01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:12,760 Speaker 1: the flames with, bragged about the money and the nice 872 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:16,760 Speaker 1: things they had. She gonna come back home and tell 873 01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,720 Speaker 1: me about it. Well, you might well stay your ass 874 01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:22,919 Speaker 1: out that so disciment from me. You ain't fit to brain. 875 01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:24,840 Speaker 1: You have to come back to Steve Harvet tell me 876 01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:28,160 Speaker 1: this hire who you think I am? But who are 877 01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:32,440 Speaker 1: you talking to? Then let's go. I am an educated 878 01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 1: guy and have a full great, full time job and 879 01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:38,160 Speaker 1: a part time job for extra money, but it's not 880 01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,360 Speaker 1: enough for my wife. Somebody told me something one time. 881 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,520 Speaker 1: I just want to share with you, a very very 882 01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,600 Speaker 1: wealthy person. He said, if you got one job and 883 01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:50,280 Speaker 1: it ain't cutting it for you, why would you go 884 01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 1: get another? One of them said, if you got a 885 01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:56,080 Speaker 1: job that ain't cutting for your next movies. You're gonna 886 01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:57,800 Speaker 1: have to open some type of little hustle on the 887 01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:00,720 Speaker 1: side of business. But he said, he's talking. He said, 888 01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:04,880 Speaker 1: don't go get another job. Okay, he said, because you 889 01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:06,760 Speaker 1: got one job ain't working for me, what why would 890 01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:09,960 Speaker 1: you get another one of them? Right? So that was 891 01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:14,880 Speaker 1: a very educational thing. Look, she told me that he 892 01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:17,200 Speaker 1: needed to be making six figures to keep her happy. 893 01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 1: Now you got two jobs that ain't making six figures. 894 01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:23,000 Speaker 1: So you're just working all the day and you still 895 01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:26,200 Speaker 1: ain't making six figures. But this health for right here, 896 01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:28,680 Speaker 1: and told you that's what you need to do to 897 01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:31,160 Speaker 1: make her happy. To get on back out there and 898 01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:34,200 Speaker 1: get the flaming again. See that what you probably need 899 01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,919 Speaker 1: to do. Now. She has a demanding full time job, 900 01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:39,840 Speaker 1: so she don't do much round in the house. Now, 901 01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:43,000 Speaker 1: I want y'all listening to this. Right here, he working 902 01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:47,360 Speaker 1: two jobs already, Right, she got a demanding full time job. 903 01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:53,040 Speaker 1: But he say, I cooked, clean, take the kids to 904 01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:57,720 Speaker 1: and from school, washed clothes, help the kids with a homework, 905 01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:02,480 Speaker 1: and maintain the lawn. Already got two jobs. I just 906 01:02:02,680 --> 01:02:05,800 Speaker 1: told this him. I got a full time job at 907 01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:09,280 Speaker 1: a part time job. I ain't got time for this hill, right, 908 01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:11,880 Speaker 1: Hang one, Hang on, we're gonna have part two of 909 01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three after the hours 910 01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:20,600 Speaker 1: subject my wife is living like she's single. We'll be 911 01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:26,360 Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, 912 01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:30,680 Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter, Part two of your response 913 01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:33,080 Speaker 1: to and that's is this woman don't want this man. 914 01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,680 Speaker 1: When they separated, she had a fleeing and now she 915 01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:41,240 Speaker 1: compared the guys to her. He do everything, he do 916 01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:45,680 Speaker 1: all the work, and he got two jobs. She neglects 917 01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 1: my sexual need because she goes out most days after 918 01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:55,439 Speaker 1: work to unwind, and when she come home, he exhausted. Quick. 919 01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:59,800 Speaker 1: What do you think when she out there on wine 920 01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:08,400 Speaker 1: after hard day work and when she comes home she's exhausted. Yeah, 921 01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:15,280 Speaker 1: what you think she exhausted from unwirled? Unwinding ain't exhausted. 922 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:21,280 Speaker 1: It's when you're getting wound up that's exhausted. It's when 923 01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:26,720 Speaker 1: you get see men, see somebody winding her up real tight, 924 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:32,720 Speaker 1: and then what sending her asshole that that's what is 925 01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:51,520 Speaker 1: getting tight. Now she do that three times a night. Boy, 926 01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:55,360 Speaker 1: She coming in this house tide as hell then a 927 01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:58,080 Speaker 1: few days after Christmas, she told me, I need to 928 01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:00,960 Speaker 1: find a nice woman that appreciate me and a little 929 01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:03,760 Speaker 1: bit that I had off. Well, you know, she just 930 01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:07,080 Speaker 1: told you you need to go find you somebody post 931 01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:14,040 Speaker 1: and dog gonna you can do that? Man? Yeah, because 932 01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:17,680 Speaker 1: she needs most she told me. I found I found 933 01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:20,680 Speaker 1: her texting one of her old friends. I asked her 934 01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:23,800 Speaker 1: to see the text. She showed it to me. First 935 01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:26,880 Speaker 1: of all, you're not fitna be that comfortable in my house. 936 01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:30,160 Speaker 1: While I asked you to see the texting him. Yet 937 01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:34,920 Speaker 1: show it to me. You're gonna have seen me somewhere 938 01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:38,360 Speaker 1: in my life go off on somebody where you would 939 01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:41,600 Speaker 1: you would pause and go you know what. Showing him 940 01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,439 Speaker 1: this text right now probably ain't gonna be the best 941 01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:47,760 Speaker 1: thing because he has an ignorance side to it, and 942 01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:49,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to see it. But now see, you 943 01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:53,720 Speaker 1: ain't never demonstrated that. Let me see what you're texted him. Yeah, 944 01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:57,680 Speaker 1: Oh you're comfortable with him. Yeah. The guy was asking 945 01:04:57,800 --> 01:05:00,440 Speaker 1: her for sex again, and he said that they chemistry 946 01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:03,560 Speaker 1: is unmatched. I'm trying to stick it out for my kid. 947 01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:09,040 Speaker 1: What did I read? The guy was asking her for 948 01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:12,520 Speaker 1: sex again and he said that the chemistry is unmatched. 949 01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:15,640 Speaker 1: I'm trying to stick it out for my kids. Man's 950 01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:20,880 Speaker 1: one more time. The guy was asking her for sex again, 951 01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:25,520 Speaker 1: and he said that the chemistry is unmatched. I'm trying 952 01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,920 Speaker 1: to stick it out for my kids. He is missing 953 01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:42,600 Speaker 1: who asked, but what did you start before? You said, 954 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,320 Speaker 1: I'm trying to stick it out for the kids, But 955 01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:48,320 Speaker 1: I cannot be her dormat in the process. She don't 956 01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 1: respect me as the man of the house, the man 957 01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:54,040 Speaker 1: of the house. Dog, you ain't been the man of 958 01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:56,760 Speaker 1: the house that yan. Then she when I didn't have 959 01:05:56,920 --> 01:06:00,880 Speaker 1: them too flee. I'm not sure how we got to 960 01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:05,640 Speaker 1: this point, as that's why you typed the letter. You're 961 01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:08,680 Speaker 1: not sure how you got to this point. I'm I'm 962 01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,600 Speaker 1: crystal clear how you got y'all was going wrong in 963 01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:17,360 Speaker 1: your lives your childhood, sweetheart, y'all got married, hadn't experienced 964 01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:20,760 Speaker 1: no life. Then y'all had some problems in the relationship. 965 01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:22,880 Speaker 1: She went out there and had a taste of life, 966 01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:25,760 Speaker 1: and the taste she had wasn't the taste you've been 967 01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:28,720 Speaker 1: given them. See what you had been laying down she 968 01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:32,240 Speaker 1: thought was cool. Then she ran out there and ran 969 01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 1: up into rowdy rodding it Piper. She ran up in 970 01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:45,080 Speaker 1: rowdy Roddy Piper. Then she ran up in the big 971 01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:51,880 Speaker 1: big dusty rolls. Then she ran up in the or 972 01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:56,800 Speaker 1: the junk yard Dog. Then she ran up into earny 973 01:06:57,000 --> 01:07:02,000 Speaker 1: Land both both Brazil ran up into the chic and 974 01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:05,680 Speaker 1: ran up into some people that was tossing up, keeping 975 01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:09,080 Speaker 1: all up in the air and getting flipped. Andrea Ji 976 01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:13,920 Speaker 1: r up in that rand Saturday, you got some I 977 01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:18,440 Speaker 1: got some flat gorgeous Jean ran up there and ran 978 01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:23,320 Speaker 1: up into some rick flap and got turned the old 979 01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:28,240 Speaker 1: ut out. Now she come back home and shed here 980 01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:34,600 Speaker 1: with little tiny team, little little caiming to frown, keeping 981 01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:37,400 Speaker 1: in there playing sesame street. He didn't been out there 982 01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:40,720 Speaker 1: in the streets and ran up into the WWL. He 983 01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:45,280 Speaker 1: hadn't been in bed with the undertake all. I hadn't 984 01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:50,320 Speaker 1: had a date with triple. It been all over the place, 985 01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:55,640 Speaker 1: getting throwed from coner to corner, tossed into the ropes, 986 01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:59,720 Speaker 1: flying off on the turn buckle. Then all of a sudden, 987 01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:08,320 Speaker 1: ain't Johnsons hands on soup flavor put her in her 988 01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:11,960 Speaker 1: head and locking put her in a soup flavor, and 989 01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:15,920 Speaker 1: all of a sudden overhead fire and is carry over boom. 990 01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:20,360 Speaker 1: She was on the ground. Now she back at the house. 991 01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:26,160 Speaker 1: You ain't picking up going across the rain. Yeah, you 992 01:08:26,240 --> 01:08:29,840 Speaker 1: ain't jumping off the top rope. Yeah, you ain't used 993 01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:33,320 Speaker 1: none of the tree. Now she don't want you no more. 994 01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:37,360 Speaker 1: That's how you got to this point. What you need 995 01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:41,640 Speaker 1: to do is do like she said, find you somebody 996 01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:46,080 Speaker 1: that appreciate the little bit you've got, that little bit 997 01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:49,120 Speaker 1: of money you're making, that little bit of love, and 998 01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:53,839 Speaker 1: you pack that little teaspooner thing. You've been just shelveding 999 01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,800 Speaker 1: around like you like you've been just dropping. You've been 1000 01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:01,719 Speaker 1: dropping bringing hammelework. That ain't hammelework. That's number two leaded 1001 01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:05,600 Speaker 1: pencil work. You ain't been doing what you thought you 1002 01:09:05,640 --> 01:09:16,760 Speaker 1: would do. She went out a random set. That's right, Gene, 1003 01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:20,600 Speaker 1: don't come here, come to break the heat. Baby. So 1004 01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:25,519 Speaker 1: Bro appreciate you writing your letter. But two thousand nineteen 1005 01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:31,639 Speaker 1: is open. Yeah, yeah, it's over. It's there, Kelly keys 1006 01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:34,360 Speaker 1: they already the keys. No, all right, we gotta get 1007 01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:37,240 Speaker 1: out of here. Guys, email us your Instagram us, your 1008 01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:40,960 Speaker 1: thoughts on today's strawberry letter at Steve Harvey f M. 1009 01:09:41,360 --> 01:09:43,840 Speaker 1: And now coming up in about ten minutes, we'll talk 1010 01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:48,439 Speaker 1: more about Surviving R Kelly the documentary right after this. 1011 01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:54,960 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, guys, we're still talking about 1012 01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:59,520 Speaker 1: this um Surviving R Kelly video, I mean, the documenteries. 1013 01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,719 Speaker 1: It was over a three night period last week Thursday, 1014 01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:07,400 Speaker 1: Friday and Saturday, two episodes per fix altogether, and it 1015 01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:11,960 Speaker 1: was just unbelievable. Steve. You mentioned earlier that John Legend 1016 01:10:12,120 --> 01:10:14,439 Speaker 1: was there. He was the only male that I really 1017 01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:18,080 Speaker 1: spoke out against our Kelly musician on the documentary. I 1018 01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:20,519 Speaker 1: think a Chance the Rappers said something like he was 1019 01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:23,519 Speaker 1: he regretted having R. Kelly are doing a song with 1020 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,439 Speaker 1: R Kelly. Yeah too, I mean, you know, because and 1021 01:10:27,360 --> 01:10:30,000 Speaker 1: I gave Chance a break on it because no one 1022 01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:34,639 Speaker 1: really knew the magnitude of it. You know, nobody's blaming 1023 01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:37,280 Speaker 1: Chance the rappers, no, man, not at all. I mean, 1024 01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:42,840 Speaker 1: but man, I didn't know, man, I mean, it's so crazy, man. 1025 01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,120 Speaker 1: But my wife would telling me, Steve, what could you 1026 01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:49,439 Speaker 1: have done? I just said, man, I just wish I 1027 01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:54,080 Speaker 1: had known something, because I don't know what I would 1028 01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:58,439 Speaker 1: have done. But I feel badly because you know, we 1029 01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:02,160 Speaker 1: didn't make a biggest think about it. But it's hard 1030 01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:04,360 Speaker 1: to make a big stink if you don't know the 1031 01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:08,160 Speaker 1: extent of it. And like when you don't get cooperation 1032 01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:12,720 Speaker 1: from the parents and the and the victim, which would 1033 01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:15,439 Speaker 1: have sent him to prison in the first case of 1034 01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:20,439 Speaker 1: child pornography because that girl was fourteen, but the parents 1035 01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:24,519 Speaker 1: and the child wouldn't come forth because they were paid. Yeah, 1036 01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:27,040 Speaker 1: and they denied that it was the child that their 1037 01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:30,240 Speaker 1: daughter in the video. They were paid and they were 1038 01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:34,560 Speaker 1: payoffs that ripping your daughter out in a certain Basically, absolutely, 1039 01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:40,120 Speaker 1: there are some parents in this that I felt were accountable, 1040 01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:44,479 Speaker 1: had a share of blame for this, for letting their 1041 01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:47,280 Speaker 1: daughter be in that situation in the first place. You're saying, 1042 01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:52,840 Speaker 1: you've now everybody heard the rumors. Yeah, they were everywhere. 1043 01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:57,439 Speaker 1: They were rumors you dropped your baby off. You mean 1044 01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:00,439 Speaker 1: when the tape first came out and all that, Who 1045 01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:06,040 Speaker 1: do who do that? As we later learned, first of all, yeah, okay, 1046 01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:09,000 Speaker 1: like like what you know, Look, I don't know, you know, 1047 01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:12,920 Speaker 1: things happen too quickly, But listen to this. You had 1048 01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:16,599 Speaker 1: to concert with your daughter, all Kelly pull up on stage. 1049 01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:20,360 Speaker 1: Mine ain't going up there get somebody. We ain't at 1050 01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:27,599 Speaker 1: the show. No, it's it's so much man, from from 1051 01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:30,240 Speaker 1: the parental standpoint, But I'm gonna just be honest with 1052 01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:33,120 Speaker 1: your mind. I really felt for the parents who can't 1053 01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:37,599 Speaker 1: get to that, or even their adult children who look, man, 1054 01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:44,160 Speaker 1: look were all parents in this world. My youngest is 1055 01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:47,280 Speaker 1: twenty two. Okay, cool, if you don't see your daughter 1056 01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:50,479 Speaker 1: for two to three years, come on, man, don't you're hurting. 1057 01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:55,439 Speaker 1: I mean, man, don't you're hurting in the pain. I got, 1058 01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 1: she's an adult. I got it's of consentual age right now. 1059 01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:04,000 Speaker 1: But I don't. I can't talk to you. And you know, 1060 01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:07,200 Speaker 1: there's a thing that parents say. I just wanted to 1061 01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:10,599 Speaker 1: put my eyes on you. You know, everybody, everyone always 1062 01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:14,519 Speaker 1: their parents say that, you know, and I just want 1063 01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:16,720 Speaker 1: to hear you, just one from my eyes. Yeah, let 1064 01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,400 Speaker 1: me look at you. You know, I haven't seen you 1065 01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:24,240 Speaker 1: any parents. I understand the heartache that these parents are 1066 01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:27,599 Speaker 1: going through who can't even reach or be contacting their 1067 01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:32,760 Speaker 1: adult children because of the brainwashing that this dude has 1068 01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:37,160 Speaker 1: put on these because he's used the pimp mentality on 1069 01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:40,760 Speaker 1: these women and these girls controlled, even the thirty year 1070 01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:44,519 Speaker 1: old girls that got involved. Once you go in there 1071 01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:50,280 Speaker 1: thinking one thing, and the brainwashing begins, and that's the abusive. 1072 01:13:50,920 --> 01:13:57,360 Speaker 1: He's a predator's expert at shaping. And once you get 1073 01:13:57,520 --> 01:14:01,040 Speaker 1: them to thinking less of themselves and more of you, 1074 01:14:01,680 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 1: that's the beginning of the Pima. Yeah, and you're right. 1075 01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:07,160 Speaker 1: First they were saying he was so nice to them 1076 01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:10,360 Speaker 1: and everything, and then they had to learn the rules. 1077 01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:13,599 Speaker 1: Then they had to learn the rules, and the rules 1078 01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:16,920 Speaker 1: were they had to call him daddy, and you had 1079 01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:20,760 Speaker 1: to um ask for permission. If you wanted to go 1080 01:14:20,880 --> 01:14:24,160 Speaker 1: to the bathroom, you had to ask R. Kelly for 1081 01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:30,320 Speaker 1: permission to go to the bathroom. To eat all of that. Now, surely, yes, 1082 01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:34,000 Speaker 1: now that I've said that about the fathers and the parents, 1083 01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:39,479 Speaker 1: I have to say, after watching this thing, I'm I'm 1084 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:42,519 Speaker 1: that parent that went to the hotel to get his 1085 01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:46,800 Speaker 1: her daughter. Yes, yes, which was like ticking me off. 1086 01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:53,200 Speaker 1: Where her uncle, her brother, yea, her granddaddy he got 1087 01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:55,880 Speaker 1: a girlfriend with. But you mean where was the men? 1088 01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:58,240 Speaker 1: Where were the men? And I think that's what I'm 1089 01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:02,519 Speaker 1: hurt about is that we as black men were not 1090 01:15:02,880 --> 01:15:06,560 Speaker 1: more involved in this. Every time I turn around, it 1091 01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:09,280 Speaker 1: was a mother looking for a baby, and then when 1092 01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:12,280 Speaker 1: I see the two fathers, we just want to see 1093 01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:14,760 Speaker 1: we need a wellness check and all this. Okay, bro, 1094 01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:17,679 Speaker 1: I got it, you know, and I got you can't 1095 01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:19,800 Speaker 1: get to them, and I got the consensual and I 1096 01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:23,720 Speaker 1: got they hide. Now I got it. But dog, I 1097 01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:28,280 Speaker 1: just got to tell you man, I ain't in jail. 1098 01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:32,800 Speaker 1: But that's why breaking and enter it. Yeah, I'm sitting 1099 01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:35,240 Speaker 1: in there next to Robert Brother with that three XL. 1100 01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:37,920 Speaker 1: That's why I'm in there with a two XH alone, 1101 01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:40,840 Speaker 1: because that's what I wear. Two it. Yeah, my interview 1102 01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:42,720 Speaker 1: is from the gym in there, Me and me and 1103 01:15:42,920 --> 01:15:46,200 Speaker 1: me and me and all. Kelly Brother just argue, right, 1104 01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:48,400 Speaker 1: But it goes back to what we were saying earlier 1105 01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:52,439 Speaker 1: about not caring about black girls and brown girls like women. 1106 01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:57,799 Speaker 1: It's just different for us. They just don't care. Society 1107 01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:00,320 Speaker 1: doesn't cares. Like you said now, I probably should say 1108 01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:03,479 Speaker 1: you said it earlier if it were white girls girls. Yeah, 1109 01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:07,320 Speaker 1: he said that. All. Yeah, we'll be all over it now. 1110 01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:09,840 Speaker 1: I don't know what's gonna happen to our Kelly. But 1111 01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:14,240 Speaker 1: let me say this, Bill Cosby's in jail, Yes he is. 1112 01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:19,760 Speaker 1: I don't know how he can escape this. I know 1113 01:16:19,920 --> 01:16:24,160 Speaker 1: it's and Harvey Weinstein's trial is coming up to this 1114 01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:27,000 Speaker 1: year later this year in March, and you better know 1115 01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:32,640 Speaker 1: something gonna happen to him, because he really did. He 1116 01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:35,400 Speaker 1: opened up the gates man when this dude was doing 1117 01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:38,600 Speaker 1: but he was doing some vile stuff. Man. Yeah, I 1118 01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:43,080 Speaker 1: mean it's all vile. Yeah, it's all vile. Yeah. All right. 1119 01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:47,080 Speaker 1: I mean it's exhausting to think about what went on. 1120 01:16:47,640 --> 01:16:49,800 Speaker 1: But we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey 1121 01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:56,360 Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening, all right, fellas 1122 01:16:56,520 --> 01:17:01,960 Speaker 1: and ladies. Uh, the NFL Division Play Football games are set. 1123 01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:10,519 Speaker 1: You guys know this? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, way to 1124 01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:14,320 Speaker 1: show up, texture yeah, way to show up. Yeah. What 1125 01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:17,000 Speaker 1: did you see the performance? No, I can say that 1126 01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:19,400 Speaker 1: would be a no. I've seen the receipt I got 1127 01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:24,120 Speaker 1: for Folk tickets. I've seen that I got that round 1128 01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:33,920 Speaker 1: round on seven Games'll talk about y'all. Y'all ally had playoffs, hope, 1129 01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:37,960 Speaker 1: I had hope you hope you wear a game with 1130 01:17:38,080 --> 01:17:40,639 Speaker 1: two and you did better than just winning a game. 1131 01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:44,439 Speaker 1: You won seven games? You have we did TENI fire 1132 01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:50,880 Speaker 1: regular season. I'll tell you what though, Cowboys, they actually 1133 01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:57,760 Speaker 1: waste Man. You gotta respect him though. Jail Dad. Prescott 1134 01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:02,400 Speaker 1: he playing some good ball and Zeke playing some good bay. 1135 01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:05,960 Speaker 1: You gotta get some. I like the players on the Cowboys. 1136 01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:12,439 Speaker 1: I don't like the team. I never liked that America team. 1137 01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:15,800 Speaker 1: I never like. But I've always liked Michael Irving. I've 1138 01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:19,000 Speaker 1: always loved Emmy Smith. I've always been boys with Dion 1139 01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:22,720 Speaker 1: catch Us coming to my comedy club in Dallas. Man, 1140 01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:26,720 Speaker 1: I've always don Cattery Man. They some good dude. I 1141 01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:30,360 Speaker 1: loved them boys man will burn Man. They had some 1142 01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:34,960 Speaker 1: nice catters. I like Zeke Elliott, I like Prescott, I 1143 01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:37,280 Speaker 1: like Mark Cooper. They don't winning guy. I like the 1144 01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:39,479 Speaker 1: defense I like to do. I just don't like the 1145 01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:44,080 Speaker 1: damn team. A lot of people on the team, Yeah, 1146 01:18:44,400 --> 01:18:48,240 Speaker 1: I don't like and I don't like the Sands either. 1147 01:18:49,520 --> 01:18:54,680 Speaker 1: It's the fans, that's what they were rubbing in on 1148 01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:59,920 Speaker 1: you part. They will call and you can't find them 1149 01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:04,720 Speaker 1: when they lose. But what about the Eagles. The Eagles, yea, 1150 01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:09,960 Speaker 1: that was a tough game. That was a tough game 1151 01:19:10,240 --> 01:19:12,800 Speaker 1: that Philly and Chicago, because you know, I got a 1152 01:19:12,840 --> 01:19:15,639 Speaker 1: little Chocago game. That game hurt that dude, that dude 1153 01:19:15,840 --> 01:19:20,680 Speaker 1: hurt that the Bears no you know, but but he 1154 01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:24,599 Speaker 1: but he had kicked them first when the win, all 1155 01:19:24,640 --> 01:19:27,800 Speaker 1: the time out on him. Man, they put their time out. 1156 01:19:28,040 --> 01:19:31,400 Speaker 1: Is that pressure? Man's pressure, that's pressure. Forty three yards 1157 01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:34,840 Speaker 1: field goal. You have one job now you is the 1158 01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:40,200 Speaker 1: pressure stress? I know she But at the end of 1159 01:19:40,280 --> 01:19:44,120 Speaker 1: the game though, see it's not that play, it's so 1160 01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:46,840 Speaker 1: many other things that get you to that point. Like 1161 01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:49,120 Speaker 1: if they have scored a touchdown, wouldn't have been no problem. 1162 01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:51,040 Speaker 1: If they got a first down, it wouldn't have been 1163 01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:54,599 Speaker 1: no problem. But you over the incompleting players and dropping balls, 1164 01:19:54,720 --> 01:19:57,519 Speaker 1: getting tackled. Yeah, so now when you get tackled, you 1165 01:19:57,640 --> 01:19:59,800 Speaker 1: drop a ball and you don't make the first down. 1166 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:03,679 Speaker 1: Now you not the Kick't just say dog dud because 1167 01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:06,000 Speaker 1: he missed the one job he got. Well, you ain't 1168 01:20:06,040 --> 01:20:11,040 Speaker 1: doing your job. Your ass didn't go point well made 1169 01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:13,559 Speaker 1: point well man, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, definitely 1170 01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:15,880 Speaker 1: you would save you fument. Don't hold up in the 1171 01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:19,040 Speaker 1: locker room when you just missed that damn field when 1172 01:20:19,080 --> 01:20:20,920 Speaker 1: you missed when you missed that, when you don't even 1173 01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:24,400 Speaker 1: go to locker room, getting your car with your playing. 1174 01:20:27,760 --> 01:20:31,280 Speaker 1: You just at gonna feel talking to people. Man, he 1175 01:20:31,360 --> 01:20:34,400 Speaker 1: ain't sweating, surely, he ain't doing nothing to kick. He 1176 01:20:34,520 --> 01:20:38,719 Speaker 1: just went his car driving home. He got his shot 1177 01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:43,559 Speaker 1: pass on with the helmet on, his helmet on. I'm 1178 01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:50,439 Speaker 1: at the light with the helmet, So congratulations to Philly. Yeah, 1179 01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:58,840 Speaker 1: man's hard. Really gonna play the Saints on Sunday, stort Man, 1180 01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:03,519 Speaker 1: It's gonna be no, man, it's gonna be a hard 1181 01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:07,639 Speaker 1: game because you know they rested Breeze the last game, 1182 01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:11,800 Speaker 1: so he'll be healthy. But it's something about that Nick 1183 01:21:11,880 --> 01:21:15,599 Speaker 1: folds Man. Man, this dude, they know how to win. 1184 01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:18,240 Speaker 1: They just win and and they just started putting it 1185 01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:20,040 Speaker 1: together at the end of season because they didn't look 1186 01:21:20,080 --> 01:21:25,280 Speaker 1: like world champs earlier. Carlin and her husband don't want 1187 01:21:25,320 --> 01:21:28,320 Speaker 1: to hear that. Steve, oh girl, you know Tasha is 1188 01:21:28,360 --> 01:21:34,400 Speaker 1: all about the Saint. Who that nation? Who that drop him? 1189 01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:37,600 Speaker 1: Feels like nah, like I don't care because I like 1190 01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:47,679 Speaker 1: both teams, So Browns ain't any dog. And we finn 1191 01:21:47,800 --> 01:21:52,360 Speaker 1: get another coach excited man, and we got the seventeenth picks. 1192 01:21:52,880 --> 01:21:56,240 Speaker 1: We though, I love it, I love like, Hey, can 1193 01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:58,120 Speaker 1: I talk to something other piece of sports? You know, 1194 01:21:58,560 --> 01:22:02,280 Speaker 1: see Lebron James on a TV when he said that 1195 01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:05,479 Speaker 1: he is the greatest player of all time because when 1196 01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:08,320 Speaker 1: he went back to Cleveland and he won that title 1197 01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:11,120 Speaker 1: with Cleveland, he figured after he won that game, that 1198 01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:14,400 Speaker 1: made him the greatest player of all time. I think 1199 01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:18,800 Speaker 1: that's the greatest basketball move in the history of the game. 1200 01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:23,200 Speaker 1: To leave a city, go somewhere within two titles, then 1201 01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:26,000 Speaker 1: come back to that city and win a title for 1202 01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:28,639 Speaker 1: that city that ain't won in fifty years. I think 1203 01:22:28,680 --> 01:22:32,200 Speaker 1: that's the most gangster move in basketball work. He did it, 1204 01:22:32,479 --> 01:22:36,680 Speaker 1: he pulled it off. But player, no, sir, thank you. 1205 01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:40,479 Speaker 1: And I love Lebron Jay with everything in me. I 1206 01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:43,080 Speaker 1: think he's just now he messed around and do something 1207 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:45,559 Speaker 1: in LA like that, then you might have to call 1208 01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:47,320 Speaker 1: him that. Oh yeah yeah, yeah yeah. If he could 1209 01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:51,599 Speaker 1: do it in LA. But nobody knew they was losing 1210 01:22:56,479 --> 01:23:01,040 Speaker 1: so ignorant. I'm gonna tell y'all something, and this is 1211 01:23:01,120 --> 01:23:03,880 Speaker 1: this is gonna really throw you. But really, man to me, 1212 01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:10,400 Speaker 1: to me, the greatest basketball player of all times, kareem up, dude, 1213 01:23:11,280 --> 01:23:16,479 Speaker 1: because he revolutionized the game. He was unstoppable. No nobody 1214 01:23:16,520 --> 01:23:19,439 Speaker 1: could do nothing with him. And what made him a 1215 01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:21,800 Speaker 1: great center was when you filed him, he went to 1216 01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:24,680 Speaker 1: the free throw line. He made them free throw date 1217 01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:28,960 Speaker 1: centers used to hit free throws. That's the only reason 1218 01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:32,679 Speaker 1: Shack ain't the greatest center of all time because Shaq 1219 01:23:32,720 --> 01:23:34,880 Speaker 1: couldn't make a free throw. If he could have made 1220 01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:39,240 Speaker 1: free throws, Shaq would have been the greatest, most dominant 1221 01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:41,559 Speaker 1: force ever to play the game. I still gotta put 1222 01:23:41,640 --> 01:23:45,000 Speaker 1: Jordan up there with above. I can't. I can't argue 1223 01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:52,600 Speaker 1: magic magic. Hey, when we come back. When we come back, me, 1224 01:23:52,760 --> 01:24:02,280 Speaker 1: you and kid gonna pick our top five basketball. We'll 1225 01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:06,000 Speaker 1: be back with Marvin Steve every morning show their top five. 1226 01:24:08,080 --> 01:24:13,120 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, guys. Before we went to break, 1227 01:24:13,200 --> 01:24:14,920 Speaker 1: you guys said that you were gonna do your top 1228 01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:18,000 Speaker 1: five in the NBA, right, your top of all time, 1229 01:24:18,479 --> 01:24:21,920 Speaker 1: all time. That's hard, yeah, and it's very It is 1230 01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:25,639 Speaker 1: very hard all of all time. Man, it's too hard. 1231 01:24:25,840 --> 01:24:30,599 Speaker 1: You can't nobody has the top five. That can't be argued. 1232 01:24:31,680 --> 01:24:34,760 Speaker 1: No one has the top five or they go yeah, man. 1233 01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:38,040 Speaker 1: But because you can always put somebody on your list 1234 01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:42,080 Speaker 1: that ain't on somebody, listen, you can't argue no, yeah, 1235 01:24:43,160 --> 01:24:46,160 Speaker 1: all right, who want to go first. A ready time, 1236 01:24:46,439 --> 01:24:48,680 Speaker 1: Let's let's let's get let's get the craziness out of 1237 01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:52,240 Speaker 1: the way. Let's Jay go. He's not even in the 1238 01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:56,720 Speaker 1: sports like that. They don't even know five basketball? Why 1239 01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:01,679 Speaker 1: asking Jay? I know one great one at all time 1240 01:25:02,760 --> 01:25:06,080 Speaker 1: that don't get the respect that he should get that. 1241 01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:09,320 Speaker 1: Nobody even gonna mention, who do you want a man? 1242 01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:13,360 Speaker 1: Nobody's gonna bring up, all right, a movie, you idiot. 1243 01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:19,640 Speaker 1: I shouldn't even I shouldn't ask him that. Let me 1244 01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:22,880 Speaker 1: do I go first, I go first. Here we go. 1245 01:25:25,360 --> 01:25:38,240 Speaker 1: Top five A Camelajuan, nice, Magic, Yeah, Jordan, of course, Bird, Lebron. 1246 01:25:39,320 --> 01:25:42,880 Speaker 1: You can't until you can't. It's just your top five. 1247 01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:47,040 Speaker 1: You can't even list what you got killed, all right? 1248 01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:53,200 Speaker 1: I got an Oscar rob My top five people who 1249 01:25:53,360 --> 01:25:58,680 Speaker 1: changed the game. But he was before you was Evenscar 1250 01:25:58,840 --> 01:26:01,160 Speaker 1: oh Man, if he was in here, would you see him, 1251 01:26:01,200 --> 01:26:11,120 Speaker 1: would you know him? Probably wouldn't. Magic Johnson, definitely, Lebron, James, 1252 01:26:12,280 --> 01:26:16,519 Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant, and Michael Jordan. All five of them change 1253 01:26:16,560 --> 01:26:26,160 Speaker 1: the game. Kareem Abdullah who changed the game. He was 1254 01:26:26,240 --> 01:26:31,040 Speaker 1: so cold in college they stopped dunking. You look like 1255 01:26:31,160 --> 01:26:42,040 Speaker 1: you're looking for an argument. Yeah, point God ever live magic. 1256 01:26:43,240 --> 01:26:47,960 Speaker 1: It wasn't. No, he wasn't. No, it wasn't because he 1257 01:26:48,040 --> 01:26:53,480 Speaker 1: wants to fight great God to ever leave. And basketball 1258 01:26:53,640 --> 01:27:03,520 Speaker 1: player arguably Michael j one of the current greatest basketball 1259 01:27:03,560 --> 01:27:12,320 Speaker 1: player on the planet today, Lebron d what's the last one? 1260 01:27:12,439 --> 01:27:23,160 Speaker 1: Dog and the last one? It's the black move list, Kobe, Lebron, 1261 01:27:23,880 --> 01:27:28,880 Speaker 1: Jordan's Magic and Kareine Okay, because Lord ha mercy, nobody 1262 01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:31,920 Speaker 1: put Doctor Jay on there. Doctor Jay could have easily 1263 01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:33,960 Speaker 1: have been on and I wanted to put shack on 1264 01:27:34,160 --> 01:27:37,439 Speaker 1: him and Oscar Robinson. I wanted him on my list. 1265 01:27:37,840 --> 01:27:39,800 Speaker 1: Let me tell you somebody else who can make them list. 1266 01:27:40,680 --> 01:27:42,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you if I could have anybody's game, 1267 01:27:43,360 --> 01:27:45,680 Speaker 1: if you could have anybody's game in the league right now, 1268 01:27:45,720 --> 01:27:53,040 Speaker 1: who right now, who would you want? I can't hold 1269 01:27:53,120 --> 01:27:55,560 Speaker 1: up yours? Hold up, guys, we gotta we gotta go. 1270 01:27:55,720 --> 01:27:58,080 Speaker 1: We'll be racked, and I'll tell you who's game my 1271 01:27:58,200 --> 01:28:01,320 Speaker 1: health Cliffhanger. Baby. We'll back with Marv the Steve Harvey 1272 01:28:01,400 --> 01:28:05,080 Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this at thirty three after the hour. 1273 01:28:05,840 --> 01:28:10,599 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, uh 1274 01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:13,479 Speaker 1: if you what was the question, Steve, if you could 1275 01:28:13,520 --> 01:28:16,519 Speaker 1: be anyone have their game right now in the NBA, 1276 01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:21,639 Speaker 1: who would it be yet? Waiting his prime? I won't. 1277 01:28:21,720 --> 01:28:23,680 Speaker 1: I want a game like that. You want Dwayne Way? 1278 01:28:23,760 --> 01:28:27,040 Speaker 1: I played like that. I want James hard Tomic said 1279 01:28:27,120 --> 01:28:38,000 Speaker 1: James Harden. Jason Who, Yeah, come on, you're swimming it, Sammons, Right, Okay, okay, 1280 01:28:38,400 --> 01:28:42,840 Speaker 1: who did you say? I want any prime? Any when 1281 01:28:42,840 --> 01:28:48,640 Speaker 1: he prime? When he wanted the champion? Harden had anybody's 1282 01:28:48,720 --> 01:28:55,200 Speaker 1: game right now? Russell west He's he's a good thing. No, 1283 01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:58,880 Speaker 1: I want Russell's game. He's motor, he's a fast thing, 1284 01:28:59,439 --> 01:29:02,880 Speaker 1: he's older. His drive to play the game. He get 1285 01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:06,680 Speaker 1: more triple doubles than anybody. He's scoring, he rebounded, and 1286 01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:10,599 Speaker 1: he dished. You can't deny these triple doubles. A triple 1287 01:29:10,640 --> 01:29:13,920 Speaker 1: double is hard to get. This dude got party m 1288 01:29:14,040 --> 01:29:18,360 Speaker 1: last year. Man, But the game I would I would 1289 01:29:18,400 --> 01:29:24,200 Speaker 1: want Russell Westbrook's game, right he just so involved. Man, 1290 01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:28,840 Speaker 1: his attitude. I just love his game. Man. That's if 1291 01:29:28,920 --> 01:29:32,240 Speaker 1: I could I could play like anybody. That's who I 1292 01:29:32,439 --> 01:29:37,280 Speaker 1: was bro like, Yeah, now who I had? Yet? I 1293 01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:40,760 Speaker 1: got no time for that? Man. He said he did 1294 01:29:41,920 --> 01:29:46,160 Speaker 1: cracks on people like like he just rushed over there. 1295 01:29:46,280 --> 01:29:51,760 Speaker 1: He cute. No, I mean he don't wanted to say 1296 01:29:51,760 --> 01:29:54,240 Speaker 1: it though, he said the day. Okay, you said today. 1297 01:29:54,360 --> 01:29:56,680 Speaker 1: What about back in the day, Back in the day, 1298 01:29:56,760 --> 01:30:00,040 Speaker 1: back in the day him. I had him on. But 1299 01:30:00,160 --> 01:30:02,160 Speaker 1: I tell you ain't gonna believe. Who Come on, Junior, 1300 01:30:02,439 --> 01:30:05,920 Speaker 1: you go first? Back old school man? You know who 1301 01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:09,840 Speaker 1: I really love? Man? That's who I wanted. I'm be 1302 01:30:09,920 --> 01:30:15,120 Speaker 1: honest with running Max. That boy, I'm flowing up from Texas. 1303 01:30:15,240 --> 01:30:21,519 Speaker 1: Go ahead time. Who would you be the glue? Oh? Really? Okay? 1304 01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:26,840 Speaker 1: I like this game? Come on, crazy, come on? Look 1305 01:30:26,840 --> 01:30:28,560 Speaker 1: at that? Look at that? Look at his acts? Know 1306 01:30:28,560 --> 01:30:33,639 Speaker 1: who I wanted to be? White? Connie Hawkins Who Connie 1307 01:30:36,680 --> 01:30:44,320 Speaker 1: the Flying Franger roll Connie Man. Everything was a finger 1308 01:30:44,400 --> 01:30:52,200 Speaker 1: roll Connie Hawk What team seventy six is Connie Hawkins Man? 1309 01:30:52,439 --> 01:30:55,679 Speaker 1: Nobody said Bill Russell right, this was I wasn't gonna 1310 01:30:55,680 --> 01:30:59,679 Speaker 1: say this time. I wanted. I don't want Jay wants 1311 01:30:59,720 --> 01:31:11,040 Speaker 1: to it's too much. Please let me j come on. 1312 01:31:11,680 --> 01:31:18,360 Speaker 1: One of the baddest basketball players ever, Curly from the GLOBEZ. 1313 01:31:22,960 --> 01:31:28,639 Speaker 1: The Curly was good, but I had cream, I dude, 1314 01:31:28,680 --> 01:31:33,439 Speaker 1: Youba on my sneak. Yeah, I had my sneakers, man, 1315 01:31:34,400 --> 01:31:37,320 Speaker 1: I had him on my sneakers, and and I wanted 1316 01:31:37,360 --> 01:31:46,519 Speaker 1: to be el Jim bait O Lord on the pearl roll. 1317 01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:52,280 Speaker 1: You know how hard I practiced that move. We gotta 1318 01:31:52,360 --> 01:31:54,800 Speaker 1: come back. I don't know if we're ever now, but 1319 01:31:55,160 --> 01:31:58,920 Speaker 1: we'll be back and closing remarks all of that when 1320 01:31:58,960 --> 01:32:01,240 Speaker 1: we come back at forty nine actually be our right 1321 01:32:01,280 --> 01:32:06,840 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, Steve. Here we are 1322 01:32:07,600 --> 01:32:11,120 Speaker 1: our last break of the day, but our first closing 1323 01:32:11,240 --> 01:32:15,719 Speaker 1: remark of the year from you. You know, um thinking 1324 01:32:15,760 --> 01:32:19,280 Speaker 1: about it and as always as we set out on 1325 01:32:19,400 --> 01:32:23,400 Speaker 1: these new years, people have the tendency to make resolutions. 1326 01:32:23,560 --> 01:32:26,280 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't make resolutions for the new year 1327 01:32:26,400 --> 01:32:29,479 Speaker 1: because as soon as I think of what I want 1328 01:32:29,720 --> 01:32:32,719 Speaker 1: to do to improve myself, I don't wait to start 1329 01:32:32,840 --> 01:32:35,560 Speaker 1: improving at the beginning of the year. I start on 1330 01:32:35,720 --> 01:32:40,200 Speaker 1: Christmas Eve, Thanksgiving. I started August twenty second. It don't 1331 01:32:40,240 --> 01:32:43,240 Speaker 1: matter when the moment I think. So. I used to 1332 01:32:43,320 --> 01:32:46,439 Speaker 1: do resolutions, but I don't do them anymore because life 1333 01:32:46,520 --> 01:32:48,320 Speaker 1: is too short to wait till the start of the 1334 01:32:48,479 --> 01:32:51,360 Speaker 1: year to begin. But how about if we look at 1335 01:32:51,360 --> 01:32:55,760 Speaker 1: it this way, since God has afforded you this incredible 1336 01:32:55,800 --> 01:33:02,840 Speaker 1: opportunity called life, and we are all Him, and even 1337 01:33:02,920 --> 01:33:06,599 Speaker 1: against all the odds, we somehow made it to twenty nineteen. 1338 01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:10,720 Speaker 1: I want to say this to you. You have a 1339 01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:16,080 Speaker 1: say soul in how your year ago. You have a 1340 01:33:16,240 --> 01:33:20,600 Speaker 1: say soul in how your year ago. You do not 1341 01:33:20,880 --> 01:33:24,439 Speaker 1: have to sit here and just play it by ear. 1342 01:33:25,320 --> 01:33:31,920 Speaker 1: You have choices, You have decisions. You have the right 1343 01:33:32,400 --> 01:33:37,000 Speaker 1: to view it positively or negatively. You have the right 1344 01:33:37,520 --> 01:33:41,200 Speaker 1: to view your glass as half full or half empty. 1345 01:33:41,640 --> 01:33:47,760 Speaker 1: You have the right to accept righteousness or evil. You 1346 01:33:48,120 --> 01:33:53,040 Speaker 1: have the choice. That's the beauty about being a human. 1347 01:33:53,640 --> 01:33:57,280 Speaker 1: God when he created us as creatures, as creators. As 1348 01:33:58,040 --> 01:34:01,400 Speaker 1: he created us as creatures, he gave us, as the 1349 01:34:01,600 --> 01:34:05,080 Speaker 1: human creature, the only one that has the power of 1350 01:34:05,240 --> 01:34:09,160 Speaker 1: choice in all areas of life. We can choose when 1351 01:34:09,200 --> 01:34:12,920 Speaker 1: we mate, where we live, how we live, who we 1352 01:34:13,160 --> 01:34:17,040 Speaker 1: mate with, where we stay, what we wear, how we dress, 1353 01:34:17,200 --> 01:34:20,680 Speaker 1: the climate we live in. Look polar Bears have to 1354 01:34:20,840 --> 01:34:24,560 Speaker 1: live in polar regions. Penguins have to live fish have 1355 01:34:24,720 --> 01:34:27,320 Speaker 1: to live in the ocean. It's the way it is. 1356 01:34:27,960 --> 01:34:31,439 Speaker 1: Bears got to be in woods, that's how that we 1357 01:34:31,760 --> 01:34:33,920 Speaker 1: can go live on the desert, we can live on 1358 01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:39,720 Speaker 1: the mountaintop. We get choices. Two thousand nineteen is your 1359 01:34:39,880 --> 01:34:45,280 Speaker 1: year to make better choices. If you weren't happy with 1360 01:34:45,400 --> 01:34:49,519 Speaker 1: the way two eighteen went for you, you have a 1361 01:34:49,760 --> 01:34:53,960 Speaker 1: decision to make. You can change your thought process, and 1362 01:34:54,120 --> 01:34:57,720 Speaker 1: by changing your thought process, you can change outcome. Now, 1363 01:34:57,800 --> 01:35:01,280 Speaker 1: listen to this. You can't do it anything about everything 1364 01:35:01,360 --> 01:35:04,840 Speaker 1: that happens to you, as nothing you can do about 1365 01:35:04,840 --> 01:35:08,439 Speaker 1: what's going to happen to you. You can't stop nobody 1366 01:35:08,520 --> 01:35:12,679 Speaker 1: from hurting your feelings. You can't stop your plant from closing, 1367 01:35:13,320 --> 01:35:17,439 Speaker 1: you can't stop them from for closing on a loan. 1368 01:35:17,760 --> 01:35:22,160 Speaker 1: You can't stop dalla da da dada. But you can 1369 01:35:22,280 --> 01:35:26,560 Speaker 1: do something about every single thing that happens to you. 1370 01:35:27,280 --> 01:35:31,240 Speaker 1: You can have the attitude so when it happens to you, 1371 01:35:31,880 --> 01:35:36,160 Speaker 1: it does not destroy you. You've got to stop letting 1372 01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:39,760 Speaker 1: mishaps that come along in your life wipe you out 1373 01:35:40,040 --> 01:35:42,760 Speaker 1: and cause you to paul so long that you no 1374 01:35:42,960 --> 01:35:46,800 Speaker 1: longer in perpetual forward motion and you wind up stuck 1375 01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:52,559 Speaker 1: on stupid. You have a choice to accept everything as 1376 01:35:52,640 --> 01:35:54,760 Speaker 1: a child of God and say, you know what he 1377 01:35:54,960 --> 01:35:58,519 Speaker 1: probably got something better for me. For example, they're gonna 1378 01:35:58,520 --> 01:36:01,439 Speaker 1: close adorn me in two was nineteen. You think I'm 1379 01:36:01,479 --> 01:36:04,519 Speaker 1: tripping about that. They already told me they probably gonna 1380 01:36:04,520 --> 01:36:07,880 Speaker 1: close this door me in two nineteen. All that means 1381 01:36:08,000 --> 01:36:10,920 Speaker 1: for me is God has another door for me to open, 1382 01:36:11,560 --> 01:36:14,120 Speaker 1: for me to walk through. He gonna open another door. 1383 01:36:14,720 --> 01:36:18,120 Speaker 1: These people that make these decisions at these networks and stuff, 1384 01:36:18,360 --> 01:36:22,160 Speaker 1: they don't control my life. They control that little piece 1385 01:36:22,200 --> 01:36:24,439 Speaker 1: of section over that. I got the rest of it. 1386 01:36:25,520 --> 01:36:29,759 Speaker 1: I'm God in charging me. So every door that closes 1387 01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:32,920 Speaker 1: for you in two nineteen, if you understand that, that 1388 01:36:33,120 --> 01:36:36,639 Speaker 1: allows for an opportunity for another door to open. Maybe 1389 01:36:36,680 --> 01:36:39,800 Speaker 1: I need some more rest, Maybe I'll be working too all. 1390 01:36:41,280 --> 01:36:43,640 Speaker 1: Maybe this is his way of saying, ain't pardner, you're 1391 01:36:43,680 --> 01:36:45,920 Speaker 1: gonna slow down. I'm gonna help you slow down. I 1392 01:36:45,960 --> 01:36:48,000 Speaker 1: ain't fit the fall, I ain't gonna have to sail nothing, 1393 01:36:48,040 --> 01:36:51,920 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lose nothing. But I've learned to accept 1394 01:36:52,120 --> 01:36:56,120 Speaker 1: God's will and understand that everything that happens to me 1395 01:36:56,520 --> 01:36:59,559 Speaker 1: happens to me for my good and my betterment, because 1396 01:36:59,640 --> 01:37:02,040 Speaker 1: the God I serve didn't bring me this far to 1397 01:37:02,240 --> 01:37:05,200 Speaker 1: leave me. You tell me. Why would God lift you 1398 01:37:05,600 --> 01:37:07,920 Speaker 1: to the height that he got you too, just to 1399 01:37:08,040 --> 01:37:13,080 Speaker 1: see you fall. That's not the God reserve, that's not God. 1400 01:37:14,760 --> 01:37:19,759 Speaker 1: Don't let nobody deceive you. That ain't God. When something 1401 01:37:19,880 --> 01:37:24,439 Speaker 1: happens in your life, it's an opportunity, man, that's all 1402 01:37:24,520 --> 01:37:28,400 Speaker 1: twenty nineteen is. It's gonna be a series of opportunities. 1403 01:37:28,920 --> 01:37:32,520 Speaker 1: When they tell you no, it's going to create another opportunity. 1404 01:37:33,080 --> 01:37:35,519 Speaker 1: If they tell you your counsel, it's going to create 1405 01:37:35,560 --> 01:37:40,479 Speaker 1: another opportunity. If they tell you, well, we don't think so. 1406 01:37:41,040 --> 01:37:45,240 Speaker 1: It's because they don't know. You think I care about 1407 01:37:45,280 --> 01:37:48,479 Speaker 1: somebody telling me how they feel about me or show 1408 01:37:48,560 --> 01:37:51,920 Speaker 1: our God. They think they made me and people didn't 1409 01:37:51,960 --> 01:37:54,000 Speaker 1: make me. Man. That just give me the opportunity to 1410 01:37:54,040 --> 01:37:57,240 Speaker 1: go do something else. They got you too, they got 1411 01:37:57,360 --> 01:38:00,200 Speaker 1: faith full, they got everything. Now I ain't got said 1412 01:38:00,240 --> 01:38:02,160 Speaker 1: round me, wonder trip about what you're gonna do with me. 1413 01:38:03,439 --> 01:38:07,160 Speaker 1: I know how to forge and pray and earn and 1414 01:38:07,320 --> 01:38:12,599 Speaker 1: work for other opportunities. This ain't the only country. I'm global. 1415 01:38:13,680 --> 01:38:17,720 Speaker 1: The God I serve is in a nationale. See that's 1416 01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:22,240 Speaker 1: what I know. Don't let two thousand nineteen get by 1417 01:38:22,320 --> 01:38:25,960 Speaker 1: you without understand that you have a say soul and 1418 01:38:26,120 --> 01:38:29,080 Speaker 1: just how it goes. So come on, man, get your 1419 01:38:29,120 --> 01:38:33,479 Speaker 1: attitude right, keep talking to God, pray, ask for guidance 1420 01:38:33,600 --> 01:38:36,120 Speaker 1: and assistance, and see if God don't show you the way. 1421 01:38:36,360 --> 01:38:38,760 Speaker 1: That's how you get through two thy nineteen, That's how 1422 01:38:38,800 --> 01:38:41,360 Speaker 1: we got through eighteen. You thought you weren't gonna make it, 1423 01:38:41,439 --> 01:38:44,439 Speaker 1: but here you come on, boy, you better. I got 1424 01:38:44,479 --> 01:38:47,200 Speaker 1: to go. Y'all, have a nice weekend. Steve. Every contests 1425 01:38:47,280 --> 01:38:50,559 Speaker 1: no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 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