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Speaker 2: And the Call and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 2: episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 3: We gotta guest today, we gotta guess today, I may

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Speaker 3: guess today. I'm sorry because we're about to have girl

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Speaker 3: talk today. Alright, So if you've been living under a

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Speaker 3: rock and you're not on Take tied, then you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: But everybody on Take Talking, everybody know.

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Speaker 2: Who she is.

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Speaker 1: We got Queen Lee alright in the building. Waddy do bitchy?

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Speaker 1: Are you like so pritty?

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Speaker 2: Hair? Laide, got hairs laid, makeup on point up? Okay,

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna start from the beginning because I feel like,

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Speaker 2: you know, TikTok is still new to me, Like it's

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Speaker 1: It's like the beginning of time. So when you.

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Speaker 2: First got on TikTok, did you have a presence on

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Speaker 2: another social media app like before TikTok? No? Okay, but

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Speaker 2: you know how like in your city you might have

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Speaker 2: a little motion. Yeah, you know, people like your pictures,

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Speaker 2: so you're kind of known. So that's what I had,

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Speaker 2: like I was like a popular girl. Okay, So when

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Speaker 2: I went to TikTok and it blew up, a lot

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Speaker 2: of people was kind of like, your mouth is foul,

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Speaker 2: that's never gonna go anywhere. You're so pretty, why do

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Speaker 2: you talk like that? So TikTok really like blew every

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Speaker 2: other platform up for me. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: A lot of outside people came in and started being like,

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Speaker 2: hold on, who is this Because your hometown, they don't

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Speaker 2: necessarily support you until other people support you. We know

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Speaker 2: all about out there all the time because we're from Houston.

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Speaker 2: Well I'm from Houston. She from Orange, but she damn

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Speaker 2: near from Houston. But it's the same thing, like people

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Speaker 2: don't really support you until you start getting the support

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Speaker 2: of everybody else, right, And then it.

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Speaker 1: Was kind of like, oh, she why you won't come

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Speaker 2: I let you talk about the influence because I feel

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Speaker 2: like when you started doing your voice over the way

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Speaker 2: that you did them, a lot of other people started

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Speaker 2: doing them the same way. So it's interesting that people

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Speaker 2: were telling you it wasn't gonna go.

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Speaker 1: But I don't like to be like, there's my shit.

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Speaker 1: Started cursing feeling because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: Like growing up, it was a lot of wants she

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Speaker 2: but that doesn't leave the salon door.

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Speaker 1: So when I posted on.

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Speaker 2: TikTok, it was like, oh, I love that, Like I

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Speaker 2: love going to stylus that speak their mind and it

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Speaker 1: So I hate being like, oh, y'all started their sheep

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Speaker 2: That's true. I be humbled, old, I be humbled, folks,

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Speaker 2: just like I just seen a few voice overs be like,

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Speaker 2: come on, blocked a couple of bitches now from like

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Speaker 2: stealing stuff from you. I don't block a couple of

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Speaker 2: cause I think it's more so like, okay, like if

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Speaker 2: somebody inspired you, that's so like that's a little different,

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Speaker 2: you know, but versus like somebody straight up stealing your

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Speaker 1: Feeling everything. Yeah, I just block people like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just let them let their minds wonder, right, but

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Speaker 1: So that's why it's like it's hard for Untsy to.

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Speaker 2: when you want to like make your own lane and TikTok,

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Speaker 2: And I'm not gonna lie. The girls be fighting down

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Speaker 2: on TikTok, they be arguing. You be arguing people on TikTok.

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Speaker 2: No I don't. I'll speak my piece, I'll talk my shit,

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Speaker 1: I don't know you.

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Speaker 2: But do y'all remember that girl that was like basically

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Speaker 2: something wrong, TikTok is brutal. They're very very like I

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Speaker 2: thought Twitter was bad, but them TikTok streets. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think Twitter is still worse. Yeah, Twitter is worse

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Speaker 2: Twitter is worse maybe because I'm like, things don't live

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Speaker 2: you could still get potentially banned for hate comedy. Yeah

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Speaker 2: that is Twitter.

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Speaker 1: You can say whatever the fuck.

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Speaker 2: You wrong, like anything that ain't nobody no, So talk

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Speaker 2: about your background and like doing hair and how that

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Speaker 2: Clark Atlanta University, and I had an epiphany, bitches are

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Speaker 2: walking around here with Gucci Lui and motherfucking.

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Speaker 1: Praduct, Like, what do y'all do? Right? And they're like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: we do hair, we do lashes, we do makeup.

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Speaker 2: So I felt like school was in my lane. I

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I wanna do hair.

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Speaker 2: She like, well, you got two weeks to enroll in

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Speaker 2: with you. So I was enrolled in school within like

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Speaker 1: Could you do hair a little bit though like you

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Speaker 2: At first, I was doing silk presses for twenty five dollars.

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Speaker 1: As soon as I got out of.

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Speaker 2: I was fucking with this little nigga. Okay, he went

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Speaker 2: selling drools. I'm doing this now. She was in the streets.

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Speaker 1: Oh, bitch, I was in there. I'm pulling up the

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Speaker 1: If you know, you're not okay?

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Speaker 2: If you know you know, so I'm pulling up you

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Speaker 2: feel me. So I'm just like, this is not the

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Speaker 2: life for me. So the tramp money, I transferred into

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Speaker 2: selling wigs and then boom Corona here Kobe heah. So

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Speaker 2: for me? Like, I don't care if you could do

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Speaker 2: hell not Baby, I want that wig?

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Speaker 1: Can you do it? People not going to the salons

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Speaker 2: So I said, you know what, add an extra hundred

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Speaker 1: It's literally how I started on.

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Speaker 2: That is crazy is when I tell you there's so

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Speaker 2: many COVID stories.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you like COVID was such a it was

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Speaker 2: A new life because it put you in Grymo. It

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Speaker 2: definitely nobody was working like people weren't working anymore. Money

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Speaker 2: getting creative. Okay, what's a skill that I have? What's

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Speaker 1: Let me try it out?

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Speaker 2: Baby?

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Speaker 1: Walmart clothes like what they are we supposed to do?

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Speaker 2: That been still not twenty four seven. Most early COVID

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Speaker 2: So that's that's how I started selling hair and doing here.

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Speaker 2: But throughout that time I was in collsonality school. I

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Speaker 2: things I think people are missing too, because a lot

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Speaker 1: To charge your arm in a foot.

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Speaker 2: No, you're not even licensed. So that's that was the

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Speaker 2: hardest part for me to sit down. But I say,

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Speaker 2: you can tell your girls like I went to costology school,

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Speaker 2: I did this and that, like, I know how you feel.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to relate when your thug said, I

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Speaker 2: just needed the platform, right, But.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know you what to do, like you

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Speaker 1: knew everything. So how did you?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so do you still you don't do hair?

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Speaker 2: So how did you transition from doing hair to now

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Speaker 2: being like a hair influence? So?

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Speaker 1: Well, I got my own salon.

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Speaker 2: Sweet ooh well I was working in the salon at

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Speaker 2: first Rest in peace to the owner that wasp.

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Speaker 1: That was a lot.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about my homeboy got killed in front of

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Speaker 2: the saloni't great wait wait wait.

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Speaker 1: Not the best we could out here?

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Speaker 2: We can out here right, Okay, So I just graduated

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Speaker 2: college college school. This girl had hit me up, like

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Speaker 2: I know somebody who has a salon. They'll let you

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Speaker 2: work in there with your temple license, get your real license.

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Speaker 2: You could stay permanently cool. So I get there. The

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Speaker 2: Literally I have I have my own personal runner, like

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Speaker 1: You want him to paint the walls, you want to go,

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Speaker 2: He got you. Anything you need, he got you. So

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Speaker 2: was some drugs, Like like, white bitch is knocking at

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Speaker 1: Do you have any cleaning supplies that he left for me?

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Speaker 2: Ain't you know they say mean bitches be swelling on

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Speaker 1: He was addicted to drugs.

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Speaker 2: He ended up going to rehab and the girl pulled

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Speaker 2: I was paying him. He was not paying the bills.

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Speaker 2: He was getting drugs and he was in rehab. I

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Speaker 2: moved out, got my ship. He had my ring light

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Speaker 1: It was a lot.

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Speaker 1: And then once I moved out, my homeboy got killed.

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Speaker 2: Wait, but the owner is still alive. Oh he did

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Speaker 2: he overdog? Yeah damn that ha wrong over those day

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Speaker 2: that hair right now, I think he got hit by

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Speaker 2: If anybody get hit, you're probably had wrong bleeped the

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Speaker 2: think real talk. Oh my god, that's drown last now,

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Speaker 2: were not laughing, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know y'all folks did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you and you're wrong, And I would have

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Speaker 2: been mad at my homegirl because why you told me

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Speaker 2: so like I feel like it built my character. Okay,

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Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna lie. I like having every crack head.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he was, they gonna do whatever. Okay, he crack

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Speaker 2: rock period. The problem was y'all going in the back

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Speaker 2: Got it smell like you smell the smelled crack before.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I smelled it on somebody before. I

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Speaker 1: But I feel like I it had that stinch. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: Somebody saying on TikTok they was like hood people smell

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Speaker 1: You think you can get cracked, Oh my.

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Speaker 2: God, I ain't gonnakelt like honestly, it do be giving

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Speaker 2: like you know when I go with my hood beach

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Speaker 2: his house to give a little cigarette, little pepsi.

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Speaker 2: It's really crack.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I've ever smelled crack. No, you really

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Speaker 2: What it smelled like. I don't want to go smell some.

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Speaker 1: Like downtown.

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Speaker 2: Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: We know what gonna be like.

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Speaker 2: Just go to the roots downtown.

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Speaker 1: You not the ruth Crib.

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Speaker 2: I've been to that roof cre Everybody be outside everywhere

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Speaker 2: now smoking crack, smoking you'll be surprised when smoke crack.

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Speaker 2: You know what? I agree? Now, I agree with that.

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Speaker 1: That's why Whitney used to get with.

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Speaker 2: Not too much on my eye.

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Speaker 1: No, that's why she get. Yes, I loved me some week,

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Speaker 1: but she never did.

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Speaker 2: Crack is whack and crack is cheek. That's what I'm

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Speaker 2: saying why she used to get the finished. She was like, baby,

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Speaker 2: I do cold period. Whitney the one who told me

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Speaker 2: the difference between crack and coat me zool I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Know crackish sheep. Don't put her in that category.

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Speaker 2: Rest in peace to our queen.

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Speaker 2: So talking about the transition from that to get your

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna go back to my mama house,

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Speaker 2: back in the bathroom. Yeah, so I decided I did

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Speaker 2: want a sweet mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: So that's when we went over there.

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Speaker 2: That's when we started making TikTok Okay, that's when it

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Speaker 2: blew upright. So once that happened, a lot of girls

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Speaker 2: started booking one on one classes, so I would that's

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Speaker 2: when they be charged like a thousand dollars or song.

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Speaker 2: Oh baby, I'm maybe one thing about me, I know

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Speaker 2: how to get them both.

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Speaker 1: Mine was five hundred five five fifty cash.

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Speaker 2: Gonna pull up you and your model and you're gonna

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Speaker 2: filly at home. Once they started doing that, I was

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Speaker 2: booked up with so many classes. I'm like, oh my goodness.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do hair no more word?

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Speaker 2: Right is this easier? And it's like you don't got

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Speaker 2: I don't like my hair because that yes, silas really

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Speaker 2: don't talk about how we get mentally abused. Like people

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Speaker 2: don't care if you eat. People don't care if you

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Speaker 2: go out, people don't care if you have like a

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Speaker 2: personal life. It's all about them in their hair. Which school?

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Speaker 1: Which is school?

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Speaker 2: You're paying for a service. But it's like we're still

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Speaker 2: human and people make mistakes. Yeah, so cause, like I said,

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Speaker 2: goes violence, like damn, like you should have told her

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Speaker 2: they was like I don't like my hair, I'm not

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Speaker 2: paying you. Yeah, okay. So I got in two different situations.

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Speaker 2: One situation, a girl came, she got her hair done,

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Speaker 2: and she swore um down, she loved it. She came

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Speaker 2: So she was like, I just really didn't like my

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Speaker 2: with this. This wasn't plucked correctly, this wasn't done. The

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Speaker 2: bitches had a yeah, but mind you, her little muffin

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Speaker 2: cap is peeled back. I'm applying some new glue. So

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Speaker 2: I'm like, do you are you fucking okay?

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Speaker 1: Said if you didn't like it, you shouldn't have paid

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Speaker 1: or shouldn't have came.

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Speaker 2: To fall back. I'm not redoing it. I said, I'm

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Speaker 2: not redoing this shit. And I said, youre getting little

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Speaker 2: disrespectful bitch and this people in here. I'm finish, get

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Speaker 2: the beer. But she like, she like, no, I just

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Speaker 2: feel like it should have looked a certain way.

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Speaker 1: Guess what I did. I left that bitch with her

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Speaker 1: week peel back. I said, get the fuck up my

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Speaker 1: seat That's what I would have did too, by beach,

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Speaker 1: because about somebody that's doing your hair.

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Speaker 2: That's how I know.

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Speaker 1: But you see me, I would have been like, okay,

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Speaker 1: you would have did it. The thing about it, it's

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Speaker 1: just like if I came here, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh I don't like this. I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of like this is what I do home, right,

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Speaker 2: this is my craft. It's kind of like, you know what,

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Speaker 2: if you don't like it, I got some better for you, baby,

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Speaker 2: Get the he out now.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie somebody walking here and be like, oh.

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Speaker 2: My god, get the fuck out bench, because yeah, so

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Speaker 2: that does make sense when you put it that way,

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Speaker 2: it's like absolutely not. You're not about to be talking

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Speaker 2: to me crazy and my sheep. Get the fuck out.

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Speaker 1: Then we had this one bitch. Her was fab Mama.

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Speaker 1: I don't give it.

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Speaker 2: I like her already came in now. I don't give

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Speaker 2: a bat Mama know she was wrong as fuck. We

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Speaker 2: not necessarily a hate. She probably felt comfortable.

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Speaker 1: Okay, boom fam mama the pool door with her whole family,

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Speaker 1: her kids, her brother.

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Speaker 2: Mind you, I'm still doing my mama house right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so you got your brother in here with my fucking mama.

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Speaker 1: Making them on, Like okay, cool, so the kids in

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Speaker 1: in here?

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Speaker 2: Bitch? What do it look like?

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Speaker 1: We smoke cigarettes here? So that was the first red flag.

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Speaker 2: She left. Next day she called the wig and came

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Speaker 2: up big messed up. Come on back, she comes back.

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Speaker 2: She takes me again, and she's like, hey, it's still

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Speaker 2: coming up. You know what, come get your money back?

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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Look, look, it's fine base, I've never been hard on

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Speaker 1: the corner.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: You can have that back, and you can go to

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Speaker 1: somebody who pleases you.

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Speaker 2: Fat mama was doing something.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's not it. Oh it's not it. Fat Mama

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Speaker 1: came and got her money.

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Speaker 4: That was it.

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Speaker 2: A month later, somebody gets to blow on my phone up,

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Speaker 2: blowing it up. I'm like, come on, I recognize it's numble.

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Speaker 2: I'm not answering though, because I'm doing here right right.

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Speaker 2: My doorbell rings, so I'm on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, the fuck on, I said.

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Speaker 2: I know it's not this bitch at my dumb this

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Speaker 2: can't be I must got a motherfucker personal letter or

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Speaker 2: something that I go, right, it was fat Mama at

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Speaker 2: the suck and do what's fat Mama's back? I mean

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Speaker 2: her t is real big, like she was like a

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Speaker 2: size h and eighth grade. Okay, that's why I call

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Speaker 1: Okay boom. So I'm like, who died? That's literally what

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Speaker 1: I said when I opened the door. Who died? Beach?

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Speaker 2: Because it should be no reason you should be pulling

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Speaker 2: up to my mama career like this. She like, I

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Speaker 2: took the wigs to multiple people. They said they cannot

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Speaker 2: install it because it has been previously installed.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck does that have to do

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Speaker 1: with me? She like, well, I just brought it back

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Speaker 2: You're the one who originally installed it. We're gonna cut

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Speaker 2: this right here. I'm not at a salon. I'm not

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Speaker 2: at a place of business where you could just pull

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Speaker 2: up the signs that open and you're welcome to come in.

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Speaker 2: This is where my mom lays her head. You don't

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Speaker 2: just pull up here that service. I didn't give you

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Speaker 2: my address for that. So me and her get into it.

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Speaker 2: Mind you, I still got a beach in the house

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Speaker 2: under the drive I'm on the front step. So I'm

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Speaker 2: just like, look, what are we getting into? Nothing?

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Speaker 1: I gotta go.

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Speaker 2: So she leaves.

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Speaker 1: She cried, she called my phone.

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Speaker 2: You treat me like a hole.

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Speaker 1: No like that, Mama, Fat Mama reversed out that driveway.

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Speaker 2: Fat Mama. That that was that moment.

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Speaker 1: But listen, I have to know I have no ill

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Speaker 1: wheel towards Fat Mama. Okay, Fat Mama. He was like

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Speaker 1: wire class in eighth grade.

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Speaker 2: I'll never thinks it was an elective.

441
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,200
Speaker 1: But why you know, you bond with people? You know

442
00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,199
Speaker 1: you do you bonding it? Nobody want to be there.

443
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 1: We all here that before that was a rough moment

444
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:29,880
Speaker 1: for fat Mama. I ain't had no kids. Then fat

445
00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,880
Speaker 1: Mama had kids. I would be on ash too.

446
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:35,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I ged you what what did something specific happened?

447
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,199
Speaker 2: When he was like, okay, I can't do hair at

448
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 2: my mama house. No more like when it was like

449
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,040
Speaker 2: it was like, so nothing specific happened. It was just

450
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:43,640
Speaker 2: like you started making a lot more money.

451
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:47,200
Speaker 1: No, just because like I I feel like I'm a very.

452
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:49,159
Speaker 2: People.

453
00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:50,879
Speaker 1: I'm a girl's girl, you know.

454
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:53,159
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm not going to disrespect you unless

455
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,119
Speaker 2: you disrespect me. Even when fat Mama was at my

456
00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,639
Speaker 2: front door, it wasn't like bitch, get out my step.

457
00:20:57,840 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 2: It was like, so what are we gonna do right?

458
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,640
Speaker 2: How are we gonna move forward? So nobody ever came

459
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 2: in me like dishes like crazy because I come at

460
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 2: people with spect it's amusing a lot of peoples, Like

461
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 2: how you want to blite people? Do your mama house?

462
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 2: I can never.

463
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 1: But when you know how to talk to people right,

464
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 1: handle it right.

465
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 2: When you're talking to people crazy and you're kind of

466
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 2: moving crazy, that's when it's like you can't be doing

467
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 2: the stuff you do and pulling up. But it's like

468
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,159
Speaker 2: you you seem like you have a good heart and

469
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 2: you're right. We're always pure, always pure, Like girl, come

470
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 2: get your head right right right every there. So before

471
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,679
Speaker 2: we move on, because ta, I'm gonna need another one.

472
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 1: I keep spilling it on.

473
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 2: So this one is called the Queendom Come and this

474
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 2: is especially for you Booth. This one has some repo tequila.

475
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 2: We have some muddled cucumber and mint, We have some

476
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 2: agave some watermelon juice, and then we topped it with

477
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,880
Speaker 2: a little bit of some sparkling rose. Just to give

478
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 2: it a little fizz, a little sparkle, and then we've

479
00:21:56,000 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 2: garnished it with a beautiful cucumber ribbon. Call that a

480
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 2: cucumber ribbon. And then some fresh men. So this is

481
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 2: the queendom come and it is chip is really good.

482
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 1: Well, I love black people who may look my granddaddy

483
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 1: used to make. Look what kind he used to make?

484
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 2: Okay, I liked, you're cooked.

485
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:21,119
Speaker 1: My granddaddy oldest fuck So you know, you know my daddy,

486
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,120
Speaker 1: oldest folk. He had me like fifty.

487
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 2: Really, I know that's right. Nias having babies like whatever,

488
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 2: Just have another baby eighty. He's like eighty four or something.

489
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 2: And so did al Pacino and he that's.

490
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 1: A little fucking crap. It is a little crazy.

491
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 2: I feel like there comes that age where it's like, okay,

492
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 2: now you're tripping eighty.

493
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Speaker 1: You was not finnahy that baby turn eight?

494
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Speaker 2: For sure? Do you have children? Yeah?

495
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 1: Okay.

496
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 2: The thing about that is you have to be very active. Okay.

497
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:56,399
Speaker 2: However you act with your child really determines their fucking future.

498
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 1: Yeah you're eighty, What the fuck are you do?

499
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 2: I think that's that's a woman having a baby with

500
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 2: an edighty year old is crazy because you gotta change

501
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 2: your nigga diaper and your baby diaper, right, not doing

502
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 2: that right?

503
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 1: I changed both. I don't got time for that now.

504
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 2: That that's some strong that's crazy about it. The crazy

505
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 2: is one of my elementary school best friends. Her grannie

506
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 2: had a brother that was like younger than us. We

507
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,919
Speaker 2: was like fourteen, and her grannie had a brother that.

508
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 1: Was like that's a while, that said me.

509
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 2: But I'm like, you know, when I'm eighty, I don't

510
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 2: want to still be like being horny and stuff like.

511
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 2: I want to be old and chilling.

512
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know, I want to I'm not sucking

513
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 1: dick at eighty, bro, I'm not doing it gonna be dick,

514
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 1: but I think I'm gonna still be.

515
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 2: Having said at eighty, you you don't have nothing but

516
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 2: powder coming out that pusson.

517
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: That's all right, that's what they got. That's what they

518
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,400
Speaker 1: got their ky jilly.

519
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 2: You ain't even gonna be able to open it.

520
00:23:56,280 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: Eighty is crazy. Your hips are gonna crack like feeling

521
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: just enjoying the fruits of our labor.

522
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 2: Why not children? Yeah, chill ye not see Lee or

523
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:14,119
Speaker 2: likes the most horny person on the couch and I don't,

524
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 2: okay not.

525
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 1: What's just saying.

526
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 2: I'm a Leo, I'm a Burgo.

527
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 1: I know you horny well, like I know a lot

528
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 1: of about that.

529
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 2: April twenty second, my baby, April fourteen, he almost was

530
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,680
Speaker 2: all here aries. I was almost the Aries though, because

531
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 2: like I think Arie season end on like the twenty

532
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 2: so I'm like going to cousins. You be having a

533
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: couple of I think I have boats. Yeah, so I

534
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 2: know Leo's real freaky. I do be they real freaky.

535
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 2: That's why I don't believe for Talmmer, she's not gonna

536
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 2: be fucking I'm already halfway that bitch. I mean, if

537
00:24:55,760 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 2: we if we getting pound eighty by eighty, by eighty,

538
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:08,239
Speaker 2: I'm good, we're gonna be tired. Okay, let's get it too.

539
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 2: Come on, like I got that drank and what about me?

540
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 2: Like I said, baby, I'll be watching y'all tiktoks and

541
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 2: you be cracking me up. I don't even think I

542
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 2: found out about you from TikTok first, because we just

543
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 2: now started kind of getting active on to our page

544
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 2: and stuff. But I used to always see your post

545
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 2: on Twitter and my best friend that live in Houston.

546
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 2: She used to love your voiceovers and stuff too, so

547
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 2: she would always be seeing me to me, But I'm.

548
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: Like, this girl is hilarious.

549
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 2: The first time that I wanted to talk about is

550
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,159
Speaker 2: not getting along with your significant other family. Because the

551
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 2: way you be going in on your baby daddy mama

552
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 2: be having me weak, it's flugged. I'm laughing. It be

553
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: so bad.

554
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,119
Speaker 1: She ain't coming that lady ball heady.

555
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 2: Okay, listen, let me just put it out like this, Okay,

556
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 2: shouty not brown head. She has a PIXI cret okay,

557
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 2: blonde one. Okay, right, so she heads a pizza cut,

558
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 2: she can grow hair. She's not fucking bob me.

559
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: I just don't like her. She don't like me. So

560
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,120
Speaker 1: this is real beef. It's real serious. Girl can tell

561
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: about it. I can tell by the boys.

562
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 2: So I be like, she don't. It's real serious.

563
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: She don't like me. I don't like her. So how

564
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:18,160
Speaker 1: did that come about?

565
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 2: Because you ain't your baby that when y'all first met,

566
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: was it kind of like y'all were really dating? Was

567
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 2: it like a hookup situation? What happens? Okay, So I

568
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 2: met my child's father when I first met him or whatever.

569
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 2: I literally met his mom, like within the first fucking week,

570
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 2: feel me like she was it is she was. He

571
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,400
Speaker 2: didn't even get it yet. And I was meeting the mama.

572
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 2: She frying pork chops, you feel me? Like at three

573
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 2: in the morning. No, she real crazy. She's really crazy.

574
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: That's what people really need.

575
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,199
Speaker 1: To fucking up. So as soon as I walked up

576
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 1: to hers, she's like, you know, who the fuck is you?

577
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 2: You feel me? And I'm just like, hey, I'm here,

578
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 2: you know. She like, who the fuck are you with

579
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: your titties up to your chin?

580
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: You know, coming in here for my son?

581
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 2: Okay. So then from there we honestly became best fucking friends.

582
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 2: Oh oh, we were the best fucking friends. You know.

583
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: She was my manager for a point in time.

584
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,439
Speaker 2: Oh wow. We were traveling together like this is my girl.

585
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: We don't even sleep in the same bed together, like

586
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 2: we locked in, locked in. But you know, people usually

587
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 2: go for who their parents kind of act like, or

588
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 2: you get what I'm saying kind of, So me and

589
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 2: her actually act alike, very loud.

590
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: She never holds her opinion back. She says whatever he wants.

591
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 2: So we did fill out over some business troubles, and

592
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 2: when I got pregnant, she never reached out to me.

593
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: I never talked to her.

594
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: First time I ever saw her was at my gender

595
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: review and she was just more so onsome, like, oh,

596
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 2: I thought the baby might die, so oh oh no,

597
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 2: why would she say that? You know, people trying to

598
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 2: paint me as the bad guys, but people really be

599
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 2: going crazy.

600
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 1: But you know, she was like, oh, I thought the

601
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: baby might die. So we don't congratulate people until they

602
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 1: have them.

603
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: Oh my god. But honestly all droke aside, though, didn't

604
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: that wouldn't that hurt your feeling because you kind of

605
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 2: maybe looked at her like a second mom, a bonus mom. Yeah,

606
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 2: it kind of was just like what ye oh, you know,

607
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: they weren't a part of my pregnancy at all. I

608
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 2: feel like it was over past issues. But they say

609
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 2: they don't celebrate pregnancy or whatever. But regardless of that,

610
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 2: me and my child's father, he was there for me,

611
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 2: like every step of the way in my pregnancy.

612
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: He was locked there.

613
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 2: Then I had my child, they never came to see

614
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 2: my child. I think the first time she saw my baby,

615
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: my baby was probably like eight months. Really, yeah, she

616
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: came to the hospital the first that I had my son,

617
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 2: and she told me she don't hold children.

618
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 1: She don't hold she don't hold children, because that's spoil

619
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: of them.

620
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: I am weak.

621
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: But then she eventually held them, you know. So it's

622
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: just a lot of picking. Yeah, yeah, and then things

623
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: went first and oh, your baby gotta call me auntie.

624
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: Oh baby, you know what. This is what I was

625
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: gonna ask you.

626
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 2: I don't mean to interrupt you. She was she a

627
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 2: young mom. Yeah, that's the vibes that was giving me

628
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 2: whenever you said, y'all was you know, sleeping in the

629
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 2: same band and having fun and turning up and working together.

630
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 2: Because not saying anything is wrong with that, but she

631
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 2: was having fun with you, and she was like more

632
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: so like this is my friend versus somebody like this

633
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 2: is somebody that my son is daddy.

634
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: This is kind of like a daughter in law.

635
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: This is not my peer. That's why I want to

636
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 2: make it clear. I'm not disrespecting her as his mother.

637
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: I'm disrespecting her as another mother. Right, How could you

638
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: act like that towards me and my son? And you

639
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: have children, right, You've told me, like we've talked and

640
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: we've talked about stories where she's been disregarded from her

641
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 2: child's father's family. You know, so it's kind of like

642
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 2: a cycle, she's repeated. But I always tell him it's

643
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 2: no disrespect to you.

644
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: You feel me.

645
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 2: I try with your family, I try to love them.

646
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 2: At this point, it's more so of we just don't

647
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 2: like each other. It is what it is now. Sometimes

648
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 2: I do take it far because I'll be like you.

649
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 2: But if people knew her, if people knew her, she's

650
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 2: a jokester. She talks about people left and right.

651
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: She's just like me. Yeah, so it's just I have

652
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 1: a platform. Yeah, But.

653
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 2: So how is it now when y'all see each other? Yeah?

654
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: Does it affect the relationship? Has it affected? Do you

655
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 2: feel like the relationship that you have with your child's

656
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 2: if I see her, she might try to be my

657
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie.

658
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Speaker 1: I have to get out there with you. But look though,

659
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Speaker 1: I mean, hey, I'm not mad at that. It's not

660
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Speaker 1: like I put ship out and don't expect people to

661
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: have a reaction. Yeah, Shaid, I understand what it is.

662
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: You feel a find it, So the fuck did I?

663
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: But it's no reason for us to be around each

664
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 2: other you already told me you don't really fuck with

665
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: my son like that. So and so, since she said that,

666
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 2: do you feel like you're always gonna be like keep

667
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: the energy, or if she changed her mind, you would

668
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 2: be open to letting her be in his life. Listen,

669
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 2: my son is thriving health. If she wants to step in,

670
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: sure she can. If she wants to leave out, sure

671
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 2: she can. Because I teach I'm gonna teach my son boundary. Yeah, Okay,

672
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: So I don't ever want to put it in his

673
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 2: mind that she's a horrible person, because he'll see it

674
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 2: for himself. He's gonna fall her ball because he keep

675
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 2: hearing you listen, he might, he might bow, he might

676
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Speaker 2: grow up to love her.

677
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. And that's totally fine. I

678
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: just don't like you.

679
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 2: But I had to grow into that because it was

680
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 2: a point where I was like, no, nobody's gonna.

681
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: See him, No no, no no.

682
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 2: But I had to say to myself, if I trusted

683
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: that man enough to lay down with him and have

684
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 2: a child with him, then I have to trust him enough.

685
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, to protect my son.

686
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 1: Once I let all that bitter energy go, and I

687
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: just accepted the fact I don't fucking like y'all. I

688
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: mean that I don't like y'all. That shit have nothing

689
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: to do with my son, right, you feel me?

690
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 2: But I do think it's hard because, like I was

691
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 2: real close with my mom, So anybody anytime, if you

692
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 2: didn't like my mom, you didn't like me either.

693
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 1: So it was up and stuck behind my mom. And

694
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: I don't care if it was family or not.

695
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: So so your son may just have a problem with

696
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 2: her later on in life, just off the fact that

697
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 2: it's like, this is my mama. It's so crazy though,

698
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: because their family, they can have disagreements, they can, you know,

699
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: go at each other's next and then they can move on.

700
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 2: I always was the type of person like you fuck

701
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 2: me over once, witch is fuck you for life? Yeah, yeah,

702
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 2: I don't.

703
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: I don't like to play like that, and I donna

704
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Speaker 1: play them games.

705
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Speaker 2: You're not about to fuck me over twice, bitch, I'm

706
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707
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 2: a fuck. Oh, I could give a fuck. Did you

708
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 2: say he was old? Fuck?

709
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Speaker 1: It don't got shit to do with me. What they

710
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711
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712
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,080
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749
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750
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Speaker 1: It's about our sons future, right, yeah, because that's the

751
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: most important thing.

752
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 2: But you definitely just proved the point that we always say,

753
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 2: if a niggas got a baby under two, he's still

754
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 2: fucking with.

755
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: The baby, Oh not that. Well well well well well

756
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 1: well well well well well.

757
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 2: I'll say this because I met a couple of niggas

758
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: who never even knew their fucking baby mama. Yeah, yeah,

759
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 2: who fucked the once, fucked the twice. Damn, it's a

760
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 2: whole baby. Now, me and him, we really had a relationship.

761
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 2: We'd have been over so many places together, you know.

762
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Speaker 1: It's like that.

763
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 2: But I did tell myself, like now that I have

764
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 2: a baby daddy, like, oh fuck no, Like I would

765
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 2: never fuck with another baby daddy. You wouldn't.

766
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: Not the shit he was texting me while we were single. Yeah,

767
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 1: got a different relationship, We got a different relationship. But

768
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Speaker 1: it's just gonna be natural for you to wonder, you know,

769
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Speaker 1: and like.

770
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Speaker 2: You said, the most important thing, because it's one thing.

771
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 2: Somebody have a have six one time and then get

772
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: then a person get. But when you have a bond

773
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 2: with somebody, which is what y'all have, like when you

774
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 2: have that bond and then y'all create a life together,

775
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 2: it's different. That's why I always say, give me a nigga,

776
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 2: your baby mama gotta be dead.

777
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Speaker 1: State are you never with her?

778
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 2: Like that?

779
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,399
Speaker 1: Saying I say the mama gotta be dead. The baby

780
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 1: mama gotta be dead. Mama. Everybody need to be dead.

781
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 2: Everybody. No family, adoptee, no type of family, no timely

782
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 2: but that baby daddy, baby mama. Shit, I don't know.

783
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Speaker 2: It's a hard dynamic. It's a hard like especially if

784
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804
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Speaker 2: But I feel like our culture normalizes baby daddy, baby mama.

805
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 2: Yeah for sure.

806
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: So it's like we can meet, let's have a baby,

807
00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: and you could just beat my baby dad. You get

808
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's not that Husban dynamic anymore. White.

809
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 2: It comes with so much toxic bullshit and hurt. That's

810
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 2: why I feel like a lot of these people just

811
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 2: be hurt. We break up, you go get this new relationship.

812
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 2: I'm here raising this child by myself.

813
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: And it's just a lot of It's a lot.

814
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot. Because do you want to get married?

815
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 2: Oh I'm going to get married. Okay, that's because I

816
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 2: know a lot of times people, Yeah, I feel I

817
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 2: love to have conversations with, like, especially people that are

818
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,760
Speaker 2: younger than us, and they say that they believe in marriage.

819
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 2: Because I be feeling like y'all generation, like our generational

820
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 2: a little fuck up too, because we don't be believing

821
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,720
Speaker 2: in marriage. But I be feeling like the early twenties,

822
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 2: the mid twenties, y'all don't be believing in marriage anymore.

823
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 2: I have met a lot of my friends who'll be like,

824
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:45,439
Speaker 2: I just don't feel like but I'm a love a girl,

825
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 2: I'm a relationship girl.

826
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 1: A lot of women, That's what I was gonna say.

827
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 2: I think a lot of women now, especially, they say

828
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 2: they don't care about marriage because the person that they're

829
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 2: with doesn't care about marriage, correct, So they're trying to

830
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: convince themselves that they don't care. So that's what they say.

831
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: And they saw their parents, right, their parents.

832
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 2: Weren't They've never seen an example. My mom and dad

833
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 2: were married for eighteen years. Okay, okay, so I saw that.

834
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:10,720
Speaker 1: Now do they have the perfect marriage?

835
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: No? Right? Could they have been separate and I still

836
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 2: have had that great childhood? Yes, So I feel like

837
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 2: a lot of people, they try to stay together, but

838
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 2: if the marriage isn't that fucking good anyway, I don't

839
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 2: need to see that bullishit you feel me?

840
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: So it's kind of like, but I did see a

841
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 1: marriage dynamic. I did see wife and husband, so I

842
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 1: expect that.

843
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, yes, you definitely think that, Like, oh, We're

844
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 2: supposed to stay together for the child, and they end

845
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 2: up making shit worse. A lot of the time, I

846
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: really don't like, why are we trying to stay together

847
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 2: for the child? This shit making it worse than it

848
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 2: would have been we would have just separated. I always

849
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 2: say that you and that baby can go because you're

850
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 2: not You're not teaching your child nothing but to stay

851
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 2: in dysfunction. Function.

852
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,280
Speaker 1: I agree because sometimes.

853
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 2: I be thinking to myself, like I look back at

854
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 2: my mom and my dad and I'm like, whoa, Like,

855
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 2: let me not get comfortable with dysfunction, right, just because.

856
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: You know we got a baby.

857
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 2: No, And I think that too, That's a good point

858
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 2: that you made, because sometimes, like I had to grow

859
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 2: out of that. Like when I was in a relationship

860
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 2: with somebody, I'm like, we not arguing. It's too peaceful.

861
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: He must not care.

862
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 2: He just don't give a fuck because I was so

863
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 2: used to arguing and I thought that that was love.

864
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 2: Somebody charged me up or getting mad at this. Oh

865
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,399
Speaker 2: he mad, Oh he mad? He cares. It's like once

866
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 2: you realize, like, bitch, that ain't love, You're literally thriving

867
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 2: in dysfunction.

868
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: And so it's like it's not normal at all.

869
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 2: So it's a lot of habits that we have to break,

870
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 2: like mentally, just from like our environments, you know what

871
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

872
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,719
Speaker 1: Sure, I was in an abusive relationship.

873
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 2: M So being in a relationship like that, it kind

874
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 2: of makes you feel like, oh he loves me, yep,

875
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 2: you know, like, oh he stalks me. Yeah, he gets

876
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 2: upset when I the simplest of things. You know, he

877
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 2: can't control hisself, like he just truly loves me. But

878
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 2: when you leave a situation like that and see how

879
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 2: much that person really had no regard, nothing for your safety,

880
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 2: for anything, Like they don't care about you.

881
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: They're pouring all of their evil spirits onto you, bitch.

882
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 2: I remember one time my phone was just going off,

883
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 2: My Instagram, going off, his Instagram going off.

884
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, this nigga was logged into my page for

885
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: like months. That's crazy, And you had no idea. I

886
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: had no idea. And I used to always wonder, why

887
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 1: the fuck do his phone keep going off?

888
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I remember one time I was talking

889
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 2: to this other nigga. I'm pulling up on him right

890
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 2: but I'm dropping his shit off with each other. But

891
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 2: I'm talking to Yeah, we can go to the movies,

892
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 2: we can go to he sing all.

893
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,320
Speaker 1: I think I literally press sin as I was opening

894
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 1: the door. This nigga yaked me out that.

895
00:41:56,120 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 2: Oh no yeah, and that ship gets really really. That's

896
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,919
Speaker 2: why I hate the whole narrative of like you said,

897
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 2: oh girl, yeah, he pulled up on me, my nigga crazy.

898
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: I don't like he is and you need to get

899
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: away from that.

900
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 2: But people don't understand that until you're at a point

901
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 2: to where like a nigga could be choking you out, bitch,

902
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 2: I'm gasping for air literally you don't care, or to

903
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 2: the point where I don't want you to call me

904
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 2: on no caller ID, like I'm fucking scared. Yeah. So

905
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 2: a lot of times when I see people glorify it,

906
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's crazy because I was in a situation.

907
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 2: I talked to Dre about this before. Remember I told

908
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 2: you how like me and my ex was in my

909
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 2: room fighting for hours. And when I say fighting, I'm

910
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 2: not talking about arguing, like we was physically in there,

911
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 2: like fighting, fighting, fighting, and it was like I woke

912
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 2: up the next morning, I was like, this is.

913
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: But he's probably cut it up he was probably cut

914
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:52,800
Speaker 1: it up down like oh my god, and it's like

915
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 1: day to him. Oh you know, they was we love

916
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: each other.

917
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm just like, oh, this is what we do.

918
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 2: And then it's like I finally woke up the next one,

919
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the actual fuck am I doing? Like

920
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 2: I'm too old for that. What are you fighting a

921
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 2: grown man for? Like literally in there fighting for hours

922
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 2: like wrong, wrong move. I could have literally any either

923
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 2: one of us could have lost our lives because that's

924
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 2: how accidents happened. And so it's like I say all

925
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 2: that to say it's like I just really want I

926
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 2: always say this because I know we have a lot

927
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 2: of young listeners. When a nigga is acting crazy, I

928
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 2: don't care if it's in the beginning stages whatever, y'all

929
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: need to leave.

930
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: It is not a sign that that he's gonna give.

931
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 1: It's gonna worse, always gets worse.

932
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 2: I X had a house to where he had the

933
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 2: key to get out. What you mean I couldn't eat

934
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 2: out so he could lock you in there. See I'm

935
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 2: sometime this used to be some lifetime. Yeah, how did

936
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 2: you decide? Just so you know you can help? Like

937
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 2: the girls that are younger than us and younger than you,

938
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 2: Like what made you be like, Okay, I'm not dealing

939
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 2: with this shit no more.

940
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm leaving.

941
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 2: He was in jail and his baby mama head called me,

942
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 2: and I really had fucked with his child, Like I

943
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 2: really loved his child, and me and his child's mother

944
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: had got a relationship. So while he was incarcerated, she

945
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 2: called me letting me know that he was like, you know,

946
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 2: calling her phone saying this and that one in the morning,

947
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 2: two in the morning. Whether it was true or that, bitch,

948
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 2: I'm fucking gone. It was kind of like the straw

949
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: that broke the camera, Like him doing this didn't do it,

950
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 2: and all the big ship didn't do it. But that

951
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 2: one little phone call that was just like kind of

952
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 2: seal the deal. It woke me up.

953
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 1: But that be a sign from God. Maybe it didn't

954
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:35,799
Speaker 1: need to be something. It should have been a sign when.

955
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 2: It got arrested, and I like, you know what, but nah,

956
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: but you know it's okay. We're human times what Licks saying.

957
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 2: Licks always like to say, sometimes God gonna throw a pibbow,

958
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,879
Speaker 2: then he gonna throw a rock, then he gonna throw

959
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 2: a breeze. Oh no, let me tell you that happened

960
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:57,240
Speaker 2: for a reason, and it was only for the reason

961
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 2: of God to test me, because as as soon as

962
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 2: I left that relationship, I went viral and you, yes, crazy,

963
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 2: you started getting does he ever try to like reach

964
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 2: out to your ex?

965
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 1: I'm calling the police literally till this fucking day's to

966
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: this fucking day.

967
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 2: But you know what, I don't want to fear people

968
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 2: by saying this. I was having a conversation with my

969
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 2: best friend the other day and we were talking about

970
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 2: like the whole Wendy Williams situation, like how she's like

971
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 2: down bad, she's really really sick. Seeing that documentary, it

972
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 2: really hurt me. But I was, like, honestly, a lot

973
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 2: of when I used to be a Wendy Williams fan.

974
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 2: I still am. I pray for her all the time

975
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 2: because what you're about to say, Wendy's William's downfall, if

976
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 2: you really know her story, is because of that man.

977
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 2: It's because of that man. I don't know what was

978
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 2: going on in that household or what he was doing

979
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 2: because the fact, you know, he's trying to suit her

980
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 2: now for a back pay for the because he can't

981
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 2: live like he can't sustain his lifestyle without the money

982
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,919
Speaker 2: she was giving him. Wendy is having a really she's

983
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 2: having a hard time, like her memory or something right

984
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,479
Speaker 2: the Minshaw so on the Dock documentary, they they're talking,

985
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 2: they're having a conversation and she was like, he don't

986
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 2: have no money. She remember that though you don't forget

987
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 2: about a broke nigga doing something to you and not

988
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 2: even about him being broke. That man did something to her,

989
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 2: and her brain can still connect connect the die. That

990
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 2: man hurt her deep. I heard he was her coke dealer,

991
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 2: he had a baby mama, he was.

992
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:27,240
Speaker 1: Doing something to her. I I don't care what I listen.

993
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 2: I truly believe that a man can really beat because women,

994
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 2: when we love, our love is a little different.

995
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 1: We love deed.

996
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 2: So I think for Wendy it was like she felt

997
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 2: like she had like a ride, a ride or die,

998
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: you know. So I say on that to say because

999
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 2: I had an ex that reached out to me like

1000
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 2: two days ago, and it was so crazy because this

1001
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 2: is one of my exes that like, I used to

1002
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 2: live with him. Him and my mom had a close

1003
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 2: relationship and my mom passed. So it's like when people

1004
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 2: who knew my mom, it's like, you know, I feel

1005
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 2: a little different connection, a little different connection.

1006
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 1: So it was like he reached out to me. He

1007
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, I'm so proud of you.

1008
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 2: It's crazy that we didn't end up together, because I

1009
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 2: feel like you wouldn't be where.

1010
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: You are because I was holding you back and.

1011
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 2: Da da dah. But I appreciate the message. But when

1012
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 2: I tell you, men are so sneaky because if I said,

1013
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 2: come to Atlanta and let's work this out, you would

1014
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:18,760
Speaker 2: have been on the first thing smoking.

1015
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 1: That was the whole reason he sent the message exactly.

1016
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 2: You're not that fucking proud, That's what I'm saying, because

1017
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 2: if you are, you can be proud from a distance

1018
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 2: and be like, you know what, I'm gonna leave her

1019
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 2: alone and let her do her thing. Sure, because it's

1020
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 2: like men will. They will drain you if you left

1021
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 2: it every time. If you always a motive, yes, it's

1022
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 2: always always a motive, and some women don't wake up

1023
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 2: from that. But I used to tell my friend this,

1024
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 2: when God shows you signs to leave somebody alone, you

1025
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 2: better listen because sometimes he will put you in a

1026
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: position to where you have to surrender yep, Because I

1027
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 2: remember I had a good friend.

1028
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,320
Speaker 1: Her boyfriend was horrible.

1029
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:58,919
Speaker 2: When I say horrible, it was like she was losing weight,

1030
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 2: she was having mental breakdown. He was abusive, he was cheating,

1031
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,439
Speaker 2: having babies here and there, and it was so many

1032
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 2: instances where she could have left him, but she didn't.

1033
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 2: She almost broke herself not and then she found him

1034
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 2: dead and that crushed her. Right. But I specifically had

1035
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 2: a conversation with her and I said, you need to

1036
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: let him go before God makes you yep go yuh right,

1037
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 2: and then you'll be in a situation to where it's like, damn.

1038
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 2: I should have listened, Like you know, I could have

1039
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 2: been here living my life. I would have been a

1040
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 2: little sad.

1041
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:35,880
Speaker 1: I'm telling you.

1042
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 2: It is a reason for the season. I'm telling you.

1043
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 2: Even with my last serious relationship I had, I was

1044
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 2: with this guy for years, and I mean the last year.

1045
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 1: Drea knows how hard it was for me. Yeah, because

1046
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: it was.

1047
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 2: Like I was going through it with him, but like

1048
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 2: I had just lost my mom, and I remember it

1049
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 2: was so crazy, y'all. I remember one night it was

1050
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 2: like we had a little you know, when you're in

1051
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 2: a bad relationship.

1052
00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: Y'all be having a little bouts for y'all get along. Yeah,

1053
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: it was like we had.

1054
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 2: It was like day six, bitch, we getting along.

1055
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:09,839
Speaker 1: Oh this is my husband. Love we love so I really, y'all.

1056
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 2: I remember. I went to sleep that night and I

1057
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,479
Speaker 2: pray every now. I'm very spiritual, and I said, God,

1058
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 2: if this is the man for me, please let us

1059
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 2: just find peace. Let's get out of this nasty little

1060
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 2: thing that we're doing, and let's just get along, and Lord,

1061
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 2: please let this work for me, y'all. Want to tell

1062
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: y'all the next day, I had found some shit, Like

1063
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 2: I knew about this girl he was fucking with, and

1064
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 2: I found some shit again. I mean, it wasn't even

1065
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 2: like my day had barely even started. And it wasn't

1066
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 2: even like I was looking for the ship fell into

1067
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 2: my fucking lap. I said, damn, bigger, that should be real,

1068
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 2: Like you said. It was the smallest thing, the smallest

1069
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 2: thing to make me be like, you're just right because

1070
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:51,839
Speaker 2: one thing about it. God got a sense of humor,

1071
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 2: and I feel like he'd be like, Okay, you're not

1072
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 2: gonna know peace.

1073
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 1: You keep dealing with it. And that's what it was.

1074
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 2: I didn't know peace, and I remember it was like

1075
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: it was that that had happened, and literally like I

1076
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 2: was trying to figure out what I was gonna do.

1077
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:06,879
Speaker 2: That next night, me, you and RMANI had went out.

1078
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 2: We went to a little party and I was like,

1079
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 2: call him, call him, and he wasn't answering the phone.

1080
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 2: And I went looking for something I did. I wasn't

1081
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 2: looking for someone, and I found exactly what I was

1082
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 2: looking for, and I was like, that was my moment.

1083
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 2: Never never went and never turned back. It was like

1084
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 2: something just switched, bitch. And it's so crazy because let's

1085
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,919
Speaker 2: say that was her, and as her friend, you would

1086
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 2: have been like, girl, get out of there, like what

1087
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 2: the fuck are you doing? But when it's you in

1088
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 2: that position, it's so it's so it's so different, so hard.

1089
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 2: It's like, y'all don't know him, Roger. You know I

1090
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 2: love him, Yeah, I love him.

1091
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 1: Y'all don't know how the real him baby baby I am.

1092
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 1: I mean, we're both the type of friends like we

1093
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: be telling our.

1094
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 2: Friends our opinion, but we don't try to press yeah,

1095
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,359
Speaker 2: because I always say, as long as I don't feel

1096
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,800
Speaker 2: like your safety is in danger, Like because me and

1097
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,440
Speaker 2: him used to fly, but it never got to a

1098
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:56,240
Speaker 2: point to where.

1099
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: Like I have to go to the hospital. Yeah, I

1100
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 1: have to go to a hospital I'm bleed, or I'm

1101
00:50:59,280 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 1: like calling dre.

1102
00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 2: It never got to that point, I think in both

1103
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 2: of our relationships when we were in bad situations. So

1104
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 2: I'm always like, you know, I mind my business to

1105
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 2: a certain extent because no matter what, I can't make

1106
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 2: her leave or vice versa, she can't make me leave.

1107
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: Oh I cut bitches off. Yo, Wow, I don't play.

1108
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:16,719
Speaker 1: My whole thing is this?

1109
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 2: My whole thing is this.

1110
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 1: You don't have to tell me about him. Now we're

1111
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: good friends and we're talking.

1112
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna judge you, sis. If you love him,

1113
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 2: you love him. But when it comes to safety.

1114
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you have children and he's putting them in danger.

1115
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: I don't play like that because I hear too many

1116
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 1: situations to where the man came and killed you, the friend, kids,

1117
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: everybody that was around.

1118
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 2: Now, now, yes, let's be real too, like people don't

1119
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 2: be telling their friends what'll be going on?

1120
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,240
Speaker 1: Pulling up and it's him fucking five holes.

1121
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 2: I can't.

1122
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: Be fat. Mama, ain't now about to whoop yas I

1123
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 1: don't go fuck, I'll go head over with a fat

1124
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 1: hoe by my nick.

1125
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know a big I might

1126
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 2: have to see. But I cut people off like that. Yeah, yeah,

1127
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 2: that makes sense. But I would never put like I

1128
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 2: would never put my friends in some ship, like if

1129
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 2: I'm trying to pull up and like, but you.

1130
00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 1: Think you're not gonna put nobody in it till you

1131
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: get them any because sometimes you don't know. These niggas

1132
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: be crazy.

1133
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 2: It was one time I had a friend and it's

1134
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 2: it's so sad because they were cool, they had a

1135
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 2: great relationship, and then he was starting to beat her

1136
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 2: and she would keep going back and act like it

1137
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 2: wasn't that bad. Then she got pregnant. Okay, she got pregnant.

1138
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 2: She was like six months pregnant. She got him the

1139
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 2: wrong order or something like that. He beat her to

1140
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 2: a pulp to where she lost her child and she.

1141
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 1: Had to get a d n C.

1142
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I know what he is.

1143
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 1: That's when you have to go through a surgical procedure

1144
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: to remove your child.

1145
00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 2: They know what that is from Russell Telsa. That's how

1146
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 2: I learned. That's horrible. Yeah, Okay, so she moved. I'm

1147
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 2: not fucking with him. I don't need to know my address.

1148
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 2: I'm an call the police if he pull up. So

1149
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 2: I'm in her in awn apartment chilling. Somebody get the

1150
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 2: buzz in the gate. She's like, okay, I just opened it,

1151
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 2: so you know, I don't know who the fuck that is,

1152
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 2: little fool he.

1153
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: Walks in the fucking door. Yeah, that's I immediately left locked.

1154
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 2: The bitch. I'm not dealing with that because that's a

1155
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 2: little too far, because that's if he would have came

1156
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 2: there mad about any fucking thing, because that's crackhead behavior.

1157
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:47,439
Speaker 1: Bitch, you get beat to a popeye, and you lost her.

1158
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 2: Baby at six months, so she must have bedn't because

1159
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 2: he should have went to jail. Did he go to

1160
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 2: jail for that? I don't know what she.

1161
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 1: Said what she did because I was just trying to

1162
00:53:58,440 --> 00:53:59,959
Speaker 1: be there for her as a friend.

1163
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 2: That's enough. But when I go back around you, you

1164
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,799
Speaker 2: know you're allowing that around you, baby, I'm just gonna

1165
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 2: have to pray for you for it from a distance. Yeah,

1166
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 2: because like you said, niggas pull up, they don't give

1167
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 2: a funk who in the room. Everybody getting got and

1168
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 2: if you like this ship, if he did all that

1169
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 2: to you and you still find room in your heart

1170
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 2: to forgive him, bitch, that's something you and him.

1171
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: Need to go on, y'all own. I ain't got nothing

1172
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:25,360
Speaker 1: to do with me.

1173
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely agree with you.

1174
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: Pray if you cop me, I call the police. Keep

1175
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,879
Speaker 1: your location, you know, I don't.

1176
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 2: I don't know I know how to find you with

1177
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 2: I don't want no part. Okay, So we're gonna switch

1178
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 2: gears a little bit because I really wanted to talk

1179
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 2: about this with you, because me and Dred don't see

1180
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 2: this the same. We all don't. So I want to

1181
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 2: talk about do you really need a reason not to

1182
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 2: like somebody? And when I say not to like someone

1183
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 2: like your content creator, so I know you be having

1184
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 2: comments like oolie or get on my nerves. I don't

1185
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 2: like her. She lacked, she whacked, she did she that,

1186
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 2: And I was like, you know that stuff used to

1187
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 2: get to me so bad because I know people be

1188
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 2: in the comments. Let you talk too much, lex she

1189
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 2: went and erupt and Drea, mind Joe, I've been working

1190
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 2: on a whole ass niggas and so mind your motherfucking business, bitch.

1191
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 1: But me and Dred.

1192
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 2: We are actually friends in real life, so she notic

1193
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 2: is how I talk. Y'all not used to that, but

1194
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 2: that's okay. You may just not like me, and I

1195
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 2: used to be the person be like, y'all don't even

1196
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 2: know me. I'm a nice person. Yeah, but now I'm like,

1197
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 2: you know what, you don't need a reason not to

1198
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 2: like me, because it's a lot of bitches and a

1199
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 2: lot of niggles. I'd be like, I don't like you,

1200
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 2: and I don't know them. I ain't never been around them.

1201
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 2: I just don't like you, and I don't think you

1202
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 2: need a reason not to like people.

1203
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 1: I feel like you need a reason because if you

1204
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 1: don't got a reason, you just a hater.

1205
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:41,359
Speaker 2: I'm a hater though, like you just hate.

1206
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 1: You need a reason to dislike somebody like to just

1207
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 1: be like, I don't know, I don't like her. She

1208
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 1: just she thinks she all the or she thinks she

1209
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:52,879
Speaker 1: is she thinks she did. You're weird because you don't

1210
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: know me.

1211
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 2: I am weird.

1212
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: But one thing, the one thing I learned from that though,

1213
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 1: because I see both parts.

1214
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:04,160
Speaker 2: People who comment like, you're too loud, you curse too much,

1215
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 2: this and that I don't like you. You went out

1216
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 2: your way to watch my video to comment on my

1217
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 2: platform because you know that I'm so big I won't

1218
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 2: see that.

1219
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 1: I won't personally attack you.

1220
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 2: That's the only reason you felt comfortable to express your

1221
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 2: dislike for me.

1222
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 1: So what I learned is that means you really love me.

1223
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 2: Low key. Now, I will say for me, I don't

1224
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 2: comment on people's stuff when I don't like someone's coming

1225
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 2: the mind.

1226
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: But that's a reason. But that's still a reason because

1227
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: I feel you. I'm like that too.

1228
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes I could just listen to a bitch talk and

1229
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's your vibe.

1230
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: I've seen it before, I've seen how it played out.

1231
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 1: Don't like you, so I don't like right.

1232
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:48,919
Speaker 2: But when it comes to things like that, like let's

1233
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 2: say I really want to investigate a bitch like I

1234
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 2: DM her, why don't you like me? A bitch ain't

1235
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 2: gonna have a reason.

1236
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: She's not because you hated That's why I said. The

1237
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,360
Speaker 1: bitches who comm the bitches who say she and they

1238
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 1: don't know.

1239
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 2: You, Yeah, they really love you. Now, if you meet

1240
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 2: me in person and you like how I met her,

1241
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,399
Speaker 2: I feel like her energy was off. She wasn't that nice,

1242
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,720
Speaker 2: Like she was too. Really I could respect that because

1243
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:15,800
Speaker 2: you met me, you felt my vibe. He was like,

1244
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 2: I don't really fuck with her. But usually ninety nine

1245
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 2: point nine percent of the time, when we're gonna fuck

1246
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 2: with me person we people always talk about how much

1247
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: they love us, how nice we are, all of that.

1248
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 2: She's always bitches who don't know you from a can

1249
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 2: of PAGNT. They got so much she to say about you. Yeah, bitch,

1250
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 2: you're just so weirdo, that's true. Well, I say this,

1251
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 2: like I said, it's a lot of content creators. I

1252
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 2: watched their content. I realized it's just it's not for me.

1253
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 2: Now I'm not gonna indulge in it and hate. I'm

1254
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 2: gonna keep scrowling, I keep scrolling. But sometimes some people's personality.

1255
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 2: So baby, let's say you saw that content creator out

1256
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 2: a party, you would be like, hey, that's so and so.

1257
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: Because see, we're people who were entrepreneurs. We have a platform.

1258
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,800
Speaker 2: So when we meet people, it's like, hey, nice to

1259
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 2: meet another winner, Nice to meet somebody who has.

1260
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 1: The same mind. But to them, you ge know what

1261
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,439
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But to them, they're looking at us like, oh, shit,

1262
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: that's yeah, you feel me, that's so and so. We're

1263
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: somebody different to them.

1264
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 2: So regardless if you don't like it, you know they're

1265
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:25,480
Speaker 2: still gonna have a little bit of a mhiration. But

1266
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 2: if it's somebody like us who has a platform, we

1267
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 2: know how people move, we know how we edit video,

1268
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 2: we know the behind the scenes.

1269
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: Bitch, you're giving me evil spirit vibes. I feel like

1270
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 1: that's different.

1271
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, because, like I said, I don't wish bad on nobody.

1272
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 2: I want everybody, especially black women that create content, to win.

1273
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:45,919
Speaker 2: But there's been plenty of times where I see people

1274
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 2: where I'm like you said things online that I feel

1275
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 2: like it's harmful to black women or harmful to black people,

1276
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, oh, yeah, I see her. But

1277
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:55,959
Speaker 2: i keep it pushing because I'm not no fake bitch.

1278
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 2: If I don't if I tell Drea Man, I don't

1279
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 2: like this girl, Draa, ain't never gonna have to see

1280
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 2: a picture of me and a girl like oh outside, no, right,

1281
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 2: I ain't doing that. But you had a really good

1282
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 2: example earlier when we was on the phone of the situation,

1283
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 2: like with the person that I used to be cool

1284
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 2: with that she was like well, I feel like I

1285
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 2: kind of didn't like her for no reason, and I

1286
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 2: was telling you you had a reason to not like her,

1287
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 2: like you could elaborated the situation.

1288
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm that friend.

1289
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 2: Okay, Well let me tell you what happened Drea and Uh. Okay,

1290
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 2: So I used to work at the strip club. I

1291
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 2: worked at strip club for a very long time, so

1292
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 2: I had there was this girl that used to work

1293
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 2: at the club. I was a bartender and she was

1294
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 2: a dancer. Been around this girl for years. She never

1295
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 2: said two words to me. I would just see how

1296
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 2: she moved around the club. She didn't like her other people,

1297
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,439
Speaker 2: she would talk to other people how she would never

1298
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 2: liked her, didn't like her. So when her Andrea started

1299
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 2: hanging out, this is what I said. I said, you

1300
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 2: know what I'm not. I'm gonna tell you what I think,

1301
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 2: but I don't want you to go off of what

1302
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 2: I say because maybe your experience is different, because I

1303
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 2: know there's people out there to be like Lex is

1304
00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:57,840
Speaker 2: a bitch.

1305
00:59:58,320 --> 00:59:58,959
Speaker 1: It was the same.

1306
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 2: So I told her, but I said, be careful because

1307
01:00:01,920 --> 01:00:03,919
Speaker 2: I seen her do this to this person. I seen

1308
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 2: her do this to this person, so I knew how

1309
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 2: it was gonna play out. But I'm not a I

1310
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 2: told you so as I am. I gotta do it

1311
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 2: for myself type of person too, Like I gotta figure

1312
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 2: it out for myself. Right. So when I had never

1313
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 2: hung out with the girl, I never hung out with her,

1314
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 2: had never been around her. But they started hanging out,

1315
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 2: little trouble started happening. And then one time we came

1316
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 2: to Houston and we went out for her birthday. Just

1317
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 2: thank just thank exactly what I thought. It was never

1318
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 2: as many years as I knew that that girl, never

1319
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 2: hung around her, but when I actually hung out with her.

1320
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 2: But I will say I felt like, in the beginning,

1321
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 2: did I have a real reason Sometimes people walk around

1322
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 2: with you.

1323
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 1: I'm that friend.

1324
01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 2: I have a best friend. You remind me of her,

1325
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 2: very pretty, very outing, like give people a chance. Yeah,

1326
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm the person that I see how you moved and

1327
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 2: when trouble starts staring up in that little friendship, how

1328
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you like I told you, because I.

1329
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 1: See, I experienced it.

1330
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:06,160
Speaker 2: I've been through with people. Whenever I go through an

1331
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 2: experience with a person, I write that shit down. Yeah,

1332
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 2: I started to notice their character. I try to analyze

1333
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 2: the situation, like how did things go wrong? So when

1334
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 2: I meet another person, we're not gonna repeat that. So

1335
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 2: when my friends get with people who I'm not too

1336
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:23,959
Speaker 2: sure about and then they get to calling me telling

1337
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 2: me this story and that story, I'm like, that's why

1338
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 2: they because we're around people who have a little evil spirit,

1339
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 2: and I feel like, for me, it's like like I

1340
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 2: said when I said, I didn't have a reason not

1341
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 2: to like her because she didn't do anything to me.

1342
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 2: So I'd be like, I'm sorry, Like I don't need

1343
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 2: a reason not to like people. I really don't if

1344
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 2: I just don't, it's just like this.

1345
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 1: It's just like this.

1346
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 2: If you met somebody and they told you, hey, I

1347
01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 2: just got out of jail for murdering my ex wife,

1348
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 2: but I want a relationship with you. Yeah, would you

1349
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 2: be wrong to say, hey, I'm good right, That's what

1350
01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 2: I'm saying. O. I see your track, I see what

1351
01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 2: you've done, and I'm grown enough to say I'm okay, right,

1352
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna indulge in it. A lot of people

1353
01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 2: they like to get people to benefit of the doubt.

1354
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 2: They like to be around them, and they wonder why

1355
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 2: their world isn't fucking shamble right, get these people away

1356
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,120
Speaker 2: from you, and I'll add on to Drea what you

1357
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:18,080
Speaker 2: were saying earlier, because you were like, no, because sometimes

1358
01:02:18,160 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 2: y'all just be a hater. I'll you know what, I'm like,

1359
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 2: people knew be hating, you know what, I'll take that crown.

1360
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 2: I'm a hater, you know why? Because I do think

1361
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 2: it's stupid that sometimes people have a platform for being stupid.

1362
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 2: Like when I say that, I mean like there's platforms

1363
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 2: of people out here like like doing black face with

1364
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 2: the makeup because they think they know somebody's gonna say something,

1365
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 2: or like dancing with pieces of chicken and thinking that

1366
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 2: it's funny. Like that's not being a hater to me.

1367
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 2: That's we're We're creators. We hustled, we grind it. But

1368
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 2: they say that they're hustling and creating too, and that's cool,

1369
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 2: But when what it is, you know what it is?

1370
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 2: Just like if I'm an NFL player ever since first grade,

1371
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 2: bit y'all going to practice every day, I've been eating right,

1372
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 2: I've been lifting weight, and then all of a sudden,

1373
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, somebody just comes up out

1374
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 2: the blue and makes a mockery of what I've been right, right,

1375
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:11,440
Speaker 2: It's kind of like it's not like I'm hating on you,

1376
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 2: it's just you're kind of disrespecting my craft, right right,

1377
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 2: I agree because I feel like you only hating if

1378
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 2: you don't have a reason, like for you to look

1379
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 2: at that person page and be like, I don't like

1380
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 2: you because you be doing black face. I'm a black woman.

1381
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 2: That's offensive, right, you be doing black face? Oh, you

1382
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 2: be doing shit? Were you eating chicken all the time,

1383
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 2: trying to make it seem like black people like chicken

1384
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 2: so much?

1385
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:33,760
Speaker 1: And you're a white person. I don't like your ass

1386
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 1: because you're being racist. That's a reason.

1387
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 2: But if you ask somebody, oh, why you don't like

1388
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:43,400
Speaker 2: this person, they like, I don't know. Like she just

1389
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 2: thinks she all of dead and she thinks she all

1390
01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 2: of de Yeah. Like if I got two thousand followers

1391
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 2: and you have five hundred k, yeah, and I go

1392
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 2: to your page and I'm like, this bitch thinks she

1393
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 2: to she be cauld, she get her hair none out

1394
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:54,520
Speaker 2: of time.

1395
01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 1: You're because you don't even know my character, you know,

1396
01:03:58,600 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 1: hear fucking hater.

1397
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 2: Or if you go to my platform and you say

1398
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 2: I don't like how she speaks on black women, or

1399
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 2: I don't like how she makes us look as a

1400
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 2: certain demography or something like that.

1401
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 1: That's a res and we can respect this. But you

1402
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 1: just clicking somebody page like, oh, this hole got that

1403
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 1: many followers because she get her hair done right.

1404
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 2: That's you're kind of hating. Yeah. Reason, I'll say this

1405
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 2: because I'm a very confident woman and I've never been

1406
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 2: on a woman's page, and I'll be like, I'm looking

1407
01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 2: at her and just her pictures and being like, oh,

1408
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 2: I don't like the way she looks. It always be

1409
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 2: something that they're doing, like you know who that girl?

1410
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 2: You know?

1411
01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 1: It's reason like.

1412
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:43,600
Speaker 2: Videos that she'd be making.

1413
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know he's talking about fringe a little bit. Yes,

1414
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: it'd be cringey because it's like what are you doing?

1415
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 2: Like what are you?

1416
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:50,920
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna lie.

1417
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 2: Another thing I hate Remember that video I posted It said,

1418
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:55,440
Speaker 2: I'm like Dre be like this in the gym. I

1419
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:57,760
Speaker 2: hate girls that be in the gym and be working

1420
01:04:57,840 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 2: their booty when they do already l's why are you

1421
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 2: showing me? Why do I see y'all pussy print? I

1422
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 2: hate that. I hate when niggas be like doing too much,

1423
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 2: trying to show they dick print are the niggas that

1424
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 2: be cooking and be rubbing the chicken like this, like

1425
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 2: it's a pussy.

1426
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: I hate all of that.

1427
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 2: But see that you disliking an action you not necessarily No,

1428
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 2: I like that because as a person, why are you fingering?

1429
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 2: But I hate that's just not your audience, right, Because

1430
01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 2: if you think about Sexy Red, it's some probably priest, yeah, Himalayas,

1431
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 2: that's probably like what the hell is this? Right?

1432
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 1: But she has such a big audience, right, and even

1433
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 1: some people who probably feel like what the fuck? If

1434
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 1: they see people ride at your dick, they're gonna be like, oh,

1435
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 1: I like it.

1436
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 2: Too, right right? Yeah, But what I'm saying is like

1437
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 2: going back to your example of the priests, he could

1438
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 2: probably hate Sexy Red. He probably hates everything that she represents.

1439
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:55,200
Speaker 2: If a person is fingering salmon, I hate you, right,

1440
01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:56,960
Speaker 2: thing you stand for? Right?

1441
01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 1: But then but that's relatable. They reable, like that's okay.

1442
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 1: They be figuring. They be figuring like chicken cuting.

1443
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I don't.

1444
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 1: I don't like you, why are you doing? But guess

1445
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: what though, guess what you did though you watched it.

1446
01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 2: I did, and I said to.

1447
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:19,320
Speaker 1: People, don't give a fun and it was shared. People

1448
01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 1: don't give like I'm not. I'm not in watching ro video.

1449
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:30,880
Speaker 1: You don't like me watching it. So that's s defense though.

1450
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 1: She always be on my explore paces and that's why

1451
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: I tell you. Let's say you saw her out, it

1452
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:39,040
Speaker 1: would be like I hate that, but it would be like, damn, hey,

1453
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

1454
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 2: A god.

1455
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 1: Right, I hate what you do, but I don't know.

1456
01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 2: I might something because it's that bad I have. It'd

1457
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 2: be some strangers that I hate. It be so select.

1458
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 1: I would never say it on this platform. So do

1459
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 1: I have that strange that I just hate? Okay, y'all, Okay,

1460
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 1: why y'all think about my neighbors. My neighbors, and I'll

1461
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:08,440
Speaker 1: give a fuck off y'all. This cut the fucking grass,

1462
01:07:09,200 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 1: straighten them blinds out, bitch.

1463
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 2: I'm not paying all this money to be pulling up

1464
01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 2: and I'm seeing y'all ship like we stuck in the hood.

1465
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 2: Take your garages down, stop parking in front of my

1466
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:24,400
Speaker 2: fucking house exactly. But you know what was making I

1467
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 2: hate my fucking neighbors too, now that I'm thinking about it,

1468
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 2: want to because I talked about ship. I talked about

1469
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 2: this ship on Twitter one day. They be fucking so

1470
01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 2: loud at six in the morning.

1471
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 1: You gave me another one, and I'd be like, why is.

1472
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 2: It so loud?

1473
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 1: But yeah, you don't.

1474
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 2: You don't like that ship.

1475
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 1: That's why I'll be fucking too loud. I'd be waking

1476
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 1: me up, and I'll be beating on the fucking walls

1477
01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 1: that ain't fucking considerable right here exactly. And you're over

1478
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 1: here right now. And when I do be fucking I

1479
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,560
Speaker 1: live in a fucking apartment. I be trying to be considerate.

1480
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:56,920
Speaker 2: You don't.

1481
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:57,959
Speaker 1: Let's not be too loud.

1482
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's calming down. We're going to put a little

1483
01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:03,600
Speaker 2: hand over his mouth like you'd have had some place

1484
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 2: and before. So another example, I cannot say her last name,

1485
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:11,120
Speaker 2: and I hope I say it right. She's on the

1486
01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:14,920
Speaker 2: bear cast of The Black Girl ao Ada Berry. I

1487
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 2: hope I said that right. I don't sorry, y'all, because

1488
01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 2: I know I butchered her name. She's a black actress.

1489
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:23,759
Speaker 2: She's really big right now, and she did SNL recently.

1490
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 2: She was hosting and j Low was performing, and people

1491
01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 2: had dug up an old podcast of her talking about

1492
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 2: how much she hated j Low, and so basically she

1493
01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:35,600
Speaker 2: says that she just had him ament with her and

1494
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:37,400
Speaker 2: was like, hey, you know, I'm sorry about that x

1495
01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 2: y Z and I'm like, hell no, stand on business.

1496
01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 2: I don't gotta like you, bro. Yeah, we put ourselves

1497
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 2: out there as creators. There's a lot of people who

1498
01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 2: do not like me and they don't know me, and

1499
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 2: they used to offend me, but now it's just like, hey,

1500
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 2: you know what, maybe I'm just not your vibe and

1501
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:54,519
Speaker 2: I'm not your type of girl, but you don't need

1502
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 2: a reason to hate me. But before you were a creator,

1503
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this, Before I was a creator, it

1504
01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 2: was stain celebrities that I would just be like the

1505
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 2: tabloid could post anything, and I would be like they

1506
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:07,200
Speaker 2: did what, I don't like them, They're bitches.

1507
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 1: But now that we are in the spotlight, you see

1508
01:09:10,360 --> 01:09:12,719
Speaker 1: people will say any fucking that is true.

1509
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:15,000
Speaker 2: So our only thing I could say about that is

1510
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:17,720
Speaker 2: as a normal person looking at celebrities, I.

1511
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:19,680
Speaker 1: Would talk a little shit. Yeah, I get it. I

1512
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:21,040
Speaker 1: had to squirrel. We talked about this.

1513
01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:23,760
Speaker 2: I had to screw up my Twitter, right, because then

1514
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 2: when you hit them, you're like, damn you cool, Like

1515
01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:30,599
Speaker 2: I saw that ship in the newspaper. Why it's from

1516
01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 2: twenty twelve when you tweet it the shit. But when

1517
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 2: I was little, I thought Sierra was a man. You know,

1518
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 2: they put your shit out a new Sierra was a man.

1519
01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 2: Then I grew up and I'm like, Sierra is a

1520
01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 2: beautiful fucking woman.

1521
01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:45,640
Speaker 1: Like you know, people just say anything anything everybody with

1522
01:09:46,680 --> 01:09:49,400
Speaker 1: and you just don't know. So let's say I was

1523
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 1: eight years old on Twitter Talmoon, Oh my god, see

1524
01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 1: Air's a man. But then they found that that's what

1525
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:57,639
Speaker 1: it be. Half your time, They're like, oh she said

1526
01:09:58,400 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 1: back in twenty twelve.

1527
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 2: A lot of times it do be like the young

1528
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:03,839
Speaker 2: little kids. It might be me mixed in there sometimes,

1529
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:05,879
Speaker 2: but most of the time it be eight year olds.

1530
01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: Hello shit, like she is with the fuck.

1531
01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:11,880
Speaker 2: And I tell you, I had to literally search every

1532
01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 2: like big celebrity name that I could think of and

1533
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:16,959
Speaker 2: just go back and de lead sheet. And I'm embarrassed

1534
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:19,720
Speaker 2: to say some of the things I used to be saying, going,

1535
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 2: you wouldn't think that a girl. I used to be

1536
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 2: saying some crazy shee. Okay, but you're writing like when

1537
01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 2: you were, when you're a normal person like us being

1538
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 2: creators now and being in the more in the spot

1539
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 2: like you have to be more conscious of what you

1540
01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 2: say online.

1541
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:36,320
Speaker 1: But back in the day, I used to be just

1542
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 1: sweeting whatever because the funk was gonna find.

1543
01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:40,759
Speaker 2: Wait, hold on. But back in the day, the culture

1544
01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:44,479
Speaker 2: was different that whatever the fuck you want used to

1545
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 2: be on Twitter, arguing down, eating bitches up.

1546
01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:49,360
Speaker 1: Some celebrities didn't give a fun.

1547
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 2: Got canceled for like songs say the craziest shit in

1548
01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 2: songs than in twenty twenty four. He would get canceled

1549
01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:00,200
Speaker 2: for this, like what Rick CROSSI put Molly all her

1550
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 2: joint Well, he kind of low, he got a little canceled.

1551
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,120
Speaker 1: He had lost his sponsorships and stood.

1552
01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:11,000
Speaker 2: I was still I'm in eighth grade and the cow

1553
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 2: my mom shining or so yeah, so I'm not gonna lie,

1554
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 2: I stayed. I said what I said, I don't think

1555
01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 2: you need a reason not to like someone. Case I'll

1556
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:26,680
Speaker 2: be having a reason for real. Okay, So now we're

1557
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 2: gonna move on. So now it's time to get into

1558
01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 2: the Big Bowl.

1559
01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:37,560
Speaker 1: Bowl Bow Bow Bow, bow bow. Oh no, what the

1560
01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying at.

1561
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 2: All? Right?

1562
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:45,559
Speaker 1: What we got today, Drea? What you want to talk about?

1563
01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:48,679
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about two things actually, oh lord,

1564
01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:52,160
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about women doing masculine sheet in

1565
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 2: big and me and doing feminine sheep in the bed.

1566
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 1: Okay, how do you feel about that?

1567
01:11:57,600 --> 01:12:02,799
Speaker 2: Like? So you know, okay, So for me, like something

1568
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:05,560
Speaker 2: that's masculine that some men like and some women like.

1569
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:08,120
Speaker 2: It's like a woman being extremely dominant in the bed.

1570
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 2: You know, she's the one that's like, you know, she's

1571
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:15,320
Speaker 2: on top, she's changing position, she's leading you where. That's masculine.

1572
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 2: You yeah, a woman leading because women are supposed to

1573
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:21,479
Speaker 2: you know what society says we're supposed to be.

1574
01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 1: You know, sex is supposed to.

1575
01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:25,760
Speaker 2: Be something that we are engaging in because the man

1576
01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 2: initiates when dominant, when she's dominant. That being dominant is

1577
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 2: connected to being masculine. And for a man, I think

1578
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:36,320
Speaker 2: things that are feminine that they connect to like you know,

1579
01:12:36,360 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 2: they always talk about do you like when your man

1580
01:12:38,080 --> 01:12:40,880
Speaker 2: owns And I'm not talking about no, like grunting him

1581
01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 2: being like oh, people like a man being like uh yeah,

1582
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 2: oh yeah.

1583
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 1: So it's like there's feminine things that you know, men

1584
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:52,000
Speaker 1: can do in the bedroom.

1585
01:12:52,120 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 2: You know, maybe your nigga might like.

1586
01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:55,800
Speaker 1: It when you grab his ass a little bit. What

1587
01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:57,960
Speaker 1: if he curally told that that.

1588
01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:00,040
Speaker 2: Oh my nigga told me, Yeah.

1589
01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 1: What side?

1590
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:05,880
Speaker 2: South side?

1591
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:07,880
Speaker 1: Every game?

1592
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 2: My definitely be But it's because they don't want to

1593
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:15,880
Speaker 2: say yeah, they're trying to curl on a little trying

1594
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:16,760
Speaker 2: to hold it.

1595
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:19,759
Speaker 1: They're trying to hold it now a couple of mons.

1596
01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 1: It's cool, Okay, they sneak out. Baby, I know you

1597
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:23,640
Speaker 1: can't help it.

1598
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:24,640
Speaker 2: But if you just.

1599
01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:31,520
Speaker 1: Bitch, how on know, you lose your opportunity.

1600
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 2: Be let's win up a little bit.

1601
01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 1: Bat out, I don't had a baby and anything you

1602
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 1: over here, Okay, y'all.

1603
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:43,720
Speaker 2: What if a woman like, what if a woman during

1604
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:45,840
Speaker 2: six she like telling a nigga, yeah you like this?

1605
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:49,439
Speaker 1: She her nigga, you like this? She don't like that's

1606
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:51,680
Speaker 1: that's a little mast' me hearing it.

1607
01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:52,760
Speaker 2: You doing it?

1608
01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:54,479
Speaker 1: I know I do.

1609
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:56,479
Speaker 2: I was about to say, it's about you, okay, then

1610
01:13:56,600 --> 01:14:00,639
Speaker 2: it's about like, yeah you still like a woman. You're

1611
01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 2: not like yeah niggas good. Yeah, Like I'm like yeah,

1612
01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 2: niggas might like it, but I think for me, like,

1613
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:24,240
Speaker 2: I don't like being extremely I'm I'm aggressive in real life,

1614
01:14:25,200 --> 01:14:26,800
Speaker 2: so I gotta calm down a little bit.

1615
01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:29,080
Speaker 1: I'd be like you like that, Yeah, what's up, nigga?

1616
01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:30,639
Speaker 1: You was talking all this ship on the phone.

1617
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:34,600
Speaker 2: WHOA. I don't like that. I don't like that.

1618
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, I'm not on the phone.

1619
01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:42,240
Speaker 2: I don't like I just feel like if I'm not

1620
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:44,560
Speaker 2: connected with you and you get to doing all that,

1621
01:14:44,720 --> 01:14:45,799
Speaker 2: that's sexual harassment.

1622
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:49,080
Speaker 1: If I'm not feeling it and you get to hit

1623
01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:52,719
Speaker 1: that ship like you doing so much, could be into

1624
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 1: aggressive Like men could be aggressive too, Like you.

1625
01:14:55,920 --> 01:14:58,320
Speaker 2: Think men be like can say this, Yeah, So I

1626
01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:00,760
Speaker 2: think that just mean you should have got that put Yeah,

1627
01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:03,960
Speaker 2: you know when you get that putself to that white man,

1628
01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:05,439
Speaker 2: he could do what now?

1629
01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 1: But you're like, that's I'm here, baby.

1630
01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:11,080
Speaker 2: But if you're fucking on somebody that you know you're

1631
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:13,360
Speaker 2: not supposed to be fucking on, or you want to

1632
01:15:13,400 --> 01:15:15,000
Speaker 2: put a hell of it, you'd be like what you

1633
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 2: just like bit what? Yeah?

1634
01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 1: That points for Yeah, I was thinking about should have

1635
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:22,720
Speaker 1: never sucked that man? Literally he just.

1636
01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:29,559
Speaker 2: Got some because that that jo, I'm like, what if.

1637
01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:31,560
Speaker 1: Would a man what if he left his legs and

1638
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 1: be shaking them? Okay, bitch, not shaking hold on, I.

1639
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 2: Swear to god, I put it on my son if

1640
01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:42,400
Speaker 2: I'm sucking a niggas And he grabbed his yeah and

1641
01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:44,160
Speaker 2: clapping his head.

1642
01:15:46,920 --> 01:15:48,840
Speaker 1: So you could clap yours, but he can't clap his

1643
01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:52,400
Speaker 1: yes immediately. What the fuck do you mean? If man,

1644
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 1: don't you start clapping your ass? Let's wrap this up.

1645
01:15:56,920 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 1: I definitely had a man lift his legs up though

1646
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:00,639
Speaker 1: before he had his ass.

1647
01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:01,280
Speaker 2: I was.

1648
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:07,560
Speaker 1: But if you down not doing that?

1649
01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:08,280
Speaker 2: And he do that.

1650
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:10,920
Speaker 1: He wasn't clapping them, but he just you know, he

1651
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:14,160
Speaker 1: pulled him grabbed. He did not grab it. You grab

1652
01:16:15,520 --> 01:16:16,640
Speaker 1: did you grab them?

1653
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 2: He was like this. It was manly like he was

1654
01:16:19,960 --> 01:16:20,840
Speaker 2: doing hammer curls.

1655
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:23,200
Speaker 1: It was underneath and it was like, what are you doing?

1656
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:24,680
Speaker 1: Like I love you so much? Like it was a

1657
01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 1: very intimately.

1658
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:28,680
Speaker 2: No, it wasn't like it was like getting nasty. Oh

1659
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:34,519
Speaker 2: yeah it was. I love it. It was real rough.

1660
01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 2: It wasn't like a I feel like when you're making

1661
01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:39,840
Speaker 2: you're not when you're making love. He nasces for some

1662
01:16:39,960 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 2: nasty nights like that. That I'm not. I haven't done

1663
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 2: that in a really really long time.

1664
01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, I'm gonna get with the It was just

1665
01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 1: but the ass too far for me.

1666
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:55,160
Speaker 2: It was fun.

1667
01:16:56,560 --> 01:16:57,080
Speaker 1: I'll say this.

1668
01:16:57,320 --> 01:17:00,920
Speaker 2: I love experimenting and trying things in the bedroom because

1669
01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:03,599
Speaker 2: you I've discovered things that I didn't know I liked.

1670
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 1: So I feel like you you should always just try something.

1671
01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 1: It's no judgment. I'm very freaky. I'm right.

1672
01:17:09,800 --> 01:17:11,920
Speaker 2: If I feel like you're my person, we could do whatever.

1673
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 2: But it's just more so like she is, you need

1674
01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:20,240
Speaker 2: to wax that ass first, the little hair hair back.

1675
01:17:20,320 --> 01:17:22,479
Speaker 2: They're like wax dead if that's what you want. But

1676
01:17:22,600 --> 01:17:24,720
Speaker 2: but well, I do like men that like kind of

1677
01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:28,160
Speaker 2: groom down there. I can say that. It's never been like,

1678
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:32,719
Speaker 2: no disrespect to pimpsy. You don't like hairy ass wholes. Okay,

1679
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 2: he did say he liked it. He did like a

1680
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:35,639
Speaker 2: little hair on that booty.

1681
01:17:38,280 --> 01:17:41,639
Speaker 1: Everybody's doing was earlier. I want to That's what I'm saying.

1682
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 1: You can't always keep it wet, right, It's gonna grow.

1683
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:46,599
Speaker 1: We're human.

1684
01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:48,960
Speaker 2: So y'all are okay with men doing you know, some

1685
01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:51,799
Speaker 2: type of sometimes being a little more effeminine in the bedroom.

1686
01:17:51,800 --> 01:17:53,360
Speaker 1: I feel like she should be a safe space. So

1687
01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:56,759
Speaker 1: if they moan a little, I feel like the bedroom

1688
01:17:56,880 --> 01:17:57,519
Speaker 1: is a safe space.

1689
01:17:57,680 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 2: I hate when people be like, oh, if your nigga

1690
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 2: do want that he? How is that the case when

1691
01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 2: you're in an intimate position with a woman. So I

1692
01:18:07,600 --> 01:18:10,400
Speaker 2: feel like, if you and your woman in the bedroom,

1693
01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:12,880
Speaker 2: whatever y'all do behind that closed door is supposed to

1694
01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 2: be behind their clothes. Exactly, y'all be grabbing y'all nigga

1695
01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 2: ass when he's on top. Absolutely not a little plump.

1696
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:23,800
Speaker 1: Listen, listen, listen, listen.

1697
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:42,800
Speaker 5: It's a safe face, I said, women talking about women.

1698
01:18:43,080 --> 01:18:45,560
Speaker 1: I'll go like right there above like we'll do a

1699
01:18:45,600 --> 01:18:46,559
Speaker 1: little press like.

1700
01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:50,920
Speaker 2: We're again. I'm talking about you gotta grip them cheat.

1701
01:18:51,040 --> 01:18:52,599
Speaker 2: You're talking about when he hit it from the front,

1702
01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:55,760
Speaker 2: you feel like you just grabbed. Okay, yeah, we write

1703
01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:58,760
Speaker 2: the above ass she grabbed the ass.

1704
01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:00,120
Speaker 1: HEEO will punch the fuck out of me.

1705
01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:01,160
Speaker 2: Oh he's street.

1706
01:19:01,360 --> 01:19:03,639
Speaker 1: We ain't hitting this. We'll be hitting this fun.

1707
01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't do it for long. I just touched.

1708
01:19:07,600 --> 01:19:10,920
Speaker 1: We're okay, we're doing a little correge. What hold on, Like,

1709
01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:12,240
Speaker 1: let's say that right here, we're doing a.

1710
01:19:12,240 --> 01:19:14,280
Speaker 2: Little grind homely.

1711
01:19:14,560 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 1: Ye show mind sad this. You know, I feel like

1712
01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:22,840
Speaker 1: you be doing this your niggas. Now we're doing a

1713
01:19:22,880 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: little I ain't grabbing it, but I'm like I said, I.

1714
01:19:30,280 --> 01:19:30,599
Speaker 2: Dread.

1715
01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll be rubbing on his hair on his back.

1716
01:19:34,400 --> 01:19:38,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, smacking niggass. I'll be seeing like

1717
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:41,080
Speaker 2: my friends. She's like, I'll be smacking my niggass. I'm

1718
01:19:41,120 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 2: not smacking, no ass. Yeah that's a little you be

1719
01:19:43,600 --> 01:19:48,600
Speaker 2: smacking on niggas. No, I don't believe during sid not

1720
01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:52,240
Speaker 2: during sick during like if he's smacked mine, I'm making

1721
01:19:52,760 --> 01:19:54,320
Speaker 2: during the day here, Yeah, get about.

1722
01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:59,439
Speaker 1: Get u about it. I mean be mad but.

1723
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:03,639
Speaker 2: Because like nigga you think that ship feels because first

1724
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:05,320
Speaker 2: of all, I don't know why niggas think that ship

1725
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:07,559
Speaker 2: feel good when they be making your agg domb.

1726
01:20:08,720 --> 01:20:09,960
Speaker 1: When they grab it and like.

1727
01:20:11,520 --> 01:20:16,880
Speaker 2: I like you speak for yourself. We being the girl,

1728
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:20,080
Speaker 2: you got more as we bought. We bought a chick.

1729
01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:23,640
Speaker 1: And Jay c.

1730
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:26,920
Speaker 2: Penny while you grabbing my ask that hard exactly you're

1731
01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:31,280
Speaker 2: trying to go for I know, I like yourself.

1732
01:20:32,120 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 1: I redeemed myself. Yeah, we're back on.

1733
01:20:35,120 --> 01:20:37,680
Speaker 2: We agree with that. Now we agree, we got some

1734
01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 2: move on. Okay, So now it's time to get into

1735
01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:42,000
Speaker 2: the bop.

1736
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:49,840
Speaker 1: Wow bow bow Bow bow bow. So the bobble is like, yeah,

1737
01:20:49,920 --> 01:20:51,439
Speaker 1: the music that we've been jamming this week.

1738
01:20:51,560 --> 01:20:53,840
Speaker 2: So for my bop of the week, I have a

1739
01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 2: song called white Crocs by Jordan Ward. Somebody actually sent

1740
01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:00,280
Speaker 2: me this. I'm gonna do a better job of shouting

1741
01:21:00,320 --> 01:21:02,240
Speaker 2: y'all out whenever y'all send me music because I really

1742
01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 2: like this song. It's about like him trying to keep

1743
01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:09,160
Speaker 2: up with the standards of these girls, you know, because

1744
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:11,360
Speaker 2: the girls be asking for a lot. Now. I feel

1745
01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:14,720
Speaker 2: like back when we first started wining down Wednesday, poor

1746
01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 2: Mind's used to talk about bad b's. You know, we

1747
01:21:16,960 --> 01:21:20,000
Speaker 2: was getting Parsi shoes, going on a little okay, your

1748
01:21:20,080 --> 01:21:20,640
Speaker 2: little you know.

1749
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:23,960
Speaker 1: A little trip something, getting a little rent paid. Bitch

1750
01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:27,680
Speaker 1: y'all hosts be asking for barkins and surgeries and x

1751
01:21:27,800 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 1: y Z.

1752
01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:31,639
Speaker 2: I'll be like dad, but here's everything else. So it's

1753
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:34,600
Speaker 2: a cute little song, Jordan Ward, White Crocs. That's my

1754
01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:37,240
Speaker 2: bob of the week, right, But you been Jim and

1755
01:21:37,280 --> 01:21:40,320
Speaker 2: Drea gross out? I can I believe that we have

1756
01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 2: not said that this was our Bob on the show

1757
01:21:42,479 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 2: because me and you both tweeted about these songs.

1758
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:47,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, Glow by Glory, Oh that's forgot.

1759
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 2: I like you. Who does she slap? I don't know,

1760
01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:55,080
Speaker 2: but you know I love it that TikTok page the

1761
01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 2: retirement house with them all.

1762
01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:59,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I love them. They are so funny. And

1763
01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 1: she did a color what she did. It's a good song.

1764
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:04,640
Speaker 2: You know. It's a good song when the niggas is

1765
01:22:04,720 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 2: like singing it because the girl and the girl's gonna

1766
01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:10,760
Speaker 2: do what the girl's gonna do like that. I like that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it.

1767
01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:14,640
Speaker 1: Come through and baa hole, I'm gonna come through with that.

1768
01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:18,560
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because that's like with me. No, that's my

1769
01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:23,160
Speaker 2: real bitch, Yeah, like in real life. So holes, Okay.

1770
01:22:23,360 --> 01:22:28,760
Speaker 2: I like this. I likes carlaining that she needs to

1771
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,840
Speaker 2: stay in because it was some award show that she did,

1772
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:33,160
Speaker 2: and I feel like they were trying to make her

1773
01:22:33,240 --> 01:22:35,519
Speaker 2: be too sexy and they were trying to like make

1774
01:22:35,560 --> 01:22:37,439
Speaker 2: her into something that she's not. Really rubbed me the

1775
01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:40,000
Speaker 2: wrong way because Gloriala is beautiful, she's sexy.

1776
01:22:40,080 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 1: She don't have to prove to us that she's all

1777
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:45,240
Speaker 1: those things, but let her wrap up. I also feel

1778
01:22:45,320 --> 01:22:48,280
Speaker 1: like Glow, she's a great like sensation, you know what

1779
01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:50,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying. They were just probably trying.

1780
01:22:50,280 --> 01:22:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is true, but I do feel like, you know,

1781
01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:57,479
Speaker 2: this is the thing though you I do believe this

1782
01:22:57,560 --> 01:22:59,320
Speaker 2: a lot of times they be trying to switch up

1783
01:22:59,320 --> 01:23:03,400
Speaker 2: ship too soon. When Sierra or Beyonce or any other

1784
01:23:03,520 --> 01:23:07,000
Speaker 2: artists started trying new things, they were well deep ten

1785
01:23:07,080 --> 01:23:09,320
Speaker 2: years in the game in their career. If you just

1786
01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:11,040
Speaker 2: came out as an artist, I think you need to

1787
01:23:11,080 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 2: stay your lane, stay your lane and win and just

1788
01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:16,120
Speaker 2: keep running, keep running, and keep running it up. So

1789
01:23:16,240 --> 01:23:18,400
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, Glow is back to like it gave

1790
01:23:18,439 --> 01:23:20,880
Speaker 2: me the vibes of f n F like that it

1791
01:23:21,000 --> 01:23:22,680
Speaker 2: was the same type of vibes. I think this is

1792
01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:24,519
Speaker 2: her lane. Man.

1793
01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:28,200
Speaker 1: I never forget what a funk I was that when

1794
01:23:28,240 --> 01:23:33,800
Speaker 1: I first watched that hole Like damn we did our

1795
01:23:33,840 --> 01:23:37,479
Speaker 1: first we were outside this Yeah, that was our first tour.

1796
01:23:37,640 --> 01:23:39,519
Speaker 1: We read light Head.

1797
01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:42,400
Speaker 2: We walked out to that song every show our first tour.

1798
01:23:42,560 --> 01:23:45,760
Speaker 2: We did a moment shout out to But what you

1799
01:23:45,880 --> 01:23:47,720
Speaker 2: been jamming, what you've been listening.

1800
01:23:47,479 --> 01:23:51,840
Speaker 1: To you should have well, yo, bunny, yea.

1801
01:23:58,000 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 2: Right down, baby, I'm telling you.

1802
01:24:01,200 --> 01:24:03,559
Speaker 1: One grow because y'all know I'm not a rap girl,

1803
01:24:04,479 --> 01:24:09,519
Speaker 1: but real I'm coming. Yeah, thats right there, Like what

1804
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:11,559
Speaker 1: late sprint fucked up?

1805
01:24:11,680 --> 01:24:17,720
Speaker 2: You should have way old bannie. Y'all be damn y'all

1806
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:22,759
Speaker 2: is going, you know, wear bonnet. I'm bonning down, lasted

1807
01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:25,080
Speaker 2: band down all of day. But then sometimes I do

1808
01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:26,960
Speaker 2: have a band sometimes that should get rid.

1809
01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:30,840
Speaker 1: Of throw always getting like worries. See, y'all, my Mai

1810
01:24:30,920 --> 01:24:31,920
Speaker 1: could be getting mad at me.

1811
01:24:32,960 --> 01:24:35,799
Speaker 2: I see look at we are.

1812
01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:37,800
Speaker 1: Somebody else.

1813
01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:40,559
Speaker 2: I at least I got black thing.

1814
01:24:40,880 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 1: You got black on, so I'll be wearing glueless unit.

1815
01:24:43,000 --> 01:24:46,280
Speaker 2: It's like this is glueless. Okay. So but so when

1816
01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 2: I'm at home by myself, I take my wigs off.

1817
01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:50,360
Speaker 2: But my man be so mad at me because I

1818
01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:51,960
Speaker 2: do not. I don't do that.

1819
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:54,120
Speaker 1: I need you to look at me as a sex

1820
01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:56,240
Speaker 1: symbol at all times. Oh, I'm the type of person

1821
01:24:56,240 --> 01:24:58,040
Speaker 1: I'll take my wig off in the middle of an argument.

1822
01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:01,400
Speaker 2: No, yeah, I'm the last. So let's really get into it.

1823
01:25:01,760 --> 01:25:03,679
Speaker 1: I was put my app for seven years.

1824
01:25:03,840 --> 01:25:07,400
Speaker 2: I think he probably saw me like with like break

1825
01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:09,559
Speaker 2: like you could see my real hair. If my real

1826
01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:12,479
Speaker 2: hair is like out, I just wash it, break it down,

1827
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:16,280
Speaker 2: looking like Alan Iverson. No. No, So y'all make sure

1828
01:25:16,400 --> 01:25:21,240
Speaker 2: y'all share the content like subscribe, follow all that good stuff.

1829
01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 2: And let me say this before we close out. Y'all,

1830
01:25:23,920 --> 01:25:27,479
Speaker 2: there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds.

1831
01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:32,120
Speaker 2: It's p O. You are underscore in my nds. Y'all

1832
01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:35,200
Speaker 2: are tagging the wrong poor Minds page. If you see

1833
01:25:35,320 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 2: at poor minds with no underscore, that is at fake page.

1834
01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:39,200
Speaker 1: Do not follow that page.

1835
01:25:39,240 --> 01:25:43,200
Speaker 2: Okay, they blocked me Andrea and the poor Minds page

1836
01:25:43,240 --> 01:25:47,759
Speaker 2: on both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter,

1837
01:25:48,640 --> 01:25:50,640
Speaker 2: one TikTok it. It's p O.

1838
01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:52,679
Speaker 1: You are underscore in my nds.

1839
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:55,520
Speaker 2: A right, and we got I held a fake Facebook

1840
01:25:55,600 --> 01:25:59,080
Speaker 2: page on the Facebook pages it's our face. The crazy

1841
01:25:59,120 --> 01:26:01,679
Speaker 2: thing is our face book page actually have the least

1842
01:26:01,720 --> 01:26:03,040
Speaker 2: amount of fiutput.

1843
01:26:02,720 --> 01:26:05,320
Speaker 4: So if you face the one that's hours got the

1844
01:26:05,439 --> 01:26:08,040
Speaker 4: least amount of file, but one that's not us got

1845
01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:10,880
Speaker 4: like two hundred and fifty, you make if you actually

1846
01:26:10,920 --> 01:26:13,200
Speaker 4: look at the content, because the caption is like whoever

1847
01:26:13,280 --> 01:26:15,880
Speaker 4: it is, don't speak English because their captains are like,

1848
01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:17,559
Speaker 4: bumba clade should men?

1849
01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:21,360
Speaker 2: Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

1850
01:26:21,479 --> 01:26:23,960
Speaker 1: No check answer.

1851
01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:29,320
Speaker 2: Below block block pull Poyer Like that's literally with the captions.

1852
01:26:29,479 --> 01:26:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, what that dgs Bumba Claudemba Claude a.

1853
01:26:34,240 --> 01:26:36,160
Speaker 2: Woman in my life that I love, admire, one of

1854
01:26:36,200 --> 01:26:38,400
Speaker 2: my favorite people in the world. She's been married almost

1855
01:26:38,520 --> 01:26:41,080
Speaker 2: twenty years. She says she hasn't even parted. That's me.

1856
01:26:41,840 --> 01:26:44,040
Speaker 1: I was with that man for seven years.

1857
01:26:44,160 --> 01:26:46,120
Speaker 2: If he got a got it's been a out. No

1858
01:26:46,280 --> 01:26:49,000
Speaker 2: it is, but I'm not doing that in front of him.

1859
01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:51,280
Speaker 2: She said. It was more so like a personal thing.

1860
01:26:51,400 --> 01:26:53,439
Speaker 2: She was like, even when I take a ship, I shower,

1861
01:26:54,160 --> 01:26:56,599
Speaker 2: I shower that. She was like, I just feel nasty.

1862
01:26:56,760 --> 01:26:58,080
Speaker 1: I have a I think it was you.

1863
01:26:58,240 --> 01:26:59,880
Speaker 2: I called, and I was like, hey call me so

1864
01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 2: I can act like I have a phone call so

1865
01:27:01,160 --> 01:27:02,880
Speaker 2: I can go. I remember I do that.

1866
01:27:03,080 --> 01:27:06,520
Speaker 1: Connor, I will literally never live in an apartment.

1867
01:27:06,120 --> 01:27:09,120
Speaker 2: Again that doesn't have two bathrooms because if you're in

1868
01:27:09,200 --> 01:27:11,040
Speaker 2: my room and you're in my bathroom, I will go

1869
01:27:11,160 --> 01:27:12,120
Speaker 2: to the guests room.

1870
01:27:12,640 --> 01:27:15,280
Speaker 1: Now when I'm first starting like fuck with somebody, like

1871
01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:18,880
Speaker 1: hell nowhere like that. Yeah, like I don't have no

1872
01:27:19,000 --> 01:27:22,400
Speaker 1: bondet on. No, once we locked in, we locked in.

1873
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:25,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean now, don't get me wrong. The bonnet thing,

1874
01:27:25,360 --> 01:27:27,400
Speaker 2: like I'll wear a bonnet if I'm sleeping, but if

1875
01:27:27,439 --> 01:27:29,599
Speaker 2: we're having if we start having sex, I'm taking it off.

1876
01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:34,320
Speaker 2: And I'm like, really, I never really sleep with one

1877
01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:36,840
Speaker 2: in the first place, so I just be ready get

1878
01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:39,760
Speaker 2: my defense. Though I haven't had like a closure or

1879
01:27:39,880 --> 01:27:44,200
Speaker 2: like a frontal in like years so lately though, like

1880
01:27:44,400 --> 01:27:47,320
Speaker 2: being me down, yeah, being me down.

1881
01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:53,519
Speaker 1: If this bonnet throw you off, we got deeper issues.

1882
01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:58,080
Speaker 1: This bonnett throw you out. I don't think a bond

1883
01:27:58,120 --> 01:28:00,280
Speaker 1: it because he don't. He don't be caring like I said,

1884
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:01,880
Speaker 1: he'd be like, let me see, let me see, Like

1885
01:28:02,439 --> 01:28:06,280
Speaker 1: niggas will fuck a crackhead exactly. Okay, I seen a

1886
01:28:06,360 --> 01:28:08,120
Speaker 1: nigga fucking crackhead on Twitter the other day.

1887
01:28:08,560 --> 01:28:10,960
Speaker 2: You have to learn. Once I figured out, like people

1888
01:28:10,960 --> 01:28:13,559
Speaker 2: don't really give a fuck what you look like. It's

1889
01:28:13,640 --> 01:28:16,320
Speaker 2: all about how you make them feel, right, And that's

1890
01:28:16,360 --> 01:28:17,680
Speaker 2: why I said, I know, my man, it's more of

1891
01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:20,400
Speaker 2: a me thing, Like I like to feel sexy when

1892
01:28:20,439 --> 01:28:21,519
Speaker 2: I'm having I like that.

1893
01:28:21,560 --> 01:28:22,760
Speaker 1: It's a personal thing.

1894
01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:23,320
Speaker 2: I like that.

1895
01:28:23,439 --> 01:28:26,360
Speaker 1: I wanted to bitches, they put on lotion, real sexy.

1896
01:28:26,520 --> 01:28:28,599
Speaker 2: Yeah that's movie.

1897
01:28:29,320 --> 01:28:32,680
Speaker 1: Yeah they be having one. They don't be having no

1898
01:28:32,800 --> 01:28:35,880
Speaker 1: bonding on. Yeah, playing some silk in the background.

1899
01:28:36,680 --> 01:28:39,120
Speaker 2: There, it do be a meeting in my bad I

1900
01:28:39,200 --> 01:28:45,640
Speaker 2: smell like cocoa. But all right, dra go ahead with

1901
01:28:45,720 --> 01:28:46,439
Speaker 2: the item of the weed.

1902
01:28:50,520 --> 01:28:51,360
Speaker 1: We have an item with the.

1903
01:28:55,200 --> 01:28:58,080
Speaker 2: I have a cosmetic flying It's called mus Beauty Collection

1904
01:28:58,720 --> 01:28:59,960
Speaker 2: dot com is lip gloss.

1905
01:29:00,040 --> 01:29:02,479
Speaker 1: These lips just saying I'm finna learn how to do

1906
01:29:02,560 --> 01:29:06,479
Speaker 1: my makeup because I'm tired of again everything. Yes, oh

1907
01:29:06,600 --> 01:29:11,120
Speaker 1: this is some serious ship. Thank you for your damn

1908
01:29:11,160 --> 01:29:12,439
Speaker 1: bit I'm just like, thank you.

1909
01:29:12,880 --> 01:29:16,160
Speaker 2: So poort of my newest brand, Mules Beauty, was started

1910
01:29:16,240 --> 01:29:19,160
Speaker 2: as just a dream is finally coming true. And I

1911
01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:22,439
Speaker 2: hope you know it wouldn't be possible without supporters like you.

1912
01:29:23,720 --> 01:29:25,400
Speaker 2: I hope you enjoy y'all product, and.

1913
01:29:25,439 --> 01:29:30,160
Speaker 1: Don't forget to tag us muse beauty baby. And she

1914
01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:32,439
Speaker 1: she not staying you. You know what that man? You

1915
01:29:32,479 --> 01:29:33,759
Speaker 1: know what that means her shit is selling?

1916
01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:39,160
Speaker 2: Okay, Bitches would be like, I don't know, ain't selling baby.

1917
01:29:39,400 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you that if you like a gloss.

1918
01:29:41,960 --> 01:29:44,920
Speaker 2: That glaze is literally the best clear lib bloss you

1919
01:29:45,000 --> 01:29:47,720
Speaker 2: will ever use in your life. No, I'm fine that

1920
01:29:47,880 --> 01:29:51,799
Speaker 2: blaze be so popping. But you know what my makeup

1921
01:29:51,920 --> 01:29:54,120
Speaker 2: art is. Did my make up recently and it was

1922
01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:56,519
Speaker 2: like a homemade law and she was like, yeah, this

1923
01:29:56,640 --> 01:29:58,559
Speaker 2: loss is popping. So I know when people really take

1924
01:29:58,640 --> 01:30:01,040
Speaker 2: pride in their brand and they do a gloss is different.

1925
01:30:01,240 --> 01:30:02,240
Speaker 2: Yeah it's different.

1926
01:30:02,280 --> 01:30:03,799
Speaker 1: Yeah that all it different.

1927
01:30:04,080 --> 01:30:05,840
Speaker 2: And that's what really made me want to start like

1928
01:30:05,920 --> 01:30:08,519
Speaker 2: a cosmetics brands because I always need so many compliments

1929
01:30:08,600 --> 01:30:10,280
Speaker 2: on my lip gloss, my lips, all of this. I

1930
01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:13,680
Speaker 2: to god, no wrap in my motherfucking cap. I was

1931
01:30:13,720 --> 01:30:15,439
Speaker 2: gonna say, what the fuck is your lip com.

1932
01:30:16,120 --> 01:30:21,520
Speaker 1: I promise you I was. I have on honey chestnut.

1933
01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:26,720
Speaker 2: I was like, da have a card. Y'all have to

1934
01:30:27,000 --> 01:30:32,280
Speaker 2: stop like y'all have out done y'all review of it.

1935
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:36,639
Speaker 2: Although honestly, what's what's the liner that I wear?

1936
01:30:36,920 --> 01:30:37,800
Speaker 1: No, that's all I was saying.

1937
01:30:37,840 --> 01:30:40,000
Speaker 2: So I have on the chestnut liner, the honey dub

1938
01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:42,920
Speaker 2: Matt lipstick, and then I have glazes on top. Yeah,

1939
01:30:43,320 --> 01:30:46,840
Speaker 2: so chestnut liner. The combo that I always like is

1940
01:30:46,880 --> 01:30:50,679
Speaker 2: the chestnut liner. The lust gloss and the glaze on top.

1941
01:30:50,800 --> 01:30:53,920
Speaker 1: That's that grown woman that I look like. They be

1942
01:30:53,960 --> 01:30:55,160
Speaker 1: talking about lipstick combination.

1943
01:30:55,360 --> 01:30:59,960
Speaker 2: Yes, not just like beauty supply Stoke Cocoa bottle put

1944
01:31:00,080 --> 01:31:02,840
Speaker 2: you on some good combinations with the perfume. It's because

1945
01:31:02,840 --> 01:31:08,479
Speaker 2: but you smell good. I love the good perfume. Now, yes, girl,

1946
01:31:08,520 --> 01:31:11,360
Speaker 2: I got a few, so right now I'm really liking

1947
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:19,320
Speaker 2: Dealina Exclusive. I'm really like, that's my Tuitiana Tarazini. Yeah,

1948
01:31:21,360 --> 01:31:24,519
Speaker 2: that's my smells really good too. I'm like in Mason

1949
01:31:24,600 --> 01:31:29,439
Speaker 2: Margiella by the fire Place. It's like the one if

1950
01:31:29,479 --> 01:31:31,880
Speaker 2: you like clean plast I got a lot of.

1951
01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:34,160
Speaker 1: Stuff, but you know, my favorite right now is the

1952
01:31:34,280 --> 01:31:37,360
Speaker 1: Valentino the black bottle. Okay, I know which one you're

1953
01:31:37,360 --> 01:31:37,760
Speaker 1: talking about.

1954
01:31:38,560 --> 01:31:40,960
Speaker 2: Yes, I love that. I love the good Girl, the

1955
01:31:41,040 --> 01:31:43,360
Speaker 2: black good Girl. You gotta try to pink one. I

1956
01:31:43,520 --> 01:31:46,200
Speaker 2: heard and mix that with the fruit.

1957
01:31:47,280 --> 01:31:47,880
Speaker 1: I love her.

1958
01:31:48,800 --> 01:31:50,360
Speaker 2: We love a creed.

1959
01:31:51,000 --> 01:31:53,960
Speaker 1: Okay, she's pink. I can't think of her name.

1960
01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:55,000
Speaker 2: Glass.

1961
01:31:55,080 --> 01:31:56,439
Speaker 1: She got like a little bow on her.

1962
01:31:56,560 --> 01:31:57,120
Speaker 2: I love her.

1963
01:31:57,200 --> 01:31:59,680
Speaker 1: She's almost down to the motherfucking I go through my

1964
01:31:59,760 --> 01:32:01,240
Speaker 1: ship to Macarata chorus.

1965
01:32:01,360 --> 01:32:03,960
Speaker 2: Of course, But you gotta mix it with bitter peach

1966
01:32:04,040 --> 01:32:07,040
Speaker 2: by time for see. Okay, I want the time and

1967
01:32:07,120 --> 01:32:11,120
Speaker 2: I want the product. Candy product candy smells a kiss.

1968
01:32:11,200 --> 01:32:13,600
Speaker 2: Somebody gave me that last year for my birthday. I

1969
01:32:13,760 --> 01:32:16,679
Speaker 2: used that she didn't like too. Yeah, she's a staple one,

1970
01:32:16,920 --> 01:32:21,080
Speaker 2: the one that I recently bought that I've literally I cannot.

1971
01:32:21,680 --> 01:32:23,000
Speaker 1: People love this scent on me.

1972
01:32:23,120 --> 01:32:27,040
Speaker 2: It's the what is it? The Kaali, the pistachio, what

1973
01:32:27,200 --> 01:32:27,360
Speaker 2: is it?

1974
01:32:27,720 --> 01:32:32,600
Speaker 1: Pistachio gelato, pistachio gelato. I just like because Dre had

1975
01:32:32,600 --> 01:32:38,479
Speaker 1: tweeted about that and mixing it with the what is it? Oh,

1976
01:32:38,920 --> 01:32:41,080
Speaker 1: that's what I had on this morning, So you mixed that.

1977
01:32:41,400 --> 01:32:43,000
Speaker 1: They have a post soul.

1978
01:32:44,120 --> 01:32:46,720
Speaker 2: It's like a miss y'all, but you gotta miss The

1979
01:32:46,840 --> 01:32:51,280
Speaker 2: Kaali is a perfume, so you gotta mix those together. Okay,

1980
01:32:51,439 --> 01:32:55,080
Speaker 2: when I tell y'all, So if y'all, if anybody watching it,

1981
01:32:55,160 --> 01:32:56,679
Speaker 2: y'all know from the hood or whatever. At the beauty

1982
01:32:56,680 --> 01:33:00,280
Speaker 2: supply stores, you know, we got a sint calls. That

1983
01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:01,000
Speaker 2: girl gave you.

1984
01:33:01,120 --> 01:33:02,719
Speaker 1: That girl gave us some pussy.

1985
01:33:02,960 --> 01:33:07,160
Speaker 2: She did get listen, she got I guy my beauty

1986
01:33:07,200 --> 01:33:10,439
Speaker 2: supply store. They got too old five pussy. I'm from

1987
01:33:10,479 --> 01:33:14,040
Speaker 2: Birmingham Big five, so they put two old five piss.

1988
01:33:15,160 --> 01:33:16,360
Speaker 2: That's a little crazy.

1989
01:33:16,479 --> 01:33:20,080
Speaker 1: This girl gave us some. She pulled up like, oh

1990
01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:21,479
Speaker 1: my god, fell so good.

1991
01:33:21,520 --> 01:33:23,280
Speaker 2: What is it? She was like, girl, that's pussy and

1992
01:33:23,360 --> 01:33:25,880
Speaker 2: why she just had two of them readily available in

1993
01:33:25,960 --> 01:33:27,719
Speaker 2: her party and she was like, oh this is for y'all.

1994
01:33:28,600 --> 01:33:30,640
Speaker 1: You know, a real bitch when you be like what

1995
01:33:30,760 --> 01:33:33,240
Speaker 1: you what you're wearing? She's like, pussy this smell.

1996
01:33:33,320 --> 01:33:34,960
Speaker 2: She had that pussy on. Shout out to her. I

1997
01:33:34,960 --> 01:33:36,960
Speaker 2: can't remember her name. We used to be so funny

1998
01:33:36,960 --> 01:33:38,680
Speaker 2: in high school walking up the whole time. Something you

1999
01:33:38,680 --> 01:33:40,479
Speaker 2: want some pussy? We used to say that all the time.

2000
01:33:41,160 --> 01:33:44,920
Speaker 2: You put that pussy on you. That's too old five pussy.

2001
01:33:45,160 --> 01:33:48,160
Speaker 2: That's that Birmingham pussy. And I like added a little wirk.

2002
01:33:49,680 --> 01:33:50,800
Speaker 1: This is what you had on?

2003
01:33:52,160 --> 01:33:56,240
Speaker 2: Like you smelled so good? Because I love what's my ship?

2004
01:33:56,520 --> 01:34:01,560
Speaker 2: You know the Wirestelle Lee brain Break. I love le

2005
01:34:01,720 --> 01:34:06,559
Speaker 2: brek Opium. You know black opium is like the original. Yeah,

2006
01:34:07,160 --> 01:34:07,760
Speaker 2: I had them in.

2007
01:34:07,800 --> 01:34:13,599
Speaker 1: My car but I couldn't find it. So I'm like, okayn,

2008
01:34:13,720 --> 01:34:14,519
Speaker 1: you smell good.

2009
01:34:15,080 --> 01:34:17,240
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm a perfume kind of stre I love me

2010
01:34:17,320 --> 01:34:19,280
Speaker 2: some sense I will send you at least the stuff. Yeah,

2011
01:34:19,320 --> 01:34:26,400
Speaker 2: she got, she got all. I need another? Okay, beauty too.

2012
01:34:26,680 --> 01:34:27,400
Speaker 2: Oh I am.

2013
01:34:28,160 --> 01:34:30,559
Speaker 1: I'm literally booking with my makeup art. Is some makeup class.

2014
01:34:30,600 --> 01:34:33,559
Speaker 2: I'm so tad booking just to go down the streets. Yeah,

2015
01:34:33,800 --> 01:34:35,519
Speaker 2: I need to know how to do my own face. Yeah.

2016
01:34:35,840 --> 01:34:37,720
Speaker 1: I think that was one of the things, Like I'm

2017
01:34:37,800 --> 01:34:39,479
Speaker 1: really grateful, like I know how to do my own

2018
01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:39,840
Speaker 1: make up.

2019
01:34:39,800 --> 01:34:42,040
Speaker 2: Because that she could get expensive. Yeah. I had to

2020
01:34:42,160 --> 01:34:43,920
Speaker 2: learn because I used to always have to lose people

2021
01:34:43,960 --> 01:34:46,640
Speaker 2: to do my makeup too. The thing about being a

2022
01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:50,160
Speaker 2: beauty influencer though, it don't get expelled. Yeah, you looking

2023
01:34:50,160 --> 01:34:52,120
Speaker 2: at a lot of stuff because it's just like they

2024
01:34:52,200 --> 01:34:54,040
Speaker 2: be like, she a pucket, I'll do your face tag.

2025
01:34:54,760 --> 01:34:55,840
Speaker 2: Yeah that's all they be wanting.

2026
01:34:55,840 --> 01:34:58,240
Speaker 1: A little tag, A little one too, Okay is some

2027
01:34:58,320 --> 01:35:00,519
Speaker 1: real girls talk. We're having a time.

2028
01:35:00,840 --> 01:35:03,439
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna get into our favorite segment, the

2029
01:35:03,760 --> 01:35:05,680
Speaker 2: pour your Heart Out segment. If you want your question

2030
01:35:05,760 --> 01:35:07,400
Speaker 2: to answered on the show, and make sure you email

2031
01:35:07,520 --> 01:35:10,320
Speaker 2: us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. If

2032
01:35:10,320 --> 01:35:12,320
Speaker 2: you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that in

2033
01:35:12,400 --> 01:35:14,479
Speaker 2: the subject line and you get to skip the line

2034
01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:17,599
Speaker 2: like you give good advice. I feel like I can

2035
01:35:17,680 --> 01:35:20,880
Speaker 2: already tell I'm telling you all my friends bringing my

2036
01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:25,479
Speaker 2: line down. Okay, Okay, go ahead, Drea, Okay. Question number one,

2037
01:35:25,920 --> 01:35:29,400
Speaker 2: Heydrea and LyX. My name is Brian. I'm from West Palm, Florida,

2038
01:35:29,720 --> 01:35:31,840
Speaker 2: And first of all, I fucking love y'all in the

2039
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:34,959
Speaker 2: times I feel alone. Y'all really play in the background

2040
01:35:35,080 --> 01:35:38,479
Speaker 2: talking shit, feeling like some homegirls for real. Now, I

2041
01:35:38,640 --> 01:35:42,639
Speaker 2: know you can't speak on the LGBT perspective, but any

2042
01:35:42,720 --> 01:35:45,800
Speaker 2: tips on being a new bartender. I'm eighteen, taking my

2043
01:35:45,880 --> 01:35:48,240
Speaker 2: little classes and I get my certificate at the end

2044
01:35:48,320 --> 01:35:50,720
Speaker 2: of this week. Anything I should know before I get

2045
01:35:50,760 --> 01:35:54,880
Speaker 2: out there on my first motherfucking night, which I'm nervous for. Also,

2046
01:35:55,160 --> 01:35:57,840
Speaker 2: what headspace were y'all at when you was eighteen? And

2047
01:35:57,920 --> 01:35:59,960
Speaker 2: how would you say you've grown from all the experience

2048
01:36:00,120 --> 01:36:02,040
Speaker 2: is that put you in the position where you are now?

2049
01:36:02,560 --> 01:36:04,599
Speaker 2: How'd you get your foot in the door? When did

2050
01:36:04,640 --> 01:36:07,679
Speaker 2: you jump off the porch? Not sexually? Ill, unless y'all

2051
01:36:07,680 --> 01:36:10,560
Speaker 2: want to review that. To keep doing what you do?

2052
01:36:10,880 --> 01:36:15,280
Speaker 1: She playing too fucking much. Keep doing what you do?

2053
01:36:15,479 --> 01:36:18,960
Speaker 2: You inspire so many people. From your nephew Brian love

2054
01:36:19,080 --> 01:36:22,320
Speaker 2: y'all t T so I think y'all know him, God,

2055
01:36:23,200 --> 01:36:25,040
Speaker 2: we don't know him. Talk about some TC. You need

2056
01:36:25,120 --> 01:36:26,080
Speaker 2: to take your life serious.

2057
01:36:26,560 --> 01:36:30,880
Speaker 1: So he okay, So as a male bartender, I've never

2058
01:36:30,960 --> 01:36:32,639
Speaker 1: been a bartender. But he's eighteen.

2059
01:36:32,800 --> 01:36:35,840
Speaker 2: Remember he said he you can't even fucking drink liquor,

2060
01:36:36,080 --> 01:36:37,040
Speaker 2: So how the fuck are you?

2061
01:36:37,120 --> 01:36:38,280
Speaker 1: Are you fucking lying?

2062
01:36:38,800 --> 01:36:40,800
Speaker 2: He might not be because you know you can't bart

2063
01:36:41,640 --> 01:36:44,639
Speaker 2: eighteen year old bartender. I started bartending at eighteen.

2064
01:36:44,720 --> 01:36:45,840
Speaker 1: I did yes.

2065
01:36:46,120 --> 01:36:49,479
Speaker 2: When I was a teacher Friday, I.

2066
01:36:49,720 --> 01:36:52,599
Speaker 1: Was a hardcore bartender that has.

2067
01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:55,280
Speaker 2: That's how we became friends.

2068
01:36:55,400 --> 01:36:59,439
Speaker 1: Could a little tag No, no, no, no.

2069
01:37:03,960 --> 01:37:04,599
Speaker 2: My life pre.

2070
01:37:06,120 --> 01:37:08,120
Speaker 1: It was both, Oh my god, you gotta b b

2071
01:37:08,560 --> 01:37:12,680
Speaker 1: the girl hurt? Did it hurt? You had six? I'm

2072
01:37:12,720 --> 01:37:14,200
Speaker 1: just playing aready.

2073
01:37:15,400 --> 01:37:17,280
Speaker 2: Okay? But uh the baby?

2074
01:37:17,479 --> 01:37:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, surgery hurts period, but yeah it was painful. But

2075
01:37:20,200 --> 01:37:22,280
Speaker 1: I do it again if I have to. I got

2076
01:37:22,320 --> 01:37:24,320
Speaker 1: my I felt like I got hit by a truck.

2077
01:37:24,640 --> 01:37:25,360
Speaker 2: Are so easy.

2078
01:37:25,680 --> 01:37:28,120
Speaker 1: Soon as I woke up, No, I had nothing, I'm

2079
01:37:28,280 --> 01:37:29,479
Speaker 1: w NBA player beach.

2080
01:37:30,720 --> 01:37:32,920
Speaker 2: She was falling on bore. I woke the fuck up.

2081
01:37:33,080 --> 01:37:35,840
Speaker 1: I felt like, you know, SpongeBob, but he had them boots. Yeah,

2082
01:37:35,960 --> 01:37:38,000
Speaker 1: with the spikes, I felt like Sponge I was just

2083
01:37:38,080 --> 01:37:41,000
Speaker 1: stomping on my chicks. I literally said that, like with

2084
01:37:41,160 --> 01:37:42,599
Speaker 1: the spikes of fuck.

2085
01:37:43,880 --> 01:37:46,320
Speaker 2: So I was the w NBA player myself at one

2086
01:37:47,520 --> 01:37:50,280
Speaker 2: I'm good. I've been having for a long time. It'd

2087
01:37:50,320 --> 01:37:53,719
Speaker 2: be like eight years. Oh wow, like twenty fifteen. Wow, bitch.

2088
01:37:54,640 --> 01:37:56,640
Speaker 2: See I was like fat mom, fat Mama. I had

2089
01:37:56,680 --> 01:37:59,519
Speaker 2: the big ones that I had them reduced. Yeah, I

2090
01:37:59,720 --> 01:38:02,479
Speaker 2: was she has So when you got them reduced, it

2091
01:38:02,600 --> 01:38:05,200
Speaker 2: was like hey, yeah, like people thought I was bigger

2092
01:38:05,240 --> 01:38:07,160
Speaker 2: than I mean, I was big at one point. I

2093
01:38:07,280 --> 01:38:08,920
Speaker 2: have a friend like that, like as soon as she

2094
01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:11,000
Speaker 2: got her boobs reduced, it was like, oh my gosh,

2095
01:38:11,040 --> 01:38:13,000
Speaker 2: you're so little. Yeah, that's how it was for me,

2096
01:38:13,080 --> 01:38:15,640
Speaker 2: And I think a lot of times when people especially

2097
01:38:15,760 --> 01:38:18,360
Speaker 2: during the time where they were watching poor Minds, I

2098
01:38:18,520 --> 01:38:20,400
Speaker 2: still had big boobs. And then by the time we

2099
01:38:20,479 --> 01:38:24,960
Speaker 2: went on tour, I got them done, like probably after

2100
01:38:25,080 --> 01:38:27,000
Speaker 2: the first few dates, and then I got them done.

2101
01:38:27,040 --> 01:38:28,559
Speaker 2: Then we had to finish them out. So a lot

2102
01:38:28,600 --> 01:38:30,720
Speaker 2: of times when people were meeting me, all of the

2103
01:38:30,800 --> 01:38:32,840
Speaker 2: things that were online I still had big boobs, so

2104
01:38:32,840 --> 01:38:34,599
Speaker 2: when they saw them, they're like, you not really as

2105
01:38:34,680 --> 01:38:35,720
Speaker 2: big as you say you are.

2106
01:38:35,880 --> 01:38:39,040
Speaker 1: They're totally yeah yeah, So it like definitely changed.

2107
01:38:39,080 --> 01:38:41,439
Speaker 2: But back to Brian. Back to Brian in his question,

2108
01:38:42,600 --> 01:38:46,920
Speaker 2: I feel like this for me bartending, I think you

2109
01:38:47,000 --> 01:38:48,559
Speaker 2: can get caught up, especially now.

2110
01:38:48,720 --> 01:38:50,160
Speaker 1: I don't know where you're bartending at.

2111
01:38:50,240 --> 01:38:53,760
Speaker 2: But I see so many girls who start bartending and

2112
01:38:53,880 --> 01:38:57,400
Speaker 2: they can't get out with that quick money. They're meeting

2113
01:38:57,479 --> 01:39:00,920
Speaker 2: this rapper, they're meeting this athlete, and you gotta go

2114
01:39:01,000 --> 01:39:02,400
Speaker 2: in there with a job because you know what, the

2115
01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:04,519
Speaker 2: girls who I saw made it out the club, the

2116
01:39:04,640 --> 01:39:07,559
Speaker 2: girls who developed relationships with these people and weren't trying

2117
01:39:07,600 --> 01:39:10,040
Speaker 2: to fuck them. So it was like, oh, every time

2118
01:39:10,560 --> 01:39:12,519
Speaker 2: x y Z comes to the club, I'm his bartender.

2119
01:39:12,600 --> 01:39:14,840
Speaker 2: He take care of me because he's looking out. If

2120
01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:17,120
Speaker 2: you go and you fuck this nigga, I'm telling y'all,

2121
01:39:17,160 --> 01:39:18,560
Speaker 2: I hate to say this, nine to nine percent of

2122
01:39:18,640 --> 01:39:20,200
Speaker 2: the time, you're not finna end up with this nigga.

2123
01:39:20,240 --> 01:39:22,040
Speaker 2: You're not finna be his baby mommy, you're not finna

2124
01:39:22,040 --> 01:39:24,280
Speaker 2: be his wife, and none of that. So you have

2125
01:39:24,400 --> 01:39:27,519
Speaker 2: to treat your job like a job. Enjoy yourself, but

2126
01:39:27,720 --> 01:39:30,000
Speaker 2: going there with a goal to make your money and

2127
01:39:30,120 --> 01:39:32,680
Speaker 2: go home. Yeah, you gotta think about it, Like if

2128
01:39:32,680 --> 01:39:34,840
Speaker 2: you walked into Walmart and some shit was for free,

2129
01:39:35,360 --> 01:39:37,000
Speaker 2: if I want to grab that shit next time I

2130
01:39:37,040 --> 01:39:38,160
Speaker 2: come to Walmart, I don't.

2131
01:39:37,960 --> 01:39:41,160
Speaker 1: Fucking want that. What else is just for free?

2132
01:39:41,320 --> 01:39:44,519
Speaker 2: Exactly? Don't be giving it up? Yeah, Brian, keep that

2133
01:39:44,640 --> 01:39:48,280
Speaker 2: dick up. Keep that dick up, Brian, no baby cutting

2134
01:39:48,280 --> 01:39:51,640
Speaker 2: it off. Don't keep it up? Well? Yeah, and what

2135
01:39:51,800 --> 01:39:54,920
Speaker 2: did he asked a couple more questions towards the end. Yeah,

2136
01:39:54,960 --> 01:39:56,640
Speaker 2: he was just asking like, how did we get our

2137
01:39:56,680 --> 01:39:58,880
Speaker 2: foot in the door? When did you jump off the porch? Like,

2138
01:39:59,080 --> 01:40:03,280
Speaker 2: I guess as far as believing in yourself taking risks, do.

2139
01:40:03,360 --> 01:40:04,840
Speaker 1: Y'all know how to answer that question?

2140
01:40:04,920 --> 01:40:06,720
Speaker 2: Because sometimes when a lot of people ask me that,

2141
01:40:06,840 --> 01:40:09,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's just kind of a feeling like I

2142
01:40:09,160 --> 01:40:11,519
Speaker 2: don't want to say of you being fed up. Yeah,

2143
01:40:11,600 --> 01:40:13,439
Speaker 2: but it's more so like you reach your breaking point,

2144
01:40:13,520 --> 01:40:15,679
Speaker 2: like fuck it. Like when I posted my first video,

2145
01:40:15,800 --> 01:40:18,240
Speaker 2: it was more so of like a fucking yeah, I'm

2146
01:40:18,320 --> 01:40:20,720
Speaker 2: just gonna do the shit. I mean, and even with

2147
01:40:20,920 --> 01:40:23,080
Speaker 2: us we say this all the time, girl, like we

2148
01:40:23,280 --> 01:40:26,760
Speaker 2: were recording this show for like a good year and

2149
01:40:26,840 --> 01:40:30,000
Speaker 2: a half two years, nobody was listening to it. We

2150
01:40:30,200 --> 01:40:31,960
Speaker 2: just kept recording because we was like, Okay, if we

2151
01:40:32,040 --> 01:40:35,599
Speaker 2: stay consistent, eventually people gonna start listening. And we did.

2152
01:40:35,760 --> 01:40:38,000
Speaker 2: We I mean eventually we started growing more Like at

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01:40:38,120 --> 01:40:39,960
Speaker 2: one point we was getting one hundred liasings.

2154
01:40:40,000 --> 01:40:42,599
Speaker 1: Then it was a thousand. Then for like a good year,

2155
01:40:42,760 --> 01:40:45,799
Speaker 1: it was like a thousand, and then.

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01:40:45,680 --> 01:40:48,040
Speaker 2: We finally got to ten thousand, and we was like, okay,

2157
01:40:48,520 --> 01:40:50,400
Speaker 2: we got our first eighty six dollars chicks.

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01:40:50,920 --> 01:40:53,880
Speaker 1: Cool, we can actually make some money from this. But

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01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:55,320
Speaker 1: we just stayed consistent.

2160
01:40:55,439 --> 01:40:58,879
Speaker 2: So I think that you just have to believe in yourself,

2161
01:40:58,960 --> 01:41:01,360
Speaker 2: like you have to be like, Okay, if I stay

2162
01:41:01,439 --> 01:41:04,040
Speaker 2: consistent with this and I keep doing what I believe in,

2163
01:41:04,560 --> 01:41:07,160
Speaker 2: eventually is gonna pay off any will. I think people

2164
01:41:07,280 --> 01:41:11,040
Speaker 2: get frustrated in those beginning stages too quick though we

2165
01:41:11,120 --> 01:41:11,559
Speaker 2: may be Like.

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01:41:11,920 --> 01:41:14,280
Speaker 1: I tell people all the time, the difference between me

2167
01:41:14,320 --> 01:41:17,040
Speaker 1: and you is I didn't quit. Yeah, yeah, that's that's

2168
01:41:17,200 --> 01:41:19,200
Speaker 1: literally the whole difference. Same with us.

2169
01:41:19,360 --> 01:41:22,160
Speaker 2: Even with the Kanye documentary that I was watching, like

2170
01:41:22,280 --> 01:41:25,519
Speaker 2: people was dogging Kanye wasn't trying to listen to him.

2171
01:41:25,840 --> 01:41:28,280
Speaker 1: Was discouraging him as much as they could, but he

2172
01:41:28,520 --> 01:41:30,160
Speaker 1: pushed through that, and he did.

2173
01:41:30,680 --> 01:41:32,720
Speaker 2: I feel like everybody comes to a point where it's

2174
01:41:32,760 --> 01:41:35,719
Speaker 2: like I could quit or I could keep going, because

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01:41:35,760 --> 01:41:38,559
Speaker 2: why not, I've already invested. That's at least that's how

2176
01:41:38,600 --> 01:41:40,519
Speaker 2: I feel. It's like, bit, y'all already be doing this

2177
01:41:40,520 --> 01:41:41,720
Speaker 2: shit for a year and a half. I might as

2178
01:41:41,760 --> 01:41:42,280
Speaker 2: well keep going.

2179
01:41:42,400 --> 01:41:44,920
Speaker 1: But y'all wanted the ones I had to teach myself.

2180
01:41:45,080 --> 01:41:48,200
Speaker 2: People don't feel that, but I tell myself all the time.

2181
01:41:48,400 --> 01:41:52,000
Speaker 2: We need to have people who play their position. We

2182
01:41:52,160 --> 01:41:54,400
Speaker 2: need to have people who just love to be moms

2183
01:41:54,520 --> 01:41:56,920
Speaker 2: and dads. You just want regular job. You get what

2184
01:41:56,960 --> 01:41:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm saying. We need That's what a society and that's

2185
01:41:59,160 --> 01:42:01,760
Speaker 2: what makes the word go round. We need people who

2186
01:42:01,840 --> 01:42:04,240
Speaker 2: come pick up the trash and who clean and who

2187
01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:06,559
Speaker 2: do this, and who work at the courthouse, who work

2188
01:42:06,600 --> 01:42:07,160
Speaker 2: at the school.

2189
01:42:07,400 --> 01:42:09,960
Speaker 1: Like we need you to have that passion, But for us,

2190
01:42:10,160 --> 01:42:11,000
Speaker 1: our passion.

2191
01:42:10,800 --> 01:42:14,200
Speaker 2: Is a little different. Right, you need to be entertained.

2192
01:42:14,400 --> 01:42:16,920
Speaker 1: But I think the problem is everybody got a passion

2193
01:42:17,040 --> 01:42:21,400
Speaker 1: to do this. No, that's not true. They're they're not

2194
01:42:21,640 --> 01:42:22,400
Speaker 1: passionate about it.

2195
01:42:22,840 --> 01:42:23,920
Speaker 2: They see people who.

2196
01:42:23,800 --> 01:42:25,800
Speaker 1: Are passionate about it, They're like, oh, they gotta be easy.

2197
01:42:26,560 --> 01:42:26,880
Speaker 2: Let me do.

2198
01:42:27,120 --> 01:42:29,240
Speaker 1: Everybody wants to do the same thing. Nobody want to

2199
01:42:29,240 --> 01:42:29,599
Speaker 1: be a point.

2200
01:42:29,680 --> 01:42:31,760
Speaker 2: I just talked, like I said, if you are an

2201
01:42:31,840 --> 01:42:35,839
Speaker 2: up and coming female, if you're not doing hair, nails, lashes,

2202
01:42:36,080 --> 01:42:38,240
Speaker 2: some bitches feel like they're not doing nothing.

2203
01:42:38,800 --> 01:42:39,559
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying.

2204
01:42:39,640 --> 01:42:41,400
Speaker 2: Or if I don't have a podcast, I don't have

2205
01:42:41,520 --> 01:42:44,760
Speaker 2: a YouTube, I'm not doing tutorials. Some girls feel like

2206
01:42:44,760 --> 01:42:46,960
Speaker 2: they don't have anything. But you have a strong nine

2207
01:42:47,000 --> 01:42:49,720
Speaker 2: to five job, you have a degree, you have this,

2208
01:42:49,960 --> 01:42:50,880
Speaker 2: you have that ship.

2209
01:42:50,960 --> 01:42:53,120
Speaker 1: We ain't want it right degrees?

2210
01:42:53,520 --> 01:42:53,720
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2211
01:42:53,760 --> 01:42:59,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, what the dropped out? I thought we both said

2212
01:43:00,640 --> 01:43:01,160
Speaker 1: what happened?

2213
01:43:01,200 --> 01:43:03,560
Speaker 2: What happened? Well, girl never used it. But I have

2214
01:43:03,640 --> 01:43:09,920
Speaker 2: an agree in mass communication steping up Austin State universities. Yeah,

2215
01:43:10,200 --> 01:43:12,360
Speaker 2: I graduated from Texas Southern University and Houston.

2216
01:43:12,439 --> 01:43:14,360
Speaker 1: I went to Clark and dropped.

2217
01:43:14,760 --> 01:43:17,679
Speaker 2: But I will say, but that's so like I said,

2218
01:43:17,920 --> 01:43:20,320
Speaker 2: going back to this question, everything is about trial and

2219
01:43:20,520 --> 01:43:20,920
Speaker 2: error too.

2220
01:43:21,280 --> 01:43:23,240
Speaker 1: I didn't know what I exactly want to do. I

2221
01:43:23,400 --> 01:43:24,760
Speaker 1: was just trying ship and doing shit.

2222
01:43:24,800 --> 01:43:26,679
Speaker 2: I tell you all the time, I thought I wanted

2223
01:43:26,680 --> 01:43:31,040
Speaker 2: to be a rap up swingle I got rapping.

2224
01:43:31,160 --> 01:43:33,320
Speaker 1: Don't tell me you used to be rapping. Oh I'm

2225
01:43:33,360 --> 01:43:40,120
Speaker 1: gonna start rapping for that. No, no, I would listen to.

2226
01:43:42,400 --> 01:43:47,479
Speaker 2: It. Why not? Gonna make me feel good? Might as

2227
01:43:47,520 --> 01:43:49,400
Speaker 2: well put a little rhyme to it. But do y'all

2228
01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:51,840
Speaker 2: feel like I know a lot of people coming up?

2229
01:43:51,920 --> 01:43:53,240
Speaker 2: As he said, like, how did you know when you

2230
01:43:53,280 --> 01:43:56,360
Speaker 2: reach your people to do? Would y'all cut people off

2231
01:43:56,920 --> 01:44:01,120
Speaker 2: for not seeing your vision? Yeah? That's what happened to me.

2232
01:44:01,200 --> 01:44:02,920
Speaker 2: I remember before I moved to Atlanta. I know, I

2233
01:44:02,960 --> 01:44:04,800
Speaker 2: got a story for everything. But my ex was like

2234
01:44:04,960 --> 01:44:06,640
Speaker 2: we were on a cruise and I told him, like,

2235
01:44:06,960 --> 01:44:09,080
Speaker 2: I was like, man, I love Oprah Winfrey. I want

2236
01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:11,559
Speaker 2: to like interview people like I want to be in media.

2237
01:44:11,960 --> 01:44:14,000
Speaker 2: He was like, it ain't no money in that. And

2238
01:44:14,120 --> 01:44:17,840
Speaker 2: I remember, literally it was probably like two years ago.

2239
01:44:18,040 --> 01:44:20,080
Speaker 2: How long have we been in this studio? This new one?

2240
01:44:20,760 --> 01:44:21,760
Speaker 2: A year and a half It was, so it was

2241
01:44:21,800 --> 01:44:22,960
Speaker 2: like a year and a half ago when we moved

2242
01:44:22,960 --> 01:44:25,680
Speaker 2: to the new studio and like thin we had we

2243
01:44:25,760 --> 01:44:26,439
Speaker 2: were doing shit.

2244
01:44:26,800 --> 01:44:28,040
Speaker 1: He was like, man, I remember that.

2245
01:44:28,120 --> 01:44:31,280
Speaker 2: He remembered the conversation because I started crying, and I

2246
01:44:31,439 --> 01:44:32,920
Speaker 2: was like, do I want to stay here with him?

2247
01:44:32,920 --> 01:44:35,080
Speaker 2: Because he wanted me to like be a teacher and

2248
01:44:35,520 --> 01:44:37,720
Speaker 2: live with him and like live this other life. And

2249
01:44:37,840 --> 01:44:40,880
Speaker 2: he never met Drea, but he could not stand drag

2250
01:44:40,920 --> 01:44:42,680
Speaker 2: because he was like, you met this girl now all

2251
01:44:42,720 --> 01:44:45,240
Speaker 2: of a sudden. But I'm like, if you really knew me,

2252
01:44:45,280 --> 01:44:47,120
Speaker 2: you would have know I been wanting to do this shit.

2253
01:44:47,720 --> 01:44:50,160
Speaker 2: So for me, it was like in that moment.

2254
01:44:50,040 --> 01:44:51,960
Speaker 1: Talking about people don't know you and they don't like you,

2255
01:44:52,360 --> 01:44:55,000
Speaker 1: he ain't need no reason to like you. No, he

2256
01:44:55,240 --> 01:44:58,640
Speaker 1: had a reason because he saw your future with her.

2257
01:44:58,920 --> 01:45:01,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yea, Like you kind of gott to look for

2258
01:45:01,360 --> 01:45:04,240
Speaker 2: that when people start hating on folks for no fucking

2259
01:45:04,360 --> 01:45:06,800
Speaker 2: reason like that. See, that's the difference. You got to

2260
01:45:06,880 --> 01:45:09,320
Speaker 2: know how to decipher when somebody is truly just a

2261
01:45:09,400 --> 01:45:11,800
Speaker 2: hater or when somebody's trying to stop you from being

2262
01:45:11,920 --> 01:45:14,479
Speaker 2: better than them. Right. And I think for me it

2263
01:45:14,600 --> 01:45:16,840
Speaker 2: was like, like I said, he didn't he doesn't know

2264
01:45:17,040 --> 01:45:19,120
Speaker 2: this side of life. I like to travel, I like

2265
01:45:19,200 --> 01:45:20,840
Speaker 2: to make money, I want to see the world. It's

2266
01:45:20,920 --> 01:45:23,920
Speaker 2: like I'm not a small town girl. So for me,

2267
01:45:24,160 --> 01:45:27,639
Speaker 2: I think are scared I used to think like, well,

2268
01:45:27,720 --> 01:45:29,920
Speaker 2: maybe since you haven't seen it, let me show you it.

2269
01:45:30,640 --> 01:45:33,400
Speaker 2: But then I had to realize they don't want to see. Yeah,

2270
01:45:33,520 --> 01:45:35,559
Speaker 2: I will cut people off. If you don't see my vision,

2271
01:45:35,640 --> 01:45:38,800
Speaker 2: then you don't see me, correct, because that's who I am.

2272
01:45:39,080 --> 01:45:41,479
Speaker 2: Like four Minds is like it's only a small part

2273
01:45:41,600 --> 01:45:43,040
Speaker 2: of who I am, but it's a part of me,

2274
01:45:43,439 --> 01:45:44,519
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So it's like, if you

2275
01:45:44,560 --> 01:45:46,280
Speaker 2: don't see my vision for where I want to go,

2276
01:45:46,479 --> 01:45:48,120
Speaker 2: then we don't really have nothing to talk.

2277
01:45:48,040 --> 01:45:50,000
Speaker 1: About when you start doing these I know you see

2278
01:45:51,200 --> 01:45:51,599
Speaker 1: that as.

2279
01:45:54,560 --> 01:45:54,840
Speaker 2: I know.

2280
01:45:56,479 --> 01:45:59,680
Speaker 1: Show because but I agree.

2281
01:45:59,479 --> 01:46:02,160
Speaker 2: Though I definitely will cut somebody off and not believing

2282
01:46:02,160 --> 01:46:04,000
Speaker 2: in my vision. I'm actually kind of going through something

2283
01:46:04,600 --> 01:46:06,920
Speaker 2: like that right now with like one of my friends

2284
01:46:06,960 --> 01:46:08,880
Speaker 2: that I've been friends with for like tenplus of years.

2285
01:46:08,920 --> 01:46:11,439
Speaker 2: It's kind of like I don't know, and I'm hoping

2286
01:46:11,520 --> 01:46:15,280
Speaker 2: that we can like rekindle our friendship and be cool again.

2287
01:46:15,360 --> 01:46:18,479
Speaker 2: But like, sometimes you just get to a certain point

2288
01:46:18,479 --> 01:46:21,160
Speaker 2: and people don't really talk about that, Like you and

2289
01:46:21,280 --> 01:46:23,559
Speaker 2: people just don't align anymore, and you want to keep

2290
01:46:23,600 --> 01:46:25,439
Speaker 2: them in your life, but it's best for you to

2291
01:46:25,640 --> 01:46:27,760
Speaker 2: just give it to God, because if it's supposed to

2292
01:46:27,800 --> 01:46:29,840
Speaker 2: work out, it'll work. I just don't.

2293
01:46:29,920 --> 01:46:33,439
Speaker 1: I don't believe in forcing g I love situations like

2294
01:46:33,520 --> 01:46:35,400
Speaker 1: that though, because I feel like if I'm ever.

2295
01:46:35,320 --> 01:46:38,679
Speaker 2: Put in a position to where you're challenging where God

2296
01:46:38,800 --> 01:46:41,920
Speaker 2: wants to take me. I know Guy's listening. I know,

2297
01:46:42,160 --> 01:46:46,240
Speaker 2: I know he's in somewhere like he's testing me. Like, Okay,

2298
01:46:46,280 --> 01:46:49,960
Speaker 2: a blessing's about to come. I agree, literally, so blessing's

2299
01:46:50,000 --> 01:46:56,360
Speaker 2: about to com. You just gotta like stick to your guns. Yeah, okay.

2300
01:46:56,479 --> 01:46:58,680
Speaker 2: Question number two, it's like we really do we really

2301
01:46:58,760 --> 01:47:02,960
Speaker 2: answer Brian? We did answer Brian question. He did say, Brian,

2302
01:47:03,040 --> 01:47:05,519
Speaker 2: you need to get serious bout Yeah, don't go in

2303
01:47:05,600 --> 01:47:11,160
Speaker 2: that club cutting up. Question number two, Hey, y'all, I've

2304
01:47:11,160 --> 01:47:13,280
Speaker 2: been watching the show for a while now to understand

2305
01:47:13,360 --> 01:47:16,920
Speaker 2: that Drea is bisexual and feminine. I struggle with flirting

2306
01:47:17,000 --> 01:47:19,040
Speaker 2: with other girls since most of them see me as

2307
01:47:19,520 --> 01:47:23,120
Speaker 2: hyperfeminine and as friend material. How do you flirt with

2308
01:47:23,200 --> 01:47:23,839
Speaker 2: other girls?

2309
01:47:24,840 --> 01:47:27,280
Speaker 1: I just be flirting. I just feel like I'm naturally

2310
01:47:27,880 --> 01:47:30,920
Speaker 1: like I exude like flirting.

2311
01:47:31,320 --> 01:47:35,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like I as girls. I thought we were

2312
01:47:35,560 --> 01:47:38,519
Speaker 2: flirty though, like you know, naturally y'all don't think I

2313
01:47:38,640 --> 01:47:42,560
Speaker 2: think so too. I think women are just naturally flirtatious.

2314
01:47:43,360 --> 01:47:45,479
Speaker 2: But I also would just say I don't know, girl,

2315
01:47:45,640 --> 01:47:47,400
Speaker 2: like if you feel like you need to do something

2316
01:47:47,520 --> 01:47:53,080
Speaker 2: like just laugh at a bitch of jokes to life, No,

2317
01:47:53,200 --> 01:47:53,960
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even say.

2318
01:47:57,439 --> 01:47:58,040
Speaker 1: I feel that's.

2319
01:48:00,240 --> 01:48:02,479
Speaker 2: To be so like when you're having a conversation with

2320
01:48:02,600 --> 01:48:05,400
Speaker 2: somebody and y'all are into it, it just happens. It's

2321
01:48:05,479 --> 01:48:07,920
Speaker 2: a natural flow, whether it's a man or a woman

2322
01:48:08,120 --> 01:48:11,680
Speaker 2: or whatever the case may be. So it's like and

2323
01:48:11,760 --> 01:48:14,760
Speaker 2: you gonta know you're gonna like it's like for me,

2324
01:48:14,920 --> 01:48:16,960
Speaker 2: like I said on the show, it's so funny because

2325
01:48:16,960 --> 01:48:18,800
Speaker 2: me and my boyfriend talking about this all the time

2326
01:48:18,840 --> 01:48:21,240
Speaker 2: because I'm like on the show, I'm very much Big

2327
01:48:21,320 --> 01:48:23,560
Speaker 2: Mama XP. But he was like, you were, so he

2328
01:48:23,640 --> 01:48:25,360
Speaker 2: thinks it's funny seeing me on the show because he

2329
01:48:25,400 --> 01:48:27,240
Speaker 2: was like, you're not like that. But I'm like, I

2330
01:48:27,280 --> 01:48:28,960
Speaker 2: don't need to be like that, especially like if men

2331
01:48:29,000 --> 01:48:31,400
Speaker 2: are on the couch, I'm not gonna be talking to

2332
01:48:31,439 --> 01:48:34,000
Speaker 2: these niggas like I talk to you. I'm not farking

2333
01:48:34,040 --> 01:48:36,519
Speaker 2: with you. I'm here to make people laugh. Hey, bro,

2334
01:48:37,000 --> 01:48:39,439
Speaker 2: once you that's knowing your audience. Because let's say that

2335
01:48:39,600 --> 01:48:42,280
Speaker 2: man was sitting here and y'all had that same energy,

2336
01:48:42,360 --> 01:48:43,479
Speaker 2: it would be like, oh they did.

2337
01:48:43,439 --> 01:48:46,280
Speaker 1: Ryan, Yeah, oh they just want to fuck him. But

2338
01:48:46,439 --> 01:48:48,519
Speaker 1: that might not be the case exactly.

2339
01:48:48,560 --> 01:48:50,360
Speaker 2: But you just have to know your audience. So like

2340
01:48:50,520 --> 01:48:52,920
Speaker 2: if she's trying to figure out how does she flirt.

2341
01:48:52,800 --> 01:48:56,439
Speaker 1: This and that, you have to know your audience, right, know,

2342
01:48:56,520 --> 01:48:59,280
Speaker 1: when somebody want to be flirted weed? Yeah that.

2343
01:49:01,120 --> 01:49:03,640
Speaker 2: Every girl just because you think she's huge, she might

2344
01:49:03,720 --> 01:49:05,639
Speaker 2: not be in it dead. You gotta know who you're

2345
01:49:05,640 --> 01:49:07,400
Speaker 2: trying to fly. And I also think too, that's like

2346
01:49:07,520 --> 01:49:10,599
Speaker 2: tapping it into your sexual feminine energy too, Like when

2347
01:49:10,640 --> 01:49:13,880
Speaker 2: I feel sexy and I feel like, damn, I look

2348
01:49:13,920 --> 01:49:17,640
Speaker 2: good as fuck today, like everybody won't mean like I

2349
01:49:17,760 --> 01:49:20,519
Speaker 2: be don't right, I'll stand up and get my hair

2350
01:49:20,600 --> 01:49:22,360
Speaker 2: done with a cute ass fit and some makeup like

2351
01:49:22,520 --> 01:49:23,439
Speaker 2: damn bitch, Like.

2352
01:49:25,080 --> 01:49:25,879
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

2353
01:49:26,000 --> 01:49:28,000
Speaker 2: So I think like flirting will just come from within.

2354
01:49:28,080 --> 01:49:30,760
Speaker 2: Whenever you're confident. You have to have confidence.

2355
01:49:31,080 --> 01:49:34,240
Speaker 1: That's a life great fucking amp.

2356
01:49:34,640 --> 01:49:38,200
Speaker 2: Yes, when you have confidence, people can tell if you

2357
01:49:38,320 --> 01:49:40,840
Speaker 2: have confidence or not. That's why a lot of y'all

2358
01:49:40,880 --> 01:49:42,760
Speaker 2: be like, oh, she don't look good, while she got

2359
01:49:42,840 --> 01:49:45,320
Speaker 2: five hundred k followers because she's confident and people are

2360
01:49:45,360 --> 01:49:48,679
Speaker 2: attracted to that. I don't care what y'all say about

2361
01:49:48,720 --> 01:49:54,240
Speaker 2: this rapper, this actress, this doctor, this whoever, she's that girl,

2362
01:49:54,360 --> 01:49:58,280
Speaker 2: because she really feels like she's that girl. Blank blank.

2363
01:49:59,640 --> 01:50:03,200
Speaker 2: She got tattoos and she knows that she upposed a

2364
01:50:03,240 --> 01:50:04,080
Speaker 2: picchi and be like, I'm.

2365
01:50:03,960 --> 01:50:06,560
Speaker 1: So fine, my ass, so fat, I look so fucking.

2366
01:50:06,360 --> 01:50:08,600
Speaker 2: Good and you can't tell her different. People love this

2367
01:50:09,120 --> 01:50:11,560
Speaker 2: and I say this all the time. I love the

2368
01:50:11,600 --> 01:50:14,640
Speaker 2: way sexy red look I think. I think that is

2369
01:50:14,880 --> 01:50:17,960
Speaker 2: it's absolute beauty. She ain't got no BBL and this

2370
01:50:18,080 --> 01:50:21,040
Speaker 2: is coming from a BBL girl. She did not conform

2371
01:50:21,160 --> 01:50:24,919
Speaker 2: to what y'all think. Is what you the soft, beautiful

2372
01:50:24,960 --> 01:50:25,640
Speaker 2: woman looks like.

2373
01:50:25,840 --> 01:50:27,360
Speaker 1: She ain't even conformed what y'all think.

2374
01:50:27,400 --> 01:50:31,839
Speaker 2: A rapper looks exactly exactly, went for her own little exactly,

2375
01:50:31,960 --> 01:50:35,160
Speaker 2: and it's beautiful. It's fucking beautiful. I would like to

2376
01:50:35,200 --> 01:50:37,360
Speaker 2: see I like to see it because she's beautiful to me.

2377
01:50:37,640 --> 01:50:39,559
Speaker 2: I'll say this all the time. People be like, oh,

2378
01:50:39,640 --> 01:50:43,599
Speaker 2: her face tattoos, she's fucking pretty. Y'all are letting all

2379
01:50:43,680 --> 01:50:46,360
Speaker 2: this distract you because she got these tattoos, that's your opinion.

2380
01:50:46,479 --> 01:50:48,400
Speaker 2: I said that, remember the dressing room, my ads, I

2381
01:50:48,479 --> 01:50:50,719
Speaker 2: was like, I told y'all, sexy red is very pretty

2382
01:50:50,760 --> 01:50:53,679
Speaker 2: to me. Maybe it's her confidence, maybe not, but confidence

2383
01:50:53,800 --> 01:50:56,240
Speaker 2: is gonna take you way further. So when you're confident,

2384
01:50:56,560 --> 01:50:59,080
Speaker 2: that flirting is gonna come out you. Yeah, just be yourself.

2385
01:50:59,200 --> 01:51:01,479
Speaker 2: Just be yourself, because you know what I'm saying, Like

2386
01:51:01,640 --> 01:51:06,320
Speaker 2: when I'm oh my god, everybody, when I'm around certain men,

2387
01:51:06,400 --> 01:51:09,479
Speaker 2: it's just like you wouldn't You'd be like I'd be like,

2388
01:51:10,040 --> 01:51:16,160
Speaker 2: Daddy brought this out of me? Can nothing? That's all right? Girl?

2389
01:51:16,200 --> 01:51:20,840
Speaker 1: Okay, so let the girl water? Yeah, help up.

2390
01:51:25,680 --> 01:51:27,400
Speaker 2: You know what, we had a good we had a

2391
01:51:27,439 --> 01:51:30,840
Speaker 2: good girl talk today. I love when we have girl talking.

2392
01:51:31,160 --> 01:51:34,519
Speaker 2: I knew he was gonna have yeah aad. So let

2393
01:51:34,560 --> 01:51:36,360
Speaker 2: them know where they can find you at, what you

2394
01:51:36,439 --> 01:51:38,160
Speaker 2: got coming up, what you got going on? All that

2395
01:51:38,240 --> 01:51:41,640
Speaker 2: good stuff. Okay, Boom. You can follow me on TikTok

2396
01:51:41,920 --> 01:51:44,720
Speaker 2: at the queenly Ora. I don't know for how long

2397
01:51:44,760 --> 01:51:48,080
Speaker 2: because I heard their batting that's earlier. That's a little

2398
01:51:48,080 --> 01:51:53,360
Speaker 2: crazy Instagram at Leora's queendom and Facebook at Leora Bird.

2399
01:51:53,720 --> 01:51:57,320
Speaker 1: Instagram, no YouTube, queen.

2400
01:51:58,680 --> 01:52:01,200
Speaker 2: So let me ask you this though, for people, because

2401
01:52:01,200 --> 01:52:03,240
Speaker 2: I know you have a big platform on other platforms,

2402
01:52:03,320 --> 01:52:05,759
Speaker 2: So are you kind of worried about that, like TikTok

2403
01:52:05,760 --> 01:52:07,160
Speaker 2: shutting out and you kind of feel like you don't

2404
01:52:07,200 --> 01:52:09,960
Speaker 2: care at first, Like when you hear it, you be like, oh,

2405
01:52:10,040 --> 01:52:12,280
Speaker 2: TikTok shutting down, But then when you think about it,

2406
01:52:12,360 --> 01:52:17,840
Speaker 2: you're like Instagram, YouTube, You get what I'm saying, They're

2407
01:52:17,880 --> 01:52:20,240
Speaker 2: going to run to all of those platforms and at

2408
01:52:20,240 --> 01:52:22,360
Speaker 2: the end of the day, no matter what happens.

2409
01:52:22,120 --> 01:52:23,439
Speaker 1: I know what God promised me.

2410
01:52:23,680 --> 01:52:26,240
Speaker 2: Yes, It's like I feel like a lot of creators

2411
01:52:26,280 --> 01:52:28,960
Speaker 2: need to get in their mindset no matter what happens.

2412
01:52:29,120 --> 01:52:31,880
Speaker 1: If you know that you are that you want to

2413
01:52:31,920 --> 01:52:34,719
Speaker 1: be that God already wrote down what's gonna happen backy Amen,

2414
01:52:35,120 --> 01:52:38,360
Speaker 1: I said, That's that's why people be like what y'all

2415
01:52:38,360 --> 01:52:40,920
Speaker 1: would do if YouTube shut down? Somebody's gonna be like,

2416
01:52:41,240 --> 01:52:42,679
Speaker 1: hey man, something else.

2417
01:52:43,680 --> 01:52:46,960
Speaker 2: Because when covid happened and everybody thought TikTok was just

2418
01:52:47,080 --> 01:52:49,960
Speaker 2: for dancing, somebody said, fuck it, I'm gonna go on

2419
01:52:50,040 --> 01:52:53,120
Speaker 2: there and I'm gonna do what I was dancing on TikTok.

2420
01:52:53,640 --> 01:52:56,559
Speaker 2: I'm talking about dancing. Wasn't worried about no hair reviews,

2421
01:52:56,680 --> 01:52:59,439
Speaker 2: no podcasts, no nothing. I was, Yes, we did that.

2422
01:52:59,560 --> 01:53:00,720
Speaker 2: Remember that challenge we did.

2423
01:53:03,880 --> 01:53:06,000
Speaker 1: It was another one they used to do. I had

2424
01:53:06,080 --> 01:53:07,719
Speaker 1: learned it home. We remember.

2425
01:53:07,800 --> 01:53:15,479
Speaker 2: I'm estabvish. Yeah it was the way.

2426
01:53:16,280 --> 01:53:20,520
Speaker 1: No, No, never did the silhouette would have been embarrassing.

2427
01:53:20,680 --> 01:53:21,439
Speaker 2: I never did it.

2428
01:53:22,600 --> 01:53:27,720
Speaker 1: You did this away. I was thinking about trying to

2429
01:53:27,760 --> 01:53:29,680
Speaker 1: set that camera up like you.

2430
01:53:31,600 --> 01:53:31,880
Speaker 2: Like you.

2431
01:53:32,600 --> 01:53:37,280
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all, we gotta wrap this up much for jordan Us.

2432
01:53:37,439 --> 01:53:41,240
Speaker 1: So this was like we was on three way.

2433
01:53:44,000 --> 01:53:46,400
Speaker 2: So y'all make sure y'all follow her on all platforms

2434
01:53:46,479 --> 01:53:55,040
Speaker 2: and we'll see y'all next week. You you it's yeah,

2435
01:53:56,840 --> 01:54:01,280
Speaker 2: we like fast co Yeah, hey cast s, I ts

2436
01:54:01,360 --> 01:54:04,720
Speaker 2: niggas hold up on leaving car fast Duda dash and

2437
01:54:04,800 --> 01:54:08,160
Speaker 2: make my coachie league real bad bitches eating pretty thousand

2438
01:54:08,240 --> 01:54:09,280
Speaker 2: for a week. Thinking.

2439
01:54:09,280 --> 01:54:11,920
Speaker 1: Another exieted, y'all a little cute when I'm smoking weed.

2440
01:54:12,920 --> 01:54:14,760
Speaker 2: He said he gonna eat it. Put that ship in

2441
01:54:14,920 --> 01:54:17,479
Speaker 2: part being it over. I'm from saying Louis say he

2442
01:54:17,600 --> 01:54:19,640
Speaker 2: like am I all right? Say that nigga cash, I

2443
01:54:19,760 --> 01:54:22,439
Speaker 2: we whim if he wants ye playing with my bag?

2444
01:54:22,640 --> 01:54:26,680
Speaker 1: Why he dried you drunk? You sworrying now said so

2445
01:54:26,880 --> 01:54:29,280
Speaker 1: he nervous? Good, No, ain't part I don't think that's

2446
01:54:30,160 --> 01:54:31,240
Speaker 1: I don't think that's part.

2447
01:54:32,680 --> 01:54:34,200
Speaker 2: An. I'm riding horse.

2448
01:54:35,360 --> 01:54:37,880
Speaker 1: And my car a light show the top. I don't

2449
01:54:37,920 --> 01:54:39,960
Speaker 1: know rby hopping win on Wi.

2450
01:54:40,160 --> 01:54:43,040
Speaker 2: Yo ho sexy red bitch, you know I do it big.

2451
01:54:44,320 --> 01:54:46,520
Speaker 2: I'm to pack you host be smoking SIGs, being that

2452
01:54:46,640 --> 01:54:47,440
Speaker 2: bitch and sous of.

2453
01:54:47,480 --> 01:54:51,600
Speaker 1: First bred hell cast s. I tease, nigga, come pull

2454
01:54:51,680 --> 01:54:54,080
Speaker 1: up out me drive the car fast, go to dash

2455
01:54:54,160 --> 01:55:00,360
Speaker 1: and make my coachi league sigging that anxiety gotta look cute.

2456
01:55:00,400 --> 01:55:02,720
Speaker 1: When I was fucking wing, he called, say.

2457
01:55:02,640 --> 01:55:03,440
Speaker 2: He won't to eat it.

2458
01:55:03,640 --> 01:55:05,560
Speaker 1: Put that ship in part out, But.

2459
01:55:05,640 --> 01:55:06,680
Speaker 2: I'm from Saint Louis.

2460
01:55:06,760 --> 01:55:09,960
Speaker 1: Say he like my heart, catch up fore wheel, but

2461
01:55:10,080 --> 01:55:15,360
Speaker 1: they were my heart. When Michael White mark you swoarving,

2462
01:55:15,480 --> 01:55:21,320
Speaker 1: I said this thought he married. Oh ship, isn't it

2463
01:55:21,400 --> 01:55:21,920
Speaker 1: good enough?

2464
01:55:22,200 --> 01:55:25,840
Speaker 2: He said? But man shut up the sexy rad sas

2465
01:55:26,120 --> 01:55:31,560
Speaker 2: red queen leave rod six get his saxy, get it

2466
01:55:31,760 --> 01:55:32,200
Speaker 2: saxy