1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning, Breakfast Club Morning, 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: everybody in stej Envy, Jess, Hilarious, Charlamage, the guy we 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 2: Jess is on maternity leave, so Lauren's filling in and 5 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: we got a special guest in the building. Her album 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 2: Revenge is out right now. Ladies and gentlemen, money no 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 2: welcome back. 8 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 3: How you feeling, man, I'm tired. I'm trying to keep. 9 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: Up fashion weeks like those honest answers. 10 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 3: No, it's a lot, you know, trying to keep up 11 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 3: trying to entertain. Everybody is sleep. So I could sing 12 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 3: do promo be a mom? 13 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, be a mom? Wow? 14 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 3: Hello up. 15 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 2: Then this week you had fashion week because you've been 16 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 2: out and about. 17 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. I did two shows the first day and then 18 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 3: I've just been doing another album promo. That's what I'm 19 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 3: really here for. 20 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 4: Gotcha. 21 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 5: What's your regimen? 22 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:50,480 Speaker 2: Like? 23 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 5: Like when do you sleep or you eat? Do you 24 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 5: eat different when you want runs like. 25 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 3: This or yeah? Like I guess so hyper focused sometimes 26 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 3: I forget to eat. 27 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 5: Oh that's not good. 28 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 3: Yes, to have people remind me, like Greeny, my routine 29 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 3: is all over the place. And one thing I do 30 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 3: make sure I do is wash my face every night, 31 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 3: just kind of. 32 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 5: Like the makeup and practice de compressed. 33 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 3: Sometimes I have to I don't know if this is 34 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 3: a word, but like destimulate, Like if I'm over stimulated 35 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 3: throughout the day I come home, I just don't want 36 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 3: to talk. 37 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 6: Nobody talks about that enough over stimulation, because we're sitting 38 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 6: around with these phones all day. In between text messages 39 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 6: and phone calls and social media, you're constantly, constantly, constantly stimulated. 40 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 3: It's it's more like in the physical worlds, like sometimes 41 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 3: you go in these spaces, they're dusty a lot of 42 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 3: these buildings. But yo, I don't understand how y'all. 43 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 5: No, I'm good. 44 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: I'm good. I can bring clearly in here. Okay, I 45 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 3: don't see how y'all don't have dusty y' know, like 46 00:01:58,200 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 3: me and my friends, we've been in the same place. 47 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: They don't have these problems. But I blow my nose up. 48 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 3: You haven't like partic hello dust Yeah, crazy, But it'd 49 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 3: be cold sometimes i'd be hunger. I feel like a 50 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 3: Sims character, you know, if y'all play Sims like they 51 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 3: be cold, tired, hungry, need to take a bath, and 52 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 3: then I gotta talk to people and like smile and 53 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 3: I always take a photo of somebody asks me. So 54 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 3: sometimes I just be like. 55 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 4: I'm tired men. What about them in general? Like you 56 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 4: run across any of. 57 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 3: Those, they'd be scared to talk to me. 58 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 4: They should be if the duty. 59 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I make guys nervously. 60 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 5: Someone's told you that, No, I. 61 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 3: Can see it. I see the lips quivering when they 62 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: talk to me. 63 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 2: Guy's been trying to hogh. 64 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 3: Let you No, I just be in my presence, like 65 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 3: they don't go outside. So like when they see me 66 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 3: in person, they'd be like, oh shit, she's actually really pretty. 67 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 68 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 7: How do you feel when people say that to you, 69 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 7: like when they see your person, like, oh my god, 70 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 7: she's so she's really pretty in person. 71 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 3: Because I don't use filters and a lot of stuff 72 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 3: like that. So but I think like I have a 73 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 3: really great makeup artist and glam team. 74 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 5: Give God credit money, loan glow by God, God credit. 75 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 3: Now, shout out to Jesus, but not like I actually 76 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 3: look like my pictures when I show up. So I 77 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: think that's surprising for a lot of people. I used 78 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 3: to get offended. I'm not gonna lie, It's be like 79 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: what you mean, like you're so pretty impersonal? Was I ugly? 80 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 4: You know? 81 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 3: But no, No, I understand what they're saying is actually 82 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 3: look like my picture? 83 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 7: I posted this on TikTok, Like, how does that make 84 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 7: you feel when people say that? Because I don't know 85 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 7: why I was the top of. 86 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 5: It might be some from there. 87 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 3: I also didn't I didn't have a self concept until 88 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 3: like maybe six or seven years ago. 89 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 5: What does that mean? 90 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: I didn't understand how people perceive me? But I didn't. 91 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 3: I didn't know that that was a thing. 92 00:03:58,720 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: How do you think they perceive you. 93 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 3: Like a regal like I don't need any help, Like 94 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 3: I have it all together and. 95 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 4: Because you got money. 96 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 3: It's always been like that, even in high school, you know, 97 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 3: people just kind of just look at me as like 98 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 3: this unicorn. 99 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 4: Probably because you had a level of confidence that they 100 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 4: didn't have. 101 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 3: It wasn't confidence, it was obliviousness. Like I literally just 102 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 3: used to be like did he look a bird? 103 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? So you basically. 104 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: They have a concept of like dark skin, light skin, 105 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 3: like none of that pretty ugly. Yeah. No, I'm lucky 106 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 3: in that regard, where like I never had any confidence issues. 107 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 3: Maybe like some weight fluctuation, like I wish I was skinny, 108 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 3: but then like last time I was here, I was 109 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 3: like super skinny, and I've been that and now I'm 110 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 3: just like and it's not comfortable, Like everything hurts, you 111 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like sitting in the GYRL when 112 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 3: you don't got no ask. 113 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 5: What you mean because we drag it over here, I 114 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 5: don't know. 115 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know I got a little wagon, yeah, because 116 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 3: it's it's a thing like you know, I know. 117 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 5: You don't got a wagon. I do got a wagon. 118 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 2: I've never looked at, well the revenge, who are getting revenge? 119 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 3: Your money long anybody whoever slept on me, whoever tried me, 120 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 3: whoever tried to stop forward motion. I think the best 121 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 3: revenge is seeing me everywhere. I know I make you itch. 122 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 2: For somebody in particular that you know, people try to 123 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 2: issue you. 124 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, a lot of people. You know, I've been 125 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 3: around for a long time, Like I helped a lot 126 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 3: of people get from you know, with your yeah, just 127 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 3: like showing up, helping come up with like I mean, 128 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 3: I don't just write songs like I come up with 129 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,480 Speaker 3: like the theme and the treatment, and you know a 130 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 3: lot of times those ideas get taken and you don't 131 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 3: get compensated for that. I think that just comes with 132 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 3: being a creative. Like I'm an all around creative, so 133 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 3: I can't help but share my point of view. And yeah, 134 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 3: like a lot of people did not think that I 135 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 3: would get to this level. And the reason why I 136 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 3: know that is because they'd be like, man, you really 137 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 3: did it, like you did not give up? Like why 138 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 3: you're saying it like that, Like you do you know 139 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:35,279 Speaker 3: something that I don't know? But also I know a 140 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 3: lot of the people like what they said because the 141 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 3: industry is small, and I just never I never like 142 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:45,799 Speaker 3: I know what you said. 143 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: I just feel that this is your way of doing that. 144 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 3: It's just I mean, I don't really care that much, 145 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 3: but like I'd rather see who you actually are rather 146 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 3: than like alert you that I'm onto you, because then 147 00:06:58,040 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 3: you could change. 148 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, why did this body of work make you use 149 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 4: that title? 150 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 6: Like, like what about these fourteen songs made you say 151 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 6: I'm gonna name this revenge? 152 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 3: So that was the last song that we did on 153 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 3: the album, One Day Surround Thomas from Rock City, who's 154 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 3: written like so many hits in the last I don't 155 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 3: know five years and then the Dream was there. He 156 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 3: just came. It just came to say hello, and I 157 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 3: looked around the room. I was like, we got tricky. 158 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 3: The dream me to around Thomas and Kukuro, who does 159 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 3: my vocal producer, and I was like, there's no way 160 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: I'm about to let you I walk up out of 161 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 3: here and not get a song like this is crazy. 162 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 3: So we was talking about relationships, and you know, Dream, 163 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 3: he liked to argue, so he was talking about just 164 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 3: like the male versus female dynamic and how women are 165 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 3: like bitter sometimes when they don't get their way blah 166 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 3: blah blah, and sorry if I'm messing that up, Dream, 167 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 3: I'm just paraphrasing. So I started talking about just like 168 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 3: I just don't want to spend spend my energy that 169 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 3: I could be putting into accomplishing my goals by engaging 170 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 3: in your whatever it is, like your drama, your A 171 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 3: lot of times people want you to do the emotional 172 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 3: labor for them, like, oh you made me feel like this, Okay, 173 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 3: I apologize, it won't happen again. But I'm also not 174 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 3: gonna sit here and lie to you and tell you 175 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 3: that I'm gonna change anything to make you feel better. 176 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 3: That's your work. You have to do that, and so 177 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 3: I don't want revenge. I'm just gonna continue growing and 178 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 3: developing as a human being, glowing up, and that is 179 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 3: the best revenge or the best get back. You know, 180 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 3: all the petty stuff. 181 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 5: I know you you talked on the Cruise Show a 182 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 5: bit about this, and you revealed there that you and 183 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 5: your uh, I guess it's a strange husband. 184 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 7: I don't know what the title would be. You guys 185 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 7: had separated and it was kind of similar. Like you 186 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 7: you said you just were of dealing with like drama 187 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 7: and people not being happy and things of that nature. 188 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 7: How much of that went into this album? And like 189 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 7: how much of it do we feel when we listen 190 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 7: to these songs? 191 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 3: I think like, as a this was the first time 192 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,719 Speaker 3: as an artist that I actually was writing things that 193 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 3: were straight from my brain like a diary. Before it 194 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 3: was like living vicariously or hearing her story from one 195 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 3: of my friends. And it actually it was very scary 196 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,839 Speaker 3: because I don't like people in my business and I 197 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 3: also understand that, like if you watch that whole interview, 198 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 3: I was very specifical with what I said. I didn't 199 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,719 Speaker 3: say any of the words that were in the headlines. 200 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 3: I did not say that. 201 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 7: I went back and listened earlier because I wanted to 202 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:53,079 Speaker 7: hear your exact words, and I felt like, and correct 203 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 7: me if I'm wrong, but I felt like you were. 204 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 7: You were just a bit exhausted by whatever that situation was. 205 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 3: I'm just exhausted said period of Like anybody or anything 206 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 3: that is trying to pull you into negativity or pull 207 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 3: your focus or bog you down, I just don't want 208 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 3: to do it. Like you could wake up every day 209 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 3: and choose to be happy. Fact, you know what I'm saying. 210 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 3: Every single day is a new day. 211 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 1: But you're left the door open too because you said 212 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: you know things can change, he can work on himself 213 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: and maybe things could change in the future. 214 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 2: You still feel that way, And have y'all worked on 215 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 2: it at all? 216 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 3: Who is y'all? Okay? 217 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 2: Has he worked on himself? Then I should say I. 218 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 3: Have no idea you you only the only way you 219 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 3: know is results. Like you know what I mean. Every 220 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 3: day you just choose a better action than the day before, 221 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 3: Like you make adjustments. 222 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 4: The best apologies, change behavior exactly. 223 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, So like the only way I will know that 224 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 3: you won't hurt me is if you don't any way, 225 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:01,200 Speaker 3: I know that you know you are you are gonna do. 226 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 3: What you say is if you do it. Yeah, you know, 227 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 3: actions versus words. And that's for anyone. Like I said, 228 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 3: with my own mama, my granny. The only person who 229 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 3: won't get that kind of attitude for me would be 230 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 3: my child. You know what I'm saying, because my responsibility 231 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 3: to help him grow into a wonderful human, to operate 232 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 3: at his highest level on this planet. Everybody else that's 233 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 3: on you and eventually even him one day, I'm after 234 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 3: loved right. 235 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 4: Do his thing and ain't gonna be too far. You 236 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 4: got about fourteen years. 237 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, now his birthdays. We have our birthdays on the 238 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 3: same day actually, so next. 239 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 6: Week, when they get about sixteen, that's when they start 240 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 6: to become their. 241 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 4: Own little persons. 242 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 3: He already is now. Yeah, he'd be like, no, okay, 243 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 3: whatever you say. 244 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 6: You know you in the You're in the album with 245 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 6: a song called Ruined Me. Do you feel like a 246 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 6: person can really ruin you? 247 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 3: It depends on like your interpretation of the record. I 248 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: think that when I say it, I'm saying that most guys, 249 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 3: and like I'm not an expert. I'm not saying all men, 250 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 3: but it's always a man. They want a dummy. They 251 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 3: want a dummy. They want someone who will not question them, 252 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 3: will not I think that's what they mean by submissive. 253 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 3: You want to be able to continue moving through life, undeveloped, 254 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 3: unmotivated on whatever. You don't want someone to challenge you 255 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 3: and push you, and so a lot of times guys 256 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 3: won't change. They'll just go find someone who will accept 257 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 3: their negative or poor choices. 258 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 6: I think we gotta put a thumb in front of 259 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 6: men and guys, some men, some guys. 260 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 3: Well, no, I said, it's not all men, but it's 261 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 3: always a man, you know. I just think that again 262 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 3: when I say you ruined me, I'm wise now. I 263 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 3: do not believe you when you say, oh, I love 264 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 3: you so much, but your actions are doing something else. 265 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 3: So you're ruined me for everybody else, because now I'm 266 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 3: watching you. Know what I'm saying. It's no more like 267 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:22,599 Speaker 3: blind falling in love loving your dirty draws like m M. 268 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 3: I love myself and you can support that, and I 269 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 3: will allow myself to be in your space and you 270 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 3: can experience me loving myself. 271 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 5: Like you got to meet me where I'm at, Yeah, it's. 272 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 3: My job to love me. Ain't my job to give 273 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 3: that to you? And by me loving me, it will 274 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 3: pour over onto you and you will feel loved. 275 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 4: That's a fact, you. 276 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying. That's what I mean. It's not 277 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 3: about to be. No, I'm dropping everything every time I'm cooking, 278 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 3: on cleaning. Mm hmm. 279 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 5: Does that make it? 280 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:57,439 Speaker 7: I mean, this is I was gonna say, Does that 281 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 7: make it tough for you when you think about trying 282 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 7: to move forward and possibly dating? 283 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 5: But this is all new? 284 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 7: Like are you even in that spaceship where you're even 285 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 7: exploring other men? 286 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 5: I'm tired everybody. 287 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 288 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 7: No, Well you said you've always said you didn't like 289 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 7: dating before your husband, So if. 290 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 3: I don't really like people right now, I will say 291 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 3: that I'm just really I'm understanding like the game, you 292 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. Like there's different games being played, 293 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 3: so like there's the relationship game, the marriage game, the 294 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 3: career game, the frequency game, like and I'm just focused 295 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 3: on like getting my foundation right and getting everything together 296 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 3: so that any game I decided to go play, I'm straight. 297 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I think that as women, 298 00:14:56,640 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 3: sometimes we get distracted by relationships and we start put 299 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 3: and everything into it. So I'm not saying no. 300 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 2: Money log is fed the Yeah, I feel it, but my. 301 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 3: Life is great even with the things that are challenging. 302 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 3: It's nothing to like be mad or like bitter. But 303 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 3: you just figured out it's just a puzzle to solve. 304 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 5: Uh. 305 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 3: And so anybody who's coming in making me feel unsure 306 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 3: about anything or disturbing my peace, you gotta go. You 307 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 3: gotta go down to a mosquito or fly like gods 308 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 3: just don't have time. 309 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 4: How do you know. 310 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 3: Finish anything anything? 311 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 6: No, I was just gonna say, you know, how do 312 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 6: you know that you're not becoming what you hate? 313 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 4: Meaning like I don't hate anything. 314 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 6: I'm saying, if you're upset about something or relationship or 315 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 6: heard about something that happened in the relationship, how do 316 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 6: you know you're not projecting that onto other people. 317 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 3: I think I've reached a level of self awareness where 318 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 3: I'm always asking questions and I'm still in a very 319 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 3: much in like a discovery exploration childlike like maybe there's 320 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 3: something here that I don't understand. What is this? What 321 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 3: you know? And I'm always inquiring for like even when 322 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 3: I get pissed, like it hapen last night. Somebody did 323 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 3: somebody like. But you know, it's like I'll be like, 324 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: are you okay? You need something? You're thirsty? Who you' 325 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 3: here with? Like I'll be trying to figure out because 326 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 3: you got to be out your mind. You're not talking 327 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 3: to me to push you off. But I was a 328 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 3: girl like walk pass and was like she wasn't looking 329 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 3: at anyone, and she just was like, oh, have a 330 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 3: good night. Meanwhile, I'm trying to get a table. We 331 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 3: went to the last lap okay on some restaurant. You know, 332 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 3: they got like three tables in there. I'm trying to eat. 333 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 3: I'm hungry, I'm cold, I'm tired. Uh she said. She 334 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 3: said it out in the no but when she kept 335 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:07,439 Speaker 3: walking past, she and you know I can feel energy, 336 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 3: she said, I guess not. But it was like directed 337 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 3: at me. 338 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 5: Now you ain't say nothing back to it. 339 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 3: But I'm on my phone. I'm trying to I'm like, 340 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 3: maybe I could get a burger, like y'all take it too. 341 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:20,880 Speaker 3: I'm hungry. And I turned around and I looked at 342 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 3: my friend and he started laughing. He was like, your friend, 343 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 3: don't do it. I was like, she can't be talking 344 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 3: to me. I know she's not talking to me. I 345 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 3: don't like that kind of stuff because to me, that 346 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 3: says that you think you could beat me up, You 347 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 3: think you could beat me up, you. 348 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 5: Bully me. I don't like that. 349 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 3: Did you No, she she was walking on us, so 350 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 3: she can't be talking to me. I know she not. 351 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:52,360 Speaker 3: And they just kept walking like I think they was like, yeah, 352 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:55,639 Speaker 3: don't do that because I'm very nice, I'm quiet, Like 353 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 3: you know, people have like a perception of me, I 354 00:17:58,240 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 3: will beat you up, Like, don't do that. 355 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 6: I said that about somebody last week, Like this person 356 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,360 Speaker 6: got to show me, what do you mean the way 357 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 6: this person talking? They got to show me. They got 358 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 6: to show the way you're talking. They got to show 359 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 6: me they can beat me up. 360 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 1: But if the lady said have a good night, and 361 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: she thought you heard and you said nothing, she probably 362 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 1: was like she probably felt offend. 363 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 3: She wasn't looking at That's that's like me being like, 364 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 3: good morning, who am I talking to? 365 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 4: Do you know how? 366 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 3: It wasn't that many people, so it was like it 367 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:32,639 Speaker 3: was a section you No, there was other people. She's 368 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 3: walking past and she said have a good night to 369 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 3: the air, like I mean honest to hear what you're saying. 370 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 6: But she's probably not from here, because that's that can 371 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 6: be a coaching shock when you're not from New York, 372 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 6: because you know, I'm from the South. So I greet 373 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 6: people and I say things like can't see you later, 374 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 6: and nobody will respond back. But that's just a New 375 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 6: York thing, like New York is just rude. 376 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 3: No, I would have said something if I thought she 377 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:54,640 Speaker 3: was talking to me. That's the other thing. I'm so nice, 378 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 3: Like I always take the photo, I always speak, I always, 379 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 3: you know, always, because I understand, yeah, exactly. 380 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 2: A fight because you say you can still fight. 381 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 3: Fight no more. I'm too rich for that now, you 382 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. But I never lost one actually 383 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 3: know my first fight I lost. 384 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 5: But I'll be. 385 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:25,880 Speaker 3: I do because I feel it's like you don't want 386 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 3: to fight. You don't want to fight someone who is afraid, 387 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, because you don't know what 388 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 3: they're gonna do. I'm always cared to get hit, so 389 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 3: I'm gonna make sure you can't hit me. Never lost, 390 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 3: But don't be not fighting anyone. Don't be taking that 391 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 3: as a challenge because you're gonna go to jail. I'm 392 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 3: gonna call those people. 393 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,919 Speaker 4: You have a you have a song called thirties. How 394 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 4: much have you learned from your thirties? 395 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 3: Still? Yeah, I I have learned over the last ten 396 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 3: years because I started my self reflection and like internal 397 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 3: journey at twenty six. Over the last ten I have 398 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 3: learned that everybody's on their own individual course and that 399 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 3: you cannot interfere with free will. So no matter how 400 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,479 Speaker 3: much I might want something for you, who am I 401 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 3: to take that from you, that lesson or that that 402 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:31,439 Speaker 3: opportunity to grow and learn Because you don't have to 403 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,879 Speaker 3: learn through you could choose to learn through joy. You 404 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 3: don't have to learn through drama and trauma. But most 405 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 3: of the time, people are not motivated to change anything 406 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 3: until stuff gets very uncomfortable. And so I've learned to 407 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 3: just like relax and be like, yeah, yeah, we got 408 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,200 Speaker 3: all ten fingers and toes were breathing, you know what 409 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 3: I'm saying, Gude, Yeah, gratitude, but also just like a 410 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,719 Speaker 3: deep understanding and like, uh, lack of like I'm not 411 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 3: afraid of anything anymore, you know, not afford to lose people. 412 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 3: I understand, like it's probably gonna hurt, yeah, but go 413 00:21:09,720 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 3: over it. 414 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 4: On thirties. 415 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 6: It sounds like you're singing about the fear of being alone. Yeah, 416 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 6: so that's a fear, right. 417 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 5: No, not for me. 418 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 3: It's like I don't want that, Okay, I don't want 419 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 3: to be alone, like with no companionship. That doesn't necessarily 420 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 3: mean relationship. That could just mean, like, you know, if 421 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 3: I feel like I look cute, sometimes I might want 422 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 3: to talk to somebody. You're like, tell me I'm pretty. 423 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:37,919 Speaker 3: Like what I'm saying? 424 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:38,400 Speaker 5: Yeap? 425 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 2: What makes so cold? 426 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 4: Because do you feel like you got married too young? 427 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 3: No? Okay, I got married at twenty five. 428 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 7: Some people would say that was young, that that was 429 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 7: pretty young, But no, I don't feel like that got you. 430 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 5: Do you think because you spent do you ever look back? 431 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 7: Because you spent from twenty five to now thirty five 432 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 7: married and you guys are figuring out whatever it's gonna 433 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 7: happen next, next or not, that you spent so much 434 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,160 Speaker 7: of your time being married that it's like figuring out 435 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,199 Speaker 7: this new world by yourself is like it's just like 436 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 7: a space. It's going to be so new that it's 437 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 7: like something that maybe you are not ready to jump 438 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,199 Speaker 7: into or you don't know how to jump into it, 439 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 7: like you don't know how to navigate it, because it's 440 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 7: like a new. 441 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 5: Like you've never been, like you've always. 442 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 4: Been in a marriage. 443 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, we really it's really hard to talk about because 444 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 7: I don't really know like what, like y'all are separated because. 445 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 5: Divorce didn't come out your mom. 446 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 3: You know one thing I'll say about this, and I 447 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 3: know a lot of people are gonna want to ask me. 448 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,439 Speaker 3: They're going to want to know, But I know that 449 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 3: my words are very powerful, and I have what I say. 450 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 3: I just want to be careful about what I say 451 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 3: because I don't want to draw things to me. 452 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 5: I love that for you. 453 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. When I say somebody's name, 454 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 3: they appear, so I don't want to. I mean, I 455 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 3: got you. 456 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 2: I was asking what turns you so cold? 457 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: Because it was like, now you're like, I don't care 458 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: if somebody's in my life, I'm gonna turn what what 459 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:00,439 Speaker 1: made you cold? 460 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:05,360 Speaker 3: I'm not cold? Just some focus on me, that's it. 461 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 3: I think have decentered men, of decentered relationships and what 462 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 3: the world teaches you your role is as a woman 463 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 3: I'm just here to have fun, to experience the best 464 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 3: that life has to offer, and I will share it 465 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,679 Speaker 3: with who I want to, not because I feel like 466 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 3: I need to be with no, you know what I'm saying? 467 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 3: Also too, like what guy can handle this? You know? 468 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 5: Was that a part of it? Because he was your husband? 469 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 7: You guys have done so much together industry wise in this, 470 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, it seems like it every time it 471 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 7: looks yeah, but also to how you used to talk 472 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 7: about him, like I know you talked about like y'all 473 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 7: working on the label together, and like he helped produce 474 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 7: some of your songs, correct, right, So it just it 475 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 7: seemed like sometimes. 476 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 3: As a wife, you just want to say things to 477 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 3: help encourage things to go in a certain direction. Firm 478 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 3: and uh, what's the word motivate? Mm hmm, gently, pride, 479 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 3: But that doesn't always mean that it's connecting. 480 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 5: Wow in between the lines here, So. 481 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 6: Have any of those these recent interviews prided him to 482 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,120 Speaker 6: go start maybe doing the work on himself that he. 483 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 4: Needs to do. See, I haven't spoken. 484 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 6: And why you think a man can't handle you the 485 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 6: same way you're talking about you know, you don't want 486 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:37,160 Speaker 6: to talk. 487 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 7: About all of the stuff that comes with being money 488 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 7: long as your guys. 489 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 6: There's guys you unless you don't want an industry guy, 490 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 6: because gus guys that know exactly what you're dealing with. 491 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 3: As a woman, I understand why industry men behave the 492 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 3: way they behave. I would never date one so easy. 493 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 3: Do you have whatever you want, Get whatever you want, 494 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,400 Speaker 3: sleep with whatever you want. You're not about to play 495 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 3: in my face? 496 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 1: What do you think changed because it's been you said 497 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 1: since twenty four you think the fact that you made it. 498 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 1: It's almost like I love you when you're trying to 499 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:10,880 Speaker 1: make it, but now when you make it. 500 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 2: Things change, roles change. 501 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,919 Speaker 3: No, I'm only in my head. I only know what 502 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 3: I'm thinking. I'm not trying to be criptic. This is 503 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 3: just really how I think, Like I have no idea 504 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 3: when I'm not trying to figure it out. 505 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 6: Are you picking up that pen while you're going through 506 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 6: all of this, I'm always writing, okay, because some fire 507 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,679 Speaker 6: music can come from this. My God, I'm sorry that 508 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,959 Speaker 6: you're going through whatever you're going through with Lord, have mercy. 509 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:36,880 Speaker 6: I know you're making some fire records. 510 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 3: I haven't been in the studio, but I'll probably again, 511 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 3: I get what I say, so I want to make 512 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 3: sure I'm saying things that I want to appear versus gotcha. 513 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 3: You know, I'm so mad, I'm not. I wake up 514 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 3: every day so happy, like I've surrounded myself with the 515 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 3: most wonderful, warm, funny like me and my friend group 516 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 3: are hilarious. 517 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 5: That's needed. 518 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:05,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, so like it's just so fun like you know, 519 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 3: we have our own little inside jokes. I laughed through 520 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,880 Speaker 3: the pain, like you know what I'm saying. Like I'll 521 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:15,120 Speaker 3: pick up something like a pickle, and like everything reminds 522 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 3: me of you know, just like so funny. Sometimes it's 523 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 3: a big pickle. 524 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 4: Remind me of you know it? 525 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 3: Hey, yo, what size is the story about life? 526 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 6: When you talk about your words and your pin being powerful, 527 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 6: do you ever feel like some of your songs might 528 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 6: be too open and too honest, Like you might be 529 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 6: putting too much out there? 530 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 5: You know. 531 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,879 Speaker 3: It's this weird thing that I have this effect on 532 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 3: people where even in real life, I'm only telling you 533 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,359 Speaker 3: what I want you to know. There's so much. But 534 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 3: a lot of times people really think that they know me, 535 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 3: like they feel like, oh that's my first my homegirl 536 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 3: is my friend I'll be like I talked to this 537 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 3: one time, Like what, that's crazy? You don't know me 538 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:12,360 Speaker 3: like that? Like if I actually like you, I talk 539 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 3: to you, I open up. But if I don't know you, 540 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 3: or if I don't feel safe around you, I know 541 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 3: how to make people feel welcome and warm and cared about. 542 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 3: And I think sometimes people mistake that for like actual 543 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 3: care and concern speak. 544 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 4: To how important feelings safe around people is. 545 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 6: Because I love when people use that term, because that's 546 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 6: truly what it is. If you can feel safe around people, 547 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 6: you can. 548 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 3: Be yourself, Yeah, to be the I always encourage people 549 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,440 Speaker 3: to like be the you that you are when you're 550 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 3: with your family and with you, when you're with your 551 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 3: best friends, or when you're by yourself. Like everybody has 552 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 3: star quality, every person, but it's when you feel safe 553 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 3: that that comes out. And I think a lot of 554 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:02,680 Speaker 3: us spend time in spaces that we don't feel safe 555 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 3: and that we're uncomfortable in, that we don't want to 556 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 3: be in, that we feel exposed, we're not confident enough 557 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 3: to be vulnerable. I think that's part of what makes 558 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,120 Speaker 3: a great artist and a great performer, great entertainer actor. 559 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 3: They're not afraid to be naked in front of people, 560 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 3: and they're not afraid to bear their soul in front 561 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 3: of the world. That is a very hard thing to do. 562 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 3: They had me singing in the street buskting yesterday on 563 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 3: the subway. Oh my god, it was so cringey. 564 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 5: On a subway, like singing. 565 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 3: No, it was very dusty down there, just you know, 566 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 3: getting content, content and skin these days. So I got 567 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 3: on the train and I was asking people like, uh, 568 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:51,400 Speaker 3: how did you know your person was made for you? 569 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 3: Giving answers like what makes you feel like a baddie? 570 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 3: Just like questions from the song my album and the 571 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 3: other songs on my album. Yeah. So then they had 572 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 3: me singing, like I started singing to this older couple 573 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 3: they've been together for like forty seven years. But it 574 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 3: was so cringey, girl. 575 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 5: Oh it wasn't all. It wasn't all. I mean New 576 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 5: York subways are a lot. 577 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 3: No, but for me, it was like like the anxiety 578 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 3: I felt in my body. I thought somebody was gonna 579 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 3: hit me in the head and be like shut security. No, 580 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 3: not yesterday. Oh wait, yeah no, he was there, Yeah, 581 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 3: he was there. Yeah, but still this is New York. Yeah, yeah, 582 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 3: it'd be like, shut up. Yeah, that's what I thought 583 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 3: was gonna happen, but it didn't. 584 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 7: But that's because you like really control your spaces. I 585 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 7: mean in the subway. It's like people from everywhere now. 586 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 3: But once I started singing, people was like, is that 587 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 3: really her? That sounded like yeah. I was cringing though 588 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 3: the whole time. 589 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 4: Wow, superpowers? What are your superpowers? 590 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 3: My superpower is detachment, like it really is now. In 591 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 3: reference to the song, what I'm talking about is like 592 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 3: I get what I say, and every aspect of my life, 593 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 3: I'm super successful. Why not here in this you knowship? Yeah? 594 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:11,160 Speaker 4: Yeah? 595 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 3: Why can this not? And that doesn't just mean romantically, 596 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 3: it could be family, you know, but why doesn't my 597 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 3: power work in this area? I really want this? Wow? 598 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 7: So I think so many people in relationships can relate 599 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 7: to that. A lot of people because you date potential 600 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 7: sometimes and you see the potential before the other person does, 601 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 7: and you're like, come. 602 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 3: On, see, I don't I can't relate to that. I 603 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 3: don't know what that means. If I like you, I 604 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 3: like you, all that other stuff don't matter. 605 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 7: Whoa I mean, I think it would be the same 606 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,720 Speaker 7: reason why you said that you were speaking things because 607 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 7: you wanted him to kind of like do it or 608 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 7: like catch on or whatever you were just saying earlier. 609 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 7: That's kind of what I'm talking about. 610 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,720 Speaker 6: That's an interesting perspective. I never thought about it. People 611 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 6: talk about potential. But if I like you, I like you. 612 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 6: I'm not waiting for you to grow to be somebody else. 613 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 6: I like you you are. 614 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 3: I like you the person that I'm not motivated by 615 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,560 Speaker 3: what you do because that could change, Like you could 616 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 3: quit your job and decide you want to be a chef. 617 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 7: Not even like a job though, but like it could 618 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 7: be like how how they talk to you or how 619 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 7: they I don't know. 620 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 3: Like why do you have potential? 621 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 2: Somebody like. 622 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 7: You can like somebody but no, not even that, but 623 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 7: you can like somebody and then get to know them 624 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,680 Speaker 7: and you're like, you know what, I love that you 625 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 7: do this, but I don't necessarily like that you respond 626 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 7: this way about certain stuff. 627 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 5: And then you guys have to figure that out and 628 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 5: that take another girl. 629 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 4: That's normally how. 630 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 5: I that's literally what you said earlier. 631 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 4: What you do? 632 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 5: Yeh know? 633 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 3: How do you have potential? In communication? There's no potential? 634 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 5: Don't be putting my business out there like that. 635 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, girl, no potential. You don't like how somebody 636 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 3: talk get a new one. 637 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 5: That's what I'm single. 638 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 7: I mean, I know for me myself, Like because I 639 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 7: started young with that person that I'm talking about. Once 640 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 7: I grew to a certain point, there were certain things 641 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:02,840 Speaker 7: that I was just. 642 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 3: Like, I don't know if I like the Stockholm syndrome. 643 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 5: Oh wow, okay is it that? Would that be that? 644 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 2: Okay? 645 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 5: Back to you? 646 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 4: Okay, No, No, I love when people. 647 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 5: I never thought about it as Stockholm syndrome. 648 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:26,240 Speaker 3: You're just comfortable there, I mean, yeah, your capture chapter 649 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 3: is crazy. 650 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 5: Man. 651 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 3: You know, this is probably the most difficult thing about 652 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 3: me being in a long term relationship is that I see, yeah, 653 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 3: I could see you know what I'm saying. You can't like, 654 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 3: you know, there's a difference between marriage and boyfriend and girlfriend. 655 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, we can't just walk away when you guys. 656 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 7: So outside of that being a difference, like when you 657 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,080 Speaker 7: guys went from boyfriend and girlfriend to marriage, what was 658 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 7: one of the biggest differences for y'all. 659 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't have an answer for that, 660 00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 3: because once I like you, that's it. Oh, ma'am jumping 661 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 3: in until you be like cool and then I detached 662 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 3: that you guys mean my superpower poof you never existed. 663 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 4: I don't know. 664 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 3: You don't know. 665 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. 666 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 6: When you're writing stuff like every night I've been crying, 667 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:17,560 Speaker 6: I can't fall asleep. 668 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 4: Land in the bed and my diamond. I still wear 669 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,480 Speaker 4: my ring? 670 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 3: Are you? 671 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 5: Are you still wearing the ring? Not today but in 672 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 5: this song? 673 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 7: Okay, but you said we were reading your diary, so 674 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 7: we take you at your word. 675 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 5: No, that had nothing to do with y'all. 676 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 6: All right, some things, Remember, words are powerful. You're telling 677 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 6: us you don't let that man no more. 678 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 4: I don't want to be with that man. 679 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 3: No. When you say love, what do you mean by love? 680 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 3: Romantic love? 681 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 5: Or don't look at me girl? 682 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 6: I can't help you with this parenting love spinning to 683 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 6: death to us part love. I want to still be 684 00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 6: with you and have a family. Let's figure life out, 685 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 6: do better or worse love? 686 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 3: Mm hmm. 687 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 2: I don't know, but you could fall out of love. 688 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm very I'm detached from. 689 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 4: Don't you're not You're so tough, you are I'm not. 690 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:26,400 Speaker 3: Didn't we talk about this last time, we didn't. We 691 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,320 Speaker 3: didn't talk about me being on the spectrum. 692 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,080 Speaker 4: Yes, yes we did. 693 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, got you. So No, when I say I detached, 694 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:45,239 Speaker 3: I really do. Seriously, Yeah, you are not out of sight, 695 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 3: out of mind. 696 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 5: There's no great area with you. 697 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 6: Is there a reattachment that happens? I mean, I don't 698 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,239 Speaker 6: know how that works when you're on the spectrum, I 699 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 6: don't know. 700 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,720 Speaker 3: I think with anyone there's a safety and trust issue. 701 00:34:58,640 --> 00:34:59,520 Speaker 4: What's that violated? 702 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 3: As I read somewhere, it takes two years to regain 703 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:08,240 Speaker 3: trust once you once it's broken. So just consistent behavior, 704 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:10,240 Speaker 3: which we talked about. 705 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 2: In the beginning, take way longer than that, depend. 706 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 3: On depending on what it is. But if I if I, 707 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 3: if I consistently come up to your house and every 708 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 3: time I come your dog bites me, put the dog up, 709 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 3: or I'm going to assume that you are okay with 710 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 3: that and you don't feel the need to keep me safe, 711 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 3: so I'm not going to come back over here. 712 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,280 Speaker 4: He was putting the dog on you. 713 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 3: That was an analogy the headline. By the way, you 714 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,839 Speaker 3: know what, I'm would just stay off the internet once 715 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 3: this comes up. 716 00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 7: On the find side of things, you do have Glorilla 717 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 7: on the album, but the only feature? 718 00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:57,240 Speaker 5: Why is she the only feature? 719 00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 3: First of all, I feel like I don't really make 720 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 3: songs that require that. Yeah, And like I really want 721 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,360 Speaker 3: to stress the fact that like this project was. 722 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:06,800 Speaker 5: A and R. 723 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,759 Speaker 3: It wasn't like just there in the studio freestyle and 724 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 3: making records like I wanted to have certain tones, like 725 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 3: what don't I have here? Does this song need drums? 726 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 3: Does it not? I don't know, you know, so we 727 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 3: really thought about like who could be on my records, 728 00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 3: and it's not I don't believe in that. Just throwing 729 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,320 Speaker 3: an artist on a song just because they got fifty 730 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 3: million monthly listeners, Like you know what I'm saying doesn't 731 00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 3: make sense. I actually really like Glow. She's funny, super talented, 732 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,400 Speaker 3: and she's singing on there. So when I first heard it, 733 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, sing Rella, I love this for me? Yeah, 734 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 3: I don't. I don't make songs that If anything, it 735 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 3: would be like a duet male female. But who would 736 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 3: that be? There's not very many active R and B men. 737 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 3: Who is there already? You have a song? Was working 738 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 3: on getting one with Chris. Maybe I just came off 739 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,959 Speaker 3: tour with him, fun, super fun. 740 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,680 Speaker 4: What did you learn on the eleven eleven tour? 741 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,719 Speaker 3: I learned how to push my energy all the way 742 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:21,440 Speaker 3: to the top and to connect with everybody. It was 743 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 3: my first tour, so like looking back at the footage 744 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,799 Speaker 3: even now, I'm just like, while I can see like 745 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 3: the the greenness, but when I was in it, it's 746 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,319 Speaker 3: just like it was I gotta, I gotta get up here, 747 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 3: like I gotta do it. There was only one night 748 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,239 Speaker 3: where it wasn't that great, and that's just because like 749 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 3: the first night in Atlanta, they was like, girl. 750 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:46,239 Speaker 5: Who was you? 751 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 3: We came here to see Christopher? 752 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,360 Speaker 5: We do that? I want you? 753 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, And all the songs and all I mean they 754 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 3: always in the last fifteen minutes of my set, the 755 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,919 Speaker 3: arena light up. Everybody's singing as ever, gonna get old. 756 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,880 Speaker 3: But like all the songs in the middle that maybe 757 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,400 Speaker 3: some people knowing, some people don't. That's where the work is. 758 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 3: It's like for me connecting with them and showing them 759 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 3: who I am, talking to them, showing my personality things 760 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,960 Speaker 3: like that. So it was fun. I learned a lot. 761 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 2: Well, what song you want to hear down? Let's get 762 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:23,600 Speaker 2: into a juvene off the album. 763 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:29,880 Speaker 3: One song off the album, we could play Bessie. I 764 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 3: love Yeah, Bessie. Is this a song about? First of all, 765 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 3: this is the first song that I took ever that 766 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 3: I did not write. I tweaked a few things to 767 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,959 Speaker 3: make it fit me, but up tempos is not really 768 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 3: my thing. I do ballads and like introspective type stuff. 769 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 3: So when to Ron played it for me, I was 770 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:53,400 Speaker 3: like that, whatever that is, I need that, please, And 771 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 3: then I just changed it because there's a lot of 772 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 3: Bestie songs. I just changed the spelling because that's how 773 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,439 Speaker 3: we actually say it on a song that's my Bessie. Yeah, 774 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:03,760 Speaker 3: it's fun, fun record. 775 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 4: You know you don't want to ask you. You made 776 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:05,480 Speaker 4: me think about it. 777 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,839 Speaker 6: When you talk about performing on stage, what do you 778 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 6: enjoy more because you've made. 779 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 4: Money doing both being an artist or a writer. 780 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 3: I enjoy being able to say what I want to 781 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:19,280 Speaker 3: say when I want to say it. And I also 782 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,840 Speaker 3: really did not have fun as a songwriter just because 783 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,440 Speaker 3: of the way that songwriters get treated. So I prefer 784 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,920 Speaker 3: to like have my own autonomy. 785 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, money long money joining us. 786 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,360 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having me. 787 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:39,200 Speaker 6: Let's get the next project don't get me wrong. Venge 788 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 6: is dope, dusty, Uh, I just am because I came 789 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,360 Speaker 6: up on the you know, Marriya j Blige, what's the 790 00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 6: four one one my life? 791 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:48,879 Speaker 3: Era? 792 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:52,200 Speaker 6: Can't act like that. That heartbreak music wasn't fantastic. Not 793 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 6: saying you're going through heartbreak. Yeah, I'm saying you're going 794 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 6: through a lot of different emotions. I can't wait to 795 00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:59,720 Speaker 6: hear that express through music. 796 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,600 Speaker 7: Why do you think that I'm not going through a 797 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 7: bunch of emotions. It feels like it a bit. But 798 00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:08,400 Speaker 7: we I mean, you know yourself better than we do. 799 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,880 Speaker 7: But yeah, I just can't imagine being in that space. 800 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:12,680 Speaker 7: You know everything and now it's out there in the 801 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,560 Speaker 7: public and you gotta do press and you gotta you know, 802 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:17,440 Speaker 7: relive and retalk and all that stuff. 803 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:18,919 Speaker 5: So, you know, if. 804 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 3: Anything is a little bit of like frustration, why y'all 805 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,120 Speaker 3: keep bringing this? Why you keep reminding me? Because I 806 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:31,160 Speaker 3: forgot the music that's all not just here like even 807 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 3: in life. Yeah, people be like, I'm so sorry, I'm like, 808 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 3: for what. 809 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 4: Because of the interviews and the music, that's really what 810 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 4: it is. 811 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 6: You write a song called Ruined Me, and you tell 812 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 6: us that you want to sleep with your ring on 813 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:41,359 Speaker 6: every night. 814 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 4: It's like, oh that. 815 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 2: Money, thank you for joining us. It's the Breakfast Club, 816 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,040 Speaker 2: Good morning, wake that ass up. 817 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,160 Speaker 4: In the morning. Breakfast Club.