WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Signature Move

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<v Speaker 1>Looking Jebels second d. Everybody has their signature move when

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a date and you want to

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<v Speaker 1>try to get a kiss. I know, for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>do the old yawn trick, you know when you put

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<v Speaker 1>your hands like kind of by your mouth, and the yawn.

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<v Speaker 1>You stretch him wide and you put your arm around

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<v Speaker 1>her and then your pants fall to the ground. Because

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<v Speaker 1>before I did the yawn trick, I unloosened my belt

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<v Speaker 1>and then the pants fall, and hey, you're right in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of a crowded restaurant pants down. There's really

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<v Speaker 1>nothing she can do. Oh but kiss you. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>usually the option. My signature move. Well, the guy on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone today who wants to do a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update apparently used his signature move on the date he

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<v Speaker 1>got a kiss, and he's confused why he's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back. His name is James. James, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? How much? Man? So tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about the girl that you want to call today.

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<v Speaker 1>Where'd you meet her? I met her on Tinder? All right, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And you were actually looking to date someone and not

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<v Speaker 1>just hook up with him. I mean it depends on

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<v Speaker 1>the night. Yeah, you know, it can be used for

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<v Speaker 1>all sorts of things you put in your email that

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<v Speaker 1>you use your signature move. I want to find out

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<v Speaker 1>what your signature move is in a second, But first

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<v Speaker 1>tell us how the date went with her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>overall I thought it went really well, but we got

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<v Speaker 1>off to a rough start for sure. Um. We went

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<v Speaker 1>out for dinner, and uh, I wouldn't say at the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant early. I always get there early. You know. That's considerate, right,

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<v Speaker 1>very considerate. How early are you talking? Like an hour early?

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<v Speaker 1>And you're just pacing back? Okay, solid twenty minutes, because

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be good to show up like really early and

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<v Speaker 1>then get mad at her that she shows up like

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes later. I've been here for an hour and

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<v Speaker 1>a half already, so you showed up early. And to

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<v Speaker 1>continue my gentimanly ways, here we wave across the room.

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<v Speaker 1>She comes over and I pull up a chair. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to do that, um, And she's like, oh, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>and she sits down and uh, you know, she she

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<v Speaker 1>stepped in front of it, and for some reason, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why, I shoved the chair at the table

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<v Speaker 1>and it and it knocked her legs out and she

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<v Speaker 1>just fell straight on her butt on the chair, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think it definitely hurts. So you aggressively shoved her

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<v Speaker 1>into the table. I didn't mean. I didn't mean to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, okay, kind of. I think I was nervous

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I was wondering if that was your signature move.

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<v Speaker 1>Sit down and you eat. It's better than pulling the

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<v Speaker 1>chair out from underneath her. Did you like comment about that,

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like I would have been awkward at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, Like, I am sorry about that. That was

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<v Speaker 1>I pushed the chair in a little too hard. Yeah, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I made a joke of it. I said like, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I work out. Yeah, I don't know my

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<v Speaker 1>own strength sometimes, so whenever I'm on on dates with like,

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<v Speaker 1>especially women who were smaller than I know him a

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<v Speaker 1>big dude anyway, I tended to just shove them into

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<v Speaker 1>the table. After that, did everything go okay? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we calm I calmed down, and we had good conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we had a connection, flirting pretty hard and

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<v Speaker 1>uh remember around dessert, I made the mental note that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to kiss this girl at night. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to use my signature move, right. I can't wait to

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<v Speaker 1>hear what this move is, sir? What is James's signature move?

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<v Speaker 1>You stud Like, I know you guys are going to

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<v Speaker 1>totally laugh at this, but honestly it works. Like the time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know the people are going to be stealing this

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<v Speaker 1>move after you tell us, Yeah, well I stole it,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know that's fair games. Where do you steal

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<v Speaker 1>it from from a movie? I don't remember which one.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd probably been done in many movies. Okay, you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to go a long way convincing me that

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<v Speaker 1>this is a good move. Then if you stole it

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<v Speaker 1>from a movie. No, it works, I swear to guy,

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<v Speaker 1>what is it? So? H we grab our coats and

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<v Speaker 1>go outside in the restaurant, and then you know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a moment where we're saying goodbye. But I was just

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<v Speaker 1>focused on her and on executing my signature move, and

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<v Speaker 1>so like we're locking eyes and I like to hold

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<v Speaker 1>the moment, you know, for a little just a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of uncomfortableness. You've really practiced this, haven't you. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've done this. I've done this at least a solid

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<v Speaker 1>ten times. Okay, okay, And then what happens after the

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<v Speaker 1>eye lock. And so after that moment, you know she's

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<v Speaker 1>about to say something. As I see she's about to

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<v Speaker 1>say something, I moved my index finger to her list

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<v Speaker 1>and go, oh god, and then I kissed her. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? I rolled my eyes Gerard Butler and p

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<v Speaker 1>s I love you or something. Maybe that was the

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<v Speaker 1>movie and this actually works for you. It works like

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<v Speaker 1>I know, you guys are like lapping it up and

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's ridiculous, but I swear you got it work.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she actually kiss you back or was she just

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<v Speaker 1>in shock standing still like you know, there's the there's

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<v Speaker 1>the initial shock, but then she like you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>lets go and then we have a good time. That,

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<v Speaker 1>my friends, is how the signature move works. All right?

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys kissed after you did that? And how

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<v Speaker 1>did everything end with you? I walked her back to

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<v Speaker 1>her car and UH said I'll call you and she

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<v Speaker 1>said cool, all right, And so I thought E went great.

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<v Speaker 1>But next few days I'm texting Aaron just getting absolutely nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>And a week goes by and I'm talking to you

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<v Speaker 1>guys now, So you haven't heard anything from her at all. No,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she's still in a daze from how romantic you are.

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<v Speaker 1>She's probably still writing in her diary about it as

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<v Speaker 1>we speak. I wouldn't doubt it. Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought her. She's laid up in the hospital with a

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<v Speaker 1>fractured rib when you shoved her into the table. That

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<v Speaker 1>could be it too. All right, Well, we're gonna play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right, cool, All right, hang on then,

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jubil in the Morning date. James, are you

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<v Speaker 1>a good kisser? Yeah, it's Brooking Jubil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just tuning in for the second part of

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update, that's James and James isn't getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back from a girl named Brittany, He says

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the date, he did his signature move,

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<v Speaker 1>as he calls it, while they were walking after dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>They were talking about whatever, and he shished her and

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<v Speaker 1>then went in for the kiss and she kissed him.

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<v Speaker 1>But James, I didn't get enough details on the kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you said that you kissed her, but I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I need more. I need more detail on it to

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<v Speaker 1>see if like she should be calling you back. So here,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna role play a little bit. All right, James,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm her and you're me, or you're her and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>meet whatever however you want to do it. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna start kissing you and then you tell me

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<v Speaker 1>when you've had enough. Okay, here we go. Is that it? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a terrible kisser. That's why. That is why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back. Okay, I can tell you're

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<v Speaker 1>a bad kisser. All right. We're about to get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and find out why she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back after it's what seems like a successful date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you got a kiss at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night, and it's strange that she hasn't answered any

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<v Speaker 1>of your texts. Can I ask, are you like a

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<v Speaker 1>move type of guy or were you able to actually

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<v Speaker 1>show her like your real personality? First of all, the

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<v Speaker 1>move is a part of my personality. I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>when you come at a date with like some rehearsed plan,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of times you may get lost in that look.

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<v Speaker 1>I may not have invented, but it works for me

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<v Speaker 1>every time. And there's a reason it's in the movies. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. There probably is a reason it's in the movies,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Man, I'm gonna dollar phone him right now,

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and find out why she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Brittany please? This is she. Hey, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. So a radio show. I'm sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who this is. Oh. That surprises me with

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<v Speaker 1>the how quickly you answered. I figured you'd be a

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<v Speaker 1>huge fan. It's a morning radio show, and somebody recently

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<v Speaker 1>sent us an email about you, and that's why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling today. I don't understand how it's happened. Well, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a segment we do on our show called the second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. Basically, if you go out with somebody on

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<v Speaker 1>a date and then don't call them back after, they

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<v Speaker 1>email us to see if we can get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and find out what went wrong. So, you

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<v Speaker 1>recently went out on a date with one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is James. Do you remember going out with James?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Yeah? Is that a good oh my

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<v Speaker 1>god or a bad? Oh my god? Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a few minutes to tell us about your

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<v Speaker 1>date with James. Not really. I kind of want to

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<v Speaker 1>move on from it. Not bad. Well, if I if

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<v Speaker 1>I could just get you for like a second to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it, it would help out a lot. He's

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<v Speaker 1>he actually liked you a lot, and he's wondering why

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling him back. Um, it'll just I promise,

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<v Speaker 1>it'll just take a second. We just want to know

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<v Speaker 1>if he did anything wrong on your date. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>He just seems like a self center type of dude,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just was turned off by it self centered,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he talked about himself the whole time and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>pay anything you were saying or something. He didn't pay

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<v Speaker 1>attention to anything that I was saying. Really nothing, like

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't having a conversation with you. He's just telling

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<v Speaker 1>you about stuff. Well, it's like when I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to open up to him, you can tell he just

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<v Speaker 1>was not listening, like at all. Really Well, for the

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<v Speaker 1>way he tells it, everything went amazing and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>had a wonderful time and you kissed at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the evening and you even were like, hey, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>go out again. So what part is let me hear

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<v Speaker 1>your side of the story, because what part is self

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<v Speaker 1>centered according to you, because he didn't sound like anything

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<v Speaker 1>was like that at all. I love that it's making

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<v Speaker 1>you laugh. Well, I don't believe that's what he told

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<v Speaker 1>you because he completely missed the most important part of

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<v Speaker 1>that actual story. Okay, what's the most important part. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>dinner was fine, and we were leaving the restaurant. We were,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just casually walking, and I was telling him

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<v Speaker 1>a very personal story about my parents and unfortunate parents

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<v Speaker 1>got a divorce and my dad recently um passed away,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I'm it's like a real, you know, raw

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<v Speaker 1>moment for me, and I'm telling him this and then

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<v Speaker 1>he had the audacity to shush me. Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>When it happened? Are you serious? I'm dead serious and

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<v Speaker 1>not over that. After he shushed me, he kissed me. So,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm getting this, if I'm getting this right, he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't paying attention to a word you were saying. You

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<v Speaker 1>were telling him something very intimate, and then he told

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<v Speaker 1>you to shut up and exactly tell him what was

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<v Speaker 1>going on. I was telling him. I just literally told him.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't listening. Okay, So, God, did you kiss him

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<v Speaker 1>back or no? I was in shock. My lips were

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<v Speaker 1>just there, and his lips were just all online talk

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<v Speaker 1>about Brittany. I'm sorry. I can understand why you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to call him back. Oh man, that was the

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<v Speaker 1>most awkward thing that ever happened to me on a day.

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<v Speaker 1>If somebody did that to me, I wouldn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>ever talk to them again. Do you ever want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him again? No? Oh, well, that's too bad,

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<v Speaker 1>because I have to let you know that he's actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening right. What the hell is this, James?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you there? Yeah? I am so sorry. I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>completely mortified. Yeah. Would this be a bad time to

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<v Speaker 1>offer my condolence this for your family? It would be

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<v Speaker 1>a bit late. I would think this is a bad time. James. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I screwed up. I screwed up. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just honestly, I was so focused on trying to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>you that I mean, this is definitely definitely gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>me rethink ever using that move again. Yeah, your move

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<v Speaker 1>kind of back fired, James, Brittany. If you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what James was doing, apparently this is what he told

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<v Speaker 1>us earlier. That's his signature move. At the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the date. Don't worry. He wants. If he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss a girl, he waits until they're talking about something

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<v Speaker 1>and then he goes and then kisses her. I think

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<v Speaker 1>this time it was very bad for him. It was

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<v Speaker 1>very bad. Yeah, again, that was dumb, pretty weird. We

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<v Speaker 1>all rolled our eyes when he told us about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is, and I get wire upset, but

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<v Speaker 1>he said such nice things about you when we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him earlier. Okay, that's nice at all, but it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't break the fact of what he did. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>can I just can interject real quick? I mean, technically

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<v Speaker 1>the move still worked. Oh, you're right, she did kiss me.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't kiss you. I was stunned. I was standing

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<v Speaker 1>there like just telling you that a deaf in the

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<v Speaker 1>family shouldn't. Yeah. I know it's bad. It's bad, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I hope you can forgive me in that

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<v Speaker 1>like we can. We can move on from me. You

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<v Speaker 1>try again. This is a perfect time to ask, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with James on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? We will pay for its. Britany, are you

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<v Speaker 1>sure James a great time before that moment? Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>James likes you a lot there's no chance on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. He's screwed up. He knows it. No, he

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<v Speaker 1>can try that move on somebody else. Look, I promise

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<v Speaker 1>I will never shush you again. I'll just I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>do the kissing part. No, that doesn't make it any better.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly you don't get it. Yeah, James, I think next

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<v Speaker 1>time you try to do your patented move where you

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<v Speaker 1>shish a woman and then kiss her, pay attention to

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<v Speaker 1>what she's talking about before you do it. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'll modify the move. Modify your move is modification. Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you very much for your time. I know you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't expecting this phone call, but thank you for sharing

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<v Speaker 1>with us. Okay, No, thank you as he have anything

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<v Speaker 1>else to say before we let you go. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think what I got out of her broken Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning text in at seven eight, five to nine

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<v Speaker 1>two that says, if that guy's signature move works every time,

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<v Speaker 1>then why is he still single? Amen, Broken Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. I think we actually found out why he's

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<v Speaker 1>still single. I'm talking, of course, about the second date update. Skuy,

0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:26.960
<v Speaker 1>James wanted us to call a girl Brittany for him.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't calling back after their date. They even kissed

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the date when he used his

0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:36.440
<v Speaker 1>signature move that he got from the movies. It's ridiculous. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>what he does when he goes out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>is he waits until the right moment when she's talking,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he shishes her and then kisses her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's supposed to be passionate and romantic. Except what he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't realize was the girl that he went out with, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>was in the middle of talking about how one of

0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:54.560
<v Speaker 1>her family members had passed away, but he wasn't paying

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<v Speaker 1>attention because he was so focused on doing his signature

0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:58.960
<v Speaker 1>move that right in the mill that he just would

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<v Speaker 1>sh kissed her. And what's shocking to me is that

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<v Speaker 1>the lesson he learned wasn't that he should maybe just

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<v Speaker 1>be himself and stop with the moves. It's that he

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<v Speaker 1>needs to modify, quite right, change my move a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe you should just pay attention to what your

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<v Speaker 1>date is saying, Oh my gosh, so that you realize,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe if she's just talking about what sort of

0:15:20.960 --> 0:15:23.600
<v Speaker 1>drinks she likes, or she likes going hiking or something

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<v Speaker 1>that's an Okay, time to maybe shish and go in

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<v Speaker 1>for your move. But when she's talking about the death

0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:30.040
<v Speaker 1>of a family member usually isn't the best time to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, shut up, shut shut stop, shut up,

0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:34.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to kiss you and shish ain't any woman?

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<v Speaker 1>Is not a good moves. How many people have actually

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<v Speaker 1>had this happen to them, though, We're getting text messages

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven, eight, five, nine two from people that

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<v Speaker 1>are like, my husband did this to me well, and

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<v Speaker 1>then that also follows up with I told him never

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<v Speaker 1>to do that to me again, or I'd kick his ass.

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<v Speaker 1>So the shish move is definitely something that you should

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<v Speaker 1>not do if you want to get a second date. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>all you have to do is email the show and

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<v Speaker 1>we will call the person who didn't call you back

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<v Speaker 1>to