Speaker 1: Second date update. We got an email from one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Brandon, who wanted a second date update today.
Speaker 1: He said, it all just happened so fast and then
Speaker 1: it was over. Now he needs our help, So don't
Speaker 1: be embarrassed. Okay, happens to a lot of us. Have
Speaker 1: you tried thinking about baseball? Or were your grandma covered
Speaker 1: in curry sauce? Actually? You know what, that would just
Speaker 1: make it go faster for me. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know the advice, but we're going to try and
Speaker 1: help you, all right, Brandon, First, tell us about the
Speaker 1: woman you want us to call. What's her name? Her
Speaker 1: name is Jessica. He's like, I don't even know how
Speaker 1: to respond to people. Where'd you meet Jessica? Brandon? We
Speaker 1: meet on Tinder? Okay? Nice? Have you been on Tinder
Speaker 1: for a while? I mean, I don't want to say
Speaker 1: a while, but I've been on it, Okay, so for
Speaker 1: a while. Yeah, what stood out about Jessica to you?
Speaker 1: We just kind of clicked. It's just, you know, I
Speaker 1: swiped and shep and then we just started messaging, and
Speaker 1: you know, we decided to go out. I know, there's
Speaker 1: sounds like there's nothing behind that, but I completely agree
Speaker 1: with you, Like sometimes you just know on tender within
Speaker 1: the first hys, you gotta have that text chemistry. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: like right away in the first couple of messages. You know. Okay,
Speaker 1: so what did you guys do for your date? So
Speaker 1: for the date, you know, I went to pick her
Speaker 1: up at her place and I was fifteen minutes late,
Speaker 1: and yeah, I know every day to work, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think fifteen minutes is fine, Like that saves you
Speaker 1: because I'm always someone who's running late. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: thank god, he's fifteen minutes d fashionably late. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: not like it's not like she's sitting there worries that
Speaker 1: you're not going to show us. True, it's just awkward
Speaker 1: to sit there. Yes, yeah, But when when people say
Speaker 1: that they're fifteen minutes late, in reality, they're like twenty
Speaker 1: what'd you show up like forty five minutes later? No,
Speaker 1: it was legit. It was like fifteen minutes or around. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're around. Oh, Jeff's going to keep going up. That's okay,
Speaker 1: We'll trust you on this. So when you got there,
Speaker 1: what happened? So she comes out of her apartment, I'm
Speaker 1: parked across the street, and she walks across the street
Speaker 1: shakes my hand, and immediately it's like, oh, I forgot
Speaker 1: my idea. I need to run back in and get it. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: handshake that's a little interesting. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: know who does know. No, that's not a thing. What
Speaker 1: are you gonna do? Like fist bump hu? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: mean maybe she was just nervous and it was awkward
Speaker 1: for her too, and she's like, oh my god, why
Speaker 1: did I just shake his hand? Yeah, i'd have to
Speaker 1: go back inside for a minute, So she went back in. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: she goes back in and I'm waiting, you know, five
Speaker 1: ten minutes. She's not coming out. So I text her,
Speaker 1: I call her. She's still not coming out, no responses.
Speaker 1: She's ghosting you from inside her apartment. Suddenly, did you
Speaker 1: know she's there? Yeah? I mean, so I'm like, what
Speaker 1: is she doing? I'm right out here. We literally just
Speaker 1: shook hand. Maybe it wasn't a very impressive handshake, A
Speaker 1: little bit a limp on the wrist, that's her test,
Speaker 1: that's it. No, wait, when did she finally come out?
Speaker 1: So she didn't come out, So I decided you know,
Speaker 1: if she's ditching me, I'm not going out like this.
Speaker 1: So I waited until the apartment door opens up when
Speaker 1: someone comes out, and I went inside and started knocking
Speaker 1: on doors. Oh no, that's too aggressive. That's weird, Like
Speaker 1: it's cute to do desperate stuff for a love, but no,
Speaker 1: that's aggressivesive. I'm not trying to be super aggressive, but
Speaker 1: I just couldn't let it go. So I had to
Speaker 1: find out what was going on. So you said not today, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm going in. It does feel like you got ghosted
Speaker 1: and like, to your face, yeah, but I see what
Speaker 1: you're saying. You want some real answers, find out what happened.
Speaker 1: Did you ever find her? Yeah? So one of her
Speaker 1: neighbors directed me to re unit and I knocked on
Speaker 1: her door. Wait did you knock on the door? Would
Speaker 1: you do? Well? She opened it and she was all
Speaker 1: shocked and oh my god, what an awkward moment. What
Speaker 1: did you say? Yeah? Well, I asked her if she
Speaker 1: was okay, and she, you know, is still sticking with
Speaker 1: the ID thing. So she's like, I can't find my
Speaker 1: ID and then lies to me and says she didn't
Speaker 1: hear my texts or miscalls. I mean, did you just
Speaker 1: give up? I mean, I know that you wanted to
Speaker 1: call her out for being rude, but is it really
Speaker 1: worth it. I wanted that closure, but I gave her
Speaker 1: an out, so I said, look, if you want to ditch,
Speaker 1: it's okay. I'd rather just tell me to my face.
Speaker 1: I just want to know. Wow, what she's saying. She
Speaker 1: didn't say anything, She's just wow, she pulled me in
Speaker 1: for a makeout session. Wait, what what have you to say?
Speaker 1: She like grabbed your shirt and started making out with you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like real passionate. And then next thing, we're kissing on
Speaker 1: the counter. Oh god, that's because she felt guilty. I
Speaker 1: didn't say sometimes I like to do that at the
Speaker 1: end of arguments, wrap it up. Wow, this has been
Speaker 1: so weird for you. Yeah, but it went from like
Speaker 1: being bad weird too good weird. Yeah, don't fight the
Speaker 1: weirdness if it's going this way. How long? How long
Speaker 1: did you guys make out for? Ah? Well, I mean
Speaker 1: it ended up being a one night kind of thing,
Speaker 1: so it went into the morning. Oh you stayed all
Speaker 1: the way. Your lips must be exhausted. Did you ever
Speaker 1: find her id? I don't know if you ever found
Speaker 1: her ID because I just wrote a note on a
Speaker 1: piece of paper towel and left it on the counter
Speaker 1: and that was it. I feel like I need to
Speaker 1: give you a little spoiler alert here. I don't think
Speaker 1: she's looking for her ID. Yeah, but that's so confusing though,
Speaker 1: Like what kind of vibe did you get when you guys?
Speaker 1: I mean, you had time to talk I would assume
Speaker 1: you didn't just like lock faces together all night long.
Speaker 1: There wasn't a whole lot of talking. I mean it
Speaker 1: was barely any time to come up for breath, perfect
Speaker 1: day money. Now you didn't have to ask her about
Speaker 1: like what she like? Mary? Remember her name. The thing is,
Speaker 1: I do like her, and I want to hang out
Speaker 1: with her, like on a date. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be that guy. Oh yeah, I think that ship may
Speaker 1: have sailed for you. She's calling you back. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's a lot of other guys out there
Speaker 1: that do want to be that guy. Um, but well,
Speaker 1: so what do you think the problem is? Why do
Speaker 1: you think she's been avoiding you? If I'm being I
Speaker 1: I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world, but
Speaker 1: I'm pretty fun. I mean, it sounds like you're good
Speaker 1: enough looking. It sounds like it's more about personality. You
Speaker 1: didn't want to talk to you. I didn't really have
Speaker 1: a chance to show her my personality outside of the text,
Speaker 1: you know, like we stopped hands and then we were shaking.
Speaker 1: Let's find out. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back,
Speaker 1: we'll call Jessica for you, and we'll try and get
Speaker 1: you your second date update. All right, man, all right,
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Hold on update if you're just tuning in
Speaker 1: for the second date update. We're talking with one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Brandon, who might accidentally be the smoothest guy
Speaker 1: we've ever had on this show. Definitely by accident. I
Speaker 1: say that because he hardly spoke a word to his
Speaker 1: date Jessica. They shook hands, she immediately ran back to
Speaker 1: her apartment to quote find her ID. Yeah. After a
Speaker 1: few minutes, he followed her inside, found her door knocked in.
Speaker 1: Before he even knew what was happening. They were making bacon.
Speaker 1: That is a weird way to say, No, got better, Yeah, boots,
Speaker 1: that's so full. They were doing what she said, No,
Speaker 1: you have to have a way to say. They were
Speaker 1: doing the Amsterdam boogie, and he didn't know how it happened. Okay,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you have to pay for them. Okay,
Speaker 1: whatever things happened, and he ended up staying the night.
Speaker 1: And now, for the second time, Brandon's being ghosted by
Speaker 1: the same woman and he does not know why. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so our goal is to figure out what's going on. Yeah, Brandon,
Speaker 1: how you feeling right now? You know, I'm confused. I
Speaker 1: just kind of want to know what's going on, get
Speaker 1: some closure. Yeah, I just Brandon, are you sure you
Speaker 1: want to do this? I think I'm just worried because
Speaker 1: a woman who's willing to literally ghost you in a
Speaker 1: parking lot, like just leave you sitting outside of her
Speaker 1: apartment and not come back out. I have a feeling
Speaker 1: can be pretty ruthless. She lit him inside, right, And
Speaker 1: I mean, and maybe it's a test, a test. Yeah.
Speaker 1: A lot of people that are doing tests tests are
Speaker 1: weird dating things. I do tests, Yeah, exactly. I mean
Speaker 1: maybe the first test was to follow her back into
Speaker 1: her apartment. Maybe this is test number two to see
Speaker 1: if you're going to reach out and find her again.
Speaker 1: That feels through a radio station. Even maybe she's hoping
Speaker 1: that we're going to call her feels like a lot
Speaker 1: in every like a big red flag to me. But okay,
Speaker 1: the last time I confronted her about ghosting me it
Speaker 1: went pretty well, so I'm valid. Point knows what's going
Speaker 1: to happen if you can get her on sends them
Speaker 1: a nude right away. Yeah, all right, well, let's not
Speaker 1: waste any more time. Let's just call her number. Here
Speaker 1: we go here with Jessica. Oh, hi, Jessica. I was
Speaker 1: looking for you. I was hoping you would answer, well,
Speaker 1: I don't usually to stay Hi. Hi, Hi, Jessica. This
Speaker 1: is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning, and we're doing something on our show called
Speaker 1: a second date update. Are you familiar with that? You've
Speaker 1: ever heard of that before? Um, maybe we'll take that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you're not familiar. It's where if you go out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody, and afterwards, if that person
Speaker 1: isn't calling you back, you can email us and we'll
Speaker 1: reach out to them for you to try and figure
Speaker 1: out the reason why. Oh great, Yeah, it could be great.
Speaker 1: I think so, because we had somebody reach out to
Speaker 1: us about you. His name's Brandon Branding called sorry, I
Speaker 1: didn't mean to catch you off guard there. But he
Speaker 1: thought he had a really good time with you when
Speaker 1: you guys hung out together. Is that not true? Um,
Speaker 1: it was an interesting time. I mean, you know it
Speaker 1: was awkward, Okay, awkward awkward, It doesn't sound awkward. It
Speaker 1: sounds like you knew exactly what you wanted. Listen. He
Speaker 1: was a nice guy. I have just gotten out of
Speaker 1: a like my FoST really long relationship, and like went
Speaker 1: online and he seems nice, but like he didn't look
Speaker 1: like his pictures and I kind of just got chicken.
Speaker 1: Really he told us that he does look like his pictures.
Speaker 1: Not really no, Okay, So I mean I want to
Speaker 1: recap because normally this is the part where I would
Speaker 1: recap and I would tell you what he told us
Speaker 1: about the date. But there really wasn't a whole lot
Speaker 1: of date from the sounds of it. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: he can pick me up like he was a gentleman.
Speaker 1: But as soon as I met him, I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think so I made up like some excuse
Speaker 1: and went back to my apartment and just like turns
Speaker 1: my phone on silence, like fuck, I dodged the bullet.
Speaker 1: So wait, you were actually trying to ghost him while
Speaker 1: he was out in the parking lot of your apartment building.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is terrible, I do because you didn't
Speaker 1: find him physically attractive enough. Yeah, in real life, she
Speaker 1: just didn't seem to you know, why hook up with
Speaker 1: him if he's not well and that is so rudely.
Speaker 1: Get it. This guy is at your house. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: if you're not gonna like him, find go to coffee,
Speaker 1: do the twenty minute thing, Like he came all the
Speaker 1: way over there, at least show him some respects. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, jose brought up a good point. If that's
Speaker 1: how you felt, why did you continue and actually look
Speaker 1: up with him? Basically, he actually came into my apartment, Like,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I have a gated apartment, but
Speaker 1: he found his way in, and when he came to
Speaker 1: my door, I didn't know what to say, so I
Speaker 1: just kind of like started making out with him. That's
Speaker 1: your go to move when there's awkward silence. I mean,
Speaker 1: I would love to see you a job interview. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was so weird. I mean I like applauded his
Speaker 1: zeal to keep going even though I literally left him
Speaker 1: outside of apartment building. But then at the same time,
Speaker 1: I was like, it's been a while since I've wet
Speaker 1: my whistle. So I was like, I don't know, Oh
Speaker 1: that's a girl's but you know, like he doesn't want
Speaker 1: to be used either, like men use woman all the time.
Speaker 1: It's time. That's not an eye for an eye thing. Man,
Speaker 1: that's the problem. Well, it's not like I thought i'd
Speaker 1: be cold on it. Okay, So wait, does that turn
Speaker 1: you on like it did before him calling you out? No,
Speaker 1: I'm so mortified right now. I hate to make you
Speaker 1: feel any more mortified than you already do, but I
Speaker 1: need to tell you the Brandon's actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening, and he wants to talk to you. Oh
Speaker 1: heck no, Yeah, yeah, I think this one. You got
Speaker 1: an answer to Brandon? You there? Yeah, yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 1: Whoa look at that swab? What is that? Um? What
Speaker 1: is going on? Larious? Look? I just I think it's
Speaker 1: kind of hard to say that we're not a match
Speaker 1: because you don't really know me at all. You don't
Speaker 1: know my personality. You're right, I just feel like I
Speaker 1: really wasn't ready. It was not right that I like
Speaker 1: just left you there, but I really couldn't think of
Speaker 1: anything to say, I feel really bad. Um, I mean
Speaker 1: I feel really bad because you guys are calling me,
Speaker 1: but like I actually didn't really feel that bad, like
Speaker 1: no offense. You know, people sometimes just go on to
Speaker 1: hook up and you know you're just not mine. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know what, You're not gonna go out with me again?
Speaker 1: So why don't why don't we just get to know
Speaker 1: each other right right here? Right now? Oh? What what
Speaker 1: does that mean? Right here? Right? You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Sort of the volume up on both your ends? Blow?
Speaker 1: Thank you? Okay? You want to do it like a
Speaker 1: quick phone date? What? Yeah? Look, I mean I get it.
Speaker 1: I'm not the most handsome guy, but if you just
Speaker 1: got to know me a little better, maybe there could
Speaker 1: be something more here. How are you not angry at her?
Speaker 1: Are you trying to make them mad at each other?
Speaker 1: Like she's just so so again? Really, I think you're
Speaker 1: a great You really are a great sales person. I mean,
Speaker 1: you don't give up. But I didn't think that. I'm
Speaker 1: really not ready. I feel like I want more of
Speaker 1: a hook up type of situation at this point. Is well,
Speaker 1: I just I think I have more to offer than
Speaker 1: just the physical you know, I have, I have connections
Speaker 1: to what do you like music? Oh? You get free
Speaker 1: concert tickets every once in a while. Is that? Do
Speaker 1: you like the band Train? My uncle is their manager
Speaker 1: and he used to take me backstage to all their
Speaker 1: shows and we travel around with him. I could take you,
Speaker 1: oh for Rain tour to all the local casinos. Your manage,
Speaker 1: your manager is honestly or so your uncle's honestly the
Speaker 1: manager of Train. Yeah? Yeah, and Jeffreys so excited me.
Speaker 1: They're a good show. Okay, And Jessica, I would definitely
Speaker 1: reconsider for training for Train. If nothing else, you could
Speaker 1: go to the Grammys if a song gets nominated. I
Speaker 1: mean I did listen to them in middle school. He
Speaker 1: sold me, but I don't know if he sold you
Speaker 1: to the Grammy. We would love to offer to send
Speaker 1: you and Brandon out on another date, and we'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. I really would just prefer to listen to
Speaker 1: your radio. Brandon. I am so sorry. I've never in
Speaker 1: my life had a girl turned me down to meet
Speaker 1: Trained before, So this is this is really shocking. You
Speaker 1: know what, Brandon, I'll go through to a concert, okay,
Speaker 1: and I'll pay for it. What do you say I
Speaker 1: mean as a friend date sure. I have a feeling
Speaker 1: we're gonna be playing more Train on this station. He
Speaker 1: broke and Jeffrey in the morning,