WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Train Wreck

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. We got an email from one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Brandon, who wanted a second date update today.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, it all just happened so fast and then

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<v Speaker 1>it was over. Now he needs our help, So don't

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<v Speaker 1>be embarrassed. Okay, happens to a lot of us. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you tried thinking about baseball? Or were your grandma covered

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<v Speaker 1>in curry sauce? Actually? You know what, that would just

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<v Speaker 1>make it go faster for me. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know the advice, but we're going to try and

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<v Speaker 1>help you, all right, Brandon, First, tell us about the

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<v Speaker 1>woman you want us to call. What's her name? Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jessica. He's like, I don't even know how

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<v Speaker 1>to respond to people. Where'd you meet Jessica? Brandon? We

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<v Speaker 1>meet on Tinder? Okay? Nice? Have you been on Tinder

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<v Speaker 1>for a while? I mean, I don't want to say

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<v Speaker 1>a while, but I've been on it, Okay, so for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. Yeah, what stood out about Jessica to you?

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<v Speaker 1>We just kind of clicked. It's just, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>swiped and shep and then we just started messaging, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we decided to go out. I know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like there's nothing behind that, but I completely agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you, Like sometimes you just know on tender within

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<v Speaker 1>the first hys, you gotta have that text chemistry. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like right away in the first couple of messages. You know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what did you guys do for your date? So

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<v Speaker 1>for the date, you know, I went to pick her

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<v Speaker 1>up at her place and I was fifteen minutes late,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, I know every day to work, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think fifteen minutes is fine, Like that saves you

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm always someone who's running late. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thank god, he's fifteen minutes d fashionably late. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like it's not like she's sitting there worries that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to show us. True, it's just awkward

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<v Speaker 1>to sit there. Yes, yeah, But when when people say

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<v Speaker 1>that they're fifteen minutes late, in reality, they're like twenty

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<v Speaker 1>what'd you show up like forty five minutes later? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was legit. It was like fifteen minutes or around. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're around. Oh, Jeff's going to keep going up. That's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll trust you on this. So when you got there,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? So she comes out of her apartment, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>parked across the street, and she walks across the street

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<v Speaker 1>shakes my hand, and immediately it's like, oh, I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>my idea. I need to run back in and get it. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>handshake that's a little interesting. I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who does know. No, that's not a thing. What

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna do? Like fist bump hu? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean maybe she was just nervous and it was awkward

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<v Speaker 1>for her too, and she's like, oh my god, why

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<v Speaker 1>did I just shake his hand? Yeah, i'd have to

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<v Speaker 1>go back inside for a minute, So she went back in. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she goes back in and I'm waiting, you know, five

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<v Speaker 1>ten minutes. She's not coming out. So I text her,

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<v Speaker 1>I call her. She's still not coming out, no responses.

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<v Speaker 1>She's ghosting you from inside her apartment. Suddenly, did you

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<v Speaker 1>know she's there? Yeah? I mean, so I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>is she doing? I'm right out here. We literally just

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<v Speaker 1>shook hand. Maybe it wasn't a very impressive handshake, A

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<v Speaker 1>little bit a limp on the wrist, that's her test,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. No, wait, when did she finally come out?

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<v Speaker 1>So she didn't come out, So I decided you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if she's ditching me, I'm not going out like this.

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<v Speaker 1>So I waited until the apartment door opens up when

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<v Speaker 1>someone comes out, and I went inside and started knocking

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<v Speaker 1>on doors. Oh no, that's too aggressive. That's weird, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's cute to do desperate stuff for a love, but no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's aggressivesive. I'm not trying to be super aggressive, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just couldn't let it go. So I had to

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<v Speaker 1>find out what was going on. So you said not today, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going in. It does feel like you got ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>and like, to your face, yeah, but I see what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying. You want some real answers, find out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever find her? Yeah? So one of her

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<v Speaker 1>neighbors directed me to re unit and I knocked on

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<v Speaker 1>her door. Wait did you knock on the door? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you do? Well? She opened it and she was all

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<v Speaker 1>shocked and oh my god, what an awkward moment. What

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<v Speaker 1>did you say? Yeah? Well, I asked her if she

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<v Speaker 1>was okay, and she, you know, is still sticking with

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<v Speaker 1>the ID thing. So she's like, I can't find my

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<v Speaker 1>ID and then lies to me and says she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear my texts or miscalls. I mean, did you just

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<v Speaker 1>give up? I mean, I know that you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>call her out for being rude, but is it really

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<v Speaker 1>worth it. I wanted that closure, but I gave her

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<v Speaker 1>an out, so I said, look, if you want to ditch,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. I'd rather just tell me to my face.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know. Wow, what she's saying. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say anything, She's just wow, she pulled me in

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<v Speaker 1>for a makeout session. Wait, what what have you to say?

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<v Speaker 1>She like grabbed your shirt and started making out with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like real passionate. And then next thing, we're kissing on

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<v Speaker 1>the counter. Oh god, that's because she felt guilty. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say sometimes I like to do that at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of arguments, wrap it up. Wow, this has been

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<v Speaker 1>so weird for you. Yeah, but it went from like

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<v Speaker 1>being bad weird too good weird. Yeah, don't fight the

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<v Speaker 1>weirdness if it's going this way. How long? How long

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys make out for? Ah? Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it ended up being a one night kind of thing,

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<v Speaker 1>so it went into the morning. Oh you stayed all

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<v Speaker 1>the way. Your lips must be exhausted. Did you ever

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<v Speaker 1>find her id? I don't know if you ever found

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<v Speaker 1>her ID because I just wrote a note on a

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<v Speaker 1>piece of paper towel and left it on the counter

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<v Speaker 1>and that was it. I feel like I need to

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<v Speaker 1>give you a little spoiler alert here. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>she's looking for her ID. Yeah, but that's so confusing though,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what kind of vibe did you get when you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you had time to talk I would assume

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't just like lock faces together all night long.

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<v Speaker 1>There wasn't a whole lot of talking. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was barely any time to come up for breath, perfect

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<v Speaker 1>day money. Now you didn't have to ask her about

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<v Speaker 1>like what she like? Mary? Remember her name. The thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>I do like her, and I want to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with her, like on a date. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be that guy. Oh yeah, I think that ship may

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<v Speaker 1>have sailed for you. She's calling you back. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there's a lot of other guys out there

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<v Speaker 1>that do want to be that guy. Um, but well,

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<v Speaker 1>so what do you think the problem is? Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think she's been avoiding you? If I'm being I

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty fun. I mean, it sounds like you're good

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<v Speaker 1>enough looking. It sounds like it's more about personality. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to talk to you. I didn't really have

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to show her my personality outside of the text,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like we stopped hands and then we were shaking.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's find out. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Jessica for you, and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you your second date update. All right, man, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. Hold on update if you're just tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>for the second date update. We're talking with one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Brandon, who might accidentally be the smoothest guy

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<v Speaker 1>we've ever had on this show. Definitely by accident. I

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<v Speaker 1>say that because he hardly spoke a word to his

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<v Speaker 1>date Jessica. They shook hands, she immediately ran back to

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<v Speaker 1>her apartment to quote find her ID. Yeah. After a

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<v Speaker 1>few minutes, he followed her inside, found her door knocked in.

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<v Speaker 1>Before he even knew what was happening. They were making bacon.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a weird way to say, No, got better, Yeah, boots,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so full. They were doing what she said, No,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to have a way to say. They were

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<v Speaker 1>doing the Amsterdam boogie, and he didn't know how it happened. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you have to pay for them. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever things happened, and he ended up staying the night.

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<v Speaker 1>And now, for the second time, Brandon's being ghosted by

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<v Speaker 1>the same woman and he does not know why. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so our goal is to figure out what's going on. Yeah, Brandon,

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<v Speaker 1>how you feeling right now? You know, I'm confused. I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of want to know what's going on, get

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<v Speaker 1>some closure. Yeah, I just Brandon, are you sure you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do this? I think I'm just worried because

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<v Speaker 1>a woman who's willing to literally ghost you in a

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<v Speaker 1>parking lot, like just leave you sitting outside of her

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<v Speaker 1>apartment and not come back out. I have a feeling

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<v Speaker 1>can be pretty ruthless. She lit him inside, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and maybe it's a test, a test. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people that are doing tests tests are

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<v Speaker 1>weird dating things. I do tests, Yeah, exactly. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>maybe the first test was to follow her back into

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<v Speaker 1>her apartment. Maybe this is test number two to see

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<v Speaker 1>if you're going to reach out and find her again.

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<v Speaker 1>That feels through a radio station. Even maybe she's hoping

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<v Speaker 1>that we're going to call her feels like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>in every like a big red flag to me. But okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the last time I confronted her about ghosting me it

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<v Speaker 1>went pretty well, so I'm valid. Point knows what's going

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<v Speaker 1>to happen if you can get her on sends them

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<v Speaker 1>a nude right away. Yeah, all right, well, let's not

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<v Speaker 1>waste any more time. Let's just call her number. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go here with Jessica. Oh, hi, Jessica. I was

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<v Speaker 1>looking for you. I was hoping you would answer, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't usually to stay Hi. Hi, Hi, Jessica. This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning, and we're doing something on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update. Are you familiar with that? You've

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard of that before? Um, maybe we'll take that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not familiar. It's where if you go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody, and afterwards, if that person

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<v Speaker 1>isn't calling you back, you can email us and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to them for you to try and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out the reason why. Oh great, Yeah, it could be great.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, because we had somebody reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>us about you. His name's Brandon Branding called sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mean to catch you off guard there. But he

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<v Speaker 1>thought he had a really good time with you when

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<v Speaker 1>you guys hung out together. Is that not true? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it was an interesting time. I mean, you know it

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<v Speaker 1>was awkward, Okay, awkward awkward, It doesn't sound awkward. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you knew exactly what you wanted. Listen. He

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<v Speaker 1>was a nice guy. I have just gotten out of

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<v Speaker 1>a like my FoST really long relationship, and like went

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<v Speaker 1>online and he seems nice, but like he didn't look

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<v Speaker 1>like his pictures and I kind of just got chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>Really he told us that he does look like his pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>Not really no, Okay, So I mean I want to

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<v Speaker 1>recap because normally this is the part where I would

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<v Speaker 1>recap and I would tell you what he told us

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<v Speaker 1>about the date. But there really wasn't a whole lot

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<v Speaker 1>of date from the sounds of it. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he can pick me up like he was a gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>But as soon as I met him, I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so I made up like some excuse

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<v Speaker 1>and went back to my apartment and just like turns

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<v Speaker 1>my phone on silence, like fuck, I dodged the bullet.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, you were actually trying to ghost him while

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<v Speaker 1>he was out in the parking lot of your apartment building.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that is terrible, I do because you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>find him physically attractive enough. Yeah, in real life, she

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't seem to you know, why hook up with

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<v Speaker 1>him if he's not well and that is so rudely.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it. This guy is at your house. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not gonna like him, find go to coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>do the twenty minute thing, Like he came all the

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<v Speaker 1>way over there, at least show him some respects. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, jose brought up a good point. If that's

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<v Speaker 1>how you felt, why did you continue and actually look

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<v Speaker 1>up with him? Basically, he actually came into my apartment, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I have a gated apartment, but

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<v Speaker 1>he found his way in, and when he came to

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<v Speaker 1>my door, I didn't know what to say, so I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like started making out with him. That's

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<v Speaker 1>your go to move when there's awkward silence. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to see you a job interview. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was so weird. I mean I like applauded his

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<v Speaker 1>zeal to keep going even though I literally left him

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<v Speaker 1>outside of apartment building. But then at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's been a while since I've wet

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<v Speaker 1>my whistle. So I was like, I don't know, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that's a girl's but you know, like he doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be used either, like men use woman all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time. That's not an eye for an eye thing. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the problem. Well, it's not like I thought i'd

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<v Speaker 1>be cold on it. Okay, So wait, does that turn

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<v Speaker 1>you on like it did before him calling you out? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so mortified right now. I hate to make you

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<v Speaker 1>feel any more mortified than you already do, but I

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<v Speaker 1>need to tell you the Brandon's actually on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening, and he wants to talk to you. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>heck no, Yeah, yeah, I think this one. You got

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<v Speaker 1>an answer to Brandon? You there? Yeah, yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa look at that swab? What is that? Um? What

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<v Speaker 1>is going on? Larious? Look? I just I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hard to say that we're not a match

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't really know me at all. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know my personality. You're right, I just feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>really wasn't ready. It was not right that I like

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<v Speaker 1>just left you there, but I really couldn't think of

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<v Speaker 1>anything to say, I feel really bad. Um, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I feel really bad because you guys are calling me,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I actually didn't really feel that bad, like

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<v Speaker 1>no offense. You know, people sometimes just go on to

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<v Speaker 1>hook up and you know you're just not mine. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, You're not gonna go out with me again?

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<v Speaker 1>So why don't why don't we just get to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other right right here? Right now? Oh? What what

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean? Right here? Right? You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Sort of the volume up on both your ends? Blow?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Okay? You want to do it like a

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<v Speaker 1>quick phone date? What? Yeah? Look, I mean I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the most handsome guy, but if you just

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<v Speaker 1>got to know me a little better, maybe there could

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<v Speaker 1>be something more here. How are you not angry at her?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you trying to make them mad at each other?

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<v Speaker 1>Like she's just so so again? Really, I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>a great You really are a great sales person. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't give up. But I didn't think that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really not ready. I feel like I want more of

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<v Speaker 1>a hook up type of situation at this point. Is well,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I think I have more to offer than

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<v Speaker 1>just the physical you know, I have, I have connections

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<v Speaker 1>to what do you like music? Oh? You get free

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<v Speaker 1>concert tickets every once in a while. Is that? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you like the band Train? My uncle is their manager

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<v Speaker 1>and he used to take me backstage to all their

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<v Speaker 1>shows and we travel around with him. I could take you,

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<v Speaker 1>oh for Rain tour to all the local casinos. Your manage,

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<v Speaker 1>your manager is honestly or so your uncle's honestly the

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<v Speaker 1>manager of Train. Yeah? Yeah, and Jeffreys so excited me.

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<v Speaker 1>They're a good show. Okay, And Jessica, I would definitely

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<v Speaker 1>reconsider for training for Train. If nothing else, you could

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<v Speaker 1>go to the Grammys if a song gets nominated. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I did listen to them in middle school. He

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<v Speaker 1>sold me, but I don't know if he sold you

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<v Speaker 1>to the Grammy. We would love to offer to send

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<v Speaker 1>you and Brandon out on another date, and we'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. I really would just prefer to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>your radio. Brandon. I am so sorry. I've never in

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<v Speaker 1>my life had a girl turned me down to meet

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<v Speaker 1>Trained before, So this is this is really shocking. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what, Brandon, I'll go through to a concert, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll pay for it. What do you say I

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<v Speaker 1>mean as a friend date sure. I have a feeling

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna be playing more Train on this station. He

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<v Speaker 1>broke and Jeffrey in the morning,