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Speaker 1: Second date update. We got an email from one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Brandon, who wanted a second date update today.

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Speaker 1: He said, it all just happened so fast and then

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Speaker 1: it was over. Now he needs our help, So don't

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Speaker 1: be embarrassed. Okay, happens to a lot of us. Have

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Speaker 1: you tried thinking about baseball? Or were your grandma covered

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Speaker 1: in curry sauce? Actually? You know what, that would just

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Speaker 1: make it go faster for me. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: don't know the advice, but we're going to try and

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Speaker 1: help you, all right, Brandon, First, tell us about the

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Speaker 1: woman you want us to call. What's her name? Her

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Speaker 1: name is Jessica. He's like, I don't even know how

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Speaker 1: to respond to people. Where'd you meet Jessica? Brandon? We

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Speaker 1: meet on Tinder? Okay? Nice? Have you been on Tinder

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Speaker 1: for a while? I mean, I don't want to say

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Speaker 1: a while, but I've been on it, Okay, so for

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Speaker 1: a while. Yeah, what stood out about Jessica to you?

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Speaker 1: We just kind of clicked. It's just, you know, I

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Speaker 1: swiped and shep and then we just started messaging, and

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Speaker 1: you know, we decided to go out. I know, there's

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Speaker 1: sounds like there's nothing behind that, but I completely agree

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Speaker 1: with you, Like sometimes you just know on tender within

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Speaker 1: the first hys, you gotta have that text chemistry. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: like right away in the first couple of messages. You know. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so what did you guys do for your date? So

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Speaker 1: for the date, you know, I went to pick her

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Speaker 1: and yeah, I know every day to work, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think fifteen minutes is fine, Like that saves you

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Speaker 1: because I'm always someone who's running late. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: thank god, he's fifteen minutes d fashionably late. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: not like it's not like she's sitting there worries that

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Speaker 1: you're not going to show us. True, it's just awkward

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Speaker 1: to sit there. Yes, yeah, But when when people say

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Speaker 1: that they're fifteen minutes late, in reality, they're like twenty

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Speaker 1: what'd you show up like forty five minutes later? No,

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Speaker 1: it was legit. It was like fifteen minutes or around. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're around. Oh, Jeff's going to keep going up. That's okay,

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Speaker 1: We'll trust you on this. So when you got there,

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Speaker 1: what happened? So she comes out of her apartment, I'm

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Speaker 1: shakes my hand, and immediately it's like, oh, I forgot

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Speaker 1: handshake that's a little interesting. I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: know who does know. No, that's not a thing. What

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Speaker 1: are you gonna do? Like fist bump hu? Yeah? I

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Speaker 1: mean maybe she was just nervous and it was awkward

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Speaker 1: go back inside for a minute, So she went back in. So, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she goes back in and I'm waiting, you know, five

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Speaker 1: ten minutes. She's not coming out. So I text her,

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Speaker 1: I call her. She's still not coming out, no responses.

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Speaker 1: She's ghosting you from inside her apartment. Suddenly, did you

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Speaker 1: little bit a limp on the wrist, that's her test,

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Speaker 1: that's it. No, wait, when did she finally come out?

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Speaker 1: So she didn't come out, So I decided you know,

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Speaker 1: it's cute to do desperate stuff for a love, but no,

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Speaker 1: I just couldn't let it go. So I had to

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Speaker 1: Did you ever find her? Yeah? So one of her

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Speaker 1: end of arguments, wrap it up. Wow, this has been

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Speaker 1: Let's find out. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back,

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Speaker 1: we'll call Jessica for you, and we'll try and get

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Speaker 1: for the second date update. We're talking with one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Brandon, who might accidentally be the smoothest guy

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Speaker 1: we've ever had on this show. Definitely by accident. I

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Speaker 1: Before he even knew what was happening. They were making bacon.

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Speaker 1: That is a weird way to say, No, got better, Yeah, boots,

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Speaker 1: that's so full. They were doing what she said, No,

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Speaker 1: doing the Amsterdam boogie, and he didn't know how it happened. Okay,

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Speaker 1: whatever things happened, and he ended up staying the night.

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Speaker 1: And now, for the second time, Brandon's being ghosted by

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Speaker 1: That feels through a radio station. Even maybe she's hoping

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Speaker 1: is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning, and we're doing something on our show called

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Speaker 1: a second date update. Are you familiar with that? You've

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Speaker 1: us about you. His name's Brandon Branding called sorry, I

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Speaker 1: you guys hung out together. Is that not true? Um,

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Speaker 1: a like my FoST really long relationship, and like went

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Speaker 1: online and he seems nice, but like he didn't look

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Speaker 1: I mean, jose brought up a good point. If that's

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Speaker 1: that's a girl's but you know, like he doesn't want

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Speaker 1: It's time. That's not an eye for an eye thing. Man,

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Speaker 1: that's the problem. Well, it's not like I thought i'd

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Speaker 1: I'm so mortified right now. I hate to make you

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Speaker 1: heck no, Yeah, yeah, I think this one. You got

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Speaker 1: an answer to Brandon? You there? Yeah, yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Whoa look at that swab? What is that? Um? What

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Speaker 1: you know what, You're not gonna go out with me again?

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Speaker 1: So why don't why don't we just get to know

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Speaker 1: Sort of the volume up on both your ends? Blow?

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Speaker 1: quick phone date? What? Yeah? Look, I mean I get it.

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Speaker 1: Like she's just so so again? Really, I think you're

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Speaker 1: a great You really are a great sales person. I mean,

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Speaker 1: to what do you like music? Oh? You get free

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Speaker 1: you like the band Train? My uncle is their manager

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Speaker 1: They're a good show. Okay, And Jessica, I would definitely

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Speaker 1: mean I did listen to them in middle school. He

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Speaker 1: your radio. Brandon. I am so sorry. I've never in

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Speaker 1: Trained before, So this is this is really shocking. You

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Speaker 1: know what, Brandon, I'll go through to a concert, okay,

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Speaker 1: and I'll pay for it. What do you say I

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