WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Drop- Off Daddy

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat day. We've handled school crushes on this segment before.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and normally it's between two adults who maybe

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<v Speaker 1>used to be high school sweethearts years ago. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>always really cute. Or sometimes it's a couple of teachers

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<v Speaker 1>who got freaky in the art room supply closet during assembly,

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<v Speaker 1>also cute. But today's is gonna be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>different because we're gonna be handling a current school crush

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<v Speaker 1>between two parents. Oh glad, that's the twist that we took.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of them is on the phone asking for

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<v Speaker 1>our help today. Her name's Maddie. What's up, Maddie. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you guys doing. Oh you found that one

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<v Speaker 1>hot single guy. Huh yeah, the rare one no attachment

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<v Speaker 1>single dad. Okay, I mean she has a kid. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I was like the rest of the single moms

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<v Speaker 1>are pissed at you. Sorry, sorry, Well, let's find out

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<v Speaker 1>more about the single dad. What's his name? What his

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<v Speaker 1>name is? Derek? And so we met. Our kids go

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<v Speaker 1>to the same school, and we have a double lane

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<v Speaker 1>drop off system in our school, so we would like

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<v Speaker 1>parallel we'd be parallel to each other, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we could see in each other's window. Hey, what's up? Okay? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the drop offline is like the pickup spot, now picking

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<v Speaker 1>up more than just your kids. Yeah, so are your

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<v Speaker 1>kids about the same age or they in the same class,

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<v Speaker 1>or well they're not in the same class, but they

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<v Speaker 1>are at the same age. Okay, your kid was held back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there's multiple classes of the same that makes more sense.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd call for help. Oh my goodness. So how did

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<v Speaker 1>you and Derek finally get to talking? Okay? So, um,

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<v Speaker 1>one day we were we were actually walking out together

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, you want to get some coffee

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<v Speaker 1>or I was like, um, yes, of course, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>Are the whole time is your kid just like tugging

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<v Speaker 1>on your coat, like let's go? No? They there, they

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<v Speaker 1>were in school, they were talking, so you just dropped

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<v Speaker 1>them off. I see, I see. Okay. Yeah, so you

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<v Speaker 1>ended up going to coffee with him. Yeah, we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to coffee. We're talking. We had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>Like sometimes, you know, when you have recent exes, you

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<v Speaker 1>tend to talk about them on the on the dates

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't realize it. And this one we really

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<v Speaker 1>I found myself not talking about Okay, good start that's

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<v Speaker 1>growth for you. Sound like it's really proud of yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good thing. Yeah, it's been like five years. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even have any kids with that at I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel like a date because you guys went straight

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<v Speaker 1>from like drop off to coffee, Like was there sparks?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. Like it's felt so easy, so natural,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I felt like I known him for the longest,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I and I had but yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt so comfortable and and then you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>check came in. He was like, oh, let me, let

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<v Speaker 1>me get this, and I was like, oh no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, I didn't want it to feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the date date. You don't want it to feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a date date? What kind of date? Did you want

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<v Speaker 1>it to feel like? Okay, come on, we're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to beat around the bush a date with the expectation

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<v Speaker 1>that there might be something happening afterwards. What she's saying

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<v Speaker 1>is she wants to have a date date, but she

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<v Speaker 1>wants it to be an outlined let's go on a date. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want any confusion. Did you at least do

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<v Speaker 1>like a but you can get me next time so

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<v Speaker 1>that it like eludes that this is going to happen again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I should have said that. I'm like, no, man,

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<v Speaker 1>pay for you now? Not ever, that would have been good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I just wonder if it like put him

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<v Speaker 1>down a little bit in terms of like get me

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<v Speaker 1>you then turned it into a friend zone thing by

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<v Speaker 1>doing that. I understood what you were saying, but I

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<v Speaker 1>also understand what Brooke is saying. Yeah, I personally would

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<v Speaker 1>be offended. I love to pay for everyone all the time, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so if I get rejected, it would feel like a

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<v Speaker 1>rejection to me. Would you like to pay for me? Yeah? So, Maddie,

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<v Speaker 1>are you thinking that that really offended him? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the vibe you were getting from Derek? Something seemed different

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<v Speaker 1>after that, But I mean he was still cordial, he

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<v Speaker 1>was still cracking jokes and all that. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we we said goodbye, you know, we waved, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a little contact we left, and I had

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<v Speaker 1>him actually given him my number, okay, you know hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>you know he would text me with like, hey let's

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<v Speaker 1>go on the second dame or maybe you know something

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know And I'm like, I'm confused because I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm not to like sound too cocky or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm like this about your job. I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>should feel that way. So how long has it been

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<v Speaker 1>since that coffee date. It's been two weeks. Oh. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you seen him at the drop off line? Yes, but

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<v Speaker 1>not as often. And at the time I did see him,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was an accident. I think he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to happen. In fact, now he's tinted all the windows

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<v Speaker 1>on his cars and you can't set him. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's really weird. My only thought here is, are

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<v Speaker 1>you sure that he's a single dad? Oh? Yeah, we talk.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about it. There's no tan lines, like that's

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<v Speaker 1>something you you you notice? Oh you get tan lines

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<v Speaker 1>when you are on the ring. Oh. I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this coffee date got really interested. But anyway, let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>play a song. We're gonna come back. We'll call Derek

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<v Speaker 1>for you and we'll try and get you your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right, all right, thank you? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, two single parents, two identical minivans, two children

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<v Speaker 1>in the same class, but only one has an STD.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the lacky wrong com everybody's waiting to see PTA

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<v Speaker 1>with hpving this fall. No I'm just joking about that

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<v Speaker 1>last part. It's coming out of the spring. One of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Maddie, is a single mom and she met

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<v Speaker 1>a single dad recently named Derek in the school drop

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<v Speaker 1>offline and two of them hit it off and ended

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<v Speaker 1>up going out to coffee together. But afterwards, Derek has

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<v Speaker 1>been acting a little bit strange, kind of avoiding Maddie

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<v Speaker 1>and she does not know why, so she's asking for

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<v Speaker 1>our help. Maddie, is there any is there any parts

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<v Speaker 1>of the story that we didn't cover there? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about? Std? When I know you were joking,

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<v Speaker 1>but my goodness, sorry, I didn't want to give out

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<v Speaker 1>the spoilers to the ending of this one, laughed Jess.

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<v Speaker 1>She just really thought that was funny, didn't you. Maddie, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what exactly exactly. Let's sit like the bottom line is

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<v Speaker 1>is like, I'm a single mother, hard out there finding

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<v Speaker 1>you know, quality guys. So you know I clicked. I

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<v Speaker 1>clicked with him, and that's rare. I know, we got you.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna fix this. And you did mention though that

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<v Speaker 1>your kids are the same age. There's no chance that

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<v Speaker 1>the two of them have some sort of school crush

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<v Speaker 1>going on. What are you doing matter they're in elementary school.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't want the parents, get them together. If

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<v Speaker 1>the kids are getting together too. Nobody's getting together at

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<v Speaker 1>elementary school. Maybe they're kicking each other in the shins

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<v Speaker 1>to say I like you like? That's not actually, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, parents and kids getting together. That's another good

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<v Speaker 1>idea for a movie. I'm going to pitch it to

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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood after this. But first we get Derek on the phone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just gonna call Derek and we'll ask what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready, Maddie, I'm ready. Number nine. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Derek. Yeah, he's this. Hey. My name's

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing man? Okay, Hi, Derekh, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>So we're doing a segment on our show. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>a second Date Update. I'm not sure if you're familiar

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<v Speaker 1>with that, but basically it's where we help out our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners who are being ghosted try to figure out why

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<v Speaker 1>the other person isn't calling them back after a good date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a listener, that's okay. Most people aren't broke

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<v Speaker 1>but we do have a listener that went on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with you, and her name's Maddie. I mean, I know, Maddie,

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<v Speaker 1>we had coffee. I don't I don't know about a date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well I could see that. I could see how it

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<v Speaker 1>could be deciphered either way. Sure told us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about it. There may or may not have been

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<v Speaker 1>considered an actual date. But there was a hangout with

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<v Speaker 1>you and Maddie, and she had a really good time

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Yeah, she's a really nice person. It was

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<v Speaker 1>nice to meeting her and studying some time with her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>was there any vibes like did you get the vibe

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<v Speaker 1>from her that she was looking, you know, for like

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<v Speaker 1>a real date maybe in the future. Oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say anything that would paint her in a

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<v Speaker 1>bad light. So pat in a bad light. Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>listens to our show. I mean a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>that happens. Whenever we have somebody on this show for this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we have to tell them ahead of time.

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<v Speaker 1>They might hear something a little bit embarrassing about themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>so they have to agree to it. And Maddie is

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<v Speaker 1>prepared for whatever the real answer is. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to be polite, but fine, this is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>sound weird. After we had coffee, right, I found her

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<v Speaker 1>on Facebook and that's kind of excited because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't hung out with a single mom in a while. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you were actually too, Yeah, you were actually thinking

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<v Speaker 1>this could turn into something then, I mean you were

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<v Speaker 1>positive at that point. After the date, You're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this. Yeah. After coffee, I was definitely like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, maybe there's something here. Oh okay, So what changed? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I was excited. As I was dropping my son off

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<v Speaker 1>at his grandparents. My dad and like, I'm telling him

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<v Speaker 1>about Maddie and I showed him a picture of her

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<v Speaker 1>on my phone and my dad got this weird book

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<v Speaker 1>on his face and he says, I know her, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what what are you talking about? What your

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<v Speaker 1>dad knows Maddie. I mean, it makes sense. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>are in the same community, you go to the same school,

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<v Speaker 1>like it does. I mean, everybody's like two degrees separation

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<v Speaker 1>when you're in an elementary school. Honestly, I guess, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's possible that they would know each other. How

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<v Speaker 1>my dad goes, this is gonna sound strange, but I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen her online. She's on the website only fans. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the bigger question, only fans? Why I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you see? Now this seems more normal to me. It

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<v Speaker 1>Did he give you more details? Did you go and

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<v Speaker 1>look up her only fans page? Yeah? I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't believe my dad at first, but then he showed

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<v Speaker 1>me and sure enough, that's her. I mean she's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>under a different name there, but like it was already

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<v Speaker 1>open on his browser. That's weird. He's like, I have

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of her too. She's I mean, I'm sorry. She

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<v Speaker 1>did not do anything wrong. She's an adult woman, she's

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<v Speaker 1>a single mom, Blair, I mean, she's hot. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think about that? It was just like a little shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>I never pictured myself of someone from only fans And

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<v Speaker 1>like she's quite popular on the site. Okay, how popular?

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<v Speaker 1>Who wonders she paid for her own coffee? Yeah? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean? She's popular? She has like a large

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<v Speaker 1>amount of subscribers there, and you you know, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>like a dad with a kid. It's just weird me

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<v Speaker 1>out out. I don't know. You definitely want the more popular,

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<v Speaker 1>the less popular that's a good point, but I also

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<v Speaker 1>get it as a parent that would feel kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to tell you, Maddie's on the other line listening,

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<v Speaker 1>and she wants to speak with you, and she wants

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<v Speaker 1>you to subscribe. I don't know about that, Maddie. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my, oh my god, you were on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. I thought they were just gonna relay

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<v Speaker 1>it to you, like, wait, oh boy, No, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. So you have a you have a problem

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<v Speaker 1>with me having the only fans pase that's what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that problems the right where. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how I feel about it. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you have some suggestions for her. What what do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, like content? Yeah, like maybe is that where

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<v Speaker 1>we're going? Okay, where are we rippen? I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I can be with somebody like that, But I did

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<v Speaker 1>feel a connection with you, and I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>feel that you were that narrow minded that you can't

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<v Speaker 1>get past something like this. I mean, I'm a single

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<v Speaker 1>mother trying to make ends meet. I make a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money, and I spend a lot of time with

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<v Speaker 1>my son. I just I can't get my mind around

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<v Speaker 1>that you you really just did not talk to me

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<v Speaker 1>because I have an only fancy. I think maybe maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just guessing for Derek, he just doesn't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to approach the situation the right way. Yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he was taken aback by it and he's not sure

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<v Speaker 1>the right way to handle it. I'm not saying it's

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<v Speaker 1>good or b I was just processing it at my

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<v Speaker 1>own speed, you know, while doing with my responsibilities. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't dated him a very long time. It's quite possible

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<v Speaker 1>everyone hasn't only fans at this point. I acknowledge that,

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<v Speaker 1>just the entire PGA board. All right, Derek, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you understand what we're talking about. Is

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<v Speaker 1>it like you're you're a lucky position to be in

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<v Speaker 1>right now. You know how many I want to date me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very popular on only fans, you know. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>hear that you're you're a little bit um defensive. Defensive

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<v Speaker 1>They're defensive. Yeah, I'm trying to use the right words here.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say desperate. Yeah, I'm not saying that,

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<v Speaker 1>but uh, I mean, clearly you're seeking his approval here,

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<v Speaker 1>like you definitely want to go out on another date

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<v Speaker 1>with him. So we had a connection, a connection that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't happen often, and I felt a spark and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I have a belief that he's going to

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<v Speaker 1>come through. Okay, I think we understand it. And let's

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<v Speaker 1>see if Derek can come through here, because he's been

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about this, and we'd like to offer Derek to

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<v Speaker 1>send you guys out on another date. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think the thing is Derek like, this is your opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to ask all the questions that you have about her

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<v Speaker 1>line of work. Very good and if and if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel comfortable after that, then you know, move on.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it's not right for you. That's okay too, conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>You could bring your dad along too and ask some questions.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he wants to know a lot talk subscriber.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I could probably get my head around the

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<v Speaker 1>only fans thing, but like just from this radio thing

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<v Speaker 1>and the way she just like it's quite aggressive, so

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<v Speaker 1>early on, I'm gonna respectfully pass. He just wants to

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<v Speaker 1>hang up so bad right now. I think it's maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not the right fit for him. Comfortable. Wow, Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh great, there's a million guys on the text board here.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of want to know what her only fans is.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just curious. I'm just curious. I think your husband

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't mind it all. Yeah, we'll find all that information

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<v Speaker 1>out and then we're gonna call Derek's Dade interested. You're terrible. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.