Speaker 1: Second dat day. We've handled school crushes on this segment before.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and normally it's between two adults who maybe
Speaker 1: used to be high school sweethearts years ago. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: always really cute. Or sometimes it's a couple of teachers
Speaker 1: who got freaky in the art room supply closet during assembly,
Speaker 1: also cute. But today's is gonna be a little bit
Speaker 1: different because we're gonna be handling a current school crush
Speaker 1: between two parents. Oh glad, that's the twist that we took.
Speaker 1: And one of them is on the phone asking for
Speaker 1: our help today. Her name's Maddie. What's up, Maddie. Hey,
Speaker 1: how are you guys doing. Oh you found that one
Speaker 1: hot single guy. Huh yeah, the rare one no attachment
Speaker 1: single dad. Okay, I mean she has a kid. I
Speaker 1: mean I was like the rest of the single moms
Speaker 1: are pissed at you. Sorry, sorry, Well, let's find out
Speaker 1: more about the single dad. What's his name? What his
Speaker 1: name is? Derek? And so we met. Our kids go
Speaker 1: to the same school, and we have a double lane
Speaker 1: drop off system in our school, so we would like
Speaker 1: parallel we'd be parallel to each other, so you know,
Speaker 1: we could see in each other's window. Hey, what's up? Okay? Okay,
Speaker 1: the drop offline is like the pickup spot, now picking
Speaker 1: up more than just your kids. Yeah, so are your
Speaker 1: kids about the same age or they in the same class,
Speaker 1: or well they're not in the same class, but they
Speaker 1: are at the same age. Okay, your kid was held back. Okay,
Speaker 1: there's multiple classes of the same that makes more sense.
Speaker 1: I'd call for help. Oh my goodness. So how did
Speaker 1: you and Derek finally get to talking? Okay? So, um,
Speaker 1: one day we were we were actually walking out together
Speaker 1: and he was like, you want to get some coffee
Speaker 1: or I was like, um, yes, of course, let's go.
Speaker 1: Are the whole time is your kid just like tugging
Speaker 1: on your coat, like let's go? No? They there, they
Speaker 1: were in school, they were talking, so you just dropped
Speaker 1: them off. I see, I see. Okay. Yeah, so you
Speaker 1: ended up going to coffee with him. Yeah, we were
Speaker 1: going to coffee. We're talking. We had a great time.
Speaker 1: Like sometimes, you know, when you have recent exes, you
Speaker 1: tend to talk about them on the on the dates
Speaker 1: and you don't realize it. And this one we really
Speaker 1: I found myself not talking about Okay, good start that's
Speaker 1: growth for you. Sound like it's really proud of yourself.
Speaker 1: That's a good thing. Yeah, it's been like five years. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't even have any kids with that at I mean,
Speaker 1: didn't feel like a date because you guys went straight
Speaker 1: from like drop off to coffee, Like was there sparks?
Speaker 1: That's the thing. Like it's felt so easy, so natural,
Speaker 1: Like I felt like I known him for the longest,
Speaker 1: you know, and I and I had but yeah, I
Speaker 1: just felt so comfortable and and then you know, the
Speaker 1: check came in. He was like, oh, let me, let
Speaker 1: me get this, and I was like, oh no, no, no,
Speaker 1: because you know, I didn't want it to feel like
Speaker 1: the date date. You don't want it to feel like
Speaker 1: a date date? What kind of date? Did you want
Speaker 1: it to feel like? Okay, come on, we're not going
Speaker 1: to beat around the bush a date with the expectation
Speaker 1: that there might be something happening afterwards. What she's saying
Speaker 1: is she wants to have a date date, but she
Speaker 1: wants it to be an outlined let's go on a date. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want any confusion. Did you at least do
Speaker 1: like a but you can get me next time so
Speaker 1: that it like eludes that this is going to happen again.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I should have said that. I'm like, no, man,
Speaker 1: pay for you now? Not ever, that would have been good.
Speaker 1: I mean I just wonder if it like put him
Speaker 1: down a little bit in terms of like get me
Speaker 1: you then turned it into a friend zone thing by
Speaker 1: doing that. I understood what you were saying, but I
Speaker 1: also understand what Brooke is saying. Yeah, I personally would
Speaker 1: be offended. I love to pay for everyone all the time, Like,
Speaker 1: so if I get rejected, it would feel like a
Speaker 1: rejection to me. Would you like to pay for me? Yeah? So, Maddie,
Speaker 1: are you thinking that that really offended him? Is that
Speaker 1: the vibe you were getting from Derek? Something seemed different
Speaker 1: after that, But I mean he was still cordial, he
Speaker 1: was still cracking jokes and all that. And you know,
Speaker 1: we we said goodbye, you know, we waved, you know,
Speaker 1: there was a little contact we left, and I had
Speaker 1: him actually given him my number, okay, you know hopefully
Speaker 1: you know he would text me with like, hey let's
Speaker 1: go on the second dame or maybe you know something
Speaker 1: didn't know And I'm like, I'm confused because I'm thinking
Speaker 1: that I'm not to like sound too cocky or anything,
Speaker 1: but I'm like this about your job. I mean you
Speaker 1: should feel that way. So how long has it been
Speaker 1: since that coffee date. It's been two weeks. Oh. Have
Speaker 1: you seen him at the drop off line? Yes, but
Speaker 1: not as often. And at the time I did see him,
Speaker 1: I think it was an accident. I think he wanted
Speaker 1: to happen. In fact, now he's tinted all the windows
Speaker 1: on his cars and you can't set him. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean that's really weird. My only thought here is, are
Speaker 1: you sure that he's a single dad? Oh? Yeah, we talk.
Speaker 1: We talked about it. There's no tan lines, like that's
Speaker 1: something you you you notice? Oh you get tan lines
Speaker 1: when you are on the ring. Oh. I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: this coffee date got really interested. But anyway, let's let's
Speaker 1: play a song. We're gonna come back. We'll call Derek
Speaker 1: for you and we'll try and get you your second
Speaker 1: date update. All right, all right, thank you? All right?
Speaker 1: Hold on, two single parents, two identical minivans, two children
Speaker 1: in the same class, but only one has an STD.
Speaker 1: It's the lacky wrong com everybody's waiting to see PTA
Speaker 1: with hpving this fall. No I'm just joking about that
Speaker 1: last part. It's coming out of the spring. One of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Maddie, is a single mom and she met
Speaker 1: a single dad recently named Derek in the school drop
Speaker 1: offline and two of them hit it off and ended
Speaker 1: up going out to coffee together. But afterwards, Derek has
Speaker 1: been acting a little bit strange, kind of avoiding Maddie
Speaker 1: and she does not know why, so she's asking for
Speaker 1: our help. Maddie, is there any is there any parts
Speaker 1: of the story that we didn't cover there? What are
Speaker 1: you talking about? Std? When I know you were joking,
Speaker 1: but my goodness, sorry, I didn't want to give out
Speaker 1: the spoilers to the ending of this one, laughed Jess.
Speaker 1: She just really thought that was funny, didn't you. Maddie, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what exactly exactly. Let's sit like the bottom line is
Speaker 1: is like, I'm a single mother, hard out there finding
Speaker 1: you know, quality guys. So you know I clicked. I
Speaker 1: clicked with him, and that's rare. I know, we got you.
Speaker 1: We're gonna fix this. And you did mention though that
Speaker 1: your kids are the same age. There's no chance that
Speaker 1: the two of them have some sort of school crush
Speaker 1: going on. What are you doing matter they're in elementary school.
Speaker 1: If you don't want the parents, get them together. If
Speaker 1: the kids are getting together too. Nobody's getting together at
Speaker 1: elementary school. Maybe they're kicking each other in the shins
Speaker 1: to say I like you like? That's not actually, you
Speaker 1: know what, parents and kids getting together. That's another good
Speaker 1: idea for a movie. I'm going to pitch it to
Speaker 1: Hollywood after this. But first we get Derek on the phone. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're just gonna call Derek and we'll ask what's going on?
Speaker 1: Are you ready, Maddie, I'm ready. Number nine. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for Derek. Yeah, he's this. Hey. My name's
Speaker 1: Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: How you doing man? Okay, Hi, Derekh, what's going on?
Speaker 1: So we're doing a segment on our show. It's called
Speaker 1: a second Date Update. I'm not sure if you're familiar
Speaker 1: with that, but basically it's where we help out our
Speaker 1: listeners who are being ghosted try to figure out why
Speaker 1: the other person isn't calling them back after a good date. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not a listener, that's okay. Most people aren't broke
Speaker 1: but we do have a listener that went on a
Speaker 1: date with you, and her name's Maddie. I mean, I know, Maddie,
Speaker 1: we had coffee. I don't I don't know about a date. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well I could see that. I could see how it
Speaker 1: could be deciphered either way. Sure told us a little
Speaker 1: bit about it. There may or may not have been
Speaker 1: considered an actual date. But there was a hangout with
Speaker 1: you and Maddie, and she had a really good time
Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, she's a really nice person. It was
Speaker 1: nice to meeting her and studying some time with her. Okay,
Speaker 1: was there any vibes like did you get the vibe
Speaker 1: from her that she was looking, you know, for like
Speaker 1: a real date maybe in the future. Oh, I don't
Speaker 1: want to say anything that would paint her in a
Speaker 1: bad light. So pat in a bad light. Well, she
Speaker 1: listens to our show. I mean a lot of times
Speaker 1: that happens. Whenever we have somebody on this show for this.
Speaker 1: I mean, we have to tell them ahead of time.
Speaker 1: They might hear something a little bit embarrassing about themselves,
Speaker 1: so they have to agree to it. And Maddie is
Speaker 1: prepared for whatever the real answer is. You know, I
Speaker 1: was trying to be polite, but fine, this is gonna
Speaker 1: sound weird. After we had coffee, right, I found her
Speaker 1: on Facebook and that's kind of excited because you know,
Speaker 1: I haven't hung out with a single mom in a while. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you were actually too, Yeah, you were actually thinking
Speaker 1: this could turn into something then, I mean you were
Speaker 1: positive at that point. After the date, You're like, okay,
Speaker 1: let's do this. Yeah. After coffee, I was definitely like,
Speaker 1: all right, maybe there's something here. Oh okay, So what changed? Well?
Speaker 1: I was excited. As I was dropping my son off
Speaker 1: at his grandparents. My dad and like, I'm telling him
Speaker 1: about Maddie and I showed him a picture of her
Speaker 1: on my phone and my dad got this weird book
Speaker 1: on his face and he says, I know her, And
Speaker 1: I'm like, what what are you talking about? What your
Speaker 1: dad knows Maddie. I mean, it makes sense. You guys
Speaker 1: are in the same community, you go to the same school,
Speaker 1: like it does. I mean, everybody's like two degrees separation
Speaker 1: when you're in an elementary school. Honestly, I guess, I
Speaker 1: guess it's possible that they would know each other. How
Speaker 1: my dad goes, this is gonna sound strange, but I've
Speaker 1: seen her online. She's on the website only fans. Oh,
Speaker 1: I think the bigger question, only fans? Why I wouldn't
Speaker 1: you see? Now this seems more normal to me. It
Speaker 1: Did he give you more details? Did you go and
Speaker 1: look up her only fans page? Yeah? I didn't. I
Speaker 1: didn't believe my dad at first, but then he showed
Speaker 1: me and sure enough, that's her. I mean she's you know,
Speaker 1: under a different name there, but like it was already
Speaker 1: open on his browser. That's weird. He's like, I have
Speaker 1: pictures of her too. She's I mean, I'm sorry. She
Speaker 1: did not do anything wrong. She's an adult woman, she's
Speaker 1: a single mom, Blair, I mean, she's hot. What do
Speaker 1: you think about that? It was just like a little shocking.
Speaker 1: I never pictured myself of someone from only fans And
Speaker 1: like she's quite popular on the site. Okay, how popular?
Speaker 1: Who wonders she paid for her own coffee? Yeah? What
Speaker 1: do you mean? She's popular? She has like a large
Speaker 1: amount of subscribers there, and you you know, I'm just
Speaker 1: like a dad with a kid. It's just weird me
Speaker 1: out out. I don't know. You definitely want the more popular,
Speaker 1: the less popular that's a good point, but I also
Speaker 1: get it as a parent that would feel kind of weird.
Speaker 1: I need to tell you, Maddie's on the other line listening,
Speaker 1: and she wants to speak with you, and she wants
Speaker 1: you to subscribe. I don't know about that, Maddie. Hi,
Speaker 1: oh my, oh my god, you were on the phone
Speaker 1: the whole time. I thought they were just gonna relay
Speaker 1: it to you, like, wait, oh boy, No, I know.
Speaker 1: I know. So you have a you have a problem
Speaker 1: with me having the only fans pase that's what it was.
Speaker 1: I don't know that problems the right where. I just
Speaker 1: don't know how I feel about it. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe you have some suggestions for her. What what do
Speaker 1: you mean, like content? Yeah, like maybe is that where
Speaker 1: we're going? Okay, where are we rippen? I don't think
Speaker 1: I can be with somebody like that, But I did
Speaker 1: feel a connection with you, and I don't want to
Speaker 1: feel that you were that narrow minded that you can't
Speaker 1: get past something like this. I mean, I'm a single
Speaker 1: mother trying to make ends meet. I make a lot
Speaker 1: of money, and I spend a lot of time with
Speaker 1: my son. I just I can't get my mind around
Speaker 1: that you you really just did not talk to me
Speaker 1: because I have an only fancy. I think maybe maybe
Speaker 1: I'm just guessing for Derek, he just doesn't know how
Speaker 1: to approach the situation the right way. Yeah. I think
Speaker 1: he was taken aback by it and he's not sure
Speaker 1: the right way to handle it. I'm not saying it's
Speaker 1: good or b I was just processing it at my
Speaker 1: own speed, you know, while doing with my responsibilities. I
Speaker 1: haven't dated him a very long time. It's quite possible
Speaker 1: everyone hasn't only fans at this point. I acknowledge that,
Speaker 1: just the entire PGA board. All right, Derek, I don't
Speaker 1: I don't think you understand what we're talking about. Is
Speaker 1: it like you're you're a lucky position to be in
Speaker 1: right now. You know how many I want to date me.
Speaker 1: I'm very popular on only fans, you know. Okay, I
Speaker 1: hear that you're you're a little bit um defensive. Defensive
Speaker 1: They're defensive. Yeah, I'm trying to use the right words here.
Speaker 1: I don't want to say desperate. Yeah, I'm not saying that,
Speaker 1: but uh, I mean, clearly you're seeking his approval here,
Speaker 1: like you definitely want to go out on another date
Speaker 1: with him. So we had a connection, a connection that
Speaker 1: doesn't happen often, and I felt a spark and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I have a belief that he's going to
Speaker 1: come through. Okay, I think we understand it. And let's
Speaker 1: see if Derek can come through here, because he's been
Speaker 1: thinking about this, and we'd like to offer Derek to
Speaker 1: send you guys out on another date. I mean, I
Speaker 1: think the thing is Derek like, this is your opportunity
Speaker 1: to ask all the questions that you have about her
Speaker 1: line of work. Very good and if and if you
Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable after that, then you know, move on.
Speaker 1: You know it's not right for you. That's okay too, conversation.
Speaker 1: You could bring your dad along too and ask some questions.
Speaker 1: I'm sure he wants to know a lot talk subscriber.
Speaker 1: I mean, I could probably get my head around the
Speaker 1: only fans thing, but like just from this radio thing
Speaker 1: and the way she just like it's quite aggressive, so
Speaker 1: early on, I'm gonna respectfully pass. He just wants to
Speaker 1: hang up so bad right now. I think it's maybe
Speaker 1: not the right fit for him. Comfortable. Wow, Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: Oh great, there's a million guys on the text board here.
Speaker 1: I kind of want to know what her only fans is.
Speaker 1: I'm just curious. I'm just curious. I think your husband
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind it all. Yeah, we'll find all that information
Speaker 1: out and then we're gonna call Derek's Dade interested. You're terrible. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.