1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Second dat day. We've handled school crushes on this segment before. 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and normally it's between two adults who maybe 3 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: used to be high school sweethearts years ago. Yeah, it's 4 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: always really cute. Or sometimes it's a couple of teachers 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: who got freaky in the art room supply closet during assembly, 6 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,440 Speaker 1: also cute. But today's is gonna be a little bit 7 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: different because we're gonna be handling a current school crush 8 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 1: between two parents. Oh glad, that's the twist that we took. 9 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: And one of them is on the phone asking for 10 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: our help today. Her name's Maddie. What's up, Maddie. Hey, 11 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: how are you guys doing. Oh you found that one 12 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: hot single guy. Huh yeah, the rare one no attachment 13 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: single dad. Okay, I mean she has a kid. I 14 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: mean I was like the rest of the single moms 15 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: are pissed at you. Sorry, sorry, Well, let's find out 16 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: more about the single dad. What's his name? What his 17 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: name is? Derek? And so we met. Our kids go 18 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 1: to the same school, and we have a double lane 19 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: drop off system in our school, so we would like 20 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: parallel we'd be parallel to each other, so you know, 21 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: we could see in each other's window. Hey, what's up? Okay? Okay, 22 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: the drop offline is like the pickup spot, now picking 23 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: up more than just your kids. Yeah, so are your 24 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: kids about the same age or they in the same class, 25 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: or well they're not in the same class, but they 26 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: are at the same age. Okay, your kid was held back. Okay, 27 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: there's multiple classes of the same that makes more sense. 28 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: I'd call for help. Oh my goodness. So how did 29 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: you and Derek finally get to talking? Okay? So, um, 30 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: one day we were we were actually walking out together 31 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: and he was like, you want to get some coffee 32 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: or I was like, um, yes, of course, let's go. 33 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: Are the whole time is your kid just like tugging 34 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: on your coat, like let's go? No? They there, they 35 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: were in school, they were talking, so you just dropped 36 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: them off. I see, I see. Okay. Yeah, so you 37 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: ended up going to coffee with him. Yeah, we were 38 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: going to coffee. We're talking. We had a great time. 39 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: Like sometimes, you know, when you have recent exes, you 40 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: tend to talk about them on the on the dates 41 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: and you don't realize it. And this one we really 42 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: I found myself not talking about Okay, good start that's 43 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: growth for you. Sound like it's really proud of yourself. 44 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 1: That's a good thing. Yeah, it's been like five years. Yeah, 45 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: you don't even have any kids with that at I mean, 46 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: didn't feel like a date because you guys went straight 47 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: from like drop off to coffee, Like was there sparks? 48 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: That's the thing. Like it's felt so easy, so natural, 49 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: Like I felt like I known him for the longest, 50 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: you know, and I and I had but yeah, I 51 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: just felt so comfortable and and then you know, the 52 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: check came in. He was like, oh, let me, let 53 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: me get this, and I was like, oh no, no, no, 54 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 1: because you know, I didn't want it to feel like 55 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 1: the date date. You don't want it to feel like 56 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: a date date? What kind of date? Did you want 57 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: it to feel like? Okay, come on, we're not going 58 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: to beat around the bush a date with the expectation 59 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: that there might be something happening afterwards. What she's saying 60 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: is she wants to have a date date, but she 61 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: wants it to be an outlined let's go on a date. Yeah, yeah, 62 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: I don't want any confusion. Did you at least do 63 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: like a but you can get me next time so 64 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: that it like eludes that this is going to happen again. 65 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I should have said that. I'm like, no, man, 66 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: pay for you now? Not ever, that would have been good. 67 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: I mean I just wonder if it like put him 68 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: down a little bit in terms of like get me 69 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: you then turned it into a friend zone thing by 70 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: doing that. I understood what you were saying, but I 71 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: also understand what Brooke is saying. Yeah, I personally would 72 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: be offended. I love to pay for everyone all the time, Like, 73 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: so if I get rejected, it would feel like a 74 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: rejection to me. Would you like to pay for me? Yeah? So, Maddie, 75 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: are you thinking that that really offended him? Is that 76 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: the vibe you were getting from Derek? Something seemed different 77 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: after that, But I mean he was still cordial, he 78 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: was still cracking jokes and all that. And you know, 79 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: we we said goodbye, you know, we waved, you know, 80 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: there was a little contact we left, and I had 81 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: him actually given him my number, okay, you know hopefully 82 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: you know he would text me with like, hey let's 83 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: go on the second dame or maybe you know something 84 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: didn't know And I'm like, I'm confused because I'm thinking 85 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 1: that I'm not to like sound too cocky or anything, 86 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: but I'm like this about your job. I mean you 87 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: should feel that way. So how long has it been 88 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 1: since that coffee date. It's been two weeks. Oh. Have 89 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: you seen him at the drop off line? Yes, but 90 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 1: not as often. And at the time I did see him, 91 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: I think it was an accident. I think he wanted 92 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: to happen. In fact, now he's tinted all the windows 93 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: on his cars and you can't set him. Yeah. I 94 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: mean that's really weird. My only thought here is, are 95 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: you sure that he's a single dad? Oh? Yeah, we talk. 96 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: We talked about it. There's no tan lines, like that's 97 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: something you you you notice? Oh you get tan lines 98 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 1: when you are on the ring. Oh. I was like, wow, 99 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: this coffee date got really interested. But anyway, let's let's 100 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,559 Speaker 1: play a song. We're gonna come back. We'll call Derek 101 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: for you and we'll try and get you your second 102 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: date update. All right, all right, thank you? All right? 103 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: Hold on, two single parents, two identical minivans, two children 104 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: in the same class, but only one has an STD. 105 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: It's the lacky wrong com everybody's waiting to see PTA 106 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: with hpving this fall. No I'm just joking about that 107 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: last part. It's coming out of the spring. One of 108 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: our listeners, Maddie, is a single mom and she met 109 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,119 Speaker 1: a single dad recently named Derek in the school drop 110 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 1: offline and two of them hit it off and ended 111 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: up going out to coffee together. But afterwards, Derek has 112 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,799 Speaker 1: been acting a little bit strange, kind of avoiding Maddie 113 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: and she does not know why, so she's asking for 114 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: our help. Maddie, is there any is there any parts 115 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: of the story that we didn't cover there? What are 116 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: you talking about? Std? When I know you were joking, 117 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: but my goodness, sorry, I didn't want to give out 118 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: the spoilers to the ending of this one, laughed Jess. 119 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: She just really thought that was funny, didn't you. Maddie, Yeah, 120 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: what exactly exactly. Let's sit like the bottom line is 121 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: is like, I'm a single mother, hard out there finding 122 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: you know, quality guys. So you know I clicked. I 123 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: clicked with him, and that's rare. I know, we got you. 124 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: We're gonna fix this. And you did mention though that 125 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: your kids are the same age. There's no chance that 126 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: the two of them have some sort of school crush 127 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: going on. What are you doing matter they're in elementary school. 128 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: If you don't want the parents, get them together. If 129 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: the kids are getting together too. Nobody's getting together at 130 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: elementary school. Maybe they're kicking each other in the shins 131 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: to say I like you like? That's not actually, you 132 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: know what, parents and kids getting together. That's another good 133 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: idea for a movie. I'm going to pitch it to 134 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: Hollywood after this. But first we get Derek on the phone. Okay, 135 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: we're just gonna call Derek and we'll ask what's going on? 136 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: Are you ready, Maddie, I'm ready. Number nine. Here we go. Hello, Hi, 137 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: I'm looking for Derek. Yeah, he's this. Hey. My name's 138 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 139 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: How you doing man? Okay, Hi, Derekh, what's going on? 140 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: So we're doing a segment on our show. It's called 141 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: a second Date Update. I'm not sure if you're familiar 142 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: with that, but basically it's where we help out our 143 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: listeners who are being ghosted try to figure out why 144 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: the other person isn't calling them back after a good date. Okay, 145 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: I'm not a listener, that's okay. Most people aren't broke 146 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: but we do have a listener that went on a 147 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: date with you, and her name's Maddie. I mean, I know, Maddie, 148 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: we had coffee. I don't I don't know about a date. Okay, 149 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: Well I could see that. I could see how it 150 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: could be deciphered either way. Sure told us a little 151 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 1: bit about it. There may or may not have been 152 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 1: considered an actual date. But there was a hangout with 153 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 1: you and Maddie, and she had a really good time 154 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, she's a really nice person. It was 155 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 1: nice to meeting her and studying some time with her. Okay, 156 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: was there any vibes like did you get the vibe 157 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: from her that she was looking, you know, for like 158 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: a real date maybe in the future. Oh, I don't 159 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: want to say anything that would paint her in a 160 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: bad light. So pat in a bad light. Well, she 161 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: listens to our show. I mean a lot of times 162 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: that happens. Whenever we have somebody on this show for this. 163 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: I mean, we have to tell them ahead of time. 164 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: They might hear something a little bit embarrassing about themselves, 165 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 1: so they have to agree to it. And Maddie is 166 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 1: prepared for whatever the real answer is. You know, I 167 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: was trying to be polite, but fine, this is gonna 168 00:09:56,520 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 1: sound weird. After we had coffee, right, I found her 169 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: on Facebook and that's kind of excited because you know, 170 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: I haven't hung out with a single mom in a while. Okay, 171 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: so you were actually too, Yeah, you were actually thinking 172 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: this could turn into something then, I mean you were 173 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: positive at that point. After the date, You're like, okay, 174 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: let's do this. Yeah. After coffee, I was definitely like, 175 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: all right, maybe there's something here. Oh okay, So what changed? Well? 176 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: I was excited. As I was dropping my son off 177 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: at his grandparents. My dad and like, I'm telling him 178 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 1: about Maddie and I showed him a picture of her 179 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: on my phone and my dad got this weird book 180 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: on his face and he says, I know her, And 181 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, what what are you talking about? What your 182 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: dad knows Maddie. I mean, it makes sense. You guys 183 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: are in the same community, you go to the same school, 184 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: like it does. I mean, everybody's like two degrees separation 185 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: when you're in an elementary school. Honestly, I guess, I 186 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,239 Speaker 1: guess it's possible that they would know each other. How 187 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: my dad goes, this is gonna sound strange, but I've 188 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: seen her online. She's on the website only fans. Oh, 189 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 1: I think the bigger question, only fans? Why I wouldn't 190 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: you see? Now this seems more normal to me. It 191 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: Did he give you more details? Did you go and 192 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 1: look up her only fans page? Yeah? I didn't. I 193 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 1: didn't believe my dad at first, but then he showed 194 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: me and sure enough, that's her. I mean she's you know, 195 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: under a different name there, but like it was already 196 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: open on his browser. That's weird. He's like, I have 197 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 1: pictures of her too. She's I mean, I'm sorry. She 198 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: did not do anything wrong. She's an adult woman, she's 199 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: a single mom, Blair, I mean, she's hot. What do 200 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: you think about that? It was just like a little shocking. 201 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: I never pictured myself of someone from only fans And 202 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: like she's quite popular on the site. Okay, how popular? 203 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 1: Who wonders she paid for her own coffee? Yeah? What 204 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 1: do you mean? She's popular? She has like a large 205 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: amount of subscribers there, and you you know, I'm just 206 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: like a dad with a kid. It's just weird me 207 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: out out. I don't know. You definitely want the more popular, 208 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 1: the less popular that's a good point, but I also 209 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: get it as a parent that would feel kind of weird. 210 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 1: I need to tell you, Maddie's on the other line listening, 211 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: and she wants to speak with you, and she wants 212 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: you to subscribe. I don't know about that, Maddie. Hi, 213 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: oh my, oh my god, you were on the phone 214 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: the whole time. I thought they were just gonna relay 215 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: it to you, like, wait, oh boy, No, I know. 216 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: I know. So you have a you have a problem 217 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: with me having the only fans pase that's what it was. 218 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: I don't know that problems the right where. I just 219 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: don't know how I feel about it. I don't know. 220 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: Maybe you have some suggestions for her. What what do 221 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: you mean, like content? Yeah, like maybe is that where 222 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: we're going? Okay, where are we rippen? I don't think 223 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: I can be with somebody like that, But I did 224 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 1: feel a connection with you, and I don't want to 225 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 1: feel that you were that narrow minded that you can't 226 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: get past something like this. I mean, I'm a single 227 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: mother trying to make ends meet. I make a lot 228 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: of money, and I spend a lot of time with 229 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:20,440 Speaker 1: my son. I just I can't get my mind around 230 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: that you you really just did not talk to me 231 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 1: because I have an only fancy. I think maybe maybe 232 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: I'm just guessing for Derek, he just doesn't know how 233 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: to approach the situation the right way. Yeah. I think 234 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 1: he was taken aback by it and he's not sure 235 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: the right way to handle it. I'm not saying it's 236 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: good or b I was just processing it at my 237 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: own speed, you know, while doing with my responsibilities. I 238 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: haven't dated him a very long time. It's quite possible 239 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: everyone hasn't only fans at this point. I acknowledge that, 240 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 1: just the entire PGA board. All right, Derek, I don't 241 00:13:57,960 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 1: I don't think you understand what we're talking about. Is 242 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: it like you're you're a lucky position to be in 243 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: right now. You know how many I want to date me. 244 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: I'm very popular on only fans, you know. Okay, I 245 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:13,679 Speaker 1: hear that you're you're a little bit um defensive. Defensive 246 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,079 Speaker 1: They're defensive. Yeah, I'm trying to use the right words here. 247 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to say desperate. Yeah, I'm not saying that, 248 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: but uh, I mean, clearly you're seeking his approval here, 249 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: like you definitely want to go out on another date 250 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: with him. So we had a connection, a connection that 251 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: doesn't happen often, and I felt a spark and I 252 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: don't know, I have a belief that he's going to 253 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: come through. Okay, I think we understand it. And let's 254 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: see if Derek can come through here, because he's been 255 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: thinking about this, and we'd like to offer Derek to 256 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: send you guys out on another date. I mean, I 257 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: think the thing is Derek like, this is your opportunity 258 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: to ask all the questions that you have about her 259 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: line of work. Very good and if and if you 260 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable after that, then you know, move on. 261 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: You know it's not right for you. That's okay too, conversation. 262 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: You could bring your dad along too and ask some questions. 263 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure he wants to know a lot talk subscriber. 264 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I could probably get my head around the 265 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: only fans thing, but like just from this radio thing 266 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: and the way she just like it's quite aggressive, so 267 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: early on, I'm gonna respectfully pass. He just wants to 268 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 1: hang up so bad right now. I think it's maybe 269 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: not the right fit for him. Comfortable. Wow, Okay, all right, 270 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: Oh great, there's a million guys on the text board here. 271 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: I kind of want to know what her only fans is. 272 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: I'm just curious. I'm just curious. I think your husband 273 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: wouldn't mind it all. Yeah, we'll find all that information 274 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: out and then we're gonna call Derek's Dade interested. You're terrible. Yeah, 275 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 1: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.