WEBVTT - Mauricio's Apology to Kyle for Hurt! 0:00:01.400 --> 0:00:05.160 Welcome to Reality with the King. It's me Carlos Kings, 0:00:05.200 --> 0:00:07.960 the King of Reality TV and one of the most 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:12.600 sought after executive producers in reality television with over ten 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:16.759 years of production experience. Twice a week on Reality with 0:00:16.800 --> 0:00:19.200 the King, we'll sit down with my friends across the 0:00:19.400 --> 0:00:24.560 entertainment industry, recap our favorite reality shows and revisit unforgettable 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:30.360 moments that we are still talking and tweeting about. 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:35.920 Hi, rain Drops. We have a lot to talk about. 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:41.760 We have a lot to talk about, so we are 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:44.360 going to get right into it. I do not want 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:49.080 to keep you guys waiting. Okay, as you know, next Monday. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:52.720 Next Monday, Doctor heaven Lee and I will be live 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:58.360 in Atlanta, Okay, at the City Winery on February third, 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:03.120 at eight o'clock Monday. I'm going live in front of 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:07.560 people in Atlanta, Okay, So get your tickets go on 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:12.720 the City Winery Atlanta website. The link is also my bio. 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:16.120 We're going to have a good time. It's meet Dtor Heavenly. 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:19.800 A lot of my friends are going to make surprise appearances, 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:24.960 some of your favorites in reality television, so you never 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:26.720 know who's going to be in the audience. I got 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:29.640 a lot of surprise guests and me and Heavily are 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:32.520 going to do a lot. Carlos I was dating someone 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:34.160 who had a baby on the way and broken up 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:37.320 with his fiance last year November. Okay, we are also 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.720 going to do a dating segment and relationship segment, So 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:45.000 bring all your dating and relationship questions to the show. 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:48.720 So again, Doctor Heavenly Carlos King reunited for a live 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:51.680 Monday show on February third in Atlanta, Georgia. 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.840 Get your tickets while you can. They're selling out. It's 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:56.000 a good It's gonna be a good show. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:02:01.880 Now, let's break in the man, the myth, the mystery 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:02.640 that he is. 0:02:02.800 --> 0:02:10.000 Hey, he's legendary. Ladies, gentlemen, day and gaze my italire 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:12.600 fan base of Ray Drops. I just called y'all out. Yes, 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:15.760 give it up for Dustin Raw. 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:20.560 Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Carlos King, what's happening, man, 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:21.720 what's happening? 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:24.800 I haven't seen you in the new year of twenty 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:25.640 twenty five. 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:29.520 The howers are I know, there's been too damn long. 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:31.520 Like the old folks say, I need to put my 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:33.800 eyes on make sure you're doing all right. You know 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:35.960 what I'm saying. I need to put my eyes on you. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:38.640 Now that I have them on you. You look good, Carlos. 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:41.760 I like that, that soft blue in your soft nigga era. 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:46.480 I love that, Carlos. That's cool, man, that's cool for you. 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:48.919 You know what I'm saying. Because we listen, black boy joy, 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:51.280 you know what I'm saying. We gotta have that. And 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:54.600 sometimes it looks like wearing a nice soft color, you know, 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:57.880 just to ease on into the new year and into 0:02:57.880 --> 0:02:59.919 the new Shenanigans in festivit. 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:02.040 So I'm happy to be here. What's up with you, Carlos. 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:02.680 How you feeling, bro? 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:08.400 I feel like my name is Margarine because I'm melting 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:11.560 like butter. But thank you so much for the compliment. 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:12.639 I appreciate it. 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:16.800 That's wonderful. That's wonderful. You look good, dammit. And when 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:19.120 you look good, you feel good. That's a real thing 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:19.440 I do. 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:22.480 Okay, so listen, we have so much to get into. 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:23.760 This is a jam pack show. 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:28.839 So guys, Love and Marriage Huntsville season finale aired this 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:32.120 past Saturday, so we are going to dive right into it. 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:35.280 I know all of you, all of you want to 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:38.960 hear exactly what dust Then has to say about it. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:42.080 So I'm going to do what Glorilla let him cook. 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:47.760 But first, let's get right into the mid season trailer 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:51.640 of the Real Housewives of Belly Hills. My Dustin, you 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:54.640 and I have yet to really talk about this show publicly, 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:57.240 and I want to get your thoughts about this season 0:03:57.320 --> 0:04:00.400 so far before we dive right into the mid season 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:02.320 trailer that just dropped. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:04.400 And one thing I'll say before you start. 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:11.000 Baby Suddon is coming for the girls. 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:13.480 That's Yosemity Sudden. 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:15.760 She come out with them little gun the little pistols, 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:19.200 two pistols Sudden. She comes out guns blazing every time 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:22.320 and she always has. That's why we like her, excuse me, 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:24.599 and that's why Sudden made that transition from a friend 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:27.280 of to a diamond holder and shame moved. Yet she 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:31.200 is a full She's a total package when it comes 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:34.960 to what works in that housewife's zeitgeist. Right, But this season, 0:04:35.040 --> 0:04:37.119 you know, hey, I do watch Beverly Hills. 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:38.000 I love Balls. 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:41.520 I think she's strikingly beautiful and she's just interesting to 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:42.160 look at. 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:43.960 She's a beautiful, beautiful woman. 0:04:44.240 --> 0:04:47.520 When you find out just how accomplished she is and 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:52.320 how deeply entrenched in these streets of relevance that she is. Okay, 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:55.000 without the damn show, it makes her that much more 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:58.359 attractive and that much more desirable for us as viewers. 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:00.280 So I'm loving her, love her daughter, love her and 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:02.919 her black man. I love what they're bringing to this show. 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.520 And I love the fact that she makes some motherfuckers 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.320 take their shoes off when they walk in her home. 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:07.880 I love that. 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:10.280 Okay, I want to know that. 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:13.400 I want to know that obviously I'm black, you're black, 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:15.080 Black households in black. 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:18.440 Yes, you take off your shoes. What's funny? 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:20.960 Is is that a white person thing? 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:21.080 Like? 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:22.400 Do white people take their shoes off? 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:24.080 I want to ask it for my white friends, that 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:26.960 question and my white listeners. Let me know on the 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:29.800 comments if you guys take your shoes off like we do, 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:31.159 or is it a black thing? 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:31.960 I don't know. 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:34.000 Yeah, I don't know what it is, but I'll tell 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:36.839 you what. They taking them off in her damn house. 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:39.080 So I love her. 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:44.120 I think that Dariy brilliantly hitched her wagon too Bowls. 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:46.520 As soon as she came on the scene, dar took 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:49.000 one look at her and she knew she had probably 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:52.480 researched her and done her DOT before she ended up, 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:54.520 you know, on set that day, and she knew that 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:55.359 was a smart choice. 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:57.440 So I like it. I'm enjoying the season. 0:05:57.760 --> 0:06:01.120 Jennifer Tilly has been a bit underwhelming, you know, after 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:03.440 they she told us that she owned the damn Simpsons. 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:05.520 You know, I was excited to see some more wealth. 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:08.680 But she's just been showing up in Hodgepodge, you know, 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:12.880 mitchmatch outfits and quirky you know, hair pieces and shit, 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:15.640 and she can go. We need some more like style 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:18.200 and some more, just some more do we need? Do 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:20.520 we need more casting in the lane of bowls on 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:20.960 that show? 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:24.680 We need some Laurence Stantchez, who is dating Well, she've 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:28.599 engaged to Jeff Bezos, right, like, yeah, you know, although 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:31.000 she lives in Miami. But I agree with your saying 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:34.640 Jennifer Tilly was somebody I was thrilled about. Two she 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:38.440 is definitely not giving what I thought she would give. 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:42.360 I think the decision making was like, she's another Kathy Hilton, 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:47.880 and baby, let me tell you Kathy Hill duplicated, replicated, recycled, 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:50.720 none of that, right, So I do want to see 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:52.919 more for Jennifer Tilly besides the fact that she is 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:55.839 wealthy and she has two homes I think next door 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:57.560 to each other or something like that. 0:06:58.320 --> 0:06:59.720 Don't show you the wealth. 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:03.120 But to your point, what we do give a shit 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:06.200 about is we want to see the lifestyle. We want 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:09.080 to see some great personal story, and we're not getting that. 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:10.080 So I agree with you. 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:16.120 Yeah, no, thanks, I thought, gar You know, so as 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:20.040 a as a very black person, I have a very 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:23.320 soft spot in my heart for garcel Bove aka Fancy. 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:26.320 She just means a lie to us, and I love 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:30.040 that she has comfortably settled into her shoes on this cast. 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:34.400 But sometimes Garsella can come off a bit cold to me, unreasonably, 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:37.560 so like I think that Garsella could be more I 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:39.600 don't know if it's just a personality thing, and I 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:42.960 don't think that she is, you know, taking issue with 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:45.640 the ladies, but garsell could be a bit more friendly 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:47.960 to me than she is on the show. And I 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:50.560 love the fact that she built that home, the beach House. 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:52.760 I love the fact that you know, she's killing it 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:55.760 as a producer in Hollywood. I just would like to 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.320 see her lighting up a little bit on this show, 0:07:58.520 --> 0:07:59.280 you know what I mean. 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:02.120 I thought it was hilarious when she told Kyle, if 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:04.560 you want to be a lesbian, just be a lesbian. 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:07.000 I thought that was hilarious because Kyle didn't know what 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.320 the hell to say when she said that. And as 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:12.040 far as the midseason trailer is concerned, it looked like 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:12.640 more of the same. 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:14.360 I'm excited to see them in Saint Lucia. 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:18.800 I'm excited to see Dared have that you know, break 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:21.280 hitting moment where she finds out that he wants a 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:24.280 divorce and the area they're correlating it with a ten 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:28.240 year timeline and the laws in California according to the marriage. 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.520 That's about to get very interesting and I hate to 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:33.360 see it, but it's going to make for interesting television. 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:35.680 So I'm looking forward to the rest of the season. 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:37.920 What do you think, Well, the thing is that the 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:40.840 midseason trailer, the best moment. 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.880 Was suned and you have to profit for profs. 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:45.880 Do I want to go back to Derek and PK 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:50.640 two ladies and man, if you're listening to child whoever, 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:54.520 honey my ad bits and you ain't got to take it. 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:57.720 Don't ever get married in the state of California. 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:00.560 If you have a lot of money, let's have a 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:01.240 real conversation. 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:04.560 If you have a lot of money, do not get 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:08.160 married in the state of California. Because the laws in 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:12.800 California as relates to marriage, it leans more towards the 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:16.760 person who may not have the most amount of money 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:18.280 going into the marriage. 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:18.600 Right. 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:21.280 And I'm not saying that people get married for reasons 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:23.720 outside of money. What I will say to you is this, 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:26.959 and you gotta believe me, and that's fine. Marriage is 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:32.120 a business, Okay. Marriage is the most important business of life. 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:34.439 I have a show called Love and Marriage that we'll 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:39.040 get into. Marriage is a business. Yes, love is great, 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:42.360 and love is a number one word in the Bible 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:44.640 that we all should sort of operate out of and 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:48.640 use as a vessel for God's glory. Right, So love 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:52.400 is great when it comes to the sanctity of marriage, though, 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:56.320 it's a business. And when you are married to somebody 0:09:56.360 --> 0:09:58.959 in the state of California, and if you're married longer 0:09:59.000 --> 0:10:02.560 than ten years, they're title to have and not even 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:05.720 like it's up for a debate, it's automatic at this point. 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:09.760 They were entitled to have your money and listen, in 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:13.200 some cases, a lot of people who come into the 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:17.000 marriage not having as much as their wife or husband. 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:20.200 Some of them do a lot to make sure that 0:10:20.240 --> 0:10:23.760 their wife her husband has the ability to become the 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:29.720 best CEO. But when you look at the basis of marriage, 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.599 it is a business. And I'm sorry. A marriage certificate 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:37.880 is a contract. A prenuptial is a contract. I don't 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:40.439 have a desire to get married, but that's what I'm 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:43.760 saying today. At twenty twenty five, the year, all I 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:45.760 will say to you is this Dustin Ross. 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:49.440 Yeah, let's be clear, I can meet the love of 0:10:49.440 --> 0:10:49.880 my life. 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:50.480 Yeah. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.520 And I was once with the love of my. 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:55.000 Life, right, and the one conversation here, and I had 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:58.640 all the Tayson tea and me, me, he and all 0:10:58.760 --> 0:10:59.240 together for. 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:03.040 A lot all time, very long time. Yes. 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:06.439 When when he met me, I was working in retail 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:09.040 and he had a six figure job. 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:11.040 Let's have a conversation for my peoples. 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:14.920 The moment I started making money and the and the 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:20.839 finances shifted a bit, right, shifted. The dynamic shifted, and 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:22.599 I'm going to go talk about the finances of it. 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:26.400 We'll do another episode about the dynamic of character. That's 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:28.040 a whole other conversation. I'm gonna take you off the 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:31.360 truth about what happens in a relationship. And the person 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:35.280 who comes in asked, well, Lollo calls the brokey. What 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:37.240 happens when the brokey. 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:38.839 Ends up to me? You know? 0:11:39.040 --> 0:11:41.719 But we'll talk about that later. Now, let's take the 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:43.400 let's take the topic I hand. 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:43.880 Okay. 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:47.600 I remember saying to him, you know, if we ever 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:50.200 got married, I would want to out of prenup. 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:54.640 Okay? Did he contested? Resistant? 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:59.839 He looked at me, rolled his eyes and said, I 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.000 will never sign a prenup. 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:06.679 And got. 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:11.520 It stuck with me. 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:16.920 Okay, like glue on a loosely paper in third grade, 0:12:17.360 --> 0:12:22.080 Elmer with me, Elmer, honey, the con on your skin. 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:23.440 With the orange top. 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:25.839 Yes, yes, and your mama is mad at you. You 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:27.920 go home because you look crazy and you look a 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.880 little bit grew that. 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:32.320 Yeah, it's stuff like that. Damn. 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:34.400 You know, that's one of those things that a person 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:37.120 can say to you that it just gets ingrained into 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:40.000 your memory because of the ramifications of it. 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:44.000 You know, that's a huge declaration to make, and it. 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:48.400 Defies a lot of concerns and natural, you know, questions 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:49.000 that you may have. 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:50.360 So I get it. 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:52.720 I wouldn't forget that either, but I also ain't mad, 0:12:53.280 --> 0:13:01.400 you know. I look, I see both sid. Let's have yoursation. 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:05.680 You got to stand on it ultimately, let's be real. 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:08.400 If yah, and this to all the rain jobs who 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:09.160 want this to happen. 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:13.520 Let's say you and I were in a relationship, and 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.880 when I met you, I was I was working in 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:20.400 retail on Fifth Avenue, New York City, okay, And I 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:23.760 was making eight dollars and fifty cents an hour, and 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:24.800 I was happy. 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:27.960 And I was an intern a nine at eleven A Live. 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:32.760 I was an intern. I was an intern at be 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:39.400 Et and he was making six figures. And he will 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:41.719 always look at me like, my baby's so broke and 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:43.079 got no money, but he happy. 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:45.360 He will always say to me, like, you're really happy 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:46.800 you you you have. 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:49.640 No money though, And I was like, that's okay because 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:53.480 I'm working towards something and I'm gonna be somebody someday 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:55.079 and it's gonna be okay. 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:58.120 But you can't take with my happiness right and then 0:13:58.600 --> 0:13:59.640 and then it shifted. 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:02.640 If that was you and I, and I say to you, 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:08.480 fifteen years into the relationship, that look, if we get married. 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:12.920 I do want you to sign a prenup, but I 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.000 will also make sure you're taken care of. 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:18.480 What would you say, Well, first of all, I'm not 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:21.160 going to be in a relationship with any sort of 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:25.640 intention other than being secure and loving my partner. So 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:29.640 the combination of those looks like a healthy negotiation process. 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:32.000 I would definitely be open to it because I would 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:34.520 have me some shit to protect too. So you know 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:37.160 what I'm saying. If that's what makes us both feel comfortable, 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:39.280 and we're both in this for the right reasons, then 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:42.400 let's click our big You know what I'm saying. I 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:45.160 don't understand what the problem is. You know, if you 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:48.640 you know, hey, yeah, sign it out in line. I 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:50.600 ain't got nothing to high. But again, that's coming from 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:52.480 a person who had who would have had their own 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:55.280 assets to protect, you know, And you have to consider 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:59.240 the relationship you fifteen years in. There's a trust level 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:02.080 that has been and earned at that point where you 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:04.680 can negotiate a prenup that will make you feel safe 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:07.560 and me feel protected, and you feel protected and also 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:09.320 me feel safe when it came to my shit. 0:15:09.680 --> 0:15:11.920 You know what I'm saying. So I think it's fair, 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:13.160 and that's called being mature. 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:17.400 So but again, you know, sometimes people you just are 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:20.440 different stations in life, and certain people just have different agendas. 0:15:20.480 --> 0:15:23.600 But all that can be cleared up very quickly and 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:28.240 sufficiently through clear communication and just looking at him off. 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:30.880 You know when you're being used, You know when a 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:35.280 person is out for monetary gain or being connected to 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:38.240 you and your relationships. You know that, especially when you've 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:39.400 been good for a long time. 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:43.640 So yes, yes, and for the record, I know for 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:45.960 a fact he was not with me for my money. 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:49.440 And I'll say for that, well, not not to you 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:52.040 have to send to the audience, like I know for 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:54.160 a fact that wasn't his gist. But I also thinks 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.320 what you said. I think in his mind he probably 0:15:56.360 --> 0:16:02.400 thought like, uh uh where you Yeah you have, Yeah, 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:05.840 I remember, let's figure this out. Let's thinking I remember 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:08.680 everything and I know so I can get it. 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:09.520 You know, I get it. 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:14.880 So to my audience, okay, have the prenup conversation on 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:20.360 date two, you said day five, No. 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:22.600 I said, my hands are up. I'm in hands are up, 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:26.760 and it means okay, minute five, as far as I'm. 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:29.360 Minute five. 0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:33.160 Okay, Well, the thing that so speaking of prenups. Obviously, 0:16:33.480 --> 0:16:38.040 Sutton didn't I sign one. Something gets And I'm only 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:39.560 saying this because she said it, because I don't tell 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:44.600 people's business. Something gets three hundred and fifty thousand dollars 0:16:44.800 --> 0:16:47.640 a month, a month for the rest of her life. 0:16:48.040 --> 0:16:48.360 Okay. 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:51.640 In the in the mid season trailer, she did talk 0:16:51.720 --> 0:16:55.760 about the fact that somebody asked, I think it was Erica, 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:58.560 do you think you're bigger than Drey And she said 0:16:58.600 --> 0:16:59.440 her wallet is. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:01.000 I got up. 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:07.040 I was on my feet, yup, yup, yup, Yes Lord, 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:09.200 for the rest of our days on the real house 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:13.840 prospectively Hill, that's what she hears every time that wire 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:17.600 hits her account. She hears that gospel song, Yes Lord 0:17:18.119 --> 0:17:20.280 for a little rest of our days, because that's how 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.240 long is she getting that money. 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