1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: It's time to Capture a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show, 2 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Kim is on the phone today for to catch a 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 1: Cheater and she thinks that her husband of four years 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 1: named Jack might be messing around. So let's see if 5 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: we can help her out. Kim, Hi, what's up? What 6 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: do you think is going on? 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 2: Oh? My husband? We've been married for four years, we've 8 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 2: been together for seven. We met right out of high school, 9 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 2: and I mean I've trusted him with my whole heart. 10 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: He's really been the only person I've been with. I 11 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: haven't had a lot of boyfriends or serious relationships up 12 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 2: until him, so like he's got my whole heart. I've 13 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:47,599 Speaker 2: trusted him completely. We've had a really great relationship, like 14 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 2: we do our own things with friends, like on the 15 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: same night. We're you know, not super cleany or anything like. 16 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 2: It's just been a really cool realtionship. He's hot, he's smart. 17 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: I love him. I'll always think he's hot, like I 18 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: just you know, so I really hope he's not. But recently, 19 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 2: on the nights when we go out with our friends, 20 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: he's been coming home later and later, and so that's 21 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 2: been sending off like major red flags for me because 22 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: normally we like, up until this past month, he would 23 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 2: be home around the same time I would neither one 24 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: of us would stay out like super deeper late or whatever. 25 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 2: And now he's coming down like at one am, two 26 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 2: am and saying that he's he's like just at a 27 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 2: friend's house playing video games. Like I'm like, okay, you know, 28 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 2: and he'll offer up like, well, you can call him, 29 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: you know, you can call my friend and ask it. 30 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: It's like, I know his friends are going to have 31 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 2: his back no matter what, So that doesn't mean anything. 32 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 2: And I'm just like giving a you know, I'm not 33 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 2: really nagging him, but he's like a little defensive right 34 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 2: off the bat around if I bring up how ladies 35 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 2: coming in. So that's the first red flag. So the 36 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: second kind of major ones is that So we had 37 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 2: a group of friends, a bunch of girls that we 38 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: all hang out together. Most of us have known each 39 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 2: other since high school. There's a few that are newer 40 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 2: to our group, and one girl who's sort of started 41 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 2: hanging around more. This girl, Jazzmine. I have noticed, like, 42 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: first of all, she complimented Jack a lot, like she 43 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: thinks he's great, So I know she kind of has 44 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 2: a crush on him, and somebody else has told me 45 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 2: that she, you know, feels bad because she has a 46 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: crush on him or whatever. Well, I've noticed, like on 47 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 2: the nights when I am going out with my friends 48 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: and he's going out with his friends, that Jasmine isn't there, 49 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 2: she's not doing girls night with us on the nights 50 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: that he's doing guys nights with his friends. So that 51 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 2: paranoid do you think? I don't know, I feel I 52 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 2: might be being paranoid, but I know she's seeing somebody 53 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 2: and she won't tell us who, like they're hooking up 54 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 2: and stuff like that that she's excited about and kind 55 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 2: of uh spegretive about, you know, and won't really in 56 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 2: bite them around or like integrate and like a normal 57 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 2: kind of relationship. So that has got me also very suspicious. 58 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: Sure, so when you're going out for your girls' nights 59 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: and you notice that Jasmine's not there, do you say 60 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: anything to everybody else, like, oh, where's Jasmine? To kind 61 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: of see like check the pulse a little bit. 62 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And And that that's where I found out 63 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: that she was dating with somebody. And then one of 64 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 2: my friends who knows who knows her family and knows 65 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: her from way back, said that she can be shady too, 66 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 2: because I did confide that I was feeling at all. 67 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 2: I don't know my sight senses are going off, and 68 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 2: they didn't want to make me, you know, fel worse 69 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 2: about it, but they did confirm that she can be shady, 70 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: like she's. 71 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: Not above that. Well, you told us what grocery store, 72 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: you guys are rewards card members at. So we'll play 73 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: a song come Back, and then call him and pretend 74 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store and say that every 75 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: month we choose one rewards card member at random who 76 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: gets free flowers delivered from our floral department. Will see 77 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 1: if he sends those to you or to somebody else. 78 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, thank you, I appreciate it. 79 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 1: Of course we'll play us song come Back. Get your 80 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 1: to catch Cheater next, it's the Jubil Show. It's time 81 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: to Catch a Cheater only on the Jubile Show. Right 82 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,160 Speaker 1: in the middle of to Catch a Cheater if you're 83 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: just joining us, Kim is on the phone and Kim 84 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: thinks that her husband of four years might be cheating. 85 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: So in a second, we're gonna call him and pretend 86 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store that he's a Rewards 87 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 1: Card member at and say that every single month, we 88 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers delivered 89 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: from our floral department. We'll see if he sends those 90 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: to Kim or to somebody else. But before we do that, Kim, 91 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: why don't you remind everybody about your situation. 92 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, So, my husband of four years has been coming 93 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 2: home later and nights when he would normally come home 94 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 2: at the same time I come home when we go 95 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 2: out with our friends separately. There's a new girl in 96 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 2: our group of friends who has stopped coming out with 97 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 2: us on those nights, and so I just feel a 98 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 2: little suspicious and maybe he's actually with her and lying 99 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 2: to me about it and thinking that he's getting away 100 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 2: with it. 101 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: Okay, are you ready for us to call him? 102 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 2: Yes? 103 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 1: Here we go. He Hi, this is horrible calling from 104 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: I was looking for a rewards card member and Jack 105 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: speaking Hi. Jack. Please don't hang up. This is not 106 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: a marketing phone call. I'm actually just calling to say congratulations, 107 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: you're this month's lucky winner. 108 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 2: Why not know what? 109 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 1: Oh the flowers? Maybe you haven't heard every single month, 110 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: we choose one Rewards Card member at random. We get 111 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our forward department. You've won thirty 112 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: six long stem red roses, a box of candy or chocolate, 113 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: and a card to be sent to whoever you want. Oh, okay, 114 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: if you know you want to send them to, I 115 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: can take the information over the phone in just a 116 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: matter of minutes. 117 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 2: Oh no, I have someone in mind. 118 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: We'll start with the first and last name of the 119 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: person who'd like to send them to. 120 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 2: Uh, Jasmine. 121 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: Okay, got that, Jasmine. And would you like to put 122 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: anything on a card to Jasmine? You can say. 123 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: What happened last night? Question mark? I love you? Exclamation point? 124 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: Got it? 125 00:06:55,000 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 2: It's okay, Well, but what happened last night? You know 126 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 2: what happened last night? 127 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: You want to know what has. 128 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 2: Been broke down and finally told me everything everything. 129 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: Jack, that's your wife on the phone. This is actually 130 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: the Doubal Show. It's a radio show. My name is 131 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: Jubal Hi, I'm Nina Hi, I'm Victoria, And we do 132 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: a segment called to Catch a Teeter and I'll just yeah, 133 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 1: so what. 134 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: Is going a hot one? What's going on here? Hey? 135 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 2: What's going on. What do you think is going on? 136 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 2: You're busted, dude, you are busted and you guys, I 137 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 2: am sorry. I lied to you about knowing. I didn't 138 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 2: know that she did. She just came clean to me. 139 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 2: She told me everything Jack, everything I needed to find 140 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 2: out from him, no doubt, and you all help me 141 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 2: do that and I appreciate it. She told me everything, 142 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: like every time that you have lied to me, every 143 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 2: time that you have cheated with her on me, and 144 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 2: she time you came late? Who she? Oh, Jasmine? Your 145 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 2: flower girl? Who do you think she is? You know 146 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 2: who I'm talking about? What Jasmine says? Do you believe 147 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 2: everything that Jasmine says? I believe that you're a p 148 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 2: and that you're a liar and a cheater. I believe her. 149 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: Ee says that because you've been telling her, you believe 150 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 2: that you were gonna believe? 151 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: You believe that? 152 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 2: What Jasmine says? Crazy, Jasmine? I do? I do? You 153 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: want to know why? Because she came and she told 154 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: me what was going on. She broke down crying because 155 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 2: she realized that you telling her that you love her 156 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,679 Speaker 2: and that you're gonna leave me for her is also 157 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 2: a lie because you are a liar and a cheat 158 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:50,319 Speaker 2: and a piece. So yeah, I do believe her. 159 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 1: You did also just send her flowers with and I 160 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: love you. Yeah, that's not that you said it. 161 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: You just that I love you on there like, oh 162 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: my god, we were in the treble. We only like 163 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 2: jokingly say love you, love you, love my God. Due 164 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 2: to the friend group, do you hardly know her or Mike? 165 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 2: Actually I love them too. I almost send them the 166 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 2: flowers them too. Well, then your logic, I might be. 167 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,079 Speaker 2: According to your logic, I might be. 168 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: What about Jasmine's logic? The one who came to your 169 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: wife and said that it's going on, the one you 170 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 1: send flowers to and said I love you? 171 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 2: Did Mike and Ashley come and say that everything too 172 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 2: as well? Well? As a matter of fact, Ashley is here, 173 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 2: as are all of my friends. And we've done packed 174 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 2: up all your put it in a cube blocker and 175 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: send it to your mom's house. WHOA, why don't you 176 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 2: just move forward and get out of my life? Because 177 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 2: I am done? You're unnoticed here? 178 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: Yes, he hung up, He's gone. I'm so sorry. Yeah, 179 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: I just do not even know. 180 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 2: Pretty devastating. Who does that? Like? Just I'm just so 181 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 2: surprised at how he Yeah, the lying about it, like 182 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 2: not taking any not feeling bad. He doesn't even feel bad. 183 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 2: You can tell like he doesn't even feel bad. 184 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 1: Sorry, well, I'm. 185 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, it's definitely going to be some healing involved. 186 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 2: But at least I'm not being played. I'll never be 187 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 2: played like this again. I gave him way too much trust. 188 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 1: Well, you'll find someone to give the right trust too. 189 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 2: Well. 190 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 1: It sounds like you have a good support system too, thankfully. 191 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:53,119 Speaker 2: I do. I do have good friends except for Jasmine. 192 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: Jasmin and I are going to ever be but I do. 193 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 2: I do respect that she told me, and I'm glad 194 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: that she realizes what she was getting involved with and 195 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 2: who she was getting involved with. But yeah, I don't 196 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 2: think we'll be really close friends ever. My friend group 197 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 2: is pretty great. 198 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: Well that's good, and good luck with everything. 199 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, And again I'm sorry for kind of 200 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 2: studying it up weird for you guys as well. 201 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: You did what you had to do. I'm just glad you. 202 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: I'm just glad you got your answer. And because he 203 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: obviously would have continued to lie, make a conversation a 204 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 1: lot easier. 205 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, he needed to be called out for sure, good 206 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 2: luck all right, thank you all the jubile shows. 207 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,840 Speaker 1: To catch a cheater