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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Steph. Mom.

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Speaker 1: Never told your protection of I Heart Radio for today's

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Speaker 1: Monday Manny, we thought we'd do I guess sort of

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Speaker 1: a goofy one. Something I've been curious about and kind

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Speaker 1: of been observing as though I am a creature in

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Speaker 1: a zoo. And it's what I'm calling my what stuck checklist? Um. So,

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Speaker 1: it's just things that I've noticed that I still do

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Speaker 1: and surprised me. Are things that I don't do and

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Speaker 1: surprised me during a quarantine where in my case, I'm

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Speaker 1: literally not seeing people most of the time, like unless

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Speaker 1: it's virtually you know what I mean, right, Um, So,

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Speaker 1: have some questions for you and for myself. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: think one that I've noticed that I still do that

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of surprised I still do. Is I still shave? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you? So? I am very Asian and being very

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Speaker 1: Asian means I don't have a lot of hair m hm,

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Speaker 1: So I technically haven't shaved in years? What really? Yeah, however,

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Speaker 1: we never talked about this before. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: do get some underarm hair, but not enough for me

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Speaker 1: shave my under arms just once every three months, so yeah,

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Speaker 1: even less so now I don't typically shave my legs

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Speaker 1: at all. Um my arm, I don't have arm hair.

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Speaker 1: I do get a mustache and the thick, thick eyebrows,

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Speaker 1: so I do tweez a little bit. But yeah, no, wow, wow,

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Speaker 1: I guess shaving doesn't come up too much in regular conversation.

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Speaker 1: I do have some friends that talk about uh, what

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Speaker 1: I will say for me growing up, because I would

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Speaker 1: be the token Asian person, and yes I am different

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Speaker 1: in that way. I would get pet a lot, petted

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Speaker 1: I don't know. So that hasn't happened as of late

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Speaker 1: look at my arms and lives like that. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I guess they assume my shave so they would go on.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, typically I used to get pet a lot

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Speaker 1: imagine the seal. I don't know why. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: weird I got some weird I mean, I'm looking back

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Speaker 1: of those things I looked back on like that was

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Speaker 1: but I really didn't. I mean, this makes obvious sense,

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Speaker 1: is uncomfortable. So if you ever watched any Ali Wong special,

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Speaker 1: was that's a step up. That's like if I'm having

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Speaker 1: get Possiblely it's just me and burger Andrew and burger

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Speaker 1: I want that to be said. However, the showering questionable.

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