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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. You all are not

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Speaker 1: I'm ready. I'd take we got it for you. Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Oh you may think you're ready. Nephew, subject over seventy

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Speaker 1: and selling sexiness. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm desperate for some

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Speaker 1: sound advice. I'm a thirty six year old divorced female

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Speaker 1: with two kids. My mom is in her early seventies

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Speaker 1: and recently widowed. Her life changed drastically, so the kids

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Speaker 1: and I spent a lot of time with her. About

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Speaker 1: six months ago, I saw that my mom was getting

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Speaker 1: back into her normal routine, so I backed off a

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Speaker 1: bit and let her have some space. When we visited

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Speaker 1: wore jazzy new wigs that were longer than she normally wore,

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Speaker 1: and she started wearing very tight and revealing clothing, which

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Speaker 1: was shocking. I asked her if my dad had a

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Speaker 1: secret life insurance policy that she cashed in on because

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Speaker 1: she was spending a lot of money. She said she

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Speaker 1: so she's fine. A week later, she had a new

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Speaker 1: me that she was doing porn. Oh, I'll miss heady.

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Speaker 1: She came out and I told her, I told you,

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Speaker 1: I told you weren't ready for this one. She came

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Speaker 1: I nearly lost my mind and asked her to repeat

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Speaker 1: what she said. She said it again. She's a porn star,

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Speaker 1: she said. She live streams videos of herself on a

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Speaker 1: porn website for men who are attracted to mature senior women.

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Speaker 1: She said it makes her feel very sexy because all

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Speaker 1: kinds of men pay real good money to see her goodies.

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Speaker 1: I told her that it's disgusting, demeaning and trashy and

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Speaker 1: she's too old to be doing this. She to come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I need your help right here. Hold on, she too

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Speaker 1: old to be there. She told me to kiss her

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Speaker 1: old aymer exactly, thank you, sir. Come on, I told

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Speaker 1: her that's disgusting, demeaning it trashy. She too old to

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Speaker 1: be doing this. She told me to kiss her old

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Speaker 1: ay and mine old damn British, which young broke. I

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Speaker 1: was crushed and we have been spoken for weeks. My

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Speaker 1: on that new furniture. I am ashamed to be in

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Speaker 1: her presence. This is unimaginable and I don't know what

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Speaker 1: to do about it. Stephen Shirley, how can I talk

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Speaker 1: some sense at her? Please advise every time I think

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Speaker 1: I cannot be surprised anymore with these letters, because we

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Speaker 1: have seen and heard it all. Here you come with

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Speaker 1: this unbelievable story about a seventy year old poor star

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Speaker 1: who just happens to be your mama. What imagine I mean,

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Speaker 1: just imagine if this were your mother, I mean, all

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Speaker 1: of us, your mama? Right? This is crazy, You're right,

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is this is unimaginable. I can't. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I think she's still going through

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Speaker 1: in her seventies and you can't tell her what to do.

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Speaker 1: She's grown. You know, wait this one out. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, I say, what do you say? What do

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Speaker 1: She got some new furniture, she's good, she's feeling sexy.

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Speaker 1: How much we make it, mau Yeah, she didn't say that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you got to continue to talk

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Speaker 1: to her, tell her how this makes you feel, how

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Speaker 1: the kids don't know what she's doing. Necessarily, you didn't

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Speaker 1: this is crazy. This is your mother. Your mother is

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Speaker 1: a water uncle Stephen to make this great. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, Jim yea go yeah. Come on. You

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Speaker 1: know this lady thirty six years old, divorce, got two

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Speaker 1: old that means her dad had died. While back her

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Speaker 1: life traanged drastically. So you went over there spending some

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Speaker 1: and you let her house from Fait. Then you went

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Speaker 1: over that a visitors. She see season good spin, but

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Speaker 1: a couple of things. And then she has new wigs.

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Speaker 1: See this is the beginning of it, some new wigs

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Speaker 1: that were longer than she normal. Your mama got had

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Speaker 1: where you start growing this head at seventy. Then she

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Speaker 1: Then you you tried too, did Danny leave your secret

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Speaker 1: life and sho Now I don't need your dad of money,

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Speaker 1: she said, she I've been saving money. Hold on right there,

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Speaker 1: hold on, We'll have part two and Steve response coming

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Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry

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Speaker 1: letting you don't want to miss part two, subject over

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Speaker 1: seventy and selling sexiness. Who will be back right after this?

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Speaker 1: You're listening show? All right? Come on, Steve, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's stall for you. Lady Mama seven me and grieving

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Speaker 1: which was shocking. Oh man, I asked of her daddy

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Speaker 1: had if dad had a secret life policy. She says,

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Speaker 1: I don't need I got money. He wasn't the brand

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Speaker 1: week later, you go over there, Mama got a new

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Speaker 1: She came right out and told me, I do the pown. Mother,

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Speaker 1: repeat what she said. She said it again. I d

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Speaker 1: the pawn. She is a pawn star. Wow. She live

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Speaker 1: are attracted to mature senior women. Your mother, she said,

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Speaker 1: men pay real good money to see her goodies. See.

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Speaker 1: The reason they do that is because they're seeing something

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Speaker 1: they've never seen before. See you see, lady, you said,

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Speaker 1: I'm sixty three, I ain't ever seen it before. I'm curious,

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Speaker 1: my damnself, what is it? What do it do? Nah?

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Speaker 1: I do the point. I'm trying to figure out what

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Speaker 1: was disgusting demeaning and trashing, and she was too old

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Speaker 1: come on, hold on, let me bring sister old Dale

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Speaker 1: Consertis Charley don't know nothing about this. Him. Chilly is

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Speaker 1: but let me handle this girl. She told her mamma

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Speaker 1: it was disgusted, demean and trash and she was too

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Speaker 1: That's all I wanted to say, Take it away. Stay.

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Speaker 1: So I was crushed. If we haven't spoken four weeks,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to do about it. Stephen Shelley,

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Speaker 1: How can I talk some sense into it? You can't.

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Speaker 1: She's seventy clock is ticking and it's taking different from

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Speaker 1: she just came up with. That really gets the cash

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Speaker 1: that's what they could. She probably got a real sex ass.

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