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Speaker 2: Papa Team six Welcome to another episode of For the Dads.

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Speaker 2: I hope your trash is taken out. Reminder as you

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Speaker 2: are listening today, it is March eleventh, March fourteenth for

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Speaker 2: the Dads. For the boys out there, yep, the Goombreys

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Speaker 2: Seemen Team sixers, empty six ers that are listening MPT

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Speaker 2: six ers. March fourteenth is Steak and blow Job Day.

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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm throwing that.

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Speaker 3: Out there, which is a great way to get the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we love talking traditions, weekly traditions, holidays.

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Speaker 1: You know it's manual traditions, just another one to throw

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Speaker 1: out there. Absolutely, we have a wide range.

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Speaker 2: Ru and Mom went to dc ru is very sad

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Speaker 2: to leave. Dad got to say internally, I was like

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Speaker 1: Like, like, Okay, I'm doing I'm doing a.

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Speaker 2: Solid job, and you're gonna be gone for a long time.

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Speaker 2: You had a babysitter come over in game night. We

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Speaker 2: I'm going to read at the end of the episode

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Speaker 2: from this here from Derek Thompson. It's three reasons to

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Speaker 2: be a parent in the short, little the short, little

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Speaker 2: right up. The short, little new newsletter was phenomenal. We're

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: We love building community. We have a show starter here

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Speaker 2: about a little one being born from the release. This

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Speaker 2: releases at six am. This this Baby's coming out what

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Speaker 2: an hour after release and it was not planned around

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Speaker 2: for the dads. But my man here Marcus Sesson on

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Speaker 2: Facebook said he didn't hesitate to push for a Wednesday

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Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna read.

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Speaker 2: This to shout out, shout out the community. Please sending

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Speaker 2: this just to Deeke Sherman for The Dad's Pod because

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Speaker 2: in typical New Dad fashion, I currently only have have

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Speaker 2: Facebook for social media, cry laughing emoji boys.

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Speaker 2: So it just happened that my wife and I had

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Speaker 2: just completed buds training prior to the podcast launching. If

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Speaker 2: there's new listeners out there, buds training is breeding until

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Speaker 2: Dad status. It's been a while thirty eight weeks for us,

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Speaker 2: and God has kept our daughter safe, healthy and growing

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Speaker 2: currently seven pounds two ounces at thirty six weeks, gonna

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Speaker 1: Old man was good good all to say that.

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Speaker 2: I didn't hesitate to push for a Wednesday due date

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Speaker 2: when scheduling our c section, knowing that you boys always

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Speaker 2: what are and what will be our first born daughter,

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Speaker 2: Mia Everett to have a shout out that they will

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Speaker 2: c section is literally scheduled for seven am on March eleventh,

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Speaker 1: For from her recovery bed.

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Speaker 2: This community that you boys have created is exactly what

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Speaker 2: our partners. Marcus s congratulations. Shout out me Everett coming

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Speaker 1: the war the dads. You're surrounded by people that love you.

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Speaker 2: We talk about our dad life, things that we're doing,

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Speaker 2: I need to do a better job of controlling my emotions,

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Speaker 3: So that slid dude, that is solid. Who was that again?

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Speaker 3: This was from Noon and Podcast? Oh it was another podcast.

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Speaker 2: That's the game most of the time is like you

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Speaker 1: Thank you trend for the update. Ten and a half

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and Oklahoma does have some good gay hunting,

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Speaker 1: Oh water Brooke. Let's see if I make it back

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Speaker 3: the baby coming or not. Yeah, low steaks, low steaks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Rather you like to do a reverse year. Maybe

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Speaker 3: Uh? Do it Chicago style? Get some grilled onions on there.

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Speaker 1: Joe. That sounds ideal for you and your sweet empty SICKO. Hey, sweet, look,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to go tend to.

435
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,280
Speaker 3: Rue, talking loud enough so Rude can hear, and yes, exactly,

436
00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,880
Speaker 3: so Rue is witnessing the dynamic going on. So those

437
00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:26,880
Speaker 3: were like little things that we did when introducing Scotty,

438
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 3: our second one into our world as a family, when

439
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,639
Speaker 3: we're thinking about the same things you are, which is

440
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 3: how do we balance the dynamic or how's the first

441
00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,399
Speaker 3: one going to feel? Those were a few tools that

442
00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,439
Speaker 3: we leaned on to kind of help us introduce Scotty

443
00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 3: into our family, and they're phenomenal together, Like Scotty kind

444
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:47,239
Speaker 3: of bullies Rue. But Scotty, well, we'll jump into it.

445
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:52,160
Speaker 3: But dude, Scotty is so funny. Dude, with the way

446
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,880
Speaker 3: she plays. We had a little play Dave. I'm sure

447
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:58,280
Speaker 3: we'll talk about it later in the sude. But her

448
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,639
Speaker 3: dangling stuff in front of you and then pulling it

449
00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 3: away from you was She's electric. It was like watching

450
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,199
Speaker 3: Will Compton play with Will Compton.

451
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 1: It was. It was honestly incredible. She's fun to be around.

452
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 2: But that would be Those are things I look back

453
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,920
Speaker 2: on and I'm like, I'm really glad I learned those things,

454
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 2: and I'm really glad we incorporate them because it obviously

455
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 2: challenges us because again, you're kind of making a lot

456
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 2: of reactive decisions where they're they're pulling at you. There,

457
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,439
Speaker 2: people are needing different attention. You can kind of get

458
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 2: in your old own head and then you just react.

459
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 2: I'll get that in a second. I got to finish

460
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 2: with your sister.

461
00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:30,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

462
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 2: For it's like I'm like, okay, I'm I'm coming across

463
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 2: these things. I'm like, oh, that that does make sense

464
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 2: to me. Like let's try these and then Troll and

465
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,920
Speaker 2: I are talking about them collectively, we're both kind of

466
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,159
Speaker 2: leaning on each other. Hey, I found this, you found this.

467
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:44,639
Speaker 2: I love that idea. You're kind of feeling like a

468
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,400
Speaker 2: team building out how you're going to you know, grow

469
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 2: this foundation for Ru and Scottie. Yeah, you're also on

470
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 2: the same page with your wife. You're doing learning things

471
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 2: with your wife.

472
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 3: And I'm just I'm sure that that exact same format

473
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:02,159
Speaker 3: of with Rue for the introduction of Scotty will be

474
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 3: the same way of like during big events of Rue's

475
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 3: first time trying out for a sports team and Scotty's

476
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 3: old enough to like know what's going on, and bringing

477
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,400
Speaker 3: Scotty along of like we got a cheer on big

478
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 3: sister and we got it.

479
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's about big Sister.

480
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 3: It kind of like creates that whole dynamic of we

481
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 3: we we Yeah.

482
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 2: And then down the road when Scotty's going through her

483
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 2: first things and Rue's wanting to go to the playground

484
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: or I don't want to do this, and you're having

485
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 2: those moments of telling her, hey, Scotty came to it

486
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 2: comes all your stuff, like oh, this is all like,

487
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 2: this is how we go about this is Scotty's very

488
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 2: first time and how did you feel when it was

489
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 2: your first time and Mom and dad, we're all excited

490
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,119
Speaker 2: for you. Felt good, right, you are now part of

491
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 2: this with helping Scotty like she's very excited. You've gotten

492
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 2: to do your first time or you gotten to do

493
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 2: your ballet class and we love doing it with you. Yes,

494
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 2: and that probably made you feel really good and really comfortable.

495
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,359
Speaker 2: And now we want to We want Scotty to feel

496
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,439
Speaker 2: all the same things, all the same excitement. How do

497
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 2: you think she would feel her big sits? Try to

498
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:02,640
Speaker 2: smile on her face watching her helping her, not too much,

499
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 2: don't get out there on the day floor with her instructing.

500
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but helping her and just being happy

501
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 1: for it make her feel really good.

502
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 3: And dude, I hate to jump ahead, but I think

503
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 3: you're gonna have no trouble at all having Scotty be

504
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 3: willing to help. Will you please tell the Sichos about

505
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 3: when we asked Scotty to help teach Scarlett how to

506
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 3: crawl and what comments, because that was one of the

507
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 3: best moments I've ever seen in my life.

508
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 2: So on Sunday we had a little playdate with Scotty

509
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 2: and Scarlett.

510
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 1: Very quick Scotty between naps. Eight months, Scarlet's eight months.

511
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 1: Scar Yes, Scarlet's eight months. Scotti's fifteen months or sixteen months.

512
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: Scotty's actually shout out, Scotty, she's sixteen months. She's sixteen

513
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: months March tenth, come on yesterday, she was sixteen months.

514
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: But we're upstairs.

515
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 2: We're in the playroom and they're both sitting across with

516
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: each other, you know, kind of playing with toys together,

517
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 2: Scotty grabbing stuff or like trying to pull the We're like, hey,

518
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 2: we share, can you give that to scar scar And

519
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: she'd hand it over and give it a scar Star,

520
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 2: and we're doing the whole thing where you're trying to

521
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 2: Scarlet is just fascinated with Scotty.

522
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 1: She's fascinated to be them sest with Scotti and.

523
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 2: Sharm was telling me that they were trying to work

524
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 2: on crawling with her and like doing tum me time

525
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 2: and doing all these things to where it's like getting

526
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 2: her up to her base, like using her arms and

527
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 2: using her hands and getting her up to her hands

528
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 2: and knees, and so we're like, Scotty, will you show

529
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 2: Scarlet how to how to crawl? And I kind of

530
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 2: put Scott kind of put Scotty on the ground. Scotty

531
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 2: like crawls a couple of steps and then like stops,

532
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 2: you know, and then does the whole stand.

533
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: Up literally literally the loudest grind of all time.

534
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,199
Speaker 2: And so Sharm takes Scarlet and lays Scarlet on her stomach,

535
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 2: and we're trying to help her crawl, like come on,

536
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 2: you gotta you gotta get your hips up or try

537
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 2: to push your trying to push your legs to where

538
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 2: her knees get upright, and Scottie walks just walks over there.

539
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 1: She's fasting by Scarlet too.

540
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 2: She walks over there and she just starts grabbing Scarlet

541
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 2: by the back of the onesie to lift her up and.

542
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 3: Then heaving dude, like full on both hands and trying

543
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 3: to just.

544
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, like around the like around the waist, like grabbing

545
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 2: the back of her one's and like lifting it up

546
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,719
Speaker 2: to where the closes are stretching. And then we're laughing

547
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 2: like hey, Scotty, like give give Scarlet some space, like

548
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 2: she's gotta we gotta give her some space.

549
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: And then Scotty.

550
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:20,400
Speaker 2: Would like walk back over and get to her hand

551
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,360
Speaker 2: is around like her shoulder and around like the side

552
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 2: on her stomach and she's trying to like take and

553
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 2: lift her up.

554
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: Bro. We explicitly asked Scotty before this, We said, Scotty,

555
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 1: Scarlet's trying to learn how to crawl. Do you think

556
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 1: you can show her how to crawl?

557
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 3: So she totally received that message as a sixteen month

558
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 3: old from you. Crawls over to Scarlet and she said,

559
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 3: Scarlet's not crawling. So she's like, don't worry, I got this,

560
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 3: gets up and just is like she's not getting her

561
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 3: hips up. He was like, watching will try and teach

562
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 3: somebody how to attack.

563
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: The egg up. She's like, get it, get the hips

564
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: off the ground. What are we doing?

565
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 2: It was like watching Dane Gables had enough in his

566
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 2: wrestling room and he's going and helping position all.

567
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: The wrestlers on the mask.

568
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Scotty just again just waddles on over and she's

569
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 2: trying to take full control of the situation at grunting,

570
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 2: trying to like lift her up all around like the

571
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 2: hip airy and everything else. Like she's not getting too

572
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 2: much where she grabs her face or anything. That's what

573
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 2: I'm sitting there being nervous about Scottie.

574
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 3: He was saying very which I as a parent, I'm like, bro,

575
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 3: I got no problem. Like Scotty even kind of fell

576
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 3: on Scarlett at one point and Will was like, oh,

577
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, dude.

578
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 2: Every parent goes the dynamic, whether you're with a great

579
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 2: friend or whether you're around like a stranger. There's just

580
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 2: there's something going on that's happening in my brain to

581
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 2: where we all know we do things differently, even though

582
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,640
Speaker 2: we're all kind of aligned on same things we want

583
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 2: to happen with our kids. And when my kids like

584
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 2: standing over yours are grabbing or in my brain seeming

585
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 2: invasive or getting to where she could like fall over

586
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 2: her like fall in her head, I'm thinking of worst

587
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 2: case scenarios and thinking like I don't want to just

588
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,160
Speaker 2: let this go and let this happen because I don't

589
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:01,400
Speaker 2: know how you're.

590
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: Feeling in the moment. I don't know why anything's going on.

591
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 2: So you're just trying to think your instinct is control

592
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: your kid a little bit, because we're trying to have

593
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 2: like some manners. Oh, and you have no control over

594
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,239
Speaker 2: what your little ones are thinking. You you're sitting there

595
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 2: and you're.

596
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: Both parents and you're stating there watching your little ones

597
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: player go at it, and both parents are kind of

598
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: standing there like we're or any boundaries.

599
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 2: This one seems a little bit more aggressive than mine.

600
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 2: Like that, parents probably thinking I wonder if this is okay.

601
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 2: You're sitting there thinking I don't mind this at all,

602
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 2: But I'm like.

603
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 1: Well, what does he mind? This?

604
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 3: Being is as at an eight month old Scarlett is

605
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 3: a perpetual dough in headlights, Like she all she can

606
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 3: do is sit up straight and smile.

607
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 5: That that's what there will was Vince Vaughn and wedding

608
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 5: Crashers talking about the dates. Is she happy? Am I

609
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 5: at the date? Am I talking too much? Is she

610
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 5: not talking enough? Like the dad version of that, that

611
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 5: is like the vibe. It's like you're sitting there. Do

612
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 5: they think this is okay?

613
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 2: I think this is okay, but I will I won't

614
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 2: let it be okay if I feel like you don't

615
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 2: think this is okay. But if you think it's okay

616
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,479
Speaker 2: and I think it's okay, and we just think, if

617
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 2: the worst case scenario happens, and we're all okay with

618
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 2: that together, we can allow that to happen.

619
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: But if we don't want the worst case scenario that

620
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: I'm thinking.

621
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 2: Of my head to happen, then I can just I

622
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 2: can intervene and pull them off. But if you say

623
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: to me, hey, I'm totally cool with this, I'm thinking, oh,

624
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 2: I I'm cool with this too.

625
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: I just didn't know, you know what, let him wrestle. Yeah. Yeah.

626
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 3: And I was the girl on the date that that

627
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 3: looked at nervous guy and and just said, hey, it's

628
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 3: all good.

629
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: It's all good, no matter what. Keep saying like, hey,

630
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: it's all good. I was like, I know you're concerned,

631
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 1: and I appreciate that.

632
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 2: I just know Scotty goes about her business with the

633
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 2: reckless advantage, you know what I mean. Like it's we're

634
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 2: talking about we're talking about Scott's Yeah, we were.

635
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: I forgot about that.

636
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: It's dinner on Sunday night with the boys, and for

637
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 2: the first portion of dinner, like, I'm getting Scotty her snacks.

638
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 2: I don't tell your mother. I'm feeding all these snacks

639
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,719
Speaker 2: and you weren't even known. Scotty's really sitting there with us,

640
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 2: We're chopping up, keeping up. Scotty's just like on her

641
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 2: best behavior, just having a great time. She's smiling, guys

642
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 2: are engaging with her every now and then. But then

643
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 2: the back half, when she's kind of getting a little

644
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 2: wrestless or she's done eating, she won't eat her chicken.

645
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, sweet, are you gotta stop eating fries? And

646
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,959
Speaker 2: you gotta eat your chicken? And we kind of let her.

647
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:10,959
Speaker 2: I pick her up, I let her out of her

648
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 2: out of the high chair, to let her kind of

649
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 2: walk around Pinewood Pine Woods, an officer spot here in Nashville.

650
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: No free shoutouts, but got a lot of space to

651
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: walk in and there's like bowling and others.

652
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and Scotty's just having a great time walking around,

653
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: kind of working the room, going around the wall. Hey,

654
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: not that far and now you can't like leave our site.

655
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, kind of getting on you know. Other people

656
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: were fascinating thinking she's adorable, but she's kind of like

657
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 2: leaning on their booth. I'm like, Scotty, hey, come over here.

658
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 2: But she's just having a great time. Ryan's messing with her.

659
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 2: All the boys are messing with her.

660
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 6: Yeah.

661
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she was a lot of fun.

662
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 3: The best part too, of the uh saga of Scotty

663
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: training Scarlet to crawl was will then coming in and

664
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 3: pulling Scotty off of Scarlet fully and being like, hey,

665
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 3: too much, guy, too much, but appreciate you. And Scotty

666
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 3: didn't break down into fl tears, but she was letting

667
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 3: you know, dude, you explicitly asked me to teach her

668
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 3: how to crawl. She wasn't getting her button there, and

669
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 3: now you're pulling me off of her.

670
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what doesn't make sense to me that she

671
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 2: can't crawl? Like can't all of us crawl? And you

672
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 2: said we got to get her going. Hey, Scotty, teach

673
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 2: her how to crawl? And what am I doing teaching her?

674
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 2: And then now you're pulling me off of her. But

675
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 2: she literally was like ah ah, she.

676
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: Didn't like it.

677
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: She didn't like it. Great dad hack. For over the weekend,

678
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: I was solo with Scottie. Mom and Rue were in

679
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 2: d C for the weekend doing Bar three sight seeing

680
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 2: and doing a lot of things on Mom's in with

681
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 2: Bar three and so a great dad hack is having

682
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 2: the boys. I got a couple obviously, play dates, things

683
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: that burn time. I take Scotty to the coffee shop,

684
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 2: burn some time there, take it to the playground, burn

685
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 2: some time there. We did a playdate that else burnt

686
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 2: time before nap time, but also the boys. I conned

687
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: three of the boys from the shop to essentially help

688
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 2: me watch her eat. Yeah, because I wanted to get

689
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: her out of the house. Let's go get some dinner.

690
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: Was it just gonna be me and Scotty? I would,

691
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 2: I'll be totally fine if it's just me and Scotty.

692
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 2: But how can I also cross off a social aspect

693
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 2: of my life, like I haven't eaten at all or

694
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 2: anything yet, like one on one with Derek or gotten

695
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 2: to know him outside of the shop. Yes, I was

696
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 2: hopeful you were gonna be one of the guys to respond.

697
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: But I reach out to all the guys who are

698
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:18,479
Speaker 2: from that work with busting.

699
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: I reach out to all the boys who were that

700
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: I knew were in town. Full chat.

701
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, meal On, your boy who wants to come?

702
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 2: Really set up? It's gonna be an early dinner because

703
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: it's basically gonna be it's gonna be with me and Scotty,

704
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: But anybody interested if you guys hit up, made a

705
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 2: smaller group chat and basically told him I just conned

706
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 2: you guys and essentially helping me watch Scotti.

707
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: What we eat dinner. But great dad hack out. There

708
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 1: is a good day.

709
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 2: Hit off some friends stuff, hit off some work stuff,

710
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 2: hit off some Scottie stuff.

711
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: It scotti around people.

712
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 3: I went and got pot belly with BC four my

713
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 3: guy here with Scarlet. That was actually on Valentine's Day.

714
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 3: That was our Valentine's Day date, little daddy daughter date.

715
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 3: And but dude, so easy and fun to just rip

716
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 3: with a friend. Yeah, like any parent that's sitting there,

717
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 3: that's like, I'm never gonna see my friends again. Oh contrere.

718
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 3: It's it's very simple to go. Just grab a bite.

719
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 3: I did, grab a lollipop, grab a drink. Like I'm

720
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 3: a believer in that. I don't see anything weird in that.

721
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: He also, you didn't even need to.

722
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 5: It was funny because like you texted the smaller group

723
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 5: and said, haha, I've conned you into watching my daughter

724
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 5: eat with me, and all I think all three of

725
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 5: us were like we kind of knew that, we could

726
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 5: have assumed there was something else here, but like that's

727
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 5: we yes, we want to go.

728
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: Funny. He was like, I got all of you guys,

729
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 1: and we're like, all right.

730
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 2: We were totally cool with in the beginning we kind

731
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 2: of knew what we were signing up for.

732
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 4: You said free meal though, right, but you're getting a

733
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 4: check right. Oh my god, I was. He was texting

734
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 4: back and go I was with Alex. I was like, damn,

735
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 4: Will's having everyone else to eat and I'm gonna miss it.

736
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: And now it's like, oh, that's crat.

737
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 4: Oh he just said that he conned everybody into watching

738
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 4: scott And she goes, that sounds even better, Like what's

739
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 4: the That doesn't sound like a drawback at all.

740
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, it was a lot of fun, man,

741
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 2: Like it fired me up coming in the next day

742
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 2: and some of the boys were talking about how fun

743
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 2: Scotty was and everything else. Because again, like as a parent,

744
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 2: and you you just think in terms you don't want

745
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 2: to be.

746
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, you don't want to annoy people with your.

747
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 2: Kid, And I know that's a fake assumption, that's a

748
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 2: fake fear that we all make up.

749
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: But you're sitting there.

750
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 2: It's like, you know, number one, it'd be fun to

751
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 2: go out and socialize, but you don't want to sit

752
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 2: there and annoy people with all the things you got

753
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 2: to do with being a parent. And now that I'm

754
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 2: singing out loud. I sound ridiculous. I sound ridiculous saying that.

755
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: It's not ridiculous thing unless you're like that type of

756
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: guy that's like, hey, I or gal of like I

757
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: really hate babies.

758
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 3: I really hate small children. Why in the world is

759
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 3: my friend asking me to hang out with them? I

760
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 3: don't see who would not be like down and cool

761
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 3: to hang that you. I wouldn't already know going into

762
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 3: asking the question. They don't really care to be around,

763
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 3: or they don't for whatever reason they want to draw

764
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 3: a line and hey, no kids, Yeah, no kids, which

765
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 3: there are those no kids situations obviously, like hey, we're

766
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,280
Speaker 3: doing this big golf trip, we're doing this big hunting

767
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 3: for sure, and then you roll up with you know,

768
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 3: Scarlett on your chest.

769
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: They're like, what in the world you got a shout

770
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: out from demon?

771
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 5: Because we were sitting there and Scotty was kind of

772
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 5: operating and like ran over another family and this and that,

773
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 5: this and that, and I believe the words Dared said

774
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 5: were like hanging out with shrm so much, like I'm

775
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 5: so much better around babies now because we was all

776
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 5: talking about like our comfortability with like children and things

777
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 5: like that, and he was like, yeah, I don't really

778
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 5: get babies, but like scar scars helped me get.

779
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 2: Babies, Demons Demons twenty four And when he explained some

780
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 2: of that stuff like being around Scarlet and everything else,

781
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, buddy, I'm with you, Like I completely understand

782
00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 2: where you're coming from. Before I had my kids, like,

783
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 2: I wasn't a big baby guy. Not that I didn't

784
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 2: like babies, but anytime they wanted me to hold him,

785
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 2: I was always very nervous to whole kids. Yeah, I

786
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: don't know how.

787
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: I didn't have like, you know, any game with like

788
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 1: talking to the child. You know what I mean? Yes, story,

789
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: I do the little baby voice.

790
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 2: I never felt comfortable doing it around people or like

791
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: operating with kids. I was like, I was the same

792
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 2: way as you. Obviously I'm a parent now, so you're

793
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: you're way more comfortable, you have way more fun. It's

794
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 2: kind of like open your eyes, Like, man, it's weird

795
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 2: how much I was just kind of uncomfortable around babies.

796
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: But I wasn't a big baby person whatsoever until I

797
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:34,280
Speaker 2: had real.

798
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 3: I feel like naturally people from birth to like probably

799
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 3: around like Ruth's age, because Ruth's like really out and

800
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 3: about at three almost four. Uh, like they just kind

801
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 3: of only do stuff with the family, or they're only

802
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 3: doing stuff at the house, so like you don't really

803
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 3: just run into a bunch of newborn babies.

804
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:54,919
Speaker 1: All that are true.

805
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 2: And if I think back to me growing up, like

806
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 2: my dad was an only child. We lived in Francis

807
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: County where my dad's parents, my grandma and grandpa that

808
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 2: were talking about a couple of others, Yes, those are

809
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 2: my dad's parents. So we grew up around My dad

810
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 2: was an only child, so there was no uncles. Like

811
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 2: my mom, she lived away her her family's kind of

812
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 2: scattered across the country. But I didn't grow up around

813
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 2: you know, aunts and uncles or where there's new kids

814
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 2: coming into the fold. Like Whyatt is six years younger

815
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 2: than me, so by the time why it was born. No,

816
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: Cody's a year below me. So there's two of us

817
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: and we were a great part. And then Whyatt was

818
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 2: the youngest who's six years younger than me, So you

819
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 2: know that I just we were never around babies or

820
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 2: kids like some of my like one of my best friends, Logan,

821
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: they were they were like twelve of them. So he

822
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,760
Speaker 2: was always very good with babies a couple of different marriages,

823
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 2: and ultimately there was a full twelve of them. Some

824
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: are step some are step siblings. So he was just

825
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: always comfortable because he's around the house and operating with

826
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: a newborn or whatever it is, or.

827
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: He was always comfortable.

828
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 2: But I just didn't grow up around where there's kids everywhere,

829
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 2: and I just knew what to do all the time.

830
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what makes sense? Yes, and thank you

831
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: for sharing that.

832
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 3: That's actually really cool to hear from demon And and

833
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 3: Asket's sick.

834
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he.

835
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 2: Still thinks raising a dog is the same as he does.

836
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 2: He does there are those people again.

837
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: And there are those parallels. I'll give him that, Yeah,

838
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 1: there are.

839
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 2: My parents got a Conyan named after Conan and the

840
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: Barbarian and rottweiler who they trained and did all this stuff.

841
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:27,479
Speaker 2: They spent a year with Conan before they were doing

842
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 2: that to trial, before they had me, before they had

843
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 2: their first kid right on. So some people do think

844
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 2: in a way like responsibility of a dog, because there

845
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 2: are a lot of responsibility there are a dog. Then

846
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 2: when you become a parent you almost laugh at the

847
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,439
Speaker 2: dog people. But I completely get It's like you sit

848
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,399
Speaker 2: there and trial run a dog. We had Waffle before

849
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 2: we had Rue. Yeah, Waffles. You know, she's pretty low maintenance.

850
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 2: She's a bulldog.

851
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 1: Yeah. But there are those parallels, like to.

852
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 3: Those dog people that that equate it to having a baby.

853
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 3: I will say this, if you are raising actual puppies,

854
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 3: like you you get that dog when it is a

855
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 3: puppy and you're having a house breaking stuff, I do

856
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 3: think it's a good training tool of like throw yourself

857
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 3: into some suck.

858
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: Absolutely, Like if you're ready for the sixer, do you

859
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: have a dog chef girl, a pseudo. I'm like a

860
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,919
Speaker 1: stepdad to okay step step dog dad. Yeah yeah, yeah

861
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 1: dog stepdad. Yeah.

862
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 2: But if you're a Seeman Team sixer and you don't

863
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 2: have a whole lot of responsibilities going on to where

864
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 2: you might have a job, or you might be going

865
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 2: to school or whatever, it is, absolutely you want to

866
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,959
Speaker 2: get into what the world of responsibility and not saying

867
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 2: you don't have responsibility of course, but if you're caring

868
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 2: for a little puppy like that is gonna break you.

869
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 2: It's gonna make you think about how you structure your weekends,

870
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 2: how you kind of structure your day to day because

871
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 2: you do have to map out what a routine looks

872
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: like to where it does pull from you and other

873
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 2: angles where you're like, fuck, I.

874
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 1: Have this dog.

875
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 2: I have to think about my dog. My boys are

876
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 2: going out of town. Who am I going to get

877
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 2: to watch the dog? I gotta start thinking about all

878
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 2: these things.

879
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 3: Yes, I gotta wake up at three o'clock in the

880
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 3: morning to clean up this p and poop puddle or

881
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 3: they pooped. They pooped in the fucking bed and I'm

882
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,919
Speaker 3: having to claim that. Throw some newspaper on it.

883
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 2: Throw some spray and spray. Yeah, we kind of just

884
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 2: got off on a tangent there. We got to keep

885
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 2: it under an out, do we do? Did you have something?

886
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 4: I just wondered while we were doing the callbacks from

887
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 4: last episode, Smith and Lenz pizza's money all remember Derek

888
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 4: and Will got into it, right we we got it Friday.

889
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 4: I'll I'll pass it to you guys. But that might

890
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 4: be the best slice in Nashville. It's gonna be hard

891
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,280
Speaker 4: to argue that one. Yep, awesome pizza.

892
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 2: And by the way, we got in a little taff

893
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 2: we got in a little dust up last week. The

894
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 2: under the under arching theme there is we are allies.

895
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:49,439
Speaker 2: We are allies. I need a deep to be mobilized more.

896
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:53,280
Speaker 2: In previous engagements that we've we've had over the food topic. However,

897
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 2: Derek crushed it with Smith and Lyn's Great Pizza in Nashville.

898
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:01,239
Speaker 2: Loved every slice add about of him. He brought it

899
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 2: to the shop. How many box of pizza? About eight

900
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 2: box of pizza.

901
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 5: Up in six and then a ranch for each one

902
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,399
Speaker 5: when it was all said and done, yet six all

903
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 5: taken the problem.

904
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 1: And to put out there people who are ranch people

905
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 1: with pizza one ranch per box. We were light on ranch.

906
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: We right on ranch.

907
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 3: But with this type of pizza and we can get

908
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 3: into it. We can get into it. You don't need

909
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 3: a whole lot ranch. But this is my one note one.

910
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:29,800
Speaker 3: When I took my first bite, I completely understood where

911
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 3: my boy Dick was coming from. In three seconds, Yeah,

912
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 3: said I would die on that hill any day with

913
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,760
Speaker 3: you now. Like I went up to him, I said,

914
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,399
Speaker 3: truly like top five all time. We had an artist

915
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 3: in place back in Fort Worth that was like some

916
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 3: big name pizza chef guy from like one of the

917
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 3: big cities LA New York, and it was very reminiscent

918
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 3: of that, if not better.

919
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 1: I told him tough five, all time, great pizza, to

920
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: the point Derek will tell you too.

921
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 2: When I got in the smaller group chat about dinner,

922
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 2: I had options in my head, but I'm like, based

923
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 2: on the resume that Derek is painting youtwo with him

924
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 2: and beer and food and everything else, I'm like, what

925
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 2: are some spots wind up just obviously landing on Pinewood.

926
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:17,720
Speaker 2: But I have nothing but respect for Derek's for Derek's paller. Derek,

927
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 2: blindfold me, spin me around, and then just.

928
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: Pay something in my mouth. Put something in my mouth.

929
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: I don't care that you free Saturday, Yeah, sta can

930
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: blowjob day.

931
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, March fourteenth, blindfold me, spin me around, and put

932
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:32,839
Speaker 2: something in my.

933
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,280
Speaker 1: De only Hey, Derek, what are you doing on the fourteenth?

934
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: You only gonta worry about the first part, don't worry

935
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:39,399
Speaker 1: about the second part.

936
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 5: When he shot me the text being like, hey, you know,

937
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 5: I got some food ideas I'd love and you did

938
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 5: say I'd love to hear what Derek. It was a

939
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 5: good stamp of approval. Feeling like I feel like I

940
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 5: got a good stamp, Like if I send you to

941
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 5: somewhere or I show you a song or a movie,

942
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 5: like I feel good about it. But the other side

943
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 5: of it is I brought this up at dinner, like

944
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 5: adding a kid to the mix. It threw off my

945
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 5: whole skip because if you were like me and char

946
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 5: are going to dinner or rinks or something, you know

947
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 5: what I mean, then like, hey, no, I'm like, dang,

948
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 5: we are bringing Scotty, Like what would be? Which is

949
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 5: why we picked Pinewood because there's a lot of room

950
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 5: to move and like it's a pretty watched environment, so

951
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 5: you haven't.

952
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 1: Been to the other spots.

953
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 2: I admitted, Now, whatever you think is going to be

954
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 2: the best environment for Scotty. Yeah, because I threw a

955
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 2: couple of Mexican like Fonda Fonda on Eighth Avenue or

956
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 2: on twelfth on one of them. I think it's found

957
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 2: on twelfth very like a little more money, but great

958
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 2: Mexican food. Awesome Mexican food. Masorrow is another Mexican texts

959
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 2: Massero text mex on twelfth.

960
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 1: Have you been there? I've been to the one in

961
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: Fort Worth, Okay, but that's a that's a good one.

962
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 2: I was, you know, I'm like, I wonder if they've

963
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 2: been to this spot or somebody's gonna be like, hey,

964
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 2: let's go here. We ended up laying it on piewood.

965
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 2: But yes, nothing but respect for Derek's food.

966
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 3: Just a little future note for any pet sikos out

967
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 3: there that are gonna invite me to a meal. But

968
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 3: I'm more specifically talking to this group. I went to

969
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 3: the corner bar with Jared and his girlfriend and it

970
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 3: was listed as a restaurant. We walked into it. It

971
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 3: was very much a bar. And now I might be

972
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 3: speaking out turned for other pet siccos I felt very

973
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,320
Speaker 3: comfortable walking in with Scarlet and we had her a

974
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 3: little high chair thing, and I did get some looks

975
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 3: from the people sitting at the bar top going, oh,

976
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,240
Speaker 3: that dude's walking in here with the baby.

977
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: What was that gonna look like?

978
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 3: Scarlett was on her best behavior and you know, didn't

979
00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,959
Speaker 3: cry at all, but I just plopped her right there

980
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 3: and we just we sat and Nate wings and they

981
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 3: had some drinks. I was driving, so I didn't partake,

982
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 3: but like, I felt very comfortable in that situation.

983
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: It felt normal to me. Yeah, I don't know if

984
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: other people like, you know whatever, so.

985
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 5: Did that thing because you were bringing up about like

986
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 5: dog people and babies comparing. I have the same thing

987
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 5: that you described when I take as my dog's a

988
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 5: pitbull to dog park where he fights at other dogs,

989
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 5: and I'm thinking, I'm cool with it? Are they cool

990
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,240
Speaker 5: with it? The dogs are playing, and there was a quote,

991
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do another quote. You aren't who you think

992
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 5: you are. You aren't who they think you are. You

993
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 5: are you think they think you are, which is a

994
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 5: tongue twister to say, shirm you walk, You aren't who

995
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 5: you think you are. You aren't who they think you are.

996
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 5: You are who you think they think you are. So

997
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 5: when she walks into the bar with a baby, he's

998
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 5: not just shirm and he everyone at the bar probably

999
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 5: didn't care, but he goes. Those guys are probably thinking

1000
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,959
Speaker 5: this guy is bringing a baby in when we're all

1001
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,399
Speaker 5: nobody cares. That guy's probably thinking about ordering this third

1002
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 5: beer or something. So yeah, I get that a lot.

1003
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, yeah, that is true. That that is a

1004
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 1: really really good point.

1005
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 3: I am often and you know that about me too.

1006
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 3: I'm an overthinker. I think I think a.

1007
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 2: Lot of us people in general kind of overthink everything.

1008
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 2: I see what you mean, You're like people pleaser, You

1009
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 2: think a lot about yeah, yeah, everything going on.

1010
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem. I'm just here for the food.

1011
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, all right, and I love my kids. Sue me.

1012
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 3: I have a nice little kind of a follow up

1013
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 3: comment from last week.

1014
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 1: I have a bigger one.

1015
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, this is a saddler one. This is from

1016
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 2: following up last week. I have gotten several messages about

1017
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 2: the message I had with reading the book and my

1018
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 2: mom and everything else. This is from Landing freet Does

1019
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:32,919
Speaker 2: on Facebook. I just want to give a big shout

1020
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 2: out to Will for being so vulnerable about how much

1021
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 2: he misses and still thinks of his mom since she passed.

1022
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,280
Speaker 2: I was watching the video of him talking to talking

1023
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 2: to Rue about her, and it got me really emotional.

1024
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: I lost my dad a while back, two days after

1025
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 2: he watched me play football for the first time in college.

1026
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 1: Just like Will missus his mom. I missed my dad

1027
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: every day.

1028
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 2: It's been thirteen years, and I still think about him

1029
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 2: randomly when I'm sitting in traffic or when I wanted

1030
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 2: to talk to him about cool fishing video I just watched.

1031
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 2: We'll probably know is this shit doesn't get any easier.

1032
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 2: We just kind of learned how to cope with it

1033
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 2: in a little bit and get a little bit better

1034
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 2: with it over time. I'm a father of a beautiful

1035
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 2: four year old girl now, and I can't help but

1036
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 2: think of what a great grandfather he would be. Oh,

1037
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 2: how much you would love spending time with his granddaughter,

1038
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 2: how much he would make her laugh. It hurts so

1039
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: much knowing that they will never get to have a

1040
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 2: relationship together, and I'm sure Will feels the same absolutely,

1041
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 2: my friend. I guess the beautiful thing is that, in

1042
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 2: a way, my dad is still in me. It's still

1043
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 2: in me with the lessons he passed down to me

1044
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:32,919
Speaker 2: and the love he gave me while I was still here.

1045
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 2: Maybe that's how my daughter gets to see him through me.

1046
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 2: Thank you for reminding me that it's still okay to

1047
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 2: miss him, and it's still okay to feel so emotional

1048
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 2: about it, no matter how long. It's been very good message, Land,

1049
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 2: and I do appreciate that, and I empathize to you

1050
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 2: with on all of those levels.

1051
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 1: It is.

1052
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,720
Speaker 2: It's dude, it and when I want to keep myself

1053
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 2: in an optimistic perspective, ripple effect on making myself feel

1054
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 2: like you're at peace with it, or you have a

1055
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 2: happy is from it is like I do think about

1056
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 2: because my mom is at the forefront of my mind

1057
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 2: a lot with a lot of things, whether it's with

1058
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 2: parenting or missing or wishing I could talk to or

1059
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 2: send her a message, all of that stuff. I do

1060
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 2: feel like I parent better because of everything that happened,

1061
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 2: because I feel so emotionally attached to it and I

1062
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 2: think about it a lot, and it's helped me reflect

1063
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 2: on the mom that she was to me when I

1064
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 2: do feel like I communicated those things to her a lot,

1065
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 2: like she knew how much like we were, we were tight,

1066
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 2: and things you still think about.

1067
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 1: You're like, ah, man, did she fully know that?

1068
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 2: I wish I could just tell her and articulate it

1069
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 2: so well one last time how much she knew. And

1070
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, ultimately, I do know that, and I know

1071
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 2: it pours through me with parenting because I know how

1072
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 2: precious now that it's Now that it's gone. I'm not

1073
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 2: saying I didn't I took it for granted, or I

1074
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 2: didn't appreciate it.

1075
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:54,839
Speaker 1: Obviously. You battle with.

1076
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 2: Those demons all the time because you want such closure

1077
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 2: on a moment like that you felt got taken from

1078
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 2: you versus you knew what was gonna happen, or this

1079
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 2: was the plan the entire time, and you kind of

1080
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 2: package it like like I am the dad I am

1081
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 2: because my mom was such an example and I'm able

1082
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 2: to reflect on how much she meant to me because

1083
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 2: it's gone, it doesn't happen anymore, So I get to

1084
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,760
Speaker 2: think about what she absolutely did for me over time,

1085
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 2: through all of my years of life, through all my communications.

1086
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 2: Now that I'm parenting and trying to be intentional and

1087
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 2: trying to think of ways to connect with Rue and

1088
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 2: Scottie and be a dad, I'm like, I know she

1089
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 2: went through all of these same things, and this is

1090
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 2: what this meant, and now that I see it from

1091
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 2: this perspective, these are all the things that she did

1092
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 2: on why the decision led to this.

1093
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: Once upon a time in my childhood.

1094
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 2: Like I think about all those things to where I

1095
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 2: know it gives me that north star, that guiding light

1096
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 2: in my own parenting that I might not be if

1097
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 2: she was still here. And I say that I can

1098
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 2: probably be saying because I'm just trying to always wrap

1099
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 2: my brain around it a nice silver lining, yeah, silver

1100
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,920
Speaker 2: lining with all because I do I get angry, and.

1101
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: I talked about it a podcasts in the past.

1102
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do get angry knowing that she can't be

1103
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,880
Speaker 2: the grandma that I knew she was going to be,

1104
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,919
Speaker 2: Like she would have been the best crush crush because

1105
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 2: it makes me laugh at my dad, or you know,

1106
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 2: get frustrated with my dad because he can't just come

1107
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 2: in for the weekend. If Tarl and I are going

1108
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 2: to go out of town and doing and our own thing,

1109
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:29,759
Speaker 2: and I can't just leave the kids with my dad.

1110
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. And I just know it's

1111
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: like my mom would be up.

1112
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 2: But at any moment I wanted to to worry, You're

1113
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 2: almost we would have had to create boundaries for my

1114
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: mom because she would have loved me and Grandma so much,

1115
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 2: or putting her input on things that she's not not

1116
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 2: a part of her has to know like hey, we're

1117
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 2: our own tribe. Like she was a very A type personality,

1118
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:51,319
Speaker 2: badass mom. And I do get angry knowing that RUE

1119
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 2: will never know her through her own relationship with her.

1120
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 2: She's going to know her through me, through my actions

1121
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 2: and when I'm having my moments and I'm trying to

1122
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: until I'm blue in the face, hoping that I can

1123
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 2: imprint on what Grandma would have meant, even though you

1124
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 2: never met her, you never talked to her, you never

1125
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 2: talked to her. But yeah, man, I empathize with all

1126
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 2: of that message. I appreciate you writing in man and

1127
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 2: knowing thirteen years somebody who's lost somebody super close, not

1128
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 2: too long ago. It's been four years for me because

1129
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 2: I lost my mom when charl was pregnant with Rue,

1130
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 2: and knowing that it can be as long as thirteen

1131
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 2: years and then it just never goes away.

1132
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 3: And will this might not be the time or place

1133
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 3: so like cut me off. But what was the cause

1134
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 3: or timeline? I don't know if I've ever asked you that.

1135
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 2: So the cause was she had a blood clot, she

1136
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: got knee replaced, she got a new replacement, her second

1137
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 2: one for her other knee, and she was so excited

1138
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 2: to get it done because her other knee felt so

1139
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 2: much better, and.

1140
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: She got a knee replacement, and weeks after.

1141
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 2: I don't know this to be fact, but in my head,

1142
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 2: she I remember when we were talking on the phone

1143
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 2: because that was year I went to the Raiders for

1144
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 2: my last year of playing, where I went to Las Vegas.

1145
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:05,720
Speaker 1: It was planning on Raiders. I got signed.

1146
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 2: I actually went to my last moments with her was

1147
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 2: I went back home and visited. We went to a

1148
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 2: high school football game to watch ye coach, and we

1149
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 2: spent the weekend there and it was a lot of fun.

1150
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 2: I went to the Raider Junior Football League and watched

1151
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 2: the kids on Saturday. We had a great time. And

1152
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 2: that was in That was around. That was in October November.

1153
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 2: Shortly after that is when I got the call to

1154
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 2: go to Vegas to finish out. I was on the

1155
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 2: team for five weeks to finish out the year with

1156
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 2: the Raiders, Yes, where Rich Pasaci was the head coach.

1157
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 2: And I remember being on the phone with her, like

1158
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 2: checking in about you know, her rehab, like the knee,

1159
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 2: like all the post surgery stuff, and she was excited

1160
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 2: and bragging to me she's not taking it. She's got

1161
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 2: off her title and all because she's very much like

1162
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 2: a high pain tolerance woman, like a person who's they

1163
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 2: want to be a badass. They want to do things

1164
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,720
Speaker 2: faster than hey, it's going to be a four month rehab.

1165
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 2: She wants to get it done in two. Like she

1166
00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 2: was very she was like that like, I'm like that.

1167
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: I was about to say apple didn't fall far.

1168
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 2: And when it happened, it was I COVID was taking

1169
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 2: place and we were about to play the Cleveland Browns

1170
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 2: and our game got postponed to a different date.

1171
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 1: We were flying out. I was in Cleveland.

1172
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:21,879
Speaker 2: I was in my hotel room because we were about

1173
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 2: to play the Browns the next day. And I get

1174
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 2: a call from Wyatt. I get a call this thing

1175
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,360
Speaker 2: happens here. Because obviously I go back to the spot

1176
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 2: and we don't have to go fully into it. I

1177
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 2: want to I'd like you answered my question thoroughly. Okay,

1178
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:45,280
Speaker 2: just say you know. I got a call from Wyatt

1179
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 2: and she he was yeah, let's move.

1180
00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and all essentially they I was just I

1181
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 3: didn't know, And you answered that question fabulous.

1182
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 2: If I get beyond that moment, yeah, all of that

1183
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 2: that took place, Besatch comes.

1184
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,720
Speaker 1: He's sitting in my hotel room with me go home.

1185
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 2: They allowed me to be home for like two weeks

1186
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 2: because obviously it's like it's my last year playing. We know,

1187
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 2: we know him there for being a culture guy, covering

1188
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:19,280
Speaker 2: some kicks, covering some punts, like I'm tight with everybody

1189
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:20,240
Speaker 2: in the Raiders organization.

1190
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Raiders organization, the fan base. My teammates were pivotal,

1191
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 1: pivotal for me in that in that moment.

1192
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, guys speaking about me and to me remembers

1193
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 2: A Jones, a receiver.

1194
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: He's mentioned me in the postgame presser.

1195
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 2: We they ended up beating Cleveland and guys had all

1196
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 2: the greatest messages are like, dude, it was.

1197
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: My heart will forever.

1198
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 2: Raiders will always have a beast of that because they

1199
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 2: helped me through one of the hardest times, the hardest time.

1200
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1201
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I get to go home for a couple

1202
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 2: of weeks and as you know, it's very emotional, very tough.

1203
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:58,879
Speaker 2: It's it sucked, man. It was the most brutal time

1204
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 2: ever for a lot of us, our family, everybody.

1205
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: Yea.

1206
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 2: Because she was a centerpiece of a lot of things.

1207
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:08,479
Speaker 2: She was a school principal for a Catholic school, Saint

1208
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 2: Rose of Lehman de Soto, Missouri, and so she touched

1209
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,399
Speaker 2: a lot of people. And as I'm doing my own

1210
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 2: research on the back end of finding closure, god, what

1211
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 2: fucking happened?

1212
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: Because it was sudden.

1213
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, she made she made a yelp sound that my

1214
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,840
Speaker 2: dad heard in the other room and she was just gone.

1215
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 2: There was no there was no life ambulance came. They're

1216
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 2: hoping it's okay. You're hoping it's okay as they go

1217
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 2: to the hospital, but it was it was gone, you

1218
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 2: know what I mean, There's no there was no like,

1219
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 2: can we be doing something right now?

1220
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,439
Speaker 1: Could something of happened before that? And in my brain

1221
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: when I wrap it around.

1222
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 2: It's like maybe I've been her getting off the baby

1223
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,720
Speaker 2: tilan Ar the Thailand R, like was she's still taking

1224
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 2: her her meds or things that like got the circulation

1225
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 2: going to where this blood clot didn't form. You battle

1226
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:55,320
Speaker 2: through all of that shit, bro, And that is essentially

1227
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 2: what happened. And that was that was in twenty It

1228
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 2: was a twenty only one. Yeah, R was born on

1229
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,280
Speaker 2: April third and twenty two, So that happened in December.

1230
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:11,760
Speaker 2: December eighteenth, twenty one, right before Christmas. My last message

1231
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 2: from her and I still haven't it's what's your address

1232
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 2: so I can send you Christmas gifts?

1233
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 1: You know that's a good Hey, that's a good grandma. Dude, dude,

1234
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: she was fucking the best.

1235
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, yeah, God, I get uncomfortable doing.

1236
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 1: No, You're fine. I hate the crying all the time. Yeah,

1237
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 1: I know everybody's okay with it.

1238
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's just man not to cut you off

1239
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 3: or segue. But one thing that I meant to tell

1240
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 3: you this off the pod was when I made that

1241
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 3: video either a week ago or two weeks.

1242
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 1: Ago, where you were talking about your mom.

1243
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 3: I just went through your Instagram and I was like

1244
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:58,439
Speaker 3: ripping images off of your Instagram for like some great

1245
00:55:58,480 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 3: pictures of you and.

1246
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: Ma where you're reading captions.

1247
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 3: Dude, Will It was so great because he just gave

1248
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 3: me an insight into the relationship with your mom, just

1249
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 3: a tad bit because I've never heard her voice.

1250
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: I've never mattered nothing.

1251
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:15,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you had a capture on there that they

1252
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 3: were having a family dinner the Comptons were and you

1253
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 3: made an extremely off color joke.

1254
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 1: About putting her in a home. Yes, and you're I

1255
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: love that. His as reaction that he put in the

1256
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:35,440
Speaker 1: caption was, William, Yeah, because I have done that around

1257
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: the office and others have too whatever, Will like go

1258
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: too far with the joke?

1259
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 4: Do that?

1260
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 1: Oh Will Dude? That just made me laugh.

1261
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 3: So I just I thought that was hilarious that she

1262
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 3: and you play it in the caption that she was

1263
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 3: smiling when she said William too that she she loved

1264
00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 3: your humor so right.

1265
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 1: Like, if I'm putting that caption out there, it'd be like, oh,

1266
00:56:57,719 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: why are you treating your mom like that? It's like, dude,

1267
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:02,399
Speaker 1: we have I bust their balls all the time.

1268
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 2: Like the running joke that will still try and laugh

1269
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 2: about with my old man is I would literally tell

1270
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 2: them like if my dad is having like a brain

1271
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 2: moment something where you're laughing at your old man, yeah,

1272
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 2: I just beg dad man, I'll be honest with you.

1273
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 2: I hope I hope you go first if anything happens.

1274
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 2: And this is back before obviously everything took place, But

1275
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 2: you're just making those jokes because it's like what.

1276
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: Are you going to be?

1277
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 2: How are you going to do anything without Mom around?

1278
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 2: But I'll be okay if you go. I don't want

1279
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 2: you to go. I'll be okay if you go first,

1280
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 2: because at least mom, Yeah, we know how to operate.

1281
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 2: My dad has done an incredible job picking himself up,

1282
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:44,439
Speaker 2: and you know that's a process as well for any

1283
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:46,959
Speaker 2: anybody who's gone through something like that.

1284
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 1: Are similar. They understand this dynamic and my dad's.

1285
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 3: Relationship with I think it is so funny, is like

1286
00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 3: I never joked with my dad, uh or well I did,

1287
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 3: but like I didn't do that type of joking with

1288
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 3: my dad. And when I was on the phone with

1289
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 3: him the other day, I just love how like you

1290
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 3: keep that same Will like sense of humor across the board,

1291
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 3: even with you like not really having any personal relationship

1292
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 3: with my dad. I'm on a phone call with him

1293
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 3: and the shirt contest is going on, and I called

1294
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 3: my dad and he had graciously offered to buy some

1295
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 3: of the shirts and was wondering which shirt he needed

1296
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 3: to buy for the PT six shirt to win.

1297
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, which you won, which he's one.

1298
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 3: And it's not like my dad bought a crazy amount,

1299
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 3: as the story will tell. But my dad when Will

1300
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 3: gets on the phone, he walks up mid combo and

1301
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 3: he sticks his head in the car and he's like.

1302
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 1: Mister young, you know, blah blah blah.

1303
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 3: He's just like being Will. And my dad is very

1304
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 3: proud to tell Will that he's buying four shirts, four

1305
00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 3: PT six shirts. He's like so excited to tell Will

1306
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 3: that it Will goes four get thirty five those a

1307
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 3: rookie numbers. We got to bub those numbers. And my dude, wait.

1308
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: On my dad and he's like, oh, well, then I'm like, Dad,

1309
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 1: he is kidding.

1310
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 5: Bought all the tumblers down. His dad bought every single

1311
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 5: for the Dad's coffee tumbler. And we were talking to

1312
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 5: the Merchen team and they're like, yeah, we ran out

1313
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 5: of that by like thirty Did.

1314
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: You hear that story? No, he bought it as a

1315
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: Christmas gift for his office. That is amazing And your

1316
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: dad is awesome.

1317
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 2: And and even when I'm saying it, I almost now

1318
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 2: understand the dynamic that's happening because number one, your dad's

1319
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 2: so proud of everything that you're doing. And yeah, he

1320
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 2: also wants me to know how much it means to him,

1321
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 2: how much like it's it's like a he's he almost

1322
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 2: he wants to be we are on the personal level.

1323
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 2: But it's like a moment for him and I am just.

1324
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 3: Like and you're doing loss at the end of the day,

1325
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 3: and Boss in his mind is like this, and you know,

1326
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 3: he's like, man, like, what you're doing for my kid?

1327
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: And then you also are Will Compton's you.

1328
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,919
Speaker 3: Have like these jokes that you'll throw in that will

1329
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 3: just catch my dad's so off guard.

1330
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hilarious. It is fun, dude, it is fun.

1331
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: It's very funny. That made me laugh really hard. Nothing

1332
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 1: ever come across the first pitch video with my mom. Yes,

1333
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 1: you showed it to me the other day. Yeah, we're

1334
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 1: at the Cardinal game.

1335
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 2: It was my It was the second time I got

1336
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 2: to do a first pitch for the Cardinals, and so

1337
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 2: I was. My mom grew up. She loves baseball. She

1338
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:34,800
Speaker 2: loves the k City Chief, she loves saying Louis Cardinals baseball.

1339
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 2: She loved it, like wed go and uh, we just

1340
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 2: randomly on a weekend, she'd be like, let's get in

1341
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 2: the car, we're gonna go up and scalp tickets. And

1342
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 2: she just worked the streets like she was very much

1343
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 2: like that, where you're going up. We don't have any tickets,

1344
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 2: We're gonna scalp tickets. I got to watch Dontrelle Willis

1345
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 2: with the Florida Marlins. I love, you know, fantasy baseball,

1346
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 2: playing triple play on computer, backyard baseball. I loved baseball

1347
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 2: growing up, and the Florida Marlins were in town playing

1348
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 2: the Cardinals in Dontrell will was throwing, and I love

1349
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 2: Dontroll Willis because he had this arm action, this sideal

1350
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 2: action where he just kind of had to swag. He

1351
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 2: had the juice, and so we got to watch him.

1352
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 2: We got to watch him play that day. But I

1353
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 2: knew my mom loved the Cardinals so much, so the

1354
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 2: second time I got to do a first pitch, I'm like, hey, Mom,

1355
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 2: I want you to do the first pitch, like we'll

1356
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 2: walk out to together, but I want you to throw

1357
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: the ball because I know she's in heaven getting to

1358
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:23,439
Speaker 2: go and see all this stuff. They're taking us behind

1359
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 2: the scenes, showing us facilities and doing all the fun things.

1360
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 2: And we get out there and I know my mom's

1361
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 2: about to throw, and I kind of know her our emotion.

1362
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 1: You throw the ball like that, You throw a ball

1363
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: like the girl. You throw a ball like a girl.

1364
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 1: You throw the ball like a girl. So they took

1365
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: him over to get out, but I'm busting her balls.

1366
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 2: We're doing quotes from what's the movie with Tom Hanks,

1367
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 2: the women's baseball movie Their Own, We're doing quotes from

1368
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 2: a league of their Own. But she goes out there

1369
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,479
Speaker 2: and I'm recording and she throws it, throws the pitch

1370
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:55,160
Speaker 2: in the dirt, and I'm.

1371
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 1: Like, oh, trash, trash. She's like putting the camera in

1372
01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 1: her face.

1373
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 2: But that's a video I always look back on just

1374
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:03,400
Speaker 2: to see moment that.

1375
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 3: That is a funny clip worth Chef putting into the episode.

1376
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 1: Dude, all right.

1377
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 7: Going out for going out for our first pitch.

1378
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 2: I gotta bring it all the way out to the mound.

1379
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:19,600
Speaker 1: This is the Mother's Gate, the Mother's Day gift.

1380
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 7: Everybody there you go, damn mom.

1381
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 1: Trash tread because it's Yeah, Will is just out of

1382
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:46,200
Speaker 1: bashly Will in that moment. You were sure that dude.

1383
01:02:46,200 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 1: I've got a lot of.

1384
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 2: Cool messages over the last week from friends of the family,

1385
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 2: like friends of my mom. Oh good, just like writing

1386
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:54,800
Speaker 2: about that message. I woke up to another one this

1387
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 2: morning from my boy, uh Foster Moreau, who was the

1388
01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 2: tight end on the Raiders at the time, that saw

1389
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 2: that clip and he sent me a really nice message.

1390
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:06,840
Speaker 2: But yeah, man, I number one, I appreciate you guys.

1391
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 2: Is you guys sitting here with the boy as I

1392
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 2: talked through something.

1393
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:13,080
Speaker 5: Yah, did one call out just to say people were

1394
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:16,479
Speaker 5: asking the comments if it was like a templated book

1395
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 5: she wrote, or if it was like an empty notebook

1396
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 5: that she filled because a lot of people were curious.

1397
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: There's like books that can happen nowadays.

1398
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 2: So yeah, it was a templated where there's questions from

1399
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 2: her past growing up. Thinks her parents taught her old

1400
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 2: friends that she spoke about, like she's answering questions in

1401
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 2: like a templated book.

1402
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 1: Then it gets to my birth.

1403
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 2: You know what she envisioned for me when I was young,

1404
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 2: And it seems like she stopped writing in it when

1405
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 2: I was a senior in college because there's no mention

1406
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 2: of like, you know, the NFL or anything like that.

1407
01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 2: She talks about how proud she is of getting to

1408
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 2: play college football and playing in Nebraska.

1409
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 1: But it's a very much like a templated thing. Part

1410
01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: of me.

1411
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 2: I took so long to even look at the book

1412
01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 2: or even think about it. I never opened it to

1413
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 2: where I'm like, did she write is just like a journal,

1414
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 2: to where she wrote to me in it, you know

1415
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 2: what I mean to her. I had no clue what

1416
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 2: I was about to open. Yeah, this new ru was

1417
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 2: having such a hard time, and I'm like, man, I've

1418
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 2: been talking about doing this, it seems like the moment

1419
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 2: to do it. Uh, but yeah, it was a templated

1420
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:15,040
Speaker 2: book because there's a lot of them now that are

1421
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 2: kind of sold out there, which I I love that,

1422
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 2: and I like tell myself, I need to do that

1423
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 2: for my kids because I think it's a really cool thing.

1424
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:26,480
Speaker 2: Oh buddy from away past episode putting us on game

1425
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:27,120
Speaker 2: with a journal.

1426
01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 1: Remember Spotify and the email account too.

1427
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 3: That's been a dad hack that's come up plenty of

1428
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 3: times of create a Gmail account or whatever email service

1429
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 3: you want to use and just email it every single

1430
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 3: day and then once the kid is old enough, give

1431
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 3: them a password and the email address and they can

1432
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 3: get through and read through that.

1433
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1434
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, And dude, honestly, it's a I feel like, I

1435
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 2: don't know this to be a fact, but I feel

1436
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 2: like it. This was this was a situation that really

1437
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 2: helped incubate this show, you know what I mean, Like

1438
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 2: from as from a a position of it impacted me

1439
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 2: in such a way, especially with Charli being pregnant and

1440
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:08,880
Speaker 2: having rue and articulating what I wanted to be as

1441
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 2: a father and gravitating towards all the dad content and

1442
01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 2: the world out there because I just love it. I

1443
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 2: love getting whatever new ideas are out there. When people

1444
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 2: write in with questions and I might not have the answer,

1445
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 2: but I like see myself in those questions because I

1446
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 2: would gravitate to a lot of dad content that goes on, yeah,

1447
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:27,560
Speaker 2: towards being in the podcast game and everything else. It's like, man,

1448
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 2: this would be this would be really cool. Like essentially,

1449
01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 2: you're making a show speaking to your old self that

1450
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 2: you know, my mom made such an impact on me

1451
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 2: that it has impacted me in my own journey as

1452
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 2: a dad, which having the show has been has meant

1453
01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 2: the world. Like whenever you guys reach out, whenever you

1454
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 2: guys do comment about this stuff as awkward as I

1455
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 2: feel crying or when my mom's stuff comes up in

1456
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 2: my brain, I'm like, man, does this stuff come up

1457
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:50,240
Speaker 2: too much?

1458
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: Am I crying too much about this? People? You don't

1459
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 1: know how much joy.

1460
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:59,560
Speaker 2: And how much value you guys do bring to me

1461
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 2: when I see that it does help impact or help

1462
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 2: somebody that has missed their dad for thirteen years. Beck

1463
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 2: was It was nice seeing that and understanding that we

1464
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:13,240
Speaker 2: all do. We all go through this shit together. Yeah,

1465
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 2: and you're kind of one listen or one conversation or

1466
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 2: one comment or right up away from connecting to something

1467
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 2: that feels like yeah, I should see it this way,

1468
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 2: or yeah, I am feeling that anger and you just

1469
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 2: feel like you're not alone, you know what I mean?

1470
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 3: Yes, And it's great to be able to smell the

1471
01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 3: flowers from a standpoint of being able to see the

1472
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 3: community that has been built from this. We talked earlier

1473
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:42,440
Speaker 3: about the Jared Ladds Twitter group before the Dad's Twitter

1474
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 3: community that he started and a lot of dad up

1475
01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:49,240
Speaker 3: to one hundred and ninety eight members now, which that's

1476
01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 3: let's go, that's sick. But in that group, like these

1477
01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 3: dads are just like posting pictures of like them hanging

1478
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 3: out with their kids.

1479
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 1: Like it's the most dad coded group ever. Like we've

1480
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:10,040
Speaker 1: got our own Facebook now, it's like a Facebook for

1481
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:12,160
Speaker 1: these dads and be like I took my.

1482
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 3: Kid fishing, we went to this pizza spot like blah

1483
01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 3: blah blah. But like the just to be like entered

1484
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 3: into that world of being surrounded by other people that

1485
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,960
Speaker 3: are like, man, family is so important and being a

1486
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:33,640
Speaker 3: good dad is so important, and having that constant reminder, yeah,

1487
01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 3: being a part of this show like kind of puts

1488
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 3: the blinders on because it is my job to like

1489
01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 3: do the show and to interact with that community. But

1490
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 3: it is also a nice refresher sometimes of like, man,

1491
01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 3: I'm so lucky to be a part of this community

1492
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 3: and see all this positive I have the most positive

1493
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:56,840
Speaker 3: timeline on the internet quote graphic, like I really do.

1494
01:07:56,920 --> 01:08:01,160
Speaker 3: It's crazy, it is. It's awesome. So oh and shout

1495
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,600
Speaker 3: out to you for ideating this show. But shout out

1496
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:04,200
Speaker 3: to the community.

1497
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:07,240
Speaker 2: The shout out to the community. Askment because it does.

1498
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:10,560
Speaker 2: It's like you almost it helps you if you just

1499
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:12,840
Speaker 2: think of the brand or the community and you factor

1500
01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 2: it into one singular person. It feels like you almost

1501
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:19,160
Speaker 2: have like an accountabil a buddy. Yeah, because there's a

1502
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 2: lot of times where if I'm getting frustrated or I'm thinking,

1503
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:24,320
Speaker 2: because it's obviously it's it's an ongoing cycle all the time,

1504
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 2: I'm almost like thinking about stuff we've said on the show,

1505
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 2: or thinking of a write end that somebody had, you

1506
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 2: know what I mean to where you know.

1507
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 1: You're dealing with it in real time.

1508
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 2: Of you know what the Willie one shelf like anytime

1509
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,360
Speaker 2: Charles talking about hanging up something now or doing something

1510
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:45,599
Speaker 2: like that now infiltrates my brain to where if there's

1511
01:08:45,680 --> 01:08:48,840
Speaker 2: no if there's no none of that, who knows whatever

1512
01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:51,439
Speaker 2: cycle it would have created if like I don't want

1513
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:52,799
Speaker 2: to do this, I'm being.

1514
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 3: So serious when you say that, But prepping for this show,

1515
01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 3: we used to have that or not used to have

1516
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:02,720
Speaker 3: we still have it. The the trenches segment that we'll

1517
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 3: do sometimes, and the trenches segment that I would have sometimes.

1518
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:08,719
Speaker 1: Is solo Dad weekend.

1519
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 3: That was like something that I was like, man, I'm

1520
01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 3: going I'm really going through the shit, and not to

1521
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 3: make light of anything that's been submitted to us.

1522
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 1: But like now in my head, I have these.

1523
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:22,840
Speaker 3: Ride ends of oh my dog died, I got in

1524
01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 3: a huge car accident, almost died, had to get surgery,

1525
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,280
Speaker 3: blah blah blah. At least I get to hug my

1526
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 3: kiddos though, and I'm like, man, what am I doing

1527
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 3: writing down the trenches.

1528
01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 1: I had to have a solo Oh whoe is me?

1529
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 1: It was just me and my daughter this weekend? Fuck,

1530
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 1: Like it really did shift my perspective so much of like, bro,

1531
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:51,720
Speaker 1: I'm so freaking lucky, It's unreal, and like, yeah, I

1532
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:54,400
Speaker 1: could get emotional if I went further, but that that's it.

1533
01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm very low. I need this show. Well I do

1534
01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 1: have some building there, so I see it. That counts.

1535
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:02,400
Speaker 1: We did have a ride in.

1536
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:05,720
Speaker 3: If we want to go into some quick dad comments

1537
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 3: and then maybe we hit to crack a cold one.

1538
01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it. Mark, So what is this? What

1539
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:14,839
Speaker 1: is this? Preface as? Is this and this I see email?

1540
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:20,120
Speaker 3: Uh yes, but it was preface as like general comments.

1541
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 1: Okay, general comments.

1542
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:26,759
Speaker 3: So this one is fun because although it is email,

1543
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:31,880
Speaker 3: it's quick. Caitlin's husband wrote into the show last week

1544
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:36,400
Speaker 3: and I forget his name, his first name, but he.

1545
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 1: Like he casually Zach. He casually was like, you.

1546
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:44,679
Speaker 3: Know, there's this great this great quote from my old

1547
01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:47,840
Speaker 3: ball coach back in the day, Pete Carroll and Will

1548
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:50,080
Speaker 3: and I like laughed very hard at that because they're like,

1549
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 3: oh yeah his old ball copy.

1550
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:54,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, just nonchalantly Pete Carrol, just a little old Peete

1551
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 1: Carroll and so, uh yeah, man, one of my old

1552
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:02,920
Speaker 1: mentors of mine, of Vince Lombardi, my old fish you

1553
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 1: don't know who he is, my old fishing buddy, Nicholas Sabin, Whatst.

1554
01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:09,599
Speaker 1: Virginia guy back in the day he goes by Nick. Yeah,

1555
01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 1: he goes by Nick. He's got this great quote you

1556
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:19,200
Speaker 1: just spoke at the White House. But uh, his wife

1557
01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 1: rodin and this is what she had to say.

1558
01:11:21,240 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 3: Her name is Caitlin. I hope I'm pronouncing this correctly.

1559
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:24,840
Speaker 4: A bear.

1560
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 3: Or keeber mt six here, mom of three, married to

1561
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 3: the hottest USC offensive lineman to ever set foot in

1562
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 3: the coliseum two thousand and six to twenty ten.

1563
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:41,640
Speaker 1: Did he play in the in the Rosewell game? That

1564
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 1: means he would have played in the rossee Oh six, right,

1565
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:52,000
Speaker 1: that's that was fo It was four years old because

1566
01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:56,120
Speaker 1: he's Reggie bok he one was Yeah, Zach.

1567
01:11:57,560 --> 01:12:01,160
Speaker 3: Zach Abert number seventy four and no hot offensive lineman

1568
01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 3: is not an oxymoron.

1569
01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 1: Single ladies.

1570
01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 3: Courtney Strong in parenthese she actually wrote that that's not

1571
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 3: Caitlin's obviously an empty sicco Uh find yourself an offensive lineman.

1572
01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 3: They get the job done, best husband and best dad.

1573
01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:23,520
Speaker 3: Two comments empty fit. I'm a nurse, shout out Jillybean,

1574
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:26,639
Speaker 3: and I made it a priority to wake up at

1575
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:30,559
Speaker 3: five am before uh work four times a week to

1576
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:34,960
Speaker 3: get my workout in in the garage squat rack dialed

1577
01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:37,360
Speaker 3: in waits ready to go, and let me tell you,

1578
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 3: empty sixers. It's a game changer for my mental health,

1579
01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:43,559
Speaker 3: my physical health, and hey, if I'm being honest, it's

1580
01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 3: kind of an empty shockwave for the hubs. Works both ways.

1581
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,360
Speaker 3: Crying laughing face, hashtag.

1582
01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:54,960
Speaker 1: Put a bow on ito, Uh siko, that's a good

1583
01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 1: looking for right. I want to be as that flow?

1584
01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:06,360
Speaker 1: Still going on with that? Did he play with Clay? Yeah?

1585
01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:11,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, God, you gotta ask Clay about Zach. He'll be like, Oh,

1586
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 3: the hotty number seventy four and what's her name? Kayln Kaylin,

1587
01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:17,479
Speaker 3: and god, she's I'm sitting here listening. It's like the

1588
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:19,479
Speaker 3: pet Fits world. It's not even done.

1589
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 1: Oh we're still gone. We're still no, but continue your thought.

1590
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:27,080
Speaker 1: No we finished. It's seeping with all these I know

1591
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:27,559
Speaker 1: what you mean.

1592
01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 3: Other comment for the girl dads out there, we have

1593
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:33,680
Speaker 3: two girls and got our boy two years ago. Our

1594
01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 3: family is complete and so full of love and joy.

1595
01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 3: Watching our girls love their brother is incredible. I'm gonna

1596
01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:42,599
Speaker 3: share some advice, and someone told us when we decided

1597
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 3: to roll the dice for one more, don't make eye

1598
01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:50,559
Speaker 3: contact when you're trying to make that boy, I'm going to.

1599
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:54,759
Speaker 1: Read that again. I'm going to read that again because

1600
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:57,640
Speaker 1: that that this is this is my game, this is

1601
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 1: raw game. This is from her.

1602
01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:07,639
Speaker 3: Don't make eye contact when you're trying to make that boy.

1603
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:12,880
Speaker 3: That's all I gotta say. It's evidence based, this is

1604
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:16,639
Speaker 3: backed by science. Essentially. Love what you guys are doing.

1605
01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 1: Keep it up. MT six out that. Put that in

1606
01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 1: a frame. Put this one in a frame. That's a

1607
01:14:22,120 --> 01:14:22,559
Speaker 1: great one.

1608
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go ahead and as good as he gets

1609
01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:25,280
Speaker 3: right there, I'm gonna put it on the shelf.

1610
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 1: You literally am.

1611
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 2: Don't hey, you want game on how to make a boy?

1612
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:37,679
Speaker 2: Don't make eye contact? I wonder if that came from

1613
01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:38,639
Speaker 2: her or came from him.

1614
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 1: Like, think if it came from her and they're about

1615
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:42,800
Speaker 1: to hit the shockwave and she's looking at him and

1616
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 1: she's like, don't make eye contact with me, trust me.

1617
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:49,479
Speaker 1: And the fourteenth would be a great date to test

1618
01:14:49,520 --> 01:14:55,800
Speaker 1: that theory out. I mean, you get a little bit out.

1619
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:58,160
Speaker 2: You're hitting a different we're hitting a different No, no, you're

1620
01:14:58,240 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 2: in a different coaster.

1621
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 1: Yoh sure, but who's to say, you know, I don't

1622
01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:07,160
Speaker 1: just go to six lags and go, oh, I'm only

1623
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 1: gonna do that one. I'm only gonna do the mister Freeze.

1624
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:11,799
Speaker 3: Oh, We're gonna do Mittal Freeze like five times, guys.

1625
01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:13,599
Speaker 3: That's the only one. No, we're gonna work our way

1626
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 3: over to the Titan. We're gonna do Batman a little bit,

1627
01:15:16,360 --> 01:15:17,840
Speaker 3: and you know we're gonna hit shock Wave.

1628
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:21,280
Speaker 1: But just know when we hit that Batman, don't look

1629
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:23,920
Speaker 1: me in the e Don't fucking look at me. Don't

1630
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:26,400
Speaker 1: you fucking look at me. You look away right now.

1631
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 1: That's that's amazing. Shout out Kaitlyn. Shout out Kaitlyn.

1632
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:34,720
Speaker 4: A quick quick clarification the national champion champ. That game

1633
01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:37,720
Speaker 4: was five oh six, so we're both we're all kind

1634
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:38,360
Speaker 4: of right on that.

1635
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:42,280
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you for the clarity. Should update from Chef.

1636
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:47,519
Speaker 2: I got a couple here on Spotify Jeff four days ago,

1637
01:15:48,400 --> 01:15:50,720
Speaker 2: new listener, dead of two beautiful girls four months and

1638
01:15:50,760 --> 01:15:55,439
Speaker 2: twenty seven months. That's two brother, can't believe I'm just

1639
01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 2: not discovering you guys. Better late than never, Stoked to

1640
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:03,240
Speaker 2: be a t PT sixer. Let's go, Jeff. Thank you

1641
01:16:03,280 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 2: for joining the brand. Thank you for joining this army

1642
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 2: of bt sikos.

1643
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:10,719
Speaker 3: Jeff Better late than never better, Nate than lever, Jeff,

1644
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:13,320
Speaker 3: We're glad to have you. Yeah, we're glad to have you.

1645
01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 3: Nick Dido on Instagram. Boy, his mom is fighting for

1646
01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:20,160
Speaker 3: her life at night with the three week old, but

1647
01:16:20,240 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 3: tomorrow morning starts the war, my war at home. The

1648
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:28,000
Speaker 3: toddler is ready for potty training, and mornings are dad's responsibility.

1649
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 1: Good.

1650
01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:31,759
Speaker 3: We have to start this on the right foot. Tonight

1651
01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:35,479
Speaker 3: I moved the kid potty in the right position, covered

1652
01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 3: the couches and blankets, and studied the material.

1653
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:42,360
Speaker 1: I think we're ready. As a US Navy sailor. Thank

1654
01:16:42,400 --> 01:16:43,040
Speaker 1: you for your service.

1655
01:16:43,080 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 3: Thank you sir, for fourteen years now we have sailors

1656
01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:49,600
Speaker 3: around the world kicking ass right now so that I

1657
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:52,719
Speaker 3: can be on leave to take care of my family.

1658
01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:57,439
Speaker 3: Thank you for their service. So is potty training important?

1659
01:16:57,600 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 1: Yes? But will it break me?

1660
01:16:59,400 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 6: No?

1661
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 1: God bless you more. Good ship on it? Ship but yeah.

1662
01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:12,080
Speaker 1: The new comment this week hashtag ship on it. Good

1663
01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 1: ship keep going. They'll just stop with bt make our

1664
01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:19,840
Speaker 1: life hell.

1665
01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:23,280
Speaker 3: But this is how we learn. The obstacle is the way.

1666
01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:27,240
Speaker 3: Put a bow on it, put a blindfold on it. Yeah,

1667
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:28,519
Speaker 3: if you're trying to have.

1668
01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:30,639
Speaker 1: A boy yeah, yeah, don't look him in the eye.

1669
01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:32,439
Speaker 1: I do have a quick new dad one. I only

1670
01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:32,880
Speaker 1: have one.

1671
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:36,640
Speaker 2: I still got, I still got another one, still got

1672
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:40,320
Speaker 2: another one. From William Dousa on Spotify. The fella's laying

1673
01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:42,479
Speaker 2: here watching the podcast with my three week old baby

1674
01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 2: girl in my chest, talking about pet fit. There is

1675
01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:52,640
Speaker 2: such unaccountability up for pet Fit. It's staring us in

1676
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:56,200
Speaker 2: the face. Shirt it is we can touch off in

1677
01:17:56,240 --> 01:17:59,880
Speaker 2: the face. Something we can do is sign up for

1678
01:18:00,160 --> 01:18:02,559
Speaker 2: then here we go. Oh now now we got we

1679
01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:05,640
Speaker 2: got an idea. Man with William, I signed up for

1680
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:08,639
Speaker 2: a half marathon in May. So this is a half

1681
01:18:08,680 --> 01:18:11,880
Speaker 2: marathons that's a slow burn and it's helped me get

1682
01:18:11,920 --> 01:18:13,960
Speaker 2: out and work out and go on runs. Since I

1683
01:18:14,040 --> 01:18:16,599
Speaker 2: signed up, I really felt better with my health and

1684
01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:19,599
Speaker 2: it helps that you have something to work towards. Once

1685
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 2: that event is over, the routine is set. Thank you.

1686
01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 2: My mind has never gone Listen, this is Dan Gable quote.

1687
01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:33,040
Speaker 2: My mind has never gone very far from what I

1688
01:18:33,080 --> 01:18:34,400
Speaker 2: wanted to accomplish.

1689
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:39,320
Speaker 1: He threw a Dan Gable. Can I see that? Yeah? Absolutely,

1690
01:18:41,520 --> 01:18:44,599
Speaker 1: well this one will go somewhere as well. Okay, we'll

1691
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:46,679
Speaker 1: just start hanging up comments. We're just gonna start hanging

1692
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:53,280
Speaker 1: up comments. That's a new thing. Pek fit has got

1693
01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:56,280
Speaker 1: to be a reality it it is. Did you see

1694
01:18:56,320 --> 01:19:00,640
Speaker 1: the call out that I got? I don't so no,

1695
01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 1: remind me now, remind me, tell me about it.

1696
01:19:03,439 --> 01:19:06,400
Speaker 3: Somebody wants to race me to a sub two hundred weight.

1697
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:11,960
Speaker 3: He's at two thirty and he's six foot I'm at

1698
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:17,639
Speaker 3: two twenty five or far two point fifteen and I'm

1699
01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:18,559
Speaker 3: five foot eight.

1700
01:19:20,439 --> 01:19:24,559
Speaker 1: So I feel like I one hundred have the leg

1701
01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 1: up on him right Possibly, who knows.

1702
01:19:27,160 --> 01:19:29,559
Speaker 3: Possibly it could be a genetic freak, isn't it kind

1703
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:32,200
Speaker 3: of it's kind of harder for the leakier guys to

1704
01:19:32,280 --> 01:19:35,360
Speaker 3: drop or is it harder for shorter guys to drop weight?

1705
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:38,439
Speaker 1: It just depends. Depends. But he wants to race me

1706
01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:42,720
Speaker 1: to do sub two hundred for diapers, depends on That's

1707
01:19:42,720 --> 01:19:45,000
Speaker 1: a that's a good challenge. That's a good challenge.

1708
01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:47,519
Speaker 2: But as far as pt fit goes, we think about

1709
01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 2: routine and structure. Because I've been hitting my Zone two

1710
01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:52,519
Speaker 2: this week, but that's about it. I have a sore.

1711
01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 2: Next is outfitting the weight room at the end of

1712
01:19:54,160 --> 01:19:54,479
Speaker 2: this month.

1713
01:19:54,520 --> 01:19:54,640
Speaker 1: Two.

1714
01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:57,960
Speaker 2: Zone two is staying within a heart rate of zone

1715
01:19:58,000 --> 01:20:00,000
Speaker 2: two heart rates, so mine is like one twenty five.

1716
01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:02,160
Speaker 2: I have to one thirty five. I won twenty five

1717
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:06,200
Speaker 2: to one for I stay in that zone. The structure

1718
01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 2: right now is getting one hundred and fifty minutes a week,

1719
01:20:08,240 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 2: so five thirty minute sessions and that's that's light work

1720
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:15,320
Speaker 2: to what I need to be at. Okay, But pt

1721
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:18,720
Speaker 2: fit there's an opportunity for routine and structure for this

1722
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,639
Speaker 2: community to where you might have that challenge.

1723
01:20:21,600 --> 01:20:27,080
Speaker 1: But what is the overall framework that we can give ourselves? Yeah,

1724
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:30,000
Speaker 1: how will this be implemented into my life?

1725
01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:31,840
Speaker 2: What I think in my head is I think of

1726
01:20:32,479 --> 01:20:35,000
Speaker 2: you know, Form Energy. They're they're a partner of ours

1727
01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 2: in the Busting with the Boys universe. Yes, first Form

1728
01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:43,040
Speaker 2: or Andy Furcella had a framework called seventy five Hard,

1729
01:20:43,240 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 2: which is like more of an extreme like it's it's

1730
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 2: an awesome framework in formula and everything else, but it's

1731
01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:51,439
Speaker 2: almost like, how can you do an iteration to where

1732
01:20:52,200 --> 01:20:54,559
Speaker 2: this pt fit is not only a movement but an

1733
01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:58,760
Speaker 2: accountability thing for dads, like for us in our community. Yes,

1734
01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 2: whether it's you know, smaller things, whether it's like you know,

1735
01:21:02,600 --> 01:21:05,639
Speaker 2: hitting strength workouts, x amount of times a week zone

1736
01:21:05,640 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 2: to her cardio x amount of times a week. Steps

1737
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:12,519
Speaker 2: getting your steps, and people are big on getting their steps,

1738
01:21:12,520 --> 01:21:15,840
Speaker 2: and who knows. I'm opening this up, but I do

1739
01:21:15,840 --> 01:21:19,040
Speaker 2: think there's something there because bro, I know for me personally,

1740
01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:22,559
Speaker 2: I've got to get right. I've got to get like

1741
01:21:22,640 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 2: on it like Charo Charo crushes it. She got her

1742
01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:27,840
Speaker 2: You know how I said, I did my DEXA and

1743
01:21:27,880 --> 01:21:30,439
Speaker 2: I'm like twenty seven percent body fat. Yeah, six hundred

1744
01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:32,800
Speaker 2: grams of visceral fat. She does the same thing as

1745
01:21:32,840 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 2: I do. Her stuff came back after essentially seven months,

1746
01:21:36,400 --> 01:21:40,559
Speaker 2: She's down like four percent body fat. Her viscral fat

1747
01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:43,519
Speaker 2: is way down. Like she like I have six hundred grams,

1748
01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:45,559
Speaker 2: she's got like one hundred or eighty five.

1749
01:21:45,680 --> 01:21:48,400
Speaker 1: Maybe I've read she's fresh off Kiddo number two.

1750
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:51,439
Speaker 2: She's grinding Shit's being a great partner for me right

1751
01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:53,320
Speaker 2: now on like because she knows I've been a little

1752
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:55,720
Speaker 2: disappointed in myself about all of that stuff. Like I

1753
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:57,679
Speaker 2: sit there, I use jokes, I do all these things

1754
01:21:57,680 --> 01:22:00,960
Speaker 2: for my insecurities and everything else. But she's been a

1755
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:03,360
Speaker 2: great partner on like how can we structure stuff because

1756
01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:05,519
Speaker 2: it's essentially it's like waking my ass up.

1757
01:22:06,120 --> 01:22:07,680
Speaker 1: Earlier than you know.

1758
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 2: We already wake up at like six thirty am, seven o'clock.

1759
01:22:10,360 --> 01:22:12,599
Speaker 2: Get the kids going, she does the kiddo's upstairs. I'm

1760
01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:15,920
Speaker 2: the dad who you know, well, whoever gets out the

1761
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:18,200
Speaker 2: feed while first. But I'm making breakfast and lunch for

1762
01:22:18,320 --> 01:22:20,200
Speaker 2: Rue and getting breakfast going for Scottie.

1763
01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:22,200
Speaker 1: Like we have our roles to where our susans. We

1764
01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 1: crush it together.

1765
01:22:23,120 --> 01:22:25,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's like, man, how can I own the

1766
01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:28,559
Speaker 2: morning because I know it's just me going to bed earlier,

1767
01:22:28,600 --> 01:22:30,960
Speaker 2: and I know it's just me waking up earlier and

1768
01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:32,000
Speaker 2: getting the work in.

1769
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:34,759
Speaker 1: Because she even brought up I feel like you need

1770
01:22:35,560 --> 01:22:35,880
Speaker 1: to be.

1771
01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:39,719
Speaker 2: Around an accountability buddy or a group or something, because

1772
01:22:39,760 --> 01:22:42,000
Speaker 2: you don't have that now that you're not done playing football.

1773
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:45,040
Speaker 2: And clearly I've fallen off the I've fallen off the

1774
01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:47,640
Speaker 2: bike when it comes to my own self care with

1775
01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 2: me being the only individual doing it or taking control

1776
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:52,360
Speaker 2: of what my structure is going to look like. She's like,

1777
01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:55,400
Speaker 2: I think it'd be good if you got around other people,

1778
01:22:55,400 --> 01:22:56,880
Speaker 2: whether it's me and you. Now that we have our

1779
01:22:56,920 --> 01:22:58,680
Speaker 2: little room set up in the house, like if we

1780
01:22:58,680 --> 01:22:59,719
Speaker 2: do stuff in the morning together.

1781
01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:00,760
Speaker 1: She's been all the time.

1782
01:23:01,200 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 3: Yes, A running group, a online group.

1783
01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:05,639
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1784
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, She's like, I think you just need the team aspect,

1785
01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:12,240
Speaker 2: and my brain just goes to it's like pt fit.

1786
01:23:12,560 --> 01:23:15,479
Speaker 3: Yes, dude, I think we have a huge opportunity. And

1787
01:23:15,640 --> 01:23:18,240
Speaker 3: also a side note, a very funny moment with Will

1788
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:21,599
Speaker 3: being at your house. I was asking you about some

1789
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:27,200
Speaker 3: financial advice. It then turned into you talking about your

1790
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:30,840
Speaker 3: health and stuff, and you were almost like trying to

1791
01:23:30,920 --> 01:23:34,360
Speaker 3: explain like your health situation and how you're wanting to

1792
01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:37,840
Speaker 3: get back on track. And it wasn't like you were

1793
01:23:38,120 --> 01:23:41,439
Speaker 3: defending yourself to me, But in that moment I wanted

1794
01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:43,760
Speaker 3: to be like, Will, do you do you see who

1795
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:47,679
Speaker 3: you're talking to? Like you got enough, Like, hey, don't

1796
01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:52,000
Speaker 3: worry you're preaching to the choir, buddy, right, I'm right

1797
01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:57,599
Speaker 3: there with you, I know, but but not to soften

1798
01:23:57,840 --> 01:24:00,360
Speaker 3: the fact that you are very passionate about this, and

1799
01:24:00,880 --> 01:24:04,800
Speaker 3: I equally saying, can I very quickly just because you

1800
01:24:05,120 --> 01:24:09,439
Speaker 3: like hit so many buzzwords, talking about first form, talking

1801
01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:12,640
Speaker 3: about seventy five hard all that stuff. I have a

1802
01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:16,400
Speaker 3: really great email from Emmett Rodriguez that touches on all

1803
01:24:16,439 --> 01:24:19,400
Speaker 3: that stuff I read no shit, yeah yeah, rip it.

1804
01:24:20,000 --> 01:24:23,280
Speaker 3: So Emmett says, what's going on? Boy, has been a

1805
01:24:23,320 --> 01:24:26,080
Speaker 3: long time listener. And now once you start by saying

1806
01:24:26,160 --> 01:24:28,439
Speaker 3: thank you, the last the cries, the advice you have

1807
01:24:28,479 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 3: shared have given me a great perspective and better feeling

1808
01:24:32,080 --> 01:24:36,320
Speaker 3: going into my first baby. Boy, let's go, Immitt. I

1809
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:39,519
Speaker 3: want to talk about pt fit. I was once three

1810
01:24:39,600 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 3: hundred and fifteen pounds at about the age of eighteen.

1811
01:24:43,920 --> 01:24:50,440
Speaker 3: Around that period in time, I began having a rhythmias

1812
01:24:50,600 --> 01:24:54,000
Speaker 3: in my heart. My heart would spike all over the place.

1813
01:24:54,120 --> 01:24:57,680
Speaker 3: Despite being an athlete in middle school in high school, I.

1814
01:24:57,720 --> 01:24:59,080
Speaker 1: Was severely out of shape.

1815
01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:02,320
Speaker 3: During the time, I was hospitalized for a week and

1816
01:25:03,600 --> 01:25:07,880
Speaker 3: had to have two ablations and coded during the second one.

1817
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:12,000
Speaker 3: Coding is very serious for anybody outside of the medical realm.

1818
01:25:12,040 --> 01:25:15,599
Speaker 3: That's when the little thing beside the hospital's bed starts

1819
01:25:15,640 --> 01:25:19,400
Speaker 3: going deep and everybody in the floor runs in. That's

1820
01:25:19,439 --> 01:25:22,960
Speaker 3: a coding is a big deal. Thankfully, I had a

1821
01:25:23,000 --> 01:25:26,799
Speaker 3: great cardiologist and nursing staff that shocked me back to life.

1822
01:25:27,240 --> 01:25:29,519
Speaker 3: While waking up, I would come in and out of

1823
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:32,479
Speaker 3: sleep and listen to my parents talk about me and

1824
01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:34,680
Speaker 3: how they didn't want to lose me. This was the

1825
01:25:34,680 --> 01:25:39,240
Speaker 3: first time I saw my dad cry. Being the oldest,

1826
01:25:39,640 --> 01:25:42,599
Speaker 3: I quickly understood how they could have easily buried their

1827
01:25:42,680 --> 01:25:45,519
Speaker 3: child that week. The amount of pain and guilt I

1828
01:25:45,560 --> 01:25:48,639
Speaker 3: had created for them, I knew I had to change.

1829
01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:52,120
Speaker 3: Once medically cleared, I began my fitness journey, dropping to

1830
01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:55,720
Speaker 3: about two point fifty over a year three fifteen to

1831
01:25:55,760 --> 01:25:59,920
Speaker 3: two point fifty in a year. Then I found first form,

1832
01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:05,080
Speaker 3: became a legioneer while applying for physical therapy school and

1833
01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:08,439
Speaker 3: committed to seventy five hard Through that I got down

1834
01:26:08,439 --> 01:26:12,120
Speaker 3: to one eighty five and probably one eighty five from

1835
01:26:12,160 --> 01:26:15,479
Speaker 3: three fifteen to one eighty five, and probably the healthiest

1836
01:26:15,520 --> 01:26:18,000
Speaker 3: I have ever been. He's now twenty nine years old

1837
01:26:18,439 --> 01:26:22,120
Speaker 3: and he exercised and exercise is his career now. As

1838
01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:25,519
Speaker 3: a physical therapist, I prescribe exercise, so I have to

1839
01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:28,519
Speaker 3: look the part, but I had to let myself go

1840
01:26:28,640 --> 01:26:32,120
Speaker 3: a bit currently two twenty, but now that I'm expecting

1841
01:26:32,160 --> 01:26:35,559
Speaker 3: my first son, I have recently been moved by living

1842
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:38,519
Speaker 3: to see him grow and being able to play and

1843
01:26:38,600 --> 01:26:41,559
Speaker 3: run with him, show him how badass his dad is,

1844
01:26:41,720 --> 01:26:45,479
Speaker 3: and inspire him to always prioritize health. He doesn't know

1845
01:26:45,520 --> 01:26:48,320
Speaker 3: it just yet, but he has already made my life

1846
01:26:48,400 --> 01:26:51,839
Speaker 3: so much better. And I'm so grateful that I get

1847
01:26:52,000 --> 01:26:55,360
Speaker 3: to be his dad. Best from Fort Worth, Texas. I'm

1848
01:26:55,360 --> 01:26:57,040
Speaker 3: telling you, we just there's something in the water.

1849
01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 1: He also really juices me up. Man, keep providing these pictures.

1850
01:27:03,520 --> 01:27:05,840
Speaker 2: That's for Sella right there on the right, the guy

1851
01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:07,719
Speaker 2: he's due.

1852
01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:10,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, they're awesome. They are awesome people.

1853
01:27:10,520 --> 01:27:12,639
Speaker 1: Missouri boys. Really yeah.

1854
01:27:12,680 --> 01:27:15,040
Speaker 2: When we when we went out to do and Isa Bush,

1855
01:27:15,080 --> 01:27:17,720
Speaker 2: yeah HQ, that's we went to their place. Like I

1856
01:27:17,800 --> 01:27:21,799
Speaker 2: was on Andy Forcell's MFCO podcast, like back in twenty fifteen,

1857
01:27:22,479 --> 01:27:25,960
Speaker 2: where I'm talking about like Redskins football lead like all

1858
01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:29,040
Speaker 2: this stuff. Like I'm a massive first form fan love

1859
01:27:29,120 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 2: the Forcella brothers. Shout out sal and Andy. Okay, that's

1860
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:35,479
Speaker 2: they're awesome dudes, man, they are awesome dudes. And that

1861
01:27:35,600 --> 01:27:40,280
Speaker 2: culture is is incredible. It's an A plus like people

1862
01:27:40,320 --> 01:27:42,439
Speaker 2: that finding go on to and buy into it. It's

1863
01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:46,960
Speaker 2: it's all time will plus to compliment them. If there's

1864
01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:52,040
Speaker 2: any first form people listening. When Will H went and.

1865
01:27:52,080 --> 01:27:55,360
Speaker 3: Visited their office, you said something to the effect that

1866
01:27:55,600 --> 01:28:00,240
Speaker 3: it was like touring a football program like and you'll

1867
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 3: do the spring tours, and that it was the best

1868
01:28:02,560 --> 01:28:05,680
Speaker 3: run football program that you have come across as far

1869
01:28:05,720 --> 01:28:09,200
Speaker 3: as team buy in and mentality within the door, their.

1870
01:28:09,120 --> 01:28:15,160
Speaker 2: Culture, operation, people, the way the way they do anything

1871
01:28:15,200 --> 01:28:16,280
Speaker 2: is the way they do everything.

1872
01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:17,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, core values.

1873
01:28:18,120 --> 01:28:21,280
Speaker 2: It's it was fun to go to because you almost

1874
01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:24,840
Speaker 2: get inspired with our own business culture and everything else

1875
01:28:25,040 --> 01:28:28,360
Speaker 2: because the way they do everything is very it's very tight.

1876
01:28:28,400 --> 01:28:31,679
Speaker 2: But also everybody is bought in because they do personal

1877
01:28:31,720 --> 01:28:33,240
Speaker 2: development stuff with their company.

1878
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:35,720
Speaker 1: It's clean, it's beautiful.

1879
01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:39,360
Speaker 2: It does seem like a like someone sunk money into

1880
01:28:39,400 --> 01:28:42,880
Speaker 2: a perennial D one university. Yeah, it's as close to

1881
01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:47,240
Speaker 2: a football facility in college Division one as you would get,

1882
01:28:47,280 --> 01:28:50,080
Speaker 2: in my opinion, to any company culture that's not like

1883
01:28:50,120 --> 01:28:51,080
Speaker 2: in football.

1884
01:28:50,720 --> 01:28:52,559
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. They're supplements, their fitness, they're

1885
01:28:52,560 --> 01:28:55,719
Speaker 1: all these other things. But it is. It's incredible, man, truly,

1886
01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:56,720
Speaker 1: it's incredible.

1887
01:28:57,040 --> 01:28:59,320
Speaker 3: That's so sick, dude, And I love how much it

1888
01:28:59,360 --> 01:29:03,879
Speaker 3: got you from coming back. You talked to individually everyone

1889
01:29:03,920 --> 01:29:06,360
Speaker 3: in the office, and I got to hear you each

1890
01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:07,360
Speaker 3: time telling.

1891
01:29:07,080 --> 01:29:14,320
Speaker 1: A different uh fact. But the word is. In fact,

1892
01:29:14,439 --> 01:29:17,640
Speaker 1: it was like a different attribute about their company that

1893
01:29:17,680 --> 01:29:21,040
Speaker 1: you'd forgotten. A detail, Yeah, a different detail that you'd forgotten,

1894
01:29:21,120 --> 01:29:25,599
Speaker 1: and you'd be like, oh, bro, they don't even they

1895
01:29:25,600 --> 01:29:28,439
Speaker 1: don't even have cleaning. They don't have a cleaning crew

1896
01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:31,040
Speaker 1: in the office. They pick it up, they pick it up.

1897
01:29:31,240 --> 01:29:34,759
Speaker 1: You don't pick it up. They dock your pay. Imagine

1898
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:38,800
Speaker 1: he imagine if I did that around here? What do

1899
01:29:38,840 --> 01:29:39,839
Speaker 1: you think what happened?

1900
01:29:40,600 --> 01:29:43,080
Speaker 3: I'm sitting there with like eight like cups on my desk.

1901
01:29:43,160 --> 01:29:47,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, I mean, good call out last. This

1902
01:29:47,479 --> 01:29:49,720
Speaker 3: is the last new dat comment. I'll just what else

1903
01:29:49,720 --> 01:29:49,960
Speaker 3: do we have?

1904
01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:52,840
Speaker 1: Because I know we've been we've been rocking. Yes we can,

1905
01:29:53,439 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 1: we can hit this because.

1906
01:29:54,920 --> 01:29:57,080
Speaker 2: There's there's six over here I haven't read. Sometimes you

1907
01:29:57,160 --> 01:29:58,120
Speaker 2: just gotta think we're rolling.

1908
01:29:58,520 --> 01:30:00,400
Speaker 1: You just gotta have an instinct to be like, okay,

1909
01:30:00,400 --> 01:30:06,040
Speaker 1: we don't crack a cold one. Let's crack a cold one. Pt.

1910
01:30:06,200 --> 01:30:10,360
Speaker 3: Sichos et Sicicos st Sichos.

1911
01:30:10,120 --> 01:30:14,400
Speaker 2: And goon Berets, goon Bereys and the goon Bereys.

1912
01:30:14,560 --> 01:30:17,280
Speaker 3: I feel like they we haven't been mentioning them enough.

1913
01:30:17,680 --> 01:30:20,679
Speaker 3: But somebody we have been mentioning enough because we can't

1914
01:30:20,680 --> 01:30:24,639
Speaker 3: stop talking about them. Is Lollipop and will I.

1915
01:30:24,600 --> 01:30:27,600
Speaker 1: Have your And this is a bit of a spoiler,

1916
01:30:28,360 --> 01:30:31,600
Speaker 1: I have your third favorite flavor right here, you do

1917
01:30:31,920 --> 01:30:36,360
Speaker 1: according to our taste test video on Lollipop, our blind

1918
01:30:36,400 --> 01:30:40,560
Speaker 1: taste tests video that will be dropping later this week potentially.

1919
01:30:40,640 --> 01:30:42,600
Speaker 1: I have an update update me.

1920
01:30:44,040 --> 01:30:46,400
Speaker 2: Classic Grape is now back in two zone. Well they're

1921
01:30:46,479 --> 01:30:49,240
Speaker 2: number two now. WHOA really happened over the weekend?

1922
01:30:49,400 --> 01:30:50,679
Speaker 1: Really? Yeah?

1923
01:30:50,880 --> 01:30:55,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I've hit the watermelon line way too much. Yeah,

1924
01:30:55,080 --> 01:30:58,519
Speaker 2: And honestly, tasting the Classic Grape on the taste test,

1925
01:30:59,000 --> 01:31:01,000
Speaker 2: let me to drink another one over the weekend, and

1926
01:31:01,000 --> 01:31:02,679
Speaker 2: I'm like, I messed with grape.

1927
01:31:03,439 --> 01:31:06,080
Speaker 3: I messed with Grape heavy as well, and that was

1928
01:31:06,360 --> 01:31:10,040
Speaker 3: from the blind taste. That's funny enough. I walked away

1929
01:31:10,160 --> 01:31:14,719
Speaker 3: with the Classic Grape and the cherry. I was messing

1930
01:31:14,760 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 3: with the cherry heavy. And I've never messed with any

1931
01:31:17,160 --> 01:31:20,880
Speaker 3: cherry flavor. If I'm picking flavors, cherries never at the top.

1932
01:31:21,120 --> 01:31:21,840
Speaker 1: With Ollipop.

1933
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:25,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it was maybe number one. I forget

1934
01:31:25,160 --> 01:31:28,920
Speaker 3: my rankings. However, Ollipop, it's one of our favorites we

1935
01:31:29,000 --> 01:31:30,000
Speaker 3: talk about all the time.

1936
01:31:30,160 --> 01:31:33,240
Speaker 1: I'll take a little sippy poo and just a while,

1937
01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:34,599
Speaker 1: he's taking a little sippy poo.

1938
01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:38,120
Speaker 2: Christian McCaffrey he posted a carousel over the weekend on

1939
01:31:38,160 --> 01:31:40,920
Speaker 2: Instagram and he's my man's ripping a he's ripping an olive.

1940
01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:45,520
Speaker 1: No, he was promise. Yep, that's fact? Is that on Instagram? Yeah? Yeah,

1941
01:31:45,600 --> 01:31:51,479
Speaker 1: we made this man. That community is growing with ollipop armin.

1942
01:31:50,600 --> 01:31:56,120
Speaker 3: Arm and what ollipop is still Guys still doing the

1943
01:31:56,479 --> 01:32:00,760
Speaker 3: buy any two cans of ollipop in store and they

1944
01:32:00,800 --> 01:32:03,080
Speaker 3: will pay you back for one of the cans. This

1945
01:32:03,240 --> 01:32:04,880
Speaker 3: is one of the best deals that I've seen that

1946
01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:07,720
Speaker 3: is also run for the longest I've ever seen. We've

1947
01:32:07,720 --> 01:32:11,679
Speaker 3: been telling the ptsikos about the buy two they'll pay

1948
01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:15,559
Speaker 3: you back for one for a while. Now you're getting

1949
01:32:15,560 --> 01:32:17,560
Speaker 3: free ollipop. You're getting free allipop.

1950
01:32:17,920 --> 01:32:19,280
Speaker 1: It's that easy. They've been made.

1951
01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:23,280
Speaker 2: Even if you buy ollipop, you're you're you're getting free happiness.

1952
01:32:23,280 --> 01:32:26,040
Speaker 3: In return, you're getting free happiness. It's a bogo deal

1953
01:32:26,320 --> 01:32:29,120
Speaker 3: that you can do anywhere. You don't have to shop

1954
01:32:29,160 --> 01:32:31,240
Speaker 3: at any certain type of store. They're in all types

1955
01:32:31,280 --> 01:32:34,479
Speaker 3: of retailers, all types of gas stations. In the drink section.

1956
01:32:35,200 --> 01:32:38,120
Speaker 3: You just send them your receipt and they pay you

1957
01:32:38,160 --> 01:32:40,479
Speaker 3: back for one of the cans you're cooking right now,

1958
01:32:40,640 --> 01:32:45,280
Speaker 3: works on any flavor at any retailer. Drinkollipop dot com

1959
01:32:45,320 --> 01:32:52,160
Speaker 3: forward slash BWTB for more information. Lollipop is sold online

1960
01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:56,040
Speaker 3: at drinkolipop dot com and Amazon, and is available in

1961
01:32:56,040 --> 01:32:59,759
Speaker 3: the soda aisle and with the chilled beverages at thousands

1962
01:32:59,800 --> 01:33:05,360
Speaker 3: of retailers nationwide. That's including Walmart, that's including Target, that's

1963
01:33:05,400 --> 01:33:08,759
Speaker 3: including Costco, that's including Whole Foods.

1964
01:33:10,360 --> 01:33:12,280
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for taking the time to listen

1965
01:33:13,439 --> 01:33:13,960
Speaker 1: a line my.

1966
01:33:13,960 --> 01:33:16,880
Speaker 2: Number three right now. Still love it. She just had

1967
01:33:16,920 --> 01:33:20,880
Speaker 2: a lot of it. I have my grape cravon cole

1968
01:33:20,960 --> 01:33:23,519
Speaker 2: one brought to us by Olipop.

1969
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:27,840
Speaker 3: Brought to us by Ollipop. Absolutely delicios So that's Spanish

1970
01:33:27,880 --> 01:33:29,960
Speaker 3: for delicious, delicious.

1971
01:33:30,320 --> 01:33:33,880
Speaker 2: My crack of cole One is going to go to

1972
01:33:33,960 --> 01:33:37,120
Speaker 2: the weekend with Scotti. It was I've watched Scotti solo

1973
01:33:37,160 --> 01:33:39,160
Speaker 2: before when she's when she was a lot younger, and

1974
01:33:39,520 --> 01:33:40,799
Speaker 2: Charlo took Rude to London.

1975
01:33:41,920 --> 01:33:47,360
Speaker 1: Charlo takes roof everywhere. Why she's taking you? But yeah,

1976
01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:48,840
Speaker 1: I know, well she did off and I was like

1977
01:33:48,960 --> 01:33:51,760
Speaker 1: I cannot keep it. You're gonna take rude. Not my

1978
01:33:51,800 --> 01:33:54,599
Speaker 1: first born, but getting a rock with Scotty.

1979
01:33:54,600 --> 01:33:57,719
Speaker 2: Scotti's again sixteen months, and I feel like the fifteen

1980
01:33:57,840 --> 01:34:01,599
Speaker 2: sixteenth month parties were person really starts coming to life

1981
01:34:02,080 --> 01:34:04,439
Speaker 2: when you're if you're a parent, you got a younger one,

1982
01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:06,559
Speaker 2: like with Scarlett. I know I've told you this, but

1983
01:34:06,600 --> 01:34:09,160
Speaker 2: it's like I remember back to Rue, around sixteen months

1984
01:34:09,200 --> 01:34:11,080
Speaker 2: is when their personality and everything comes to life because

1985
01:34:11,080 --> 01:34:12,400
Speaker 2: they can walk, they can do all the things to

1986
01:34:12,400 --> 01:34:14,519
Speaker 2: where they know what they're trying to do, and they're

1987
01:34:14,560 --> 01:34:16,320
Speaker 2: starting to look at you and try and listen and

1988
01:34:16,320 --> 01:34:16,880
Speaker 2: everything else.

1989
01:34:16,960 --> 01:34:18,720
Speaker 1: Yep. So it was kind of.

1990
01:34:18,720 --> 01:34:20,800
Speaker 2: My first weekend or a few days with Scotty where it's

1991
01:34:20,920 --> 01:34:23,840
Speaker 2: just me and her, like taking her around town, going

1992
01:34:23,880 --> 01:34:25,880
Speaker 2: eat with the boys, getting her around different people because

1993
01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:28,519
Speaker 2: on Friday, Clump and Jerry came to the house too,

1994
01:34:28,600 --> 01:34:32,400
Speaker 2: and them just just interacting and socializing her with my buddies,

1995
01:34:32,400 --> 01:34:35,599
Speaker 2: with my friends, and it was just a lot of fun,

1996
01:34:35,960 --> 01:34:39,160
Speaker 2: like being on a routine, playing with her again, taken

1997
01:34:39,160 --> 01:34:40,679
Speaker 2: her around town. It was just a lot of fun

1998
01:34:40,720 --> 01:34:43,439
Speaker 2: to connect with Scotti where it's just me and her

1999
01:34:43,760 --> 01:34:46,280
Speaker 2: and not the whole tribe of the entire family, where

2000
01:34:46,320 --> 01:34:49,679
Speaker 2: it's me, Mom, rue Scottie, like it's just me and her, connecting,

2001
01:34:49,680 --> 01:34:52,200
Speaker 2: me and her doing everything, getting to know her, her

2002
01:34:52,240 --> 01:34:54,840
Speaker 2: waking up from her nap and be like daddad dad,

2003
01:34:54,920 --> 01:34:57,240
Speaker 2: dad her in her mind like that's the only one

2004
01:34:57,280 --> 01:35:00,599
Speaker 2: he does, the only one here banging on the crib dad. Yeah,

2005
01:35:00,760 --> 01:35:02,400
Speaker 2: I don't think I talked to her. I'll be up

2006
01:35:02,439 --> 01:35:06,000
Speaker 2: in three minute, sweetheart. And uh, but it was just fun, man.

2007
01:35:06,080 --> 01:35:07,400
Speaker 2: I had a good time with Scotty. So that's what

2008
01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:08,040
Speaker 2: my kracker cole.

2009
01:35:08,080 --> 01:35:11,000
Speaker 3: One goes to congratulations on that Kracker cole and I

2010
01:35:11,040 --> 01:35:13,040
Speaker 3: got to see it personally, and I'm glad I did

2011
01:35:13,240 --> 01:35:16,400
Speaker 3: because you were operating. I just want to shout out

2012
01:35:16,439 --> 01:35:18,920
Speaker 3: this one moment when you had both oven mits on

2013
01:35:19,080 --> 01:35:25,000
Speaker 3: and you were making Scottie's pre nap launch and uh,

2014
01:35:25,160 --> 01:35:27,960
Speaker 3: the chicken nuggies were not ready yet in the oven

2015
01:35:28,040 --> 01:35:30,040
Speaker 3: and she was letting you know from the high chair

2016
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:34,800
Speaker 3: da with the hands going and you had both oven

2017
01:35:34,840 --> 01:35:35,200
Speaker 3: mits on.

2018
01:35:35,320 --> 01:35:38,880
Speaker 1: You go, honey, hey, I know, I hear you listen,

2019
01:35:39,920 --> 01:35:42,000
Speaker 1: but they're not ready. They need three more minutes.

2020
01:35:42,120 --> 01:35:46,120
Speaker 3: And her kind of makeup face like ah, shit, and

2021
01:35:46,200 --> 01:35:49,240
Speaker 3: y'all like having that little communication with each other. Yeah,

2022
01:35:49,320 --> 01:35:52,840
Speaker 3: it was incredible to see. She's incredible, true too. She

2023
01:35:53,120 --> 01:35:54,679
Speaker 3: put down the fruit.

2024
01:35:55,240 --> 01:35:57,479
Speaker 2: The point I keep opening up these little the little oranges.

2025
01:35:57,479 --> 01:35:58,120
Speaker 2: What are they called?

2026
01:35:58,640 --> 01:36:02,800
Speaker 1: Cuties? Tanger danjerine cuties them? I ate sharing? You want

2027
01:36:02,800 --> 01:36:06,120
Speaker 1: one of these? She's running through them right now. Scarlett

2028
01:36:06,280 --> 01:36:08,800
Speaker 1: sucked that entire one, you know, her mouth.

2029
01:36:08,840 --> 01:36:11,040
Speaker 3: I had to fish it out of there, and I

2030
01:36:11,080 --> 01:36:14,679
Speaker 3: got some notes from Mom. That's the number one way

2031
01:36:14,680 --> 01:36:17,479
Speaker 3: to make them choke. You did not put your finger

2032
01:36:17,520 --> 01:36:19,639
Speaker 3: in there and pull it out? Did you actually do that?

2033
01:36:20,160 --> 01:36:22,880
Speaker 3: I was like, babe, my fish looked it. I went

2034
01:36:22,920 --> 01:36:25,120
Speaker 3: in there. I didn't push you more in. I got

2035
01:36:25,160 --> 01:36:26,200
Speaker 3: in there, scooped it out.

2036
01:36:26,400 --> 01:36:29,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, there wasn't a problem. How else am I supposed

2037
01:36:29,360 --> 01:36:29,600
Speaker 1: to get it?

2038
01:36:29,680 --> 01:36:29,720
Speaker 4: Go?

2039
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:33,000
Speaker 1: Suck it out? I mean, what are we doing?

2040
01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:37,519
Speaker 3: My crack a cold one was couple's date night, and

2041
01:36:37,640 --> 01:36:40,360
Speaker 3: it would have been playing at your house. But I

2042
01:36:40,439 --> 01:36:42,760
Speaker 3: was guessing that might have been yours, so I wanted

2043
01:36:42,800 --> 01:36:46,360
Speaker 3: to differentiate I equally that would have been my crack

2044
01:36:46,400 --> 01:36:50,280
Speaker 3: a cold one. Okay, we had a date night, a

2045
01:36:50,320 --> 01:36:52,920
Speaker 3: couple's date night with a babysitter.

2046
01:36:53,240 --> 01:36:55,559
Speaker 1: We're talking full fledged, the real deal thing.

2047
01:36:56,479 --> 01:36:59,320
Speaker 3: Jill and I got to go to Popstroke in Antioch,

2048
01:37:00,200 --> 01:37:02,320
Speaker 3: and uh, if you've never been to Popstroke, it's a

2049
01:37:02,360 --> 01:37:06,080
Speaker 3: nice little puppett kind of like adult putt putt thing

2050
01:37:06,160 --> 01:37:09,040
Speaker 3: where you know, adult bevies are flowing. They got the

2051
01:37:09,040 --> 01:37:14,200
Speaker 3: waiters running out to the course like mid putt putt.

2052
01:37:14,400 --> 01:37:17,559
Speaker 3: It was so much fun. Dude, really got to turn

2053
01:37:17,600 --> 01:37:20,920
Speaker 3: off dad brain. Got to celebrate the couple that we

2054
01:37:20,920 --> 01:37:25,200
Speaker 3: were with Brian and Hillary. She is very pregnant, due

2055
01:37:25,600 --> 01:37:27,760
Speaker 3: like towards the end of May, so we're getting to

2056
01:37:27,800 --> 01:37:28,680
Speaker 3: like celebrate that.

2057
01:37:29,600 --> 01:37:32,920
Speaker 1: Just fine. Getting to be out there, dude, and get

2058
01:37:32,960 --> 01:37:33,559
Speaker 1: your hair down.

2059
01:37:33,760 --> 01:37:36,200
Speaker 3: Let your hair down, dude. Jill's coming up to me.

2060
01:37:36,360 --> 01:37:38,679
Speaker 3: She's she's got some little drinking poos in her. She's

2061
01:37:38,680 --> 01:37:40,800
Speaker 3: coming up to me and she's putting her arm around

2062
01:37:40,840 --> 01:37:43,360
Speaker 3: me and looking up at me and doing the I'm like,

2063
01:37:43,920 --> 01:37:48,080
Speaker 3: come on, man, hey, w'd that ben man with that

2064
01:37:48,160 --> 01:37:51,719
Speaker 3: shit been trying to put a bow on it? Oh yeah, dude,

2065
01:37:51,760 --> 01:37:54,519
Speaker 3: winking on my boy. Brian giving Jill a kiss.

2066
01:37:54,720 --> 01:38:00,040
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm gonna take this one home, and nice I

2067
01:38:00,080 --> 01:38:00,519
Speaker 2: went over.

2068
01:38:00,360 --> 01:38:04,559
Speaker 1: There and taking her in nice pot, babe, nice put Yeah,

2069
01:38:04,760 --> 01:38:06,880
Speaker 1: but yeah, dude, it was, it was huge, It was.

2070
01:38:06,960 --> 01:38:08,040
Speaker 1: It was a great night.

2071
01:38:08,560 --> 01:38:11,160
Speaker 3: And shout out Julia or babysitter again, I am not

2072
01:38:11,320 --> 01:38:13,160
Speaker 3: doxing her because you're not taking her from me.

2073
01:38:13,840 --> 01:38:18,639
Speaker 1: That's our babysitter. And you do nothing but.

2074
01:38:18,800 --> 01:38:21,920
Speaker 2: Encourage the dad's prioritizing a date night. Yeah, you talk

2075
01:38:21,960 --> 01:38:24,200
Speaker 2: about it a lot. That's put it on the calendar.

2076
01:38:24,280 --> 01:38:27,720
Speaker 3: Execute, execute, execute execute. That's part of my lesson the week.

2077
01:38:27,760 --> 01:38:29,800
Speaker 3: But I hear that you have a lesson of the

2078
01:38:29,800 --> 01:38:32,120
Speaker 3: week as well. I have an awesome one and we're

2079
01:38:32,160 --> 01:38:35,320
Speaker 3: coming up on an hour. So do we want to

2080
01:38:35,400 --> 01:38:37,280
Speaker 3: jump into some voicemails?

2081
01:38:37,400 --> 01:38:37,679
Speaker 1: Yes.

2082
01:38:40,040 --> 01:38:44,160
Speaker 3: First one is I guess I'll eat the pizza. This

2083
01:38:44,200 --> 01:38:51,679
Speaker 3: comes from Jared Ladd. Jared lad Come on, Jared, Hey.

2084
01:38:51,640 --> 01:39:00,599
Speaker 8: Guys, I don't work. My wife left.

2085
01:39:00,920 --> 01:39:05,400
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, yea ca you stop that started over? Key,

2086
01:39:05,479 --> 01:39:07,519
Speaker 1: turn it up. It's all the way up. It's all

2087
01:39:07,520 --> 01:39:09,080
Speaker 1: the way up. It's all the way up. You want

2088
01:39:09,120 --> 01:39:11,679
Speaker 1: me to move it closer to you? Just go again,

2089
01:39:11,840 --> 01:39:13,280
Speaker 1: go again, I'll focus, I'll focus.

2090
01:39:13,320 --> 01:39:19,280
Speaker 8: Okay, Okay, Hey guys, this is a cured lad. Hi, Jared,

2091
01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:23,240
Speaker 8: I don't typically first Sunday I had to and uh

2092
01:39:24,400 --> 01:39:30,400
Speaker 8: I came home, my wife left. It's fice and I

2093
01:39:30,439 --> 01:39:36,760
Speaker 8: was devastated because now I haven't hit me and no

2094
01:39:36,880 --> 01:39:37,400
Speaker 8: one here.

2095
01:39:37,960 --> 01:39:40,920
Speaker 1: Play with and don't eat the whole thing. I don't

2096
01:39:40,920 --> 01:39:42,200
Speaker 1: know what on the couch watched.

2097
01:39:43,840 --> 01:39:47,759
Speaker 8: No, I don't know what to do, but UH appreciate

2098
01:39:47,800 --> 01:39:52,759
Speaker 8: all before you guys give us for dads. But again,

2099
01:39:53,040 --> 01:39:54,599
Speaker 8: I just don't know what we'll do. I guess I'll

2100
01:39:54,600 --> 01:39:59,120
Speaker 8: just sit here any people by myself. Oh it is

2101
01:39:59,120 --> 01:40:00,120
Speaker 8: what it is voice.

2102
01:40:04,080 --> 01:40:06,400
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. We go through a lot of storytelling.

2103
01:40:06,560 --> 01:40:09,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, on this pod, people have write ends where

2104
01:40:09,600 --> 01:40:12,800
Speaker 2: it's it makes you reflect and think, why do I

2105
01:40:12,840 --> 01:40:16,400
Speaker 2: sweat the small things when you hear stories like this?

2106
01:40:17,160 --> 01:40:24,320
Speaker 2: And to me, this is another example of perspective. Do

2107
01:40:24,360 --> 01:40:26,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Yeah, to where it's like why,

2108
01:40:27,800 --> 01:40:28,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2109
01:40:28,320 --> 01:40:30,120
Speaker 1: You're Marri of that group on Twitter that I was

2110
01:40:30,160 --> 01:40:33,320
Speaker 1: talking about where everybody's sending them photos in of hanging

2111
01:40:33,320 --> 01:40:35,640
Speaker 1: out with their kids. Who's the one that's sending the

2112
01:40:35,680 --> 01:40:38,720
Speaker 1: most photos with their kids in there? It's Jared lit

2113
01:40:38,800 --> 01:40:42,559
Speaker 1: Jared let That's like the only thing he likes to

2114
01:40:42,600 --> 01:40:44,000
Speaker 1: do in this world.

2115
01:40:44,320 --> 01:40:47,599
Speaker 2: Like I cry about my mom all the time. And

2116
01:40:47,640 --> 01:40:54,360
Speaker 2: when Jared Ladson's in a voicemail, yeah, of my wife

2117
01:40:54,439 --> 01:40:56,120
Speaker 2: took the kids at six Flags. When I got us

2118
01:40:56,160 --> 01:40:58,120
Speaker 2: in the house, a quiet house and have a whole

2119
01:40:58,120 --> 01:41:03,160
Speaker 2: piece of to myself, it makes me think, why am I?

2120
01:41:03,200 --> 01:41:04,559
Speaker 1: Why do I even get caught up?

2121
01:41:04,840 --> 01:41:06,800
Speaker 2: Hey, I understand what I went through with my mother

2122
01:41:07,240 --> 01:41:09,280
Speaker 2: when I have a pet sixer out there right now

2123
01:41:10,160 --> 01:41:13,240
Speaker 2: with a house to himself. Yeah, and nothing but time,

2124
01:41:13,880 --> 01:41:19,360
Speaker 2: nothing but boredom in pizza and cheese and sports and.

2125
01:41:19,479 --> 01:41:21,200
Speaker 1: Video game March madness.

2126
01:41:21,479 --> 01:41:27,480
Speaker 3: It's start the conference tournaments were starting up. Oh my god,

2127
01:41:27,720 --> 01:41:30,760
Speaker 3: and dude, silver Lining. I just want you to know

2128
01:41:31,320 --> 01:41:33,840
Speaker 3: I get how you could feel like that. Jared doesn't

2129
01:41:33,880 --> 01:41:36,519
Speaker 3: want you to feel like that for a second, like

2130
01:41:36,600 --> 01:41:38,519
Speaker 3: he understands how you could feel that way.

2131
01:41:38,960 --> 01:41:42,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jerry, we appreciate you calling in, man, Thank you, dude.

2132
01:41:46,160 --> 01:41:48,519
Speaker 2: You guys talk about our vulnerability all the time, Like

2133
01:41:49,200 --> 01:41:52,320
Speaker 2: to call in and be that vulnerable with us about

2134
01:41:52,320 --> 01:41:55,000
Speaker 2: what you're going through. Papa Team six for the dads.

2135
01:41:55,479 --> 01:41:58,080
Speaker 2: We're all thinking about you, our heart is with you,

2136
01:41:58,080 --> 01:41:59,040
Speaker 2: we're all praying for you.

2137
01:41:59,240 --> 01:42:04,519
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, man, I almost don't have words that's all right. Hey,

2138
01:42:04,760 --> 01:42:08,160
Speaker 1: just before this gets to sloppy, I'm just gonna move

2139
01:42:08,160 --> 01:42:12,360
Speaker 1: into our second voice, okay, if that's all right. Yeah. Yeah.

2140
01:42:12,400 --> 01:42:15,679
Speaker 1: This one's titled Crying Again. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. This one's

2141
01:42:15,720 --> 01:42:23,760
Speaker 1: titled we made It. What's up? Boys? Andy here down

2142
01:42:23,800 --> 01:42:27,360
Speaker 1: in Florida just bought my family a lake house.

2143
01:42:27,960 --> 01:42:28,679
Speaker 4: Yeah you did.

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01:42:30,040 --> 01:42:34,880
Speaker 1: That's all I had to say. Yeah you did, brother,

2145
01:42:35,120 --> 01:42:43,800
Speaker 1: Let it. Let's go. Let's go do that one right there.

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01:42:43,840 --> 01:42:46,639
Speaker 2: You just go out stand and you look at the lake,

2147
01:42:46,760 --> 01:42:49,439
Speaker 2: and I got this house for the fam, Like that

2148
01:42:49,640 --> 01:42:51,920
Speaker 2: is a goal that he should be so damn proud

2149
01:42:51,960 --> 01:42:52,479
Speaker 2: of himself.

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01:42:52,560 --> 01:42:56,400
Speaker 3: And brother, Brother, it's a boat, a CD, a pon tune,

2151
01:42:56,400 --> 01:42:59,280
Speaker 3: whatever it is that very first time that you're pulling

2152
01:42:59,520 --> 01:43:06,479
Speaker 3: pulling out into the water, get that dal get that

2153
01:43:06,840 --> 01:43:10,959
Speaker 3: bumping on the boat, dude, and also grab.

2154
01:43:10,800 --> 01:43:13,320
Speaker 2: The most sentimental song that you have and just stop

2155
01:43:13,400 --> 01:43:16,240
Speaker 2: the boat somewhere out in the middle and just stop it.

2156
01:43:16,600 --> 01:43:19,320
Speaker 2: Have some piece and quiet play the most sentimental song

2157
01:43:19,360 --> 01:43:21,880
Speaker 2: you can, and just maybe a tear rolls down your

2158
01:43:21,920 --> 01:43:25,600
Speaker 2: face because you should be so damn proud of yourself

2159
01:43:25,920 --> 01:43:27,920
Speaker 2: for getting to a point where I bought my family

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01:43:28,000 --> 01:43:30,720
Speaker 2: a fucking lake House and fucking belt that song too,

2161
01:43:31,160 --> 01:43:35,439
Speaker 2: like all the sacrifice, the responsibility, everything, Yes, feel so

2162
01:43:35,600 --> 01:43:38,679
Speaker 2: worth it when you're gonna have that moment. Grinder grinder,

2163
01:43:39,320 --> 01:43:42,360
Speaker 2: very quick note, Jill and I did like our own

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01:43:42,400 --> 01:43:47,320
Speaker 2: little valves like separate of the wedding ceremony before, and

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01:43:47,360 --> 01:43:51,559
Speaker 2: that was like the dress reveal too, and hey, you

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01:43:51,600 --> 01:43:52,759
Speaker 2: know your boy so one.

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01:43:53,080 --> 01:43:55,519
Speaker 1: I cry and I'm crying. I'm getting through it.

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01:43:56,240 --> 01:44:01,679
Speaker 3: Number four on that list, Jill, Jill Young, I promise

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01:44:01,760 --> 01:44:06,720
Speaker 3: to you that I will purchase waterfront property and we

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01:44:06,800 --> 01:44:10,000
Speaker 3: will sit on that front porch and we will be

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01:44:10,120 --> 01:44:13,080
Speaker 3: wrinkly and old and we'll be holding hands and rocking chairs.

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01:44:13,840 --> 01:44:18,120
Speaker 1: Vowed it. I love that. God, o God.

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01:44:19,200 --> 01:44:21,679
Speaker 2: And when you guys are sitting on that front porch

2174
01:44:22,360 --> 01:44:26,519
Speaker 2: and looking out during the when the sunset Golden hour,

2175
01:44:27,600 --> 01:44:30,599
Speaker 2: halfway sitting there, you see all the different shades of

2176
01:44:30,760 --> 01:44:35,639
Speaker 2: orange and purple and red and pink reflecting on the water.

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01:44:37,840 --> 01:44:54,280
Speaker 1: Just suddenly, I can't play it too long.

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01:44:54,040 --> 01:44:55,760
Speaker 3: Can't play it too long, and we may we may

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01:44:55,760 --> 01:44:58,000
Speaker 3: even have to supplement it with another song and just

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01:44:58,040 --> 01:44:59,640
Speaker 3: say that we are playing scroll up.

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01:44:59,640 --> 01:45:02,160
Speaker 1: But here is it a nice little yeah? Uh? You

2182
01:45:02,160 --> 01:45:05,640
Speaker 1: know we love the copy right in there in a

2183
01:45:05,680 --> 01:45:09,400
Speaker 1: clip in an edit. Hey, hey, I don't think so.

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01:45:09,600 --> 01:45:12,559
Speaker 2: But what it would have would have would have? What

2185
01:45:12,720 --> 01:45:15,960
Speaker 2: if I did it? What if it comes from my account?

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01:45:16,360 --> 01:45:19,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't do that. Wait really quick, hold on,

2187
01:45:22,560 --> 01:45:26,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. You know, we gotta compete. Yeah, we gotta

2188
01:45:26,000 --> 01:45:26,880
Speaker 1: get we gotta get right.

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01:45:29,720 --> 01:45:35,360
Speaker 3: I just wanted to say, uh, that sunset sounded really beautiful.

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01:45:35,360 --> 01:45:38,479
Speaker 3: It sounded like a spring sunset, maybe even a sunset

2191
01:45:38,479 --> 01:45:40,400
Speaker 3: on like March fourteenth.

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01:45:40,840 --> 01:45:42,040
Speaker 1: Per se.

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01:45:43,880 --> 01:45:48,559
Speaker 3: Uh, I feel good on voicemails? How does everyone else

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01:45:48,600 --> 01:45:52,760
Speaker 3: feel feel great? Will Compton? You said you had a

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01:45:52,840 --> 01:45:56,160
Speaker 3: lesson of the week, and I parlay to you, I

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01:45:56,200 --> 01:45:58,080
Speaker 3: will skip my lesson of the week and do it

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01:45:58,120 --> 01:46:01,040
Speaker 3: next week. And instead I just read a quick little

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01:46:01,080 --> 01:46:03,479
Speaker 3: dan Gable quote and then you pop into your lesson

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01:46:03,520 --> 01:46:03,880
Speaker 3: of the week.

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01:46:04,000 --> 01:46:05,960
Speaker 1: I don't think any PT sixers have a problem with

2201
01:46:06,000 --> 01:46:10,040
Speaker 1: getting fed a Dan Gable quote, especially big ten tournament,

2202
01:46:10,160 --> 01:46:11,200
Speaker 1: the conference.

2203
01:46:11,200 --> 01:46:13,640
Speaker 2: Sermon, it's just finishing wrestling. We're now looking at the

2204
01:46:13,720 --> 01:46:17,320
Speaker 2: NCAA's coming up. Okay, I think dan Gable is necessary.

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01:46:17,680 --> 01:46:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah for this time.

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01:46:19,479 --> 01:46:24,479
Speaker 1: Matt Madness, mart March Madness, could I twist your Matt's arms.

2207
01:46:24,840 --> 01:46:26,760
Speaker 1: Tell me if I'm wrong here, twist your arms. You

2208
01:46:26,800 --> 01:46:28,720
Speaker 1: each do have a new dad? Shout out?

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01:46:28,760 --> 01:46:30,920
Speaker 5: That are some version of surprises that are very fast,

2210
01:46:31,439 --> 01:46:33,479
Speaker 5: very fast. Do you each have a new dad that

2211
01:46:33,560 --> 01:46:35,559
Speaker 5: chose to write in for the show and congratulate So

2212
01:46:35,560 --> 01:46:36,679
Speaker 5: if you, if you don't mind.

2213
01:46:36,479 --> 01:46:37,519
Speaker 1: I would love the shout out.

2214
01:46:37,520 --> 01:46:42,840
Speaker 2: Trevor Smith on X Trevor Smith, Hey Fellas. He sent

2215
01:46:43,120 --> 01:46:45,839
Speaker 2: just Hey Fellas at twelve ten pm in the DMS.

2216
01:46:46,000 --> 01:46:49,600
Speaker 2: Then it's twelve twelve another message comes in. Wanted to

2217
01:46:49,600 --> 01:46:51,639
Speaker 2: give a shout out to one of my best friends

2218
01:46:51,640 --> 01:46:54,600
Speaker 2: and new dad, Alec and his wife Tory, on the

2219
01:46:54,640 --> 01:46:58,439
Speaker 2: birth of their baby girl, Scottie. No doubt he's going

2220
01:46:58,479 --> 01:47:00,679
Speaker 2: to be a great dad and he's been a siko

2221
01:47:00,840 --> 01:47:03,559
Speaker 2: since the jump. Also, just wanted to send him some

2222
01:47:03,640 --> 01:47:06,080
Speaker 2: thoughts and prayers. He's got a lot going on with

2223
01:47:06,160 --> 01:47:10,840
Speaker 2: having he's got a lot going on with having BofA mind,

2224
01:47:10,840 --> 01:47:13,120
Speaker 2: Goblins and room forty all at once.

2225
01:47:13,360 --> 01:47:22,160
Speaker 1: No, No, and he's ugly as hell. Oh love your brother, congrats.

2226
01:47:22,360 --> 01:47:29,639
Speaker 1: Wait what is BofA? What's shine? Goblin Chef? Tellam you're

2227
01:47:29,640 --> 01:47:34,559
Speaker 1: the Semen team. Say what's room fortydelln What is that?

2228
01:47:35,560 --> 01:47:38,759
Speaker 1: What's both of me? What's a BofA both of these nuts?

2229
01:47:42,160 --> 01:47:46,680
Speaker 1: Who wrote that? Who the fuck wrote that? Room? Throw

2230
01:47:46,800 --> 01:47:48,800
Speaker 1: these nuts on you in your mouth? Yeah? Who the

2231
01:47:48,800 --> 01:47:49,400
Speaker 1: fuck wrote that?

2232
01:47:50,479 --> 01:47:53,759
Speaker 3: Trevor smith Man, Oh my gosh, dude, I was actually

2233
01:47:53,800 --> 01:47:54,320
Speaker 3: worried about it.

2234
01:47:54,400 --> 01:47:57,280
Speaker 1: I was like, he has three illnesses at once. Are

2235
01:47:57,320 --> 01:48:00,519
Speaker 1: the other ones? Are DC night strokes as well? I

2236
01:48:00,520 --> 01:48:02,720
Speaker 1: mean mine goblins. I think that's like it could be

2237
01:48:02,760 --> 01:48:05,679
Speaker 1: like a movie. Sounds like it. It sounds like a movie.

2238
01:48:06,120 --> 01:48:10,680
Speaker 1: It sounds mind goblin these balls. Oh, we joke. We're joking.

2239
01:48:11,640 --> 01:48:16,040
Speaker 1: We're joking. Hey, do you remember when I said that

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01:48:16,120 --> 01:48:19,479
Speaker 1: I had a no dad thing to read and you said, hey,

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01:48:19,840 --> 01:48:22,240
Speaker 1: you know, I get it, but we gotta you know,

2242
01:48:22,320 --> 01:48:25,120
Speaker 1: we gotta move on. And then I threw it. Yeah,

2243
01:48:25,240 --> 01:48:29,160
Speaker 1: I don't know where it went. Yeah, I'm so sorry

2244
01:48:29,280 --> 01:48:31,639
Speaker 1: you to read it or give you the no you yes.

2245
01:48:32,120 --> 01:48:37,440
Speaker 5: Reading the Lane from Spotify Lane longtime listener, first time commenter.

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01:48:37,720 --> 01:48:39,280
Speaker 5: The wife and I found out a few weeks ago

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01:48:39,360 --> 01:48:42,800
Speaker 5: we're expecting our second kid. March fourteenth. We're going to

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01:48:42,800 --> 01:48:46,240
Speaker 5: announce to the family. Great day to announce my two brothers.

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01:48:46,240 --> 01:48:48,400
Speaker 5: Tyler and Jordan claimed to be sickos. If they are

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Speaker 5: truly sickos, they'll see my comment or hear it on

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01:48:50,720 --> 01:48:53,639
Speaker 5: the show and get to know first love the show

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01:48:54,000 --> 01:48:55,360
Speaker 5: and use a lot of the hacks with my two

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01:48:55,439 --> 01:48:58,439
Speaker 5: year old son. Pease don't tell mom or my wife.

2254
01:48:58,439 --> 01:49:00,479
Speaker 5: I told the PT six world before the family.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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01:49:02,360 --> 01:49:04,920
Speaker 2: If they're real sickos, they would obviously hear that, because

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01:49:05,320 --> 01:49:07,240
Speaker 2: you could be tuning in and in the moment your

2258
01:49:07,280 --> 01:49:08,840
Speaker 2: comment doesn't seem like it's getting read.

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01:49:08,760 --> 01:49:12,120
Speaker 1: Because we moved on. The real sickos stay tuned in

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01:49:12,160 --> 01:49:16,560
Speaker 1: no matter what. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like looking.

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01:49:16,520 --> 01:49:19,160
Speaker 3: They're there, tell the very very end when we say,

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01:49:19,320 --> 01:49:21,599
Speaker 3: hey the doe hushtag put a ball on it.

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01:49:21,800 --> 01:49:26,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, yea yeah, hashtag medium rare, honey. And I just realized,

2264
01:49:26,520 --> 01:49:28,000
Speaker 2: I say, you know what I'm saying a lot.

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01:49:29,680 --> 01:49:35,240
Speaker 1: Listen, buddy, I hear you. It's okay, yeah, buddy, okay, listen,

2266
01:49:35,479 --> 01:49:36,519
Speaker 1: hey listen.

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01:49:37,560 --> 01:49:39,600
Speaker 3: Also, I found the lame one mid Red I do

2268
01:49:39,680 --> 01:49:44,960
Speaker 3: say sorry about that, Deke, so sorry about that, but well.

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01:49:44,840 --> 01:49:46,360
Speaker 1: Dined, well done on the read.

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01:49:46,600 --> 01:49:50,599
Speaker 3: Ummm listen, let's oh Dan Gable quote then lets yeah, yeah,

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01:49:50,640 --> 01:49:55,080
Speaker 3: Yeahdan Gable quotes. This one comes from Dan Gable on

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01:49:55,120 --> 01:49:59,400
Speaker 3: The Joe Rogan Experience, episode number one, six hundred and

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01:49:59,479 --> 01:50:03,800
Speaker 3: twenty seven, and it goes as fallows, you know I

2274
01:50:03,960 --> 01:50:10,360
Speaker 3: was crazy. I was crazy. I was definitely crazy, and

2275
01:50:10,400 --> 01:50:13,360
Speaker 3: I used to run to work sometimes. It was a

2276
01:50:13,360 --> 01:50:19,920
Speaker 3: couple miles away, Dan Gable. That Gable is a sick Oh,

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01:50:20,040 --> 01:50:22,639
Speaker 3: he's a sicko. He was sick in the head. He's

2278
01:50:22,680 --> 01:50:23,160
Speaker 3: admitting it.

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01:50:24,200 --> 01:50:26,800
Speaker 1: He's crazy, probably a little crazy. You know what. I'm

2280
01:50:26,800 --> 01:50:29,320
Speaker 1: gonna run to work today. Why not. It's a couple

2281
01:50:29,320 --> 01:50:34,320
Speaker 1: of miles away. That's fine. I love Dan Gable, love them.

2282
01:50:35,080 --> 01:50:40,120
Speaker 2: This one comes from Derek Thompson on X It is

2283
01:50:40,200 --> 01:50:44,800
Speaker 2: at dk thomp th h o MP. I booked marked

2284
01:50:44,800 --> 01:50:46,439
Speaker 2: this one because when it came across my time home,

2285
01:50:46,479 --> 01:50:50,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is damn good man and it's a

2286
01:50:50,080 --> 01:50:53,599
Speaker 2: He captioned it a new newsletter in all caps, three

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01:50:53,760 --> 01:50:55,120
Speaker 2: reasons to be a parent.

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01:50:55,760 --> 01:50:59,040
Speaker 1: I opened it up. It's got a short, little short,

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01:50:59,080 --> 01:50:59,880
Speaker 1: a little something something.

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01:51:00,120 --> 01:51:03,880
Speaker 2: Okay, the baby you bring home from the hospital is

2291
01:51:03,920 --> 01:51:05,880
Speaker 2: not the baby you rock to sleep at two weeks,

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01:51:06,320 --> 01:51:08,760
Speaker 2: and the baby at three months is a complete stranger

2293
01:51:08,800 --> 01:51:16,280
Speaker 2: to both in a Jesus Christ in a we might

2294
01:51:16,320 --> 01:51:21,120
Speaker 2: have to edit this up in a phenomenological sense. That

2295
01:51:21,640 --> 01:51:25,880
Speaker 2: sounds great, phenomonological phenomenological sense.

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01:51:25,920 --> 01:51:28,040
Speaker 1: Okay, let's start that over.

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01:51:28,600 --> 01:51:30,559
Speaker 2: The baby you bring home from the hospital is not

2298
01:51:30,600 --> 01:51:32,559
Speaker 2: the baby you rock to sleep at two weeks, and

2299
01:51:32,600 --> 01:51:35,040
Speaker 2: the baby at three months is a complete stranger to both.

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01:51:35,400 --> 01:51:40,559
Speaker 2: In a phenomenological sense, parenting a newborn is not at

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01:51:40,560 --> 01:51:44,719
Speaker 2: all like parenting a singular newborn, but rather like parenting

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01:51:44,800 --> 01:51:48,879
Speaker 2: hundreds of babies, each one replacing the previous week's child,

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01:51:49,080 --> 01:51:53,160
Speaker 2: yet retaining her basic facial structure. And this is a

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01:51:53,240 --> 01:51:56,720
Speaker 2: quote parenthood abruptly catapults us into a permanent relationship with

2305
01:51:56,760 --> 01:52:01,400
Speaker 2: a stranger. That Andrew Solomon wrote and far from the tree,

2306
01:52:02,040 --> 01:52:07,320
Speaker 2: almost parenthood. It catapults us into a permanent relationship with strangers,

2307
01:52:07,360 --> 01:52:08,599
Speaker 2: plural to the extreme.

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01:52:08,840 --> 01:52:09,320
Speaker 1: It's a love.

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01:52:09,560 --> 01:52:12,720
Speaker 2: We got a lot of verbiage. It's a yeah. When

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01:52:12,760 --> 01:52:15,320
Speaker 2: you become a parent, you meet your child, and then

2311
01:52:15,360 --> 01:52:18,240
Speaker 2: you meet your child again and again and every day

2312
01:52:18,280 --> 01:52:21,320
Speaker 2: after that. You will never stop meeting your child. That

2313
01:52:21,479 --> 01:52:24,160
Speaker 2: is the one reason to become a parent, to have

2314
01:52:24,240 --> 01:52:26,920
Speaker 2: a child, is to fall in love with a thousand

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01:52:27,000 --> 01:52:30,360
Speaker 2: little beautiful strangers, and I.

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01:52:30,320 --> 01:52:34,000
Speaker 3: Think that is that could not be more true. Yeah,

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01:52:34,240 --> 01:52:36,479
Speaker 3: I definitely feel that way. I feel like I'm getting

2318
01:52:36,520 --> 01:52:40,080
Speaker 3: to meet a new person every single morning.

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01:52:40,360 --> 01:52:41,439
Speaker 1: It does feel that way.

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01:52:41,640 --> 01:52:44,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, And just again like the just all the thinking

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01:52:44,760 --> 01:52:47,120
Speaker 2: about all the new versions, Like now I think back

2322
01:52:47,160 --> 01:52:48,800
Speaker 2: to my crack of cold one and getting to spend

2323
01:52:48,800 --> 01:52:50,680
Speaker 2: time with Scottie at fifteen months compared.

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01:52:50,439 --> 01:52:52,120
Speaker 1: To when I watched her when she was a lot younger.

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01:52:52,320 --> 01:52:56,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I know I'm hanging out and building a

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01:52:56,439 --> 01:52:59,040
Speaker 2: connection with a completely different person because she's a little

2327
01:52:59,040 --> 01:53:01,599
Speaker 2: bit more with it. So there's a there's an element

2328
01:53:01,640 --> 01:53:03,600
Speaker 2: there that I'm getting a lot more joy from. Not

2329
01:53:03,640 --> 01:53:05,599
Speaker 2: that I didn't have joy when she was a little baby,

2330
01:53:05,800 --> 01:53:08,080
Speaker 2: but you do feel like you're with a completely new person.

2331
01:53:08,880 --> 01:53:12,160
Speaker 2: But I love that perspective. He does have a it's

2332
01:53:12,200 --> 01:53:14,160
Speaker 2: a newsletter. You'd sit there and click on the link

2333
01:53:14,200 --> 01:53:18,840
Speaker 2: and read all three reasons, one being loving strangers, the

2334
01:53:18,920 --> 01:53:23,559
Speaker 2: second one being ride the Rides, and three is titled

2335
01:53:23,680 --> 01:53:28,720
Speaker 2: Another Way. So this is his whole rite up on

2336
01:53:28,920 --> 01:53:29,759
Speaker 2: being a dad.

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01:53:29,720 --> 01:53:34,280
Speaker 1: That's sick, and that's just getting straight posted to Twitter. Yeah, yeah,

2338
01:53:34,320 --> 01:53:35,800
Speaker 1: and then under it like you know how you'll do

2339
01:53:35,840 --> 01:53:36,200
Speaker 1: the thread.

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01:53:36,240 --> 01:53:38,960
Speaker 2: He's got his link to the overarching all three reasons why,

2341
01:53:38,960 --> 01:53:40,880
Speaker 2: and he dives in on what it's like for him

2342
01:53:40,920 --> 01:53:41,439
Speaker 2: being a dad.

2343
01:53:41,760 --> 01:53:44,519
Speaker 1: Got it? And that was kind of the surface level,

2344
01:53:44,600 --> 01:53:45,799
Speaker 1: which again a lot of verbiage.

2345
01:53:45,800 --> 01:53:47,240
Speaker 2: I would have sit there and had to type in

2346
01:53:47,520 --> 01:53:49,760
Speaker 2: and google some definitions on a couple of these words,

2347
01:53:49,760 --> 01:53:50,280
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

2348
01:53:52,160 --> 01:53:53,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

2349
01:53:54,000 --> 01:53:56,599
Speaker 2: But I do love the perspective on you are always

2350
01:53:57,400 --> 01:54:02,599
Speaker 2: meeting your child, coming across a different version every day,

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01:54:03,640 --> 01:54:05,720
Speaker 2: and they all pour into every day that you have

2352
01:54:05,760 --> 01:54:07,720
Speaker 2: with them, pours into the next day, which pours into

2353
01:54:07,720 --> 01:54:09,320
Speaker 2: the next day. So even as a parent when you

2354
01:54:09,360 --> 01:54:13,000
Speaker 2: think they're not going to remember this, or because you

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Speaker 2: as you as an adult now can't recollect all of

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01:54:16,280 --> 01:54:19,800
Speaker 2: these memories from when you were before what four years old,

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01:54:20,160 --> 01:54:23,720
Speaker 2: maybe somebody has a phenomen logical.

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Speaker 1: Memory when they were two, you know what I mean? Yeah,

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01:54:25,600 --> 01:54:26,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

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01:54:26,479 --> 01:54:30,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, But just knowing that everything is so foundational for

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01:54:30,720 --> 01:54:32,760
Speaker 2: the next version and the kid's going to be.

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Speaker 3: It is a very kind of scary eye opening experience.

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01:54:37,800 --> 01:54:42,320
Speaker 3: Was that I've mentioned on this show. We'll do very

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01:54:42,760 --> 01:54:45,400
Speaker 3: small amount of screen time with Scarlet with the Mickey

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01:54:45,440 --> 01:54:50,320
Speaker 3: Mouse Clubhouse. Yep, and that's really it. We've only done

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01:54:50,440 --> 01:54:53,600
Speaker 3: Mickey Mouse Clubhouse to this point. Jilly Bean's at Target

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01:54:54,200 --> 01:54:59,440
Speaker 3: and shows Scarlet this mini mouse doll. Scarlet went ballistic.

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01:55:00,360 --> 01:55:03,040
Speaker 3: It's her favorite thing in the world, and there was

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01:55:03,120 --> 01:55:07,000
Speaker 3: like actual Jill could tell that. She was like, I

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01:55:07,080 --> 01:55:11,640
Speaker 3: know that thing. Yeah, I know that thing. Yeah, that's crazy, dude.

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Speaker 3: How many months?

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01:55:12,400 --> 01:55:14,560
Speaker 1: Well eight? Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And that's not to say like, oh, Scarlett's are super

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01:55:16,720 --> 01:55:19,320
Speaker 3: smart at eight month old. It's just that, yo, you

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01:55:19,440 --> 01:55:24,240
Speaker 3: might not think that stuff's impressionable. Obviously, she's you know,

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01:55:24,960 --> 01:55:28,000
Speaker 3: recognizing something and just witnessing all the development is just

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01:55:28,080 --> 01:55:31,840
Speaker 3: so fun. Yeah, fascinating for the parent when you see

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01:55:31,840 --> 01:55:33,800
Speaker 3: the next iteration of like, oh damn, she knew what

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01:55:33,840 --> 01:55:36,040
Speaker 3: that was. Yeah, and you're seeing them grow up in

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01:55:36,080 --> 01:55:40,200
Speaker 3: real time. It's dude, it is the best. It's the best.

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01:55:41,080 --> 01:55:43,800
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? What else is the best?

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01:55:43,840 --> 01:55:46,640
Speaker 3: Will If there was a date on the calendar, just

2383
01:55:46,680 --> 01:55:49,080
Speaker 3: to like put a bow on this episode, if there

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01:55:49,120 --> 01:55:50,360
Speaker 3: was a day on this calendar.

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01:55:50,160 --> 01:55:52,680
Speaker 2: If I don't think two long term and I just

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01:55:53,320 --> 01:55:54,240
Speaker 2: what's in front of me?

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01:55:54,360 --> 01:56:03,960
Speaker 1: What's the micro? The micro is the micro is March fourteenth?

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01:56:04,680 --> 01:56:07,400
Speaker 1: Oh really for what? For what reason?

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01:56:08,080 --> 01:56:08,560
Speaker 6: Oh?

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01:56:09,240 --> 01:56:13,640
Speaker 1: Steak and blow Job Day. That's a national holiday.

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01:56:15,000 --> 01:56:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, it is, so that's an official thing.

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01:56:18,600 --> 01:56:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you if you google what holiday is March fourteenth?

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01:56:22,200 --> 01:56:23,000
Speaker 2: Let's just look at it now.

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01:56:23,120 --> 01:56:26,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's go ahead and get on the Google machine.

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01:56:27,560 --> 01:56:37,080
Speaker 1: What do people celebrate on March fourteenth? It? What's the

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01:56:37,120 --> 01:56:37,800
Speaker 1: internet say?

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01:56:39,240 --> 01:56:49,040
Speaker 6: Fuck Pie Day, International Day of Mathematics, Genius Day, National

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01:56:49,040 --> 01:56:53,120
Speaker 6: Potato Chip Day, and Bake a Pie in Solidarity Day.

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01:56:53,200 --> 01:56:56,360
Speaker 1: Ah so now I get a sneak, a blowjob and

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01:56:56,440 --> 01:57:02,720
Speaker 1: a pie. Damn of them. You can celebrate both. That's okay.

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01:57:04,800 --> 01:57:07,240
Speaker 1: Let me just all hit the dive, dive deeper in

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01:57:07,320 --> 01:57:10,120
Speaker 1: AI mode. Oh okay, what about.

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01:57:09,960 --> 01:57:13,360
Speaker 5: As you on March fourteenth? Well, what Wikipedia's Steak and

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01:57:13,400 --> 01:57:20,600
Speaker 5: Blowjob Day? It's also Steaking Knobber Day, our Friend's Overseasnobber Day.

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01:57:21,320 --> 01:57:27,080
Speaker 1: No, bah, I canna get your stiking. You gotta get

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01:57:27,080 --> 01:57:27,880
Speaker 1: me a jump.

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01:57:28,400 --> 01:57:30,320
Speaker 2: I just asked, I said, what about Steak and blow

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01:57:30,400 --> 01:57:35,680
Speaker 2: Job Day? Steak and Blowjob Day, often called Steak and

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01:57:35,760 --> 01:57:42,400
Speaker 2: BJ Day, is an unofficial satrical holiday celebrated on March fourteenth,

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01:57:42,440 --> 01:57:47,200
Speaker 2: exactly one month after Valentine's Day. It was conceived as

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01:57:47,240 --> 01:57:51,360
Speaker 2: a male response to Valentine's Day, which some feel is

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01:57:51,360 --> 01:57:54,040
Speaker 2: a holiday primarily focused on women.

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01:57:54,200 --> 01:57:57,280
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, so I'm not saying that that's true,

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01:57:57,320 --> 01:58:00,400
Speaker 1: but that's fair. I see that. I see how they

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01:58:00,480 --> 01:58:04,080
Speaker 1: land on that. Yeah, that's like some ticket.

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01:58:04,120 --> 01:58:07,000
Speaker 2: Literally is widely considered an internet meme or a joke

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01:58:07,080 --> 01:58:07,560
Speaker 2: rather than.

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01:58:07,440 --> 01:58:08,520
Speaker 1: A legitimate holiday.

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01:58:08,640 --> 01:58:14,000
Speaker 3: Oh okay whatever, Okay, Well, it's near and dear to

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01:58:14,040 --> 01:58:15,160
Speaker 3: some people's Sorry, It's.

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01:58:15,000 --> 01:58:17,720
Speaker 2: Not recognized by any government or greeting car company, and

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01:58:17,720 --> 01:58:19,959
Speaker 2: it remains largely viral internet phenomena.

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01:58:20,400 --> 01:58:22,880
Speaker 1: Oh okay, is it recognized by any like podcasts?

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01:58:23,080 --> 01:58:23,240
Speaker 4: Think?

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01:58:23,520 --> 01:58:25,480
Speaker 2: Oh well, I don't think we need an answer. It

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01:58:25,520 --> 01:58:26,840
Speaker 2: is recognized before the dad's pat.

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01:58:27,000 --> 01:58:27,560
Speaker 1: Okay, cool.

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01:58:27,880 --> 01:58:30,880
Speaker 5: You see what the response to the response for Valentine's

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01:58:30,920 --> 01:58:33,920
Speaker 5: Day is the female version of Steak and Blowjob.

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01:58:33,560 --> 01:58:36,920
Speaker 4: Day follow up follower's a follow up follow on the

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01:58:36,960 --> 01:58:37,919
Speaker 4: fourteenth of April.

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01:58:39,160 --> 01:58:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pronounce this in correctly.

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01:58:40,520 --> 01:58:47,480
Speaker 5: It's cake and cannilingush knelgis, which is the FEMA fallatio

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01:58:47,680 --> 01:58:51,080
Speaker 5: if you will. So it goes Valentine's Day, Steak and

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01:58:51,160 --> 01:58:55,440
Speaker 5: Blowjob Days a.

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01:58:55,360 --> 01:59:03,280
Speaker 1: Little trip downside, get on down there. I'm good with that.

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01:59:03,280 --> 01:59:03,800
Speaker 1: That's good.

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01:59:04,040 --> 01:59:09,400
Speaker 3: That feels like a really great place to uh finish

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01:59:09,520 --> 01:59:11,120
Speaker 3: the Yeah, the episode.

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01:59:11,160 --> 01:59:13,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, to wrap the sode and we will keep the

2441
01:59:13,800 --> 01:59:16,600
Speaker 1: empty sixers in mind when we have this next April

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01:59:16,600 --> 01:59:19,640
Speaker 1: fourteenth coming, cake and kind of angus. Yeah, cake and

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01:59:19,680 --> 01:59:20,440
Speaker 1: kind of angus.

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01:59:20,600 --> 01:59:24,000
Speaker 3: You get some on Valentine's, I get some on steak

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01:59:24,040 --> 01:59:27,320
Speaker 3: and BJ you get something again, and then well that's

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01:59:27,480 --> 01:59:28,840
Speaker 3: we need to have been another one.

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01:59:29,480 --> 01:59:34,440
Speaker 1: March fourteenth and April fourteenth. We head south. We just

2448
01:59:34,520 --> 01:59:38,120
Speaker 1: head south. Came man, you don't have to move down.

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01:59:38,160 --> 01:59:43,400
Speaker 1: Then you visited? Yeah, put a blindfold on it. How

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01:59:43,400 --> 01:59:47,160
Speaker 1: should I put h? Good? So take out your trash.

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Speaker 1: I love you for the dance, man, for the dance.