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Speaker 1: Well, it's lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gg Maguire.

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Speaker 2: Jeordie, or I'm Larca Pippen.

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Speaker 1: You know what it is, Larca Pippen.

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Speaker 2: I definitely know what time it is.

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Speaker 1: First of all, thank you for coming in here and

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Speaker 1: admiring these Chanel couches.

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Speaker 2: I mean they look so vintage and one of the kind.

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Speaker 1: And you know what it is now with the tariffs,

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Speaker 1: you can't get stuff like this, so if you want to,

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Speaker 1: it has to be secondhand. We may sell them, so

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Speaker 1: you guys look out for that vintage, a vintage Chanel.

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Speaker 2: And it's super comfortable, authentic.

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Speaker 1: Sup. Well, welcome to the show, and of course congratulations.

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Speaker 1: We were talking about your tequila that just launched recently.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm super excited.

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Speaker 1: How do you say?

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Speaker 3: Alohu a luho aluho alo luho alujo okay aluho.

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Speaker 1: And so talk to me about this venture because we're

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Speaker 1: tequila drinkers in here, I'll send you some. Is it

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Speaker 1: only an yeho? Yes? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So our first, our first bottle, So yeah.

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Speaker 1: You start at the top. I mean, I like, I.

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Speaker 2: Like premium things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and the bottle is amazing. Y'all gotta look this up.

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Speaker 1: So even you were just getting into this space because

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Speaker 1: I know it's not an easy space to get into.

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Speaker 1: Tell me how that happened.

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Speaker 2: So ten years ago, my dad's an entrepreneur. My dad

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Speaker 2: has different businesses. He called me ten years ago and

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Speaker 2: he was like, let's do a tequila. One of my

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Speaker 2: business partners has the distillery he owns in Mexico. And

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Speaker 2: ten years ago, I really wasn't ready for it.

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Speaker 1: Like I have young kids.

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Speaker 2: I didn't have time. And my dad was like, we

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Speaker 2: can go to Mexico on Thursday. I'm like, it's time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't have time.

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Speaker 2: And so fast forward years later. Three years ago, I

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Speaker 2: decided I wanted to do a tequila and so I

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Speaker 2: got together with a couple of my friends, Adam Whitesman,

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Speaker 1: Do you know Adam Whitesman, Yeah, I know who that is.

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Speaker 2: And so we decided to do a tequila.

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Speaker 1: We got to see couches. He didn't kid it.

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Speaker 2: So we talked about doing a tequila and we wanted

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Speaker 2: to do something that was different. There was ultra premium,

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Speaker 2: you know, just unique in every way. We hired like

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Speaker 2: the biggest designers to do the bottle.

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Speaker 1: It's artwork.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really pretty, it's really special.

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Speaker 1: It's like something you give as a gift and you

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Speaker 1: can't throw the bottle of the way it feels No,

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Speaker 1: it's beautiful. But speaking of gifts, Joordie, I know you

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Speaker 1: have a gift that we're giving away. Yes, we're finally

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Speaker 1: giving our way our trip, y'all. We have a winner.

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Speaker 3: And basically what we were doing was we had a sponsor.

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Speaker 3: Her name's chlobe Love. She's one of my best friends,

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Speaker 3: and she is giving.

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Speaker 1: Away a vacation.

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Speaker 3: Yes, there's a list of really fun places that our

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Speaker 3: winner can go.

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Speaker 1: It's up to her.

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Speaker 3: And she's been tagging us every day for the last

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Speaker 1: She's committed that though every single day I was like,

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Speaker 1: I thought it was somebody who worked here she was tagging.

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Speaker 1: She clocked in. She was clocked in.

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Speaker 3: And her name is Renee Ken. Yes, her instagram is

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Speaker 3: m Z Underscore cloud nine. So Miss cloud nine is

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Speaker 3: about to be flying in the clouds to her new vacation.

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Speaker 4: I wonder who she's gonna I wonder where she's going

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Speaker 4: to go. Me too, It better be somewhere.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, she's finding out now as where this episode

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Speaker 1: comes out, so she doesn't even know yet. So now, congratulations.

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Speaker 1: It's nice to be able to do nice things for people.

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Speaker 2: It's so nice.

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Speaker 1: If you had to pick a place to go on vacation,

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Speaker 1: what would be your first pick right now?

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Speaker 2: Like July, like June July? Yeah, probably south of France.

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Speaker 1: Okay, periods and of course we would be remiss not

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Speaker 1: to say we saw you recently on Watch What Happens

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Speaker 1: Live new Man and the audience and in front. Well

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Speaker 1: seven months right, yeah, so it's seven months still considered

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Speaker 1: new No, it depends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it depends if the person stays with

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Speaker 2: It depends how much time you spend with them.

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Speaker 1: so it's a consistent seven months, so doesn't.

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Speaker 2: I'm not used to having relationships where they're like a

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Speaker 2: I meanither like we're together, We're just not.

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Speaker 1: You are definitely like the I'm not just like casually dating.

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Speaker 1: It feels like you're like, what are we doing?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, well, you're talking to the wrong one right,

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Speaker 2: Like it's not for me. I'm not just going to

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Speaker 1: I always think it's weird when guys say that because

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Speaker 4: He probably said that because he didn't want to stop

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Speaker 4: Well, he didn't have any kids or anything, whoever else

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Speaker 1: But also, Larsa, it feels like you managed to get

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Speaker 3: How do you like give us a scenario because we're

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Speaker 3: struggling out here. Date dot com Okay, first of all,

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Speaker 3: the fact that you've got date dot com is crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy to get that, to get that website, Like,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we got it all.

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Speaker 2: You know what else is really cool? About date dot

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Speaker 2: And then there's no catfishing. So instead of guys being

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Speaker 2: Let people make bad decisions, Okay, good, see I love that,

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Speaker 2: so good people make bad decisions. But I just feel

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Speaker 1: Does that work? If a guy bumps you, right, he

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Speaker 2: I know, No, life is good. Life has been fun.

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Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying, Yeah, no, but that's like you

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Speaker 4: Now.

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00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:31,879
Speaker 1: I think she's in a situation.

438
00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,000
Speaker 2: She's with this guy, and I think it's him more

439
00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,240
Speaker 2: so than her, you know, And so I feel like

440
00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,840
Speaker 2: she's just like following like whatever he says, you know

441
00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,919
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But it's just weird because like you

442
00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:44,879
Speaker 2: got to know who your friends are. I feel like

443
00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,159
Speaker 2: in our world, like you got to know who your

444
00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:48,960
Speaker 2: friends are, who's there for you and who's like.

445
00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:51,280
Speaker 1: There to go to war with you? You know what I mean?

446
00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,320
Speaker 2: Things go belly up And I was up front for her,

447
00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:54,160
Speaker 2: I testified in.

448
00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:54,960
Speaker 1: Court for her.

449
00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:58,399
Speaker 2: It's like bro like on court, I'm a real good friend.

450
00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:08,440
Speaker 1: Your friends. She's the only one who's still like following yeah.

451
00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,560
Speaker 2: And making it like it's my fault from I'm insensitive

452
00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,080
Speaker 2: for me even saying that, And I'm like, how am I?

453
00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:13,240
Speaker 4: Like?

454
00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,360
Speaker 2: Am I deliver? I'm from Chicago, so I'm really nice

455
00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:18,119
Speaker 2: to tell I'm not, you know what I'm saying. Let

456
00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,280
Speaker 2: him know, like I'm really nice until I'm not, and

457
00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:21,919
Speaker 2: I'm just like I'm you know, when you're hurt, you

458
00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,359
Speaker 2: just kind of go off. I'm like, how are you

459
00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,040
Speaker 2: my friend? But yet, like it's so hard for you

460
00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:29,080
Speaker 2: to do this one thing.

461
00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:31,240
Speaker 1: See, I was friends with Gig's ex, but I was

462
00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,360
Speaker 1: friends with him first also, and then he got mad

463
00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:38,840
Speaker 1: because I stay friends with you know. Yeah, but that's

464
00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:39,640
Speaker 1: you know what I think.

465
00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,359
Speaker 2: I think when someone's publicly bashing you, like, that's different.

466
00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:44,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is.

467
00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:45,680
Speaker 2: And it's like a person you just met a year ago.

468
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,359
Speaker 2: It's not like it's like a ten year. You've been

469
00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:50,320
Speaker 2: around them for ten years, you traveled with them, you

470
00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,640
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. No, it's like you met

471
00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:54,200
Speaker 2: this man all of five minutes ago, bro, Like he

472
00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:55,919
Speaker 2: doesn't know who you are, right, you think you have,

473
00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:57,080
Speaker 2: like friendship trauma.

474
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Speaker 1: I feel like you've been through some things where unfair

475
00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,600
Speaker 1: it could be unfairly that like you've gotten the bad

476
00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:04,640
Speaker 1: end of things.

477
00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,200
Speaker 2: I think whenever you're in a situation with someone that's

478
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:10,200
Speaker 2: more famous than you, whether it's my husband, whether it's whatever,

479
00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,160
Speaker 2: whoever's the bigger fish will always win.

480
00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,600
Speaker 1: Okay that's fair to say. Yes, that's fair to say.

481
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,439
Speaker 2: So that's how it works. And I come from a

482
00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:23,320
Speaker 2: school of like, I don't need anybody. I don't need anybody.

483
00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:26,000
Speaker 1: You think you have people in your corner that are

484
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,639
Speaker 1: for real in your corner though, Yeah, yeah, for sure.

485
00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,000
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't feel like I need to

486
00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,640
Speaker 2: be friends with people to for like to be fake.

487
00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:36,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly for the fake of it. It's genuine. Yeah,

488
00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:36,800
Speaker 1: Like if I.

489
00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,399
Speaker 2: Don't have, like, I'm good, I need real friends. I

490
00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 2: don't really care about the hocus pocus like, oh, we're

491
00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,560
Speaker 2: like real friends on Instagram, Like that's not my goal

492
00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:44,160
Speaker 2: in life.

493
00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 1: That's a good space to be in there because sometimes

494
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,719
Speaker 1: like that's something you have to learn. I feel like, yeah,

495
00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:53,960
Speaker 1: until you get that lesson, you don't really know, you

496
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,440
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like we have to go through

497
00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:59,320
Speaker 1: some traumatic Like have we all had friendship traumas? Absolutely?

498
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:00,159
Speaker 1: You know.

499
00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:03,119
Speaker 2: It's really weird because I feel like I'm so forgiving that,

500
00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:06,199
Speaker 2: Like I could go through almost anything with my friends

501
00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,800
Speaker 2: and I'll almost forgive you because I feel like I'll

502
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:09,959
Speaker 2: understand your circumstances.

503
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:10,840
Speaker 1: I always see things.

504
00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 2: I always see people for like, Okay, you were going

505
00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:16,600
Speaker 2: through this, Okay, this happened to you. Like and maybe

506
00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,120
Speaker 2: it's because like I'm the oldest of like five siblings,

507
00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,159
Speaker 2: maybe because I've had four kids. So I know if

508
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 2: people go through things, and I have to see the

509
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,640
Speaker 2: good in you, like regardless to what you do in life.

510
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 2: I always see the good in people. Okay, So and

511
00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,200
Speaker 2: you're a cancer and I'm a cancer there.

512
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,920
Speaker 1: You Yeah, I get it.

513
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,359
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm more like that. So I can't

514
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,879
Speaker 2: forgive my friends. So if Lisa was to come back

515
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:39,879
Speaker 2: and be like, listen, I made a mistake. I shouldn't

516
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:41,720
Speaker 2: have done that, then I'm gonna be like, it's fine,

517
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,399
Speaker 2: like you were going through things. I get it.

518
00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:47,119
Speaker 1: Would you forgive Marcus? Ever? I don't. I don't know.

519
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,360
Speaker 2: I don't have anything against him.

520
00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 1: Okay, that's nothin there's you know because he said he

521
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:52,560
Speaker 1: was publicly bashing you.

522
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I feel like I when I

523
00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,919
Speaker 2: leave a situation. Honestly, I don't keep up with what

524
00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 2: you're doing. I don't care what you do. I'm in

525
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 2: my own own vessel. I'm doing my own thing. God

526
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 2: is blessing me and every which you know, way, shape

527
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,080
Speaker 2: or form I've ever dreamed of. So I'm not worried

528
00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 2: about other people.

529
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 1: How is it for death if he had when he

530
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,160
Speaker 1: has to hear like you know, because I'm sure that's

531
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,199
Speaker 1: annoying to him that he has to because that was

532
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:21,199
Speaker 1: your first like super public marriage for sure relationships, So

533
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,119
Speaker 1: now he has to hear things like on watch what

534
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: Happens Live? You know, it can get a little messy

535
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 1: when people are bringing up things. But you know, with

536
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 1: you and Marcus and he's there, how does he navigate that?

537
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,680
Speaker 1: And have you guys had a conversation about, you know,

538
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:36,640
Speaker 1: anything that might make him uncomfortable?

539
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,120
Speaker 2: You know, I think when you're dating someone that's mature

540
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 2: and emotionally mature, it's a big difference. You know what

541
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying. He's very emotionally mature and like not phased

542
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 2: by all the you know.

543
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 1: I know he wrote a book about meditating, right, so

544
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 1: do you guys meditate and stuff he's been teaching me.

545
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 1: I knew it. You know what.

546
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,400
Speaker 2: He's very he's very calm, and he's very like he's

547
00:21:58,400 --> 00:21:59,119
Speaker 2: always happy.

548
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 1: He wakes up every day so happy. That's nice, that's amazing. Yeah,

549
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 1: how you wake up is really frames your day absolute

550
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 1: because you could wake up and say I hate that,

551
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 1: I gotta get up so early. Here we go. Or

552
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 1: you could wake up and be like that morning, I

553
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 1: got licen next to me. Ready, just stay going, And

554
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 1: that's like a whole different way. You know how they

555
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 1: say you wake up on the wrong side of the bed,

556
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: But it's just how you look at life like a rite.

557
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 1: Today's another day to have some you know, amazing opportunities

558
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 1: to get things right from yesterday. Or you could look

559
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 1: at it like, oh, I hate my job, I don't

560
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 1: feel like going in.

561
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 4: And then you have a bad day, right and it's

562
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 4: late traffic, you spill some coffee, like you just one

563
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:38,880
Speaker 4: thing after the next happens.

564
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: You know, you set the tone definitely.

565
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 2: But I also feel like you attract that too.

566
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a fact. Misery loves come absolutely now has

567
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 1: he met the kids yet? Yeah? And so what do

568
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 1: they think? They love them? Okay, good, Yeah, they love them.

569
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:53,639
Speaker 2: They think it's really nice.

570
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 1: You like twelve guys too. I think it's what you're

571
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: used to, you know, right, you know what I'm saying.

572
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: If you're imagine you with somebody, sure, that would be crazy.

573
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 1: I tried that before. Didn't work. I know you didn't

574
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 1: date somebody short.

575
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 2: I did, not, like I'm sure, but I do did

576
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 2: a short guy. You know what I always used to

577
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 2: do when I would date guys, because I would look

578
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 2: at them next to me, like, and then I'd be like,

579
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 2: this doesn't look right.

580
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: We gotta look right together. Yeah, it doesn't like I

581
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 1: don't know the short guys. Boy, they got so mad

582
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: one day on this show when we were talking about

583
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:24,120
Speaker 1: short guys.

584
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 2: But don't sleep on short guys. Yeah, short guys have

585
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 2: a lot to offer. Listen, they have a lot to offer.

586
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like, they're probably better boyfriends. Why because I's

587
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 2: not online.

588
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 1: Date dot com.

589
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: All the short guys are killing it. No, but there's

590
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 2: something about like you know, Shorter.

591
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 1: Said that statistically they have bigger penises.

592
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: Oh, there you go. Stats don't lie is.

593
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: That Is that really a statistic? It is for my research.

594
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 1: How's your relationships in? How long has it been for you?

595
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 4: It'll be one year next month, okay, but we waited

596
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 4: like eight months to make it like an official relationship

597
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,919
Speaker 4: because he lives in a different city.

598
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: It was long distance. But we're thriving. Oh good, Okay,

599
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 1: not just surviving, but thriving. Yeah, he's good. We're in

600
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: a very good space planning our one year anniversary. Guess

601
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: what we said we're gonna do. What go back to

602
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:22,479
Speaker 1: the cameria.

603
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 4: Okay, We're gonna get a room there and just like

604
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 4: go back to the rooftop and like where it all begins.

605
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: Because there we're definitely there. I'm gonna be back again. Yeah,

606
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: it was. It was a little party for show we

607
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: are now. So let's talk about this season because it's

608
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: only been two episodes so far of Real Housewives of

609
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: Miami and so we're getting like a little glimpse of

610
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: how things are going to play out. So how are

611
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 1: you feeling about things? Because I know, I feel like

612
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:57,679
Speaker 1: I was.

613
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 2: Really emotional this year, like just going through you know,

614
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 2: like a breakup publicly. I feel like it's hard, you know,

615
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 2: especially when you care about the person you know and

616
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 2: then just like hard and.

617
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: So what did you learn from that now to carry

618
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 1: into something new?

619
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 2: I think, like you know, when you see signs, see them,

620
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,239
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. I feel like sometimes I

621
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 2: like I'm a fixer. I like to fix people. I

622
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 2: like to fix things, and I always feel like I

623
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 2: can make anyone feel good because that's like my personality.

624
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 2: But I feel like sometimes you just can't, you know

625
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Sometimes you have to like be like realistic,

626
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 2: Like listen, you are not about to fix the situation.

627
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 1: Try though, right, you try?

628
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 2: I do try, and then I you know what happens though,

629
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,919
Speaker 2: Then when I leave, it gets really bad because you

630
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 2: give them a taste of something that's so good, but

631
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 2: they don't appreciate it, and then when you leave, they

632
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 2: like spirally.

633
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: That breakup was crazy, you know. It was also kind

634
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 1: of like no one believes it because it would be

635
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: a breakup and then you guys be spotted together again.

636
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 2: I know, I know. It's like Lisa said, it was

637
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 2: a fake breakup. I'm like, who's having fake breakups? I'm

638
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 2: not doing that. That's so weird.

639
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's also what does tend to happen in

640
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: real life, Like you break up and then you miss

641
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: the person, and then you're like, all right, let's give

642
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: it another try. Yeah, then you break up again, but

643
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: you say no.

644
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 2: But I've never been in a relationship like that. I

645
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 2: feel like, when we break up, we're breaking up. This

646
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 2: is the only relationship that I ever had. It was

647
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 2: like three times, like we broke up, we got back together.

648
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 2: I was like trying to like buy into the idea

649
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 2: of it being better, you know, like it could be better.

650
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 2: He's going to work on them, trying to it. Yeah,

651
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 2: and then finally like I was like, what am I doing,

652
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 2: I'm Larsa. Get the hell off this, right, am Larsa?

653
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: Like I'm Larsa. I don't need this.

654
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: Like no, it's also sometimes had, like you said, in

655
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: the public eye, because you don't want to like feel

656
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: like it failed.

657
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're trying for me, Like I worked hard for

658
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 2: that relationship. People were hitting on me from before, and

659
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,959
Speaker 2: they had all these stories that we were I knew him.

660
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, I never knew these people, Like I never

661
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 2: knew these.

662
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,719
Speaker 1: Pe You've got a lot of flak for that, and

663
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: so sometimes people are like I told you so, And

664
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: when people do that, it makes you more.

665
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 2: I want to be like, right, you're stubborn as all

666
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 2: trying to make it work.

667
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, I.

668
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 3: Feel like you get that a lot too, of people

669
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 3: kind of second guessing your truth or what you say.

670
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of even on traitors, when

671
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 3: no one believes you about Dan and yes and no

672
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 3: one clocked that. And I feel like even from the

673
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,640
Speaker 3: press and certain things and with your relationships or even

674
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 3: with your public friendships, people don't believe necessarily what you're saying.

675
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 3: But usually then it comes out that that was the truth,

676
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 3: And so how do you navigate that?

677
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like, you know, the people

678
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 2: that know me know that I'm like real and I

679
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 2: don't really care about all the other people.

680
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 1: And then the truth always comes out any.

681
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah for not. You know what I don't do is

682
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 2: I don't like I don't handle things publicly. I've told

683
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 2: you this before. I don't really like speak like I

684
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 2: don't speak negative on people that are in my past,

685
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: Like I don't do that. Yeah, I'm saying I'm very

686
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 2: like I'll take it to the grave, like I know

687
00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 2: where so many.

688
00:27:58,840 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: Bodies are buried.

689
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 2: I was fucking like beard them, you know.

690
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,959
Speaker 1: But all certain things you've said, you know, people ask

691
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 1: you questions like I remember an interview you did where

692
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,880
Speaker 1: you talked about how you briefly dated Tristan Thompson before Chloe,

693
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: and I feel like that kind of like went under

694
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 1: the radar a little bit. But I'm in my head

695
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 1: when I saw that, I was like, there's a lot more.

696
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 2: I just I just never like, I'm not like that,

697
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. It's like, whatever the perception is,

698
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 2: let it be.

699
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 1: It's that's that's another level of strength. Yeah, yeah, I'm

700
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: not some tough skin.

701
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like there's no point, you know what

702
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

703
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: How many times do you start typing back a response

704
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: to somebody on social media and then say, you know what,

705
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: I gotta I'm not even going to do it, you

706
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: know what?

707
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 2: I the other day like I feel like I really

708
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 2: wanted to go off on some people I have some

709
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 2: extra time, but then I'm like, who am I fighting with?

710
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 2: Personal not even relevant in my life, and then like,

711
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.

712
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: I love you everything.

713
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 2: You know what's interesting people that talk negative about you?

714
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 2: If you ever hit them up back on DM and

715
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 2: you're like, let me tell you what really happened. And

716
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 2: I talk to them, then they'll be like, thank you

717
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 2: so much for clarifying that. I knew you were amazing,

718
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: Like they change your so.

719
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: You've done that. Yeah, you know what's crazy?

720
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 4: As more recently, I started another show, Conversations on Down

721
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 4: That TV, and I've been saying.

722
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: Some crazy shit because Gigi's crazy.

723
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 4: Everybody knows and I just really don't give a fuck,

724
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 4: like I don't care, so and people tend to make

725
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 4: their own scenario, Like if you say one sentence, they'll

726
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 4: make up a whole scenario. Like I said, I've dated

727
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 4: the order guy when I was fifteen in high school

728
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 4: or whatever, and they're like, oh, you were a victim.

729
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 4: He was raping you and like all of these things

730
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 4: and where were your parents? And at one point it's

731
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 4: like I felt myself wanting to respond, but then I'm like, no,

732
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 4: for what you know. But I even thought about this

733
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 4: one girl. I even thought about DM and her and

734
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 4: trying to like kind of not even really clear it up,

735
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 4: but just give her the facts, because you're sitting here

736
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 4: making all these assumptions and you really have no idea

737
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 4: of what the facts were, like have been fifteen dating

738
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 4: a twenty three year old. But I was also a

739
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 4: freshman in high school at thirteen, and I had my

740
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 4: own job and I became a mom at seventeen, Like

741
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 4: I was way more advanced than the.

742
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: Average twenty three year old should be. No, No, And

743
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that, and I'm not saying.

744
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 2: That I get it an older guy.

745
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, so much. And I think you did it back then.

746
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 4: I was about to say, the time back then was

747
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 4: different and we were in nineties kids, the last key

748
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 4: kids that whole era.

749
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: You were one of those kids.

750
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 4: We were way more advanced than the fifteen year old's

751
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 4: there and no way in shape of my saying that

752
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 4: it was something that shit was morally riter should have

753
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 4: been done.

754
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: But it was my life. And I remember my friend's

755
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: older brother liked me when I was in high school,

756
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: and I felt like he he had like he used

757
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: to drive us to school, and I felt like he

758
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: was so old because I think I was like fifteen

759
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: or sixteen. He had a suit on. How old was

760
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 1: he he probably, I don't know, he was in his twenties.

761
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, there's a big in his twenties. He could

762
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 2: have been twenty nine. I don't know exactly how old

763
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 2: he was.

764
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: It was her older brother and he gave me like

765
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: a gift for Valentine's that I remember told this old man,

766
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: you know, because I and I looked really young too. Yeah,

767
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: you see, like me at fifteen and sixty, I looked

768
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 1: like I was like twelve, you know what I mean. Yeah,

769
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: so I thought that was girls. But you said when

770
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: you were sixteen you.

771
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 2: Dated like I liked older guys like eighteen.

772
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: You know.

773
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 4: I get that's still in school together at the same

774
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 4: time nineteen and now you're like younger guys like it's

775
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 4: weird and they like you. Yeah, but the fact that

776
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 4: you dm somebody before I really thought about doing it,

777
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 4: but I didn't. But I feel better knowing that you've

778
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 4: done it before, because she felt like I was like

779
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 4: these people driving me making me crazy like that, I

780
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 4: want to just like, you got to be careful drink kids.

781
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 2: If you publicly, like go at them really hard and

782
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 2: like they do something to themselves, they could come back and.

783
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 1: Say, guess what, that's why I just didn't.

784
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 2: You have to be very careful how you navigate, Like

785
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 2: I just respond.

786
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 4: I just learned, and I've also learned from being on

787
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 4: this podcast to just not even just let it. Let

788
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 4: them say what they want to say, let them come

789
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 4: up with whatever scenario that makes them feel like they

790
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 4: know what they know.

791
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: Like they it's almost like you don't know shit.

792
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,479
Speaker 2: When people thought, like when me and my susan broke up,

793
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 2: they're like, oh, she cheated on him. I was like,

794
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 2: I'm never like, I was like what mm hmm, you

795
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? Yeah, that was ever said nothing

796
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: no negative about you. No, he did, like this GQ

797
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,719
Speaker 2: interview and he was like, we were you know, we

798
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 2: were broken up way before like I started dating other people.

799
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 1: He seemed mad, chill. I've interviewed him once, like a

800
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: long time ago when I was as serious, but he

801
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: seemed like, you know, just a nice, chill person and clearly,

802
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: like you said, it was a successful marriage, it lasted it.

803
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 1: You know, you guys had four beautiful kids together and

804
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: still cordial with each other. Yep. When he's dating, do

805
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 1: you meet anybody? Has he ever like been like I

806
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:35,479
Speaker 1: want you to meet. He's got a girlfriend okay, and

807
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 1: she's nice.

808
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: I like her.

809
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: Okay, good.

810
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 3: See that's a good space to meet when you could

811
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 3: be happy and be like, she's nice.

812
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: No, she's nice.

813
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: I'm super nice to her. I feel like she's trow

814
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 2: my kids. I want him to be happy. I don't

815
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 2: want to cause any problems for him because then I

816
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 2: feel like that'll go trickle down to my.

817
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: Kids, right, So I don't do that. Would you guys

818
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: like hang out you and her? Or I like her?

819
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: I would hang out with her.

820
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 2: I mean she's nice.

821
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.

822
00:32:59,320 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

823
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: You know it's interesting since we just talked about JG's boyfriend.

824
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: Her boyfriend is how old is he? Twenty nine? Twenty nine,

825
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: so he's a lot and initially she didn't want to

826
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 1: date him for that purpose.

827
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 4: She's like, my daughter is twenty eight, so they're like

828
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 4: very close in age, almost approximately the same age. And

829
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 4: I just felt like I should not be dating somebody

830
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 4: that's the same age as my kid. But if I

831
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 4: didn't have a kid when I was a kid, he

832
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 4: wouldn't be the same age as my kid, right. And

833
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 4: for two, he's very mature, like he's very much not

834
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 4: the average twenty nine year old, So that helps a

835
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 4: lot too.

836
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: I dated a guy that was forty seven years old

837
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 2: before I dated Jeff and he was so immature. And

838
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 2: when I broke up with him, I said to him,

839
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: there's a reason why I dated you. And he's like

840
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 2: why And I was like, just to prove that age

841
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:45,239
Speaker 2: is nothing but a number. I never did anyt wane

842
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 2: Like you again.

843
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: You were a test and you failed.

844
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

845
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: I was like no, because he literally like, you know,

846
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 2: I think some guys know what they want. You just

847
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 2: got to like know you know what I mean? You

848
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: have to be with someone that knows what they want.

849
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, what did he do? That was like so immature?

850
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 1: Like what is so?

851
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 2: He literally was like I never want to get married.

852
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:09,479
Speaker 2: I'm afraid of commitment. I just the things he would

853
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 2: do and stuff. And every time I would say stop

854
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 2: calling me, then like you know who I am, stop

855
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: calling me, And then he would like go crazy and

856
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,479
Speaker 2: buy me like thousands of dollars in flowers and send

857
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 2: me all this stuff and send me bags and send

858
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 2: me all this stuff. Like every time I would like

859
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 2: kind of be mean to him, try to push him away,

860
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 2: he would try to like do more and like try

861
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 2: to come back. No one damn well, like he was

862
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: dating someone like he's in like he's a public figure.

863
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 2: He was dating someone he like wasted her time. I

864
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 2: was like, bro, you wasted her time, had a kid

865
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 2: with her, and didn't marry her. So chances are that's

866
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 2: just who you're going to be forever, right, let me

867
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 2: keep it moving.

868
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: He liked the chase.

869
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 2: I think he liked the chase, but I also think

870
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 2: like he just you know, he just didn't want to

871
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: like step up away like a forty I was like

872
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 2: forty seven years old, Like, you got to decide what

873
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 2: you want. What at forty seven years old, you don't

874
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: know what you want? You've got issues.

875
00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: I feel that I wait about my ex write Some

876
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: people just don't right. They could be forty one. In fact,

877
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: your ex is older than you. And he definitely was

878
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: like not knowing no, which is why. But I feel

879
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: like you convinced yourself you didn't want to get married

880
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: too at one point if it probably wasn't worth it, right.

881
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: But I also felt like maybe that's a protective thing

882
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,320
Speaker 1: where you're like, well, he's never gonna marry me. I

883
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 1: don't want to give anyway, you know, yeah cucket, yeah,

884
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: because now you're now.

885
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 4: We are getting married, like we talk about it all

886
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 4: the time. We just was talking about it on the

887
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 4: way here.

888
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: What Yeah, so there you go, like, I mean he

889
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: hasn't proposed yet, but I know what's happening.

890
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:31,760
Speaker 2: So yeah, you're in a good place.

891
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 3: Do you guys feel like there was ever a moment

892
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:36,760
Speaker 3: of having to have like a learning curve with dating

893
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 3: younger guys where it was like, ooh, I'm not quite

894
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 3: used to that and it was like an adjustment.

895
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 2: I mean I think no, because I was dating that

896
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 2: forty seven year old man and he showed me that

897
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:49,919
Speaker 2: there was no adjustment, like.

898
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: You know what I thought that it would be, And no,

899
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: it's not. My boyfriend's younger than me too, and he

900
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: acts like an old man, Yeah doesn't he does. He

901
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,839
Speaker 1: has old man energy. I'm like, because people be thinking

902
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: he's older than me. Yeah, he does have energy. Yeah,

903
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: he don't want to like he's not even like an

904
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: outside type of person, very calm too well until something happens,

905
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 1: he's you know, and I think like I'd be having

906
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 1: it turned down because I don't want him like if

907
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: somebody does something, I'll be having to make sure I

908
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: stay calm because I don't want him to get mad.

909
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because when he gets mad. It's like he goes.

910
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 2: Zero to one hundred. Yeah, it's always the quiet ones.

911
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 1: Like that exactly. So, but yeah, I think you know

912
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: it's that because you're right. I have dated older guys

913
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 1: and they do a lot of them. I think sometimes

914
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 1: it's also where you grow up. You know. I do

915
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: feel like people may hate me for saying this. My

916
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend is from New York, but I feel like guys

917
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: from New York, most of them can be a lot

918
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 1: more immature to really. Yes, yeah, because people in New

919
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: York get married a lot later in life than people grinding. Yeah, yeah,

920
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: they're hustling.

921
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, grinding, They're trying to figure it out.

922
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 1: You're trying to figure it out. It's a lot of hustle.

923
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 1: And I think it's really hard to also feel like

924
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 1: you're in a space where you have a house, you

925
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 1: own this. Things are so expensive to live here, and

926
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: some people don't feel like they want to settle down

927
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 1: until they have those things.

928
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 2: You know. It's really interesting if you look at different cultures,

929
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 2: like the Asian culture, everyone is married. If you look

930
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,919
Speaker 2: at certain cultures and they're like socioeconomic, like, family life

931
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 2: is so much better. So if you're married, Like it's

932
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 2: like dual income in one home. It's just so much

933
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 2: better for the environment too. You spend lots of money

934
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 2: on water.

935
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: Like I'm just saying, like, it's just like I'm doing

936
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: my part to save the world.

937
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 2: I'm saying, it makes more sense to be married, you

938
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying it Culturally, I feel like Americans now,

939
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 2: it's like nobody really wants to get married.

940
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 1: People are scared of divorce too, I think.

941
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 3: But I feel like people are scared of stepping up

942
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 3: to the plate too. And I think, you know, when

943
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 3: you have all these talks about the male loneliness epidemic

944
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 3: and all that stuff, It's like, to me, there's a

945
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 3: lot lack of accountability in that because women as a

946
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 3: whole have stepped up. We're more educated, we're making more money,

947
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 3: we're more independent, and I feel like we're looking for

948
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 3: people to match that energy, and they don't even want

949
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 3: to do that. They want to stay where. Oh it

950
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 3: was enough when I was taking care of the household

951
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 3: and that was enough. It's like, no, we want you

952
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,920
Speaker 3: to be gentlemen, we want you to be a leader,

953
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 3: we want you know what I mean, And we don't

954
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 3: have that and so I don't know how we continue

955
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 3: to invest in marriages and relationships when like, it's not

956
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 3: an even partnership anymore.

957
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 2: I feel like, but that's how you have to swim

958
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 2: in different water.

959
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like you. Yeah, I feel like she'd

960
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 1: be a great girlfriend, a great wife. I don't know

961
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 1: what's going on out here.

962
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 3: It's hard. And you know what's happened a lot lately

963
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 3: is maybe two guys in a row have been on

964
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 3: my body. I mean calling me down seven times a day,

965
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 3: texting me da da da da. We will make a

966
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 3: date the day, will call and I'm like, where's the

967
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 3: where's the confirmation? Like we said two o'clock. Why is

968
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 3: it twelve forty five? And I haven't heard from you?

969
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 3: So I was like, you know what, let me give

970
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 3: this person a benefit of doubt, and I texted him.

971
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm not coming across town if I

972
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 3: haven't heard from you.

973
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,720
Speaker 1: Whatever. Yeah, this man does not respond for four hours.

974
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 2: Oh god, did you block him after that?

975
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:22,800
Speaker 4: Well?

976
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 3: I like seeing them gravel, so I didn't block him,

977
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 3: but I haven't answered him since seventeen Text messages, tomb

978
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 3: phone calls, dms every day, being like where are you?

979
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: Where? Where are you? Where are you? And I'm like,

980
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 1: you played with my time.

981
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 2: Well, he's just a time oyster. Don't even invest in that.

982
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 3: And then that happened again. The last time we were

983
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 3: at lip service, I was supposed to go out to

984
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 3: dinnerver someone.

985
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,280
Speaker 2: Oh, different guy, different guy.

986
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 3: And he'd been chasing me down whatever his friends even

987
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 3: knew about me.

988
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 1: And then I was like, yeah, I'm done. Where are

989
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 1: we going? Crickets? What this was last week? This was

990
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: so crazy to me.

991
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:58,879
Speaker 2: You need to date a British guy.

992
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:04,280
Speaker 1: He was British. Ah, maybe I thought too skeptic.

993
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 2: Hello, because I feel like I see you with the

994
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 2: British guy.

995
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 1: I feel I've been feeling that lately.

996
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you give me like you can be with the

997
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 2: European guy.

998
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 1: I've been feeling that lately. Sounds like we need a

999
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: trip and win the trip. We should.

1000
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 2: You know. It's interesting. I feel like the girls that

1001
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 2: don't pay any mind to guys get all the guys

1002
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 2: right right. It's weird because it's like, at the end

1003
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 2: of the day, it's really about the chase. Men love

1004
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 2: to chase that and if you and nowadays, I feel

1005
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 2: like in twenty twenty five. Girls make guys feel so

1006
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 2: special and like they're the prize, and so there's so

1007
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: many girls chasing that you're getting diluted. You're diluting all

1008
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 2: of our stock.

1009
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: You know, It's crazy because I've been so big, I'm

1010
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,759
Speaker 1: always so busy. People really do have to like, if

1011
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: you wanted to go out with me, you gotta find me.

1012
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: You gotta make sime for me. You have to be like, oh,

1013
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: what time, And especially like because when we first started talking,

1014
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:55,879
Speaker 1: you know, it was I used to have to get

1015
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 1: up so early in the morning, so we weren't even

1016
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: talking yet, but he would like always ask me out,

1017
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: but I would be like, I'm sorry, I can't go

1018
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: to dinner at nine. I have to get up at

1019
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: four o'clock in the morning. It's not going to happen,

1020
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: and so I would never go. And then when I

1021
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 1: started this new show, I could get up later now,

1022
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: and that's really when I was able to like, okay,

1023
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: have a little time to focus. But I think guys

1024
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: do like when you're not available and you can't let

1025
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: them get away with stuff like you know, although I

1026
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: would love to hear what his reason was, which one

1027
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: the first guy like that well first, So the first

1028
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: guy was like, hold on, I'm actually gonna read the

1029
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: text because it made me laugh that he thought I

1030
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: was never gonna respond. Okay, so he said he sent this,

1031
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 1: look at this currently, my bad.

1032
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 3: I knocked out late, got an email half my company

1033
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 3: is getting laid off Monday.

1034
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 1: So I was.

1035
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 3: Stressed, okay to me if he had given me a

1036
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 3: real apology, and then said, I'm so sorry this has

1037
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,040
Speaker 3: happened at work, saying my bad.

1038
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: And this dof there a car accident.

1039
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 3: You need to be deceaved for me to feel bad,

1040
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 3: like you should have been laid up in the hospitals,

1041
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 3: have the pictures with everything, because I would have responded,

1042
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:13,760
Speaker 3: but you'll never hear from me again.

1043
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: And then what about last week? The guy from last week?

1044
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: He just never even answered because we ended up going

1045
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: to dinner.

1046
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, probably his wife found out the next day he

1047
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 3: was going home to London. So I don't know, I

1048
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 3: don't know, I don't know what happened. I just thought

1049
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 3: it was mad, weird, he.

1050
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 2: Trying to have fun here while he was here. And

1051
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 2: then he writes home, right, you didn't want to go

1052
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 2: on that date anyhow.

1053
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: So when he comes back. Are you going to give him? Yeah,

1054
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: he would have to go through a lot. He would

1055
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: have to go through.

1056
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 2: I feel like guys just said the precedence. They know

1057
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 2: when they meet you what they want with you. They

1058
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 2: determined what they want exactly.

1059
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: When you break up, do you like delete all the

1060
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: text messages all or do you just let it you?

1061
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 2: Do you give me that I delete you from my memory?

1062
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: I delete you. I'm like, I went to the zoo

1063
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,760
Speaker 1: with you. I'm so removed.

1064
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 2: Anytime someone leaves my life, I'm so removed and I

1065
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 2: feel great.

1066
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: It's weird. I wake up, I'll be like, damn, I

1067
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: feel better. It's like a burden is gone.

1068
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1069
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: I feel like that way about certain like friendships and

1070
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: things like that. When you were friends with somebody and

1071
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: then it was just like, why is this friendship so hard?

1072
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,840
Speaker 1: It's too much drama? And then yeah, I don't necessarily

1073
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 1: delete their stuff, but I will be like, you do

1074
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,399
Speaker 1: wake up feeling and that's how you know it wasn't

1075
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 1: good for you. If you wake up and you feel

1076
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: like refreshed, I'm deleting all that shit. I feel like

1077
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: a lot of.

1078
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 2: People are jealous. You got to make sure you're on

1079
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: the right front. Yeah, yeah, I could see that of

1080
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 2: women are jealous like other women.

1081
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: And nobody wants to believe that too. But it's just

1082
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: like people would tell me that about people and be like, yeah,

1083
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 1: you know, she seems like she's and I'm like, no,

1084
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: that's not true, because I never want to feel like

1085
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 1: anybody would be like that because you're not like that.

1086
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 4: You have to accept that. I found out that I

1087
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 4: had to accept that in about a year ago. I

1088
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:08,959
Speaker 4: ended a friendship with a girl that I was friends

1089
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 4: with for like eight years, and at the end of it,

1090
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 4: I'm like, everybody was right, you know, And I didn't

1091
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 4: want to feel like that because you don't. Yeah, and

1092
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 4: I'm just like your friends.

1093
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: I want to work for my friends and find out

1094
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: they're jealous.

1095
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 4: And it's the single black female, the single white female,

1096
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 4: Like you want to be you one or the other.

1097
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: And you know, when you really know, if you feel

1098
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: like you have to like not talk about your accomplishments

1099
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: and things like that because you don't want them to

1100
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 1: feel bad, you know, if you can't like share stuff

1101
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 1: like that, and.

1102
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 4: You expect for your friends to be there and support

1103
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 4: of your congratulations and there's this.

1104
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: One girl I used to go shopping, right, and so, like,

1105
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 1: say we went to the mall together or something, and

1106
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,800
Speaker 1: I would be buying something. She would be sending like, God, damn,

1107
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: you spend how much? I'm like, since back up, I

1108
00:44:53,920 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 1: haven't the years? Why is she over my shoulder looking

1109
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,879
Speaker 1: at how much I spend? You know what I mean?

1110
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 3: And then I wished that she could spend when I

1111
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 3: had a girlfriend that literally I was dating this guy

1112
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 3: in LA and she would be like, Oh, he's not

1113
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 3: good enough, he's not cute, he's not this.

1114
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 1: And I broke up.

1115
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I broke up with him because she kept convincing

1116
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 2: me he was not cute. Not two weeks later she

1117
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 2: was dating him.

1118
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: Yep, she wanted him. M hm.

1119
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 2: So it's kind of yeah, it's kind of crazy.

1120
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: That is wild. All right. Now, let's go back to

1121
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 1: this new relationship because it's his lip service. So the

1122
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: first time you guys hung out, right, you were at

1123
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:30,479
Speaker 1: the gym, and then you said you spent the whole

1124
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: day together. No, we were at a party. Oh okay,

1125
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 1: you met at the gym, but then went we met

1126
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 1: at gym.

1127
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 2: Party, gym party. It was a ten year University of Okay.

1128
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 4: It was.

1129
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 1: It's gym.

1130
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: It's like a really it's like one of the best

1131
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 2: gyms in Miami where they trained like a lot of

1132
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 2: the NBA players, baseball player, like they trained all the

1133
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 2: pro athletes. And so he had his ten year anniversary.

1134
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 2: I went and met him, and then my friends wanted

1135
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 2: to leave and go to this other dinner and I

1136
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 2: was like, I have to leave, and then they with you.

1137
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 2: He's like, I'm leaving with you. So he left with me,

1138
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 2: and then we just kind of had a night like

1139
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 2: we just went to all these different places, and then

1140
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 2: he wrote me the next day and sent me an

1141
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 2: itinerary of what we were going to do the next day. Oh,

1142
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 2: and then he sent me flowers.

1143
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: He was not playing. I had a schedule. Oh. He

1144
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 1: you know.

1145
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,399
Speaker 2: It's funny because I said, I want to go back

1146
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 2: and read the text messages between us and he sent

1147
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 2: me because I was like, we have such a long thread.

1148
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 2: He found it, like all the messages and it was

1149
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 2: like so cute from day one. And he sent me

1150
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 2: this like itinerary, like I'm picking you up at seven thirty.

1151
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 2: We're going to get drinks here, We're going to this

1152
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 2: piano bar. We have dinner reservations here, and he had

1153
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 2: like a whole night planned for us, and it was

1154
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 2: like the next night.

1155
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: I love it. And it wasn't like where do you

1156
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 1: want to go?

1157
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 3: Right?

1158
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 1: Had the itinerary when.

1159
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 2: He had these flowers and the cards said something like

1160
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 2: you know, like it was like so beautiful, like getting

1161
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 2: to meet you. You're a very special person and like

1162
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 2: all this stuff.

1163
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: That's amazing, Yeah, because it also has to be a

1164
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: little intimidating to talk to you for the average you know,

1165
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 1: for the average person. But he was so on it

1166
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: and kind did he so he didn't have any thing

1167
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: going on in his life that he had to clear

1168
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:03,240
Speaker 1: out either, like girl situation.

1169
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't normally when I meet guys, they kind

1170
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 2: of drop on my own.

1171
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, you gotta go, you gotta go rest

1172
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: in peace.

1173
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1174
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:15,319
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1175
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 2: I kind of you're supposed to give somebody like a

1176
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,959
Speaker 2: little bit of time drop off like the little fly ons.

1177
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 1: Do you want to know those things? Like do you

1178
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 1: would you want him to be?

1179
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 2: Like no, we we were like so open from day

1180
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 2: one because like we would talk about stuff. So like

1181
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 2: the first night we met, like I was in another

1182
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 2: guy's car and he got in my car with the driver.

1183
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 2: And then the night the first night we met, we

1184
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 2: ended up going to this restaurant called Giselle and he

1185
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,720
Speaker 2: said he dated the girl that worked there. Oh wow,

1186
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 2: so we already like it was like from the very beginning,

1187
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 2: I was like, by the way, the security that's not

1188
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 2: really mine, that's this guy.

1189
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: That's a great foundation though, to like from the beginning,

1190
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 1: just kind of lay it out there, because.

1191
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 4: We have to realize that life doesn't start when you

1192
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,920
Speaker 4: meet somebody. We are always say you have somebody in

1193
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 4: everybody has somebody in some capacity.

1194
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 1: Rather it's a talking stage.

1195
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 4: Rather it's an x that you're still lingering on with,

1196
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,359
Speaker 4: whether it's dick in the box, you know, breaking case

1197
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 4: in versity, no matter the case, Like, we always just

1198
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 4: have somebody that we're just that is present. So it's like,

1199
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,319
Speaker 4: when you meet somebody, you do have to take the

1200
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 4: time to Okay, if I'm going to move forward with

1201
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 4: this person, I need to end these things. And it's

1202
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,240
Speaker 4: like for him to be so open and you guys

1203
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 4: both to be able to be so open from the

1204
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 4: gate like that, Yeah, that's beautiful. Because people feel like

1205
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 4: they have to hide, you know, and it's just like,

1206
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 4: you had a life before you met me. Your life

1207
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 4: didn't begin with me. There was somebody before me in

1208
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 4: some type of capacity, and that's fine. I don't feel

1209
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 4: like that's something that you should have to hide or like,

1210
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 4: you know.

1211
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:45,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you guys cass on that first the first night? Yeah,

1212
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, that's all right. And he was fun.

1213
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 2: He was like very normal, fun, nice, Like you know

1214
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 2: what's really weird. I feel like when you meet someone

1215
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 2: that you actually like, the way they touch you makes

1216
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 2: you feel good, right, unic stopt and you could be

1217
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 2: with someone that offers you the world and if they

1218
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:01,399
Speaker 2: touch you, you want a crint.

1219
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: You're like discussing me.

1220
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I feel like he always had that, like

1221
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,840
Speaker 2: when you would touch my arm, I was like the chemistry.

1222
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like chemistry.

1223
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 2: It was good from like the day one.

1224
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,280
Speaker 1: Have you ever tried to make something work with somebody

1225
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: that you felt like was good on paper?

1226
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, the forty seven year old was great on paper. Yes,

1227
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 2: it was like he's an NBA coach, like it would

1228
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 2: have been great, Like, you know, it's both of our

1229
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:27,719
Speaker 2: worlds and sheh and it just was not what I

1230
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 2: thought I was gonna be.

1231
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's unfortunate. Yeah, because people would think, like, Okay,

1232
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: that's the NBA coach, he's got a good career, you know,

1233
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: in a space that like you know a lot about

1234
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: that space too. He could have been on the show.

1235
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 2: Oh No, we literally, like I feel like our conversations

1236
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 2: were about like his games and like you know, it's

1237
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 2: like that kind of conversation, Like I feel like I

1238
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 2: thrive in that community.

1239
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: Right, somebody you know what I'm saying, somebody that he

1240
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: could relate to. Yeah, and I like, like I watched

1241
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: I love watching basketball, but he was Peter Pan and

1242
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 1: he never want to us. Yeah, were you ever asked

1243
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: to be on The Basket Wives?

1244
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? The problem with that show is I talk a

1245
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,280
Speaker 2: lot of ship and I'm sure to get into physical fights.

1246
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 2: You Like, I'm not that's not me, That's what I'm saying.

1247
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: But I'm not.

1248
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 2: No, but I'm saying I do talk like I'd be like,

1249
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 2: well you did say it, and then like you know

1250
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 2: those girls like they like to flip tables and all

1251
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 2: that on my show, we don't really feel.

1252
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 1: I think I'm trying to think how has this season

1253
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: been what a basketball? Yeah, it's the beginning. It was

1254
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: in Miami, wasn't it. Yeah, that's where it started starting

1255
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 1: in Miami. I feel like I might have been around

1256
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 1: for a scene or two. Oh yeah, I'm sorry. And

1257
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: she looks good. I just she still look in a

1258
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: movie recently, she's been acting. What about you? With acting?

1259
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god? They just keep they keep sending me

1260
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 2: these lines. So NBC calls me and they're like, hey,

1261
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 2: do you want to be on this piece cock show?

1262
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 2: And I was like, send me the lines, and they

1263
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,400
Speaker 2: sent me the lines. Girl, I can't memory. It's nothing.

1264
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:07,240
Speaker 1: I'm so bad.

1265
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 2: And I was on for a week and then I

1266
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 2: called like my NBC person and I was like, I

1267
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:12,800
Speaker 2: don't think I can.

1268
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,880
Speaker 1: Do this type of character. Is it?

1269
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:16,879
Speaker 2: It was like a normal It was like a normal role,

1270
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 2: Like I should have been able to do it right,

1271
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:21,319
Speaker 2: But I like had myself on ten. I was dressed out,

1272
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 2: and then I wanted to cancel, and then finally I didn't.

1273
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:23,879
Speaker 1: I was so bad.

1274
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 2: Then a week ago, I get another opportunity to do

1275
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 2: a movie with Kevin Hart and it was like a

1276
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 2: kissing scene. So I screenshot and I sent it to

1277
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 2: Jeff and I was like, what do you think of this?

1278
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 2: And Jeff's like yeah, right. So then I was like,

1279
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 2: no more, I care more about my relationship making him

1280
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 2: feel good than I do about some role because you know,

1281
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 2: I'm not going I'm not Anne Hathaway. I'm not going

1282
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 2: to be like Denzel anytime soon. So why am I

1283
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 2: going to invest in that when I have like a

1284
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 2: really good situation with him?

1285
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: So with the meditation, you said, he's been kind of

1286
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 1: teaching you about that and here.

1287
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 2: Are journals and like he's really smart, like he I

1288
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 2: feel like maybe because he's like his family's really smart too.

1289
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 2: Dad's an engineers that as a tech company.

1290
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:05,439
Speaker 1: Oh that's amazing. Yeah, it's a whole different like yeah

1291
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: type of space for you to be into.

1292
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,359
Speaker 2: No, he's like very analytical.

1293
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: See that's what we all need relationships that kind of

1294
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: compliment us, but that we could learn things from He

1295
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: can learn things from you and you can learn things

1296
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: from him. But he also plays basketball, right or he did?

1297
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 2: Yeah he did play years.

1298
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: Okay, he played seven years overseas and now he's in

1299
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: this other space because I saw he's done interviews and

1300
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: everything about his book and about meditation and all of that.

1301
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 1: So when it comes to is that different, Like I know,

1302
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, tanti sex is a real thing.

1303
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 2: Like I'm not talking about more sex scenes. I'm just saying,

1304
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 2: like I feel like they ask me about this all

1305
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 2: the time. I'm like, I can't talk about this.

1306
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: But you know, sometimes it's not actually sex, it's more

1307
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 1: like a connection. And yeah, well I.

1308
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 2: Don't know what you call it, but I do it,

1309
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:54,919
Speaker 2: and I.

1310
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: Do it well. I just wonder as we're getting older,

1311
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 1: how to like what are there new things to learn

1312
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: when it comes to the bedroom. You know, chandeliers, No,

1313
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: do you do a split mid air? I can't do

1314
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: a split even on the floor.

1315
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 2: You got to learn how to do that. I'm just kidding, kidding,

1316
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.

1317
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 1: But I do think that different people unlock different things

1318
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 1: in you. Yeah, for sure, absolutely, you know, like us,

1319
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: when I sleep, like I can cuddle all night sleeping,

1320
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,760
Speaker 1: I've never really been like that before.

1321
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 2: You know what's interesting. I feel like when I was

1322
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 2: in other relationships, I could never sleep with guys. I

1323
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,879
Speaker 2: just couldn't sleep. I would be like had I gotta

1324
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:35,359
Speaker 2: go home or you gotta leave, or like I could

1325
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 2: never sleep and with Jeff, I sleep like a log. Yeah,

1326
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 2: it's just like I'm really comfortable.

1327
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: They said, if you fall asleep fast, but the person

1328
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: you're with, that's like a real chemistry thing, Like if

1329
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 1: you okay, do.

1330
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 2: You want to hear what happened to us on our

1331
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 2: way coming here? You guys, we flew commercial and our

1332
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 2: first light we got on, we were both so tired,

1333
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 2: was like us seven am flight. We fall asleep, and

1334
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 2: then the flight attendant says, hey, you guys have to

1335
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 2: get off the plane and we're switching planes because there

1336
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 2: was a problem, mechanical problem with the plane. We're thinking

1337
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 2: we landed, we get up. I'm like, even take off yet, No,

1338
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 2: we ain't even took off.

1339
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: Then we get off.

1340
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,760
Speaker 2: We a girl recognizes me as we're like walking off, She's.

1341
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: Like, I love Housewives.

1342
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, thinks we go sit on the chairs.

1343
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 2: We fall asleep, almost missed our flight. The girl that

1344
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 2: watched Housewives came over and touched us and she was like,

1345
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 2: don't miss.

1346
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I thank God for God.

1347
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 2: Can you imagine if I had to call like bra

1348
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 2: and be like me and my man fell asleep in

1349
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 2: here again. So the moral of the story is where

1350
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:39,760
Speaker 2: we sleep together?

1351
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:44,319
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, together at the airport. So you guys, do

1352
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:45,319
Speaker 1: you live together now?

1353
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 2: We stayed and he stays with me along.

1354
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, you know I was watching what show was it?

1355
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,440
Speaker 1: Maybe it was Real Housewives where it was no, no, no,

1356
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: it was Married to Medicine where they had to figure

1357
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: out who was going to move into whose house? Because

1358
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: that's awesome a thing, right, because like, sometimes men don't

1359
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 1: want to move into your house, but you might love

1360
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 1: your house and be like, you know.

1361
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 2: I think Whoever's house is the biggest, that's where you go.

1362
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: We got to do a square footage.

1363
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, Whoever's house is biggest, that's where you go.

1364
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:12,759
Speaker 1: But you wouldn't want to give up your house either.

1365
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:15,720
Speaker 1: I would. You would if you If.

1366
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:17,799
Speaker 2: You're gonna buy me a twenty million dollar house, I'm going.

1367
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 1: And that's why they love hate if not that we

1368
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 1: can live in my house. Well, I love the fact

1369
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: that you have so much going on just outside of

1370
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: being on television. That's a great way to amplify your businesses.

1371
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: I'm glad that the tequila has launched because I know

1372
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: they was talking about you on the show. I can't

1373
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 1: wait to.

1374
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 2: Try you you know, it's funny the people that talk

1375
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 2: the most or people that have nothing going on.

1376
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: Ex Clockett.

1377
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm so booked and busy and.

1378
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 4: I don't have time to talk about anybody else, right,

1379
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 4: I'm trying to figure my own shit out, right.

1380
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 2: Like YouTube looking cute, you're good, Like I'm like, I'm good.

1381
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: And then date dot com right now, everybody can go

1382
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 1: date dot com. KMA, right, we're gonna get you. So

1383
00:55:58,120 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: y'all heard it because Jordan is gonna be on there.

1384
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 1: So anybody who's listening if you want to date, but

1385
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:05,479
Speaker 1: you already heard the rules, do not waste their time,

1386
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: all right, And anything else that we need to know about.

1387
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 2: No, I feel like that's it. I think we talked

1388
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 2: about my large slight mm hmm, my tequila, Lujo day

1389
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 2: dot com. Okay, yeah, all good things. It's all good,

1390
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 2: positive things.

1391
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: Well.

1392
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:22,439
Speaker 4: I started watching the new season because I am an

1393
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 4: avid Housewives the entire franchise.

1394
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 1: I don't miss a beat.

1395
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:28,359
Speaker 4: And I just started watching the new season and I'm

1396
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 4: so excited to see how everything plays out because the

1397
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 4: first I done got through the first episode so far,

1398
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 4: but it got me. I'm ready for more. So I

1399
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 4: can't wait to see how like everything happens. And I

1400
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 4: just want to say that I'm happy for you and

1401
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 4: your relationship, and you know, I just want to hear

1402
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 4: more good things about it.

1403
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 1: I'm watching. He seems like a really nice guy from

1404
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:50,799
Speaker 1: what we know, so no, he really is. So he'll

1405
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: be on this, you know.

1406
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 2: When I say him all the time, I'm like, you know,

1407
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 2: if if you weren't my boyfriend, I would still want

1408
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 2: to be like I like like you as a person, Like.

1409
00:56:57,920 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 3: I really like him as a person. I like you

1410
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:03,320
Speaker 3: as a human being. Yeah, like I really a good feeling, right.

1411
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just like he's a great person, Like I

1412
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 2: don't you know the things he likes. Like the other

1413
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 2: day I called him and he was at his parents' house.

1414
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 2: He was like, oh, I'm teaching Cora multiplication, like he

1415
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 2: was teaching his niece multiplication.

1416
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 1: Because kids don't know that no more. I was like,

1417
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 1: I love that, right. They don't know cursive, they don't

1418
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 1: know how to do long division. They don't you think

1419
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 1: you would write your book too, girl?

1420
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 2: If I wrote a book, I would take out I

1421
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 2: would take out lives. What book am I writing?

1422
00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: I don't know your memoir. You could change the names, no.

1423
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 2: Because I feel like I don't really like to put

1424
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 2: my business out there like that.

1425
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 1: It could be like a Devilwares proud of type of

1426
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:39,160
Speaker 1: book that's based on real things the characters.

1427
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, right now, I don't know. I

1428
00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 2: feel like it's like people judge you for you know

1429
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:47,800
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, your.

1430
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: Stuff, okay, And I don't know.

1431
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 2: I feel like I could judge enough.

1432
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm good, Okay, I'm just saying I lasted pipp and

1433
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:58,919
Speaker 1: book I would read that. We all would bestseller for sure.

1434
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 2: I mean maybe one day you guys can help me

1435
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 2: write it.

1436
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 1: You can help me write it. Yeah, no, listen, I'm

1437
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: telling you right now because I was just thinking he

1438
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: has his memoir out. But I also feel like as

1439
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 1: much as you might think that people would judge you,

1440
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: people can also relate to you in certain ways and

1441
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: also hear your side of the story when it comes

1442
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: to certain things, and why not put it in a

1443
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 1: book and profit orpital like tell the truth and if

1444
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 1: it's not true, somebody would have to try to see you,

1445
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 1: but they can't.

1446
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 2: If it's true, trust me, I only speak the truth.

1447
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: So my God she's the vault. We appreciate that well,

1448
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Last, so we always love having

1449
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 1: you know around. Yeah, you're a good time. So are you. Guys.

1450
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 2: I love meeting you. I love meeting you. Guys are adorable.

1451
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 1: It's lip service.