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Speaker 1: I'm Debbie Brown and this is the Deeply Well Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Deeply Well, a soft place to land in

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Speaker 1: your journey. A podcast for those that are curious, creative,

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Speaker 1: This is where we heal, this is where we transcend.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to the show. I'm Debbie Brown. So excited

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I love that. I something that was

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Speaker 1: That's what is to me is so powerful about this

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00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: system because it's it's giving you a real understanding to

437
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: be in practice. With so if you are, told, hey

438
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: you're a sacral as, well now you have a little

439
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: more permission and you can say, maybe, hey for the

440
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 1: next few, Days i'm going to just notice instantaneously HOW

441
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,439
Speaker 1: i Feel, yeah whether or NOT i choose that, whatever,

442
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: totally but keep following the train of information that reveiels

443
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 1: itself based on the.

444
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 3: Decision, Yes AND i think that is such an important

445
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 3: point because human design is an amazing. Experiment like my

446
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 3: encouragement is, like try, it see what, happens you, know

447
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 3: see if it feels like a trustworthy compass for.

448
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: You, yeah you.

449
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 3: Know my experience is, that like when people, experiment they're,

450
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 3: like oh my, god this is so, useful but like

451
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 3: it is worth experimenting with and see if it actually

452
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 3: feels true in your own. Life SOMETHING i so often

453
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 3: say about human design is it doesn't actually really matter

454
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 3: to me whether it's. True it matters whether it's, useful you.

455
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 3: Know and so just like taking these pieces to experiment.

456
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: With.

457
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 3: Yeah another piece THAT i think is really interesting for,

458
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 3: you and it's true for actually all generators and manifesting,

459
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 3: generators is that your, strategy which is the piece that

460
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 3: speaks to how you best create, opportunities is about. Responding

461
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 3: it means that you are somebody who's very naturally. Magnetic

462
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 3: you aren't really meant to chase after. Much you're meant

463
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 3: to kind of really use your energy in ways that

464
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 3: feel satisfying and then see what that shows up in

465
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 3: your world and what your body naturally responds. To once

466
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,640
Speaker 3: you get that gut, response you can like go pursue

467
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 3: and make that thing happen so. Powerfully but it's waiting

468
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 3: for that, response which is hard because it might be,

469
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 3: like say you're an entrepreneur and like there's space and you're,

470
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 3: Like i've got to come up with a new. Offering

471
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 3: it's actually not about like being at home and like

472
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 3: writing it down and like seeing what. Comes it's about

473
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 3: like seeing what shows up in your world and what.

474
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 3: Sparks is there something a client mentions that really. Resonates

475
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 3: is it like seeing another coach that has something that

476
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 3: you feel inspired to? Create it is that like listening to

477
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 3: a podcast that sparks a new, Idea like you are

478
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 3: here to like see what sparks that gut. Response and

479
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 3: WHEN i love so much about this strategy is that

480
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,199
Speaker 3: it can often take you in very unexpected. Directions you

481
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 3: might meet someone or encounter something that sparks the gut

482
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 3: response that you did not expect and yet it's. There

483
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 3: and so for, you it's about following those you, know

484
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 3: those bread.

485
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: Crumbs, YEAH i resonate with that so. Much. Yeah, yes

486
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: something that was interesting for me and learning that about

487
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: myself was it felt so counterintuitive to the BELIEFS i

488
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: had about, myself specifically as someone that like started working

489
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,239
Speaker 1: two jobs around sixteen and just like worked like a

490
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: work course for a lot of. Years so much so

491
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 1: much of me was wrapped up in really just kind

492
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 1: of some of the common advice of the time of my,

493
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: generation right, like you're going, hard you're working, hard you're

494
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 1: forcing get you push, through and you make that you

495
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: make it. Happen and it's JUST i found that ANYTIME

496
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 1: i ever have to do, that it's not actually what's for.

497
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: Me it always ends up the wrong. Thing AND i

498
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: remember there's this THING i heard once that Jel ostein

499
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: staid where it was Like god might let it happen

500
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,199
Speaker 1: if you keep working towards, it but there won't be

501
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 1: any grace for. It AND i think about that a

502
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: lot WHEN i don't follow the, truth which is really

503
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: deeply rooted in receiving and waiting for things to. Come

504
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:03,439
Speaker 1: that is so absolutely spot, On LIKE i can have a,

505
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: FEELING i can have an, idea BUT i found it's

506
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 1: very important for me to actually be patient and not

507
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 1: over the, top pursue the idea until it shows up

508
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: at my, door until it shows up for. Me and

509
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: that Was, yeah that's hard because that is not the

510
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 1: same as a lot of PEOPLE i. Know so sometimes

511
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: people can perceive that is like not going after, things

512
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: but it's more ABOUT i found a path of like

513
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 1: you really trust your life and like you really surrender

514
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: and you. Prepare i'm prepared for whatever, moment but it

515
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: shows up and THEN i respond.

516
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 3: Accordingly and it really is around timing. Too it's, like

517
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 3: and you, know my husband has this And i'm always

518
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 3: so amazed by his patients or have like a brilliant

519
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 3: idea And i'm, like make it, happen you, know and

520
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 3: he's just like not, No he's, like when the time is,

521
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 3: RIGHT i, will but it could be in ten years,

522
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 3: Yeah AND i was like, wow but like it's so.

523
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 1: True.

524
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 3: Yeah it's like if you force it before the time is,

525
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 3: right before they gut feeling is, there like it just

526
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 3: might not work out in all the ways that it's meant,

527
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 3: to but like at the right, time when the energy

528
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 3: is there for, it it can probably take on in

529
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 3: a whole other.

530
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 1: Life, yeah with all the people that you've worked with

531
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: over the. YEARS i, mean have you, seen like we're

532
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: talking hundreds of thousands of. Charts have you seen every

533
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: configuration there is to? Offer? No, no not?

534
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,719
Speaker 3: Possible? WOW i mean it's crazy because you know you

535
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 3: have your blueprint guide AND i know you have one

536
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,239
Speaker 3: for your son to just that guide which does not

537
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 3: cover every single piece of the chart because there's no

538
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 3: way To are there four hundred thousand possible versions of that? Guide?

539
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 3: Wow so it's just like it's the configurations are. Endless

540
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 3: that's another thing THAT i think makes human design the, Distinct,

541
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 3: yeah is that it's not really a thing where you're, like,

542
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 3: oh we have the same, Design like we might have

543
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 3: the same, type we might share the same strategy or

544
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 3: make decisions in a similar, way but the nuance is

545
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 3: just keep. Going.

546
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah it's really. Crazy it's kind Of i'm sure

547
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 1: that feels. Exciting, Yeah like it's just like it's an

548
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: endless kind of. Inspiration, yeah with like seeing so many

549
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: though DIFFERENT i guess kinds of designs and makeups of,

550
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: people do you ever tend to see and maybe this

551
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: even happens like within certain pockets of, Generations but do

552
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: you tend to see any particular patterns that might carry

553
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: through or particular breakthroughs that might carry.

554
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 3: Through there are definitely, themes you, know because people will

555
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 3: like share kind of qualities of their chart for a,

556
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 3: while or things will be activated for a. While it

557
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 3: was really interesting when my seven month old was born

558
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 3: because like basically like all the kiddos that month were

559
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 3: like all. Manifestors, WOW i was like usually the type

560
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 3: of like you, KNOW i can't say that For, suore

561
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 3: but like every single TYPE i looked up for a long,

562
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 3: time it was like all manifestors and all my friends

563
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 3: with kids around that time of manifestor. Kiddos so, like

564
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 3: it is just really interesting to kind of watch the

565
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 3: patterns of like even different types coming. Through, yeah you,

566
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 3: know in ways that just feel like why so many

567
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,479
Speaker 3: manifestors right? Now like why people that are here to

568
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 3: like disrupt and change and, Innovate like why is that?

569
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 3: Needed you? Know SO i MEAN i think we probably

570
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 3: know why that's needed in our own, ways BUT i

571
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 3: think that it is really interesting to kind of see

572
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 3: those different patterns of like who's needed at different times

573
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 3: and whether That, yeah what fascinate the reason is behind? That,

574
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,959
Speaker 3: yeah And i'm latoria obviously have any different ave, answer

575
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 3: but it's interesting to see the patterns.

576
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: Makes a lot of sense for alpha, generation that is for. Sure, yeah,

577
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: yeah what the world is kind of walking into and

578
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: totally when they come of, age what kind of place

579
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: this might be and what they'll need to know how to.

580
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: Do and, Yeah so in your book you include some

581
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: examples of iconic, figures which are also some of my

582
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: personal favorite muses of all, time Like Maya, Angelou, Nelson Mandela.

583
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: Beyonce can you share any specific insights or stories you

584
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: have around those?

585
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 3: Icons, YEAH i think you, know this is something that

586
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,719
Speaker 3: didn't come until later in the. Process you know this

587
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 3: as an, author how things keep. Changing but, basically like

588
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 3: two months out before my manuscript was, due we decided

589
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 3: to begin each chapter with a story of some celebrity

590
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 3: or well known figure and talk about how their design

591
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 3: had showed up in their. Life and it was so

592
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 3: fun BECAUSE i got to go down all these rabbit

593
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 3: holes of these people THAT i really admire and was,

594
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 3: like what did this actually show? Up like can you see?

595
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 3: It AND i mean the moments are so, amazing you.

596
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 3: Know Nelson mandela used him to pick in the chapter on.

597
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 3: PROJECTORS i think there's an amazing story of him being

598
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 3: on a small airplane with you, know somebody who helped

599
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 3: write his, biography and like the plane starts, shaking like

600
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 3: the propeller literally stops, moving and this, GUY i think

601
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 3: his name Is Richard, stengel like goes to the pilot

602
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 3: and he's, like the propeller has. Stopped what do we?

603
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 3: Do and Like Nelson mandela is just like sitting there so,

604
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 3: calmly like picks up his, newspaper like keeps, reading and

605
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 3: like he was just like this man was like the

606
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 3: most inspiring. Leader you, know he brought home when like

607
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 3: everybody else was scared or when there was, chaos and

608
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 3: so like he just really embodies kind of the subtle

609
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 3: wisdom and leadership of. PROJECTORS i think That Maya. ANGELA

610
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 3: i used her to begin the chapter on, manifestors and

611
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 3: she's obviously just like an iconic manifestor because she was

612
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 3: the first in so many ways for so many. Things

613
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 3: for this, STORY i tell of hers which was fifteen

614
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 3: and kind of her first job and how she found

615
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 3: her way to That. Beyonce the STORY i actually use

616
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 3: for her is to introduce the chapter on sacred authority

617
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 3: like you have and it basically is like and it

618
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 3: actually is funny talking about the book and how you

619
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 3: did things because so much of sacred authority is like

620
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 3: following what feels, right even when it like, goes you,

621
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 3: know when it's not what anyone else is. Recommending and you,

622
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 3: know there's like a way that people tend to drop,

623
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 3: albums and LIKE i tell the story of her dropping

624
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 3: In albahigue was twenty, thirteen where like there was no

625
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 3: is she just oh, yeah she was like there you,

626
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 3: go like there's so AND i think that it was

627
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 3: and it raced the, internet but she broke the internet

628
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 3: and it was very much like you read her reflections

629
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 3: on that time and it was just very much like

630
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 3: this is what felt right to, me and this is

631
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 3: like WHAT i wanted to, do so like it was so,

632
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 3: yeah it was really fun to kind of dig into

633
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 3: these people and just see obviously LIKE i don't think

634
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 3: they know their human. Design i'm guessing they, don't but

635
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 3: like the magic of human design is that when people

636
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 3: are living in, alignment they're just.

637
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: It, yeah you just observe, it you.

638
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 3: Know Gloria signum is another STORY i tell the, Manifesto

639
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 3: like who was another amazing example of somebody just like

640
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 3: initiating and bringing change and doing something, new you. Know

641
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 3: Ru PAUL i tell a story of like he's a

642
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 3: projector and it's like how his whole career began through this,

643
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 3: invitation which is like the core thing for all. Projectors so,

644
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 3: anyways it was one of my favorite parts to kind

645
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 3: of research and.

646
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: Explore oh my, GOSH i love that so. Much i'm

647
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: so fascinated by things like. That, also just small shout

648
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: out To Nelson. MANDELA i actually named my son after,

649
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: Him no, way my. Name my son's middle name Is,

650
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: mandela because, yeah so, much so much about his life

651
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: and the paradox of it and, yeah just what it

652
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 1: would take to lead after going through what he went,

653
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: through lead with a message of love like it's just. Found,

654
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: yeah one of.

655
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 3: The greatest of all. Times, yeah you know. Who the

656
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 3: generator example Is Lebron, james WHICH i feel like is

657
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 3: such an amazing example for generators because generators are like

658
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 3: their passion is so contagious and they're so masterful and

659
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 3: so steady and like you look at you, know and

660
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 3: it's at the moment when he like became the highest

661
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 3: scoring player and all of THE, nba and like it's just,

662
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 3: yeah he's such a great example of like what happens

663
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 3: when you combine this like powerful dedication and commitment with

664
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 3: it's like overflowing. Passion.

665
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, god it his. Life like when when history really

666
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: looks back at, it you, know with some, space it's

667
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: going to be like what totally the things he's accomplished

668
00:34:56,480 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: like death obviously obviously in, sports but, outside, like, yeah

669
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 1: the things that he does for the, community for, people

670
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: for the, world for, children it's just like. BREATHTAKING i,

671
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 1: know he's. Amazing, Wow yeah it. Is, yeah this whole

672
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: LANGUAGE i love. Too it's LIKE i feel LIKE i

673
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: really live my. Design and that's such a good feeling,

674
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: because as you've described, it it's just the feeling of

675
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 1: being in. Alignment, yeah where you're picking on to things you're, like,

676
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: OH i knew to do, that and actually, wow it

677
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: says you know that that might be something good for. Me.

678
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 3: YEAH i feel like people can have these different experiences

679
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 3: discovering their. Design one is a really affirming experience of like, oh,

680
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 3: Yeah i'm already doing. This i'm so GLAD i. Learned

681
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 3: and then there's also a very confronting experience of, Like

682
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 3: i'm living everything opposite of, that which was my experience

683
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 3: discovering my. Design so there's. Real, yeah my, GOD i

684
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 3: was so far from my projector nature and it, was

685
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 3: but it felt so true everything THAT i heard, that you,

686
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 3: know human design gave me the tools to find my

687
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 3: way into a way of operating that felt more. Certainly

688
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 3: so it does. Both BUT i see people across the

689
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 3: spectrum experiencing.

690
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: Deeply, well, well, NOW i know you've worked with some

691
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 1: big companies with this. Work how does that process happen

692
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: being able to apply that in the, workplace like you've

693
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: worked With, meta With, amazon With. Unilever what are some

694
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 1: changes that you see kind of in that bigger collective

695
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:31,840
Speaker 1: when they adopt some of this.

696
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 3: Awareness you, KNOW i think that it's honestly like a

697
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 3: similar principle to parenting and. RELATIONSHIPS i think that things

698
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 3: can get really confusing when we expect someone to be

699
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 3: different than what they. Are but when you understand how somebody,

700
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 3: operates things become, easier especially in teams like you, KNOW

701
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 3: i came from WHEN i discovered human design in twenty,

702
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 3: FIFTEEN i came from the startup world AND i was

703
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 3: working with a number of startups that were amazing and

704
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 3: also dysfunctional because it felt like people just didn't understand each.

705
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 3: Other and so the first APPLICATION i saw for human

706
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 3: design was, like this can be used as a tool

707
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 3: to help teams understand each other. Better that was WHY

708
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 3: i got into it in the first. Place AND i

709
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 3: think What i've noticed with time is it really does

710
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 3: that you sit with people and you can tell them

711
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 3: very you, know, practically and, Like, okay this person might

712
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 3: enjoy less, meetings they might need a lot more space

713
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 3: to be in their own. Flow this person might really enjoy.

714
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 3: Collaboration this person like does really well when they're invited.

715
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,959
Speaker 3: In this person needs specific, questions you. Know this person

716
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 3: needs to mold things. Over this person is really instantaneous

717
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 3: in their. Clarity, so you, know the way THAT i

718
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 3: frame it in companies especially is very much, like let

719
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 3: this spark a, conversation aroound how we operate, best instead

720
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 3: of like you must. RESONATE i think it's a really

721
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 3: nice opportunity to kind of think about how you operate.

722
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 3: Best BUT i think WHAT i notice with teams is

723
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 3: that when those inner personal dynamics are kind of brought

724
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,439
Speaker 3: to light in a really, clear explicit. Way it makes

725
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,879
Speaker 3: working together so much easier because it feels like they're

726
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 3: able to kind of leverage each other's gifts in a

727
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: way that is, great you, know and LIKE i sat

728
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 3: with a team last, Week i've sat with them for many.

729
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 3: Years it's a bakery that's like enfranchising right. Now and

730
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,879
Speaker 3: THE ceo is a, manifestor and manifestors are really good

731
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 3: at like getting new ideas, started but not always great

732
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 3: at sustaining that idea they've. Created and their gift is kickstarting.

733
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 3: Ideas that's an amazing. Gift and it was so funny

734
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 3: hearing her reflection on, it because she's, Like, GOD i

735
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,720
Speaker 3: start so many. THINGS i feel so much guilt around

736
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 3: the fact THAT i just like my energy, DWINDOWS i

737
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 3: can't finish. Them but within a team, context it was

738
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 3: just really clear, that like her gift was, starting you,

739
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 3: know other people could support her the. Finishing and so

740
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 3: in a moment like, that she was, like, oh LIKE

741
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 3: i can, actually like that is a gift on its,

742
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 3: OWN i can just do.

743
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 1: That, yeah that's enough, enough exactly what you should be. Doing.

744
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 3: TOTALLY i love.

745
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: That that's so, Interesting, yeah BECAUSE i mean that IS

746
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 1: i think the workplace especially is where you, know all

747
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 1: of our spiritual curriculum sometimes goes to die if we're

748
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: not working through, it or if we haven't worked through

749
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: it with our. Family like it just always shows up

750
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: in some way, form you, know at, work and work

751
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: is also like the capital of, Comparison like it's just

752
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: where the nature of it. Is you're surrounded by, that

753
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 1: and so to lean into your actual strengths and. Creativity

754
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 1: it's you, know, yeah it's, no it's no small. Thing

755
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: it's pretty, revolutionary it, is you.

756
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 3: Know AND i THINK i also expected a lot of

757
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 3: skepticism from. Teams, yeah BUT i just feel like a

758
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 3: lot of people are like just they want to know about,

759
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 3: themselves you, Know and LIKE i feel like even the most,

760
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 3: resistant skeptical people tend to love it the most because they're,

761
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,359
Speaker 3: like it's undeniably.

762
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 1: Helpful.

763
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:41,280
Speaker 3: Yea as much AS i don't want to believe, it

764
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 3: it feels true to, me and it feels specific to,

765
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 3: me and it feels useful to, me you. Know SO

766
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 3: i think it's such a cool team and it's such

767
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,240
Speaker 3: a cool tool in, workplaces and, honestly like human, design

768
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 3: as you, know is a little bit wild and like

769
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 3: all the things that it can, do and with teams

770
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 3: you can actually like layer everybody's charts on top of

771
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 3: each other start to see where the gaps might, be

772
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 3: WHICH i find incredibly useful because, wow you can with

773
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 3: a team when there's a, gap like all the energy

774
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 3: goes towards filling this, gap and when you realize like

775
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 3: you just need another person that will feel, that it

776
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 3: just it really tends to like shed light on these

777
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 3: like mechanics in a way that is really.

778
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: Helpful it's so, interesting AND i definitely highly encourage those

779
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: listening that may have your own small business or your

780
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 1: own team of whatever, size but especially if you are

781
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: building a team and you're an, entrepreneur it can be

782
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: really powerful to do some of this as as team,

783
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: building as understanding how to build your, empire how to

784
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: build the. Thing, okay last we go back to your. Design,

785
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: yes tell me THAT i.

786
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 3: Realized we got far from, it AND i was, LIKE

787
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 3: i felt bad BECAUSE i want you to hear about your. Design,

788
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 3: okay let me tell you a little bit. MORE i

789
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 3: your six to two, profile which you, know BUT i

790
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: love this about. YOU i have the same. Profile you

791
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 3: guys can look up your, thought human design blueprint dot.

792
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 3: Com and this will be true For i'll talk about

793
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 3: the six verst it's true for anyone with a six

794
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 3: in their. Profile you, know you are somebody obviously through

795
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 3: what you. Do you're a very natural role. Model you're

796
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 3: somebody who's meant to inspire, people not always because of

797
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 3: like the things you, say but just because of like

798
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 3: who you. Are like your authenticity is meant to be

799
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 3: such a PERMISSION slp for others to also be. Authentic

800
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 3: and the best part is that it's meant to keep getting.

801
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 3: Better oh for. You, really the first thirty years we're

802
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 3: meant to be trod ericor you, know like hard hard.

803
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 3: Time it's just like the time to throw everything against the,

804
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 3: wall not a time to figure much of it. Out

805
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 3: maybe to, fifty where you are right now is a

806
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 3: time where things might settle a little. Bit and by,

807
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 3: settle like there's probably still going to be plenty of,

808
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,240
Speaker 3: change but there's just heightened clarity around what is actually

809
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 3: worth your energy and what's. Not, YEAH i do find you,

810
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 3: KNOW i don't think you're forty, yet, RIGHT i will be.

811
00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 3: Soon SO i find that the forties are such a

812
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 3: full time for these people because they just become like

813
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 3: intolerant of anything that's like not fully. Aligned you're probably

814
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 3: in that.

815
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 1: Moment it's so.

816
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 3: Intolerant BUT i just like WHENEVER i so in their

817
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 3: forties in this moment and they're just like not, this not,

818
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 3: this And i'm like this is as somebody who's in

819
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,399
Speaker 3: my thirties right, Now i'm just LIKE i love these,

820
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 3: people Like i'm ready TO i. CAN i can integrate it.

821
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 1: Now.

822
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 3: Yeah but then the third phase for you is fifty and,

823
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 3: beyond and that's meant to be the time that you

824
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 3: really hit your. Prime and it's like because you just

825
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 3: like become yourself like in like such a, rooted embodied.

826
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 3: Way and these, people LIKE i find their words have

827
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 3: so much gravity they speak and everyone just kind of

828
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 3: stop them. Listen.

829
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: Wow.

830
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 3: Wow the two in your profile is around the fact

831
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 3: that you're very naturally, hermetic so time and space alone

832
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 3: is an essential need of. Yours oh my, gosh aloof,

833
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 3: yeah and that the gifts you carry are sometimes. Inexplicable

834
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 3: you just have like your own way of doing things

835
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 3: that is just like the de wi, way you, know

836
00:42:58,200 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 3: in a way that like you might not always be

837
00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 3: to but how you do what you, do but it just. Works,

838
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 3: yeah and so for, you it's not really leaning into

839
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 3: the ways that feel easeful and natural to knowing they're

840
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 3: the perfect way for you resonates very, deeply very very very.

841
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 3: DEEPLY i share one more, Piece, okay are you? READY

842
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 3: i think. So, Well i'm just you, Know i'm selfishly

843
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,399
Speaker 3: sharing by the pieces THAT i also share my. Design oh,

844
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 3: okay two more pieces and Then i'll be. Done so

845
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 3: there's another part of your design that's around the fact

846
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 3: that you are somebody who we call it a freak

847
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 3: to genius in human, design which is obviously a weird,

848
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 3: names but it means that you are here to kind

849
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 3: of explore pretty far, out cutting edge ideas and you've

850
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,720
Speaker 3: got an ability to really kind of simplify complex ideas

851
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 3: in a way that makes them palatable to a lot more.

852
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 3: People and a big lesson for. You but do you

853
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 3: resonate with? THAT i so resonate with.

854
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 2: That.

855
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 3: Yeah another a big lesson for you is around the

856
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 3: fact that things that might seem really obvious to you

857
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 3: are not obvious to other. People oh my, god so,

858
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 3: yeah so so.

859
00:43:58,600 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 2: Much.

860
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 3: Yeah journey is, like how CAN i make the things.

861
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 3: Obvious not let me not assume that they're. Obvious how

862
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 3: CAN i communicate them in a way that makes them make?

863
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: Sense oh my, god that part has BEEN i, think,

864
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: yeah like an ongoing thing for me to study and

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Speaker 1: observe in myself BECAUSE i, think, YEAH i, mean from

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Speaker 1: the vast majority of my, LIFE i used to feel

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Speaker 1: so frustrated with, humans with human beings in, general BECAUSE

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Speaker 1: i DIDN'T i thought everyone knew WHAT i. KNEW i

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Speaker 1: thought everyone saw the world exactly HOW i see, it

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Speaker 1: and they were just refusing to be better or refusing

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Speaker 1: to make a better choice or you, know and so

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00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: it would just WHEN i was, younger was, frustrating LIKE

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00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: i felt like everyone was like the world was playing

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00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: a joke on, me THAT i could see things so

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Speaker 1: clearly or understand like the good choice or the better

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00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: way of doing. It, yeah AND i felt that everyone

877
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: on purpose was trying to make my life TO i,

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00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,720
Speaker 1: know this sounds, insane Doesn't but then kind of learning

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Speaker 1: that it's changed me because it's definitely one showed Me

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00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:09,800
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00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: biggest gift THAT i could take away from. It it's, like,

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00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 1: no this isn't about being. Frustrated you have this understanding

883
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 1: because you're meant to share it or you're meant to

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00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 1: help other people connect maybe to a bigger thought or

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00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 1: a more expanded. Way but UNTIL i got, that life

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00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 1: felt really. Frustrating it felt really. Frustrating it's, like you,

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00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: know it's like the saying of, like you, know common

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00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: sense isn't. Common it's like imagining that everyone else sees

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00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: it and gets, it and they're, like, oh no they.

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Speaker 1: Don't but that doesn't have to be a bad. Thing,

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00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: no they're not wrong for that. Totally it's just so

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00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: release your frustration and sometimes just hold your. Tongue just, know,

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00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 1: Hey i'm seeing it this. WAY i don't have to

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00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: do anything with that information or know when it's time

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00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: to share the, perspective the, site the ability to see

896
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 1: certain things that others.

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00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 3: Don't, yeah AND i think you actually speak to another

898
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 3: really important part of this, gift which is around if

899
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,320
Speaker 3: you share your insights with those that are not, ready

900
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 3: it often will go right over their head and cultivate

901
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,439
Speaker 3: a lot of bitterness in. You, yeah when you wait

902
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,919
Speaker 3: until the invitation is, there and until you have learned

903
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:23,800
Speaker 3: how to simplify it and distill the knowledge in a

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00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 3: way that makes it make. Sense then you're seen as

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00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 3: an absolute. Genius so it's like just waiting for the right,

906
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 3: moment waiting for this simplifying process to, occur you, know

907
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 3: also can ease some of that. Frustration And i'm also

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00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 3: glad you said frustration because we all have aspects in our.

909
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,720
Speaker 3: Design this is support in the book that can reveal

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00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 3: whether we're on or off, track simple and yet useful

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00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 3: for you when you are off, track which honestly happens

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00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 3: for all of. Us off track is not a great

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Speaker 3: word for, that but just like a course direct is,

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Speaker 3: needed is. Frustration, Yeah and like that can jump in small,

915
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 3: ways of, course but when it's strung up in more,

916
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 3: persistent deep, ways it basically is an invitation for you to,

917
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 3: say is there another way to do?

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00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: This oh my? God that has been so life changing for.

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00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,919
Speaker 1: Me like that the simplicity of that of knowing that

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00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 1: frustration versus a feeling of being satisfied is how all, know,

921
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,839
Speaker 1: Right and so it's like now that has kind of

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00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: aligned in my life for the last few. Years where

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Speaker 1: as soon AS i feel, FRUSTRATED i let. Go like

924
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: IF i feel frustration happening around SOMETHING i instantaneously now,

925
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: know let go step, back you, know don't pursue or

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Speaker 1: find find a different, way but create some space around

927
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Speaker 1: all of, it you. Know and that's that's made life

928
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: so much more enjoyable for. Me you, know it feels

929
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 1: so much better to not be harboring this feeling of

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Speaker 1: frustration and just, say, oh that's not the path if

931
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 1: it feels that.

932
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 3: Way, totally, like that's actually information for you to see

933
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 3: if it change is, needed, yeah you, know and just you,

934
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 3: know to give people an experience of the, opposite not the,

935
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Speaker 3: opposite but a different. One for, me it's, bitterness like

936
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Speaker 3: not the recognized or appreciated or seen is the moment

937
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 3: for me to step back and be, like is this

938
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,880
Speaker 3: really the right place for? Me for some people's, angers

939
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 3: kind of feeling disempowered and not free to do what they,

940
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 3: want when they, want how they, want that's true for

941
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 3: manifestors and some people's. Disappointment so, again we will all

942
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Speaker 3: experience all of these, feelings and yet there's one that

943
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 3: tends to like speak to the core of, like, oh

944
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 3: like something about this is not.

945
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, okay last question for you as your book

946
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 1: is getting ready to come into the. World how are

947
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 1: you feeling about this moment in your? Life how are

948
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: you relating to this? Moment?

949
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 3: Oh, man it's harder THAN i thought it'd be this.

950
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 3: MOMENT i think it is in part BECAUSE i have

951
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,439
Speaker 3: two young kiddos AND i feels a little bit two

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00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 3: ful at the. MOMENT i think this whole experience of

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00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 3: writing a book has been a lesson and, render AND

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00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 3: i think we spoke about this a little. BIT i

955
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 3: think THAT i feel Like i've done everything THAT i

956
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 3: can do to create the book THAT i feel LIKE

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Speaker 3: i need to be, written to get it out as

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Speaker 3: much AS i, can and NOW i have to like

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00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 3: let a book take on a life of its. Own

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00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 3: SO i actually feel it really excited to kind of

961
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 3: like set it off to see and let it do

962
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Speaker 3: its own. Thing it feels Like i've Like i've prepared the,

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Speaker 3: ship you, know and now it's out of my. Hands

964
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Speaker 3: SO i actually feel like the leading up is hard

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Speaker 3: BECAUSE i Think i'm really ready to be on the

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Speaker 3: other side of, it WHICH i will be once THIS i,

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Speaker 3: think is. Out BUT i THINK i just like am

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Speaker 3: ready for it to take on its own life and

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Speaker 3: let it go to its own thing in the.

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Speaker 1: World amazing. Congratulation thank you so.

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Speaker 2: Much.

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Speaker 3: OH i have a discout code for your community for

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Speaker 3: the discount code Is Debbie, Yay. Yay thank you so

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Speaker 3: much for.

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Speaker 1: That thank. You and we'll put all that in the

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Speaker 1: show notes, Everyone so we'll put the, website we'll put

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Speaker 1: It aaron your, Book how do You? Choose A Human

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Speaker 1: Design guide to what's best for you at work and

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Speaker 1: THING i invite every guest at the end of the

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Speaker 1: show to share a little soul work with everyone. Listening

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Speaker 1: that can be a favorite, Practice it can be a thought,

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Speaker 1: starter a, prompt a, quote but anything to help integrate

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Speaker 1: what everyone has been listening to in this.

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Speaker 3: Episode, okay CAN i do a question for each?

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Speaker 2: Night?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, SO i think the REFLECTION i would have for,

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00:50:53,880 --> 00:51:00,839
Speaker 3: generators is what in your life right now feels the most, Satisfying,

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00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 3: like what is the thing that you would feel so

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00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 3: glad to have? Done and how can you carve out

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00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 3: space for that this? Week is there a thing that

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Speaker 3: comes to mind for?

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 1: NOW i need to add more pleasure to my. WEEK

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00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: i need to, like, Yeah i'm, busy, busy busy with book. Travel,

1002
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 1: yeah SO i need to get a little more sleep

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Speaker 1: While i'm. Home and THEN i want to do something

1004
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 1: that just feels deeply enjoyable but not productive.

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00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 3: Exactly it's, like how can you do a thing that's,

1006
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,800
Speaker 3: like feels fun and enjoyable and satisfying just because, yeah

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00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 3: without needed to monetize or make anything of. It for manifesting,

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00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 3: GENERATORS i would ask whether you are continuing to commit

1009
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:46,240
Speaker 3: to anything out of obligation and a desire to please

1010
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 3: rather than what you actually still have the energy. For

1011
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 3: allowing your energy to naturally dwindle and you, know indicate

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00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,760
Speaker 3: that something new is. AHEAD i think as a, PROJECTOR

1013
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 3: i would encourage you to carve out space in your

1014
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 3: week to be deliberately, unpretty to have a moment of

1015
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 3: rest where you're producing. Nothing for, REFLECTORS i would encourage

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00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 3: you to go spend time in a place that you

1017
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 3: just love a, cafe a, park a, museum and truest

1018
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 3: that being in the right spaces is the fastest path

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00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 3: of finding your flow and. MANIFESTORS i would encourage you

1020
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 3: to carve out a, moment so are these, stop these

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00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 3: are no longer. QUESTIONS i would encourage you to carve

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00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 3: out a moment in your week to have time to be.

1023
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 3: Uninterrupted whatever you want to, do passion, project, whatever but

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00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 3: just time for you to kind of close the door

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00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 3: and be in your own.

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00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: Face thank you so, Much Aaron Claire. Jones thank you

1027
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:41,399
Speaker 1: for joining, Us thank you for having. Me everybody share

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Speaker 1: this episode with a. Friend go ahead and get that

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Speaker 1: code and get your human design. On figure, out, yeah

1030
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 1: some of those deeper layers of how you can be

1031
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: used and maximize your human experience while you're. Here thank

1032
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,240
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