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Speaker 1: Why are you smiling like that? John? I was smiling

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Speaker 1: like that. Also. By the way, this comes from user

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Speaker 1: oh my God and the Okay story times Thubreddit Boom.

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Speaker 1: So it everything everything's in Oh oh cool? I didn't

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Speaker 1: Come on, Mark, big football player, new friend that she's

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Speaker 1: doing everything with suspicious. Well some information regarding Angie. She's

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Speaker 1: So basically it was like Opie was was it was

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Speaker 1: They're not together girl code boycode like you don't you

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh, you're guilty. Angie's not acting like a friend,

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Speaker 1: juicy thick update. Oh well, juicy thin update. It's a

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Speaker 2: Matt Hatter Gal with the ten gifted freaking memberships.

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Speaker 1: Let's go grow in the family. We love to see it.

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Speaker 1: Open up, big boy, here we go. My best friend

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Speaker 1: If it's constant, do it? Do you do it? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Some of the stuff that she has told me about

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Speaker 1: You don't lose no sparkle. Well, I I you definitely

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, break up or stop complaining super quick, A

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna sell I'm gonna I'm gonna say I like

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Speaker 2: agree with you. After reflecting both, he agrees with us.

431
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 2: With us, yeah, that they were a slightly the a whole.

432
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 2: I haven't ever told her that I am tired of

433
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 2: her not taking my advice, and I have never asked

434
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 2: her to not complain about him. This was the first

435
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 2: time I had challenged her. I've always been very patient

436
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 2: with her and let her complain as much as she wants.

437
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 2: This has left me feeling emotionally drained after every time

438
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 2: I see her.

439
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: I should have set boundaries in a calm and mature

440
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: manner when I was sober. You enabled her initially? Yes, yeah,

441
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,160
Speaker 1: it's kind of your fault. What do you think about it?

442
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 2: I was just so annoyed that she made my entire

443
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 2: birthday meal about her relationship issues. I also had just

444
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 2: found out that I had gotten my dream job and

445
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 2: wanted her to be happy for me. Dude, that is

446
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,400
Speaker 2: on her birthday and getting her dream job, and you're

447
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 2: still just like constantly ting Yeah, come on, I hear it.

448
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 2: I took out my frustration on her, and I spoke

449
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:55,679
Speaker 2: to her poorly.

450
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:56,719
Speaker 1: Thank you.

451
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 2: I am going to try to fix it with her. Hey,

452
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,919
Speaker 2: which that's literally exactly what you said you would do

453
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 2: if it were you and Riley Kylie Wilson writing anymore

454
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 2: move but sound like drunk?

455
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 1: Ye, I'm just kidding. I'm literally totally everybody every night

456
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: when you come yelling in my bedroom to see what

457
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: you sound like. Riley's just same time a big bus.

458
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 2: A commenter down voted, Riley was in my room last

459
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 2: night almost promotion this close. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we didn't

460
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 2: have right. What Riley knows how to climb the ladder?

461
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 2: He does, he does a little couple of hawk tours.

462
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't want to because I already took gone

463
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: to the gym earlier, so I wore him out. Hit legs.

464
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: We did, Yeah, hip thrust, get those legs, a little

465
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: bit of everything. Honestly, we did a lot.

466
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 2: But a commentar downvoted, saying you're the a hole, get

467
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,679
Speaker 2: off booze and other substances. Opie said, I accept I

468
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 2: am the a hole, but if I want to have

469
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 2: a few glasses of wine on my.

470
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: Birthday, that is my prerogative.

471
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 2: I don't do substances, and I am over the legal

472
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 2: drinking age. I had three glasses of wine on my birthday.

473
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 2: Lock her up, Lock.

474
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: Up a bee.

475
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, three glass of wine? Come on, fine, Like, get

476
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 2: over it, get over it, grow up. Another commenter says,

477
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 2: not the a hole. The best thing you can do

478
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 2: is let her be right now. When she's ready to talk,

479
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 2: she will reach out to you. Opie responds, I'm worried

480
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 2: that if I let her be, she will never reach

481
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 2: out and I will lose her as a friend.

482
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to lose her.

483
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 2: Despite her frustrating meat with constantly talking about her boyfriend,

484
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 2: she is a good person. I was thinking of writing

485
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 2: her a letter to apologize and explain how I feel.

486
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: I don't know.

487
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 2: I think that could be a good move to get

488
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 2: down all of your your points. We've seen that be

489
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: a method did pretty often with apologies and confrontations on

490
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 2: the show, where it's like, I want to get out

491
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 2: everything that I have to say, so I'm going to

492
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 2: write it all down and maybe give it to them

493
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 2: and then say it so I can make sure my

494
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 2: piece is set.

495
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:17,440
Speaker 1: Could be a good move. Can we give the move?

496
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 2: Another commentary says a letter may be a good idea,

497
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: especially if she has blocked you on social media or

498
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 2: is avoiding your messages. Do you have any mutual friends

499
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 2: willing to tell Kayla how you feel? Opie says, she

500
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: hasn't blocked me, but she's already ignored one message, so

501
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 2: I just feel like she's going to keep ignoring me.

502
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 2: All of our mutual friends has dropped her because they

503
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 2: can't deal with her complaining. They're all telling me to

504
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 2: unfriend her, but I am not ready do that. I

505
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 2: think say your piece and see if the behavior changes first. Yeah, yeah,

506
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 2: I think Opie's I'm kind of getting the feeling that

507
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: this is not the friendship worth fighting. That's the feeling

508
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 2: that I'm.

509
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: Maybe, but I would I would give I would give

510
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 1: the friend a chance to change total totally.

511
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 2: Another commenter says, is this is the relationship just bad?

512
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,360
Speaker 2: Or is it abusive? Like not acting like her regular

513
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 2: self or spark is gone? Those are red flags. If

514
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 2: it is an abusive relationship, and emotional abuse is very

515
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 2: much is abuse, then make sure you leave the door

516
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 2: open for her to contact you when she's ready to leave.

517
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 2: Abusers isolate and control their victims, cut off family and friends.

518
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: It's all part of the goal.

519
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,880
Speaker 2: If the support system is gone, it's harder to leave,

520
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,239
Speaker 2: So tell her you will always be there for her

521
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 2: if she decides to leave him. That does not mean

522
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 2: you have to keep listening to her. Tell her that

523
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 2: you are done hearing about this guy, and set whatever

524
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 2: boundaries you need, But tell her when she is ready

525
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 2: to leave him and you are there for her. Opie responds,

526
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 2: he isn't abusive. If anything, she's not very nice to him.

527
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: She doesn't like the guy. I don't know why she

528
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 2: stays with him. She struggles with her mental health and

529
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 2: he is a very lazy guy, so encourages her to

530
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 2: stay in bed all day. He isn't what she needs,

531
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: but he is not abusive. And then final comment, who

532
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 2: paid for dinner? Opie says, I paid. It did need

533
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 2: to be said, but not the way it was. I

534
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 2: want to apologize for the way I said it, but

535
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 2: not for how I feel. But as it stands right now,

536
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 2: OPI looks like she's heading towards writing a letter, getting

537
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 2: her thoughts down, not apologizing for what she said, but

538
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 2: how she communicated it, and you know, yelling.

539
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 1: Which I feel like is the best thing that she

540
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: could do. Is there more to the story? Oh yeah,

541
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: Oh there's more. Oh yeah, okay, So I think if

542
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: the friend changes her behavior, then Opie should still be

543
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: friends with them. If there is no change in the

544
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 1: behavior and still complaining, then I think she should distance.

545
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 2: I'm just wondering, like you know how we always have

546
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 2: in these stories where it was like, oh, this person

547
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 2: is such a nice guy, but they just you know,

548
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 2: abandoned their family and you know, had five different mistresses

549
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 2: and like all this stuff.

550
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: Like deep deep down in their course. Of course, they're

551
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: good when they were listen, when they were a newborn baby,

552
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: they were always smiling, they were always if you just

553
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: look past everything bad that they do. There's a good,

554
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: little tiny person inside. There's a little baby in there.

555
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: There's a little baby in there that deserves taking care

556
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: of does and I will take care of that baby.

557
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: That's right. I don't know, I'm I'm suspicious chatting. Do

558
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 1: you agree with me?

559
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 3: Tell me?

560
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: Tell us your answers in the comments right now, tell

561
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: us me. And if you see someone that you disagree with,

562
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: fight them, fight them, reply to him.

563
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 2: But we have an update also, Opie is voted not

564
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 2: the a hole, but the comments were heavily mixed. Okay,

565
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 2: so now onto the update. Thank you for all the comments.

566
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: I can see that you're all very divided about if

567
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 2: I'm the A hole or not. And I get why.

568
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: I've accepted that I am the a hole for going

569
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 2: nuclear when wasted.

570
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: And I know I should have spoken.

571
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 2: To her in a mature and calm manner, bless you,

572
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 2: thank you, way earlier than I did. She shouldn't have

573
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 2: ruined my birthday dinner. But she is struggling and she

574
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 2: didn't deserve to be spoken.

575
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: To like that.

576
00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 2: I decided to write her a letter apologizing for the

577
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 2: way I spoke to her. I'm going to write very

578
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: nicely that I'm still that I still stand by what

579
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 2: I said and that I love her. But hearing her

580
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 2: complain repeatedly about the same issue without taking any advice

581
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: is very draining. I'm going to tell her I still

582
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 2: want to be friends and that I don't want this

583
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 2: to ruin our relationship. I will also recommend that she

584
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: goes back to therapy. She had a therapist in high

585
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: school but ghosted her. Uh if she If she, then

586
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 2: you ghost your therapist. That's how you know you have

587
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 2: a real problem. That's crazy.

588
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,239
Speaker 1: They were always like telling me I needed to like

589
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 1: hate yeah, and I'm like commitment, Yeah, blater, goodbye later.

590
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: I feel like ghosting is kind of out these days.

591
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 1: The trend is reversing. I feel like the trend is reversing.

592
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 1: I haven't gotten ghosted in a sec. Oh good, well

593
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: on your dating apps. Yeah, you're in a different bracket.

594
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: That's what it is, a different what brack. We'll talk

595
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: about that in a sect. We'll talk about it.

596
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 2: If she then my letter and decides to and the

597
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 2: friendship and that is up to her, I will be sad.

598
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 2: But everything happens for a reason, right, And you think

599
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 2: that that's all.

600
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: Oh, but there's more, But there is more. There's an update,

601
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: and it's thick. Let's die juicy, It's bigger, it's better.

602
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: It's too much for mister Incredibles.

603
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 2: I was like, I knew that, I knew the quote,

604
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 2: but I didn't know they thrilled me out there. I

605
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 2: just watched Incredibles again. Great movie, dude. I want to

606
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 2: watch Wally again, dude. Oh, phenomenal movie on that. But

607
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 2: I digress. So this is the next day after this

608
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: edit that we just read.

609
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: So, hi, guys, at my post got quite a lot

610
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: of traction and I thought it'd update you all. Firstly,

611
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: thank you so much for everyone who commented and messaged me,

612
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 1: nice or not.

613
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 2: It was great to have everyone's opinions. So I wrote

614
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 2: Kayla a letter like I said I was going to

615
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 2: in my edit. It felt very formal and weird to do,

616
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 2: but for some reason, doing it over text felt wrong.

617
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 2: I wanted her to know that I am sincere. I

618
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: said that I love her and I value our friendship

619
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 2: extensively and apologize for the way I spoke to her.

620
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: I said that the alcohol wasn't to blame. I was

621
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 2: don't blame it on the alcohol. It was happy, dude.

622
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 2: We were just quoting all day to day.

623
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: So many quotes.

624
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 2: I spoke to her like an a hole, and she

625
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 2: didn't deserve it. I wrote that I felt frustrated about

626
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 2: the situation for a long time now, but it upset

627
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 2: me seeing her so frustrated and upset all the time

628
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: with the person who's supposed to cherish and respect her

629
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 2: the most. I told her that I wholeheartedly believe that

630
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 2: she should end the relationship. I said I knew this

631
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 2: wasn't my place to say, and that she didn't need

632
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 2: to take my advice, and that I would support her

633
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: on whatever decision she made, but if she decided to

634
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 2: stay with him, I need her to stop complaining to

635
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 2: me about James and their relationship because it was too

636
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 2: draining for me to hear. I said, of course she

637
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 2: could talk to me about anything major, but hearing the

638
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 2: same complaints on an almost daily basis was exhausting, especially

639
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 2: when she wouldn't take her even listen to any advice.

640
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 2: I made sure to tell her I loved her, and

641
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 2: I apologized again. Actually apologized four times. The letter nice

642
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 2: four times more than Cody co. I put it through

643
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 2: her front door. The day after I posted on here,

644
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 2: she called me yesterday and asked to me. I went

645
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 2: round to her place last night and we just talked

646
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 2: for over two hours. She told me she actually broke

647
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: up with James a day after my birthday. Let's freaking go,

648
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 2: and to be clear, before she even got the letter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so of her own volition after hearing that, which

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Speaker 1: does that mean yelling good? Sometimes? I disagree. No, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to say that. Ye Yellow, yell at everyone,

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Speaker 1: quiet bad, quiet bad, make yourself be known with yelling

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Speaker 1: for the four payments of nine to ninety nine. You

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Speaker 1: could be heard too, waking up some of the babies.

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Speaker 1: Oh true, Yeah, I forgot we do that now. Apparently

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Speaker 1: me snapping at her was it shocked her into realizing

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Speaker 1: how often she was upset by him and.

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Speaker 2: How much she clane. She needs a little that back

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Speaker 2: to reality.

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Speaker 1: Oops, Gravity, do.

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Speaker 2: You guys on Let's quote as much as we can.

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Speaker 2: Let's freaking go.

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Speaker 1: First episode.

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Speaker 2: She has spent the last few days processing everything, so

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Speaker 2: that's why I haven't heard from her, which is so valid.

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Speaker 2: She actually thanked me for doing it, which is crazy.

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Speaker 2: She said, although I was a bit of an a hole.

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Speaker 2: It was what she needed to hear. We both cried

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Speaker 2: a lot, hugged it out, and watched Ninety Day Fiance.

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Speaker 1: Lol. I think it's safe to say that we will

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Speaker 1: be okay.

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Speaker 2: She is obviously struggling because she is grieving their relationship

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Speaker 2: and breakups are awful, but I will support her through

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Speaker 2: this like I always do, because I know she will

675
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Speaker 2: support me when I next get my heart broken. I

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Speaker 2: am single af right now, but who knows what the future.

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Speaker 1: And we have.

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Speaker 2: Uh, this isn't all the way at the end of

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Speaker 2: the story, but I want to get our take now

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Speaker 2: that we're we've we've reached this point.

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Speaker 1: I feel like OP did everything right.

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Speaker 2: I think OPI did everything right, and I totally walk

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Speaker 2: my words back.

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Speaker 1: We're walking back. I'm walking them back. Are you walking back? Dude?

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Speaker 1: I'm moon walking back to the moon, back to the moon.

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Speaker 2: At far, I thought I was hypothesizing this was a

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Speaker 2: relationship not worth fighting for, But I think it was

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Speaker 2: the relationship that truly clouded her and she Once she

689
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Speaker 2: snapped out of the fog.

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Speaker 1: The reality distortion field, the reality distortion.

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Speaker 2: Field, she said, everything right, They're they're they're back together,

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Speaker 2: enjoying their time together, very supportive in both directions.

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Speaker 1: So I'm glad that OPI did not take my advice.

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Speaker 1: And you know, just.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you just gotta knock some sense into a friend.

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Speaker 2: That is true, with a little bit of uh uh ah,

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Speaker 2: a little bit of that.

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Speaker 1: But I but in real words, I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: really don't like the yell no no, no, yell is

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Speaker 1: not necessary. But I think I think it it was

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't think it was the yell that

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Speaker 1: uh changed Opie's friend. It was the truth.

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Speaker 2: Think about this if she gave an I'm disappointed. This

704
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 2: is this is my birthday. I wanted to celebrate my

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Speaker 2: birthday with you. I just got this new job. I

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Speaker 2: I just wanted this one day to have a little

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Speaker 2: celebration to myself. And like every single day you've talked

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Speaker 2: about your your partner and complained about them, and that

709
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Speaker 2: just hurts.

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Speaker 1: Me so much, President dude, and you break up with them. Dang,

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Speaker 1: how hard would that hit? I would hit? I think

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Speaker 1: that would hit hard, right? I wonder what that What

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Speaker 1: hits harder? Saying bad or yelling?

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm you know me, I'm a fan

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Speaker 2: of I'm disappointed I'm a disappointed fan.

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Speaker 1: Is it dis pointed fans?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but we have more of the story, so to

718
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Speaker 2: close it out real quick. So the TLDR is that

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Speaker 2: me snapping at my best friend and my dinner for

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Speaker 2: complaining about her boyfriend for the whole meal caused her

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Speaker 2: to dump him.

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Speaker 1: I didn't lose a friendship.

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Speaker 2: I actually got my best friend back and I can't

724
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Speaker 2: wait to support her while she finds herself again.

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Speaker 1: Thank you all again, and I have a great day.

726
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for the great day. Yeah, I think this ended well.

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Speaker 1: I think this ended well. I'm happy.

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Speaker 2: And to quickly ask the question of the episode, how

729
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Speaker 2: can you tell if someone's a real friend or not when.

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Speaker 1: They tell you the truth? And it's hard? That is?

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Speaker 1: That might be it?

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Speaker 2: I think that is and it's hard, Yeah, and I

733
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Speaker 2: think that. I think OP definitely did that.

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Speaker 1: Is there something funny about that? Yeah, it's so funny

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Speaker 1: about that. Right, things are hard. There are a lot

736
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Speaker 1: of good things that are hard, but not all good things.

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Speaker 1: Ice cream I hold soft, the cold that's in it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's hard to make. That's crunchy, not hard, no, But

739
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Speaker 1: but when ice cream is hard, it's you have to

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Speaker 1: put in the microwave for a bit. It's torturous, torture

741
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Speaker 1: you put in the microwave. Yeah, if it if it's

742
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Speaker 1: if it's too frozen, you put it in the microwave. Yeah,

743
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Speaker 1: you've never done that before, you know. But do you

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Speaker 1: mean I just let it thaw? I wait, dude, you

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Speaker 1: zap and can't five seconds? Yeah, you can't wait for

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Speaker 1: ice cream. You gotta eat it right now. That is

747
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Speaker 1: something you should never put in the microwave. That what

748
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Speaker 1: are how do you even get it into the ball?

749
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Speaker 1: You just clug it up? Wait fifteen minutes? What if

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Speaker 1: you don't even want to ice cream?

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00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 3: That?

752
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: I want ice cream? That it's hard and I can't

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Speaker 1: get out. Okay, this is what I do. I get

754
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Speaker 1: a freaking scooper thing, put it in some hot water, then.

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Speaker 3: I do it.

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Speaker 1: That takes so much longer. It's hard. But if it's

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Speaker 1: still too hard, yeah, it could be too hard. Hard.

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Speaker 1: You can't even even room temperature with all of your strengths,

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Speaker 1: you still can't handle in that? Can you not wait

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Speaker 1: like five ten minutes? No? I want the ice cream now,

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Speaker 1: that's why I took it out of the freezers. Whoa,

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Speaker 1: you know what I want right now? What another thirty

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Speaker 1: hey minutes. Also, we have a guest coming very soon.

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Speaker 1: To get ready for that. I am so excited. We

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Speaker 1: are thrilled.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna get into this next story. We

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Speaker 2: Is the friend wanting advice or wanting everyone to hate

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Speaker 2: her boyfriend?

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00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 1: Hmm? Probably a mix of both. Maybe mix the both,

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Speaker 1: I think so. Empress Sleepless Nights, Thanks for to twenty

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Speaker 2: I had a friend I knew since freshman year in

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Speaker 2: high school who is still close to my family. She

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Speaker 2: I moved in twenty twenty one. I think I've been

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Speaker 1: You can choose sometimes sometimes like there are friends that

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Speaker 2: Justph Madala Burke quest Sam, can you be my shoulder

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Speaker 2: to cry on?

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Speaker 1: Just be thing going wild? Calm down. But speaking of

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Speaker 1: people that you can go wild for. Actually he's in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, so don't go that wild. But he is hot,

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Speaker 1: so go for as wild as you deserve. A musician, director.

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Speaker 2: Athlete, comedian Anthony come on in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna adjust your mic in a second. Oh uh,

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Speaker 1: any Inferno, thanks for the fifty tip on the tip link,

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Speaker 1: no less the best place to tip. My first ever

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Speaker 1: YouTube live stream what I've been listening on Spotify for

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Speaker 1: a few months. Thank you, but thought you'd be good

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Speaker 1: company for my late night costume prep for the Edinburgh

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Speaker 1: Fringe Festival. What is that? Let us know in the

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Speaker 1: in the chat, Belue, I have no idea where it

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Speaker 1: is Smiles, love and shunshine Annie Edinburgh Fringe Festival. I'm

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Speaker 1: assuming some fringeness is going on there. And Mad Hatter Gal,

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Speaker 1: Look who is on the tip website. It is the

881
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: Mad Hatter themselves. Thanks for the ten dollar tip. We

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00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,760
Speaker 1: appreciate you, and the tip link is the best place

883
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 1: to tip. And Dutchess Cassana says, oh Anthony, the hot one, Yes,

884
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Speaker 1: the hot one, of course, of course, the hot one.

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Speaker 1: You guys are about to get a good look very soon.

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Speaker 1: And there's one more that I did not read. That's

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Speaker 1: up there, Megan Minty, thanks for the four months of membership.

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00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: I am a voyeur of drama. That's why I watched

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Speaker 1: Okay story Time. Yeah, I don't have drama in your life,

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Speaker 1: just have it through us. Internet content. Yeah, internet contact.

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00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 1: I just want to see him here. He is a

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Speaker 1: whoa hold.

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Speaker 3: You? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We got a crazy okay team go uh, Anthony, do

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Speaker 1: you want to introduce yourself in any other way? You

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Speaker 1: you did a lot of things. I said a lot

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Speaker 1: of things like okay. We also surf together fairly frequently,

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Speaker 1: except I got I got my my foot in my

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Speaker 1: ankle brace, so I can't surf for a while. Replaced

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Speaker 1: to cut it off, amputate. But Kenny boy, thanks for

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00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: the four months. I am super excited. But I want

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00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: to tell you guys all have new okay. Oh wait,

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00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,959
Speaker 1: we already read that. Wait is there one that we didn't?

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Speaker 1: There's my thank you Josephine and Madola bequiz Sam can

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00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 1: you be my shoulder to cry on? We read that,

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00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 1: and then Josephine adela burke case, I need help. Please

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Speaker 1: take my phone away. Someone does need to uh turn

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Speaker 1: the screen time. I thought I'm confused with you. Josephine

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00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:28,879
Speaker 1: is not confused about well, Anthony. Some tips for the stream.

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Speaker 1: Don't read the story because you'll get distracted. If you

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00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:36,800
Speaker 1: find yourself getting caught and and and uh and whisked

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00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: away by chat. Just focus on John and I, so

913
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,720
Speaker 1: you can be engaged in the story. Watching the chat

914
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: is tempting. They will suck you in, they will.

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Speaker 2: There's there's so much there, but uh, I usually focus

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00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 2: on the story while we're telling it, and then we

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Speaker 2: can we can pop in the chat.

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Speaker 1: She's the siren that keeps singing. But you have to seyeah.

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Speaker 4: I also have like not a lot of clarity in

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Speaker 4: what happens in an episode.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm ready. So basically, we're just like that, we're

922
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Speaker 1: gonna be reading a story. You're gonna bell. We'll toss

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Speaker 1: the mic to you, so just observe and then we'll

924
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Speaker 1: be like, ah, they do what you do, what you think,

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Speaker 1: and then you'll give us your your thoughts and opinions. Sick.

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Speaker 1: All right, shall we get into this next story?

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Speaker 5: Do it?

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Speaker 1: Let's go. So this is the last story in the

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Speaker 1: cursed episode. So yout ready. My friend bullied me in

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Speaker 1: front of everyone, so I'm boycotting her wedding. After getting

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Speaker 1: married last year, I moved from out of state back

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Speaker 1: to a city near my college town. My best friend

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Speaker 1: invited me to join a book club that is hosted

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Speaker 1: by a woman from her sorority. I'll call her The Bride.

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Speaker 1: I've attended probably eleven or twelve of the book club

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Speaker 1: meetings over the past year. We've read a whole ariety

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Speaker 1: of books, and I've always had a great time talking

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Speaker 1: about the book and getting to know others. I'm guessing

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Speaker 1: there's going to be until very soon, until there's always

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Speaker 1: antil By the way, this comes from a certain basis

941
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Speaker 1: on the Okay storytime subreddit. You should go submit your

942
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Speaker 1: stories right there if you want to us to read them.

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Speaker 1: So the Bride got engaged earlier this year and invited

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Speaker 1: my best friend and me to her bachelorette bridal shower

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Speaker 1: and wedding, which was really really a sweet gesture, especially

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Speaker 1: since we're not a part of the wedding or anything.

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Speaker 1: The bachelotte weekend just happened and was lovely, getting to

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Speaker 1: meet new people, spending time outdoors at the lake, a

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Speaker 1: night out to the nearby town. Until that's the until

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Speaker 1: we were waiting for called it the last night of

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Speaker 1: the trip. So the turning points. The last day of

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Speaker 1: the trip, I've been feeling good. I was well rested

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Speaker 1: and took a small edible which is danger. That's danger

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Speaker 1: or for me, for me, it's danger. For me, it's danger.

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Speaker 1: I get a heck of a paranoid, but I took

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Speaker 1: a small edible. I use marijuana, or maybe I should

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Speaker 1: such of that. I use the Devil's lettus every other

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Speaker 1: weekend recreationally, and I'm very comfortable with it, and was

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Speaker 1: sure to pace myself with drinks, probably had one every

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Speaker 1: couple hours. Others drank more. Others are low key. The

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Speaker 1: bride got blackout drunk crossed by four pm four pm

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Speaker 1: and demanded we all play drinking games, which is fine enough.

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Speaker 1: We had a good time for a while, but she

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Speaker 1: got progressively more drunk proceeded to have an on and

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Speaker 1: off rant for the next few hours, both to me

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Speaker 1: and about me, in front of everyone, all about how

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Speaker 1: I thought I was better than everyone. I'm gonna pause

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Speaker 1: right here. I'm gonna pause right here and really quick

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Speaker 1: to our new guest, Anthony, how much of that would

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Speaker 1: you take from the bride? How much of that would

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Speaker 1: I take? Yeah? Like, like, would you would you excuse

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Speaker 1: them for being drunk and crossed? Would you not participate

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Speaker 1: in the like drinking games? Would you cut off the

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Speaker 1: bride at a certain point, being like, hey, that's a

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00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: little bit too much. What would you do? I usually

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Speaker 1: making my mission. Somebody see that what's too far?

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Speaker 4: Well, if you're pretty sure they're gonna I can put

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Speaker 4: a closer.

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Speaker 2: Yes, oh hello, now we can hear it, we can

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Speaker 2: get you can lean back and like put it.

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Speaker 4: I noticed mine wasn't red. I didn't want to say

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Speaker 4: anything about that.

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Speaker 1: You have to earn the.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, I'd definitely be trying to cut that off for sure,

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Speaker 4: but I gauge the room. I'd be like, if everybody

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Speaker 4: seeing what I'm seeing, are we all aware the bride

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Speaker 4: has had far too much to drink? Should we do

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Speaker 4: something about it? And everybody's like, no, let her go,

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Speaker 4: let her live.

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Speaker 1: Her alone, if you like, if I must live her life,

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Speaker 1: her life will be lived poorly. Yeah, she is the bride.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but as soon as it starts affecting you, you

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00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 4: have to sort of set a boundary.

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00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed. Don't you think once it affects you have

997
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Speaker 1: set a boundary?

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00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:18,399
Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think in general, if someone was was doing this,

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Speaker 1: I would probably be like, okay, I'm just I might like, yo,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here and just let you talk

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Speaker 1: to this. I would probably leave the fact that they

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Speaker 1: would you say that, like, I'm not going to sit

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Speaker 1: here and let you talk. I think we say that.

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00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: I think I say that, and I leave the fact

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Speaker 1: that she is. So you know what I would do,

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00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 1: who's like, who's the closest to her? Like caretaker, I guess,

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00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,320
Speaker 1: you know, like and go to them because.

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Speaker 4: Like the caretaker, like who's the best not the best man,

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00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:55,280
Speaker 4: who's the chief bride?

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00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:06,839
Speaker 6: Sorry the yeah, no no, because she's not a part

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00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 6: of the you don't have as much exactly.

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00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 1: It might be a little bit hard to institute some

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00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 1: kind of anthony curtailing of drinking.

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Speaker 3: It's like slipping.

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00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 2: So then if we're I would I would go to

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Speaker 2: her and be like, listen, like this is crazy. I'm

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00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,279
Speaker 2: gonna leave, but like, I don't know, do you think

1019
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:29,879
Speaker 2: it's okay? Do you think we should stop this drinks?

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Speaker 2: I would flag.

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00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: I think flag to made of I would say, uh,

1022
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 1: put your boundary down, because I think that's an attack

1023
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: that you shouldn't accept. Flag to maide of honor, and

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00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 1: then dip. I like it, let's let's see what you did.

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00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: So she picked apart my clothes what I was wearing

1026
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: and had worn my hair the natural color along with

1027
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 1: inappropriate comments about my pubic hair. How do we know

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00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:58,120
Speaker 1: about that? Repeatedly complained that I wasn't drinking enough, saying

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00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 1: that she thought I went way harder than this, complained

1030
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 1: about the things that I've done in past situations that

1031
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,359
Speaker 1: were annoying to her, like trying to focus too much

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00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 1: on the book during the book club. Is Sam stop

1033
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 1: reading this story? So well? Cool it?

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00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, mess up some words. Let me talk

1035
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:18,880
Speaker 2: about Anthony and I's surf trip recently. There were so

1036
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 2: many topics covered, I really can't do it justice. But

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Speaker 2: the overall feeling was similar to a child of an

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00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 2: alcoholic parent never knowing when they were going to be

1039
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 2: set off next. I felt unsafe and scared. The other

1040
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Speaker 2: guests All right, now we're.

1041
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 1: Getting to the other people context at the bachelorette party

1042
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: were silent to the behavior, like out of shock, and

1043
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 1: did not intervene accept a couple of girls who took

1044
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 1: her inside to get some water and calm down a bit.

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00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 1: A few times, no one checked in on me, despite

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Speaker 1: her comments being primarily about me ninety percent me, ten

1047
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: percent about another girl who couldn't make it to the trip,

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00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:03,240
Speaker 1: So basically, oh he is like the brunt of all

1049
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,280
Speaker 1: that is said. She's the only one receiving yeah in person,

1050
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: which is I can't imagine very fun.

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00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 4: And even if we can't know that whether it was

1052
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 4: ninety to ten, it was somewhere in the majority yeah,

1053
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Speaker 4: any Like you wouldn't say ninety ten if it wasn't

1054
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 4: pretty clear that most of the things were about And.

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Speaker 1: The ten percent is for a person that's not there,

1056
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: So like like ninety percent of the feelings that are

1057
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 1: one hundred percent of the feelings that are getting hurt

1058
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 1: are opiees, yes, which is not cool. I don't know

1059
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: if anyone told her the details about what happened that night,

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00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:38,479
Speaker 1: but given that she's not reached out to apologize, I'd

1061
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: assume they did not. We eventually ate dinner, watched a movie,

1062
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: and everyone was able to just sit in silence for

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00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 1: a while. Well I think everyone appreciated, which I think

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00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: everyone appreciated. The bride, however, did continue some of her

1065
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 1: rants via yelling from a nearby bathroom when she was

1066
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 1: using it, and also yelling some of the lines during

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00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 1: the movie like like god acoustics. I was like, oh,

1068
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: this while ample if it's an Amphithea yeah, with a toilet.

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00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:12,479
Speaker 1: Everyone needs to hear shit I'm about to say about

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00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: op message. I also love how it's going in between

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Speaker 1: talking about op and like calling out a line. These

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00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:31,960
Speaker 1: scars are like onions. I feel like that's an interesting mix.

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Speaker 1: Less important, but maybe contributed to getting her last worked up.

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Speaker 1: During one of the games she asked us to play.

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00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: I was placed next to her and kept getting her out,

1076
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 1: which resulted in her having another swig with a drink.

1077
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: It's like the person next next to you and Flip

1078
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 1: Cup that's just never destroying you. Never a good situation

1079
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: to be in. But some people commented how I should

1080
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 1: go easy on the bride, which made me feel embarrassed.

1081
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 1: So I scaled back and missed like countless times on

1082
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 1: purpose until we got to the point where I wouldn't

1083
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 1: get her out. The video footage of the game must

1084
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 1: have been really funny. So Opie's going easy on the

1085
00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:15,080
Speaker 1: bride in every respect. On Flip Cup on the rants,

1086
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 1: Opie's really really trying. Also, Opie stayed in the face

1087
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: of all of this, and the friends are like, oh

1088
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 1: no go. They're not even like hey, like you don't

1089
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 1: have to be here together. They're like oh no, go

1090
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 1: easy owners, so as you can win. Yeah. I mean

1091
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: they're very loyal to the bride, very loyal to the bride.

1092
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: And I think Ope seems like a little bit on

1093
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 1: the outside because she was just a book club friend.

1094
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: Wasn't like in the core core friend group.

1095
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 4: It doesn't seem like clearly she occupies a lot of

1096
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 4: a lot of the bride's mind, which is all these.

1097
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 1: I wonder why I was. I feel like there's probably

1098
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: some sort of jealousy going on. Do we have any

1099
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: conspiracy theories? She's an idiot the bride. That's not a

1100
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:05,919
Speaker 1: conspiracy theory, that's just true. Well she's so she's like, oh,

1101
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 1: she's always so into her books. Yeah, she's an idiot.

1102
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 3: I can't read.

1103
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 1: I think there might. I feel like Ope potentially is hot,

1104
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: and the bride is jealous of maybe being upstood on

1105
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: her bridle day. Hot and smart, hot and smart, can't

1106
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 1: read the whole pack got the curves, Yeah, I think too.

1107
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 1: So I was able to stick it out through the

1108
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: farewell brunch the next day mainly didn't want to give

1109
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: anyone fuel to talk about me. And then I talked

1110
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 1: about everything with my best friend on the drive home.

1111
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:45,080
Speaker 1: She apologized for being too drunk slash high to notice

1112
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 1: what was going on, though I did text her the

1113
01:00:47,640 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: night before asking what the f is going on, and

1114
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 1: she acknowledged how the bride was beyond her limit. So

1115
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,200
Speaker 1: basically one of her friends, her best friend that was

1116
01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: there at the bridle thing too, was like, dude, can

1117
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: you believe what's going on? And the friend was like, oh,

1118
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 1: it's kind of fine. The master chief and yeah to

1119
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 1: the chief, the chief of the bridal party, the justified,

1120
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 1: rationalized devil's advocate. Everything that I shared a wait and

1121
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: justified slash rationalized slash devils advocated for the bride. Everything

1122
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: that I shared made me uncomfortable, only ever validating me

1123
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,439
Speaker 1: by saying that's so weird. So basically like, oh, he's

1124
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 1: opening up and the best friends like sucks. I'm sure

1125
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 1: she's nervous that I'm going to leave the group because

1126
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 1: of what happened, and we'll both be sad to see

1127
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 1: the dynamic change, But I really don't mind much if

1128
01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 1: she continues to hang out with them. I think she

1129
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 1: deserves better friends, but many of them are her sorority sisters,

1130
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: and I realize there's a certain level of loyalty that

1131
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: comes with that. To what level should you have loyalty

1132
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 1: for a friend that acts this out of pocket? There's

1133
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: way more to the story. By the way we're we're

1134
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 1: not like we're not even close how much she paying? Well,

1135
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:04,440
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, is it all expenses paid? Bridal shower

1136
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 1: get away?

1137
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 4: I think there's the obvious like bride power dynamic. This

1138
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 4: isn't like all the girls are going out to dinner, No,

1139
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 4: and this girl is just like randomly slandering this other girl.

1140
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: There's like a oh, this is her day, Like she

1141
01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: can let her have her day. And it's like, well,

1142
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 1: which you also I think is a like a maybe

1143
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 1: like a good rule of thumb is like or a

1144
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:35,240
Speaker 1: good rule of thumb in general is like how do

1145
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: people act when you're at your lowest? And also how

1146
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 1: do people act when they're in positions of power? Like

1147
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 1: there's that whole thing. It's like you can kind of

1148
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 1: see how like the character of someone with how they

1149
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: treat like like servers or people in hospitality. And I

1150
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: think this is an example of maybe we're saying a

1151
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: little bit of true colors in this situation, like she

1152
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 1: has all the power and she is an absolute nutcase.

1153
01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 2: There is literally never a reason there could be a

1154
01:02:57,440 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 2: reason to share like constructive criticism. There's never a reason

1155
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 2: to just dunk on someone like that. Yeah, literally for

1156
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 2: no reason, for for no reason, for no reason, for

1157
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 2: being hot and smart, and for being hot and smart,

1158
01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 2: being read.

1159
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also able to write because you wrote a

1160
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 1: beautiful story. But we got more to this story. So uh.

1161
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 1: I was able to stick it out to the feral

1162
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 1: brunch the next day. It mainly didn't want to give

1163
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 1: anyone fuel to talk about me. Then I talked. We

1164
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 1: were talking about Devil's Advocate, but I really okay. Going

1165
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 1: to next point, My best friend did also text me

1166
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: the morning after offering to drive home early before the brunch,

1167
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 1: so there is some acknowledgement that what happened was weird.

1168
01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: So the friend is like, all right, let me drive

1169
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 1: you home early because it got really really bad between

1170
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 1: my best friend and the rest of the guests. Not

1171
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: fully validating incident at all, it did cause me to

1172
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 1: doubt what I heard and experienced. Was I just imagining

1173
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:54,200
Speaker 1: or misinterpreting things? Opie is getting gas litten, gas lamped

1174
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 1: to the max. Distortion field reality distortion field, dude, however,

1175
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: that's what it sounds like. However, I do have text

1176
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 1: to my husband all throughout the evening detailing different topics

1177
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 1: she brought up, So it's kind of hard to ignore

1178
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: some hard evidence. Always good to lay down the paper trail. Yeah.

1179
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 1: The receipts, yeah, he always have the receipts there, sober receipts,

1180
01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: sober receipts. Make sure to always be recording every conversation.

1181
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: Body cow, Yeah, body can always. I returned home and

1182
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 1: told my husband about everything that happened. He has always

1183
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 1: been supportive of any girl time I wanted to have,

1184
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 1: but affir in my take that the situation behavior was

1185
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:44,040
Speaker 1: absolutely wild and uncalled for, even if you are blackout drunk,

1186
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:48,640
Speaker 1: which really quick on the whole, even if you are

1187
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: blackout drunk, I feel like if someone's getting consistently blackout

1188
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 1: drunk and making decisions that endanger themselves or the people

1189
01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 1: around them, that is a person that is going to

1190
01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: introduce more drama than it could be worth to have.

1191
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: And it seems like I don't know if like getting

1192
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 1: blackout drunk is an excuse for being a terrible person.

1193
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:15,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And it's like, ultimately, what were the consequences

1194
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 2: of what happened. Yeah, that doesn't invalidate the consequence of

1195
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 2: what happened.

1196
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:24,320
Speaker 1: So and also you were making decisions to reduce your

1197
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:27,400
Speaker 1: ability to make good decisions. Like every drink that you

1198
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 1: had was a decision to basically invalidate your sense of

1199
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 1: control over yourself and your actions.

1200
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, where do we stand with Like, your drunkest self

1201
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 4: is your truest to yourself? Like, where do we stand

1202
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 4: on that? Within that philosophy?

1203
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: I think there is I think there is a certain

1204
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 1: level of.

1205
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 4: Truth, Like does the truth bubble to the service because

1206
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 4: of inhibition or is there like another beast within you

1207
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 4: that doesn't see the light of day unless you're eighteen

1208
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:03,640
Speaker 4: drinks in I think eighteen.

1209
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:06,959
Speaker 2: I think there's a certain level when I went drinking,

1210
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 2: I just get like super happy and love.

1211
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 1: One could argue that's your truest self. I think there

1212
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 1: might be a level of that. But also like there's

1213
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:24,280
Speaker 1: the whole idea that what differentiates us from animals is

1214
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 1: our self control, and so like you're probably putting yourself

1215
01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 1: to an animalistic state, and yes, some animals can be

1216
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 1: more kind than other animals, but I think it's still

1217
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:39,160
Speaker 1: I think there is truth to that, but also someone

1218
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 1: can still be a good person and maybe have a

1219
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: core of like I don't know, maybe like a mean streak,

1220
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: but has learned to deal with that.

1221
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 4: So follow up question, is this person just keeping that

1222
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 4: inside all these things that you wanted to say? Has

1223
01:06:54,920 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 4: she just been walking around like this person and then

1224
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 4: it just bubbles of the surface like.

1225
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 2: A weird example of someone who we can say that.

1226
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 2: I think I think it depends on the person, but

1227
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:09,040
Speaker 2: this person, it sounds like this is her true self.

1228
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want it after this, Like if someone if

1229
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 1: this happened.

1230
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 4: To me, Like, how could you be that person's friend? Like,

1231
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:15,520
Speaker 4: in no world am I that person's friend?

1232
01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:18,880
Speaker 1: Afterwards? Yeah, like I could see it be maybe there's

1233
01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:22,640
Speaker 1: a difference in like you are. I don't know. I'm

1234
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:26,440
Speaker 1: trying to think, like when have I ever had a

1235
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 1: fight while drunk? I don't know.

1236
01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:34,120
Speaker 4: I've known really nice people to get very belligerent when.

1237
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 1: They're I'm like, why do you why? Why do you

1238
01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:38,720
Speaker 1: like that? Yeah? Oh you know what. There was a

1239
01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:40,919
Speaker 1: guy in college that used to like, we would invite

1240
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: him over to parties and he would get drunk and

1241
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 1: he would just punch holes in all of our doors,

1242
01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:46,960
Speaker 1: and we would just like be like, dude, you got

1243
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:49,479
Speaker 1: to stop punching holes in our doors, and he would

1244
01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:53,000
Speaker 1: just get like crazy and belligerent. But it wasn't It

1245
01:07:53,040 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 1: wasn't mean. It was just insanely restless. He does love bugets. Yeah, exactly, exactly. Yeah,

1246
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:03,480
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be for I think we're all in agreement

1247
01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:05,000
Speaker 1: that we wouldn't be friends with this person. But I'm

1248
01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 1: curious what everyone in chat would be. Maybe we could

1249
01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: do a poll, yes, do divorce the friend, let us know,

1250
01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:15,920
Speaker 1: or no contact with a friend, contact or not. But

1251
01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 1: we do have more than the story. So he noted

1252
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 1: that it must have been really scary, especially for how

1253
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 1: quiet she typically is. I pretty much picked myself apart

1254
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 1: for the next forty eight hours, trying to figure out

1255
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:32,280
Speaker 1: what I maybe said or did that led to this.

1256
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:35,880
Speaker 1: But even the most awkward joke or accidental brag about

1257
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 1: something could not have warranted the bullying that happened. I

1258
01:08:39,920 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 1: told him I don't see a scenario where I can

1259
01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:45,759
Speaker 1: attend her wedding and support in good faith or continue

1260
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:47,600
Speaker 1: going to the book club, but wanted to give it

1261
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 1: a few days before I made any drastic moves. He

1262
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 1: took the day off with me on Monday to just

1263
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:59,320
Speaker 1: cuddle and watch movies with me after a really awful experience.

1264
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 1: Do you have a little bit more to the story.

1265
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:03,040
Speaker 1: But what do you think OP should do? If we

1266
01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 1: were to give concrete advice to Ope, what would what

1267
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 1: would we say to do? I feel like.

1268
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe you go and you kind of give one

1269
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:16,640
Speaker 2: last reach out of like, hey, you said this, this

1270
01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 2: is how I felt. I don't even think that the

1271
01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:23,280
Speaker 2: bride deserves that. I think if Op was like I

1272
01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 2: want to go, know contact and move on, I've kind

1273
01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 2: of seen her true character. More power to you are

1274
01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:30,800
Speaker 2: a thousand percent within your own rights, so that if

1275
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:33,400
Speaker 2: you want to be the angel, tell her why and then.

1276
01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah on Belton says, I want answers first. Would you

1277
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:40,719
Speaker 1: be curious enough to want answers like explain yourself? Yeah,

1278
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 1: to like OP to the like, yo, like where did

1279
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:46,679
Speaker 1: this come from? Yeah? I would, yeah, I would ask,

1280
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:50,880
Speaker 1: would be out of own curiosity, still might go no contact.

1281
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,320
Speaker 1: So these are some of the things you said to

1282
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: me for the record, this is what you said.

1283
01:09:56,640 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 4: Of course, where do you stand now? Like a couple

1284
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 4: of days later, where did that come from guilty.

1285
01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 1: That's where you staid. But yeah, I think I think

1286
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Speaker 1: that would it also might be like a learning lesson

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Speaker 1: for her. I would not want it. You wouldn't you

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Speaker 1: want it? Yeah? I think I would be a little curious.

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Speaker 1: I get the curiosity. I'd be a little curious.

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Speaker 4: I'd be like, but I would I would just want

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Speaker 4: to see how they handle that's true, that conversation, especially

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Speaker 4: because they're quiet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, probably not someone their opinion of them.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy. I never, like, I never even thought i'd

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Speaker 4: say something like that. Why would I do?

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Speaker 1: Like? You know, well, you did well, you did consequences.

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Speaker 1: And it looks like ninety six percent of the live

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Speaker 1: stream chat here on YouTube and Facebook says no contact.

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Speaker 1: So I'm I'm I think no, I think, Uh, explain

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Speaker 1: yourself with the side of no contact is what I

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Speaker 1: would do.

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Speaker 4: But do we have a poll for the newest thing

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Speaker 4: we just asked about. Do you have the conversation about?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, conversation or not? I would love to know that. No,

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Speaker 1: So all of this. Oh, by the way, you should

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Speaker 1: join us on this live stream. We livestream every day

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Speaker 1: three pm PST. So top the profile that join our

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Speaker 1: live stream. All this to be said, I'm sure her

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Speaker 1: hurtful comments came from a place of real insecurity. We said, oh,

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Speaker 1: piece hot. But just because I can understand someone doesn't

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01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:21,799
Speaker 1: mean I want to be friends with them. After sitting

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Speaker 1: on it for a few days, I rsvp'ed Know to

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01:11:25,439 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 1: her upcoming bridle shower, currently giving her a few weeks

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01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:30,680
Speaker 1: to reach out and apologize. I would love to know

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Speaker 1: the comments, would you rp Know to her bridle shower? Yes?

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01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 1: Oright now? Currently giving her a few weeks to reach

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Speaker 1: out and apologize, but unless it's a really genuine apology,

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Speaker 1: I am planning to rcp know to the wedding and

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01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:45,800
Speaker 1: send her a straightforward, cordial text explained to her why

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Speaker 1: I won't be attending the book club. I'm sure the

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01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 1: group will talk and gossip about me either way, because

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01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:55,000
Speaker 1: they're probably trying to forget about what happened, or truly

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01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 1: just don't care. Thankfully, I have so many other dear friends,

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01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:00,840
Speaker 1: so I don't feel any reason I have to stay

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Speaker 1: with this friend group other than I did enjoy the group.

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Speaker 1: That I did enjoy the book club. So oh. He

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Speaker 1: finishes off this story with a couple questions that maybe

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Speaker 1: chat can answer or you can answer the comments. Am

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01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 1: I overreacting? Like the friend group probably will think that

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01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 1: I am? Why do some friendships have to end so dramatically?

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01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:25,559
Speaker 1: And the question of the episode, how can you tell

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01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:31,679
Speaker 1: if someone's a real friend or not? I think something

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01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 1: that we kind of started with here is like you

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01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:34,920
Speaker 1: can tell if a friend is a real friend or

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01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 1: not is if you give them power in a situation

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01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 1: and if they treat you the same or better, then

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01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 1: that's probably a good indicator that they are a good friend. Yeah,

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01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:47,759
Speaker 1: if they treat you terribly like this person did, probably

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01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 1: not a good friend.

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01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think the power that it is

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01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 2: the what you said earlier. It's the waiter principle applied

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01:12:54,280 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 2: over where it's like, okay, how do they treat some

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01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:59,200
Speaker 2: like like a waiter, someone that they have power over,

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01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:01,840
Speaker 2: they're given a power, how do they treat other people?

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01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:06,360
Speaker 1: Honestly? Kind of an interesting interesting test. Yeah, did you

1346
01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 1: ever hear the the the orange peel?

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01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:12,679
Speaker 2: I'm listening, So basically it was you ask your partner

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01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:14,760
Speaker 2: to peel an orange because it's like a past that

1349
01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 2: you can do yourself, and if they peel the orange,

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01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 2: they're good. If they don't, it might be an indicator

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01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 2: that they're like not willing to basically be a good

1352
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 2: partner because they're not willing to do the most ask

1353
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:28,679
Speaker 2: for you. So maybe there's like a like a bride

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01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:31,320
Speaker 2: test or a waiter test where you put them.

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01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 4: In how do you give someone that power? Yeah, that's

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01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 4: all you ask. Can you peel this orange?

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Speaker 1: That's it? Yeah.

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01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:39,800
Speaker 2: You don't even saying like, hey, like do might peeling

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01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 2: this orange?

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01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:42,519
Speaker 1: Because it's something that you could easily do yourself. Yes,

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01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:45,320
Speaker 1: which is the whole point of the test. Yeah, And

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01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 1: if they do it for you, then they're a keeper.

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Speaker 2: Is there a flip of like you give someone some

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01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 2: some some power and then you see, how dude, it's time.

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01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to do that this weekend? Maybe it's oh,

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01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:58,559
Speaker 1: maybe it's hey, can I cook you dinner? And depending

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01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:02,280
Speaker 1: on how they treat you in that situation, maybe it

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01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:05,440
Speaker 1: could be because they could be like I want mustard,

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01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:09,680
Speaker 1: or where's mine? This is not enough food? Or or

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01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 1: if they're like, hey, I heard my ankle, could you

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01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:13,960
Speaker 1: get me spies? And then they ask you for a

1372
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:14,759
Speaker 1: blowy after.

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01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:17,719
Speaker 7: How did you treat Anthony?

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01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 1: How did I treat you?

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01:14:22,120 --> 01:14:26,919
Speaker 4: You're like, it's all right, these these nuggets upper grabs.

1376
01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:33,599
Speaker 1: Dude, could I have a nug too? Yeah? Ready? Yeah?

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01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:37,679
Speaker 1: Oh dude, he was so close. He was so close.

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01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,200
Speaker 4: I'd feel like dinner is almost too commonplace of a

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01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:41,800
Speaker 4: thing to bring into the.

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Speaker 2: It's a tough one because like, how do you give

1381
01:14:43,640 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 2: someone that position? Uh, like like a surprise like a

1382
01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:49,480
Speaker 2: birthday or something nuts.

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01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:54,680
Speaker 1: But like that's also that's also a big ask too. Yeah,

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01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,840
Speaker 1: so what's what are we asking now? We're asking We're

1385
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:00,800
Speaker 1: trying to find other scenarios that you can test some Yeah, like, well,

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01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:04,920
Speaker 1: like what it we We just discovered that if you

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01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 1: give friend power over you in some way and they

1388
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 1: still treat you with love and respect, then that is

1389
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 1: a sign of a real friendship. So like, what is

1390
01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 1: a manufactured situation that you can test all your friends

1391
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 1: to see if the real lines?

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01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 2: Say it's best friend's Day or like girlfriend day or whatever,

1393
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 2: and like I've arranged all this stuff for you, and

1394
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:23,920
Speaker 2: you you ruled the world right.

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01:15:23,840 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 4: Now, so yo, I think I think there's something very

1396
01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:33,240
Speaker 4: specific about the environment of a rushower or whatever.

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01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 1: It was, like.

1398
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:37,640
Speaker 4: Where that has gone. And I feel like just in

1399
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:39,759
Speaker 4: society is like, Yeah, you can.

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Speaker 3: Do no wrong.

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Speaker 1: You're amazing, You're perfect. We're gonna get absolutely, which is

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01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 1: kind of lame, but you know it's not lame. What

1403
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:52,800
Speaker 1: this next story, These next dono's. Ash got to catch them.

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Speaker 1: Thanks out to five bucks. Want to say thank you

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Speaker 1: guys for listening every day we're covering from chemo and

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Speaker 1: looking after my little boy. His name is also Riley,

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Speaker 1: we'll play with his toys, staying, hey, guys, welcome. Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm good, Oh my gosh. Ash. First off,

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Speaker 1: hearts in the chat. I am crying for Ash. Gotta

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Speaker 2: I am so happy that you're in the family.

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Speaker 1: I am saying so happy. That is wow. Thank you

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Speaker 2: Josephebadala berg by sex for two fifty three. Riley, I

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Speaker 2: became a heterosexual. I become a heterosexual when y'all stream

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Speaker 2: I believe that, Sammy. Thanks for the ten bucks.

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Speaker 1: Only a few more days and I'll be on vacation

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Speaker 1: to California, Gonna be there for a wedding and visit

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Speaker 1: my husband and family while I visit Places Bond. Hopefully

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Speaker 1: there's no Bridezilla there, Yes, where you are confronted with

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Speaker 2: celebrating form us of membership. Anthony ignores Sam and John's

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Speaker 2: see this is exactly what I said.

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Speaker 1: The sirens, the sirens that gets the more thirst there,

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Speaker 1: the chat gets slippery. The first that cannot be quenched,

1432
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Speaker 1: it cannot be quenched.

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Speaker 2: No context free Riley no con has been freeing m

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Speaker 2: O Knight of the Worm, Queen's Zombie celebrating through with

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Speaker 2: a membership. I changed my name to commemorate my three

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Speaker 2: month aversary.

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Speaker 1: Sam. I thought I was the only one to microwave

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Speaker 1: my ice cream of it. Wow, you know you think

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Speaker 1: we would have so much in common that you would

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Speaker 1: join the Pigeon Army. But I guess you're still warm. Queen.

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01:18:06,600 --> 01:18:10,879
Speaker 1: I guess not. But yeah, I'm glad we have some camaraderie.

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01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:17,200
Speaker 1: Maybe you'll you'll switch to Pigeon Army and Melanie Chicole.

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Speaker 2: What thanks for too much love listening to you guys

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Speaker 2: while doing housework. You guys are the best show on YouTube.

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Speaker 2: Keep being great. That is a literal fact. You are

1447
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Speaker 2: too kind. Is it possible to ask? Is it Coke?

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Speaker 7: I thought that.

1449
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:41,599
Speaker 1: I think there's a like a k if we're wrong,

1450
01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:44,200
Speaker 1: let us know? Is it Italian? Yeah? Let us know?

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Speaker 1: Let us know. Anthony is Italian? Is it? So he

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Speaker 1: knows as much as one can be? Not true? And

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Speaker 1: gifted members Si Milk about us, Lord Milky, the teeth

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Speaker 1: If you have squeezed out of membership for you, please

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Speaker 1: thank him in the chest. Lookie, I feel like I

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Speaker 1: haven't seen you in like a week or two. It's

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Speaker 1: been a second. I'm glad to have you back. Give

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Speaker 1: you some Speaking of squeezing, guys, I'm going to squeeze

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01:19:33,400 --> 01:19:36,799
Speaker 1: some sweet entertainment from the teat of this next story.

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Speaker 1: Let's go, and we just finished our first episode. Oh

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Speaker 1: it's over. Oh my miss six six, miss six.

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Speaker 4: Damn.

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01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:49,479
Speaker 1: Now we're on to six six seven, are we? Yeah? Yeah,

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01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:51,080
Speaker 1: that's how numbers were.

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Speaker 7: No, we're on six fourteen.

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Speaker 1: Ah, that's not how numbers six fourteen everything.

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Speaker 3: This tinfoilt.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten gifted memberships getting us over the

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Speaker 1: humph potentially. Lady of the Elephants. Ooh, you guys bring

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Speaker 1: a lot of joy and laughs in my day. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Lady of the Elephants. You have elephants. Oh oh, thirty

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Speaker 1: more minutes. Kristin Foyle Hat thanks for the twenty gifted memberships,

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Speaker 1: putting us another thirty minutes. Anthony's getting the royal treatment

1477
01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:37,840
Speaker 1: over here, Rayzay and mad Hatter Galley's for the ten bucks.

1478
01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:40,759
Speaker 1: Trying to work on my shop while watching the stream,

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01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:43,840
Speaker 1: and half the time I have to stop typing because

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Speaker 1: the madness you are doing. The madness of madness continues,

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01:20:48,040 --> 01:20:52,360
Speaker 1: the Lord of Madness, and let's do it.

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01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:57,080
Speaker 2: So my boyfriend of three years is cheating, but tonight

1483
01:20:57,479 --> 01:20:59,080
Speaker 2: is the biggest night of his life.

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01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: Ruin the that's a good hook. Now I'm intrigue.

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01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:08,040
Speaker 2: I will go into all the gory details of our relationship.

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01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:11,719
Speaker 2: We were in love and well I still love him. Oh,

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01:21:11,760 --> 01:21:15,439
Speaker 2: but I found out that clearly he does not. I

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01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:17,880
Speaker 2: discovered proof that he has been cheating on me for

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Speaker 2: a while in the form of small home movies of them.

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Speaker 2: Oh like you know, they're they're acting someone out. It's

1491
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Speaker 2: like the theater troup.

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01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:36,640
Speaker 1: Set on a couch. It's crazy. They're only rehearsing the

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01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:40,679
Speaker 1: sex scenes. But they nailed that way. They nailed that one.

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Speaker 7: Lights up on hamlets.

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01:21:48,520 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 2: Now, I don't know this girl, and from the looks

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01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 2: of their conversations, yep went ahead and post discovery snooped.

1497
01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 1: She has no idea I exist? Whoa but you know

1498
01:21:59,120 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 1: what does exist?

1499
01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 2: But r slash okay story time subreddit from which the

1500
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:05,519
Speaker 2: story came from, and it came from kowchu girl, So

1501
01:22:05,600 --> 01:22:08,519
Speaker 2: thanks for that. Now, tonight is the biggest night of

1502
01:22:08,600 --> 01:22:12,320
Speaker 2: my boyfriend's life. He is receiving a state award at

1503
01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:15,880
Speaker 2: a big dinner with a few hundred people attending. Do

1504
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:17,759
Speaker 2: we announce he's cheating on stage?

1505
01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:21,160
Speaker 1: Dude? I was literally about to say at ic it's yes,

1506
01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:24,519
Speaker 1: there's definitely an ICU. He's going to announce on stage,

1507
01:22:24,600 --> 01:22:26,519
Speaker 1: let's pull it, or she's going to trick him to

1508
01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 1: announce on stage.

1509
01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:30,680
Speaker 2: Yes, announce on stage? Yes or no.

1510
01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:33,960
Speaker 1: Now he's getting this is from his mom and dad,

1511
01:22:34,200 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 1: to counselmen and all of that, all of them will

1512
01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 1: be in the crowd. In fact, the only reason I

1513
01:22:39,080 --> 01:22:42,080
Speaker 1: discovered this transgression is because I have been putting together

1514
01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:45,439
Speaker 1: a little video for him to enjoy some of the

1515
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:51,720
Speaker 1: key moments of his life. You know, no, wait, hold up,

1516
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:57,000
Speaker 1: hold the phone. You know we could use either some

1517
01:22:57,120 --> 01:23:01,480
Speaker 1: you know, fun old Instagram stories or some home videos.

1518
01:23:01,560 --> 01:23:07,639
Speaker 1: Also Empress Sleepless Nights ten hour stream Sleepless Nights. Thanks

1519
01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:11,040
Speaker 1: for the two hundred and fifty dollars tip. We're doing

1520
01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:13,639
Speaker 1: another thirty minutes, Anthony. There's this thing called the ten

1521
01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:17,479
Speaker 1: hour Army. Oh yeah, where they chain us to these chairs,

1522
01:23:17,560 --> 01:23:21,880
Speaker 1: to the couch and we can ever done a ten

1523
01:23:21,920 --> 01:23:24,559
Speaker 1: hour stream of course? Oh yeah, well many a ten

1524
01:23:24,640 --> 01:23:30,240
Speaker 1: hour stream. I got this workout Glass, I'm going you're

1525
01:23:30,280 --> 01:23:32,760
Speaker 1: working out here, do the push ups on the couch.

1526
01:23:32,800 --> 01:23:35,040
Speaker 2: When you tell them you have plans, they love to

1527
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:37,639
Speaker 2: they love they want to cancel, They want to cancel

1528
01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:39,400
Speaker 2: everything that you have.

1529
01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:46,200
Speaker 1: Mom. Look, I know it's your fifty anniversary, but nope,

1530
01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:48,479
Speaker 1: not to I know you have this big dinner coming

1531
01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:54,599
Speaker 1: up the man, I just don't have the homebeuse wait

1532
01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:58,439
Speaker 1: so real quick. What op is suggesting that they're going

1533
01:23:58,520 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 1: to do is play home thus far, cheat or not?

1534
01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:06,720
Speaker 2: Ducie, I am inferring from what they said it was,

1535
01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:10,240
Speaker 2: you know, typical sappy stuff. I'm thinking that at least

1536
01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:14,960
Speaker 2: as of now, there's not any you know, nefarious stuff.

1537
01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:21,200
Speaker 1: Dude. Now, I'm burdened with a lot of power right now,

1538
01:24:21,320 --> 01:24:22,800
Speaker 1: and I don't know if I have it in me

1539
01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:25,920
Speaker 1: to do the right thing, or if I even know

1540
01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:28,720
Speaker 1: the right thing. I'm blinded with tears of rage and

1541
01:24:28,720 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 1: sadness in betrayal. But at the same time I loved him,

1542
01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:36,080
Speaker 1: have loved him, and do I really want to do this?

1543
01:24:36,520 --> 01:24:39,040
Speaker 2: The relationship is over, no doubt about it. I am

1544
01:24:39,040 --> 01:24:41,360
Speaker 2: not a woman who will take her man cheating on her,

1545
01:24:41,439 --> 01:24:41,960
Speaker 2: certainly not.

1546
01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:45,680
Speaker 1: That's not the issue. The issue is there are a

1547
01:24:45,760 --> 01:24:47,439
Speaker 1: quty selfies of the two.

1548
01:24:47,240 --> 01:24:50,080
Speaker 2: Of them, a lot of them only shared between the

1549
01:24:50,080 --> 01:24:50,599
Speaker 2: two of them.

1550
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:51,759
Speaker 3: Nothing Lewde.

1551
01:24:52,280 --> 01:24:55,640
Speaker 1: There's plenty of that on the camera though Oh, do

1552
01:24:55,760 --> 01:24:58,240
Speaker 1: I sneak in a snap of the reel as a

1553
01:24:58,240 --> 01:25:03,760
Speaker 1: way of letting him know that I know yes, or.

1554
01:25:07,560 --> 01:25:08,240
Speaker 3: That's brilliant.

1555
01:25:08,600 --> 01:25:10,920
Speaker 1: Or do I to see the panic? Sorry, keep going?

1556
01:25:11,520 --> 01:25:14,559
Speaker 2: Do I simply confront him after his moment in the

1557
01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:18,000
Speaker 2: sun passes. I'm not gonna pick up everything and leave

1558
01:25:18,040 --> 01:25:21,080
Speaker 2: without cutting contact. That's not my style and it wouldn't

1559
01:25:21,080 --> 01:25:22,519
Speaker 2: have made me feel it and it wouldn't make me

1560
01:25:22,520 --> 01:25:24,880
Speaker 2: feel very good, just very sad. Or do I do

1561
01:25:24,960 --> 01:25:28,519
Speaker 2: the bishy thing for once in my life? To anyone

1562
01:25:28,640 --> 01:25:29,840
Speaker 2: looking at the snap.

1563
01:25:29,600 --> 01:25:32,000
Speaker 1: Reel, it would just look like a picture of him

1564
01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:34,599
Speaker 1: and a friend, But to him and me, it would

1565
01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:38,559
Speaker 1: be a private message, an outing. Okay, so she's not

1566
01:25:38,840 --> 01:25:41,479
Speaker 1: thinking about putt. I thought she was gonna put like

1567
01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:43,200
Speaker 1: two seconds of the movie.

1568
01:25:43,320 --> 01:25:44,920
Speaker 7: That's what I thought.

1569
01:25:45,760 --> 01:25:49,519
Speaker 4: This is better. This is because she's gonna be there.

1570
01:25:49,600 --> 01:25:51,599
Speaker 4: She's gonna be in the crowd. I'm assuming she's gonna

1571
01:25:51,600 --> 01:25:55,040
Speaker 4: be there. She's gonna look at him. Oh so let's

1572
01:25:55,240 --> 01:26:02,160
Speaker 4: let's uh, he's gonna know else is gonna expoke in

1573
01:26:02,240 --> 01:26:04,559
Speaker 4: the I feel the way that I thought she was

1574
01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:09,360
Speaker 4: going to expose with the the Spicy movie, which.

1575
01:26:11,240 --> 01:26:13,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be illegal. That would be illegal. But

1576
01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:18,360
Speaker 1: the picture, honestly is the right amount of revenge. No

1577
01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:21,160
Speaker 1: one in the crowd necessarily know, but he will know.

1578
01:26:21,479 --> 01:26:23,599
Speaker 1: And you could do a little caption like and now

1579
01:26:23,640 --> 01:26:26,920
Speaker 1: a moment of some of Opie's closest friends, and then

1580
01:26:26,960 --> 01:26:29,040
Speaker 1: it starts with the picture of the two of them.

1581
01:26:29,439 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Mela six eighty one to five says she's

1582
01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:35,519
Speaker 1: being smooth with it. I think so. And for that reason,

1583
01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 1: not only like I feel like it's it's a tasteful

1584
01:26:38,160 --> 01:26:38,839
Speaker 1: way to expose.

1585
01:26:39,000 --> 01:26:42,880
Speaker 2: Yes, there, there's the thing is there is no damage

1586
01:26:43,160 --> 01:26:47,800
Speaker 2: to Opie's boyfriend. Yeah, right, besides the emotional damage. Well,

1587
01:26:47,800 --> 01:26:51,120
Speaker 2: there will be emotional damage, but there's like deserved yeah, yeah,

1588
01:26:51,200 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 2: the deserved of like I'm telling you, I know you're

1589
01:26:54,360 --> 01:26:56,360
Speaker 2: you're cheating and you know, exposing you to the two

1590
01:26:56,360 --> 01:26:58,760
Speaker 2: of us, but nothing outside of that, which I think

1591
01:26:58,840 --> 01:27:01,800
Speaker 2: that is what he puts in the clear.

1592
01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:04,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm voting for expells. I'm voting one.

1593
01:27:05,120 --> 01:27:08,200
Speaker 4: I mean, it's just the the story that you've drawn up.

1594
01:27:09,080 --> 01:27:13,800
Speaker 4: I mean, it's giving not the the it's giving the

1595
01:27:13,840 --> 01:27:16,680
Speaker 4: scene in lux Love Love actually where one of the

1596
01:27:16,760 --> 01:27:18,559
Speaker 4: characters finds out it's what's his face?

1597
01:27:18,600 --> 01:27:21,040
Speaker 1: Alan Rickman? And then Emma Thompson is anybody for me?

1598
01:27:22,120 --> 01:27:23,040
Speaker 1: Watch actually?

1599
01:27:23,160 --> 01:27:26,960
Speaker 4: And so she knows that he's brought this gift for

1600
01:27:27,040 --> 01:27:30,320
Speaker 4: this other person because she gets the gift that's wrapped

1601
01:27:30,360 --> 01:27:32,479
Speaker 4: the same way and it's not and it's like, oh,

1602
01:27:32,720 --> 01:27:33,479
Speaker 4: and then so she.

1603
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:36,040
Speaker 1: Did you like that movie? I love it. I think

1604
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:40,880
Speaker 1: it's I think it's cool. Why did you hate it?

1605
01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:43,639
Speaker 7: Because everyone made me sad?

1606
01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:44,920
Speaker 1: That's lie?

1607
01:27:50,640 --> 01:27:55,240
Speaker 2: But yeah, all right, getting back to this story, so

1608
01:27:55,479 --> 01:27:56,599
Speaker 2: let's see what actually happens.

1609
01:27:56,640 --> 01:27:59,320
Speaker 1: We have some relevant comments here. First from Bee Beep.

1610
01:27:59,640 --> 01:28:02,559
Speaker 2: Nah, you know what, if there's really nothing that anyone

1611
01:28:02,560 --> 01:28:04,519
Speaker 2: would pick up on other than the two of you,

1612
01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:07,639
Speaker 2: you slip that photo into the slideshow, make eye contact

1613
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:09,200
Speaker 2: with him when the photo appears on screen.

1614
01:28:09,479 --> 01:28:12,439
Speaker 1: Then when it's over, you stand up, walk out.

1615
01:28:13,040 --> 01:28:14,880
Speaker 7: That's what I Also, I just want to say that

1616
01:28:15,080 --> 01:28:17,799
Speaker 7: it is full, like one hundred percent exposed.

1617
01:28:17,960 --> 01:28:20,360
Speaker 1: We have never I don't know if we've ever. We've

1618
01:28:20,520 --> 01:28:25,639
Speaker 1: rarely had a one hundred percent vote. You're right, one

1619
01:28:25,439 --> 01:28:28,840
Speaker 1: one hundred percent for exposed, that is, and we're all

1620
01:28:28,840 --> 01:28:31,920
Speaker 1: in agreement too. That's they teet it up. Yeah, we

1621
01:28:32,000 --> 01:28:32,639
Speaker 1: ted it up.

1622
01:28:33,960 --> 01:28:38,120
Speaker 2: Two hundred percent agreement. Yeah, everybody, I love it.

1623
01:28:38,160 --> 01:28:38,479
Speaker 1: Wow.

1624
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:41,200
Speaker 2: Look it ain't the high road, but somebody needs to

1625
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:44,680
Speaker 2: walk the high road. But nobody needs to walk the

1626
01:28:44,720 --> 01:28:46,720
Speaker 2: high road all the time. There's more room for me

1627
01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:51,280
Speaker 2: on the low road, OPI responded, I chuckled. I think

1628
01:28:51,320 --> 01:28:53,320
Speaker 2: the only reason I would do this to make icon

1629
01:28:54,280 --> 01:28:56,840
Speaker 2: Ye conct with him, so that way he knows. I know,

1630
01:28:57,600 --> 01:28:59,559
Speaker 2: But I'm not sure I have the guts to do that.

1631
01:29:00,000 --> 01:29:01,879
Speaker 2: I'm not exactly Olivia Pope.

1632
01:29:01,920 --> 01:29:03,320
Speaker 1: Who is that? I have no idea who that I

1633
01:29:03,360 --> 01:29:04,479
Speaker 1: don't know. Does anyone know?

1634
01:29:05,040 --> 01:29:09,480
Speaker 4: I'm not exactly She's like the eighth storyline in love Actually,

1635
01:29:11,880 --> 01:29:13,240
Speaker 4: but yeah.

1636
01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:18,559
Speaker 2: It was before Pope Francis so true, so true. But guys,

1637
01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:24,480
Speaker 2: there is an update six weeks later. Oh please, possibly

1638
01:29:24,800 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 2: after the night of the event. Please tell her you did.

1639
01:29:27,240 --> 01:29:29,719
Speaker 1: It well, scandal Candle.

1640
01:29:30,120 --> 01:29:33,320
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, it has been a month and a half

1641
01:29:33,360 --> 01:29:35,519
Speaker 2: since this all went down, and I have gotten so

1642
01:29:35,720 --> 01:29:38,880
Speaker 2: many requests for an update, and I never intended to

1643
01:29:38,920 --> 01:29:42,680
Speaker 2: actually give one, honestly, because I was afraid of the fallout.

1644
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:46,519
Speaker 1: Depending on what I ended up doing. So what did

1645
01:29:46,520 --> 01:29:46,760
Speaker 1: I do?

1646
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:48,080
Speaker 3: What do you do? What did I do?

1647
01:29:48,479 --> 01:29:52,120
Speaker 1: What did I decide to do? Op? I did the

1648
01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:59,280
Speaker 1: immature vengeful thing. Yes, yeah, that's what I love. I

1649
01:29:59,320 --> 01:30:05,920
Speaker 1: didn't mean to do that, and I don't regret it.

1650
01:30:06,520 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 2: I took a few photos of the two of them,

1651
01:30:08,479 --> 01:30:11,640
Speaker 2: tasteful photos that gave off no indication other than she

1652
01:30:11,720 --> 01:30:14,519
Speaker 2: might be a childhood friend, and I slipped them into

1653
01:30:14,560 --> 01:30:18,040
Speaker 2: the snap reel. I spoke kindly of him at the podium,

1654
01:30:18,240 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 2: and then after my turn was finished, I walked out.

1655
01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:23,560
Speaker 3: Wow.

1656
01:30:23,800 --> 01:30:26,840
Speaker 1: Oh, but she didn't get to see his face. Maybe not,

1657
01:30:27,840 --> 01:30:31,559
Speaker 1: Maybe he might have would It sounds like she didn't

1658
01:30:31,840 --> 01:30:34,240
Speaker 1: mention it. She didn't mention the face. If she locked

1659
01:30:34,240 --> 01:30:36,360
Speaker 1: eyes with them, she would have mentioned it. Right, Probably,

1660
01:30:36,600 --> 01:30:38,559
Speaker 1: I feel like probably, we'll let's keep reading.

1661
01:30:40,360 --> 01:30:43,559
Speaker 2: I drove home, feeling calm and in control. Twenty minutes later,

1662
01:30:43,920 --> 01:30:44,799
Speaker 2: the text started.

1663
01:30:45,600 --> 01:30:46,320
Speaker 1: Where did I go?

1664
01:30:46,720 --> 01:30:49,280
Speaker 2: What did I know? Where did I find the photos?

1665
01:30:49,479 --> 01:30:50,840
Speaker 2: Was there more in store for him?

1666
01:30:51,120 --> 01:30:56,240
Speaker 1: Ooh? This is? And then you just don't respond? Do

1667
01:30:56,320 --> 01:30:59,240
Speaker 1: you respond? Or would you respond? Would you not? I would?

1668
01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:01,240
Speaker 2: I would leave him, yeah, at least for like a

1669
01:31:01,240 --> 01:31:04,000
Speaker 2: couple like a day, or yeah, yeah, give him a

1670
01:31:04,040 --> 01:31:11,400
Speaker 2: cool day, or just respond like hey, brutal? I texted him,

1671
01:31:11,880 --> 01:31:14,240
Speaker 2: I know you've been fing her, but there are normal

1672
01:31:14,439 --> 01:31:16,880
Speaker 2: but there are no more photos. There weren't any, And

1673
01:31:16,960 --> 01:31:19,320
Speaker 2: of course I left it at that. He did not

1674
01:31:19,360 --> 01:31:23,280
Speaker 2: come home that night or the next. The next day,

1675
01:31:23,479 --> 01:31:25,200
Speaker 2: he called me to ask if we could meet and

1676
01:31:25,280 --> 01:31:27,920
Speaker 2: talk at a public location. I agreed to meet him

1677
01:31:27,920 --> 01:31:30,280
Speaker 2: at a Starbucks. I arrived early and waited for him.

1678
01:31:30,720 --> 01:31:32,800
Speaker 2: He showed up a few minutes late and took the

1679
01:31:32,840 --> 01:31:36,600
Speaker 2: seat across from me. He started right off with the excuses,

1680
01:31:36,800 --> 01:31:39,960
Speaker 2: how it just happened, and how he regrets it fully,

1681
01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:42,800
Speaker 2: she didn't mean anything to him, and that she looked

1682
01:31:42,840 --> 01:31:45,160
Speaker 2: like a girl he had a crush on in high school.

1683
01:31:46,040 --> 01:31:49,840
Speaker 2: Of course that you know that that helps so much. Yeah,

1684
01:31:49,880 --> 01:31:52,720
Speaker 2: there's this other girl in high school. You know, she

1685
01:31:52,840 --> 01:31:55,679
Speaker 2: just looks so much like Yeah. I just can't stop

1686
01:31:55,760 --> 01:31:57,280
Speaker 2: thinking about her, you know, So I just thought, let

1687
01:31:57,280 --> 01:31:57,599
Speaker 2: me just.

1688
01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:00,800
Speaker 1: Go with the B version. Yeah, right now version. What's

1689
01:32:00,840 --> 01:32:03,559
Speaker 1: worse saying that or saying she looks so much like you?

1690
01:32:03,640 --> 01:32:07,519
Speaker 1: And I just wanted another one. I mean, that one's better,

1691
01:32:07,600 --> 01:32:11,160
Speaker 1: but that one's annoying and this one's like, there's clearly

1692
01:32:11,200 --> 01:32:14,840
Speaker 1: a lie. Yeah, should we do do?

1693
01:32:15,120 --> 01:32:15,200
Speaker 3: Uh?

1694
01:32:15,280 --> 01:32:21,880
Speaker 1: And he felt powerless against this teenage self. He's seventeen again. Yeah,

1695
01:32:21,960 --> 01:32:27,479
Speaker 1: I'm Zach. Don't pass me the ball because I might

1696
01:32:27,520 --> 01:32:28,519
Speaker 1: pass my ball back.

1697
01:32:28,600 --> 01:32:32,040
Speaker 7: But zac Efron was so loyal in seventeen again, we didn't.

1698
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:35,000
Speaker 1: He was very he was very loyal.

1699
01:32:35,160 --> 01:32:37,840
Speaker 7: True all the ladies, and he was like, no.

1700
01:32:37,400 --> 01:32:40,320
Speaker 1: No, my forty year old cougar wife. Well, I guess

1701
01:32:40,600 --> 01:32:42,880
Speaker 1: it is his Well I guess she kind of was

1702
01:32:42,880 --> 01:32:49,200
Speaker 1: a cougar. She was all right, very oh damn, sorry

1703
01:32:49,240 --> 01:32:55,120
Speaker 1: to bring it down, but he started right off.

1704
01:32:56,000 --> 01:32:58,280
Speaker 2: I didn't interrupt him and just let him have his time.

1705
01:32:58,720 --> 01:33:00,600
Speaker 2: When he was done and look looking at me for

1706
01:33:00,640 --> 01:33:03,240
Speaker 2: a sign of what might happen next. All I could

1707
01:33:03,280 --> 01:33:06,720
Speaker 2: say was, so, where did you stay the past few nights?

1708
01:33:07,280 --> 01:33:13,720
Speaker 1: His answer her house? Dude, if he's trying to get together.

1709
01:33:13,680 --> 01:33:19,080
Speaker 4: With got like every every every clap back in the

1710
01:33:19,240 --> 01:33:20,320
Speaker 4: like she's ready.

1711
01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:25,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, just so calm, just ready to strike like a obra. Yeah.

1712
01:33:26,120 --> 01:33:27,920
Speaker 2: And they'd be like, what did you do? Sorry, keeping

1713
01:33:28,320 --> 01:33:34,040
Speaker 2: and what did you do? He wouldn't answer silence. There

1714
01:33:34,040 --> 01:33:37,080
Speaker 2: hadn't been any doubt in my mind. Really I knew

1715
01:33:37,240 --> 01:33:41,160
Speaker 2: I was leaving him. He talked over himself, apologizing begging forgiving.

1716
01:33:40,760 --> 01:33:41,799
Speaker 3: To saying he changed.

1717
01:33:42,240 --> 01:33:44,200
Speaker 1: If he was going to change, though, he would have

1718
01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:48,640
Speaker 1: not stayed at her house. My teenage solf just just

1719
01:33:48,720 --> 01:33:51,640
Speaker 1: came back, and I couldn't look my younger self in

1720
01:33:51,680 --> 01:33:55,799
Speaker 1: the eye and say, little buddy, you're not getting none tonight.

1721
01:33:58,320 --> 01:34:00,760
Speaker 1: I told him that I didn't want him to have

1722
01:34:00,800 --> 01:34:04,400
Speaker 1: to change himself, that if who he was naturally was

1723
01:34:04,400 --> 01:34:07,960
Speaker 1: someone who cheated on his girlfriend, then that's someone that's

1724
01:34:08,080 --> 01:34:11,439
Speaker 1: not someone I wanted to be with. Savage, he said

1725
01:34:11,520 --> 01:34:14,400
Speaker 1: that he was thinking of proposing to me. A marriage

1726
01:34:14,400 --> 01:34:18,320
Speaker 1: will fix everything, babe, Yeah, let's have a kid. It'll

1727
01:34:18,360 --> 01:34:19,280
Speaker 1: all be fixed.

1728
01:34:19,400 --> 01:34:21,840
Speaker 2: And all I could say to that was a good

1729
01:34:21,920 --> 01:34:23,560
Speaker 2: thing I found out before.

1730
01:34:23,840 --> 01:34:29,639
Speaker 1: Boom Boom got them again. Opie is just doing nothing

1731
01:34:29,680 --> 01:34:33,439
Speaker 1: but upper cuts to the chick sniper taking him out

1732
01:34:33,479 --> 01:34:36,320
Speaker 1: over and over, shooby doo.

1733
01:34:37,640 --> 01:34:40,080
Speaker 2: Fast forward to a few weeks later. He's moved out

1734
01:34:40,120 --> 01:34:42,560
Speaker 2: and I'm doing very well. We have cut off contact.

1735
01:34:42,760 --> 01:34:44,800
Speaker 2: People asking about him all the time, and I just

1736
01:34:44,880 --> 01:34:47,599
Speaker 2: let them know he left me for a girl who

1737
01:34:47,640 --> 01:34:50,599
Speaker 2: looked like his high school crush.

1738
01:34:50,720 --> 01:34:57,479
Speaker 1: Dude. So many bars, so many bars, Wow, Opie, I

1739
01:34:57,520 --> 01:35:00,599
Speaker 1: feel like op he just deserves more just for how

1740
01:35:00,640 --> 01:35:03,640
Speaker 1: eloquent her writing is. Yeah, I trust her implicitly. It

1741
01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:04,360
Speaker 1: was a great story.

1742
01:35:04,439 --> 01:35:07,840
Speaker 2: Stories almost we have a little bit more, but let's

1743
01:35:07,880 --> 01:35:11,479
Speaker 2: talk about it. Was there anything that op should have

1744
01:35:11,479 --> 01:35:13,080
Speaker 2: done differently in handling this breakup?

1745
01:35:13,479 --> 01:35:19,480
Speaker 1: I feel like it's great. I like everything subtle, tasteful,

1746
01:35:21,120 --> 01:35:24,200
Speaker 1: like did everything you needed to do? Artful?

1747
01:35:24,560 --> 01:35:26,960
Speaker 2: Let me ask you this, is it an a whole

1748
01:35:27,080 --> 01:35:31,920
Speaker 2: move that she is telling the friends that what she said,

1749
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:34,760
Speaker 2: but basically the line of he left me for a

1750
01:35:34,760 --> 01:35:36,200
Speaker 2: girl who looked like his high school crush.

1751
01:35:36,360 --> 01:35:38,400
Speaker 1: I mean she's telling the truth. I think she Yeah,

1752
01:35:38,600 --> 01:35:39,800
Speaker 1: she's entitled to tell the truth.

1753
01:35:40,200 --> 01:35:45,959
Speaker 2: She's literally telling it herbatim and hilarious, hilarious.

1754
01:35:46,000 --> 01:35:46,679
Speaker 1: That's so good.

1755
01:35:46,720 --> 01:35:49,080
Speaker 2: It's it's like you said, everything is so perfect where

1756
01:35:49,080 --> 01:35:51,360
Speaker 2: it's like it is it is purely truthful, but like

1757
01:35:51,479 --> 01:35:52,760
Speaker 2: the truth, the truth tells it.

1758
01:35:53,160 --> 01:35:56,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, she tells how that have to like do anything.

1759
01:35:56,240 --> 01:35:57,920
Speaker 1: She doesn't have to lie, she doesn't have to like

1760
01:35:58,000 --> 01:36:00,960
Speaker 1: expand what he's done. I think she and just she's

1761
01:36:01,120 --> 01:36:04,479
Speaker 1: just saying exactly what happened, which I feel makes it tasteful.

1762
01:36:04,520 --> 01:36:07,400
Speaker 1: If she was like augmenting in any way, then I

1763
01:36:07,439 --> 01:36:09,559
Speaker 1: think maybe she would be in a whole territory. But

1764
01:36:09,600 --> 01:36:12,320
Speaker 1: because she's just telling the truth and kind of telling

1765
01:36:12,400 --> 01:36:14,720
Speaker 1: him the truth too, of like what she's doing and

1766
01:36:14,720 --> 01:36:18,320
Speaker 1: what she'll expect. I think no a holary here.

1767
01:36:18,560 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 2: Actions have consequence. M let the truth speak for itself.

1768
01:36:22,120 --> 01:36:24,439
Speaker 2: So that's the end. We are broken up. We are

1769
01:36:24,479 --> 01:36:27,080
Speaker 2: never ever ever getting back together. I don't feel any

1770
01:36:27,120 --> 01:36:29,639
Speaker 2: regret for how I handled it. Like one commenter said,

1771
01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:32,439
Speaker 2: there's no need to take the high road all the.

1772
01:36:32,439 --> 01:36:37,320
Speaker 1: Time, and that's all the answer. How do you front

1773
01:36:37,320 --> 01:36:37,639
Speaker 1: a cheater?

1774
01:36:38,200 --> 01:36:38,320
Speaker 3: That?

1775
01:36:38,880 --> 01:36:42,080
Speaker 1: Like that textbook if you want to confrond a cheeter,

1776
01:36:42,200 --> 01:36:44,479
Speaker 1: this is it. Yes, they should put it how to

1777
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:46,960
Speaker 1: confront a cheater for dummies. They should have this story right.

1778
01:36:47,439 --> 01:36:48,200
Speaker 1: What I want to know.

1779
01:36:48,280 --> 01:36:50,640
Speaker 4: What I want to know is how many people he

1780
01:36:50,880 --> 01:36:56,000
Speaker 4: told about the Council Awards.

1781
01:36:55,520 --> 01:37:00,479
Speaker 1: Show about that? What do you mean like that might he.

1782
01:37:00,200 --> 01:37:02,160
Speaker 4: Well no, but it's like because he experienced that. But

1783
01:37:02,200 --> 01:37:04,840
Speaker 4: did he tell anybody, dude, like this is how she

1784
01:37:05,040 --> 01:37:08,960
Speaker 4: did it? Like hmm, oh does he take that? Does

1785
01:37:09,000 --> 01:37:11,479
Speaker 4: he just take that to the grave like everyone? Oh

1786
01:37:11,600 --> 01:37:13,920
Speaker 4: she knows and didn't doesn't tell anybody? Or does he

1787
01:37:14,000 --> 01:37:16,240
Speaker 4: be like yo, like to his best buddy, Like, yeah, dude,

1788
01:37:16,280 --> 01:37:17,680
Speaker 4: this is how she found Like, this is.

1789
01:37:18,120 --> 01:37:20,360
Speaker 1: Mean he probably said it to his best buddy, you

1790
01:37:20,360 --> 01:37:25,320
Speaker 1: think so? Yeah, I mean unless, but I guess he

1791
01:37:25,720 --> 01:37:27,840
Speaker 1: did keep a secret from his wife for or his

1792
01:37:28,000 --> 01:37:31,240
Speaker 1: his his significant other for a while, so he's not

1793
01:37:31,560 --> 01:37:37,160
Speaker 1: necessarily the loose loosest loosest loosest lip to person. There

1794
01:37:37,200 --> 01:37:42,240
Speaker 1: we go. Oh his lips are that they are. But

1795
01:37:42,560 --> 01:37:45,400
Speaker 1: we got another story coming up. You want to read

1796
01:37:45,400 --> 01:37:50,240
Speaker 1: some donus? Uh? So Sophy could just scroll down a

1797
01:37:50,240 --> 01:37:55,360
Speaker 1: little bit. Ash got to catch him. Thanks for the

1798
01:37:55,400 --> 01:37:57,800
Speaker 1: five bucks. I can post a photo of a little

1799
01:37:57,800 --> 01:37:59,800
Speaker 1: producer Riley in the discord for you guys to see.

1800
01:38:00,160 --> 01:38:03,920
Speaker 1: Do it. He also loves pigeons and sits outside waiting

1801
01:38:03,920 --> 01:38:05,759
Speaker 1: for them to come and eat the oats he puts

1802
01:38:05,760 --> 01:38:09,120
Speaker 1: out daily. Let's freaking go. This is this is the

1803
01:38:09,200 --> 01:38:12,519
Speaker 1: okay baby, part of the protein army and the pigeon army.

1804
01:38:12,600 --> 01:38:16,560
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1805
01:38:16,600 --> 01:38:20,240
Speaker 1: and the happiest little soul in the world. Love you, guys,

1806
01:38:20,600 --> 01:38:27,360
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1807
01:38:27,479 --> 01:38:32,679
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1808
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Speaker 1: The stream will go on. Asian Persuasion says, thanks for that,

1809
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Speaker 1: and then we have if you get to do this

1810
01:38:41,080 --> 01:38:44,479
Speaker 1: it up for me, Brittany, I see you.

1811
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Speaker 3: Lynn.

1812
01:38:44,840 --> 01:38:47,080
Speaker 2: Thanks for the twenty bucks on the Donna link, no

1813
01:38:47,160 --> 01:38:48,120
Speaker 2: less ten hour.

1814
01:38:47,960 --> 01:38:50,040
Speaker 1: Stream, no friends gang.

1815
01:38:50,640 --> 01:38:52,479
Speaker 2: And then Josephe mamdalab re Quest thanks for the two

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Speaker 2: fifty three make a flasher and.

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01:38:56,400 --> 01:39:01,760
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1818
01:39:02,000 --> 01:39:04,439
Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks on the Dono link. Not

1819
01:39:04,479 --> 01:39:06,439
Speaker 2: sure if you all saw my message on Discord, but

1820
01:39:06,960 --> 01:39:09,680
Speaker 2: I sent you some PNG's the characters I will be

1821
01:39:09,760 --> 01:39:11,520
Speaker 2: using for y'all in my animation.

1822
01:39:12,200 --> 01:39:14,599
Speaker 1: Where did you send it? Uh oh? Yeah, let us

1823
01:39:14,640 --> 01:39:15,519
Speaker 1: know where you send me?

1824
01:39:15,560 --> 01:39:16,400
Speaker 7: Give my phone to you.

1825
01:39:17,240 --> 01:39:19,400
Speaker 1: Maybe we can I see that? Wait did they send

1826
01:39:19,400 --> 01:39:19,760
Speaker 1: it to you?

1827
01:39:20,560 --> 01:39:21,519
Speaker 7: I sent it to all of us?

1828
01:39:21,560 --> 01:39:22,439
Speaker 1: I think, uh.

1829
01:39:22,400 --> 01:39:27,160
Speaker 2: Oh, maybe we can show the mock ups on stream on.

1830
01:39:27,160 --> 01:39:29,840
Speaker 1: A little bit. Anthony are about to be memed.

1831
01:39:30,280 --> 01:39:34,880
Speaker 2: Uh oh, get ready for the memes. And Crazy Stacy

1832
01:39:35,280 --> 01:39:39,800
Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks. So Crazy, Stacy.

1833
01:39:39,439 --> 01:39:43,240
Speaker 1: So crazy. It's my birthday today and I wanted to

1834
01:39:43,280 --> 01:39:47,719
Speaker 1: celebrate by supporting my favorite podcast. Love you guys, Crazy Stacy,

1835
01:39:48,479 --> 01:39:50,920
Speaker 1: thank you and happy birthday to you.

1836
01:39:52,960 --> 01:39:53,200
Speaker 5: Dude.

1837
01:39:53,560 --> 01:39:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, there we go, and that is all our dono's,

1838
01:39:57,240 --> 01:39:59,479
Speaker 2: that's all our dono's. But do you know what I know?

1839
01:40:00,120 --> 01:40:02,200
Speaker 1: What do you know? I got another story for you?

1840
01:40:02,280 --> 01:40:06,280
Speaker 1: Oh so am I the a hole for telling my

1841
01:40:06,360 --> 01:40:11,240
Speaker 1: dad's wife that she's disgusting, disgusting. My dad had an

1842
01:40:11,280 --> 01:40:16,760
Speaker 1: affair with my mom's supposed best friend, Cheryl three years ago.

1843
01:40:17,120 --> 01:40:21,000
Speaker 1: Cheryl pulled me fifteen mail aside and told me about

1844
01:40:21,040 --> 01:40:24,360
Speaker 1: the affair and that she wanted my help to make

1845
01:40:24,439 --> 01:40:28,519
Speaker 1: my siblings still love her when they found out. She

1846
01:40:28,680 --> 01:40:30,880
Speaker 1: was someone we were all close with on the baby

1847
01:40:30,920 --> 01:40:34,000
Speaker 1: of the family and the favorite of everyone, which I

1848
01:40:34,000 --> 01:40:35,679
Speaker 1: don't see is true, but it's a bit of a joke.

1849
01:40:35,800 --> 01:40:38,000
Speaker 1: And I am the baby, so I get people looking

1850
01:40:38,040 --> 01:40:41,280
Speaker 1: out for me more. This is something Cheryl tried to

1851
01:40:41,439 --> 01:40:44,760
Speaker 1: use to her advantage. By the way, this comes from

1852
01:40:45,000 --> 01:40:47,000
Speaker 1: Slow Drop seven three z Oho three on the Okay

1853
01:40:47,000 --> 01:40:49,240
Speaker 1: story Time subbrend and some of your stories there. But

1854
01:40:49,400 --> 01:40:52,519
Speaker 1: really quick, if you were fifteen and trying to get

1855
01:40:52,520 --> 01:40:54,679
Speaker 1: manipulated by Cheryl, what do you do? Dude?

1856
01:40:55,080 --> 01:40:58,000
Speaker 4: Can somebody summarize what's happening?

1857
01:40:58,439 --> 01:41:05,120
Speaker 1: Basically, Op's dad had an affair with his mom's best friend, Cheryl,

1858
01:41:05,560 --> 01:41:08,880
Speaker 1: and Cheryl pulled Opie aside and it's like, Hey, when

1859
01:41:08,880 --> 01:41:11,000
Speaker 1: this comes out, I want all of your siblings to

1860
01:41:11,160 --> 01:41:13,719
Speaker 1: like me. The mistress is trying to get the kids

1861
01:41:13,720 --> 01:41:16,960
Speaker 1: on because OPI is the favorite of the family and

1862
01:41:17,000 --> 01:41:20,439
Speaker 1: he can use his like sway within the family to

1863
01:41:20,680 --> 01:41:24,040
Speaker 1: make Cheryl liked. You know what I would do. I

1864
01:41:24,040 --> 01:41:26,360
Speaker 1: would I would feed her some fake information and be like,

1865
01:41:26,760 --> 01:41:28,840
Speaker 1: I got all the siblings on your side, We're gonna

1866
01:41:28,840 --> 01:41:32,960
Speaker 1: have a family meeting, and then you come out. Nah,

1867
01:41:33,040 --> 01:41:35,160
Speaker 1: hit her with it, You ain't Mom. Mama hit her

1868
01:41:35,160 --> 01:41:38,240
Speaker 1: with the truth. She put me in the worst position

1869
01:41:38,320 --> 01:41:40,680
Speaker 1: by telling me about the affair because she OpEd my

1870
01:41:40,800 --> 01:41:44,360
Speaker 1: siblings would love me too much to hate her if

1871
01:41:44,400 --> 01:41:47,160
Speaker 1: I told them not to. So if Opie said, don't

1872
01:41:47,160 --> 01:41:51,000
Speaker 1: hate her, then it'll be okay. I was so angry

1873
01:41:51,000 --> 01:41:53,000
Speaker 1: at her and Dad. I didn't want to be the

1874
01:41:53,000 --> 01:41:54,760
Speaker 1: one to tell what. I didn't want to be the

1875
01:41:54,760 --> 01:41:57,280
Speaker 1: one to tell Mom. I didn't want to see her

1876
01:41:57,320 --> 01:42:03,519
Speaker 1: break down, but I knew I needed to. Mom was

1877
01:42:04,240 --> 01:42:09,080
Speaker 1: furious more Cheryl for involving me than the affair at first,

1878
01:42:09,160 --> 01:42:13,080
Speaker 1: which is I would argue even more fed up than

1879
01:42:13,080 --> 01:42:17,519
Speaker 1: the affair itself so insane, so insane like that is

1880
01:42:17,560 --> 01:42:21,080
Speaker 1: like a fifteen year old child that you're roping into

1881
01:42:21,200 --> 01:42:26,640
Speaker 1: your your affair that is, and the lies that's disgusting.

1882
01:42:27,560 --> 01:42:30,320
Speaker 1: My dad defended Cheryl and said she had known me

1883
01:42:30,560 --> 01:42:33,960
Speaker 1: my whole life and should be allowed to confide in me.

1884
01:42:36,200 --> 01:42:42,559
Speaker 1: Whoa daddy, Taddy, no daddy, no daddy. Chill. It turned

1885
01:42:42,600 --> 01:42:45,240
Speaker 1: into a really big fight. My siblings hated them more

1886
01:42:45,360 --> 01:42:49,360
Speaker 1: for trying to involve me. Two during the divorce, we

1887
01:42:49,439 --> 01:42:52,000
Speaker 1: all said we wanted to stay with mom. The judge

1888
01:42:52,080 --> 01:42:54,040
Speaker 1: ruled I had to go to my dad's until I

1889
01:42:54,120 --> 01:42:57,519
Speaker 1: was fourteen. Why why would you do that? So for

1890
01:42:57,560 --> 01:42:59,519
Speaker 1: two years I had to go to my dad's house

1891
01:42:59,520 --> 01:43:03,120
Speaker 1: every other I made it my mission in life to

1892
01:43:03,160 --> 01:43:06,479
Speaker 1: make life harder for them the whole time. I refuse

1893
01:43:06,560 --> 01:43:09,599
Speaker 1: to go along with the happy family crap they tried

1894
01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:13,160
Speaker 1: to pull, which only got way worse when Cheryl was

1895
01:43:13,240 --> 01:43:16,559
Speaker 1: pregnant and they wanted to do a pregnancy reveal with

1896
01:43:16,640 --> 01:43:22,000
Speaker 1: me in it. No, And I said no, with these people,

1897
01:43:23,320 --> 01:43:25,720
Speaker 1: I mean, they obviously have no morals and don't know

1898
01:43:25,760 --> 01:43:29,720
Speaker 1: how to navigate life in any meaningful way. Holy, this

1899
01:43:29,760 --> 01:43:34,200
Speaker 1: is like just brutal blow after brutal blow this story.

1900
01:43:34,240 --> 01:43:36,919
Speaker 1: After the baby was born, they thought I would soften

1901
01:43:37,280 --> 01:43:40,160
Speaker 1: and would want to know their baby. I did not.

1902
01:43:41,200 --> 01:43:45,439
Speaker 1: Last time I was at their house, Cheryl was pregnant again.

1903
01:43:46,680 --> 01:43:51,519
Speaker 1: I turned fourteen and I stopped going. I refuse to

1904
01:43:51,560 --> 01:43:56,000
Speaker 1: answer texts from either of them, and I refused to

1905
01:43:56,040 --> 01:43:58,679
Speaker 1: test from either of them. Can't block my dad until

1906
01:43:58,680 --> 01:44:02,559
Speaker 1: I turn eighteen. SIM have both blocked, and they refuse

1907
01:44:02,680 --> 01:44:05,280
Speaker 1: to engage with them. Cheryl and my dad's families are

1908
01:44:05,479 --> 01:44:08,840
Speaker 1: living closer to them now and both ask about us

1909
01:44:09,160 --> 01:44:12,760
Speaker 1: and why we're not around. Dad's family have tried to

1910
01:44:12,760 --> 01:44:14,920
Speaker 1: reach out and get me to reconcile, but I told

1911
01:44:14,960 --> 01:44:18,519
Speaker 1: them I would not let it happen and I hate

1912
01:44:18,760 --> 01:44:22,640
Speaker 1: my dad. Cheryl confronted me while I was at the

1913
01:44:22,680 --> 01:44:24,439
Speaker 1: mall the other day, so now we're at present day.

1914
01:44:24,439 --> 01:44:27,320
Speaker 1: Op is eighteen. She followed me into different stores in

1915
01:44:27,320 --> 01:44:29,960
Speaker 1: staid I have two younger siblings, the two kids that

1916
01:44:30,479 --> 01:44:34,559
Speaker 1: she birthed with the dad, and I should know that,

1917
01:44:34,800 --> 01:44:37,000
Speaker 1: uh and I loved her before, so I should stop

1918
01:44:37,040 --> 01:44:41,040
Speaker 1: punishing her. I should stop punishing her and Dad and

1919
01:44:41,080 --> 01:44:46,840
Speaker 1: start being more respectful really quick pausing right here, it

1920
01:44:47,000 --> 01:44:52,200
Speaker 1: does Ope owe any respect to Cheryl and the dad

1921
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Speaker 1: in any way? Or does Ope? Is OPE good in

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Speaker 1: the knowledge of like going no contact with both of them?

1923
01:45:02,880 --> 01:45:06,640
Speaker 2: Deero respect Cheryl not not only did she have an

1924
01:45:06,680 --> 01:45:09,760
Speaker 2: affair with her father, she tried to rope him in,

1925
01:45:10,160 --> 01:45:14,080
Speaker 2: had all these children and has the audacity to ask

1926
01:45:14,160 --> 01:45:17,800
Speaker 2: for respect and support other things. That why you never

1927
01:45:17,880 --> 01:45:21,320
Speaker 2: respected me? You you you gave me the ultimate disrespect

1928
01:45:21,479 --> 01:45:24,479
Speaker 2: like a adult could give to a child cheating on

1929
01:45:24,600 --> 01:45:29,320
Speaker 2: their father and trying to manipulate you into making that.

1930
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Speaker 1: Okay and splitting the family and splitting the family. That's

1931
01:45:32,760 --> 01:45:33,800
Speaker 1: ultimately on the dad.

1932
01:45:33,800 --> 01:45:36,519
Speaker 2: But she, you know, was was a participant in this

1933
01:45:36,600 --> 01:45:38,240
Speaker 2: thing that split the family.

1934
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Speaker 4: So yeah, like you don't need to do any of that,

1935
01:45:42,760 --> 01:45:47,439
Speaker 4: Like if you cheat on somebody's dad, you don't need

1936
01:45:47,479 --> 01:45:50,280
Speaker 4: to be like love me, you know, you know that

1937
01:45:50,280 --> 01:45:51,000
Speaker 4: doesn't need you can.

1938
01:45:50,960 --> 01:45:52,799
Speaker 1: Just sorry like whoops.

1939
01:45:53,560 --> 01:45:59,880
Speaker 4: Like people do bad things, but like you don't need to.

1940
01:46:04,320 --> 01:46:06,840
Speaker 1: I think of this like quote from like Harry Potter

1941
01:46:06,920 --> 01:46:10,000
Speaker 1: where like the deathly hollows can do everything except make

1942
01:46:10,080 --> 01:46:14,160
Speaker 1: someone love you, and also when they do genie stuff

1943
01:46:14,160 --> 01:46:16,040
Speaker 1: like you can't you can never ask, so you can't

1944
01:46:16,040 --> 01:46:17,519
Speaker 1: even wish for someone to love you.

1945
01:46:17,680 --> 01:46:20,439
Speaker 4: That's that's a fairly odd parents, that's a fairly our

1946
01:46:20,479 --> 01:46:21,160
Speaker 4: parents rule too.

1947
01:46:21,320 --> 01:46:28,479
Speaker 1: One. Everyone knows. Everyone knows. I had enough when I

1948
01:46:28,520 --> 01:46:30,760
Speaker 1: realized she wasn't going to walk away, and I told

1949
01:46:30,800 --> 01:46:34,040
Speaker 1: her she's disgusting and repulsive for trying to make me,

1950
01:46:34,360 --> 01:46:37,320
Speaker 1: to try to use me to her advantage a twelve

1951
01:46:37,400 --> 01:46:39,120
Speaker 1: year old kid. Oh, I got to see you with

1952
01:46:39,200 --> 01:46:42,080
Speaker 1: twelve when she was having an affair with my dad.

1953
01:46:42,400 --> 01:46:44,599
Speaker 1: I told her I would never show her any respect,

1954
01:46:44,800 --> 01:46:46,519
Speaker 1: and she and her dad, and she and my dad

1955
01:46:46,560 --> 01:46:49,240
Speaker 1: could explain to their kids while they'll never be part

1956
01:46:49,360 --> 01:46:52,599
Speaker 1: of mine or my siblings' lives. But but I'm not

1957
01:46:52,640 --> 01:46:55,080
Speaker 1: going to get let them guilt me into anything. She

1958
01:46:55,120 --> 01:46:58,160
Speaker 1: has used my dad's phone a bunch since then, and

1959
01:46:58,200 --> 01:47:03,759
Speaker 1: I got over one hundred x already today, one hundred text. Also,

1960
01:47:04,520 --> 01:47:06,760
Speaker 1: I want to alert you that we go live every

1961
01:47:06,800 --> 01:47:08,960
Speaker 1: weekday at three pm PSD, so come check it out

1962
01:47:09,439 --> 01:47:12,080
Speaker 1: tap her profile. But getting back into the story, Mom

1963
01:47:12,200 --> 01:47:15,400
Speaker 1: told them to stop and bullying a child after all

1964
01:47:15,439 --> 01:47:18,800
Speaker 1: they did, makes them look even worse. The response back was,

1965
01:47:18,880 --> 01:47:23,280
Speaker 1: I am a disrespectful child who should be taught better.

1966
01:47:23,800 --> 01:47:29,320
Speaker 1: So is all to ask? Am I the a hole? No?

1967
01:47:29,680 --> 01:47:33,080
Speaker 1: I think the parents they need a banking of their own.

1968
01:47:33,600 --> 01:47:39,479
Speaker 1: Cheryl needs fucking Is this like child abuse? And anyway?

1969
01:47:39,600 --> 01:47:42,240
Speaker 1: I think so it is. I don't know what the

1970
01:47:43,120 --> 01:47:46,160
Speaker 1: emotional I mean, it's like definitely stalking. Like you could

1971
01:47:46,160 --> 01:47:47,759
Speaker 1: probably get a restraining order on chery.

1972
01:47:47,880 --> 01:47:53,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, like this is you're you're you're destroying a child's

1973
01:47:53,080 --> 01:47:56,280
Speaker 2: life and then you're twisting twisting the knife after you've

1974
01:47:56,320 --> 01:48:00,439
Speaker 2: done it, like, ah, the the the audacity, I would

1975
01:48:00,560 --> 01:48:03,040
Speaker 2: kind of this might be like super petty. But do

1976
01:48:03,080 --> 01:48:05,519
Speaker 2: you go when the children are older? Do you go

1977
01:48:05,640 --> 01:48:09,280
Speaker 2: to the children and stay reveal and reveal?

1978
01:48:10,840 --> 01:48:15,120
Speaker 1: I feel like that might be that might be too

1979
01:48:15,200 --> 01:48:18,680
Speaker 1: much because I don't think I would do that, Like

1980
01:48:18,720 --> 01:48:23,080
Speaker 1: those two kids, the two yeas. I don't think it's

1981
01:48:23,080 --> 01:48:25,439
Speaker 1: worth it because then it just introduces more and you're

1982
01:48:25,439 --> 01:48:27,960
Speaker 1: doing the same thing. Yeah, yeah I would. I mean,

1983
01:48:28,160 --> 01:48:30,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're doing the same thing, all right, Yeah,

1984
01:48:31,400 --> 01:48:34,080
Speaker 1: but you're putting on a kid who didn't do anything,

1985
01:48:38,120 --> 01:48:45,400
Speaker 1: have a relationship with her. You need to respect me,

1986
01:48:45,960 --> 01:48:50,040
Speaker 1: not be children, not me. You need to be taught better. Yeah,

1987
01:48:50,040 --> 01:48:51,479
Speaker 1: but that's where that story ends, and that's all I

1988
01:48:51,520 --> 01:48:54,960
Speaker 1: answered the question, how do you confront a cheater? I

1989
01:48:55,000 --> 01:48:59,880
Speaker 1: feel like in this case, you block. You don't confront them,

1990
01:48:59,880 --> 01:49:00,719
Speaker 1: You just cut them.

1991
01:49:00,560 --> 01:49:03,080
Speaker 2: Out and everything they said. I feel like there was

1992
01:49:03,160 --> 01:49:06,759
Speaker 2: like a taste of teenaged inks that was like used

1993
01:49:06,800 --> 01:49:07,840
Speaker 2: so perfectly.

1994
01:49:08,040 --> 01:49:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, hi soviha. That was a good mirror twist.

1995
01:49:12,400 --> 01:49:14,400
Speaker 1: I feel like it's hard to get the angle on that, right,

1996
01:49:14,720 --> 01:49:19,400
Speaker 1: Producer Sophia, producer in the chair, a man. That's where

1997
01:49:19,400 --> 01:49:21,959
Speaker 1: that story ends, but that's not where our dono's. In's

1998
01:49:22,160 --> 01:49:27,720
Speaker 1: where a Dono's. And Samantha celebrates four months a membership. Wait,

1999
01:49:27,760 --> 01:49:31,559
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it right yep, four months of my

2000
01:49:31,680 --> 01:49:35,559
Speaker 1: favorite crow. Thanks for spending all your time with us.

2001
01:49:35,840 --> 01:49:38,200
Speaker 1: That is basically true. We're like with you like eight

2002
01:49:38,240 --> 01:49:43,520
Speaker 1: hours a day. Uh Diavion Wilder one month of membership.

2003
01:49:43,560 --> 01:49:46,400
Speaker 1: Ooh glad, I noticed the stream the power keeps going

2004
01:49:46,400 --> 01:49:49,400
Speaker 1: off at my job. Thanks for keeping me company always,

2005
01:49:49,920 --> 01:49:53,600
Speaker 1: Britt bat zero eight eight two one month of membership. Yohoo.

2006
01:49:53,760 --> 01:49:56,800
Speaker 1: One month. I love you guys. And Amanda Miller. Thanks

2007
01:49:56,800 --> 01:49:59,680
Speaker 1: for five bucks on the tiplank. No least, let's go,

2008
01:50:00,160 --> 01:50:03,200
Speaker 1: don't give YouTube thirty percent. I'm late to the party today,

2009
01:50:03,280 --> 01:50:05,960
Speaker 1: but love your lives and this rad community. If you

2010
01:50:05,960 --> 01:50:08,160
Speaker 1: love the community, you should join the Discord links in

2011
01:50:08,240 --> 01:50:10,920
Speaker 1: the description. And we got some fun memes over there.

2012
01:50:11,040 --> 01:50:14,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, mostly the courtesy of Sydney without Kidneys are memester,

2013
01:50:14,960 --> 01:50:17,280
Speaker 1: but we've got some other memesters growing in the growing

2014
01:50:17,280 --> 01:50:20,160
Speaker 1: in the pot Also, we have like communities for hobbies

2015
01:50:20,160 --> 01:50:23,280
Speaker 1: and stuff, so you should look at the hobby's little

2016
01:50:23,280 --> 01:50:25,760
Speaker 1: section on Discord if you haven't already Lifelong friends to

2017
01:50:25,800 --> 01:50:29,880
Speaker 1: be made in there. Yeah, life, my friends, saying just saying, guys,

2018
01:50:29,960 --> 01:50:31,000
Speaker 1: we got story three.

2019
01:50:31,200 --> 01:50:33,000
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, I'm just saying I'm going to read it.

2020
01:50:33,280 --> 01:50:38,879
Speaker 2: Please do That's what I'm just saying. Do of six fourteen. Indeed,

2021
01:50:41,000 --> 01:50:43,639
Speaker 2: let me go and read here we are.

2022
01:50:44,240 --> 01:50:46,240
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole of accusing my husband of

2023
01:50:46,360 --> 01:50:50,800
Speaker 1: cheating after he said another woman's name is sleep in

2024
01:50:50,840 --> 01:50:53,479
Speaker 1: his sleep. I think it might be. I think, you know,

2025
01:50:53,640 --> 01:50:55,200
Speaker 1: not necessarily true.

2026
01:50:55,320 --> 01:50:59,000
Speaker 2: Necessarily its sleep, not spicy sleep, yeah, exactly, but maybe

2027
01:50:59,000 --> 01:51:00,120
Speaker 2: if it's like a like a a.

2028
01:51:00,200 --> 01:51:02,519
Speaker 1: Moan and then a name and then a moan, maybe

2029
01:51:02,520 --> 01:51:03,040
Speaker 1: a little bit more.

2030
01:51:03,040 --> 01:51:07,200
Speaker 7: In the fourth Harry Potter, when Harry says Cedric's name,

2031
01:51:07,640 --> 01:51:13,760
Speaker 7: sleeps the fifth Harry Potter, And then you're saying your

2032
01:51:13,760 --> 01:51:16,519
Speaker 7: boyfriend's name and HER's like no, no.

2033
01:51:17,479 --> 01:51:24,599
Speaker 1: Is it sadriggle Seddric? Well? Or when wrong goes my name?

2034
01:51:25,280 --> 01:51:31,160
Speaker 1: But that was true. That was true. Example.

2035
01:51:33,360 --> 01:51:36,080
Speaker 2: Well, my husband and I are both in our thirties,

2036
01:51:36,200 --> 01:51:38,120
Speaker 2: married for about ten years, with kids.

2037
01:51:38,479 --> 01:51:40,879
Speaker 1: When my husband is very tired, he talks into.

2038
01:51:40,680 --> 01:51:43,759
Speaker 2: Sleep, not a lot, but a few words, usually about

2039
01:51:43,760 --> 01:51:46,880
Speaker 2: whatever is on his mind. When our boys were young,

2040
01:51:46,920 --> 01:51:49,559
Speaker 2: it was usually about feeding them or giving them a bath.

2041
01:51:49,760 --> 01:51:51,840
Speaker 2: Now it happens less than it did back then, but

2042
01:51:51,880 --> 01:51:54,439
Speaker 2: it still happens about once a week. Usually he says

2043
01:51:54,479 --> 01:51:57,759
Speaker 2: something about work or fishing or are.

2044
01:51:58,120 --> 01:52:02,160
Speaker 1: That feels like the most stereotip cool like bother ever,

2045
01:52:02,400 --> 01:52:05,320
Speaker 1: like fishing, cars and work. Son, I'm gonna drive my

2046
01:52:05,400 --> 01:52:07,559
Speaker 1: Ford Mustang over in the pond and we're gonna throw

2047
01:52:07,560 --> 01:52:10,880
Speaker 1: a line or two teacher reels and fatherships.

2048
01:52:11,240 --> 01:52:14,439
Speaker 2: And this comes from throwaway Internet on the arsash Okay

2049
01:52:14,400 --> 01:52:16,679
Speaker 2: story times up bred it, let's freaking go. Last night

2050
01:52:16,800 --> 01:52:20,200
Speaker 2: he said another woman's name in his sleep, actually a

2051
01:52:20,240 --> 01:52:23,240
Speaker 2: few times. First he said her name and kind of

2052
01:52:23,320 --> 01:52:24,320
Speaker 2: laughed in his sleep.

2053
01:52:24,400 --> 01:52:32,760
Speaker 1: Hermione like thatone. Then he said her name, let's go

2054
01:52:32,800 --> 01:52:41,240
Speaker 1: to bed its hermione, hermione, noll you hermione, let's go

2055
01:52:41,320 --> 01:52:45,640
Speaker 1: to bed. You just take this inst.

2056
01:52:47,360 --> 01:52:54,639
Speaker 2: And then a few minutes later, something about a hour. Oh,

2057
01:52:54,680 --> 01:52:57,600
Speaker 2: there is a woman that lives near us. Uh, he

2058
01:52:57,760 --> 01:53:00,240
Speaker 2: knows her, but I don't. I work weekends and my

2059
01:53:00,360 --> 01:53:05,080
Speaker 2: husband gets off work round four, so does she. And

2060
01:53:05,200 --> 01:53:08,000
Speaker 2: they're both outside with the kids around the same time.

2061
01:53:08,240 --> 01:53:08,400
Speaker 3: Oh.

2062
01:53:08,520 --> 01:53:11,720
Speaker 2: No, I've never seen them be anything but friendly. I've

2063
01:53:11,720 --> 01:53:15,000
Speaker 2: never seen any odd behavior from him, but this has

2064
01:53:15,080 --> 01:53:17,080
Speaker 2: me very paranoid. I don't want to be one of

2065
01:53:17,120 --> 01:53:19,200
Speaker 2: those people who gets mad at their partner for something

2066
01:53:19,200 --> 01:53:22,599
Speaker 2: that happened in their sleep. Am I ridiculous for bringing

2067
01:53:22,640 --> 01:53:27,080
Speaker 2: this up to him? He cheated in my dream type energy,

2068
01:53:27,120 --> 01:53:30,040
Speaker 2: Except it's not because it's in their dream, it's in

2069
01:53:30,080 --> 01:53:35,240
Speaker 2: his dream. We have an update, We have relevant comments,

2070
01:53:36,040 --> 01:53:41,120
Speaker 2: but really quickly Paul cheating or not cheating or not.

2071
01:53:41,360 --> 01:53:43,400
Speaker 1: I don't think we have enough information to know cheating,

2072
01:53:43,439 --> 01:53:45,519
Speaker 1: but I have enough information. We may have enough. I

2073
01:53:45,520 --> 01:53:50,160
Speaker 1: feel like we could potentially have enough information for us

2074
01:53:50,200 --> 01:53:55,680
Speaker 1: to believe with maybe sixty percent certainty that he is

2075
01:53:55,720 --> 01:53:57,519
Speaker 1: at least a little attracted to the neighbor.

2076
01:53:57,760 --> 01:53:59,840
Speaker 2: He maybe not having spicy sleep, but is he having

2077
01:54:00,040 --> 01:54:00,920
Speaker 2: spicy dreams?

2078
01:54:00,960 --> 01:54:04,840
Speaker 1: Spicy dreams? I think the dreams potentially are spicy.

2079
01:54:04,320 --> 01:54:09,320
Speaker 4: And so if so, is that a problem? Can he

2080
01:54:09,320 --> 01:54:12,320
Speaker 4: help having these spicy dreams because it's not fair that

2081
01:54:12,360 --> 01:54:15,880
Speaker 4: she can be in his mind. You know, she's the

2082
01:54:15,920 --> 01:54:22,160
Speaker 4: one that to him that he talks in his sleep.

2083
01:54:22,200 --> 01:54:24,000
Speaker 4: Because I'm sure a lot of people have a lot

2084
01:54:24,000 --> 01:54:26,160
Speaker 4: of dreams with people a lot of the time.

2085
01:54:26,320 --> 01:54:29,320
Speaker 1: It's like having the passwords to your dreams. Yeah, it's like,

2086
01:54:29,400 --> 01:54:34,000
Speaker 1: that's like he's exposed. Okay, after this pull, I want

2087
01:54:34,040 --> 01:54:38,120
Speaker 1: to I want to know if your significant other is

2088
01:54:38,160 --> 01:54:42,880
Speaker 1: having spicy dreams about someone that isn't you that you know,

2089
01:54:43,720 --> 01:54:46,680
Speaker 1: is that a problem? That's that's my that's my next

2090
01:54:46,760 --> 01:54:50,560
Speaker 1: question for you guys after we do this. But wait,

2091
01:54:51,360 --> 01:54:54,000
Speaker 1: is that would that be a problem in your relationships

2092
01:54:55,320 --> 01:54:59,360
Speaker 1: if they had a dream about someone else like like they.

2093
01:54:59,760 --> 01:55:02,600
Speaker 4: I'm trying to treat it like if it happened both

2094
01:55:02,640 --> 01:55:06,280
Speaker 4: ways and have some sort of like double standard energy

2095
01:55:06,400 --> 01:55:09,160
Speaker 4: towards this. I think it's like, what do you like

2096
01:55:09,280 --> 01:55:11,200
Speaker 4: you can't control what you dream about? It's not like

2097
01:55:11,200 --> 01:55:16,040
Speaker 4: I'm just sitting here like ah, that other girl, you know,

2098
01:55:16,120 --> 01:55:19,160
Speaker 4: the one four houses down with the kids, she gets

2099
01:55:19,200 --> 01:55:19,560
Speaker 4: up at.

2100
01:55:19,440 --> 01:55:21,360
Speaker 1: Four pm and we're both outside at the same time.

2101
01:55:22,360 --> 01:55:25,600
Speaker 2: I think it's kind of like, uh, there's like I

2102
01:55:25,640 --> 01:55:26,920
Speaker 2: don't know if it's a saying or phrase or what,

2103
01:55:27,000 --> 01:55:29,760
Speaker 2: but it's like, Okay, you can like be attracted to someone,

2104
01:55:29,800 --> 01:55:33,280
Speaker 2: but you cannot act on your on your those feelings, right, yeah,

2105
01:55:33,520 --> 01:55:36,240
Speaker 2: Like it is an example of someone being attracted but

2106
01:55:36,280 --> 01:55:38,440
Speaker 2: not necessarily acting on it, so you can kind of say,

2107
01:55:38,440 --> 01:55:40,360
Speaker 2: like the dream is almost kind of similar to like,

2108
01:55:40,480 --> 01:55:42,720
Speaker 2: all right, you're walking down the street, so you see

2109
01:55:42,720 --> 01:55:45,120
Speaker 2: someone like you instantly are like, okay, that's your brain

2110
01:55:45,160 --> 01:55:47,760
Speaker 2: goes that's an attractive person. But you're not going up

2111
01:55:47,760 --> 01:55:50,040
Speaker 2: to them and be like eight of your kids get

2112
01:55:50,040 --> 01:55:52,400
Speaker 2: out of a four pm and you want to come

2113
01:55:52,440 --> 01:55:52,760
Speaker 2: back now.

2114
01:55:52,840 --> 01:55:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, because there would be no issues.

2115
01:55:54,720 --> 01:55:59,440
Speaker 4: If it was like, oh, Kiera Knightley, let's go walk

2116
01:55:59,520 --> 01:56:01,640
Speaker 4: the kids like that, she probably wouldn't have.

2117
01:56:02,120 --> 01:56:06,600
Speaker 1: Kira Knightley. That's the silver screen lady. Who's the Who's

2118
01:56:06,600 --> 01:56:09,480
Speaker 1: the person that says, uh, movies are the place that

2119
01:56:09,520 --> 01:56:09,680
Speaker 1: we go.

2120
01:56:10,600 --> 01:56:20,000
Speaker 7: That's nicole Kidnu kid dang all right, somehow our break feels.

2121
01:56:19,440 --> 01:56:24,880
Speaker 1: More quotes and movies feel perfect and powerful. I think

2122
01:56:24,920 --> 01:56:27,400
Speaker 1: if you cheat in your dreams, you cheat in real life.

2123
01:56:27,440 --> 01:56:28,760
Speaker 1: It's kind of like inception rules.

2124
01:56:29,160 --> 01:56:34,320
Speaker 4: WHOA no that disagree?

2125
01:56:35,640 --> 01:56:39,080
Speaker 1: Who do you disagree with? Sam? Okay, but it looks

2126
01:56:39,120 --> 01:56:44,720
Speaker 1: like we are like half and half. Basically, people are

2127
01:56:44,800 --> 01:56:49,200
Speaker 1: saying people are saying that if you had a dream

2128
01:56:49,240 --> 01:56:53,440
Speaker 1: where you said another person's name four doors down, you

2129
01:56:53,440 --> 01:56:55,240
Speaker 1: have a fifty percent chance of cheating.

2130
01:56:55,240 --> 01:56:58,360
Speaker 7: According to Chat, I think that one is for whether

2131
01:56:58,440 --> 01:56:59,520
Speaker 7: or not he's cheating.

2132
01:56:59,600 --> 01:57:02,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, well yeah, but but the only evidence that we

2133
01:57:02,400 --> 01:57:05,320
Speaker 1: have that he's cheating is that he's saying someone else's

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01:57:05,360 --> 01:57:08,320
Speaker 1: name in his dream. So basically, Chat believes that's an

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01:57:08,360 --> 01:57:13,400
Speaker 1: indicator of cheating. Fifty split. So here one more thing

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01:57:13,440 --> 01:57:16,120
Speaker 1: and and I'll get into the update. She said that

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01:57:16,280 --> 01:57:19,120
Speaker 1: he talks about things in his sleep that he's been

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01:57:19,160 --> 01:57:24,160
Speaker 1: doing all the time, like taking care of h reading comprehension.

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01:57:25,880 --> 01:57:31,240
Speaker 4: That doesn't mean you don't have other like okay, that's

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01:57:31,280 --> 01:57:32,800
Speaker 4: that's historically.

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01:57:32,440 --> 01:57:35,960
Speaker 1: Speaking, we have. That is what he's he's not having

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01:57:36,040 --> 01:57:39,640
Speaker 1: dreams of like dragons and mythical creatures. It's like very

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01:57:39,760 --> 01:57:42,920
Speaker 1: mundane things that he's doing, all eating the baby, taking

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01:57:42,920 --> 01:57:43,760
Speaker 1: care of the baby.

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01:57:43,800 --> 01:57:46,680
Speaker 4: But like I have dreams that I miss meetings, but

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01:57:46,720 --> 01:57:48,800
Speaker 4: I don't miss the meat, you know, Like I have

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01:57:48,920 --> 01:57:51,520
Speaker 4: dreams that like I over like you oversleep or you

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01:57:51,600 --> 01:57:55,320
Speaker 4: do these things? Have over I actually do you have overslept?

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01:57:55,400 --> 01:57:59,080
Speaker 4: I have overslept, but like it's happening in the future.

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01:57:59,160 --> 01:58:00,200
Speaker 1: Have you ever missed the meat? Dud?

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01:58:01,160 --> 01:58:05,880
Speaker 2: Okay, I think you're just giving us more evidence obviously

2152
01:58:06,000 --> 01:58:07,840
Speaker 2: what Anthony dreams turns into.

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01:58:09,160 --> 01:58:11,840
Speaker 1: And because it's true he's the soothsayer.

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01:58:12,240 --> 01:58:14,040
Speaker 7: I had a dream that I turned into a mermaid.

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01:58:14,640 --> 01:58:21,080
Speaker 1: It's not going to give yourself. But we have an update,

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01:58:21,160 --> 01:58:23,000
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Can you do a new Can you

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01:58:23,040 --> 01:58:27,880
Speaker 1: do a new pole? Yes, the new poll did Sophia? Yeah?

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01:58:28,880 --> 01:58:31,600
Speaker 1: But what was our new pole? Maybe? Dream cheating? Is

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01:58:32,200 --> 01:58:36,200
Speaker 1: it a problem in your dream cheating? Yes or no? Yeah,

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01:58:36,520 --> 01:58:37,520
Speaker 1: that's a good question.

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01:58:37,800 --> 01:58:38,640
Speaker 7: Wait what am I saying?

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01:58:38,760 --> 01:58:41,320
Speaker 1: Is it a problem if you're dream cheating? Yes or no?

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01:58:41,480 --> 01:58:44,200
Speaker 1: Should it be like you shouldn't be addressed? Should it

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01:58:44,240 --> 01:58:48,960
Speaker 1: be addressed? I don't know? Yeah? Both? Quay, Well more,

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01:58:51,320 --> 01:58:53,680
Speaker 1: give us more jobs. Give us more.

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01:58:54,120 --> 01:58:56,200
Speaker 2: Well, thank you everyone. I brought it up to my

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01:58:56,280 --> 01:59:02,400
Speaker 2: husband in a joking manner. Immediately got defensive and began saying,

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01:59:02,920 --> 01:59:05,080
Speaker 2: couldn't effing believe I was making.

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01:59:04,800 --> 01:59:07,839
Speaker 1: An issue out of this? Oo, he's being defensive.

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01:59:08,280 --> 01:59:11,480
Speaker 2: I was pretty taken aback by his immediate defensive reaction.

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01:59:11,720 --> 01:59:14,560
Speaker 2: I assured him I wasn't accusing him of anything. I

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01:59:14,680 --> 01:59:17,600
Speaker 2: just wanted to bring it up since it happened and

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01:59:17,680 --> 01:59:19,320
Speaker 2: make a joke out of it, so he knew I

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01:59:19,360 --> 01:59:20,320
Speaker 2: wasn't actually upset.

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01:59:20,720 --> 01:59:24,240
Speaker 1: He continued to call me ridiculous, dramatic, et cetera, et cetera.

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01:59:24,520 --> 01:59:27,400
Speaker 2: Oh, and if he expected me to stop hanging out

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01:59:27,400 --> 01:59:28,800
Speaker 2: with her because of this, then.

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01:59:28,760 --> 01:59:32,720
Speaker 1: I was out of my gd mind. And then he left.

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01:59:33,680 --> 01:59:38,400
Speaker 2: That feels like a little evidence. Yeah, why would you

2180
01:59:38,480 --> 01:59:40,680
Speaker 2: react that crazily?

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01:59:41,000 --> 01:59:45,240
Speaker 1: Because I am a defender of dreams. What one man

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01:59:45,400 --> 01:59:50,840
Speaker 1: dreams should be protected. America dream the land of dreamers.

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01:59:51,920 --> 01:59:57,080
Speaker 1: You are American. Let me have my dreams. God bless America,

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01:59:58,400 --> 01:59:59,800
Speaker 1: God bless my dreams.

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02:00:00,400 --> 02:00:04,000
Speaker 2: Well, we do have some relevant comments here, so MFP

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02:00:04,160 --> 02:00:07,040
Speaker 2: Stacey says, put your mind at rest and talk to him.

2187
02:00:07,440 --> 02:00:09,640
Speaker 2: I say, and do all sorts of crazy stuff in

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Speaker 2: my sleep. I told my partner he was a danger

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02:00:12,200 --> 02:00:14,600
Speaker 2: to me and I was calling the police once loll,

2190
02:00:14,680 --> 02:00:16,800
Speaker 2: he wasn't really a danger to me. Wait a second,

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02:00:17,640 --> 02:00:19,839
Speaker 2: I also carry off my sleep. I told my partner

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02:00:19,960 --> 02:00:21,680
Speaker 2: he was a danger to me, and I was calling

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02:00:21,720 --> 02:00:22,840
Speaker 2: the police one.

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02:00:22,920 --> 02:00:26,960
Speaker 1: In her sleep. That's crazy. That is crazy. Wow, Like

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02:00:27,000 --> 02:00:30,720
Speaker 1: you were sleep kind of walking or like.

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Speaker 7: Like she was like, ah, you're a danger to me,

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Speaker 7: I'm calling the police.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So she wasn't actually calling the police, but in her

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02:00:37,280 --> 02:00:39,240
Speaker 2: dream world she was, okay, Opie.

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Speaker 1: Opie responds.

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02:00:43,040 --> 02:00:45,520
Speaker 2: Opie responds, I'm just a little bit alarmed because he's

2203
02:00:45,560 --> 02:00:48,080
Speaker 2: never spoken about anyone else like this in this way.

2204
02:00:48,240 --> 02:00:52,200
Speaker 2: It's always very straightforward things, things that he's thinking about

2205
02:00:52,320 --> 02:00:56,360
Speaker 2: or that are happening in real life. Personal Regular five

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02:00:56,440 --> 02:01:00,960
Speaker 2: sixty nine says, honey, rust your gut reaction is everything

2207
02:01:00,960 --> 02:01:03,560
Speaker 2: you need to know. That anger he directed at you

2208
02:01:03,760 --> 02:01:07,560
Speaker 2: is MASKI guilt, shame. He's having inappropriate feelings for the neighbor,

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Speaker 2: whether he's acted on them or not.

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Speaker 1: That's your gut. So dream cheating is real cheating. It's cheating,

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02:01:17,960 --> 02:01:20,520
Speaker 1: and like maybe it's like cheating in the matrix in

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02:01:20,560 --> 02:01:23,560
Speaker 1: the first degree, or cheating in the third degree, your

2213
02:01:23,640 --> 02:01:26,440
Speaker 1: degree degree cheating. It's like the manslaughter of cheating.

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Speaker 2: We do need to figure out our own okay, dictionary

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02:01:29,440 --> 02:01:30,400
Speaker 2: of our cheating.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So Tricia Schwablon says, it sounds like the wife

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02:01:38,920 --> 02:01:42,440
Speaker 1: is very insecure. So is if you think dream cheating

2218
02:01:42,520 --> 02:01:45,720
Speaker 1: is a problem, is it a sign of insecurity? Well, so, yeah,

2219
02:01:45,720 --> 02:01:46,800
Speaker 1: we have this update coming up.

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Speaker 2: But if you think dreamed, I would say I think

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02:01:50,520 --> 02:01:56,760
Speaker 2: Op's handled it very like reasonably, where she was like, yeah, okay,

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02:01:56,760 --> 02:01:58,480
Speaker 2: I'll bring it up in a joking way. I wanted

2223
02:01:58,520 --> 02:02:02,000
Speaker 2: him to know that I'm like, not seriously taking this

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02:02:02,120 --> 02:02:03,120
Speaker 2: as as an offense.

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02:02:04,400 --> 02:02:08,160
Speaker 1: But his reaction it wasn't. I think my thing here

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02:02:08,360 --> 02:02:12,160
Speaker 1: is it's not the dream cheating that is the red flag.

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02:02:12,240 --> 02:02:16,200
Speaker 1: It's the reaction to the confrontation, the joking confrontation of

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02:02:16,240 --> 02:02:18,240
Speaker 1: the dream cheating, that is the red flag.

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Speaker 2: And I will say it like the whole he only

2230
02:02:21,280 --> 02:02:23,040
Speaker 2: dreams about things that happen in real.

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02:02:22,880 --> 02:02:25,360
Speaker 1: Life has more weight and validity.

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Speaker 2: I think given his effect, like would I would given

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02:02:28,120 --> 02:02:30,760
Speaker 2: his defense, I would cast that aside if he did

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02:02:30,800 --> 02:02:32,320
Speaker 2: not have this reaction.

2235
02:02:32,560 --> 02:02:33,800
Speaker 1: But because he didn't have this reaction.

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02:02:33,840 --> 02:02:35,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, this is another bit of evidence that

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02:02:35,960 --> 02:02:38,920
Speaker 2: is not stacking up well against Okay.

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02:02:38,720 --> 02:02:41,720
Speaker 1: So also this is is this the first time we've

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Speaker 1: ever had one hundred people in the Facebook live stream.

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Speaker 1: We've broken a record. We've broken a record. I don't

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Speaker 1: think we've ever had one hundred people in the Facebook

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Speaker 1: d You're welcome.

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02:02:52,960 --> 02:02:54,640
Speaker 3: King has blessed us.

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02:02:56,120 --> 02:02:59,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to figure out Anthony's Anthony's army. Yeah,

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02:02:59,160 --> 02:03:02,920
Speaker 1: we'll figure it out. Army, you'll get one time, yes, yes, yes,

2246
02:03:03,120 --> 02:03:05,800
Speaker 1: the army will come and now we have one O

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02:03:05,920 --> 02:03:07,280
Speaker 1: three ye go.

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02:03:07,480 --> 02:03:07,680
Speaker 3: Oh.

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02:03:07,720 --> 02:03:10,840
Speaker 2: By the way, if you're on Facebook, share it shit,

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Speaker 2: Yeah you could.

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02:03:11,960 --> 02:03:14,400
Speaker 1: You can share a live stream and get more people in.

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02:03:14,680 --> 02:03:16,240
Speaker 1: Send it to your you know how they do those

2253
02:03:16,400 --> 02:03:18,800
Speaker 1: like big group you know messages around. Yeah, Send it

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02:03:18,840 --> 02:03:19,400
Speaker 1: to your family.

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02:03:19,480 --> 02:03:21,920
Speaker 2: Send it to like literally every single person in your family,

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02:03:22,000 --> 02:03:22,960
Speaker 2: and sound off in the comments.

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02:03:23,000 --> 02:03:25,920
Speaker 1: If you have a group chat, send this to your

2258
02:03:25,920 --> 02:03:28,840
Speaker 1: familial group chat so they can come hang. And if

2259
02:03:28,840 --> 02:03:31,160
Speaker 1: you send this to a family member and they come,

2260
02:03:31,840 --> 02:03:34,200
Speaker 1: shout them out and we'll we'll say hi, we'll shout

2261
02:03:34,240 --> 02:03:34,520
Speaker 1: them out.

2262
02:03:34,560 --> 02:03:37,760
Speaker 2: See there you go, there you go. But guys, we

2263
02:03:37,800 --> 02:03:42,920
Speaker 2: have an update two days later. Two days later, after

2264
02:03:43,000 --> 02:03:46,560
Speaker 2: my husband's very defensive response after I brought it up

2265
02:03:46,600 --> 02:03:48,920
Speaker 2: in a really lighthearted way, I began to get a

2266
02:03:48,920 --> 02:03:52,480
Speaker 2: little concerned, especially how he said, quote unquote, if you

2267
02:03:52,520 --> 02:03:54,680
Speaker 2: expect me to stop hanging out with her over this,

2268
02:03:54,920 --> 02:03:58,240
Speaker 2: you're out of your god dang mind. Of course, I

2269
02:03:58,280 --> 02:04:00,680
Speaker 2: never would have asked them to stop seeing her a dream,

2270
02:04:00,920 --> 02:04:03,839
Speaker 2: but his response was really over the top. So yesterday

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02:04:03,880 --> 02:04:05,960
Speaker 2: I took a half day and got home from work

2272
02:04:06,280 --> 02:04:10,440
Speaker 2: at four point fifteen, right after the typical four pm,

2273
02:04:12,560 --> 02:04:16,200
Speaker 2: and at the time they're usually hanging out. My kids

2274
02:04:16,240 --> 02:04:19,240
Speaker 2: and my husband were not at home, despite my husband

2275
02:04:19,320 --> 02:04:21,600
Speaker 2: telling me that he had gotten them off the bus

2276
02:04:22,200 --> 02:04:25,320
Speaker 2: and his life what is It? And oh and his

2277
02:04:25,440 --> 02:04:27,320
Speaker 2: life three sixty saying that he was home. I guess

2278
02:04:27,360 --> 02:04:32,240
Speaker 2: kind of like a tracker thing, plus his car being

2279
02:04:32,320 --> 02:04:35,680
Speaker 2: in the garage. I called his phone. I called his phone.

2280
02:04:35,800 --> 02:04:39,440
Speaker 2: It went off in the bedroom, but no hit his

2281
02:04:39,520 --> 02:04:40,240
Speaker 2: phone is there?

2282
02:04:40,880 --> 02:04:41,320
Speaker 3: He is not?

2283
02:04:41,880 --> 02:04:47,440
Speaker 1: Oh, because they're having shared locations on their phone, since

2284
02:04:47,440 --> 02:04:51,520
Speaker 1: he probably leaves everything that can track him at their

2285
02:04:51,560 --> 02:04:56,360
Speaker 1: place to go and take spicy showers with the neighbor. Sorry,

2286
02:04:56,400 --> 02:05:01,640
Speaker 1: I was napping. What if what if sleep their sleep

2287
02:05:01,680 --> 02:05:07,080
Speaker 1: walking but sleep cheating. Oh, we did read a story

2288
02:05:07,120 --> 02:05:10,720
Speaker 1: about that. Remember that story that we read where like

2289
02:05:11,000 --> 02:05:13,680
Speaker 1: someone would be sleep walking and hooking up with their

2290
02:05:13,760 --> 02:05:21,320
Speaker 1: upstairs neighbor. Yeah, that's bad. There was Yeah, Oh I

2291
02:05:21,480 --> 02:05:23,520
Speaker 1: just black out. I don't even know what happens.

2292
02:05:23,640 --> 02:05:26,080
Speaker 2: I do recall, I remember what happened, but yeah, I

2293
02:05:26,360 --> 02:05:29,160
Speaker 2: think they were both single though, and it was just

2294
02:05:29,200 --> 02:05:31,560
Speaker 2: like they didn't realize that it was happening, and both

2295
02:05:31,560 --> 02:05:35,720
Speaker 2: of them didn't realize that. I can't remember that anyway.

2296
02:05:35,920 --> 02:05:39,800
Speaker 2: But anyways, So I walked by the woman's house. She

2297
02:05:39,840 --> 02:05:42,000
Speaker 2: has a pool in her backyard, and from the street

2298
02:05:42,280 --> 02:05:45,640
Speaker 2: I could hear the two of them clearly in the

2299
02:05:45,680 --> 02:05:48,320
Speaker 2: backyard in the pool talking and laughing.

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02:05:48,760 --> 02:05:51,400
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I didn't didn't hear any any.

2301
02:05:53,680 --> 02:05:59,760
Speaker 2: Just just what do you mean by that? They weren't

2302
02:05:59,760 --> 02:06:05,920
Speaker 2: class each other. So I literally didn't even I literally

2303
02:06:05,960 --> 02:06:08,560
Speaker 2: didn't even go onto your yard. I just yelled my

2304
02:06:08,640 --> 02:06:11,840
Speaker 2: husband's name and said, honey, where are the kids?

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02:06:12,200 --> 02:06:15,320
Speaker 7: Honey?

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02:06:12,840 --> 02:06:26,120
Speaker 8: What do you need it?

2307
02:06:26,320 --> 02:06:30,720
Speaker 1: It's for the grand I am, yo, what I am?

2308
02:06:30,760 --> 02:06:39,680
Speaker 3: The greatest good? The public isn't my evening, is it?

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02:06:39,800 --> 02:06:43,800
Speaker 1: I waited my entire life. This moment is validated Anthy's

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02:06:43,920 --> 02:06:44,680
Speaker 1: entire existence.

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02:06:44,720 --> 02:06:49,160
Speaker 2: On the start, he was silent for so long. He

2312
02:06:49,320 --> 02:06:51,880
Speaker 2: just he just started to say something, but I cut

2313
02:06:51,960 --> 02:06:54,440
Speaker 2: him off. I think I just told him to shut

2314
02:06:54,480 --> 02:06:56,960
Speaker 2: the f up, and I told him just tell me

2315
02:06:57,080 --> 02:07:00,200
Speaker 2: where the kids were. He said they were over at

2316
02:07:00,200 --> 02:07:03,320
Speaker 2: his mother's. I told him he had until I went

2317
02:07:03,400 --> 02:07:06,680
Speaker 2: to go get them and and get back to get

2318
02:07:06,680 --> 02:07:18,280
Speaker 2: his stuff out of the house. Stop doing. You are

2319
02:07:18,360 --> 02:07:22,440
Speaker 2: not sound designing their movie. He tried to keep talking.

2320
02:07:22,520 --> 02:07:24,520
Speaker 2: At this point he had come out to the street,

2321
02:07:24,520 --> 02:07:27,160
Speaker 2: but I honestly didn't hear anything he had to say.

2322
02:07:27,560 --> 02:07:29,960
Speaker 2: I told him I wasn't messing around. If he was

2323
02:07:30,000 --> 02:07:32,800
Speaker 2: still there when I came home, I was gonna lose it.

2324
02:07:33,840 --> 02:07:34,360
Speaker 1: I told it.

2325
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Speaker 2: He got to the point he was gone. He got

2326
02:07:39,360 --> 02:07:41,600
Speaker 2: to the point he was gone. But I did let

2327
02:07:41,720 --> 02:07:44,160
Speaker 2: him tell me his side of the story on the

2328
02:07:44,200 --> 02:07:45,400
Speaker 2: phone later that night.

2329
02:07:45,880 --> 02:07:48,720
Speaker 1: He said they were just friends. That he didn't tell

2330
02:07:48,760 --> 02:07:51,880
Speaker 1: me how close they were because he thought I would

2331
02:07:51,920 --> 02:07:58,480
Speaker 1: get upset. Dude, Also, sus, maybe it's sus. It's such

2332
02:07:58,480 --> 02:08:00,960
Speaker 1: a good friendship. You know, I had to keep it

2333
02:08:01,000 --> 02:08:04,400
Speaker 1: from you. You know, sometimes secrets make friendships better. You

2334
02:08:04,440 --> 02:08:12,760
Speaker 1: know that hotter, I mean better, stronger, harder, a lie.

2335
02:08:13,040 --> 02:08:14,880
Speaker 2: I don't care if he has female friends or not,

2336
02:08:15,160 --> 02:08:18,320
Speaker 2: as long as he's respectful of boundaries, which he hasn't been.

2337
02:08:18,920 --> 02:08:22,000
Speaker 2: I don't believe anything he said. He lied about where

2338
02:08:22,000 --> 02:08:25,200
Speaker 2: our kids were to innocently hang out with a friend.

2339
02:08:25,760 --> 02:08:28,440
Speaker 2: Obviously this is all new, but I have no intentions

2340
02:08:28,440 --> 02:08:31,440
Speaker 2: of reconciling with him. I will be a co parent

2341
02:08:31,560 --> 02:08:37,880
Speaker 2: and nothing else. Or go dee course Steve or Steve or.

2342
02:08:37,840 --> 02:08:40,280
Speaker 1: Steve orse Yike.

2343
02:08:41,800 --> 02:08:44,400
Speaker 2: It feels surreal to me how all of this started,

2344
02:08:44,520 --> 02:08:47,800
Speaker 2: and I kill and I still can't really believe it's

2345
02:08:47,920 --> 02:08:53,240
Speaker 2: all happening. We uh have some relevant comments before we

2346
02:08:53,280 --> 02:08:56,960
Speaker 2: close out, but let's let's get our final thoughts here.

2347
02:08:58,160 --> 02:09:04,040
Speaker 2: Do we believe that this that OPI should do the

2348
02:09:04,080 --> 02:09:06,800
Speaker 2: divorce in this case? I feel like we have enough

2349
02:09:06,840 --> 02:09:08,600
Speaker 2: evidence that it's cheating, but I don't know what do

2350
02:09:08,600 --> 02:09:11,240
Speaker 2: you guys think. I think it's the way that he

2351
02:09:11,920 --> 02:09:17,440
Speaker 2: disrespected and lied to her. Yeah, because like the initial reaction, Yeah,

2352
02:09:17,520 --> 02:09:21,920
Speaker 2: connect correct me if I'm wrong. He heard him in

2353
02:09:22,520 --> 02:09:25,640
Speaker 2: the pool in the backyard with her laughing, left the

2354
02:09:25,680 --> 02:09:27,320
Speaker 2: phone to like basically have so it's.

2355
02:09:27,280 --> 02:09:32,040
Speaker 1: Lopped off the kids. She didn't like catch him the kids,

2356
02:09:32,160 --> 02:09:35,600
Speaker 1: lying about the kids huge, she didn't necessarily catch him

2357
02:09:35,640 --> 02:09:38,680
Speaker 1: cheating in the act. But I would say, like that

2358
02:09:38,800 --> 02:09:41,960
Speaker 1: aside lying about where the kids were, you know, hiding

2359
02:09:41,960 --> 02:09:46,240
Speaker 1: his location, lying about the whole like nature of their like,

2360
02:09:46,560 --> 02:09:49,520
Speaker 1: all of that is like, okay, you are the trust

2361
02:09:49,520 --> 02:09:51,280
Speaker 1: has been broken because of all the lies you've told

2362
02:09:51,360 --> 02:09:53,839
Speaker 1: me exactly, And it's more about the trust being broken

2363
02:09:53,880 --> 02:09:56,840
Speaker 1: than actually needing to catch them in the act. Yes,

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02:09:58,320 --> 02:10:02,640
Speaker 1: I agree. What would you say, Anthony? I agree with

2365
02:10:02,680 --> 02:10:07,320
Speaker 1: what has been said. My initial reaction to divorce was

2366
02:10:07,400 --> 02:10:10,520
Speaker 1: like WHOA, all right, all right, would you not divorce?

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02:10:10,640 --> 02:10:14,360
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, like for the I'm not saying what

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02:10:14,440 --> 02:10:17,560
Speaker 4: he did was a good thing. Yeah, but like strictly

2369
02:10:17,640 --> 02:10:20,520
Speaker 4: going divorce about like above everything.

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02:10:20,680 --> 02:10:23,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, you got to think about, like, hey,

2371
02:10:23,560 --> 02:10:25,760
Speaker 1: the soldier on for a couple.

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02:10:25,760 --> 02:10:27,400
Speaker 4: I don't know how young the kids are, but like

2373
02:10:27,920 --> 02:10:31,080
Speaker 4: having divorced parents as a kid is not as good

2374
02:10:31,080 --> 02:10:33,200
Speaker 4: as having parents who are to get I don't know.

2375
02:10:33,560 --> 02:10:38,440
Speaker 1: So something that and I'm curious what your thoughts are

2376
02:10:38,480 --> 02:10:41,600
Speaker 1: having experienced it, but something that we feel like we've

2377
02:10:41,720 --> 02:10:45,200
Speaker 1: established on the show also, but we none of us

2378
02:10:45,240 --> 02:10:49,720
Speaker 1: actually have divorced parents, so maybe that's exactly. But something

2379
02:10:49,720 --> 02:10:53,200
Speaker 1: that like reading all these stories, usually what we come

2380
02:10:53,240 --> 02:10:56,600
Speaker 1: to conclusion of is like it is better to have

2381
02:10:57,360 --> 02:11:02,920
Speaker 1: divorced parents that co parent well then together parents that

2382
02:11:03,000 --> 02:11:06,560
Speaker 1: hate each other by because they have, uh there's been

2383
02:11:06,640 --> 02:11:09,080
Speaker 1: cheating involved and they just have to like weather through it.

2384
02:11:09,440 --> 02:11:13,160
Speaker 1: And often when you have couples that stay together for

2385
02:11:13,200 --> 02:11:15,960
Speaker 1: the kids, it actually hurts the kids more to see

2386
02:11:16,200 --> 02:11:19,040
Speaker 1: what you imagine a loving couple to be being so

2387
02:11:19,120 --> 02:11:22,440
Speaker 1: hateful towards each other because of so much emotional baggage

2388
02:11:22,600 --> 02:11:30,080
Speaker 1: that they're trying to carry and just can't I hear that.

2389
02:11:30,280 --> 02:11:33,560
Speaker 1: But we all we also have a thousand stories, yes,

2390
02:11:33,720 --> 02:11:37,080
Speaker 1: two thousand stories. We have read many, many many a

2391
02:11:37,120 --> 02:11:40,160
Speaker 1: story a story. But I'm curious, is there anything you

2392
02:11:40,160 --> 02:11:42,280
Speaker 1: would like, like like what are your thoughts on on

2393
02:11:42,680 --> 02:11:44,360
Speaker 1: that with contact.

2394
02:11:45,960 --> 02:11:48,440
Speaker 2: As long and that like the big asterisk there I

2395
02:11:48,480 --> 02:11:51,400
Speaker 2: think is that like they will both like independently work

2396
02:11:51,440 --> 02:11:56,760
Speaker 2: on like bettering themselves, you know, finding happiness to as

2397
02:11:56,800 --> 02:11:59,800
Speaker 2: a byproduct, be the best parents and co parents.

2398
02:11:59,840 --> 02:12:04,360
Speaker 1: They can be poor, Yeah, but it's also very dependent

2399
02:12:04,480 --> 02:12:09,040
Speaker 1: on you know, every situation some parents can get through

2400
02:12:09,320 --> 02:12:11,960
Speaker 1: like can't mend it and get through cheating, especially if

2401
02:12:11,960 --> 02:12:14,640
Speaker 1: they've been together for more than four years. There are

2402
02:12:14,720 --> 02:12:17,760
Speaker 1: predictive tools. There are predictive tools that you can use

2403
02:12:17,840 --> 02:12:22,320
Speaker 1: to understand whether your relationship can withstand cheating. As everyone

2404
02:12:22,360 --> 02:12:24,839
Speaker 1: in the chat knows, but Anthony may not know. Yes,

2405
02:12:25,240 --> 02:12:27,240
Speaker 1: I do not. He does not know, but he'll find

2406
02:12:27,280 --> 02:12:30,280
Speaker 1: out here as there is a magical four year mark,

2407
02:12:31,800 --> 02:12:35,480
Speaker 1: something very special for you, Mark boy, wait till you

2408
02:12:35,520 --> 02:12:39,240
Speaker 1: find out give up. So to close with some quick

2409
02:12:39,280 --> 02:12:39,840
Speaker 1: relevant comments.

2410
02:12:39,880 --> 02:12:42,720
Speaker 2: OP responding to a downloaded commenter, I don't understand what

2411
02:12:42,720 --> 02:12:45,880
Speaker 2: you're confused about. He lied where my children were, He

2412
02:12:45,960 --> 02:12:47,680
Speaker 2: lied about where he's going to hang out with her.

2413
02:12:47,960 --> 02:12:49,800
Speaker 2: You have to be a moron to see that he's

2414
02:12:49,840 --> 02:12:52,360
Speaker 2: not cheating, it said, I was OP saying that. To

2415
02:12:52,400 --> 02:12:55,600
Speaker 2: a commenter different management one says, I absolutely knew something

2416
02:12:55,680 --> 02:12:56,720
Speaker 2: was up from your first post.

2417
02:12:56,760 --> 02:12:59,040
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. Do you think that they've been having

2418
02:12:59,240 --> 02:13:02,000
Speaker 1: the spicy Is he trying to save your marriage? Or no?

2419
02:13:02,240 --> 02:13:02,800
Speaker 1: Is she married?

2420
02:13:02,880 --> 02:13:08,360
Speaker 2: What's gom Opie says, yes, he is trying to uh

2421
02:13:08,480 --> 02:13:10,360
Speaker 2: save the marriage, I believe.

2422
02:13:10,240 --> 02:13:13,080
Speaker 1: Or having the spicy sleep or both.

2423
02:13:13,000 --> 02:13:16,400
Speaker 2: Or both, maybe both, given that there's only one information

2424
02:13:16,760 --> 02:13:19,440
Speaker 2: a different management one response. What exactly is his excuse

2425
02:13:19,480 --> 02:13:21,440
Speaker 2: for sending your kids to his mom's so they can

2426
02:13:21,520 --> 02:13:24,720
Speaker 2: have a date. I can't even imagine, Opie says. One

2427
02:13:24,760 --> 02:13:27,360
Speaker 2: of our sons had just been sick two days before,

2428
02:13:27,680 --> 02:13:28,880
Speaker 2: so he said he.

2429
02:13:28,840 --> 02:13:32,880
Speaker 1: Didn't think he'd be up for swimming bs bs, I

2430
02:13:32,920 --> 02:13:38,440
Speaker 1: know something that was swimming that night? H boggy day?

2431
02:13:38,200 --> 02:13:42,880
Speaker 1: What was swimming? Boggy days? And night?

2432
02:13:43,000 --> 02:13:46,080
Speaker 2: Says Uh, did you ask? Did you ask his mother

2433
02:13:46,200 --> 02:13:48,880
Speaker 2: for what she was told? Why was she asked to

2434
02:13:48,880 --> 02:13:49,480
Speaker 2: watch the kids?

2435
02:13:49,480 --> 02:13:49,600
Speaker 1: Oh?

2436
02:13:49,640 --> 02:13:53,080
Speaker 2: That's that's actually a good point of coroboration there. Does

2437
02:13:53,120 --> 02:13:56,320
Speaker 2: she know what her son has been doing? I'm so

2438
02:13:56,480 --> 02:13:59,280
Speaker 2: happy you are taking care of this now, Opie responds.

2439
02:13:59,440 --> 02:14:03,160
Speaker 2: She had told Uh, she told him he had to

2440
02:14:03,200 --> 02:14:05,160
Speaker 2: do She told him he had to do work on

2441
02:14:05,200 --> 02:14:07,839
Speaker 2: the house and didn't want them around.

2442
02:14:08,160 --> 02:14:11,640
Speaker 1: Wow, he did it. Ah, So basically he's like, oh,

2443
02:14:11,640 --> 02:14:13,080
Speaker 1: I got to work on the house, and like I

2444
02:14:13,080 --> 02:14:14,720
Speaker 1: can't have the kids running around. But he was not

2445
02:14:14,760 --> 02:14:16,800
Speaker 1: at the house. He was not He was at his

2446
02:14:17,240 --> 02:14:22,320
Speaker 1: spicy sleep person's house. Yet another lie? Yeah, I think

2447
02:14:22,960 --> 02:14:26,280
Speaker 1: I think, Uh, if he's not gonna come clean. I

2448
02:14:26,320 --> 02:14:28,640
Speaker 1: feel like what you're not You're not really.

2449
02:14:28,840 --> 02:14:35,320
Speaker 7: Take him thirty? O him dirty? Well, if he ain't

2450
02:14:35,320 --> 02:14:37,800
Speaker 7: gonna clean, don't take him thirty.

2451
02:14:38,040 --> 02:14:40,720
Speaker 1: Don't take him dirty. Is that from something? No? I

2452
02:14:40,800 --> 02:14:48,000
Speaker 1: just so I like it. Thank you. Every Sophia doesn't

2453
02:14:48,000 --> 02:14:51,280
Speaker 1: always finish thoughts, but when she does, they're pretty great.

2454
02:14:51,360 --> 02:14:57,560
Speaker 1: It's pretty And is that the end of that story?

2455
02:14:57,600 --> 02:15:02,520
Speaker 1: It's over? Wow? Wow? You know what also isn't over?

2456
02:15:02,560 --> 02:15:05,800
Speaker 1: We have some donuts, but also every time I'm like,

2457
02:15:05,960 --> 02:15:14,680
Speaker 1: donutswhere we could get some. It's longry anybody donate a donut?

2458
02:15:17,240 --> 02:15:21,720
Speaker 1: It's just too By the way, we have a wheel

2459
02:15:21,840 --> 02:15:25,840
Speaker 1: spin that we are on the cuspun only twenty seven

2460
02:15:26,120 --> 02:15:29,320
Speaker 1: likes away, so like the stream, if you want us

2461
02:15:29,320 --> 02:15:30,240
Speaker 1: suspend that wheel.

2462
02:15:30,360 --> 02:15:34,400
Speaker 2: Guys, we have something special on the wheel today. We

2463
02:15:34,440 --> 02:15:40,520
Speaker 2: have something special on the wheel today, and it involves Anthony.

2464
02:15:40,560 --> 02:15:42,640
Speaker 2: I mean if he's if he's willing, it could also

2465
02:15:42,840 --> 02:15:43,480
Speaker 2: just involve me.

2466
02:15:43,560 --> 02:15:46,080
Speaker 1: We do. We have to test something and it's fun.

2467
02:15:46,680 --> 02:15:49,040
Speaker 1: I'm here here, I'm here for the wheel. Are you?

2468
02:15:49,080 --> 02:15:53,840
Speaker 1: Are you here to commit with zero context or zero context?

2469
02:15:57,120 --> 02:15:58,360
Speaker 3: Yes? There we go.

2470
02:15:59,600 --> 02:16:02,280
Speaker 1: Oh, Anthony could be donut gang. I saw a leg

2471
02:16:02,400 --> 02:16:05,680
Speaker 1: gang and I saw donut gang. Yeah, because now they're

2472
02:16:05,720 --> 02:16:08,280
Speaker 1: meming his legs saying he's a leg mom model in

2473
02:16:08,320 --> 02:16:08,760
Speaker 1: the chat.

2474
02:16:11,120 --> 02:16:13,440
Speaker 2: Let's pull up some of those memes. We need some

2475
02:16:13,480 --> 02:16:16,080
Speaker 2: good Anthony. Heyst be careful.

2476
02:16:20,280 --> 02:16:23,400
Speaker 1: You will be screenshotted and memed into oblivion.

2477
02:16:23,520 --> 02:16:33,000
Speaker 5: Indeed, what Soyvia, Sophia, you know what you're doing. You

2478
02:16:33,040 --> 02:16:35,760
Speaker 5: know what power you?

2479
02:16:36,400 --> 02:16:41,200
Speaker 1: Sophia a true friend if she's wielding this powers.

2480
02:16:41,680 --> 02:16:43,440
Speaker 7: Okay, but there's gonna be a moment where I have

2481
02:16:43,520 --> 02:16:47,600
Speaker 7: to show it again so I can fix it.

2482
02:16:50,840 --> 02:16:54,160
Speaker 1: Gee, a lot of fixing you're doing over there. Really

2483
02:16:54,240 --> 02:16:56,960
Speaker 1: moved it? Someone else said a guitar. It could be

2484
02:16:57,000 --> 02:16:59,280
Speaker 1: donut gang. It could be guitar gang. Because I believe

2485
02:16:59,320 --> 02:17:04,600
Speaker 1: Anthony played tar. We can get a guitar on set.

2486
02:17:05,320 --> 02:17:09,480
Speaker 1: But we do have some Oh we hit the wheel.

2487
02:17:10,000 --> 02:17:11,640
Speaker 1: We hit the wheel before we do the wheel spin.

2488
02:17:11,720 --> 02:17:15,640
Speaker 1: Let's read some donos Asian persuasions for the two bucks.

2489
02:17:15,640 --> 02:17:18,200
Speaker 1: My ex has full conversations with people in his sleep.

2490
02:17:18,560 --> 02:17:20,800
Speaker 1: To transcribe him and see if you can catch him

2491
02:17:21,280 --> 02:17:25,240
Speaker 1: slip in baby Godzilla, who is this fine specimen with

2492
02:17:25,360 --> 02:17:28,440
Speaker 1: the legs? I would like to say his name, in

2493
02:17:28,520 --> 02:17:35,160
Speaker 1: my sleep. Anthony, would you like to introduce yourself once

2494
02:17:35,200 --> 02:17:36,240
Speaker 1: again for everyone new here.

2495
02:17:38,800 --> 02:17:46,800
Speaker 4: My name is donut Man. My name's le Leggy McGee.

2496
02:17:54,400 --> 02:17:59,920
Speaker 1: Great. Anthony is my friend, my surf compatriot. He makes

2497
02:18:00,560 --> 02:18:05,000
Speaker 1: music on Spotify. Anthony a song coming out.

2498
02:18:04,840 --> 02:18:07,600
Speaker 7: Soon, get a popular TikTok post.

2499
02:18:07,760 --> 02:18:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's popping off on the TikTok. Also is it

2500
02:18:10,120 --> 02:18:13,560
Speaker 1: also Anthony donito on TikTok? It is ce n I

2501
02:18:13,680 --> 02:18:16,960
Speaker 1: t t o so go so port him check him

2502
02:18:16,959 --> 02:18:21,400
Speaker 1: out and yeah, he's guesting today. And Lucky Lou eight nine.

2503
02:18:21,520 --> 02:18:23,240
Speaker 1: Thanks for the five bucks. I had an ex that

2504
02:18:23,280 --> 02:18:26,039
Speaker 1: would call out my name when his girlfriend would try

2505
02:18:26,080 --> 02:18:28,800
Speaker 1: to wake him up off the couch and he and

2506
02:18:28,840 --> 02:18:31,160
Speaker 1: she thought we were sleeping together. I had to move

2507
02:18:31,200 --> 02:18:34,160
Speaker 1: away and go no contact. Only found out when they

2508
02:18:34,200 --> 02:18:36,920
Speaker 1: broke up and he told his friends about it, who.

2509
02:18:36,680 --> 02:18:41,199
Speaker 4: Told me, tiny Cactus, I see you, Anthony.

2510
02:18:41,360 --> 02:18:45,880
Speaker 2: That's good. That is good, Anthony, that is good. That's

2511
02:18:45,959 --> 02:18:49,400
Speaker 2: pretty good. Chat Chat's pretty funny. Chat's pretty funny, funny.

2512
02:18:49,400 --> 02:18:52,720
Speaker 2: I am getting very distracted. Could can you scroll up

2513
02:18:52,720 --> 02:18:55,520
Speaker 2: to you? And Ash got to catch him and thanks

2514
02:18:55,520 --> 02:18:56,119
Speaker 2: for the five bucks.

2515
02:18:56,160 --> 02:19:01,080
Speaker 1: DM. Some photos of the little producer Riley to Riley's

2516
02:19:01,120 --> 02:19:04,440
Speaker 1: discord for you all to see. We have been listening

2517
02:19:04,480 --> 02:19:07,599
Speaker 1: for almost two years as you have been a constant

2518
02:19:07,680 --> 02:19:10,480
Speaker 1: for him and me. Do we have it in the chat?

2519
02:19:10,840 --> 02:19:12,960
Speaker 1: Oh boy, we don't have to pull it up now,

2520
02:19:13,000 --> 02:19:15,960
Speaker 1: but we can pull it up later and then dumpster fire.

2521
02:19:16,080 --> 02:19:18,320
Speaker 1: Thanks for the twenty five bucks on the tip link.

2522
02:19:18,400 --> 02:19:22,360
Speaker 1: No less, spin that wheel. I want to see producer

2523
02:19:22,400 --> 02:19:25,640
Speaker 1: Sophia in action. We're about to Lady of the Elephants

2524
02:19:25,959 --> 02:19:28,560
Speaker 1: for a donut. Thanks for the five bucks, Lady for

2525
02:19:28,600 --> 02:19:32,080
Speaker 1: the Elephants and m J grow He is Riley's man crush.

2526
02:19:32,160 --> 02:19:35,279
Speaker 1: It's true. Riley said if he could look like anyone

2527
02:19:35,360 --> 02:19:38,280
Speaker 1: in the world, it would be either Anthony Ord be

2528
02:19:38,280 --> 02:19:41,560
Speaker 1: Matthew mcconaughead. So and that is a real Riley quote

2529
02:19:41,600 --> 02:19:45,160
Speaker 1: that we had. That is a real Riley. Anthony is

2530
02:19:45,240 --> 02:19:49,959
Speaker 1: colloquially known around our apartment. Is beautiful Anthony or like.

2531
02:19:50,120 --> 02:19:52,480
Speaker 7: Or if we're on stream, the guys will say, ah, yeah,

2532
02:19:52,480 --> 02:19:53,000
Speaker 7: our hot.

2533
02:19:52,840 --> 02:19:57,320
Speaker 1: Friend, hot friend Anthony, ye friend. But that is all

2534
02:19:57,400 --> 02:19:59,960
Speaker 1: of the donations. Let me let's put the next goal

2535
02:20:00,040 --> 02:20:05,440
Speaker 1: at seven fifty. Sofia and I think we are ready

2536
02:20:05,640 --> 02:20:11,640
Speaker 1: to spin that wheel. So let's spin that wheel. Oh

2537
02:20:11,680 --> 02:20:17,480
Speaker 1: my god, whoa, how did this happen? Wait? Hold on, whoa?

2538
02:20:17,760 --> 02:20:23,240
Speaker 1: What what were the odds were the odds for zero?

2539
02:20:24,480 --> 02:20:28,880
Speaker 1: Riley is going to uh, Anthony, you're going to stay here.

2540
02:20:29,000 --> 02:20:32,279
Speaker 1: I'm going to go set up the hot tub stream

2541
02:20:32,760 --> 02:20:36,840
Speaker 1: with Riley right now and we will be back. So Anthony,

2542
02:20:37,160 --> 02:20:40,040
Speaker 1: John Sofia hold down the fort and I will go

2543
02:20:40,120 --> 02:20:45,240
Speaker 1: grab Riley. Wonderful, it's hot dubstream time. He let's do it.

2544
02:20:48,760 --> 02:20:49,160
Speaker 7: I don't know.

2545
02:20:49,240 --> 02:20:55,600
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hey, speaking of which, Anthony, would you

2546
02:20:55,680 --> 02:20:57,480
Speaker 1: like to take the red throne?

2547
02:20:57,840 --> 02:20:58,560
Speaker 6: Oh?

2548
02:20:58,600 --> 02:21:04,920
Speaker 1: I want you never, but I did. Ladies and gentlemen,

2549
02:21:05,680 --> 02:21:09,200
Speaker 1: h whoa, whoa, whoa. Since Sophia blow it out, blow

2550
02:21:09,240 --> 02:21:12,360
Speaker 1: it out, that is definitely making it to the means

2551
02:21:12,800 --> 02:21:15,800
Speaker 1: I didn't even do anything. Dude, Anthony is not ready

2552
02:21:15,840 --> 02:21:17,359
Speaker 1: for what's about to happen in Discord.

2553
02:21:18,680 --> 02:21:28,520
Speaker 9: Oh oh it's a it's a it's an app where

2554
02:21:28,680 --> 02:21:31,359
Speaker 9: people go to chat for the community.

2555
02:21:30,959 --> 02:21:32,160
Speaker 3: Goes ah ah.

2556
02:21:37,520 --> 02:21:47,280
Speaker 1: Oh not definitely, I always do that, Sophia. Ladies and gentlemen,

2557
02:21:47,440 --> 02:21:52,800
Speaker 1: we have more stories for you. In fact, in fact,

2558
02:21:53,959 --> 02:21:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look up. Do you know the episodes that were.

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Speaker 3: I six.

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Speaker 7: Into six sixty two?

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Speaker 1: Tick sixty two. I am going to pull this up

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Speaker 1: and uh is it s one? Yes, sir Anthony, do

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Speaker 1: you already read these ones?

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Speaker 3: These ones? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I did not? Dixie Blue Steel, thanks for the three

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02:22:17,520 --> 02:22:20,560
Speaker 1: months of membership. Dutch just says that daddy long legs.

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02:22:20,640 --> 02:22:24,160
Speaker 1: I think that fits for Anthony and baby Godzilla. Thanks

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02:22:24,200 --> 02:22:27,800
Speaker 1: for five bucks. I would like to highlight Tricia D's

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02:22:27,840 --> 02:22:29,720
Speaker 1: spelling of his name and.

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Speaker 2: Thigh me, whoa, Now we're getting guys, we are we

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02:22:35,879 --> 02:22:43,560
Speaker 2: are really really cooking? Uh uh uh oh spaghetti?

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Speaker 1: Oh I think on my desk, I have one from

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02:22:51,040 --> 02:22:54,880
Speaker 1: my dad? Should I read read your dad's next for us?

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02:22:54,959 --> 02:22:55,320
Speaker 3: Please?

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02:22:56,160 --> 02:23:03,800
Speaker 1: Okay is this the screenshot? How much of it? Do

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02:23:03,840 --> 02:23:11,640
Speaker 1: you want me to read? The legs part? Okay?

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02:23:12,160 --> 02:23:15,640
Speaker 4: And now okay just put my flight, let's go and

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02:23:15,840 --> 02:23:18,840
Speaker 4: this is another person and tune into your stream. The

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02:23:18,879 --> 02:23:25,080
Speaker 4: new dude is rocking some serious quad handstreng delineation. This

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02:23:25,160 --> 02:23:27,320
Speaker 4: is legit the most handsome. This is Riley is saying,

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02:23:27,320 --> 02:23:31,480
Speaker 4: this is legit the most handsome man in LA. Actually,

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02:23:32,320 --> 02:23:32,640
Speaker 4: oh my.

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02:23:36,560 --> 02:23:40,200
Speaker 1: Had your moms, howd your wives? Everybody out here?

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02:23:40,480 --> 02:23:44,680
Speaker 4: Serious quad handstring that's thank you, thank thank you.

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02:23:44,680 --> 02:23:45,000
Speaker 1: Guys.

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02:23:45,200 --> 02:23:49,320
Speaker 2: Listen, we warned you the chat chat gets crazy, that

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02:23:49,560 --> 02:23:53,920
Speaker 2: goes crazy. Anthony, would you do me the honor of

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02:23:54,520 --> 02:23:55,560
Speaker 2: reading this next story?

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Speaker 1: Are you? Oh? I would love to. I thought you

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02:23:58,120 --> 02:24:00,199
Speaker 1: wouldn't ask yes, so so real quick.

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02:24:00,280 --> 02:24:05,000
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna remove this here so you'll see it'll

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02:24:05,040 --> 02:24:08,959
Speaker 2: it'll it'll all be there for you, but there will

2593
02:24:08,959 --> 02:24:11,480
Speaker 2: be a little call out to our our subreddit and

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02:24:11,520 --> 02:24:13,320
Speaker 2: the user, so it'll be like, all this comes from

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02:24:13,320 --> 02:24:13,920
Speaker 2: our slash.

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02:24:13,720 --> 02:24:14,480
Speaker 1: Okay story time.

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02:24:15,000 --> 02:24:18,760
Speaker 2: I actually need to put that down our slash okay

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02:24:18,879 --> 02:24:19,680
Speaker 2: story time.

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02:24:21,959 --> 02:24:22,800
Speaker 7: No it doesn't.

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02:24:23,400 --> 02:24:24,560
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't. It doesn't.

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02:24:24,720 --> 02:24:27,480
Speaker 7: I tried to make it, but it doesn't.

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02:24:28,440 --> 02:24:31,280
Speaker 1: The it does. It does pop up on there.

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02:24:31,760 --> 02:24:34,840
Speaker 7: No, it just they deleted it.

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02:24:35,800 --> 02:24:36,199
Speaker 1: I can't.

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02:24:37,240 --> 02:24:38,080
Speaker 7: It doesn't exist.

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02:24:38,720 --> 02:24:42,520
Speaker 2: But uh so so there you'll call it the who

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02:24:42,560 --> 02:24:48,440
Speaker 2: it's from. And then at the end we have a

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02:24:48,480 --> 02:24:50,640
Speaker 2: little call out to be like, hey, we're live at

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02:24:51,400 --> 02:24:53,160
Speaker 2: three pm PSC and there's a little thing I'll say

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02:24:53,160 --> 02:24:55,960
Speaker 2: in story binter. That's where we just have our kind

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02:24:56,000 --> 02:24:59,680
Speaker 2: of final discussion right before the little like epilogue.

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02:24:59,280 --> 02:25:00,920
Speaker 1: And happ of the story.

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02:25:01,440 --> 02:25:02,920
Speaker 3: But sir, are you ready?

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02:25:03,600 --> 02:25:11,280
Speaker 1: I have never been more ready, Let me go, sirrenngie, and

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02:25:11,280 --> 02:25:13,560
Speaker 1: you can read them with us as much enthusiasm as

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02:25:13,840 --> 02:25:15,879
Speaker 1: you like. Oh, when we get to the updates.

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02:25:15,560 --> 02:25:18,280
Speaker 2: That's where we break and we have our little breakdowns

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02:25:18,320 --> 02:25:19,080
Speaker 2: and whatnot.

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02:25:20,240 --> 02:25:20,600
Speaker 3: You got this?

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02:25:21,000 --> 02:25:26,480
Speaker 1: Here we go? Okay? Are they ready? Thou art ready? Okay?

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02:25:27,240 --> 02:25:32,120
Speaker 4: My partner randomly ghosted me after a double date. I

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02:25:32,200 --> 02:25:36,959
Speaker 4: don't know what I did. I read it never posted

2623
02:25:36,959 --> 02:25:38,879
Speaker 4: on here before, but I figured I should give it

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02:25:38,920 --> 02:25:43,119
Speaker 4: a try. Me and my partner have been dating, as

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02:25:43,160 --> 02:25:47,039
Speaker 4: in going on dates, being romantically involved in every aspect

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02:25:47,640 --> 02:25:51,440
Speaker 4: except formal labels and introductions to family since January of

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02:25:51,480 --> 02:25:54,920
Speaker 4: this year. We both attend the same university and I

2628
02:25:55,000 --> 02:25:59,320
Speaker 4: live away from my family by myself, so avoiding formalities

2629
02:25:59,440 --> 02:26:05,280
Speaker 4: is easy. This is from Spikey Pillows, by the way,

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02:26:06,400 --> 02:26:11,320
Speaker 4: Spiky do those ze, who says this week we agreed

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02:26:11,360 --> 02:26:15,840
Speaker 4: to exclusively, which I believe we have both been. I

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02:26:15,920 --> 02:26:18,959
Speaker 4: believe we both have been, but this was the first

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02:26:18,959 --> 02:26:23,039
Speaker 4: time we officially established it. And the night before the

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02:26:23,080 --> 02:26:25,840
Speaker 4: double date, he drunk called me and confessed he was

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02:26:25,879 --> 02:26:29,720
Speaker 4: in love with me. I was upset, of course, that

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02:26:29,800 --> 02:26:31,600
Speaker 4: this was the first time he said I love you,

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02:26:31,680 --> 02:26:35,440
Speaker 4: because he was drunk and was far away from his

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02:26:35,520 --> 02:26:38,560
Speaker 4: family get away home, and he kept insisting it was

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02:26:38,600 --> 02:26:41,160
Speaker 4: the truth, and being drunk isn't why he said it.

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Speaker 4: Our double date was scheduled at four pm the next

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02:26:46,800 --> 02:26:49,920
Speaker 4: day after this drunk call night, and of course he

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02:26:50,000 --> 02:26:52,640
Speaker 4: woke up late, had a six hour drive due to

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02:26:52,760 --> 02:26:55,480
Speaker 4: errands and the location of this of the getaway house.

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02:26:55,879 --> 02:26:59,120
Speaker 4: I love the getaway house, not get not like. The

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02:27:00,280 --> 02:27:04,760
Speaker 4: getaway house was about four hours from my city. When

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02:27:04,800 --> 02:27:06,840
Speaker 4: he showed up with his friend for our double date,

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02:27:06,959 --> 02:27:09,480
Speaker 4: he snapped at me to get in the car to

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02:27:09,560 --> 02:27:12,640
Speaker 4: go to the food place because he was starving and exhausted.

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02:27:13,160 --> 02:27:15,680
Speaker 4: He had never spoken to me like that before. The

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02:27:15,720 --> 02:27:19,080
Speaker 4: whole car ride he was the whole car ride there,

2651
02:27:19,240 --> 02:27:23,080
Speaker 4: he was short with his words, shrugged off every attempt

2652
02:27:23,160 --> 02:27:27,320
Speaker 4: I made in slight touching hand on back of arm,

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02:27:27,440 --> 02:27:29,120
Speaker 4: around his arm.

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02:27:28,800 --> 02:27:32,680
Speaker 1: Maybe a daddy long lady, watch out.

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02:27:34,480 --> 02:27:37,640
Speaker 4: I don't like intense PDA such as handholding or kissing

2656
02:27:37,640 --> 02:27:41,240
Speaker 4: in public, so we never really do these sorts of things.

2657
02:27:41,840 --> 02:27:45,359
Speaker 4: Even after we got food and ate, he was silent

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02:27:46,080 --> 02:27:48,800
Speaker 4: or short the whole time. He barely looked at me,

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02:27:48,920 --> 02:27:52,440
Speaker 4: barely acknowledged me, and shut every conversation down. I had

2660
02:27:52,560 --> 02:27:55,920
Speaker 4: never seen him act like this in my entire life before.

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02:27:56,879 --> 02:27:59,920
Speaker 4: We have never even fought before. I assumed he was

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02:28:00,120 --> 02:28:02,320
Speaker 4: hired from the six hour drive, but to treat me

2663
02:28:02,440 --> 02:28:05,840
Speaker 4: like this, in my opinion, was absurd. I was so

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02:28:05,959 --> 02:28:08,120
Speaker 4: distraught over the way he was acting that I shut

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02:28:08,120 --> 02:28:11,400
Speaker 4: down and pretty much went nonverbal the whole night. I

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02:28:11,440 --> 02:28:14,280
Speaker 4: got really emotional when people treat I get really emotional

2667
02:28:14,280 --> 02:28:17,480
Speaker 4: when people treat me bad, and tend to be super sensitive,

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02:28:17,720 --> 02:28:20,640
Speaker 4: so I was fighting back tears the whole night, especially

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02:28:20,640 --> 02:28:24,200
Speaker 4: compiled with the emotional confusion of him confessing his love

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02:28:24,240 --> 02:28:26,560
Speaker 4: to me the night before and then treating me as

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02:28:26,640 --> 02:28:29,160
Speaker 4: if I'm the most annoying thing to ever happened to him,

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02:28:29,200 --> 02:28:32,039
Speaker 4: all within twenty four hours. At any point, I try

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02:28:32,120 --> 02:28:37,000
Speaker 4: to keep going, Oh yeah, wonderful, scroll too far?

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02:28:37,200 --> 02:28:37,800
Speaker 1: Where did I going?

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02:28:37,800 --> 02:28:41,280
Speaker 4: Within twenty four hours they cut the date short as

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02:28:41,360 --> 02:28:44,400
Speaker 4: well and dropped me back off at my apartment and

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02:28:44,480 --> 02:28:48,800
Speaker 4: left without saying word, and he dropped me by they

2678
02:28:48,879 --> 02:28:52,480
Speaker 4: cut the Oh okay, I could tell the other couple

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02:28:52,680 --> 02:28:56,240
Speaker 4: we were with was super uncomfortable with the situation, as

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02:28:56,280 --> 02:28:59,959
Speaker 4: I'm sure anyone would be my partner didn't. My partner

2681
02:29:00,360 --> 02:29:03,480
Speaker 4: didn't text me that day or the next. I didn't

2682
02:29:03,520 --> 02:29:05,840
Speaker 4: feel like I had done anything deserving of that treatment.

2683
02:29:05,920 --> 02:29:09,200
Speaker 4: So I was petty with my text, petty with my

2684
02:29:09,280 --> 02:29:12,039
Speaker 4: text to him the next day, saying, next time, just

2685
02:29:12,120 --> 02:29:14,080
Speaker 4: cancel if we're gonna if you're gonna act that way,

2686
02:29:14,879 --> 02:29:17,880
Speaker 4: he responded with, if you don't know what you did

2687
02:29:17,920 --> 02:29:20,800
Speaker 4: to make me act that way, then there's nothing else

2688
02:29:20,879 --> 02:29:25,400
Speaker 4: to talk about. I think it's best if we don't

2689
02:29:25,440 --> 02:29:29,800
Speaker 4: meet up in person again for a while. This is

2690
02:29:29,879 --> 02:29:33,600
Speaker 4: getting juicy, guys, I have no idea what's happening.

2691
02:29:34,480 --> 02:29:39,720
Speaker 1: Nor do I if I were saying.

2692
02:29:40,720 --> 02:29:43,400
Speaker 7: Like this is getting juicy, I have no idea.

2693
02:29:44,080 --> 02:29:46,200
Speaker 2: Also, this is a great time to share another one

2694
02:29:46,240 --> 02:29:49,800
Speaker 2: of our little intricacies. We have a little thing we

2695
02:29:49,920 --> 02:29:53,360
Speaker 2: like to call ic you where we put a hit

2696
02:29:53,440 --> 02:29:54,359
Speaker 2: of Sophia.

2697
02:29:56,240 --> 02:29:57,520
Speaker 1: Ice you in the chat.

2698
02:29:57,720 --> 02:30:03,640
Speaker 2: Oh if they see what's about to happened, because we don't,

2699
02:30:03,800 --> 02:30:07,640
Speaker 2: but they might wait, so we if they see it.

2700
02:30:07,440 --> 02:30:09,880
Speaker 2: So basically, if you see something coming, we say like,

2701
02:30:09,920 --> 02:30:11,840
Speaker 2: put an ice you in the chat, and everyone who

2702
02:30:12,000 --> 02:30:13,600
Speaker 2: like has the theory will.

2703
02:30:13,560 --> 02:30:16,920
Speaker 4: Drop an ic you in the chat, and I see,

2704
02:30:17,160 --> 02:30:22,760
Speaker 4: I don't even I don't see you guys. I have

2705
02:30:22,840 --> 02:30:26,160
Speaker 4: no idea what's happening. I have no idea what I

2706
02:30:26,160 --> 02:30:29,360
Speaker 4: could have possibly done. And yes, I've replayed the night

2707
02:30:29,480 --> 02:30:32,400
Speaker 4: at least one hundred times to see if there is

2708
02:30:32,520 --> 02:30:37,039
Speaker 4: anywhere I went wrong. My only clue so far is

2709
02:30:37,120 --> 02:30:39,840
Speaker 4: the guy friend of who we were on a double

2710
02:30:39,920 --> 02:30:44,640
Speaker 4: date messaged me that my partner is going through something

2711
02:30:44,920 --> 02:30:48,560
Speaker 4: and give him some time, but he doesn't like the

2712
02:30:48,720 --> 02:30:51,560
Speaker 4: touching and affection you showed him in public, and that

2713
02:30:51,720 --> 02:30:57,160
Speaker 4: is really stressed him out. The friend also stressed the

2714
02:30:57,200 --> 02:31:00,440
Speaker 4: importance of leaving him out of it and not telling anyone.

2715
02:31:00,520 --> 02:31:03,280
Speaker 4: He said something to me he just felt bad that

2716
02:31:03,640 --> 02:31:07,080
Speaker 4: I was being left in the dark when I care

2717
02:31:07,200 --> 02:31:10,760
Speaker 4: so much about him. Hmmm, very interesting.

2718
02:31:11,160 --> 02:31:12,360
Speaker 3: Huh.

2719
02:31:12,800 --> 02:31:17,640
Speaker 1: So we have some relevant comments from beginning Dress six eighteen.

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02:31:17,720 --> 02:31:19,480
Speaker 1: Why don't we Why don't we break your down? Let's

2721
02:31:19,480 --> 02:31:19,720
Speaker 1: break it.

2722
02:31:19,879 --> 02:31:24,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, okay, So basically, let me make sure

2723
02:31:24,200 --> 02:31:28,240
Speaker 2: I'm getting this right. They He drunkenly called her and

2724
02:31:28,280 --> 02:31:29,920
Speaker 2: was like, I love you, and I'm not I'm not.

2725
02:31:29,840 --> 02:31:32,199
Speaker 1: Just saying this because I'm wasted, babe, Like I really

2726
02:31:32,200 --> 02:31:33,160
Speaker 1: mean it. She's like, oh great.

2727
02:31:33,640 --> 02:31:36,720
Speaker 2: Literally the next day they're like going on this double

2728
02:31:36,800 --> 02:31:38,039
Speaker 2: date and she's like, you know, just trying to like

2729
02:31:38,280 --> 02:31:40,440
Speaker 2: oh kind of like put her hand on his and

2730
02:31:40,640 --> 02:31:41,360
Speaker 2: and that kind of thing.

2731
02:31:41,400 --> 02:31:44,800
Speaker 1: She's just like, yeah, don't touch me. And then and

2732
02:31:44,840 --> 02:31:47,440
Speaker 1: then the friends are like you really shouldn't have you know,

2733
02:31:47,480 --> 02:31:50,160
Speaker 1: he doesn't like PDA like that, especially after what happened

2734
02:31:50,160 --> 02:31:52,520
Speaker 1: to him, Like there's a mysterious thing that's happened, right,

2735
02:31:52,959 --> 02:31:56,120
Speaker 1: but op, he has no idea. And he also said

2736
02:31:56,160 --> 02:31:59,720
Speaker 1: that like you should know after what you did.

2737
02:32:00,080 --> 02:32:02,280
Speaker 4: So so he's like, it's not just like that something

2738
02:32:02,320 --> 02:32:05,039
Speaker 4: happened to him that he's going through something. It's like

2739
02:32:05,760 --> 02:32:08,560
Speaker 4: you should know what you did. Like I'm like, is

2740
02:32:08,560 --> 02:32:11,200
Speaker 4: that wasn't the one blackout drunk? Like what yeah?

2741
02:32:11,280 --> 02:32:13,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? Or is he talking about the light like her

2742
02:32:13,920 --> 02:32:17,800
Speaker 1: just you know, putting her hand on his gently the

2743
02:32:17,959 --> 02:32:22,680
Speaker 1: day after he confessed his love to her, Like is there.

2744
02:32:22,879 --> 02:32:26,280
Speaker 7: I feel like there's something that we're did she she

2745
02:32:26,640 --> 02:32:28,760
Speaker 7: did she say that she loved him back?

2746
02:32:30,520 --> 02:32:32,599
Speaker 1: I don't know if she said that story.

2747
02:32:32,720 --> 02:32:35,320
Speaker 7: Maybe maybe he's upset that she didn't say I love

2748
02:32:35,360 --> 02:32:38,199
Speaker 7: you back, that.

2749
02:32:38,160 --> 02:32:46,400
Speaker 1: I see you that Yes, I see it. Yeah, I

2750
02:32:46,440 --> 02:32:48,879
Speaker 1: think that does he was he even he's aware that

2751
02:32:48,920 --> 02:32:50,680
Speaker 1: he said it, right, he wasn't like, we don't know.

2752
02:32:53,000 --> 02:32:57,080
Speaker 2: I reading the context clues, I feel like he is

2753
02:32:57,080 --> 02:32:59,400
Speaker 2: aware that he said I honestly think that's a fing,

2754
02:32:59,440 --> 02:33:00,440
Speaker 2: that's a rate.

2755
02:33:01,200 --> 02:33:06,240
Speaker 1: My passing news. I'm on it today. Okay, let's should

2756
02:33:06,240 --> 02:33:13,280
Speaker 1: we get into the over a little bit. What give?

2757
02:33:14,760 --> 02:33:18,560
Speaker 4: The man needs to be able, he doesn't want to

2758
02:33:18,600 --> 02:33:20,640
Speaker 4: be off center.

2759
02:33:24,840 --> 02:33:31,600
Speaker 1: I'm eating good. Oh, slowly but surely destroying the space. Okay,

2760
02:33:31,720 --> 02:33:34,560
Speaker 1: I think, all good, All good. We can we can

2761
02:33:34,560 --> 02:33:39,720
Speaker 1: hop back into the story. Oh nope, get it back

2762
02:33:39,720 --> 02:33:40,240
Speaker 1: into the story.

2763
02:33:41,760 --> 02:33:46,400
Speaker 4: So beginning Dress six eighteen says, and you're questioning why

2764
02:33:46,440 --> 02:33:50,720
Speaker 4: he's upset with you? You straight up rejected him. Of course

2765
02:33:50,840 --> 02:33:53,840
Speaker 4: this is of course, this is the thing you have

2766
02:33:53,959 --> 02:33:56,760
Speaker 4: going on is over. Of course this thing you have

2767
02:33:56,959 --> 02:34:03,120
Speaker 4: going on is over. Wow, spiky pillows, is that op op?

2768
02:34:04,400 --> 02:34:08,160
Speaker 4: I can see your point of view. It makes sense

2769
02:34:08,760 --> 02:34:13,240
Speaker 4: and very possible. But he was really really drunk, jumbling

2770
02:34:13,280 --> 02:34:16,400
Speaker 4: his words and saying so much gibberish. For all I know,

2771
02:34:17,320 --> 02:34:23,880
Speaker 4: he could not even remember it happening. And if he's

2772
02:34:23,959 --> 02:34:26,120
Speaker 4: that drunk, how do I even know if he means

2773
02:34:26,160 --> 02:34:30,000
Speaker 4: what he says? Could just be the drunk hormones. I've

2774
02:34:30,000 --> 02:34:32,679
Speaker 4: said plenty of things. I don't mean when drunk.

2775
02:34:32,800 --> 02:34:36,840
Speaker 2: Are drunk hormones A thing like when you after you

2776
02:34:36,920 --> 02:34:39,560
Speaker 2: drink a lot and you're just like ready to get down.

2777
02:34:39,800 --> 02:34:42,080
Speaker 4: Maybe it's just like the same hormones that you have,

2778
02:34:42,360 --> 02:34:45,039
Speaker 4: but wild drunk like your hormones.

2779
02:34:45,120 --> 02:34:49,879
Speaker 1: Wild drunk would do Carls crazy things. Damn.

2780
02:34:50,320 --> 02:34:54,880
Speaker 4: So yeah, so Sophia worm Queen was right with the theory,

2781
02:34:55,000 --> 02:34:55,800
Speaker 4: but we don't know.

2782
02:34:56,680 --> 02:35:03,000
Speaker 2: I'm even further in belief that is the correct hypothesis.

2783
02:35:03,760 --> 02:35:08,000
Speaker 1: Not fair to ope though in my so far, Yeah,

2784
02:35:08,120 --> 02:35:10,320
Speaker 1: like what do you what do you say? Yeah?

2785
02:35:10,400 --> 02:35:14,080
Speaker 2: If you so you received that call right, and like,

2786
02:35:14,280 --> 02:35:17,199
Speaker 2: what would you say back.

2787
02:35:17,400 --> 02:35:20,920
Speaker 4: To the Like awesome, let's talk about this tomorrow morning

2788
02:35:20,959 --> 02:35:22,600
Speaker 4: when we're both sober.

2789
02:35:23,080 --> 02:35:26,240
Speaker 1: But then what if she's like, so you don't love.

2790
02:35:27,600 --> 02:35:32,120
Speaker 4: If if op was like, you don't actually love me,

2791
02:35:32,200 --> 02:35:33,680
Speaker 4: you were just drunk, or the opposite.

2792
02:35:34,080 --> 02:35:37,959
Speaker 2: So so to I'll play I'll play your girlfriend calling.

2793
02:35:37,760 --> 02:35:43,840
Speaker 7: You okay, hey may wait what.

2794
02:35:46,760 --> 02:35:48,040
Speaker 1: Hey? Sweet? Is everything? Okay?

2795
02:35:48,360 --> 02:35:49,920
Speaker 3: It's so good?

2796
02:35:50,040 --> 02:35:51,640
Speaker 2: You know you know you know how I love your

2797
02:35:51,760 --> 02:35:53,920
Speaker 2: big daddy lung legs so great?

2798
02:35:54,560 --> 02:35:57,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do know how you love that? Where are

2799
02:35:57,280 --> 02:36:02,440
Speaker 1: you right now? You know it's my friends and I

2800
02:36:02,480 --> 02:36:05,039
Speaker 1: love your long legs, but this, this is not the

2801
02:36:05,080 --> 02:36:07,360
Speaker 1: only thing, you know. Thank you?

2802
02:36:07,400 --> 02:36:09,360
Speaker 4: Oh, I really appreciate that. Could you maybe put me

2803
02:36:09,400 --> 02:36:11,280
Speaker 4: on with one of your friends? Do you have anybody

2804
02:36:11,280 --> 02:36:11,680
Speaker 4: else there?

2805
02:36:11,720 --> 02:36:13,480
Speaker 1: Which you know? I'm my own friend.

2806
02:36:13,560 --> 02:36:13,760
Speaker 3: You know.

2807
02:36:14,000 --> 02:36:17,000
Speaker 1: I don't just love your big daddy long legs. I

2808
02:36:17,040 --> 02:36:18,920
Speaker 1: live you, big billy. What do you think about that?

2809
02:36:18,959 --> 02:36:22,119
Speaker 4: Wow, that's amazing. You know it sounds like you're having

2810
02:36:22,160 --> 02:36:26,760
Speaker 4: a really fun night. Ivays fun to know, you know what?

2811
02:36:26,840 --> 02:36:29,680
Speaker 4: You just keep having some fun and we will we

2812
02:36:29,720 --> 02:36:33,360
Speaker 4: will catch up to you love me?

2813
02:36:33,400 --> 02:36:37,240
Speaker 1: So yeah, I love that you love me.

2814
02:36:40,240 --> 02:36:41,080
Speaker 3: I'm sad.

2815
02:36:41,760 --> 02:36:43,840
Speaker 1: Oh no, well.

2816
02:36:45,879 --> 02:36:51,720
Speaker 2: I enjoy you hates me in sane.

2817
02:36:53,120 --> 02:36:58,960
Speaker 7: That's right, Anthony actually just passed basic at the groundy.

2818
02:37:01,360 --> 02:37:05,080
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go. Thank you, thank you, thank you. And

2819
02:37:05,160 --> 02:37:10,240
Speaker 1: I have no experience whatsoever and you crush. Here we go.

2820
02:37:10,920 --> 02:37:14,120
Speaker 1: But also I have to shout something out real quick. Guys.

2821
02:37:14,400 --> 02:37:17,280
Speaker 1: We have unlocked another what right?

2822
02:37:17,480 --> 02:37:20,280
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, sorry I thought it was yet another sorry yes.

2823
02:37:20,240 --> 02:37:23,360
Speaker 1: No, no, no, it was the original thirty minutes that

2824
02:37:23,400 --> 02:37:25,320
Speaker 1: we unlocked, and that's been added to the clock and

2825
02:37:25,360 --> 02:37:27,520
Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. Yes, and who was it?

2826
02:37:27,760 --> 02:37:29,440
Speaker 2: But none other than what was the What was the

2827
02:37:29,440 --> 02:37:32,000
Speaker 2: big one that pushed us over with the big the

2828
02:37:32,000 --> 02:37:36,680
Speaker 2: big Chris tin foil Hot, put your hats in the chat,

2829
02:37:37,520 --> 02:37:40,920
Speaker 2: gifting twenty memberships, growing the family.

2830
02:37:41,120 --> 02:37:41,800
Speaker 1: We appreciate you.

2831
02:37:41,800 --> 02:37:43,600
Speaker 2: We're gonna read all the donos as well at the

2832
02:37:43,680 --> 02:37:45,040
Speaker 2: end of the story, but wanted to give a big

2833
02:37:45,040 --> 02:37:47,920
Speaker 2: shout out to Chris tinfoil Hat without.

2834
02:37:47,720 --> 02:37:52,280
Speaker 4: Further Yes, people can say, you know what, I want

2835
02:37:52,400 --> 02:37:54,720
Speaker 4: twenty people to be able to be a member.

2836
02:37:55,000 --> 02:37:56,959
Speaker 1: Yes, and they they.

2837
02:37:56,800 --> 02:38:01,520
Speaker 2: Say, there is not enough people who are watching us

2838
02:38:01,840 --> 02:38:07,680
Speaker 2: stream obscene hours of the day, so let's get them

2839
02:38:07,720 --> 02:38:11,080
Speaker 2: into the family and make it happen.

2840
02:38:11,200 --> 02:38:11,959
Speaker 1: That's a true.

2841
02:38:11,760 --> 02:38:15,320
Speaker 2: Community, right, It's a true They're literally gifting the membership.

2842
02:38:15,480 --> 02:38:16,359
Speaker 1: That's fantastic.

2843
02:38:16,520 --> 02:38:19,920
Speaker 2: Imagine imagine I could gift you access to my family.

2844
02:38:21,320 --> 02:38:23,160
Speaker 2: That would be so Anthony Dno Fry.

2845
02:38:23,320 --> 02:38:26,760
Speaker 4: I don't know them, but man, I wish I didn't.

2846
02:38:29,040 --> 02:38:34,800
Speaker 4: I have a question about our story. Yes, why would

2847
02:38:34,879 --> 02:38:42,400
Speaker 4: somebody freak out about more like demonstrations of love after

2848
02:38:43,080 --> 02:38:45,279
Speaker 4: telling you? You know, like, why is that the thing.

2849
02:38:47,280 --> 02:38:51,879
Speaker 1: I am getting? You know? Like, what's very inconce there's.

2850
02:38:52,080 --> 02:38:57,080
Speaker 4: There's always more PDA, a sign of I like you less.

2851
02:38:56,920 --> 02:39:00,640
Speaker 2: There's some indicator. I think in addition what we've said,

2852
02:39:00,680 --> 02:39:02,640
Speaker 2: there's also a big thing where we're still missing. Yeah,

2853
02:39:02,640 --> 02:39:03,720
Speaker 2: I think that's what I think.

2854
02:39:04,040 --> 02:39:11,199
Speaker 1: Shall we dive in? Yeah, let's so I'm going crazy thinking.

2855
02:39:12,879 --> 02:39:15,359
Speaker 4: Thinking it was the slight PDA and the light touches

2856
02:39:15,840 --> 02:39:19,760
Speaker 4: really so criminal that deserve ghosting after six months of

2857
02:39:19,760 --> 02:39:22,920
Speaker 4: a relationship. I might have busherd Dad's sentence, but bear

2858
02:39:23,000 --> 02:39:25,000
Speaker 4: with me, thinking was the slight Yes, so.

2859
02:39:25,080 --> 02:39:26,760
Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm going crazy.

2860
02:39:27,200 --> 02:39:29,760
Speaker 7: So I'm going crazy thinking was the slight PDA?

2861
02:39:29,840 --> 02:39:35,760
Speaker 4: And oh there's a question there, it is thinking was it? Oh?

2862
02:39:36,560 --> 02:39:39,680
Speaker 4: Even he has done BDA in public on dates and

2863
02:39:39,720 --> 02:39:42,080
Speaker 4: with me before, not just in front of this one

2864
02:39:42,160 --> 02:39:45,000
Speaker 4: specific friend we were on at double date with also

2865
02:39:45,640 --> 02:39:47,760
Speaker 4: it was like a four hour away double date.

2866
02:39:47,959 --> 02:39:50,200
Speaker 1: What was the deal with that? Is that? What? Great

2867
02:39:50,280 --> 02:39:52,560
Speaker 1: call out? It was like six hours like long drive

2868
02:39:52,640 --> 02:39:53,480
Speaker 1: what are we doing?

2869
02:39:53,920 --> 02:39:54,080
Speaker 3: Date?

2870
02:39:54,800 --> 02:39:55,640
Speaker 1: Backpacking trip?

2871
02:39:55,720 --> 02:39:57,840
Speaker 4: Like yeah, what who and who are these people? Was

2872
02:39:57,879 --> 02:40:00,240
Speaker 4: it like a one like a four out there in back?

2873
02:40:00,400 --> 02:40:02,320
Speaker 1: Pretty question? I don't know what's going on.

2874
02:40:03,040 --> 02:40:06,800
Speaker 4: We have a really d let's see we have a

2875
02:40:06,800 --> 02:40:11,160
Speaker 4: really deep relationship and connection and talk about anything we

2876
02:40:11,240 --> 02:40:13,760
Speaker 4: go through with each other. Could he really be going

2877
02:40:13,760 --> 02:40:16,040
Speaker 4: through something so intense he feels like he can't talk

2878
02:40:16,080 --> 02:40:19,680
Speaker 4: about it with me. If he is going through something,

2879
02:40:20,320 --> 02:40:26,080
Speaker 4: why did his text to me seem so accusatory? By

2880
02:40:26,120 --> 02:40:29,160
Speaker 4: the way, you can join us live on YouTube every

2881
02:40:29,160 --> 02:40:31,680
Speaker 4: week at three p p m PSD.

2882
02:40:32,080 --> 02:40:34,080
Speaker 7: You're just that a profile.

2883
02:40:34,520 --> 02:40:38,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but what do we what do we think?

2884
02:40:38,840 --> 02:40:41,360
Speaker 2: Is like, what would you? What would you do?

2885
02:40:41,440 --> 02:40:45,600
Speaker 1: Now? In ops? So what is she? What have they

2886
02:40:45,680 --> 02:40:46,720
Speaker 1: done so far?

2887
02:40:47,000 --> 02:40:50,320
Speaker 2: I like, so with only the context we have, which is, uh,

2888
02:40:50,360 --> 02:40:53,240
Speaker 2: they had this, you know, the drunken love confession and

2889
02:40:53,280 --> 02:40:56,080
Speaker 2: then uh now the car.

2890
02:40:56,000 --> 02:40:58,160
Speaker 1: Ride and that you know, you know what you did?

2891
02:40:58,360 --> 02:40:59,720
Speaker 1: Maybe now also.

2892
02:40:59,520 --> 02:41:02,360
Speaker 2: Knowing that maybe it was the fact that OPI didn't

2893
02:41:02,360 --> 02:41:03,400
Speaker 2: say I love you, I.

2894
02:41:03,360 --> 02:41:05,600
Speaker 4: Would ask like, is it because I did? I said

2895
02:41:05,600 --> 02:41:09,000
Speaker 4: I didn't love you? Like is that what's yeah? That's yeah,

2896
02:41:09,280 --> 02:41:12,560
Speaker 4: just out of sheer confusion, like what is it?

2897
02:41:12,560 --> 02:41:15,879
Speaker 1: It's a good point. It's like, hey, listen, let's communicate clear.

2898
02:41:16,040 --> 02:41:21,240
Speaker 1: There is a massive like misunderstanding, missing information something something here,

2899
02:41:21,520 --> 02:41:24,600
Speaker 1: So like I would love to know, like what did

2900
02:41:24,640 --> 02:41:27,039
Speaker 1: I do to and you know, if I did something wrong,

2901
02:41:27,120 --> 02:41:29,800
Speaker 1: I want to rectify it. But what is it that

2902
02:41:29,920 --> 02:41:31,560
Speaker 1: is causing it? Is that I didn't say love you?

2903
02:41:31,640 --> 02:41:32,280
Speaker 1: Is it something else?

2904
02:41:32,400 --> 02:41:36,840
Speaker 4: Because if it's something else, then maybe she can assume Okay,

2905
02:41:36,879 --> 02:41:39,240
Speaker 4: he's just not ready to talk about whatever that is.

2906
02:41:39,520 --> 02:41:42,520
Speaker 4: But if she asks and it's oh, is it because

2907
02:41:42,560 --> 02:41:46,240
Speaker 4: I said I didn't love you and he's like yeah,

2908
02:41:46,320 --> 02:41:47,800
Speaker 4: then like way you know. But if he's like, no,

2909
02:41:47,920 --> 02:41:49,640
Speaker 4: it's this other thing that I can't tell you about,

2910
02:41:49,680 --> 02:41:52,360
Speaker 4: then your questions are no longer about Okay, it's me.

2911
02:41:52,959 --> 02:41:54,920
Speaker 1: It's like something that's weird that he doesn't want to

2912
02:41:54,920 --> 02:41:57,760
Speaker 1: talk about. But even then, he was so huge story

2913
02:41:57,800 --> 02:41:59,199
Speaker 1: towards something that she did.

2914
02:41:59,320 --> 02:42:03,080
Speaker 2: So I think that I would I would ask, I

2915
02:42:03,440 --> 02:42:04,640
Speaker 2: ask one final question.

2916
02:42:04,720 --> 02:42:08,039
Speaker 1: You ask, he gives you the like like it's just

2917
02:42:08,080 --> 02:42:12,240
Speaker 1: so I can't even talk about it. Do you break

2918
02:42:12,320 --> 02:42:14,199
Speaker 1: up at that point?

2919
02:42:14,600 --> 02:42:16,560
Speaker 4: At that point, I mean, there's got to be a

2920
02:42:16,600 --> 02:42:18,480
Speaker 4: little bit of a grace period.

2921
02:42:18,160 --> 02:42:21,160
Speaker 1: But new relationship. By the way, so they just became exclusive.

2922
02:42:21,240 --> 02:42:22,920
Speaker 1: He just said I love you for this is a

2923
02:42:23,360 --> 02:42:24,560
Speaker 1: U and might it might say.

2924
02:42:24,400 --> 02:42:28,879
Speaker 4: They're trying to become are they exclusive? And they're just

2925
02:42:28,920 --> 02:42:30,959
Speaker 4: trying to say whether they love each other.

2926
02:42:31,080 --> 02:42:33,320
Speaker 1: I believe I remembered in the beginning of a story

2927
02:42:33,320 --> 02:42:35,280
Speaker 1: it was like we had just made the decision to

2928
02:42:35,360 --> 02:42:36,280
Speaker 1: like go exclusive.

2929
02:42:36,720 --> 02:42:39,120
Speaker 2: So it's like, okay, hey, we are officially dating. We

2930
02:42:39,160 --> 02:42:42,000
Speaker 2: don't want to see othere. There they have that conversation.

2931
02:42:43,480 --> 02:42:45,280
Speaker 2: So I would guess, like it can't be more than

2932
02:42:45,840 --> 02:42:48,960
Speaker 2: a few months that they've been seeing each other. I

2933
02:42:49,000 --> 02:42:50,400
Speaker 2: don't know if it says in the beginning story, but

2934
02:42:50,640 --> 02:42:53,240
Speaker 2: I think it's six months that they Oh, it's six

2935
02:42:53,280 --> 02:42:55,800
Speaker 2: months that they've been dating or known each other.

2936
02:42:56,000 --> 02:43:00,000
Speaker 7: Oh h it says I deserve ghosting after six months

2937
02:43:00,360 --> 02:43:02,080
Speaker 7: of a relationship. That's what we're just read.

2938
02:43:02,320 --> 02:43:05,600
Speaker 1: Ghosting after six months of a relationship. So he ghosted her?

2939
02:43:07,320 --> 02:43:08,119
Speaker 1: Am I missing that?

2940
02:43:08,160 --> 02:43:11,160
Speaker 7: We that might That's what I was confusing, confused by

2941
02:43:11,240 --> 02:43:13,680
Speaker 7: because she said multiple times he's ghosting me, but it

2942
02:43:13,680 --> 02:43:15,680
Speaker 7: seems like he's responding.

2943
02:43:16,320 --> 02:43:18,920
Speaker 1: Should we just keep? Should we? Yeah? Put it on.

2944
02:43:19,120 --> 02:43:22,120
Speaker 2: I want I want your final, your final take break up,

2945
02:43:22,160 --> 02:43:22,760
Speaker 2: break up or not?

2946
02:43:23,040 --> 02:43:24,039
Speaker 1: At this point, knowing what.

2947
02:43:24,000 --> 02:43:26,440
Speaker 4: You know, knowing everything I know, you have to ask

2948
02:43:26,680 --> 02:43:29,680
Speaker 4: the question, was it because I said I didn't love

2949
02:43:29,720 --> 02:43:35,840
Speaker 4: you after you told me and the answer is I

2950
02:43:35,840 --> 02:43:41,400
Speaker 4: don't want to tell you or it's like a shady no,

2951
02:43:41,480 --> 02:43:45,760
Speaker 4: I'm going through something. Then maybe probably Yeah. I feel

2952
02:43:45,760 --> 02:43:48,240
Speaker 4: like it seems like if you can't approach the subject

2953
02:43:48,320 --> 02:43:51,360
Speaker 4: like that, things down the road are not going to

2954
02:43:51,400 --> 02:43:51,880
Speaker 4: be any better.

2955
02:43:51,959 --> 02:43:53,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I don't I don't know that you have

2956
02:43:53,600 --> 02:43:56,000
Speaker 2: to do it in that moment, but probably like if

2957
02:43:56,120 --> 02:43:57,959
Speaker 2: if it just continues that, then you just break off

2958
02:43:57,959 --> 02:43:58,240
Speaker 2: the road.

2959
02:43:59,040 --> 02:44:03,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, let's see, I haven't heard from him. Okay,

2960
02:44:03,440 --> 02:44:05,200
Speaker 4: so it is ghosting. I haven't heard from him in

2961
02:44:05,320 --> 02:44:08,320
Speaker 4: three days, and life without him has been so hard

2962
02:44:08,320 --> 02:44:12,200
Speaker 4: and sad. I've been crying every day since. Any encouragement, advice,

2963
02:44:12,240 --> 02:44:14,840
Speaker 4: insight would be so appreciated. I'm at a loss for

2964
02:44:14,879 --> 02:44:17,960
Speaker 4: words because I really developed deep feelings for him. Is

2965
02:44:18,000 --> 02:44:18,640
Speaker 4: there hope for me?

2966
02:44:18,879 --> 02:44:22,160
Speaker 1: Am? I cooked? Let her cook?

2967
02:44:23,280 --> 02:44:26,320
Speaker 4: And then the final question is what behavior is red

2968
02:44:26,360 --> 02:44:27,640
Speaker 4: flag from a partner?

2969
02:44:28,480 --> 02:44:28,800
Speaker 3: Hmm?

2970
02:44:29,920 --> 02:44:32,039
Speaker 1: I mean, the ghosting is.

2971
02:44:33,520 --> 02:44:37,240
Speaker 4: Like a weird element and it seems like an immature,

2972
02:44:37,600 --> 02:44:43,199
Speaker 4: embarrassed move from everything I know, it seems like, oh,

2973
02:44:43,240 --> 02:44:45,760
Speaker 4: he put himself out there even though he's when he's

2974
02:44:45,840 --> 02:44:52,840
Speaker 4: drunk cheating, He wasn't cheating performance performance enhancing Yeah exactly,

2975
02:44:54,560 --> 02:44:56,400
Speaker 4: and then like, oh, she didn't say it back, and

2976
02:44:56,440 --> 02:44:58,400
Speaker 4: now I'm not gonna like talk to her every again.

2977
02:44:58,560 --> 02:45:03,280
Speaker 4: Like maybe he's thinking, oh, this couldn't be anything, but

2978
02:45:04,760 --> 02:45:07,920
Speaker 4: you're lucky. Yeah, you know you dodged a bullet. I'm yeah,

2979
02:45:08,000 --> 02:45:09,080
Speaker 4: yeah to one hundred percent.

2980
02:45:09,160 --> 02:45:12,160
Speaker 2: And I'm still left wondering was it truly just that,

2981
02:45:12,280 --> 02:45:15,200
Speaker 2: like he's so, here's another thing, and to put it

2982
02:45:15,240 --> 02:45:18,240
Speaker 2: in the favor of like breakup. He is so poor,

2983
02:45:18,400 --> 02:45:22,960
Speaker 2: so terrible at communicating Yeah, he's so poor, so broke. Sorry,

2984
02:45:23,040 --> 02:45:25,440
Speaker 2: he's so bad at communicating that. It's like, are you

2985
02:45:25,600 --> 02:45:29,280
Speaker 2: ever able going to get like full clarity when future

2986
02:45:29,360 --> 02:45:30,039
Speaker 2: issues come up?

2987
02:45:30,120 --> 02:45:34,720
Speaker 1: Like I'm left, I'm like, bro, what are you talking about?

2988
02:45:34,280 --> 02:45:36,959
Speaker 1: I'm just confused.

2989
02:45:37,680 --> 02:45:39,959
Speaker 4: So like if you're sorry, op that you're in the

2990
02:45:40,040 --> 02:45:43,280
Speaker 4: dark dude, and that you have built up this relationship

2991
02:45:43,360 --> 02:45:44,879
Speaker 4: and it's just like.

2992
02:45:44,879 --> 02:45:47,520
Speaker 1: Over, but maybe hey, let him be cast with a

2993
02:45:47,560 --> 02:45:50,000
Speaker 1: ghost and float away from your life. Just know that

2994
02:45:50,040 --> 02:45:52,839
Speaker 1: you dodged a bullet. Just know that you dodged a bullet.

2995
02:45:53,320 --> 02:45:55,039
Speaker 1: I'm with that. I'm with that.