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Speaker 1: Oh, let's do a second date up dat here deer

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Speaker 1: Ryan says, Now, I went on a first date on

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. Man, if you're out there dating, listen to this.

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Speaker 1: Some say it's cheesier, bad luck, but I was excited

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Speaker 1: about it, says Chris and Pico went great drinks, conversation.

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Speaker 1: I liked her a lot, but I got the I

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Speaker 1: don't see this going any further text afterwards. I want

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Speaker 1: to find out why. Oh I would never want to

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Speaker 1: find like that just seems Oh Chris, good morning, Thanks

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Speaker 1: for coming on with this. First of all, I agree

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Speaker 1: with you. I think a first date on Valentine's Day

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Speaker 1: is cool. Yeah, so did I I was really excited

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Speaker 1: for it. I know it's super weird and it just

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Speaker 1: makes it funny, like you're not taking it too seriously.

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Speaker 1: I have an icebreaker too. Yeah, it's like, let's go

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Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day and pretend we know each other like

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Speaker 1: everyone else. Right, So, Chris, I need to understand a

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Speaker 1: little bit more about like when did you get this?

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Speaker 1: I don't see this going any further text? Did you

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Speaker 1: text her? Did she text you? Where where was that

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Speaker 1: in the sequence? Yeah? So, I well, basically we It

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Speaker 1: was after we had gone on the date, and you know,

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Speaker 1: and I thought the data had gone great. And before that,

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Speaker 1: you know, when we had met on Bumble, it had

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Speaker 1: gone every everything up until that point had been going

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Speaker 1: really great. And then after the you know, after the date,

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Speaker 1: I sent her a couple of texts and she didn't respond,

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Speaker 1: and so I sent like a third one, like I

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Speaker 1: really don't want to send it, butod I sent a

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Speaker 1: third one and then that's when she sent me that

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Speaker 1: message saying like she doesn't think this is going to

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Speaker 1: go anywhere. Okay, I just those words are kind of

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Speaker 1: not I mean, they're direct without any softness, aren't they. Yeah, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: there'd be a way to add a little bit of

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Speaker 1: crust around this, I know, like one more sentence. I

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Speaker 1: don't see it's going anywhere because just a little right,

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Speaker 1: it's just a little less of a rigidness to it,

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Speaker 1: and it's not you, it's me or anything else. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's no other explanation. But at least she's not ghosting.

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Speaker 1: I know. I see that. That's why I'm saying it's

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Speaker 1: like little bit ghosting. But I feel like there could

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Speaker 1: be some more softness too. If that's the case, and

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Speaker 1: if that's the case, that's fine. But the reason that,

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Speaker 1: I mean, he wants to know why, Like, what's the

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Speaker 1: reason here? What's at the root of all this? All right,

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Speaker 1: hold on one second, Chris, let's see what we can

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Speaker 1: find out. We're gonna get her on the phone here

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Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrest. Now we're a second date update.

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Speaker 1: We've got Amanda's agreed to come on with us. She's

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Speaker 1: not quite sure old of why. But Chris reaches out

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Speaker 1: and he's like, hey, listen, I heard the second date

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Speaker 1: update thing. I want peace of mind. I want to

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Speaker 1: know why I was told on a text. I don't

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Speaker 1: see this going any further. After taking Amanda out on

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Speaker 1: a first date on Valentine's Day, he thought it went great.

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Speaker 1: I kind of think it's cute that he says, let's

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Speaker 1: go on a first date on Valentine's Day. So, Chris,

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Speaker 1: I have Amanda. She's agreed to come on and answer

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Speaker 1: some questions. She's trying to figure out what's going on.

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Speaker 1: So just be very quiet let's get into this. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'd be very quiet me so you can find out. Amanda.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for agreing to come on my name is Ryan.

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Speaker 1: I got sisting Tanya. You're on Kiss FM in the morning.

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? How are you? Juan? Well,

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Speaker 1: so we're calling about Chris, a guy that you met

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Speaker 1: him bumble, I think, and you went out with on

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day? Yes, how did you tell me about the date?

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Speaker 1: How is your Valentine's Date date with Chris? Um? Well,

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Speaker 1: I just think it's hilarious that you're even talking to

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Speaker 1: a weird one. This is a weird one. Oh do

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Speaker 1: you mind giving us some detail the weirdness of it? Um? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I kind of got off to a bad start

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Speaker 1: just because he kept calling it Valentine's Day, like yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I let it go, and you know, I let

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Speaker 1: it go the first two three times they he said it,

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. So eventually, after like the fourth or fifth time,

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Speaker 1: He felt the need to look it up on his phone,

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Speaker 1: and then he got all pouty when he found out

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Speaker 1: that I was right. Wait, he thought it was spelled

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Speaker 1: Valentine's with an M. Day yes, and how what did

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Speaker 1: It was? It was more of a shift in his demeanor.

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Speaker 1: a bottle of wine? Oh my gosh. I was trying

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Speaker 1: to win, and he did not. He absolutely did not

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Speaker 1: find that funny at all. So were you checked out

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Speaker 1: at this point when you offered to share wine? No, No,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't. I wasn't. I thought we could think about it.

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Speaker 1: still in I was still you know, willing, you know.

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Speaker 1: And and then, um, now when I think about it,

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Speaker 1: there was definitely more because when he had asked me

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Speaker 1: but they ended up not having a kitchen, and um,

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Speaker 1: so there was you know a miscommunication around that. And

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Speaker 1: so after you know, sitting there and having a drink

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home and make myself some dinner. But

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Speaker 1: I had a great time. I was like, oh, oh, okay, bye,

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Speaker 1: Like he didn't offer, like, hey, why don't we grab

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Speaker 1: and I was still you know, I was still game

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Speaker 1: after the Valentine's Day saying you were still down. Everything

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Speaker 1: fell down place here, Amanda. I want to tell you

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Speaker 1: that Chris is on the line, and Chris, I need

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Speaker 1: to get your reaction to this. Is all of that

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Speaker 1: true what she said? I mean, yeah, yeah, I just

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Speaker 1: you got upset that you got upset that she told

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Speaker 1: she threw me off. And I was so embarrassed. And

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Speaker 1: were you upset when she made the wine joke? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Now that I think that, it's kind of it wasn't

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Speaker 1: So here's the thing, guys, Um, this is as bad

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Speaker 1: as it can go. You know, like all of all

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Speaker 1: of what I'm hearing are signs of the universe saying no,

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Speaker 1: we're not it's not meant to go in the right direction.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it could have gone. It's like not such

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Speaker 1: a big thing, but all these little things add up

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Speaker 1: to make me feel like this is not worth really pursuing. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know when you just don't think I don't think

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Speaker 1: we're a match and it's nothing personal, but it's off. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's off. Well listen, Amanda, thank you very much, and

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Speaker 1: Chris really appreciate. And I think you didn't intentionally do

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Speaker 1: anything wrong, and maybe you didn't do anything wrong at all.

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Speaker 1: It just was off right, like the steps were not

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Speaker 1: in sync. And that's okay. It's a matter of fact,

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Speaker 1: very clear here. It's not like a gray air. It's

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Speaker 1: very clear. So thank you, guys, in good luck. All right,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you, all right, take care, bye bye,

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Speaker 1: little things. But totally cringeworthy. Yeah, and it's like I've

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Speaker 1: been on dates, right, this is off, Like I know

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Speaker 1: this is off. We cannot talk and I talk for

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Speaker 1: a living and I can't talk, like we're not having

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Speaker 1: it's off. I once had a twenty five minute date

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Speaker 1: because it was that off from the beginning. I was like,

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Speaker 1: how quickly can I make this dinner? I can't do that.

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Speaker 1: I have, you know, ninety minutes of offness, right, you

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Speaker 1: finished the dinner, and then you just both feel like

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Speaker 1: that was It's so nice to me. It's so nice

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Speaker 1: to have dinner. Thank thank you guy. You work? Is that?

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Speaker 1: Mark on the line is kind of book? Sisney's husband

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Speaker 1: early tomorrow