WEBVTT - Jailhouse Rock

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, there are folks in this episode. We have no

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<v Speaker 1>idea what we're about to say because we have no

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<v Speaker 1>idea what you are about to ask. And with that,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to this episode of Amy and TJ. Road. It's

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<v Speaker 1>been a while. It was one of our favorite things

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<v Speaker 1>early on, but we haven't done it again.

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<v Speaker 2>Take questions, that's right, and so we had our producers

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<v Speaker 2>reach out on social media to ask you all what

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<v Speaker 2>you wanted to know from us. We have zero clue

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<v Speaker 2>what the questions are, but we're excited to do our

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<v Speaker 2>best to answer that.

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<v Speaker 1>Were there any rules there that count? I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>we said heyd put this, don't do that. We kind

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<v Speaker 1>of left it all in our producer's hands.

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<v Speaker 2>That's correct. We actually gave them no stipulation so they

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<v Speaker 2>can and well they is. Emma, who is sitting right

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<v Speaker 2>across from us, has the list of questions and she

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<v Speaker 2>is she's not going to be on the hot seat.

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<v Speaker 2>She's the most nervous of the three of us right now,

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<v Speaker 2>which is so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>We all we prepare, We do a lot of reading,

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<v Speaker 1>research and getting in questions. I'm so too for this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not nervous about what's going to be at we

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<v Speaker 1>This is one we don't have to prepare for. We

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<v Speaker 1>know the answers, don't we. Baby.

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<v Speaker 2>We tell this to people all the time that we interview.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not gonna ask you a trick question. Anything we

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<v Speaker 2>ask you, you are going to know because it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be about you. So the same rules apply right

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<v Speaker 2>back at us. And I'm totally chill.

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<v Speaker 1>Now now that we set it up that way, she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hit us or something we don't know at the top.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're like, wait, what now, we weren't expecting that. Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>So all right, Emma said you all. If you anybody

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<v Speaker 1>who listen to our podcast, you know the name Emma.

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<v Speaker 1>She hangs out with us in here all the time

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<v Speaker 1>and helps us. She's one of our superstar producers. But

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<v Speaker 1>she's got the questions today. So Emma, you take it away,

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<v Speaker 1>kind ma'am. Let's start all right.

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<v Speaker 3>First question, Rosie asks if your life were a movie,

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<v Speaker 3>what scene would you watch over and over again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a really good question.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn, I got my answer.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, go ahead, so I can think of mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's not a positive. Necessarily, there was a fight

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<v Speaker 1>we were in Okay, there was a fight we were in.

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<v Speaker 1>You were and really upset and you stormed out and

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<v Speaker 1>then you came back. You actually left, You slammed the door,

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<v Speaker 1>left where we were, Uh yes, calling mister Papa there.

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<v Speaker 1>But we got into a fight. That was I believe

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<v Speaker 1>a turning point for our relationship because we learned what

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<v Speaker 1>we were willing to sacrifice, what we were willing to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and we learned that we were not willing to let

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<v Speaker 1>this go and to fight for this relationship. That is

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<v Speaker 1>a scene. It would be, Oh, it would. It would

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<v Speaker 1>be played over and over. It was like notebook equivalent

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<v Speaker 1>type of a scene. Okay, it was that kind of intense.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the one I would play with there, I I

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<v Speaker 2>can totally get that. And I think for me, the

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<v Speaker 2>one I would play over and over again was for me,

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<v Speaker 2>the night that I knew that we were going to

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<v Speaker 2>be okay and that we were going to make it,

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<v Speaker 2>because neither one of us were going to be okay

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<v Speaker 2>if our kids weren't. And it was right after New

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<v Speaker 2>Year's we had we called it fight night, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was your idea and I don't even know who was fighting,

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<v Speaker 2>but we got the package on whatever pay per view

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<v Speaker 2>and Sabine, Ava, Annalise and some friends all gathered in

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<v Speaker 2>that room and you cooked and we all watched and

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<v Speaker 2>everybody it felt safe, It felt it felt joyful for

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<v Speaker 2>the first time in a long time, and I knew

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<v Speaker 2>we have just built you know, We've worked really hard,

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<v Speaker 2>We've taken our time, and now we're going to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to build on this. And I saw our life together.

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<v Speaker 1>How long ago was it the most recent?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh for me.

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<v Speaker 2>For me, that was in January of twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I think for me when that night happened

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<v Speaker 2>and I saw how beautiful and natural it felt. It

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't perfect, but it was a place to start from

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<v Speaker 2>where I felt like I could see us, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>with the grandkids, and I could see us in the

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<v Speaker 2>backyard grilling and all of our girls are there together,

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<v Speaker 2>and I felt that joy and I could rewatch that

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<v Speaker 2>night because that was where things for me I felt.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt this new confidence that we were going to

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<v Speaker 2>get through all of this stuff that had been so

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<v Speaker 2>hard for us and for our daughters, that we were

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<v Speaker 2>gonna we were gonna be able to build something.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to remember the fight night that I

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<v Speaker 1>think with Deontay Wilde. It was like a dual car.

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<v Speaker 1>It started earlier because it was over Okay, and we

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<v Speaker 1>had everybody. That was a long, fun, crazy day. The

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<v Speaker 1>girls and friends were in and it just felt like

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<v Speaker 1>it was a family event and a family night. So

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<v Speaker 1>I gave you that one, yes, Emma. Emma.

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<v Speaker 3>Jake asked what skill or talent do you wish you had?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I wish that I could sing. I wish I

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<v Speaker 2>could sing like a Dina Menzel. I wish I could

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<v Speaker 2>be Broadway caliber vocal like just like I've always loved singing,

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<v Speaker 2>I loved I love Broadway musicals, but I've never had

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<v Speaker 2>the talent to ever back up being able to even

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<v Speaker 2>consider doing that for a living. So that would for

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<v Speaker 2>sure be what I would want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>It goes different way, It depends on what Okay. At

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<v Speaker 1>this stage, I will say because like earlier points of

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<v Speaker 1>my life, when I was younger, I wish I was

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit taller. I wish it was a ball though, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wish I was I had that skill set.

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<v Speaker 1>The older I get out what I am. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I could play the piano. I really wish I could

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<v Speaker 1>play the piano.

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<v Speaker 2>We could go on the road if I could sing

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<v Speaker 2>and you could play the piano.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's gonna be a windy road some backstreets there.

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<v Speaker 2>Both can do it like a little bit. But because

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard you play the piano and you're you're I.

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<v Speaker 1>Play one thing, but I literally play one.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing really sexy when you play piano.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's it is the only thing I played just

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<v Speaker 1>because I love it. It's from a movie. In one scene,

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<v Speaker 1>I play a riff of Purple Rain by Prince that's

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<v Speaker 1>hot from his from the Purple Rain move. You remember

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<v Speaker 1>he went through all his dad stuff. I have his

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<v Speaker 1>dad shot himself. He's sitting at the piano and he

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<v Speaker 1>sits down and he plays this little beautiful riff of

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<v Speaker 1>Purple Rain. It might be one of the most beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>short pieces of music I've ever heard. And I learned

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<v Speaker 1>to play that, and that's the only thing I can

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<v Speaker 1>play that's sexy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, very much.

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<v Speaker 1>So get out of here so I can play you

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<v Speaker 1>a tune. Well, I'll get back to you, Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get back to you on that. You made a

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<v Speaker 1>good you made me think of something. I'll get back

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 3>But yes, next question, all right, Greta asks, are either

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<v Speaker 3>of you jealous?

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<v Speaker 2>Follow up?

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<v Speaker 3>Who is more jealous?

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<v Speaker 1>Jealous? Like of each other? Or what do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Or of just other people? Probably just jealousy creeping into

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<v Speaker 2>our relationship. I will say this, we have not been

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<v Speaker 2>a part very often for me to get jealous, I

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<v Speaker 2>think anytime. That is really a true statement.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think about me going out with the boys.

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<v Speaker 2>So you went out with the boys the other night,

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<v Speaker 2>and I remember I did ask like who are you with?

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<v Speaker 2>And then you weren't answering who you were with, and

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<v Speaker 2>I did feel a flicker of jealousy, like are there

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<v Speaker 2>girls there? Well, I just didn't know. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you said you were hanging out with the boys. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, but are there girls there? And why isn't

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<v Speaker 2>he telling me who's with them? And if there are

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<v Speaker 2>girls there, why am I not there? And so I

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<v Speaker 2>did feel a little flicker of jeb.

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<v Speaker 1>You should never feel that way. No, no, no, no no

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<v Speaker 1>no no, I am sorry. So you can finish that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't want you to know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and so, but we have not really well, first

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<v Speaker 2>of all, I think we just we trust in our

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<v Speaker 2>relationship and we trust each other. That's that's it. But

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<v Speaker 2>I it was a small little flicker. But I we

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<v Speaker 2>just aren't a part for that to have ever actually

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<v Speaker 2>been a thing that we've had to deal with.

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<v Speaker 1>So then that means maybe you would be maybe jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>You just haven't been challenged in that way.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say that I have always considered myself to

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<v Speaker 2>not be a jealous person, to trust in what I

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<v Speaker 2>uniquely bring to a relationship, and also trust that you specifically,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you can't just say that in general has

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<v Speaker 2>to be the person you're with. I think I can

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<v Speaker 2>be and not be a jealous person. I could be

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<v Speaker 2>put in a situation word than I would maybe feel jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you're with the right person, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>hope that you that you wouldn't feel that way.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't, you don't have any I am so sorry

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<v Speaker 1>about the other night because you asked to follow up

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what is she talking about? You said

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<v Speaker 1>I was being KOI yeah, I'm like, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? I'm just with Charles and seb and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and we did go to a party. There were right,

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<v Speaker 1>well tons of women around, but there weren't they weren't with.

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<v Speaker 2>Us, right right, fair, Have you ever felt jealous?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? I have a it's probably ego, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I have too much of an ego to get jealous

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<v Speaker 1>about somebody else, Like I won't allow myself to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's I think that's ego. That makes sense. It's stupid,

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<v Speaker 1>like I am above that, and I will I'm too that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sounds kind of weird in that way, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just trust and I don't worry. I get

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<v Speaker 1>jealous that when she said it, one of the first

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<v Speaker 1>things came to my mind where that sometimes this is

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<v Speaker 1>not what they probably meant. I get jealous of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I get jealous of you, you and your some of

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<v Speaker 1>your life experience putting you in a mindset that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to worry about some of the same shit

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<v Speaker 1>I worry about. Yeah, And so I'm like, Wow, she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to She not even doesn't even care that.

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<v Speaker 1>She just blew right past that cop, Like she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>even care that this like those little experiences in life

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<v Speaker 1>where I am having to be on edge or where

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<v Speaker 1>I am having to feel like I gotta try a

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<v Speaker 1>little harder or I have to put a little more

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<v Speaker 1>effort in. Is all this thing to Worr. Wow, she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to worry about that. So I say, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>jealous of you, but I'm jealous of a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people in that regard, in that experience that I see

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<v Speaker 1>differently because I'm next to you all the time. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing that came to moment that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Next question, who is a person you would

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<v Speaker 3>switch places with for a day?

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<v Speaker 2>And why?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, believe I'm about staff.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, go for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn man, Oh you know what? Fuck it? I used

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<v Speaker 1>to for a long time with say I would.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. This is hard for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's hard because of some recent headlines. And Justin Timberlake,

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<v Speaker 1>really Justin Timberlake is a wildly talented He's still a

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<v Speaker 1>young guy, but he's a family guy. He's always seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like he's having fun. He's had this good energy, singing

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<v Speaker 1>and dance, all these he can act, but he was

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<v Speaker 1>someone I always just looked from afar. I'm like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not a good time. That looks fun. I like

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<v Speaker 1>that and I would love to have that talent that

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<v Speaker 1>he has, but he always with someone I looked at.

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<v Speaker 1>The first thing came to mind, But obviously some of

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<v Speaker 1>the reason headlines. That's why I hesitated it.

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<v Speaker 2>It can all still be true, right, I mean, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I hear you. I would I would say I would

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<v Speaker 2>love to trade places. I brought this person up a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>but I've always looked up to her, and so I'd

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<v Speaker 2>love to live a day in her life, especially at

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<v Speaker 2>the age she's at, with the experience she's lived. Miss Goldiehan,

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<v Speaker 2>I us think she is somebody who embraces life, and

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't like she dances like nobody's watching. She laughs

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<v Speaker 2>with this just joyful energy. She's funny, she has a

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful family, and it's not conventional, and I just I

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<v Speaker 2>would love to spend a day in her life. I've

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<v Speaker 2>always been in offer.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the crazy thing you said, you want a

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<v Speaker 1>day in her life, But it almost sounds like you

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<v Speaker 1>want to live your life the way she has lived hers,

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<v Speaker 1>which I don't think you're necessarily that far off from

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<v Speaker 1>its Sorry, is that kind of sounds I know you admire,

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<v Speaker 1>but so much of what she does are the things

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<v Speaker 1>I think you try to do and are doing a

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<v Speaker 1>great degree.

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<v Speaker 2>So thank you. And I think you have moves like

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<v Speaker 2>JT None dance.

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<v Speaker 1>Before Okay, I'm telling myself a little short. Maybe he's

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<v Speaker 1>got good moves, but I can.

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<v Speaker 2>He can dance.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I like dancing.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Sam asks, are there any topics you will never

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<v Speaker 3>talk about on your podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, the answer is yes, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's a bunch of stuff. Probably. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't don't want to get outlandish, but there's some

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<v Speaker 1>things that we talk about us and what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>at home to a certain degree, but I think there

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<v Speaker 1>are some details and some intimate things. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>can go too far and discussing for anybody else, that's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>But as far as other topics, we don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll talk to a politician, but we are not going

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<v Speaker 1>to give our opinion about politics, but we're trying to.

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<v Speaker 1>I think other than that, and there won't talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>There are certain I think privacy issues for other people

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<v Speaker 2>who are in our lives. We would never be disrespectful

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<v Speaker 2>of anyone else's privacy. So yeah, there are just certain

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<v Speaker 2>people who we are close to or who we were

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<v Speaker 2>once close to, who we will not discuss for a

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<v Speaker 2>myriad of reasons. But I just think a lot most

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<v Speaker 2>of it is respect.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely all right. Next question is in lieu of what

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<v Speaker 3>you are training for. But Francis, ah, what is your

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<v Speaker 3>goal marathon time?

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<v Speaker 2>Ha ha ha. I mean I've always had a goal

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<v Speaker 2>to have a sub four and I have yet to

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<v Speaker 2>achieve it. And it was funny as I was struggling

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<v Speaker 2>on my run the other day, I thought to myself,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay if you don't, and I think that's where

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<v Speaker 2>I am right now. Yes, I would love to hit

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<v Speaker 2>a three fifty nine, but if I never do better

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<v Speaker 2>than four fourteen, I am so okay with that. So

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<v Speaker 2>I just it's aspirational, but it's not something that I

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<v Speaker 2>at this stage of my life, am going to push

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<v Speaker 2>myself past comfort, like extreme discomfort, because running a marathon

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<v Speaker 2>is not comfortable. But I don't want to push myself

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<v Speaker 2>to the point where I feel like somehow I failed

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<v Speaker 2>or I fell short if I don't get a certain time.

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<v Speaker 2>I think when I was younger, if I had started

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<v Speaker 2>running marathons earlier, I would have been a lot more

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<v Speaker 2>competitive with myself, and now I'm more about giving myself

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<v Speaker 2>a break.

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<v Speaker 1>My goal is if I'm running one with Robes, is

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<v Speaker 1>to always finish one second after she does, and that

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<v Speaker 1>really is we run, we do all this training together,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to run the marathon together. So I go

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<v Speaker 1>with whatever pace that is always so Chicago, I want

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<v Speaker 1>my time to be one second after hers and cross

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<v Speaker 1>right next to and right behind her, and that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>How about New York?

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<v Speaker 1>How about New York? You know what? Should I say

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<v Speaker 1>it out loud? Three forty five? How about that nice

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<v Speaker 1>three forty five marathon?

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<v Speaker 2>Cool?

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<v Speaker 1>So I should probably not say that out loud.

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<v Speaker 2>No runner ever wants to say what their what their

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<v Speaker 2>goal time is. They just don't. But we all kind

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<v Speaker 2>of have one in our.

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<v Speaker 1>I certainly a sub for But if I could get

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<v Speaker 1>closer to three forty five, I would go crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Well you can take that as a form of manifestation,

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<v Speaker 3>saying it out loud. It is the way you're going

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<v Speaker 3>to see it. See across the line and see that number.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at him. She's been listening to some of the

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<v Speaker 1>wisdom of our guests.

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<v Speaker 3>So Meliss asks, what is the story behind Amy's promised necklace?

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<v Speaker 1>Melissa asked that question? Is that right, Melissa? A man?

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<v Speaker 1>Your business?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No?

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<v Speaker 1>When this is us? For? When is that where they

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<v Speaker 1>say what you won't talk about? At what points do

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<v Speaker 1>some very intimate things, details nuggets such as that become

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<v Speaker 1>things we are comfortable talking about in a public space.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, do you think that time is now

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<v Speaker 1>on that particular thing, given there's.

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<v Speaker 2>History there, Yes, I would leave that to you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, we're in this together or haven't you heard?

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<v Speaker 1>We're in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>We're in a relationship, so this is a partnership. I

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<v Speaker 2>think we've chosen up until now not to go into

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<v Speaker 2>the details, and so when we want to, we will,

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<v Speaker 2>and we might one day, but now is not the time.

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<v Speaker 1>So apologies to Melissa there on that question. That is

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<v Speaker 1>one of those. And again maybe when we talk about

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<v Speaker 1>like ah I saw it was. But for the time being,

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<v Speaker 1>there are a few things that are incredibly sacred between

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<v Speaker 1>me and Robes that I don't think we will let

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<v Speaker 1>anybody in on. Maybe ever, and right now the necklace

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<v Speaker 1>might be one of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Next question, Alta asks why did Amy spend a night

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<v Speaker 3>in prison? Storytime Police.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a feeling this would come off at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>We discussed this after it came up briefly when we

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<v Speaker 1>were talking to Tiffany Hattish, we discussed that, Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought you had told that story before, and we wondered

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<v Speaker 1>if we should later, if we just do you let

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<v Speaker 1>it go? But here you are and this is your call, Robes,

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<v Speaker 1>and again we can edit this out later.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's fine. I mean, I'll tell it and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>decide if we want to er it. How about that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell it succinctly. I was a few months away

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<v Speaker 2>from being twenty one.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to give commentary throughout, so okay, because I've

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<v Speaker 1>hear this story about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's a couple of things. So I was twenty

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<v Speaker 2>years old summer right before my junior year in college,

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<v Speaker 2>and twenty February, so it was it was like six

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<v Speaker 2>months before my birthday. It was like August, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to be twenty one in February. And

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<v Speaker 2>important detail, people, yes, very important. And I had not

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<v Speaker 2>gotten a car. I was driving the bus to and

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<v Speaker 2>from work. And so I had gotten a job, and

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<v Speaker 2>my parents and I negotiated that I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>finally get my first car and to go back and

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<v Speaker 2>forth to my job in Athens, Georgia. And my dad

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<v Speaker 2>insisted that I get a stick shift because he wanted

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<v Speaker 2>me to learn how to drive a stick no matter

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<v Speaker 2>where I was in the world. I'd always be able

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<v Speaker 2>to drive somewhere, and so it was my second night,

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<v Speaker 2>I think my second night I had the car. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't drive my stick shift very well, but I was

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<v Speaker 2>so excited to drive this car that I told my girlfriends,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll drive to the Lambdacai party. So it was, I

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<v Speaker 2>think a Saturday night, and I I had had I believe,

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<v Speaker 2>two three beers early in the night. Now it's like

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<v Speaker 2>two o'clock in the morning. I had stopped drinking for

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<v Speaker 2>several hours, and all of my friends decided that they

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<v Speaker 2>had found someone that was mister right now. I did

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<v Speaker 2>not partake in that. I think I believe I was

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<v Speaker 2>dating someone at the time. So I decided to drive

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<v Speaker 2>home by myself in my stick shift car at two am.

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<v Speaker 2>It was about less than a mile, but as you

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<v Speaker 2>can might imagine, it might have looked like I was intoxicated.

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<v Speaker 2>I got pulled over it because I was driving a

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<v Speaker 2>stick shift for the second day of my life and

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<v Speaker 2>it was jerky and wait a minute, absolutely true, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I was driving. It was so dumb of me,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna drive a car.

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<v Speaker 1>You never told me this story. I didn't You're telling

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<v Speaker 1>me that you got pulled over because you were a

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<v Speaker 1>shaky stick shift driver.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct time correct. I got pulled over in the parking

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<v Speaker 2>lot of my apartment could look like correct too, So

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<v Speaker 2>I had a field sobriety test. They called in a breathalyzer.

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<v Speaker 2>I blew a zero point zero. But here in lies

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<v Speaker 2>the rub I told the police officer that I was

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<v Speaker 2>twenty one, so I did not tell the truth. I

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<v Speaker 2>told him I didn't have my driver's license on me

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<v Speaker 2>because the driver's license I had was the one that

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<v Speaker 2>my well, I won't say who helped me change the

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<v Speaker 2>seventy three to a seventy to make it look like

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<v Speaker 2>I That was my version of a fake ID, and

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want him. I obviously didn't want him see

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<v Speaker 2>the fake ID. So he said he would let me

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<v Speaker 2>go if I could prove that I lived in the

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<v Speaker 2>apartment complex. So I opened up my wallet to show

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<v Speaker 2>him my apartment and he saw the ID. He goes,

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<v Speaker 2>there's your driver's license. I was like, oh, wow, look

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<v Speaker 2>at that, and so I handed it to him because

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<v Speaker 2>I had to. And he looked at it and he

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<v Speaker 2>obviously knew, and he said, I'm gonna take this with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, okay, you do that, Thanks bye, and I

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<v Speaker 2>went on my way. Two weeks later, I was going

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<v Speaker 2>to a dental appointment at my parents' house in Gwennett County, Georgia,

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<v Speaker 2>and I came back and there was a sheriff's deputy

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<v Speaker 2>in my driveway waiting for me. And bottom line, the

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<v Speaker 2>cop two weeks later, I think they didn't have enough

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<v Speaker 2>arrest you know, they had these quotas, these things at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the month they have to fill. And

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<v Speaker 2>they went back and looked at all the police reports

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<v Speaker 2>and thought, ah, how we can arrest her for tampering

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<v Speaker 2>a government id and minor in possession because I admitted

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<v Speaker 2>to the police officer that I had had two beers

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<v Speaker 2>earlier in the night, so anyway I had to. They

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<v Speaker 2>actually put me in jail in Gwinnet County and then

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<v Speaker 2>Athens Clark County to prove that they had a quota issue,

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<v Speaker 2>decided to extradite me, so I had to stay in

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<v Speaker 2>prison in Gwinnett County for hours. Then an officer from

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<v Speaker 2>Athens Clark County came took my shoelaces. I got handcuffed

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<v Speaker 2>and shackled put into the back of a police car.

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<v Speaker 2>And then put into another holding cell, and so I

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<v Speaker 2>spent nine hours behind bars before my mom was able

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<v Speaker 2>to actually bail me out. I got credit for time served.

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<v Speaker 2>Upon sentencing, I pleaded nolo. I don't have her. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a conviction, but I do have an arrest record.

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<v Speaker 2>There's the long story and a very important lesson learned.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a really long story.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry anyway, Wow, I was extradited, credit for time served

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<v Speaker 2>and two prison cells. Oh not prison jail cells.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. There was a lot of issues I

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<v Speaker 1>took with that story because you took some liberties that

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<v Speaker 1>you've never taken before. Really, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>My parents come back at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Up, Well they aren't. They aren't here, are they?

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<v Speaker 2>But we can call them? You want to do that now, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need a lifeline.

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<v Speaker 3>Ben asks, what does your family think about the podcast?

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<v Speaker 3>Are they, especially your daughters listening?

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<v Speaker 1>Mine isn't no family. I just not how my family rolls. Robes.

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<v Speaker 1>You you hear from somebody every single episode we put up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't hear anything unless I ask. So they're just, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>they're just different. And I guess my folks are used

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<v Speaker 1>to a little old school. They used to just hidden

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<v Speaker 1>a button on the remote and turn on the TV

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<v Speaker 1>and there he is. Now that takes a little more

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<v Speaker 1>work to maybe pick up the phone and find this

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<v Speaker 1>and that that.

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<v Speaker 2>But not my you're dud said he was listening to

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast. He was absolutely into it. They listened, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure to every episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but they never tell me they do. We were

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him and it came up randomly on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone or something that because I was surprised. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know you listened.

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<v Speaker 2>But they are huge supporters and they listen. My parents

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<v Speaker 2>and my oh my mom is one of nine, my

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<v Speaker 2>dad's one of six, so I get, as TJ pointed out,

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<v Speaker 2>a text from an aunt or a cousin or a

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<v Speaker 2>family member almost after every podcast, and I really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>And my daughters listen. I don't think they listen to

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<v Speaker 2>every episode, but they they listen, and they did I

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<v Speaker 2>think early on all the time, but now it's like, yeah, okay,

0:22:39.240 --> 0:22:40.800
<v Speaker 2>three a week is a lot to keep up with.

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<v Speaker 2>So but they they listen if I tell them, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you should really really listen to this episode. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we have support.

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<v Speaker 3>What episodes have you told them to listen.

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<v Speaker 2>To well, oh, like with Ava, if it's something like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know an artist coming up, Like I told her

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<v Speaker 2>to listen to Rachel Platten because there's a person who

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<v Speaker 2>she might want to learn from in terms of how

0:23:00.920 --> 0:23:02.680
<v Speaker 2>she made it into the music business, how she made

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<v Speaker 2>it and had to scrap and fight and build her

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<v Speaker 2>way up into the industry. So I've just told her

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of times, like, Hey, I think you could

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<v Speaker 2>get some nuggets from this person. You should listen to

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast. I love that awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Michelle asks what has been the biggest challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>About the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Workflow for us? We know how to broadcast, you can

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<v Speaker 1>give us notes, give us an interview subject, give us research.

0:23:29.600 --> 0:23:34.560
<v Speaker 1>We can do all that stuff. But I guess trying

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<v Speaker 1>to We're in a position now as executive producers of

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<v Speaker 1>something to come up with ideas and make sure we

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<v Speaker 1>put plans in place and make sure we have the

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<v Speaker 1>structure and the rundown. And it's just more of we don't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not just amount of not having the help. This

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<v Speaker 1>is just a new muscle and a new industry almost

0:23:53.000 --> 0:23:55.560
<v Speaker 1>we're having to learn. So that for us, and a

0:23:55.560 --> 0:23:58.040
<v Speaker 1>lot of that we have we have learned a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and it feels so much better and different, good to

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<v Speaker 1>sit here. But that was a learning.

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<v Speaker 2>Curve for us, Yeah, for sure. I mean, when we

0:24:05.000 --> 0:24:07.360
<v Speaker 2>were in broadcasting, we always worked together, so we knew

0:24:07.359 --> 0:24:09.200
<v Speaker 2>we could do that well. But we were directed as

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<v Speaker 2>to what to do and who said what when, and

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<v Speaker 2>so we were kind of following instructions, and we had

0:24:13.960 --> 0:24:17.239
<v Speaker 2>took licenses in liberties creatively, but we were under a

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<v Speaker 2>very specific structure. So this has been a huge learning

0:24:20.359 --> 0:24:24.040
<v Speaker 2>curve to have kind of anything and everything be a possibility.

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<v Speaker 2>Who does what, who takes on what role, who writes this,

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<v Speaker 2>who comes up with ideas. It's just we've had to

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<v Speaker 2>It's been a little bit of a struggle in some moments,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think we've We're in a really good place now,

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<v Speaker 2>in a really good flow right now, so we're feeling

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<v Speaker 2>good about it. But yeah, the first few months were tough.

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<v Speaker 3>You set me up for my next question from Devin.

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<v Speaker 3>How has your relationship with how the public perceives you

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<v Speaker 3>changed from your first podcast episode to recording now?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, it's easy to say this. I've always tried

0:24:57.320 --> 0:24:58.960
<v Speaker 2>to live by it. I know you have too. If

0:24:58.960 --> 0:25:02.040
<v Speaker 2>you believe the good things people say about you, then

0:25:02.080 --> 0:25:03.760
<v Speaker 2>you have to believe the bad. You can't just pick

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<v Speaker 2>and choose. I mean, it's like you can't get swept up.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess in whatever people are saying about you, you

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<v Speaker 2>have to know who you are and where you're coming

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<v Speaker 2>from and what your intent is. However, I will say,

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<v Speaker 2>as a human being the other day, we try not

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<v Speaker 2>to read the comments. But I think you were there

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<v Speaker 2>when Avan and Anna were kind of yelling like, hey, mom,

0:25:21.560 --> 0:25:23.760
<v Speaker 2>have you seen the comments lately? They're really good, Like

0:25:23.960 --> 0:25:26.720
<v Speaker 2>people are really supporting you guys. And so, in a

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<v Speaker 2>weird way, for me, knowing that my daughters see the

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<v Speaker 2>support for us makes me feel good that they feel.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a hard thing for a for anyone who loves someone,

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<v Speaker 2>but especially maybe a child to a parent, to see

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<v Speaker 2>someone who they thought was up on a pedestal, who

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<v Speaker 2>people like to suddenly be considered the opposite, like a

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<v Speaker 2>pariah or whatever. So I actually I felt good knowing

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:50.920
<v Speaker 2>that they were seeing positive comments and support, and that

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<v Speaker 2>made me feel good as a human being. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I could say I didn't I wasn't affected

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<v Speaker 2>by any of that, but for sure I do feel

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<v Speaker 2>a more positive warm feeling when I think about hopefully

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<v Speaker 2>what most people, or hopefully at least some people think

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<v Speaker 2>of us.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you think it made a difference as well?

0:26:11.240 --> 0:26:13.840
<v Speaker 1>When we start getting out more and actually interacting with

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<v Speaker 1>more people and you're just not sitting behind a damn

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<v Speaker 1>door with your phone, and oftentimes the folks who are

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:25.600
<v Speaker 1>throwing a lobbing things at you, you know, and social

0:26:25.680 --> 0:26:27.520
<v Speaker 1>media and things, aren't the folks who are trying to

0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:30.080
<v Speaker 1>send a positive message. So I think once we started

0:26:30.080 --> 0:26:34.080
<v Speaker 1>getting out and interacting and seeing not friends, we saw friends,

0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:38.640
<v Speaker 1>but just members of the general public. And how yes,

0:26:38.720 --> 0:26:41.760
<v Speaker 1>it's not everybody hates you, not everybody thinks the worst

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<v Speaker 1>of you. And also I think once the story right

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<v Speaker 1>once since our first podcast is slowly but surely people

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<v Speaker 1>are getting more of an idea of what actually happened

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<v Speaker 1>with us, which is not what they were told when

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<v Speaker 1>everything went down. I think once people understand and the

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<v Speaker 1>story a little more, it's making a huge difference as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So the yeah, it's shifted a lot since the very beginning.

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<v Speaker 3>Abby asks what is your biggest ick about each other?

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<v Speaker 2>Mine is really simple, I've told you this, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not just saying like I just like watching you. That

0:27:30.840 --> 0:27:34.880
<v Speaker 2>sounds creepy, but I like almost everything about you, even

0:27:34.920 --> 0:27:36.920
<v Speaker 2>the things that just make you uniquely you. The one

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:39.720
<v Speaker 2>thing you do that drives me crazy is you pop

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<v Speaker 2>your right elbow. It and you do it multiple times

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<v Speaker 2>a day. But I can live with that. It's okay,

0:27:46.880 --> 0:27:50.159
<v Speaker 2>But I can't really think of anything else. Oh oh oh,

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:53.960
<v Speaker 2>you just like to sleep diagonally across the bed. That's tough.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it. I'm done.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all you get. Yeah, I think there's probably more.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all you get.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all I can think of right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So to answer this, I am going to defend

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:12.200
<v Speaker 1>myself against your too wild accusations. The elbow, it's an

0:28:12.359 --> 0:28:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it was an injury, but it was

0:28:13.960 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a habit. Like anybody else's. Something gets tight and you

0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:19.120
<v Speaker 1>pop it like a knuckle. It's my elbow gets tight

0:28:19.160 --> 0:28:21.359
<v Speaker 1>and I do. But you have told me you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like it, and I have tried to not do it

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<v Speaker 1>as much. I still do it in front of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I do, but I have I am aware

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<v Speaker 1>of it, and I'm conscious of it. Two sleeping across

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<v Speaker 1>the bed. I think anybody here who's listened to the

0:28:33.040 --> 0:28:36.560
<v Speaker 1>podcast knows that TJ likes to sleep with the TV on.

0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:40.600
<v Speaker 1>The TV's always on, so if the TV is at

0:28:40.600 --> 0:28:44.800
<v Speaker 1>the foot of the bed that direction, if I'm watching TV,

0:28:47.000 --> 0:28:50.760
<v Speaker 1>I can put myself in a sleeping position that to

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<v Speaker 1>watch TV, all I have to do is open my eyes.

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to go to sleep, just close the eyes.

0:28:55.720 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 1>Don't have to change position at all. I'm not on

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<v Speaker 1>my back. I'm not not. If you're at that angle,

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<v Speaker 1>perfect viewing, perfect sleeping, Why that doesn't make sense to you?

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<v Speaker 1>I will never.

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<v Speaker 2>Understand because it doesn't really give me any room to sleep.

0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:14.240
<v Speaker 2>That's the problem. Sometimes I put my legs over your

0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:18.240
<v Speaker 2>body because I'm sleeping the way most people sleep, which

0:29:18.400 --> 0:29:19.440
<v Speaker 2>is lengthwise.

0:29:19.760 --> 0:29:22.360
<v Speaker 1>You always get more sleep than I do. That's true,

0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:27.200
<v Speaker 1>you sleep more soundly and longer. Your problem is, no,

0:29:27.560 --> 0:29:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I get what you're saying. I sleep like that all

0:29:29.080 --> 0:29:31.000
<v Speaker 1>the time when you're I'm not in a bed with you.

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:32.520
<v Speaker 1>When I am in the bed with you, then I

0:29:32.920 --> 0:29:35.120
<v Speaker 1>know better yes than to do that. But it's funny

0:29:35.120 --> 0:29:36.200
<v Speaker 1>when you come out of the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 2>So he does it on purpose. I comment, I'm like, really,

0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:41.920
<v Speaker 2>and he's completely like taking up the whole bed. That's

0:29:42.000 --> 0:29:44.280
<v Speaker 2>just and then it's like he's dead weight and can't move.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just to be funny, you know, I said this,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna kind of I kind of want to take

0:29:50.520 --> 0:29:53.080
<v Speaker 1>a high a high road approach to this, but it's

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:57.120
<v Speaker 1>too it's too convenient. Maybe they brought this up not

0:29:57.120 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 1>too long ago, this idea of that you're ick about somebody.

0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 1>I hated the idea of trying to find something I

0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:04.720
<v Speaker 1>didn't like about you, like to intentionally look at you

0:30:04.800 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 1>and say, hmm, let me figure. It's just to put

0:30:07.560 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 1>myself in that mindset. I got annoyed when I was

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 1>trying to do it previous and somebody had asked me.

0:30:11.800 --> 0:30:13.920
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, well, I participate in that exercise,

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<v Speaker 1>but if I'm being honest, please do please do I

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<v Speaker 1>an ick, an ick, I don't know what What do

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I complain about with you? What do I say, babe?

0:30:25.560 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 1>Why are you doing that? What do I do?

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<v Speaker 2>This isn't what do I say? Oh, chewing? I bought

0:30:31.720 --> 0:30:35.240
<v Speaker 2>my gum. I bought my gum. Yeah, And that's annoying.

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:41.360
<v Speaker 2>And then the interrupting I am I'm not excusing because

0:30:41.360 --> 0:30:43.600
<v Speaker 2>it's rude, rude, rude. But I didn't realize how rude

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 2>it was because I was just so enthusiastic first of

0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:47.720
<v Speaker 2>all to say something, but also I was afraid that

0:30:47.760 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 2>I'd forget it in three seconds if I didn't say it.

0:30:50.080 --> 0:30:52.280
<v Speaker 2>That's my worst habit, Like my brain does not retain.

0:30:52.320 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 2>If I have an idea, but I don't say it

0:30:53.960 --> 0:30:57.720
<v Speaker 2>right away, it's gone. But it's rude, and I hopefully

0:30:57.720 --> 0:30:58.440
<v Speaker 2>have gotten better.

0:30:59.040 --> 0:31:02.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay, but I was thinking more of yes, and what

0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:04.520
<v Speaker 1>you're talking about there, that's a habit you can change,

0:31:04.600 --> 0:31:06.880
<v Speaker 1>versus I don't know that I'm looking at as there's

0:31:06.880 --> 0:31:10.760
<v Speaker 1>something about you, an ick about you. I don't know

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>if there's a I don't know. Maybe you know, as

0:31:12.600 --> 0:31:13.840
<v Speaker 1>soon as we're gonna leave here, I'm.

0:31:13.680 --> 0:31:16.280
<v Speaker 2>Going, wow, yeah, he's gonna he's gonna have a listing.

0:31:18.280 --> 0:31:21.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't have an ick that I have. The chewing

0:31:21.680 --> 0:31:22.760
<v Speaker 1>that not even the snoring.

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:24.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah I do, I do.

0:31:24.600 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 1>Store you're a snorer, yeah, big times.

0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:27.640
<v Speaker 2>Didn't realize that.

0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:32.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, people snore normal function.

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:34.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, not a big deal.

0:31:34.680 --> 0:31:37.040
<v Speaker 3>You know. There was a trend on TikTok actually for

0:31:37.160 --> 0:31:41.040
<v Speaker 3>the friend that interrupts any sort of silence and they

0:31:41.040 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 3>just want to chat with their friend. Was to give

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:46.240
<v Speaker 3>them a notepad and to write down all of their questions, comments, ideas,

0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:48.920
<v Speaker 3>and then present the notepad after.

0:31:49.120 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 1>Smart You think you can do that? Yeah, I know

0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:56.880
<v Speaker 1>you can't. You know the sounds offensive we talk about

0:31:56.960 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 1>you're not a you can't do two things at once.

0:32:00.360 --> 0:32:03.040
<v Speaker 1>You don't excel at doing that. Like I mean something

0:32:03.080 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 1>as simple as we could be in the middle of

0:32:04.560 --> 0:32:08.440
<v Speaker 1>a conversation while we're getting ready to go run and

0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:11.360
<v Speaker 1>you can't put your shoes on and talk to me

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:16.120
<v Speaker 1>at the same time, and I say, baby, stop talking,

0:32:16.120 --> 0:32:18.040
<v Speaker 1>put the shoes on so we can go. Yeah, and

0:32:18.080 --> 0:32:20.200
<v Speaker 1>if you put the shoes on, the conversation stops.

0:32:21.880 --> 0:32:22.840
<v Speaker 2>It's I need to focus.

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:25.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you do, but you will focus on that one thing.

0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 1>But when you do multiples. He gets drink.

0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:33.200
<v Speaker 3>Sophie asks, who are each of your role models, alive

0:32:33.320 --> 0:32:35.160
<v Speaker 3>or dead?

0:32:36.560 --> 0:32:40.440
<v Speaker 2>I can name one of them for me. Diane Sawyer.

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<v Speaker 2>I have always marveled at her ability to do her

0:32:46.480 --> 0:32:48.520
<v Speaker 2>job and to do it with such grace. She has

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 2>been and was such a beautiful mentor to me. The

0:32:51.640 --> 0:32:53.680
<v Speaker 2>moment I met her, I could barely even speak in

0:32:53.720 --> 0:32:56.760
<v Speaker 2>her presence because I had been watching her and studying

0:32:56.800 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 2>her the moment I knew I wanted to be a journalist.

0:32:59.880 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 2>But she's just a beautiful mind and just a smart woman,

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<v Speaker 2>a smart woman who I have just always wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>emulate in my career and definitely has been a role

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<v Speaker 2>model in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I will go with Andrew Young, Ambassador Andrew Young from Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 1>who is the first African American that served as UN

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<v Speaker 1>Ambassador under Clinton, former mayor of Atlanta. But he was

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<v Speaker 1>someone I just in my time in living in Atlanta

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<v Speaker 1>and working down there at CNN, I got to know

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<v Speaker 1>and got to travel with and got to just sit

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know it the hell out of him

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, but I got access to him at times

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<v Speaker 1>and I would just sit like a kid, just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to learn and take in every bit of information he had.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's one of the most incredible deal makers and

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<v Speaker 1>I am able to put people together in the way

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<v Speaker 1>that I've never ever seen before. His life, his legacy,

0:33:58.800 --> 0:34:02.480
<v Speaker 1>his resume for itself. But he is someone I was

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<v Speaker 1>just always in awe of an amazed by, going from

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<v Speaker 1>right marching with Martin Luther King to UN ambassadors, mayor

0:34:11.520 --> 0:34:16.400
<v Speaker 1>and Congress all these things he's done, just that. Dude's incredible,

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<v Speaker 1>So he would be my guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Charlotte asks, if living in New York was no longer

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<v Speaker 3>an option, where.

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<v Speaker 1>Would the two of you live one?

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<v Speaker 2>You know it already Atlanta, right? Is that what you

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<v Speaker 2>would say?

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<v Speaker 1>I like one, I was looking.

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<v Speaker 2>For a tax free state. I mean, Georgia is a

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<v Speaker 2>place that we both know and love, and that would

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<v Speaker 2>probably be the place I would think we would do

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<v Speaker 2>well in. But I also I could I could live.

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:49.080
<v Speaker 2>This sounds so cheesy, but I could live almost anywhere

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<v Speaker 2>as long as I was with TJ. Like, it really

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't matter that much.

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe I'm with you there. Atlanta would have

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<v Speaker 1>to be our My folks are Memphis, yours are right

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<v Speaker 1>outside of Atlanta. It would just makes sense for us.

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking trying to think of a fun town,

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<v Speaker 1>like it wasn't a family situation. Where could we be

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<v Speaker 1>where we want to be?

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<v Speaker 2>New Orleans, Miami. I haven't loved Nashville. I mean, there's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of places I could live, But I've noticed

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<v Speaker 2>I've just said everything in the South.

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<v Speaker 1>We just said every place I like to visit. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never thought about making any of those places home, true, right,

0:35:23.440 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 1>I love going to those spots. But yeah, Atlanta is

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<v Speaker 1>just such a home. Memphis is home even internationally for us.

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<v Speaker 1>I think London we'd probably be in our top three

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<v Speaker 1>places if we were considering.

0:35:33.080 --> 0:35:35.800
<v Speaker 2>We could live in London and really really excel.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow. Oh Lane asks what are your favorite quotes or

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<v Speaker 3>phrases you live by?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I have a list.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a list. Some stuff I could reel off.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't let perfect get in the way of good money

0:35:55.000 --> 0:36:02.399
<v Speaker 1>is what people without talent used to keep score Bible Verse.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not fret because of evil doers, nor be envious

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<v Speaker 1>of the workers of inequity, where they say'll soon be

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<v Speaker 1>cut down like the grass and weather as the green herb.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that one.

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<v Speaker 2>I got few. If you want, keep going, keep going off,

0:36:17.440 --> 0:36:20.480
<v Speaker 2>keep going. I'm impressed this dude can memory Like your

0:36:20.520 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 2>brain is the opposite of mine. You retain everything, and

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:25.960
<v Speaker 2>it's remarkable. I'm in awe that you can just spout

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<v Speaker 2>these off. I again, have just pulled up my Apple

0:36:28.239 --> 0:36:30.160
<v Speaker 2>notes list so I can read off of mine. But

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<v Speaker 2>please continue.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the first thing to kind of come to mind.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm a big Colts guy. So yeah, I'm

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:39.400
<v Speaker 1>not even sure what I just reeled off.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. Well, if you could, I didn't want to.

0:36:41.120 --> 0:36:43.000
<v Speaker 2>I did interrupt you, That's what I just did. Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>my apologies. I have anything that's happening to you is

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<v Speaker 2>actually happening for you. That's one of my favorites. Comparison

0:36:51.360 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 2>is the thief of joy. I love when what you

0:36:56.000 --> 0:37:00.760
<v Speaker 2>appreciate appreciates It is not about belongings, it's about belonging.

0:37:01.320 --> 0:37:03.120
<v Speaker 2>Those are some of the things I love and then

0:37:04.680 --> 0:37:07.759
<v Speaker 2>don't be invested in outcomes. I think that's been a

0:37:07.800 --> 0:37:14.800
<v Speaker 2>huge part for me. And instead of being defensive, be defenseless.

0:37:15.520 --> 0:37:17.160
<v Speaker 2>That's a really tough one for me. But I try

0:37:17.160 --> 0:37:20.200
<v Speaker 2>to remind myself of that, usually after the fact, maybe

0:37:20.320 --> 0:37:23.600
<v Speaker 2>not when I'm in the middle of it. And you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I told you about this, Michael Strahan, I wrote,

0:37:26.200 --> 0:37:28.440
<v Speaker 2>I write down quotes when I see them that helped

0:37:28.480 --> 0:37:31.200
<v Speaker 2>me live better or just remind me of where I

0:37:31.239 --> 0:37:35.400
<v Speaker 2>want to place my focus. But Michael Strahan on this

0:37:35.440 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 2>set of Good Morning America said this to me one

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<v Speaker 2>day and I wrote it down, so I have to

0:37:39.400 --> 0:37:42.120
<v Speaker 2>give it to him. You can't complain about something you're

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 2>not trying to fix and I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know, I got ton I was still taking

0:37:50.280 --> 0:37:52.719
<v Speaker 1>notes on them, but I got quotes forever, So I'll

0:37:52.800 --> 0:37:53.680
<v Speaker 1>leave it at the one thigh.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just listening to Kevin from the office and

0:37:58.200 --> 0:38:01.319
<v Speaker 3>he recited the last line from the final season and

0:38:01.360 --> 0:38:04.320
<v Speaker 3>he said, there's beauty and ordinary things.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that I do too.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Last question is from Kristen. She asks who is

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<v Speaker 3>someone you would love to interview on this podcast and why.

0:38:16.560 --> 0:38:25.680
<v Speaker 1>Jennifer Lopez. Why? Because I think that lady needs a

0:38:25.840 --> 0:38:33.279
<v Speaker 1>break and a safe somewhere to express ourselfs don't even

0:38:33.280 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 1>me wrong. I'm sure there's the other places she could

0:38:36.239 --> 0:38:38.920
<v Speaker 1>do that and find some sincerity, but there was just

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:43.719
<v Speaker 1>so much going on that I almost feel like giving

0:38:44.040 --> 0:38:46.560
<v Speaker 1>her in particular. But the two of them like just

0:38:46.600 --> 0:38:51.400
<v Speaker 1>a hug, just a big old hug. So I would

0:38:51.480 --> 0:38:53.239
<v Speaker 1>love to get those two in here, and not for

0:38:53.280 --> 0:38:54.800
<v Speaker 1>the sake of you know what. I would like to

0:38:54.840 --> 0:38:57.040
<v Speaker 1>talk to them and we never have to air the episode.

0:38:57.200 --> 0:38:58.879
<v Speaker 1>I would like to get in a room with them

0:38:58.920 --> 0:39:01.760
<v Speaker 1>and just say, Hi, guys, how you doing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, so many people, just if they're in a

0:39:05.600 --> 0:39:08.640
<v Speaker 2>safe space, actually have so much wisdom based on what

0:39:08.680 --> 0:39:11.640
<v Speaker 2>they've experienced that they probably will never feel free or

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:14.359
<v Speaker 2>safe to share. So yeah, I would love that too.

0:39:15.760 --> 0:39:19.560
<v Speaker 2>I would love I would love to interview Will Smith.

0:39:20.200 --> 0:39:23.440
<v Speaker 2>I had just finished reading his book when I think

0:39:23.440 --> 0:39:26.680
<v Speaker 2>it was maybe a couple months before the Oscars the

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:30.839
<v Speaker 2>slab heard around around the world happened, and I would

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:34.160
<v Speaker 2>just I would love to see he had so much

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:35.880
<v Speaker 2>wisdom in all the life he had lived that he

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:37.920
<v Speaker 2>put into his book that I listened to training for

0:39:38.000 --> 0:39:40.200
<v Speaker 2>my first marathon. I actually listened to the audiobook of it.

0:39:40.200 --> 0:39:44.000
<v Speaker 2>It's a great book. But given what happened since that

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:46.239
<v Speaker 2>and where he is now, I would I would love

0:39:48.239 --> 0:39:48.919
<v Speaker 2>to talk to him.

0:39:50.280 --> 0:39:52.799
<v Speaker 1>You've read the book and all that. That was the

0:39:52.880 --> 0:39:55.240
<v Speaker 1>last time I talked to him. Wow was the interview

0:39:55.239 --> 0:40:00.239
<v Speaker 1>we did in Philadelphia. He was promoting that book, And yeah,

0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:02.320
<v Speaker 1>I wonder what we just saw Bad Boys for We

0:40:02.400 --> 0:40:04.600
<v Speaker 1>did not too long ago. So many he's back out there.

0:40:04.600 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 1>That movie did well, so who knows what's coming, But

0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:10.840
<v Speaker 1>just for people who've experienced and gone through something to

0:40:10.880 --> 0:40:13.400
<v Speaker 1>that level. And I get what you're saying there.

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<v Speaker 2>Alec Baldwin and Hilaria, like we I would love to

0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:18.440
<v Speaker 2>talk to them too. I think, you know, we're so

0:40:18.600 --> 0:40:22.040
<v Speaker 2>quick to judge and just people who've had to go

0:40:22.120 --> 0:40:24.759
<v Speaker 2>through it, who are looking for maybe that second, third,

0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:28.000
<v Speaker 2>fourth chance that I think hopefully most of us deserve.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just love really getting to understand not only

0:40:33.840 --> 0:40:49.400
<v Speaker 2>what people have been through, but what they've learned from it,