1 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: Hey, there are folks in this episode. We have no 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: idea what we're about to say because we have no 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: idea what you are about to ask. And with that, 4 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,159 Speaker 1: welcome to this episode of Amy and TJ. Road. It's 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: been a while. It was one of our favorite things 6 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: early on, but we haven't done it again. 7 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 2: Take questions, that's right, and so we had our producers 8 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 2: reach out on social media to ask you all what 9 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 2: you wanted to know from us. We have zero clue 10 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: what the questions are, but we're excited to do our 11 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 2: best to answer that. 12 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:34,639 Speaker 1: Were there any rules there that count? I don't think 13 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: we said heyd put this, don't do that. We kind 14 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: of left it all in our producer's hands. 15 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 2: That's correct. We actually gave them no stipulation so they 16 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 2: can and well they is. Emma, who is sitting right 17 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 2: across from us, has the list of questions and she 18 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: is she's not going to be on the hot seat. 19 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 2: She's the most nervous of the three of us right now, 20 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: which is so funny. 21 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: We all we prepare, We do a lot of reading, 22 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: research and getting in questions. I'm so too for this episode. 23 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: I'm not nervous about what's going to be at we 24 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 1: This is one we don't have to prepare for. We 25 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: know the answers, don't we. Baby. 26 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 2: We tell this to people all the time that we interview. 27 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: We're not gonna ask you a trick question. Anything we 28 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 2: ask you, you are going to know because it's going 29 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 2: to be about you. So the same rules apply right 30 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 2: back at us. And I'm totally chill. 31 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 1: Now now that we set it up that way, she's 32 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: gonna hit us or something we don't know at the top. 33 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 2: And we're like, wait, what now, we weren't expecting that. Huh. 34 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: So all right, Emma said you all. If you anybody 35 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: who listen to our podcast, you know the name Emma. 36 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: She hangs out with us in here all the time 37 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: and helps us. She's one of our superstar producers. But 38 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 1: she's got the questions today. So Emma, you take it away, 39 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: kind ma'am. Let's start all right. 40 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 3: First question, Rosie asks if your life were a movie, 41 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 3: what scene would you watch over and over again. 42 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 2: Oh that's a really good question. 43 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: Damn, I got my answer. 44 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, so I can think of mine. 45 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: Oh it's not a positive. Necessarily, there was a fight 46 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: we were in Okay, there was a fight we were in. 47 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: You were and really upset and you stormed out and 48 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: then you came back. You actually left, You slammed the door, 49 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: left where we were, Uh yes, calling mister Papa there. 50 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: But we got into a fight. That was I believe 51 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: a turning point for our relationship because we learned what 52 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 1: we were willing to sacrifice, what we were willing to do, 53 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: and we learned that we were not willing to let 54 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: this go and to fight for this relationship. That is 55 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: a scene. It would be, Oh, it would. It would 56 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: be played over and over. It was like notebook equivalent 57 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: type of a scene. Okay, it was that kind of intense. 58 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,239 Speaker 2: That's the one I would play with there, I I 59 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: can totally get that. And I think for me, the 60 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: one I would play over and over again was for me, 61 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 2: the night that I knew that we were going to 62 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 2: be okay and that we were going to make it, 63 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: because neither one of us were going to be okay 64 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 2: if our kids weren't. And it was right after New 65 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 2: Year's we had we called it fight night, and it 66 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 2: was your idea and I don't even know who was fighting, 67 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: but we got the package on whatever pay per view 68 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 2: and Sabine, Ava, Annalise and some friends all gathered in 69 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 2: that room and you cooked and we all watched and 70 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 2: everybody it felt safe, It felt it felt joyful for 71 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 2: the first time in a long time, and I knew 72 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 2: we have just built you know, We've worked really hard, 73 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 2: We've taken our time, and now we're going to be 74 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 2: able to build on this. And I saw our life together. 75 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: How long ago was it the most recent? 76 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? 77 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: Oh for me. 78 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 2: For me, that was in January of twenty twenty four. 79 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: You know, I think for me when that night happened 80 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: and I saw how beautiful and natural it felt. It 81 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 2: wasn't perfect, but it was a place to start from 82 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 2: where I felt like I could see us, you know, 83 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 2: with the grandkids, and I could see us in the 84 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 2: backyard grilling and all of our girls are there together, 85 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: and I felt that joy and I could rewatch that 86 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 2: night because that was where things for me I felt. 87 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 2: I felt this new confidence that we were going to 88 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,839 Speaker 2: get through all of this stuff that had been so 89 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 2: hard for us and for our daughters, that we were 90 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: gonna we were gonna be able to build something. 91 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: I was trying to remember the fight night that I 92 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: think with Deontay Wilde. It was like a dual car. 93 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: It started earlier because it was over Okay, and we 94 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 1: had everybody. That was a long, fun, crazy day. The 95 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: girls and friends were in and it just felt like 96 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: it was a family event and a family night. So 97 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: I gave you that one, yes, Emma. Emma. 98 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 3: Jake asked what skill or talent do you wish you had? 99 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: Oh, I wish that I could sing. I wish I 100 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: could sing like a Dina Menzel. I wish I could 101 00:04:54,720 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 2: be Broadway caliber vocal like just like I've always loved singing, 102 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: I loved I love Broadway musicals, but I've never had 103 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,359 Speaker 2: the talent to ever back up being able to even 104 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: consider doing that for a living. So that would for 105 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 2: sure be what I would want to do. 106 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: It goes different way, It depends on what Okay. At 107 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 1: this stage, I will say because like earlier points of 108 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: my life, when I was younger, I wish I was 109 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: a little bit taller. I wish it was a ball though, right, 110 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: I mean I wish I was I had that skill set. 111 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: The older I get out what I am. I wish 112 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: I could play the piano. I really wish I could 113 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: play the piano. 114 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 2: We could go on the road if I could sing 115 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:32,799 Speaker 2: and you could play the piano. 116 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: Wow, that's gonna be a windy road some backstreets there. 117 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 2: Both can do it like a little bit. But because 118 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: I've heard you play the piano and you're you're I. 119 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 1: Play one thing, but I literally play one. 120 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 2: Thing really sexy when you play piano. 121 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: Okay, it's it is the only thing I played just 122 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: because I love it. It's from a movie. In one scene, 123 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: I play a riff of Purple Rain by Prince that's 124 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: hot from his from the Purple Rain move. You remember 125 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: he went through all his dad stuff. I have his 126 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,039 Speaker 1: dad shot himself. He's sitting at the piano and he 127 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: sits down and he plays this little beautiful riff of 128 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: Purple Rain. It might be one of the most beautiful 129 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: short pieces of music I've ever heard. And I learned 130 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: to play that, and that's the only thing I can 131 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 1: play that's sexy. 132 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, very much. 133 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: So get out of here so I can play you 134 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: a tune. Well, I'll get back to you, Okay, I'm 135 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 1: gonna get back to you on that. You made a 136 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 1: good you made me think of something. I'll get back 137 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: to you. 138 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 3: But yes, next question, all right, Greta asks, are either 139 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 3: of you jealous? 140 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 2: Follow up? 141 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 3: Who is more jealous? 142 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 1: Jealous? Like of each other? Or what do you think 143 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: you mean? 144 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 2: Or of just other people? Probably just jealousy creeping into 145 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: our relationship. I will say this, we have not been 146 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 2: a part very often for me to get jealous, I 147 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 2: think anytime. That is really a true statement. 148 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: No, I think about me going out with the boys. 149 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 2: So you went out with the boys the other night, 150 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 2: and I remember I did ask like who are you with? 151 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 2: And then you weren't answering who you were with, and 152 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 2: I did feel a flicker of jealousy, like are there 153 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: girls there? Well, I just didn't know. I was like, 154 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 2: you said you were hanging out with the boys. I 155 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 2: was like, but are there girls there? And why isn't 156 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: he telling me who's with them? And if there are 157 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 2: girls there, why am I not there? And so I 158 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: did feel a little flicker of jeb. 159 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: You should never feel that way. No, no, no, no no 160 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: no no, I am sorry. So you can finish that, 161 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: but I don't want you to know. 162 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 2: Well, and so, but we have not really well, first 163 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 2: of all, I think we just we trust in our 164 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 2: relationship and we trust each other. That's that's it. But 165 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 2: I it was a small little flicker. But I we 166 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: just aren't a part for that to have ever actually 167 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 2: been a thing that we've had to deal with. 168 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: So then that means maybe you would be maybe jealous. 169 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: You just haven't been challenged in that way. 170 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 2: I will say that I have always considered myself to 171 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 2: not be a jealous person, to trust in what I 172 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 2: uniquely bring to a relationship, and also trust that you specifically, 173 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: I think you can't just say that in general has 174 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 2: to be the person you're with. I think I can 175 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 2: be and not be a jealous person. I could be 176 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: put in a situation word than I would maybe feel jealous. 177 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: But if you're with the right person, I don't. I 178 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 2: hope that you that you wouldn't feel that way. 179 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: You don't, you don't have any I am so sorry 180 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: about the other night because you asked to follow up 181 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 1: and I'm like, what is she talking about? You said 182 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: I was being KOI yeah, I'm like, what are you 183 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: talking about? I'm just with Charles and seb and yeah, 184 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: and we did go to a party. There were right, 185 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: well tons of women around, but there weren't they weren't with. 186 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 2: Us, right right, fair, Have you ever felt jealous? 187 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: You know what? I have a it's probably ego, Like 188 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: I have too much of an ego to get jealous 189 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: about somebody else, Like I won't allow myself to do it. 190 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: That's I think that's ego. That makes sense. It's stupid, 191 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: like I am above that, and I will I'm too that. 192 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: It's sounds kind of weird in that way, but I 193 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: just I just trust and I don't worry. I get 194 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 1: jealous that when she said it, one of the first 195 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: things came to my mind where that sometimes this is 196 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: not what they probably meant. I get jealous of you. 197 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: I get jealous of you, you and your some of 198 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: your life experience putting you in a mindset that you 199 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: don't have to worry about some of the same shit 200 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: I worry about. Yeah, And so I'm like, Wow, she 201 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 1: doesn't have to She not even doesn't even care that. 202 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: She just blew right past that cop, Like she doesn't 203 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: even care that this like those little experiences in life 204 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: where I am having to be on edge or where 205 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: I am having to feel like I gotta try a 206 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 1: little harder or I have to put a little more 207 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: effort in. Is all this thing to Worr. Wow, she 208 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 1: doesn't have to worry about that. So I say, I'm 209 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: jealous of you, but I'm jealous of a lot of 210 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: people in that regard, in that experience that I see 211 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,719 Speaker 1: differently because I'm next to you all the time. That's 212 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: the first thing that came to moment that makes sense. 213 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 3: All right, Next question, who is a person you would 214 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 3: switch places with for a day? 215 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 2: And why? 216 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: All right, man, believe I'm about staff. 217 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 2: Okay, go for it. 218 00:09:54,160 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 1: Damn man, Oh you know what? Fuck it? I used 219 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,199 Speaker 1: to for a long time with say I would. 220 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 2: I love that. This is hard for you. 221 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: Well, it's hard because of some recent headlines. And Justin Timberlake, 222 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: really Justin Timberlake is a wildly talented He's still a 223 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: young guy, but he's a family guy. He's always seemed 224 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: like he's having fun. He's had this good energy, singing 225 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 1: and dance, all these he can act, but he was 226 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: someone I always just looked from afar. I'm like, wow, 227 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: he's not a good time. That looks fun. I like 228 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: that and I would love to have that talent that 229 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 1: he has, but he always with someone I looked at. 230 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: The first thing came to mind, But obviously some of 231 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: the reason headlines. That's why I hesitated it. 232 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: It can all still be true, right, I mean, yes, 233 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 2: I hear you. I would I would say I would 234 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 2: love to trade places. I brought this person up a lot, 235 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 2: but I've always looked up to her, and so I'd 236 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: love to live a day in her life, especially at 237 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 2: the age she's at, with the experience she's lived. Miss Goldiehan, 238 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 2: I us think she is somebody who embraces life, and 239 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 2: she doesn't like she dances like nobody's watching. She laughs 240 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 2: with this just joyful energy. She's funny, she has a 241 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 2: beautiful family, and it's not conventional, and I just I 242 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 2: would love to spend a day in her life. I've 243 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 2: always been in offer. 244 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: You know, the crazy thing you said, you want a 245 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: day in her life, But it almost sounds like you 246 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 1: want to live your life the way she has lived hers, 247 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: which I don't think you're necessarily that far off from 248 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 1: its Sorry, is that kind of sounds I know you admire, 249 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: but so much of what she does are the things 250 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: I think you try to do and are doing a 251 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: great degree. 252 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 2: So thank you. And I think you have moves like 253 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: JT None dance. 254 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: Before Okay, I'm telling myself a little short. Maybe he's 255 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: got good moves, but I can. 256 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 2: He can dance. 257 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 1: I'm I like dancing. 258 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 3: Okay, Sam asks, are there any topics you will never 259 00:11:58,320 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 3: talk about on your podcast? 260 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 2: Yes, the answer is yes, absolutely. 261 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: I mean, that's a bunch of stuff. Probably. I mean, 262 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: I won't don't want to get outlandish, but there's some 263 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 1: things that we talk about us and what's going on 264 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: at home to a certain degree, but I think there 265 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 1: are some details and some intimate things. I think you 266 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: can go too far and discussing for anybody else, that's fine, 267 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: But as far as other topics, we don't want to. 268 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: We'll talk to a politician, but we are not going 269 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: to give our opinion about politics, but we're trying to. 270 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: I think other than that, and there won't talk about. 271 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 2: There are certain I think privacy issues for other people 272 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 2: who are in our lives. We would never be disrespectful 273 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 2: of anyone else's privacy. So yeah, there are just certain 274 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 2: people who we are close to or who we were 275 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 2: once close to, who we will not discuss for a 276 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 2: myriad of reasons. But I just think a lot most 277 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 2: of it is respect. 278 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 3: Absolutely all right. Next question is in lieu of what 279 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 3: you are training for. But Francis, ah, what is your 280 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 3: goal marathon time? 281 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 2: Ha ha ha. I mean I've always had a goal 282 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 2: to have a sub four and I have yet to 283 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 2: achieve it. And it was funny as I was struggling 284 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 2: on my run the other day, I thought to myself, 285 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 2: it's okay if you don't, and I think that's where 286 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 2: I am right now. Yes, I would love to hit 287 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 2: a three fifty nine, but if I never do better 288 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 2: than four fourteen, I am so okay with that. So 289 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 2: I just it's aspirational, but it's not something that I 290 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 2: at this stage of my life, am going to push 291 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 2: myself past comfort, like extreme discomfort, because running a marathon 292 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 2: is not comfortable. But I don't want to push myself 293 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 2: to the point where I feel like somehow I failed 294 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: or I fell short if I don't get a certain time. 295 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 2: I think when I was younger, if I had started 296 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 2: running marathons earlier, I would have been a lot more 297 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 2: competitive with myself, and now I'm more about giving myself 298 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 2: a break. 299 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: My goal is if I'm running one with Robes, is 300 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 1: to always finish one second after she does, and that 301 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: really is we run, we do all this training together, 302 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: we're going to run the marathon together. So I go 303 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: with whatever pace that is always so Chicago, I want 304 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: my time to be one second after hers and cross 305 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 1: right next to and right behind her, and that's it. 306 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 2: How about New York? 307 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: How about New York? You know what? Should I say 308 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 1: it out loud? Three forty five? How about that nice 309 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: three forty five marathon? 310 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 2: Cool? 311 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: So I should probably not say that out loud. 312 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 2: No runner ever wants to say what their what their 313 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 2: goal time is. They just don't. But we all kind 314 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 2: of have one in our. 315 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 1: I certainly a sub for But if I could get 316 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 1: closer to three forty five, I would go crazy. 317 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 2: That's awesome. 318 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 3: Well you can take that as a form of manifestation, 319 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 3: saying it out loud. It is the way you're going 320 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 3: to see it. See across the line and see that number. 321 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: Look at him. She's been listening to some of the 322 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: wisdom of our guests. 323 00:14:47,480 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 3: So Meliss asks, what is the story behind Amy's promised necklace? 324 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 1: Melissa asked that question? Is that right, Melissa? A man? 325 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: Your business? 326 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 2: No? No? 327 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 1: When this is us? For? When is that where they 328 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: say what you won't talk about? At what points do 329 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: some very intimate things, details nuggets such as that become 330 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: things we are comfortable talking about in a public space. 331 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: I don't know, do you think that time is now 332 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 1: on that particular thing, given there's. 333 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 2: History there, Yes, I would leave that to you. 334 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 1: No, no, no, we're in this together or haven't you heard? 335 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: We're in a relationship. 336 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 2: We're in a relationship, so this is a partnership. I 337 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 2: think we've chosen up until now not to go into 338 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:51,520 Speaker 2: the details, and so when we want to, we will, 339 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: and we might one day, but now is not the time. 340 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: So apologies to Melissa there on that question. That is 341 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 1: one of those. And again maybe when we talk about 342 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 1: like ah I saw it was. But for the time being, 343 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: there are a few things that are incredibly sacred between 344 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: me and Robes that I don't think we will let 345 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 1: anybody in on. Maybe ever, and right now the necklace 346 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: might be one of them. 347 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 3: Next question, Alta asks why did Amy spend a night 348 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 3: in prison? Storytime Police. 349 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 2: I had a feeling this would come off at some point. 350 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 1: We discussed this after it came up briefly when we 351 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: were talking to Tiffany Hattish, we discussed that, Oh, I 352 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: thought you had told that story before, and we wondered 353 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: if we should later, if we just do you let 354 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: it go? But here you are and this is your call, Robes, 355 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: and again we can edit this out later. 356 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fine. I mean, I'll tell it and I'll 357 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 2: decide if we want to er it. How about that. 358 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 2: I'll tell it succinctly. I was a few months away 359 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 2: from being twenty one. 360 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm going to give commentary throughout, so okay, because I've 361 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: hear this story about it. 362 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:04,400 Speaker 2: So there's a couple of things. So I was twenty 363 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 2: years old summer right before my junior year in college, 364 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 2: and twenty February, so it was it was like six 365 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 2: months before my birthday. It was like August, and then 366 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 2: I was going to be twenty one in February. And 367 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 2: important detail, people, yes, very important. And I had not 368 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 2: gotten a car. I was driving the bus to and 369 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,239 Speaker 2: from work. And so I had gotten a job, and 370 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 2: my parents and I negotiated that I was going to 371 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:34,439 Speaker 2: finally get my first car and to go back and 372 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 2: forth to my job in Athens, Georgia. And my dad 373 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 2: insisted that I get a stick shift because he wanted 374 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 2: me to learn how to drive a stick no matter 375 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 2: where I was in the world. I'd always be able 376 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 2: to drive somewhere, and so it was my second night, 377 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,199 Speaker 2: I think my second night I had the car. I 378 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 2: didn't drive my stick shift very well, but I was 379 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 2: so excited to drive this car that I told my girlfriends, 380 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: I'll drive to the Lambdacai party. So it was, I 381 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 2: think a Saturday night, and I I had had I believe, 382 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 2: two three beers early in the night. Now it's like 383 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:06,679 Speaker 2: two o'clock in the morning. I had stopped drinking for 384 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 2: several hours, and all of my friends decided that they 385 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 2: had found someone that was mister right now. I did 386 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 2: not partake in that. I think I believe I was 387 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 2: dating someone at the time. So I decided to drive 388 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:21,119 Speaker 2: home by myself in my stick shift car at two am. 389 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 2: It was about less than a mile, but as you 390 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 2: can might imagine, it might have looked like I was intoxicated. 391 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:30,920 Speaker 2: I got pulled over it because I was driving a 392 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:32,959 Speaker 2: stick shift for the second day of my life and 393 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:37,479 Speaker 2: it was jerky and wait a minute, absolutely true, and 394 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 2: so I was driving. It was so dumb of me, 395 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna drive a car. 396 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: You never told me this story. I didn't You're telling 397 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 1: me that you got pulled over because you were a 398 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: shaky stick shift driver. 399 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:50,439 Speaker 2: Correct time correct. I got pulled over in the parking 400 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:53,439 Speaker 2: lot of my apartment could look like correct too, So 401 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 2: I had a field sobriety test. They called in a breathalyzer. 402 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 2: I blew a zero point zero. But here in lies 403 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 2: the rub I told the police officer that I was 404 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 2: twenty one, so I did not tell the truth. I 405 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 2: told him I didn't have my driver's license on me 406 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 2: because the driver's license I had was the one that 407 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 2: my well, I won't say who helped me change the 408 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 2: seventy three to a seventy to make it look like 409 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 2: I That was my version of a fake ID, and 410 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 2: I didn't want him. I obviously didn't want him see 411 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 2: the fake ID. So he said he would let me 412 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: go if I could prove that I lived in the 413 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 2: apartment complex. So I opened up my wallet to show 414 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 2: him my apartment and he saw the ID. He goes, 415 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 2: there's your driver's license. I was like, oh, wow, look 416 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 2: at that, and so I handed it to him because 417 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 2: I had to. And he looked at it and he 418 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:42,879 Speaker 2: obviously knew, and he said, I'm gonna take this with me. 419 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:46,359 Speaker 2: I said, okay, you do that, Thanks bye, and I 420 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 2: went on my way. Two weeks later, I was going 421 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 2: to a dental appointment at my parents' house in Gwennett County, Georgia, 422 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,440 Speaker 2: and I came back and there was a sheriff's deputy 423 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 2: in my driveway waiting for me. And bottom line, the 424 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 2: cop two weeks later, I think they didn't have enough 425 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 2: arrest you know, they had these quotas, these things at 426 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 2: the end of the month they have to fill. And 427 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,439 Speaker 2: they went back and looked at all the police reports 428 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 2: and thought, ah, how we can arrest her for tampering 429 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 2: a government id and minor in possession because I admitted 430 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,679 Speaker 2: to the police officer that I had had two beers 431 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,400 Speaker 2: earlier in the night, so anyway I had to. They 432 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 2: actually put me in jail in Gwinnet County and then 433 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 2: Athens Clark County to prove that they had a quota issue, 434 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 2: decided to extradite me, so I had to stay in 435 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 2: prison in Gwinnett County for hours. Then an officer from 436 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 2: Athens Clark County came took my shoelaces. I got handcuffed 437 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 2: and shackled put into the back of a police car. 438 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 2: And then put into another holding cell, and so I 439 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 2: spent nine hours behind bars before my mom was able 440 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 2: to actually bail me out. I got credit for time served. 441 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:49,439 Speaker 2: Upon sentencing, I pleaded nolo. I don't have her. I 442 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 2: don't have a conviction, but I do have an arrest record. 443 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,640 Speaker 2: There's the long story and a very important lesson learned. 444 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 1: It's a really long story. 445 00:20:56,200 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 2: Sorry anyway, Wow, I was extradited, credit for time served 446 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 2: and two prison cells. Oh not prison jail cells. 447 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:08,679 Speaker 1: You know what. There was a lot of issues I 448 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 1: took with that story because you took some liberties that 449 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 1: you've never taken before. Really, it's fine. 450 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 2: My parents come back at all? 451 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: Up, Well they aren't. They aren't here, are they? 452 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 2: But we can call them? You want to do that now, Okay, 453 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 2: I don't need a lifeline. 454 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,679 Speaker 3: Ben asks, what does your family think about the podcast? 455 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 3: Are they, especially your daughters listening? 456 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:38,439 Speaker 1: Mine isn't no family. I just not how my family rolls. Robes. 457 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 1: You you hear from somebody every single episode we put up, 458 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: and I don't hear anything unless I ask. So they're just, uh, 459 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: they're just different. And I guess my folks are used 460 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: to a little old school. They used to just hidden 461 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: a button on the remote and turn on the TV 462 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 1: and there he is. Now that takes a little more 463 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 1: work to maybe pick up the phone and find this 464 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: and that that. 465 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 2: But not my you're dud said he was listening to 466 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 2: the podcast. He was absolutely into it. They listened, I'm 467 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 2: sure to every episode. 468 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but they never tell me they do. We were 469 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: talking to him and it came up randomly on the 470 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 1: phone or something that because I was surprised. I was like, 471 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: I didn't even know you listened. 472 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 2: But they are huge supporters and they listen. My parents 473 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 2: and my oh my mom is one of nine, my 474 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 2: dad's one of six, so I get, as TJ pointed out, 475 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:26,199 Speaker 2: a text from an aunt or a cousin or a 476 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 2: family member almost after every podcast, and I really appreciate it. 477 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 2: And my daughters listen. I don't think they listen to 478 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,639 Speaker 2: every episode, but they they listen, and they did I 479 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 2: think early on all the time, but now it's like, yeah, okay, 480 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 2: three a week is a lot to keep up with. 481 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 2: So but they they listen if I tell them, hey, 482 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,880 Speaker 2: you should really really listen to this episode. But yeah, 483 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 2: we have support. 484 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 3: What episodes have you told them to listen. 485 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 2: To well, oh, like with Ava, if it's something like, 486 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 2: you know an artist coming up, Like I told her 487 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 2: to listen to Rachel Platten because there's a person who 488 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 2: she might want to learn from in terms of how 489 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 2: she made it into the music business, how she made 490 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 2: it and had to scrap and fight and build her 491 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 2: way up into the industry. So I've just told her 492 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 2: a couple of times, like, Hey, I think you could 493 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 2: get some nuggets from this person. You should listen to 494 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,360 Speaker 2: this podcast. I love that awesome. 495 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:18,920 Speaker 3: Michelle asks what has been the biggest challenge. 496 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 2: About the podcast. 497 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 1: Workflow for us? We know how to broadcast, you can 498 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: give us notes, give us an interview subject, give us research. 499 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: We can do all that stuff. But I guess trying 500 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 1: to We're in a position now as executive producers of 501 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:41,199 Speaker 1: something to come up with ideas and make sure we 502 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: put plans in place and make sure we have the 503 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: structure and the rundown. And it's just more of we don't. 504 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 1: It's not just amount of not having the help. This 505 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: is just a new muscle and a new industry almost 506 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: we're having to learn. So that for us, and a 507 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: lot of that we have we have learned a lot, 508 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: and it feels so much better and different, good to 509 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: sit here. But that was a learning. 510 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 2: Curve for us, Yeah, for sure. I mean, when we 511 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,360 Speaker 2: were in broadcasting, we always worked together, so we knew 512 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 2: we could do that well. But we were directed as 513 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 2: to what to do and who said what when, and 514 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,959 Speaker 2: so we were kind of following instructions, and we had 515 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:17,239 Speaker 2: took licenses in liberties creatively, but we were under a 516 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 2: very specific structure. So this has been a huge learning 517 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 2: curve to have kind of anything and everything be a possibility. 518 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 2: Who does what, who takes on what role, who writes this, 519 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 2: who comes up with ideas. It's just we've had to 520 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:31,879 Speaker 2: It's been a little bit of a struggle in some moments, 521 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,400 Speaker 2: but I think we've We're in a really good place now, 522 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 2: in a really good flow right now, so we're feeling 523 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 2: good about it. But yeah, the first few months were tough. 524 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 3: You set me up for my next question from Devin. 525 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 3: How has your relationship with how the public perceives you 526 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 3: changed from your first podcast episode to recording now? 527 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 2: Okay, well, it's easy to say this. I've always tried 528 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 2: to live by it. I know you have too. If 529 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 2: you believe the good things people say about you, then 530 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 2: you have to believe the bad. You can't just pick 531 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 2: and choose. I mean, it's like you can't get swept up. 532 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,399 Speaker 2: I guess in whatever people are saying about you, you 533 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 2: have to know who you are and where you're coming 534 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 2: from and what your intent is. However, I will say, 535 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 2: as a human being the other day, we try not 536 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,199 Speaker 2: to read the comments. But I think you were there 537 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 2: when Avan and Anna were kind of yelling like, hey, mom, 538 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 2: have you seen the comments lately? They're really good, Like 539 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 2: people are really supporting you guys. And so, in a 540 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 2: weird way, for me, knowing that my daughters see the 541 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 2: support for us makes me feel good that they feel. 542 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 2: It's a hard thing for a for anyone who loves someone, 543 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 2: but especially maybe a child to a parent, to see 544 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,360 Speaker 2: someone who they thought was up on a pedestal, who 545 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 2: people like to suddenly be considered the opposite, like a 546 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 2: pariah or whatever. So I actually I felt good knowing 547 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:50,920 Speaker 2: that they were seeing positive comments and support, and that 548 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 2: made me feel good as a human being. I mean, 549 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 2: I wish I could say I didn't I wasn't affected 550 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,719 Speaker 2: by any of that, but for sure I do feel 551 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 2: a more positive warm feeling when I think about hopefully 552 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 2: what most people, or hopefully at least some people think 553 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 2: of us. 554 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 1: So do you think it made a difference as well? 555 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: When we start getting out more and actually interacting with 556 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 1: more people and you're just not sitting behind a damn 557 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: door with your phone, and oftentimes the folks who are 558 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: throwing a lobbing things at you, you know, and social 559 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: media and things, aren't the folks who are trying to 560 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 1: send a positive message. So I think once we started 561 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: getting out and interacting and seeing not friends, we saw friends, 562 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:38,640 Speaker 1: but just members of the general public. And how yes, 563 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: it's not everybody hates you, not everybody thinks the worst 564 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: of you. And also I think once the story right 565 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: once since our first podcast is slowly but surely people 566 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 1: are getting more of an idea of what actually happened 567 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 1: with us, which is not what they were told when 568 00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 1: everything went down. I think once people understand and the 569 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 1: story a little more, it's making a huge difference as well. 570 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 1: So the yeah, it's shifted a lot since the very beginning. 571 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,880 Speaker 3: Abby asks what is your biggest ick about each other? 572 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 2: Mine is really simple, I've told you this, and I'm 573 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 2: not just saying like I just like watching you. That 574 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,880 Speaker 2: sounds creepy, but I like almost everything about you, even 575 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 2: the things that just make you uniquely you. The one 576 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 2: thing you do that drives me crazy is you pop 577 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 2: your right elbow. It and you do it multiple times 578 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 2: a day. But I can live with that. It's okay, 579 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,159 Speaker 2: But I can't really think of anything else. Oh oh oh, 580 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 2: you just like to sleep diagonally across the bed. That's tough. 581 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 2: That's it. I'm done. 582 00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,400 Speaker 1: That's all you get. Yeah, I think there's probably more. 583 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 1: That's all you get. 584 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 2: That's all I can think of right now. 585 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,159 Speaker 1: Okay, So to answer this, I am going to defend 586 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:12,200 Speaker 1: myself against your too wild accusations. The elbow, it's an 587 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,720 Speaker 1: I don't think it was an injury, but it was 588 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: a habit. Like anybody else's. Something gets tight and you 589 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,120 Speaker 1: pop it like a knuckle. It's my elbow gets tight 590 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 1: and I do. But you have told me you didn't 591 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: like it, and I have tried to not do it 592 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: as much. I still do it in front of you. 593 00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: I know I do, but I have I am aware 594 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 1: of it, and I'm conscious of it. Two sleeping across 595 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 1: the bed. I think anybody here who's listened to the 596 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 1: podcast knows that TJ likes to sleep with the TV on. 597 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 1: The TV's always on, so if the TV is at 598 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 1: the foot of the bed that direction, if I'm watching TV, 599 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: I can put myself in a sleeping position that to 600 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 1: watch TV, all I have to do is open my eyes. 601 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to go to sleep, just close the eyes. 602 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: Don't have to change position at all. I'm not on 603 00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: my back. I'm not not. If you're at that angle, 604 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: perfect viewing, perfect sleeping, Why that doesn't make sense to you? 605 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 1: I will never. 606 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 2: Understand because it doesn't really give me any room to sleep. 607 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,240 Speaker 2: That's the problem. Sometimes I put my legs over your 608 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 2: body because I'm sleeping the way most people sleep, which 609 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 2: is lengthwise. 610 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 1: You always get more sleep than I do. That's true, 611 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 1: you sleep more soundly and longer. Your problem is, no, 612 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. I sleep like that all 613 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: the time when you're I'm not in a bed with you. 614 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 1: When I am in the bed with you, then I 615 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 1: know better yes than to do that. But it's funny 616 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 1: when you come out of the bathroom. 617 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 2: So he does it on purpose. I comment, I'm like, really, 618 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 2: and he's completely like taking up the whole bed. That's 619 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 2: just and then it's like he's dead weight and can't move. 620 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: That's just to be funny, you know, I said this, 621 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna kind of I kind of want to take 622 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 1: a high a high road approach to this, but it's 623 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 1: too it's too convenient. Maybe they brought this up not 624 00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: too long ago, this idea of that you're ick about somebody. 625 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: I hated the idea of trying to find something I 626 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 1: didn't like about you, like to intentionally look at you 627 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: and say, hmm, let me figure. It's just to put 628 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 1: myself in that mindset. I got annoyed when I was 629 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: trying to do it previous and somebody had asked me. 630 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 1: So I was like, well, I participate in that exercise, 631 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 1: but if I'm being honest, please do please do I 632 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 1: an ick, an ick, I don't know what What do 633 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 1: I complain about with you? What do I say, babe? 634 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 1: Why are you doing that? What do I do? 635 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 2: This isn't what do I say? Oh, chewing? I bought 636 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 2: my gum. I bought my gum. Yeah, And that's annoying. 637 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 2: And then the interrupting I am I'm not excusing because 638 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 2: it's rude, rude, rude. But I didn't realize how rude 639 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 2: it was because I was just so enthusiastic first of 640 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 2: all to say something, but also I was afraid that 641 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 2: I'd forget it in three seconds if I didn't say it. 642 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 2: That's my worst habit, Like my brain does not retain. 643 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 2: If I have an idea, but I don't say it 644 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 2: right away, it's gone. But it's rude, and I hopefully 645 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 2: have gotten better. 646 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: Okay, but I was thinking more of yes, and what 647 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 1: you're talking about there, that's a habit you can change, 648 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 1: versus I don't know that I'm looking at as there's 649 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: something about you, an ick about you. I don't know 650 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 1: if there's a I don't know. Maybe you know, as 651 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: soon as we're gonna leave here, I'm. 652 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:16,280 Speaker 2: Going, wow, yeah, he's gonna he's gonna have a listing. 653 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 1: I don't have an ick that I have. The chewing 654 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: that not even the snoring. 655 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah I do, I do. 656 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 1: Store you're a snorer, yeah, big times. 657 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 2: Didn't realize that. 658 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, people snore normal function. 659 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, not a big deal. 660 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 3: You know. There was a trend on TikTok actually for 661 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 3: the friend that interrupts any sort of silence and they 662 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 3: just want to chat with their friend. Was to give 663 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 3: them a notepad and to write down all of their questions, comments, ideas, 664 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 3: and then present the notepad after. 665 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: Smart You think you can do that? Yeah, I know 666 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 1: you can't. You know the sounds offensive we talk about 667 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 1: you're not a you can't do two things at once. 668 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,040 Speaker 1: You don't excel at doing that. Like I mean something 669 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 1: as simple as we could be in the middle of 670 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 1: a conversation while we're getting ready to go run and 671 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 1: you can't put your shoes on and talk to me 672 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 1: at the same time, and I say, baby, stop talking, 673 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 1: put the shoes on so we can go. Yeah, and 674 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: if you put the shoes on, the conversation stops. 675 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 2: It's I need to focus. 676 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,240 Speaker 1: Yeah you do, but you will focus on that one thing. 677 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 1: But when you do multiples. He gets drink. 678 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 3: Sophie asks, who are each of your role models, alive 679 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 3: or dead? 680 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 2: I can name one of them for me. Diane Sawyer. 681 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 2: I have always marveled at her ability to do her 682 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 2: job and to do it with such grace. She has 683 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 2: been and was such a beautiful mentor to me. The 684 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,680 Speaker 2: moment I met her, I could barely even speak in 685 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 2: her presence because I had been watching her and studying 686 00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 2: her the moment I knew I wanted to be a journalist. 687 00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 2: But she's just a beautiful mind and just a smart woman, 688 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 2: a smart woman who I have just always wanted to 689 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 2: emulate in my career and definitely has been a role 690 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 2: model in my life. 691 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 1: I will go with Andrew Young, Ambassador Andrew Young from Atlanta, 692 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 1: who is the first African American that served as UN 693 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: Ambassador under Clinton, former mayor of Atlanta. But he was 694 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 1: someone I just in my time in living in Atlanta 695 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 1: and working down there at CNN, I got to know 696 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: and got to travel with and got to just sit 697 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: I know, I know it the hell out of him 698 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 1: a lot, but I got access to him at times 699 00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 1: and I would just sit like a kid, just trying 700 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 1: to learn and take in every bit of information he had. 701 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: And he's one of the most incredible deal makers and 702 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 1: I am able to put people together in the way 703 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 1: that I've never ever seen before. His life, his legacy, 704 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 1: his resume for itself. But he is someone I was 705 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 1: just always in awe of an amazed by, going from 706 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 1: right marching with Martin Luther King to UN ambassadors, mayor 707 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:16,400 Speaker 1: and Congress all these things he's done, just that. Dude's incredible, 708 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: So he would be my guy. 709 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,280 Speaker 3: Charlotte asks, if living in New York was no longer 710 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 3: an option, where. 711 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 1: Would the two of you live one? 712 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 2: You know it already Atlanta, right? Is that what you 713 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:28,000 Speaker 2: would say? 714 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,280 Speaker 1: I like one, I was looking. 715 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 2: For a tax free state. I mean, Georgia is a 716 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 2: place that we both know and love, and that would 717 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 2: probably be the place I would think we would do 718 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 2: well in. But I also I could I could live. 719 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 2: This sounds so cheesy, but I could live almost anywhere 720 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 2: as long as I was with TJ. Like, it really 721 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:53,959 Speaker 2: wouldn't matter that much. 722 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 1: I think maybe I'm with you there. Atlanta would have 723 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 1: to be our My folks are Memphis, yours are right 724 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 1: outside of Atlanta. It would just makes sense for us. 725 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:05,799 Speaker 1: I was thinking trying to think of a fun town, 726 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: like it wasn't a family situation. Where could we be 727 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: where we want to be? 728 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:14,680 Speaker 2: New Orleans, Miami. I haven't loved Nashville. I mean, there's 729 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,720 Speaker 2: a lot of places I could live, But I've noticed 730 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 2: I've just said everything in the South. 731 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 1: We just said every place I like to visit. I've 732 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 1: never thought about making any of those places home, true, right, 733 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 1: I love going to those spots. But yeah, Atlanta is 734 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: just such a home. Memphis is home even internationally for us. 735 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,399 Speaker 1: I think London we'd probably be in our top three 736 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:33,320 Speaker 1: places if we were considering. 737 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,800 Speaker 2: We could live in London and really really excel. 738 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 3: Wow. Oh Lane asks what are your favorite quotes or 739 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 3: phrases you live by? 740 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 2: Oh, I have a list. 741 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 1: I don't have a list. Some stuff I could reel off. 742 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: Don't let perfect get in the way of good money 743 00:35:55,000 --> 00:36:02,399 Speaker 1: is what people without talent used to keep score Bible Verse. 744 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,760 Speaker 1: Do not fret because of evil doers, nor be envious 745 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,080 Speaker 1: of the workers of inequity, where they say'll soon be 746 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 1: cut down like the grass and weather as the green herb. 747 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 1: I like that one. 748 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 2: I got few. If you want, keep going, keep going off, 749 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 2: keep going. I'm impressed this dude can memory Like your 750 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 2: brain is the opposite of mine. You retain everything, and 751 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 2: it's remarkable. I'm in awe that you can just spout 752 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 2: these off. I again, have just pulled up my Apple 753 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,160 Speaker 2: notes list so I can read off of mine. But 754 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 2: please continue. 755 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,240 Speaker 1: This is the first thing to kind of come to mind. 756 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 1: You know, I'm a big Colts guy. So yeah, I'm 757 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,400 Speaker 1: not even sure what I just reeled off. 758 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Well, if you could, I didn't want to. 759 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 2: I did interrupt you, That's what I just did. Uh, 760 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 2: my apologies. I have anything that's happening to you is 761 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 2: actually happening for you. That's one of my favorites. Comparison 762 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,920 Speaker 2: is the thief of joy. I love when what you 763 00:36:56,000 --> 00:37:00,760 Speaker 2: appreciate appreciates It is not about belongings, it's about belonging. 764 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 2: Those are some of the things I love and then 765 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 2: don't be invested in outcomes. I think that's been a 766 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:14,800 Speaker 2: huge part for me. And instead of being defensive, be defenseless. 767 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 2: That's a really tough one for me. But I try 768 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 2: to remind myself of that, usually after the fact, maybe 769 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 2: not when I'm in the middle of it. And you 770 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 2: know what I told you about this, Michael Strahan, I wrote, 771 00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,440 Speaker 2: I write down quotes when I see them that helped 772 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 2: me live better or just remind me of where I 773 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 2: want to place my focus. But Michael Strahan on this 774 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 2: set of Good Morning America said this to me one 775 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 2: day and I wrote it down, so I have to 776 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 2: give it to him. You can't complain about something you're 777 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,480 Speaker 2: not trying to fix and I love that. 778 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,280 Speaker 1: Okay, you know, I got ton I was still taking 779 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 1: notes on them, but I got quotes forever, So I'll 780 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 1: leave it at the one thigh. 781 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 3: I was just listening to Kevin from the office and 782 00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 3: he recited the last line from the final season and 783 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,320 Speaker 3: he said, there's beauty and ordinary things. 784 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,040 Speaker 2: I love that I do too. 785 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:11,400 Speaker 3: Okay. Last question is from Kristen. She asks who is 786 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,640 Speaker 3: someone you would love to interview on this podcast and why. 787 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez. Why? Because I think that lady needs a 788 00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 1: break and a safe somewhere to express ourselfs don't even 789 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 1: me wrong. I'm sure there's the other places she could 790 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 1: do that and find some sincerity, but there was just 791 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 1: so much going on that I almost feel like giving 792 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 1: her in particular. But the two of them like just 793 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 1: a hug, just a big old hug. So I would 794 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,239 Speaker 1: love to get those two in here, and not for 795 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:54,800 Speaker 1: the sake of you know what. I would like to 796 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: talk to them and we never have to air the episode. 797 00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:58,879 Speaker 1: I would like to get in a room with them 798 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,760 Speaker 1: and just say, Hi, guys, how you doing. Yeah. 799 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 2: I mean, so many people, just if they're in a 800 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 2: safe space, actually have so much wisdom based on what 801 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 2: they've experienced that they probably will never feel free or 802 00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,359 Speaker 2: safe to share. So yeah, I would love that too. 803 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 2: I would love I would love to interview Will Smith. 804 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 2: I had just finished reading his book when I think 805 00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 2: it was maybe a couple months before the Oscars the 806 00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 2: slab heard around around the world happened, and I would 807 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 2: just I would love to see he had so much 808 00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:35,880 Speaker 2: wisdom in all the life he had lived that he 809 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:37,920 Speaker 2: put into his book that I listened to training for 810 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 2: my first marathon. I actually listened to the audiobook of it. 811 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 2: It's a great book. But given what happened since that 812 00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,239 Speaker 2: and where he is now, I would I would love 813 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:48,919 Speaker 2: to talk to him. 814 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: You've read the book and all that. That was the 815 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,240 Speaker 1: last time I talked to him. Wow was the interview 816 00:39:55,239 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 1: we did in Philadelphia. He was promoting that book, And yeah, 817 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,320 Speaker 1: I wonder what we just saw Bad Boys for We 818 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 1: did not too long ago. So many he's back out there. 819 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 1: That movie did well, so who knows what's coming, But 820 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 1: just for people who've experienced and gone through something to 821 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,400 Speaker 1: that level. And I get what you're saying there. 822 00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:16,480 Speaker 2: Alec Baldwin and Hilaria, like we I would love to 823 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 2: talk to them too. I think, you know, we're so 824 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 2: quick to judge and just people who've had to go 825 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,759 Speaker 2: through it, who are looking for maybe that second, third, 826 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 2: fourth chance that I think hopefully most of us deserve. 827 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:33,839 Speaker 2: So I just love really getting to understand not only 828 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:49,400 Speaker 2: what people have been through, but what they've learned from it,