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Speaker 1: Emily is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 1: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Sean.

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Speaker 1: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see

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Speaker 1: if I'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe

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Speaker 1: get her a second date. But first, Emily, why do

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Speaker 1: you think you're getting ghosted?

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Speaker 2: Well, because his name is Sean And I kept calling

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Speaker 2: him Trevor and I didn't know once or twice, but

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Speaker 2: I did it like three times.

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Speaker 1: I think, oh no, okay, well, yeah, tell us what happened.

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Speaker 2: Well, we went to this pub. It was super cute,

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Speaker 2: good food and drinks, good vibe, and at one point

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Speaker 2: we were like talking about all the big dreams and

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Speaker 2: goals we had for ourselves when we were younger, and

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Speaker 2: I think I made the comment, what was that little

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Speaker 2: Trevor's dream board? And then I realized. I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, his name is Sean, Like stop calling him, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I feel so bad. But he laughed. But he called

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Speaker 2: me out and he said who's Trevor? And I laughed

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Speaker 2: at him and it was this guy I went on

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Speaker 2: a date with like a couple of days prior to him.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why, I just like kept calling him

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Speaker 2: that name, so it was dumb, Like I should have

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Speaker 2: told him I didn't know a Trevor. But like maybe

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Speaker 2: it's in his head now. So you did tell him

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Speaker 2: that you went on a date previously, thin guy named

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Speaker 2: Trevor not that long ago. Yes, and that's why I'm like,

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Speaker 2: oh crap, Like maybe that was a total turn off

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Speaker 2: for him, Like, but I don't know. I just had

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Speaker 2: to tell the truth because I couldn't come with up

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Speaker 2: with like another reason.

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Speaker 1: He really you should have just appreciated that you were honest.

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Speaker 1: How did the date end?

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Speaker 2: Was it?

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Speaker 1: Did he see? Did it like end pretty quickly? Was

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Speaker 1: he upset about it?

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Speaker 2: It seemed like, I mean, we went back to my

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Speaker 2: place and hung out for a little bit, but like

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Speaker 2: he left pretty soon after, and like, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: he just kind of seemed off when he was leaving.

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Speaker 2: And I've texted him since.

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Speaker 1: Then and absolutely nothing.

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Speaker 2: So all I can think of is that me calling

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Speaker 2: him Trevor.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's see if that is the reason.

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Speaker 1: We'll play a song, come back and then call him

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Speaker 1: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you

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Speaker 1: and maybe get you a second date if he's If

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Speaker 1: you still want one? Okay, Yes, that's why I called

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Speaker 1: you guys. Thank you so much, No problem. All right,

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Speaker 1: Emily is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 1: a dude named Sean. So we're about to call him

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Speaker 1: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her

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Speaker 1: and maybe get her a second date. But before we

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Speaker 1: do that, Emily, why don't you remind us why you

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Speaker 1: think you're getting ghosted again?

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Speaker 2: I think it's because I called him Trevor like a

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Speaker 2: couple of times and I told him the truth, like

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Speaker 2: I had gone on a date with a guy named

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Speaker 2: Trevor a couple of days before.

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Speaker 1: Maybe, all right, I mean like that would be it's

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Speaker 1: a real possibility. All right, here we go. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: Dallas phone number right now. Hi, man, I speak to

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Speaker 1: Sean please maybe, Hey Sean, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Sona Nina. Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbell. How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing pretty good?

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Speaker 2: What is this concern?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the Jubil Show before?

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Speaker 3: I can't say that I have.

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Speaker 1: Okay, cool, Well maybe you can check it out sometime.

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Speaker 1: Either way, we're calling you today because we do a

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Speaker 1: segment on the show that's called the first Date follow Up.

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Speaker 1: What that is is if you go out on a

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Speaker 1: date with somebody and end up ghosting them, that person

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Speaker 1: can email us to get you on the phone and

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Speaker 1: ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email

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Speaker 1: about you. Okay, any idea? Well, her name is Emily.

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Speaker 1: She says, you guys went on a date. She really

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Speaker 1: liked you, but now she's confused because you won't talk

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Speaker 1: to her after your date.

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Speaker 3: Oh, oh, you mean the astronaut girl.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, she said her name was Emily.

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Speaker 1: That's how we know her cool tell us about it. No, No,

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Speaker 1: she said when she.

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Speaker 3: Was younger that she wanted to be an astronaut, but

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Speaker 3: then she grow up and somehow it ended up in seals.

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Speaker 3: That's that's not why I'm ghosting her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, would you mind telling us why?

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Speaker 2: The short answer is I'm ghosting her because.

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Speaker 3: She's a potty filming pervert.

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Speaker 1: WHOA, what did you say a potty filming pervert?

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Speaker 3: I did? I did say that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, literally, and you give us the longer answer of that.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I I thought the day went well and I mean,

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Speaker 3: she did call me by the wrong name a couple

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Speaker 3: of times, but who does that when you're just meeting somebody.

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Speaker 3: That was no big deal. But again, the date was

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Speaker 3: going well. We went back to her place and I

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Speaker 3: had to go use the restroom, and I remember I'm

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Speaker 3: in the restroom and just like a weird like I'm

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Speaker 3: being watched, feeling like almost like a spider man, tingling,

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Speaker 3: like what's going on? And that's when I noticed, like,

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Speaker 3: right next to the commode is a It looks like

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Speaker 3: a little chargersation for an iPhone, but it clearly has

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Speaker 3: a camera on.

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Speaker 1: It and it's pointed right.

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Speaker 3: At right at the commode, and so I'm like, what

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Speaker 3: is this? I take a picture of it. I Google

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Speaker 3: image search the picture and it is a camera.

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Speaker 2: She has a camera set up right next.

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Speaker 3: To the to watch me film use the body as

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Speaker 3: I could. I was like, I can't, I can't. I

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Speaker 3: can't be with some freak lady who's into filming people

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Speaker 3: use the restroom. I gotta get out of here.

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Speaker 2: That I wasn't filming you going to the bathroom, I promise,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: She's actually on the phone and we'll talk to you promise.

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Speaker 2: This is very vulgeuristic.

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Speaker 1: This is just like the body.

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Speaker 3: You like to watch me use the body, and now

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Speaker 3: you like to listen to me and talk about the whole.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I never want to seep ever, not on camera. Not

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Speaker 2: we started dating, and like even if we got married,

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Speaker 2: I would want to see you pee. I did not

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Speaker 2: realize the camera was in there.

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Speaker 1: Crap, I'm sorry. So it is like a hidden camera

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Speaker 1: in your bathroom.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you don't want to fill me going body.

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Speaker 2: I mean I got it for work because someone like

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Speaker 2: kept stealing my lunch and I wanted to try and

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Speaker 2: catch them and call them out. I mean, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: Like my charger and my kitchen, like it's just not working,

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Speaker 2: and like my outlets are broken all over and like

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Speaker 2: that's my only outlets is working in the bathroom. It's

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Speaker 2: not there to like catch you, if it makes any sense,

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Speaker 2: Like I did catch the person catching my lunch.

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Speaker 1: So I don't really use this.

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Speaker 3: Works, okay, I.

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Speaker 2: But like I'm not using it anymore. It just kind

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Speaker 2: of hangs out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you could see how that'd be off putting though.

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Speaker 3: It's like there's a camera in the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Like, like I said, it's just like my

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Speaker 2: outlets aren't working in the kitchen, so I just like

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Speaker 2: plopped it there. I don't, dude, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I done. All Right, Well you have Sean, would you

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Speaker 1: like to go on another date with Emily? We'll pay

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Speaker 1: for it. Sounds like a perverse Yeah, I don't think

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Speaker 1: she was filming you on purpose.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a pervert.

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Speaker 3: I'm willing to give it another try, but it's a

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Speaker 3: red line for me if I find more more hidden

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Speaker 3: camera device and I'm using the body.

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Speaker 2: Out tape over all my cameras, like my laptop, my phone.

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Speaker 3: I swear, all right, yeah, what's going on another date?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'll even throw that out if that makes

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Speaker 2: you feel better. I'm excited to see you again, and

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Speaker 2: I swear i'll explain it in depth in person. And

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Speaker 2: also I want to unpack why you kept staying potty.