Speaker 1: I guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: Welcome to an episode of horrible decisions, Mandy. And if
Speaker 1: you're watching matching on accent, are we look like animals?
Speaker 1: I'm also matching. You just don't see me. No, you're
Speaker 1: not matching us. Guys, you can't just watch stand that
Speaker 1: you want to be included, but you can't sit with us. Sorry. Now,
Speaker 1: somehow we both decided to wear animal fright today. And
Speaker 1: it's the same exact animal and I'm not really sure
Speaker 1: what animal, but it's an animal. It's a it's giving
Speaker 1: like you know, a liger. It's like it's this is
Speaker 1: only tiger because it could be it's just tiger because
Speaker 1: it's brown but white. You could be a zebra. Okay,
Speaker 1: is also a is it it's giving tiger? I'm not
Speaker 1: sure it's giving classed it's given players clubs, bucking ground.
Speaker 1: Then him jump suit that ain't given class bit huh, bitch,
Speaker 1: it's capriz. How did bitch? I'm here? Ain't I know?
Speaker 1: But like how what was it? Like? Um? Well, I
Speaker 1: just with the nail text were there? No, they weren't
Speaker 1: because my attorney um rescheduled because bitch. My ship was
Speaker 1: during a blizzard. Both of us was like, we're not
Speaker 1: going to court tonight. It's fucking snowing. Um, so I
Speaker 1: probably I hired a private attorney, uh, and he was
Speaker 1: He was able to like reschedule and I went in
Speaker 1: and baby he handled everything by the time. By a
Speaker 1: time I got in there, it was just like yes, sir, no, sir,
Speaker 1: I understand. I forgot what I was supposed to say.
Speaker 1: And then I remember y'all said your honor, but I
Speaker 1: didn't know if that was like disrespectful or not, so
Speaker 1: I just said yes, sir, no sir. The whole time,
Speaker 1: I just called him sir because I didn't want to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, I didn't know what I could call him.
Speaker 1: I've never been in there, so even the whole time,
Speaker 1: like my attorney is like explaining the proceedings and what
Speaker 1: my options are, I was just like, I just don't
Speaker 1: want a criminal record. Was it giving people's court? What
Speaker 1: was it giving? Did you get to watch other people's
Speaker 1: like trials and ship? That'd be fine? Well, first off,
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that this was taking place where bookings is,
Speaker 1: and so I didn't notice until later that as people
Speaker 1: were leaving out from day court that they were getting released.
Speaker 1: And I noticed when I started looking down and no
Speaker 1: one had their shoelaces, and I was like, oh, y'all
Speaker 1: are just getting out of jail. So and then, of
Speaker 1: course this is a different one. I was at a precinct.
Speaker 1: I was just in the holding cell. This was where
Speaker 1: they was booked, waiting on arrangements to see the judge.
Speaker 1: That's like I didn't Yeah, that's what I got booked
Speaker 1: on a weekend. Yeah, I didn't have to see a judge.
Speaker 1: I didn't have to wait for a judge. That's why.
Speaker 1: So I had a d A T, which is a
Speaker 1: disk appearance ticket, which allowed me to go home that
Speaker 1: that same day. Now, if you're booked and you got
Speaker 1: to see a judge that day, you just gotta wait.
Speaker 1: I ran into a girl. She was locked up at
Speaker 1: three am and got out. Bitch, when I was going
Speaker 1: did they look like they have been in jail all night? Well,
Speaker 1: this girl had on pajamas and I said, oh, honey,
Speaker 1: did you need she thought somebody? No, she saw her
Speaker 1: daddy Carr, and her daddy uh called the cops. I said, bit,
Speaker 1: you better never thought your daddy again. I set O Latina.
Speaker 1: What do you have to say for them? But I
Speaker 1: mean it was I'm just glad that it's over. Oh.
Speaker 1: I had a few options, UM and I decided to
Speaker 1: go with the option where I took a lower plate.
Speaker 1: So I ended up just taking disorderly conduct time served
Speaker 1: and that allows the case to a be closed already sealed,
Speaker 1: and I don't have a criminal record. I just have
Speaker 1: a violation, but it doesn't show up in the background check,
Speaker 1: and that's the thing I could have got to dismissed.
Speaker 1: But they do like this thing where it's a journed
Speaker 1: for six months, so you pretty much have to stay
Speaker 1: out of trouble for six months and then it will
Speaker 1: be dismissed. You didn't have faith in that. Well, my
Speaker 1: problem is I have a lot of things going on
Speaker 1: and background checks are gonna have to be ran, and
Speaker 1: in background checks it would show up as an open
Speaker 1: criminal case and I didn't want that to be I
Speaker 1: didn't want that to shine. Remember when UM, I was
Speaker 1: doing this show for Viacom and you had to drive
Speaker 1: around with people and they were like, oh, we just
Speaker 1: gotta do a check on your license and stuff. I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, well someone will have to drive me
Speaker 1: around because you're not gonna find that now. Do I
Speaker 1: still drive? Yeah, well, we know you have a Mexican license,
Speaker 1: so she at the time, I didn't have my Mexican license,
Speaker 1: but she was like, okay, we'll figure out because you
Speaker 1: can have a co host anyway. Then I think, um
Speaker 1: for Fuse, I had a background check and it was
Speaker 1: funny because I was like, y'all know all my sins, right,
Speaker 1: and they were like, oh, we just want to make
Speaker 1: sure you can't go nobody. I was like, okay, but
Speaker 1: we had a large issue with subs. We had some
Speaker 1: subs that were gonna be on the show that didn't
Speaker 1: want their ship ran and Fuse was like, oh, absolutely not,
Speaker 1: We're not I can let you do all that. I mean,
Speaker 1: of course not, because I mean we see a lot
Speaker 1: of things now. I mean she y'all know, I love
Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Atlanta, uh, Salt Lake City, New York, Potomac,
Speaker 1: all the housewives, and bitch one of them had a
Speaker 1: whole bunch of racist tweets on her face and now
Speaker 1: got fired just from tweets. Were tweets were insane and
Speaker 1: you know what, no sympathy because I also found a
Speaker 1: black nail text, so I'm super hype. I'm going to
Speaker 1: her on Friday, so I'm excited because it the girl
Speaker 1: in Williamsburg. No, here's the thing. I love, y'all black
Speaker 1: nail text. But goddamn, y'all think I'm supposed to know
Speaker 1: that I need a new set a month and a
Speaker 1: half from now. Then bit just be booked out. I'm like, bro, y'all,
Speaker 1: let y'all open your calendars one day and the ship
Speaker 1: be filled. I don't know what I'm gonna need my
Speaker 1: nails done, bit I am a busy person. So and
Speaker 1: then a lot of black nail texts also hands only
Speaker 1: the girl I'm going to. So now I still gotta
Speaker 1: find somebody to do my toes. So yeah, but do
Speaker 1: you does no? But I do jail polishing petties, just
Speaker 1: a lot of like the nail takes to do all
Speaker 1: the design stuff. They'd be like because my ship grows
Speaker 1: so fast, the cuticle, so I have to get them
Speaker 1: done everything. Speaking of that, you know, suddenly after I
Speaker 1: did my episode my feet out, now many just want
Speaker 1: to do this all the time. Yet are both out
Speaker 1: this time around, and I just did it first. I
Speaker 1: was the first rapper to have their feet out on
Speaker 1: horrible to say if you don't, was I not? No,
Speaker 1: I was the first who was it was giving me
Speaker 1: And then the next week man he was like, I
Speaker 1: only had my toes out too. Well. No, Also, I
Speaker 1: bought this outfit and I have no clue what the
Speaker 1: shoes I would wear anyway, So that's what black look at.
Speaker 1: Why do you keep having this happen? Is it? Matt?
Speaker 1: It's uh lip liner would just chapstick, and it's a chapstick,
Speaker 1: a lip liner with chapstick. Love to see how much
Speaker 1: effort you put in. That is a lot of effort
Speaker 1: because I don't like I like the own bray effect.
Speaker 1: So I just do the liner and then once I
Speaker 1: put the chapstick, then I go like this. And when
Speaker 1: I kiss my nigga, don't be all over the place.
Speaker 1: It comes way off. If would love to give I'm
Speaker 1: not pregnant announcement, whoop whoop, um, I am not baby
Speaker 1: mama numbers sinko fun times which I started bleeding the
Speaker 1: day I got on a plane back to New York
Speaker 1: and I said yes, I said, I mean, technically you
Speaker 1: could still be pregnant and have your period Okay, the
Speaker 1: blood is giving miscarriage as heavy as it is. I
Speaker 1: said that, my god, can you not it's the thing
Speaker 1: as a heavy if it was morning. Jesus, I can't
Speaker 1: see anything on here. I think a portion is way.
Speaker 1: I said that they get a picture of the pad
Speaker 1: on the airplane. You go back, question mark. I said,
Speaker 1: you know what this is, and I want you to
Speaker 1: act like you know what it is. He goes, O,
Speaker 1: that's a tampon. You don't know what it is. I mean,
Speaker 1: the fuck? You know how many times I've seen a
Speaker 1: tampon in my life. You don't know what it looks like.
Speaker 1: I know what it looks like. You know how many
Speaker 1: times I've seen one? Seven? Damn? How old is that? Nigga?
Speaker 1: You don't be seeing tampon? No? What what? I don't
Speaker 1: use them? You never lived with a bit? No, he
Speaker 1: got you. First of all, he has four baby mamas.
Speaker 1: He definitely seen the tampa. He's seen the tampon, clearly,
Speaker 1: not after you know, four baby mamas, four different kids. Anyway,
Speaker 1: y'all right, Clearly there was no announcement that appearing game
Speaker 1: after you don't think about it. Actually, that's a good point. Um.
Speaker 1: Speaking of the Lambeau. A few things just off the
Speaker 1: top of I thought were really funny that have happened
Speaker 1: since I talked about the Plan B story. Um whether
Speaker 1: I gave too much detail or too much detail about
Speaker 1: Baby Mamas or the car that Nickel texted me and
Speaker 1: said I'm getting a new car and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I thought you're gonna get one in Atlantic because he
Speaker 1: was like he likes to get him hooked up there
Speaker 1: or whatever, and he's like, Nigga, people listen to Horrible
Speaker 1: Listen Like he basically was like, people be shocked that
Speaker 1: people actually listen to this show. I think it's just
Speaker 1: because when you're not a podcast listener, you don't understand
Speaker 1: the consumer, which I get. But anyway, he texted me
Speaker 1: this ship like all of these holes listen to podcasts
Speaker 1: and then were sitting down, love them all them. I
Speaker 1: told you when I broke up with my nigga, I
Speaker 1: tried to dipple back with mother seven. He said, what
Speaker 1: I thought, you hated me. You need more podcast content
Speaker 1: and I was like, well, fun, I hit you on accident.
Speaker 1: My bad, sorry, and then was like would that mouse
Speaker 1: still do Yeah. I'm like, nig because I'll be talking
Speaker 1: about you. No, I don't need more podcast content. I
Speaker 1: just needed to get my rocks off. But I'll say, well,
Speaker 1: I do so a few things off the top. I
Speaker 1: was like, what do you want me to like stop
Speaker 1: talking about it or whatever, and he was like, no,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna bit so. Um. One of his baby
Speaker 1: mamas doesn't really listen anymore, but she says that when
Speaker 1: she heard like about him, she said it sounded like
Speaker 1: him and she knew it from the car and she
Speaker 1: texted him and said, surprised it's not Nandy, because I
Speaker 1: guess you're his type. He always talks about how like
Speaker 1: he's gonna support me keeping his way because he wants
Speaker 1: me to have a fat ass. So I can't understand
Speaker 1: why she thought he would want a Mandy because it's
Speaker 1: giving little booty here, but it's growing. Um. Anyway, she
Speaker 1: loves horrible decisions. Um. I forgot what she does in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: But I was like, oh, they still have you on
Speaker 1: the shot. Let's talk about the deck tails, like you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It would be fun. I was like,
Speaker 1: tell her and he was like, no, Um. The other
Speaker 1: thing he said a bit she used to fun listens
Speaker 1: and was like, why do you let her say, yo,
Speaker 1: kind Nane, there's gonna be niggas looking for you. Bit
Speaker 1: shut up, um. But anyway, he's gonna get another car now,
Speaker 1: because he said he really feels like he said he
Speaker 1: was at the gas station. This was dramatic. But he's like,
Speaker 1: these black girls are looking at me, and I think
Speaker 1: it's because they saw my car and they know him.
Speaker 1: In l there is more niggas. Dog they're looking at
Speaker 1: your but not the only nigga with a lambeau. Bro,
Speaker 1: you can you win acting like he the only nigga
Speaker 1: in the whole U s of Ay with a goddamn lambeaux.
Speaker 1: I think he just feels polarized. I said, they are
Speaker 1: looking at you, and he was like, how you know?
Speaker 1: I said, they're looking. If you're looking at you, nigga,
Speaker 1: you're fine. You're fucking fine with a ambo. They're looking
Speaker 1: at your car. I mean they're probably looking at you
Speaker 1: to holliege you, not because they did. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I heard about a black man who drives a lambo
Speaker 1: in l A. I wonder if this is who Weasy
Speaker 1: is sucking the thought the fact that that's where he thinks,
Speaker 1: or you think or y'all. Both of you gotta remember though,
Speaker 1: when the nigga been into jail, they think everybody looking
Speaker 1: at Adam. So then we go out. We go to
Speaker 1: this place downtown. Is it called Continental Club? I think
Speaker 1: it is. That's where I was supposed to go after
Speaker 1: Our Lives show. That's where I got the table I
Speaker 1: fun with Continent the club. So I go, bitch, not
Speaker 1: too bitches coming up talking about because they could let
Speaker 1: you valet outside. But she was with him, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: they don't even talk to me, Mandy. They went straight
Speaker 1: to him. He was loving it, and then he was like,
Speaker 1: I understand you. I mean, so that's a very valid point.
Speaker 1: Now we know that b d D wasn't into the lifestyle,
Speaker 1: but is that something that Lambo's into? First of all,
Speaker 1: I'm not about to have three sims with a naked
Speaker 1: that I just started sucking with you almost, You're right,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You almost got a baby
Speaker 1: into this world week. I not almost you talking about
Speaker 1: you can't bring another bitch into the bedroom like that's
Speaker 1: not your emo. The bands of the live shows, I
Speaker 1: think when you brought your old bay up on stage,
Speaker 1: somebody may have asked, y'all looking for somebody to fo
Speaker 1: the night. Bro everybody knows, was like, yo, I have
Speaker 1: never He was like them girls were going crazy. He said,
Speaker 1: they already knew who I was before I got to
Speaker 1: want to stay like they were wilding out. Is that
Speaker 1: his sister was there, old Bay sister. He was like,
Speaker 1: she went to the green room because she was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not she was tired of it. Her son was there.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So me and Eddon's point exactly,
Speaker 1: are you not going to bring other women into the
Speaker 1: room with this nigga, especially if it's dick? Is that good?
Speaker 1: You don't want to share it? I'm just not in
Speaker 1: the mood for that right now. And also like I
Speaker 1: feel like so many people want to have a three
Speaker 1: so with me because they know I'm into it, and
Speaker 1: it's just like, calm down, I'll tell you, you you know what,
Speaker 1: I'd be really honest with you. I like when I
Speaker 1: go out, I really like having girlfriends just for the night.
Speaker 1: And for whatever reason, I had a girl in Orlando,
Speaker 1: a girl in d C. I have and they've all
Speaker 1: hit me like the next day, let me know when
Speaker 1: I can come to New York. Offered to fly themselves
Speaker 1: here and everything, and I'd just be like, all right, well,
Speaker 1: it was a fun night. But I don't I know,
Speaker 1: I don't know how to go beyond that, especially, but
Speaker 1: I also just don't want to waste a girl's time.
Speaker 1: I guess no, that's fair because like we know that
Speaker 1: women get emotional. This they do and babe, I got
Speaker 1: the time, but not pussy. I just don't want. I
Speaker 1: feel like I would have wanted pussy that night, Like
Speaker 1: I'll make out with you that night and if you
Speaker 1: happen to come to my room at my house, we're
Speaker 1: gonna fuck, but then I probably won't talk to you
Speaker 1: anymore after that, or I'll funk you again if we
Speaker 1: go out, make out, get drunk, and come back. Girls
Speaker 1: are down for just a lot of I have not
Speaker 1: met like they Okay, I don't know. And see the
Speaker 1: girl that I made out with in Norland, though she
Speaker 1: was would have stud so I thought that was her girlfriend,
Speaker 1: and you know, so I was just playing with both
Speaker 1: of them. The next day she said let me know
Speaker 1: and I'll come up to New York. Hey, Babe, like
Speaker 1: I had so much fun. Lest sign I was like,
Speaker 1: was that not your girl? No? Girl? That was just
Speaker 1: my home girl. I said, oh, because it was given.
Speaker 1: It was given. It was giving, y'all. But I guess not.
Speaker 1: You look hell again. But I love it. I like,
Speaker 1: I know what it is. It's the glasses too, but
Speaker 1: that no, not to have the glasses give get Yeah,
Speaker 1: is this or a snap Are you trying to bro?
Speaker 1: She has she has a fitted bro. That is it's
Speaker 1: definitely the fitted is given, is given. Women don't don't
Speaker 1: wear it when I'm having a bad hair day or
Speaker 1: I have a wig on. You wear a dad cap,
Speaker 1: or you wear a bucket, or you wear a snap back.
Speaker 1: This is a fitted cap. Bro. Huh, you don't know
Speaker 1: what if fit it is? I no, yeah, I do.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about you know what I mean? Hat no
Speaker 1: hat saying all the same, Oh, this is a fitted bro.
Speaker 1: I said. This is like back when I was in
Speaker 1: middle school and I was like, oh the nigga'm dating,
Speaker 1: I'm fitned buy him and fitted. But then you had
Speaker 1: to sneak and try to realize his hat size. It's like,
Speaker 1: damn iss, he's six and three quarters and he's seven
Speaker 1: and one four. It's like them ships a size. Bro.
Speaker 1: You gotta know that you are on the side of
Speaker 1: your nigga head. And then don't let that nigga have dredgs.
Speaker 1: You may as well just get that nigga eight do
Speaker 1: they have like eights rights big? That's all I know.
Speaker 1: That nigga umme yea his hat to the side because
Speaker 1: the dreads too big. And I just that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You gotta get a nigga. Yeah, but that's the hardest
Speaker 1: thing ever buying a nigga fitting who got dredgs, because
Speaker 1: you know that used to be my type. I used
Speaker 1: to have a dreg head radar growing up. We will
Speaker 1: walk through the mall and I just looked behind me
Speaker 1: and nigga with dreads. I turned down the motherfucking hall
Speaker 1: go to another store. Nigga with dress I had a
Speaker 1: draghead radar. I used to love them. I still gold.
Speaker 1: My boyfriend in high school had permanence. I mean, I
Speaker 1: grew up in Florida pan permanence. That's the word we're
Speaker 1: talking about dress though. Yeah, but I'm sorry, I just
Speaker 1: said I liked him with goals too. He had promout goals.
Speaker 1: I don't yeah what you mean down his back, bitch,
Speaker 1: and he drove a motherfucking um what was his car?
Speaker 1: I just know it had to spinning rims and it
Speaker 1: was loud, so everyone knew when he was coming to school.
Speaker 1: He was a junior. I was a freshman. Good shout
Speaker 1: out to dre at Evans. No, that was okrag was
Speaker 1: get it right? Uh? Well, what I was I meant
Speaker 1: to say was all y'all are saying you love any stories,
Speaker 1: but sna gonna be in Atlanta for a little bit
Speaker 1: because he love to be his kids. I'm like, you're
Speaker 1: getting that. You are you getting back with the bitch,
Speaker 1: just tell me but whatever. He's like, no, you can
Speaker 1: come to Atlanta. And I was like, oh, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I don't need to be I'm okay, that's a commitment.
Speaker 1: Oh the baby mama, the kid. I thought you met
Speaker 1: the kids. I'm about to say that's that's not really
Speaker 1: a commitment meeting kids. I thought, no, the baby mama cool.
Speaker 1: I told you. I don't know who. I'm not think
Speaker 1: she's sharing an episode. She works at a place in Atlanta. Damn,
Speaker 1: I wonder no, no, no, because you lived there for
Speaker 1: a minute. But like apparently she's been like a bartender
Speaker 1: out in there for a while. It's giving. She used
Speaker 1: to strip because he didn't want to tell me how
Speaker 1: he met her. But the nick loves strip clubs. But
Speaker 1: I was like, but um, he was like, now she'd
Speaker 1: be out and ship like she coolest. But he wants
Speaker 1: to move there to be closer to his kids and
Speaker 1: get a big house. I understand. Am I coming there? No?
Speaker 1: I love Atlanta? I said you can, you can come back.
Speaker 1: Tell leeve your card that you can do. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. Maybe I'll need to get a
Speaker 1: new boo. No more Plan B stories, I'm done. That
Speaker 1: was my last one for the year, I would hope.
Speaker 1: So I don't want you to be popping him like that,
Speaker 1: I'm done, no more plan. But when I tell you
Speaker 1: no more plan, I'm not gonna lie, you look like
Speaker 1: you're trying to convince yourself this like I'm sorry but nothing.
Speaker 1: If y'all are watching on YouTube, it looks like she
Speaker 1: she wants to believe herself while saying she's not gonna
Speaker 1: take a Plan B for the rest of the year.
Speaker 1: But she just don't know. You know how how it
Speaker 1: works to go back when I had to, like want
Speaker 1: you funk raw, you don't go back the condom out
Speaker 1: and he looked at me like, bitch you're talking about
Speaker 1: I'm like like, huh, I'm like, nigga, absolutely not. And
Speaker 1: he was like, you in on your ovulation no more.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, it doesn't matter if I'm on the opulation, nigga,
Speaker 1: no bro, do you know how uncomfortable it is to
Speaker 1: get your fucking I hate STD testing Like I do
Speaker 1: it because I have to, but I hate it. I
Speaker 1: hate it so much. Oh and I got so much anxiety,
Speaker 1: and I'm such a hole. I just I'm just sure
Speaker 1: they're gonna come back and say something I was so
Speaker 1: they're not be worried. I'm like i'd be surprised when
Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, everything's dorrible. I'd be like, yes, what
Speaker 1: great decision it is, But but you gotta go. Like
Speaker 1: and I go to the sex club, and mind you,
Speaker 1: that's the thing too, Like I get oral, like I
Speaker 1: use condoms well, even on toys and stuff, but my
Speaker 1: nigga uses condoms when we go to the sex club,
Speaker 1: but never with him. And honestly, I'm one of those
Speaker 1: like if he is sucking someone else, don't want to
Speaker 1: know about it. So I just get tested just because
Speaker 1: And I'd be like, I'll be waiting, I think just
Speaker 1: because it's definitely because you have to. But you have to,
Speaker 1: you guys, trust these names. I went to a guy
Speaker 1: on Beverly Drive. I wish I could give you their name.
Speaker 1: It was a man, but it was like all black
Speaker 1: staff except for the kind of colleges which I didn't know.
Speaker 1: His last name is Johnson. I thought it was giving um,
Speaker 1: but no um. And when I put my feet in
Speaker 1: the stirrups, the first thing out of my mouth. He
Speaker 1: doesn't even ask me a question. You know, when you're
Speaker 1: like scared, you of your parents need to start telling
Speaker 1: the truth or whatever. I put my feet up, I
Speaker 1: was like, I just started to sleeping with somebody. But
Speaker 1: I'm just sleeping with somebody else, and I just want
Speaker 1: to make sure that things there's tobe be good. Look,
Speaker 1: but don't go to d because I'm a little nervous
Speaker 1: hoping I'm not pregnant. If I am pregnant, poke around
Speaker 1: some more because I don't want it. I mean, by
Speaker 1: the way, and I know, guy knows can be like
Speaker 1: pretty expensive, um, especially if you have to go through insurance.
Speaker 1: If you don't have insurance, urgent cares do STD testing
Speaker 1: like CD M D gives you everything like they do everything.
Speaker 1: I think even is not affordable. Free clinics exist, Orlando.
Speaker 1: I always shout out that lgbt Q center. All they
Speaker 1: make you do is pissing the cup. You can get
Speaker 1: the theatrics if you want to. But I love this
Speaker 1: pan cup and good what's the theatrics because like you know,
Speaker 1: the theatrics that could be blood like all that wish
Speaker 1: is what I had to make sure um and then
Speaker 1: after I got the test, obviously and still used condoms.
Speaker 1: Not the most famous nigga line and Mandy, I would
Speaker 1: like you to say it for me. Oh, you ain't
Speaker 1: got nothing. I ain't got nothing. We're good. There we go.
Speaker 1: I don't understand you gotta use the ship. Why we
Speaker 1: gotta use the ship? You just got? We ain't got ship.
Speaker 1: That's why, no, nigga, there is like incubation periods of
Speaker 1: the ship. You could have just sucked the bitch during
Speaker 1: the break that I went through and got tested and
Speaker 1: waited for my results and now you could about now
Speaker 1: for maybe okay, wait for you would have been singing.
Speaker 1: I believe he's fucking all over them to say they're
Speaker 1: not you. I know you got a good name. Five
Speaker 1: you know what you just actually y'all. That's how we're
Speaker 1: gonna start the homemail because we have one about this,
Speaker 1: so guys, you don't even read it. He's so this week,
Speaker 1: this week's episode, Weezy and I are going to be
Speaker 1: giving some advice for homemail. Um, just because of time constraints,
Speaker 1: we have missed quite a few. All of these were
Speaker 1: sent in in January, so these are the most up
Speaker 1: to date ones. Yeah, I found like five or six
Speaker 1: of them. UM, so super super super excited. I just
Speaker 1: forwarded them as well to the Horrible Decisions email. By
Speaker 1: the way, UM, please please please send your homemails or
Speaker 1: hotels too, Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com if you
Speaker 1: can label it homemail so that we could be sure
Speaker 1: to flag and start so that we can read it
Speaker 1: and give you advice on a future episode and this
Speaker 1: one that we're starting with. I can't stop my baby dadds.
Speaker 1: I can't stop sucking my baby daddy. Didn't we read this? Now?
Speaker 1: This was just since in Oh maybe I read it.
Speaker 1: Maybe I sent it to him. Yeah, no, yeah, this
Speaker 1: this is just that. Then like last week she said
Speaker 1: he got three more kids. Well, let's get into it. So, guys,
Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this week's episode of Nothing but Homemail
Speaker 1: and Hotels. So hey, y'all, I've been in a ten
Speaker 1: year situation ship with my baby daddy that's already one
Speaker 1: of the kids. For a long time, he would make
Speaker 1: me feel like a hope for hooking up with other people,
Speaker 1: even though he was doing the same thing we've never
Speaker 1: been to being a mother. Having said, listen, this is listen.
Speaker 1: These homemails ain't short, let me get through them. So
Speaker 1: we didn't dis set these holes. I need to add
Speaker 1: some color. So for a long time, you would make
Speaker 1: me feel like a hope for hooking up with other people,
Speaker 1: even though he was doing the same thing we've never
Speaker 1: been in a public relationship. And as an impact, I
Speaker 1: feel like I was being mind fucked by his narcissistic
Speaker 1: and manipulative ways. Your podcast really helped me break out
Speaker 1: of that and I can say that I'm honestly really
Speaker 1: happy and living in my truth. Thank you guys for
Speaker 1: being so transparent with us. My story today is that
Speaker 1: I moved out of my hometown almost three years ago,
Speaker 1: and my baby daddy flies in on certain schedules, and
Speaker 1: that's how we co parent while we live in different states.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I still love him, and we
Speaker 1: slip up sometimes by having sex. He has always been
Speaker 1: the guy to cheat on his girlfriends, which never really
Speaker 1: fazes me because I was always single. Things are a
Speaker 1: little different. Things are a little different now though. I've
Speaker 1: been seeing a new guy who also lives in my hometown,
Speaker 1: and and he's already flying me out to a resort
Speaker 1: in the Caribbean on vacation or a second day. He
Speaker 1: seems like everything I could ever ask for, but he's
Speaker 1: kind of lacking in the looks department. I'm going to
Speaker 1: give it Boks and the looks department vation. I'm going
Speaker 1: to give him a try. But I'm nervous that if
Speaker 1: I fuck him during the vacation, during the vacation and
Speaker 1: I don't like it, I may still end up running
Speaker 1: back to my baby daddy for sex. I don't want
Speaker 1: to make everything about looks and sex, but those things
Speaker 1: are kind of important. Although we are more open now
Speaker 1: about our personal lives, I'm constantly fighting myself to create
Speaker 1: healthy boundaries with my baby daddy. It's like my pussy
Speaker 1: has a mind of her own. What would you guys
Speaker 1: do if y'all were in my position? X O x
Speaker 1: ope not adding with that first of all, on the
Speaker 1: last day, Oh, on the on vacation, Yeah, because why
Speaker 1: would you do it on the first day. Now you
Speaker 1: gotta stay on vacation with this guy who has wagons.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna want no more. He gonna know if
Speaker 1: you but to me, if looks Here's the thing, ladies,
Speaker 1: we do all have our non negotiables. You just put
Speaker 1: looks in sex seemingly very high onto your list. I
Speaker 1: don't know why his. Ladies, we try to convince ourselves
Speaker 1: that sex with someone else makes sense when we know
Speaker 1: already that they're not checking off the boxes that are
Speaker 1: high on our list. It's like you're gonna It's like
Speaker 1: you're dating with potential. I hate fucking and dating with
Speaker 1: potential if you already know he's not a looker, and
Speaker 1: now you're worried that if the sex isn't good, you're
Speaker 1: gonna go back to sucking your baby daddy. I say,
Speaker 1: go to therapy first. But also before you create a
Speaker 1: healthy relationship with anyone else, you need to create the
Speaker 1: boundaries for yourself with your baby daddy before you even
Speaker 1: try to involve anyone else, because it seems like the
Speaker 1: fact that you're even calling in a situation ship but
Speaker 1: you've been single forever. I don't believe that you fully
Speaker 1: identify as single because you keep sucking your baby daddy. Daddy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you keep lapsing into the baby daddy. What are your thoughts?
Speaker 1: What would you do to me? I think she need
Speaker 1: therapy and she doesn't need to be trying to date
Speaker 1: right now without getting over that and not that. I
Speaker 1: feel like this is the I'm trying to like take
Speaker 1: myself out of in b biased. I feel like one
Speaker 1: baby dad, these and baby mamas get together, Like there's
Speaker 1: a connection that obviously you have that nobody else can recreate. Right,
Speaker 1: you guys made a kid together. It's super special. You're
Speaker 1: always gonna feel attached to this person. I don't think
Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with fucking your baby daddy or your
Speaker 1: baby mama as long as you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: I really don't know. As long as you guys um um.
Speaker 1: I like, even if even if they're single, I mean
Speaker 1: to me, it just creates those uh to me, it
Speaker 1: creates a lingering effect. It creates a long term effect,
Speaker 1: and I think that a lot of women do, especially
Speaker 1: if you create a life with someone, there's still that
Speaker 1: inkling in the back of many women said not all,
Speaker 1: but but that you would like to have that family together.
Speaker 1: And so I think that it has a negative long
Speaker 1: term effect for you to keep jumping back into something
Speaker 1: that clearly didn't work. You're not with the man, he
Speaker 1: still shows up to co parent. I believe in drawing boundaries,
Speaker 1: but that's also what I saw growing up. My mom
Speaker 1: was very adamant in drawing the boundary with my daddy,
Speaker 1: and we even just had the conversation yesterday, like my
Speaker 1: dad used to be so disrespectful when my mom even
Speaker 1: had boyfriends living with us. My daddy will pop up
Speaker 1: and just walk in the house. And it took a
Speaker 1: long time for her to draw those boundaries where I
Speaker 1: don't care that you my baby daddy, respect the other
Speaker 1: man that's in this house now. And so to me, no,
Speaker 1: to me removing sex, removing even the lingering idea that
Speaker 1: this could be something, or you have that ownership over
Speaker 1: me because we have kids. So if you feel like
Speaker 1: it's like being safe, right, like I've gone through really
Speaker 1: long periods without sex and if I had somebody I
Speaker 1: felt safe having sex with, and it just happened to
Speaker 1: be my baby daddy. Fine. Um. Now moreover on the
Speaker 1: vacation thing, very since just easy answer for me. I
Speaker 1: would not go away with someone that I wasn't going
Speaker 1: to have sex with or or I was scared to funk,
Speaker 1: or I felt like I'd have to be avoid fucking.
Speaker 1: Like I did go on a vacation with a sugar daddy,
Speaker 1: and I remember before I got on that plane. I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's Binny or Christopher that I talked
Speaker 1: to about it, I don't know, but I just remember
Speaker 1: like I was like, oh my god, what if I
Speaker 1: have sex? And it was just like, well, flying you
Speaker 1: out for well know, because I wasn't sleeping with him,
Speaker 1: right like not, then that's why he gave you a vacation.
Speaker 1: Oh he's gonna give me the pussy. I don't know.
Speaker 1: He did get me those Beyonce to the whole Miami,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But like, so, okay, we had
Speaker 1: it was like a thing before where we didn't have sex.
Speaker 1: But also I was like there was a lot going on,
Speaker 1: so maybe I could get away with it again. And
Speaker 1: he also knew I didn't want to have sex. But
Speaker 1: even if he knew that, I still got to know
Speaker 1: him in a foreign country with the man, I gotta
Speaker 1: be okay with it, And honestly, by the time I
Speaker 1: got on that plane, I was. I think I talked
Speaker 1: talked about it, how I watched him fuck like a
Speaker 1: hole that he paid for, but I was still okay
Speaker 1: with it if it happened, Like I was totally fine
Speaker 1: in that feeling. And like, I think, if you're no
Speaker 1: vacations worth that you will literally have the worst time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you will, I mean, and I'm not gonna lie to
Speaker 1: I want if you're avoiding it as women, though, I
Speaker 1: want to get away from the idea that we are
Speaker 1: these dumb women that don't understand what an invite on
Speaker 1: a vacation or Caribbean island is. Like I hear even
Speaker 1: because I even hear Mom talk about it, but I'm
Speaker 1: not sucking offering to fly you out on a vacation
Speaker 1: with me to the islands to talk about euphoria over
Speaker 1: coffee and tea the fuck, Like it's not a home
Speaker 1: girl homeboy biber trip. Like if if a man is
Speaker 1: willing to spend that much money. This goes nigga's first off,
Speaker 1: Nigga's expect pussy from dinner, that I'm gonna ship the
Speaker 1: funk out the next day. The fact, like, women, let's
Speaker 1: not be blind at the pace that this nigga is
Speaker 1: sucking flying you out with hopes of getting pussy, real
Speaker 1: good pussy. And I don't hurt Nigga saying if I'm
Speaker 1: flying you to an island, don't even think I'm getting
Speaker 1: condom dick. I'm giving wrong. Oh no, yeah, but I've
Speaker 1: heard men say this. So the fact that we know
Speaker 1: the intent behind it. Ladies, don't put yourself in a situation,
Speaker 1: especially being flown out if you ain't gonna get a
Speaker 1: pussy up, because that's what he's flying you out for. Nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you. Uh well, I hadn't make it,
Speaker 1: offered me a trip to where was it. It wasn't far,
Speaker 1: but it was far enough. Oh it was the Hamptons.
Speaker 1: It was this summer. I met this guy and he
Speaker 1: was like, oh, let's go to the Hamptons for the weekend, dada.
Speaker 1: And I was very very explicit about being like, because
Speaker 1: I wasn't having sex at the time, right, when I
Speaker 1: was like going through my depression ship because to me,
Speaker 1: when I'm sad, I get super attached. It's like I
Speaker 1: don't know if the feelings would make me go up
Speaker 1: or down. I was like, bro, I do not want
Speaker 1: to go to the Hamptons. Like I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to fun, like I'm just in this really
Speaker 1: weird like a sexual moment in my life. And he
Speaker 1: was like, I think it's the Hamptons, Like what the funk?
Speaker 1: I was like, I still a vacation overnight is a vacation.
Speaker 1: To me, overnight means you want some pussy. I said,
Speaker 1: you know what's gonna happen. We're gonna be there, We're
Speaker 1: gonna go out, and then you're gonna look at me
Speaker 1: in that bit which I don't even gonna hold you overnight,
Speaker 1: which I would take a train down to Philly, come
Speaker 1: right back same night. It still got bussy because bitch
Speaker 1: I crossed state lines. What I'm saying, like, you don't
Speaker 1: do another city means you okay, that's fair another scene,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, except for except you don't
Speaker 1: go to Jersey for what? Oh bitch I used to
Speaker 1: be all up through that g w b baby, I
Speaker 1: was going straight that nigga that I was going straight
Speaker 1: for that. Oh my god, I just realized I got
Speaker 1: another baby, Mama. Remember the nigga out man in l A.
Speaker 1: We had a great day and he ended up living
Speaker 1: in New York, but he really lived in Jersey and
Speaker 1: he lived in the baby Mama. That's awful, girl. What's
Speaker 1: with you? And I don't know who I mean? Even
Speaker 1: though there's Fort Lee Edgewater programs all that little area
Speaker 1: over there. I looked a lot of niggas that lived
Speaker 1: in Jersey right there, because it's like tip, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: And when I used to go Dear and Booty call
Speaker 1: hours going across the g w B at two am
Speaker 1: in the morning, four am in the morning, bitch, great
Speaker 1: shot a few minutes from Park Chest That's when I
Speaker 1: lived in the box. There's no way now I would
Speaker 1: set in Jersey. Well, not only because so far. Not
Speaker 1: when you live in the Bronx, I get it. I
Speaker 1: don't even know that you could do the tunnel. You could,
Speaker 1: you could get Hoboken, That's what I'm saying. She could
Speaker 1: set Hopebo. Why do you guys try to tell Y
Speaker 1: invited me to this The New Year's party there ye
Speaker 1: had I wasn't even here and I was like, I
Speaker 1: love you, friend, but you thought I was gonna go there.
Speaker 1: And he's like, you see the party we got invited to?
Speaker 1: Uh oh, by the time, just come out, it'll be done.
Speaker 1: The party for your leisure, the surprise party. Oh it's
Speaker 1: in Jersey. Do you see that? Look your face? You
Speaker 1: can't you have money? Uber a bitch. Honestly, I just
Speaker 1: kind of feel like it's it's like it just feels far.
Speaker 1: I don't even like Newark Airport. I mean, I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you right. I don't hold you right. So
Speaker 1: shout out to good Mom's back Choices. They gave me
Speaker 1: a two dollar spot credit for my birthday, but it's
Speaker 1: first Sojo spot and I'm like, this is gonna cost
Speaker 1: me two hundred dollars ship that's a flight to it.
Speaker 1: This is not like, this is a very pretentious vibe
Speaker 1: by giving. And the vibe is simply because I don't
Speaker 1: like to go far anywhere, nigga. I had to do
Speaker 1: uh an interview for something like for TV, like on
Speaker 1: set and they told me that the location was on
Speaker 1: D Street and I was like, I know you guys
Speaker 1: are sending me like a car, but like, can we
Speaker 1: figure out like a time where I don't want have
Speaker 1: to sit in the car a long time like this
Speaker 1: is like I live in the Lower East. I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. I ain't noticed it until I moved
Speaker 1: to long On the city. Far bitch. I think I've
Speaker 1: been to the Bronx one time in a year, and
Speaker 1: that was to go collect mail from my old apartment.
Speaker 1: Why would you, guys don't. But now I see why
Speaker 1: nobody came to see me in the Bronx. They was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: the Bronx, nigga. I like the Bronx when I did
Speaker 1: live there. They have breweries. Now they're totally gentrifying it um.
Speaker 1: But also I got the best chop cheese bro. The
Speaker 1: food in the Bronx bro, the ship that I used
Speaker 1: to be able to get, like the Tostones, the all
Speaker 1: of like, oh my god, the food in the Bronx everywhere,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna lie at long On the city,
Speaker 1: A Long and city. Okay, I have a cheese bark
Speaker 1: and dumplings cheese bar. What do you mean a cheese
Speaker 1: a cheese and wine bar. And I got done like
Speaker 1: it's all Asian food. I said, like a bar cheese,
Speaker 1: no bit. But I'm just saying I do miss the
Speaker 1: food in the Bronx speaking of a bar of cheese. Uh,
Speaker 1: y'all knowes. I was walking Nina and there's always a
Speaker 1: really long line um at this hot dog k hot
Speaker 1: dog place on Orchard Street. I don't know if anybody
Speaker 1: knows I'm talking about the Cross hot Dogs. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: a crossroom pianos and the line is long, bro like
Speaker 1: even in the snow, be like fifty people. So we
Speaker 1: just happened to walk by there while they open and
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I gotta try this ship. So
Speaker 1: I had a fried whatever it was hot dog. There
Speaker 1: was some cheese in it whatever. Um. Some of you know,
Speaker 1: if you're on Patreon that my apartment is getting renovated.
Speaker 1: As my apartment is getting renovated, I can't go in
Speaker 1: the apartment. So what happens when I eat and take
Speaker 1: a bite into this hot dog? It's amazing. I finish it.
Speaker 1: Now I have to ship my pants because it's so
Speaker 1: much meat and cheese and fried ship. When I tell
Speaker 1: you I've run up to the apartment, they're like, you
Speaker 1: can't get in there right now, because it was like,
Speaker 1: you know there they got the drill out. I was like,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, after he's a bathroom, you can't get
Speaker 1: in there right now. Oh my god, I think I
Speaker 1: called Ena get ready to tell them the story. I
Speaker 1: had to ship so bad. I went into the bodega.
Speaker 1: I had to give you in a bodega. They know me,
Speaker 1: but I don't give a fuck. I didn't have a
Speaker 1: try you sho. I went to I Where did I
Speaker 1: run to? I went to UM, I went to Mr
Speaker 1: Taka Ramen. I went to Sauce Pizza. They weren't open yet.
Speaker 1: I went to a bunch of places in the neighborhood,
Speaker 1: and then finally I went to the bodega. And I
Speaker 1: looked like I was in a panic. I was red
Speaker 1: in the face, sweating. I had to hand them my dog.
Speaker 1: Do you know what he's like? I was like, First off,
Speaker 1: He's like, I can't take the dog. I'm only here.
Speaker 1: I have to cook the food. Now it's me and
Speaker 1: Nina in a fucking janitor's closet while I'm shipping, and
Speaker 1: this dog is looking at me, judging me. She's just
Speaker 1: sitting there with her little christy ass like, it's like
Speaker 1: a mop bucket next to me. Mandy is bad. And
Speaker 1: I was in there so long that I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, they're gonna think. I'm like, like, is
Speaker 1: everything Okay? It was a lie. I don't think if
Speaker 1: you're not from New York, you will not know the
Speaker 1: terror of having to ship or piss while you're just
Speaker 1: out in the city. Because baby, don't nobody want to
Speaker 1: let you use that motherfucking bathroom. Like Starbucks don't even like.
Speaker 1: But you've got to be able to show a receipt.
Speaker 1: Sometimes they'll have a cold. They go now. Anybody can
Speaker 1: use it ever since that incident, but only start Starbucks
Speaker 1: on de Lante was too far. They got hot dog
Speaker 1: was so strong in five it hit my stomach in
Speaker 1: the middle of it still being in my head. Okay,
Speaker 1: I was there. It was bad. It was so bad
Speaker 1: so you'll never eat it again. No, And I really
Speaker 1: think it was just a mix of meat fried cheese.
Speaker 1: Anyboy's not gonna lie. By the time I got out
Speaker 1: of there, I didn't have any cash on me, but
Speaker 1: I knew I needed to pay for what I had
Speaker 1: just done. Somehow. I'm not saying it was a mess. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't blow it was clean. I'm just saying I
Speaker 1: felt guilty because I knew he knew I should. The
Speaker 1: customers probably walked in there thinking there was some bad
Speaker 1: meat in that death. Oh my god, I thought everything
Speaker 1: was wrong. Bro. Going bed, I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: have any I don't even have right now, like you know,
Speaker 1: I just want to leave you something. He's like, it's okay,
Speaker 1: don't worry about it because I come all the time.
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, can I just take like
Speaker 1: Apple pay for twenty dollars? And now he's laughing and
Speaker 1: he goes because I keep offering money? Is it a
Speaker 1: problem in there? So now? And that's Orchard Street grosser okay, which,
Speaker 1: by the way, he used to be the bodega had
Speaker 1: been going to for years. I can't do it anymore.
Speaker 1: And the shame that I felt after leaving the bathroom,
Speaker 1: it was just bad. But you know what you can't
Speaker 1: feel ship That is a humanly bro everybody everyone. I
Speaker 1: didn't feel like sometimes I'm too pretty to ship, like
Speaker 1: I don't think work at me and I don't want
Speaker 1: them to see me as a shitter. All right, We're
Speaker 1: gonna get to that. You don't know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like do you talk about with your man? Yes? What
Speaker 1: is why we had to change the right after a bitch,
Speaker 1: I have antal sex many nothing when you have to ship,
Speaker 1: like you say, I told you, I don't let him know. Baby,
Speaker 1: don't eat back there today. It was kind of rough
Speaker 1: this morning, like when you have to go to the
Speaker 1: bad It was a little wet that morning when you
Speaker 1: have you tell him I have to ship because you say,
Speaker 1: and I hate that you use this word piss. But
Speaker 1: every time I don't know what something not being crazy
Speaker 1: about me saying that I got a piss. I mean,
Speaker 1: I ain't gonnhold but he talks. But he talks about
Speaker 1: my delivery all the time. I'd be like, oh, you're
Speaker 1: gonna give me that dick even, like why you talk
Speaker 1: like this? He hates Like again he hates when I
Speaker 1: get into like my sex sock because he's like, you
Speaker 1: have a fucking sex podcast. Ain't nothing about anything you're
Speaker 1: saying for something, let us not forget. You can pat
Speaker 1: it back there. That's what I'm saying that Like, I like,
Speaker 1: you don't give me that dirt, Like no, but I'd
Speaker 1: be real open, like he isn't like I'll be like, man,
Speaker 1: a bitch gotta piss. I tell him about when I
Speaker 1: ship it, not when I have to ship, and then
Speaker 1: I'll tell him what I'm bleeding, like I'm about to die.
Speaker 1: And he does tell me t M I he said
Speaker 1: I think that I may. He also says, I don't
Speaker 1: know why it has to be an announcement, but I'm
Speaker 1: just free like that I told my friends. He'll be like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take you off FaceTime because girl, this ship
Speaker 1: is not coming out. Like when I like really have
Speaker 1: to focus on getting the ship out while I'm on
Speaker 1: face I have to hang out. I'll be like, oh no,
Speaker 1: I just pushed the screen over. You're gonna be on
Speaker 1: pause like so o. Bate told me like he knows
Speaker 1: when I ship, which will really embarrass me. Why does
Speaker 1: he know when you because he hears the double flush
Speaker 1: like that, bro, right when it comes out, I know
Speaker 1: that's the courtesy flush. That that's when you shipped really bad,
Speaker 1: like solid dollars just don't need two flushes, bro, Yes,
Speaker 1: it does not solid coming out, and like that, you
Speaker 1: basically ship and flush while it goes and then if
Speaker 1: I have enough double flush when his thing, a double flush.
Speaker 1: If something comes out of my ass, Mandy, it don't
Speaker 1: stay called in tide. We keep the home. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And so he's so o c D
Speaker 1: like he goes when the bottles turned, and I'll be like,
Speaker 1: I just don't want him to know. I don't want
Speaker 1: anyone I have, all right, because I don't you step
Speaker 1: backing like you're like you're fucking grown. It doesn't, it does.
Speaker 1: This is not a high school thing. It's just like
Speaker 1: I feel like childish thing. Everyone all adults know, the
Speaker 1: adults other adults. Shit. No, alright, the next question, guys,
Speaker 1: Hey queens, I just started listening to your podcast, and
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed. I listened to what at work. May not
Speaker 1: be the best time because I get turned on, but
Speaker 1: I love it and I'm always cracking up. I am
Speaker 1: thirty years old, and yes I have orgasm before, but
Speaker 1: my boyfriend now makes me squirt and I love it.
Speaker 1: The only thing that sucks is I can't ever do
Speaker 1: it myself, and sometimes it's hard to make myself even come.
Speaker 1: Other times he will get off, and again sometimes I
Speaker 1: don't come. But I love turning him on and pleasing him.
Speaker 1: I also get off on that. I need some pointers
Speaker 1: on how to do this myself or answers on why
Speaker 1: sometimes a woman just doesn't come? Is that bad? I
Speaker 1: also have never had a threesome, but now I'm all
Speaker 1: for it. I think it would be so hot to
Speaker 1: squirt on another girl while your man is helping. Any
Speaker 1: pointers or tips you can give to help make it
Speaker 1: easier for a first timer would be great. You guys, rock,
Speaker 1: I'm so happy about this podcast. Keep on doing the
Speaker 1: horrible things you do and inspiring women to be just
Speaker 1: like you. One love So. The question here, One Love So.
Speaker 1: The question is basically, is it bad? Um if a
Speaker 1: woman doesn't come all the time? Also, how can she
Speaker 1: make herself come? And then any pointers on having a
Speaker 1: threesome with her man? And also maybe I would assume
Speaker 1: there would be a conversation with squirting on the other woman. Um,
Speaker 1: well that's why I said she wants to squirt on
Speaker 1: the other woman. He's in the conversation for threesomes. You
Speaker 1: take that over. I feel like we've had so much
Speaker 1: threesome dialogue and not the three so I'll take it
Speaker 1: over because I just said the conversation will be about
Speaker 1: squirting on the other woman. This is an act now
Speaker 1: more more than the threesome. She knows that her man
Speaker 1: can make her squirt. She wants to ejaculate onto another woman.
Speaker 1: So to me, that sounds more than even just a threesome.
Speaker 1: She's she literally said, I think it would be fun
Speaker 1: for my man to help me squirt on another woman.
Speaker 1: I think that that kind of goes more beyond threesome.
Speaker 1: I think she's envisioning doing that. It's a fantasy of
Speaker 1: doing it on another woman. I'm not sure if there's
Speaker 1: maybe a humiliating factor, a um like maybe some sort
Speaker 1: of um big letter factor of wanting to do that
Speaker 1: to another woman and your man doing it. I'm not
Speaker 1: sure in her mind where the pleasure comes. And just
Speaker 1: I feel like, if it's that specific, you gotta get
Speaker 1: your ship off at a sex club or something like that.
Speaker 1: Like I feel like how women don't st like squirting
Speaker 1: is often like it's often what women like refrain from. Like, bro,
Speaker 1: you can make a mess and ruin a big area
Speaker 1: of where people are playing to squirt, like women that
Speaker 1: squirt normally will hold it in like squirters know, Like
Speaker 1: you can ruin a whole area sex club by ejaculating
Speaker 1: like the thing that you're trying to get off. I mean,
Speaker 1: I would say that's something to do in the privacy,
Speaker 1: not of the sex club. And bis I go to
Speaker 1: sex club, what I would love to see that that's interesting.
Speaker 1: I never know that that would be taboos. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Guys can do Bookaki on a bitch and I can't
Speaker 1: squirtch sexist and the sexiest as much is as much
Speaker 1: because I mean a lot of sex club coming out
Speaker 1: of a hole depending on the space, though, like it's
Speaker 1: a little selfish thing. I would say to do that
Speaker 1: to make it so where now there's a large portion
Speaker 1: of the club that no one else wants to use
Speaker 1: because it's faked or drenched, Like I've been a couch
Speaker 1: where you sit down, like you get up immediately that area.
Speaker 1: People will let you know, don't go in that area.
Speaker 1: So now there's a large portion of the club that's
Speaker 1: I don't get it. So you could go there if
Speaker 1: it's dry, but there was someone else's ass juice on there,
Speaker 1: and it's just not. I mean the same way how
Speaker 1: when I have sex at home, if the sheets are
Speaker 1: are dry, like there's no someone else's but if it's soaked,
Speaker 1: I'm removing. What I'm saying is no one is sucking
Speaker 1: on what sheets. Nobody even no one's sleeping on what sheets,
Speaker 1: like even at home, it's my own juices. If the
Speaker 1: sheets are wet, I guess I'm not thinking of the
Speaker 1: squirt being like so much is so like. But what
Speaker 1: I'm saying is no one really likes I Also, when
Speaker 1: I'm talking about squirt like, I think we also have
Speaker 1: to stop this idea of like squirting being this fucking
Speaker 1: fountain of youth that we're watching in porn. Like you know,
Speaker 1: I don't think it's gonna be that, and say, and
Speaker 1: if it is, then saying bring it howls okay. As
Speaker 1: someone who goes to sex climps, that's my advice. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't suggest it, but that's you suggest I think somebody
Speaker 1: wants to see that. But then on the contrary, right,
Speaker 1: so that does make me wonder about the Bukaki thing.
Speaker 1: What if some what if a dude? I mean, it's
Speaker 1: weird because again, as many as I've been to, first off,
Speaker 1: nutting is a lot more way small. Mind you, when
Speaker 1: you're nutting, you're either nutting in or on something, which
Speaker 1: normally you will move until it's wiped off like a
Speaker 1: lot of times. I mean, and again there's courtesy and
Speaker 1: sex clubs. Again that's not something that's normally just like
Speaker 1: you don't go to sex clubs and niggas are just
Speaker 1: jacking off all over the fucking sheet like it normally
Speaker 1: goes somewhere. So for squirting. And again, I've been in
Speaker 1: places where we all let each other know it's really
Speaker 1: what over there? You don't want to go over there?
Speaker 1: Or I've literally went somewhere it was wet, got up immediately,
Speaker 1: like it's not enjoyed with not only are my own juices,
Speaker 1: but damn show not somebody else's juices. I would say, Um,
Speaker 1: this is actually advice that I thought you would have
Speaker 1: went a sex worker. If you just want to ejaculate
Speaker 1: onto somebody, um, and you just want to squirt and
Speaker 1: you want your man to make you squirt onto somebody,
Speaker 1: get a sex I only said sex club because I
Speaker 1: feel like it's a chink that sounds like somebody else
Speaker 1: would be. But what about those apps you guys usually
Speaker 1: kind of like field, there's there's fat life. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you can find people that I mean, if it's
Speaker 1: the one specific thing. I think sex club or sex worker, right,
Speaker 1: But what was the other first question she had? She
Speaker 1: also said, kind of a man can make her come,
Speaker 1: but she cannot make herself come, which is ironic because
Speaker 1: we also talk about here you can't expect to make
Speaker 1: a man come if you don't know how to make
Speaker 1: yourself come, like learning your own body, what pleases you.
Speaker 1: That's like kind of a tip that we've given for
Speaker 1: years on this show. Opposite try a vibrator. I honestly,
Speaker 1: I prefer to come with my own hands, hands that
Speaker 1: come really hard with my own hands. Vibrators sometimes too fast,
Speaker 1: and then I just like, I feel like I didn't
Speaker 1: get to have a long enough orgasm. But I think
Speaker 1: if you just want to experience doing it alone and
Speaker 1: definitely a vibrator, a vibrator and make you go quick
Speaker 1: outside of a vibrator, I would say, this is my
Speaker 1: thought on this. So most women, high percentage of women,
Speaker 1: come from clition. So when you masturbate, a lot of
Speaker 1: women assume that's the place I gotta be. If you're
Speaker 1: only coming in orgasm ng with your man, maybe you
Speaker 1: should throw something on the wall and maybe you come
Speaker 1: like me from penetration. So maybe you should actually try
Speaker 1: penetrating yourself without him. So, whether it's something that you
Speaker 1: stick to a floor, maybe it's a dial dough that
Speaker 1: you can actually pull in and out of yourself, make
Speaker 1: sure you're looped up. Um. You may also be someone
Speaker 1: who's visually stimulated. I can't really get off with masturbating
Speaker 1: without porn. So maybe creating the same scenario that you
Speaker 1: have with your man. Maybe you like lingure helps, though
Speaker 1: you gotta feel sex, you know, I'm saying, like getting like,
Speaker 1: you know, feeling sexy, like even if you want to
Speaker 1: do something like you know, making a video of it,
Speaker 1: that really turns out the mood, you know, accept the
Speaker 1: mood for yourself because I'm at the point where I
Speaker 1: can masturbate with anything going on. I literally this is embarrassing,
Speaker 1: but it's true. I had a deep conditioner in my
Speaker 1: hair and it was for forty five minutes, and I
Speaker 1: was like, well, I guess I just binged my shows,
Speaker 1: so might as a little masturbate And like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: did it. While I was doing that situation, I believe it,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, especially with the plastic cap
Speaker 1: or whatever. But I got my shirt off. I'm just
Speaker 1: saying like, if you're someone that necessarily can't get your
Speaker 1: off that quick, you know you should do it. Where
Speaker 1: is something another place I masturbated recently that wasn't necessarily
Speaker 1: the best place? Can I say it? Um? Sure? I
Speaker 1: can't remember where it was. It was in a place
Speaker 1: that I was in a room alone privately. Wasn't the
Speaker 1: kind of collegist? Why was I in that room? Bathroom? No,
Speaker 1: she masturbated while that ship was coming right out. It
Speaker 1: was not a Blumkin. It'll come back to me. I
Speaker 1: really don't know what Blumkin was. I waiting on a
Speaker 1: procedure consol tell you ship. That was it. I was
Speaker 1: in a doctor's office for the consultation for um Cool
Speaker 1: Sculpting its Cool Sculpting before I did lie, but because
Speaker 1: I learned that there's like a lot of ship that
Speaker 1: could go wrong with nerves and pregnancy with cool Sculpting.
Speaker 1: And it took thirty fucking I didn't seem locked the door.
Speaker 1: That was the seller. Sorry, go ahead. I want to
Speaker 1: have a baby at some point, Okay, I would you
Speaker 1: know what I mean that you almost did. I do
Speaker 1: not want to be baby mama number five. If I
Speaker 1: bet it, do they had one kid. Even if he
Speaker 1: had five kids with one woman, fine, but like do
Speaker 1: I want to have to be like so? I mean,
Speaker 1: I ain't gone. I was considering what the niggader sucked
Speaker 1: him in his baby mama. I think she was like
Speaker 1: his second and third baby mama. But he has five
Speaker 1: baby mama's nine kids. And I know he was going
Speaker 1: to tin because you get a real big text right
Speaker 1: off with tin kid. Maybe maybe you get a really
Speaker 1: big text break after that. Ten kidd whose baby mama
Speaker 1: did he just it was something breathe She's another wadling
Speaker 1: out girl at this point. I know we talked about
Speaker 1: that concubine, the nigger that had a sex club and
Speaker 1: in his little thing, and we talked about the cold.
Speaker 1: At this point, you were hiring women to be wildling
Speaker 1: out girls to be but I didn't see his dick.
Speaker 1: That's who are gorgeous. I mean, all of these baby
Speaker 1: mamas are beautiful. Let let me not even say all
Speaker 1: of his baby mamas are beautiful. The reason, uh, everybody
Speaker 1: in the year looked like me and Wheezy ain't nobody
Speaker 1: because that nigga ain't got one black baby mama. Sorry,
Speaker 1: is that bad? No? Maria carries black. She is, but
Speaker 1: I'm talking about skin tone. I feel like, and so
Speaker 1: all their babies is about to be can I tell you, though,
Speaker 1: I do be judging when I'd be like, damn, you
Speaker 1: only house. Let's you just let me be the spice.
Speaker 1: Let me just let me be the razzle dazzle. You're
Speaker 1: not the razzle dazzle. You're like, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. When they only girls, you're
Speaker 1: not the wrestle dazzle. I don't. I don't like when
Speaker 1: niggas have a fucking light skin girl type. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Oh, I feel objectified. I want I want
Speaker 1: to know you do everything except for like. But I'll
Speaker 1: tell you this though, Nick Cannon, do you think it's
Speaker 1: difficult to like? I think it's got to be hard
Speaker 1: to stop the charm one. His dick is huge, as
Speaker 1: we've seen. Then on top of that, he's rich and
Speaker 1: he's attractive, and it's like he might sell me a
Speaker 1: pipe dream. He might be like, look, I know you're
Speaker 1: tired of doing a podcast. Been six years, bitch, probably tired.
Speaker 1: You gotta fly back and forth. Let me set you
Speaker 1: up with a nice crib a little stipend you wanted
Speaker 1: a family anyway, we know I ain't going away. I
Speaker 1: would be a good baby dady. It's gonna have a whole.
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie. It's giving that that's probably
Speaker 1: what a lot of the women, I mean, they're all
Speaker 1: models and live in like they're all like, they don't
Speaker 1: all live in l A. But they're all like the
Speaker 1: model type. And I know that that's a lot of
Speaker 1: their goals. I'm saying, like, it's not is it really
Speaker 1: that bad of a deal, Like we keep judging, but like, bitch,
Speaker 1: but something just really want to get pregnant and get
Speaker 1: I mean not judging him, I don't really judge the
Speaker 1: women because they're all like a lot of my friends.
Speaker 1: Because these babies have all also been announced within the
Speaker 1: time frame of eighteen months at least the last what
Speaker 1: six And I'm just like, to me, it's just irresponsible.
Speaker 1: What if you are responsible irresponsible in terms of health.
Speaker 1: You're not exclusive with these women. These women are probably
Speaker 1: other women. To me, it's just dirty in the pot
Speaker 1: out here now I'm only playing Devil's advocate where I
Speaker 1: kind of agree, But what if he is, you know,
Speaker 1: and he's been clear. I think it wasn't breakfast c ever.
Speaker 1: Somewhere he was like, Yeah, I take care of all
Speaker 1: my kids. This is the kind of family. But that's
Speaker 1: the problem to me, the idea of taking care of
Speaker 1: your kids because you got money. There's no way for
Speaker 1: you to co parent six different households because he has
Speaker 1: two sets of twins. There's no way realistically. But my
Speaker 1: daddy lived across town. There's no way across state lines
Speaker 1: to realistically be there for all of these children at once.
Speaker 1: And to feel like taking care of a kid is
Speaker 1: just being able to pay the rent and whatever your
Speaker 1: child needs financially, that's not taking care of your kids. Also,
Speaker 1: come to think of it, something I was just thinking
Speaker 1: about two. I would love to know the conversation, like
Speaker 1: all the baby moms are they in a group chat?
Speaker 1: Do they find out that the next bitch is pregnant?
Speaker 1: Like all at the same time? Are there two baby
Speaker 1: mamas that are closer than the other ones? There be
Speaker 1: like b I don't think they know. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: The fact that there was an announcement of a new
Speaker 1: baby literally three weeks starfter the announcement of a death
Speaker 1: of a baby, and then the girl but that's not
Speaker 1: like she had. But then the girl who had just
Speaker 1: lost her baby posted about mourning that during the announcement
Speaker 1: of the new baby, and it didn't give off like
Speaker 1: she knew there was gonna be this elaborate announcement. However,
Speaker 1: the girl who had the baby shower actually said, I
Speaker 1: wanted this to be private, and I hate that my
Speaker 1: announcement was made through the blogs and not by myself.
Speaker 1: So but that's what I'm saying. So it's just don't
Speaker 1: think they all know. And to be fair, as women,
Speaker 1: we are still very primitive. I wouldn't doubt that all
Speaker 1: of them are hoping to be the main or the
Speaker 1: primary or I mean, I don't know, I don't I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously you know. It's not like you know, and I
Speaker 1: gonna anyone do that would happen. What happened to interview?
Speaker 1: She made it seem like I'm the first, I'm done. No,
Speaker 1: she made it seemed like her kids ain't gonna even
Speaker 1: interact with all the other kids. She had. An interview
Speaker 1: was like this was to find the interviews had to
Speaker 1: go through one more. This one is for you. Um
Speaker 1: it is a thruffle of questions since you ain't want
Speaker 1: to talk about no got them threesomes? This few love
Speaker 1: the show. Definitely looking forward to your next tour, now
Speaker 1: you ready. My husband and I have been together for
Speaker 1: a long time and began attending sex club and having
Speaker 1: threesomes about five years ago. Well, in the past eight
Speaker 1: months we have been in more of a relationship with
Speaker 1: one woman. We initially here we go, y'all, this is
Speaker 1: why you gotta join uh Patreon. We initially met in
Speaker 1: the w d group chat and spent a lot of
Speaker 1: time together, whether it's just chilling out for dinner, drinks,
Speaker 1: and of course having some bomb mask sex. Oh you
Speaker 1: might know who they are now. We all came to
Speaker 1: Weezy Sex Sales Live event into the live show in
Speaker 1: d C. We waited too long and missed the opportunity
Speaker 1: to come on stage, and I regretted every single time
Speaker 1: you mentioned the d the d C Show in an
Speaker 1: episode insert face pomp. It's just say you don't know
Speaker 1: how to be on time anyway, Oh my god, Mandy,
Speaker 1: It's okay. Anyway, just say she and I have spent
Speaker 1: nights together one on one. We have hung out just
Speaker 1: the two of us, and she and my husband have
Speaker 1: hung out together for drinks as well, but they have
Speaker 1: never spent the night together one on one. Never in
Speaker 1: a million years what I have thought that we would
Speaker 1: be in this type of relationship. It had always been
Speaker 1: where if we had a threesome, it was just that
Speaker 1: and we kept a pushing. But this woman, it's different.
Speaker 1: We're both really feeling her and I don't even like
Speaker 1: a lot of people. I don't do new friends, and
Speaker 1: we damn sure, I have never spent this much time
Speaker 1: with a woman. She and my husband vibe and connect
Speaker 1: on things they like, and she and I vibe and
Speaker 1: connect on different things we like. She really is the
Speaker 1: perfect fucking unicorn for lack of a better term. Well,
Speaker 1: the bond between me and her seems to be much
Speaker 1: tighter than between her and my husband. She and I
Speaker 1: are so into one another and spend a lot of
Speaker 1: time chatting just the two of us. My husband says
Speaker 1: he has often felt like an outsider except when we're
Speaker 1: all together. I certainly don't want him to feel like this.
Speaker 1: I want us all to be in this together. On
Speaker 1: the same page, he has mentioned that it would be
Speaker 1: it would help him feel more involved if he got
Speaker 1: to know her a little better as well, so that
Speaker 1: he's in the loop and recently started chatting with her
Speaker 1: just to found out more about her and vice versa.
Speaker 1: My husband has recently shared that he is really into
Speaker 1: her too, which is cool. I do want the ship
Speaker 1: to work because we both are really into her and
Speaker 1: she's into both of us as well. We always keep
Speaker 1: open communication between one another and what we call the
Speaker 1: no weird zone. I really like that we're no topic
Speaker 1: is off limits and no judgments. I mean, we talk
Speaker 1: about anything and everything together, so I know this is
Speaker 1: a conversation that we will revisit. My questions are which,
Speaker 1: because they in this trouble space, if this were a throuple,
Speaker 1: what are some different ways we can we can explore
Speaker 1: our relationship deeper? Is it possible to maintain How can
Speaker 1: we explore our relationship so the three of them deeper together,
Speaker 1: because clearly it seems one her answer is trying to
Speaker 1: separate and make each of them closer to her. Deeper
Speaker 1: together is um? I think going away together, stay, staycations together,
Speaker 1: having something on the calendar, whether it be bi weekly, monthly,
Speaker 1: something you only do together. Um, sharing a series together
Speaker 1: like a movie. It sounds really silly. But I think
Speaker 1: in my trouble like it was really cool. We were
Speaker 1: all watching the same thing, group chats of um things
Speaker 1: that have to include each other, like said their names.
Speaker 1: I remember when Beard Bay and Scissors, like they didn't
Speaker 1: have joint FaceTime back then, and when he was traveling.
Speaker 1: I remember he was like, maybe I gotta call you
Speaker 1: back because you know FaceTime, you can't go and hold right,
Speaker 1: I gotta call you back on the phone song and
Speaker 1: so I mean our scissors like I'm sorry, I'll call
Speaker 1: you back, and like we couldn't all talk at the
Speaker 1: same time. Like, so I think having something that makes
Speaker 1: you included, like if we could have used zoom nigga,
Speaker 1: my throat would have been a little bit. You could
Speaker 1: use sky but we didn't really think about it back then.
Speaker 1: But I mean that you could do zoom on phone now.
Speaker 1: I don't think I knew about it then, But no
Speaker 1: having stuff on the calendar, sharing a movie or series together,
Speaker 1: having a cooking night ship like that. Does that person's
Speaker 1: name start with the end? It does? Okay, I know
Speaker 1: who it is, all right? Um. Next question, is it
Speaker 1: possible to maintain separate types of relationship between us as
Speaker 1: well as the main relationship between all three of us
Speaker 1: and no one will excluded. Is it possible, Is it
Speaker 1: possible for them clearly to then maintain separate relationship types
Speaker 1: like you have to do that because if you don't
Speaker 1: do that, then the throutle falls apart. You have Really,
Speaker 1: that's how my throuble fell apart, right Like her and
Speaker 1: I weren't really on good terms even though the three
Speaker 1: of us were, and then it was at the point
Speaker 1: where the three of us were getting along better than
Speaker 1: her and I that him and I were gonna like
Speaker 1: it was just okay. But when you don't have and
Speaker 1: when you don't enrich those personal relationships with each other,
Speaker 1: then no, what are some things we should do to
Speaker 1: be sure to be mindful as we move forward? And
Speaker 1: that was the last question. I don't really not to
Speaker 1: answer that. I mean, I guess it's something that you
Speaker 1: spoke of yourself. I think that no weird zone is awesome,
Speaker 1: and the idea that no topic is off limits and
Speaker 1: there are no judgments. I think one of the things
Speaker 1: jealousy you gotta talk about. I would say that's the
Speaker 1: biggest thing. Jealousy is huge. But you know what, I
Speaker 1: think is one of the bigger emotions that we don't
Speaker 1: really touch on UM, and it's something that I've recently
Speaker 1: discussed with trying to stay away from UM through therapy.
Speaker 1: Is resentment. And so resentment comes from not communicating or
Speaker 1: from wanting something but feeling like you're not in a
Speaker 1: space to ask or or request that from someone else.
Speaker 1: And so when that person doesn't and so when that
Speaker 1: person doesn't act the way you want them to act,
Speaker 1: but they don't notice how you want them to act,
Speaker 1: you start being resentful towards them because they're doing the
Speaker 1: things that you don't want, or they're doing the things
Speaker 1: that you haven't. Actually, I want to build on that
Speaker 1: really quick to UM you were saying or you talked
Speaker 1: about Austin, like how you'll say you need a break
Speaker 1: from your partner. When I was in the throuttle, I
Speaker 1: felt like I had to be a team player, and
Speaker 1: you don't because when I'm not in the mood to
Speaker 1: be out, and then I gotta go out with all
Speaker 1: of us, and then I'm the one who's a bit,
Speaker 1: but y'all are in love now, and I'm the one
Speaker 1: who looks like I'm a bit, and y'all just gonna
Speaker 1: be like in love without me because I'm the one
Speaker 1: who doesn't wank be in this mood. And now it
Speaker 1: looks like I gotta sit across from y'alli is at
Speaker 1: dinner while you in love with each other, fuck you
Speaker 1: and fuck you? Well, then can I ask you a
Speaker 1: question about that? Did you ever feel at times like
Speaker 1: saying no when say two of themed to do something
Speaker 1: but you didn't. Did you you felt like you had
Speaker 1: to go out with them because y'all were all in
Speaker 1: orations of course, like they know, I don't want to
Speaker 1: be the poor sport. I'd be tired and ship Oh bitch,
Speaker 1: I don't even hold you when my no is my
Speaker 1: favorite words She didn't either too, She know is my favorite.
Speaker 1: My friends will come into town, not when I know
Speaker 1: I don't. But a trefle is different because it's not
Speaker 1: just like you feel like you're letting down the people
Speaker 1: that you love, not just like it's it's something about
Speaker 1: it as harder. I can't explain it. Even for sex, nigga,
Speaker 1: I'd be tired. But actually I feel like the only
Speaker 1: time I really remember is when she fell asleep, and
Speaker 1: I remember she was just like, I don't care but
Speaker 1: I wasn't that. I wasn't able to say no like
Speaker 1: she could. So like something I'm saying, I think there
Speaker 1: there is a It's a huge reward to be able
Speaker 1: to say no because you don't want to do like
Speaker 1: once I once I was able to say no. Oh bitch,
Speaker 1: I love saying no, no, saying that it was a
Speaker 1: good thing. So that's all. That's all my saying no
Speaker 1: it was a good thing. Um, anyway, that was really fun.
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Speaker 1: in a whole hotel, bro, I I don't know what
Speaker 1: I have to teach. Did you say, Palo that you
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Speaker 1: almost had a child. Y'all not gonna do this. Let
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Speaker 1: We've got a green screen. Now we have different backgrounds.
Speaker 1: I want to stop edit and see him swivel his dick.
Speaker 1: He's not swivel in his dick in the studio. Don't
Speaker 1: make that a selling point. If you tell me if
Speaker 1: you pay me, oh you'll we're going to have it
Speaker 1: as an ad on. What's your rate? Yes, so, how
Speaker 1: much can I pay to see swivel your dick? You're
Speaker 1: gonna have to personally ask me. I'm personally asking you, right,
Speaker 1: I guess you're publicly asking me. Oh, not even learning
Speaker 1: how to go. Okay, if you want to see Yomi's
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Speaker 1: got Dave come see our amazing staff comp have a
Speaker 1: photo shoot and um what else, Mandy, maybe she'll have
Speaker 1: her feet out. It's on. It's on every other week,
Speaker 1: ye my girl. Um, thank you guys for listening to
Speaker 1: another episode of Four Decisions. That's what it was. I mean,
Speaker 1: a lot of uh kettles and pots. However, I mean
Speaker 1: my take on it was, of course, just the accountability part.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. Yeah, I guess we
Speaker 1: could sit here and sit on the fact that we've
Speaker 1: all fell for niggas that wasn't shipped. But to me,
Speaker 1: at some point you have to be able to see
Speaker 1: who the person is when when they show you them.
Speaker 1: And first off, you were never the only one or
Speaker 1: the main one, me, me, the baby mom and other
Speaker 1: women were also in the picture. Um. And then outside
Speaker 1: of that, he left you while you were pregnant. That's fair,
Speaker 1: but did you ever think that man could degrade you
Speaker 1: on Instagram live and put your baby on there and
Speaker 1: keep you you while you were pregnant And according to
Speaker 1: the family you also did she was already pregnant baby. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you also didn't even show up for the baby shower.
Speaker 1: You didn't show up for me or the baby before
Speaker 1: the baby was here. Baby, So I just feel like
Speaker 1: no to me. Like that's the thing. We all date
Speaker 1: men with the lens of the idea of them or
Speaker 1: the potential of them, without really just acknowledging who the
Speaker 1: funk they are right in front of our eyes. But
Speaker 1: what is she supposed to so like? And here's the
Speaker 1: other thing. I understand. He left her when she was pregnant.
Speaker 1: He didn't show up to the baby shower. Okay, she
Speaker 1: has the baby. He's like, y'all move in with me.
Speaker 1: It's your first kid. I'm gonna help you out. Who's
Speaker 1: gonna say no to that? Your emotions are crazy. I've
Speaker 1: never had a baby. You've never had a baby. We've
Speaker 1: only had friends with babies. Right, they're all fucked up
Speaker 1: with hormones. And you're telling me I'm gonna say no
Speaker 1: to the father of my child inviting me in his
Speaker 1: home and possibly making it work. And granted, she probably
Speaker 1: is in love with him, Like, no, dude, you're gonna
Speaker 1: recap the happy memories. What are you gonna do start
Speaker 1: fucking with another nigga? No, you want to feel that
Speaker 1: community and that fatherhood and that feeling is crazy because girl,
Speaker 1: the first baby mama that you've been back and forth
Speaker 1: fot she prayed it right now again, So you don't
Speaker 1: move in with this thing and he's expect I think
Speaker 1: another child with the woman that she's supposed to do.
Speaker 1: She's supposed to be a grown ass woman. She wasn't
Speaker 1: supposed to sell her home in l A to move
Speaker 1: half across the country where she knows nobody, has no friends.
Speaker 1: She said that that's why I took her so long
Speaker 1: to even leave the house. Like to me, no, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: it's a grown ass woman. This being hasn't showed up
Speaker 1: for you. So for you to put all of all
Speaker 1: of your hope into this man who hasn't been able
Speaker 1: to show up for you since at some point you
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta fault yourself. I think that you can't
Speaker 1: say that when someone has just had a baby. I
Speaker 1: think you could say that for someone to like it's
Speaker 1: just with and they've been in love, like we've said
Speaker 1: this and this is a problem with Danny. She probably
Speaker 1: thought that baby was gonna get them back together. A
Speaker 1: lot of people keep a baby, have a baby and
Speaker 1: hope that it makes a bond stronger or but or
Speaker 1: a man can show up differently. You can't see the
Speaker 1: same way of a girl that just had her first child.
Speaker 1: She's young the same it's the same way, And I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say it, it's the same ship. I said about
Speaker 1: Summer Walker and her Raggedy Ass album. Yeah, you sat
Speaker 1: here and argued with all the other baby mama's thinking
Speaker 1: that you was gonna be different. Danny thought because she
Speaker 1: was a yellow bone, she was gonna be treated different
Speaker 1: than he did. But and and trust me, and I
Speaker 1: saw this tweet from Crystal that I really liked. It
Speaker 1: was like, y'all really got me sticking up for this.
Speaker 1: He want me because I'm yellow bitch, because that's how
Speaker 1: trash the baby is. But you're saying that we know this,
Speaker 1: but he ain't gonna stay blahlah blah. Mandy, she she
Speaker 1: was twenty four, like I think she's twenty five now
Speaker 1: or six? Like do you really like, can you really
Speaker 1: say that? But that's what I'm saying, Like can we
Speaker 1: and by we I mean people that say you should
Speaker 1: know better? Can we really say that if you've already
Speaker 1: been through a shitty situation with a nigga like the
Speaker 1: girl is young. I just don't and I really feel
Speaker 1: like he exploited her. I feel like what he did
Speaker 1: was fucked up. I just don't like using that young
Speaker 1: excuse for someone who's twenty six, because we still have
Speaker 1: niggas in their thirties and forties who's still a like
Speaker 1: to me, No, there's a lot more resources now. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of people telling you what to do, what
Speaker 1: not to do. There's you've sat here and been dragged
Speaker 1: by the internet. You've seen how bad this man has
Speaker 1: treated you over the years. It's been in your face.
Speaker 1: And she literally said she was like, I feel so
Speaker 1: bad that I didn't listen to the internet, the fact
Speaker 1: that you have to be like, damn Internet, you was right.
Speaker 1: Everyone was telling you. You chose to ignore all the
Speaker 1: red flag. We just spoke about how everybody was posting
Speaker 1: the red flag. Bit them ships was flaming hot. They
Speaker 1: wasn't even off off white. They wasn't even hot pink.
Speaker 1: They was read the whole time Like so to me, No,
Speaker 1: at you're eighteen year an adult. You're twenty, you're twenty one,
Speaker 1: you're twenty two, you're twenty five, you're twenty six, you're
Speaker 1: thirty or thirty one. I'm not gonna just call someone
Speaker 1: in their twenties, late twenties, mid twenties young. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's not like she's in high school. I