WEBVTT - EP 259: Heaux Mails & Tales 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:06.120 I guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. 0:00:08.400 --> 0:00:13.160 Welcome to an episode of horrible decisions, Mandy. And if 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:17.680 you're watching matching on accent, are we look like animals? 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:20.360 I'm also matching. You just don't see me. No, you're 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:22.640 not matching us. Guys, you can't just watch stand that 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:25.320 you want to be included, but you can't sit with us. Sorry. Now, 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:30.080 somehow we both decided to wear animal fright today. And 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:32.120 it's the same exact animal and I'm not really sure 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:35.120 what animal, but it's an animal. It's a it's giving 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:44.199 like you know, a liger. It's like it's this is 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:47.240 only tiger because it could be it's just tiger because 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:51.640 it's brown but white. You could be a zebra. Okay, 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:57.440 is also a is it it's giving tiger? I'm not 0:00:57.480 --> 0:01:04.679 sure it's giving classed it's given players clubs, bucking ground. 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:08.279 Then him jump suit that ain't given class bit huh, bitch, 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:12.560 it's capriz. How did bitch? I'm here? Ain't I know? 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:17.360 But like how what was it? Like? Um? Well, I 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:19.520 just with the nail text were there? No, they weren't 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:23.880 because my attorney um rescheduled because bitch. My ship was 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:25.840 during a blizzard. Both of us was like, we're not 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:30.000 going to court tonight. It's fucking snowing. Um, so I 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:32.840 probably I hired a private attorney, uh, and he was 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:36.960 He was able to like reschedule and I went in 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:41.800 and baby he handled everything by the time. By a 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:44.759 time I got in there, it was just like yes, sir, no, sir, 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:47.000 I understand. I forgot what I was supposed to say. 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:49.400 And then I remember y'all said your honor, but I 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:51.200 didn't know if that was like disrespectful or not, so 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:53.480 I just said yes, sir, no sir. The whole time, 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:55.640 I just called him sir because I didn't want to, like, 0:01:56.040 --> 0:01:57.440 you know, I didn't know what I could call him. 0:01:57.480 --> 0:01:59.680 I've never been in there, so even the whole time, 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:03.960 like my attorney is like explaining the proceedings and what 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:06.440 my options are, I was just like, I just don't 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:08.480 want a criminal record. Was it giving people's court? What 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:11.400 was it giving? Did you get to watch other people's 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:13.480 like trials and ship? That'd be fine? Well, first off, 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:17.160 I didn't realize that this was taking place where bookings is, 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:20.919 and so I didn't notice until later that as people 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:23.919 were leaving out from day court that they were getting released. 0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:27.200 And I noticed when I started looking down and no 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:30.680 one had their shoelaces, and I was like, oh, y'all 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.480 are just getting out of jail. So and then, of 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:37.320 course this is a different one. I was at a precinct. 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:40.440 I was just in the holding cell. This was where 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:43.320 they was booked, waiting on arrangements to see the judge. 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:46.600 That's like I didn't Yeah, that's what I got booked 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:48.680 on a weekend. Yeah, I didn't have to see a judge. 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:50.840 I didn't have to wait for a judge. That's why. 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:52.200 So I had a d A T, which is a 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:55.040 disk appearance ticket, which allowed me to go home that 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:58.160 that same day. Now, if you're booked and you got 0:02:58.240 --> 0:02:59.720 to see a judge that day, you just gotta wait. 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:02.480 I ran into a girl. She was locked up at 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:05.320 three am and got out. Bitch, when I was going 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:08.880 did they look like they have been in jail all night? Well, 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:11.200 this girl had on pajamas and I said, oh, honey, 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:13.680 did you need she thought somebody? No, she saw her 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:17.720 daddy Carr, and her daddy uh called the cops. I said, bit, 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:24.560 you better never thought your daddy again. I set O Latina. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:28.720 What do you have to say for them? But I 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:32.720 mean it was I'm just glad that it's over. Oh. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:36.640 I had a few options, UM and I decided to 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:39.600 go with the option where I took a lower plate. 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:43.560 So I ended up just taking disorderly conduct time served 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:50.320 and that allows the case to a be closed already sealed, 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:52.280 and I don't have a criminal record. I just have 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:54.760 a violation, but it doesn't show up in the background check, 0:03:55.040 --> 0:03:56.760 and that's the thing I could have got to dismissed. 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:58.880 But they do like this thing where it's a journed 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:01.000 for six months, so you pretty much have to stay 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:02.400 out of trouble for six months and then it will 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:04.840 be dismissed. You didn't have faith in that. Well, my 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:07.360 problem is I have a lot of things going on 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:10.440 and background checks are gonna have to be ran, and 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.760 in background checks it would show up as an open 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:15.520 criminal case and I didn't want that to be I 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:18.960 didn't want that to shine. Remember when UM, I was 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:22.159 doing this show for Viacom and you had to drive 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:25.120 around with people and they were like, oh, we just 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.400 gotta do a check on your license and stuff. I 0:04:27.440 --> 0:04:28.840 was like, okay, well someone will have to drive me 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:30.680 around because you're not gonna find that now. Do I 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:33.839 still drive? Yeah, well, we know you have a Mexican license, 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:37.159 so she at the time, I didn't have my Mexican license, 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:39.360 but she was like, okay, we'll figure out because you 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:42.039 can have a co host anyway. Then I think, um 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:45.240 for Fuse, I had a background check and it was 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.400 funny because I was like, y'all know all my sins, right, 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:48.600 and they were like, oh, we just want to make 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:50.680 sure you can't go nobody. I was like, okay, but 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:54.479 we had a large issue with subs. We had some 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:56.200 subs that were gonna be on the show that didn't 0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:59.359 want their ship ran and Fuse was like, oh, absolutely not, 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.240 We're not I can let you do all that. I mean, 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:03.039 of course not, because I mean we see a lot 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:04.960 of things now. I mean she y'all know, I love 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:10.480 Real Housewives of Atlanta, uh, Salt Lake City, New York, Potomac, 0:05:10.600 --> 0:05:14.159 all the housewives, and bitch one of them had a 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:17.760 whole bunch of racist tweets on her face and now 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:21.919 got fired just from tweets. Were tweets were insane and 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:25.200 you know what, no sympathy because I also found a 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:28.680 black nail text, so I'm super hype. I'm going to 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:31.440 her on Friday, so I'm excited because it the girl 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:35.000 in Williamsburg. No, here's the thing. I love, y'all black 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:37.880 nail text. But goddamn, y'all think I'm supposed to know 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:39.680 that I need a new set a month and a 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:44.120 half from now. Then bit just be booked out. I'm like, bro, y'all, 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:46.240 let y'all open your calendars one day and the ship 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:47.680 be filled. I don't know what I'm gonna need my 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:50.120 nails done, bit I am a busy person. So and 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:53.000 then a lot of black nail texts also hands only 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:55.280 the girl I'm going to. So now I still gotta 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:58.919 find somebody to do my toes. So yeah, but do 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.960 you does no? But I do jail polishing petties, just 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.200 a lot of like the nail takes to do all 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:07.720 the design stuff. They'd be like because my ship grows 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:09.280 so fast, the cuticle, so I have to get them 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:13.760 done everything. Speaking of that, you know, suddenly after I 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:15.600 did my episode my feet out, now many just want 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:17.560 to do this all the time. Yet are both out 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:19.960 this time around, and I just did it first. I 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:21.760 was the first rapper to have their feet out on 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:26.400 horrible to say if you don't, was I not? No, 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:29.400 I was the first who was it was giving me 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:31.400 And then the next week man he was like, I 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:35.120 only had my toes out too. Well. No, Also, I 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:37.120 bought this outfit and I have no clue what the 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:40.800 shoes I would wear anyway, So that's what black look at. 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:43.559 Why do you keep having this happen? Is it? Matt? 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:47.680 It's uh lip liner would just chapstick, and it's a chapstick, 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:51.920 a lip liner with chapstick. Love to see how much 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:53.880 effort you put in. That is a lot of effort 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:56.440 because I don't like I like the own bray effect. 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:58.599 So I just do the liner and then once I 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:01.200 put the chapstick, then I go like this. And when 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:03.080 I kiss my nigga, don't be all over the place. 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:05.520 It comes way off. If would love to give I'm 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:09.840 not pregnant announcement, whoop whoop, um, I am not baby 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:15.280 mama numbers sinko fun times which I started bleeding the 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:17.280 day I got on a plane back to New York 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:20.160 and I said yes, I said, I mean, technically you 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:24.280 could still be pregnant and have your period Okay, the 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:26.600 blood is giving miscarriage as heavy as it is. I 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:28.960 said that, my god, can you not it's the thing 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:33.560 as a heavy if it was morning. Jesus, I can't 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:36.320 see anything on here. I think a portion is way. 0:07:36.360 --> 0:07:39.480 I said that they get a picture of the pad 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:43.840 on the airplane. You go back, question mark. I said, 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:45.920 you know what this is, and I want you to 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:47.520 act like you know what it is. He goes, O, 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.840 that's a tampon. You don't know what it is. I mean, 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:53.400 the fuck? You know how many times I've seen a 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:56.080 tampon in my life. You don't know what it looks like. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:57.280 I know what it looks like. You know how many 0:07:57.280 --> 0:08:01.520 times I've seen one? Seven? Damn? How old is that? Nigga? 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:04.640 You don't be seeing tampon? No? What what? I don't 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:06.960 use them? You never lived with a bit? No, he 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:11.240 got you. First of all, he has four baby mamas. 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:14.240 He definitely seen the tampa. He's seen the tampon, clearly, 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:18.920 not after you know, four baby mamas, four different kids. Anyway, 0:08:19.160 --> 0:08:21.960 y'all right, Clearly there was no announcement that appearing game 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:27.080 after you don't think about it. Actually, that's a good point. Um. 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:30.320 Speaking of the Lambeau. A few things just off the 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:32.160 top of I thought were really funny that have happened 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:34.920 since I talked about the Plan B story. Um whether 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:38.000 I gave too much detail or too much detail about 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:40.360 Baby Mamas or the car that Nickel texted me and 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:42.280 said I'm getting a new car and I was like, oh, 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:43.880 I thought you're gonna get one in Atlantic because he 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:45.560 was like he likes to get him hooked up there 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:49.319 or whatever, and he's like, Nigga, people listen to Horrible 0:08:49.360 --> 0:08:52.160 Listen Like he basically was like, people be shocked that 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:54.120 people actually listen to this show. I think it's just 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:57.400 because when you're not a podcast listener, you don't understand 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:01.439 the consumer, which I get. But anyway, he texted me 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:03.319 this ship like all of these holes listen to podcasts 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:05.000 and then were sitting down, love them all them. I 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:06.760 told you when I broke up with my nigga, I 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:09.880 tried to dipple back with mother seven. He said, what 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:13.360 I thought, you hated me. You need more podcast content 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:16.640 and I was like, well, fun, I hit you on accident. 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:19.600 My bad, sorry, and then was like would that mouse 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:22.360 still do Yeah. I'm like, nig because I'll be talking 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.920 about you. No, I don't need more podcast content. I 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:26.640 just needed to get my rocks off. But I'll say, well, 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.760 I do so a few things off the top. I 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:31.079 was like, what do you want me to like stop 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:32.439 talking about it or whatever, and he was like, no, 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:34.920 I ain't gonna bit so. Um. One of his baby 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:37.199 mamas doesn't really listen anymore, but she says that when 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:41.120 she heard like about him, she said it sounded like 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:44.160 him and she knew it from the car and she 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:48.640 texted him and said, surprised it's not Nandy, because I 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:52.400 guess you're his type. He always talks about how like 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:55.800 he's gonna support me keeping his way because he wants 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:59.360 me to have a fat ass. So I can't understand 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:02.640 why she thought he would want a Mandy because it's 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:07.480 giving little booty here, but it's growing. Um. Anyway, she 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:12.120 loves horrible decisions. Um. I forgot what she does in Atlanta. 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:13.280 But I was like, oh, they still have you on 0:10:13.320 --> 0:10:15.079 the shot. Let's talk about the deck tails, like you 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:16.440 know what I'm saying. It would be fun. I was like, 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:18.560 tell her and he was like, no, Um. The other 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:21.439 thing he said a bit she used to fun listens 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:24.040 and was like, why do you let her say, yo, 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.160 kind Nane, there's gonna be niggas looking for you. Bit 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:30.080 shut up, um. But anyway, he's gonna get another car now, 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.960 because he said he really feels like he said he 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:36.520 was at the gas station. This was dramatic. But he's like, 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:38.760 these black girls are looking at me, and I think 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:40.520 it's because they saw my car and they know him. 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:44.880 In l there is more niggas. Dog they're looking at 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:46.920 your but not the only nigga with a lambeau. Bro, 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:49.520 you can you win acting like he the only nigga 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:51.640 in the whole U s of Ay with a goddamn lambeaux. 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:53.960 I think he just feels polarized. I said, they are 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:55.440 looking at you, and he was like, how you know? 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:57.280 I said, they're looking. If you're looking at you, nigga, 0:10:57.320 --> 0:11:01.199 you're fine. You're fucking fine with a ambo. They're looking 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:03.840 at your car. I mean they're probably looking at you 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:06.120 to holliege you, not because they did. Oh my god, 0:11:06.360 --> 0:11:08.520 I heard about a black man who drives a lambo 0:11:08.760 --> 0:11:10.720 in l A. I wonder if this is who Weasy 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:14.520 is sucking the thought the fact that that's where he thinks, 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:17.040 or you think or y'all. Both of you gotta remember though, 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:19.600 when the nigga been into jail, they think everybody looking 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:22.400 at Adam. So then we go out. We go to 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:25.360 this place downtown. Is it called Continental Club? I think 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:26.960 it is. That's where I was supposed to go after 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:28.719 Our Lives show. That's where I got the table I 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:31.800 fun with Continent the club. So I go, bitch, not 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:35.080 too bitches coming up talking about because they could let 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:37.360 you valet outside. But she was with him, right, yeah, 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:40.200 they don't even talk to me, Mandy. They went straight 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:42.800 to him. He was loving it, and then he was like, 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:50.160 I understand you. I mean, so that's a very valid point. 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:52.920 Now we know that b d D wasn't into the lifestyle, 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:56.280 but is that something that Lambo's into? First of all, 0:11:56.880 --> 0:11:58.840 I'm not about to have three sims with a naked 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:06.240 that I just started sucking with you almost, You're right, 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:07.640 you know what I mean? You almost got a baby 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:12.800 into this world week. I not almost you talking about 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:14.760 you can't bring another bitch into the bedroom like that's 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:21.320 not your emo. The bands of the live shows, I 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:23.720 think when you brought your old bay up on stage, 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:26.200 somebody may have asked, y'all looking for somebody to fo 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:29.720 the night. Bro everybody knows, was like, yo, I have 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:31.800 never He was like them girls were going crazy. He said, 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:33.199 they already knew who I was before I got to 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:35.920 want to stay like they were wilding out. Is that 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:38.480 his sister was there, old Bay sister. He was like, 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:39.719 she went to the green room because she was like, 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:42.000 I'm not she was tired of it. Her son was there. 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:45.880 That's what I'm saying. So me and Eddon's point exactly, 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:48.400 are you not going to bring other women into the 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:50.439 room with this nigga, especially if it's dick? Is that good? 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:52.880 You don't want to share it? I'm just not in 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:54.720 the mood for that right now. And also like I 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:56.360 feel like so many people want to have a three 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:57.760 so with me because they know I'm into it, and 0:12:57.800 --> 0:12:59.360 it's just like, calm down, I'll tell you, you you know what, 0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:03.400 I'd be really honest with you. I like when I 0:13:03.440 --> 0:13:06.439 go out, I really like having girlfriends just for the night. 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:09.960 And for whatever reason, I had a girl in Orlando, 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:12.640 a girl in d C. I have and they've all 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:14.280 hit me like the next day, let me know when 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:17.000 I can come to New York. Offered to fly themselves 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:19.640 here and everything, and I'd just be like, all right, well, 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:22.439 it was a fun night. But I don't I know, 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:25.480 I don't know how to go beyond that, especially, but 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:27.880 I also just don't want to waste a girl's time. 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:32.240 I guess no, that's fair because like we know that 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:34.560 women get emotional. This they do and babe, I got 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:37.560 the time, but not pussy. I just don't want. I 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:39.320 feel like I would have wanted pussy that night, Like 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:41.240 I'll make out with you that night and if you 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:43.120 happen to come to my room at my house, we're 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:45.719 gonna fuck, but then I probably won't talk to you 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:48.240 anymore after that, or I'll funk you again if we 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:51.240 go out, make out, get drunk, and come back. Girls 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:54.640 are down for just a lot of I have not 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:58.400 met like they Okay, I don't know. And see the 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:00.560 girl that I made out with in Norland, though she 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:03.280 was would have stud so I thought that was her girlfriend, 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:05.480 and you know, so I was just playing with both 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:07.400 of them. The next day she said let me know 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:09.400 and I'll come up to New York. Hey, Babe, like 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:10.680 I had so much fun. Lest sign I was like, 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:12.440 was that not your girl? No? Girl? That was just 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:14.560 my home girl. I said, oh, because it was given. 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:19.040 It was given. It was giving, y'all. But I guess not. 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:23.400 You look hell again. But I love it. I like, 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:26.360 I know what it is. It's the glasses too, but 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:31.400 that no, not to have the glasses give get Yeah, 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:36.320 is this or a snap Are you trying to bro? 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:39.160 She has she has a fitted bro. That is it's 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:43.840 definitely the fitted is given, is given. Women don't don't 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:45.320 wear it when I'm having a bad hair day or 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:48.720 I have a wig on. You wear a dad cap, 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:50.760 or you wear a bucket, or you wear a snap back. 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:53.960 This is a fitted cap. Bro. Huh, you don't know 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:55.360 what if fit it is? I no, yeah, I do. 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:58.760 I'm thinking about you know what I mean? Hat no 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:01.240 hat saying all the same, Oh, this is a fitted bro. 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:03.000 I said. This is like back when I was in 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:05.000 middle school and I was like, oh the nigga'm dating, 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:06.760 I'm fitned buy him and fitted. But then you had 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:10.120 to sneak and try to realize his hat size. It's like, 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:13.200 damn iss, he's six and three quarters and he's seven 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:15.440 and one four. It's like them ships a size. Bro. 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:17.440 You gotta know that you are on the side of 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:19.760 your nigga head. And then don't let that nigga have dredgs. 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:21.440 You may as well just get that nigga eight do 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:25.240 they have like eights rights big? That's all I know. 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:30.000 That nigga umme yea his hat to the side because 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:32.440 the dreads too big. And I just that's what I'm saying. 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:35.120 You gotta get a nigga. Yeah, but that's the hardest 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:37.640 thing ever buying a nigga fitting who got dredgs, because 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:39.240 you know that used to be my type. I used 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:42.560 to have a dreg head radar growing up. We will 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:45.320 walk through the mall and I just looked behind me 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:49.720 and nigga with dreads. I turned down the motherfucking hall 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:53.000 go to another store. Nigga with dress I had a 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:57.120 draghead radar. I used to love them. I still gold. 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:00.520 My boyfriend in high school had permanence. I mean, I 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:04.000 grew up in Florida pan permanence. That's the word we're 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:06.000 talking about dress though. Yeah, but I'm sorry, I just 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.360 said I liked him with goals too. He had promout goals. 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:12.920 I don't yeah what you mean down his back, bitch, 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:16.840 and he drove a motherfucking um what was his car? 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:19.520 I just know it had to spinning rims and it 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:23.040 was loud, so everyone knew when he was coming to school. 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:25.760 He was a junior. I was a freshman. Good shout 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:30.080 out to dre at Evans. No, that was okrag was 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:34.560 get it right? Uh? Well, what I was I meant 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:36.720 to say was all y'all are saying you love any stories, 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:39.040 but sna gonna be in Atlanta for a little bit 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:40.680 because he love to be his kids. I'm like, you're 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:42.320 getting that. You are you getting back with the bitch, 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:44.760 just tell me but whatever. He's like, no, you can 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:50.960 come to Atlanta. And I was like, oh, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.040 I don't need to be I'm okay, that's a commitment. 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:56.160 Oh the baby mama, the kid. I thought you met 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:58.320 the kids. I'm about to say that's that's not really 0:16:58.320 --> 0:17:01.920 a commitment meeting kids. I thought, no, the baby mama cool. 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:04.160 I told you. I don't know who. I'm not think 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:07.160 she's sharing an episode. She works at a place in Atlanta. Damn, 0:17:07.200 --> 0:17:09.720 I wonder no, no, no, because you lived there for 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:11.840 a minute. But like apparently she's been like a bartender 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:13.720 out in there for a while. It's giving. She used 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:15.480 to strip because he didn't want to tell me how 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:17.080 he met her. But the nick loves strip clubs. But 0:17:17.119 --> 0:17:20.280 I was like, but um, he was like, now she'd 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.200 be out and ship like she coolest. But he wants 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:23.560 to move there to be closer to his kids and 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:26.919 get a big house. I understand. Am I coming there? No? 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:29.400 I love Atlanta? I said you can, you can come back. 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:32.760 Tell leeve your card that you can do. Oh my god. 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:34.399 So I don't know. Maybe I'll need to get a 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:36.919 new boo. No more Plan B stories, I'm done. That 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:38.760 was my last one for the year, I would hope. 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:40.359 So I don't want you to be popping him like that, 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:44.040 I'm done, no more plan. But when I tell you 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:47.520 no more plan, I'm not gonna lie, you look like 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:51.080 you're trying to convince yourself this like I'm sorry but nothing. 0:17:51.119 --> 0:17:53.879 If y'all are watching on YouTube, it looks like she 0:17:53.880 --> 0:17:56.280 she wants to believe herself while saying she's not gonna 0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:57.520 take a Plan B for the rest of the year. 0:17:57.640 --> 0:17:59.600 But she just don't know. You know how how it 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:01.840 works to go back when I had to, like want 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:03.960 you funk raw, you don't go back the condom out 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:06.680 and he looked at me like, bitch you're talking about 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:10.520 I'm like like, huh, I'm like, nigga, absolutely not. And 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:12.800 he was like, you in on your ovulation no more. 0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:15.960 And I'm like, it doesn't matter if I'm on the opulation, nigga, 0:18:16.240 --> 0:18:19.040 no bro, do you know how uncomfortable it is to 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:22.399 get your fucking I hate STD testing Like I do 0:18:22.480 --> 0:18:24.439 it because I have to, but I hate it. I 0:18:24.480 --> 0:18:27.280 hate it so much. Oh and I got so much anxiety, 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:31.000 and I'm such a hole. I just I'm just sure 0:18:31.000 --> 0:18:33.199 they're gonna come back and say something I was so 0:18:33.880 --> 0:18:36.560 they're not be worried. I'm like i'd be surprised when 0:18:36.560 --> 0:18:40.800 they're like, yeah, everything's dorrible. I'd be like, yes, what 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:43.960 great decision it is, But but you gotta go. Like 0:18:44.040 --> 0:18:45.560 and I go to the sex club, and mind you, 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:47.760 that's the thing too, Like I get oral, like I 0:18:47.880 --> 0:18:51.840 use condoms well, even on toys and stuff, but my 0:18:51.920 --> 0:18:53.880 nigga uses condoms when we go to the sex club, 0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:58.399 but never with him. And honestly, I'm one of those 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:00.440 like if he is sucking someone else, don't want to 0:19:00.440 --> 0:19:02.920 know about it. So I just get tested just because 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:04.959 And I'd be like, I'll be waiting, I think just 0:19:05.040 --> 0:19:07.320 because it's definitely because you have to. But you have to, 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:10.800 you guys, trust these names. I went to a guy 0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:14.120 on Beverly Drive. I wish I could give you their name. 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:15.960 It was a man, but it was like all black 0:19:16.000 --> 0:19:18.600 staff except for the kind of colleges which I didn't know. 0:19:18.640 --> 0:19:21.200 His last name is Johnson. I thought it was giving um, 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:24.119 but no um. And when I put my feet in 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:26.359 the stirrups, the first thing out of my mouth. He 0:19:26.359 --> 0:19:28.480 doesn't even ask me a question. You know, when you're 0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:31.800 like scared, you of your parents need to start telling 0:19:31.800 --> 0:19:34.000 the truth or whatever. I put my feet up, I 0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:35.399 was like, I just started to sleeping with somebody. But 0:19:35.440 --> 0:19:36.720 I'm just sleeping with somebody else, and I just want 0:19:36.720 --> 0:19:38.040 to make sure that things there's tobe be good. Look, 0:19:38.040 --> 0:19:39.560 but don't go to d because I'm a little nervous 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:41.879 hoping I'm not pregnant. If I am pregnant, poke around 0:19:41.880 --> 0:19:44.840 some more because I don't want it. I mean, by 0:19:44.840 --> 0:19:46.840 the way, and I know, guy knows can be like 0:19:47.200 --> 0:19:51.000 pretty expensive, um, especially if you have to go through insurance. 0:19:51.040 --> 0:19:54.720 If you don't have insurance, urgent cares do STD testing 0:19:54.960 --> 0:19:59.119 like CD M D gives you everything like they do everything. 0:19:59.160 --> 0:20:04.719 I think even is not affordable. Free clinics exist, Orlando. 0:20:04.760 --> 0:20:08.119 I always shout out that lgbt Q center. All they 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:09.520 make you do is pissing the cup. You can get 0:20:09.600 --> 0:20:11.760 the theatrics if you want to. But I love this 0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:14.679 pan cup and good what's the theatrics because like you know, 0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:19.000 the theatrics that could be blood like all that wish 0:20:19.080 --> 0:20:21.920 is what I had to make sure um and then 0:20:22.080 --> 0:20:25.159 after I got the test, obviously and still used condoms. 0:20:25.520 --> 0:20:27.880 Not the most famous nigga line and Mandy, I would 0:20:27.920 --> 0:20:30.600 like you to say it for me. Oh, you ain't 0:20:30.600 --> 0:20:34.000 got nothing. I ain't got nothing. We're good. There we go. 0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:36.119 I don't understand you gotta use the ship. Why we 0:20:36.160 --> 0:20:38.080 gotta use the ship? You just got? We ain't got ship. 0:20:38.840 --> 0:20:44.760 That's why, no, nigga, there is like incubation periods of 0:20:44.760 --> 0:20:47.080 the ship. You could have just sucked the bitch during 0:20:47.080 --> 0:20:49.520 the break that I went through and got tested and 0:20:49.560 --> 0:20:52.360 waited for my results and now you could about now 0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:59.040 for maybe okay, wait for you would have been singing. 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:02.480 I believe he's fucking all over them to say they're 0:21:02.520 --> 0:21:05.920 not you. I know you got a good name. Five 0:21:06.760 --> 0:21:10.560 you know what you just actually y'all. That's how we're 0:21:10.560 --> 0:21:15.400 gonna start the homemail because we have one about this, 0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:23.919 so guys, you don't even read it. He's so this week, 0:21:24.160 --> 0:21:27.280 this week's episode, Weezy and I are going to be 0:21:27.359 --> 0:21:32.040 giving some advice for homemail. Um, just because of time constraints, 0:21:32.119 --> 0:21:34.800 we have missed quite a few. All of these were 0:21:34.840 --> 0:21:37.639 sent in in January, so these are the most up 0:21:37.680 --> 0:21:39.640 to date ones. Yeah, I found like five or six 0:21:39.640 --> 0:21:42.840 of them. UM, so super super super excited. I just 0:21:42.920 --> 0:21:45.880 forwarded them as well to the Horrible Decisions email. By 0:21:45.960 --> 0:21:50.480 the way, UM, please please please send your homemails or 0:21:50.640 --> 0:21:55.520 hotels too, Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com if you 0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:59.160 can label it homemail so that we could be sure 0:21:59.200 --> 0:22:01.359 to flag and start so that we can read it 0:22:01.400 --> 0:22:04.440 and give you advice on a future episode and this 0:22:04.480 --> 0:22:07.720 one that we're starting with. I can't stop my baby dadds. 0:22:07.720 --> 0:22:12.280 I can't stop sucking my baby daddy. Didn't we read this? Now? 0:22:12.359 --> 0:22:15.639 This was just since in Oh maybe I read it. 0:22:15.880 --> 0:22:21.960 Maybe I sent it to him. Yeah, no, yeah, this 0:22:21.960 --> 0:22:24.840 this is just that. Then like last week she said 0:22:24.920 --> 0:22:29.480 he got three more kids. Well, let's get into it. So, guys, 0:22:29.520 --> 0:22:32.320 hope you enjoyed this week's episode of Nothing but Homemail 0:22:32.440 --> 0:22:35.800 and Hotels. So hey, y'all, I've been in a ten 0:22:35.880 --> 0:22:41.719 year situation ship with my baby daddy that's already one 0:22:41.760 --> 0:22:45.280 of the kids. For a long time, he would make 0:22:45.280 --> 0:22:47.679 me feel like a hope for hooking up with other people, 0:22:47.800 --> 0:22:50.680 even though he was doing the same thing we've never 0:22:50.720 --> 0:22:53.440 been to being a mother. Having said, listen, this is listen. 0:22:53.440 --> 0:22:55.199 These homemails ain't short, let me get through them. So 0:22:55.240 --> 0:22:57.840 we didn't dis set these holes. I need to add 0:22:57.920 --> 0:23:00.479 some color. So for a long time, you would make 0:23:00.480 --> 0:23:02.520 me feel like a hope for hooking up with other people, 0:23:02.640 --> 0:23:05.360 even though he was doing the same thing we've never 0:23:05.400 --> 0:23:08.199 been in a public relationship. And as an impact, I 0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:11.000 feel like I was being mind fucked by his narcissistic 0:23:11.040 --> 0:23:15.680 and manipulative ways. Your podcast really helped me break out 0:23:15.720 --> 0:23:17.880 of that and I can say that I'm honestly really 0:23:17.880 --> 0:23:20.240 happy and living in my truth. Thank you guys for 0:23:20.280 --> 0:23:23.080 being so transparent with us. My story today is that 0:23:23.119 --> 0:23:25.320 I moved out of my hometown almost three years ago, 0:23:25.760 --> 0:23:28.639 and my baby daddy flies in on certain schedules, and 0:23:28.680 --> 0:23:30.840 that's how we co parent while we live in different states. 0:23:31.320 --> 0:23:33.359 I'm not gonna lie. I still love him, and we 0:23:33.400 --> 0:23:37.120 slip up sometimes by having sex. He has always been 0:23:37.119 --> 0:23:39.240 the guy to cheat on his girlfriends, which never really 0:23:39.280 --> 0:23:42.399 fazes me because I was always single. Things are a 0:23:42.440 --> 0:23:45.200 little different. Things are a little different now though. I've 0:23:45.240 --> 0:23:47.760 been seeing a new guy who also lives in my hometown, 0:23:48.200 --> 0:23:51.520 and and he's already flying me out to a resort 0:23:51.600 --> 0:23:55.679 in the Caribbean on vacation or a second day. He 0:23:55.800 --> 0:23:58.840 seems like everything I could ever ask for, but he's 0:23:58.920 --> 0:24:02.240 kind of lacking in the looks department. I'm going to 0:24:02.280 --> 0:24:05.359 give it Boks and the looks department vation. I'm going 0:24:05.440 --> 0:24:07.760 to give him a try. But I'm nervous that if 0:24:07.800 --> 0:24:10.639 I fuck him during the vacation, during the vacation and 0:24:10.680 --> 0:24:13.040 I don't like it, I may still end up running 0:24:13.080 --> 0:24:15.600 back to my baby daddy for sex. I don't want 0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:18.240 to make everything about looks and sex, but those things 0:24:18.280 --> 0:24:21.160 are kind of important. Although we are more open now 0:24:21.200 --> 0:24:24.720 about our personal lives, I'm constantly fighting myself to create 0:24:24.840 --> 0:24:27.919 healthy boundaries with my baby daddy. It's like my pussy 0:24:27.960 --> 0:24:30.000 has a mind of her own. What would you guys 0:24:30.080 --> 0:24:33.080 do if y'all were in my position? X O x 0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:38.199 ope not adding with that first of all, on the 0:24:38.280 --> 0:24:41.600 last day, Oh, on the on vacation, Yeah, because why 0:24:41.600 --> 0:24:43.080 would you do it on the first day. Now you 0:24:43.080 --> 0:24:45.560 gotta stay on vacation with this guy who has wagons. 0:24:45.560 --> 0:24:46.959 I'm not gonna want no more. He gonna know if 0:24:46.920 --> 0:24:52.520 you but to me, if looks Here's the thing, ladies, 0:24:52.840 --> 0:24:57.080 we do all have our non negotiables. You just put 0:24:57.240 --> 0:25:01.840 looks in sex seemingly very high onto your list. I 0:25:01.840 --> 0:25:04.840 don't know why his. Ladies, we try to convince ourselves 0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:08.239 that sex with someone else makes sense when we know 0:25:08.320 --> 0:25:10.480 already that they're not checking off the boxes that are 0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:13.679 high on our list. It's like you're gonna It's like 0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:16.760 you're dating with potential. I hate fucking and dating with 0:25:16.920 --> 0:25:20.320 potential if you already know he's not a looker, and 0:25:20.400 --> 0:25:22.120 now you're worried that if the sex isn't good, you're 0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:24.120 gonna go back to sucking your baby daddy. I say, 0:25:24.160 --> 0:25:27.280 go to therapy first. But also before you create a 0:25:27.280 --> 0:25:29.840 healthy relationship with anyone else, you need to create the 0:25:29.840 --> 0:25:33.240 boundaries for yourself with your baby daddy before you even 0:25:33.280 --> 0:25:35.639 try to involve anyone else, because it seems like the 0:25:35.640 --> 0:25:37.800 fact that you're even calling in a situation ship but 0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:40.960 you've been single forever. I don't believe that you fully 0:25:40.960 --> 0:25:46.000 identify as single because you keep sucking your baby daddy. Daddy. Yeah, 0:25:46.000 --> 0:25:49.479 you keep lapsing into the baby daddy. What are your thoughts? 0:25:49.720 --> 0:25:51.639 What would you do to me? I think she need 0:25:51.720 --> 0:25:53.800 therapy and she doesn't need to be trying to date 0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:55.560 right now without getting over that and not that. I 0:25:55.560 --> 0:25:57.160 feel like this is the I'm trying to like take 0:25:57.200 --> 0:25:59.560 myself out of in b biased. I feel like one 0:25:59.560 --> 0:26:01.960 baby dad, these and baby mamas get together, Like there's 0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:05.040 a connection that obviously you have that nobody else can recreate. Right, 0:26:05.040 --> 0:26:07.560 you guys made a kid together. It's super special. You're 0:26:07.560 --> 0:26:09.359 always gonna feel attached to this person. I don't think 0:26:09.359 --> 0:26:11.119 there's anything wrong with fucking your baby daddy or your 0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:13.120 baby mama as long as you know what I mean, Like, 0:26:13.359 --> 0:26:17.320 I really don't know. As long as you guys um um. 0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:20.480 I like, even if even if they're single, I mean 0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:23.399 to me, it just creates those uh to me, it 0:26:23.440 --> 0:26:26.600 creates a lingering effect. It creates a long term effect, 0:26:26.960 --> 0:26:29.800 and I think that a lot of women do, especially 0:26:29.840 --> 0:26:31.960 if you create a life with someone, there's still that 0:26:32.040 --> 0:26:34.000 inkling in the back of many women said not all, 0:26:34.960 --> 0:26:38.120 but but that you would like to have that family together. 0:26:38.560 --> 0:26:41.280 And so I think that it has a negative long 0:26:41.400 --> 0:26:44.560 term effect for you to keep jumping back into something 0:26:44.880 --> 0:26:47.720 that clearly didn't work. You're not with the man, he 0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:50.879 still shows up to co parent. I believe in drawing boundaries, 0:26:51.119 --> 0:26:53.720 but that's also what I saw growing up. My mom 0:26:53.800 --> 0:26:56.680 was very adamant in drawing the boundary with my daddy, 0:26:56.680 --> 0:26:59.639 and we even just had the conversation yesterday, like my 0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:02.280 dad used to be so disrespectful when my mom even 0:27:02.320 --> 0:27:04.800 had boyfriends living with us. My daddy will pop up 0:27:04.800 --> 0:27:07.040 and just walk in the house. And it took a 0:27:07.080 --> 0:27:10.000 long time for her to draw those boundaries where I 0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:12.400 don't care that you my baby daddy, respect the other 0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:14.720 man that's in this house now. And so to me, no, 0:27:15.200 --> 0:27:18.919 to me removing sex, removing even the lingering idea that 0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:22.160 this could be something, or you have that ownership over 0:27:22.240 --> 0:27:25.680 me because we have kids. So if you feel like 0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:28.200 it's like being safe, right, like I've gone through really 0:27:28.200 --> 0:27:30.560 long periods without sex and if I had somebody I 0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:32.679 felt safe having sex with, and it just happened to 0:27:32.680 --> 0:27:36.840 be my baby daddy. Fine. Um. Now moreover on the 0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:41.080 vacation thing, very since just easy answer for me. I 0:27:41.119 --> 0:27:42.760 would not go away with someone that I wasn't going 0:27:42.800 --> 0:27:45.600 to have sex with or or I was scared to funk, 0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:47.200 or I felt like I'd have to be avoid fucking. 0:27:47.240 --> 0:27:50.200 Like I did go on a vacation with a sugar daddy, 0:27:50.640 --> 0:27:53.720 and I remember before I got on that plane. I 0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:55.840 don't know if it's Binny or Christopher that I talked 0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:58.399 to about it, I don't know, but I just remember 0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:00.359 like I was like, oh my god, what if I 0:28:00.359 --> 0:28:03.879 have sex? And it was just like, well, flying you 0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:06.360 out for well know, because I wasn't sleeping with him, 0:28:06.520 --> 0:28:09.200 right like not, then that's why he gave you a vacation. 0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:11.359 Oh he's gonna give me the pussy. I don't know. 0:28:11.440 --> 0:28:13.320 He did get me those Beyonce to the whole Miami, 0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:15.320 That's what I'm saying. But like, so, okay, we had 0:28:15.359 --> 0:28:17.280 it was like a thing before where we didn't have sex. 0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:18.679 But also I was like there was a lot going on, 0:28:18.720 --> 0:28:20.399 so maybe I could get away with it again. And 0:28:20.440 --> 0:28:22.520 he also knew I didn't want to have sex. But 0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:25.080 even if he knew that, I still got to know 0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:27.920 him in a foreign country with the man, I gotta 0:28:27.960 --> 0:28:30.080 be okay with it, And honestly, by the time I 0:28:30.080 --> 0:28:32.520 got on that plane, I was. I think I talked 0:28:32.720 --> 0:28:35.320 talked about it, how I watched him fuck like a 0:28:35.359 --> 0:28:38.200 hole that he paid for, but I was still okay 0:28:38.240 --> 0:28:40.720 with it if it happened, Like I was totally fine 0:28:40.760 --> 0:28:43.320 in that feeling. And like, I think, if you're no 0:28:43.440 --> 0:28:46.400 vacations worth that you will literally have the worst time. Yeah, 0:28:46.440 --> 0:28:47.880 you will, I mean, and I'm not gonna lie to 0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:51.240 I want if you're avoiding it as women, though, I 0:28:51.280 --> 0:28:55.240 want to get away from the idea that we are 0:28:55.320 --> 0:28:58.800 these dumb women that don't understand what an invite on 0:28:58.800 --> 0:29:02.560 a vacation or Caribbean island is. Like I hear even 0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:07.080 because I even hear Mom talk about it, but I'm 0:29:07.120 --> 0:29:09.840 not sucking offering to fly you out on a vacation 0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:14.760 with me to the islands to talk about euphoria over 0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:18.680 coffee and tea the fuck, Like it's not a home 0:29:18.760 --> 0:29:21.680 girl homeboy biber trip. Like if if a man is 0:29:21.680 --> 0:29:24.400 willing to spend that much money. This goes nigga's first off, 0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:27.040 Nigga's expect pussy from dinner, that I'm gonna ship the 0:29:27.080 --> 0:29:30.520 funk out the next day. The fact, like, women, let's 0:29:30.520 --> 0:29:32.720 not be blind at the pace that this nigga is 0:29:32.760 --> 0:29:36.280 sucking flying you out with hopes of getting pussy, real 0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:38.440 good pussy. And I don't hurt Nigga saying if I'm 0:29:38.440 --> 0:29:40.600 flying you to an island, don't even think I'm getting 0:29:40.640 --> 0:29:45.960 condom dick. I'm giving wrong. Oh no, yeah, but I've 0:29:46.000 --> 0:29:48.040 heard men say this. So the fact that we know 0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:52.000 the intent behind it. Ladies, don't put yourself in a situation, 0:29:52.320 --> 0:29:55.200 especially being flown out if you ain't gonna get a 0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:58.240 pussy up, because that's what he's flying you out for. Nigga, 0:29:58.240 --> 0:30:01.400 I'm gonna tell you. Uh well, I hadn't make it, 0:30:01.480 --> 0:30:04.160 offered me a trip to where was it. It wasn't far, 0:30:04.280 --> 0:30:07.600 but it was far enough. Oh it was the Hamptons. 0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:10.680 It was this summer. I met this guy and he 0:30:10.800 --> 0:30:13.200 was like, oh, let's go to the Hamptons for the weekend, dada. 0:30:13.360 --> 0:30:16.160 And I was very very explicit about being like, because 0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:17.800 I wasn't having sex at the time, right, when I 0:30:17.800 --> 0:30:19.840 was like going through my depression ship because to me, 0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:22.920 when I'm sad, I get super attached. It's like I 0:30:22.960 --> 0:30:24.480 don't know if the feelings would make me go up 0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:26.720 or down. I was like, bro, I do not want 0:30:26.720 --> 0:30:29.000 to go to the Hamptons. Like I was like, I'm 0:30:29.000 --> 0:30:30.760 not trying to fun, like I'm just in this really 0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:33.040 weird like a sexual moment in my life. And he 0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:35.240 was like, I think it's the Hamptons, Like what the funk? 0:30:35.280 --> 0:30:37.640 I was like, I still a vacation overnight is a vacation. 0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:40.120 To me, overnight means you want some pussy. I said, 0:30:40.120 --> 0:30:41.680 you know what's gonna happen. We're gonna be there, We're 0:30:41.680 --> 0:30:43.160 gonna go out, and then you're gonna look at me 0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:45.440 in that bit which I don't even gonna hold you overnight, 0:30:47.320 --> 0:30:49.440 which I would take a train down to Philly, come 0:30:49.560 --> 0:30:53.800 right back same night. It still got bussy because bitch 0:30:53.800 --> 0:30:56.440 I crossed state lines. What I'm saying, like, you don't 0:30:56.440 --> 0:30:59.400 do another city means you okay, that's fair another scene, 0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:03.040 you know what I mean, except for except you don't 0:31:03.040 --> 0:31:05.440 go to Jersey for what? Oh bitch I used to 0:31:05.480 --> 0:31:08.800 be all up through that g w b baby, I 0:31:08.880 --> 0:31:10.880 was going straight that nigga that I was going straight 0:31:10.960 --> 0:31:12.560 for that. Oh my god, I just realized I got 0:31:12.560 --> 0:31:14.680 another baby, Mama. Remember the nigga out man in l A. 0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:16.640 We had a great day and he ended up living 0:31:16.640 --> 0:31:18.280 in New York, but he really lived in Jersey and 0:31:18.320 --> 0:31:22.040 he lived in the baby Mama. That's awful, girl. What's 0:31:22.040 --> 0:31:25.760 with you? And I don't know who I mean? Even 0:31:25.760 --> 0:31:28.520 though there's Fort Lee Edgewater programs all that little area 0:31:28.520 --> 0:31:30.000 over there. I looked a lot of niggas that lived 0:31:30.000 --> 0:31:33.560 in Jersey right there, because it's like tip, Oh my god. 0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:34.920 And when I used to go Dear and Booty call 0:31:35.000 --> 0:31:37.480 hours going across the g w B at two am 0:31:37.480 --> 0:31:40.040 in the morning, four am in the morning, bitch, great 0:31:40.040 --> 0:31:43.200 shot a few minutes from Park Chest That's when I 0:31:43.240 --> 0:31:45.400 lived in the box. There's no way now I would 0:31:45.440 --> 0:31:50.120 set in Jersey. Well, not only because so far. Not 0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:52.160 when you live in the Bronx, I get it. I 0:31:52.160 --> 0:31:54.680 don't even know that you could do the tunnel. You could, 0:31:54.760 --> 0:31:59.080 you could get Hoboken, That's what I'm saying. She could 0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:01.120 set Hopebo. Why do you guys try to tell Y 0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:03.480 invited me to this The New Year's party there ye 0:32:03.480 --> 0:32:05.680 had I wasn't even here and I was like, I 0:32:05.760 --> 0:32:08.440 love you, friend, but you thought I was gonna go there. 0:32:08.480 --> 0:32:11.400 And he's like, you see the party we got invited to? 0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:14.920 Uh oh, by the time, just come out, it'll be done. 0:32:15.280 --> 0:32:21.320 The party for your leisure, the surprise party. Oh it's 0:32:21.360 --> 0:32:24.720 in Jersey. Do you see that? Look your face? You 0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:30.880 can't you have money? Uber a bitch. Honestly, I just 0:32:31.000 --> 0:32:34.400 kind of feel like it's it's like it just feels far. 0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:36.600 I don't even like Newark Airport. I mean, I ain't 0:32:36.600 --> 0:32:39.160 gonna hold you right. I don't hold you right. So 0:32:39.360 --> 0:32:41.440 shout out to good Mom's back Choices. They gave me 0:32:41.480 --> 0:32:45.160 a two dollar spot credit for my birthday, but it's 0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:48.640 first Sojo spot and I'm like, this is gonna cost 0:32:48.640 --> 0:32:53.320 me two hundred dollars ship that's a flight to it. 0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:57.840 This is not like, this is a very pretentious vibe 0:32:57.880 --> 0:33:00.280 by giving. And the vibe is simply because I don't 0:33:00.320 --> 0:33:03.600 like to go far anywhere, nigga. I had to do 0:33:03.920 --> 0:33:07.479 uh an interview for something like for TV, like on 0:33:07.520 --> 0:33:09.400 set and they told me that the location was on 0:33:09.760 --> 0:33:11.640 D Street and I was like, I know you guys 0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:13.920 are sending me like a car, but like, can we 0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:15.360 figure out like a time where I don't want have 0:33:15.400 --> 0:33:16.960 to sit in the car a long time like this 0:33:17.040 --> 0:33:18.880 is like I live in the Lower East. I ain't 0:33:18.880 --> 0:33:21.760 gonna hold you. I ain't noticed it until I moved 0:33:21.720 --> 0:33:24.760 to long On the city. Far bitch. I think I've 0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:26.840 been to the Bronx one time in a year, and 0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:28.960 that was to go collect mail from my old apartment. 0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:31.240 Why would you, guys don't. But now I see why 0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:34.000 nobody came to see me in the Bronx. They was like, bitch, 0:33:34.040 --> 0:33:38.400 the Bronx, nigga. I like the Bronx when I did 0:33:38.440 --> 0:33:42.480 live there. They have breweries. Now they're totally gentrifying it um. 0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:46.080 But also I got the best chop cheese bro. The 0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:48.200 food in the Bronx bro, the ship that I used 0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:52.360 to be able to get, like the Tostones, the all 0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:56.640 of like, oh my god, the food in the Bronx everywhere, 0:33:56.760 --> 0:33:59.040 Like I'm not gonna lie at long On the city, 0:33:59.320 --> 0:34:01.360 A Long and city. Okay, I have a cheese bark 0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:04.280 and dumplings cheese bar. What do you mean a cheese 0:34:04.440 --> 0:34:06.040 a cheese and wine bar. And I got done like 0:34:06.080 --> 0:34:09.760 it's all Asian food. I said, like a bar cheese, 0:34:09.960 --> 0:34:12.319 no bit. But I'm just saying I do miss the 0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:15.239 food in the Bronx speaking of a bar of cheese. Uh, 0:34:15.320 --> 0:34:19.400 y'all knowes. I was walking Nina and there's always a 0:34:19.400 --> 0:34:22.439 really long line um at this hot dog k hot 0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:24.240 dog place on Orchard Street. I don't know if anybody 0:34:24.280 --> 0:34:26.680 knows I'm talking about the Cross hot Dogs. Yeah, it's 0:34:26.680 --> 0:34:29.480 a crossroom pianos and the line is long, bro like 0:34:29.520 --> 0:34:31.600 even in the snow, be like fifty people. So we 0:34:31.800 --> 0:34:33.400 just happened to walk by there while they open and 0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:35.759 I was like, yeah, I gotta try this ship. So 0:34:35.800 --> 0:34:38.239 I had a fried whatever it was hot dog. There 0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:41.080 was some cheese in it whatever. Um. Some of you know, 0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:43.160 if you're on Patreon that my apartment is getting renovated. 0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:45.440 As my apartment is getting renovated, I can't go in 0:34:45.440 --> 0:34:47.920 the apartment. So what happens when I eat and take 0:34:47.960 --> 0:34:50.920 a bite into this hot dog? It's amazing. I finish it. 0:34:51.200 --> 0:34:53.920 Now I have to ship my pants because it's so 0:34:54.040 --> 0:34:57.200 much meat and cheese and fried ship. When I tell 0:34:57.239 --> 0:34:58.799 you I've run up to the apartment, they're like, you 0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:00.319 can't get in there right now, because it was like, 0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:02.200 you know there they got the drill out. I was like, 0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:03.960 no, no no, no, after he's a bathroom, you can't get 0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:06.560 in there right now. Oh my god, I think I 0:35:06.560 --> 0:35:08.520 called Ena get ready to tell them the story. I 0:35:08.560 --> 0:35:11.920 had to ship so bad. I went into the bodega. 0:35:11.960 --> 0:35:14.879 I had to give you in a bodega. They know me, 0:35:15.840 --> 0:35:17.640 but I don't give a fuck. I didn't have a 0:35:17.719 --> 0:35:20.680 try you sho. I went to I Where did I 0:35:20.760 --> 0:35:22.799 run to? I went to UM, I went to Mr 0:35:22.840 --> 0:35:26.200 Taka Ramen. I went to Sauce Pizza. They weren't open yet. 0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:28.000 I went to a bunch of places in the neighborhood, 0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:29.360 and then finally I went to the bodega. And I 0:35:29.400 --> 0:35:32.480 looked like I was in a panic. I was red 0:35:32.480 --> 0:35:35.440 in the face, sweating. I had to hand them my dog. 0:35:35.680 --> 0:35:39.080 Do you know what he's like? I was like, First off, 0:35:39.120 --> 0:35:40.759 He's like, I can't take the dog. I'm only here. 0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:42.640 I have to cook the food. Now it's me and 0:35:42.719 --> 0:35:46.000 Nina in a fucking janitor's closet while I'm shipping, and 0:35:46.080 --> 0:35:48.840 this dog is looking at me, judging me. She's just 0:35:48.880 --> 0:35:51.480 sitting there with her little christy ass like, it's like 0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:54.400 a mop bucket next to me. Mandy is bad. And 0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:56.960 I was in there so long that I was like, 0:35:56.960 --> 0:35:59.200 oh my god, they're gonna think. I'm like, like, is 0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:01.640 everything Okay? It was a lie. I don't think if 0:36:01.680 --> 0:36:05.239 you're not from New York, you will not know the 0:36:05.560 --> 0:36:09.840 terror of having to ship or piss while you're just 0:36:09.960 --> 0:36:13.320 out in the city. Because baby, don't nobody want to 0:36:13.400 --> 0:36:17.040 let you use that motherfucking bathroom. Like Starbucks don't even like. 0:36:17.120 --> 0:36:18.600 But you've got to be able to show a receipt. 0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:20.759 Sometimes they'll have a cold. They go now. Anybody can 0:36:20.840 --> 0:36:23.560 use it ever since that incident, but only start Starbucks 0:36:23.600 --> 0:36:27.279 on de Lante was too far. They got hot dog 0:36:27.360 --> 0:36:32.680 was so strong in five it hit my stomach in 0:36:32.719 --> 0:36:35.000 the middle of it still being in my head. Okay, 0:36:35.440 --> 0:36:37.959 I was there. It was bad. It was so bad 0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:40.239 so you'll never eat it again. No, And I really 0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:42.200 think it was just a mix of meat fried cheese. 0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:43.920 Anyboy's not gonna lie. By the time I got out 0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:45.840 of there, I didn't have any cash on me, but 0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:48.000 I knew I needed to pay for what I had 0:36:48.040 --> 0:36:51.360 just done. Somehow. I'm not saying it was a mess. No, 0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:54.160 I didn't blow it was clean. I'm just saying I 0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:56.360 felt guilty because I knew he knew I should. The 0:36:56.360 --> 0:36:58.560 customers probably walked in there thinking there was some bad 0:36:58.640 --> 0:37:01.960 meat in that death. Oh my god, I thought everything 0:37:02.040 --> 0:37:04.919 was wrong. Bro. Going bed, I was like, I don't 0:37:04.920 --> 0:37:08.400 have any I don't even have right now, like you know, 0:37:08.400 --> 0:37:10.120 I just want to leave you something. He's like, it's okay, 0:37:10.120 --> 0:37:11.719 don't worry about it because I come all the time. 0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:15.799 And I was like, no, can I just take like 0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:18.560 Apple pay for twenty dollars? And now he's laughing and 0:37:18.560 --> 0:37:21.600 he goes because I keep offering money? Is it a 0:37:21.600 --> 0:37:28.360 problem in there? So now? And that's Orchard Street grosser okay, which, 0:37:28.520 --> 0:37:31.000 by the way, he used to be the bodega had 0:37:31.040 --> 0:37:33.200 been going to for years. I can't do it anymore. 0:37:33.440 --> 0:37:36.680 And the shame that I felt after leaving the bathroom, 0:37:36.880 --> 0:37:40.640 it was just bad. But you know what you can't 0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:44.759 feel ship That is a humanly bro everybody everyone. I 0:37:44.800 --> 0:37:47.279 didn't feel like sometimes I'm too pretty to ship, like 0:37:47.280 --> 0:37:49.239 I don't think work at me and I don't want 0:37:49.280 --> 0:37:52.600 them to see me as a shitter. All right, We're 0:37:52.600 --> 0:37:55.239 gonna get to that. You don't know what I'm saying, 0:37:55.320 --> 0:37:58.319 Like do you talk about with your man? Yes? What 0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:00.719 is why we had to change the right after a bitch, 0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:04.080 I have antal sex many nothing when you have to ship, 0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:08.080 like you say, I told you, I don't let him know. Baby, 0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:10.439 don't eat back there today. It was kind of rough 0:38:10.480 --> 0:38:15.520 this morning, like when you have to go to the 0:38:15.520 --> 0:38:17.759 bad It was a little wet that morning when you 0:38:17.800 --> 0:38:20.959 have you tell him I have to ship because you say, 0:38:21.000 --> 0:38:22.640 and I hate that you use this word piss. But 0:38:22.680 --> 0:38:26.359 every time I don't know what something not being crazy 0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:30.520 about me saying that I got a piss. I mean, 0:38:30.520 --> 0:38:33.560 I ain't gonnhold but he talks. But he talks about 0:38:33.600 --> 0:38:35.160 my delivery all the time. I'd be like, oh, you're 0:38:35.160 --> 0:38:37.640 gonna give me that dick even, like why you talk 0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:42.360 like this? He hates Like again he hates when I 0:38:42.400 --> 0:38:44.960 get into like my sex sock because he's like, you 0:38:45.040 --> 0:38:48.160 have a fucking sex podcast. Ain't nothing about anything you're 0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:50.120 saying for something, let us not forget. You can pat 0:38:50.120 --> 0:38:52.880 it back there. That's what I'm saying that Like, I like, 0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:59.080 you don't give me that dirt, Like no, but I'd 0:38:59.080 --> 0:39:01.359 be real open, like he isn't like I'll be like, man, 0:39:01.440 --> 0:39:04.480 a bitch gotta piss. I tell him about when I 0:39:04.480 --> 0:39:06.640 ship it, not when I have to ship, and then 0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:09.279 I'll tell him what I'm bleeding, like I'm about to die. 0:39:09.680 --> 0:39:11.879 And he does tell me t M I he said 0:39:13.000 --> 0:39:14.919 I think that I may. He also says, I don't 0:39:14.920 --> 0:39:16.919 know why it has to be an announcement, but I'm 0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:19.439 just free like that I told my friends. He'll be like, bitch, 0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:21.719 I'm gonna take you off FaceTime because girl, this ship 0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:24.000 is not coming out. Like when I like really have 0:39:24.080 --> 0:39:26.040 to focus on getting the ship out while I'm on 0:39:26.120 --> 0:39:28.200 face I have to hang out. I'll be like, oh no, 0:39:28.239 --> 0:39:29.719 I just pushed the screen over. You're gonna be on 0:39:29.760 --> 0:39:34.720 pause like so o. Bate told me like he knows 0:39:34.760 --> 0:39:38.440 when I ship, which will really embarrass me. Why does 0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:42.560 he know when you because he hears the double flush 0:39:42.800 --> 0:39:47.799 like that, bro, right when it comes out, I know 0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:50.279 that's the courtesy flush. That that's when you shipped really bad, 0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:55.120 like solid dollars just don't need two flushes, bro, Yes, 0:39:55.160 --> 0:39:58.759 it does not solid coming out, and like that, you 0:39:59.000 --> 0:40:01.120 basically ship and flush while it goes and then if 0:40:01.120 --> 0:40:04.239 I have enough double flush when his thing, a double flush. 0:40:04.239 --> 0:40:07.040 If something comes out of my ass, Mandy, it don't 0:40:07.080 --> 0:40:12.000 stay called in tide. We keep the home. You know 0:40:12.040 --> 0:40:14.719 what I'm saying. And so he's so o c D 0:40:15.560 --> 0:40:17.600 like he goes when the bottles turned, and I'll be like, 0:40:17.640 --> 0:40:19.160 I just don't want him to know. I don't want 0:40:19.200 --> 0:40:23.560 anyone I have, all right, because I don't you step 0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:28.640 backing like you're like you're fucking grown. It doesn't, it does. 0:40:29.040 --> 0:40:30.799 This is not a high school thing. It's just like 0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:34.560 I feel like childish thing. Everyone all adults know, the 0:40:34.600 --> 0:40:41.320 adults other adults. Shit. No, alright, the next question, guys, 0:40:41.480 --> 0:40:44.960 Hey queens, I just started listening to your podcast, and 0:40:45.000 --> 0:40:47.600 I'm obsessed. I listened to what at work. May not 0:40:47.680 --> 0:40:49.640 be the best time because I get turned on, but 0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:52.080 I love it and I'm always cracking up. I am 0:40:52.120 --> 0:40:54.960 thirty years old, and yes I have orgasm before, but 0:40:55.040 --> 0:40:57.759 my boyfriend now makes me squirt and I love it. 0:40:58.800 --> 0:41:00.840 The only thing that sucks is I can't ever do 0:41:00.920 --> 0:41:04.560 it myself, and sometimes it's hard to make myself even come. 0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:07.680 Other times he will get off, and again sometimes I 0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:10.439 don't come. But I love turning him on and pleasing him. 0:41:10.800 --> 0:41:13.280 I also get off on that. I need some pointers 0:41:13.320 --> 0:41:16.040 on how to do this myself or answers on why 0:41:16.120 --> 0:41:19.480 sometimes a woman just doesn't come? Is that bad? I 0:41:19.480 --> 0:41:21.560 also have never had a threesome, but now I'm all 0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:23.440 for it. I think it would be so hot to 0:41:23.480 --> 0:41:26.160 squirt on another girl while your man is helping. Any 0:41:26.200 --> 0:41:28.640 pointers or tips you can give to help make it 0:41:28.680 --> 0:41:31.920 easier for a first timer would be great. You guys, rock, 0:41:32.000 --> 0:41:34.360 I'm so happy about this podcast. Keep on doing the 0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:36.759 horrible things you do and inspiring women to be just 0:41:36.800 --> 0:41:40.960 like you. One love So. The question here, One Love So. 0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:45.680 The question is basically, is it bad? Um if a 0:41:45.719 --> 0:41:48.120 woman doesn't come all the time? Also, how can she 0:41:48.160 --> 0:41:51.600 make herself come? And then any pointers on having a 0:41:51.840 --> 0:41:55.800 threesome with her man? And also maybe I would assume 0:41:55.800 --> 0:42:00.160 there would be a conversation with squirting on the other woman. Um, 0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:02.960 well that's why I said she wants to squirt on 0:42:02.960 --> 0:42:05.520 the other woman. He's in the conversation for threesomes. You 0:42:05.560 --> 0:42:07.839 take that over. I feel like we've had so much 0:42:07.840 --> 0:42:10.400 threesome dialogue and not the three so I'll take it 0:42:10.440 --> 0:42:12.480 over because I just said the conversation will be about 0:42:12.520 --> 0:42:14.600 squirting on the other woman. This is an act now 0:42:14.719 --> 0:42:17.400 more more than the threesome. She knows that her man 0:42:17.440 --> 0:42:20.440 can make her squirt. She wants to ejaculate onto another woman. 0:42:20.719 --> 0:42:23.040 So to me, that sounds more than even just a threesome. 0:42:23.120 --> 0:42:25.120 She's she literally said, I think it would be fun 0:42:25.520 --> 0:42:27.400 for my man to help me squirt on another woman. 0:42:28.080 --> 0:42:31.480 I think that that kind of goes more beyond threesome. 0:42:31.520 --> 0:42:34.960 I think she's envisioning doing that. It's a fantasy of 0:42:34.960 --> 0:42:37.239 doing it on another woman. I'm not sure if there's 0:42:37.280 --> 0:42:41.520 maybe a humiliating factor, a um like maybe some sort 0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:44.759 of um big letter factor of wanting to do that 0:42:44.880 --> 0:42:47.160 to another woman and your man doing it. I'm not 0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:49.680 sure in her mind where the pleasure comes. And just 0:42:49.760 --> 0:42:51.759 I feel like, if it's that specific, you gotta get 0:42:51.760 --> 0:42:53.440 your ship off at a sex club or something like that. 0:42:53.480 --> 0:42:56.640 Like I feel like how women don't st like squirting 0:42:56.719 --> 0:43:02.759 is often like it's often what women like refrain from. Like, bro, 0:43:02.840 --> 0:43:05.400 you can make a mess and ruin a big area 0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:08.040 of where people are playing to squirt, like women that 0:43:08.160 --> 0:43:11.880 squirt normally will hold it in like squirters know, Like 0:43:11.960 --> 0:43:15.640 you can ruin a whole area sex club by ejaculating 0:43:16.080 --> 0:43:19.120 like the thing that you're trying to get off. I mean, 0:43:19.160 --> 0:43:20.960 I would say that's something to do in the privacy, 0:43:21.000 --> 0:43:22.520 not of the sex club. And bis I go to 0:43:22.520 --> 0:43:25.840 sex club, what I would love to see that that's interesting. 0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:27.879 I never know that that would be taboos. I'm sorry. 0:43:27.880 --> 0:43:30.200 Guys can do Bookaki on a bitch and I can't 0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:34.200 squirtch sexist and the sexiest as much is as much 0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:36.239 because I mean a lot of sex club coming out 0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:40.000 of a hole depending on the space, though, like it's 0:43:40.000 --> 0:43:41.960 a little selfish thing. I would say to do that 0:43:42.800 --> 0:43:46.880 to make it so where now there's a large portion 0:43:46.920 --> 0:43:49.120 of the club that no one else wants to use 0:43:49.239 --> 0:43:53.000 because it's faked or drenched, Like I've been a couch 0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:56.120 where you sit down, like you get up immediately that area. 0:43:56.160 --> 0:43:57.720 People will let you know, don't go in that area. 0:43:57.880 --> 0:43:59.879 So now there's a large portion of the club that's 0:44:00.000 --> 0:44:01.520 I don't get it. So you could go there if 0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:03.759 it's dry, but there was someone else's ass juice on there, 0:44:03.760 --> 0:44:05.719 and it's just not. I mean the same way how 0:44:06.400 --> 0:44:08.960 when I have sex at home, if the sheets are 0:44:09.120 --> 0:44:14.440 are dry, like there's no someone else's but if it's soaked, 0:44:14.719 --> 0:44:16.880 I'm removing. What I'm saying is no one is sucking 0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:20.000 on what sheets. Nobody even no one's sleeping on what sheets, 0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:22.719 like even at home, it's my own juices. If the 0:44:22.719 --> 0:44:24.560 sheets are wet, I guess I'm not thinking of the 0:44:24.560 --> 0:44:26.799 squirt being like so much is so like. But what 0:44:26.840 --> 0:44:35.399 I'm saying is no one really likes I Also, when 0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:38.359 I'm talking about squirt like, I think we also have 0:44:38.440 --> 0:44:41.080 to stop this idea of like squirting being this fucking 0:44:41.239 --> 0:44:44.759 fountain of youth that we're watching in porn. Like you know, 0:44:44.960 --> 0:44:46.800 I don't think it's gonna be that, and say, and 0:44:46.840 --> 0:44:50.239 if it is, then saying bring it howls okay. As 0:44:50.280 --> 0:44:52.200 someone who goes to sex climps, that's my advice. I 0:44:52.200 --> 0:44:54.800 wouldn't suggest it, but that's you suggest I think somebody 0:44:54.800 --> 0:44:56.880 wants to see that. But then on the contrary, right, 0:44:56.920 --> 0:44:58.839 so that does make me wonder about the Bukaki thing. 0:44:58.840 --> 0:45:01.359 What if some what if a dude? I mean, it's 0:45:01.360 --> 0:45:04.479 weird because again, as many as I've been to, first off, 0:45:04.800 --> 0:45:09.919 nutting is a lot more way small. Mind you, when 0:45:09.960 --> 0:45:13.280 you're nutting, you're either nutting in or on something, which 0:45:13.320 --> 0:45:15.840 normally you will move until it's wiped off like a 0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:18.440 lot of times. I mean, and again there's courtesy and 0:45:18.480 --> 0:45:22.640 sex clubs. Again that's not something that's normally just like 0:45:22.760 --> 0:45:24.279 you don't go to sex clubs and niggas are just 0:45:24.320 --> 0:45:27.360 jacking off all over the fucking sheet like it normally 0:45:27.400 --> 0:45:31.160 goes somewhere. So for squirting. And again, I've been in 0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:33.920 places where we all let each other know it's really 0:45:34.000 --> 0:45:35.319 what over there? You don't want to go over there? 0:45:35.520 --> 0:45:38.680 Or I've literally went somewhere it was wet, got up immediately, 0:45:38.719 --> 0:45:42.280 like it's not enjoyed with not only are my own juices, 0:45:42.360 --> 0:45:47.000 but damn show not somebody else's juices. I would say, Um, 0:45:47.040 --> 0:45:49.200 this is actually advice that I thought you would have 0:45:49.200 --> 0:45:52.239 went a sex worker. If you just want to ejaculate 0:45:52.280 --> 0:45:55.440 onto somebody, um, and you just want to squirt and 0:45:55.480 --> 0:45:57.440 you want your man to make you squirt onto somebody, 0:45:57.640 --> 0:45:59.440 get a sex I only said sex club because I 0:45:59.440 --> 0:46:01.640 feel like it's a chink that sounds like somebody else 0:46:01.680 --> 0:46:04.759 would be. But what about those apps you guys usually 0:46:05.000 --> 0:46:08.319 kind of like field, there's there's fat life. I mean, 0:46:08.400 --> 0:46:10.399 if you can find people that I mean, if it's 0:46:10.440 --> 0:46:13.120 the one specific thing. I think sex club or sex worker, right, 0:46:13.160 --> 0:46:15.640 But what was the other first question she had? She 0:46:15.719 --> 0:46:18.200 also said, kind of a man can make her come, 0:46:18.200 --> 0:46:20.920 but she cannot make herself come, which is ironic because 0:46:21.320 --> 0:46:23.759 we also talk about here you can't expect to make 0:46:23.760 --> 0:46:24.960 a man come if you don't know how to make 0:46:24.960 --> 0:46:28.520 yourself come, like learning your own body, what pleases you. 0:46:28.880 --> 0:46:31.719 That's like kind of a tip that we've given for 0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:37.720 years on this show. Opposite try a vibrator. I honestly, 0:46:37.760 --> 0:46:39.600 I prefer to come with my own hands, hands that 0:46:39.719 --> 0:46:42.880 come really hard with my own hands. Vibrators sometimes too fast, 0:46:43.280 --> 0:46:45.000 and then I just like, I feel like I didn't 0:46:45.080 --> 0:46:47.080 get to have a long enough orgasm. But I think 0:46:47.320 --> 0:46:49.239 if you just want to experience doing it alone and 0:46:49.360 --> 0:46:52.280 definitely a vibrator, a vibrator and make you go quick 0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:55.960 outside of a vibrator, I would say, this is my 0:46:56.040 --> 0:47:00.400 thought on this. So most women, high percentage of women, 0:47:01.719 --> 0:47:07.680 come from clition. So when you masturbate, a lot of 0:47:07.680 --> 0:47:10.560 women assume that's the place I gotta be. If you're 0:47:10.640 --> 0:47:14.239 only coming in orgasm ng with your man, maybe you 0:47:14.280 --> 0:47:17.239 should throw something on the wall and maybe you come 0:47:17.280 --> 0:47:21.160 like me from penetration. So maybe you should actually try 0:47:21.680 --> 0:47:26.040 penetrating yourself without him. So, whether it's something that you 0:47:26.080 --> 0:47:28.319 stick to a floor, maybe it's a dial dough that 0:47:28.440 --> 0:47:30.600 you can actually pull in and out of yourself, make 0:47:30.640 --> 0:47:33.560 sure you're looped up. Um. You may also be someone 0:47:33.600 --> 0:47:36.920 who's visually stimulated. I can't really get off with masturbating 0:47:36.960 --> 0:47:41.640 without porn. So maybe creating the same scenario that you 0:47:41.680 --> 0:47:44.080 have with your man. Maybe you like lingure helps, though 0:47:44.120 --> 0:47:47.640 you gotta feel sex, you know, I'm saying, like getting like, 0:47:47.719 --> 0:47:49.920 you know, feeling sexy, like even if you want to 0:47:49.920 --> 0:47:52.000 do something like you know, making a video of it, 0:47:52.040 --> 0:47:54.400 that really turns out the mood, you know, accept the 0:47:54.440 --> 0:47:57.360 mood for yourself because I'm at the point where I 0:47:57.360 --> 0:48:01.040 can masturbate with anything going on. I literally this is embarrassing, 0:48:01.040 --> 0:48:02.759 but it's true. I had a deep conditioner in my 0:48:02.800 --> 0:48:06.200 hair and it was for forty five minutes, and I 0:48:06.280 --> 0:48:09.560 was like, well, I guess I just binged my shows, 0:48:09.640 --> 0:48:12.520 so might as a little masturbate And like, yeah, I 0:48:12.560 --> 0:48:15.880 did it. While I was doing that situation, I believe it, 0:48:16.000 --> 0:48:17.840 you know what I mean, especially with the plastic cap 0:48:18.480 --> 0:48:21.360 or whatever. But I got my shirt off. I'm just 0:48:21.360 --> 0:48:23.799 saying like, if you're someone that necessarily can't get your 0:48:24.000 --> 0:48:26.160 off that quick, you know you should do it. Where 0:48:26.200 --> 0:48:29.120 is something another place I masturbated recently that wasn't necessarily 0:48:29.120 --> 0:48:37.160 the best place? Can I say it? Um? Sure? I 0:48:37.200 --> 0:48:39.560 can't remember where it was. It was in a place 0:48:39.560 --> 0:48:41.719 that I was in a room alone privately. Wasn't the 0:48:41.760 --> 0:48:46.720 kind of collegist? Why was I in that room? Bathroom? No, 0:48:47.600 --> 0:48:50.200 she masturbated while that ship was coming right out. It 0:48:50.200 --> 0:48:52.560 was not a Blumkin. It'll come back to me. I 0:48:52.600 --> 0:48:55.400 really don't know what Blumkin was. I waiting on a 0:48:55.440 --> 0:49:02.360 procedure consol tell you ship. That was it. I was 0:49:02.400 --> 0:49:06.760 in a doctor's office for the consultation for um Cool 0:49:06.840 --> 0:49:09.520 Sculpting its Cool Sculpting before I did lie, but because 0:49:09.560 --> 0:49:10.800 I learned that there's like a lot of ship that 0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:13.280 could go wrong with nerves and pregnancy with cool Sculpting. 0:49:13.520 --> 0:49:16.879 And it took thirty fucking I didn't seem locked the door. 0:49:17.040 --> 0:49:22.560 That was the seller. Sorry, go ahead. I want to 0:49:22.560 --> 0:49:26.360 have a baby at some point, Okay, I would you 0:49:26.360 --> 0:49:28.960 know what I mean that you almost did. I do 0:49:29.120 --> 0:49:31.080 not want to be baby mama number five. If I 0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:33.120 bet it, do they had one kid. Even if he 0:49:33.120 --> 0:49:35.880 had five kids with one woman, fine, but like do 0:49:36.000 --> 0:49:38.000 I want to have to be like so? I mean, 0:49:38.000 --> 0:49:41.200 I ain't gone. I was considering what the niggader sucked 0:49:41.239 --> 0:49:43.040 him in his baby mama. I think she was like 0:49:43.080 --> 0:49:44.920 his second and third baby mama. But he has five 0:49:44.960 --> 0:49:47.680 baby mama's nine kids. And I know he was going 0:49:47.719 --> 0:49:49.279 to tin because you get a real big text right 0:49:49.320 --> 0:49:55.000 off with tin kid. Maybe maybe you get a really 0:49:55.040 --> 0:49:58.759 big text break after that. Ten kidd whose baby mama 0:49:58.760 --> 0:50:01.520 did he just it was something breathe She's another wadling 0:50:01.560 --> 0:50:03.680 out girl at this point. I know we talked about 0:50:03.719 --> 0:50:06.279 that concubine, the nigger that had a sex club and 0:50:06.840 --> 0:50:08.719 in his little thing, and we talked about the cold. 0:50:09.360 --> 0:50:12.320 At this point, you were hiring women to be wildling 0:50:12.320 --> 0:50:15.360 out girls to be but I didn't see his dick. 0:50:17.680 --> 0:50:22.399 That's who are gorgeous. I mean, all of these baby 0:50:22.440 --> 0:50:24.160 mamas are beautiful. Let let me not even say all 0:50:24.160 --> 0:50:27.200 of his baby mamas are beautiful. The reason, uh, everybody 0:50:27.200 --> 0:50:32.080 in the year looked like me and Wheezy ain't nobody 0:50:32.080 --> 0:50:35.960 because that nigga ain't got one black baby mama. Sorry, 0:50:36.040 --> 0:50:40.840 is that bad? No? Maria carries black. She is, but 0:50:40.880 --> 0:50:46.160 I'm talking about skin tone. I feel like, and so 0:50:46.200 --> 0:50:48.680 all their babies is about to be can I tell you, though, 0:50:48.960 --> 0:50:50.880 I do be judging when I'd be like, damn, you 0:50:50.960 --> 0:50:53.160 only house. Let's you just let me be the spice. 0:50:53.239 --> 0:50:54.960 Let me just let me be the razzle dazzle. You're 0:50:55.000 --> 0:50:57.719 not the razzle dazzle. You're like, what are you talking about? 0:50:57.719 --> 0:51:00.480 You know what I'm saying. When they only girls, you're 0:51:00.520 --> 0:51:02.560 not the wrestle dazzle. I don't. I don't like when 0:51:02.640 --> 0:51:04.520 niggas have a fucking light skin girl type. That's what 0:51:04.520 --> 0:51:09.000 I'm saying. Oh, I feel objectified. I want I want 0:51:09.000 --> 0:51:12.400 to know you do everything except for like. But I'll 0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:14.759 tell you this though, Nick Cannon, do you think it's 0:51:14.760 --> 0:51:17.799 difficult to like? I think it's got to be hard 0:51:17.840 --> 0:51:19.880 to stop the charm one. His dick is huge, as 0:51:19.880 --> 0:51:22.719 we've seen. Then on top of that, he's rich and 0:51:23.080 --> 0:51:27.840 he's attractive, and it's like he might sell me a 0:51:27.880 --> 0:51:31.120 pipe dream. He might be like, look, I know you're 0:51:31.120 --> 0:51:34.960 tired of doing a podcast. Been six years, bitch, probably tired. 0:51:35.400 --> 0:51:37.200 You gotta fly back and forth. Let me set you 0:51:37.239 --> 0:51:40.400 up with a nice crib a little stipend you wanted 0:51:40.400 --> 0:51:42.279 a family anyway, we know I ain't going away. I 0:51:42.280 --> 0:51:43.919 would be a good baby dady. It's gonna have a whole. 0:51:43.920 --> 0:51:45.840 But I'm not gonna lie. It's giving that that's probably 0:51:45.880 --> 0:51:47.680 what a lot of the women, I mean, they're all 0:51:47.920 --> 0:51:50.120 models and live in like they're all like, they don't 0:51:50.160 --> 0:51:51.880 all live in l A. But they're all like the 0:51:51.920 --> 0:51:54.560 model type. And I know that that's a lot of 0:51:54.600 --> 0:51:58.040 their goals. I'm saying, like, it's not is it really 0:51:58.080 --> 0:52:00.360 that bad of a deal, Like we keep judging, but like, bitch, 0:52:00.520 --> 0:52:02.319 but something just really want to get pregnant and get 0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:03.840 I mean not judging him, I don't really judge the 0:52:03.840 --> 0:52:05.880 women because they're all like a lot of my friends. 0:52:09.360 --> 0:52:13.040 Because these babies have all also been announced within the 0:52:13.040 --> 0:52:16.000 time frame of eighteen months at least the last what 0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:20.120 six And I'm just like, to me, it's just irresponsible. 0:52:21.640 --> 0:52:24.160 What if you are responsible irresponsible in terms of health. 0:52:24.480 --> 0:52:27.240 You're not exclusive with these women. These women are probably 0:52:27.239 --> 0:52:30.239 other women. To me, it's just dirty in the pot 0:52:30.280 --> 0:52:32.680 out here now I'm only playing Devil's advocate where I 0:52:32.760 --> 0:52:34.719 kind of agree, But what if he is, you know, 0:52:34.760 --> 0:52:36.719 and he's been clear. I think it wasn't breakfast c ever. 0:52:36.760 --> 0:52:38.000 Somewhere he was like, Yeah, I take care of all 0:52:38.000 --> 0:52:40.319 my kids. This is the kind of family. But that's 0:52:40.320 --> 0:52:44.200 the problem to me, the idea of taking care of 0:52:44.239 --> 0:52:46.960 your kids because you got money. There's no way for 0:52:47.000 --> 0:52:50.440 you to co parent six different households because he has 0:52:50.480 --> 0:52:54.759 two sets of twins. There's no way realistically. But my 0:52:54.960 --> 0:52:58.320 daddy lived across town. There's no way across state lines 0:52:58.680 --> 0:53:01.840 to realistically be there for all of these children at once. 0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:04.600 And to feel like taking care of a kid is 0:53:04.640 --> 0:53:07.279 just being able to pay the rent and whatever your 0:53:07.320 --> 0:53:10.120 child needs financially, that's not taking care of your kids. Also, 0:53:10.680 --> 0:53:12.480 come to think of it, something I was just thinking 0:53:12.520 --> 0:53:15.719 about two. I would love to know the conversation, like 0:53:16.000 --> 0:53:17.680 all the baby moms are they in a group chat? 0:53:18.080 --> 0:53:20.520 Do they find out that the next bitch is pregnant? 0:53:20.880 --> 0:53:23.480 Like all at the same time? Are there two baby 0:53:23.480 --> 0:53:25.080 mamas that are closer than the other ones? There be 0:53:25.120 --> 0:53:27.560 like b I don't think they know. I'm not gonna lie. 0:53:28.040 --> 0:53:30.839 The fact that there was an announcement of a new 0:53:30.880 --> 0:53:34.839 baby literally three weeks starfter the announcement of a death 0:53:34.880 --> 0:53:37.880 of a baby, and then the girl but that's not 0:53:37.920 --> 0:53:39.360 like she had. But then the girl who had just 0:53:39.440 --> 0:53:43.759 lost her baby posted about mourning that during the announcement 0:53:43.760 --> 0:53:45.960 of the new baby, and it didn't give off like 0:53:46.000 --> 0:53:49.080 she knew there was gonna be this elaborate announcement. However, 0:53:49.520 --> 0:53:52.759 the girl who had the baby shower actually said, I 0:53:52.800 --> 0:53:54.759 wanted this to be private, and I hate that my 0:53:54.800 --> 0:53:57.200 announcement was made through the blogs and not by myself. 0:53:57.680 --> 0:54:00.200 So but that's what I'm saying. So it's just don't 0:54:00.200 --> 0:54:02.400 think they all know. And to be fair, as women, 0:54:02.640 --> 0:54:05.239 we are still very primitive. I wouldn't doubt that all 0:54:05.280 --> 0:54:06.960 of them are hoping to be the main or the 0:54:06.960 --> 0:54:09.560 primary or I mean, I don't know, I don't I mean, 0:54:09.600 --> 0:54:12.360 obviously you know. It's not like you know, and I 0:54:12.520 --> 0:54:16.120 gonna anyone do that would happen. What happened to interview? 0:54:16.239 --> 0:54:18.640 She made it seem like I'm the first, I'm done. No, 0:54:18.880 --> 0:54:21.840 she made it seemed like her kids ain't gonna even 0:54:21.960 --> 0:54:25.920 interact with all the other kids. She had. An interview 0:54:26.000 --> 0:54:31.160 was like this was to find the interviews had to 0:54:31.200 --> 0:54:35.719 go through one more. This one is for you. Um 0:54:35.760 --> 0:54:40.200 it is a thruffle of questions since you ain't want 0:54:40.200 --> 0:54:43.040 to talk about no got them threesomes? This few love 0:54:43.120 --> 0:54:46.759 the show. Definitely looking forward to your next tour, now 0:54:47.200 --> 0:54:49.960 you ready. My husband and I have been together for 0:54:50.000 --> 0:54:53.959 a long time and began attending sex club and having 0:54:53.960 --> 0:54:56.919 threesomes about five years ago. Well, in the past eight 0:54:56.920 --> 0:54:59.279 months we have been in more of a relationship with 0:54:59.440 --> 0:55:03.239 one woman. We initially here we go, y'all, this is 0:55:03.239 --> 0:55:07.480 why you gotta join uh Patreon. We initially met in 0:55:07.520 --> 0:55:10.680 the w d group chat and spent a lot of 0:55:10.719 --> 0:55:14.000 time together, whether it's just chilling out for dinner, drinks, 0:55:14.000 --> 0:55:17.040 and of course having some bomb mask sex. Oh you 0:55:17.120 --> 0:55:18.920 might know who they are now. We all came to 0:55:18.960 --> 0:55:21.680 Weezy Sex Sales Live event into the live show in 0:55:21.760 --> 0:55:25.440 d C. We waited too long and missed the opportunity 0:55:25.480 --> 0:55:27.440 to come on stage, and I regretted every single time 0:55:27.520 --> 0:55:29.560 you mentioned the d the d C Show in an 0:55:29.560 --> 0:55:32.880 episode insert face pomp. It's just say you don't know 0:55:32.920 --> 0:55:35.640 how to be on time anyway, Oh my god, Mandy, 0:55:35.640 --> 0:55:39.919 It's okay. Anyway, just say she and I have spent 0:55:40.040 --> 0:55:42.920 nights together one on one. We have hung out just 0:55:42.960 --> 0:55:45.040 the two of us, and she and my husband have 0:55:45.120 --> 0:55:47.480 hung out together for drinks as well, but they have 0:55:47.560 --> 0:55:50.360 never spent the night together one on one. Never in 0:55:50.400 --> 0:55:52.600 a million years what I have thought that we would 0:55:52.640 --> 0:55:56.000 be in this type of relationship. It had always been 0:55:56.040 --> 0:55:58.680 where if we had a threesome, it was just that 0:55:58.800 --> 0:56:01.600 and we kept a pushing. But this woman, it's different. 0:56:02.120 --> 0:56:04.279 We're both really feeling her and I don't even like 0:56:04.360 --> 0:56:06.960 a lot of people. I don't do new friends, and 0:56:06.960 --> 0:56:09.040 we damn sure, I have never spent this much time 0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:11.720 with a woman. She and my husband vibe and connect 0:56:11.760 --> 0:56:13.680 on things they like, and she and I vibe and 0:56:13.680 --> 0:56:16.480 connect on different things we like. She really is the 0:56:16.480 --> 0:56:19.840 perfect fucking unicorn for lack of a better term. Well, 0:56:20.239 --> 0:56:22.239 the bond between me and her seems to be much 0:56:22.280 --> 0:56:25.279 tighter than between her and my husband. She and I 0:56:25.440 --> 0:56:27.360 are so into one another and spend a lot of 0:56:27.400 --> 0:56:30.240 time chatting just the two of us. My husband says 0:56:30.520 --> 0:56:33.359 he has often felt like an outsider except when we're 0:56:33.360 --> 0:56:36.080 all together. I certainly don't want him to feel like this. 0:56:36.200 --> 0:56:38.080 I want us all to be in this together. On 0:56:38.160 --> 0:56:40.680 the same page, he has mentioned that it would be 0:56:41.000 --> 0:56:44.200 it would help him feel more involved if he got 0:56:44.239 --> 0:56:46.319 to know her a little better as well, so that 0:56:46.320 --> 0:56:49.000 he's in the loop and recently started chatting with her 0:56:49.280 --> 0:56:51.120 just to found out more about her and vice versa. 0:56:51.719 --> 0:56:54.760 My husband has recently shared that he is really into 0:56:54.760 --> 0:56:57.080 her too, which is cool. I do want the ship 0:56:57.120 --> 0:56:59.360 to work because we both are really into her and 0:56:59.400 --> 0:57:01.799 she's into both of us as well. We always keep 0:57:01.800 --> 0:57:05.680 open communication between one another and what we call the 0:57:05.760 --> 0:57:08.880 no weird zone. I really like that we're no topic 0:57:09.360 --> 0:57:12.080 is off limits and no judgments. I mean, we talk 0:57:12.120 --> 0:57:15.480 about anything and everything together, so I know this is 0:57:15.480 --> 0:57:19.240 a conversation that we will revisit. My questions are which, 0:57:19.240 --> 0:57:24.080 because they in this trouble space, if this were a throuple, 0:57:24.320 --> 0:57:27.120 what are some different ways we can we can explore 0:57:27.320 --> 0:57:32.760 our relationship deeper? Is it possible to maintain How can 0:57:32.800 --> 0:57:36.200 we explore our relationship so the three of them deeper together, 0:57:36.240 --> 0:57:38.680 because clearly it seems one her answer is trying to 0:57:38.880 --> 0:57:41.440 separate and make each of them closer to her. Deeper 0:57:41.480 --> 0:57:45.280 together is um? I think going away together, stay, staycations together, 0:57:45.720 --> 0:57:48.960 having something on the calendar, whether it be bi weekly, monthly, 0:57:49.120 --> 0:57:53.000 something you only do together. Um, sharing a series together 0:57:53.040 --> 0:57:55.040 like a movie. It sounds really silly. But I think 0:57:55.080 --> 0:57:56.720 in my trouble like it was really cool. We were 0:57:56.760 --> 0:58:02.200 all watching the same thing, group chats of um things 0:58:02.240 --> 0:58:05.520 that have to include each other, like said their names. 0:58:05.600 --> 0:58:09.360 I remember when Beard Bay and Scissors, like they didn't 0:58:09.360 --> 0:58:13.080 have joint FaceTime back then, and when he was traveling. 0:58:13.120 --> 0:58:15.280 I remember he was like, maybe I gotta call you 0:58:15.280 --> 0:58:17.840 back because you know FaceTime, you can't go and hold right, 0:58:17.880 --> 0:58:19.400 I gotta call you back on the phone song and 0:58:19.400 --> 0:58:21.680 so I mean our scissors like I'm sorry, I'll call 0:58:21.680 --> 0:58:23.000 you back, and like we couldn't all talk at the 0:58:23.000 --> 0:58:26.320 same time. Like, so I think having something that makes 0:58:26.320 --> 0:58:28.480 you included, like if we could have used zoom nigga, 0:58:28.520 --> 0:58:31.120 my throat would have been a little bit. You could 0:58:31.240 --> 0:58:33.080 use sky but we didn't really think about it back then. 0:58:33.760 --> 0:58:36.080 But I mean that you could do zoom on phone now. 0:58:36.160 --> 0:58:37.680 I don't think I knew about it then, But no 0:58:38.440 --> 0:58:41.040 having stuff on the calendar, sharing a movie or series together, 0:58:41.080 --> 0:58:43.640 having a cooking night ship like that. Does that person's 0:58:43.720 --> 0:58:46.600 name start with the end? It does? Okay, I know 0:58:46.600 --> 0:58:50.400 who it is, all right? Um. Next question, is it 0:58:50.480 --> 0:58:54.240 possible to maintain separate types of relationship between us as 0:58:54.280 --> 0:58:56.880 well as the main relationship between all three of us 0:58:57.120 --> 0:58:59.440 and no one will excluded. Is it possible, Is it 0:58:59.480 --> 0:59:04.000 possible for them clearly to then maintain separate relationship types 0:59:04.960 --> 0:59:07.439 like you have to do that because if you don't 0:59:07.480 --> 0:59:09.680 do that, then the throutle falls apart. You have Really, 0:59:09.920 --> 0:59:12.560 that's how my throuble fell apart, right Like her and 0:59:12.640 --> 0:59:15.520 I weren't really on good terms even though the three 0:59:15.560 --> 0:59:17.200 of us were, and then it was at the point 0:59:17.200 --> 0:59:18.840 where the three of us were getting along better than 0:59:18.840 --> 0:59:20.640 her and I that him and I were gonna like 0:59:20.640 --> 0:59:22.640 it was just okay. But when you don't have and 0:59:22.640 --> 0:59:26.520 when you don't enrich those personal relationships with each other, 0:59:26.600 --> 0:59:30.040 then no, what are some things we should do to 0:59:30.160 --> 0:59:33.120 be sure to be mindful as we move forward? And 0:59:33.160 --> 0:59:34.960 that was the last question. I don't really not to 0:59:34.960 --> 0:59:38.680 answer that. I mean, I guess it's something that you 0:59:38.840 --> 0:59:42.720 spoke of yourself. I think that no weird zone is awesome, 0:59:43.080 --> 0:59:45.320 and the idea that no topic is off limits and 0:59:45.360 --> 0:59:47.680 there are no judgments. I think one of the things 0:59:47.800 --> 0:59:49.360 jealousy you gotta talk about. I would say that's the 0:59:49.360 --> 0:59:51.560 biggest thing. Jealousy is huge. But you know what, I 0:59:51.560 --> 0:59:54.439 think is one of the bigger emotions that we don't 0:59:54.520 --> 0:59:57.840 really touch on UM, and it's something that I've recently 0:59:57.880 --> 1:00:01.080 discussed with trying to stay away from UM through therapy. 1:00:01.240 --> 1:00:06.520 Is resentment. And so resentment comes from not communicating or 1:00:06.760 --> 1:00:09.120 from wanting something but feeling like you're not in a 1:00:09.160 --> 1:00:12.479 space to ask or or request that from someone else. 1:00:12.720 --> 1:00:15.000 And so when that person doesn't and so when that 1:00:15.040 --> 1:00:16.960 person doesn't act the way you want them to act, 1:00:16.960 --> 1:00:18.560 but they don't notice how you want them to act, 1:00:18.800 --> 1:00:22.280 you start being resentful towards them because they're doing the 1:00:22.280 --> 1:00:24.080 things that you don't want, or they're doing the things 1:00:24.120 --> 1:00:26.360 that you haven't. Actually, I want to build on that 1:00:26.400 --> 1:00:29.520 really quick to UM you were saying or you talked 1:00:29.520 --> 1:00:31.240 about Austin, like how you'll say you need a break 1:00:31.240 --> 1:00:33.360 from your partner. When I was in the throuttle, I 1:00:33.400 --> 1:00:35.800 felt like I had to be a team player, and 1:00:35.880 --> 1:00:38.840 you don't because when I'm not in the mood to 1:00:38.880 --> 1:00:40.720 be out, and then I gotta go out with all 1:00:40.720 --> 1:00:42.560 of us, and then I'm the one who's a bit, 1:00:42.680 --> 1:00:44.120 but y'all are in love now, and I'm the one 1:00:44.120 --> 1:00:45.600 who looks like I'm a bit, and y'all just gonna 1:00:45.640 --> 1:00:47.080 be like in love without me because I'm the one 1:00:47.080 --> 1:00:48.360 who doesn't wank be in this mood. And now it 1:00:48.400 --> 1:00:50.360 looks like I gotta sit across from y'alli is at 1:00:50.360 --> 1:00:51.800 dinner while you in love with each other, fuck you 1:00:51.880 --> 1:00:53.280 and fuck you? Well, then can I ask you a 1:00:53.360 --> 1:00:56.360 question about that? Did you ever feel at times like 1:00:57.200 --> 1:01:00.800 saying no when say two of themed to do something 1:01:00.840 --> 1:01:03.680 but you didn't. Did you you felt like you had 1:01:03.720 --> 1:01:05.200 to go out with them because y'all were all in 1:01:05.160 --> 1:01:08.400 orations of course, like they know, I don't want to 1:01:08.400 --> 1:01:11.360 be the poor sport. I'd be tired and ship Oh bitch, 1:01:11.360 --> 1:01:13.600 I don't even hold you when my no is my 1:01:13.640 --> 1:01:16.400 favorite words She didn't either too, She know is my favorite. 1:01:16.560 --> 1:01:19.480 My friends will come into town, not when I know 1:01:19.520 --> 1:01:22.160 I don't. But a trefle is different because it's not 1:01:22.280 --> 1:01:25.520 just like you feel like you're letting down the people 1:01:25.560 --> 1:01:27.760 that you love, not just like it's it's something about 1:01:27.760 --> 1:01:30.680 it as harder. I can't explain it. Even for sex, nigga, 1:01:31.160 --> 1:01:34.760 I'd be tired. But actually I feel like the only 1:01:34.800 --> 1:01:36.760 time I really remember is when she fell asleep, and 1:01:36.800 --> 1:01:39.200 I remember she was just like, I don't care but 1:01:39.240 --> 1:01:41.080 I wasn't that. I wasn't able to say no like 1:01:41.160 --> 1:01:44.000 she could. So like something I'm saying, I think there 1:01:44.040 --> 1:01:47.840 there is a It's a huge reward to be able 1:01:47.840 --> 1:01:50.880 to say no because you don't want to do like 1:01:51.440 --> 1:01:53.560 once I once I was able to say no. Oh bitch, 1:01:53.680 --> 1:01:55.200 I love saying no, no, saying that it was a 1:01:55.200 --> 1:01:56.880 good thing. So that's all. That's all my saying no 1:01:56.920 --> 1:01:59.840 it was a good thing. Um, anyway, that was really fun. 1:02:00.040 --> 1:02:02.480 If you guys want to send us in homemail, we've 1:02:02.520 --> 1:02:04.560 actually been kind of lagging on getting a lot, so 1:02:04.600 --> 1:02:06.520 please have an influx of them. We just ain't been 1:02:06.560 --> 1:02:08.320 saving them. Those don't know what I'm saying, Like, we 1:02:08.360 --> 1:02:11.520 haven't been like uh doing homemails and some of the 1:02:11.560 --> 1:02:13.480 episodes like so we want to make sure we get 1:02:13.520 --> 1:02:15.800 those in. Please send them to Horrible Decisions at gmail 1:02:15.840 --> 1:02:18.200 dot com and try to make them different from the 1:02:18.200 --> 1:02:20.160 other ship. Give us your drama. Let us judge you, 1:02:20.240 --> 1:02:22.760 because I will. If Mandy won't, well, I'll share. We 1:02:22.760 --> 1:02:24.840 do get a hotel, but I'll save that for another one. 1:02:24.880 --> 1:02:27.920 By the way, I love the title Broken Ivy League 1:02:27.920 --> 1:02:31.080 Dick in exchange for Taco Bell. So I'm definitely gonna 1:02:31.080 --> 1:02:35.640 read that in an upcoming episode. Um, listen, honey, and 1:02:35.720 --> 1:02:38.400 that the hotel. So, by the way, guys, you can't 1:02:38.400 --> 1:02:41.120 send in hotels, so there doesn't have to be a 1:02:41.920 --> 1:02:44.640 question or you don't need advice from us. But if 1:02:44.640 --> 1:02:48.000 you just want to share a wild, horrible decision, I fear, 1:02:48.120 --> 1:02:50.439 feel free to send in your hotel too. I would 1:02:50.520 --> 1:02:52.440 love to get into the hose and just laugh at 1:02:52.440 --> 1:02:58.040 you say. I think you were saying hotel like Marryott hotel, 1:02:58.120 --> 1:03:01.240 the hotel you head that too, hotel a hotel and 1:03:01.320 --> 1:03:04.000 sending your hotel hotel And how you can you send 1:03:04.000 --> 1:03:07.200 in a whole hotel, bro, I I don't know what 1:03:08.960 --> 1:03:11.840 I have to teach. Did you say, Palo that you 1:03:11.880 --> 1:03:15.160 didn't understand I was breaking up home and tail and 1:03:15.200 --> 1:03:21.040 you almost had a job, guys, make sure and you 1:03:21.080 --> 1:03:24.200 almost had a child. Y'all not gonna do this. Let 1:03:24.280 --> 1:03:26.840 me let me just say this, thank you for listening 1:03:26.920 --> 1:03:29.120 to horrible decisions. I might not be here next week 1:03:29.160 --> 1:03:31.560 because clearly these niggas got a problem. We're not gonna 1:03:31.560 --> 1:03:35.880 be not pregnant. Maybe I'll be at a hotel, a hotel, 1:03:36.360 --> 1:03:40.400 having a hotel and making a hotel. No, because I 1:03:40.400 --> 1:03:45.919 don't have a hell a hotel. Anyway. We are gonna 1:03:45.960 --> 1:03:47.880 leave you guys with a five minute bonus clip. Again. 1:03:47.960 --> 1:03:50.960 If you loved everything you heard or whatever, make sure 1:03:51.000 --> 1:03:54.400 you go on over to our bonus exclusive content on Patreon. 1:03:54.680 --> 1:03:57.560 That's patreon dot com back slash. Horrible decision. You can't 1:03:57.560 --> 1:03:59.360 search it, so if you can't find it, you actually 1:03:59.400 --> 1:04:01.439 have to type it. Yes, because it is a team 1:04:01.480 --> 1:04:05.120 plus content. Okay, and if you like what you see, 1:04:05.200 --> 1:04:07.960 we are in studio B come through to w TF Media. 1:04:08.000 --> 1:04:11.000 We've got a green screen. Now we have different backgrounds. 1:04:11.520 --> 1:04:14.000 I want to stop edit and see him swivel his dick. 1:04:14.360 --> 1:04:16.439 He's not swivel in his dick in the studio. Don't 1:04:16.480 --> 1:04:18.000 make that a selling point. If you tell me if 1:04:18.000 --> 1:04:21.440 you pay me, oh you'll we're going to have it 1:04:21.480 --> 1:04:24.120 as an ad on. What's your rate? Yes, so, how 1:04:24.200 --> 1:04:26.680 much can I pay to see swivel your dick? You're 1:04:26.680 --> 1:04:29.520 gonna have to personally ask me. I'm personally asking you, right, 1:04:29.520 --> 1:04:33.600 I guess you're publicly asking me. Oh, not even learning 1:04:33.600 --> 1:04:38.960 how to go. Okay, if you want to see Yomi's 1:04:39.040 --> 1:04:43.240 lesbian outfits, they're always fly come through about Wolf. We've 1:04:43.240 --> 1:04:45.480 got Dave come see our amazing staff comp have a 1:04:45.480 --> 1:04:49.800 photo shoot and um what else, Mandy, maybe she'll have 1:04:49.800 --> 1:04:53.640 her feet out. It's on. It's on every other week, 1:04:53.880 --> 1:04:57.600 ye my girl. Um, thank you guys for listening to 1:04:57.640 --> 1:05:01.560 another episode of Four Decisions. That's what it was. I mean, 1:05:01.600 --> 1:05:04.680 a lot of uh kettles and pots. However, I mean 1:05:05.320 --> 1:05:08.040 my take on it was, of course, just the accountability part. 1:05:08.240 --> 1:05:10.960 At the end of the day. Yeah, I guess we 1:05:11.000 --> 1:05:12.760 could sit here and sit on the fact that we've 1:05:13.240 --> 1:05:17.000 all fell for niggas that wasn't shipped. But to me, 1:05:17.280 --> 1:05:20.840 at some point you have to be able to see 1:05:20.840 --> 1:05:23.520 who the person is when when they show you them. 1:05:23.600 --> 1:05:26.880 And first off, you were never the only one or 1:05:26.880 --> 1:05:29.480 the main one, me, me, the baby mom and other 1:05:29.480 --> 1:05:32.920 women were also in the picture. Um. And then outside 1:05:32.920 --> 1:05:35.880 of that, he left you while you were pregnant. That's fair, 1:05:36.200 --> 1:05:38.560 but did you ever think that man could degrade you 1:05:38.600 --> 1:05:40.920 on Instagram live and put your baby on there and 1:05:41.000 --> 1:05:44.480 keep you you while you were pregnant And according to 1:05:44.560 --> 1:05:48.040 the family you also did she was already pregnant baby. Yeah, 1:05:48.080 --> 1:05:50.040 but you also didn't even show up for the baby shower. 1:05:50.320 --> 1:05:52.640 You didn't show up for me or the baby before 1:05:52.680 --> 1:05:56.120 the baby was here. Baby, So I just feel like 1:05:56.400 --> 1:05:59.360 no to me. Like that's the thing. We all date 1:05:59.480 --> 1:06:03.520 men with the lens of the idea of them or 1:06:03.600 --> 1:06:07.560 the potential of them, without really just acknowledging who the 1:06:07.640 --> 1:06:09.400 funk they are right in front of our eyes. But 1:06:09.440 --> 1:06:12.760 what is she supposed to so like? And here's the 1:06:12.800 --> 1:06:15.920 other thing. I understand. He left her when she was pregnant. 1:06:15.960 --> 1:06:17.880 He didn't show up to the baby shower. Okay, she 1:06:18.000 --> 1:06:20.440 has the baby. He's like, y'all move in with me. 1:06:20.640 --> 1:06:23.040 It's your first kid. I'm gonna help you out. Who's 1:06:23.040 --> 1:06:26.040 gonna say no to that? Your emotions are crazy. I've 1:06:26.040 --> 1:06:27.720 never had a baby. You've never had a baby. We've 1:06:27.720 --> 1:06:30.200 only had friends with babies. Right, they're all fucked up 1:06:30.200 --> 1:06:32.720 with hormones. And you're telling me I'm gonna say no 1:06:33.400 --> 1:06:35.720 to the father of my child inviting me in his 1:06:35.760 --> 1:06:38.560 home and possibly making it work. And granted, she probably 1:06:38.640 --> 1:06:41.560 is in love with him, Like, no, dude, you're gonna 1:06:42.200 --> 1:06:44.400 recap the happy memories. What are you gonna do start 1:06:44.440 --> 1:06:46.720 fucking with another nigga? No, you want to feel that 1:06:46.800 --> 1:06:50.560 community and that fatherhood and that feeling is crazy because girl, 1:06:51.320 --> 1:06:53.439 the first baby mama that you've been back and forth 1:06:53.480 --> 1:06:58.160 fot she prayed it right now again, So you don't 1:06:58.160 --> 1:07:00.240 move in with this thing and he's expect I think 1:07:00.280 --> 1:07:03.640 another child with the woman that she's supposed to do. 1:07:04.480 --> 1:07:07.320 She's supposed to be a grown ass woman. She wasn't 1:07:07.360 --> 1:07:10.000 supposed to sell her home in l A to move 1:07:10.080 --> 1:07:13.280 half across the country where she knows nobody, has no friends. 1:07:13.440 --> 1:07:14.920 She said that that's why I took her so long 1:07:14.920 --> 1:07:18.080 to even leave the house. Like to me, no, I'm sorry, 1:07:18.080 --> 1:07:20.280 it's a grown ass woman. This being hasn't showed up 1:07:20.280 --> 1:07:22.600 for you. So for you to put all of all 1:07:22.680 --> 1:07:25.160 of your hope into this man who hasn't been able 1:07:25.200 --> 1:07:28.040 to show up for you since at some point you 1:07:28.120 --> 1:07:30.840 gotta you gotta fault yourself. I think that you can't 1:07:30.840 --> 1:07:32.880 say that when someone has just had a baby. I 1:07:32.880 --> 1:07:35.280 think you could say that for someone to like it's 1:07:35.360 --> 1:07:39.400 just with and they've been in love, like we've said 1:07:39.440 --> 1:07:41.680 this and this is a problem with Danny. She probably 1:07:41.680 --> 1:07:44.320 thought that baby was gonna get them back together. A 1:07:44.320 --> 1:07:47.160 lot of people keep a baby, have a baby and 1:07:47.240 --> 1:07:50.720 hope that it makes a bond stronger or but or 1:07:50.760 --> 1:07:53.560 a man can show up differently. You can't see the 1:07:53.600 --> 1:07:56.400 same way of a girl that just had her first child. 1:07:56.520 --> 1:07:59.200 She's young the same it's the same way, And I'm 1:07:59.240 --> 1:08:01.160 gonna say it, it's the same ship. I said about 1:08:01.160 --> 1:08:05.360 Summer Walker and her Raggedy Ass album. Yeah, you sat 1:08:05.400 --> 1:08:07.760 here and argued with all the other baby mama's thinking 1:08:07.800 --> 1:08:10.320 that you was gonna be different. Danny thought because she 1:08:10.400 --> 1:08:12.600 was a yellow bone, she was gonna be treated different 1:08:12.600 --> 1:08:15.320 than he did. But and and trust me, and I 1:08:15.320 --> 1:08:17.240 saw this tweet from Crystal that I really liked. It 1:08:17.280 --> 1:08:18.880 was like, y'all really got me sticking up for this. 1:08:19.000 --> 1:08:20.800 He want me because I'm yellow bitch, because that's how 1:08:20.880 --> 1:08:24.280 trash the baby is. But you're saying that we know this, 1:08:24.520 --> 1:08:28.400 but he ain't gonna stay blahlah blah. Mandy, she she 1:08:28.520 --> 1:08:31.160 was twenty four, like I think she's twenty five now 1:08:31.240 --> 1:08:34.800 or six? Like do you really like, can you really 1:08:34.800 --> 1:08:38.760 say that? But that's what I'm saying, Like can we 1:08:39.080 --> 1:08:42.400 and by we I mean people that say you should 1:08:42.400 --> 1:08:45.880 know better? Can we really say that if you've already 1:08:45.920 --> 1:08:47.880 been through a shitty situation with a nigga like the 1:08:47.920 --> 1:08:51.320 girl is young. I just don't and I really feel 1:08:51.320 --> 1:08:52.960 like he exploited her. I feel like what he did 1:08:53.000 --> 1:08:56.720 was fucked up. I just don't like using that young 1:08:56.800 --> 1:09:00.080 excuse for someone who's twenty six, because we still have 1:09:00.160 --> 1:09:03.200 niggas in their thirties and forties who's still a like 1:09:03.320 --> 1:09:06.200 to me, No, there's a lot more resources now. There's 1:09:06.200 --> 1:09:08.360 a lot of people telling you what to do, what 1:09:08.520 --> 1:09:11.639 not to do. There's you've sat here and been dragged 1:09:11.640 --> 1:09:14.160 by the internet. You've seen how bad this man has 1:09:14.160 --> 1:09:17.040 treated you over the years. It's been in your face. 1:09:17.360 --> 1:09:20.360 And she literally said she was like, I feel so 1:09:20.400 --> 1:09:22.719 bad that I didn't listen to the internet, the fact 1:09:22.760 --> 1:09:25.120 that you have to be like, damn Internet, you was right. 1:09:25.760 --> 1:09:28.760 Everyone was telling you. You chose to ignore all the 1:09:28.760 --> 1:09:31.679 red flag. We just spoke about how everybody was posting 1:09:31.680 --> 1:09:35.120 the red flag. Bit them ships was flaming hot. They 1:09:35.200 --> 1:09:38.840 wasn't even off off white. They wasn't even hot pink. 1:09:39.120 --> 1:09:43.240 They was read the whole time Like so to me, No, 1:09:43.680 --> 1:09:47.400 at you're eighteen year an adult. You're twenty, you're twenty one, 1:09:47.479 --> 1:09:49.439 you're twenty two, you're twenty five, you're twenty six, you're 1:09:49.439 --> 1:09:51.800 thirty or thirty one. I'm not gonna just call someone 1:09:51.800 --> 1:09:56.479 in their twenties, late twenties, mid twenties young. Oh my god, 1:09:56.520 --> 1:09:58.559 it's not like she's in high school. I