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Speaker 1: I guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to an episode of horrible decisions, Mandy. And if

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Speaker 1: you're watching matching on accent, are we look like animals?

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Speaker 1: I'm also matching. You just don't see me. No, you're

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Speaker 1: not matching us. Guys, you can't just watch stand that

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Speaker 1: you want to be included, but you can't sit with us. Sorry. Now,

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Speaker 1: somehow we both decided to wear animal fright today. And

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Speaker 1: it's the same exact animal and I'm not really sure

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Speaker 1: what animal, but it's an animal. It's a it's giving

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Speaker 1: like you know, a liger. It's like it's this is

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Speaker 1: only tiger because it could be it's just tiger because

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Speaker 1: it's brown but white. You could be a zebra. Okay,

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Speaker 1: is also a is it it's giving tiger? I'm not

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Speaker 1: sure it's giving classed it's given players clubs, bucking ground.

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Speaker 1: Then him jump suit that ain't given class bit huh, bitch,

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Speaker 1: it's capriz. How did bitch? I'm here? Ain't I know?

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Speaker 1: But like how what was it? Like? Um? Well, I

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Speaker 1: just with the nail text were there? No, they weren't

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Speaker 1: because my attorney um rescheduled because bitch. My ship was

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Speaker 1: during a blizzard. Both of us was like, we're not

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Speaker 1: going to court tonight. It's fucking snowing. Um, so I

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Speaker 1: probably I hired a private attorney, uh, and he was

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Speaker 1: He was able to like reschedule and I went in

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Speaker 1: and baby he handled everything by the time. By a

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Speaker 1: time I got in there, it was just like yes, sir, no, sir,

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Speaker 1: I understand. I forgot what I was supposed to say.

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Speaker 1: And then I remember y'all said your honor, but I

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Speaker 1: I just said yes, sir, no sir. The whole time,

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Speaker 1: I just called him sir because I didn't want to, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I didn't know what I could call him.

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Speaker 1: I've never been in there, so even the whole time,

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Speaker 1: like my attorney is like explaining the proceedings and what

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Speaker 1: my options are, I was just like, I just don't

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Speaker 1: want a criminal record. Was it giving people's court? What

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Speaker 1: was it giving? Did you get to watch other people's

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Speaker 1: like trials and ship? That'd be fine? Well, first off,

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize that this was taking place where bookings is,

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Speaker 1: And I noticed when I started looking down and no

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Speaker 1: are just getting out of jail. So and then, of

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Speaker 1: course this is a different one. I was at a precinct.

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Speaker 1: I was just in the holding cell. This was where

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Speaker 1: they was booked, waiting on arrangements to see the judge.

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Speaker 1: That's like I didn't Yeah, that's what I got booked

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Speaker 1: I didn't have to wait for a judge. That's why.

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Speaker 1: So I had a d A T, which is a

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Speaker 1: disk appearance ticket, which allowed me to go home that

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Speaker 1: that same day. Now, if you're booked and you got

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Speaker 1: I ran into a girl. She was locked up at

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Speaker 1: did they look like they have been in jail all night? Well,

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Speaker 1: this girl had on pajamas and I said, oh, honey,

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Speaker 1: did you need she thought somebody? No, she saw her

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Speaker 1: daddy Carr, and her daddy uh called the cops. I said, bit,

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Speaker 1: What do you have to say for them? But I

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Speaker 1: mean it was I'm just glad that it's over. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I had a few options, UM and I decided to

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Speaker 1: So I ended up just taking disorderly conduct time served

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Speaker 1: and that allows the case to a be closed already sealed,

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Speaker 1: But they do like this thing where it's a journed

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Speaker 1: be dismissed. You didn't have faith in that. Well, my

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Speaker 1: you know what, no sympathy because I also found a

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Speaker 1: Why do you keep having this happen? Is it? Matt?

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Speaker 1: It's uh lip liner would just chapstick, and it's a chapstick,

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Speaker 1: It comes way off. If would love to give I'm

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Speaker 1: mama numbers sinko fun times which I started bleeding the

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Speaker 1: said that, my god, can you not it's the thing

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Speaker 1: I said that they get a picture of the pad

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Speaker 1: times I've seen one? Seven? Damn? How old is that? Nigga?

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Speaker 1: He definitely seen the tampa. He's seen the tampon, clearly,

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Speaker 1: guess you're his type. He always talks about how like

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Speaker 1: But I was like, oh, they still have you on

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Speaker 1: kind Nane, there's gonna be niggas looking for you. Bit

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Speaker 1: shut up, um. But anyway, he's gonna get another car now,

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Speaker 1: pan cup and good what's the theatrics because like you know,

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Speaker 1: the theatrics that could be blood like all that wish

421
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,920
Speaker 1: is what I had to make sure um and then

422
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:25,159
Speaker 1: after I got the test, obviously and still used condoms.

423
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,880
Speaker 1: Not the most famous nigga line and Mandy, I would

424
00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,600
Speaker 1: like you to say it for me. Oh, you ain't

425
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 1: got nothing. I ain't got nothing. We're good. There we go.

426
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:36,119
Speaker 1: I don't understand you gotta use the ship. Why we

427
00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,080
Speaker 1: gotta use the ship? You just got? We ain't got ship.

428
00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 1: That's why, no, nigga, there is like incubation periods of

429
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 1: the ship. You could have just sucked the bitch during

430
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 1: the break that I went through and got tested and

431
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,360
Speaker 1: waited for my results and now you could about now

432
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 1: for maybe okay, wait for you would have been singing.

433
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 1: I believe he's fucking all over them to say they're

434
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,920
Speaker 1: not you. I know you got a good name. Five

435
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: you know what you just actually y'all. That's how we're

436
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:15,400
Speaker 1: gonna start the homemail because we have one about this,

437
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:23,919
Speaker 1: so guys, you don't even read it. He's so this week,

438
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 1: this week's episode, Weezy and I are going to be

439
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 1: giving some advice for homemail. Um, just because of time constraints,

440
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 1: we have missed quite a few. All of these were

441
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,639
Speaker 1: sent in in January, so these are the most up

442
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 1: to date ones. Yeah, I found like five or six

443
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 1: of them. UM, so super super super excited. I just

444
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,880
Speaker 1: forwarded them as well to the Horrible Decisions email. By

445
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 1: the way, UM, please please please send your homemails or

446
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 1: hotels too, Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com if you

447
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:59,160
Speaker 1: can label it homemail so that we could be sure

448
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,359
Speaker 1: to flag and start so that we can read it

449
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,440
Speaker 1: and give you advice on a future episode and this

450
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 1: one that we're starting with. I can't stop my baby dadds.

451
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 1: I can't stop sucking my baby daddy. Didn't we read this? Now?

452
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,639
Speaker 1: This was just since in Oh maybe I read it.

453
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 1: Maybe I sent it to him. Yeah, no, yeah, this

454
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 1: this is just that. Then like last week she said

455
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 1: he got three more kids. Well, let's get into it. So, guys,

456
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this week's episode of Nothing but Homemail

457
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: and Hotels. So hey, y'all, I've been in a ten

458
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:41,719
Speaker 1: year situation ship with my baby daddy that's already one

459
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 1: of the kids. For a long time, he would make

460
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 1: me feel like a hope for hooking up with other people,

461
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 1: even though he was doing the same thing we've never

462
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 1: been to being a mother. Having said, listen, this is listen.

463
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,199
Speaker 1: These homemails ain't short, let me get through them. So

464
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: we didn't dis set these holes. I need to add

465
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,479
Speaker 1: some color. So for a long time, you would make

466
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: me feel like a hope for hooking up with other people,

467
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,360
Speaker 1: even though he was doing the same thing we've never

468
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 1: been in a public relationship. And as an impact, I

469
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 1: feel like I was being mind fucked by his narcissistic

470
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 1: and manipulative ways. Your podcast really helped me break out

471
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,880
Speaker 1: of that and I can say that I'm honestly really

472
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 1: happy and living in my truth. Thank you guys for

473
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 1: being so transparent with us. My story today is that

474
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 1: I moved out of my hometown almost three years ago,

475
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,639
Speaker 1: and my baby daddy flies in on certain schedules, and

476
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: that's how we co parent while we live in different states.

477
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I still love him, and we

478
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:37,120
Speaker 1: slip up sometimes by having sex. He has always been

479
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: the guy to cheat on his girlfriends, which never really

480
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 1: fazes me because I was always single. Things are a

481
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 1: little different. Things are a little different now though. I've

482
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 1: been seeing a new guy who also lives in my hometown,

483
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 1: and and he's already flying me out to a resort

484
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:55,679
Speaker 1: in the Caribbean on vacation or a second day. He

485
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: seems like everything I could ever ask for, but he's

486
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 1: kind of lacking in the looks department. I'm going to

487
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: give it Boks and the looks department vation. I'm going

488
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 1: to give him a try. But I'm nervous that if

489
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: I fuck him during the vacation, during the vacation and

490
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 1: I don't like it, I may still end up running

491
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: back to my baby daddy for sex. I don't want

492
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: to make everything about looks and sex, but those things

493
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 1: are kind of important. Although we are more open now

494
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: about our personal lives, I'm constantly fighting myself to create

495
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,919
Speaker 1: healthy boundaries with my baby daddy. It's like my pussy

496
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: has a mind of her own. What would you guys

497
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 1: do if y'all were in my position? X O x

498
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:38,199
Speaker 1: ope not adding with that first of all, on the

499
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: last day, Oh, on the on vacation, Yeah, because why

500
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: would you do it on the first day. Now you

501
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: gotta stay on vacation with this guy who has wagons.

502
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:46,959
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna want no more. He gonna know if

503
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: you but to me, if looks Here's the thing, ladies,

504
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: we do all have our non negotiables. You just put

505
00:24:57,240 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 1: looks in sex seemingly very high onto your list. I

506
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: don't know why his. Ladies, we try to convince ourselves

507
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,239
Speaker 1: that sex with someone else makes sense when we know

508
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: already that they're not checking off the boxes that are

509
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,679
Speaker 1: high on our list. It's like you're gonna It's like

510
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: you're dating with potential. I hate fucking and dating with

511
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: potential if you already know he's not a looker, and

512
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 1: now you're worried that if the sex isn't good, you're

513
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 1: gonna go back to sucking your baby daddy. I say,

514
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: go to therapy first. But also before you create a

515
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: healthy relationship with anyone else, you need to create the

516
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: boundaries for yourself with your baby daddy before you even

517
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: try to involve anyone else, because it seems like the

518
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: fact that you're even calling in a situation ship but

519
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 1: you've been single forever. I don't believe that you fully

520
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: identify as single because you keep sucking your baby daddy. Daddy. Yeah,

521
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,479
Speaker 1: you keep lapsing into the baby daddy. What are your thoughts?

522
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 1: What would you do to me? I think she need

523
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 1: therapy and she doesn't need to be trying to date

524
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: right now without getting over that and not that. I

525
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 1: feel like this is the I'm trying to like take

526
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: myself out of in b biased. I feel like one

527
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: baby dad, these and baby mamas get together, Like there's

528
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: a connection that obviously you have that nobody else can recreate. Right,

529
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: you guys made a kid together. It's super special. You're

530
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 1: always gonna feel attached to this person. I don't think

531
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with fucking your baby daddy or your

532
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 1: baby mama as long as you know what I mean, Like,

533
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: I really don't know. As long as you guys um um.

534
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: I like, even if even if they're single, I mean

535
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 1: to me, it just creates those uh to me, it

536
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: creates a lingering effect. It creates a long term effect,

537
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: and I think that a lot of women do, especially

538
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: if you create a life with someone, there's still that

539
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 1: inkling in the back of many women said not all,

540
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 1: but but that you would like to have that family together.

541
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: And so I think that it has a negative long

542
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: term effect for you to keep jumping back into something

543
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: that clearly didn't work. You're not with the man, he

544
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 1: still shows up to co parent. I believe in drawing boundaries,

545
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 1: but that's also what I saw growing up. My mom

546
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: was very adamant in drawing the boundary with my daddy,

547
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: and we even just had the conversation yesterday, like my

548
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: dad used to be so disrespectful when my mom even

549
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: had boyfriends living with us. My daddy will pop up

550
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: and just walk in the house. And it took a

551
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: long time for her to draw those boundaries where I

552
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 1: don't care that you my baby daddy, respect the other

553
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: man that's in this house now. And so to me, no,

554
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 1: to me removing sex, removing even the lingering idea that

555
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 1: this could be something, or you have that ownership over

556
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: me because we have kids. So if you feel like

557
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: it's like being safe, right, like I've gone through really

558
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: long periods without sex and if I had somebody I

559
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 1: felt safe having sex with, and it just happened to

560
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: be my baby daddy. Fine. Um. Now moreover on the

561
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: vacation thing, very since just easy answer for me. I

562
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: would not go away with someone that I wasn't going

563
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: to have sex with or or I was scared to funk,

564
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: or I felt like I'd have to be avoid fucking.

565
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 1: Like I did go on a vacation with a sugar daddy,

566
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: and I remember before I got on that plane. I

567
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: don't know if it's Binny or Christopher that I talked

568
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 1: to about it, I don't know, but I just remember

569
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 1: like I was like, oh my god, what if I

570
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: have sex? And it was just like, well, flying you

571
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 1: out for well know, because I wasn't sleeping with him,

572
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: right like not, then that's why he gave you a vacation.

573
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: Oh he's gonna give me the pussy. I don't know.

574
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: He did get me those Beyonce to the whole Miami,

575
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But like, so, okay, we had

576
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: it was like a thing before where we didn't have sex.

577
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 1: But also I was like there was a lot going on,

578
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 1: so maybe I could get away with it again. And

579
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: he also knew I didn't want to have sex. But

580
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: even if he knew that, I still got to know

581
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 1: him in a foreign country with the man, I gotta

582
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: be okay with it, And honestly, by the time I

583
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: got on that plane, I was. I think I talked

584
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: talked about it, how I watched him fuck like a

585
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: hole that he paid for, but I was still okay

586
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: with it if it happened, Like I was totally fine

587
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: in that feeling. And like, I think, if you're no

588
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: vacations worth that you will literally have the worst time. Yeah,

589
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: you will, I mean, and I'm not gonna lie to

590
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: I want if you're avoiding it as women, though, I

591
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: want to get away from the idea that we are

592
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 1: these dumb women that don't understand what an invite on

593
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: a vacation or Caribbean island is. Like I hear even

594
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: because I even hear Mom talk about it, but I'm

595
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: not sucking offering to fly you out on a vacation

596
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: with me to the islands to talk about euphoria over

597
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: coffee and tea the fuck, Like it's not a home

598
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 1: girl homeboy biber trip. Like if if a man is

599
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: willing to spend that much money. This goes nigga's first off,

600
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: Nigga's expect pussy from dinner, that I'm gonna ship the

601
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: funk out the next day. The fact, like, women, let's

602
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: not be blind at the pace that this nigga is

603
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: sucking flying you out with hopes of getting pussy, real

604
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: good pussy. And I don't hurt Nigga saying if I'm

605
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: flying you to an island, don't even think I'm getting

606
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: condom dick. I'm giving wrong. Oh no, yeah, but I've

607
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: heard men say this. So the fact that we know

608
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: the intent behind it. Ladies, don't put yourself in a situation,

609
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: especially being flown out if you ain't gonna get a

610
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: pussy up, because that's what he's flying you out for. Nigga,

611
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you. Uh well, I hadn't make it,

612
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: offered me a trip to where was it. It wasn't far,

613
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: but it was far enough. Oh it was the Hamptons.

614
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: It was this summer. I met this guy and he

615
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: was like, oh, let's go to the Hamptons for the weekend, dada.

616
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: And I was very very explicit about being like, because

617
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: I wasn't having sex at the time, right, when I

618
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: was like going through my depression ship because to me,

619
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: when I'm sad, I get super attached. It's like I

620
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: don't know if the feelings would make me go up

621
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: or down. I was like, bro, I do not want

622
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: to go to the Hamptons. Like I was like, I'm

623
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: not trying to fun, like I'm just in this really

624
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: weird like a sexual moment in my life. And he

625
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: was like, I think it's the Hamptons, Like what the funk?

626
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: I was like, I still a vacation overnight is a vacation.

627
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: To me, overnight means you want some pussy. I said,

628
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: you know what's gonna happen. We're gonna be there, We're

629
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: gonna go out, and then you're gonna look at me

630
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: in that bit which I don't even gonna hold you overnight,

631
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: which I would take a train down to Philly, come

632
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: right back same night. It still got bussy because bitch

633
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: I crossed state lines. What I'm saying, like, you don't

634
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: do another city means you okay, that's fair another scene,

635
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, except for except you don't

636
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: go to Jersey for what? Oh bitch I used to

637
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 1: be all up through that g w b baby, I

638
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: was going straight that nigga that I was going straight

639
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: for that. Oh my god, I just realized I got

640
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: another baby, Mama. Remember the nigga out man in l A.

641
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: We had a great day and he ended up living

642
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: in New York, but he really lived in Jersey and

643
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: he lived in the baby Mama. That's awful, girl. What's

644
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: with you? And I don't know who I mean? Even

645
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: though there's Fort Lee Edgewater programs all that little area

646
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: over there. I looked a lot of niggas that lived

647
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: in Jersey right there, because it's like tip, Oh my god.

648
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: And when I used to go Dear and Booty call

649
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: hours going across the g w B at two am

650
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: in the morning, four am in the morning, bitch, great

651
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: shot a few minutes from Park Chest That's when I

652
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 1: lived in the box. There's no way now I would

653
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: set in Jersey. Well, not only because so far. Not

654
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: when you live in the Bronx, I get it. I

655
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: don't even know that you could do the tunnel. You could,

656
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: you could get Hoboken, That's what I'm saying. She could

657
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: set Hopebo. Why do you guys try to tell Y

658
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: invited me to this The New Year's party there ye

659
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 1: had I wasn't even here and I was like, I

660
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: love you, friend, but you thought I was gonna go there.

661
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: And he's like, you see the party we got invited to?

662
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 1: Uh oh, by the time, just come out, it'll be done.

663
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 1: The party for your leisure, the surprise party. Oh it's

664
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: in Jersey. Do you see that? Look your face? You

665
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: can't you have money? Uber a bitch. Honestly, I just

666
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: kind of feel like it's it's like it just feels far.

667
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: I don't even like Newark Airport. I mean, I ain't

668
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: gonna hold you right. I don't hold you right. So

669
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: shout out to good Mom's back Choices. They gave me

670
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: a two dollar spot credit for my birthday, but it's

671
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: first Sojo spot and I'm like, this is gonna cost

672
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: me two hundred dollars ship that's a flight to it.

673
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: This is not like, this is a very pretentious vibe

674
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: by giving. And the vibe is simply because I don't

675
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 1: like to go far anywhere, nigga. I had to do

676
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,479
Speaker 1: uh an interview for something like for TV, like on

677
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: set and they told me that the location was on

678
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: D Street and I was like, I know you guys

679
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: are sending me like a car, but like, can we

680
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: figure out like a time where I don't want have

681
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: to sit in the car a long time like this

682
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: is like I live in the Lower East. I ain't

683
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. I ain't noticed it until I moved

684
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: to long On the city. Far bitch. I think I've

685
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: been to the Bronx one time in a year, and

686
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: that was to go collect mail from my old apartment.

687
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: Why would you, guys don't. But now I see why

688
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: nobody came to see me in the Bronx. They was like, bitch,

689
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 1: the Bronx, nigga. I like the Bronx when I did

690
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: live there. They have breweries. Now they're totally gentrifying it um.

691
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: But also I got the best chop cheese bro. The

692
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: food in the Bronx bro, the ship that I used

693
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: to be able to get, like the Tostones, the all

694
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: of like, oh my god, the food in the Bronx everywhere,

695
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna lie at long On the city,

696
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: A Long and city. Okay, I have a cheese bark

697
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: and dumplings cheese bar. What do you mean a cheese

698
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: a cheese and wine bar. And I got done like

699
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,760
Speaker 1: it's all Asian food. I said, like a bar cheese,

700
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 1: no bit. But I'm just saying I do miss the

701
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 1: food in the Bronx speaking of a bar of cheese. Uh,

702
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 1: y'all knowes. I was walking Nina and there's always a

703
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,439
Speaker 1: really long line um at this hot dog k hot

704
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,240
Speaker 1: dog place on Orchard Street. I don't know if anybody

705
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: knows I'm talking about the Cross hot Dogs. Yeah, it's

706
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: a crossroom pianos and the line is long, bro like

707
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: even in the snow, be like fifty people. So we

708
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 1: just happened to walk by there while they open and

709
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I gotta try this ship. So

710
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: I had a fried whatever it was hot dog. There

711
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: was some cheese in it whatever. Um. Some of you know,

712
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: if you're on Patreon that my apartment is getting renovated.

713
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: As my apartment is getting renovated, I can't go in

714
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: the apartment. So what happens when I eat and take

715
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: a bite into this hot dog? It's amazing. I finish it.

716
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: Now I have to ship my pants because it's so

717
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: much meat and cheese and fried ship. When I tell

718
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 1: you I've run up to the apartment, they're like, you

719
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 1: can't get in there right now, because it was like,

720
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: you know there they got the drill out. I was like,

721
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, after he's a bathroom, you can't get

722
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: in there right now. Oh my god, I think I

723
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: called Ena get ready to tell them the story. I

724
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 1: had to ship so bad. I went into the bodega.

725
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 1: I had to give you in a bodega. They know me,

726
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: but I don't give a fuck. I didn't have a

727
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: try you sho. I went to I Where did I

728
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: run to? I went to UM, I went to Mr

729
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: Taka Ramen. I went to Sauce Pizza. They weren't open yet.

730
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: I went to a bunch of places in the neighborhood,

731
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 1: and then finally I went to the bodega. And I

732
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 1: looked like I was in a panic. I was red

733
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 1: in the face, sweating. I had to hand them my dog.

734
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: Do you know what he's like? I was like, First off,

735
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: He's like, I can't take the dog. I'm only here.

736
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: I have to cook the food. Now it's me and

737
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: Nina in a fucking janitor's closet while I'm shipping, and

738
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 1: this dog is looking at me, judging me. She's just

739
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: sitting there with her little christy ass like, it's like

740
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 1: a mop bucket next to me. Mandy is bad. And

741
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: I was in there so long that I was like,

742
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 1: oh my god, they're gonna think. I'm like, like, is

743
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: everything Okay? It was a lie. I don't think if

744
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: you're not from New York, you will not know the

745
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: terror of having to ship or piss while you're just

746
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,320
Speaker 1: out in the city. Because baby, don't nobody want to

747
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: let you use that motherfucking bathroom. Like Starbucks don't even like.

748
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: But you've got to be able to show a receipt.

749
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: Sometimes they'll have a cold. They go now. Anybody can

750
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: use it ever since that incident, but only start Starbucks

751
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 1: on de Lante was too far. They got hot dog

752
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: was so strong in five it hit my stomach in

753
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: the middle of it still being in my head. Okay,

754
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,959
Speaker 1: I was there. It was bad. It was so bad

755
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: so you'll never eat it again. No, And I really

756
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: think it was just a mix of meat fried cheese.

757
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 1: Anyboy's not gonna lie. By the time I got out

758
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 1: of there, I didn't have any cash on me, but

759
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 1: I knew I needed to pay for what I had

760
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 1: just done. Somehow. I'm not saying it was a mess. No,

761
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 1: I didn't blow it was clean. I'm just saying I

762
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: felt guilty because I knew he knew I should. The

763
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: customers probably walked in there thinking there was some bad

764
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: meat in that death. Oh my god, I thought everything

765
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,919
Speaker 1: was wrong. Bro. Going bed, I was like, I don't

766
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: have any I don't even have right now, like you know,

767
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: I just want to leave you something. He's like, it's okay,

768
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 1: don't worry about it because I come all the time.

769
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, can I just take like

770
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: Apple pay for twenty dollars? And now he's laughing and

771
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: he goes because I keep offering money? Is it a

772
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 1: problem in there? So now? And that's Orchard Street grosser okay, which,

773
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: by the way, he used to be the bodega had

774
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: been going to for years. I can't do it anymore.

775
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 1: And the shame that I felt after leaving the bathroom,

776
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: it was just bad. But you know what you can't

777
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: feel ship That is a humanly bro everybody everyone. I

778
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: didn't feel like sometimes I'm too pretty to ship, like

779
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: I don't think work at me and I don't want

780
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: them to see me as a shitter. All right, We're

781
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: gonna get to that. You don't know what I'm saying,

782
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: Like do you talk about with your man? Yes? What

783
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 1: is why we had to change the right after a bitch,

784
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: I have antal sex many nothing when you have to ship,

785
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: like you say, I told you, I don't let him know. Baby,

786
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,439
Speaker 1: don't eat back there today. It was kind of rough

787
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: this morning, like when you have to go to the

788
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: bad It was a little wet that morning when you

789
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,959
Speaker 1: have you tell him I have to ship because you say,

790
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: and I hate that you use this word piss. But

791
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 1: every time I don't know what something not being crazy

792
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: about me saying that I got a piss. I mean,

793
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: I ain't gonnhold but he talks. But he talks about

794
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 1: my delivery all the time. I'd be like, oh, you're

795
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: gonna give me that dick even, like why you talk

796
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 1: like this? He hates Like again he hates when I

797
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: get into like my sex sock because he's like, you

798
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: have a fucking sex podcast. Ain't nothing about anything you're

799
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: saying for something, let us not forget. You can pat

800
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 1: it back there. That's what I'm saying that Like, I like,

801
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: you don't give me that dirt, Like no, but I'd

802
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,359
Speaker 1: be real open, like he isn't like I'll be like, man,

803
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: a bitch gotta piss. I tell him about when I

804
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: ship it, not when I have to ship, and then

805
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: I'll tell him what I'm bleeding, like I'm about to die.

806
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,879
Speaker 1: And he does tell me t M I he said

807
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,919
Speaker 1: I think that I may. He also says, I don't

808
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,919
Speaker 1: know why it has to be an announcement, but I'm

809
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,439
Speaker 1: just free like that I told my friends. He'll be like, bitch,

810
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take you off FaceTime because girl, this ship

811
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 1: is not coming out. Like when I like really have

812
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: to focus on getting the ship out while I'm on

813
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: face I have to hang out. I'll be like, oh no,

814
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: I just pushed the screen over. You're gonna be on

815
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:34,720
Speaker 1: pause like so o. Bate told me like he knows

816
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: when I ship, which will really embarrass me. Why does

817
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: he know when you because he hears the double flush

818
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 1: like that, bro, right when it comes out, I know

819
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: that's the courtesy flush. That that's when you shipped really bad,

820
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: like solid dollars just don't need two flushes, bro, Yes,

821
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 1: it does not solid coming out, and like that, you

822
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: basically ship and flush while it goes and then if

823
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: I have enough double flush when his thing, a double flush.

824
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: If something comes out of my ass, Mandy, it don't

825
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: stay called in tide. We keep the home. You know

826
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And so he's so o c D

827
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: like he goes when the bottles turned, and I'll be like,

828
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 1: I just don't want him to know. I don't want

829
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 1: anyone I have, all right, because I don't you step

830
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: backing like you're like you're fucking grown. It doesn't, it does.

831
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 1: This is not a high school thing. It's just like

832
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: I feel like childish thing. Everyone all adults know, the

833
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 1: adults other adults. Shit. No, alright, the next question, guys,

834
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 1: Hey queens, I just started listening to your podcast, and

835
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed. I listened to what at work. May not

836
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: be the best time because I get turned on, but

837
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: I love it and I'm always cracking up. I am

838
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: thirty years old, and yes I have orgasm before, but

839
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: my boyfriend now makes me squirt and I love it.

840
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 1: The only thing that sucks is I can't ever do

841
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: it myself, and sometimes it's hard to make myself even come.

842
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: Other times he will get off, and again sometimes I

843
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 1: don't come. But I love turning him on and pleasing him.

844
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,280
Speaker 1: I also get off on that. I need some pointers

845
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: on how to do this myself or answers on why

846
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 1: sometimes a woman just doesn't come? Is that bad? I

847
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 1: also have never had a threesome, but now I'm all

848
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: for it. I think it would be so hot to

849
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 1: squirt on another girl while your man is helping. Any

850
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: pointers or tips you can give to help make it

851
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: easier for a first timer would be great. You guys, rock,

852
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 1: I'm so happy about this podcast. Keep on doing the

853
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: horrible things you do and inspiring women to be just

854
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: like you. One love So. The question here, One Love So.

855
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: The question is basically, is it bad? Um if a

856
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: woman doesn't come all the time? Also, how can she

857
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: make herself come? And then any pointers on having a

858
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 1: threesome with her man? And also maybe I would assume

859
00:41:55,800 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: there would be a conversation with squirting on the other woman. Um,

860
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: well that's why I said she wants to squirt on

861
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: the other woman. He's in the conversation for threesomes. You

862
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 1: take that over. I feel like we've had so much

863
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: threesome dialogue and not the three so I'll take it

864
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: over because I just said the conversation will be about

865
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: squirting on the other woman. This is an act now

866
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 1: more more than the threesome. She knows that her man

867
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: can make her squirt. She wants to ejaculate onto another woman.

868
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: So to me, that sounds more than even just a threesome.

869
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: She's she literally said, I think it would be fun

870
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 1: for my man to help me squirt on another woman.

871
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: I think that that kind of goes more beyond threesome.

872
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: I think she's envisioning doing that. It's a fantasy of

873
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: doing it on another woman. I'm not sure if there's

874
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: maybe a humiliating factor, a um like maybe some sort

875
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: of um big letter factor of wanting to do that

876
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: to another woman and your man doing it. I'm not

877
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 1: sure in her mind where the pleasure comes. And just

878
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 1: I feel like, if it's that specific, you gotta get

879
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: your ship off at a sex club or something like that.

880
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 1: Like I feel like how women don't st like squirting

881
00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 1: is often like it's often what women like refrain from. Like, bro,

882
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 1: you can make a mess and ruin a big area

883
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: of where people are playing to squirt, like women that

884
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: squirt normally will hold it in like squirters know, Like

885
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: you can ruin a whole area sex club by ejaculating

886
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: like the thing that you're trying to get off. I mean,

887
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 1: I would say that's something to do in the privacy,

888
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: not of the sex club. And bis I go to

889
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: sex club, what I would love to see that that's interesting.

890
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 1: I never know that that would be taboos. I'm sorry.

891
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: Guys can do Bookaki on a bitch and I can't

892
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: squirtch sexist and the sexiest as much is as much

893
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 1: because I mean a lot of sex club coming out

894
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: of a hole depending on the space, though, like it's

895
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: a little selfish thing. I would say to do that

896
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 1: to make it so where now there's a large portion

897
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: of the club that no one else wants to use

898
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: because it's faked or drenched, Like I've been a couch

899
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: where you sit down, like you get up immediately that area.

900
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:57,720
Speaker 1: People will let you know, don't go in that area.

901
00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,879
Speaker 1: So now there's a large portion of the club that's

902
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: I don't get it. So you could go there if

903
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 1: it's dry, but there was someone else's ass juice on there,

904
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: and it's just not. I mean the same way how

905
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: when I have sex at home, if the sheets are

906
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 1: are dry, like there's no someone else's but if it's soaked,

907
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 1: I'm removing. What I'm saying is no one is sucking

908
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 1: on what sheets. Nobody even no one's sleeping on what sheets,

909
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 1: like even at home, it's my own juices. If the

910
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: sheets are wet, I guess I'm not thinking of the

911
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: squirt being like so much is so like. But what

912
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 1: I'm saying is no one really likes I Also, when

913
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:38,359
Speaker 1: I'm talking about squirt like, I think we also have

914
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: to stop this idea of like squirting being this fucking

915
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: fountain of youth that we're watching in porn. Like you know,

916
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:46,800
Speaker 1: I don't think it's gonna be that, and say, and

917
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: if it is, then saying bring it howls okay. As

918
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: someone who goes to sex climps, that's my advice. I

919
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 1: wouldn't suggest it, but that's you suggest I think somebody

920
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: wants to see that. But then on the contrary, right,

921
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 1: so that does make me wonder about the Bukaki thing.

922
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,359
Speaker 1: What if some what if a dude? I mean, it's

923
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,479
Speaker 1: weird because again, as many as I've been to, first off,

924
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:09,919
Speaker 1: nutting is a lot more way small. Mind you, when

925
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:13,280
Speaker 1: you're nutting, you're either nutting in or on something, which

926
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 1: normally you will move until it's wiped off like a

927
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 1: lot of times. I mean, and again there's courtesy and

928
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: sex clubs. Again that's not something that's normally just like

929
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: you don't go to sex clubs and niggas are just

930
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,360
Speaker 1: jacking off all over the fucking sheet like it normally

931
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: goes somewhere. So for squirting. And again, I've been in

932
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 1: places where we all let each other know it's really

933
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 1: what over there? You don't want to go over there?

934
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: Or I've literally went somewhere it was wet, got up immediately,

935
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:42,280
Speaker 1: like it's not enjoyed with not only are my own juices,

936
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: but damn show not somebody else's juices. I would say, Um,

937
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: this is actually advice that I thought you would have

938
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 1: went a sex worker. If you just want to ejaculate

939
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 1: onto somebody, um, and you just want to squirt and

940
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: you want your man to make you squirt onto somebody,

941
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 1: get a sex I only said sex club because I

942
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: feel like it's a chink that sounds like somebody else

943
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: would be. But what about those apps you guys usually

944
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: kind of like field, there's there's fat life. I mean,

945
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 1: if you can find people that I mean, if it's

946
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: the one specific thing. I think sex club or sex worker, right,

947
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: But what was the other first question she had? She

948
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: also said, kind of a man can make her come,

949
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: but she cannot make herself come, which is ironic because

950
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: we also talk about here you can't expect to make

951
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 1: a man come if you don't know how to make

952
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 1: yourself come, like learning your own body, what pleases you.

953
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: That's like kind of a tip that we've given for

954
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:37,720
Speaker 1: years on this show. Opposite try a vibrator. I honestly,

955
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: I prefer to come with my own hands, hands that

956
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 1: come really hard with my own hands. Vibrators sometimes too fast,

957
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 1: and then I just like, I feel like I didn't

958
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: get to have a long enough orgasm. But I think

959
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 1: if you just want to experience doing it alone and

960
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,280
Speaker 1: definitely a vibrator, a vibrator and make you go quick

961
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,960
Speaker 1: outside of a vibrator, I would say, this is my

962
00:46:56,040 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: thought on this. So most women, high percentage of women,

963
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 1: come from clition. So when you masturbate, a lot of

964
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: women assume that's the place I gotta be. If you're

965
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: only coming in orgasm ng with your man, maybe you

966
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: should throw something on the wall and maybe you come

967
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: like me from penetration. So maybe you should actually try

968
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 1: penetrating yourself without him. So, whether it's something that you

969
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 1: stick to a floor, maybe it's a dial dough that

970
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 1: you can actually pull in and out of yourself, make

971
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 1: sure you're looped up. Um. You may also be someone

972
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: who's visually stimulated. I can't really get off with masturbating

973
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: without porn. So maybe creating the same scenario that you

974
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: have with your man. Maybe you like lingure helps, though

975
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 1: you gotta feel sex, you know, I'm saying, like getting like,

976
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: you know, feeling sexy, like even if you want to

977
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: do something like you know, making a video of it,

978
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 1: that really turns out the mood, you know, accept the

979
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,360
Speaker 1: mood for yourself because I'm at the point where I

980
00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: can masturbate with anything going on. I literally this is embarrassing,

981
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: but it's true. I had a deep conditioner in my

982
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: hair and it was for forty five minutes, and I

983
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: was like, well, I guess I just binged my shows,

984
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 1: so might as a little masturbate And like, yeah, I

985
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,880
Speaker 1: did it. While I was doing that situation, I believe it,

986
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, especially with the plastic cap

987
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: or whatever. But I got my shirt off. I'm just

988
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 1: saying like, if you're someone that necessarily can't get your

989
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: off that quick, you know you should do it. Where

990
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 1: is something another place I masturbated recently that wasn't necessarily

991
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: the best place? Can I say it? Um? Sure? I

992
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: can't remember where it was. It was in a place

993
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 1: that I was in a room alone privately. Wasn't the

994
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:46,720
Speaker 1: kind of collegist? Why was I in that room? Bathroom? No,

995
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: she masturbated while that ship was coming right out. It

996
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: was not a Blumkin. It'll come back to me. I

997
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: really don't know what Blumkin was. I waiting on a

998
00:48:55,440 --> 00:49:02,360
Speaker 1: procedure consol tell you ship. That was it. I was

999
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:06,760
Speaker 1: in a doctor's office for the consultation for um Cool

1000
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: Sculpting its Cool Sculpting before I did lie, but because

1001
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 1: I learned that there's like a lot of ship that

1002
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,280
Speaker 1: could go wrong with nerves and pregnancy with cool Sculpting.

1003
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,879
Speaker 1: And it took thirty fucking I didn't seem locked the door.

1004
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: That was the seller. Sorry, go ahead. I want to

1005
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 1: have a baby at some point, Okay, I would you

1006
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 1: know what I mean that you almost did. I do

1007
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: not want to be baby mama number five. If I

1008
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: bet it, do they had one kid. Even if he

1009
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 1: had five kids with one woman, fine, but like do

1010
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: I want to have to be like so? I mean,

1011
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 1: I ain't gone. I was considering what the niggader sucked

1012
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: him in his baby mama. I think she was like

1013
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 1: his second and third baby mama. But he has five

1014
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: baby mama's nine kids. And I know he was going

1015
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 1: to tin because you get a real big text right

1016
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: off with tin kid. Maybe maybe you get a really

1017
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: big text break after that. Ten kidd whose baby mama

1018
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 1: did he just it was something breathe She's another wadling

1019
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 1: out girl at this point. I know we talked about

1020
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: that concubine, the nigger that had a sex club and

1021
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: in his little thing, and we talked about the cold.

1022
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:12,320
Speaker 1: At this point, you were hiring women to be wildling

1023
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: out girls to be but I didn't see his dick.

1024
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:22,399
Speaker 1: That's who are gorgeous. I mean, all of these baby

1025
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: mamas are beautiful. Let let me not even say all

1026
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: of his baby mamas are beautiful. The reason, uh, everybody

1027
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: in the year looked like me and Wheezy ain't nobody

1028
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: because that nigga ain't got one black baby mama. Sorry,

1029
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 1: is that bad? No? Maria carries black. She is, but

1030
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: I'm talking about skin tone. I feel like, and so

1031
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: all their babies is about to be can I tell you, though,

1032
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 1: I do be judging when I'd be like, damn, you

1033
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: only house. Let's you just let me be the spice.

1034
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: Let me just let me be the razzle dazzle. You're

1035
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: not the razzle dazzle. You're like, what are you talking about?

1036
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. When they only girls, you're

1037
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: not the wrestle dazzle. I don't. I don't like when

1038
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 1: niggas have a fucking light skin girl type. That's what

1039
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Oh, I feel objectified. I want I want

1040
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 1: to know you do everything except for like. But I'll

1041
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: tell you this though, Nick Cannon, do you think it's

1042
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 1: difficult to like? I think it's got to be hard

1043
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 1: to stop the charm one. His dick is huge, as

1044
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: we've seen. Then on top of that, he's rich and

1045
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 1: he's attractive, and it's like he might sell me a

1046
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: pipe dream. He might be like, look, I know you're

1047
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: tired of doing a podcast. Been six years, bitch, probably tired.

1048
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: You gotta fly back and forth. Let me set you

1049
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 1: up with a nice crib a little stipend you wanted

1050
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 1: a family anyway, we know I ain't going away. I

1051
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:43,919
Speaker 1: would be a good baby dady. It's gonna have a whole.

1052
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:45,840
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie. It's giving that that's probably

1053
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: what a lot of the women, I mean, they're all

1054
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: models and live in like they're all like, they don't

1055
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: all live in l A. But they're all like the

1056
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 1: model type. And I know that that's a lot of

1057
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: their goals. I'm saying, like, it's not is it really

1058
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 1: that bad of a deal, Like we keep judging, but like, bitch,

1059
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 1: but something just really want to get pregnant and get

1060
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:03,840
Speaker 1: I mean not judging him, I don't really judge the

1061
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 1: women because they're all like a lot of my friends.

1062
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: Because these babies have all also been announced within the

1063
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 1: time frame of eighteen months at least the last what

1064
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: six And I'm just like, to me, it's just irresponsible.

1065
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: What if you are responsible irresponsible in terms of health.

1066
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,240
Speaker 1: You're not exclusive with these women. These women are probably

1067
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: other women. To me, it's just dirty in the pot

1068
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: out here now I'm only playing Devil's advocate where I

1069
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: kind of agree, But what if he is, you know,

1070
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: and he's been clear. I think it wasn't breakfast c ever.

1071
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 1: Somewhere he was like, Yeah, I take care of all

1072
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 1: my kids. This is the kind of family. But that's

1073
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: the problem to me, the idea of taking care of

1074
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: your kids because you got money. There's no way for

1075
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: you to co parent six different households because he has

1076
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: two sets of twins. There's no way realistically. But my

1077
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:58,320
Speaker 1: daddy lived across town. There's no way across state lines

1078
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 1: to realistically be there for all of these children at once.

1079
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 1: And to feel like taking care of a kid is

1080
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: just being able to pay the rent and whatever your

1081
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: child needs financially, that's not taking care of your kids. Also,

1082
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: come to think of it, something I was just thinking

1083
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 1: about two. I would love to know the conversation, like

1084
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: all the baby moms are they in a group chat?

1085
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 1: Do they find out that the next bitch is pregnant?

1086
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,480
Speaker 1: Like all at the same time? Are there two baby

1087
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: mamas that are closer than the other ones? There be

1088
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: like b I don't think they know. I'm not gonna lie.

1089
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,839
Speaker 1: The fact that there was an announcement of a new

1090
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:34,839
Speaker 1: baby literally three weeks starfter the announcement of a death

1091
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 1: of a baby, and then the girl but that's not

1092
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 1: like she had. But then the girl who had just

1093
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 1: lost her baby posted about mourning that during the announcement

1094
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 1: of the new baby, and it didn't give off like

1095
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 1: she knew there was gonna be this elaborate announcement. However,

1096
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 1: the girl who had the baby shower actually said, I

1097
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 1: wanted this to be private, and I hate that my

1098
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 1: announcement was made through the blogs and not by myself.

1099
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 1: So but that's what I'm saying. So it's just don't

1100
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: think they all know. And to be fair, as women,

1101
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: we are still very primitive. I wouldn't doubt that all

1102
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 1: of them are hoping to be the main or the

1103
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: primary or I mean, I don't know, I don't I mean,

1104
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,360
Speaker 1: obviously you know. It's not like you know, and I

1105
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: gonna anyone do that would happen. What happened to interview?

1106
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 1: She made it seem like I'm the first, I'm done. No,

1107
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: she made it seemed like her kids ain't gonna even

1108
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 1: interact with all the other kids. She had. An interview

1109
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: was like this was to find the interviews had to

1110
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 1: go through one more. This one is for you. Um

1111
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: it is a thruffle of questions since you ain't want

1112
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: to talk about no got them threesomes? This few love

1113
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 1: the show. Definitely looking forward to your next tour, now

1114
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 1: you ready. My husband and I have been together for

1115
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:53,959
Speaker 1: a long time and began attending sex club and having

1116
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:56,919
Speaker 1: threesomes about five years ago. Well, in the past eight

1117
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: months we have been in more of a relationship with

1118
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: one woman. We initially here we go, y'all, this is

1119
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: why you gotta join uh Patreon. We initially met in

1120
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: the w d group chat and spent a lot of

1121
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: time together, whether it's just chilling out for dinner, drinks,

1122
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: and of course having some bomb mask sex. Oh you

1123
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:18,920
Speaker 1: might know who they are now. We all came to

1124
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: Weezy Sex Sales Live event into the live show in

1125
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 1: d C. We waited too long and missed the opportunity

1126
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 1: to come on stage, and I regretted every single time

1127
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: you mentioned the d the d C Show in an

1128
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 1: episode insert face pomp. It's just say you don't know

1129
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: how to be on time anyway, Oh my god, Mandy,

1130
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:39,919
Speaker 1: It's okay. Anyway, just say she and I have spent

1131
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: nights together one on one. We have hung out just

1132
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: the two of us, and she and my husband have

1133
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 1: hung out together for drinks as well, but they have

1134
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 1: never spent the night together one on one. Never in

1135
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 1: a million years what I have thought that we would

1136
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: be in this type of relationship. It had always been

1137
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 1: where if we had a threesome, it was just that

1138
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: and we kept a pushing. But this woman, it's different.

1139
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 1: We're both really feeling her and I don't even like

1140
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: a lot of people. I don't do new friends, and

1141
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 1: we damn sure, I have never spent this much time

1142
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,720
Speaker 1: with a woman. She and my husband vibe and connect

1143
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 1: on things they like, and she and I vibe and

1144
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: connect on different things we like. She really is the

1145
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: perfect fucking unicorn for lack of a better term. Well,

1146
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: the bond between me and her seems to be much

1147
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: tighter than between her and my husband. She and I

1148
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 1: are so into one another and spend a lot of

1149
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 1: time chatting just the two of us. My husband says

1150
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,359
Speaker 1: he has often felt like an outsider except when we're

1151
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: all together. I certainly don't want him to feel like this.

1152
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: I want us all to be in this together. On

1153
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: the same page, he has mentioned that it would be

1154
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: it would help him feel more involved if he got

1155
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,319
Speaker 1: to know her a little better as well, so that

1156
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 1: he's in the loop and recently started chatting with her

1157
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 1: just to found out more about her and vice versa.

1158
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:54,760
Speaker 1: My husband has recently shared that he is really into

1159
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: her too, which is cool. I do want the ship

1160
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:59,360
Speaker 1: to work because we both are really into her and

1161
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 1: she's into both of us as well. We always keep

1162
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 1: open communication between one another and what we call the

1163
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 1: no weird zone. I really like that we're no topic

1164
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 1: is off limits and no judgments. I mean, we talk

1165
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: about anything and everything together, so I know this is

1166
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: a conversation that we will revisit. My questions are which,

1167
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 1: because they in this trouble space, if this were a throuple,

1168
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: what are some different ways we can we can explore

1169
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 1: our relationship deeper? Is it possible to maintain How can

1170
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 1: we explore our relationship so the three of them deeper together,

1171
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: because clearly it seems one her answer is trying to

1172
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:41,440
Speaker 1: separate and make each of them closer to her. Deeper

1173
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: together is um? I think going away together, stay, staycations together,

1174
00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: having something on the calendar, whether it be bi weekly, monthly,

1175
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: something you only do together. Um, sharing a series together

1176
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: like a movie. It sounds really silly. But I think

1177
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 1: in my trouble like it was really cool. We were

1178
00:57:56,760 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: all watching the same thing, group chats of um things

1179
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 1: that have to include each other, like said their names.

1180
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: I remember when Beard Bay and Scissors, like they didn't

1181
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 1: have joint FaceTime back then, and when he was traveling.

1182
00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: I remember he was like, maybe I gotta call you

1183
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: back because you know FaceTime, you can't go and hold right,

1184
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 1: I gotta call you back on the phone song and

1185
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: so I mean our scissors like I'm sorry, I'll call

1186
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 1: you back, and like we couldn't all talk at the

1187
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 1: same time. Like, so I think having something that makes

1188
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 1: you included, like if we could have used zoom nigga,

1189
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 1: my throat would have been a little bit. You could

1190
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: use sky but we didn't really think about it back then.

1191
00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: But I mean that you could do zoom on phone now.

1192
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: I don't think I knew about it then, But no

1193
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: having stuff on the calendar, sharing a movie or series together,

1194
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: having a cooking night ship like that. Does that person's

1195
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 1: name start with the end? It does? Okay, I know

1196
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: who it is, all right? Um. Next question, is it

1197
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 1: possible to maintain separate types of relationship between us as

1198
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 1: well as the main relationship between all three of us

1199
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 1: and no one will excluded. Is it possible, Is it

1200
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: possible for them clearly to then maintain separate relationship types

1201
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:07,439
Speaker 1: like you have to do that because if you don't

1202
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 1: do that, then the throutle falls apart. You have Really,

1203
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: that's how my throuble fell apart, right Like her and

1204
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: I weren't really on good terms even though the three

1205
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: of us were, and then it was at the point

1206
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 1: where the three of us were getting along better than

1207
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: her and I that him and I were gonna like

1208
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: it was just okay. But when you don't have and

1209
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: when you don't enrich those personal relationships with each other,

1210
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 1: then no, what are some things we should do to

1211
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: be sure to be mindful as we move forward? And

1212
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: that was the last question. I don't really not to

1213
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: answer that. I mean, I guess it's something that you

1214
00:59:38,840 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 1: spoke of yourself. I think that no weird zone is awesome,

1215
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: and the idea that no topic is off limits and

1216
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: there are no judgments. I think one of the things

1217
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 1: jealousy you gotta talk about. I would say that's the

1218
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 1: biggest thing. Jealousy is huge. But you know what, I

1219
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:54,439
Speaker 1: think is one of the bigger emotions that we don't

1220
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:57,840
Speaker 1: really touch on UM, and it's something that I've recently

1221
00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 1: discussed with trying to stay away from UM through therapy.

1222
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 1: Is resentment. And so resentment comes from not communicating or

1223
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 1: from wanting something but feeling like you're not in a

1224
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,479
Speaker 1: space to ask or or request that from someone else.

1225
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 1: And so when that person doesn't and so when that

1226
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 1: person doesn't act the way you want them to act,

1227
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: but they don't notice how you want them to act,

1228
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 1: you start being resentful towards them because they're doing the

1229
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 1: things that you don't want, or they're doing the things

1230
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: that you haven't. Actually, I want to build on that

1231
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: really quick to UM you were saying or you talked

1232
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: about Austin, like how you'll say you need a break

1233
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 1: from your partner. When I was in the throuttle, I

1234
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: felt like I had to be a team player, and

1235
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 1: you don't because when I'm not in the mood to

1236
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: be out, and then I gotta go out with all

1237
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: of us, and then I'm the one who's a bit,

1238
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 1: but y'all are in love now, and I'm the one

1239
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: who looks like I'm a bit, and y'all just gonna

1240
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 1: be like in love without me because I'm the one

1241
01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: who doesn't wank be in this mood. And now it

1242
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 1: looks like I gotta sit across from y'alli is at

1243
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 1: dinner while you in love with each other, fuck you

1244
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 1: and fuck you? Well, then can I ask you a

1245
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 1: question about that? Did you ever feel at times like

1246
01:00:57,200 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 1: saying no when say two of themed to do something

1247
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 1: but you didn't. Did you you felt like you had

1248
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 1: to go out with them because y'all were all in

1249
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 1: orations of course, like they know, I don't want to

1250
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: be the poor sport. I'd be tired and ship Oh bitch,

1251
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 1: I don't even hold you when my no is my

1252
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 1: favorite words She didn't either too, She know is my favorite.

1253
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 1: My friends will come into town, not when I know

1254
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 1: I don't. But a trefle is different because it's not

1255
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:25,520
Speaker 1: just like you feel like you're letting down the people

1256
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: that you love, not just like it's it's something about

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01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: it as harder. I can't explain it. Even for sex, nigga,

1258
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 1: I'd be tired. But actually I feel like the only

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01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 1: time I really remember is when she fell asleep, and

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01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 1: I remember she was just like, I don't care but

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01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: I wasn't that. I wasn't able to say no like

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01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 1: she could. So like something I'm saying, I think there

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01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 1: there is a It's a huge reward to be able

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01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 1: to say no because you don't want to do like

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01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: once I once I was able to say no. Oh bitch,

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01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 1: I love saying no, no, saying that it was a

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01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 1: good thing. So that's all. That's all my saying no

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01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: it was a good thing. Um, anyway, that was really fun.

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01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 1: If you guys want to send us in homemail, we've

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01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: actually been kind of lagging on getting a lot, so

1271
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 1: please have an influx of them. We just ain't been

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01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: saving them. Those don't know what I'm saying, Like, we

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01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 1: haven't been like uh doing homemails and some of the

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01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 1: episodes like so we want to make sure we get

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01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: those in. Please send them to Horrible Decisions at gmail

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01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 1: dot com and try to make them different from the

1277
01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 1: other ship. Give us your drama. Let us judge you,

1278
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 1: because I will. If Mandy won't, well, I'll share. We

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01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 1: do get a hotel, but I'll save that for another one.

1280
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 1: By the way, I love the title Broken Ivy League

1281
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 1: Dick in exchange for Taco Bell. So I'm definitely gonna

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01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 1: read that in an upcoming episode. Um, listen, honey, and

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01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 1: that the hotel. So, by the way, guys, you can't

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01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 1: send in hotels, so there doesn't have to be a

1285
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: question or you don't need advice from us. But if

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01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: you just want to share a wild, horrible decision, I fear,

1287
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,439
Speaker 1: feel free to send in your hotel too. I would

1288
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 1: love to get into the hose and just laugh at

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01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 1: you say. I think you were saying hotel like Marryott hotel,

1290
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: the hotel you head that too, hotel a hotel and

1291
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:04,000
Speaker 1: sending your hotel hotel And how you can you send

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01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: in a whole hotel, bro, I I don't know what

1293
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: I have to teach. Did you say, Palo that you

1294
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 1: didn't understand I was breaking up home and tail and

1295
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 1: you almost had a job, guys, make sure and you

1296
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: almost had a child. Y'all not gonna do this. Let

1297
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 1: me let me just say this, thank you for listening

1298
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: to horrible decisions. I might not be here next week

1299
01:03:29,160 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: because clearly these niggas got a problem. We're not gonna

1300
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 1: be not pregnant. Maybe I'll be at a hotel, a hotel,

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01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 1: having a hotel and making a hotel. No, because I

1302
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:45,919
Speaker 1: don't have a hell a hotel. Anyway. We are gonna

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01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 1: leave you guys with a five minute bonus clip. Again.

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01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 1: If you loved everything you heard or whatever, make sure

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01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: you go on over to our bonus exclusive content on Patreon.

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01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:57,560
Speaker 1: That's patreon dot com back slash. Horrible decision. You can't

1307
01:03:57,560 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 1: search it, so if you can't find it, you actually

1308
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:01,439
Speaker 1: have to type it. Yes, because it is a team

1309
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 1: plus content. Okay, and if you like what you see,

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Speaker 1: we are in studio B come through to w TF Media.

1311
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: We've got a green screen. Now we have different backgrounds.

1312
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 1: I want to stop edit and see him swivel his dick.

1313
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:16,439
Speaker 1: He's not swivel in his dick in the studio. Don't

1314
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: make that a selling point. If you tell me if

1315
01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: you pay me, oh you'll we're going to have it

1316
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 1: as an ad on. What's your rate? Yes, so, how

1317
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 1: much can I pay to see swivel your dick? You're

1318
01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 1: gonna have to personally ask me. I'm personally asking you, right,

1319
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:33,600
Speaker 1: I guess you're publicly asking me. Oh, not even learning

1320
01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:38,960
Speaker 1: how to go. Okay, if you want to see Yomi's

1321
01:04:39,040 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: lesbian outfits, they're always fly come through about Wolf. We've

1322
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 1: got Dave come see our amazing staff comp have a

1323
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 1: photo shoot and um what else, Mandy, maybe she'll have

1324
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:53,640
Speaker 1: her feet out. It's on. It's on every other week,

1325
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:57,600
Speaker 1: ye my girl. Um, thank you guys for listening to

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01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 1: another episode of Four Decisions. That's what it was. I mean,

1327
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 1: a lot of uh kettles and pots. However, I mean

1328
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: my take on it was, of course, just the accountability part.

1329
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 1: At the end of the day. Yeah, I guess we

1330
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 1: could sit here and sit on the fact that we've

1331
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:17,000
Speaker 1: all fell for niggas that wasn't shipped. But to me,

1332
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 1: at some point you have to be able to see

1333
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: who the person is when when they show you them.

1334
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: And first off, you were never the only one or

1335
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 1: the main one, me, me, the baby mom and other

1336
01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 1: women were also in the picture. Um. And then outside

1337
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 1: of that, he left you while you were pregnant. That's fair,

1338
01:05:36,200 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: but did you ever think that man could degrade you

1339
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 1: on Instagram live and put your baby on there and

1340
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 1: keep you you while you were pregnant And according to

1341
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 1: the family you also did she was already pregnant baby. Yeah,

1342
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 1: but you also didn't even show up for the baby shower.

1343
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:52,640
Speaker 1: You didn't show up for me or the baby before

1344
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:56,120
Speaker 1: the baby was here. Baby, So I just feel like

1345
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 1: no to me. Like that's the thing. We all date

1346
01:05:59,480 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 1: men with the lens of the idea of them or

1347
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:07,560
Speaker 1: the potential of them, without really just acknowledging who the

1348
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 1: funk they are right in front of our eyes. But

1349
01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: what is she supposed to so like? And here's the

1350
01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:15,920
Speaker 1: other thing. I understand. He left her when she was pregnant.

1351
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:17,880
Speaker 1: He didn't show up to the baby shower. Okay, she

1352
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 1: has the baby. He's like, y'all move in with me.

1353
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 1: It's your first kid. I'm gonna help you out. Who's

1354
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 1: gonna say no to that? Your emotions are crazy. I've

1355
01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:27,720
Speaker 1: never had a baby. You've never had a baby. We've

1356
01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: only had friends with babies. Right, they're all fucked up

1357
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,720
Speaker 1: with hormones. And you're telling me I'm gonna say no

1358
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 1: to the father of my child inviting me in his

1359
01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 1: home and possibly making it work. And granted, she probably

1360
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:41,560
Speaker 1: is in love with him, Like, no, dude, you're gonna

1361
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: recap the happy memories. What are you gonna do start

1362
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 1: fucking with another nigga? No, you want to feel that

1363
01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:50,560
Speaker 1: community and that fatherhood and that feeling is crazy because girl,

1364
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:53,439
Speaker 1: the first baby mama that you've been back and forth

1365
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: fot she prayed it right now again, So you don't

1366
01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 1: move in with this thing and he's expect I think

1367
01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 1: another child with the woman that she's supposed to do.

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01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:07,320
Speaker 1: She's supposed to be a grown ass woman. She wasn't

1369
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 1: supposed to sell her home in l A to move

1370
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 1: half across the country where she knows nobody, has no friends.

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01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:14,920
Speaker 1: She said that that's why I took her so long

1372
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 1: to even leave the house. Like to me, no, I'm sorry,

1373
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: it's a grown ass woman. This being hasn't showed up

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01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 1: for you. So for you to put all of all

1375
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: of your hope into this man who hasn't been able

1376
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 1: to show up for you since at some point you

1377
01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta fault yourself. I think that you can't

1378
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:32,880
Speaker 1: say that when someone has just had a baby. I

1379
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: think you could say that for someone to like it's

1380
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:39,400
Speaker 1: just with and they've been in love, like we've said

1381
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: this and this is a problem with Danny. She probably

1382
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 1: thought that baby was gonna get them back together. A

1383
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 1: lot of people keep a baby, have a baby and

1384
01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 1: hope that it makes a bond stronger or but or

1385
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:53,560
Speaker 1: a man can show up differently. You can't see the

1386
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: same way of a girl that just had her first child.

1387
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,200
Speaker 1: She's young the same it's the same way, And I'm

1388
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:01,160
Speaker 1: gonna say it, it's the same ship. I said about

1389
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: Summer Walker and her Raggedy Ass album. Yeah, you sat

1390
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 1: here and argued with all the other baby mama's thinking

1391
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 1: that you was gonna be different. Danny thought because she

1392
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 1: was a yellow bone, she was gonna be treated different

1393
01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:15,320
Speaker 1: than he did. But and and trust me, and I

1394
01:08:15,320 --> 01:08:17,240
Speaker 1: saw this tweet from Crystal that I really liked. It

1395
01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 1: was like, y'all really got me sticking up for this.

1396
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 1: He want me because I'm yellow bitch, because that's how

1397
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 1: trash the baby is. But you're saying that we know this,

1398
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 1: but he ain't gonna stay blahlah blah. Mandy, she she

1399
01:08:28,520 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 1: was twenty four, like I think she's twenty five now

1400
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 1: or six? Like do you really like, can you really

1401
01:08:34,800 --> 01:08:38,760
Speaker 1: say that? But that's what I'm saying, Like can we

1402
01:08:39,080 --> 01:08:42,400
Speaker 1: and by we I mean people that say you should

1403
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:45,880
Speaker 1: know better? Can we really say that if you've already

1404
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 1: been through a shitty situation with a nigga like the

1405
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:51,320
Speaker 1: girl is young. I just don't and I really feel

1406
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 1: like he exploited her. I feel like what he did

1407
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 1: was fucked up. I just don't like using that young

1408
01:08:56,800 --> 01:09:00,080
Speaker 1: excuse for someone who's twenty six, because we still have

1409
01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 1: niggas in their thirties and forties who's still a like

1410
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 1: to me, No, there's a lot more resources now. There's

1411
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 1: a lot of people telling you what to do, what

1412
01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:11,639
Speaker 1: not to do. There's you've sat here and been dragged

1413
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 1: by the internet. You've seen how bad this man has

1414
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:17,040
Speaker 1: treated you over the years. It's been in your face.

1415
01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 1: And she literally said she was like, I feel so

1416
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:22,719
Speaker 1: bad that I didn't listen to the internet, the fact

1417
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 1: that you have to be like, damn Internet, you was right.

1418
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:28,760
Speaker 1: Everyone was telling you. You chose to ignore all the

1419
01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:31,679
Speaker 1: red flag. We just spoke about how everybody was posting

1420
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:35,120
Speaker 1: the red flag. Bit them ships was flaming hot. They

1421
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 1: wasn't even off off white. They wasn't even hot pink.

1422
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:43,240
Speaker 1: They was read the whole time Like so to me, No,

1423
01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: at you're eighteen year an adult. You're twenty, you're twenty one,

1424
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,439
Speaker 1: you're twenty two, you're twenty five, you're twenty six, you're

1425
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:51,800
Speaker 1: thirty or thirty one. I'm not gonna just call someone

1426
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: in their twenties, late twenties, mid twenties young. Oh my god,

1427
01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:58,559
Speaker 1: it's not like she's in high school. I