1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: This episode is also available as video on YouTube. You 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: can visit Nora Jones channel and be sure to subscribe 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:09,399 Speaker 1: while you're there. Hey, I'm Nora Jones and today I'm 4 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: playing along with Bridget Everett. I'm just playing long weusy, 5 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 1: I'm just playing in lone uzy. 6 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 2: Hi. 7 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 3: I'm Nora Jones. 8 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show, and with me as always is 9 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: my friend Sarah Oda. 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 4: Yes, hi, hi h this episode today was so fun. 11 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 5: We have the incredible comedian, actor, singer, writer Bridget Everett. 12 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 3: Yay. 13 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 5: I want to say upfront that she has a tour 14 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 5: coming up twenty twenty six. The dates start in March 15 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:51,639 Speaker 5: for her tour called Big Titties, Big Dreams. 16 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 4: So I'm fun titled. 17 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: I mean, how could you miss that? It's so fun. 18 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: Her show is amazing. 19 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 5: It's amazing and after you hear this episode, you're gonna 20 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 5: want to get your ticket. 21 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 4: So look it up and. 22 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 5: Make sure there's a show near you. Find a ticket 23 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 5: and check it out. 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 3: I almost thought you were gonna say, find a titty. 25 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 4: Find a titty, no fight a ticket. 26 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 5: She started with karaoke, but now she's known for creating 27 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 5: and starring in Somebody Somewhere as well as her work 28 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 5: on stage, film, TV, comedy, music, blending everything storytelling. She's 29 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 5: a fearless performer who does an incredible job of balancing 30 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 5: humor and heart, and she's also making cabaret cool. 31 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 1: Well her show Somebody Somewhere, that was my first introduction 32 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: to her, and the thing that struck me from the 33 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: show and also in her act on stage and also 34 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: in person in this episode is that balance of humor 35 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 1: and heart. 36 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 3: She's just got such a big heart. You can just tell. 37 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 6: Yah. 38 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: There's just something so sweet and awesome about her. 39 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 7: Her heart. 40 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 5: I don't know why, vulnerable and she is so but 41 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 5: she's so funny, so funny, She's so funny. 42 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 3: And thanks for a great combo, I know, I mean, 43 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 3: she's amazing. 44 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:07,919 Speaker 7: Yeah. 45 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 5: In this episode, you're gonna hear a little bit about 46 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 5: her songwriting process, about living in New York. You're gonna 47 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 5: hear about her family, especially her strong mom. 48 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 4: And as always, there's lots of songs. 49 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 5: This one has ones that are both empowering and totally hilarious. 50 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: This was really fun. I was so glad she could 51 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: do this and we got to hang out. I hope 52 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: you enjoyed the episode. Check it out here. It is 53 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: Bridget Everett. 54 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 3: Well, I'm so happy to have you here. 55 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 7: I'm happy to be here. 56 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 3: I'm a really big fan. 57 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 7: Oh wow. 58 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: I mean I discovered you through the show Somebody's Good 59 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: and then my girlfriend Sasha Dobson loves your your live show, 60 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: and she turned me onto it. So I had no 61 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: idea of all the sides of you. So it's, you know, 62 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: just it's all one. 63 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 3: I know. 64 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 7: But I mean, but it's this sort of like when 65 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 7: you think about it, like when I look at it 66 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 7: on paper, I'm like that, it's kind of I like 67 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 7: to do different things. I guess keep it fresh. 68 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 3: That's the best way to be. 69 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 7: Yeah. 70 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's great. 71 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 7: Trying to learn about myself honestly, like just trying to 72 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 7: understand myself. 73 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: Well, I think that's I've always learned a lot about 74 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: myself through writing songs or whatever you choose to do 75 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 1: and you don't know why you're choosing to do it, 76 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: but it becomes clear later, right. 77 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 7: Well, I think so. I think like for somebody like 78 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 7: me who's never hasn't spent time with a mental health 79 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 7: care professional, I think the best way for me to 80 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 7: do it is like writing or performing or you know. 81 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, blah blah blah. That's why we do it, That's 82 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 3: why we do it. Yeah, it's the best. 83 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, the show's so great. 84 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 3: And it's it's done, you guys, you guys. 85 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 7: It's done. 86 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 3: Put a bow on it. 87 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, a bow was put on it, and it's over. 88 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 7: But you know, I was just you know, the Emmy's 89 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 7: just happening. Jeff Coastar plays Joel won the Emmy, which 90 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 7: is really exciting, and so now more people are finding it, 91 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 7: which is really exciting. And then there's always a conversation 92 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 7: of like, could we do like a movie or something. 93 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 7: So to me, it's one way of kind of keeping 94 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 7: it alive by thinking of the opportunity that there's another 95 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 7: way or somehow that we can just have one last chapter. 96 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: I think that would be great. I mean, I think 97 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 1: the fans would love that. I would love that. 98 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 3: Please do that. 99 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: I also feel like in today jo said, so I said, 100 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: do it. I feel like in today's landscape of TV, 101 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: you never know you can kind of if somebody wants 102 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: you to do it and you want to. 103 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 3: Do it, can't you just do it? Do you know 104 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 3: what I mean? 105 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: Like things go away for years now and then they 106 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 1: come back in a. 107 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 7: Way, and I think that's one cool thing with HBO. 108 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 7: Not one cool thing with HBO. But you know, they 109 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 7: like the comeback is filming another season. Really yeah, I 110 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 7: love that show. 111 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 3: I loved that show too. 112 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 7: So great. But I and you know, they they've they're 113 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 7: like Curby Enthusiasm, Like I think there's somebody that once 114 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 7: you're in the HBO fan that there is it's a possibility. Yeah, 115 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 7: you know, so I'm I'm trying to secret it or 116 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 7: whatever that man. 117 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm secreting it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's cool. 118 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 7: We'll see. 119 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 3: Well, I'm really happy for you, thank you. 120 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm I'm happy I discovered you that way. 121 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 3: But you're like this New York legend. 122 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,559 Speaker 1: I had no idea, you know, when I started watching 123 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: this show, I didn't know much about you. So it's 124 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: been really exciting to find out all these things. 125 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 7: Well, i mean, legends a big word, but I mean 126 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 7: I'm thinking I've been I mean, I know what you mean, 127 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 7: but I've been. I've been kicking around, uh New York 128 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 7: for a long time and in the cabaret world, which 129 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 7: is like kind of you know, it's not the cool 130 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 7: buzz word. Everybody thinks it is, but I I don't know. 131 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 7: I love it. It's I'm so happy that I came 132 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 7: to New York because I found like all these people 133 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:59,159 Speaker 7: that were doing something that that was what I was 134 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 7: looking for. But I didn't know what cabaret was. I 135 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 7: didn't know, you know, I can imagine with you, like 136 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 7: the style of I mean, I don't know, actually, but like, 137 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 7: did you start playing like jazz like that was your 138 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 7: sort of Yeah. 139 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 1: I started with jazz, but then when I moved to 140 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: New York, I got into songwriting. 141 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I had never thought about that before. 142 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 7: So New York sort of was like also a conduit 143 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 7: for you too, yeah. 144 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 3: I think so. 145 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 146 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 1: I mean I got into the songwriting scene when I 147 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: moved here, when I had intended to get into the 148 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 1: jazz scene, and then I sort of shied away from 149 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: it as soon as I got here. My first album 150 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 1: was on Bluenout Records, but it was kind of a 151 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: songwriter album, but not all my songs. 152 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,479 Speaker 3: I was doing songs by my friends. 153 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: But there is like a real crossover between jazz, you know, 154 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: the jazz world I came from of singing those old 155 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 1: standards and the cabaret world, I feel like where you're 156 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 1: working in a lot of those same songs. 157 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely. 158 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 6: Yeah. 159 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 7: And there's like and the guys that I work with, 160 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 7: you know, Matt Ray, who is the piano keyboard in 161 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 7: my band. We've written a lot of songs together. We've 162 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 7: written Home, which is from my show, and then we've 163 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 7: also wrote what I Got to Do to Get That Dick. 164 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 7: But but what I love is like there is like 165 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 7: I can sit down at the piano and I just 166 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 7: play like very sort of elementary chords and like I 167 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 7: have an idea, but like the voicing like he you know, 168 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 7: he is able to sort of you know, the the 169 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 7: voicing of a jazz musician, the way you know it 170 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 7: just is something that I like don't understand, but I 171 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 7: can kind of hear and you want to hear that, Yeah, 172 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 7: I want to hear that. I want to hear like 173 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 7: really cool chords and you know beautiful you know. I 174 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 7: think he understands sonically like what I'm trying to say, 175 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 7: but I can't put into like can't obviously I'm not 176 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 7: really good with my words. 177 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: But well, it's so nice to find somebody who you 178 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: can feel that sort of secret language. 179 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really nice that you have that. 180 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, all the guys are like super down dance and 181 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 7: Bowler who plays bas. 182 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 3: I know, danceing. Yeah, it's great from like the jazz 183 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: scene back in the day. 184 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, so you know he's great. Actually, I was 185 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 7: working on a song idea and I texted him and 186 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 7: he sent me some songs that were just so crazy 187 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 7: because he's you know, some Sky's Champagne. Jerry aka Neil 188 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 7: Medlin is a friend of mine, but he also dances 189 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 7: at my shows, and he started talking about how he 190 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 7: loves when dance and slaps. So now dancing it's just 191 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 7: like fully unhinged and I love it. 192 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 3: Like to me, I can't picture that because from back 193 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 3: in the day like wearing suits. 194 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 7: Yeah yeah yeah, but now like he just he goes 195 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 7: out of his mind and it makes me laugh. And 196 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 7: so I want to do a song that is like 197 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 7: that features that. 198 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:49,719 Speaker 3: Yeah that's great, but you know. 199 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 7: That has but they're also great musicians, So it's cool 200 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 7: because I'm you know, the song I want to do 201 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 7: is called Soak and Wet. 202 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,439 Speaker 3: It's like the marriage of. 203 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: The musicians being like having all that language, like putting 204 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: it together. 205 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 7: It's like you know, when you you know, you prop 206 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 7: up like like I feel like the class clown or something. 207 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 7: And then I'm like hanging with like the academics and 208 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 7: they're like making me look smart. 209 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: Something I don't know, but it's great. Yeah, it's awesome. 210 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: I'm glad you're in that family. 211 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 7: Yeah. 212 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, well you you mentioned home that's from your show. 213 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 3: You wrote that song with Matt Ya. 214 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 7: I started song writing songs by accident. The original lineup 215 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 7: of my band, uh Adam more of it's ak Yeah, 216 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 7: he was in the the original lineup of the band, 217 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,719 Speaker 7: and he's he's been on a sabbatical for for a 218 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 7: number of years now. But you know, they have a 219 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 7: silloscope there the BC Boys studio that or they had 220 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 7: at the time. I'm not sure if I think it's 221 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 7: still going, but in Tribeca, yeah, so I said, Andre, 222 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 7: help pretty who's down there? But anyway, I talked to 223 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 7: Adam and I said, you know, I want to do 224 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 7: an album, like I want to do like some covers 225 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 7: because that's what we were doing at the time. And 226 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 7: he said, he's like, you can't, he can't do that. 227 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,439 Speaker 7: You can you can write songs and like sort. 228 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 3: Of that's cool. 229 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 7: Put me on the path of doing it. And like 230 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 7: the first one of the very first songs I came 231 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 7: up with with Titties, which we were talking about when 232 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 7: I walked in. But the great thing about it was 233 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 7: that he, you know, I was like, this is this 234 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 7: is silly, right, and he's like, he's like, no, it 235 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 7: sounds like a hit, you know, like and he kind 236 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 7: of gave me encouraged me even if something seemed ridiculous 237 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 7: to like that that could be something great like permission, 238 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 7: like permission, like and I'm somebody who needs like people 239 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 7: to kind of be like that's okay, you know, Like 240 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 7: I'm not like, you know, with the vision board and 241 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 7: like goals and this, that and the other. I just 242 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 7: kind of do what makes me laugh or what feels good, 243 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 7: but I don't always understand and like how to you know, 244 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 7: do it in practice, like how to make it part 245 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 7: of a career or something, And like people like him 246 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 7: have just taught me along the way to just do you. 247 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,719 Speaker 7: That's exactly what you said. It means like do you 248 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 7: And like ever since he said that to me, I'm 249 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 7: like I've been doing me. And that's obviously a lot 250 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 7: of different things you know. But but yeah, he really 251 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 7: helped me take a stab at songwriting. 252 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:28,839 Speaker 3: That's pretty great. 253 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like people coming from certain world, especially 254 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: like if you were coming from the cabaret world at 255 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: that time. Yeah, like same here. I was coming from 256 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 1: singing jazz standards. I didn't really know that I could 257 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: write songs. 258 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 3: I had no idea really. 259 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I feel like sometimes you just need to 260 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: be a little nudge in a direction. 261 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 7: So did you start doing it or was like somebody 262 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 7: that was like encouraging you or yeah? 263 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: I had some I had friends who wanted me to 264 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 1: sing their songs. Yeah, to be completely honest, and it 265 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,079 Speaker 1: worked out for me, Like my big hit Don't know 266 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: why it is my good friend's song Jess Harris, but 267 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: it made me. 268 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 3: Want to also write my own. 269 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, kind of. 270 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 1: They definitely were encouraging, but it was a lot of 271 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 1: like sing my song, you know. 272 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 3: I was like, well I might have a song in me, 273 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 3: you know. 274 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 7: And so you really hadn't written anything before you came here. 275 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 7: I mean like, were you ever like sort of in 276 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 7: the you know, back in like yeah, you know, just 277 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 7: a little for yourself and like not sharing it or 278 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 7: just like doing it. 279 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: Or I wrote two songs in high school that I 280 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:33,119 Speaker 1: went up performing our high school, so it was very encouraging. 281 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 1: And I wrote two songs, but we recorded them like 282 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 1: with the guys in my class, and they had new 283 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: recording equipment and they would like send them out for 284 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: the Downbeat Jazz Magazine student Awards. And I think for 285 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:50,719 Speaker 1: me it was too much and I was immediately embarrassed 286 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: by them. Why And so I turtleheaded back in What 287 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: were like? 288 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:55,079 Speaker 7: What style were they were? 289 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 6: They? 290 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 3: Like? 291 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: They were just corny. I mean they were first songs, 292 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,199 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? They're high school song. I 293 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 1: hear something really, yeah, you're supposed to be singing for me. Actually, 294 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: I feel like one of them I need to remember 295 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 1: it was kind of not bad. 296 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 3: I wait, I'm the bust of me, so sad. I 297 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 3: can't remember the rest. I can't remember. 298 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: My thoughts are clouded with memories of your pay whoops. 299 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 3: Anyway, I can't believe you got me to do that? 300 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 6: Oh my got that? 301 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 8: Wow? 302 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: This is a I'm sad to think that your love 303 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 1: was in vain. 304 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 3: I can't remember the rest. 305 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 7: What I gotta dig that one back. 306 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 3: I gotta dig it. 307 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: But cool, keep fritch now see now you're nudging me 308 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 1: so so I feel like I got really shy. And 309 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 1: then I think it was just too much people hearing 310 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 1: them instead of me just sitting with them before anybody 311 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: heard them. 312 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 7: Well also, you know, we were sending it out to 313 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 7: like to like for people to like judge it. 314 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, but I wasn't. The school was, which was 315 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: really sweet, but also like it was just like, oh no, 316 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: I'm not quite ready for that. 317 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 7: You have to incubate those things exactly. I got it, 318 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 7: but like that's you know, the there was something I 319 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 7: was working on this morning because I'm meeting with my 320 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 7: band tomorrow and I'm also working on somebody uh something 321 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 7: with Scott Whitman and Mark Shaman. We're writing songs together too, 322 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 7: And I'm like, is this like a song for my band? 323 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 7: Is this a song for this show? And like and 324 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 7: I like I had I'd put it away for a 325 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 7: while and I pulled it back out and I was 326 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 7: like this, Oh no, this is this is so corny. 327 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 7: Like like sometimes I'll sit down, I'll sit down at 328 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 7: the keyboard and and it takes me a while to 329 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 7: sort of come up with whatever the two or three 330 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 7: chords I want to hear I'm being generous three maybe 331 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 7: two on piano, piano, Like, it takes me a while 332 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 7: to like to to get like the voicing of what 333 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 7: I think what I'm trying to say. Yeah, And I 334 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 7: listened to it. I was like, oh, this is like 335 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 7: I when I was writing it, and I'm like sitting 336 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 7: down at the keyboard and like feeling all emo. 337 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 3: And like this is you were feeling it. 338 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 7: I was feeling it like and that's how I usually like, oh, 339 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 7: this is something like because if I can respond to it, 340 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 7: it may not be something that's gonna like not be 341 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 7: a hip, but something that's gonna do much for me. 342 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 7: But I but it's gonna be right for me. Yeah. 343 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 7: But I listened to it as I was singing. I 344 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 7: was like, I couldn't even I did like a voice 345 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 7: memo because I was gonna send it around. I was like, 346 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 7: I can't even nobody's. 347 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 3: Ever going to hear this again, like stomach sending, stomach. 348 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 7: Sciting, because the idea of it was something that my 349 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 7: mom had said to me. And so it's like, you know, 350 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 7: I want I want it to be so good and 351 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 7: it just is like the song I can feel it 352 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 7: wanting to be good instead of just like you. 353 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 3: Don't feel it yet. 354 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm really I'm glad about that. 355 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 3: Well, it sounds like it's from something special. 356 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 7: There's somebody she said to me that was like so 357 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 7: special and and I really maybe I should just take 358 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 7: the pressure off myself of like trying to make it 359 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 7: mean so much, you know, like trying to make all 360 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 7: the you know, because I'm not like a poet. 361 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 3: Nor am I. 362 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't matter though, if it's I've realized 363 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 1: like if it's for a long time. In the beginning, 364 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: when I was really starting to try to write songs, 365 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: I would try to get clever and that never worked. Yeah, 366 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 1: those are the songs I cringe at now. But the 367 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: songs that I just I used a cliche because it 368 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: felt right, but I wasn't trying to be clever about it, 369 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: those are the songs that still resonate with me. 370 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 8: You know what. 371 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 7: Those are the exact right words I need to hear 372 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 7: right now. Yeah, so I'll take it back to the 373 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 7: drawing force. 374 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: I have to tell you something. I want to get 375 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: to playing this song home, but I do have to 376 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: tell you something. I listened to that podcast Mike Birbiglia 377 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: working it out and. 378 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 3: You were on there. 379 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, god, what I said. 380 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: You mentioned that song I did, and you said what 381 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: your mom had said to you and it was very touching. Yeah, 382 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 1: and inspired me. And I actually wrote some stuff down. 383 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: I'll send you later. 384 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:04,880 Speaker 3: I don't want to. We can cut this out as nobody. 385 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 7: No, don't cut it out. But I think. 386 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 3: Actually it like inspired me. 387 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: So I have like three lines inspired by it that 388 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: I'll show you. 389 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 7: Oh wow, that is I mean, I mean I can 390 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 7: say what it was because I've already said on another podcast. 391 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 7: But you know when she she came to see me 392 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 7: perform in New York, and like, I was really nervous. 393 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 7: In case anybody here is on a mic Bigli a 394 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 7: podcast listener. 395 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 3: It's pretty great. I love this show. 396 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 7: No, I really enjoyed doing it. And in fact, I 397 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 7: wore this shirt and I was like, oh, I wore 398 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 7: this same one on his podcast, but I weren't in Gray. 399 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 7: I have two of them. 400 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 3: It's your podcast shirt, yes, my podcast shirt. 401 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 7: I had something else and I was like, oh, it's 402 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:46,439 Speaker 7: too fancy. I gotta just I gotta be me, do 403 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,880 Speaker 7: you as Adam said, But anyway, she came to see 404 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:51,880 Speaker 7: me at Joe's Pub, which is sort of my hub 405 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:56,639 Speaker 7: here in the city. I'm you know, and you know, 406 00:17:57,760 --> 00:18:00,360 Speaker 7: if anybody's familiar with me or not familiar, a lot 407 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 7: of my songs, you know, are about body parts, and 408 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 7: it gets kind of like raunchy, but to me, it's 409 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 7: it really is ultimately a celebration of my mom and 410 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:13,199 Speaker 7: who she kind of encouraged me to be. Like when 411 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 7: I was growing up, we would go to food for 412 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 7: less a grocery store, and she would never wear a bra, 413 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 7: and you know, my brother coined her boobs beaver tails, 414 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 7: and like she let them need to just like fly 415 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 7: and like she just didn't care. But that was after 416 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 7: many years of caring and and you know and sort 417 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 7: of doing a bridge club and country club and you 418 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 7: know in Kansas, wasn't like we were wealthy, but you know, 419 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:34,320 Speaker 7: just she was playing a part. And then like once 420 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 7: she got divorced, she was like kind of finally herself 421 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 7: and it was so and her favorite cussword, you know 422 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 7: was motherfucker shit her ask her which I cut? But 423 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 7: like she was she she really like just became her 424 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 7: and like I think I think that was what I 425 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 7: have been trying to capture like on stage, like when 426 00:18:56,560 --> 00:19:00,040 Speaker 7: you become when you find that sort of freedom. So 427 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:04,400 Speaker 7: when she came to see my show afterwards, I was like, well, 428 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 7: what do you think, mom? And she said she said 429 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 7: that was freedom in motion. And I was like, well, 430 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:12,679 Speaker 7: that's the nicest thing Youbay's ever said to me. And 431 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 7: it still makes me emotional because it's it's what I 432 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 7: want wanted for her to feel like when she got divorced, 433 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 7: and like watching her and it's it's how I want 434 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 7: to feel when I'm on stage. So trying to write 435 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 7: the song has been, as I mentioned before, pretty challenge. 436 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 1: It's like living up to the thing that she said. Yeah, 437 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 1: it's like hard to live up to that or something. 438 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 7: Yeah, And I'm afraid to try to write it with 439 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:39,880 Speaker 7: somebody else if I don't come up with the initial 440 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 7: thing because. 441 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 3: It's it's about you and it's about me. 442 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't want that too. So when I was like, 443 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 7: is this a tender moment song or is it a 444 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 7: Scott and Mark song? Or is it just a me 445 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 7: thing and I need to figure it out or maybe it's. 446 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 3: A Nora Jones song, I no, I don't want to 447 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 3: impose my thoughts. 448 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 7: But I just I want to hear it because maybe that's. 449 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: Why I'm here today, you know, maybe that's why I 450 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: just wanted you to know that when you said that, 451 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: it was so inspiring because that that phrase also just 452 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: the story behind it is it's really beautiful. And but 453 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: that phrase alone is just it's what you want. 454 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 7: And what's really interesting about my mom is like she's 455 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 7: not like somebody that you know, my dad was really clever, 456 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 7: very witty and like and and just you know, like 457 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 7: a real wordsmith. And my mom is like more like 458 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 7: she could give a look and make you laugh and 459 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,160 Speaker 7: you know, just she she was kind of naughty and stuff. 460 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 7: But like as far as like saying something like that 461 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 7: was just that's like lightning in a bottle. It wasn't 462 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,199 Speaker 7: like something that she was known to do. Yeah, but 463 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 7: it was profound. She's not somebody that would come up 464 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 7: with those things would just come out. If she came 465 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 7: up with something profound, it would be like, you know, 466 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 7: you can't trust any about yourself. 467 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 3: Your a prig. Like it was out of character for her. 468 00:20:58,560 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was out of character. 469 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 3: And well, it's really sweet. 470 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:02,919 Speaker 7: I'm gonna fresh glass my let's keep it in though, 471 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 7: because it's real life. You know, you people on TV 472 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 7: Fresh Class like to do a fresh glass. You just 473 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,199 Speaker 7: come down to this piano. 474 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 3: And I never do miracles every day, literally never. 475 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: I never come down here unless we're doing something really yeah, 476 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: I have I have a small upright piano there. Sometimes 477 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: if I have an idea, I'll hit it, but I 478 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: never come down here. 479 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 7: It's like there's so many cool toys, like I need 480 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 7: to say. 481 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 1: I don't know how to use any of the equipment, 482 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: so that makes it kind of hard for me. I 483 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: just know how to use the instruments. Do you want 484 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:36,640 Speaker 1: to try home? 485 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,479 Speaker 7: Let's try it. 486 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 3: I have a little harmony. Would you mind if I 487 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 3: added it? 488 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 9: No? 489 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 7: Please? 490 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:40,719 Speaker 1: Do? 491 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:47,400 Speaker 2: It sounds so much better when you play? 492 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 10: How many times did I hear them? 493 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 6: Sick? 494 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 2: She's got every drifted away? Another night staring at the wall. 495 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 11: And if I try, I know I'll fall. 496 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 2: All these hills because in on me has nothing here. 497 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 2: I haven't seen lift me to my feet again. I've 498 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 2: last touch. 499 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 6: I need a friend, and you brought me home. You've 500 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 6: brought me home. 501 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 2: Oh my heart is speeding through my chest. Out whatever 502 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 2: you want and come clean this mess. 503 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,399 Speaker 8: Song in Me fell out of you. 504 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:35,120 Speaker 2: I found now because of you, you brought. 505 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 11: Me home, Yes, you brought me home. 506 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 12: Diet well, I guess that was real fun for me. 507 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 12: So thank you so much, Nora. 508 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:26,679 Speaker 7: That was really cool. 509 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you such a song. 510 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 7: Thank you. Oh my god, that was But that this 511 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 7: was one like where I wrote song. I thought it 512 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 7: was like the one and I thought was cool or whatever, 513 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 7: and I was like, it's not right. And then just 514 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 7: one day I had the keyboard on my little kitchen 515 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 7: table there and I started playing those same chords and 516 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 7: it really most of it just kind of dropped out 517 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,159 Speaker 7: of the sky and felt like and I felt very emotional, 518 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 7: and like there's still a lot of times when I 519 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 7: see it that I get choked up because, you know, 520 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 7: I feel like the show, you know, obviously there's a 521 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 7: lot of people that haven't seen somebody somewhere, but the 522 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 7: show is about friendship obviously, Like I was a waitress 523 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 7: for so many years, and like, who didn't see me 524 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 7: as a waitress? Who saw me as like a star 525 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 7: or a somebody is you know, And I don't mean 526 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 7: like a like a People magazine and all that, but 527 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 7: I mean they saw something special in me, and I 528 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 7: think that. It wasn't until I moved to New York 529 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 7: that I could kind of hear that and take that 530 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:42,160 Speaker 7: in And this the song is really a thank you 531 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 7: to those people that gave me that. 532 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: It's so beautiful. It feels like that. Yeah, and the 533 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 1: show really does that as well. It's like a sense 534 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 1: of home is not really the place, even though in 535 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 1: the show you're going home, yeah, and you are home again, 536 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 1: But it is finding it through through people relationships. 537 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 7: I guess that's what it's all about. 538 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 3: It totally is. I mean, I keep learning that. 539 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 7: You know, it's a constant struggle. I feel like that's 540 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 7: a lesson that that I'm always going to struggle with. 541 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 7: I'm always going to struggle with, like feeling like I 542 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 7: belong somewhere. I think a lot of people feel that way, 543 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 7: as it turns out. 544 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 3: But absolutely is universal. 545 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I was just somewhere in that and the 546 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 7: you know, the person I was talking to is she 547 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 7: was like, I have a lot of imposter syndrome, and 548 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 7: and it's so it's so interesting how many people feel 549 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 7: that way. But it's also interesting how many people feel 550 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 7: like they deserve everything they get, because which to me 551 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 7: like blows my mind, I'm like, you do. I mean 552 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:54,880 Speaker 7: sometimes I'm like, okay, you're right, But other times I'm like, girl, good. 553 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 3: Lucky girl, recognize. 554 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 1: You don't ness really deserve it. 555 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 3: That's funny. Yeah, I hadn't thought about that side of it. 556 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:05,399 Speaker 7: I don't know. 557 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 3: Well, it's a great song. I think the best ones 558 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,880 Speaker 3: fall out of this guy. 559 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 7: Yeah. 560 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. When you were growing up, your mom was a 561 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 3: music teacher. 562 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 7: Yeah. 563 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:19,640 Speaker 3: Wow did she teach? What did she teach? Specifically? 564 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 8: Taught? 565 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 7: Well, like when when my parents got divorced, she hadn't 566 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 7: been a teacher for so long because she was like, ah, 567 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 7: you know, she taught earlier in her career, and then 568 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 7: so she taught at the local Catholic school, but she 569 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 7: did K through twelve and she did all kinds of 570 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,360 Speaker 7: you know, she did both band and you know, every 571 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 7: music class. So and then because she generally make enough money, 572 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:50,920 Speaker 7: she taught after school lessons and she taught you know, guitar, piano, violin, everything. 573 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 7: She played everything. Oh cool, I mean not like a 574 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 7: not virtuoso or enough she was. She was like she 575 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:03,879 Speaker 7: I think she was first chair violin at University of 576 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,639 Speaker 7: Kansas and their orchestra. I have her violin. Actually, I 577 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 7: just was looking at the other day. I was like, 578 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:09,239 Speaker 7: what am I going to do with this? 579 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 3: That's cool? Maybe you could play it, yeah. 580 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 7: But we but it's not maybe you could play it, yeah, 581 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 7: there's no maybe hanging on a wall or put it 582 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 7: in a corner or something. But yeah, everybody in my 583 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 7: like we used to sing around the piano a lot 584 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 7: during holidays and like my brother, My brother brought got 585 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,440 Speaker 7: all that. He's the talented one, Like he can play 586 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 7: everything by ear, and I mean I have talented, I'm 587 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 7: want to say, but you know, he's That's what I 588 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 7: wish I could do. It was my my mom's dad, 589 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 7: my grandfather used to play rag time piano like all 590 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 7: by ear and everything. Wow, but I just didn't obviously 591 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 7: if you can hear the chords and how plung, I 592 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 7: didn't get that h ability. But there, I think the 593 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,320 Speaker 7: great thing about my mom and a rare thing about 594 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 7: you know, she was somebody who constantly, uh you know, 595 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 7: encouraged music and and and and wanted me to to 596 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 7: follow my dream to be a singer, even though it 597 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 7: took forever. 598 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so rare. Yeah, to want you to be 599 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 3: a musician. 600 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, So one of you, like, like was it? Sister 601 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 7: Acto is one of my favorite movies, Like, you know, 602 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 7: the mother just can't get behind Lauren Hill. I'm just 603 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 7: like weeping because I'm like, man, you don't you don't 604 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 7: know how much she needs? 605 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, It's crazy. 606 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, were your parents encouraging? 607 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 1: My mom was not a stage mom, but she was 608 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: encouraging in that she took me to a Brazilian lessons Yeah. 609 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 7: You know, and because you see with it very confident, 610 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 7: you know really yeah, you see he seems self assured, 611 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 7: which is a nice thing to Well. 612 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: I'm driving this boat, so if I was, if I 613 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: wasn't sure, you'd be nervous. 614 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, that wouldn't be good. 615 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: I've always struggled with like self consciousness, but yeah. 616 00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:00,120 Speaker 7: Self consciousness, but not self confidence or both or not 617 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 7: really self confidence. 618 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: I don't think I do struggle with self confidence, but 619 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 1: I don't know why. 620 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 7: I think it's super talented. That's one thing. 621 00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 3: Well, no, I maybe I do. I don't know. 622 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: I think my mom was very kind of a balls 623 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 1: out strong Leah still is. 624 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 7: It really helps? 625 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the whole thing. 626 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 7: I feel like my mom was somebody who was like 627 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 7: really she seemed like she was self confident, but she 628 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 7: had such little self worth. I think that it really 629 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 7: seeped into my bones a little bit. So I do 630 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:33,640 Speaker 7: work on that really well, I don't. I just work 631 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 7: on it. I know it's there, yeah, but it's But 632 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 7: that's also what's kind of fun about being on stage 633 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 7: and and just you know how you can, like everybody 634 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 7: says you're like a superhero version of yourself or a 635 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 7: lot of people say that, and I do feel like that, 636 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 7: but I also feel like it unleashes something that like 637 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 7: it unleashes a kind of confidence I wish. 638 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 3: I had in life. 639 00:30:58,600 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 7: In life. 640 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's like the Beyonce Sasha fears, like, yeah 641 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 1: that she has that alter ego or something. 642 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 9: Right. 643 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, But it's like it's not like I'm like, I mean, 644 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 7: I guess like I want to. It's not like I 645 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 7: I don't like want attention, Like it seems kind of 646 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 7: odd because I'm up on stage and I've got like 647 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 7: plunging neckline. Whatever. What I want to do is feel 648 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 7: I want to feel as alive as I feel on stage, 649 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 7: and like I feel like when I'm doing a show, 650 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 7: I'm wanting to I want other people to feel that. 651 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 7: I want people. I want to feel electric. I want 652 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 7: to feel just like and in my day to day life, 653 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 7: I can feel kind of like passive and and and 654 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 7: like I'm boring or something. I don't know, and I 655 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 7: kind of am in my real life. But I but 656 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 7: I it's so weird because I feel like on on stage, Yeah, 657 00:31:55,120 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 7: it's not like wanting to, you know, get likes. I 658 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 7: feel like that's a whole different thing like being on stage. 659 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 7: It's just like the it's being a vital exchange between 660 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 7: me and the people that are there. And I feel 661 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 7: like that there is a connection. Yeah, and I feel 662 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 7: like they're just as important to what's happening is is me. 663 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think they are, especially with how you 664 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 3: do what you do. 665 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's pretty interactive. 666 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 3: It's pretty interactive, but. 667 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,719 Speaker 7: It's but it's also like I think it's like, I mean, 668 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 7: I don't know how you feel, but I feel like 669 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 7: it's conversation, you know. I feel like I'm in conversation 670 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 7: with the people that are in the audience, even though 671 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 7: I don't want them to talk. I want it. 672 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 3: But I mean like there's a limit. Yeah, yeah, there's 673 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 3: a limit. 674 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 7: But I think that they're giving me something, you know, 675 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 7: like and I'm I mean, I'm I'm starting the conversation, 676 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 7: but they're they're giving me like the right to kind 677 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 7: of or the ability to feel seen and to feel understood. 678 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 7: And it's like it's for for that reason I would 679 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 7: never stop doing it. And though I've like as as 680 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 7: I've gotten a little bit older, I've gotten a little 681 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 7: more like nervous, you know, not like real stage Frida. 682 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 7: I'm just like, why do I do this to myself? 683 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 3: Oh, that's so much energy and that's so normal. 684 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:12,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, well that's good to hear. 685 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, we all feel like that sometimes. 686 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: And I'm not putting out as much energy as you 687 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 1: are on stage, and I still feel like that. 688 00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 7: It's a different kind of different. 689 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, well I don't usually. 690 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 3: Feel like that on stage. 691 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 1: Actually, unless it's a really bad show, I guess then 692 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 1: I do feel like that. But but more just the 693 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 1: stuff that surrounds doing it, you know, all the work 694 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: you put into it, the. 695 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 3: Travel, all that stuff. 696 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, it can be tough. Yeah what do you wait? 697 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 7: I lost my already lost what I was going to 698 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 7: you said something like two seconds gone, Like I want 699 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 7: to ask you a question and I've already forgotten, so 700 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 7: let's just pretend that never happened. People need to know that. 701 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 1: It's well, I have I have a I have one 702 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: thing to add to that is I feel alive when 703 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 1: I'm making music and I go get into the zone 704 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 1: and that sort of flow state, whatever call it. 705 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 3: You know, that's the best feeling. 706 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 1: And I love it when the audience is loud and 707 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: interacts with me. 708 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 3: The more the better, you. 709 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 7: Know, singing along and stuff like that, talking to you. 710 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,480 Speaker 1: I so rarely get it. I took my kid to 711 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 1: go see Billie Eilish and I couldn't hear a word 712 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 1: she was singing because the audience was singing so loud 713 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 1: and it was really beautiful, but also I wanted to 714 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 1: hear her a little. 715 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 3: More, but I don't have that. 716 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 1: Like, my audience is really really respectful, Like they're great, 717 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 1: they're amazing, but they're very quiet. They're listening, and they're 718 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 1: a real listening audience, and it's beautiful. 719 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 3: But it's also like I like it when they get a. 720 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 1: Little drunk and like yell at me a little, you know, 721 00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 1: it does make me feel a little more interactive. 722 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 7: So do you encourage that? Do you like to come 723 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 7: on people. 724 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 1: I get shy on stage talking and in life I'm 725 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:48,359 Speaker 1: not that shy. 726 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 3: I'm pretty you know, we joke around and whatever. 727 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 7: But yeah, I don't know why. 728 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 1: I don't know why. Yeah, I'm not sure. But I 729 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 1: kind of like to let the music do it for me. 730 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,560 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I talk, I introduce my band, 731 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:05,439 Speaker 1: I say what's up. If I'm feeling it, I'll talk 732 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,399 Speaker 1: a little more. If I'm not feeling it, I don't 733 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: force it because I feel like it feels like a script. 734 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,359 Speaker 7: Yeah I do. I agree. Like I think that when 735 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:17,840 Speaker 7: you see people, it's interesting watching like singer songwriters, like 736 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 7: sometimes you can tell when people are like, you know, 737 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 7: I thought about this one. Let me let me, let 738 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 7: me let me put this out there. 739 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, like like. 740 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 3: Like a crafted pattern, a crafted. 741 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 7: Pattern, you know in Calgary, that's the idea. You have 742 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 7: a crafted pattern, but it's part of a thing. But 743 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:36,400 Speaker 7: like sometimes with the singer songwriter, I you know something, 744 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,839 Speaker 7: you always want it to feel natural. Like I only 745 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 7: ever want to see the real version of somebody. I 746 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,439 Speaker 7: never want to see what they think that people want 747 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 7: to see them do or I don't. 748 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: Know, Yeah, I know, I mean I think people can 749 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 1: see through that totally. 750 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 3: And it's the same with social media. 751 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 1: If you craft something really you know, people don't like 752 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,920 Speaker 1: it as much as if you're just like balls out 753 00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 1: whatever you are. 754 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 7: I gotta get off that thing. Yes, it is like, 755 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 7: I mean, everything is so curated and so. 756 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 3: I think it's too curated. 757 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 7: It's too curated, and it makes me. It makes me sad. 758 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 7: I mean, you know, good for you make your money. 759 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 7: You know this is you know, people are making bank 760 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 7: and that's great for them. But I'm but I'm I 761 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,919 Speaker 7: don't know, like I miss like seeing people like who 762 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 7: people are and not what the perception they want to 763 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,279 Speaker 7: put out. I don't know. Yeah, that's why I don't 764 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:32,480 Speaker 7: leave my house. I think I think that might be 765 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 7: why I don't leave my house. I think that's good. 766 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:38,440 Speaker 7: I'm having a breakthrough today. 767 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 3: I'm glad you're here. 768 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:45,360 Speaker 1: Speaking of people being who they want to be, you know, 769 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 1: writing the songs they want to write. Yeah, dang it, 770 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:53,360 Speaker 1: you got this song Titties. So this was one of 771 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,280 Speaker 1: the first songs you were writing with Adam, like back. 772 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:56,560 Speaker 3: In the day. 773 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, Well, I so I used to go to Williams 774 00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,680 Speaker 7: Spurg for Catch Club, which was with Murray Hill and 775 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,360 Speaker 7: Champagne Jerry to my really good friends. And we would, 776 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:07,800 Speaker 7: you know, at the time we were in our forties. 777 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,479 Speaker 7: Now we're older, but we would just you know, play catch, 778 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:15,439 Speaker 7: do drills and and whatever. And I was shagging fly 779 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,400 Speaker 7: balls and I just started thinking about. 780 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: Wait, start over, what what are you talking about. 781 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,240 Speaker 3: For a second, I thought you were talking about a club. 782 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,879 Speaker 7: I was in Williamsburg at the whatever the park is there. 783 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,839 Speaker 7: Catch club is, Like what so Murray and Neil used 784 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:32,880 Speaker 7: to play catch? 785 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, Cash, I'm picturing like a bar. 786 00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 6: No, no, no, I was. 787 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,520 Speaker 7: Like, we didn't drink. This is It was like, you know, 788 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 7: like Murray's got kid, you gotta get some vitamin D. 789 00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:43,600 Speaker 3: Talk about like, okay, so you're playing ball. 790 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 7: Yeah. And it actually was born out of Team Pressure, 791 00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 7: which is a softball team that Adam used to in 792 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 7: Kathleen Hannah and and so anyway, this is our little offshoot, 793 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 7: just doing drills, playing catches people in their forties do, 794 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 7: and and I was shagging fly balls because Murray is 795 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 7: a real task. 796 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:03,480 Speaker 1: Master with the I think the Yeah, that's where I 797 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:04,879 Speaker 1: got lost shag and fly balls. 798 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 7: Sorry it's but that could be the song. 799 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 3: I'm not very you shouldn't write that song. You definitely, 800 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,760 Speaker 3: but I'm not very sporty anyway. 801 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,919 Speaker 7: So I was just like, you got that anyway. And 802 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:23,400 Speaker 7: so I told Adam. I was like, I just have 803 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 7: this idea for a song. Is it is stupid? And 804 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,319 Speaker 7: He's like, no, no, it's a hit. It's a hit, 805 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:33,720 Speaker 7: and like and and so I so I just started 806 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,040 Speaker 7: writing all different kinds of tits and it really this 807 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 7: is like a song from my mom because of her 808 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 7: beaver tails and like how free she was with them, 809 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:43,839 Speaker 7: and it was I was. 810 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 3: Always inspired by that. That's great. 811 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:51,239 Speaker 7: It's also kind of like a a mantra. It's like 812 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 7: a I don't know, it's like a I usually do 813 00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,240 Speaker 7: this like it's a second song on my set typically 814 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,560 Speaker 7: because I feel like it's a great equalizer. It's go 815 00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 7: and tell people what kind of tits they have, and 816 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 7: like it sets the tone and and like I know that, 817 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 7: like I'm supposed to move on and do new material, 818 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,720 Speaker 7: but it's hard to leave this one behind. 819 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:10,960 Speaker 3: It's a real icebreaker. 820 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, And one time I was doing it and I 821 00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 7: was going around the room and I was like really 822 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 7: deep in the room and I'm like naming all this 823 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,239 Speaker 7: kind of tits. And then I turned around and I 824 00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:22,799 Speaker 7: was like, you get and I was like, oh my god, 825 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 7: it was glorious Steinem and like I was like, cut 826 00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,759 Speaker 7: the track. Cut the track. That's why I refer to 827 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,719 Speaker 7: my band as the track. I hit the track and 828 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 7: that was another moment. I was like, oh my god, 829 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,480 Speaker 7: this is like, you know, she's glorious stein I'm like, 830 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 7: what she can think I'm seeing about tits and like, 831 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,200 Speaker 7: you know, I'm always worried that I'm you know, but 832 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 7: she was. She loved it. 833 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 3: She probably was there because she loved it. 834 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:48,399 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, it's just a constant. But anyway, I 835 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,840 Speaker 7: do love the song is as stupid as it is, 836 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 7: but sometimes stupid is good. 837 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:54,400 Speaker 3: No, it's not stupid. 838 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:58,760 Speaker 1: It's it's like a it's like a body power mantra. 839 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,560 Speaker 1: Like it's a it's a the anthem. 840 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:02,960 Speaker 7: It's you know, it's meant to make people feel good. 841 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:03,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's great. 842 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:04,319 Speaker 7: Just do it. 843 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,719 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna follow you, okay, Right, the chords don't 844 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 1: change too much, like don't change. No. 845 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 7: See, this is what I'm trying to do is teach 846 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 7: you as somebody who has an incredible musical vocabulary that 847 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 7: you know, sometimes just one or two chords will do it. 848 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 3: I totally am here for that. 849 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 7: It's so fas. 850 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:26,839 Speaker 3: I'm here for that. 851 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 7: Somebody said to me one time, like they were doing 852 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 7: like some a night of like all my songs, and 853 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:35,239 Speaker 7: and then she was like, yeah, you don't really get 854 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 7: too in the weeds with the chord changes. 855 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 3: Hey, it makes it more want to. It makes me 856 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:41,880 Speaker 3: able to get out of my. 857 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,279 Speaker 1: Head and just play the song, right, come on, it's 858 00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 1: nice nice. 859 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:48,640 Speaker 7: Actually was like, I gotta get myself a songbook that's 860 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,799 Speaker 7: just like like just all the chords, you know, like 861 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 7: just like yeah, so like because like they're just Sarah 862 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,799 Speaker 7: black and white like you might see, you know, like 863 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 7: this is major as. You know, this is seven saus. 864 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,399 Speaker 7: Like I never want somebody like, oh, do something sus. 865 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 7: I'm like, what do What's that means? Sas? What's does 866 00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:04,920 Speaker 7: sus mean? 867 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:05,359 Speaker 11: Well? 868 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 1: The kids today have a whole other meaning for it, 869 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 1: but you know terms, you know how I always think 870 00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 1: of sus and it helped me not overthink it is 871 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:17,840 Speaker 1: I just do a triad. 872 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:21,359 Speaker 3: If it's D sas, I just do C triad over it. 873 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 7: Oh, I like I like a sas. 874 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,840 Speaker 3: I love a sas if it's Jesus. 875 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:31,799 Speaker 8: You just you F triad so you're just. 876 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 7: Doing a regular G G major chord and then wait, no, 877 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:34,680 Speaker 7: what are you doing? 878 00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:34,920 Speaker 6: Wait? 879 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,359 Speaker 3: Wait, well what chord do you want to hear? 880 00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,919 Speaker 7: I want to hear it? Like is like D major 881 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 7: SaaS the thing. 882 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 1: D major sas You play a D in the base 883 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 1: and you play a C triad in the right hand, 884 00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,640 Speaker 1: so a whole step down do a major triad. 885 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 7: It's just so it's this plus this plus a step down. 886 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just like a trick to you know, think 887 00:41:58,200 --> 00:41:59,440 Speaker 1: of it because. 888 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,399 Speaker 7: It's a because of d's in the left hand. 889 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:06,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the anchor, that's the chord. And then once 890 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,880 Speaker 1: you get used to that, you can move your middle 891 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 1: finger down so it's instead of But that's how I 892 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,319 Speaker 1: always think of a SAS to this day. Is I 893 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 1: go a whole step down in the right hand. 894 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,600 Speaker 7: I mean, it couldn't have been any simple. I know, 895 00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,399 Speaker 7: I wanted to ask questions. When they're like, oh, let's 896 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 7: do something something saus, I'm like, sus, that sounds that 897 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,719 Speaker 7: sounds complicated. Yeah, it sounds expensive too. 898 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 3: Exactly. 899 00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:36,480 Speaker 1: I had this great piano teacher in junior high and 900 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,920 Speaker 1: high school who kind of opened up my mind to 901 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 1: music because I was studying classical music until then and 902 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,520 Speaker 1: it didn't really compute with my brain. 903 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 3: And I liked it. 904 00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 1: But I liked music, but I didn't I wasn't into 905 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,560 Speaker 1: like reading the right and left hand. And I could 906 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 1: do it, but it wasn't that easy for me. And 907 00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,719 Speaker 1: so she taught me how to read a chord chart. 908 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,960 Speaker 1: And so she she did circle of forces. 909 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,320 Speaker 3: You know what that is in theory? 910 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and theory you know, it goes there's a pattern 911 00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:08,920 Speaker 1: to music. It's kind of mathematical, and so she did 912 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 1: it in the pattern where the notes kind of go 913 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 1: up in the amount of sharps and flats. 914 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,320 Speaker 3: Anyway, I'm getting in the weeds here now. 915 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 1: But anyway, she had a sheet would just circle of 916 00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 1: force all the note names, and she said, just do 917 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,160 Speaker 1: a minor chord on each one with metronome and you 918 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 1: just go through it. 919 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 3: And then she had a. 920 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: Random sheet, so then you do that one next. And 921 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 1: that's how I ended up learning how to record charts 922 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,680 Speaker 1: and memorizing all the right voicings. Then you you know, 923 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:41,200 Speaker 1: you eventually do it with fancy voicings or like different inversions, 924 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: and you just keep memorizing it. 925 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,280 Speaker 7: I want to take the beginner class. 926 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. 927 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,400 Speaker 7: Because when I took piano lessons when I was a kid, like, 928 00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,320 Speaker 7: I took it from this woman barber Share and I 929 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:57,319 Speaker 7: would go like Fridays before school or something ridiculous, and 930 00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 7: she had compression socks she would wear, so she was 931 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 7: like put on her compression socks for like the first 932 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,760 Speaker 7: five ten minutes, then talk to me about her aches 933 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:06,400 Speaker 7: and pains. 934 00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,359 Speaker 3: She would put them on in front of you. 935 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,799 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, it's like and they. 936 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:11,720 Speaker 3: Were like, that's pretty graphic. 937 00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:11,840 Speaker 2: I know. 938 00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,160 Speaker 7: This is like the eighties, like early eighties, so they 939 00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 7: were like real thick, yeah, and like, and she just 940 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:21,719 Speaker 7: sort of talked about her her circulation, a lot of 941 00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:23,640 Speaker 7: you know, stuff that she had gone on. And we 942 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,839 Speaker 7: didn't we didn't really, we didn't spend too many time, 943 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,880 Speaker 7: spent too much time actually playing piano. 944 00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:32,800 Speaker 3: Really, you were just her buddy. 945 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,120 Speaker 7: I was just her buddy. But my brother Brock, you know, 946 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,839 Speaker 7: because he was good. I think they really they really 947 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 7: put the something to the something what he called it. 948 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,000 Speaker 7: You put the something something. 949 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,920 Speaker 1: The field of the fire, the fire, the poker the 950 00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:45,919 Speaker 1: fire poker. 951 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:47,880 Speaker 7: In the Yeah, they did that, But for me, I 952 00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 7: think I was more of a confidant. Oh well, I'm 953 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,760 Speaker 7: gonna look. I'm gonna look for sas and some instruction manuals. 954 00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:59,520 Speaker 7: I have a piano. No, I actually got the piano 955 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:04,080 Speaker 7: from somebody somewhere shipped out. Really yeah, and so so 956 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,640 Speaker 7: I've been sitting down. It's been really fun. 957 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:07,360 Speaker 3: That's great. 958 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,000 Speaker 7: Okay, but let's let's do some titties. 959 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 10: Start. 960 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, you can always start over for I mess up. 961 00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 3: Huh, we can start over if I mess up, right, Heck. 962 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:20,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, just stop me, okay, hold out, stop the track. 963 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:42,120 Speaker 8: You got them little nippy titties. Pulled them in the air. 964 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,879 Speaker 10: She got them tube suck titties. She pulled him in 965 00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:46,359 Speaker 10: the air. 966 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:50,040 Speaker 2: I got these beavery tail titties. I pulled him in 967 00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:50,760 Speaker 2: the air. 968 00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,839 Speaker 6: Pull him up, put him up, put him up. 969 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 10: You got them low running titties. 970 00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:58,839 Speaker 8: Pulled them in the air. 971 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:03,000 Speaker 10: She got them fly jack chitnies. Pulled them in the air. 972 00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,320 Speaker 10: You got them single malt titties. 973 00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:09,239 Speaker 6: Pulled them in the air. Put 'em up, put 'em up, 974 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 6: put 'em up. 975 00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,680 Speaker 10: You got them rubber ducky titties. 976 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,920 Speaker 2: Pulled him in the Yeah, she got them things shot 977 00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 2: titties pulled him in the Yeah. 978 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 6: You got them. 979 00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 10: Dipsy doodle titties. 980 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:26,239 Speaker 6: Put him in the air, putt him up, put 'em up, put. 981 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,279 Speaker 10: Him up, and then we bounced unpounce. 982 00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:34,840 Speaker 9: We bounced pounce pounce. We bounced bounce bounce, We bounced 983 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:35,520 Speaker 9: bounce bounce. 984 00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,480 Speaker 5: You got them cream pine titties put him in the 985 00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,240 Speaker 5: You got them pepperon. 986 00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 6: And limp titties. 987 00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,600 Speaker 3: Put him in the You got them turny triangle titties. 988 00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:50,600 Speaker 6: Put him in the put 'em up, put 'em up, 989 00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:51,720 Speaker 6: put um up. 990 00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,040 Speaker 3: You got them stretched armstrong titties. 991 00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:59,239 Speaker 2: Put him in the You got them red fat titties. 992 00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:04,320 Speaker 2: You got them, know how to float them tates hot 993 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:06,280 Speaker 2: n put him. 994 00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,479 Speaker 6: Up, put him up, put him up. 995 00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,360 Speaker 10: And then we bounced bounced bouts. 996 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 9: We bounced bounce house, We bounced ouns house, We bounced 997 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:17,400 Speaker 9: bounced bouce. 998 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,280 Speaker 11: You got that woot tang. 999 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:24,680 Speaker 2: Hoole, misteak, peach pet totties, tick tack, cracker, jack hammer 1000 00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:29,840 Speaker 2: head titties, fire holes and needle nose, Milk city titties. 1001 00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,759 Speaker 6: Put um up, put him up. But him up. We 1002 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:34,520 Speaker 6: bought him milt, hold. 1003 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 8: Up up up, put him up. We pulled him up, 1004 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 8: pull him up, put him up, put him up, and 1005 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:43,120 Speaker 8: then we bounce. 1006 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:48,280 Speaker 7: Wait when were those first thing you said. 1007 00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:49,640 Speaker 3: That's so freaking funny. 1008 00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 1: Well, you got those creamline titties. Thinking about you know, 1009 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,560 Speaker 1: breast milk. You know, it's like there's like that cream 1010 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 1: top and like the whole thing. It's like kind of 1011 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:03,960 Speaker 1: watery when it first comes out, and then when you 1012 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:05,759 Speaker 1: get to the end of the drink, it's like the 1013 00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:10,560 Speaker 1: cream lines up and then the pepperoni nip titties. Yeah, 1014 00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,879 Speaker 1: it tiny triangle titties, which I've had, you know when 1015 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,680 Speaker 1: you get a sunburn and you get those little triangle 1016 00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:17,360 Speaker 1: bikinis on. 1017 00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:19,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's great. 1018 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,319 Speaker 3: That was so fun. Thank you. 1019 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:28,960 Speaker 7: You know if you ever do Carnegie Hall, Oh man, 1020 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 7: I'm kidding. That was fun. 1021 00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:35,640 Speaker 3: That was awesome. I want to come. I got to 1022 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:36,200 Speaker 3: come see you. 1023 00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,000 Speaker 1: I I'm going to be out of town when you 1024 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:39,719 Speaker 1: do the Begon unfortunately. 1025 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,600 Speaker 7: But and I'm always a Joe's. Anytime you want to come, 1026 00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:44,399 Speaker 7: I want to come see you. 1027 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I used to live right behind Joe's. 1028 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,759 Speaker 3: I can't believe I feel like I can't believe I 1029 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 3: haven't run into you. 1030 00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:54,399 Speaker 1: But I didn't really go into the cabaret scene at all. 1031 00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,799 Speaker 1: I never did, but I feel like I should have. 1032 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:02,160 Speaker 3: Well it's it would have. I've played piano perfect for me. 1033 00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:02,759 Speaker 8: You know. 1034 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 7: It's actually you know that the subset of the cabaret 1035 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:10,399 Speaker 7: scene that I'm in is like, it's pretty cool. People 1036 00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:14,000 Speaker 7: have done really gone on to do really great things. 1037 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,399 Speaker 7: Like we used to host this show called Our Hip 1038 00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 7: Parade and like people, it was based on your hip 1039 00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:20,839 Speaker 7: praide and like you would cover like a pop hit 1040 00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:25,640 Speaker 7: or whatever, and a lot of people did that. Jeff Hiller, 1041 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 7: who's was like that's kind of how I thought about 1042 00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:33,560 Speaker 7: him for to be in the show. And yeah, and 1043 00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:40,280 Speaker 7: then but like Cola Scola, who's like O Marion Broadway. 1044 00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 7: You know, like there's a lot of people that are 1045 00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:47,239 Speaker 7: and justin Vivi me a bond who yeah, she was 1046 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:50,680 Speaker 7: kind of like kicking her like the first thing that 1047 00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:53,239 Speaker 7: I used to go see and like this, Oh my god, 1048 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,719 Speaker 7: this is I didn't I didn't even know this kind 1049 00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:57,680 Speaker 7: of performing existed, and like it. 1050 00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,520 Speaker 3: Really when you first moved to New York, Yeah. 1051 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:04,040 Speaker 7: It rewired my brain my friend Zact took me. He's like, 1052 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:05,239 Speaker 7: I have the show. I think you're in love. And 1053 00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:08,399 Speaker 7: it was like getting there every Sunday night like first 1054 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:09,840 Speaker 7: in line so we could be the closest, you know, 1055 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,200 Speaker 7: because it was like, yeah, I just was like losing 1056 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,600 Speaker 7: my mind because I I'd never seen anything like that. 1057 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,400 Speaker 7: I'm from Kansas and I went to Arizona State, so 1058 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:21,440 Speaker 7: I didn't even know. And then yeah, you know, the 1059 00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:24,600 Speaker 7: great thing about New York Is is sometimes as much 1060 00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,320 Speaker 7: as I try to run away from it now, because 1061 00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,960 Speaker 7: it just feels like when you know living here long enough, 1062 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 7: it's like it feels you know, you can wear you 1063 00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 7: down after a minute. But those early days, it was 1064 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:39,040 Speaker 7: so thrilling, like the drag queens I would see, and 1065 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 7: like those people all they raised me. That was my education. 1066 00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:47,239 Speaker 7: So I don't know, it's pretty special. You can't be 1067 00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:48,240 Speaker 7: a miracle this place. 1068 00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,359 Speaker 1: Do you feel like that's still happening? You're just too 1069 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,279 Speaker 1: tired to go out? Because that's how I feel. Yeah, 1070 00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:56,680 Speaker 1: I feel like it's probably all out there still, Definitely. 1071 00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,400 Speaker 3: I just I want to stay home and watch TV. 1072 00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:04,279 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just like they were asking me, they were 1073 00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:05,880 Speaker 7: like giving me a free ticket to go to the 1074 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 7: show that was I can't remember what it's called right now, 1075 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,879 Speaker 7: but I didn't go because I just it's, oh my god, 1076 00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:16,480 Speaker 7: i gotta take a shower on makeup. 1077 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,480 Speaker 3: I'm too tired, too tired. That's how I feel. 1078 00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:21,399 Speaker 7: But I feel like maybe that's also kind of part 1079 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,400 Speaker 7: of the problem, Like I'm part of the problem, like 1080 00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 7: that I'm not taking advantage of the things that I 1081 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,080 Speaker 7: used to take advantage of. Like I don't go out 1082 00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:30,120 Speaker 7: to really restaurants. I go to dinner. I got a 1083 00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 7: sushi place by my house and by myself, and I 1084 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:33,279 Speaker 7: treat myself. 1085 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:35,120 Speaker 1: Only if it's easy, though, right, Yeah, like not if 1086 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,239 Speaker 1: it's a big deal. You have to make a reservation. 1087 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:40,719 Speaker 7: Yeah. Like yeah, I don't go see a friend of 1088 00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 7: mine if they're playing Joe's Pub because I know I 1089 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,680 Speaker 7: can get a table that I like and I'll be comfortable. 1090 00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,840 Speaker 3: But not, you're not an unknown club, don't where you 1091 00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:51,240 Speaker 3: don't know, you don't have a back stage toilet. 1092 00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,360 Speaker 7: No, all that, Like it seems so and it's not 1093 00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:57,000 Speaker 7: about feeling special, it's just about feeling comfortable. Comfortable. 1094 00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:58,120 Speaker 3: No, I totally agree. 1095 00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I'm the same. I saw these people this. 1096 00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:02,520 Speaker 7: They have this song like. 1097 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:05,040 Speaker 6: Hater. 1098 00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 7: They're like a like a brother and brother and sisters 1099 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,080 Speaker 7: or whatever. They're playing the blue note, and so I 1100 00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,319 Speaker 7: looked it up online. I was like, I really wanted 1101 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 7: to see them, and yet I didn't go. And then 1102 00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 7: there's a new I just saw the Favors. Is that 1103 00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:20,600 Speaker 7: what they're called Phineas? 1104 00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:24,600 Speaker 3: And yeah, I don't know, but they have a new album. 1105 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 7: And I was like, my friend makes fun of me 1106 00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,399 Speaker 7: because all I do is listen to, you know, music 1107 00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:32,920 Speaker 7: from the seventies mostly and and even earlier like some eighties. 1108 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,120 Speaker 7: But you know, like I'm really stuck, like I'm gonna 1109 00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:39,200 Speaker 7: I'm gonna look up some new music. And I know 1110 00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,719 Speaker 7: I love funk soul, just go like, you know, I 1111 00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:44,640 Speaker 7: love like hearing, I love yacht rock, I love everything. 1112 00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 7: So I found them online. I listened their album. I 1113 00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,759 Speaker 7: was like, oh, I really, I think I really like this. 1114 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:51,879 Speaker 7: I'm gonna join them. And and then one on their 1115 00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:53,960 Speaker 7: social media and they're like, oh, we're playing summer stage. 1116 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:54,120 Speaker 6: You know. 1117 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:55,440 Speaker 7: It was like the next night, and I was like, 1118 00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:58,399 Speaker 7: I live by Central Park. I could walk over there. 1119 00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:00,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I could go, did you no? 1120 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 1: I Okay, Well I have this problem also, and I 1121 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:10,200 Speaker 1: was wondering, I mean, is it partly social anxiety? 1122 00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:12,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's a I think that's a piece of it. 1123 00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:13,279 Speaker 9: Well. 1124 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,720 Speaker 7: Also, you know, I like to do things by myself. 1125 00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:20,720 Speaker 7: But I also it's a little bit different now because 1126 00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:24,320 Speaker 7: now that I'm I'm on a TV show and a 1127 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,759 Speaker 7: little bit more recognized. Recognizable, not that it's really a 1128 00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:28,760 Speaker 7: problem in New York people, but like you still feel 1129 00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 7: like if you go somewhere alone, you're not really just 1130 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,439 Speaker 7: sitting there by yourself, like I feel a little self 1131 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:35,120 Speaker 7: conscious or something, or just like. 1132 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,600 Speaker 3: We're just being by yourself. Invite people to talk to me. 1133 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,719 Speaker 7: I feel like that. Yeah, I feel like I need 1134 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 7: somebody to to become a buffer. A buffer. 1135 00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:43,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't feel like that. 1136 00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,000 Speaker 7: When I go home for to see my family, I 1137 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,120 Speaker 7: can't go by myself. I have to my brother always. 1138 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,800 Speaker 7: He lives in California. Is like, you want to go 1139 00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:53,719 Speaker 7: to Kansas, Like I can't do it together? Yeah, because 1140 00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 7: even it's my family, But I just like I can't. 1141 00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,879 Speaker 7: I can't do that. I mean I can do stuff 1142 00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:02,200 Speaker 7: a lottle like like I said, I go to my 1143 00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:03,000 Speaker 7: sushi restaurant. 1144 00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's not the same, but they're not going 1145 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:05,640 Speaker 3: to really bother you. 1146 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,000 Speaker 7: And I talked to my I talked to the gals that, 1147 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,200 Speaker 7: you know, the servers that are the waitresses, whatever you 1148 00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,400 Speaker 7: wanna call them. I say waitress. I was waitress for 1149 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:14,960 Speaker 7: twenty five years. I think you can say that. 1150 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:16,120 Speaker 3: I think you can say waitress. 1151 00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:16,600 Speaker 7: I know. 1152 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:18,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1153 00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:23,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, anyway, I've gotten off track. Where were we? Yeah? Yeah, people, 1154 00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:23,880 Speaker 7: you got a family? 1155 00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:26,960 Speaker 3: Yes, that also makes me tired and want to say 1156 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 3: it also. 1157 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,200 Speaker 1: Makes me want to go out, Yeah, a little bit, 1158 00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,680 Speaker 1: but no, I mean it's just nice to get cozy 1159 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,920 Speaker 1: every night. Yeah, Like it's hard to it's hard to motivate. 1160 00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:40,759 Speaker 1: I think both physically, yeah, and socially. 1161 00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:41,720 Speaker 7: I agree. 1162 00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,480 Speaker 1: And then alcohol for me is like it's like if 1163 00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:46,239 Speaker 1: I go out, I'm going to want to drink, and 1164 00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to drink, and that's that's a little hard. 1165 00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:58,239 Speaker 7: I'm like trying to not drink as much. JAMESI people 1166 00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:00,120 Speaker 7: are not going to see that coming from Nord Johns. 1167 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:00,839 Speaker 3: Out with my nine year old. 1168 00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:06,319 Speaker 7: But you know, like because because I don't want to 1169 00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:08,840 Speaker 7: drink as much, then I like, like this week, I'm 1170 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:16,000 Speaker 7: in the city all week and I have three nighttime obligations, 1171 00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 7: and they're all like things where you know, where people 1172 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 7: are gonna want to drink, and if I'm not drinking there, 1173 00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:26,839 Speaker 7: I'd be like, what's your problem? Yeah exactly, I mean 1174 00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 7: not like that and not what's your problem? But I 1175 00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:31,440 Speaker 7: just don't feel like, you know, if I drink then 1176 00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,479 Speaker 7: I especially if it's an open bar, then I'm gonna 1177 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:36,319 Speaker 7: drink too much. I'm gonna feel like shit the next day. 1178 00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,239 Speaker 7: I'm not going to be productive. And I'm really trying 1179 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:41,360 Speaker 7: to write right now and I'm trying to find my 1180 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:43,600 Speaker 7: next creative thing, and so I really want to have 1181 00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:46,120 Speaker 7: a clear head, which is something I never thought I 1182 00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:48,680 Speaker 7: would say. I used to drink, you know, I used 1183 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,080 Speaker 7: to drink wine every night, but I just can't. I 1184 00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:53,120 Speaker 7: don't want to do that anymore. Yeah, I mean I 1185 00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,719 Speaker 7: still like to have a little of course whisper. Yeah, 1186 00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:58,760 Speaker 7: I'll still not get back. I went out with somebody 1187 00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:05,320 Speaker 7: on Saturday night. I was upstate and my neighbor somebody 1188 00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:08,920 Speaker 7: that I work with, and my friend had to like 1189 00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:12,360 Speaker 7: coach me. He was like, just because the guy texted me. 1190 00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,719 Speaker 7: He's like, I'm in town, are you around? And I'm like, 1191 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:21,600 Speaker 7: I'm here. Like, I've I've been working all day, you know, 1192 00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,760 Speaker 7: I'm chya, I've been you know, I bought some plants. 1193 00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:26,840 Speaker 1: You know. 1194 00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,759 Speaker 7: My friend is like just go like just yeah, And 1195 00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:32,759 Speaker 7: so I picked him up. I said, do you want 1196 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:33,960 Speaker 7: pick you up? I'm gonna go to the brewery. Do 1197 00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:35,759 Speaker 7: you want to come to the brewery with me? We 1198 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:38,720 Speaker 7: went to the brewery. We split a pizza, we had 1199 00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,200 Speaker 7: two rounds of drinks and he's like, do you want another's? Like, 1200 00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,239 Speaker 7: I think that was good. And then we went home 1201 00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:43,960 Speaker 7: and so I did it. 1202 00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:44,640 Speaker 3: You did it. 1203 00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:45,319 Speaker 7: I did it. 1204 00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,120 Speaker 3: That's hard, so it can't it can be done. And 1205 00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:50,120 Speaker 3: you know what it wasn't it was? I enjoyed myself 1206 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:51,759 Speaker 3: and you didn't feel bad. 1207 00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:52,799 Speaker 7: I didn't feel bad. 1208 00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:53,879 Speaker 3: Yeah I didn't. 1209 00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:54,239 Speaker 7: You know. 1210 00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:57,680 Speaker 3: So well that's the trick, isn't it. If you can 1211 00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,640 Speaker 3: just do that, then it's okay. 1212 00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:00,440 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1213 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then but that's hard for something. 1214 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:02,479 Speaker 8: It is hard. 1215 00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:04,560 Speaker 3: That's hard for me also, yeah. 1216 00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:08,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, what a waste. I just feel like 1217 00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,680 Speaker 7: I'm wasting a lot of days by not doing more 1218 00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:11,560 Speaker 7: stuff sometimes. 1219 00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:15,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, but you know, you're living life. I 1220 00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:19,040 Speaker 1: really am into plants, so that's cool though. I like 1221 00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,640 Speaker 1: to have some It's like I talked to them, I. 1222 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:23,840 Speaker 3: Think you have to have a hobby in this business. 1223 00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:27,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, otherwise you will drive yourself crazy. 1224 00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:32,400 Speaker 7: I wish it was it was like a little you know. 1225 00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:34,720 Speaker 7: I have some friends that like they have we have 1226 00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 7: a songwriters group that we do once a month, and 1227 00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:38,760 Speaker 7: I haven't been going to I know, and I haven't 1228 00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 7: been going to that as much. And they're like my 1229 00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 7: They're like my my friend family, and I'm like, I'm 1230 00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,000 Speaker 7: just like, I'm always finding a reason to not go. 1231 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:49,880 Speaker 12: I don't know. 1232 00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:51,600 Speaker 3: I'm going. 1233 00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:56,440 Speaker 7: I'm going next on this is born. Let's talk funky. Well. 1234 00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:57,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to take up too much of your 1235 00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 1: time because you've given so much and I just I 1236 00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:03,240 Speaker 1: could sit here forever. 1237 00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:03,520 Speaker 3: And talk to you. 1238 00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:05,800 Speaker 7: But I think we did pretty good. 1239 00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:06,680 Speaker 3: I think we did great. 1240 00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,080 Speaker 7: And so if you lived in the neighborhood, I would 1241 00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:13,640 Speaker 7: I would swing by and not unexpected, I would be like, yeah, 1242 00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:15,280 Speaker 7: what are you doing? In a forty five minutes? You 1243 00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:16,880 Speaker 7: would have one glass of one? 1244 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,600 Speaker 3: One glass, just one one. We'll hold each other account 1245 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:20,160 Speaker 3: of one and. 1246 00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:21,240 Speaker 7: We'll make it too, but that's it. 1247 00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:22,680 Speaker 3: Or one and a half. 1248 00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,040 Speaker 1: Well, I mean we got to do it again sometime, 1249 00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,320 Speaker 1: it'd be really fun. We liked it end the show 1250 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:34,240 Speaker 1: with uh kind of a wild card or a cover sometimes. 1251 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:36,920 Speaker 1: And I love it when people suggest songs that I 1252 00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:41,600 Speaker 1: have never played, And in this case, you've suggested this 1253 00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:45,080 Speaker 1: Miley Cyrus song the Climb that you do in your 1254 00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:48,800 Speaker 1: in your show a lot. I actually didn't know this song, 1255 00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,640 Speaker 1: and I know Sarah said it was like a huge hit, like, 1256 00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:52,840 Speaker 1: of course I should. 1257 00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,880 Speaker 3: Have known it. Well, that's the thing. 1258 00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 1: I love Miley Cyrus and I know all our stuff 1259 00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:00,000 Speaker 1: from the last like five ten years, but the Hannah 1260 00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,240 Speaker 1: Montana years, I think I was I don't know, I 1261 00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,200 Speaker 1: was not paying attention to what was on the radio. 1262 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:06,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I didn't know this song. 1263 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:08,160 Speaker 7: Well this is it's this is. I did it for 1264 00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:10,560 Speaker 7: our hip parade many years ago, and like it's one 1265 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,600 Speaker 7: of those songs where I like, yeah, this song is 1266 00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 7: come on and then like when I when I sing it, 1267 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,600 Speaker 7: I find it. Even though the lyrics are a little 1268 00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:22,320 Speaker 7: uh like maybe literal or on the notes or whatever, 1269 00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,560 Speaker 7: I think it's such an inspirational song. It feels so good. 1270 00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:26,720 Speaker 3: It's emotional. 1271 00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:32,200 Speaker 1: Isn't it Funny how songs from maybe when you were younger. 1272 00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:36,880 Speaker 1: Yeah that maybe you thought were, eh, that's popular, or 1273 00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:40,480 Speaker 1: that's maybe even corny. I'm not saying this song is corny, 1274 00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:43,840 Speaker 1: but like just in general songs from those days and 1275 00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:46,800 Speaker 1: now it's like it makes you cry. Oh yeah, yeah, 1276 00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:49,520 Speaker 1: you know, because you relate to it in a in 1277 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,960 Speaker 1: a way that you didn't understand maybe when you were young. 1278 00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:53,440 Speaker 7: I well know, it sort of goes back to that 1279 00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:55,040 Speaker 7: thing you were saying at the beginning. It's like, you know, 1280 00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:57,280 Speaker 7: when I when we started doing that show, our Hip Paraid, 1281 00:59:57,280 --> 01:00:00,320 Speaker 7: which is all about pop music, like it re framed 1282 01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,760 Speaker 7: like I was like, you know, I never was like 1283 01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,720 Speaker 7: a pop music kind of I was going to say that, 1284 01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:09,320 Speaker 7: and I it just it just wasn't like something I 1285 01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:12,920 Speaker 7: would that was tracking for me. But but that that 1286 01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:15,560 Speaker 7: era of my life gave me such an appreciation for it. 1287 01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:19,400 Speaker 7: And like there's something you said earlier about like you 1288 01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:23,280 Speaker 7: know lyrically, like sometimes you just say the cliche cliche, 1289 01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:26,640 Speaker 7: like sometimes there's a lot of cliche yeah music, but 1290 01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:27,800 Speaker 7: I like it. 1291 01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:28,760 Speaker 3: Well, if you. 1292 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:31,920 Speaker 1: In songwriting, if you try to take all the cliches 1293 01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:35,080 Speaker 1: out or all the things that are too like on 1294 01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:38,800 Speaker 1: the nose, sometimes you take out the heart of the song. Yeah, 1295 01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:41,919 Speaker 1: and if you mean it, it's not a cliche. 1296 01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:45,600 Speaker 7: It write it down like write it down. 1297 01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:46,960 Speaker 3: If you're feeling it, it's real. 1298 01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:50,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, hit the track. 1299 01:00:50,400 --> 01:01:01,480 Speaker 2: No, I cannot most see that dream dream. There's a 1300 01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:07,720 Speaker 2: voice inside my head said, you'll never chad. Every step 1301 01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:13,160 Speaker 2: I'm take again, every move I make feels that's with 1302 01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:21,480 Speaker 2: no direction. My faith is shaken. I'm gonna keep trying. 1303 01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 2: You gonna keep the head hell work away. There's I 1304 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:34,640 Speaker 2: was gonna be another mountain. I'm always gonna want to 1305 01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 2: make it a mood. I was gonna be a enophill metal. 1306 01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:43,280 Speaker 2: Sometimes you're gonna have to lose hay a bad how 1307 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:44,600 Speaker 2: fast I get there? 1308 01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:46,760 Speaker 10: Hain a bed was waiting on. 1309 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:51,720 Speaker 7: Me on the side. 1310 01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:53,960 Speaker 8: It's the color. 1311 01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:03,640 Speaker 7: Unless I'm face said, these chances I'm. 1312 01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:07,680 Speaker 10: Take will sometimes I knock me down, but. 1313 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,320 Speaker 6: No one not break again. 1314 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:16,480 Speaker 2: And I've made no with But these are the moments 1315 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:18,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna remember. 1316 01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:21,800 Speaker 10: Bosa just gotta keep gold with. 1317 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:23,160 Speaker 2: But I'm. 1318 01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,480 Speaker 10: I've gotta be strong. 1319 01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:37,400 Speaker 7: Jasking for sin No, there's always gonna be enough mount him. 1320 01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:38,880 Speaker 10: I'm always gonna want to. 1321 01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:39,960 Speaker 8: Make it a book. 1322 01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:43,360 Speaker 10: I was gonna be a nut Hill bad on me. 1323 01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:47,720 Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta have to loose hit her bout how 1324 01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 2: fast I hit it there hate her bet. I was 1325 01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:57,000 Speaker 2: waiting on the other side. 1326 01:02:57,680 --> 01:02:58,560 Speaker 6: Here's the club. 1327 01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:25,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I's gonna be another mountain. I'm I was 1328 01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 2: gonna want to make it a bood. I was gonna 1329 01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:32,680 Speaker 2: be enough bil battle. Sometimes you're gonna have. 1330 01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:35,160 Speaker 8: To lose hate about how. 1331 01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:38,720 Speaker 10: Fast second there habll. I was waiting on. 1332 01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:44,000 Speaker 6: The other side. 1333 01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:58,240 Speaker 8: It's the club. It's the club. 1334 01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 7: I don't know why. We're having a good moment. 1335 01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:05,440 Speaker 3: That was really pretty. 1336 01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:07,080 Speaker 7: What are you doing where? 1337 01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:08,280 Speaker 3: I don't know what we're doing. 1338 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:11,880 Speaker 7: I think it's good. Just keep it in and just 1339 01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:15,680 Speaker 7: sometimes things up. Sometimes this is casual. 1340 01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:18,000 Speaker 3: It's the club. 1341 01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,160 Speaker 7: You know. How fun to get to sing with you. 1342 01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:22,320 Speaker 6: It was so fun. 1343 01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:26,840 Speaker 7: I think that was really it's really these are the moments. 1344 01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:31,600 Speaker 1: You know, yeah special, Yeah we did it. Thank you America, 1345 01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:38,120 Speaker 1: thank you, Oh thanks for listening. 1346 01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:39,760 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that was so funny. 1347 01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:40,840 Speaker 6: That was so fun. 1348 01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,880 Speaker 1: I feel like for a week after that episode, I 1349 01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,800 Speaker 1: woke up in the middle of the night with titty ideas. 1350 01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:52,320 Speaker 5: I was too done, it's fine, And then I wonder 1351 01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:54,680 Speaker 5: if actually I heard a different version of it, and 1352 01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:56,800 Speaker 5: I heard a couple that I thought I made. 1353 01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:59,400 Speaker 3: Up, but they think she took them from me. 1354 01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:02,920 Speaker 5: No, I guy subconsciously locked them into my brain. 1355 01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:06,439 Speaker 3: She's a great human that really fun. 1356 01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:10,640 Speaker 5: Don't forget her tour Big Titties, Big Big Dreams. 1357 01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:16,240 Speaker 1: Check it out in a theater near you. The songs 1358 01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:18,880 Speaker 1: we did today. The first song was Home, which was 1359 01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,640 Speaker 1: released as a single in twenty twenty three for her 1360 01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:26,360 Speaker 1: TV show Somebody Somewhere. Second song we did titled Titties. 1361 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:30,000 Speaker 1: It's from her album called Pound It, which was released 1362 01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:33,640 Speaker 1: in twenty thirteen. Third song we did the Miley Cyrus 1363 01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:36,760 Speaker 1: song from Hannah Montana, the movie released in two thousand 1364 01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:40,040 Speaker 1: and nine called The Climb Special. Thanks to Bridget Everett 1365 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,840 Speaker 1: for joining us today and next week we'll be back 1366 01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,400 Speaker 1: with Julian laj. Norah Jones is playing along as a 1367 01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:48,480 Speaker 1: production of iHeart Podcasts. 1368 01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:50,280 Speaker 3: I'm your host Norah Jones. 1369 01:05:50,920 --> 01:05:53,480 Speaker 1: Visit Nora Jones channel and be sure to subscribe while 1370 01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:58,000 Speaker 1: you're there. This episode is recorded by Matt Marinelli, mixed 1371 01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:03,120 Speaker 1: by Jamie Landry, Audio post production and mastering by Greg Tobler. 1372 01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:04,720 Speaker 3: Artwork by Eliza Frye. 1373 01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:09,160 Speaker 1: Photography by Shervin Linez, Produced by Nora Jones and Sarah Oda. 1374 01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,680 Speaker 1: Executive producers Aaron wan Kaufman and Jordan Rundag. 1375 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,600 Speaker 3: Marketing lead Queen A. Nake, thanks for listening.