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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Rebecca, good morning, welcome to the program. How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 1: How about you or doing well? So what's going on

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Speaker 1: with this guy? Dominic? Of course waiting on the phone,

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out if you've been ghosted or if

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Speaker 1: something else is going on. Why don't you tell us

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Speaker 1: the backstory? How did you meet? Tell us about any

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Speaker 1: days that you've been on, and then where things are now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So Dominic and I we met on an app

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Speaker 2: and you know, he we messaged back and forth for

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Speaker 2: a little while and then he asked for my number

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Speaker 2: and we ended up going out twice. The first date

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Speaker 2: was you know, just traditional dinner and drinks, and I

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Speaker 2: thought it was a blast. So we decided to go

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Speaker 2: on a second date, and we decided to kind of

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Speaker 2: change things up and do a double date where we

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Speaker 2: brought like one of our single friends to try to

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Speaker 2: set them up. And I thought it was super fun.

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Speaker 2: They seem to, you know, hit it off the bed,

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Speaker 2: and I guess I'm just confused, like he's not answering

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Speaker 2: me on my call or text now, and I'm just

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Speaker 2: trying to figure out, like what the heck is going on?

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Speaker 3: Okay? All right?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so two dates, you know, the second one

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Speaker 1: we had some friends there. We're vibing with his friends.

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Speaker 1: I mean that that could be a good sign, meeting

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Speaker 1: somebody's friends and all that.

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Speaker 3: I find.

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Speaker 1: If if I date someone for a while and I

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Speaker 1: don't meet their friends, then I'm obviously like being hidden

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Speaker 1: for some reason, like you're ashamed of me, but then

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Speaker 1: you keep calling me, so how ashamed of me can

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Speaker 1: you be? But anyway, I must break something to the table.

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Speaker 1: But if I don't meet friends and family with someone,

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Speaker 1: I'm like thinking I'm going to be you know, serious

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Speaker 1: with ye. In a certain period of time, I start

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Speaker 1: to feel like maybe I'm not the one, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, right right?

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Speaker 3: Why are you hiding me?

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Speaker 1: But anyway, not the case here, except now you can't

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Speaker 1: get a hold of Dominic and you want to know why,

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Speaker 1: And I think anybody would you know, it's it's it's

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Speaker 1: tough when you like somebody and then they just stop

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Speaker 1: reaching out, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so weird because I mean, especially I thought

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Speaker 2: it when so well, Like if I didn't think.

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Speaker 3: It went well, I would have been like, good riddance.

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Speaker 2: Right to move on.

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Speaker 1: They oh do okay, So let's I'm gonna play one song.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back in two minutes. We're gonna see if

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Speaker 1: we can get Dominic on the phone. You'll be on

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Speaker 1: the phone as well. We'll ask some questions. At some

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Speaker 1: point you're welcome to jump in and hopefully we can

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Speaker 1: straighten this out and set you guys up on another

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Speaker 1: date that we pay for.

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Speaker 4: Sound good, That sounds good.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You've got to hear what happens next. Part two of

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Speaker 1: waiting about a phone after Miguel back in two minutes

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Speaker 1: Fred's show. Miguel is on The Fred Show one nine

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Speaker 1: hundred bucks. The show up is Shelley in less than

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Speaker 1: ten minutes. You could win if you beat her in

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Speaker 1: five questions. Hey Rebecca, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's

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Speaker 1: call Dominic. You guys you met on one of the apps, right,

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Speaker 1: uh huh? Okay, yeah, and then he went on a

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Speaker 1: date that went great. When on a second date you

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Speaker 1: brought a friend, he brought a friend maybe like a

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Speaker 1: little love connection there too, and you thought that date

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Speaker 1: went really well. But you have not heard from this

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Speaker 1: guy since then, and you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just if there's something I did like I

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Speaker 2: want to, I don't know, like I've trying to break

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Speaker 2: my brain and I just don't know.

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Speaker 3: No, I get it. We're here to help. What's called him?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 3: Good luck? Rebecca?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Is this Dominic Dominic?

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Speaker 1: Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show, the morning radio show. I have to tell

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Speaker 1: you that we are on the air right now, and

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Speaker 1: I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 3: Can we chat for just a second on the radio?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, yes, excellent. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: You sound like you super into this, And then again,

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Speaker 1: I don't think I would be either if some random

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Speaker 1: person called me for the radio. But I'm sure you

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Speaker 1: want to know what it's about. We're calling on behalf

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Speaker 1: of a woman. I guess you met her on a

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Speaker 1: dating app and you guys were not a couple times.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Rebecca. Yeah, okay, Well, so she is

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Speaker 1: sort of wondering why you're not calling her because she

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Speaker 1: told us about meeting you and going on a couple

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Speaker 1: of dates and saying that she thought everything went well,

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Speaker 1: was expecting to hear from you for a third and

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Speaker 1: she can't get a hold of you now and you've disappeared,

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Speaker 1: So what is your side of the story.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like there is a side of the story.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was probably the worst gate I've ever went on.

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Speaker 4: Everything went freaking wrong. When the check came, she pulled

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Speaker 4: out her credit card and paid for my best friend

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Speaker 4: and her friend and in both it's like, literally she

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Speaker 4: embarrassed me in front.

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Speaker 3: Of like my best friend. Well, hold, I want to

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Speaker 1: She she paid for the date, like just as a gesture,

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Speaker 1: I assume, and you're you're mad about that, right, So.

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Speaker 4: She did it to like emasculate me.

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Speaker 1: Or to be nice because you paid for the first day.

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Speaker 1: Did you pay for the first date?

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Speaker 4: I paid for the first date, and she had no

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Speaker 4: problem with that, And I think men should pay for

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Speaker 4: like their girl on a date's ball. She did it

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Speaker 4: just to like embarrass me, embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: That free food is free food, don't I don't know

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Speaker 1: why you jumped to automatically being embarrassed or emasculated. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why you're still fragile. I think it was

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Speaker 1: a very nice thing that she offered to pay, or

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Speaker 1: didn't even offer. She just did it, you know, because

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Speaker 1: a lot of times people will say like, can I

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Speaker 1: pay for this? And you don't know if there's seriousness

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Speaker 1: that you pay for it. Anyway, she just took the

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Speaker 1: initiative and paid for it. I think that's a very

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Speaker 1: nice thing. Why don't you take them all out again

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Speaker 1: and you pay next time? What's what's the matter.

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Speaker 4: I just think I mean that a guy should pay

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Speaker 4: for his date. And she said it was a nice yes,

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Speaker 4: So she just got a bonus.

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Speaker 1: That works.

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Speaker 4: She wanted to spread the love because I paid the

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Speaker 4: first time. It's not I'm not like that.

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Speaker 3: I'm old school.

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Speaker 4: I'm old fashioned, and I you know, she just did

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Speaker 4: it to the show. Maybe that she makes more money

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Speaker 4: than me.

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Speaker 3: I don't really know, but.

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Speaker 1: You are insecure, bro't friend?

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Speaker 4: Why is like he looked at me like, wow, you're

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Speaker 3: But he didn't.

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Speaker 1: I bet he didn't think that at all. I bet

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Speaker 1: he was like, Wow, this girl's a keeper. She's doing

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Speaker 1: something nice for you. She had a little bit of

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Speaker 1: a windfall. You know, she had good fortune and she

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Speaker 1: was spreading it on to people that she cares about.

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Speaker 1: Let me bring Rebecca in. I gotta bring Rebecca in.

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Speaker 1: So that's what he's mad about. Rebecca he's mad that

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Speaker 1: you paid for the date because he's a little frad

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Speaker 1: litle many go can't handle it.

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Speaker 2: I cannot believe this, Like I'm like that was the problem,

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Speaker 2: Like I've never in my life on anyone be like,

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, what a jerk they paid for me me?

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Speaker 4: Like, oh, I'm a strong, independent wo.

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Speaker 3: I mean, what's wrong with that?

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Speaker 1: So you'd rather be with a weak individual that broke No?

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Speaker 4: No, I just think like I mean.

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Speaker 3: I a man to pay for his girl. That's it.

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Speaker 4: I don't care to talk about that. She just whipped

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Speaker 4: like you know, I don't care that.

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Speaker 2: We're not even together together, Like I can still pay

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Speaker 2: a relationship like that, but like.

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Speaker 1: Second that, well, oh my gosh, I don't know, Dominic,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you jumped to this being some

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Speaker 1: it's not. It's a person doing a nice thing. And

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Speaker 1: and it sounds like you have a problem with women

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Speaker 1: who can take care of themselves, which is as a

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Speaker 4: Happen I should think. I think a man takes care

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Speaker 1: So women should just like the fawn over you and

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Speaker 1: you should have to they should owe you all the time.

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 3: What is that? How you feel about this?

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Speaker 4: I think I should pay for the date. If I

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Speaker 4: take her out, I'm paying for the date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, maybe if I'm out I can't today, maybe.

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Speaker 1: On my birthday she could.

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Speaker 4: Pay, you know. But other than that, like, I just think,

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Speaker 4: did it just to like, you know, put me down.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I did not do that at all.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to be nice because you did for

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Speaker 5: And like, al yeah, no kid, yeah, hey do it

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Speaker 5: your boy.

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Speaker 1: He's trying to get her number right. And look, I

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Speaker 1: was raised. I was raised that if I ask you

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Speaker 1: out on a date, I pay for the date. I

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Speaker 1: get that. But if somebody takes the initiative just to say, hey,

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Speaker 1: something good happened to me today and I just want

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Speaker 1: to I want you something nice for you, guys, then

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Speaker 1: that's I don't think that's you being less of a gentleman.

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Speaker 1: I think that's someone just doing something nice for you.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't like that.

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Speaker 5: I mean.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay because you're a broken Is that what

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Speaker 1: he says? Is that what she said? I don't think

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Speaker 1: she said that.

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Speaker 3: That's what.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this dude is weak. I'm sorry people say that

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Speaker 1: we're mean to some of these people. I'm waiting and

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Speaker 1: this dude deserves it.

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Speaker 4: I want to take care of my date.

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Speaker 1: No, I think it was the female empowerment. But comment

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Speaker 1: I think that was what got me. But anyway, Hey, Rebecca,

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Speaker 1: I'm not even going to ask you if you want

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Speaker 1: to go out with him again, because I don't think

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Speaker 1: you should.

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Speaker 5: Nope, Well, you don't have to ask me.

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 2: This is ridiculous. If this is going to be the relationship, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Not in man dominic, you'd be great like in the fifties.

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Speaker 3: You should go back to the fifties company. Is that

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Speaker 3: why your parents in me? Dominic? Because you want to domine?

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Speaker 3: They women? All right? Okay, you know one. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: on your side. Was that actually dominant?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? If you can go ahead and rose sal that's

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Speaker 1: the only thing I'm going to sign with you are

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Speaker 1: all right?

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Speaker 3: Guys? Best of luck to both of you. Thank you

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Speaker 3: for your time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Take care Caitlyn has the Entertainment Report Show by Shelley

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Speaker 1: has money, also paying bills all next Fred show