Speaker 1: Elvis Durrand presents Off Air Show with Scary Jones and
Speaker 1: Greg Episode. Here we come. It's the off Air Show.
Speaker 1: Yeah it is. I'm Scary Jones, he is, that's Greg
Speaker 1: t I'm over here now that yes, it is Today's
Speaker 1: Sport twenty. Might not be experiencing this podcast on four twenty,
Speaker 1: AND's why Balfreak is not with us right now. He's
Speaker 1: enjoying himself a little lot. He comes some top and
Speaker 1: he's he's what he's he combs in some top right now.
Speaker 1: That's why he's not with us. And that was a
Speaker 1: backward speak, that's right, he calms. I think you guys
Speaker 1: could figure it out. That's correct. At least Sierra Gore
Speaker 1: from Georgia knows what we're talking about. That right, Sierra?
Speaker 1: You know, is it on four twenties it four twenty
Speaker 1: every part of the day or is it it is
Speaker 1: four twenty all day? And then when it hits some
Speaker 1: corps four twenty at twenty, I mean you're gonna go
Speaker 1: what happens at four pm on four twenty, That's when
Speaker 1: you're gonna go to town, and that's when you're gonna
Speaker 1: go outside and smokes a pot, give me that Bob
Speaker 1: give me that bomb exactly in the time that they
Speaker 1: How do you feel about the legalization thing? I mean,
Speaker 1: how do you feel? I mean, do you feel that
Speaker 1: he gets a drug? Of course? I listen, you know
Speaker 1: what it is. It is. It is time, who I believe,
Speaker 1: just to make the entire the incredible, edible uh source
Speaker 1: of pot legal. I I would I mean at this point,
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know the exact amount of states
Speaker 1: uh that it's legal, ind but I'm just saying I
Speaker 1: think it's a massive, massive amount. It brings it so
Speaker 1: much money. There you go the theme song for today
Speaker 1: encouraging this it's not legal? What if? What if it
Speaker 1: should be? What if? What if you state where it's
Speaker 1: not legal? How do you say it really is medicinal
Speaker 1: or recreational? Either one? It's it's a weed at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, hence weed, it's natural. You say,
Speaker 1: it's well, by the way, do you know that went
Speaker 1: on by when I went to Denver last year with
Speaker 1: the ball Freak? Yeah, we um because it's legal in Colorado.
Speaker 1: There was a radio station doing an appearance at the
Speaker 1: at the at the what they call them the something
Speaker 1: or areas, the the expense. No, No, the the dispensaries.
Speaker 1: There was just a weekend. Imagine now Saturday afternoons. When
Speaker 1: you when you have a radio station that doesn't appearance,
Speaker 1: what do you where do they normally go? We got
Speaker 1: we got a grand openings of stores, stores, right your
Speaker 1: cell phone stores and the washes gas stations. Yeah. Um yeah.
Speaker 1: The local radio station had the d jail on the
Speaker 1: microphone outside of a dispensary because it's becoming common now,
Speaker 1: so they obviously advertising they were client for the radio station.
Speaker 1: I think it's great. Listen. I mean, if we had
Speaker 1: ball Freak here, we really needed them right now. But
Speaker 1: I mean, you know there, there's there's the vape, the
Speaker 1: vapue amount of pat you can smoke, now that you
Speaker 1: can roll your own grow your own edibles, you name it. There,
Speaker 1: it's it's everywhere. How much have you done in your life?
Speaker 1: I've done enough. I would not say that I'm a professional,
Speaker 1: or have I smoked as much as Ball Freak or something.
Speaker 1: I shouldn't even say about that. He's not here to
Speaker 1: defend tell you that that. You know, he just you know,
Speaker 1: sucks on lollipops all day. I mean every now and then.
Speaker 1: It is what it is. You know, It's just I
Speaker 1: don't see anything you know, wrong with it. I understand people,
Speaker 1: You're never gonna win the debate on it. You know.
Speaker 1: The debate is that oh it dust up to your
Speaker 1: brain and there you go. But if you come on,
Speaker 1: we play songs on the radio all about it, right,
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to defend everybody. I'm just saying, relax.
Speaker 1: Are trying to right now? It would be nice, but
Speaker 1: we're in the building right now. I mean, look who
Speaker 1: it is, share it knows walking on in good morning.
Speaker 1: Nice to finally show up to work today? Yeah, what's
Speaker 1: going on? You know you do have this sense? Are
Speaker 1: you not enjoying four twenty today? Um? Yes? What I mean?
Speaker 1: Should you? I mean you can enjoy the day, can't.
Speaker 1: You can enjoy the day right without participant? So what
Speaker 1: are you gonna do at four twenty this afternoon? On
Speaker 1: four twenty? What are you gonna do? Um? I'm gonna
Speaker 1: scream at the top of my lungs. No, you're relaxed
Speaker 1: and just kind of relaxing. Then I could I could
Speaker 1: still relax even if I don't participate. I'll be chill.
Speaker 1: Have you ever have you ever done in a pothead before? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: kicking back shotgun? Is it? I gotta be honest. I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to like lie or anything. I'm not being honest.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't really partake very much. So what's
Speaker 1: it like to data pothead? What is it like? You know,
Speaker 1: what's sex like with a pothead? Okay, we can say, hi,
Speaker 1: what's up? I walked in the middle of some good stuff. Um.
Speaker 1: I don't partake, but I don't turn a he knows
Speaker 1: to anybody that does. And being somebody that lives by
Speaker 1: coastal and in California, being very legal, I'm obviously around
Speaker 1: it a lot. Yeah, people walk through the streets. You
Speaker 1: can just walking up and down suns at Boulevard and
Speaker 1: you'd be like whoa, and the don't do anything about it, right,
Speaker 1: which is weird being a New Yorker coming from here
Speaker 1: and being somebody that doesn't really smoke at all. Um.
Speaker 1: So for myself, it was something I had to get
Speaker 1: used to because you'd be sitting in the car with
Speaker 1: people and they think they just whip it out and
Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa, wait, whoa? You know I have a friend.
Speaker 1: Honestly that every time if I pick him up and
Speaker 1: we go out. He just kind of like just brings
Speaker 1: it out. He's got like this little you know thing,
Speaker 1: he carries it in and he puts it in a
Speaker 1: one hitter or whatever, and he rolls it right there
Speaker 1: and he smokes or in the car just like that.
Speaker 1: But what's gonna happen? I mean, there's so many other
Speaker 1: things that are going on in the world, Like why
Speaker 1: is the officer going to arrest anybody over pot? It's like,
Speaker 1: it's become so ridiculous to bring somebody up in front
Speaker 1: of a judge be like are you feel a lot
Speaker 1: of smoking a bone? And okay? And and what do
Speaker 1: you can do with them? What? But the problem is
Speaker 1: is that it's still illegal here. But I understand that,
Speaker 1: but there's only a matter of time before it becomes legal.
Speaker 1: It's ridiculous. It's only a matter of money in politics
Speaker 1: and and to get something like that legal. At this point, everybody,
Speaker 1: even the politicians, are smoking pot. There all are, and
Speaker 1: there are there are a lot of studies now that
Speaker 1: are showing some really reasons why people are doing it
Speaker 1: for their own problems that they're having. So I guess
Speaker 1: there's that study you talk to guys like Montell Williams.
Speaker 1: I've seen him on the Doctorage show. That guy. I mean,
Speaker 1: he'll tell you, I mean how it. It's helped him survive,
Speaker 1: you know. But I'm just telling you right now, I think,
Speaker 1: you know, there are people who go overboard, and those
Speaker 1: are the people that you you know, you start to worry.
Speaker 1: And I agree with that the law. That's why the
Speaker 1: laws are in place and certain that's true. I mean,
Speaker 1: the cannabis industry is growing like crazy. Invest now, if
Speaker 1: you can find somebody that's going about to open up
Speaker 1: a store, I would invest right now. You think, listen,
Speaker 1: I don't hate making these blanket, bold statements, but I
Speaker 1: would think that was in the next put my money
Speaker 1: on Twitter. I would think I would take it out
Speaker 1: of there. And within five ten years, I think these
Speaker 1: dispensers just kind of show up. I think the laws
Speaker 1: get changed and everything it becomes legal, and before you
Speaker 1: know it, you got dispensers on every corner like you
Speaker 1: do Starbucks and Dunkin Donuts, and I think they're out
Speaker 1: there everywhere, and that's gonna be it. So you know what,
Speaker 1: invest now with somebody that's gonna start opening one up
Speaker 1: the way, I just played my favorite weed song, tropic
Speaker 1: like it's hot, what's yours? And weould have a favorite
Speaker 1: weed song like, you know, like I love that smokes
Speaker 1: the pot that we played right now. I love that's
Speaker 1: my favorite one. You don't you don't like because I
Speaker 1: got high? It's another great one. I mean, how did
Speaker 1: he not play this on four twenty? You know what?
Speaker 1: It's a great topic. I like that songs that are
Speaker 1: perfect for smoking some he clomb sing some top top top.
Speaker 1: I mean this song was popular. I mean this was
Speaker 1: actually a hit on the radio. Remember this is like
Speaker 1: in two thousand and one talking about this. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: keep going, you listen to this. I was gonna clean
Speaker 1: my room. Yeah, shut it off. That's room still. And
Speaker 1: I know what they actually took. If I'm Afroman, I
Speaker 1: piste off right now. So Afroman is the Afroman wrote
Speaker 1: that song and sang it, and they're destroying to desecrating
Speaker 1: his what he calls art. And that was because I
Speaker 1: got high. Every time they say the word high, they
Speaker 1: just block it out with something else. So give me some,
Speaker 1: give me some dre and like Snoop Dogg or something that. Like,
Speaker 1: there's tons of songs mean dogs got a billion to
Speaker 1: one small songs about about hot And isn't it the
Speaker 1: theory that you get even more creative some of these
Speaker 1: artists and they smoke, they get creativity. Got on Young
Speaker 1: Wild and Free, Snoop Dogg with Belief, doesn't he go,
Speaker 1: which is a song that at the end of it
Speaker 1: he goes smooth smoke weed every day I'm doing. You're
Speaker 1: talking about the next episode, and I've Snoop Dogg Belief.
Speaker 1: I got it right here with Bluga Mars before Young
Speaker 1: wildon Free. Let let me see if I can get
Speaker 1: that one. I'm on. This is a class you know what.
Speaker 1: This might be my favorite trouble because I never meet
Speaker 1: Snoop Dogg. I have not snog at the Playboy Mansion.
Speaker 1: It was such the classic moment to meet Snoop Dogg
Speaker 1: is not so funny. He's like, hey, he's been up
Speaker 1: here and you can smell him through the whole way.
Speaker 1: He's a guy. But yeah, there's definitely that's the whole
Speaker 1: weed factor. One where I can't believe Brunto Mars participated. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we changed it seven. He said, did you guys hear that?
Speaker 1: What do you say? He said, so, what we get drunk.
Speaker 1: So what we don't sleep? We don't sleep it's supposed
Speaker 1: to be. So what we smoke weed? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: all the songs have been changed. What are they doing
Speaker 1: so we don't sleep? We got in here? Hold on
Speaker 1: a second, that one really that one said something else?
Speaker 1: Pulled on a second. I'm gonna pull it up on
Speaker 1: my phone. I want to hear the real version. I
Speaker 1: hear you lower this song. I'll play it out of
Speaker 1: my phone. Here we go, all right with Khalifa and
Speaker 1: Bruno Mars. Yeah, hold on, this is the extended intro.
Speaker 1: This is the club mixed. Yeah, they're sitting there, they're golfing,
Speaker 1: and this is the music video. Yeah, that's the only
Speaker 1: way for me to play it off the phone right now,
Speaker 1: because we're not prepared. We don't have it. We thought
Speaker 1: we had it in the system. I thought we had it.
Speaker 1: I was ready to go. I can't believe it. But
Speaker 1: the thing is, why would they Is it a curse word?
Speaker 1: Why would they out the word smoke? Why would they
Speaker 1: edit out is it? Obviously there's a lot of people
Speaker 1: that think that it's wrong. This is wrong enough to
Speaker 1: change the words and put belching over the word high.
Speaker 1: It's ridiculous. There's enough controversy. I guess theyll here we go,
Speaker 1: so well, we smoke me. Let's just seven. We don't
Speaker 1: care what we're seeing. We go. That's what was probably
Speaker 1: so what I keep it rolled up? Second, my patients
Speaker 1: like Karen, what I shall keep it real with? Just
Speaker 1: keep it playing for you? Oh my goodness, maybe we
Speaker 1: should play he's studying cursing teams fingers because you're a
Speaker 1: class clown. And if I skipped for the damn which
Speaker 1: a fish smoking gray, it's like seven making a peach
Speaker 1: for us. Come by the way. But they changed the
Speaker 1: whole freaking meaning they do that. That's terrible, and it's terrible.
Speaker 1: It's a great song, that really is. You know what, man,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be. It's gonna be a great weekend.
Speaker 1: Coming off a four twenty. You head out into the
Speaker 1: movie theater. You're gonna go see Fate and Furious this weekend. Relaxed,
Speaker 1: smoke a little, get a little high, enjoy the movie.
Speaker 1: I'm not Yeah, I'm gonna have to my friends. I'll
Speaker 1: do it with by myself, with my friends. I'll be
Speaker 1: real about it. You know, it is what it is.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna escapegoat and hide and act like it's
Speaker 1: not gonna go on. It's what's going on. It's real legit.
Speaker 1: Well okay, so it was so legit and real that
Speaker 1: somebody wrote a book about exactly Look, they left promotional
Speaker 1: copies of the Scratching Sniff Book of Weed. That's insane.
Speaker 1: It This book is dope, so Seth Matt Ln's and
Speaker 1: Eve Epstein. So remember as a kid growing up, you
Speaker 1: used to have those scratching sniff books. So if you
Speaker 1: take a look in this book here, guys, Wow, really
Speaker 1: turned to the middle where it says the Garden of Weeden.
Speaker 1: They actually you could scratch the page. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: A second, hold on, wait, hold, wait, wait, I have
Speaker 1: the botany of buzz. Wait take it. Take a sniff
Speaker 1: of the Purple Hindu, the purple the purple Hindu, the
Speaker 1: blueberry cush where is that one? Go to the middle,
Speaker 1: scratch it and sniffet, sniff, sniffet hard. It smells like
Speaker 1: it smells like weed with with a lemon scent. Wow,
Speaker 1: get out of here. It's the whole book like this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the scratch and sniff Book. Yeah, you look a
Speaker 1: right here. Let us train Wreck, sky Walker, Purple Hindu,
Speaker 1: Purple Hate. The thing is from the way the cover
Speaker 1: is written, it looks like it's for your kids. Hey, t,
Speaker 1: why don't you bring this home to your daughter? Again?
Speaker 1: This is where we get real. I wouldn't do it.
Speaker 1: I may not mean, you know, Jade's ten and ellis seven, Like,
Speaker 1: this is not something that I would be saying, Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: let's go do. This is not okay stuff. The conversation
Speaker 1: comes up. But I'm not a a I'm not I'm
Speaker 1: not a parent that like kind of like says, oh,
Speaker 1: we'll talk about when you get older. If the question
Speaker 1: is raised, then I sit down and I dress it
Speaker 1: and I talked to them just like a normal person would,
Speaker 1: and I explit to him and in the language that
Speaker 1: they would under scratch and sniff. The green crack, it
Speaker 1: says Snoop Snoop Dogg named it the green crack. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, green crack. That's a problem. Yeah, you got
Speaker 1: a green crack. That's an issue that is a little
Speaker 1: bit anyway. Anyway, that's available now and you heard about
Speaker 1: it here on the off air show. So yeah, there
Speaker 1: you go. Um wow. And it even gets into like
Speaker 1: it gets into eating and all these other things on
Speaker 1: this This is great. Wow, this is some bud, really is.
Speaker 1: You could smoke some tobacco and there are there are
Speaker 1: brands of tobacco and cigars even that will make you
Speaker 1: feel a little bit you know. Yeah, I mean it's
Speaker 1: it's so it's not just weed. You can get strong
Speaker 1: cigars that are sold in stores right now. I can
Speaker 1: go to a cigar store right now and I can
Speaker 1: get a top notch cigar that's really really strong that
Speaker 1: will make you feel like you're a little bit you know, high,
Speaker 1: and it's and and that's legal. And there's just so
Speaker 1: many of the little things that are out there that
Speaker 1: are legal that I just think that you know, pot
Speaker 1: smoking and you know, a big deal that there's other
Speaker 1: things that that we have to worry. At this point,
Speaker 1: it rolls up my shoulder. I'm kind of like whatever. So, Um,
Speaker 1: there was an article in The Post last week that
Speaker 1: we never got to and and I'm gonna just come
Speaker 1: right out and say that we've been working behind the
Speaker 1: scenes to get the people that represented this article on
Speaker 1: the show. Um it was from the Daily I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: It's New York Post, and it's from the Body and
Speaker 1: soul section, and it said, fed up with dating vain
Speaker 1: air heads, New Yorkers are dumping perfect tens for sixes
Speaker 1: and sevens. Um a matchmaker woman and her husband said that.
Speaker 1: So Dan the husband stopped dating blonde bombs shells and
Speaker 1: settled settled with his wife who's a matchmaker and by
Speaker 1: her name is Carly Spindell. By the way, she is
Speaker 1: actually saying she's a six or seven and that he
Speaker 1: her husband dumped to tend to be with her. And
Speaker 1: she goes on to say in the article, why why
Speaker 1: it's better for these people in their thirties and forties
Speaker 1: who want to actually have something serious in life, why
Speaker 1: they should be dumping the tens and just going for
Speaker 1: a six or seven? And I think it's I think
Speaker 1: this is atrocious, this article. So we were behind the
Speaker 1: scenes wanted to get these people on the phone, and
Speaker 1: we couldn't. Uh yeah. The husband said, I'm sorry, UM,
Speaker 1: I can't do press right now, and then the wife
Speaker 1: like stopped returning my calls. So they were supposed to
Speaker 1: be on the show today, but obviously they felt so
Speaker 1: strongly about about this that they felt they needed to
Speaker 1: do an article two pages in the New York Post.
Speaker 1: By the way, it's pretty pretty crazy. What did you
Speaker 1: get out of it? Guys? Did you did you take
Speaker 1: a look at it? Well, of course yeah, And I
Speaker 1: mean the whole entire thing just hit me um off.
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you first and foremost. I I talk
Speaker 1: about this type of subject a lot with people because
Speaker 1: I think there's an overall persona about beautiful women and
Speaker 1: what they exemplify. And I'm somebody that's very big obviously
Speaker 1: into women empowerment. You guys know and stand behind me
Speaker 1: a lot on a lot of the stuff that I've
Speaker 1: always pushed forth, which is education, uta is having girls.
Speaker 1: I'm the type that tells everybody, I'm living proof of it,
Speaker 1: that you can do whatever you want in life and
Speaker 1: have nothing. Because article is pretty much suggesting that your
Speaker 1: ten you don't try hard in life and you're pretty
Speaker 1: much well, it's pretty much saying that you're dumb, right,
Speaker 1: and that you're not worthy of it. It's I think
Speaker 1: it's I think this article is kind of disgraceful. Well,
Speaker 1: it's it's very disgraceful, but there's reasons behind it. And
Speaker 1: I'll have to say one other thing. When I was
Speaker 1: reading it before I even got to the part about
Speaker 1: the fact that the wife was a matchmaker. I felt
Speaker 1: there was a business side to this whole thing. It
Speaker 1: hit me very strong at the very beginning, right off
Speaker 1: the first paragraph that there was something behind it that
Speaker 1: was trying to promote something. People don't usually just come
Speaker 1: on and start um discuss saying their ex is and
Speaker 1: why they're not going for them if there's not some
Speaker 1: punch line at the end. To me, the real punch
Speaker 1: line is is that she has a matchmaking service, and
Speaker 1: that there's a bottom line to this whole thing, that
Speaker 1: she's actually going to be better and matching you up
Speaker 1: with somebody to come to her. So, in a sense,
Speaker 1: I feel that it was and and more kudos to them.
Speaker 1: They were promoting their business, that's one. So you think
Speaker 1: this whole thing was just a front to get a
Speaker 1: get a page in the in the paper and get
Speaker 1: some subscriptions up. I feel that there's so much controversy
Speaker 1: with this type of topic, um specifically being somebody like
Speaker 1: myself who is very promoting of the fact that I
Speaker 1: happen to think and listen, it's completely subjective. Remember, beauties
Speaker 1: in the eye of the beholder, So we have to
Speaker 1: remember that. So I'm not speaking necessarily for everybody here,
Speaker 1: but I think I'm speaking for a lot of people
Speaker 1: when I say that it's almost harder when you're a
Speaker 1: beautiful female to get points across and you have to
Speaker 1: fight just for respect, because people have these underlining premonitions
Speaker 1: that there is a reason to think that because you're
Speaker 1: somebody that's beautiful, come easier to you, or perhaps you
Speaker 1: don't have to try it's hard, or perhaps you're flighty,
Speaker 1: like he used the word of. And I don't find
Speaker 1: that to be the case at all. In fact, being
Speaker 1: somebody that uh, you know it was hang on billboards
Speaker 1: and doing print ads while I was in law school
Speaker 1: at one of our finest law schools um at a
Speaker 1: young age getting a major two major degree is a
Speaker 1: juris doctorate and a master's. I happen to be the
Speaker 1: first and foremost person to push everybody to say that
Speaker 1: if you're if you're somebody that's beautiful and likes to
Speaker 1: promote themselves in an artistic way, whether that be acting
Speaker 1: or modeling, both things I love to do, or be
Speaker 1: somebody that wants to go into business and become a
Speaker 1: forefront in a you know, a fortune one company. You
Speaker 1: need to just prove yourself to be who you are.
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with your looks, and it
Speaker 1: should not be something that's classified based on women's beauty.
Speaker 1: What if ahead, I take the other side of things now, listen,
Speaker 1: here's where I'm thinking. I'm thinking that maybe, just maybe
Speaker 1: he at one point just kind of had enough with
Speaker 1: trying to what he considered, you know, shooting for the stars.
Speaker 1: You know. So he's like, he looking at him, looks
Speaker 1: at looks at himself in the mirror, and he goes,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm like an eight, you know, he thinks himself,
Speaker 1: and he said, I'm gonna go out with all these
Speaker 1: hot chicks. So he before he really tries to get
Speaker 1: to know him, he looks at him in the bar
Speaker 1: and he goes, Bam, she's hot. I'm going for her.
Speaker 1: She's a tent. Whatever he stipulates is a tent. Now,
Speaker 1: most guys, we all know, we judge books by the cover.
Speaker 1: Men will walk up to a lady because she's much
Speaker 1: she's you know, easy on the eyes, rather than a conversation.
Speaker 1: He finds a conversation later on. At first he's looking
Speaker 1: at the shape of her body, how tall she is,
Speaker 1: the looks on her. He that's what that's a that's
Speaker 1: what most men are gravitating to. And then he started
Speaker 1: the conversation. So the thing is is that so now
Speaker 1: you have this guy. What he's saying is after doing that,
Speaker 1: after years of beating myself up, trying to get myself,
Speaker 1: a little bit of armcan me to ride next to
Speaker 1: me in the convertible? He realized when he found his wife,
Speaker 1: and he's being real, He's like, look, my wife is
Speaker 1: very attractive. He goes, I don't consider her a ten.
Speaker 1: He's saying, isn't got to slap in the face to
Speaker 1: you to know that? It's terrible because I want to
Speaker 1: be I want to be considered a case you're dating me.
Speaker 1: I want to be at ten. You look at yourself
Speaker 1: in the mirror right now? Are you a ten? Scary?
Speaker 1: I look myself in the mirror and I go, I
Speaker 1: am not a ten. I know what a ten is.
Speaker 1: You see a guy, you know what a ten is?
Speaker 1: Right and okay, right now? In a girl, could you
Speaker 1: describe a tent in your mind to a girl? Yes? Absolutely? Okay,
Speaker 1: share same questions to you share when you look at
Speaker 1: yourself in the mirror. Are you a ten? You be honest?
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm too beautiful comes out. This is good,
Speaker 1: It is helpful. It's honest. If you if you think
Speaker 1: very high of yourself, saying you think very hard at
Speaker 1: why you think you're a ten? I would say, what
Speaker 1: do you think I am? Scary? When you listen? I
Speaker 1: mean I listen again. It beauties in the eye of
Speaker 1: the beholder, and you know we all have. I'm sure
Speaker 1: there's people I pick out yourself confident well, and that
Speaker 1: was something else I was gonna say, ahead, let him finish,
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna add something I'm not saying. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that, And I don't know why you don't
Speaker 1: think you're a ten. Maybe I don't know what because
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're being real. That's exactly it.
Speaker 1: We listen. There's a difference between being a ten because
Speaker 1: in our minds, we want to make ourselves feel confident
Speaker 1: and we want to say, hey, I'm as good as
Speaker 1: a ten as well. But in realistically terms, realistic terms,
Speaker 1: we're not tens. We're not models, we're not tense. I
Speaker 1: don't think I hung on fishing with billboards. Yourself shows
Speaker 1: why we like his wife is not a tent, is
Speaker 1: what he's saying, right, he's saying, and I don't agree
Speaker 1: with that. But if he's marrying her, she he should
Speaker 1: look at her like But he I agree with that. Real,
Speaker 1: He's like, look, he found a woman. His wife is
Speaker 1: let's say, a seven. He says, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. But but she becomes a tent when he
Speaker 1: gets to learn and talk about her, when he can
Speaker 1: see what women don't want to hear that women want
Speaker 1: to be. That's not the truth. No, but here's something
Speaker 1: I think I need to add. I think one thing
Speaker 1: on the side of this article is that I don't
Speaker 1: think I would have if I was him classified necessarily
Speaker 1: his wife in any category. It'says it's his fiance soon
Speaker 1: to be his wife. He wait a second, though, let
Speaker 1: me say something I think. No, I am being real.
Speaker 1: Beauty does not only come in the attractiveness of a
Speaker 1: look or a body. It comes But I have always
Speaker 1: said in the Share Nose segments that the first thing
Speaker 1: you're gonna find in somebody is their look. You're gonna
Speaker 1: see somebody across the bar, you are going to look
Speaker 1: at their body. You are going to look at their face,
Speaker 1: their hair. If you don't blondes, you're not going to
Speaker 1: look at the blonde, You're gonna look at the brunette.
Speaker 1: I mean things are that. I mean, look, we're that
Speaker 1: shallow of cute creatures. That is true. That's what I'm said.
Speaker 1: When it comes down to really categorizing at ten, I
Speaker 1: happen to think a little differently when you're talking about
Speaker 1: guys and girls, because I think it's a total package
Speaker 1: thing I do. But that's not what he said. He
Speaker 1: said he looks now for six and seven talk to them.
Speaker 1: I want to quote the So Carle is the fiancee,
Speaker 1: and and then Dan is the husband future husband, and
Speaker 1: car she's close to a ten. I would think that
Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, exactly, she's not describing herself properly. She's
Speaker 1: hotter than a seven. Yeah, I think I would think
Speaker 1: that she's like, this is what she has to say.
Speaker 1: She's got no qualms about how her future husband views
Speaker 1: her her compared with her exes, who, by the way,
Speaker 1: she admits, as much hotter than she is. She wrote.
Speaker 1: When men get to a certain age, they realize that
Speaker 1: it's important to meet a life partner that they could
Speaker 1: connect with, she says, looks fade hold on some great
Speaker 1: looking people, they're given a bad rap unfairly. When men
Speaker 1: see beautiful women, they're more concentrated on how she looks
Speaker 1: because they want to quote have her have sex, and
Speaker 1: so they don't want to go deeper and get to
Speaker 1: know her, says Isabelle, who's twenty two. She's an Italian beauty,
Speaker 1: she's she's a model. So anyway, the point is the
Speaker 1: point and then and that's why at the end of
Speaker 1: the day they wonder, oh that girl is so beautiful
Speaker 1: but so empty. This happens to me often exactly so.
Speaker 1: But again I make a different point here. I think
Speaker 1: you guys are have to flip this a little bit.
Speaker 1: I think that beautiful girls are sometimes bypassed by people
Speaker 1: because there's an understatement saying that they are going to
Speaker 1: be somebody that is going to be shallower, maybe won't
Speaker 1: be nice. Um. I've heard people say things. I've actually
Speaker 1: heard people say things like, um, you know, I can't
Speaker 1: believe in a club. I don't know if I would
Speaker 1: want to rush up to you and start talking, I
Speaker 1: might stare you down, but I'm gonna think you are
Speaker 1: all into his tongue is gonna hit the floor like
Speaker 1: a stair Excusually, there's a lot of people that have said,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Share you're so nice. I didn't know
Speaker 1: you're gonna be that nice to you. She was song
Speaker 1: like snowflakes. Ever, I don't know what the words every
Speaker 1: love my agee. This song is not this. This is
Speaker 1: the scrising what he's said to walk away from the
Speaker 1: centerfold listen to my cold. My memory has just been
Speaker 1: so last Angel. Angel is the center. By the way,
Speaker 1: that song is not a positive reflection. He's trying to
Speaker 1: say the girl next door that he knew grew up
Speaker 1: and Joe and Post the play Boy, and she's spreading
Speaker 1: the magazine he's knowing. He's trying to say that like,
Speaker 1: I can't fucking believe what became of her. And that's
Speaker 1: a tented what that's the tents he's talking about that,
Speaker 1: that's not what this song is. You're totally dude, and
Speaker 1: one of the guys in the band just dying just
Speaker 1: this last week. He's tetting over in his grave. Singer
Speaker 1: the lead say everbodything is the lead singer's name with
Speaker 1: Jay Giles, the lead singer was not guitarist was Jay
Speaker 1: Guys Jay Giles Band. The singer was Peter Wof. He's
Speaker 1: still alive. What he's trying to say in that song
Speaker 1: is that the little girl next door that he knew
Speaker 1: grew up post for like Playboy spread eagle in the
Speaker 1: middle of a magazine, and now it's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I can't believe what she did. She's screwed herself, That's
Speaker 1: what he said. He's that this is nothing to do
Speaker 1: with them. If I go into a club and I
Speaker 1: see you, I am I am probably not talking to
Speaker 1: you until I got a good three or four drinks
Speaker 1: in me. Then then I'm getting that. I'm getting the
Speaker 1: because I'm just gonna walk up to her because you
Speaker 1: don't like because I'm judging her. I'm judging, I hate
Speaker 1: to say her, I'm judging share by her looks, and
Speaker 1: I'm saying, look at her. She's put out up here,
Speaker 1: she's put out down there, he's put out over here,
Speaker 1: She's put out. Put out, she's put out, not put out, No,
Speaker 1: she's put out. And then wait, wait what else she wants? Somebody? Wait,
Speaker 1: what did you say? Something with the money and you
Speaker 1: judge me, I really judge you that you want money.
Speaker 1: You want a guy that's tall, you want a guy
Speaker 1: that's got abs. You want a guy that's got a
Speaker 1: hot car. You want a convertible, you want a house
Speaker 1: on the beach. You want a lot of money. And
Speaker 1: that is what that is not. That's not reason. Club
Speaker 1: days like the in the Roxberry guys and they wonder
Speaker 1: why I'm single, and I'm actually just this nice girl.
Speaker 1: That's the problem. No, because you walk around with your
Speaker 1: mirror sunglasses on, right, I mean you talk to your chell.
Speaker 1: I will tell you this, not talk to your mirror
Speaker 1: sunglasses sunk out of my face right Hold? Do you
Speaker 1: see the smile I give them? This is a big smile.
Speaker 1: Who's talking to you? Just at the club. He's got
Speaker 1: a drinking the ball you meet me? You you think
Speaker 1: the downstairs and were like, hey, here's my phone number.
Speaker 1: Not want to hear some statistics. Listen. Even even Business
Speaker 1: inside our magazine says this, you're ready for this. That
Speaker 1: beautiful people have a sense of power, and that power,
Speaker 1: if they use it the right way, brings to them
Speaker 1: a lot of joy and actually brings them the right
Speaker 1: mate at some point because the person who respects them
Speaker 1: and actually does come up to them, is the one
Speaker 1: that actually is the right person for them? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: they they've actually and listen, beauty reflects a self esteem.
Speaker 1: So really, the fact that this article is written this way,
Speaker 1: it's kind of shocking because this guy is a very
Speaker 1: successful guy, and perhaps he was not going for the
Speaker 1: right beautiful girl. He found a beautiful fiance though, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for him. But in another respect, the
Speaker 1: idea of self esteem comes from the idea of beauty.
Speaker 1: So there's this whole idea that there's a manifestation of behavior.
Speaker 1: So looks are rated more high, but their self esteem
Speaker 1: makes them more powerful. So business, you could actually succeed more.
Speaker 1: You exemplify this confidence. Call people that are good looking,
Speaker 1: they eventually climb the ladder much faster than a guy
Speaker 1: like myself who's five six and looks like Shrek. Okay, seriously, well,
Speaker 1: let me tell something. Do you ever noticed that all
Speaker 1: the all the big wigs, all the s vps of
Speaker 1: all these companies, they're not only good looking, but they're tall,
Speaker 1: that's right, talking, they're athletic, they go to the gym. Seriously,
Speaker 1: how many auditions seven? How many guys are like me?
Speaker 1: Five six? And look like Shrek that are making a
Speaker 1: decision whether or not to hire you or not. No,
Speaker 1: they're sitting there like there, they look tall, slendily, athletic,
Speaker 1: their shoulders are broad, they look good, they dress right.
Speaker 1: And then those are the ones that are going, you
Speaker 1: know what, she's a keeper, let's bring her. But again,
Speaker 1: it's subjective, guys, It's subjective to some people. Beauty is
Speaker 1: different than to other people. I mean, there are plenty
Speaker 1: of people that are you know, honestly that are there
Speaker 1: are models out, they're an actor. Is that I'm sure
Speaker 1: a lot of people are like I don't find that
Speaker 1: person attractive. But other people, you know, I have the
Speaker 1: majority that think that they're beautiful, and I'm not saying
Speaker 1: that once you get to talk to them, like Okay,
Speaker 1: when when I met my wife, for instance, okay, I
Speaker 1: met Trish. Okay, so I met Trish and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, she's attentioned to tent but you know what,
Speaker 1: to me, she was at ten because the way I
Speaker 1: see her, right, but in reality, we know we see
Speaker 1: that no no, no no, but I'm not this is
Speaker 1: the same. I think we should call her up. I
Speaker 1: can call her, get her on the phone, go right hand.
Speaker 1: But this is where I tell her to her face.
Speaker 1: This is where other women I share by the way,
Speaker 1: by the way, but this is where she would say,
Speaker 1: you know what, that is rude to say that. I'm
Speaker 1: not being rude. Just hear me out. I'm gonna call
Speaker 1: her because I know you're about the sam rude. What
Speaker 1: are you gonna say about your wife? T I'm saying
Speaker 1: that to me, Get it out because the Trish a
Speaker 1: tent to me and I overshot because I am not
Speaker 1: nearly attend. But are there women that are legitimate tends? Yes,
Speaker 1: there are so on the legitimate scale, Trish would not
Speaker 1: be a ten. That's not a bad thing. She is
Speaker 1: she hot, is she is hot to share. But now
Speaker 1: it's different as my love for Trish is about my
Speaker 1: love and the girl in the magazine. Everyone my wife. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hey Trish, Hey, it's scary. How you doing? Yeah? Hi,
Speaker 1: you're alive on the off air show? If your your
Speaker 1: husband is here, yeah, it's me and it's here in
Speaker 1: the buildings. Hi. Hey hey Trish. You guys make me
Speaker 1: very nervous when you do this. What is going on?
Speaker 1: Will quick? No? T want to tell you that you're
Speaker 1: not as hot as you thought you wrong. Hold wait,
Speaker 1: could you imagine answering the fighting that's back the truck
Speaker 1: up and back? Yeah, back out of this corner. Trish
Speaker 1: Scary brought an article to our attention about a gentleman
Speaker 1: that is trying to tell other guys to stop shooting
Speaker 1: for tens and go more with a six or a
Speaker 1: devan and you'll have more luck, and you'll have you'll
Speaker 1: find love. That last time, your husband pretty much said
Speaker 1: that's what I did. No, I did not share. Did
Speaker 1: I say that? Thank you? In many words? Trish? Are
Speaker 1: you still with us? Okay? She never was what I said,
Speaker 1: Trish was in my eyes, you are a ten? Do
Speaker 1: I not always tell you that? Every day? I do?
Speaker 1: Is that right? And that's why you're happily married? Okay? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's here's no joke. But Trish, in reality, would you
Speaker 1: consider yourself a ten? There you go, Oh my god?
Speaker 1: Really wait, Trish, Trish, Trish, I know that I am
Speaker 1: not a ten. Now the multimillion dollar question here, Trish,
Speaker 1: would you consider me a tend you consider him a five? Exactly? Exactly?
Speaker 1: I mean right, I mean, let's let's put a number
Speaker 1: on the truth. To number him but not. But Trish,
Speaker 1: can I ask you this now, Trish, after everything that
Speaker 1: you and I have been through and and and given
Speaker 1: birth to children, right and and I'm a dad and
Speaker 1: and I'm a husband right now, does that push my
Speaker 1: numbers higher to attend? When you when you round everything? Hid? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I mean you're still yeah, but you're not at
Speaker 1: the ten No, no, no, I got that. So yeah,
Speaker 1: so you get bonus points. But no, but we want
Speaker 1: to talk about you know, you're talking about base salary
Speaker 1: with bonuses. Let's just talk about bass salary right now.
Speaker 1: Let's give him a hard number. What is he? Oh?
Speaker 1: Just just he's done everything right now? We're talking because
Speaker 1: the original article right here in front of me says
Speaker 1: it's about appearances and looks. That's something you're deviating from
Speaker 1: the art changing the wreck. I know, I look like Shrek.
Speaker 1: There's nothing I can do about that. I am what
Speaker 1: I am, But I am what I am with more
Speaker 1: of a person, with more for my personalities and stuff.
Speaker 1: Am I not? Right? Trish? Yes? Yes, yes, so maybe
Speaker 1: I'm being safe calling everybody attend exactly So trust where
Speaker 1: am I am? I? Intend? No? Where am I? But well,
Speaker 1: what do we bet this on? I'm getting appearance your
Speaker 1: Abercrombie and Fitch looks, Yeah, like you just met him
Speaker 1: at a bar? My g Q, look my my men's
Speaker 1: health and fitness? Look what too? Are you kidding me? Well,
Speaker 1: I look at the things you're comparing yourself to men,
Speaker 1: tells Ambercrombie. Um, I mean he's a pretty high standard. Okay,
Speaker 1: I never thought i'd be a too. Wow, my feelings.
Speaker 1: Tretty telling Trish, Trish, what about me? If you saw
Speaker 1: me at a bar? I'm not doing this, Quarry. She
Speaker 1: has crawling under the table right here. Really not good?
Speaker 1: Why because you're realized you're ready insulted me? That's fine?
Speaker 1: Care about you? Remember when we first we met, we
Speaker 1: all met at the same time, like several years ago.
Speaker 1: Trash even said, you know what that I should be
Speaker 1: better off dating me and she to do it all over.
Speaker 1: You're scary? What do you like? Eight? No? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I have very like high standards on looks. This is okay,
Speaker 1: So we're scary. I'm a two? Am I a fucking one?
Speaker 1: I'm a two? All right? Greg, let's bump you up
Speaker 1: to like a four four and I'm a four in
Speaker 1: looks a four and then scary. I'll give you Peter
Speaker 1: and on a three. How about that, I'm not as
Speaker 1: hot as your husband. Wow, and I'm a four. Legitimately
Speaker 1: I'm a four. Well, I mean, look at how much
Speaker 1: you have going for you in personality. Let's focus on
Speaker 1: the positive here, supporter of the your fixed provider of
Speaker 1: the just like all the other qualities you bring to
Speaker 1: the table to bump your number up. I am a
Speaker 1: four in looks a four. But but look at the
Speaker 1: other quality of all and I can't Chris, I'm okay,
Speaker 1: that's saying a lot, though. I mean, look at how
Speaker 1: much you bring to the table on all the other aspects.
Speaker 1: You know, ten, ten is the whole number, so there's
Speaker 1: a lot of pieces that go into that whole number.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about looks and I don't look at me
Speaker 1: and you know my husband is a four. Yeah. Wow,
Speaker 1: I'm going I'm teetering on a three here. I think
Speaker 1: you have the song about the number three. Three is
Speaker 1: a magic It is a magic number. I'll take three,
Speaker 1: fat number. It's amagic. Is actually my favorite number. Thank you.
Speaker 1: Somewhere in the I'm not even because three is a
Speaker 1: magic number. Three you're the best. Thank you. I'll take
Speaker 1: to pass the present more either of your No, I'm
Speaker 1: ugly triple. What number would I be? I would give
Speaker 1: you the seven. That's a lie, Greg giving a seven
Speaker 1: or that is a total lie. I'm not having that
Speaker 1: means my personality beata is basically a true no. I'd
Speaker 1: say that. No that with your personality can be Well
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, no number, I'm over this man? What
Speaker 1: is what are you wait? What do you hold on?
Speaker 1: A second? What do you think your number is? In
Speaker 1: his eyes? Well, I would say beat on what Gregg says.
Speaker 1: I would be a ten because there's really nothing else
Speaker 1: going for me. Wow, I am absolutely I'm still seeing
Speaker 1: about three my magic number. Help me, you know it is.
Speaker 1: I'm silent, just wanting to check in with you. That
Speaker 1: So we wanted to get that little pole from you
Speaker 1: because Tam was trying to say that, you know, he
Speaker 1: really firmly believes that guys should date and marry sixes
Speaker 1: and sevens. He agrees with this article. And I'm saying,
Speaker 1: well that's the case. Then is that what you did?
Speaker 1: And he said yes, and then we called you that's
Speaker 1: the great think he is. Let's start there. I would
Speaker 1: I would have been happy with six. Now, what do
Speaker 1: you think you are? Not? What would make you happy?
Speaker 1: When you look at yourself? What do you think you are?
Speaker 1: I'll say six, Daddy, I'm a six? Why are you
Speaker 1: playing this? Six? And I'm happy with that. I'm comfortable
Speaker 1: with that, all right? They don't give you a six happy?
Speaker 1: Don't just give me a six? Makes you happy? No?
Speaker 1: But I want to not real number? But no, hang
Speaker 1: up on her. I'm done with this. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to hang up on her. I'm done. I want you
Speaker 1: to hang up on your husband's face goodbye, because it's
Speaker 1: so rude to you. That's just I'm done with this,
Speaker 1: terrible I'm done. Are you not coming home? No? Okay? Wow, alright, Church,
Speaker 1: we love you. Alright, guys, Okay, so can we go
Speaker 1: back for a second to the article. I'm done with this.
Speaker 1: Free We need to go back to the article, the
Speaker 1: whole idea again, remember the article. We were supposed to
Speaker 1: a share nose sase to end this conversation. We're going
Speaker 1: to end this on the right note. You're ready. There's
Speaker 1: no feel I really do feel like I feel like
Speaker 1: I think you both are. I feel like this room
Speaker 1: is a hottie room, and I love being here with
Speaker 1: you guys, and I happen to think I can name
Speaker 1: several things about both. Getting on that note, we'll see
Speaker 1: you guys next week. We had a great quality Share
Speaker 1: nose right here. Shar Share knows is that looks are
Speaker 1: subjective beauties in the eye of the Behold there. We'll
Speaker 1: end on these notes, believe it or not. Yeah, the
Speaker 1: people that he's classifying, it's all a subjective opinion, and
Speaker 1: he's entitled to that. I think his fiance say, as
Speaker 1: well as everybody in this room were absolutely absolutely amazing
Speaker 1: and no seriously, all joking aside. I think you guys
Speaker 1: have to realize something. I think it's actually harder on
Speaker 1: the people that he's classifying as the tens to make
Speaker 1: a statement than the other way around. You could say
Speaker 1: all you want. Share. At this point, I think we
Speaker 1: are checked out. Yeah, I think that's the end of that.
Speaker 1: Knows motivates never give up, keep your eye on the prize,
Speaker 1: to be relentless and be happy and done. This was scary.
Speaker 1: We didn't get to any of those things on this list.
Speaker 1: I feel like we just died. What happened to movies
Speaker 1: out this weekend, sports on TV this weekend. You know what,
Speaker 1: I'd my head in a in a hole? What? What was?
Speaker 1: What was restaurants slash family crap that was on your list?
Speaker 1: What was that? Nah? I don't know. I'm lost. So
Speaker 1: the tack of Film Festival starting soon? Well, okay, that's
Speaker 1: week got another share? Nos, I think it's fair enough.
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