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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater. Only on the.

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Speaker 2: Jubile Show, Harper is on the phone today for to

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Speaker 2: catch a Cheater, and she thinks that her husband Daniel

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Speaker 2: of seven years, might be messing around. So we'll see

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Speaker 2: if we can help her out, but first we need

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Speaker 2: to figure out why she thinks she's cheating. Harper, why

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Speaker 2: do you think that your husband Daniel might be cheating

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Speaker 2: on you?

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, I'm just gonna be honest.

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Speaker 3: We've been together for seven years, and I don't know

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Speaker 3: if you're the term the seven year itch. It's it's

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Speaker 3: where people get bored in their relationship, right, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You know, he just turned forty five this year, and

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 1: He's in the middle of like a midlife crisis, and.

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Speaker 3: You know, you know during that time, guys tend to

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Speaker 3: cheat and you know, unfortunately look for someone younger.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh, so are those are two reasons? Like? Is

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Speaker 2: that is that it? I mean, because that could just

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Speaker 2: be you, you know, overthinking stuff like you guys been

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Speaker 2: together for a while. Befully he's not bored. Maybe he's

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Speaker 2: going through a little bit of a thing with his age.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, I kind of thought the same thing.

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Speaker 3: It's just you know, he's a high school teacher. In

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Speaker 3: a few days ago, one of my friends is driving

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Speaker 3: and she saw him hugging another woman, and you know,

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Speaker 3: my friend, according to her, they were like all over

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Speaker 3: each other. But she didn't have any more details than

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Speaker 3: that because she was driving by, and I didn't ask

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Speaker 3: them about it because I figured he would lie to me,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I just need to catch him in

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Speaker 3: the act.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So, outside of these things and filling in the blanks,

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Speaker 4: is there anything that he's doing at home that's making

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Speaker 4: you feel like that he's cheating or stepping out on you.

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Speaker 4: Is he treating you differently?

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Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing is we're always intimate on Wednesdays.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, hey, you know what you got to do.

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Speaker 2: It works, so okay, So on Wednesdays, you guys, usually

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Speaker 2: that's time for you too to be.

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Speaker 1: Together.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: It's just the last couple of months he's been staying

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Speaker 3: later at school on Wednesdays and when he comes home

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Speaker 3: he says he's too tired.

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Speaker 1: So you know, that's just another red flag for me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that that's kind of weird.

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Speaker 2: And one of your friends saw him like with his

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Speaker 2: hands all over another woman after school too, that would

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Speaker 4: Yeah here, I am like, oh, she could have been sad.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I just I just need to be able

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Speaker 3: to see, you know, if he's cheating on me. I

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Speaker 3: hope he's not, but I just I need that assurance.

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Speaker 4: Sure, I mean, yeah, I would too, right in the

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Speaker 4: middle of your to catch a cheater.

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Speaker 2: And if you're just joining us, Harper is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and she thinks that her husband of seven years

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Speaker 2: named Daniel might be cheating. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: him and pretend to be from the grocery store that

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Speaker 2: he's a rewards card member at, and say that he's

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Speaker 2: this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 2: floral department, and we'll see if he sends those to

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Speaker 2: his wife, Harper or to somebody else. But first, Harper,

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Speaker 2: real quick, why don't you remind us again why you

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Speaker 2: think that Daniel might be cheating?

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Speaker 3: Well, we've been together for seven years and I'm worried

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Speaker 3: he's what's the term stepping out on me because you know,

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Speaker 3: a really good friend of mine who I trust. She

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Speaker 3: another woman very intimately.

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Speaker 1: And you know, our personal life has just not been

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Speaker 1: the same for the last few months, so I have

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Speaker 1: to wonder if there's something else happening.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's more than girl math.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you guys are usually intimate on Wednesdays, and

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Speaker 2: the past couple of Wednesdays you have not been because

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Speaker 2: he's been too tired and staying.

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Speaker 4: At work late.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that too.

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Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is Corbeck calling from grocers. I was looking

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Speaker 2: for our rewards card member named Daniel.

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Speaker 5: Daniel.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Daniel, Please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations. You're

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Speaker 2: this must big winner.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, worry.

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Speaker 2: You can hear it's all clapp.

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Speaker 5: Oh cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, congratulations, and thank you so much for shopping with us.

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Speaker 5: Of course I never learn anything. This is great.

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Speaker 2: Well, they can't say that anymore. Yeah, but every single

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Speaker 2: thank you very much for shopping with us, and this

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Speaker 2: month you've won thirty six long stim red roses a

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Speaker 2: box of candy or chocolate and a car to be

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Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that you want, absolutely free. It's a

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Speaker 2: three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Yeah, and there is

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Speaker 2: no purchase necessary. I will not ask you for any

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Speaker 2: kind of credit card information. It's very simple. I can

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Speaker 2: get the information for who to send these two in

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Speaker 2: just a matter of minutes. I'm prepare to do that

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Speaker 2: over the phone right now. I can also set up

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Speaker 2: a time and call you back, or you're always welcome

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Speaker 2: forms whatever is easiest for you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, can I can do that?

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Speaker 2: That's fine, great, okay, perfect, And you'll get confirmations before

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Speaker 2: we're even off the phone. But then you pull up

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Speaker 2: my form here and all I would need from you

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Speaker 2: is just the first and last name of the person

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Speaker 2: and that you want to send them to, and then

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Speaker 2: the address and we getd to go.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's Maggie m A G G I E.

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Speaker 2: Maggie, okay Meg Megie? All right, and would you like

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Speaker 2: to send a card along with it to Maggie?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Can it say looking forward to Saturday? Remember dominate from

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Speaker 6: the top.

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Speaker 3: I know it you cheating?

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Speaker 1: Lineup?

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Speaker 2: What hey, Daniel, this is actually the Jewbill Show. It's

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Speaker 2: a radio show. Yeah, Victoria, and my name is Jubell.

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Speaker 2: And that's your wife, Harper, who's on the phone. We

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Speaker 2: do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, where if

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Speaker 2: you think your significant other might be messing around you

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Speaker 2: see you, They send flowers to you, put in a card.

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Speaker 3: You send together seven You're seven years of marriage.

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Speaker 1: Glad you say this is funny. I cannot believe you.

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Speaker 5: Actually, why do you think I'm cheating?

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Speaker 3: Because my friends drove by the school the other day

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Speaker 1: Your hands all over another woman. Okay, we have been

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Speaker 3: Seven years and you are throwing it all away for

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Speaker 3: some girl you just met.

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Speaker 1: How could you do this to me? I thought you

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Speaker 1: were actually a good man. Turns out you're just a

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Speaker 1: little boy because you're tired of playing with the same toys. Well,

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Speaker 1: guess what that not what Mary's about, Harper.

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Speaker 5: Maggie is a new teacher.

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Speaker 6: She has very little experience and.

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Speaker 3: Very little experience, very little experience being a homewrecker?

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Speaker 1: Is that what you mean?

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Speaker 5: No coaching?

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Speaker 1: Wrestling?

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Speaker 3: Well, because according to your letters, she's pretty good at dominating.

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Speaker 5: No, okay, so.

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Speaker 1: You are you just a little submissive?

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Speaker 5: Remember, I don't know. I think you knew this, but

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Speaker 6: At wrestling and I and I did it in college.

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Speaker 3: So some people just stand on here, Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: you are reaching this is Get on your hands and

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Speaker 3: knees and let her dominate your.

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Speaker 1: How about that?

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Speaker 6: I love you even when you're like this, but I

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Speaker 6: explain what's happening.

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Speaker 1: So there's really nothing to explain.

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Speaker 5: There's a lot to explain this, okay. Uh. What I'm

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Speaker 5: trying to say is they put someone in charge of

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Speaker 6: Wrestling team who knows nothing about wrestling on top of

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Speaker 5: In a way, I'm the new assistant coach, even though

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Speaker 6: Your friend, what they probably saw the other day is

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Speaker 5: You get behind them. You think I would have the energy,

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Speaker 5: I'm not sure hearted it for me to wake up

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Speaker 3: Explain to me this whole dominate on the top thing.

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Speaker 3: Didn't realize if you wanted a woman to be a

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Speaker 5: Dominate from the top. That's because that is the focus

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Speaker 6: That's the move we've been working on, meaning like, stay

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Speaker 5: And I totally see how that's sexual.

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Speaker 6: And I'm sorry that you thought I was cheating, and

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Speaker 6: I love you so much and I would never cheat

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Speaker 6: on you. That is what happened. I totally see how

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Speaker 1: But okay, so this is true. Why did you not

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry that it's worst about me, but it just

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Speaker 6: of a sudden, I was doing it and it made

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Speaker 5: Or make fun of me.

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Speaker 4: Well, Harper, though, aren't you sorry too that you're making

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Speaker 3: All right, well, I'm sorry that I made you feel bad,

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Speaker 3: but that still doesn't excuse the fact that you were

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Speaker 5: You're right, you need to.

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Speaker 1: Start being more open with me.

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Speaker 5: Okay, how about tonight. We could be open tonight. I

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Speaker 5: know it's not Wednesday. Maybe I can show you some

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Speaker 5: of the wrestling news I've been working on.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. All right, fine, well, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to dominate you from the top. The Jewel shows to

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Speaker 1: catch a cheater