1 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby Here Sunday Sampler time. 2 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 2: So let's do some samples from some of the podcasts 3 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 2: on the Nashville podcast Network. Mike D's Movie Mike's Movie 4 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 2: podcast takes us on a journey. 5 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 3: Of core memory movie moments. 6 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 2: That live in his head, in his life, and then 7 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: he also reviews the comedy Bottoms Caroline. Hobby talks with 8 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: one of my favorite new artists, Tiera Kennedy on the 9 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 2: Bobby Cast. Though George Burge stopped by the house Love 10 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 2: this Dude. He talked about his first Top twenty single, 11 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: mind on You, his journey to success, and a fun 12 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 2: fact about his parents that I didn't know. 13 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: George's friend of mine. So let's get going. 14 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 2: Here's a clip from this week's Bobby Cast with George Burge. 15 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 2: You're playing golf in college and then but when when 16 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: does music become an actual heights were tangible, but it 17 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 2: starts to be a tangible thing again that you can 18 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: actually do. 19 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 4: It was the biggest support. Nod was more surprised than 20 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 4: me that I got to play music for a living. 21 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 4: So finished college, got my degree, I went and got 22 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 4: a job in Austin. They this company that hires a 23 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 4: bunch of young kids fresh out of college to do, 24 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 4: you know, busy work. 25 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 5: Live downtown. 26 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 4: It's awesome. And that was a cool culture because it 27 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 4: was a bunch of people that were moving new to Austin. 28 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 4: And I was a guy from Austin, so I was, 29 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 4: you know, getting into all these people and taking them 30 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 4: out and showing them the city. And I met a 31 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 4: guy that played guitar, and you know, same thing. I 32 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 4: was like, well, we should, you know, start jamming. And 33 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 4: so once a week he'd come over to the house 34 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 4: and we kind of jammed together, play mostly cover songs 35 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 4: right a little bit. And then I'll never forget one 36 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 4: of the guys that worked with us, his brother had 37 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 4: just bought the Lucky Lounge downtown Austin and redid it 38 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 4: and they were having an open mic, and I went 39 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 4: and did the open mic at Lucky Lounge and our 40 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 4: whole office came which was like, oh, you played it why, 41 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 4: which was like two hundred and fifty people because he 42 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 4: was they knew that I played guitar, and they're like, 43 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 4: hop up and play two songs. 44 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 3: So they kind of pressured you too. 45 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, And it was I mean I was in like 46 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 4: khakis and a button down shirt. It would like, you 47 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 4: know not so okay, So you didn't plan this that 48 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 4: way way ahead of time? No, it was like popped 49 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 4: up on stage that night. 50 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: Okay, so wait, so when did when do you hear 51 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 2: about the open night night? 52 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 3: That day? 53 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,639 Speaker 4: They were like, Hey, our buddy's brother just opened the 54 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 4: Lucky Lounge. She's going to have an open night Mike night. 55 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 4: So you we're all going to go down there. Will 56 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 4: you pop up and play one? So and you said, 57 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 4: I said yes, yeah, I said, you know, I still 58 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 4: enjoyed playing, like it's something that I've always loved. And 59 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 4: so I popped up and I played two songs. 60 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 3: Gosh, I wish I could remember security. I hope it security. 61 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 3: It was probably security. 62 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 4: But uh then it was you know, people were like, well, 63 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 4: we should start doing shows, and you know a lot 64 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 4: of the people I was working with were encouraging me to, 65 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 4: which was cool. And so a few of us from 66 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 4: the office started this band. We started playing, and it 67 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 4: was we played Friday or Saturday nights at the Rattle 68 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 4: Inn in Austin, and that was it. 69 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: How'd you eat the gig? Cold called him and said, 70 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 2: we'd like to play what does that pay. 71 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 3: Zero dollars tips, tip jar. 72 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, and by the end of it they were paying 73 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 4: us because we were starting to draw a crowd. But 74 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 4: then it became a thing. Every Friday night we were 75 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 4: playing the Rattle in and it was sold out. It 76 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 4: wasn't a big room. It was three or four hundred people, 77 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 4: but it was kind of a cool factor of like, hey, 78 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 4: we're selling out this club every time we play it. 79 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 3: What was the sound at the time were you guys doing? 80 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: It was country? 81 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it was country and it was covers, but 82 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 4: it was like fifty percent originals. 83 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 5: Yeah. 84 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 3: I had a steel guitar player, had a fiddle player. 85 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,119 Speaker 3: The name of the band it was called Waterloo Revival. Yeah, 86 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 3: that's the first version of that. 87 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 4: It's the first version of Waterloo Revival. 88 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 5: Yeah. 89 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 4: And the cool part was we all played for free 90 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 4: and then we split the tips at the end of 91 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 4: the night and we started ended up getting to take 92 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 4: a cut of the door, and it got bigger and bigger, 93 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 4: and then local radio station kind of caught on and 94 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 4: invited us to play blues on the Green. 95 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 3: Kgsr uh huh. 96 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 4: And so we went out there and played that had 97 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 4: a huge crowd and I didn't know at the time, 98 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 4: but a big label executive and a big manager flew 99 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 4: in to see us play and ended up pulling us 100 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 4: aside after the show and asked me if I wanted 101 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 4: to fly up to Nashville to meet them. And this 102 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 4: is all coming at me like a million miles an 103 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 4: hour because I've never, you know, had any contact with 104 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 4: a record label in my entire life. 105 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 2: How they watch your show or were they there to 106 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: watch somebody else and then see you. 107 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 4: So the guy that owned the radio station sent them 108 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 4: my music, wow yeah, which was really cool. Bob, Bob Sinclair, 109 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 4: yeah wow yeah yeah. Sent my music to Scott Boardshetta 110 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 4: and TK Camberrell. 111 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 6: Yeah. 112 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 2: That's I mean, it all makes sense now when I 113 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 2: start to lay it all down in my head. 114 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 3: Yep, that's how I know. I mean, I know Bob too. 115 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 5: Yeah. 116 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 4: So I gave Bob a burn CD with the one 117 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 4: song that the producer agreed to cut on me in Austin. 118 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 4: He was like, I'll do one song, I won't do 119 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 4: a full record, And I will say that he put 120 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 4: everything into it and it was the best sounding song 121 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 4: I had at the time. But I had one song 122 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,679 Speaker 4: on a burn CD, and I gave it to Bob 123 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 4: and he mailed it to Nashville. 124 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's crazy. 125 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 7: Wow. 126 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 4: So when you talk about like less than one percent 127 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 4: chance of any of this stuff happening and the stars 128 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 4: aligning like they did, I just like I never in 129 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 4: a million years thought that I could play music professionally. 130 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 4: I did it because I loved it and it was fun. 131 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 4: But then people are talking about record deals and you 132 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 4: need to get a lawyer, and do you have a 133 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 4: publishing deal and you know royalties and I have no 134 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 4: idea about any of this stuff. 135 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 3: Who are they looking at though? 136 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 2: You obviously were they trying to go, okay, Zach attack, 137 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 2: we just want Zach Morris, or were they going we 138 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 2: want the whole Waterloo Revival. 139 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 4: They came to me independently. And then I had a 140 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 4: very close friend that I wrote a lot of my 141 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 4: songs with, Cody Cooper, who was the part of Waterloo 142 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 4: Revival with me. We were a duo, and I asked 143 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 4: if we could come to Nashville as a duo and 144 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 4: they were on board for it, and so that's what 145 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 4: we did. 146 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 3: We signed as a duo to Nashville. 147 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 2: That's crazy, Yeah, And that's about where I started to 148 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 2: know you guys a little bit, because Eddie and I 149 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 2: we consider ourselves from Austin, even Bettie's from a different park 150 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 2: textas enough Markansas. We are very much Austin Heights, like 151 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 2: in our blood. And then you guys would come and 152 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 2: we like you guys, and we'd be like, oh, yeah, 153 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 2: they're from Austin. But I knew you guys had a 154 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: relationship with Bob. Yeah, but I didn't know that's where 155 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: all that. 156 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 4: That's that is wild, which is crazy because he didn't 157 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 4: even own a country station in Austin, and Bob Sinclair, 158 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 4: you know, owns stations all over America, you know, big 159 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 4: powerful radio guy. And uh, you know, I never burned CD. 160 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 4: He called me back the next day. He said, I've 161 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 4: never called back anyone that's given me a demo before, 162 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 4: but I think you might have something. And just from 163 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 4: that phone call, I was like, I've made. 164 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 5: It, like we've done it, like we've taken over the world. 165 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 3: I'll never forget. 166 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 4: We were opening for Reckless Kelly the next week in Austin, 167 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 4: and I called my wife after I got the call 168 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 4: inviting me to open for Reckless Kelly, and at that 169 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 4: moment in time, I was like, we are famous, we 170 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 4: are opening for Reckless Kelly, and this is like our. 171 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 5: Lives have changed. 172 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 3: That's little did I know? 173 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 5: You know what? 174 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 8: What? 175 00:06:58,720 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: What the what? 176 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 3: The real pay looks like? That's so cool. That's such 177 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 3: a good version of that story that I mean that version. 178 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: I didn't. 179 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 3: I didn't know that. So wait till Eddie finds out 180 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 3: your parents were Portuguese? Does he know this? 181 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 4: These people don't know. 182 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 3: Eddie and I thought we knew George. We don't know. 183 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: We didn't know George, Like we have hung out with 184 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: George a lot, like like we are like friend friends, 185 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 2: but I guess we're not. 186 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 4: That's what the Bobby cast does, a deep dived. 187 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: Cass up little food for yourself life. 188 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 5: Oh it's pretty bad, it's pretty beautiful. 189 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 4: Beautiful A little more. 190 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 3: Said he. 191 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 9: You're kicking with full with Amy Brown. 192 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 10: Hey, it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown. 193 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 10: And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast. 194 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 10: As we're trying to become a orry free parent or 195 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 10: a worry free person. Yes, I know in the book 196 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 10: you talk about uncovering the roots of our own anxiety. 197 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 10: What does that look like? Obviously means we have to 198 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 10: face some stuff. 199 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 11: Yes, yes, I think I have a sentence in there 200 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 11: about past hurts and present pressure dictate future fear, and 201 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 11: I think we just get into the voice that again, 202 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 11: past hurts, which we all have them, present pressure, which 203 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 11: I've never seen parents feel as much pressure as I 204 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 11: do today, makes me crazy. 205 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 12: What do you think is attributing to that? 206 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 11: I think social media is a huge piece of it, 207 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 11: and the families that we see that we only. 208 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 13: See their highlight reel that whole idea. 209 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 11: And I mean, honestly, I think parents are following too 210 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 11: many experts, which is funny to say when I'm kind 211 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 11: of putting myself out there a little bit like that. 212 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 11: But you know what I mean, you have thirty different 213 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 11: people telling you thirty different things. 214 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 13: Of course you don't feel like you can get it right. 215 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:02,319 Speaker 10: Yeah, follow at raising Boys and Girls on and also 216 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 10: at Sissy Golf. Those are her accounts, You're the best baby. 217 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 12: Are good experts to follow. 218 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 10: But you mean when you're getting so much information it's overwhelming. 219 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 11: Yes, all those things then spin us out into feeling 220 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 11: like I'm not doing it right, or my kid's not 221 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 11: measuring up, or they're all these things that have to 222 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 11: be doing. I mean even the whole there's that movement 223 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 11: right now about. 224 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 13: You have fifty two Saturdays a year. 225 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 11: And you have you know, however many days in their 226 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 11: life before they leave your home. 227 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 13: You know all those things here, This is. 228 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 10: Like one summer out of only eighteen. Yeah, you get 229 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 10: so make it count. 230 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: Yes, Stuck. 231 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 11: Whoever's saying that, please stop saying it, because I think 232 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 11: it's just increasing anxiety and all of us. 233 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 13: Like, oh, I gotta make the stump coun and I'm not. 234 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 11: I'm distracted for a minute or I miss something and 235 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 11: just feel so so much pressure. 236 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 10: Yeah, I've seen those and they haven't gotten like Okay, 237 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 10: well maybe it's because I became a mom later and 238 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 10: my kids were older when they got here, and it 239 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,559 Speaker 10: took us five years to get them. So I know, 240 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 10: I'm thankful to have them right now, and I'll be 241 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 10: fine when they spread their wings. I'm actually excited for 242 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 10: them to have opportunity. That's why they came from Haiti 243 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 10: to America. I feel as though that's what their birth 244 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 10: moms want for them, is they want to see them 245 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 10: have a chance at something. So I guess that's probably 246 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 10: why those didn't impact me that way, but I could 247 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 10: see how those that's causing some pressure. But I love 248 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 10: you need to do one of those tiktoks or do 249 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,599 Speaker 10: the video or the green screen where you get in 250 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 10: front of one of those videos and you're like, hey 251 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 10: to see you go off here this video right here. 252 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 12: Don't fall for it. It's a trap. It's a present 253 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 12: pressure trap. 254 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 13: I'm not on TikTok, I'm not that cool. 255 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 12: Well, Instagram, yes. 256 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 10: You can do it as a real I know you're 257 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 10: very active on Instagram. 258 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 12: I mean you have over one hundred thousand followers. 259 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 13: Well trying to help as much as I can. 260 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 10: I mean that just shows that you're ability. That shows 261 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 10: the people that are trusting what you're saying and you 262 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 10: deliver it in a digestible way. And that's why you 263 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 10: have thirteen best selling books. And I know another thing 264 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,439 Speaker 10: that you touch on in addition to that we need 265 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,719 Speaker 10: to uncover our own anxiety and work through that is 266 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 10: healthy ways to process it so we don't pass it on. 267 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 10: With one or two examples of processing in a healthy way. 268 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 11: Okay, two I would give one is I want every 269 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 11: family to have a code word, a word that means 270 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 11: we're going to pause, right, here because they're in their 271 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 11: survival brain, you're going to flip right into yours. I mean, 272 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 11: parents say they're like to me all the time office 273 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 11: they're like a crazy person and all of a sudden, 274 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 11: now list too. And so if you have a code 275 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 11: word that is watermelon or whatever it is, that means 276 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 11: when anybody in our family says that we're going to pause, stop, 277 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 11: and we're going to separate, even if that means we 278 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 11: can't talk it out right now, like you said, we're 279 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 11: not going to get to a healthy conversation when we're 280 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 11: operating out. 281 00:11:58,120 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 13: Of our MAYD list. 282 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 11: So watermelon, and I'm going to go back to my space, 283 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 11: think about who I want to be in this moment. 284 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 11: And while I'm doing that, I'm going to take some 285 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 11: deep breaths and whatever I need to do, whether it's 286 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 11: square breathing, that's one of my favorite ways. 287 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 13: I love breath prayers. 288 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 11: Where we're breathing in a statement and breathing out a 289 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 11: different one that reminds us of truth in that moment, 290 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 11: even of who we want to be. 291 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 12: And then Okay, I am a good mother. 292 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 10: Yes I am capable of handling this situation with peace. 293 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 10: Like that's beautiful, beautiful, or maybe I have I just 294 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,559 Speaker 10: haven't yet learned how to handle. 295 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 12: This particular situation. 296 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 10: Exhal, but I am capable of doing it, and we're 297 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 10: pausing until I figure it out. 298 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 11: Yes, something like breathing in Sissy and Amy say I'm 299 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 11: a good mom. 300 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 13: Okay, Yeah, I mean. 301 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 12: Just sending square breathing is four four four four. 302 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 13: Yep, exactly four five five. 303 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 11: Yes, Because when we do that, the blood vessels in 304 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 11: our brain dilate, and it shifts the blood flow away 305 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 11: from the amygdala that's the survival part and back to 306 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 11: the prefrontal cortex that helps us think rationally and manage 307 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 11: our emotions. So when we're all in the survival brain, 308 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 11: no one's brain that thinks rationally is even working. It's offline, 309 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 11: and so we can't get to a helpful place until 310 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 11: we can calm our bodies back down. 311 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 13: So do you. 312 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 10: Thing it's more fun to have a code word? Like 313 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 10: you said, it's like watermelon or just can we just 314 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 10: say pause? Or is there something cool about it's a 315 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 10: more unity routine? 316 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 12: Yes, this code word. 317 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 11: Yes, your kids are in on coming up with what 318 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 11: it is. Maybe it's even a funny thing. Yeah, I 319 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 11: mean you can definitely say pause, but. 320 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 10: No, no, I'm definitely going to adopt this because at 321 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 10: our house we just say, hey, I need I need 322 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 10: some space, and my kids are now good at expressing that. 323 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 10: My son did it just the other day. He said 324 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 10: I just can't I can't talk right now, I need space, 325 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 10: and I was very proud of him. So of course 326 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 10: I acknowledge that that's very awesome. You were able to 327 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 10: identify you needed that space. Space granted, and you know, 328 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 10: I walk away, but it would be way more fun. 329 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:02,079 Speaker 13: To have fun work. Y'all come up with. 330 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 12: Yeah, like SpongeBob, Yeah, Sungebob, SquarePants. 331 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:05,319 Speaker 9: Yes. 332 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 11: I think one of the biggest traps for parents with 333 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:12,079 Speaker 11: anxiety is anxiety feels like good parenting, and so I've 334 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 11: got to be vigilant because you do as a parent. 335 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 11: But we cross over into hypervigilance too much. I always 336 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 11: talk about it with kids, like the one loop roller 337 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 11: coaster at the fair. Anxious thoughts just circle around and 338 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 11: around and around. That's how we know what they're anxious thoughts. 339 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 11: So we want to start with calming our bodies down 340 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 11: and then move to our thoughts because our thoughts are 341 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 11: where we get in trouble. You remember the stop drop 342 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 11: roll thing. 343 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 1: Let's do alive. 344 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 8: We are the word. 345 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: You're very sore losers. 346 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 5: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most 347 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 5: about sports, so I'll give you the sports facts sports 348 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 5: opinions because I'm pretty much a sports genius. 349 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: What up, y'all? 350 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 14: At his scison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 351 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 14: I live on the West side of Nashville with Baser, 352 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 14: my wife. We do have a white picket fence at 353 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 14: the apartment complex. Soon I'm gonna have two point five kids, 354 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 14: and yes, sadly, I will die of a heart attack 355 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 14: when I'm seventy two years old. 356 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,359 Speaker 1: Here's a clip from the last podcast. 357 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 5: It was very nice to get those new fifty six 358 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 5: degree wedges in the mail another dame, and so I decided, 359 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 5: you know what, I'm gonna go to the chipping green 360 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 5: at the local MUNI try it out. I roll up 361 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 5: to the local MUNI chipping green closed ours, yes, no less, 362 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 5: So I'm like, okay, I guess I'm here. Might as 363 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 5: well play some golf. So I walk into the clubhouse 364 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 5: and let me tell you, they got new signs up 365 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 5: at the local Muni beautiful, new signs advertising and no 366 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 5: no just telling you, oh, this is the front nine, 367 00:15:57,960 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 5: this is the back. You know, just beautiful. 368 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: Probably was confusing for out of towners before. 369 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 5: Very much, so, so they upgraded. I was like, all right, cool, 370 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 5: and I was walk in. I said, hey, man, I 371 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 5: would like to play eighteen holes. They said, oh, yeah, 372 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 5: you can go over there. There's two guys tea and 373 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 5: off right now if you want to jump in with them. 374 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 1: And don't forget about the nineteenth hold. 375 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 5: I said, no problem. So I walk up to the 376 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 5: tea box. There's two guys about to tee off and 377 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 5: I stand there. They look at me, and I'm like, hey, 378 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 5: how's it going. They turn back, they tea off and 379 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 5: they take off walking. So you're saying, you don't want 380 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 5: me to play with you guys? 381 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 8: Cool? 382 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 5: So I stand there and this guy walks up. He's like, hey, 383 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 5: you want to play together? No problem, dude. And he's like, 384 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 5: what's your name, Gibbles? What's your name Reggie? All right, Reggie, 385 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 5: let's play some golf. He goes, I'm new to golf, 386 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 5: but I've got the itch. 387 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 7: Man. 388 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 5: I just got my claw was downside because I bought him. 389 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 5: They were a little too tall, and I was hitting 390 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 5: them too far. I was hitting them way too fast. 391 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,159 Speaker 5: Shut up, and I'm like, here we go. There we 392 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,239 Speaker 5: got this again, right, we got the I hit it 393 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 5: too far. I had to get smaller clubs. Like I 394 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,919 Speaker 5: was cool. He was just letting me know that he 395 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 5: hits it a long ways and he just started golf. 396 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 5: So I'm like, all right, Reggie, let's see what it's 397 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 5: all about. He steps up and what he whacked it 398 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 5: out of it? He whacked it? 399 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: Was it part three or part four? 400 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,479 Speaker 5: Part four? Yeah, and he hit it pretty far so 401 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 5: he could hit the ball far. I noticed as we played. 402 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 5: I was like, dang. He was like, yeah, I think 403 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 5: it was. I played tennis growing up, so I think 404 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 5: my tennis swing really helps with the golf swing. The 405 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:53,439 Speaker 5: erotic I said, okay, and that's pretty cool. Then it 406 00:17:53,480 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 5: got weird because because we're walking, we're both walking and whoa, 407 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 5: no cart, no cart man. It was like eighty degrees, 408 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 5: a little breeze. It was a great day. 409 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, me and Boomer we always go kart. 410 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 5: I know, and we're walking between the second and third 411 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 5: hole and he says, so, what's your favorite movie of 412 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 5: all time? 413 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 15: Oh god, one of these guys no personality. 414 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 5: And I said, oh, you know whatever, I don't know, braveheart. 415 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: No, please tell me where I have you this conversation. 416 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,639 Speaker 5: And he tells me, oh, man, my favorite one is 417 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 5: what did he say? He said, stepbrother I would hope 418 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 5: you don't remember. Stepbrothers was his favorite movie of all time. 419 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 5: It's like, oh, that's cool, you know, t off on. 420 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: Number four, that's my blanket, that's my bunk bed. 421 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 5: Step Brothers, don't play my drums, don't play my drums. 422 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 5: Great movie, great, fantastic movies. 423 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: You hit him with a quote. 424 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 5: No, I didn't hit him with quote. I was like, 425 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 5: all right, cool. And then he's like, man, where's the 426 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 5: best vacation you've gone on in your life? 427 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 8: Oh? 428 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: No? What is this an interview? 429 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 5: I think it might have been a dating interview because 430 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 5: I'm starting to think this dude's like trying to get 431 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:15,239 Speaker 5: to know me. Get to know me. 432 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: Oh so is Red Jay. 433 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 5: I don't know. But he's asking these questions. I'm like, huh, 434 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 5: and I mean these questions continue through the nine What 435 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 5: do you mean, like, Pa, are there any dreams you 436 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 5: haven't accomplished yet? 437 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 8: No? 438 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 1: Yes, I would have refused to answer that. When next 439 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 1: question asked. 440 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 5: Me, if there's any dreams I haven't accomplished. 441 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: Yet, you should have told him I'm just here so 442 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 1: I don't get fined. 443 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 5: And he was excited about taking up golf because it's 444 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 5: keeping him out of the bars. He's been going to 445 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 5: the bar too much, so this. 446 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: Is better recovering alcoholic. 447 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 5: It's what it kind of sounded like. And he asked me. 448 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 15: So, like, well, good thing, I was there with my mickeys. 449 00:19:54,560 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 15: That's not going to help with his problem. And wouldn't 450 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,120 Speaker 15: have help he's riddled with in a diction. 451 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 5: But he was ripping the cancer sick. 452 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 15: Vaping, no less, no cancer sticks. 453 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 5: And he asked me, do you think your life has 454 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 5: success so far? 455 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 7: Like what? 456 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 15: Oh, man, dude, this is not a relaxing day on 457 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 15: the golf course. 458 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 5: And I'm like this, dude, I don't know. He might 459 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 5: be hitting on me. He might not be, but he 460 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:27,680 Speaker 5: is trying to get to know me way too well. 461 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: But what did you answer? Well? 462 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 5: I just was like, I guess it's going pretty well. Man. 463 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 7: Uh. 464 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 5: Then we're walking to number nine. We're walking to the 465 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:38,639 Speaker 5: T box at nine, and he asked me, so do 466 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,680 Speaker 5: you ever go to Broadway. He goes, it's just crazy down. 467 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,120 Speaker 5: I don't really like Broadway anymore, never heard of it. 468 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 5: And I said, man, I got three kids. I don't 469 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:51,679 Speaker 5: really have time to go to Broadway, right, And I 470 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,359 Speaker 5: think that turned him off because after nine, he goes, 471 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,399 Speaker 5: I'm my head into the clubhouse. Man, I'm done. 472 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 1: Oh, So that was it. We're only halfway through that 473 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: podcast interview. 474 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, okay, interesting. So was he 475 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 5: getting to know me? And once I mentioned my kids, 476 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 5: he was like, oh, I think I may play another nine, 477 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 5: but uh, I'm gonna wait for my buddy. 478 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 8: Oh. 479 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,479 Speaker 1: You think that's what stopped it. 480 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 5: I think that's what stopped it because it was on 481 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 5: number nine that I said, oh, I have three kids. Man, 482 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 5: I'm just too busy to go to Broadway. And that 483 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 5: was it. So then I go to the back nine 484 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 5: and this guy pulls up in the cart Red Jay. No, 485 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 5: not Red Jay. This was Henry Derek, not Derek and Hunter. 486 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:39,120 Speaker 5: Nice guy, very quiet. He drove his cart. Fine, did 487 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 5: you guys cart together? 488 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 7: No? 489 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: I walked, oh, because sometimes they make you double up 490 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: in a car. 491 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 15: That's where I draw the line. I bought the cart 492 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 15: he's not getting in my cart. I don't know him. 493 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,639 Speaker 5: I don't want to spend the next four hours with 494 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 5: him because I don't know him. 495 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: I rented the cart, I get it. Marshall back off. 496 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 5: But Red Jay, me and him, we got to know 497 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 5: each other even without the cart. So I mean, didn't 498 00:21:59,000 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 5: matter if we're going to cart. 499 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 15: No, that's when you almost want to purposefully duck hook it. 500 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 5: So this guy, Henry was quiet, didn't say much. 501 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: Perfect. 502 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 5: But then we get to a par three. I t off, 503 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 5: he tees off, he grabs my crank. I walk all 504 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 5: the way up to the green. I look back. He's 505 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 5: still on the tea box. 506 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 1: Well, didn't you wait for him to hit? 507 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, he'd already hit his balls up on the green? 508 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 5: Are walking, boy, he's driving drive. 509 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 1: I don't give it. 510 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 5: Damn, he is walking all over that tea box. I 511 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 5: chip on, putt it in for a bogie. Two putt 512 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 5: for a. 513 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 1: Bogie, unnecessary for the story. 514 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 5: And I look back and he's still on the tea box, 515 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:44,880 Speaker 5: and I'm like, what is this. 516 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:48,360 Speaker 1: Dude doing here? We welcome to the local MUNI. 517 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,160 Speaker 5: And I mean, it's been six seven minutes since we've 518 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 5: teed off because I've walked all the way down chipped 519 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 5: on two putted, you know what I mean, Like I've 520 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 5: done it all. 521 00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 1: I already know. The last was an alcoholic. This one's 522 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: a pill head. 523 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 5: No, he drives up and he goes, man, I don't 524 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 5: know where my tea went. I was looking, I couldn't 525 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 5: find it. Go on this thing called golf Galaxy dot 526 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:16,719 Speaker 5: com and order more our dicks. He spent a total 527 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 5: of eleven minutes looking for his tea that cost three cents. 528 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 1: I hope there was nobody behind you. 529 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 5: Guys, nobody behind us. But I hit walk to my 530 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,479 Speaker 5: ball and he comes driving up. Man, I just couldn't 531 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 5: find it. I guess that's a goner. 532 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 15: Well, I'd like to have him and nom. He'll never 533 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 15: leave a man down. 534 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 8: At Caryl, she's a queen and she's getting really not 535 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 8: afraid defeat episode so just lived sound. 536 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 12: Hey, y'all, it's Caroline Hobby. 537 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 16: I am so excited about this week's episode of Get 538 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 16: Real Podcast with Tiera Kennedy. She has always been destined 539 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 16: for greatness. She was born to be seen. She's practically 540 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 16: the next Beyonce. She's known. She's wanted to be a 541 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,159 Speaker 16: singer since she was little. We talked about all the 542 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 16: sacrifices her parents made to help her achieve her dreams. 543 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 16: Her whole family moved to Nashville from Alabama. She started 544 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 16: singing when she was nine years old to only her 545 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 16: parents in the crowd. And look where she is now 546 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 16: on the Grand Old Opree stage, chasing her dreams, opening 547 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 16: up for people that she always loved. Tiara is truly 548 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 16: an American dream story come true and this episode is 549 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 16: so great. 550 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 9: Check it out. 551 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 12: You're just a bright light. 552 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:50,120 Speaker 17: Everyone has their own gifts, and everyone has their own unique, special, 553 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 17: wonderful things that they're supposed to share with the world, 554 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 17: but like you're supposed to be seen by the world. 555 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 8: Thanks. 556 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 5: I mean, I try. 557 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 7: I try to be happy on a daily basis. 558 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 9: How do you manage that? 559 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:02,159 Speaker 17: I try to be happy on a daily basis too, 560 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 17: Sometimes I really fail. I liked it you put a 561 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 17: crying video up one time and you're like, if you're 562 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 17: having a croppy day. That Honestly, that was so hard 563 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,159 Speaker 17: for me to do because I was literally having You're. 564 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 12: In the middle of the cry. 565 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, And you know I hate those videos where 566 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 7: like you see people crying and it's like, Okay, you 567 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 7: set up a camera and like. 568 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 13: Film yourself crying. 569 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 7: But I just like I never have vulnerable moments like 570 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 7: that because I try to be happy. I try to, 571 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 7: you know, show people the good in the world. But 572 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 7: I do have bad days, and my husband sees those 573 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,400 Speaker 7: bad days every day, and I just want to share 574 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 7: that because I loved it, you know, I loved it. 575 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 17: I feel like that's sort of become my mission, is 576 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,119 Speaker 17: to show what's good and well in the world. Yeah, 577 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 17: but also like overcoming and how to overcome, and like 578 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 17: when you hit that moment. 579 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:50,640 Speaker 12: How do you overcome? 580 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 17: So I sort of like to start with like origin story, Yeah, 581 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 17: like tell me about how you grew up, what was 582 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 17: really great about growing up, what did you have to overcome? 583 00:25:58,560 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 5: And then when did you hit. 584 00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 17: That moment when you're like, oh my god, I am 585 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 17: going to be a world famous singer. 586 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, oh my god, how did it all happen in 587 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 7: your childhood? So I'm originally from Birmingham, Alabama. 588 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 17: And you have a song Alabama Night such a jam Banks. 589 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 12: I like you dancing with your parents too? Yes, Yes, 590 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 12: they're so fun. 591 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 7: They actually they like kind of used to be like 592 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 7: mom and your daddager at the beginning, so you regardon 593 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 7: style here. Yeah, I mean listen, I'm a nex fiance. 594 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 8: You are. I Yeah. 595 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,399 Speaker 7: They like they were very involved in like my music 596 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 7: and my career and now they just get to enjoy 597 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 7: like the music, and you know, they let me do 598 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,880 Speaker 7: do my thing and they just get to have fun 599 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 7: with it. So that's that's really cool and I love 600 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 7: having them be a part And I mean they have 601 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 7: been so supportive of my career from the very beginning. 602 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 6: Like tell me about that. 603 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 7: When I told him I wanted to do music and 604 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 7: be a music they put me in voice lessons guitar lessons, 605 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 7: and their kind of philosophy was like, we're gonna let 606 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 7: you try what you want to try. So I you know, 607 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 7: I did dancing, I did I took acting classes and 608 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 7: it just didn't work for me. And then I fell 609 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 7: on singing, and they were like full on support me, 610 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 7: you know, in any way they can. And so I 611 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 7: started like performing around my hometown and I would do 612 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 7: like festivals and I'd play a restaurants literally anywhere I could, 613 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 7: and I mean some of them were so boring, like 614 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 7: I was doing like an hour set, two hours set, 615 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:37,639 Speaker 7: and just playing covers. 616 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 12: And I remember like being on. 617 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 7: The Buffalo wild Wings patio, nice singing a set and 618 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 7: like nobody was out there except for my parents, you know, 619 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 7: and like that happens a lot. And they've just they've 620 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 7: always been there from the very beginning. 621 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,879 Speaker 17: What a blessing, Such a blessed are their names? 622 00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 7: Natasha and how well I was about to say mom 623 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,360 Speaker 7: and dad, but that's our name to me, Natash and 624 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 7: how Yeah, they're squishes. 625 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 5: They're squishes. 626 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 12: Yes, oh you just squished into them. You're just like 627 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 12: deep hugs. 628 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 5: Yes, I love them. 629 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 7: I love them so much, and like even more so 630 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 7: now that you know I'm older, I feel like older. 631 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 12: Yes, what they how much they love you exactly? 632 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 13: I'm gonna start. 633 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 12: Crying, Like family love. 634 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 5: It's just so special, I know, I. 635 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 7: Know, and you know, I know a lot of people 636 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:28,119 Speaker 7: don't have that. Like my parents moved to Nashville for me, 637 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 7: like really packed up moved to Nashville seven years ago. 638 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 6: And I mean a lot of parents wouldn't do that. 639 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 7: And you have I know, you at least have one 640 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 7: more sister. I have two younger sisters and an older sister. 641 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,840 Speaker 7: And my two younger sisters moved here with y'all. Yeah, 642 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 7: so or were they on the on the train? They like, 643 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 7: what in the heck, whey are we moving to? Yeah, 644 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 7: it was a little it was a mixture of both, 645 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 7: Like I think we're from Birmingham and I love Birmingham, 646 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 7: but like at the time it was a little boring, 647 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 7: you know, we were running out of things to do. 648 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 7: So I think they were excited for a change of scenery. 649 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 7: But also it was like they had friends, you know. 650 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 7: But they love it now they do. 651 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 6: Yeah. 652 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 18: Hey, it's my d for Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. So 653 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 18: this is a clip from my latest episode where I 654 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 18: shared ten of my core movie memory moments and explained 655 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 18: exactly what that is. If you want to hear this 656 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 18: full list, get a full deep dive into my brain 657 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,880 Speaker 18: when it comes into movies in my life, check out 658 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 18: this entire episode, but right now, here's just the clip 659 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 18: of Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. A core memory is a 660 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 18: specific memory that holds some kind of emotional value in 661 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 18: your life. They are the building blocks of what make 662 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 18: you a person. I feel like as a human being, 663 00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 18: I can trace back several things to very specific tis 664 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 18: in my life, and these little moments that have, whether 665 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 18: have been traumatic or been joyful, have shaped the person 666 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 18: I am today. And I'm going to take not my 667 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 18: human life, but my cinematic life and share with you 668 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 18: the top ten core movie memory moments that have changed 669 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 18: or altered my well being or my mental state, or 670 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 18: just moments that I have not forgotten and have stuck 671 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 18: with me in film throughout my entire movie watching life. 672 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 18: I think even for me, sometimes it is easier for 673 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 18: me to speak about my feelings when I can relate 674 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 18: them to a movie. Sometimes I just feel like it's 675 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,720 Speaker 18: hard for me to open up about emotions or to 676 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 18: express exactly how I'm feeling. 677 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 5: But if you throw a movie. 678 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 18: In front of me and something emotional happens, I'm able 679 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 18: to open up so much more by relating to that 680 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 18: character and speaking about the film and speaking about their 681 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 18: development that I in turn and able to look into 682 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 18: myself and think, oh, I relate with that because there's 683 00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 18: something I experience. I think that is why I love 684 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 18: movie so much. And I think at the core of this, 685 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 18: that is why I do this podcast, because if I 686 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 18: didn't have movies, I probably wouldn't be able to work 687 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 18: out all of these things. 688 00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 9: Inside my brain. 689 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 18: And I think where I got the concept for this 690 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 18: episode was from the Pixar movie Inside Out, which the 691 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 18: entire movie revolves around core memories and what they are 692 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 18: trying to do for Riley in order for her to 693 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 18: have the best childhood ever and look back on it 694 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 18: with only these bright, colorful memories. And the entire plot 695 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 18: of that movie is, well, not everything can be super 696 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 18: bright and positive and joyful. That sometimes you have to 697 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 18: experience the sadness because it's all those experiences that really 698 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 18: shape you as a person. So I think my list 699 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 18: will reflect that. If you haven't seen Inside Out, here 700 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 18: is just a little clip from that movie explaining the 701 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 18: core memory process. 702 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 10: These are Riley's memories, and they're mostly happy, you'll notice, 703 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 10: not to brag, but the really important ones are. 704 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 13: Over a year. 705 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 17: I don't want to get too technical, but these are 706 00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 17: called core memories. 707 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 10: Each one came from a super important time in Riley's life, 708 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 10: like when she first scored a goal. 709 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 5: It was so amazing. 710 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 1: So that is what I have for you. 711 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 18: So I'm going to do these starting back in my 712 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 18: childhood and working up to my adult life. So let's 713 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 18: kick it off with number one. My first Core movie 714 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 18: Memory Moment was from nineteen ninety four and it was 715 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 18: Mufasa Dying. 716 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: Star, Help Me. 717 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 8: Long Li Fucking. 718 00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 18: And even listening back to that scene now as an adult, 719 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 18: it still very much hits me on an emotional level. 720 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 18: And Disney did us all dirty with this movie, but 721 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 18: I felt it served a very specific purpose to teach 722 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 18: is about death. Essentially the worst thing that could happen 723 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 18: to you as a kid, losing your father like this 724 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,120 Speaker 18: in such a tragic way. But this was the first 725 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 18: time I learned about death, So to be a kid 726 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 18: four or five years old learning about death through a 727 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 18: Disney movie is pretty intense. So that is my first 728 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 18: movie Core memory at number two from nineteen ninety seven, 729 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 18: Leave It to Beaver, And maybe I'm the only kid 730 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 18: who was excited about to Leave It to Beaver movie. 731 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 9: But there was a time in my life where I. 732 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 18: Got really into forties, fifties and sixties television, and Leave 733 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 18: It to Beaver was one of my favorite shows, mainly 734 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 18: because everything in. 735 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,479 Speaker 9: That show was so perfect. 736 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 18: They had the perfect house, the perfect life, the perfect family. 737 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 9: And I thought to myself, what would it be like 738 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 9: to have a life like that? And then in the nineties. 739 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 18: It got the movie treatment, which was a lot different 740 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 18: than the original show. But there was just something so 741 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,960 Speaker 18: wholesome still about this movie that I loved, and I 742 00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 18: feel like this is a movie from the nineties that 743 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 18: was It's one of my favorites, but really isn't regarded 744 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 18: as a great movie from the nineties, but it came 745 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 18: out in nineteen ninety seven. The core memory moment for 746 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 18: me from this movie was the scene where Beaver gets 747 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 18: his bike stolen by the bully, and he had this 748 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,840 Speaker 18: amazing bike that he got for his birthday. It was 749 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 18: a red GT with the pegs and the tires. It 750 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 18: was a beautiful bicycle, and growing up, I wanted a 751 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 18: GT bike just like this. I think that was the 752 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 18: height of this type of bike. They were so cool, 753 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 18: and I just thought that if I had it, I 754 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 18: would be the coolest kid in the trailer park. I 755 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 18: was also a chunky kid, so I couldn't run very fast. 756 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 18: But I thought if I had a GT bike that 757 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 18: was so light and so quick, that I could suddenly 758 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 18: be the fastest kid in the trailer park, even though 759 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:50,319 Speaker 18: I couldn't run, I could maybe out bike somebody. So 760 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 18: I think it was the appeal of the bike, but 761 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 18: also the story in this movie of Beaver kind of 762 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 18: being an outcast kid, the smallest kid, not being good 763 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 18: at football, him lying to his parents. But the ultimate 764 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:07,399 Speaker 18: moment is this bike he's been dreaming of wanting for 765 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:11,439 Speaker 18: his entire life, even though he hasn't been around that long. 766 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 18: He finally gets it. Let's a bully do some tricks, 767 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 18: and then the bullies last trick is to steal the bike. 768 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 18: And I remember watching this moment on the big screen. 769 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 18: It was like the first movie I ever went to 770 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 18: see in theaters. And I think it was because of that, 771 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,800 Speaker 18: but also the fact that he had his bike stole. 772 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 18: And I will never forget this moment. And like I said, 773 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 18: maybe I'm the only person who cared about Leave It 774 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 18: to Beaver from nineteen ninety seven. And maybe that's true 775 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,800 Speaker 18: because I couldn't even find a legit clip of this moment. 776 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,800 Speaker 18: It was just somebody recording their TV. But here is 777 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 18: that moment from Leave It to Beaver. 778 00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 2: I got a few more tricks? 779 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 5: Really cool? 780 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 12: Can you show me? 781 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:50,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 782 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 3: Sure, I got one. You'll never forget. Don't worry. 783 00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,840 Speaker 1: I just need to whip up a little. 784 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 18: Cork baby and then the entire movie is him trying 785 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,359 Speaker 18: to get his bike back. The other memory I associate 786 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,719 Speaker 18: with Leave It to Beaver from ninety seven was, like 787 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 18: I said, it was the first movie I remember going 788 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 18: to see in theaters at the Buffalo Creek six in Watsahatchie, Texas. 789 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,480 Speaker 18: And this was back at a time where you had 790 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 18: to call to hear the movie times. It was either 791 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 18: this or the super old school way of looking it 792 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 18: up in the newspaper. But I remember I would just 793 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,239 Speaker 18: call the movie theater. I still remember the number. It 794 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 18: is nine seven two nine. I'm not gonna say the 795 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 18: whole number because probably somebody else has it at this point, 796 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 18: because now that theater is gone. But you'd call the number, 797 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 18: it would be the movie theater manager in this case, 798 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,280 Speaker 18: who would record a new message every single week. 799 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 9: And there was just something special. 800 00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,399 Speaker 18: To me about hearing the new movie out that came 801 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,280 Speaker 18: out that Friday that everybody wanted to see, that I'd. 802 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:04,120 Speaker 9: Been seeing on TV. 803 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 18: And even though I didn't go to the movies a 804 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 18: whole lot as a kid because we couldn't afford it, 805 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,319 Speaker 18: I would still call it every single week to hear 806 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 18: what was playing. But the core movie memory here is 807 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 18: leave it to Beaver getting his bike stolen. 808 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,440 Speaker 2: And that was this week's Sunday Sampler. New episodes out weekly. 809 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,239 Speaker 2: The Bobby Cast comes out on Tuesdays. Four Things with 810 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 2: Amy Brown comes out on Thursdays. Store Losers got a 811 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 2: few episodes a week, Movie Mike's Movie Podcast, and get 812 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 2: rolled with Carolina Hobby all up there. Make sure you subscribe, rate, 813 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 2: and review them. It helps us out a bunch. Thank 814 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 2: you so much. 815 00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 8: Have a great week.