Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date. We've been doing second date updates
Speaker 1: for a while now, and we've heard a lot of
Speaker 1: stories about people getting ditched on a first date. Some
Speaker 1: people deserve it, some people don't deserve it. Carter, who
Speaker 1: is on the phone today, got ditched on his first date.
Speaker 1: But it's a little different than most because she actually
Speaker 1: told him that she was leaving. Yeah, Light, it's sort
Speaker 1: of nice. I can't tell. We'll talk to Carter about it.
Speaker 1: Carter will find out more about that situation in just
Speaker 1: a second. But first, what's her name? Chloe? Chloe? All right?
Speaker 1: And how did you meet Chloe? I met Chloe in
Speaker 1: the comments section on Facebook? What wait? Wait, guys, you
Speaker 1: meet the comments section on Facebook. We both commented on
Speaker 1: a mutual friends picture. Oh it led to some playful
Speaker 1: danter and all right, so she commented on a friend
Speaker 1: yours picture and then you commented like, Hey, Jill, who's
Speaker 1: this chick commenting above me? She's hot? Right? No, I
Speaker 1: did not do that, and I would not recommend that
Speaker 1: to the general population. So it was a little smoother
Speaker 1: than that, huh, A lot smoother. Okay, how long did
Speaker 1: you guys talk on Facebook before you actually asked her out. Oh,
Speaker 1: probably about a week on and off, you know, when
Speaker 1: we finally started talking, you know, when there was just
Speaker 1: one night we just messaged all night and I said, hey,
Speaker 1: do you want to meet and get dinner? And she
Speaker 1: said yeah, so, And how was dinner when you guys
Speaker 1: went out? Was it the same as Facebook, the same
Speaker 1: chemistry as you had in the Facebook comments section? Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: initially we decided to meet at the restaurant, which, um,
Speaker 1: I think it's just good. It's better than they don't
Speaker 1: have that awkward drive there. And I was so relieved
Speaker 1: when I saw her, not that you know, I mean
Speaker 1: I knew what she looked like, but to actually see
Speaker 1: her in person and you know, beautiful eyes, it is
Speaker 1: really sweet demeanor. And she had my notes. What do
Speaker 1: you mean she had your notes? Well, it's I know,
Speaker 1: straight have my nose, your nose, I think it's I
Speaker 1: think it's a good nose. I like my nose, and
Speaker 1: so I liked it on her. So you're attracted to
Speaker 1: women that have the same features as you, well not
Speaker 1: all of the same features, but one out of you
Speaker 1: know many, So does that mean you have a feminine
Speaker 1: nose or she has a really masculine nose. I think
Speaker 1: it's somewhere in between. I think I have a masculinely
Speaker 1: feminine nose, femininely masculine nose. Her head. So you thought
Speaker 1: she was cute because of her smile and you both
Speaker 1: share a nose. We share a nose, And was she
Speaker 1: flattered by that or not? I think she was a
Speaker 1: little confused. I think I like you guys words, but
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna say as a woman, that could be
Speaker 1: a real insult. I mean it's like also saying, hey,
Speaker 1: look it we also have the same pant size. It's
Speaker 1: not always look. I think you guys weren't there, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean I have a good looking nose. It looked
Speaker 1: good on her. I assumed it looks good on me,
Speaker 1: so I made the comment. Sure, but we didn't stay
Speaker 1: on that topic. Okay, so you moved on quickly from
Speaker 1: the nose thing. How was the rest of the date. Well,
Speaker 1: the first thirty minutes was really great. It was just
Speaker 1: like talking online, and then she started like looking at
Speaker 1: her phone a lot. And I don't know if she
Speaker 1: was texting somebody or somebody was like texting her. I
Speaker 1: couldn't tell, you know, I try to not pay attention
Speaker 1: to somebody when they're on the phone, like when you're
Speaker 1: in a social situation with them. You know, it's not
Speaker 1: make them feel uncomfortable or anything. And she looks at
Speaker 1: her phone for about five minutes and she stands up,
Speaker 1: which his carter. You know, it was really nice to
Speaker 1: meet you, but I'm sorry, I have to end the date. WHOA.
Speaker 1: That's abrupt, like in the middle of dinner, totally abrupt. Whoa.
Speaker 1: And she was polite about it and everything, just said sorry,
Speaker 1: the date is over. She yeah, that's exactly what she did.
Speaker 1: And then so I asked her, I said, is there's
Speaker 1: something I said, something is something wrong? And she I'm
Speaker 1: really sorry, but I have to call we Wow. Maybe
Speaker 1: I mean, did she seem distraught or did her mood
Speaker 1: change when she was looking at her phone. I mean,
Speaker 1: her mood did change. But I couldn't help her. What
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I just met her. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: how baffling, Like I wouldn't know if you are embarrassed
Speaker 1: or if she's so kind about it that you're like, okay,
Speaker 1: well I understand. Well, I'm just I'm really confused more
Speaker 1: than anything. And I mean I texted her the day after,
Speaker 1: and she did not respond. So I called you guys
Speaker 1: because I thought you guys could help me. Have you
Speaker 1: heard anything from her at all? You said she didn't
Speaker 1: respond to that, but anything the way that it ended.
Speaker 1: I'm trying not to actively blow up her phone or
Speaker 1: anything like that, right, So, and what's her Facebook status
Speaker 1: like right now? Is she active? I haven't seen her
Speaker 1: post anything. I mean, this was three days ago, and
Speaker 1: it's just the only reason that I could think about
Speaker 1: her calling off to day. The only reason is the
Speaker 1: nose thing. Yeah, but her leaving came a good while
Speaker 1: after you made that comment, right a while after, so,
Speaker 1: I mean, I if it was because of the notice thing,
Speaker 1: she had to play it cool for about a half hour. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you swear you didn't compare any other body parts
Speaker 1: with her. No, that's to the end of the date.
Speaker 1: All right, Well we'll play a song, come back, call
Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. Okay, awesome? Thanks?
Speaker 1: All right, brooking jubil in the morning second update. Right
Speaker 1: in the middle of a second date update, and Carter
Speaker 1: is on the phone, and today we're hoping we can
Speaker 1: help Carter find his nose. Why do I say that,
Speaker 1: because when We were talking to Carter just a second
Speaker 1: ago about the girl that he wants to call today.
Speaker 1: He shared with us one of the reasons that he
Speaker 1: liked her was because they had a similar nose, and
Speaker 1: he actually told her that during the date. And that's
Speaker 1: the only reason you can think of why she might
Speaker 1: not be calling him back today, because that could have
Speaker 1: creeped her out a little bit. You know, Carter, I
Speaker 1: think you should actually be happy about your first date.
Speaker 1: Well because she left you at the table and left
Speaker 1: the date. But at least she had enough respect to
Speaker 1: get up and go the date is done. I'm going
Speaker 1: home now. Because most people somebody goes to the bathroom
Speaker 1: and then they're never seen from again. They crawl out
Speaker 1: the window or something. At least she had enough respect
Speaker 1: to tell you that she was leaving. I guess you're right.
Speaker 1: That's better. Want to do the second day update or
Speaker 1: just chuck it up and call that date a success.
Speaker 1: You're making me start to think I want to do that.
Speaker 1: It is kind of strange to me that you want
Speaker 1: to call her again and that you just won't let
Speaker 1: it go. I just I have to know. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but one of those curiosity kills the cat type of
Speaker 1: situations where I just don't think this is going to
Speaker 1: end well for you. Maybe if you know, I don't
Speaker 1: really care what I hear. I just wanted an explanation
Speaker 1: why she would just get up and leave in the
Speaker 1: middle of the date. I just need closure. Can you
Speaker 1: guys please help me? Yeah, flose your from your one day.
Speaker 1: I'll dial the phone of her right now and see
Speaker 1: if we can find out why she ditched you. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, You're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Chloe? Yes, Hello, Chloe,
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: how are you good? I guess what is this about? Well,
Speaker 1: I wanted to call you because we actually got an
Speaker 1: email about you from one of our listeners. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: do you have the right phone of her? I think so?
Speaker 1: Let me ask you. You You tell me your name's Chloe, right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Have you recently gone out with a dude named Carter
Speaker 1: on a date? Yeah? Perfect, Then I do have the
Speaker 1: right person on the phone, because that's why we're calling
Speaker 1: you today. Carter actually emailed us and asked if we
Speaker 1: could get you on the phone because of apparently you
Speaker 1: left in the middle of your date, and now you're
Speaker 1: not responding to his text messages or phone calls, and
Speaker 1: he wants to know why. Oh my god, I can't
Speaker 1: believe Carter did this. I just got to say lots
Speaker 1: of respect for you. I mean to be able to
Speaker 1: do that in the middle of the date and just
Speaker 1: face the awkwardness head on. Take some pretty big jones.
Speaker 1: Do what. I don't know what you're talking about. When
Speaker 1: you left in the middle of the day, when you
Speaker 1: stood up and said, sorry, we can't continue this date
Speaker 1: anymore and then left the table. Oh my god. How
Speaker 1: you guys knew that? Because Carter told us about your
Speaker 1: date and that's why we're calling you today. He wants
Speaker 1: to know if he did something wrong so that maybe
Speaker 1: he can fix it in the future. Oh, that's just
Speaker 1: kind of embarrassing. Really, is it embarrassing for Carter or
Speaker 1: embarrassing for you? It was just bad timing, I think
Speaker 1: the date. Yeah, just it was bad timing in general.
Speaker 1: What do you mean, like something else was going on
Speaker 1: that night? I don't get it. Well, um my my
Speaker 1: I got a text from an ex of mine, okay,
Speaker 1: and I thought I should just give him another chance.
Speaker 1: So what Okay, So you left the date so you
Speaker 1: could get back with your ex boyfriend. Well, my ex
Speaker 1: was just saying some really nice things about how he
Speaker 1: missed me and that he was thinking about me. I
Speaker 1: just I just texted him back and UM said, let's
Speaker 1: get back together. And I felt bad for being on
Speaker 1: another date, so I just thought i'd ended, and UM,
Speaker 1: what so you I just I'm sorry to keep asking
Speaker 1: for clarification, but it just confused me. You actually got
Speaker 1: back together with your ex boyfriend while you were eating
Speaker 1: dinner with Carter. Yeah, the first half of the date
Speaker 1: you were single, and then after that then you were
Speaker 1: weren't single. Right. Good for you for getting up and leaving.
Speaker 1: I guess, Wow, I don't think it's anything great, but
Speaker 1: I didn't want to hurt Carter's feelings, so I just laughed. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: and you're you're you know you're taking you shouldn't be
Speaker 1: out on a date. It wasn't It's not that bad.
Speaker 1: I think you shouldn't feel bad. I mean, we've all
Speaker 1: gotten back together with x's before. Most people. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: was respectful. You know, what was she going to say?
Speaker 1: Excuse me, I just got back together with my ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I need to leave now. Yeah, there's not much more
Speaker 1: you could say to that. Yeah, exactly. That's why I
Speaker 1: felt like cutting the date short would be the best option. Yeah, well, okay, cool,
Speaker 1: Thank you for thank you for being honest with us
Speaker 1: and telling us your answer. I'm sure Carter will be
Speaker 1: happy to know that he wasn't like a weirdo and
Speaker 1: did anything wrong. No, car is a really great guy
Speaker 1: under different circumstances. I mean, they think it would have
Speaker 1: worked out a nice thing to say. Well, Chloe, you
Speaker 1: were very honest with us, and like I said, I
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Now I need to be honest with you
Speaker 1: and let you know that Carter is actually on the
Speaker 1: other line listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Chloe.
Speaker 1: Oh um, hi, well that would explain why you were
Speaker 1: on your phone. Yeah, he just started texting me and
Speaker 1: so I just had to respond, Oh yeah, I get it. Um,
Speaker 1: are you guys back together? Yeah, we're trying to make
Speaker 1: things work. I guess. Oh well, um, well that's um,
Speaker 1: you're that's too bad. I thought you and I had something.
Speaker 1: That's really sweet of you to say, But I mean,
Speaker 1: we only met each other for a half hour. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, it's it's just a bummer that you didn't
Speaker 1: stick around. I mean, if we'd just spent more time together,
Speaker 1: I think we wouldn't really hit it off, and it
Speaker 1: would have let it to a little lot more nice days.
Speaker 1: But you know, the heart wants with the heart wants,
Speaker 1: and I'm disappointed. You're so sweet. That's really nice. Um,
Speaker 1: And I do really feel bad about what I did. Um,
Speaker 1: It's just I don't know me my X. We have
Speaker 1: a history together, so yeah, well it must not have
Speaker 1: been a very good one. I mean if you broke up. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: there I mean there were some good times and but
Speaker 1: there were some troubling times too. I guess you know, Chloe,
Speaker 1: you know I didn't know each other all that well.
Speaker 1: But I mean we never had any trouble. Whoa, I mean,
Speaker 1: that's kind of who I am. I'm a drama free person.
Speaker 1: I gotta say, Chloe, he's doing a good job of
Speaker 1: selling himself. I'm already like Tim Carter, break up with
Speaker 1: that X. Yeah you know what, you know, maybe I
Speaker 1: do feel bad. I mean things you're saying, Carter giving
Speaker 1: me second thoughts. Um, So maybe I don't know, maybe
Speaker 1: I should and things with what we So what is
Speaker 1: happening now, are you saying that you want to end
Speaker 1: things with your ex who's now your current boyfriend and
Speaker 1: then go back to dating Carter. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: mean he's saying some really nice things and bringing up
Speaker 1: some really good points. I mean, me, my boyfriend did
Speaker 1: have some troubling times. Wow. Well, Kloe, I don't want
Speaker 1: you to break up with him because it's something I'm
Speaker 1: saying to you. I want you to make your own decisions. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, maybe I should stay with him. Do you
Speaker 1: want to be with your ex or do you want
Speaker 1: to go out with Carter? I don't know. I'm just
Speaker 1: really confused right now, Coloe. I think you should be single.
Speaker 1: That's what I think you need to be for a
Speaker 1: little while. I think I'm going to stay with my ex.
Speaker 1: That's I think that's what I'm gonna do. Are you sure?
Speaker 1: Carter sounds like a really nice guy. Yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: do you guys really think I should go out with Carter?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I think you should go out with Carter. Chloe,
Speaker 1: would you go out on a second date with Carter?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. I don't know. I think
Speaker 1: I think I should do I think you should do
Speaker 1: yet I don't think you should be in the current
Speaker 1: situation that you're in, that's for sure, because you do
Speaker 1: not sound dedicated to it. Yeah, you're right, this is
Speaker 1: a lot of drama. I guess I'll go back with
Speaker 1: my ex. That's so you don't want to go out
Speaker 1: with Carter again, or you do? It's a free date.
Speaker 1: I do want to go out with him again. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you're gonna go out with Carter on the date
Speaker 1: that we're offering. I would like you, but I don't
Speaker 1: think it's the best decision. Are you going or aren't you?
Speaker 1: This is so confusing. Oh my god, I am totally
Speaker 1: lost here, Chloe. I don't know I Carter, Yes, I
Speaker 1: do want to go out a second date, but I
Speaker 1: think it should just be a friend's date. What a
Speaker 1: friend date? I mean you just said you want to
Speaker 1: go out with me. Well, I am seeing someone, so
Speaker 1: for at least another couple of days. Stick with it, Carter,
Speaker 1: and I'm sure you'll get the second romantic date that
Speaker 1: you want eventually. All Right. I do not get what
Speaker 1: just happened there. I think that makes everybody text in
Speaker 1: at seven eight five nine two. This is I would
Speaker 1: never let that girl pick where to eat, and I
Speaker 1: can understand why if you don't know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about today's second date update. Student named Carter
Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl named Chloe. They went out
Speaker 1: on a date and then she stopped calling him, and
Speaker 1: we got her on the phone and found out the
Speaker 1: reason why. During the date, she got a text from
Speaker 1: her ex boyfriend saying that he wanted to get back together,
Speaker 1: and she decided to get back together with him right
Speaker 1: there on the date. And then through the conversation, she
Speaker 1: went back and forth on now, you know what, maybe
Speaker 1: I should break up with my boyfriend and go out
Speaker 1: with you, Carter, And you know, you know what, I
Speaker 1: need to stay with my boyfriend. I shouldn't do that.
Speaker 1: I should stay with my boyfriend. On second thought, let's know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna break up with my boyfriend and get with
Speaker 1: you Carter. No, I can't do that. And then we ask,
Speaker 1: as we always do, do you want to go out
Speaker 1: on a second date? She said yes, she would go
Speaker 1: out with Carter, but not break up with her boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Go out with him as a friend, but maybe break
Speaker 1: up with her boyfriend was confusing. Okay, I will give
Speaker 1: her props for leaving and immediately as she decided to
Speaker 1: get back together with her boyfriend on the date. But
Speaker 1: that girl needs to be single. Yeah, she definitely needs
Speaker 1: to be. You don't need to date anybody. Just have options,
Speaker 1: regular options, like not a boyfriend, so that one day
Speaker 1: you'll be like, I'm gonna go with Carter and then
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with Steve. Know who'd I go out today?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Definitely could not make a decision to
Speaker 1: save her life. So I think they're going out again
Speaker 1: as friends. But then again, I'm not really sure. No
Speaker 1: one is. They're not sure. Text you remember. If you
Speaker 1: want to do a second date, up date, all you
Speaker 1: have to do is just email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back. Move
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