WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Back With the BF- Maybe

0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:08.200
<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second date. We've been doing second date updates

0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:10.000
<v Speaker 1>for a while now, and we've heard a lot of

0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:13.000
<v Speaker 1>stories about people getting ditched on a first date. Some

0:00:13.039 --> 0:00:16.400
<v Speaker 1>people deserve it, some people don't deserve it. Carter, who

0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:18.840
<v Speaker 1>is on the phone today, got ditched on his first date.

0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.680
<v Speaker 1>But it's a little different than most because she actually

0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:27.040
<v Speaker 1>told him that she was leaving. Yeah, Light, it's sort

0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:29.800
<v Speaker 1>of nice. I can't tell. We'll talk to Carter about it.

0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:32.040
<v Speaker 1>Carter will find out more about that situation in just

0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:36.000
<v Speaker 1>a second. But first, what's her name? Chloe? Chloe? All right?

0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:39.239
<v Speaker 1>And how did you meet Chloe? I met Chloe in

0:00:39.479 --> 0:00:45.080
<v Speaker 1>the comments section on Facebook? What wait? Wait, guys, you

0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:49.559
<v Speaker 1>meet the comments section on Facebook. We both commented on

0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:55.120
<v Speaker 1>a mutual friends picture. Oh it led to some playful

0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:59.840
<v Speaker 1>danter and all right, so she commented on a friend

0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:03.000
<v Speaker 1>yours picture and then you commented like, Hey, Jill, who's

0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:08.040
<v Speaker 1>this chick commenting above me? She's hot? Right? No, I

0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.280
<v Speaker 1>did not do that, and I would not recommend that

0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:12.640
<v Speaker 1>to the general population. So it was a little smoother

0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:16.720
<v Speaker 1>than that, huh, A lot smoother. Okay, how long did

0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:19.640
<v Speaker 1>you guys talk on Facebook before you actually asked her out. Oh,

0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:22.000
<v Speaker 1>probably about a week on and off, you know, when

0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:23.840
<v Speaker 1>we finally started talking, you know, when there was just

0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:26.040
<v Speaker 1>one night we just messaged all night and I said, hey,

0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:27.720
<v Speaker 1>do you want to meet and get dinner? And she

0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:30.720
<v Speaker 1>said yeah, so, And how was dinner when you guys

0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:32.640
<v Speaker 1>went out? Was it the same as Facebook, the same

0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:35.600
<v Speaker 1>chemistry as you had in the Facebook comments section? Yeah, well,

0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:39.240
<v Speaker 1>initially we decided to meet at the restaurant, which, um,

0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I think it's just good. It's better than they don't

0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:45.640
<v Speaker 1>have that awkward drive there. And I was so relieved

0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:47.320
<v Speaker 1>when I saw her, not that you know, I mean

0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:49.480
<v Speaker 1>I knew what she looked like, but to actually see

0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:52.280
<v Speaker 1>her in person and you know, beautiful eyes, it is

0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:55.400
<v Speaker 1>really sweet demeanor. And she had my notes. What do

0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:59.000
<v Speaker 1>you mean she had your notes? Well, it's I know,

0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:05.000
<v Speaker 1>straight have my nose, your nose, I think it's I

0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:06.800
<v Speaker 1>think it's a good nose. I like my nose, and

0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:09.920
<v Speaker 1>so I liked it on her. So you're attracted to

0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:13.639
<v Speaker 1>women that have the same features as you, well not

0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:16.440
<v Speaker 1>all of the same features, but one out of you

0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:19.880
<v Speaker 1>know many, So does that mean you have a feminine

0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:22.720
<v Speaker 1>nose or she has a really masculine nose. I think

0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:25.600
<v Speaker 1>it's somewhere in between. I think I have a masculinely

0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:32.880
<v Speaker 1>feminine nose, femininely masculine nose. Her head. So you thought

0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:35.480
<v Speaker 1>she was cute because of her smile and you both

0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:39.840
<v Speaker 1>share a nose. We share a nose, And was she

0:02:39.880 --> 0:02:42.760
<v Speaker 1>flattered by that or not? I think she was a

0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:45.840
<v Speaker 1>little confused. I think I like you guys words, but

0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:48.919
<v Speaker 1>because I'm gonna say as a woman, that could be

0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:51.959
<v Speaker 1>a real insult. I mean it's like also saying, hey,

0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.440
<v Speaker 1>look it we also have the same pant size. It's

0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:57.000
<v Speaker 1>not always look. I think you guys weren't there, you know.

0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean I have a good looking nose. It looked

0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:02.079
<v Speaker 1>good on her. I assumed it looks good on me,

0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.720
<v Speaker 1>so I made the comment. Sure, but we didn't stay

0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:08.360
<v Speaker 1>on that topic. Okay, so you moved on quickly from

0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:11.200
<v Speaker 1>the nose thing. How was the rest of the date. Well,

0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:13.799
<v Speaker 1>the first thirty minutes was really great. It was just

0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:17.880
<v Speaker 1>like talking online, and then she started like looking at

0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:20.720
<v Speaker 1>her phone a lot. And I don't know if she

0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:24.120
<v Speaker 1>was texting somebody or somebody was like texting her. I

0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.960
<v Speaker 1>couldn't tell, you know, I try to not pay attention

0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:28.839
<v Speaker 1>to somebody when they're on the phone, like when you're

0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:30.800
<v Speaker 1>in a social situation with them. You know, it's not

0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:34.560
<v Speaker 1>make them feel uncomfortable or anything. And she looks at

0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:37.120
<v Speaker 1>her phone for about five minutes and she stands up,

0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:39.280
<v Speaker 1>which his carter. You know, it was really nice to

0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:42.760
<v Speaker 1>meet you, but I'm sorry, I have to end the date. WHOA.

0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:47.680
<v Speaker 1>That's abrupt, like in the middle of dinner, totally abrupt. Whoa.

0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:50.960
<v Speaker 1>And she was polite about it and everything, just said sorry,

0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:54.200
<v Speaker 1>the date is over. She yeah, that's exactly what she did.

0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:55.920
<v Speaker 1>And then so I asked her, I said, is there's

0:03:55.920 --> 0:03:59.760
<v Speaker 1>something I said, something is something wrong? And she I'm

0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:02.760
<v Speaker 1>really sorry, but I have to call we Wow. Maybe

0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:05.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, did she seem distraught or did her mood

0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:07.960
<v Speaker 1>change when she was looking at her phone. I mean,

0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.160
<v Speaker 1>her mood did change. But I couldn't help her. What

0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:12.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I just met her. Oh my god,

0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:17.479
<v Speaker 1>how baffling, Like I wouldn't know if you are embarrassed

0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:20.680
<v Speaker 1>or if she's so kind about it that you're like, okay,

0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:24.960
<v Speaker 1>well I understand. Well, I'm just I'm really confused more

0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:28.360
<v Speaker 1>than anything. And I mean I texted her the day after,

0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:32.559
<v Speaker 1>and she did not respond. So I called you guys

0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:34.599
<v Speaker 1>because I thought you guys could help me. Have you

0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:36.320
<v Speaker 1>heard anything from her at all? You said she didn't

0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:38.560
<v Speaker 1>respond to that, but anything the way that it ended.

0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying not to actively blow up her phone or

0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:44.800
<v Speaker 1>anything like that, right, So, and what's her Facebook status

0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:47.080
<v Speaker 1>like right now? Is she active? I haven't seen her

0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:49.720
<v Speaker 1>post anything. I mean, this was three days ago, and

0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:52.680
<v Speaker 1>it's just the only reason that I could think about

0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:55.800
<v Speaker 1>her calling off to day. The only reason is the

0:04:56.400 --> 0:05:01.040
<v Speaker 1>nose thing. Yeah, but her leaving came a good while

0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:04.039
<v Speaker 1>after you made that comment, right a while after, so,

0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:06.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I if it was because of the notice thing,

0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.479
<v Speaker 1>she had to play it cool for about a half hour. Yeah,

0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:11.359
<v Speaker 1>and you swear you didn't compare any other body parts

0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:14.279
<v Speaker 1>with her. No, that's to the end of the date.

0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:18.839
<v Speaker 1>All right, Well we'll play a song, come back, call

0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.560
<v Speaker 1>her and get your second date update. Okay, awesome? Thanks?

0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:29.960
<v Speaker 1>All right, brooking jubil in the morning second update. Right

0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:32.159
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a second date update, and Carter

0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:34.680
<v Speaker 1>is on the phone, and today we're hoping we can

0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:39.960
<v Speaker 1>help Carter find his nose. Why do I say that,

0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:42.119
<v Speaker 1>because when We were talking to Carter just a second

0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:43.800
<v Speaker 1>ago about the girl that he wants to call today.

0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:45.800
<v Speaker 1>He shared with us one of the reasons that he

0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:50.279
<v Speaker 1>liked her was because they had a similar nose, and

0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:53.359
<v Speaker 1>he actually told her that during the date. And that's

0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:55.960
<v Speaker 1>the only reason you can think of why she might

0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:57.960
<v Speaker 1>not be calling him back today, because that could have

0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:00.360
<v Speaker 1>creeped her out a little bit. You know, Carter, I

0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:02.400
<v Speaker 1>think you should actually be happy about your first date.

0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.640
<v Speaker 1>Well because she left you at the table and left

0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:09.440
<v Speaker 1>the date. But at least she had enough respect to

0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:12.120
<v Speaker 1>get up and go the date is done. I'm going

0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:15.679
<v Speaker 1>home now. Because most people somebody goes to the bathroom

0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:17.280
<v Speaker 1>and then they're never seen from again. They crawl out

0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:18.919
<v Speaker 1>the window or something. At least she had enough respect

0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:22.120
<v Speaker 1>to tell you that she was leaving. I guess you're right.

0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:25.640
<v Speaker 1>That's better. Want to do the second day update or

0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:27.680
<v Speaker 1>just chuck it up and call that date a success.

0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:31.680
<v Speaker 1>You're making me start to think I want to do that.

0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:34.120
<v Speaker 1>It is kind of strange to me that you want

0:06:34.120 --> 0:06:35.760
<v Speaker 1>to call her again and that you just won't let

0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:39.240
<v Speaker 1>it go. I just I have to know. Yeah, yeah,

0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:42.719
<v Speaker 1>but one of those curiosity kills the cat type of

0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.040
<v Speaker 1>situations where I just don't think this is going to

0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:48.240
<v Speaker 1>end well for you. Maybe if you know, I don't

0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:51.560
<v Speaker 1>really care what I hear. I just wanted an explanation

0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:53.919
<v Speaker 1>why she would just get up and leave in the

0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:57.159
<v Speaker 1>middle of the date. I just need closure. Can you

0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:59.880
<v Speaker 1>guys please help me? Yeah, flose your from your one day.

0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:02.120
<v Speaker 1>I'll dial the phone of her right now and see

0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:04.520
<v Speaker 1>if we can find out why she ditched you. Okay,

0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:19.720
<v Speaker 1>thank you, You're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Chloe? Yes, Hello, Chloe,

0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:25.440
<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,

0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:32.440
<v Speaker 1>how are you good? I guess what is this about? Well,

0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to call you because we actually got an

0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:38.520
<v Speaker 1>email about you from one of our listeners. I'm sorry,

0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:41.000
<v Speaker 1>do you have the right phone of her? I think so?

0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:44.960
<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you. You You tell me your name's Chloe, right? Yeah?

0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:47.280
<v Speaker 1>Have you recently gone out with a dude named Carter

0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:52.360
<v Speaker 1>on a date? Yeah? Perfect, Then I do have the

0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:55.119
<v Speaker 1>right person on the phone, because that's why we're calling

0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:58.720
<v Speaker 1>you today. Carter actually emailed us and asked if we

0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:00.520
<v Speaker 1>could get you on the phone because of apparently you

0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:03.200
<v Speaker 1>left in the middle of your date, and now you're

0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:05.560
<v Speaker 1>not responding to his text messages or phone calls, and

0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:08.640
<v Speaker 1>he wants to know why. Oh my god, I can't

0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:12.559
<v Speaker 1>believe Carter did this. I just got to say lots

0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.640
<v Speaker 1>of respect for you. I mean to be able to

0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:16.120
<v Speaker 1>do that in the middle of the date and just

0:08:16.240 --> 0:08:19.760
<v Speaker 1>face the awkwardness head on. Take some pretty big jones.

0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:25.280
<v Speaker 1>Do what. I don't know what you're talking about. When

0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you left in the middle of the day, when you

0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:29.200
<v Speaker 1>stood up and said, sorry, we can't continue this date

0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:32.280
<v Speaker 1>anymore and then left the table. Oh my god. How

0:08:32.320 --> 0:08:35.600
<v Speaker 1>you guys knew that? Because Carter told us about your

0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:38.000
<v Speaker 1>date and that's why we're calling you today. He wants

0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:40.600
<v Speaker 1>to know if he did something wrong so that maybe

0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:44.360
<v Speaker 1>he can fix it in the future. Oh, that's just

0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:48.760
<v Speaker 1>kind of embarrassing. Really, is it embarrassing for Carter or

0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:53.360
<v Speaker 1>embarrassing for you? It was just bad timing, I think

0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:59.160
<v Speaker 1>the date. Yeah, just it was bad timing in general.

0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:01.520
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean, like something else was going on

0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:05.560
<v Speaker 1>that night? I don't get it. Well, um my my

0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:10.480
<v Speaker 1>I got a text from an ex of mine, okay,

0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:13.760
<v Speaker 1>and I thought I should just give him another chance.

0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:19.320
<v Speaker 1>So what Okay, So you left the date so you

0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:23.280
<v Speaker 1>could get back with your ex boyfriend. Well, my ex

0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:25.440
<v Speaker 1>was just saying some really nice things about how he

0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:29.560
<v Speaker 1>missed me and that he was thinking about me. I

0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:33.720
<v Speaker 1>just I just texted him back and UM said, let's

0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:36.000
<v Speaker 1>get back together. And I felt bad for being on

0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:39.480
<v Speaker 1>another date, so I just thought i'd ended, and UM,

0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:42.920
<v Speaker 1>what so you I just I'm sorry to keep asking

0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:45.640
<v Speaker 1>for clarification, but it just confused me. You actually got

0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.400
<v Speaker 1>back together with your ex boyfriend while you were eating

0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:56.280
<v Speaker 1>dinner with Carter. Yeah, the first half of the date

0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:59.719
<v Speaker 1>you were single, and then after that then you were

0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:08.040
<v Speaker 1>weren't single. Right. Good for you for getting up and leaving.

0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:11.760
<v Speaker 1>I guess, Wow, I don't think it's anything great, but

0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:16.280
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to hurt Carter's feelings, so I just laughed. Yeah, well,

0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:18.680
<v Speaker 1>and you're you're you know you're taking you shouldn't be

0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:22.040
<v Speaker 1>out on a date. It wasn't It's not that bad.

0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I think you shouldn't feel bad. I mean, we've all

0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:28.920
<v Speaker 1>gotten back together with x's before. Most people. Yeah, she

0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:31.960
<v Speaker 1>was respectful. You know, what was she going to say?

0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:34.680
<v Speaker 1>Excuse me, I just got back together with my ex boyfriend.

0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:36.600
<v Speaker 1>I need to leave now. Yeah, there's not much more

0:10:36.640 --> 0:10:39.319
<v Speaker 1>you could say to that. Yeah, exactly. That's why I

0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:44.160
<v Speaker 1>felt like cutting the date short would be the best option. Yeah, well, okay, cool,

0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:46.880
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for thank you for being honest with us

0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:49.080
<v Speaker 1>and telling us your answer. I'm sure Carter will be

0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:50.880
<v Speaker 1>happy to know that he wasn't like a weirdo and

0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:53.760
<v Speaker 1>did anything wrong. No, car is a really great guy

0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:57.240
<v Speaker 1>under different circumstances. I mean, they think it would have

0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:02.800
<v Speaker 1>worked out a nice thing to say. Well, Chloe, you

0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:04.400
<v Speaker 1>were very honest with us, and like I said, I

0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.440
<v Speaker 1>appreciate that. Now I need to be honest with you

0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:08.679
<v Speaker 1>and let you know that Carter is actually on the

0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:12.520
<v Speaker 1>other line listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Chloe.

0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:22.199
<v Speaker 1>Oh um, hi, well that would explain why you were

0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:27.400
<v Speaker 1>on your phone. Yeah, he just started texting me and

0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:32.880
<v Speaker 1>so I just had to respond, Oh yeah, I get it. Um,

0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:36.800
<v Speaker 1>are you guys back together? Yeah, we're trying to make

0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:43.480
<v Speaker 1>things work. I guess. Oh well, um, well that's um,

0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:46.200
<v Speaker 1>you're that's too bad. I thought you and I had something.

0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:49.280
<v Speaker 1>That's really sweet of you to say, But I mean,

0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:51.960
<v Speaker 1>we only met each other for a half hour. Yeah,

0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I know, it's it's just a bummer that you didn't

0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:56.720
<v Speaker 1>stick around. I mean, if we'd just spent more time together,

0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:59.319
<v Speaker 1>I think we wouldn't really hit it off, and it

0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:01.200
<v Speaker 1>would have let it to a little lot more nice days.

0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:05.440
<v Speaker 1>But you know, the heart wants with the heart wants,

0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:11.360
<v Speaker 1>and I'm disappointed. You're so sweet. That's really nice. Um,

0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:15.240
<v Speaker 1>And I do really feel bad about what I did. Um,

0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:18.960
<v Speaker 1>It's just I don't know me my X. We have

0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:21.880
<v Speaker 1>a history together, so yeah, well it must not have

0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:27.200
<v Speaker 1>been a very good one. I mean if you broke up. Yeah, no,

0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:29.800
<v Speaker 1>there I mean there were some good times and but

0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:34.000
<v Speaker 1>there were some troubling times too. I guess you know, Chloe,

0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:35.960
<v Speaker 1>you know I didn't know each other all that well.

0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:40.040
<v Speaker 1>But I mean we never had any trouble. Whoa, I mean,

0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:43.120
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of who I am. I'm a drama free person.

0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I gotta say, Chloe, he's doing a good job of

0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:49.000
<v Speaker 1>selling himself. I'm already like Tim Carter, break up with

0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:53.240
<v Speaker 1>that X. Yeah you know what, you know, maybe I

0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:55.840
<v Speaker 1>do feel bad. I mean things you're saying, Carter giving

0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:59.480
<v Speaker 1>me second thoughts. Um, So maybe I don't know, maybe

0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I should and things with what we So what is

0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:08.360
<v Speaker 1>happening now, are you saying that you want to end

0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:11.200
<v Speaker 1>things with your ex who's now your current boyfriend and

0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.720
<v Speaker 1>then go back to dating Carter. I don't know. I

0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:16.480
<v Speaker 1>mean he's saying some really nice things and bringing up

0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:18.559
<v Speaker 1>some really good points. I mean, me, my boyfriend did

0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:24.840
<v Speaker 1>have some troubling times. Wow. Well, Kloe, I don't want

0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:26.880
<v Speaker 1>you to break up with him because it's something I'm

0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:32.079
<v Speaker 1>saying to you. I want you to make your own decisions. Yeah,

0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:37.400
<v Speaker 1>you're right, maybe I should stay with him. Do you

0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:39.679
<v Speaker 1>want to be with your ex or do you want

0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:42.360
<v Speaker 1>to go out with Carter? I don't know. I'm just

0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:45.720
<v Speaker 1>really confused right now, Coloe. I think you should be single.

0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:47.360
<v Speaker 1>That's what I think you need to be for a

0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:50.240
<v Speaker 1>little while. I think I'm going to stay with my ex.

0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.559
<v Speaker 1>That's I think that's what I'm gonna do. Are you sure?

0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:56.160
<v Speaker 1>Carter sounds like a really nice guy. Yeah. I mean,

0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:57.959
<v Speaker 1>do you guys really think I should go out with Carter?

0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:01.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I think you should go out with Carter. Chloe,

0:14:01.679 --> 0:14:03.440
<v Speaker 1>would you go out on a second date with Carter?

0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:07.800
<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. I don't know. I think

0:14:07.800 --> 0:14:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I think I should do I think you should do

0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:11.520
<v Speaker 1>yet I don't think you should be in the current

0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:14.040
<v Speaker 1>situation that you're in, that's for sure, because you do

0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:17.200
<v Speaker 1>not sound dedicated to it. Yeah, you're right, this is

0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:19.240
<v Speaker 1>a lot of drama. I guess I'll go back with

0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:25.280
<v Speaker 1>my ex. That's so you don't want to go out

0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:27.840
<v Speaker 1>with Carter again, or you do? It's a free date.

0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I do want to go out with him again. Okay,

0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:34.840
<v Speaker 1>so you're gonna go out with Carter on the date

0:14:34.840 --> 0:14:38.000
<v Speaker 1>that we're offering. I would like you, but I don't

0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:42.000
<v Speaker 1>think it's the best decision. Are you going or aren't you?

0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:45.600
<v Speaker 1>This is so confusing. Oh my god, I am totally

0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:50.560
<v Speaker 1>lost here, Chloe. I don't know I Carter, Yes, I

0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:54.120
<v Speaker 1>do want to go out a second date, but I

0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:58.240
<v Speaker 1>think it should just be a friend's date. What a

0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:00.480
<v Speaker 1>friend date? I mean you just said you want to

0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:03.480
<v Speaker 1>go out with me. Well, I am seeing someone, so

0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:08.960
<v Speaker 1>for at least another couple of days. Stick with it, Carter,

0:15:09.040 --> 0:15:11.280
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure you'll get the second romantic date that

0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:14.560
<v Speaker 1>you want eventually. All Right. I do not get what

0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:21.240
<v Speaker 1>just happened there. I think that makes everybody text in

0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.440
<v Speaker 1>at seven eight five nine two. This is I would

0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:27.600
<v Speaker 1>never let that girl pick where to eat, and I

0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:30.040
<v Speaker 1>can understand why if you don't know what I'm talking about.

0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:33.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about today's second date update. Student named Carter

0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:35.320
<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a girl named Chloe. They went out

0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:37.000
<v Speaker 1>on a date and then she stopped calling him, and

0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:38.240
<v Speaker 1>we got her on the phone and found out the

0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:40.680
<v Speaker 1>reason why. During the date, she got a text from

0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:43.760
<v Speaker 1>her ex boyfriend saying that he wanted to get back together,

0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:45.920
<v Speaker 1>and she decided to get back together with him right

0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:50.480
<v Speaker 1>there on the date. And then through the conversation, she

0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:52.880
<v Speaker 1>went back and forth on now, you know what, maybe

0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:54.560
<v Speaker 1>I should break up with my boyfriend and go out

0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:56.680
<v Speaker 1>with you, Carter, And you know, you know what, I

0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:58.440
<v Speaker 1>need to stay with my boyfriend. I shouldn't do that.

0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:01.200
<v Speaker 1>I should stay with my boyfriend. On second thought, let's know,

0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:02.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna break up with my boyfriend and get with

0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:05.640
<v Speaker 1>you Carter. No, I can't do that. And then we ask,

0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:07.160
<v Speaker 1>as we always do, do you want to go out

0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:09.560
<v Speaker 1>on a second date? She said yes, she would go

0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:12.200
<v Speaker 1>out with Carter, but not break up with her boyfriend.

0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Go out with him as a friend, but maybe break

0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:19.000
<v Speaker 1>up with her boyfriend was confusing. Okay, I will give

0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:21.760
<v Speaker 1>her props for leaving and immediately as she decided to

0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:24.120
<v Speaker 1>get back together with her boyfriend on the date. But

0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:30.240
<v Speaker 1>that girl needs to be single. Yeah, she definitely needs

0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:34.600
<v Speaker 1>to be. You don't need to date anybody. Just have options,

0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:39.160
<v Speaker 1>regular options, like not a boyfriend, so that one day

0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:41.040
<v Speaker 1>you'll be like, I'm gonna go with Carter and then

0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:43.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go with Steve. Know who'd I go out today?

0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:47.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Definitely could not make a decision to

0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:49.320
<v Speaker 1>save her life. So I think they're going out again

0:16:49.560 --> 0:16:54.880
<v Speaker 1>as friends. But then again, I'm not really sure. No

0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:57.880
<v Speaker 1>one is. They're not sure. Text you remember. If you

0:16:57.920 --> 0:16:59.160
<v Speaker 1>want to do a second date, up date, all you

0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:00.800
<v Speaker 1>have to do is just email the show and we

0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:03.440
<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back. Move

0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:05.320
<v Speaker 1>at ninety two point five present