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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date. We've been doing second date updates

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Speaker 1: for a while now, and we've heard a lot of

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Speaker 1: stories about people getting ditched on a first date. Some

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Speaker 1: people deserve it, some people don't deserve it. Carter, who

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Speaker 1: is on the phone today, got ditched on his first date.

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Speaker 1: But it's a little different than most because she actually

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Speaker 1: told him that she was leaving. Yeah, Light, it's sort

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Speaker 1: of nice. I can't tell. We'll talk to Carter about it.

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Speaker 1: Carter will find out more about that situation in just

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Speaker 1: a second. But first, what's her name? Chloe? Chloe? All right?

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Speaker 1: And how did you meet Chloe? I met Chloe in

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Speaker 1: the comments section on Facebook? What wait? Wait, guys, you

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Speaker 1: meet the comments section on Facebook. We both commented on

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Speaker 1: a mutual friends picture. Oh it led to some playful

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Speaker 1: danter and all right, so she commented on a friend

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Speaker 1: yours picture and then you commented like, Hey, Jill, who's

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Speaker 1: this chick commenting above me? She's hot? Right? No, I

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Speaker 1: did not do that, and I would not recommend that

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Speaker 1: to the general population. So it was a little smoother

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Speaker 1: than that, huh, A lot smoother. Okay, how long did

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Speaker 1: you guys talk on Facebook before you actually asked her out. Oh,

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Speaker 1: probably about a week on and off, you know, when

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Speaker 1: we finally started talking, you know, when there was just

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Speaker 1: one night we just messaged all night and I said, hey,

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Speaker 1: do you want to meet and get dinner? And she

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Speaker 1: said yeah, so, And how was dinner when you guys

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Speaker 1: went out? Was it the same as Facebook, the same

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Speaker 1: chemistry as you had in the Facebook comments section? Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: initially we decided to meet at the restaurant, which, um,

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Speaker 1: I think it's just good. It's better than they don't

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Speaker 1: have that awkward drive there. And I was so relieved

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Speaker 1: when I saw her, not that you know, I mean

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Speaker 1: I knew what she looked like, but to actually see

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Speaker 1: her in person and you know, beautiful eyes, it is

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Speaker 1: really sweet demeanor. And she had my notes. What do

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Speaker 1: you mean she had your notes? Well, it's I know,

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Speaker 1: straight have my nose, your nose, I think it's I

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Speaker 1: think it's a good nose. I like my nose, and

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Speaker 1: so I liked it on her. So you're attracted to

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Speaker 1: women that have the same features as you, well not

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Speaker 1: all of the same features, but one out of you

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Speaker 1: know many, So does that mean you have a feminine

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Speaker 1: it's somewhere in between. I think I have a masculinely

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Speaker 1: feminine nose, femininely masculine nose. Her head. So you thought

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Speaker 1: she was cute because of her smile and you both

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Speaker 1: share a nose. We share a nose, And was she

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Speaker 1: flattered by that or not? I think she was a

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Speaker 1: little confused. I think I like you guys words, but

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Speaker 1: because I'm gonna say as a woman, that could be

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Speaker 1: a real insult. I mean it's like also saying, hey,

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Speaker 1: look it we also have the same pant size. It's

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Speaker 1: not always look. I think you guys weren't there, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean I have a good looking nose. It looked

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Speaker 1: good on her. I assumed it looks good on me,

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Speaker 1: so I made the comment. Sure, but we didn't stay

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Speaker 1: on that topic. Okay, so you moved on quickly from

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Speaker 1: the nose thing. How was the rest of the date. Well,

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Speaker 1: the first thirty minutes was really great. It was just

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Speaker 1: like talking online, and then she started like looking at

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Speaker 1: was texting somebody or somebody was like texting her. I

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Speaker 1: make them feel uncomfortable or anything. And she looks at

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Speaker 1: her phone for about five minutes and she stands up,

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Speaker 1: which his carter. You know, it was really nice to

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Speaker 1: meet you, but I'm sorry, I have to end the date. WHOA.

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Speaker 1: That's abrupt, like in the middle of dinner, totally abrupt. Whoa.

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Speaker 1: And she was polite about it and everything, just said sorry,

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Speaker 1: the date is over. She yeah, that's exactly what she did.

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Speaker 1: And then so I asked her, I said, is there's

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Speaker 1: something I said, something is something wrong? And she I'm

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Speaker 1: really sorry, but I have to call we Wow. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I mean, did she seem distraught or did her mood

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Speaker 1: anything like that, right, So, and what's her Facebook status

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Speaker 1: it's just the only reason that I could think about

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Speaker 1: nose thing. Yeah, but her leaving came a good while

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Speaker 1: after you made that comment, right a while after, so,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I if it was because of the notice thing,

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Speaker 1: she had to play it cool for about a half hour. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you swear you didn't compare any other body parts

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Speaker 1: with her. No, that's to the end of the date.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well we'll play a song, come back, call

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Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. Okay, awesome? Thanks?

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Speaker 1: All right, brooking jubil in the morning second update. Right

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Speaker 1: in the middle of a second date update, and Carter

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Speaker 1: is on the phone, and today we're hoping we can

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Speaker 1: help Carter find his nose. Why do I say that,

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Speaker 1: because when We were talking to Carter just a second

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Speaker 1: He shared with us one of the reasons that he

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Speaker 1: he actually told her that during the date. And that's

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Speaker 1: the only reason you can think of why she might

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Speaker 1: Well because she left you at the table and left

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Speaker 1: the date. But at least she had enough respect to

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Speaker 1: get up and go the date is done. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to tell you that she was leaving. I guess you're right.

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Speaker 1: That's better. Want to do the second day update or

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Speaker 1: just chuck it up and call that date a success.

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Speaker 1: You're making me start to think I want to do that.

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Speaker 1: It is kind of strange to me that you want

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Speaker 1: really care what I hear. I just wanted an explanation

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Speaker 1: middle of the date. I just need closure. Can you

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Speaker 1: guys please help me? Yeah, flose your from your one day.

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Speaker 1: I'll dial the phone of her right now and see

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Speaker 1: if we can find out why she ditched you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, You're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Chloe? Yes, Hello, Chloe,

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Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: how are you good? I guess what is this about? Well,

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Speaker 1: I wanted to call you because we actually got an

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Speaker 1: email about you from one of our listeners. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: do you have the right phone of her? I think so?

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you. You You tell me your name's Chloe, right? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Have you recently gone out with a dude named Carter

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Speaker 1: on a date? Yeah? Perfect, Then I do have the

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Speaker 1: right person on the phone, because that's why we're calling

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Speaker 1: you today. Carter actually emailed us and asked if we

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Speaker 1: believe Carter did this. I just got to say lots

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Speaker 1: Do what. I don't know what you're talking about. When

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Speaker 1: stood up and said, sorry, we can't continue this date

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Speaker 1: date and that's why we're calling you today. He wants

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Speaker 1: kind of embarrassing. Really, is it embarrassing for Carter or

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Speaker 1: that night? I don't get it. Well, um my my

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Speaker 1: just I just texted him back and UM said, let's

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to hurt Carter's feelings, so I just laughed. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: I need to leave now. Yeah, there's not much more

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Speaker 1: felt like cutting the date short would be the best option. Yeah, well, okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: Thank you for thank you for being honest with us

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Speaker 1: and telling us your answer. I'm sure Carter will be

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Speaker 1: happy to know that he wasn't like a weirdo and

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Speaker 1: did anything wrong. No, car is a really great guy

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Speaker 1: under different circumstances. I mean, they think it would have

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Speaker 1: worked out a nice thing to say. Well, Chloe, you

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Speaker 1: other line listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Chloe.

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Speaker 1: Oh um, hi, well that would explain why you were

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Speaker 1: That's really sweet of you to say, But I mean,

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Speaker 1: at ninety two point five present