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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Law dot com.

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Speaker 3: Madison is on the phone today for our first Day

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Speaker 3: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Brent.

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Speaker 3: So in a second we're gonna call him and Seafield

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Speaker 3: House why is Ghostinger? And maybe get her a second date?

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Speaker 3: But first, Madison, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 3: heard from Brent?

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Speaker 4: So it's been nine days?

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Speaker 5: And who's counting?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, nine days, that's definitely a long time.

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Speaker 3: Have you tried to reach out to him?

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Speaker 6: I have, I've you know, I've texted, I've tried to call,

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Speaker 6: but you know nothing.

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Speaker 5: Okay, we why don't you tell us about your date?

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Speaker 4: Okay? So the date was amazing.

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Speaker 6: We went to a wine tasting on a rooftop and

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Speaker 6: you know, we both wanted to like do something a

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Speaker 6: little extra and I like to feel like the main character.

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Speaker 6: So totally delivered.

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Speaker 2: Okay, awesome. Did he make you feel like the main character?

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Speaker 5: He did.

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Speaker 6: We actually even had like super cute Hallmark movie moment

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Speaker 6: and yeah, we both reached for the same class and

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Speaker 6: you know, like we had a nice, nice laugh about it.

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Speaker 4: Like you laughed. Guys, it's really cute.

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Speaker 5: It does feel good when you make the person that

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Speaker 5: you're on a date with laugh. Yeah for sure.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like if he was enjoying himself, you know, we

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Speaker 6: had great conversation, like the whole night was really fun.

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Speaker 6: And then you know, he watched me to my car

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Speaker 6: and he kissed me on the cheek, which I thought

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Speaker 6: was very gentlemanly and very romantic.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Then he was like, tonight was surprisingly awesome. Also real luck.

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Speaker 5: I kind of loved that because he had like attitude

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Speaker 5: with it, or maybe he just you know, you exceeded

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Speaker 5: his expectations in a really good way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like I liked that. It's kind of I don't know,

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Speaker 4: it's kind of like playing with me, you know, like

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Speaker 4: like joking around, like we had good answer. It's just

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Speaker 4: really sweet.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, why do you think that he could be ghosting?

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Speaker 5: You did and something happen on the date that was

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Speaker 5: kind of like awkward or rude that wasn't surprisingly the word.

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Speaker 4: Well, so this guy sound bad?

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Speaker 6: Like I get it, but I do you have a

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Speaker 6: personalized license plate on my car?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Who is it?

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Speaker 5: Say?

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Speaker 6: So? It says princess, you know, without the vowels prncss.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's cute, okay, super.

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Speaker 6: Cute, right character, really cute thing, convertible mini and I'm like,

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Speaker 6: this is great.

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Speaker 5: So why do you think that would be the problem?

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Speaker 4: You know, like maybe I threw them off.

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Speaker 6: He stared at it for like a solid thirty seconds

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Speaker 6: before getting in a zuber, So maybe he thought I.

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Speaker 4: Was like spoiled or something. But it's cute, it's ironic.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 5: Maybe if he doesn't have a sense of humor, maybe

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Speaker 5: he did think that you were saying, look at me,

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Speaker 5: I'm high maintenance.

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Speaker 2: Right, it's possible. Are you high maintenance?

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Speaker 4: Am I high maintenance? No? Am I'm maintenance.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see what we can help you out.

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Speaker 3: We'll play a song, come back, and then call him

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Speaker 3: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you,

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Speaker 3: and then get you a second date if you still

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Speaker 3: want one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up.

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Speaker 1: Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 3: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 3: if you're just joining us, Madison is on the phone

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Speaker 3: and she's getting ghosted by Brent. So we're about to

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Speaker 3: call Brent and see if he'll tell us why he's

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Speaker 3: ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Madison,

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Speaker 3: why don't you tell us about your situation one more time?

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Speaker 2: Real quick?

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Speaker 4: For sure? So we went on the stabulous date.

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Speaker 6: We went to like a super chute rooftop bar, had

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Speaker 6: a bunch of really really get me drinks, super flirty.

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Speaker 4: He was amazing and.

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Speaker 6: Then he walked me back to the car like a

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Speaker 6: then he was stared at my license plate which says

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Speaker 6: Princess on my favorite cute Minnie. And I don't know

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Speaker 6: if that throw them all what? But it's now, I'm

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Speaker 6: in nineties. I know who's counting, but I haven't heard anything.

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Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Please, let's do this.

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Speaker 2: And you think it might be because he thinks you're

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Speaker 2: high maintenance.

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Speaker 4: I mean maybe, but I don't know why you would

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Speaker 2: All right, the Princess right here we go? Are you ready?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Brent. Please.

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Speaker 9: This is Brent.

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Speaker 2: How are you? This is the Jubile Show. It's a

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Speaker 2: radio show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Brent, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name

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Speaker 5: is Jubal.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 9: I'm good? How's it going?

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Speaker 7: Why?

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Speaker 9: Why am I on the radio?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 9: I have? But I mean that doesn't explain it for me.

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Speaker 9: What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 3: We do a segment on our show that's called the

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Speaker 3: First eight follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 3: on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 3: they can email us to get you on the phone

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Speaker 3: and ask why you're getting ghosted. So we got an

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Speaker 3: email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 9: Please don't say it's Princess Madison.

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Speaker 2: Are you ghosting? It is Princess Madison.

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Speaker 3: Are you talking about her license plate that says princess

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Speaker 3: on it?

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Speaker 9: All?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 7: Look, Madison is super sweet, beautiful, funny and deeply committed.

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Speaker 9: To referring to herself and the third person.

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Speaker 7: Oh really, not just yeah, and it's not just Madison

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Speaker 7: but always Princess Madicine. I mean, it was crazy, Like

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Speaker 7: at first I thought it was a joke, but she

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Speaker 7: Princess Mads has to run and tinkle at That's what

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Speaker 7: I was, just like, did she allowing myself to be

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Speaker 7: Oh my yes, over and over, Princess mad has gotta

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Speaker 7: take another sip with this delicious wine. Princess mad loves

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Speaker 7: this little napkin.

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Speaker 9: It was I mean, I.

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Speaker 7: Thought it was a joke, and I just started to, like,

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Speaker 9: But I mean that that was it.

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Speaker 5: Maybe she kept doing it because you were laughing and

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Speaker 5: she thought, oh cute, this makes him laugh. Princess Mads

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Speaker 5: is funny.

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Speaker 10: I mean, even if that was it, like it was,

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Speaker 10: it was relentless. It was all night, and she referred

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Speaker 10: to her car as her royal carriage, like ironically, she

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Speaker 2: Are you sure she meant it?

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Speaker 7: We were literally in the parking garage. She spun pointed

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Speaker 9: I couldn't do it. I couldn't.

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Speaker 5: Didn't do it.

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Speaker 4: Are you are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Brand that's Madison. She's on the phone and wants to

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Speaker 9: Oh god, she's here.

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Speaker 4: She is I thought we had vibes, Brent, like you

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Speaker 4: kidding me.

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Speaker 6: You even said that you thought it was surprisingly awesome.

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Speaker 7: Keywords surprisingly Yeah, I didn't expect to be on a

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Speaker 9: With a full Disney character.

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Speaker 7: I mean you corrected the somalia and said, actually, Princess

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Speaker 7: Madison prefers her white chilled, not her attitude. But what

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Speaker 6: Okay, it's called having a personality, But sorry, boring girl

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Speaker 4: You said you liked that I was fun.

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Speaker 7: Fun is great referring to yourself from the third person,

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Speaker 7: like you're like you're narrating your own Barbie movie. That

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Speaker 6: Wow, Okay, you're the only person that ad had a

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Speaker 4: So this is actually starting to sound like.

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Speaker 5: You saying and not me.

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Speaker 9: Oh like, did you not be the only person who

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Speaker 4: Okay, well maybe I'm sure your ego enough.

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Speaker 6: Princess Madison is usually the star, So that sounds that's

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Speaker 6: the problem of se Do you even know?

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Speaker 9: Do you even hear yourself? So you just did it again?

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Speaker 9: You guys understand what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Right, she sounds like a good time a good.

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Speaker 9: Time to watch on TV, not someone to like hang

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Speaker 9: I was being prank Wow. Yeah, wow. I mean listen.

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Speaker 7: As much as I have appreciated the you know, the

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Speaker 6: Just because I have I have high self esteem and have,

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Speaker 4: Okay, sir, you know what ask me? If I want

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Speaker 9: I don't need to know. I don't need to know

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Speaker 9: because I don't want one to Brent.

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Speaker 2: Would you like a second date with Madison? Will pay

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Speaker 2: for it?

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Speaker 9: You'll pay for it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No, for sure, Madison? Would you like a second

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Speaker 2: date with Brent? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna make it all about him, and yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm good. I'm good.

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Speaker 7: Princess and Madison out? Do you have is your driver

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Speaker 7: running the carriage tonight? Or do you have those like

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Speaker 7: mice that turn into horses?

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Speaker 4: How are you gonna?

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Speaker 9: Are you you know, riding your own vehicle or do

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Speaker 9: you have your royal ntras chicken?

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Speaker 4: Your clever Brent good job. You know you're fairy.

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Speaker 9: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Daddy read you before.

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Speaker 9: All right, now.

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Speaker 3: You're kind of petulant, like he thought it.

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Speaker 9: Was funny, but your obvience is just crazy.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not crazy, you're crazy.

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Speaker 9: You don't know what you You called in one want

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because you know what I thought you. I thought

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Speaker 4: you were worth it. But clearly you're not. Clearly you're

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Speaker 4: a loser. Prince exactly, not my friend charming.

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Speaker 9: Well, anyone you marry, you'll be a prince because you're

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Speaker 9: a princess. That's how it works. They turn into one

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Speaker 9: like it's part of the deal with the marriage. Cool, cool, Cool,

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Speaker 9: I wish you was so much lucky. You're gonna have

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Speaker 9: a great time. I'll watch the show when it airs,

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Speaker 9: but that's about as close as I'm gonna get to you.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm sorry, no second date, Madison, but it sounds

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Speaker 3: like you're fine with it.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't watch ju Will's First Date follow up