WEBVTT - Pascal and Kelly sitting in a tree - K I S S I N G - or absolutely no chance!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to I Do Part two. I am one

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<v Speaker 1>of your celebrity mentors, Jen Pessler, and I am here

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<v Speaker 1>at live in the vineyard in beautiful Napa Valley. I

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<v Speaker 1>am having the best time with I Do Part two.

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<v Speaker 2>Crewe new friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually seeing some old friends. So we've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>about this little match making moment that we've had here

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<v Speaker 1>on the podcast, and I have sitting next to me,

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<v Speaker 1>the man of the hour. I want you guys to

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<v Speaker 1>please welcome Pascal from the Golden Bachelorette back to the pod. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>my new friend, how are you. I am so happy

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<v Speaker 1>to be sitting here with you. We have had a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to get to know each other a little bit tonight. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's been an absolute pleasure.

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<v Speaker 3>Same here.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Thank you for saying that, Pascal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes again, I've had a chance to spend a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of time with you today into tonight and it's

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<v Speaker 1>been a pleasure. I'm a big fan already. I watched

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of you on the Golden Bachelorette. You

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<v Speaker 1>got very close to the end there, but you were charming.

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<v Speaker 1>I was charmed, the audience was charmed. I think Joan

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<v Speaker 1>was charmed. The world was charmed. But now we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about Kelly being charmed. So Pascal, talk to

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<v Speaker 1>me about you and Kelly. You slid into her DMS.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me why, and then we're going to get into

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about how the night went.

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<v Speaker 3>Slim into the d M.

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<v Speaker 4>I think there was a little misunderstanding in here because

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<v Speaker 4>I think what I found out from Giddy then he

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<v Speaker 4>went into the you know, the story about the the

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<v Speaker 4>Valentine's Days, about the mystery that she was going to

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<v Speaker 4>take for the Music Award, and I found that. Then

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<v Speaker 4>the guy was going to go with her, and then

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<v Speaker 4>I ended up seeing her with Gary, and I talked

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<v Speaker 4>to Gary on the phone. I said, what happened? So

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<v Speaker 4>Gary start telling me a little bit about the story.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, that's how we get in touch Killy

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<v Speaker 4>and I.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I think that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>You but you heard that she wasn't with guys, she

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<v Speaker 1>was Gary. And then you just listen to her DMS

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<v Speaker 1>because you thought, let me jump on board this.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, she said, trying to be funny. Yes, mostly

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<v Speaker 3>try to be funny.

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<v Speaker 4>And then you know she told her, I said, I

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<v Speaker 4>think I would have better better match as a as

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<v Speaker 4>a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, by the way, did you know anything about

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<v Speaker 1>her at this point? You didn't hear the podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>Had you? Did you listen to the Daily Game one?

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<v Speaker 3>I heard about the didn't game.

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<v Speaker 4>I heard about the didn't game and Valentines when she

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<v Speaker 4>had to choose one of the board and bachelors you

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<v Speaker 4>go to the fisty of the Music Award. So I

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<v Speaker 4>heard that from Gary as well as I heard that

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<v Speaker 4>from guys. Okay, okay, But I didn't know anything about Katy.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know who she was.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know. I had no idea who she was.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, she looked like not either, no, no, no, nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like, you know what she says, be funny,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So you took a little chance there, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a little chance.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So if I say it one more time, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to throw up. I hate the expression slid into her dms. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the dumbest expression. Excuse me, I agree, thank you. But

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<v Speaker 1>now here we are at live in the vineyard, the

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful Napa Valley, California, and you meet the beautiful Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>ben Simon. So just tell me what was your first impression.

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<v Speaker 4>The first time I saw that she's very attractive. Definitely,

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<v Speaker 4>she's tall, she's feet, she's a fashionable.

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<v Speaker 2>She met her when she was in a bikini from Actually.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was working out of my hotel oom. I

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<v Speaker 4>was walking downstairs and she was at the pool at

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<v Speaker 4>the time. She woke out of the pool and that's

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<v Speaker 4>how we met. So I met her in a bikini,

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<v Speaker 4>so I was it was there already, So.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course she's right, right.

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<v Speaker 4>She's attractive, she's she's well spoken, she's uh, she's got.

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<v Speaker 3>A good personality. She's she's a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Was she what you pictured when you were, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>talking to her on the pod?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't, I didn't. I told she was she was, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>me not taking the podcast. We were both sitting down

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<v Speaker 4>so we couldn't really see the high But.

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<v Speaker 2>That is that a turn on for you? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>like tall women?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>I like to be the dominant. Yeah, you know I'm

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<v Speaker 3>five eleven.

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<v Speaker 2>Five eleven, Yeah that is tall, Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you like I like to be a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit taller, yes, yes, yes, so tell me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we just came back from this whole adventure, and I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you seem very confident to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you nervous at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I watched you guys from the getting here,

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<v Speaker 1>and you seem very just, I don't know, sure of

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<v Speaker 1>yourself easy.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you feel that way? Were you nervous?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I wasn't nervous.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean remember one time, I mean, I mean nine

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<v Speaker 4>us toe where I deal with women all day long.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this is what I do for a living.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm much more comfortable with women than i am

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<v Speaker 4>with men. Wow, So to me, it's very easy when

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<v Speaker 4>there is a woman around me. It's very easy for

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<v Speaker 4>me to engage your conversation because that's what I do.

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<v Speaker 4>So No, I wasn't insecure at all. I feel very confident.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew then.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever happened after that experience is killing. I would be friend, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>And that's the best part of it is I get

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<v Speaker 4>a new friend today.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish that everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that everyone's listening who is single and who

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<v Speaker 1>is looking for love. Here's what Pascal just said, and

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly and I spoke about it a little bit and

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<v Speaker 1>takes it to heart, like at the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>day when you were out there and you were dating.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the best attitude is when you meet someone

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<v Speaker 1>who probably not going to be a love connection. But

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<v Speaker 1>guess what I'm going it to make a new friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe who knows, we'll hit it off in a different way.

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<v Speaker 1>But that is the best, healthiest attitude in my humble opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to interrupt, Please go on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I mean I think to me, that's the way

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<v Speaker 3>I look at it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, sometimes you look at somebody and you're very

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<v Speaker 4>attractive to them, and then when you meet them there

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<v Speaker 4>is not that spark. But it doesn't mean because there

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<v Speaker 4>is not that spark, then you cannot be friends. So

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<v Speaker 4>I think you you know, sometimes you meet some people

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<v Speaker 4>and you look at them and say, you know, you

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<v Speaker 4>better keep them as a friend and lovers. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think Kelly is a very attractive looking woman. I think

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<v Speaker 4>she's got a lot of class, she's got a great personality.

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<v Speaker 4>But I see her more as a friend than a partners.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>What was there anything specific that she said did that

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<v Speaker 1>made you feel that way that?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I don't know, No, no, not at all. I

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<v Speaker 4>think I think we're a wonderful conversation. You're on that

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<v Speaker 4>event where we're together, you know, I mean the as

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<v Speaker 4>I need, you know, to meet all about chemistry. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>you know when the chemistry is.

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<v Speaker 3>There or not.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, have enough experience over over the years my daddy,

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<v Speaker 4>in my marriage. I know then to me, chemistry is

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<v Speaker 4>extremely important.

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<v Speaker 2>And it gets like, yes.

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<v Speaker 4>She sees somebody will say, you know, that's the person

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<v Speaker 4>you want to get to know. You know there is

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<v Speaker 4>there is fire there, okay. And to me, when I

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<v Speaker 4>see Kelly, I see, don't get me wrong, Katy is.

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<v Speaker 3>Kelly is a beautiful woman.

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<v Speaker 4>She's an out Okay, she's she's mean, she's got a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of confidence, and I thank you she's she's a

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<v Speaker 4>wonderful woman.

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<v Speaker 3>But I need that spark.

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<v Speaker 4>And I had the same problem when I was in

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<v Speaker 4>the Bachelor. I didn't have I didn't have the spark

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<v Speaker 4>for John. And John is a wonderful woman. She's classy,

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<v Speaker 4>well spoken, well dressed, elegant, easy to talk to, but

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<v Speaker 4>I just didn't have that spark.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that Kelly could tell and we'll bring her

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<v Speaker 1>in and we'll talk a little more about that that

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't feeling that spark. I don't think she Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we should save this from when she's actually in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I think you guys are a little simpotical,

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<v Speaker 1>like she was feeling what you were putting out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was, she was getting that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you was there anything that you may have learned

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<v Speaker 1>about her about I don't know her parenting style or

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<v Speaker 1>her type, like do you think about her and do

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<v Speaker 1>you think listen, she's a great woman. I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 1>do think this, but not for me. Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>of anybody else you would want to set her up with?

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<v Speaker 1>You see, do you have any ideas in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>like who she would click with if it wasn't you

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<v Speaker 1>or why?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you know what, I'm not a good matchmakers,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, as you just don't know her that well.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean I did spend all the time we serve and

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<v Speaker 4>we talked a little bit about her.

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<v Speaker 2>Marie Gievo was flirting going on. Was there anything?

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, nothing like that. I think you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we talked a little bit about her ex husband or children.

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<v Speaker 3>Where she live?

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<v Speaker 4>How long did you have found out? And she was

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<v Speaker 4>even in France in publish for quite a few years.

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<v Speaker 4>She speaks French fluently, so we engage a bit of

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<v Speaker 4>the French conversation together.

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<v Speaker 3>That was wonderful.

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<v Speaker 4>But no, she didn't do anything to turn me off

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<v Speaker 4>or make me get away from it to enjoy your company,

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<v Speaker 4>as you just don't think this is a good fit

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<v Speaker 4>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want to say this to our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not a psychiatrist, I'm not a relationship expert.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just putting it out there, like what I'm hearing

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<v Speaker 1>from you is so interesting, Like it just because Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>is a knockout and smart and successful and a wonderful mother.

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<v Speaker 1>But for some whatever it was, the planets were not aligning.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't feel it, and there wasn't that little tiny

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<v Speaker 1>bit of chemistry. And I think that where from where

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly's coming from. I think maybe she would have given

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<v Speaker 1>it a little more time in space and maybe, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>seeing it out.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what the right thing here is.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, I'm not a relationship expert, but it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>for you, you're the type of man that if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel it, you don't feel it, You're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>feel it. Let's be friends. You can appreciate the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that she's beautiful and desirable and wonderful time about her,

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<v Speaker 1>but the chemistry wasn't there, and so you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, it's not It's not always about beauty. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 4>know it's not always a baud beauty. I think I

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<v Speaker 4>think beauty is we we have a tendency to be

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit too superficial by looking at a woman

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<v Speaker 4>who want her to be beautiful. I mean, I've been

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<v Speaker 4>out with some beautiful woman where the chemistry wasn't there,

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<v Speaker 4>and I went out with some women weren't so attractive

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<v Speaker 4>where the chemistry was there.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's not it's not about a beauty.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just something chemical.

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<v Speaker 3>The chemical.

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<v Speaker 4>The chemistry wasn't there, and that's not Sometimes you could

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<v Speaker 4>you could develop you have it or you don't mean

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes you know, I've meet someone it's there. I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to get to need this person. I want

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<v Speaker 4>to engage your competion.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to.

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<v Speaker 4>Get to know her and Kallie, I want to get

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<v Speaker 4>to know her as a friend. I was I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think there is any physical attraction. And again, she's a

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<v Speaker 4>very attractive looking woman, but she's not the type of

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<v Speaker 4>woman I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why I'm thinking that this is so

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<v Speaker 1>healthy and fabulous that we could like talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can be you know, so appreciative of who she

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<v Speaker 1>is and yet say it just didn't there was no

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<v Speaker 1>spark for me, And I don't know, like it just

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<v Speaker 1>makes to me if I'm single, I feel like that's

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<v Speaker 1>so encouraging.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you can go out with someone.

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<v Speaker 1>They could see that you're a wonderful person, interesting, beautiful, intelligent,

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<v Speaker 1>and just that's okay that there's not a spark there,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you just we just keep moving, right because

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<v Speaker 1>you can spark with someone else. Yes, yes, yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not about Kelly or you necessarily or it's just it's there.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not and that's I mean, you know you know

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<v Speaker 4>it when he's there, now, you know. I mean I

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<v Speaker 4>I've got enough experience over the years we's dating and Madge, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and I know then you know he has to be

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<v Speaker 4>that special sense, that special touch, the special you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that some people feel like like maybe Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>felt like she would have given it some more time,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe that would have you guys could have found that,

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<v Speaker 1>But it doesn't really matter in the end. You both

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<v Speaker 1>it seems to me you both thought that she thought

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful things about you as well. She had all nice

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<v Speaker 1>things to say. Okay, so now we move on, But

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<v Speaker 1>before we move on, we're bringing Kelly back in Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>which you know is going to be fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're all adults. Yes, I think this is so evolved.

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<v Speaker 2>We've handled it all so beautifully. Yeah, and we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to bring back your new friends. Okay, Kelly be love

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<v Speaker 2>to two